[HN Gopher] Language history and we: the case of "like"
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       Language history and we: the case of "like"
        
       Author : redeemed
       Score  : 10 points
       Date   : 2023-07-19 19:07 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | john_q_public wrote:
       | [flagged]
        
         | dang wrote:
         | " _Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of
         | what someone says, not a weaker one that 's easier to
         | criticize. Assume good faith._"
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
        
           | john_q_public wrote:
           | I submit that, given the obvious disdain the author has for
           | the speech of ordinary people and what he considers "low"
           | culture, "snob" is an entirely appropriate term.
        
       | ryandrake wrote:
       | The worst one today is people adding "uhhh" to the end of every
       | sentence. "What did you do-wuuuh?" "Where should we go-wuuuh?"
       | "Can't you see-yuhhh?" It grates on you even worse than vocal fry
       | and like inserting like into like everything you like say.
        
         | realfeel78 wrote:
         | Who is doing this and where?
        
           | JohnFen wrote:
           | I hear this a lot from younger people in Europe and the US.
        
         | OfSanguineFire wrote:
         | Loads of languages around the word have a sentence-final
         | particle that doesn't mean anything on its own but serves as a
         | vocative particle, creates a bond between speaker and listener,
         | softens the assertion for politeness sake, etc. Some varieties
         | of UK English already used _innit?_ that way. It's pretty
         | normal human linguistic behavior.
        
           | gumby wrote:
           | Yeah, Malay has "la" which gets tacked onto a sentence or
           | phrase following rules that are intuitive but I doubt I could
           | write down.
           | 
           | My mum could use a single "la" as an entire sentence and we
           | knew _exactly_ what she meant, rarely something good.
        
           | JohnFen wrote:
           | But that one is particularly grating because it's exactly the
           | same thing that young children do when they're whining or
           | begging.
        
             | OfSanguineFire wrote:
             | If a linguistic behavior has spread widely enough for you
             | to notice it, then obviously the bulk of people (or the
             | bulk of that speaker's people, at least) don't find it
             | grating.
        
               | JohnFen wrote:
               | Obviously so, but that doesn't affect the fact that it
               | grates on me.
               | 
               | This particular thing appears to be largely generational
               | and rather regional so I don't encounter it frequently.
        
           | arp242 wrote:
           | In Ireland people add "like" to the end of a sentence like.
           | 
           | Quite a different way to use "like" than what this article
           | talks about.
        
       | cempaka wrote:
       | I've tried to get out of the habit of this one now that I have
       | kids learning from my example, but it really takes a lot of
       | focus. What's funny is that I can remember the period as a kid
       | where it was taking and being bothered by it ("why does everyone
       | want to sound like Shaggy from Scooby Doo?"), before I apparently
       | gave in and adopted it.
        
         | JohnFen wrote:
         | Language is a social construct. People tend to modify their
         | speech to be in line with the speech of those around them.
        
       | TRiG_Ireland wrote:
       | That's a bizarre article from an actual linguist.
        
         | john_q_public wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
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