[HN Gopher] Victims speak out over 'tsunami' of fraud on Instagr...
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       Victims speak out over 'tsunami' of fraud on Instagram, Facebook
       and WhatsApp
        
       Author : pseudolus
       Score  : 68 points
       Date   : 2023-06-16 16:35 UTC (6 hours ago)
        
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       | rocketnasa wrote:
       | On Facebook, any time I see someone post with the words 'my
       | account was hacked' they get a dozen automated replies from other
       | users offering services to fix their account. In most cases, the
       | person isn't even hacked, their account was cloned/impersonated.
       | With the kind of money Facebook has, they can't set a honeypot
       | account up and post 'my account was hacked' on it? This has been
       | going on for months.
        
         | jsbg wrote:
         | It's astonishing how few patterns there are for scams on fb/ig
         | that anyone with introductory statistics knowledge could build
         | a classifier for even with hand-collected data, but meta lets
         | them go on for years.
        
         | sincerely wrote:
         | Same with the bot accounts offering tickets for sale on the
         | event page for concerts. It seems like such low hanging fruit
         | to clean this sort of thing up that should be noticed by anyone
         | who works there and actually uses the site.
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | > With the kind of money Facebook has, they can't set a
         | honeypot account up and post 'my account was hacked' on it?
         | 
         | All of those posts still count as "engagement" and even
         | scammers generate ad impressions, so why would they not only
         | kill the golden goose, but actually spend money doing so?
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | _" According to research by high street bank TSB, 80% of purchase
       | fraud cases reported to the bank come from platforms owned by
       | Meta, which includes Instagram, as well as Facebook and
       | WhatsApp."_
       | 
       | If Meta was serious about their "real names" policy, this would
       | be less of a problem.
        
       | SkipperCat wrote:
       | I think a lot of this is because a large amount of our society
       | grew up without the Internet. To them, everything that looks
       | professional is professional. They are easy targets for scammers.
       | 
       | Millennials and Gen-Z were raised on the Internet and therefore
       | have an innate understanding of what is real and most
       | importantly, what can be faked. Its a lot harder to scam. them.
       | 
       | If I told my parents about a Nigerian oil executive who needs to
       | move $20 million out of a bank account, they would scratch their
       | head. If I told my 28 year old co-worker, he'd laugh and
       | understand the joke.
       | 
       | So, maybe in 20+ years, nobody will fall for these scams anymore.
        
         | sebzim4500 wrote:
         | Presumably all the gullible people will lose their money to AI
         | scams and then there won't be any AI scams.
        
         | WarOnPrivacy wrote:
         | > So, maybe in 20+ years, nobody will fall for these scams
         | anymore.
         | 
         | I do IT security; people send dodgy stuff to me for vetting.
         | But I'm naturally on my haunches for those.
         | 
         | I once got an gift card scam email sent from a friend's
         | account. Scam was newish and arrived while I navigating a
         | parking garage after a concert, car full of family. I initially
         | responded ("w/ family, back to you soon") and was a few miles
         | down the road before I had enough brain free to properly
         | consider it.
         | 
         | These guys spray and prey. Eventually they hit something.
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | A major danger is that there's money to be made pretending that
         | everything that looks professional is professional and there
         | are no risks nor bad actors. There's a generation or two that
         | got taught (either actual teaching or just experience) that the
         | internet is a dangerous place. When I was a child I was told
         | not to share any personal details on the internet for example
         | and that people could be lying/misrepresenting themselves.
         | 
         | Nowadays, social media and all Big Tech platforms rely on
         | people forgetting such advice and pretending like everything is
         | trusted and there are no bad actors anywhere, because they
         | themselves are a bad actor. They wouldn't want a wary user that
         | never provides personal details nor makes any payments, because
         | this also means they won't provide any personal details _to
         | Facebook_ nor spend any money on a Facebook-advertised product.
         | 
         | I'm especially worried about the newer generations, those that
         | never experienced the early days of the internet and started
         | off in "walled gardens" and phones/tablets. Those are prime
         | targets for scammers.
        
         | BrandonS113 wrote:
         | The demographic most likely to fall for scams is the 20 year
         | old. So. no.
        
         | er4hn wrote:
         | Scams, and scammers, evolve. There will always be members of
         | society that are lonely, desperate for money, or have some
         | other situation that causes them to ignore red flags in a
         | Nigerian 419 scam.
         | 
         | Technology also enables new scams as time goes on. You can now
         | use automation and AI-esque tools to research potential marks,
         | simulate the voice of a loved one in a plausible distressing
         | situation, and call to ask for money. That sort of thing was
         | much harder 20+ years ago and is today as plausible as setting
         | up a cold call list for selling home insurance was back in the
         | day.
        
       | iJohnDoe wrote:
       | I got "scammed" three times on social media.
       | 
       | 1. Purchased electric scooters by following an Instagram ad. It
       | was around Christmas time. The scooters were really cool looking.
       | Turned out, they used the promotional videos from another
       | company's real product. I did get the money back from the credit
       | card company.
       | 
       | 2. Purchased a pillow by following an Instagram ad. Never
       | received it. It turned out to be a fake store to just steal
       | people's money. Wasn't enough money to worry about it.
       | 
       | 3. Followed an ad from Twitter for a marshmallow company. Placed
       | an order as a gift for someone else. Turns out they never
       | actually send orders. They just take people's money. The online
       | store was amazingly designed. Awesome photos and functioned
       | really well. I think it was a legitimate business at one point,
       | but decided it was easier to just steal people's money. There
       | wasn't any reason to think the store was a scam. If I checked
       | online reviews first though, I would have found the warnings
       | posted everywhere not to order from them.
       | 
       | Came close to placing an order from a clothing store. Prices were
       | slightly too good to be true. This time I checked online reviews
       | and it turns out they never ship orders either.
       | 
       | All three times were years apart. Happened while mindlessly
       | scrolling and when your guard is down. I don't order stuff from
       | random sites either, but the products were just the right thing
       | to peak interest.
        
         | shmde wrote:
         | Not trying to victim blame you but I will,
         | Facebook/Insta/Twitter are not exactly reliable marketplace.
         | Never ever order stuff from social media websites. Thats why
         | they are called that.
        
       | zgluck wrote:
       | I think it's more like an omni-channel tsunami of fraud on all
       | possible channels that has been gaining speed for a long time and
       | appears to be increasing with an exponential growth rate.
       | 
       | The worst frauds still happen over phone and involve banking and
       | old people.
        
         | kitsunesoba wrote:
         | It certainly feels that way. Scams and fraud grow more common
         | and brazen by the day.
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | It's a combination of:
           | 
           | 1) the economic situation in some countries such as the UK
           | being so dire that the risk/reward calculation of crime now
           | starts to be worth it. If people see no way out in a
           | legitimate career, they will turn to crime because they have
           | nothing to lose.
           | 
           | 2) would-be criminals are finally noticing that law
           | enforcement has completely dropped the ball on
           | investigating/prosecuting these crimes, so it's literally
           | "free money" with no actual risk of being caught
        
           | briffle wrote:
           | Well yeah. Because fraud is the victims fault and they have
           | to fix it. At least in the view of our current laws.
           | 
           | If someone impersonates me, and uses my 'super secret'
           | information to get a new credit card in my name, (like
           | birthdate, DL number, or the number I have to put on any
           | credit application, employment, etc) its now MY
           | responsibility to correct my credit reports, contact people
           | sending me to collections, file police reports, etc.
           | 
           | My state (OR) just this week lost drivers license info on
           | every license in the state to to a hack on the MoveIT zero
           | day. They recommend you check your credit reports for
           | suspicious activity.
           | 
           | They just shoved responsibility for the mess of all our
           | drivers licenses onto 3.5M of us to fix...
        
             | zgluck wrote:
             | My country (Sweden) recently had a supreme court decision
             | basically saying it's the banks' responsibility to
             | safeguard the deposited money and making sure they're
             | giving it out to the proper person and that's that.
             | [Obviously there's a balance, but it dramatically shifted
             | towards the rights of the bank account owner.]
             | 
             | https://www.domstol.se/hogsta-
             | domstolen/avgoranden/2022/1155...
             | 
             | (This was by far the most satisfying court decision I've
             | read for years.)
        
           | wlesieutre wrote:
           | Only going to get worse with conversational AIs and voice
           | synthesis
        
       | Sparkyte wrote:
       | This is a huge problem with social media and it is only going to
       | get worse.
       | 
       | Another important thing to understand is the amount of fake
       | propaganda passing off a news. Not just propaganda but we
       | categorize some editorial style talkshows on YouTube as news.
       | News itself isn't supposed to be bias. It isn't supposed to be
       | entertaining. It is supposed to be just informative.
        
       | Nextgrid wrote:
       | I wonder, what are the police doing in this case? These scams
       | appear to target random people in the open so it seems like just
       | setting up honeypot accounts and waiting for scammers to engage
       | with then will yield plenty of information, including a money
       | trail that should lead to whoever is the beneficiary of the scam.
       | 
       | Same thing with phone scams - have carriers route all inactive
       | numbers to a police-run call center where scambaiters not only
       | waste the time of scammers (potentially killing the entire
       | business model of the scams) but also collect information such as
       | the target bank account where the scammed money ends up.
       | 
       | Oh yeah I know, why spend effort investigating actual crime when
       | you have an endless supply of victimless "crime" of people
       | consensually growing/trading/consuming a plant?
        
       | expertentipp wrote:
       | I remember my trauma after watching grim and depressing movie
       | "Requiem for a Dream" including the scene when mother of
       | protagonist joins some cult or MLM and becomes addicted to some
       | drugs. In the end I realized "it's just a movie, it's all good".
       | Now I see my parents uncritically consuming mostly on mobile
       | portals with "news", social media, obvious propaganda which
       | agitates and addicts them. What's worse they ask me whether I'm
       | with or against them on the topics. I'm terrified and
       | heartbroken.
        
         | SQueeeeeL wrote:
         | The fundamental cultural conditions of isolation and low
         | meaning really haven't moved much on the needle since the 90s
         | (look at the writing of David Foster Wallace to see what I'm
         | talking about)
         | 
         | The Internet has just exasperated an already present issue of
         | low empathy, reactionary politics, and get rich quick schemes
        
       | totallywrong wrote:
       | I've been thinking for a while now, as we've had social media for
       | many years already. What good has it brought to society? Scams,
       | addiction, FOMO, cancel culture, gossip, missinformation,
       | bullying, and the most self-centered generation in history, to
       | name a few. All of it instantly and on a global scale. It's truly
       | one the worst things that ever happened to society IMO.
        
         | olibhel wrote:
         | Social media has absolute changed the way people live their
         | lives in my country - India.
         | 
         | Personally, it has made me lose interest in my favorite outdoor
         | activity i.e. hiking because of too many people showing up. Ex:
         | I won't set foot on a trail on weekends[0].
         | 
         | [0] https://i.imgur.com/7V4cd4Z.png
        
           | data-ottawa wrote:
           | At least people are getting outside and doing things
           | together.
           | 
           | It's the same in Ontario Canada, which can be frustrating.
           | 
           | But I am curious what activities are now missing all those
           | people.
        
           | johnchristopher wrote:
           | Er.. is everywhere like that ?
        
           | pengaru wrote:
           | Mmm, overpopulation.
           | 
           | Will you be blaming social media for their overcrowded trains
           | too?
           | 
           | https://imgur.com/gallery/2Xo9x
        
             | disco_framework wrote:
             | The comment you're responding to refers to India as their
             | country.
             | 
             | I'm assuming they've witnessed the changes first hand in
             | that case.
        
               | pengaru wrote:
               | Social media (or any other means of advertising, past or
               | present) has affected these things everywhere.
               | 
               | Even I complain about my inability to be alone on a trail
               | in CA, or struggling to find campsites, occasionally
               | shaking my fist at social media for it.
               | 
               | But the linked images from India showing extreme
               | overcrowding has far more to do with the population size
               | than social media. When you have that many people, any
               | little force generating focused interest is getting
               | multiplied by a huge number.
        
               | twilightzone wrote:
               | There are plenty of trails in India, this one just got
               | advertised. You shouldn't conclude the world is
               | overpopulated by looking at footage from a football cup
               | match.
        
               | pengaru wrote:
               | > You shouldn't conclude the world is overpopulated by
               | looking at footage from a football cup match.
               | 
               | You shouldn't deny India is overpopulated when riding a
               | train there resembles a footclub cup match.
        
               | vaidhy wrote:
               | Is Japan over-populated? Tokyo's trains are extremely
               | crowded. Is US over-populated? LA traffic jams are crazy.
               | 
               | What is the definition of over-population? Over what area
               | are you measuring it? Those train images are likely from
               | just one city. There are other places where the trains
               | just run like any other place.
        
               | pengaru wrote:
               | India is such an outlier as a country... it's a unique
               | combination of both massive absolute population of 1.4B+
               | _and_ density of over 1000 /mi^2.
               | 
               | We can split hairs about other places, and obviously lots
               | of places have their population/crowding issues. The
               | planet has a lot of people.
               | 
               | But India is just not useful as a data point for blaming
               | social media for these phenomena because it's such an
               | outlier. Practically _anything_ informing the people of
               | India of something somewhere of interest is going to
               | generate a thundering herd of exceptional proportion. You
               | don 't need social media's help.
        
         | waboremo wrote:
         | None of those things are exclusive to social media, some of
         | them aren't even bad (gossip), and the rest have equal
         | positives (misinformation = abundant information, bullying =
         | uplifting each other).
         | 
         | I always question what intention does someone have painting
         | social media in such broad strokes. Especially when we consider
         | who actively gains from narrowing where information can be
         | accessed.
        
           | totallywrong wrote:
           | I see your point, the problem with social media is the
           | exposure and scale. Kids these days can't fool around like we
           | did, someone is always recording and you can go viral. I read
           | not long ago about kids with severe anxiety in school due to
           | the constant fear of the wrong photo or video going on social
           | media.
           | 
           | And the abundant information, is that really a good thing?
           | How much of it is good? Remember the Trump election, the
           | amount of outright lies thrown around and the level of
           | polarization, with even family members unable to speak to
           | each other.
           | 
           | I'm not saying there's nothing good at all between the mud,
           | but on the whole I think it's been a disaster.
        
             | disco_framework wrote:
             | I think there was a sweet spot right before major social
             | media adoption where lines were more clearly drawn. By that
             | I mean you could find information if you needed/wanted to
             | but you were constantly bombarded with it in tones that
             | spoke it with 100% confidence with the sole purpose of
             | getting you to click on something.
        
           | mejutoco wrote:
           | Information reduces uncertainty. A lot of talking or a lot of
           | misinformation does not increase information but noise.
        
         | flangola7 wrote:
         | It is on average beneficial for LGBT+ kids, especially if their
         | family or local culture are unsupportive or hostile.
        
           | dmoose wrote:
           | I would have agreed with you until recently. It appears that
           | much of the anti LGBT+ sentiment sweeping communities and
           | legislatures is being driven via social media. This can
           | easily swing the pendulum back to net negative.
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | I think the larger it grows the worse it gets.
         | 
         | Small group to talk to family or friends? Great!
         | 
         | The local community? Begin noticing dbags and crazies, people
         | nasty to each other
         | 
         | National or larger? Forget about it, and now it's ratfucked by
         | bad actors, shills, foreign intel, and other ilk.
         | 
         | Moderation also gets worse because these large entities try to
         | create blanket standards with such a wide variation of cultures
         | involved.
        
           | balder1991 wrote:
           | That's my perception too. Most social media started kinda
           | good because there were mostly enthusiasts at first, then
           | they descend into insanity. I feel for my mom, caught up in
           | Facebook because most people her age is also there. It's a
           | mix of political trolls and ignorant people arguing over
           | things they don't know with all kinds of fallacies together
           | in a sort of crowd crazy that I see nowhere else. I try to
           | make her leave sometimes, as it is bad for her mental health,
           | but she doesn't listen to me and I admit it would cut her out
           | from the only group she's part of, which is family spread
           | across the country.
        
         | skciva wrote:
         | Your username is hilarious in context of this post. Sure there
         | are a lot of horrible things that it's introduced. Replace
         | social media with any other technology..what good have
         | computers brought? What good has the automobile brought?
         | 
         | It is all perspective and humans will use tools for good and
         | bad. There is plenty of good in the world thanks to social
         | media.
        
           | totallywrong wrote:
           | I think any technology must be judged based on what it turns
           | out to be long term. Computers and vehicles, for all their
           | issues, have brought untold advancement and comfort to
           | society. Social media.. well you tell me.
        
           | marcosdumay wrote:
           | I don't think there is any other technology that compares
           | with social networks on the rate of bad to good consequences
           | and is still widely adopted. Maybe mass manufactured
           | military-spread drugs like they used in WWII. But it's quite
           | hard to quantify those.
           | 
           | But, of course it created a bunch of good thing. Nothing that
           | spreads that widely has only bad consequences. And yes, I
           | like the good consequences quite a lot too. It's too bad most
           | of the companies keeping those networks are adamant in
           | destroying all the good value and keeping only the bad.
        
         | stickfigure wrote:
         | What on earth? I keep up with my (physically) distant friends
         | through Facebook, people who I would have completely lost touch
         | with if it weren't for social media.
         | 
         | This reads like you trying to stand between me and my friends.
         | If you don't like social media that's fine for you, but the
         | rest of us quite like it and that's no business of yours. Butt
         | out.
        
           | totallywrong wrote:
           | [flagged]
        
         | stubybubs wrote:
         | > the most self-centered generation in history
         | 
         | Boomers?
         | 
         | Also I'm not sure cancel culture is a bad thing. It's just
         | negative branding for what is essentially the first time
         | marginalized groups could have their voices heard. People who
         | are used to writing op-eds and never hearing any criticism of
         | their ideas are finally getting some negative feedback and
         | they're super mad about it. You get absolutely unreal outrage
         | about _that_ , like this NYT opinion:
         | 
         | > For all the tolerance and enlightenment that modern society
         | claims, Americans are losing hold of a fundamental right as
         | citizens of a free country: the right to speak their minds and
         | voice their opinions in public _without fear of being shamed or
         | shunned_.
         | 
         | That is the first sentence in the piece. Unreal. There has
         | _never_ been a right to say what you want without being shamed
         | or shunned. Shaming and shunning is part of free speech.
         | Boycotts are part of free speech.
         | 
         | That's how backwards this whole "cancel culture" outrage is.
         | Better to call it accountability culture, or response culture,
         | or feedback culture.
        
           | stubybubs wrote:
           | Super sad somebody deleted their comment comparing
           | marginalized people tweeting at millionaires to the lynching
           | of Emmett Till. Really great stuff, it's why I'm on HN, for
           | those big brain takes.
        
           | jstarfish wrote:
           | No amount of euphemisms makes up for what cancel culture
           | really is-- cyberbullying at scale.
           | 
           | Scott Cawson, the creator of Five Nights at Freddy's, was
           | doxxed, harassed, and had death threats issued against
           | himself and his pregnant wife.
           | 
           | His crime against society? Being outed as a Republican
           | political donor. Not a crime, just exercising his right to
           | participate in democracy. His ability to do so was
           | subsequently attacked and stripped from him by brave keyboard
           | warriors.
           | 
           | Death threats are an actual crime. They are not free speech.
           | Nobody's been held accountable for _that_ though.
           | 
           | This is the problem with modern "equality" movements. They
           | don't want parity at all. They just want to tilt things
           | enough in their favor so _they_ can be the ones doing the
           | bullying.
        
             | mejutoco wrote:
             | I found the concepts that help a lot in discussing this in
             | its essence are equality of opportunity vs equality of
             | outcome.
        
             | stubybubs wrote:
             | > Death threats are an actual crime. They are not free
             | speech. Nobody's been held accountable for that though.
             | 
             | There are laws about this. If they're difficult to enforce
             | then somebody needs to make a decision about how much
             | anonymity to allow on the internet, and other such
             | difficult subjects. That's kind of the world we live in.
             | 
             | You realize that marginalized people get doxxed and have
             | death threats made against them every single day, often
             | multiple times per day, and nobody seems to hear about it?
             | Because again, they're not famous or notable in any way,
             | they have nobody to call up to write that op-ed or have
             | their signal boosted. It doesn't make the threats to their
             | lives less serious. They can't afford the "private
             | security" that people often say they're getting in order to
             | make their death threats seem more serious.
             | 
             | Are you interested in stopping such death threats in
             | general on the internet? It's doable, but you'd have to
             | make some sacrifices.
             | 
             | Almost like how you have to sacrifice being free from
             | criticism if you really want free speech.
        
               | jstarfish wrote:
               | > You realize that marginalized people get doxxed and
               | have death threats made against them every single day,
               | often multiple times per day, and nobody seems to hear
               | about it? Because again, they're not famous or notable in
               | any way, they have nobody to call up to write that op-ed
               | or have their signal boosted. It doesn't make the threats
               | to their lives less serious.
               | 
               | What exactly is your point here? I know what you're
               | getting at but dare not invoke their name. Sure,
               | "marginalized people" getting threatened is a problem.
               | They're not exactly without a platform-- they're
               | perfectly capable of coordinating on Twitter and
               | elsewhere to attack and deplatform anybody that dares
               | oppose them. One of the more contentious ones literally
               | uses the exact term "signal boosting" to issue calls to
               | arms. So they're not exactly powerless either. America's
               | "marginalized people" are apparently more effective than
               | the Ku Klux Klan, since they get to intimidate opposition
               | while masquerading as _victims_ who cannot be challenged,
               | lest they stalk and attack everyone associated with you
               | and cost you your livelihood. We won 't kill you, we'll
               | just isolate you from your entire support network to
               | ensure you and your family starve to death. Such
               | magnanimous treatment from the uwu innocent widdle victim
               | peopurrs! Better think twice before you speak out!
               | 
               | This isn't equality, nor is it a matter of free speech or
               | criticism-- advancing a political cause through
               | intimidation, violence and fear is literally the
               | _textbook definition of Terrorism._ I expect nothing less
               | though; every red flag of fraud has been repurposed by a
               | certain demographic as central to their  "identity," so
               | why not normalize terrorism as a means of discourse while
               | we're at it? Biden insists it's inbred gun hoarders we
               | need to be worried about-- because we meet _so many_ of
               | those on a daily basis. Meanwhile, I have to play
               | wordsmith with every fucking character I post online or
               | my wife and children face death /rape threats and I get
               | bricks thrown through my windows. You know, all the fun
               | stuff the KKK used to do to blacks in the 60s. Remember:
               | the people throwing the bricks are the _real_ victims,
               | and don 't you dare suggest otherwise or you're next.
               | That's just _criticism_ coming through the window, and
               | nobody deserves protection from that.
               | 
               | Your idea of marginalized people is a lie-- misdirection
               | at best. Anytime white men ( _always_ white men) start
               | wearing dresses and seeking political power, they form a
               | child-sex cult, a hate group, or both. I once bought into
               | their bullshit, but there 's no fooling me twice.
        
               | stubybubs wrote:
               | What?
               | 
               | It's anybody who criticizes anybody. Women journalists in
               | particular, BLM activists, climate change scientists. You
               | realize there's been a wave of scientists who have left
               | Twitter recently?
               | 
               | https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2023/may/14/clima
               | te-...
               | 
               | I guess you're invoking something about trans people? I
               | mean them too but honestly it's everybody.
        
             | WarOnPrivacy wrote:
             | > Death threats are an actual crime. Nobody's been held
             | accountable for that though.
             | 
             | That seems like an odd claim to make. https://duckduckgo.co
             | m/?q=arrested+for+making+death+threats&...
        
           | lordfrito wrote:
           | > what is essentially the first time marginalized groups
           | could have their voices heard
           | 
           | > There has never been a right to say what you want without
           | being shamed or shunned
           | 
           | So... when the marginalized groups start getting cancelled,
           | do I get to say "well they don't have a right not to be
           | shunned"?
           | 
           | Live by the sword, die by the sword.
           | 
           | We're living in a new McCarthyism.
        
             | stubybubs wrote:
             | > So... when the marginalized groups start getting
             | cancelled,
             | 
             | After all the things that have happened to marginalized
             | groups throughout history, mean tweets are worse?
             | 
             | We're all living by the sword and dying by the sword called
             | free speech. Conservatives are boycotting Bud Light. That's
             | their right.
             | 
             | The backwardness of all of this is that people keep going
             | on cable news and writing op-eds about various subjects and
             | when they get criticized, they call up their friends at the
             | NYT and get their opinion blasted to millions of
             | subscribers complaining about a nobody in the middle of
             | Ohio who called them a jerk on Twitter and got 10k likes.
             | 
             | Is nobody else seeing how this is lopsided?
        
           | disco_framework wrote:
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             | stubybubs wrote:
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               | disco_framework wrote:
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               | simmerup wrote:
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               | stubybubs wrote:
               | They pulled out Emmett Till being beaten to death and I'm
               | being hyperbolic?
        
               | disco_framework wrote:
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         | AniseAbyss wrote:
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         | spicymapotofu wrote:
         | Many people who never could afford to call international family
         | now speak and see each other daily. I also disagree that
         | technology has made anyone more self-centered, but disagreeing
         | with Socratic proclamations is as old as society itself.
        
           | WarOnPrivacy wrote:
           | > Many people who never could afford to call international
           | family now speak and see each other daily.
           | 
           | I get why electronic communication is a boon but I am
           | sometimes confused by folks who prefer a public communication
           | medium for their private comms.
        
           | Retric wrote:
           | That started with IM/Skype style VOIP calling and has nothing
           | to do with social media.
           | 
           | From a utility standpoint, social media seems to have largely
           | filled the same role email used to among distant family.
        
           | jjulius wrote:
           | >I also disagree that technology has made _anyone_ more self-
           | centered...
           | 
           | Emphasis mine, as a reminder to be careful with absolutes.
           | It's a bit of a stretch to suggest that _nobody_ has become
           | more self-centered due to social media.
        
           | rcme wrote:
           | I saw a very interesting video of Michael Jackson filming
           | himself in a mirror with one of the first handheld cameras.
           | What was interesting about the video is that he's filming
           | himself in the mirror and the first thing he says is "I'm not
           | a narcissist." At the time, it was considered very
           | narcissistic to film yourself, even for one of the world's
           | biggest pop stars. When photos had limited distribution,
           | their purpose was to remember what you had done in the past.
           | Now, the purpose of photos is more to show off to others, so
           | it's become the norm to include yourself in photos. I think
           | it's fair to call this phenomenon self-centered in nature.
        
           | totallywrong wrote:
           | > I also disagree that technology has made anyone more self-
           | centered
           | 
           | Really? Well I might be biased but all I see these days is
           | people trying very, very hard to curate the perfect internet
           | image of themselves.
        
       | asylteltine wrote:
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       | paulpauper wrote:
       | Seems simple enough: if someone asks for money on
       | Facebook/Instagram, just say no. Don't buy anything advertised
       | there either.
        
         | toss1 wrote:
         | >>Don't buy anything advertised there either.
         | 
         | YUP
         | 
         | Farcebook trying to convince everyone that Craigslist is unsafe
         | (as if FB was safe) was one of the biggest scams ever.
         | 
         | Yes, it undermined CL stealing a bunch of the adverts, but it
         | sure as hell made nobody more safe.
        
         | jstarfish wrote:
         | These days, if anyone is asking for money for _any_ reason, it
         | 's usually a scam-- sadly, even if it's a family member.
         | (Fleecing family is always a good way to begin a career in
         | fraud, since they trust by default and are always reluctant to
         | press charges. Ask Bernie Madoff!)
         | 
         | The kids in particular have figured out how to couch grifts in
         | medical care and college tuition-- two outlets donors have no
         | visibility into and cannot expect any sort of accountability
         | for. Raising money and pretending to execute is how the scam
         | generally goes since you _can 't_ verify anything.
         | 
         | Good faith is dead. Trust without transparency and you _will_
         | be exploited.
        
         | kube-system wrote:
         | For the people who get fooled, it's not that simple. The
         | landscape of apps and the way people use them change quick
         | enough that there is always a significant non-zero number of
         | people who aren't aware of which situations are safe and which
         | aren't. Scammers will always show up in the places where people
         | can be fooled, even if you suggest that someone completely
         | disconnect from the internet.
        
           | owlninja wrote:
           | Yea I hear of scams nowadays where people get a phone call
           | and it's someone posing as a cop or ambulance worker and they
           | know the name of one of your family members and try to scare
           | you into thinking that something happened to them. I forget
           | all the details but it's been happening, now just imagine you
           | get a phone call from an AI carbon copy of your grandkids
           | voice or something.
        
       | veave wrote:
       | >According to research by high street bank TSB, 80% of purchase
       | fraud cases reported to the bank come from platforms owned by
       | Meta, which includes Instagram, as well as Facebook and WhatsApp.
       | 
       | Well obviously since those are the most used platforms.
       | Interesting that a bank, which should be full of clever people,
       | doesn't know to take MAUs into consideration when seeing which
       | platforms produce more fraud.
        
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