[HN Gopher] The 'fuck you' pattern
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       The 'fuck you' pattern
        
       Author : keepamovin
       Score  : 394 points
       Date   : 2023-06-25 11:48 UTC (11 hours ago)
        
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       | Waterluvian wrote:
       | Reddit does this all the time to me. It simply stops responding
       | to my requests unless I turn wifi off on my phone.
       | 
       | Though to be fair, this might just be more Reddit incompetence.
        
       | luuurker wrote:
       | Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn redirect me to the login page
       | without ever showing me the content. I guess they don't like my
       | ISP. Since I'm not going to create an account, now I just avoid
       | their links when searching for something.
       | 
       | Last year (I think) Twitter started showing a login/registration
       | popup as soon we started scrolling. Not as bad, but the popup
       | wasn't dismissible (now it is), so for a while I also stopped
       | clicking on Twitter links.
       | 
       | Reddit also hides some subs on mobile and requires us to install
       | the app... that same sub is available on old.reddit.com (or the
       | now discontinued i.reddit.com).
       | 
       | I started using extensions that redirect these services to better
       | front ends. Twitter - Nitter, Reddit - Old Reddit or
       | Teddit/Libreddit, etc. I do the same on my phone (Android and
       | Firefox, I don't think you can do the same on iOS).
        
         | flybrand wrote:
         | FB regularly 'fails' when I attempt to log out - I don't use
         | the app. Recently it's been extreme using Safari. It's so bad
         | it can't be accidental. Why would the ever optimize logging
         | out?
        
       | TacticalCoder wrote:
       | Oh that one... I practice it since forever: I don't have FB /
       | WhatsApp and I don't have Instagram.
       | 
       | They're simply not part of my life.
        
       | TheAngush wrote:
       | I had an experience like this today when I tried to use GlassDoor
       | for the first time. As a student making my first ever job
       | applications, I wanted to see what salaries and work environments
       | were like at particular employers.
       | 
       | GlassDoor did the same scroll-locking tactic (so an element
       | zapper like Ublock Origin's wouldn't resolve the issue),
       | instructing me to register or sign in to view any information. So
       | I registered an account. Only, it still covered the screen and
       | locked the scroll position, now telling me that I needed to leave
       | a review for my _current_ employer if I wanted to use the website
       | for information gathering.
       | 
       | I find this particularly egregious, particularly for a company
       | ostensibly founded around the notion of transparency and freedom
       | of information (in regards to workplace compensation and
       | culture). Evidently one is only entitled to make informed
       | decisions after first experiencing the potential consequences of
       | making uninformed decisions. Joyous.
       | 
       | Suffice to say I will not be using GlassDoor in the future.
        
         | bovermyer wrote:
         | You've experienced why Glassdoor is the opposite of useful.
         | Ironically, I think this is actually the opposite of what
         | Glassdoor was originally meant to achieve, and I still think
         | the original creators had the best of intentions.
         | 
         | I think it's interesting that despite thousands of years of
         | existence, we as a species still can't do better at "quickly
         | and accurately evaluate how well you'd match an employer/group"
         | than "do you know someone at the group that honestly says it's
         | good."
        
         | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
         | Dev tools, look at the html and body element, and uncheck
         | overflow:hidden. Plus a strategic delete or two on the DOM
         | tree.
        
           | DelightOne wrote:
           | Why can't UBlock Origin do that?
        
             | lyvxh wrote:
             | It can, using CSS injection:
             | example.com##body:style(overflow: auto !important)
        
             | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
             | I dunno. Maybe it can, and I'm just too dumb to configure
             | it right?
        
         | xwdv wrote:
         | > Suffice to say I will not be using GlassDoor in the future
         | 
         | You'll cave eventually, they know this.
        
           | acover wrote:
           | Caving into lying? That just pollutes their database.
        
             | xwdv wrote:
             | It's fairly trivial to detect bad data, especially when you
             | know what good data looks like. And once you're in, they
             | can still get useful data even if you lied.
        
           | recursive wrote:
           | How can you be so sure? I've never used it in my life, and I
           | don't even have a particular motivation not to.
        
             | cyanydeez wrote:
             | This dark pattern is meant to generate useful data
        
         | jowdones wrote:
         | Sadly "giving up" on using "their" services is inconvenient to
         | you a lot more than it's hurting them.
         | 
         | Sure you can refuse to use Facebook and Glassdoor and Amazon
         | and Google account authentication, but then you might as well
         | grow a beard, puton some rags and go live in the woods as a
         | hermit. World doesn't change coze some guy decides to stop
         | talking showers because the water company is an abusing
         | asshole.
         | 
         | The correct response is not to flee from them but fuck them
         | back. I have a throwaway Google account that I use for this
         | purpose. Glassdoor wanted me to register an account? Sure!
         | Review my employer? You bet! I worked as a Principal
         | Engineering Architect at Google making 1.5 million base plus
         | bonus.
         | 
         | There's no requirement to provide the pay stub so I can and
         | will dream up something. And I get the feeling that most
         | figures I see reported by these sites are just that: delirious.
        
           | EA-3167 wrote:
           | > Sure you can refuse to use Facebook and Glassdoor and
           | Amazon and Google account authentication, but then you might
           | as well grow a beard, puton some rags and go live in the
           | woods as a hermit.
           | 
           | This is a bizarrely extreme form of black and white thinking,
           | and not one I understand. Most of what we do in life isn't
           | about changing the world, it's about managing our experience
           | of it.
           | 
           | Few people are deluded enough or so engaged with self-love
           | that they think their ideas and behavior are world-changing.
        
             | Yujf wrote:
             | You don't have to change the world, but if no one tries to
             | change things that are bad, they will not change.
             | 
             | So don't have a defeatist attitude all the time, but once
             | in a while try to actually have an impact. We will all be
             | much better for it.
        
               | EA-3167 wrote:
               | There's a difference between being defeatist and going
               | around thinking that your malicious compliance is somehow
               | fixing broken things.
        
               | bheadmaster wrote:
               | There is power in avoiding services when many people do
               | it.
        
         | [deleted]
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | stickfigure wrote:
         | > I needed to leave a review for my _current_ employer
         | 
         | Perhaps you'd like to join as a disgruntled GlassDoor employee?
        
           | wak90 wrote:
           | I believe glass door removes negative ratings
        
             | LanceH wrote:
             | You have to pay up first, right?
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | Right, but it's not you, but your HR department. Which is
               | also exactly the reason it's a bad idea to write anything
               | about your _current_ employer.
        
         | actinium226 wrote:
         | Try levels.fyi
        
           | godelski wrote:
           | I was about to say that levels blocks too but as long as you
           | hit the "I've shared my salary" twice they let you through.
           | Which I find acceptable since they depend so much on that a
           | little friction is okay.
        
         | ProtoAES256 wrote:
         | For a circumvention method, I suggest using the following
         | script
         | 
         | javascript:var r="html,body{overflow:auto !important;}"; var
         | s=document.createElement("style"); s.type="text/css";
         | s.appendChild(document.createTextNode(r));
         | document.body.appendChild(s); void 0;
         | 
         | I bookmarked the script and click it whenever uBo blocks the
         | site popup but not enabling the scroll. It works most of the
         | time in my quite long usage.
         | 
         | Though I agree that we have a bigger problem than the scrolling
         | on hand.
        
         | 1270018080 wrote:
         | Glassdoor is comically broken. It didn't even work with Firefox
         | for months. You can't log in, sometimes you get stuck in a
         | cloudflare authentication loop, random info tabs on company
         | pages crash. It's so bad I don't even know if they have people
         | working there, like they aren't aware of how non-functioning
         | the website is.
         | 
         | It's slightly better on Chrome but some of the above issues
         | still persist.
        
         | sshine wrote:
         | Your expectation was that this information was free, and you
         | got offended when you realised they trade in information and
         | you have to pay with giving some back?
         | 
         | This is not a dark pattern any more than giving a company like
         | GlassDoor this information is a dark deed.
        
           | brookst wrote:
           | The dark pattern is not mentioning this requirement and
           | instead position account creation as the only friction to see
           | data, and then springing the new requirement after.
           | 
           | Honesty would mean telling the user upfront that the info
           | they are looking for will be available after the set up an
           | account and leave a review of their current employer.
        
           | TeMPOraL wrote:
           | Beyond not disclosing the requirement up front being a clear
           | dark pattern, I'd think this is self-defeating. The only time
           | I need Glassdoor is when I'm contemplating changing jobs.
           | Leaving a review for my current employer feels extremely
           | risky, as the no. 1 type of users of Glassdoor are HR
           | departments.
        
       | emmydee wrote:
       | The irony => https://www.ycombinator.com/jobs
       | 
       | Scroll down, click "See more Jobs"...
       | 
       | 'fuck you' pattern reveals itself :)
        
       | throwawaymobule wrote:
       | isn't requiring signup/login like this a gdpr violation? I assume
       | they're relying on the account being 'compliant' or thinking
       | nobody would see it that way.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | siliconc0w wrote:
       | Really what needs to happen is like a non profit SAAS movement to
       | create minimal modern versions of these services that runs at
       | minimal cost. Then they can basically be feature compete and like
       | run off an endowment. More like roads or highways that just need
       | maintenance.
       | 
       | I guess more like signal.
       | 
       | The alternative will always be enshitification.
        
       | motohagiography wrote:
       | I only ever look at IG posts that show up in chats as parts of
       | conversations and IG appears to have banned my phone from viewing
       | their content at all. Fine with me, as there is zero chance I
       | will ever create a login on their site anyway, but I tell the
       | people in the chats that IG links don't work for non-users, and
       | so they share less of the content. I call this the, "Fuck me?
       | Fuck _you!_ " pattern.
       | 
       | Nothing quite says "hemorrhaging MAU," like dark patterns to get
       | people to login, and "urgent account information" emails to get
       | those same logins. Someone should take a hard look at those
       | numbers, as I'd suspect they're a bit soft.
        
       | web3-is-a-scam wrote:
       | Instagram doesn't even work for me, any link someone sends me
       | just goes to a white blanks screen. I refuse to make an account
       | so I just tell people to stop sending me those links because it's
       | just a waste of time.
        
       | fwlr wrote:
       | The IP-level block you experienced after trying to get around the
       | login modal is an anti-scraping measure. I doubt it is based on
       | anything like "detecting that you've opened web inspector", it's
       | much more likely that Instagram is running some heuristic that
       | tries to bucket you into either "potential signup" or "scraper
       | trying to download as many images as possible", and once your
       | behavior pattern fits into the second bucket they apply a (very)
       | temporary IP block.
       | 
       | It comes off as extreme and insulting to a regular user, but it
       | is also one of the few methods that scrapers can't _trivially_
       | dodge (it's fairly easy to maintain a roster of IPs, but that is
       | merely _easy_ , while e.g. changing your user agent to pretend to
       | be a different browser is _trivial_ ).
        
         | roughly wrote:
         | Insta definitely uses IP blocks to force login walls, but I
         | don't think it's anti-scraping, because the limit seems to be
         | like 3 images before you get redirected to log in - it's way
         | too low and too much of a pain in the ass to normal users to be
         | intentionally anti-scraping and unintentionally anti-logged-
         | out-users.
        
           | fwlr wrote:
           | The fact that it pushes anonymous viewers to log in or sign
           | up is definitely a positive (for their conversion rate
           | metric, if nothing else), and that might be the main reason
           | the number of images is so low. But the specific mechanism of
           | IP blocking that is used to achieve restriction - _that_ is
           | anti-scraping, pure and simple.
        
             | mhuffman wrote:
             | ... except, that "pro" scrapers use parallelized calls from
             | rolling ip addresses. It is one of the only ways to scrape
             | things like Youtube... so I hear!
        
       | penguin_booze wrote:
       | It's for this reason that I've burner accounts with burner
       | emails.
       | 
       | Recently, I got this treatment from Glassdoor, too. I've had a
       | real account with GD, and had made some honest contributions in
       | the past. I haven't made any contributions in a while, because I
       | haven't had any. Now, what do I see when I go to look up
       | something? An indismissable pop up that says "looks like you
       | haven't contributed anything in a while. Make a contribution to
       | continue browsing".
       | 
       | I didn't really wanted to, but now I'm going to get a burner
       | account for GD, too.
        
         | nottorp wrote:
         | Won't work; I made an account like 2 days ago and i got the
         | "contribute something" popup before i could browse anything.
        
       | kitanata wrote:
       | I noticed a particularly dark pattern when I used Keeps, by
       | Thirty Madison. They tell you, that you can cancel or pause at
       | anytime but that is a lie. They over-prescribe their medication,
       | and if you try to pause delivery, they automatically resume it
       | after 3 months. You cannot pause, for longer than 3 months. If
       | you want to cancel, you have to call them where they harass you
       | into staying.
       | 
       | This is not how you should do customer retention. This is fraud.
       | You are making intentionally difficult pathways for your
       | customers to leave you so that you can report falsely propped up
       | retention number to your investors, Thirty Madison. If you IPOd
       | today, I would short the shit out of you.
       | 
       | This is why I reported Thirty Madison to the FTC in a consumer
       | trade complaint and it is why I notified their investors of
       | potential fraud over LinkedIn.
       | 
       | Thirty Madison is committing fraud against their investors, in my
       | opinion and you should absolutely stay away from them as a
       | consumer.
        
         | wilde wrote:
         | This is what chargebacks are for.
        
       | atomicbeanie wrote:
       | I don't wish to be too much of a fly in the ointment. I
       | understand the darkness of dark patterns. But if we wish to not
       | be secretly tracked (which _is_ dark), then isn't the alternative
       | to openly ask if I want to exchange knowledge of my identity in
       | exchange for the content I seek, so they can target the ads that
       | pay for the content aggregation service I am using? The preceding
       | question mark is not rhetorical. Maybe I am missing something? In
       | the end though, Cat picture or not, the people that provide the
       | service need to get paid.
        
         | cyanydeez wrote:
         | Sure, but with reddit,their pattern is to push you to their
         | app.
         | 
         | If they were just trying to wrangle a user into a simple
         | adnetwork proposition, _why can't they do that with a webapp_.
         | 
         | It's because they want far more privacy invasive features.
        
       | bee_rider wrote:
       | I don't really mind blocking ads and that sort of stuff. The
       | social contract for websites is that they'll send me what they
       | want and I'll render it however I want. But if they don't want to
       | send me content because I don't have an account, that's fair game
       | IMO.
       | 
       | I mean, it is fine to complain, but I get where the company is
       | coming from. They don't make any money off those of us who block
       | all their stuff. So, why do they want to do business with us?
        
         | SoftTalker wrote:
         | Because 90% of their userbase doesn't think about this stuff
         | and doesn't block anything. Why waste effort trying to rope the
         | last few people into your schemes, when they will just find
         | some other way around it or get pissed, write blog posts that
         | get posted to HN, and abandon your platform otherwise.
        
           | bee_rider wrote:
           | I suspect they don't want to serve anyone without an account,
           | and just added the preview feature to get new users. So, I
           | suspect the zero-effort response would go in the other
           | direction; just block everyone without an account completely.
        
       | mkl95 wrote:
       | > I wanted to browse some pictures of Ollie anonymously on
       | Instagram today, but to my dismay, Instagram would force me to
       | login 5 seconds after navigating to Ollie's Instagram page.
       | Unless I'm part of an A/B test, you can give this a try and
       | should get the same behaviour on desktop.
       | 
       | I don't know if it was ever A/B tested, but AFAIK this feature
       | has been enabled for all users (all IPs?) for years.
        
       | bombcar wrote:
       | The Pinterest::Google interaction is the most annoying of these;
       | it seems impossible to find an image result from Google on the
       | page Pinterest shows you.
        
         | wpietri wrote:
         | Which is especially funny given that Pinterest's business is
         | basically one giant copyright violation. "We'll boost
         | everybody's photos, but god forbid anybody take any of our
         | stolen content from us!"
        
           | marcod wrote:
           | Glad I checked before adding another thread about how much I
           | hate pinterest.
           | 
           | Seriously, no honor among thieves! :p
        
         | ranting-moth wrote:
         | I'm a bit surprised that Google let Pinterest vandalize their
         | image search.
        
         | isametry wrote:
         | I've been running uBlacklist [0] for over a year now on all my
         | devices for two sole purposes: blocking (1) Pinterest, and (2)
         | Quora from my Google results.
         | 
         | [0] https://iorate.github.io/ublacklist/docs
         | 
         | I can report a general positive impact on 98% of my searches.
         | In the remaining 2% of cases (where I'm typically looking for
         | some hyper-specific image I stumbled upon months or years ago),
         | I can temporarily disable the filter with a single click.
         | 
         | Adding domains to the list is also as simple as clicking "Block
         | this site" next to a result. In theory, if you diligently block
         | lots of crappy websites, you could gather a collection of
         | domains that de-crapifies your searches extensively. But for
         | me, results from Pinterest and Quora were the biggest gripes by
         | far, and this has worked beautifully just for that.
         | 
         | You can even subscribe to blacklists created by others,
         | although I haven't explored that option so far. And your lists
         | and/or settings can sync across devices with Google Drive.
         | Available for Chrome, Firefox and Safari.
         | 
         | * I'm not affiliated to the project in any way, just promoting
         | what's, in my eyes, quite a useful browser extension.
        
       | ktosobcy wrote:
       | This is beyond annoying. But this is directly a result of the
       | dumbest and the most popular metric - number of users on the
       | platform (which is directly fuelel but dumb VC environment)... it
       | doesn't matter if you are profitable or not, but if you have lots
       | of users then it means you are amazing (and it will give you more
       | VC funding)...
        
       | the_arun wrote:
       | This is the same pattern Twitter uses today. If you are on a
       | tweet anonymously it shows login page after x seconds. Basically,
       | they are interested to know "who" is doing "what".
        
         | Given_47 wrote:
         | [dead]
        
       | TobyTheDog123 wrote:
       | The reason for this (unjustified IMO) is bot/scraping prevention.
       | On most VPNs you cannot browse profiles unless you're logged in.
       | 
       | TikTok has a much more elegant solution to this problem (while
       | still being a nightmare for bots/scrapers), with ByteDacne moving
       | bot checks to the client with a mixture of proof of work and
       | fingerprinting.
        
         | kome wrote:
         | if it was bot/scraping prevention you would allow more than 3
         | profiles or reloads... that's just to block humans.
         | 
         | probably bots have a way to bypass this.
        
         | syphermil wrote:
         | Can you elaborate on the twitter bot that finger prints?
        
         | throwaway1777 wrote:
         | This is the truth, and part of why almost all content based
         | apps do it now.
        
       | latexr wrote:
       | > Instagram would force me to login 5 seconds after navigating to
       | Ollie's Instagram page.
       | 
       | That's five more seconds than I ever got. I don't have an
       | Instagram account and can never look at any content. If someone
       | sends me a link, it _might_ render inside Messages but forget
       | about trying to open it on the website.
        
       | Arnavion wrote:
       | >I tried to simply remove the modal in the browser Inspector. It
       | sort of worked, but I wasn't able to scroll any further on the
       | page.
       | 
       | Usually when sites show a modal they also set CSS on the html /
       | body element to disable overflow scrolling, so you'd have to find
       | and remove that too.
        
         | smolder wrote:
         | And many are smart enough to not load the full page content
         | hidden behind css these days, too.
        
       | mateuszbuda wrote:
       | That's why people use mobile proxies which rotate IPs to scrape
       | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, etc:
       | https://scrapingfish.com/blog/scraping-instagram
        
       | macNchz wrote:
       | Reddit's mobile web experience really embraces this-even as a
       | logged in user there is a frequent "Use our app!" popup that has
       | been made progressively more obnoxious.
       | 
       | Once upon a time there was a preference option to disable the
       | popup, though it would periodically become unchecked on its own.
       | Then the option to disable it disappeared. Then the popup started
       | appearing not just on page load, but after a period of time while
       | you're partway down the page reading, instantly jumping your
       | scroll position to the top and making you lose your place. The
       | ultimate effect has been that I swore to never, ever install
       | their stupid app, and I spend way less time there on my phone,
       | which is probably a good thing anyway.
        
         | matthewwolfe wrote:
         | My favorite part of Reddit mobile on iOS is that when it
         | prompts you to view in app, it redirects to the App Store, even
         | though I have the app installed! Then when I open the app it
         | doesn't preserve the page I was trying to get to. So it doesn't
         | even work!
        
         | ativzzz wrote:
         | They probably have an internal KPI of increasing the number of
         | mobile installs, and these patterns probably work to increase
         | that number
        
         | kobalsky wrote:
         | instagram is a step above though. sometimes they ask you to
         | login to replay a video.
        
         | electrondood wrote:
         | Forcing you to download the app for any sub marked NSFW,
         | whereas you previously only had to click to confirm your age,
         | is bullshit.
         | 
         | I'm well aware that the reason you want me to download your app
         | has nothing at all to do with the reason you're claiming, and
         | as a user it just pisses me off.
        
           | cellularmitosis wrote:
           | What is that reason? (someone driving metrics to get a
           | promotion?)
        
             | [deleted]
        
         | gavinray wrote:
         | Recently on mobile it's stopped giving me the option to even
         | view the page anonymously, at least for adult content.
         | 
         | It gives me:                 "This is mature content and may
         | not be appropriate for certain viewers. To continue, use the
         | app to confirm you're over 18 and browse anonymously."
        
           | shagie wrote:
           | That has the feel of hitting some regulatory issues (e.g.
           | Utah's law) and/or having difficulty with porn in the App
           | Store and the content rating of the app there.
        
             | duskwuff wrote:
             | No, if it isn't NSFW content the message just changes to
             | something along the lines of "This content hasn't been
             | reviewed and may not be appropriate...". It's an excuse to
             | force users to download the app, not an implementation of a
             | legal requirement.
        
             | breakingcups wrote:
             | Nah, you don't need to confirm anything except indicate you
             | want to see NSFW content, just like you used to be able to
             | in the website itself. It's just a dark pattern to convert
             | porn viewers to the app.
        
           | Anunayj wrote:
           | I noticed this too! The reddit webapp on mobile was pretty
           | much unusable before and would constantly ask me to download
           | the app. Accidentally visited it a few days ago and was
           | surprised it didn't happen.
        
           | khazhoux wrote:
           | old.reddit.com
        
             | notfed wrote:
             | "Just modify part of your URL bar every time you click a
             | link to Reddit" falls into "F you".
        
               | RadiozRadioz wrote:
               | https://addons.mozilla.org/en-GB/firefox/addon/old-
               | reddit-re...
               | 
               | https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/old-reddit-
               | redirec...
        
               | mcpackieh wrote:
               | This is even worse. You can't trust either Mozilla or
               | Google to vet the extensions they publish for spyware. So
               | you have to trust and/or verify that this extension does
               | what it says and no more. But worse, you have to
               | vigilantly watch the extension for any changes, even if
               | you trust the developer today he may sell it to a spyware
               | company at any time.
        
               | RadiozRadioz wrote:
               | This is an open source extension, as stated in the
               | description on both pages. The repository is linked in
               | both, feel free to build it from source and install it
               | locally.
               | 
               | You don't even need these extensions, you can set up a
               | redirect rule in uBlock Origin (if you trust that).
               | 
               | I sent these extensions to remedy the stated need to
               | manually rewrite the URL, I did not say that using these
               | extensions is a better solution than Reddit turning off
               | the Fuck You pattern.
        
               | mcpackieh wrote:
               | To install an extension locally in Firefox you have to be
               | using a special build or jump through other hoops. All of
               | this goes back to the point; that Reddit is employing the
               | "fuck you" pattern when they force you to jump through
               | such hoops to use the version of their website that
               | actually works.
        
             | aqfamnzc wrote:
             | Its days are numbered, I think...
        
               | wholinator2 wrote:
               | If they are then so are my days on reddit. The whole API
               | debacle is already pretty rough for them. I can't imagine
               | removing old.reddit could possibly be a good decision for
               | them now. I have an account but only i choose when to use
               | that account. If reddit removes choice, I'll remove
               | reddit.
               | 
               | It's really striking though that all of this hate for
               | these terrible dark patterns invariably ends in a
               | statement like, 'leaving would honestly improve my life'.
               | These companies have become so ingrained and good at
               | attention economy that most people feel like it makes
               | their lives worse, and yet also cannot stop. I have a
               | feeling this whole social media ship could go the way of
               | the opium wars is we don't change course soon
        
           | rrobukef wrote:
           | If you open any post with a lot of comments and you want to
           | load more comments you must create an account - no option to
           | disable. They really want to smother all mobile but the app.
        
             | fariszr wrote:
             | That's why you use libreddit instead of the official Reddit
             | site https://github.com/libreddit/libreddit
        
       | radarsat1 wrote:
       | It's actually not that bad a name for this if you think about the
       | concept of 'fuck you' money, ie. that some people have so much
       | money that 'fuck you' they'll do whatever they want.
       | 
       | Similarly Instagram can only get away with this behavior because
       | of their level of following as a social media platform. So many
       | people use it that people want to use it to follow others, and
       | will consequently put up with this bullshit, and consequently to
       | they can get away with whatever they want because 'fuck you',
       | people will keep coming anyway.
       | 
       | Unfortunate, but not sure what lessons can be taken from it for
       | other players in the market, since (fortunately) few other
       | platforms are in a position to get away with this kind of thing.
        
         | luma wrote:
         | Reddit is now going through this process. Amazon's ecommerce
         | platform made the "fuck you" shift a while back.
        
         | syphermil wrote:
         | Twitter has a different 'fuck you pattern' when you are trying
         | to sign up a new account and they believe you are a spammer.
         | They will force you through never ending captchas that are not
         | meant to verify you, but annoy you until you give up.
        
         | marcosdumay wrote:
         | Well, absent some very serious events, your 'fuck you' money
         | will be there independently of what everybody else thinks.
         | 
         | But the 'fuck you' monopolistic behavior will work only up to
         | the point where you annoy enough people. It is an extremely
         | non-linear thing, and nobody never has any idea of how much
         | further you can go, or even how long you can keep it the same.
        
       | ranting-moth wrote:
       | Search engines have always penalized sites that serve different
       | content to users vs. the search engine.
       | 
       | This fuck you pattern feels like a variation of that trick so in
       | my opinion it should be heavily penalized.
        
       | mr_sudaca wrote:
       | i found a page to browser public IG pages a while ago,
       | https://imgsed.com/
        
       | mozman wrote:
       | > Did Instagram catch me trying to bypass their login modal?
       | 
       | Most likely. IG has pretty effective fraud detection heuristics
       | and you probably appeared as a bot due to UEBA deviation.
        
         | duckmysick wrote:
         | For others who are curious: UEBA = User and Entity Behavior
         | Analytics
        
       | barefootjoey wrote:
       | kinda like when the app authors make it impossible to disable
       | app-delivered promotional notifications. So. Much. Spam
        
       | Glyptodon wrote:
       | IG is evil. So many small businesses seem to mostly have
       | Instagram. And you can't effectively browse without signing up,
       | the sign up will decide you're not real and lock your account,
       | etc.
       | 
       | They definitely attempt to detect frequent visits and
       | circumvention of their walls to do harder blocks after. When they
       | decided my account should be locked every visit to a business
       | page started 404ing or something similar.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | mucle6 wrote:
       | This pattern would be better if it "just worked". Many times if
       | you make an account it drops you off somewhere else.
       | 
       | I made the account to look at a specific piece of content. Show
       | me that content!!!
        
       | Luctct wrote:
       | I have a bigger beef with other Fuck You patterns.
       | 
       | 1. The increasingly high number of sites that will show a blank
       | page when I disable Javascript.
       | 
       | 2. The increasingly high number of sites that will show a blank
       | page when I disable cookies even if I have no intention to login
       | and often the site doesn't even involve any kind of membership.
       | 
       | 3. Sites that refuse me their content because my browser "is no
       | longer supported" but wil gladly open up to me as soon as I tell
       | my browser to lie about its brand or version.
       | 
       | 4. Oh, almost forgot! Cloudflare.
        
         | I_am_uncreative wrote:
         | What's wrong with Cloudflare?
        
           | fsflover wrote:
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=11404770
        
         | malfist wrote:
         | I especially love the websites that tell me I need to be using
         | the latest version of Firefox when.... I'm using the latest
         | version of Firefox. I'm just on Ubuntu
        
       | gunshai wrote:
       | I also despise this pattern, it's the same on yelp. I have
       | friends who swear by yelp (I'm not sure why) but every time I get
       | sent links by them their desktop website seems to be purposely
       | absolute trash and nagging me every 10 seconds to download their
       | app and sign in.
       | 
       | I just refuse to deal with that kind of crap. I'm probably not
       | the user they want on their platform and that's fine by me.
        
       | omoikane wrote:
       | 2021: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27666455
        
       | syphermil wrote:
       | It's not just you. Twitter has done this to me, when they assumed
       | I was a spammer. Made me verify extremely difficult captchas that
       | were intended not to verify me but to annoy me so I would give
       | up.
        
         | omoikane wrote:
         | Twitter doesn't do this anymore, probably because they don't
         | want any popup to interrupt users scrolling through more ads,
         | logged in or not.
         | 
         | Instagram and Twitter's login prompt might have been motivated
         | by a desire to increase number of logged in users, and Twitter
         | might have given up on that in recent months considering the
         | increased ad load.
        
       | galoisscobi wrote:
       | I don't think this is a dark pattern per se. You don't expect to
       | walk into any restaurant and get free food. With meta products,
       | you pay for content by being tracked. If you refuse to sign in,
       | they refuse to show you content. It's simple.
        
         | EGreg wrote:
         | "They refuse to show you content"
         | 
         | It's other people's content and they should make it available
         | in places other than Meta.
         | 
         | All these Big Tech platforms should be DEMOTED to hosting
         | trailers and teasers that link back to people's sites where
         | they host their own videos and community.
         | 
         | Why do you think people don't just do that? Oh because the Big
         | Tech companies have the infrastructure and no one stuck around
         | long enough to build a good enough open source alternative,
         | that's why!
         | 
         | Until now ... https://qbix.com/communities
        
         | alpaca128 wrote:
         | > you pay for content by being tracked
         | 
         | No, the user doesn't know the price and isn't ever informed in
         | clear terms about the consequences of using the site. Going
         | with your analogy it's not payment, it's theft. We all know why
         | Meta and others bury all the details in legalese somewhere in
         | their terms of service - they know most users don't know how
         | comprehensive and invasive the tracking is, and hope it stays
         | that way.
        
         | squirtlebonflow wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | fuzzy2 wrote:
         | > If you refuse to sign in, they refuse to show you content.
         | 
         | Ah, but this is not what is happening. They do show content!
         | It's just that basically any interaction whatsoever with this
         | content immediately triggers the login prompt.
        
         | 0x_rs wrote:
         | >you pay for content by being tracked
         | 
         | Meta likes tracking you even outside their own walled jail-
         | platforms, too.
         | 
         | https://www.theregister.com/2018/04/17/facebook_admits_to_tr...
        
         | swagasaurus-rex wrote:
         | I'd say its more like an art gallery where other people provide
         | the content, but fuck you if you aren't gonna give your privacy
         | up
        
           | galoisscobi wrote:
           | That has been Meta's play for a long time. It's why I don't
           | use meta products and encourage others to do the same.
        
         | sledgehammers wrote:
         | Except in a restaurant, the chef gets paid. In this platform,
         | value is extracted from the chef, the waiter, the eater, the
         | eaten, and their interaction, while tearing down societies. Not
         | a fair comparison.
        
           | EGreg wrote:
           | Welcome to shareholder capitalism, extracting rents from all
           | sides of the market perpetually to enrich shareholders. This
           | is why utility tokens were such a big game changer for me.
           | 
           | Remember Zuck was an open source bro who turned down M$ for
           | $1M and ended up open sourcing Synapse. He built Wirehog, as
           | a decentralized file sharing network.
           | 
           | I was attending TechCrunch Disrupt 2010 in NYC and personally
           | heard Sean Parker speak proudly about how they "put a bullet
           | in that thing" -- because it threatened corporate profits and
           | rent extraction.
           | 
           | Sean Parker learned not to mess with corporate profits, when
           | his company Napster got sued into oblivion by the other "lock
           | up the IP monopoly" industries -- music and movies. MPAA and
           | RIAA. So he started Plaxo and learned to be VC.
           | 
           | Then he brought Peter Thiel, the guy who seriously advocates
           | "competition is for losers, build a monopoly". He gave Mark a
           | lot of good advice and the VC industry turned him from an
           | open source bro into a corporate golden boy who buys up the
           | competition, the founders of which leave in disgust after
           | their golden handcuffs are off (WhatApp, Oculus, and yes
           | Instagram).
           | 
           | This isn't an isolated story. Elon owns Twitter. Bezos owns
           | Amazon. The nicer guys like Ohanian and Jack got out, after
           | selling, though. And they all want decentralization now.
           | 
           | Moxie left WhatsApp and started an end-to-end encrypted
           | messenger (Signal).
        
             | SoftTalker wrote:
             | Do you have a 401k or do any kind of index fund investing?
             | You almost certainly own some Meta shares. Congrats, you're
             | a shareholder.
        
               | EGreg wrote:
               | Nope. I don't.
               | 
               | Also, hate the game, not the player. Bernie paying 100%
               | taxes isn't going to solve anything. Neither is a few
               | people going vegan going to solve what happens on factory
               | farms. We need an actual alternative that is good enough
               | so people will switch. What the Impossible Burger is
               | doing for meat eating, https://qbix.com can do for Big
               | Tech exodus.
               | 
               | It happened 25 years ago, when the World Wide Web
               | appeared, content creators very quickly left AOL,
               | Compuserve and all those other walled gardens. In fact,
               | FB, Google and Amazon could only come to exist because
               | the Web was permissionless and didn't extract rents! We
               | need that again.
        
       | syphermil wrote:
       | It's not just you or an A/B test. This has happened to me before
       | with twitter.
        
       | bubblethink wrote:
       | Most of the internet has "No Trespassing" signs. At least that's
       | how I view it. If a site throws up a banner/popup, we respect
       | their wishes and leave.
        
       | lbrito wrote:
       | There is a very simple solution here.
       | 
       | Say fuck _you_ back. Don 't use Instagram and other loginwalled
       | software.
        
       | MrDresden wrote:
       | Removed Facebook, Instagram and Whatsapp from my life some years
       | ago, and then promptly blocked them all from my local LAN (also
       | dns sinkhole them on my Android device).
       | 
       | Couldn't be happier with my decision.
        
       | paddw wrote:
       | I think what makes this a "fuck you" pattern is the fact that you
       | are given a "teaser" of the content before being forced to log
       | in.
       | 
       | Like, if IG forced you to login to see anything, you might
       | dislike that, but it wouldn't feel manipulative.
        
         | throwaway1777 wrote:
         | I feel like almost every app does this. Pinterest, quora,
         | reddit, Twitter. They've all had "features" like this.
        
       | alexfromapex wrote:
       | I thought this was going to be the "fuck you" software design
       | pattern, where employees attempt to cement their job security by
       | making the codebase extremely hard to learn or comprehend.
        
       | quattrofan wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | janandonly wrote:
       | I feel the same burning hate like a thousand suns for FB/Meta,
       | Google/YT and other platforms that monetize their users.
       | 
       | But, let's be frank here: They monetize you and me, us, the users
       | because 1 they can and, 2, they have to.
       | 
       | Yes, they have to.
       | 
       | Imagine they provided access to their platforms for free. How
       | would the shareholders (your retirement funds included) respond
       | when less profit was made?
       | 
       | You see, we view them as public utilities, as a shared park or
       | public garden or nice riverside picnic area, but they are not
       | anything like that at all. They are companies that have a
       | responsibility to the paying user, that is to the advertisers who
       | want to track you as a viewer, to know if/how much their ads
       | work.
       | 
       | The closest thing to a "public utility" on the internet to this
       | day is email, good old SMTP/IMAP email. It's open, everybody
       | who's not yet on Hotmail's or Gmail's spam-list can use it, and
       | you can even develop an app for it yourself if you so wish.
       | 
       | The closest thing to a social open protocol is: the fedi-verse on
       | Mastodon or the relay-based Nostr system. You don't want to be
       | the product of a mega corp? Try these open platforms instead...
        
         | TacticalCoder wrote:
         | > But, let's be frank here: They monetize you and me, us, the
         | users because 1 they can and, 2, they have to.
         | 
         | Don't let them. No FB. No WhatsApp. No Instagram. I take entire
         | IP blocks assigned to Meta and traffic to/from these IPs is
         | simply dropped. I take their domains and nullroute them too,
         | because I can.
         | 
         | Once you do that, you become harder to monetize.
        
         | wpietri wrote:
         | > Yes, they have to.
         | 
         | Nope. They chose to.
         | 
         | Do some incentives encourage them in this direction? Sure.
         | That's different than them "having to". Actual people are doing
         | this, and they actually made choices toward maximum
         | exploitation of human weakness. They are morally responsible
         | for those choices.
         | 
         | I agree that people should leave those platforms and move to
         | open solutions. That would be some good choice-making. But that
         | possibility doesn't diminish the responsibility of the
         | monetizers for their choices.
        
           | qwerasdf5 wrote:
           | As I understand it, they have to. Google 'Fiduciary Duty'.
        
             | p0pcult wrote:
             | [dead]
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | And generally users of the web want things to be free / don't
         | want to pay directly for these utilities.
         | 
         | I feel like we as internet users are a big part of the math
         | here.
        
           | mindslight wrote:
           | I'm happy paying for a few personal cloud servers, more than
           | I need perhaps. I'm happy paying for a solid Internet
           | connection, electricity, computers, hard drives, UPSs, etc.
           | I'm happy for paying for VOIP PSTN connectivity, mobile
           | connectivity, etc.
           | 
           | With very few exceptions (mostly arising out of expedience),
           | _I do not pay for software_. I honestly do wish the dynamics
           | of the software ecosystem were different, so that there would
           | be any software worth paying for. But the harsh reality is
           | that there is a stark divide between software that represents
           | my interests aka Libre software, and proprietary software for
           | which it 's only a matter of time of _when_ it will betray my
           | interests, if it isn 't already doing so out of the gate. And
           | if I'm using software that is set up to betray me, such that
           | I have to sandbox it to mitigate it (isolated VMs etc), then
           | why the hell should I also be paying for the privilege of
           | that hostile relationship?
           | 
           | This is the underlying divide that the user surveillance
           | industry attempts to arbitrage. Startups offer what appears
           | to be convenient software that mostly represents users, but
           | then once users become dependent on it, cranks up the abuse
           | and extraction. Instead of the shareware nag screen, it's a
           | nag dopamine drip of habituated dependency.
           | 
           | One of the things that really needs to happen is anti-trust
           | enforcement to stop this bundling of hosted services with
           | software. Any company offering a service should be required
           | to make that service available in a programmatic way to every
           | authorized user, such that users can always use "third party"
           | clients. This would drastically curtail the current bait and
           | switch dynamic.
        
             | eddythompson80 wrote:
             | Most of the time in the current era you're not paying for
             | software. You're paying for software as a service. You're
             | paying someone to take on the operational aspects of
             | running a service because to you the value is in using the
             | software, not in operating it. It's all opportunity cost.
        
               | mindslight wrote:
               | Sure, reframing the terminology further onto the paradigm
               | of centralization doesn't change what I said. I don't pay
               | for software, nor services aimed at replacing what can be
               | self-representing software.
               | 
               | Speaking of opportunity costs - yes, you do pay an
               | opportunity cost to find, set up, and learn software that
               | represents your interests. But then down the line, you
               | continually _save_ on opportunity costs from hostile
               | software not continually having you over a barrel.
               | Because while you 're correct that the value comes from
               | using the software, outsourcing the operation of it is a
               | trap that will continually try to capture more and more
               | of the surplus value you'd otherwise gain from using it.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | dasyatidprime wrote:
             | Do you currently pay for much or any of the libre software
             | you use? Of course many published libre software packages
             | have no workable monetization scheme attached, but many of
             | them have a facility for donations, and then there are
             | major foundations and aggregators (of which I regrettably
             | do not have a good list compiled at the moment).
        
         | des1nderlase wrote:
         | So you said it yourself, it's not really a 100% utility as
         | "someone" decides what is a spam and what's not. Try running an
         | email service yourself. Being open protocol still gives
         | leverage to someone to decide who can and cannot use the
         | service, and who can monetize ads.
        
           | jclulow wrote:
           | What _does_ count as a utility, then? I expect anything that
           | is considered (or even legally classified) as a utility is
           | going to have rules and "someone" to decide who to kick out;
           | e.g., the electrical grid, or the water supply, or the
           | telephone system, or council rubbish collection, etc.
        
         | deely3 wrote:
         | Just to add: these arguments are good and valid until company
         | become monopoly. And until company start to actively shutdown,
         | integrate, prevent any other company from becoming competitor.
         | 
         | Imagine shared park or public garden owners that buys all other
         | shared parks in country and actively prevent creation of new
         | public parks. And then started to put loud and bright
         | advertisement boards on every tree, near every gil and on every
         | picnic place. And punish you for wearing headphones.
        
         | slg wrote:
         | >How would the shareholders (your retirement funds included)
         | respond when less profit was made?
         | 
         | At a certain point, who cares? A company can exist indefinitely
         | with any level of long term profit. They don't need to
         | constantly be maximizing profit in the short term which is
         | where these "fuck you" patterns generally arise. We have
         | designed a system that has convinced everyone to never be
         | satisfied or say they have enough. But there is no reason why
         | that needs to be the case. Companies don't need to grow every
         | quarter forever. It is both impossible and ends up degrading
         | the lives of both employees and customers.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | Andrex wrote:
           | Exactly. You think Nintendo prioritizes quarterly growth at
           | the expense of everything else? No.
           | 
           | Companies are not mindless money machines, they're run by
           | people who make decisions. I feel like post-80s Americans
           | totally lost the concept that a company can exist for more
           | than five years and without constantly chasing a buyout or
           | merger for an easy exit.
           | 
           | We need more founders to start companies with the intention
           | of keeping them going 10, 20, 30+ years. Just my two cents.
        
           | lamontcg wrote:
           | A nonprofit that wasn't a publicly traded company would a
           | viable alternative model. It wouldn't need to have the same
           | insane up-and-to-the-right incentives and drive to toxic
           | monetization.
        
             | mdale wrote:
             | Wikipedia "donate now" campaigns can get pretty front and
             | center. Maybe not quite the same level; but non profits
             | also have a tendency to push hard on donations.
        
             | slg wrote:
             | It doesn't have to be a nonprofit. There is nothing wrong
             | with turning a profit. The problem is when the company's
             | only goal is ever-increasing profit and they are willing to
             | sacrifice the wellbeing of their employees, customers, and
             | community to achieve it.
        
               | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
               | In the context you are using it, "profit" has a very
               | specific meaning that's a little incongruent with what
               | you're trying to say.
               | 
               | In that context, "profit" is the idea that earnings above
               | cost are distributed to shareholders. The stock market
               | mechanism then guarantees that companies unconcerned with
               | that sort of profit will see someone gobble up the shares
               | once they dip low enough (and they will), install a new
               | board of directors, and dismantle the company for parts
               | or some other endeavor-ending inevitability.
               | 
               | From a stock price perspective, it will just be too
               | tempting.
               | 
               | Nonprofits are disallowed from distributing earnings
               | above cost or any other profit mechanism. While they
               | might have their own set of pathologies, they're immune
               | to the one I've described, to the best of my
               | understanding.
        
               | klabb3 wrote:
               | Isn't it possible to maintain ownership among founders
               | and initial investors and maintain a minority share
               | (<50%) of public stock? Although there's nothing wrong
               | with staying entirely private either.
               | 
               | It seems almost impossible to run a public company
               | without having the place be taken over by bean counters
               | these days.
        
               | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
               | I believe that it is possible for that to happen, and I'm
               | too ignorant to say whether it is common, or what
               | circumstances might prompt it.
               | 
               | There are probably quite a few ways such a company would
               | be vulnerable to takeover.
        
               | slg wrote:
               | > The stock market mechanism then guarantees that
               | companies unconcerned with that sort of profit will see
               | someone gobble up the shares once they dip low enough
               | (and they will), install a new board of directors, and
               | dismantle the company for parts or some other endeavor-
               | ending inevitability.
               | 
               | There are all sorts of ways to defend against a hostile
               | takeover like this. I already mentioned Zuckerberg having
               | majority control of the voting shares despite the company
               | being public. There was also the attempted takeover of
               | Netflix a decade ago that was prevented with a poison
               | pill to issue more shares.
        
               | lamontcg wrote:
               | Which every for-profit company seems to wind up doing
               | these days.
        
               | OJFord wrote:
               | Every for-profit _public_ company. And so they should
               | /have to.
        
               | dasil003 wrote:
               | Why should they? Why does there need to be a dichotomy
               | between doing something good and living in poverty, or
               | else do everything possible to squeeze out the next
               | short-term dollar. It strikes me as a profound failure of
               | imagination to think there's no possible way to structure
               | our economy where more companies could pursue profit in
               | balance with other goals that can not directly be
               | translated into next quarter's P&L statement.
        
               | OJFord wrote:
               | Hence the '/have to', I'm not saying they philosophically
               | or morally 'should' - I'm not commenting on that at all -
               | I'm saying they have a duty to 'maximise shareholder
               | value', a legal obligation to owners to (aim to) make as
               | much money for them as possible, basically.
               | 
               | A _privately_ owned company can do as it (that is: its
               | owner(s) without state oversight) wishes.
               | 
               | --
               | 
               | If you want me to comment on the philosophy or morals of
               | it though, I suppose I think 'meh, whatever' - a private
               | company is free to spring up and compete, free of public
               | shareholders and free to maximise customer satisfaction
               | instead. Of course it's easy to say 'free to spring up',
               | and really there are all sorts of barriers to entry in
               | many almost monopolistic markets, but that's rather a
               | separate issue I think - it's just as much an issue for
               | any less customer-oriented, perhaps public or wannabe
               | public, company trying to compete.
        
               | slg wrote:
               | No, it doesn't have to be every public company either.
               | Meta might be a for-profit public company, but Zuckerberg
               | still has the majority of voting shares. If he wanted to
               | get rid of the annoying IG "feature" that this blog
               | describes, no one could stop him. He could prioritize the
               | long term health of the company over their quarterly
               | results. He is the one that is ultimately making the
               | decision, not the public shareholders.
        
               | danaris wrote:
               | They do _not_ have to, regardless of whether it 's what
               | the shareholders would _prefer_.
               | 
               | They only have to do what the shareholders demand if the
               | shareholders actually vote to make them.
               | 
               | The meme of the "fiduciary duty" meaning that profit must
               | be maximized at all costs has been debunked so many times
               | by now it's really not funny.
        
               | OJFord wrote:
               | In what sense is it 'debunked'? I'm not aware of a meme
               | nor trying to be funny.
        
               | danaris wrote:
               | The idea that execs of public companies have a legal
               | requirement to maximize profit for shareholders, which is
               | false and based on some misunderstandings of _actual_
               | requirements, has been frequently stated (at least by
               | commenters and pundits) as justification for companies
               | taking awful and inhumane actions. ( "Frequently
               | repeated" makes it a meme; the word doesn't just mean
               | image macros.)
               | 
               | The "fiduciary duty" rule that _actually_ exists simply
               | means (as I understand it) that execs can 't legally
               | enrich themselves at the company's expense beyond their
               | agreed-upon compensation, without the approval of
               | shareholders/the board.
               | 
               | So no; "every for-profit company" _should not_ and _does
               | not have to_ take steps to maximize profit at the expense
               | of their employees, their customers, and the public at
               | large. Frankly, many of the ways they currently do this
               | either _are already_ or _should be_ illegal, and are
               | definitely immoral and detrimental to a healthy and
               | functioning society and economy.
        
               | lamontcg wrote:
               | Which is every for-profit company once MBAs take it over
               | and want to cash out in an IPO.
        
               | Tanoc wrote:
               | This is relatively new behaviour that only showed up
               | around fifteen years ago, during the crash. Before then
               | publicly traded companies such as DuPont or IBM would
               | settle for a very gradual increase if it meant they had a
               | stable market and dependable revenue stream. Especially
               | if they had majority control of that market, since they
               | could already squeeze customers for whatever amount they
               | wanted, as Bell and Microsoft did. It was the smaller
               | volatile companies like Keurig that disregarded five and
               | ten year market projections and went for massive market
               | expansion and quarterly or yearly profit increases
               | because they were competing against giants in their
               | respective or adjacent industries and needed to grow big
               | enough fast enough not to be squashed. Between 2000 and
               | 2008 the DOW and NASDAQ indexes stayed around the same
               | level, then they cratered in 2008, and by 2011 they just
               | started going up and up and up like they had back between
               | 1982 and 1989. Except so far we're twelve years in and it
               | hasn't slowed down, unlike the slowdown that started in
               | 1987.
               | 
               | Companies changed up the way they did things starting in
               | 2008 in order to survive, but sticking to that short term
               | panic survival tactic is coming to a head. They've done
               | almost everything possible in order to ensure growth, but
               | the public just can't handle it and things are starting
               | to collapse under the weight of near maximum
               | monetization.
        
         | naikrovek wrote:
         | > Yes, they have to.
         | 
         | you say that like we don't all know it already. _Most_ readers
         | of this site likely work at these places.
         | 
         | No kidding they have to do this, if they exist. Their existence
         | is the problem, whatever the cause.
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | We just have to take their stupid ad-based monetization scheme
         | away, so we can just pay for what we use like in the good old
         | times.
         | 
         | We can start with a law that applies to all social media
         | systems that have more than 1M users.
        
         | anonymousiam wrote:
         | They can monetize by presenting ads, and they can identify you
         | with cookies when you don't log in (or later when you do). They
         | don't need to restrict their content to monetize. It's more
         | likely that they are restricting their content to prevent
         | scraping and/or indexing.
        
           | henriquez wrote:
           | It's definitely to prevent scraping. Used to be you could
           | scrape and hydrate any profile or hashtag. It was sort of a
           | cat and mouse thing a couple years ago and now the Instagram
           | website is locked down tight.
        
         | spondylosaurus wrote:
         | Yep, and Reddit in particular is the culmination of over a
         | billion dollars' worth of VC funding. The changes we're seeing
         | are unsurprising when you take that into account--even though
         | Reddit has never been profitable, those investors are still
         | expecting their return, which forces Reddit to either start
         | bringing in serious revenue or have a promising IPO (or both).
         | None of this has ever been _for_ users; we 're merely a driver
         | of growth/profit to them.
         | 
         | Investor-backed platforms offer the illusion of "free public
         | utility," but they were never meant to serve us in the first
         | place. Their goal has always been to cash out.
        
           | weaksauce wrote:
           | > even though Reddit has never been profitable
           | 
           | they sure had a good trajectory before huffman fucked that up
           | and bought moonshot projects and hired 2,000 employees and
           | did everything possible to mess up that trajectory so they
           | could pump and dump for an ipo.
        
         | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
         | The alternative is OSI or Xanadu with microtransactions for
         | everything and every action tied to an identity.
        
         | sroussey wrote:
         | > we view them as public utilities
         | 
         | Maybe that is side effect of age. I certainly do not see
         | YouTube that way. Maybe growing up with it is different.
         | 
         | And when they started it seemed like a fools errand--copyright
         | issues, giant costs (OMG, so much money down the drain), no
         | real way to monetize at all at the time.
         | 
         | In other words: giant heap of risk. I had a friend that was a
         | competitor to them (but was more on top of copyright issues,
         | thus their downfall). This was not for the faint of heart, and
         | the exact opposite of a public utility.
        
         | baxtr wrote:
         | And at the same time many people don't want to pay for
         | software.
         | 
         | Either you pay or you are the product.
        
           | NoRelToEmber wrote:
           | We've seen too many times how bogus this saying is. You can
           | pay top dollar for a high-end TV, and it'll still spy on you
           | and show you ads in the menus [1].
           | 
           | You either _control the software_ , or you are the product.
           | No amount of Danegeld will buy you freedom.
           | 
           | [1] https://www.theverge.com/tldr/2021/3/10/22323790/lg-oled-
           | tv-...
        
         | guestbest wrote:
         | It's a Trojan Horse pattern, really. They give away the service
         | for free membership with billions of VC until their competitors
         | collapse or fade away, then they start becoming more aggressive
         | with ads and/or charging for premium access which used to be
         | free.
        
           | jitix wrote:
           | This is not new, Gillette used to give out free razors to get
           | people used to their ecosystem and get recurring revenue.
           | 
           | It's just more "in your face" now.
        
             | MikeDelta wrote:
             | Well, I think Gillette's purpose was also very much in your
             | face.
        
             | benjaminbachman wrote:
             | But there's no network effects with razors.
        
               | jitix wrote:
               | Exactly! This is a strategy that works even for markets
               | without network effects. It just gets even more amplified
               | (and profitable) when network effects exist.
               | 
               | In todays terms the equivalent would be an invite to a
               | closed Gillette page/group/discord that has exclusive
               | videos from the latest influencers (or whatever teenagers
               | like and talk about).
               | 
               | For example OOP could get their daily cat based dopamine
               | fix from a myriad of online sources, most open or easily
               | bypassed but they want to see this one particular cat
               | which is behind Meta's wall and requires additional
               | payment (in terms of data) from them.
        
             | silisili wrote:
             | Did they stop? It used to be every guy got a razor for
             | their 18th birthday, which was creepy as nobody even signed
             | up for it(unsure about women?). Myself and all my
             | classmates got one.
             | 
             | I tried Googling this, and the last article I found was
             | from 2019...
        
             | LanceH wrote:
             | Veering off topic, I started using safety razors for just
             | as good a shave, for 10cents a blade. At ten cents each, I
             | use a new blade every shave and it's so much nicer than a
             | 2nd use top-of-the-line gillette.
        
             | mdorazio wrote:
             | Loss Leader is not the same economically as Dumping.
             | Gillette is the former, VC-backed companies are the latter.
             | Loss Leader tactics are sustainable in a competitive
             | market, but Dumping is profit negative until someone
             | (hopefully your competition) goes out of business.
        
             | DMell wrote:
             | I noticed this same thing recently with Arcoss golf sensors
             | which are now essentially free everywhere.
        
             | w_for_wumbo wrote:
             | I think Nestle wins the most egregious example; where they
             | gave free baby formula in developing countries for just
             | long enough for the mothers to stop producing milk and then
             | started charging them for the right to feed their babies.
        
               | wak90 wrote:
               | While telling the mothers it was healthier for the baby
               | to use formula
        
         | jitix wrote:
         | Great point, in the 90s people used to spend a fortune
         | (relatively speaking) on taking, sharing and discovering
         | pictures, consuming media and getting their news.
         | 
         | Now everyone wants everything for free, but won't give anything
         | in return. And they also want market returns on their stocks,
         | 401ks, etc at the same time.
         | 
         | That being said, Meta/Google could implement a guaranteed
         | privacy-first, ad-free option for something like $10-20 a month
         | to give people the option to be a "customer" instead of
         | "product".
         | 
         | And as you said there is the whole mastodon/pixelfed/lemmy
         | network that people could use, although many mastodon instances
         | seem to be running into financial problems lately.
        
           | iamleppert wrote:
           | If giving people the choice of an ad-free premium
           | subscription was more profitable, they would do it. The issue
           | with doing that is the users who pay are also the most
           | desirable audience for advertisers.
           | 
           | A premium model also eventually creates two separate
           | products. The free product is (at first) built for the needs
           | of the users to attract them and get enough volume to support
           | an advertisement model. Then, it is gradually built and
           | focused toward the needs of the advertisers. That gradually
           | shifts over time once the company has captured the market on
           | both sides (this is a two-sided marketplace after all) to
           | optimizing for the needs of the company. It's harder to
           | achieve this final end goal if you have a product that is
           | optimized for the needs of the user, because you don't have a
           | two-sided marketplace anymore that can be exploited on both
           | sides. Collecting money from businesses (advertisers) in bulk
           | and providing them support can be easier and less costly than
           | managing millions of premium users and supporting them.
        
             | jitix wrote:
             | I understand how the market works and how the Gompertz
             | curve looks for new product lifecycles. I have a
             | (professionally useless) masters degree in that.
             | 
             | My question is, what's your solution?
             | 
             | The shareholders/stock market (largely represented by the
             | board) will replace any CEO who doesn't employ patterns
             | (dark, fu, whatever) to maximize revenue. And private
             | companies can't raise capital easily nor can they give
             | Options/RSUs to employees.
             | 
             | We are in the current state due to market equilibrium
             | driven by people's willingness to pay, and since I
             | personally don't like meta or Zuck I use Reddit on Brave +
             | Mastodon + Dev.to for my social media dopamine hits. OOP
             | could do the same.
             | 
             | I don't know how old you are but growing up in the 90s I
             | certainly remember (parents) paying for many of these
             | things we now take for granted. The net negative result is
             | that independent journalism is dead.
        
         | pnt12 wrote:
         | Won't someone think of the shareholders?
         | 
         | This denial of responsability is a cancer on society. Poor
         | devs, they can do no better because their manager ordered them
         | to. Poor managers, they can do no better because they must
         | reach their OKRs. Poor CxOs, they can do no better because they
         | must please the board. Poor board, who must maximize the
         | returns of the shareholders. Poor shareholders, who just want
         | their retirement funds.
        
           | epylar wrote:
           | The next step in the chain: why do shareholders need
           | retirement funds?
        
           | akudha wrote:
           | We can keep debating this all day long, nothing is going to
           | change. The best thing to do is stop using these services.
           | 
           | Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok... We can easily live
           | without them. Our lives might actually be better without
           | them. Why are we spending time debating the ethics of these
           | services? It is like fast food - just avoid.
           | 
           | When entities like banks, hospitals, insurance companies etc
           | do shady shit, _THAT_ is a problem. Those are necessary
           | services, social media is not
        
           | thethimble wrote:
           | The idea that everyone involved in the economic system of app
           | development simply lacks moral character is a pretty weak
           | take. Most apps/companies exist within a capitalistic
           | framework. They likely wouldn't exist without early external
           | capital providing upfront funding for R&D.
           | 
           | In your mind, who should bear the cost of building and
           | maintaining large services like Instagram?
        
           | dgreensp wrote:
           | Yup!!
           | 
           | When I criticize Google, or some other company, I am not
           | forgetting that they are motivated by making money.
        
       | AH4oFVbPT4f8 wrote:
       | I'm really hating the signin with google on nearly every website.
       | I don't want you to know who I am, I might never even return to
       | the site. Stop asking me to login so you can data mine me.
        
         | drivebycomment wrote:
         | Turn it off at
         | https://myaccount.google.com/connections/settings
        
           | wpietri wrote:
           | You have made my life so much better. Thank you.
        
           | boring_twenties wrote:
           | Except now you have to be logged in to a google account in
           | order for that setting to work...
        
             | drivebycomment wrote:
             | The automatic "sign in with Google" prompt only shows up if
             | you're already signed-in. So if you're not signed-in, it
             | doesn't (and can't) display - because there's no logged-in
             | session, there's no existing user.
             | 
             | In case you're misunderstanding what we're discussing here
             | - the feature in question is https://developers.google.com/
             | identity/gsi/web/guides/offeri... .
             | 
             | If you use extensions like Privacy Badger or other
             | ads/tracking blocking extensions, it blocks that by default
             | so you may not have seen this on the web, though if you use
             | certain apps on mobile, you may still have seen it.
        
           | AH4oFVbPT4f8 wrote:
           | Wow how did you find this? Thank you so much!
        
       | sneak wrote:
       | Delete your IG account and block all facebook/meta domains in DNS
       | and at your router to solve this problem permanently.
        
       | more_corn wrote:
       | This is an important insight. What is the correct response when
       | someone says "fuck you"? The answer is obvious. "No, you"
       | 
       | The correct thing to do is to acknowledge the relationship they
       | have expressed by their distain for you. That relationship is
       | adversarial, other. It's "you're nothing to me" if you're nothing
       | to them they probably oughta be nothing to you.
       | 
       | For me "fuck you" patterns are a signal you should have no
       | relationship with that company.
       | 
       | As are: nag forever patterns and hard nudges (a hard nudge is a
       | shove, I don't like being shoved -- google maps uses a hard nudge
       | to force login so they can bypass US data privacy rules. Thanks,
       | but no thanks)
       | 
       | Delete your account, add to your pihole block list and use
       | wireguard to teleport your mobile home so you benefit from that
       | while out and about.
       | 
       | You'll be surprised at how liberating it feels to be able to
       | forever sever ties with products that express "fuck you"
       | patterns.
        
       | fma wrote:
       | AFAIK Instagram was always like this? Whenever I get stopped I
       | just hit the back button and thank for them saving me time.
       | TikTok does it right - it annoys you with a pop up to login/open
       | in app...you can dismiss it and watch the video. I believe if you
       | want to do more than that it'll annoy you again - but I usually
       | go back to what I was doing before (responding to someone who
       | sent me that...)
        
       | cevn wrote:
       | I had something similar today with Microsoft. Just to use their
       | OS, MS tried to force me to log into an account. After signing
       | out and back in, I was able to bypass the prompt.
        
       | 29athrowaway wrote:
       | If it was possible to bypass then someone would write a
       | bookmarklet, browser extension, etc. that bypassed it.
        
       | vbo wrote:
       | My fuck-you-right-back response is I don't sign up and give up
       | using the app. I had an instagram account and deleted it years
       | ago. I don't want a new one. Sadly instagram is sign up only, so
       | good luck to them and good bye.
        
         | faangsticle wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | sira04 wrote:
           | I make burner accounts on these platforms for this use case.
           | No profile image, random character usernames. works fine.
        
           | BaseballPhysics wrote:
           | > So you either have to ignore your friends, bore them with
           | your morals or just give in anyway.
           | 
           | Is it really so hard to just say "Gah, sorry, I don't have an
           | IG account"?
        
           | albert_e wrote:
           | Like the archive.ph bypass for soft paywalls on news articles
           | ...
           | 
           | Isn't there a website that simple records a GIF of the said
           | tiktok/ IG reel and lets you share that instead?
        
             | sheepishly wrote:
             | Don't know about Tiktok, but this site seems to work for IG
             | to some degree:
             | 
             | https://www.picuki.com/
             | 
             | Don't know exactly how much it captures, but you can toss
             | the page it gives you into archive.ph at least.
        
           | mnsc wrote:
           | Yup I have a friend that sends link to shorts(?) videos on ig
           | and I usually open them in a private tab and accept only
           | necessary cookies. The annoying part is that I only get to
           | watch it once, if I miss something and want to watch it again
           | I need to create an account... Nope! And it's usually just
           | rehashed tiktok videos so I go there and search for it
           | instead.
        
         | tomjen3 wrote:
         | I think it was Carl Newport who wrote that you should only use
         | social media for your intended purposes and that you should use
         | what technology (I think he said tool) is most effective for
         | your particular needs.
         | 
         | The above is obviously my words and not from a direct quote,
         | but I am using that strategy - for me Facebook is great for
         | finding things that happens around here and so I visit it for a
         | few minutes a couple times a week. Sadly most of my friends are
         | on messenger, so I have that installed on my phone.
         | 
         | I haven't seen a need for Instagram, so I don't use it. I used
         | to use it as a strictly photo posting place, but I stopped that
         | hobby.
        
         | nocoiner wrote:
         | Yup, this is how I respond too. While occasionally it leads to
         | missing content I used to enjoy (miss u, /r/dogelore), for the
         | most part I wind up never noticing the absence and having more
         | time in my day. Win win!
        
       | einpoklum wrote:
       | Take that as a hint, and stop going on Instagram. And Facebook if
       | you can manage it.
        
       | totallywrong wrote:
       | It's most annoying when businesses make IG their actual website,
       | or restaurants have their menus there, etc. I've never been on IG
       | and can't access the content, so they don't get my business.
        
         | voytec wrote:
         | From my experience people making decisions on setting up these
         | websites have no clue that such services are walled gardens.
         | They saw an opportunity for free hosting with easy to use
         | WYSIWYG editor and it looked like a no-brainer.
        
           | guestbest wrote:
           | Not only that, they get likes comments and free protection
           | from spam which is easy to moderate from their standpoint.
        
         | nunez wrote:
         | at least they are all on google/apple maps
         | 
         | you'll lose out on special events and deals, but that's
         | probably an okay compromise.
         | 
         | though there are some special cases where their hours on social
         | media are more accurate than maps...
        
         | tough wrote:
         | You can still go to the restaurant to eat presumably they'll
         | have some paper menus in there, or QR's or whatever
        
           | luma wrote:
           | Or I can go to any of a hundred different places that don't
           | lock their info behind Zuck's paywall.
        
           | faangsticle wrote:
           | Sure, you could also just go to a supermarket. If you don't
           | know what to expect, why risk it?
        
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             | mr_mitm wrote:
             | It's not that big of a risk to be honest. People did it all
             | the time before the internet. Some people are not
             | pathologically risk adverse and might even enjoy being
             | surprised.
        
               | mhb wrote:
               | risk averse
        
             | bee_rider wrote:
             | It was how restaurants worked for a long time. Of course,
             | if you prefer the predictability of seeing the menu before
             | you get there, that's your preference, fair enough. But I
             | wonder if you might miss out on some places run by cooks
             | who put all their talent into cooking, and none into
             | technology. Could be some good stuff...
        
               | aaomidi wrote:
               | Talent isn't a zero sum game.
               | 
               | It takes next to no effort to throw your menu as a photo
               | on google maps for example.
        
               | wizzwizz4 wrote:
               | That would not have occurred to me as a thing to do. It
               | takes non-zero effort to think of these things in the
               | first place.
        
               | aaomidi wrote:
               | Every business needs marketing, even the most basic
               | coffee shop. Maintaining an online presence is just part
               | of running a modern business.
               | 
               | You're free to not do it, but the market will push you
               | out in favor of businesses that do.
        
               | pdntspa wrote:
               | It would be nice if the technology people would stop
               | expecting everyone to cater to them.
        
               | aaomidi wrote:
               | You mean market forces that pushes the companies that
               | make their business less accessible?
               | 
               | I personally don't expect anything. I'll just not go to
               | places that don't have information. That's the market in
               | action.
        
               | steveklabnik wrote:
               | Example of how this falls apart: you change your prices.
               | You change your menu. You have different menus for
               | different times of day. You have different menus for
               | special occasions.
        
               | unnah wrote:
               | Good point. Also, once the customer is accessing the menu
               | through their smartphone, modern ad tracking technologies
               | also enable pricing to match the expected buying power of
               | the customer. This way the hospitality industry and their
               | adtech partners can extract more value from the
               | transaction and thus increase the efficiency of the
               | market.
        
               | derefr wrote:
               | AFIAK those pictures-of-menus don't come from the
               | restaurant owner, but from the people dining there. I
               | believe they're partly scraped from restaurant review
               | sites like Zomato (where the pictures-of-menus are
               | interspersed with pictures-of-the-food-itself) and partly
               | the result of Google doing Google Lens things to your
               | Google Photos to figure out that you took photos while
               | inside a restaurant, and then asking you if it can use
               | them.
        
           | totallywrong wrote:
           | I've actually stood up and left restaurants when their QR
           | menu sends me to IG.
        
             | silasdavis wrote:
             | Perfect on a first date.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | You've got to case the restaurant, run background checks
               | on the staff. Can the menu be read without a phone? If
               | not, I gotta go somewhere else.
        
               | RadiozRadioz wrote:
               | Excellent reference.
        
               | kergonath wrote:
               | The risks of picking a place you don't know for a date ;)
        
             | tough wrote:
             | Hahahaha I was picturing this idea before asking tbh...
             | 
             | We sometimes get some customers who hate the QR's, or claim
             | not having phone/signal/whatever.
             | 
             | I'll lend them my phone to check...
        
               | totallywrong wrote:
               | I'm one of those customers. QR menus must die.
        
               | mcpackieh wrote:
               | I'd refuse to touch your phone and insult you for the
               | offer. If you don't have a paper menu the question of me
               | giving you money is already off the table; the food is
               | forgotten and my new mission in your restaurant is to
               | punish you with my vindictive attitude. If enough
               | waitresses complain about obnoxious boomers giving them
               | grief, I think the business owner will eventually wisen
               | up.
        
               | pierat wrote:
               | You're nice. I replace them with "HaCKed" videos from
               | YouTube.
               | 
               | Obviously a YT vid doesn't hack anything, but it does
               | scare the companies out of complacency when it's trivial
               | to swap to real malware.
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | At The Fish Market, they had menus printed out each day
               | with the current market rates of all the fish that they
               | had and modified it for that day's availability.
               | 
               | Each day, they had new paper menus (
               | https://menucuisine.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/The-
               | Fish-... - note the top)
               | 
               | Their menu is now also at https://order.online/store/the-
               | fish-market-palo-alto-723242/...
               | 
               | I'm not sure if they still have paper menus or what the
               | expense of those menus were.
        
               | tough wrote:
               | I'd just try to get rid of you as fast as possible.
               | kicking you out if needed.
               | 
               | You can be doing all this nonsense to an owner serving
               | you.
        
               | throwanem wrote:
               | You don't know how the restaurant business works, for one
               | thing. For another, acting like an asshole to waitstaff
               | just makes you look like an asshole, and gratifying
               | yourself in public over your supposedly principled stand
               | in acting like an asshole doubly so.
               | 
               | QR code links to menus are bad, sure. I'd still rather
               | eat at ten places that have those than one place that has
               | you.
        
               | mcpackieh wrote:
               | > _I 'd still rather eat at ten places that have those
               | than one place that has you._
               | 
               | If my making a scene makes other customers upset, then
               | it's working. I know businesses hate it when people do
               | this, and that's why I know it's an effective tactic. The
               | whole point of the protest is to sabotage the business by
               | making everybody else in the room upset.
        
               | throwanem wrote:
               | The only person unclear on who the asshole is here is
               | you.
        
               | mcpackieh wrote:
               | Acting like an asshole is the means of protest I
               | consciously choose. Another commenter here chooses to put
               | stickers over the QR codes instead; I think that's pretty
               | clever and I applaud that, but I prefer to keep it
               | strictly legal. Stickers are technically vandalism, but
               | ruining your day by acting like an asshole is completely
               | legal and very effective.
        
               | arrowsmith wrote:
               | Or you could just print a goddamn paper menu?
        
               | wpietri wrote:
               | Who still has a printer? Maybe they could fax you one
               | instead?
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | Businesses
               | 
               | Come on, you can get one for under $100
        
               | duckmysick wrote:
               | Print shops.
               | 
               | Restaurants already source their materials and equipment
               | from other suppliers. They don't grow their own food;
               | they don't need to print their own menus.
        
               | wpietri wrote:
               | Sure, the same is true of anything written. But much of
               | that has shifted to digital media because it's more
               | convenient. A print shop has much higher latency and
               | change costs. The newer restaurants in my neighborhood
               | mostly use flexible ways of conveying prices. QR codes,
               | menus on big screens, chalkboards, or computer-printed
               | paper menus on disposable paper.
        
               | boring_twenties wrote:
               | More convenient for the restaurant, less convenient for
               | the customer.
               | 
               | This defeats the whole purpose of a restaurant, which is
               | to be convenient. If I wanted to be inconvenienced I
               | would just buy groceries and cook them at home.
        
             | arrowsmith wrote:
             | I wouldn't even make it this far, I'm not scanning their
             | QR. Give me a paper menu or gtfo.
        
               | mcpackieh wrote:
               | This. I've never scanned a QR code and I don't intend to
               | learn how.
               | 
               | And because the premise of a restaurant not having
               | printed menus available is so absurd, I think I'd be
               | compelled to stick around for a few minutes loudly
               | insulting their business acumen before leaving (as I have
               | done before at bars that didn't accept cash!) I consider
               | this a service done for those who think like me but
               | aren't brave enough to speak out themselves.
        
               | AeroNotix wrote:
               | The sad part is that practically all patrons that could
               | hear you will just label you as a "Karen". The owners
               | will not change their ways. It works for them, their
               | client base and the vast majority of potential clients.
               | 
               | People do not care at all whatsoever about their privacy
               | being invaded, generally.
        
               | luuurker wrote:
               | Imagine you go out for launch and see this random guy
               | "loudly insulting" the staff because of some random
               | internet stuff you don't understand or care about.
               | 
               | Maybe you won't call the guy "Karen", but I'd be very
               | surprised if you approved of the situation... Unless, of
               | course, you think that insulting low paid workers loudly
               | is something good and to be proud of.
        
               | mcpackieh wrote:
               | The point is not to persuade you of my point of view, the
               | point is to ruin the mood of the workers and customers.
               | So if I leave you fuming about the Karen (eg me, but
               | wrong gender fyi), mission accomplished. If it were legal
               | I'd pull the fire alarm on my way out.
        
               | tough wrote:
               | It's just sad that such a great tech like QR's has caused
               | you so much pain
        
               | luuurker wrote:
               | > I've never scanned a QR
               | 
               | That's okay. It's also okay to prefer a paper menu (I'm
               | the same).
               | 
               | > I don't intend to learn how
               | 
               | I mean, no one is forced to learn, but knowing stuff is
               | not a bad thing. It takes less time to read a QR code
               | than to type that reply.
               | 
               | > I'd be compelled to stick around for a few minutes
               | loudly insulting their business
               | 
               | What happened to calmly explain your position and then
               | leave without giving that business your money? You don't
               | have to be an asshole to the person serving you... in
               | fact, they probably don't have a say on the matter.
        
               | mcpackieh wrote:
               | The point is to sabotage the business in a more impactful
               | way than merely walking away. Harming employee morale,
               | and consequently employee retention, is an effective
               | means of protest. If the employees get a sour mood about
               | it and give other customers worse service, all the
               | better.
        
               | luuurker wrote:
               | On the other hand, you're being an asshole to someone
               | that has to stand there and take your shit because they
               | have debts and a rent to pay. And, since they deal with
               | people all day, they know that moving to another work
               | place with a paper menu won't fix anything because
               | there's always some asshole that will do their best to
               | make them feel like crap.
               | 
               | Not to mention that the average person doesn't understand
               | how online menus can be a problem. Most don't understand
               | how tracking works, for example. So when you leave,
               | things go back to normal because that was just one of
               | _those_ customers.
               | 
               | Menus on QR codes is a problem. People that behave like
               | you are also a problem. I dislike both.
        
               | tbrownaw wrote:
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waiter_Rule
               | 
               | > "If someone is nice to you but rude to the waiter, they
               | are not a nice person."
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | Garvi wrote:
           | Aren't QR codes just a fundamentally flawed system due to how
           | much easier they make phishing attacks?
        
             | stOneskull wrote:
             | i found out the hard way about that network of scammers.
             | recently a friend had a serious motorbike crash and the
             | hospital where he was at had a QR code registration. i
             | hadn't slept and wasn't thinking. i just downloaded the
             | first free QR reader from the google app store and scanned
             | it. there was tiny writing saying 'open this link in
             | browser' then a big green box in the middle saying 'OPEN'.
             | i didn't even see the first link and just hit the big
             | button. and yeah that took me to a registration page asking
             | me to enter my credit card to verify my identification,
             | which i thought was the hospital. d'oh!
        
               | rcfox wrote:
               | Your standard, built-in camera app should be able to scan
               | QR codes...
        
             | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
             | Part of the motivation is to avoid having to produce
             | Braille menus. Force your customers to use a device with
             | built in accessibility features and you don't pay extra for
             | ADA compliance.
        
               | DropInIn wrote:
               | How does a blind person use a QR code?
               | 
               | Not like they can see where the camera is pointing, let
               | alone locate the code in the first place.....
        
               | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
               | The staff or someone with them scans it upon request.
        
               | Mordisquitos wrote:
               | Ok, done! The QR code encodes the URL to download a 19.8
               | MB beautifully designed menu in PDF format. Now what does
               | the blind person do?
        
               | eddythompson80 wrote:
               | Great straw man, but luckily the solution is easy. Inform
               | the restaurant to use one of the many dozens of menu
               | services that are designed specifically with screen
               | readers in mind. There are also PDF screen readers, but
               | that's less ideal because the PDF needs to be designed
               | with accessibility in mind.
               | 
               | https://www.afb.org/blindness-and-low-vision/using-
               | technolog...
        
               | Mordisquitos wrote:
               | ...or a physical menu in braille.
        
               | mindslight wrote:
               | This sounds like "compliance" attorneys gone crazy. It's
               | appalling, but does check out with the bureaucratic
               | cancer eating our society. Waitstaff or the cashier
               | reading menu options sounds like wonderful accommodation.
               | Certainly much more so than impersonally telling a
               | customer to solve their own problem by turning their
               | dining session into a web browsing session.
        
               | eddythompson80 wrote:
               | That's an extremely bigoted way of looking at it. Blind
               | people deserve autonomy too as much as possible. How
               | would you like it if the waitstaff just stood next to you
               | to read the menu to you and wait for you to make a
               | decision?
               | 
               | Having a braille option is ideal, but not every vision
               | impaired person can read braille and it puts a
               | significant burden on every establishment. Readers
               | provide a great alternative to that that restores a lot
               | of autonomy to blind people.
               | 
               | Why have ADA at all? Just have every disabled person wait
               | for an able-bodied person to just help them with whatever
               | it's they need, right?
        
               | DropInIn wrote:
               | So blind people are required to give a stranger thier
               | unlocked phone?
               | 
               | Really, there's not a single thing that can be said to
               | make it less stupid.
        
               | eddythompson80 wrote:
               | Or they can touch and feel the QR sticker and scan it. QR
               | and bar codes are also increasingly more embossed or have
               | borders specifically for that reason. There are special
               | QR reader apps for the blind that help with that more. It
               | is generally the more recommended way by AFB for making
               | your products accessible for the blind
               | 
               | https://www.afb.org/blindness-and-low-vision/using-
               | technolog...
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | tsukikage wrote:
           | > presumably they'll have some paper menus
           | 
           | Increasingly commonly, that's a "nope". If I don't have an
           | internet-connected device capable of dealing with a QR code
           | about my person, eating out is no longer for me. Perhaps it's
           | time to go back to the old people's home, the nurse has been
           | searching for hours.
        
             | bee_rider wrote:
             | Or, I have no idea how these QR providers work, I wouldn't
             | be at all surprised if this was the sort of low-effort
             | service that restaurants don't want to pay for. So, maybe
             | ad/tracking funded.
             | 
             | It is annoying when a transaction that for ages has been
             | all-paper gets bumped into the panopticon.
        
               | toast0 wrote:
               | QR codes can encode many things, including a url. If your
               | restaurant already has a reasonable menu online, you can
               | just link to that. No need to pay anyone, other than if
               | you fancy print the qr code notices.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | If I owned a restaurant that's what I'd do, but the ones
               | around here typically end up linking the QR code to some
               | complicated website for some reason.
        
             | Freak_NL wrote:
             | > If I don't have an internet-connected device capable of
             | dealing with a QR code about my person, eating out is no
             | longer for me.
             | 
             | What kind of dystopian city do you live in? QR codes are on
             | the decline again1, fortunately.
             | 
             | 1: https://www.theguardian.com/food/2023/may/23/off-the-
             | menu-wh...
        
               | derefr wrote:
               | I can think of a large number of restaurants in Richmond
               | BC that are still this way. (And only Richmond;
               | neighbouring Vancouver/Burnaby/New West/Surrey are fine.)
        
               | bavell wrote:
               | I feel like my IQ has dropped 10 points after reading
               | that article
        
             | SoftTalker wrote:
             | If QR is the only option, I make the server tell me what's
             | on the menu.
             | 
             | I'm an old guy with bad eyes I'm not going to try to read
             | your menu on a 5" phone screen in a dim restaurant.
        
               | klausa wrote:
               | Genuinely asking: wouldn't a phone be _better_ for you?
               | 
               | Reading a _paper_ menu in a dim room is a miserable
               | experience, but you can zoom in as much as you want on a
               | phone, and you control the brightness of it, and don't
               | have to angle the piece of paper to catch as much light
               | as possible?
        
               | sharkjacobs wrote:
               | I too make the server tell me what's on the menu, because
               | I grew up in the 8th century BCE when literacy hadn't yet
               | overtaken the strong oral chanting tradition of
               | preserving and transmitting information, and I believe
               | that the written word is a debasement of human intellect.
        
               | afandian wrote:
               | If there's no written menu available what's the other
               | option?
        
       | JeremyNT wrote:
       | I hate this so much. I don't want a Facebook account but there
       | are several accounts on Instagram that post things I'd like to
       | view.
       | 
       | There's some kind of shady black market for Instagram scrapers
       | that bypass the hard wall the OP describes and publish the
       | content with their own ads injected. I can't vouch for anything
       | about these sites other than the fact that they do work. I highly
       | recommend using noscript or ublock at the very least before
       | checking them out.
       | 
       | https://imgsed.com/
       | 
       | https://dumpoir.com/
       | 
       | https://wizstat.com/
       | 
       | There are likely others, these are just the ones I'm personally
       | aware of.
        
       | PaulDavisThe1st wrote:
       | How I spell "fuck you" when it comes to instagram:
       | grep '0\.0\.0\.0.*instagram' /etc/hosts | wc -l            387
        
         | squirtlebonflow wrote:
         | [dead]
        
       | thih9 wrote:
       | This was the status quo for most users for years, tech users just
       | used to work around the front end security via dev tools /
       | content blockers.
       | 
       | So now they implemented it on the back end too.
       | 
       | After all, why should they allow you to view the content on their
       | servers?
        
       | mikewarot wrote:
       | The evolved response from internet "power users" such as us, is a
       | superpower
       | 
       | We're really good at holding a grudge
       | 
       | AND telling others why we have that grudge
       | 
       | Thus, we route around it, with some grumbling along the way.
        
       | shmerl wrote:
       | Instagram requiring to register is such trash.
        
       | krayz8 wrote:
       | https://www.interaction-design.org/literature/topics/forced-...
        
       | p0w3n3d wrote:
       | The same from my side. Login-walled portals are second to pay-
       | walled. And when you login, you pay, but with you and your data.
       | So we can put them in one bucket
        
       | asylteltine wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | dave333 wrote:
       | Is there a search engine that shows only results that are free
       | open access - no registration or paywalled sites?
        
       | uwagar wrote:
       | cloudflare is the biggest employer of the fuck you pattern.
       | making people captcha shit.
        
       | jonplackett wrote:
       | Twitter has basically the same policy
        
       | TheBigSalad wrote:
       | I could give two shits if Google wouldn't keep returning results
       | for websites you can't see without an account.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | parentheses wrote:
       | I don't agree with this at all. I do concede that some of these
       | patterns use manipulation and visual trickery to send you down a
       | particular (typically more profitable) path. That said, we all
       | enjoy these services for free. The companies that provide them
       | are for profit. I feel the intense hatred people have for these
       | companies is extremely biased.
       | 
       | As a person who avoids Meta products for the most part, I still
       | benefit from them greatly. I pay $0 and get a lot of
       | conveniences. I do agree that it's not a nice feeling that they
       | own the things I may post, but it's the deal that gets us what's
       | app, facebook and instagram with near unlimited access to really
       | nice social networking tools.
       | 
       | I similarly pay for YouTube premium because I don't want adds. I
       | enjoy hours of video content ad free - often watching it more
       | than I'd watch netflix or whatever other streaming service.
       | 
       | I agree that they're monetizing user content, but they're also
       | providing access to compelling and often high quality content for
       | free.
        
         | spuz wrote:
         | The "fuck you" isn't that they require you to login in order to
         | view a page. It's that they tease you with the promise that you
         | don't need an account, and when you try to take them up on that
         | promise they slam the door in your face and say "nice try but
         | you gotta create an account first".
        
       | badtension wrote:
       | This drives me crazy in substack. Gradual fadeout with the popup
       | sliding down as I scroll... This is a small thing but utterly
       | frustrating.
       | 
       | You're evil substack, I'm not going to give way to your shady
       | tactics and login. I'd rather not read anything as a protest.
        
       | squirtlebonflow wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | indus wrote:
       | Why not call it the 'Coward pattern'
       | 
       | Why?
       | 
       | I'm a coward to not allow not logged in user.
       | 
       | I'm a coward to not let Ollie have a day.
       | 
       | I'm a coward to not allow good UX judgement prevail.
        
       | moritzwarhier wrote:
       | Instagram was like that for me ever since I know it, couldn't
       | bother creating an account though. If it's important, there are
       | scraping sites to visit Instagram profiles by name without an
       | account.
       | 
       | Regarding the block/redirect: technically they could have used
       | the MutationObserver API to track your usage of the DevTools to
       | remove the modal. Have had the same experience a while ago if I'm
       | not misremembering. But I'd also assume they're just counting
       | requests without login per IP, much simpler.
        
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