[HN Gopher] The Paradoxes of Nostalgia
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       The Paradoxes of Nostalgia
        
       Author : prhrb
       Score  : 39 points
       Date   : 2023-06-25 06:19 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | biscuits1 wrote:
       | A few questions went through my as I read this being incredibly
       | nostalgic this past year as well:
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       | 1. Do post-life altering events like a pandemic stoke hidden
       | nostalgic behaviors at a higher degree of a population?
       | 
       | 2. What percentage of great creative works (any kind) were the
       | result of revelry of that nostalgic wave of thinking?
       | 
       | Obviously this work is a meta result.
       | 
       | As someone wise said to me once "the past is a nice place to
       | visit, but I won't want to live there." I'll extend this thought
       | "If I'm there, I'll harness it to produce art."
        
         | autokad wrote:
         | Back to the Future, as exciting as it was when it came out, is
         | essentially a movie of Nostalgia. I remember in the 80s how big
         | the 50s and 60s nostalgia was. Now we are going through a
         | similar thing by looking back on the 80s and 90s.
         | 
         | I do agree with the author that nostalgia is not just about
         | remembering when times were 'good'. I sometimes get nostalgic
         | about times I was sick. However, I do think its more than just
         | 'the inertness of the past'. I imagine nostalgia serves many
         | purposes, including ones that are orthogonal to each other.
        
       | lordleft wrote:
       | "What we really seek in our nostalgic reveries, I want to
       | suggest, is the inertness of the past." Extremely well said. I
       | have never thought of nostalgia in this way but I think it's
       | true.
        
         | Obscurity4340 wrote:
         | Can you elaborate on the "inertness"? Like the fact it doesn't
         | change or pose an an existential threat to you unlike everyday
         | life in the world?
        
           | SoftTalker wrote:
           | I think so. It's an anchor. It's always there, always the
           | same. Even if things weren't perfect it's comforting in that
           | there's nothing surprising there.
        
         | titzer wrote:
         | Another way of putting this is that the present is full of
         | doubts and fears, while the past is done, settled; it has no
         | risks.
         | 
         | The fundamental problem is that the way we live in modern
         | society is full of uncertainty that stems from unbridled
         | change. It's driving us all mad because can't stop it, and we
         | don't know what is the next casualty.
         | 
         | Nostalgia is also particularly strong for things we know we've
         | lost and can never get back. Modern life is all about erasing--
         | overwriting, really--both past and present, with new, shiny,
         | utterly cheap coats of paint. Or knocking down and paving over.
        
           | myth_drannon wrote:
           | And if there is no change they call it stagnation and people
           | will find it unbearable as well.
        
             | cubefox wrote:
             | They likely don't find it unbearable if it's normal.
             | Stagnation was the largest part of human history. Only
             | since the Renaissance has progress accelerated
             | substantially. Before then, the life of the children was
             | about the same as the life of the parents and grandparents.
             | Life was governed by tradition. Everyone had their
             | predictable role to play. Being unhappy about "stagnation"
             | wasn't an option, as anything else would have been
             | outlandish science fiction, which didn't exist.
        
               | zht wrote:
               | wait what?
               | 
               | it doesn't feel like it is really stagnation if armies
               | are rampaging through your lands and you have new
               | rulers/warlords/famine/pandemics all the time
        
             | titzer wrote:
             | Universal human condition, I guess. If we're going to
             | persist in being miserable, might as well keep to ourselves
             | and not screw it up for the other forms of life on this
             | planet.
        
       | adamc wrote:
       | This is a fantastic essay. As someone who went through a _rough_
       | divorce and estrangement from my kid (I don 't even really know
       | why), I know nostalgia well. This essay does a great job of
       | investigating what is going on there.
        
       | Lammy wrote:
       | IMO nostalgia is like the DRAM refresh for my own memory. I think
       | nostalgia feels good to incentivize me to do it, like how sex
       | feels good to incentivize the perpetuation of humanity as a
       | whole. I suspect that when I "remember something" I'm actually
       | remembering the last time I remembered it, not directly
       | remembering the original event. Some day I would like to try
       | building a filesystem like that where storage and access are the
       | same operation.
       | 
       | Source: drugs
        
         | lcnPylGDnU4H9OF wrote:
         | > when I "remember something" I'm actually remembering the last
         | time I remembered it
         | 
         | I remember reading the title of a TIL (Today I Learned) post on
         | Reddit roughly a decade ago[0] that was worded almost verbatim
         | like this. Just a note that this suspicion seems to be grounded
         | in reality, assuming the veracity of that claim. As an
         | additional data point, since being introduced to that idea I've
         | been anecdotally "confirming" it (with the usual potential for
         | bias) through observation of my own recollections.
         | 
         | [0] The absolute pinnacle of journalistic integrity. No salt
         | grains needed. /s
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | _"...after a while I am still exhausted but have a closet full of
       | kitsch. "_
       | 
       | That sums it up.
        
       | pfdietz wrote:
       | Sometimes I spend time remembering how nostalgia used to be.
        
       | cantsingh wrote:
       | nostalgia is a hell of a drug.
       | 
       | I loved this piece; sometimes I think of reviewing past memories
       | as akin to rewatching a familiar show. There are no surprises, so
       | even the hardest plot-twists have less anxiety associated with
       | them.
        
       | mmcgaha wrote:
       | Jello Biafra Nostalga For An Age That Never Existed:
       | 
       | https://youtu.be/wx5XS6uXP-g
        
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