[HN Gopher] Buy well, buy once
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       Buy well, buy once
        
       Author : revorad
       Score  : 298 points
       Date   : 2023-06-09 12:00 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | dhosek wrote:
       | I'm in the midst of a life transition and I've found that it's a
       | good opportunity to do some culling. I'm fine with some
       | extravagances (I have probably about 1500 books, of which I've
       | cataloged 1,166 on LibraryThing (my transition has paused
       | cataloging activity as my library is mostly living in boxes now
       | and part of the cataloging is shelving everything by Library of
       | Congress call number). On the flip side, I have a very well-
       | defined wardrobe now, with 9 long sleeve shirt, 9 short sleeve
       | shirts, 4 pairs of trousers, 10 pairs of socks and 10 pairs of
       | underwear (I make a point of doing laundry once a week, the more
       | than 7 of everything allows me to occasionally let laundry day
       | slip a little). I have a complete list of all the furniture in
       | the house, which is going to end up being reduced somewhat. I
       | don't know that I'll be down to 200 items (excluding books), but
       | I think that once I've finished my transition, I will be
       | definitely much more deliberate about what I allow into my home.
        
         | ocdtrekkie wrote:
         | A ways ago I started sliding towards DRM free digital books.
         | They take up much less hoarding space.
        
           | cookie_monsta wrote:
           | I like the way a bookshelf looks on a wall. I like that
           | friends can browse and discuss and borrow. I like looking at
           | book titles and thinking about when I bought them or how I
           | felt when I read them.
           | 
           | An e-reader is amazing for travel, but doesn't give you any
           | of the above.
        
             | dhosek wrote:
             | Pretty much that. My bookshelves are not merely a
             | collection of books, but they're also an expression of
             | myself. Many of the books I have, I can tell you where,
             | when and why I bought them. Even books that I've let go for
             | the sake of space still carry that memory with them. Not to
             | mention that many of the books I own are not available as
             | ebooks and likely never will be (a lot of my collection
             | veers towards the esoteric and specialized).
        
             | ocdtrekkie wrote:
             | Sure, but you should be intentional about the books you
             | want a paper copy of. "I will read this again regularly",
             | "I want to page through this for reference often", "I want
             | to display my love for this book" are all good reasons to
             | own a physical copy. But if you have 1,500 books, how many
             | fall into that category? Maybe a hundred?
        
       | 0xr0kk3r wrote:
       | Wow. Cohelo quotes on a page about hand made wallets and how to
       | be a savvy capitalist. So many generations' movements colliding
       | here I can't even.
        
       | xyzzy123 wrote:
       | Maxi checking in. I have racks of labelled drawers full of
       | bearings, screws, glues, specialty tapes, oodles of hand tools,
       | power tools, ad infinitum. I'm honestly not super competent or
       | anything (I barely know what I'm doing, in any domain) but I do
       | learn new things all the time and it brings me joy.
       | 
       | I miss the clarity of minimalism, but I can also have a different
       | view on wallets - they're just leather and some stitching and
       | such, and I can change them to be what I need.
       | 
       | Of course it's a very particular type of programmer disease to
       | fixate on having equipment that can compile any possible wallet
       | to solve the problem of having a wallet.
       | 
       | I get a kick out of dumb stuff like fixing the dishwasher latch
       | by bending a new spring rather than getting the $70 replacement
       | part (... probably spending $100 of my labour, good thing my free
       | time is worthless!).
       | 
       | I spend a lot on storage systems and need a lot of discipline
       | around stuff like deciding a place for things before acquiring
       | them. It's a tradeoff I'm OK with.
        
         | dieselgate wrote:
         | I was using a broccoli rubber band as a wallet for years but
         | they have a tendency to break after a while. Have settled on a
         | metal binder clip and it's worked much better - less friction
         | in/out of pocket too
        
           | gnicholas wrote:
           | I use a broccoli rubber band as a minimalist iPhone 'case'.
           | [1] It makes the back and bottom of the phone grippy, so it's
           | easier to hold. It does slightly block the corners of the
           | screen, but not much. It doesn't provide much protection in
           | case of a drop, obviously. But the added grippiness makes
           | drops much less likely!
           | 
           | I have occasionally bought broccoli that I didn't need just
           | so I could get another rubber band, after my previous one
           | broke. They typically last 2 months or so.
           | 
           | 1: https://imgur.com/a/E2yO6XX
        
             | cinntaile wrote:
             | I don't think I have seen rubber bands that thick in ages.
             | It surprises me they don't use the tiny ones?
        
               | gnicholas wrote:
               | Even asparagus will often come in thick rubber bands.
               | Leeks too.
        
             | johnchristopher wrote:
             | > It doesn't provide much protection in case of a drop,
             | obviously. But the added grippiness makes drops much less
             | likely!
             | 
             | I found popsockets and ring holders a better option in that
             | regard https://image.gsmpunt.nl/blog/image/image_3.png
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | > _popsockets_
               | 
               | Oh so _this_ is what those weird phone attachments are
               | called. Thanks!
        
               | gnicholas wrote:
               | How do those interact with the MagSafe charging are on
               | the back of the iPhone?
        
               | johnchristopher wrote:
               | No idea, I haven't had an iPhone in ages. They have
               | magsafe versions though https://www.popsockets.com/en-
               | us/more/magsafe so I suppose it's compatible ?
        
           | xyzzy123 wrote:
           | This is my favourite kind of minimalism.
        
         | gooseyman wrote:
         | I relate to this so much.
         | 
         | I love bring the extra screw up from the basement I saved 4
         | years ago knowing this moment would one day come where I need
         | it. Now is it on the bottom of the red or the blue folgers
         | coffee can.
         | 
         | That said - tools and home improvement objects are allowed in
         | the maximum as long as they fit in the basement workshop,
         | that's my only rule.
        
           | fiznool wrote:
           | My box of wires in the attic is often the butt of my wife's
           | jokes, but every once in a while I find that satellite coax
           | connector I've been saving, or the scart cable that is the
           | only thing standing between old vhs tapes and nostalgia.
        
         | 0xr0kk3r wrote:
         | "rather than getting the $70 replacement part"
         | 
         | Appliance repair usually starts at a $100 house-call fee and
         | goes up from there. It is cheaper to buy a new dishwasher than
         | get it repaired.
        
           | irrational wrote:
           | Unless you repair it yourself. I've done things like
           | replacing the bearings and a cracked spider arm in our
           | clothes washer. Not only was it cheap to do so, I also
           | learned a lot about how a washer is put together by
           | dismantling one down almost all the way. Same with replacing
           | the heating element in the dryer.
        
             | jemmyw wrote:
             | Living in a country that is a smaller market really sucks
             | on this front because I either cannot get the parts, or
             | they cost more to ship here than the cost of the part
             | itself. Last time I got something for my coffee machine
             | that the manufacturer refused to sell it cost $80 to ship
             | it here from a parts warehouse.
        
           | Blackthorn wrote:
           | The person is talking about buying the part and installing it
           | themselves, not paying someone to come repair it for them.
        
           | Thorrez wrote:
           | When I moved into my apartment, the racks in the dishwasher
           | were badly rusted. I told the management.
           | 
           | They replaced the entire dishwasher. They said they couldn't
           | get a replacement rack.
        
             | justusthane wrote:
             | We bought a house recently and the racks in the (old)
             | dishwasher are rusted. I thought it would be cheap to
             | replace them. $400 for new top and bottom racks. $425 for a
             | new dishwasher. I am gobsmacked.
        
             | throw0101b wrote:
             | > _They replaced the entire dishwasher. They said they
             | couldn 't get a replacement rack._
             | 
             | What are the margins on replacement racks?
             | 
             | Someone would have to pay for warehousing, stock tracking,
             | employees for packing/shipping, then add shipping costs.
             | Why would anyone offer them?
        
               | briHass wrote:
               | This problem is multiplied by the fact that most consumer
               | goods have subtle differences in design between brands
               | and even model lines within the brand. If there were only
               | 2 or 3 different, standardized dishwasher racks for all
               | models, stocking those few would be cost effective.
               | 
               | As someone that owns a number of small-engine powered
               | devices, I'm always amazed at how easy/cheap it is to
               | find parts. Most small engines are either one of a couple
               | Briggs and Stratton models, or a knockoff of same. Even
               | across models, B&S usually did a pretty good job of
               | reusing common parts. When you need a part, you can cross
               | reference various part numbers to find either the OEM
               | part or dozens of cheap Chinese copies.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | Small engine devices also often utilize belts so you can
               | replace the whole engine with various different ones and
               | only have to line up and size the proper belt.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | You often can get the part, but it's expensive and with
             | shipping and hassle you might as well but a new dishwasher.
             | 
             | Especially as a landlord, spend $200-400 to replace the
             | racks or buy a new for $500 and pretty much guarantee no
             | calls on that item for five years.
        
       | pers0n wrote:
       | I've noticed some minimalists go to the extremes of limiting
       | items based on numbers. In a way it's a bit of a luxury.
       | 
       | Many people keep items or leftover stuff (one time use tools or
       | extra glue, etc) because it saves money and time from having to
       | drive to the store or order it online again incase they need it
       | again. Those just incase items build up but they can end up being
       | handy.
       | 
       | As someone that's moved every year for like 6 yrs in a row, I
       | sell about 95% stuff I don't use but I still have a lot of things
       | just in case that take up little space in junk drawer, etc. I
       | think focusing on what you like and enjoy is better. Putting a
       | hard round number on items is too much of a mental waste of time
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | The few hard core minimalists I've met are single, get paid
         | well enough to buy whatever they wish... and their parents are
         | all holding their old stuff at home.
         | 
         | All extra luxuries that enable them to live minimalist type
         | lifestyles, but it's not quite the whole story.
        
           | nonethewiser wrote:
           | I think its a bit different. When you can buy whatever you
           | want, you realize stuff doesn't really improve your life.
        
             | ip26 wrote:
             | However, not having to drive to Home Depot every single
             | time you need a screwdriver does. As does having more than
             | one bowl.
        
               | mildchalupa wrote:
               | That's the spirit. Everything is a single use item if you
               | are rich enough.
        
             | duxup wrote:
             | You also can discard things easier... knowing they can be
             | had at will later.
        
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       | jasonkester wrote:
       | I'm a bit of a recovering minimalist, though it was never really
       | a choice to become one.
       | 
       | I spent the better part of 15 years living out of a small
       | backpack, travelling ~9 months a year then flying home to work
       | short software contracts and save up for the next trip. As a
       | consequence, I got used to not having very many things. One pair
       | of pants, one pair of shorts, that sort of thing. I think my
       | policy was something like "If I haven't used this thing in the
       | last 3 days, I don't really need it along".
       | 
       | At one point, I revisited my storage locker, filled to the roof
       | with everything I had owned in my 20s, and couldn't really find
       | anything that I wanted to take out of it. "This isn't the shirt I
       | wear", and "I already have enough socks" (meaning four socks: 2
       | on my feet and another pair for when I wash these.) I ended up
       | just letting the storage company auction it all off.
       | 
       | It was really weird buying a house and starting to fill it with
       | things. I bought a couch and a TV. I got my old guitar back from
       | the friend I'd lent it to 20 years earlier, then eventually
       | bought a second one and a bass to go with it. It's actually kinda
       | nice to have a few possessions.
       | 
       | The attitude is still there though. At one point I had to buy
       | five iPhones in a single day as test machines for a job, and it
       | was all I could do to physically force myself to click the buy
       | button. It was like fighting every natural impulse in my body to
       | overcome my aversion to consumerism.
       | 
       | I guess it has left me in a healthy spot in regard to "stuff
       | ownership."
        
         | icoder wrote:
         | I find the thought of minimalism interesting, and we don't buy
         | endless crap and try to get rid of things every now and then,
         | but then again, if it's Christmas we've got a few boxes with
         | decorations, if I go camping we've got our
         | tent/mats/fridge/etc, when I go snowboarding I have clothes and
         | my own board. Also I have hobbies that require stuff. And so
         | on. I don't want to give up on these activities and I don't
         | want to make them into a nightmare collecting/arranging
         | everything each time.
         | 
         | And on top of that, now we have a kid ;)
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | This is the Sam Vimes Boots Theory[0].
       | 
       | I think it's a good idea, but not always feasible.
       | 
       | Also, the absolute top-of-the-line may not be reasonable, when a
       | "near-the-top" product would be just as useful.
       | 
       | I own a lot of stuff that doesn't really catch anyone's
       | attention, but cost a fair bit. Examples are Junghans and Oceanus
       | watches (I prefer the Oceanus, which cost half as much as the
       | Junghans, but I now wear neither, as I have an Apple Watch, which
       | costs less than either of them).
       | 
       | [0]
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boots_theory#:~:text=The%20Sam....
        
       | t0bia_s wrote:
       | This is the way.
       | 
       | I love repairing stuffs and feel little bit nervous if using
       | something that I know is not repairable or dont understand, how
       | it works.
       | 
       | Of course quality over quantity is more sustainable. Corporations
       | needs to understand this. Trying to be more green or diverse wont
       | help with overproduction of cheap, non quality stuffs. If market
       | offers new stuff cheaper that fixing existing one, something is
       | realy wrong. And I guess we can feel it right now.
        
       | asimpletune wrote:
       | Part of this too is the cultural infrastructure available to you.
       | I have moved from the USA to Europe, and one thing I found
       | surprising that's normal here was access to artisans at
       | reasonable prices, sometimes even lower than the mass-consumer
       | price in the USA.
       | 
       | As an example, I needed to take some basketball shoes down a
       | size. If you look up insoles on Amazon, they're about $20 (which
       | is insane). On the other hand where I live there was a cobbler
       | that did the work for less.
        
       | seydor wrote:
       | Nice, now please do the same thing about your phone.
       | 
       | Oh you can't? Right because tech is actively trying to make you
       | ditch your old phone. My last phone was great but can't fix the
       | screen and the new model is worse, because they now want you to
       | buy their earphones, and their watch, and soon their goggles.
        
         | weregiraffe wrote:
         | I used my last smartphone for 6 years, was completely satisfied
         | and would have been using it still if I hadn't finally dropped
         | it fatally into a stream.
        
       | EVa5I7bHFq9mnYK wrote:
       | Unfortunately, plastic cards are out these days, replaced by NFC,
       | except in some technologically backward countries like US of
       | America. These wallets also can't carry cash and are too thick
       | and heavy. I use tyvec wallets for cash, they last ~two years but
       | are really thin and weightless.
        
       | charlie0 wrote:
       | I like the concept, but this reeks of native advertising.
        
         | Ryoung27 wrote:
         | Agreed, it just comes off as really odd. They don't want random
         | stuff, but now they all of a sudden have two random wallets
         | that they are grateful to have. While they "luckily" have a
         | blog where they can thank the random stranger they sent their
         | old leather to, who happened to take their time to handcraft
         | them new objects out of it. It just seems too coincidental, and
         | I don't believe that would ever happen to someone without
         | advertising potential.
        
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       | Tade0 wrote:
       | I'm afraid I'm not the target audience, so I can't say anything
       | about this piece.
       | 
       | But I've seen actual minimalists and they're nothing like an
       | urbanite living in an all-white studio apartment.
       | 
       | They're tightly-knit circles of friends livig in small towns who
       | go way back and therefore can trust each other with their
       | property and, of course, save money in the process because none
       | of them does it just for minimalism's sake.
       | 
       | Bottom line is if you want both minimalism and individualism,
       | you're gonna spend a lot of money on services rendered by
       | strangers.
        
       | mberning wrote:
       | In a way I admire committed minimalists. But I often wonder what
       | their long term lifestyle is like. Surely many of them are single
       | (or they only count the items which are solely theirs). They
       | surely rent at a higher rate than own property. They surely own
       | vehicles at a lower rate. And so on. I just get this picture of a
       | person in an urban area, living alone in a studio apartment,
       | dependent upon everyone else for basically everything.
        
         | dublinben wrote:
         | I'm fond of the conspiracy theory that the rise of minimalism
         | is actually propaganda to placate Millennials who can't afford
         | the same level of material comfort as their parents and other
         | earlier generations enjoyed.
        
           | Thorrez wrote:
           | My grandma grew up in the US without even indoor plumbing.
           | She had to use an outhouse. She's still alive today.
        
           | mo_42 wrote:
           | Millennial here and half-baked minimalist here.
           | 
           | At least it's not true for me. For all my life I've been
           | drowned in objects. My parents are still telling that I had
           | so many toys.
           | 
           | Minimalism is a way for becoming aware of the objects around
           | me. Not so much about the pure number of objects.
           | 
           | Since, I started thinking about what should be part of my
           | life and also letting go of things I don't really need, my
           | savings rate has skyrocketed. Also, many things I own have
           | much higher quality than my parents or grandparents.
           | 
           | I guess minimalism is a counter-movement to super-cheap
           | consumerism.
        
             | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
             | Precisely. We are constantly bombarded by messages to buy
             | buy buy. Fill that hole in your life with plastic crap that
             | will _surely_ be the thing you were missing that finally
             | makes you happy. And when that doesn 't work, well, just
             | buy some more!
             | 
             | The trick they pulled is telling us all that inconvenience
             | is bad and needs to be eliminated, but what I've come to
             | see is that life happens in inconveniences, and consumerism
             | tells us we should trade our life for their junk.
        
           | digdugdirk wrote:
           | Or a conscious choice to live an alternative lifestyle to
           | their parents. Seeing an unattainable future and choosing a
           | separate path.
        
           | tnel77 wrote:
           | Same with having children. "I don't even want kids. They are
           | needy, expensive, and tie you down."
           | 
           | All true, but having kids was never a choice for you given
           | your financial situation so let's not pretend you had a say
           | in the matter.
        
             | Gigachad wrote:
             | It's always a choice. People in 3rd world countries are
             | having 5 kids in a mud hut without doctors.
             | 
             | It might not be a choice to have kids, and a new car while
             | also going to the cafe every day. But having kids is always
             | an option.
        
             | xyzelement wrote:
             | I agree with you but I don't think it's a financial thing
             | but a psychological/maturity thing.
             | 
             | People have kids at all income levels. For every one who
             | claims they can't afford kids - someone is raising a family
             | on that same income.
        
               | est31 wrote:
               | Yes but one of the most common desires is that you want
               | your children to have a better childhood and life than
               | yourself. Some people don't care or don't explicitly make
               | the choice to get children, they just get them. But some
               | people won't get children if they can't provide an
               | environment that is at least as good as the one their
               | parents provided to them.
        
               | OccamsMirror wrote:
               | People need to learn that material possessions are way
               | less important than emotional environment. For most of
               | us, being better parents is about how we parent. Not what
               | we can afford.
        
               | dalyons wrote:
               | Childcare, education, housing (often tied together) and
               | health care. Those are the big 4 expenses that are
               | killing fertility rates, and only one is somewhat
               | material.
        
           | Thorrez wrote:
           | OTOH, if you're poor, it might be best to save every item in
           | case it becomes useful later, whereas a rich minimalist can
           | afford to give away or sell for cheap everything not needed
           | right now, knowing that replacements can be bought when
           | necessary.
        
           | nebula8804 wrote:
           | What if its just Millennials discovering it own their own as
           | a result of their reduced standard of living? The powers that
           | be would want maximum consumption and minimalism goes against
           | that no?
           | 
           | Same probably goes for "vanlife". It is millennials just
           | realizing they cant afford a home ever and so they improvise
           | with what they can resource.
        
             | mantas wrote:
             | Consumption is not just buying things. And even in buying
             | things, many so-called minimalists still buy a lot, maybe
             | less in tonnage, but GDP-wise they still spend a lot of
             | money.
             | 
             | Of course, there are zen style minimalists. But many seem
             | to be in it for aesthetic.
        
             | Am4TIfIsER0ppos wrote:
             | Where have you been? TPTB are desperately trying to make
             | you poorer by banning cars, banning air travel, banning
             | meat, and inflating the fuck out of our money.
        
           | roncesvalles wrote:
           | To me, minimalism seems like a natural reaction to the
           | transient lifestyles that people live now. A generation or
           | two ago, many would grow up and settle down in the same town
           | or county with 4 years of college being the most time that
           | one spent outside their hometown. If you have a permanent
           | home, it's easier to invest in filling it with stuff.
           | 
           | Today I hesitate to buy anything that I can't pack in a
           | suitcase or wouldn't feel comfortable throwing away or
           | donating to Goodwill in ~2 years.
        
             | pers0n wrote:
             | Most of the gung-ho minimalists are upper middle class or
             | rich, they may have only a sofa and coffee table and a lamp
             | in their $6000 a month apartment but those 3 items cost
             | over $10,000.
        
             | dublinben wrote:
             | Americans are actually less mobile than they used to be.
             | Young people even more so.
             | 
             | https://www.trulia.com/research/why-millennials-move/
        
           | carlosjobim wrote:
           | The massive carbon emissions campaigning seems to be this.
           | Since generations of young and hard working people are being
           | so heavily exploited that they can't afford things, blast out
           | the message that they are saving the world from being doomed
           | by not having a vehicle, not traveling, not having land, not
           | eating quality food, and most importantly: not having
           | children so that they aren't interrupted in their duties of
           | paying taxes and profits.
           | 
           | It is completely free to convince people they are saving the
           | planet by living less than others.
        
           | LunaSea wrote:
           | You can add tiny houses and van life to the list.
        
         | emodendroket wrote:
         | To be honest it's not like the guy in a suburban home is self-
         | reliant either; it's just easier to kid yourself. But I do
         | agree that a picture-perfect minimalist lifestyle will face
         | some challenge if you live with others, especially kids.
        
         | kandel wrote:
         | Yeah it's great. You can pack up and leave whenever. Why get
         | tied down?
        
         | sliken wrote:
         | Dunno, seems like we might be past peak materialism. Do people
         | really need 2000 ft^2 with a 2 car garage just packed with
         | crap. So much so that they often buy things because they can't
         | find what they own. Even renting storage units on top of a full
         | size house is surprisingly common.
         | 
         | China closets, album collections, file cabinents, many book
         | cases packed, shelves of games/cartriges/cdroms, many different
         | kinds of sports equipment not used for a decade, dead
         | appliances, 3 toolboxes filled with crappy tools, drawers
         | filled with disposable pens, large closets packed with clothes
         | not worn in a decade etc. Every trash day with overflowing
         | garbage cans from all the disposable stuff.
         | 
         | Buying decent shoes, tools, a decent pen, a decent razor, and
         | decent wallet can last decades. Even more disposable things
         | like cars, computers, stereos/electronics can last a decade or
         | more, but often have a somewhat higher cost up front/but
         | cheaper to own per year. In general if it's made in plastic my
         | first conclusion is that it's not worth it. Don't eat out of
         | plastic, drink out of it, don't use a plastic keychain, even
         | cans these days are plastic lined. Don't even touch it if you
         | can avoid it.
         | 
         | Yes this kind of attitude is possible even with wife, kids, and
         | a dog. If it's not been used in the last year considering
         | upcycling, donating, giving it away, or pitching it.
        
           | kwhitefoot wrote:
           | 200 sq ft sounds great, just don't fill it with crap.
        
         | 0zemp3c wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
         | hrdwdmrbl wrote:
         | Yeah that is kind of me. I like it though
        
         | hotpotamus wrote:
         | Steve Jobs was known for living in such a way that I don't
         | think was entirely a put on. He did own vehicles but refused to
         | put license plates on them apparently for aesthetic reasons.
         | Ironically, it seems like having a lot of wealth helps with the
         | minimalist thing.
        
           | sliken wrote:
           | Heh, don't think that fits. I heard he figured out the
           | related california law that you had 1-3 months before you'd
           | get a legal penalty for not putting a new plate on the car.
           | So he worked it out with the car dealer to swap cars every
           | 1-3 months, so he could park whenever he wanted and never get
           | a ticket.
        
       | TrevorFSmith wrote:
       | My tiny workshop contains a greater number of hand tools than the
       | number of items this guy owns. I suspect that the person who made
       | the fancy shoes worked in a larger workshop. Not everyone types
       | for a living.
        
       | Havoc wrote:
       | There is a balance there too though. e.g. I was looking at
       | multimeters. Much googling later I determined that the Fluke
       | brand ones are the best and "last for life" type buy.
       | 
       | Nearly spent 200+ on one 2nd hand via ebay auction. After a while
       | sanity prevailed and I got an amazon brand one for a 1/4. Does
       | the job too and I use it so seldomly (soldering DIY sht) that I'm
       | glad I didn't spend more.
        
         | pahae wrote:
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       | duxup wrote:
       | I have trouble keeping up with the minimalist type lifestyles. I
       | don't necessarily buy into many of their numbers (in this article
       | we count things... except when we don't), and I have trouble with
       | the "buy it for life" type groups too.
       | 
       | The latter groups surface goals I like but I find a lot of times
       | they're just interested in paying more for what are effectively
       | pseudo luxury brands or strange ideas that because it is made of
       | metal it will last longer.... but little in the way of anyone
       | actually using the items much.
       | 
       | It's frustrating as I like the gist of the ideas but the folks
       | practicing that I find on the internet seem off / miss the target
       | IMO.
        
         | replygirl wrote:
         | Buying plastic and MDF everything because the minimalists are
         | in the pocket of Big Steel.
        
         | kandel wrote:
         | My gramps will once a while gather a bunch of stuff in the
         | house and throw it out. He always has great fun doing it he
         | loves it lol.
        
       | tgtweak wrote:
       | Spoken as someone living alone
        
       | kccqzy wrote:
       | I find that wallets are easy to buy once. The last wallet I
       | bought was from 2016, made from leather, able to holding quite a
       | few bit of cash and cards while maintaining slimness. I can't
       | foresee needing another wallet until it broke, but it still
       | hasn't broken from daily use since 2016.
        
         | seydor wrote:
         | phone flip cases are great wallets. + less things to worry
         | about
        
       | martyvis wrote:
       | I have bought a number of pairs of pliers over the years. Some
       | are quite serviceable but the worst were the adjustable
       | multigrips (also sometimes called water pump pliers). They pinch
       | as they slipped out of the grooves - just horrible. And then I
       | was watching a youtuber describing 10 tools to throw out. One was
       | cheap multigrips, but he showed a wonderful replacement - Knipex
       | Cobras. I bought two of them in different sizes.They are just
       | wonderfully engineered - German of course - they literally can't
       | slip , properly adjustable to maintain parallel jaws, they even
       | demonstrate you standing on the handles under load. I ended up
       | buying their electrical pliers and side cutters as well. All
       | heirloom quality.
        
         | morsch wrote:
         | I bought a pair of Knipex pliers after reading a similar
         | comment. Turns out I don't need pliers.
        
       | fabiofumarola wrote:
       | A dear friend of mine always said "if you buy quality you cry
       | only one time!"
        
       | fiznool wrote:
       | Try having kids. The amount of crap you will end up with, like it
       | or not, will make you rethink your position in the world, and
       | your house's storage capabilities.
        
       | sufficer wrote:
       | Thought the saying was buy it nice or buy it twice
        
         | nimish wrote:
         | "Buy once cry once"
        
           | SantalBlush wrote:
           | I've also heard "I'm too poor to be cheap."
        
             | mildchalupa wrote:
             | Honestly it's a fair point. For me it's I don't have enough
             | time to be cheap.
        
           | bradenb wrote:
           | This is the one I always use. Especially popular in the
           | overlanding world which is fitting because everything is so
           | overpriced.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | I'd rather risk it once and splurge the second time if that
         | item felt important. I have plenty of cheap tools that last.
        
       | kwhitefoot wrote:
       | From reading the comments it seems that a lot of people are more
       | interested in organizing their stuff than in enjoying their stuff
       | whether they are minimalist or not.
        
       | sagarkamat wrote:
       | My relationship to stuff is at a weird point. I've watched a bit
       | too many documentaries about impact of overproduction on our
       | world to a level where I tend to over analyze and over scrutinize
       | every purchase, probably to unhealthy levels. I tend to use
       | objects i have to the point they become unusable, trying to get
       | their full worth.
       | 
       | But at the same time, I've realized that buying the best of
       | everything every time is not the best way to go. Sometimes your
       | taste changes but the object still is in a great condition with
       | no other takers. So you're stuck with something you don't like
       | anymore.
       | 
       | A good compromise seems to be buying the cheap version of
       | everything the first time around. That way if you don't use it as
       | much, you haven't spent a lot of money on it. And if you do it
       | use it, the cheap stuff will wear out sooner and you can replace
       | it with better made stuff.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | Buy used. You pay less and nothing gets produced.
         | 
         | I have the same obsession as you and this is how I reconcile
         | with it. If I'm not ready to meet someone across town I
         | probably don't need it.
        
           | Gigachad wrote:
           | Buying used has become a huge pain. The platforms are
           | absolutely full of scammers and time wasters, the items are
           | either overpriced or immediately purchased by flippers, and
           | they often aren't very accessible without owning a car.
           | 
           | I prefer to just buy new, where I can have stuff delivered,
           | and then use it until it's completely worn out or obsolete.
        
             | v-erne wrote:
             | Depnends on the item I suppose - half of my small board
             | game collection (100+ titles) is used games bought from
             | local eBay equivalent. And almost all of them were in
             | perfect condition but half the price.
        
               | nicbou wrote:
               | Same! I paid 5-10EUR each and slowly acquired most of the
               | Spiel des Jahres winners.
               | 
               | You can often find near-new Apple products and great
               | tools at a steep discount too.
        
             | nicbou wrote:
             | In Germany (eBay) Kleinanzeigen works rather well. People
             | are still people, but at least the platform is good.
        
       | paradite wrote:
       | Quite similar to this post which appears on HN often:
       | 
       | https://dcurt.is/the-best
        
       | emodendroket wrote:
       | I vacillate on this a lot. On one hand, yes, it's nice to have
       | well-designed items that last decades or a lifetime. And
       | obviously we're awash in disposable goods at great environmental
       | cost. On the other, who hasn't been burned by buying a garment
       | "for life" that no longer fits, no longer appeals to us, or
       | otherwise gets rendered unusable? Or buying a beautiful, premium
       | tool that only sees one or two uses? Or having an item that by
       | all rights should have been disposable last for years of regular
       | use?
        
         | aardvarkr wrote:
         | For the tool conundrum, I've found that the best course of
         | action is to buy the cheapest option (within reason) to start
         | with. If you don't use it, no sweat, it was cheap. On the other
         | hand, if you use it soo much that it breaks it you outgrow it
         | then you get to buy the best version of that tool. At that
         | point you know what you like and don't like, as well as what's
         | worth paying extra for, so you end up with the perfect tool for
         | you.
        
           | oh_sigh wrote:
           | A better idea might just be to ask a neighbor to borrow their
           | tool. Or subscribe to a tool library which may be near you.
        
           | peteradio wrote:
           | This is a decent strategy and well-trotted in every buy-once
           | thread but I'll offer my advice as someone who has been on
           | this tool purchasing train for a few decades now. If you know
           | the precision you require you can buy the tool you actually
           | need. As an example if you are doing some leveling work over
           | a 20ft by 20ft area you can figure out how well it can be
           | done with an 8ft water level including disaster scenarios
           | where you fuck it up and then you can consider a self-
           | leveling laser and weight up your choices properly. Following
           | the advice to get the cheapest tool will likely lead you into
           | disaster scenarios because you end up with the entirely wrong
           | class of tool.
        
           | emodendroket wrote:
           | Yes, this is a commonly recommended strategy. But you do run
           | the risk of being stuck with an unsatisfying but functional
           | tool you feel guilty getting rid of, and even in the best
           | case, who feels good about having bought a lousy tool that
           | breaks?
           | 
           | I tend to go with a bit of a sliding scale based on factors
           | like "how often do I expect to use it?" and "how afraid am I
           | of it injuring me?"
        
           | nbernard wrote:
           | On the other hand, you risk considering a whole tool class as
           | not very useful, when actually it is just that the one you
           | own is crap...
        
       | gpspake wrote:
       | I like the idea of cataloging all my possessions. It seems like a
       | nice way to put that particular necessity of life (owning things)
       | in a box that can be neatly put away when you don't want to think
       | about it and quantify/measure it in a way that lets you manage it
       | (I don't want to own 200 things, etc). It also seems like it
       | would be helpful for legal situations like a manifest for a house
       | fire or a will.
        
         | senkora wrote:
         | This is something I like about backpacking / camping. I make a
         | mini-list of everything I bring with me, consider each item,
         | and then know exactly what I have as I set off. Doing it for
         | all my possessions is probably too hard.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | You can also catalog when you use something - many things we
         | own are once a month or year items - and some can be replaced
         | with a rental or hiring out.
        
         | nextos wrote:
         | I've done this, and it's very liberating. Basically, all things
         | I own, including consumables, fit inside a small Org file. It's
         | less than 100 items. I went this route because I wanted to
         | emphasize some good habits, and de-emphasize things that I
         | considered less valuable.
         | 
         | The process I went through was basically thinking about my core
         | habits, mapping said habits to some objects, and then thinking
         | about extra objects to support those habits. After that, I
         | slowly started purchasing what I needed. Timing was great,
         | because I sync'd that with moving countries. I spent some
         | effort thinking about quality of individual purchases, and I
         | ended up with a very minimal home, which is also great for
         | maintenance.
        
           | bombela wrote:
           | Something I am curious about. Does this list would include
           | tools and all the thousands of parts and pieces one
           | accumulates over the year when hobbying around?
        
             | mo_42 wrote:
             | I have an inventory.yml. It's not complete yet but every
             | now and then I extend it. I put everything there and
             | belongs together in a meaningful way. For example, AirPods.
             | I don't list each one and the case but just AirPods. I also
             | note when I bought it and what it costs.
        
             | nextos wrote:
             | I relocated and I no longer have any hobbies that involve
             | tools.
             | 
             | For a different lifestyle, this list would be much longer
             | and that is fine.
             | 
             | There is nothing special about having just 100 items.
        
               | nvy wrote:
               | >There is nothing special about having just 100 items.
               | 
               | Depending on where you are located geographically there
               | may very well be something special.
               | 
               | I live in the PNW and I bet if I counted all my forks,
               | spoons, coffee cups, pots and pans, etc., I'd have more
               | than 100 items right there, to say nothing about my tool
               | chest. Between my home office and my wife's purse I
               | probably have 100 pens and pencils around the house.
               | 
               | To own a grand total of 100 items would be extremely
               | spartan for just about anyone around here.
        
               | nextos wrote:
               | I meant it's nothing to brag about. I agree that in many
               | situations, it'd be inconvenient to own so few items as
               | it'd leave you unprepared for e.g. emergencies.
               | 
               | But if you are renting a condo downtown, as it was my
               | case, you may want to trim down your possessions as much
               | as possible.
               | 
               | Nonetheless, I think people tend to own too much stuff
               | and this prevents focusing on what actually matters, it's
               | a bit like with bloated software.
        
               | nvy wrote:
               | >Nonetheless, I think people tend to own too much stuff
               | and this prevents focusing on what actually matters
               | 
               | On this I agree with you wholeheartedly. It's very easy
               | to accumulate cruft that one "might need later". I have a
               | whole toolbox full of that shit. I might actually need a
               | bunch of random capacitors, who knows?
        
               | throwaway22032 wrote:
               | My minimal backpack camping checklist has 25-50 items on
               | it, and that's with counting "first aid kit" as one
               | thing, "tent pegs" as one thing, not counting clothing
               | I'm wearing, "food" as 1 item, etc.
               | 
               | There is no way that an adult has 100 things inside an
               | entire flat they eat, work, leisure, and sleep in. I
               | assume that they mean 100 valuable things that they
               | wouldn't want to just lose.
        
               | ip26 wrote:
               | You never know, some people go to extremes. One fork, one
               | toothbrush, one sleeping bag, one laptop, one credit
               | card, done. Toothbrush doubles as a shower brush and
               | credit card is used to scrape off water instead of a
               | towel.
        
               | throwaway22032 wrote:
               | Lol.
               | 
               | Of course, the shower isn't yours so it doesn't count.
               | Using this, we can get rid of the sleeping bag and just
               | roll up the carpet in the rented flat and sleep in that.
               | 
               | What else can we cut?
        
               | codpiece wrote:
               | Toothpaste. We have soap/shampoo.
        
             | rpcope1 wrote:
             | It's funny this came up. I ended up writing a small webapp
             | that runs locally and allows me to catalog my tools, parts
             | and other important odds and ends in a SQLite database (and
             | attach datasheets and other information I've picked up
             | along the way). I'm almost certainly the opposite of a
             | minimalist, but going through and actually documenting what
             | I have, where I put it, and sometimes what it was intended
             | for, has been incredibly useful, especially being able to
             | use full text search to quickly look up things.
        
         | throwmeaway1212 wrote:
         | related useful post about insurance and keeping track of your
         | possessions
         | https://www.reddit.com/r/Tennessee/comments/fdju8r/cookevill...
        
           | skeeter2020 wrote:
           | My Hack: For insurance don't try and catalog everything in a
           | spreadsheet or such; you're prematurely optimizing for a rare
           | event that hopefully will never happen, you'll miss stuff or
           | forget important details and it's impossible to keep it up to
           | date.
           | 
           | Once a year walk through every room in your house with a
           | video camera, openning all drawers and closets and record it
           | all. Drop your 20-plus gigs of high-dev video somewhere (I
           | use AWS glacier for pennies a month) and then IF you ever
           | need to, you can painfully go through it and catalog
           | everything.
        
       | nerdchum wrote:
       | I think a lot of times this philosophy is just rich people
       | justifying paying a lot for high status items.
       | 
       | a pair of Crocs is 50 bucks and that's one of the highest quality
       | pairs of shoes you'll buy for the price. you could buy 10 pairs
       | of Crocs for a $500 pair of Alden's so even if the crocs only
       | lasted a year, it would take a decade to recoup the investment on
       | the Alden's.
       | 
       | but the crocs don't have the same status that Alan Edmonds or
       | Alden or Fiorentini does.
       | 
       | Same thing with the G-Shock watch versus a Rolex.
       | 
       | If you really want quality look at what middle class people are
       | doing. Crocs, Kirkland, G-Shock, Corolla etc.
       | 
       | All this stuff is top quality but rich people wouldn't be caught
       | dead in them.
       | 
       | Another thing rich people like to do is repurposing something
       | completely trivial. This dude probably paid as much or close to
       | shipping the shoes than a new wallet would have cost.
       | 
       | This guy gets a feeling of satisfaction that they're making the
       | world a better place by repurposing their shoes. Then they go to
       | their job where they earn a lot of money defending companies who
       | gave a small town cancer or a massive oil spill or wholesale
       | invasion of privacy.
        
         | Swizec wrote:
         | > Corolla etc.
         | 
         | Fun way to think about it (borrowed from James May): A Toyota
         | Corolla is _higher quality_ than a Rolls Royce. Because Toyota
         | makes 10,000,000 vehicles per year. Rolls makes only 6,000.
         | Meaning Toyota is better at making cars just by virtue of
         | having 4 orders of magnitude more practice.
        
           | CPLX wrote:
           | Except that's not true. So...
        
             | vGPU wrote:
             | RR is made by BMW these days. So it's almost certain to be
             | awful.
        
               | CPLX wrote:
               | BMWs are also higher quality than Corollas.
        
               | hansvm wrote:
               | They have more features, but they break down a ton more
               | often. By all means, if you want ventilated seats then
               | you can get a higher end BMW, but that's a different
               | metric from quality.
        
               | CPLX wrote:
               | No they don't. BMW is consistently in the top 5 rankings
               | for reliability.
               | 
               | They're just better cars, made to more exacting standards
               | with higher quality materials and better engineering and
               | features.
        
               | cookie_monsta wrote:
               | > BMW is consistently in the top 5 rankings for
               | reliability.
               | 
               | And Toyota consistently ranks higher.
               | 
               | https://www.drive.com.au/news/most-reliable-and-least-
               | reliab...
        
               | CPLX wrote:
               | Yes so a Corolla is a lower quality car with comparable
               | or slightly higher reliability stats.
               | 
               | Unless you think the word quality is just fully
               | synonymous with reliability (in which case a paper
               | airplane beats an F-18) then my point stands.
        
               | cookie_monsta wrote:
               | I don't know that 72% to 65% is comparable or slightly
               | higher. That seems like a gap to me. And the fact that
               | BMW ranked 10th last year isn't great.
               | 
               | Quality is famously subjective, that's why you'll never
               | see it ranked in a way that everyone can agree on the way
               | you can with reliability which is actually measurable.
               | 
               | But reliability is one of the markers that most people
               | would use to judge quality. And we generally expect
               | aircraft to go where we want them to without catastrophic
               | failure, so I would think that an F18 is more reliable
               | than a paper plane.
        
               | CPLX wrote:
               | The reliability rankings are determined by surveying
               | people and asking them the frequency of repairs.
               | 
               | Assuming my paper airplane never goes into the shop it's
               | going to outrank the F-18.
               | 
               | Ain't a better plane though.
        
               | KerrAvon wrote:
               | You can get ventilated seats on Hondas and Hyundais. You
               | don't need to pay high-end BMW money.
        
           | KerrAvon wrote:
           | The original formulation of this theory (in Car and Driver
           | iirc) was that it's harder to make a water pump for a
           | Chevrolet than a Mercedes, because you had to meet a tight
           | cost objective for the Chevrolet.
           | 
           | In practice, it just meant Chevy often cheaped out on the
           | water pump and you got water pump failures after the warranty
           | expired.
        
         | lumb63 wrote:
         | This isn't a totally fair comparison. When people buy shoes,
         | their criteria isn't normally as low as "covers my feet". They
         | have a specific style they want, a specific material, and will
         | shop amongst shoes that fit that description. Crocs and dress
         | shoes are not interchangeable to a lot of people.
         | 
         | A better comparison is to look at, for instance, Johnston and
         | Murphy vs. Alden. Then you get a more fair comparison. For
         | instance, one has welted soles and so they can be replaced
         | without changing out the upper. Those soles are leather and
         | provide excellent comfort. One uses full grain leather uppers,
         | one does not. Everyone doesn't need those, but if you're
         | someone who is wearing dress shoes to the office every day, it
         | may be worth the benefit. You also don't have to worry about
         | replacing the shoe every year (though you do have to maintain
         | it).
        
           | barbariangrunge wrote:
           | My criteria is maybe less fancy than other people. Covers my
           | feet + isn't embarrassing + durable + potential arch support
           | + cheap.
           | 
           | I've never found shoes that meet all those criteria. I've
           | actually never found any shoes, ever, that were even durable
           | or had usable arch support. So cheap + not embarrassing is
           | pretty much the bar to cross
           | 
           | But I learned recently that crocks have amazing arch support!
        
             | nerdchum wrote:
             | Fair warning. I have not found Crocs to be particularly
             | arch supportive. there may be a specific model though that
             | I'm not aware of that. has added arch support.
        
             | ronyeh wrote:
             | What kind of arch support do you need? I've found that
             | superfeet insoles work great for my flat feet. I buy them
             | whenever they're on sale.
             | 
             | They also make my cheap slip on shoes last much longer.
        
             | schwartzworld wrote:
             | Hiking shoes are usually pretty durable and supportive.
        
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           | nerdchum wrote:
           | Agree. Theres alot of factors involved in buying anything.
           | 
           | So we need to stop acting like we have great wisdom for
           | "Paying more for quality" when in reality status and fashion
           | had as much to do with the purchase as well.
        
         | CPLX wrote:
         | Pretty on the nose.
         | 
         | I think even more accurate is that quality/longevity and price
         | are almost completely decoupled.
         | 
         | Spending more doesn't guarantee higher quality it mostly gets
         | you exceptional graphic design and deftly nested packaging that
         | makes you feel good when you open it.
         | 
         | But it's not like all the cheap stuff is better. A Rolex is an
         | incredible engineering marvel and is in fact very high quality
         | and durable. So are Festool tools, and so on.
         | 
         | But like so is G-shock and a random and difficult to pin down
         | subset of Harbor Freight.
         | 
         | The broader point is that none of this really makes a fucking
         | difference most of the discussion is just people preening about
         | their choices instead of admitting it's mostly a roll of the
         | dice.
         | 
         | And the old stuff wasn't "better" it was just different. When I
         | was a kid in the 70's and 80's garages were full of shoddy junk
         | from the 50's and 60's. That stuff is just all gone right now.
        
           | sanderjd wrote:
           | The area in which this drives me the craziest is furniture. I
           | have _no idea_ how to find high quality durable furniture.
           | Price signals definitely aren 't it, but I have no idea what
           | signals I can look for, or where to go to find them.
        
             | nerdchum wrote:
             | Furniture is INSANE!
             | 
             | Ive never felt like I was in a more skeezy situation than
             | mattress shopping.
        
             | frutiger wrote:
             | Design Within Reach, Herman Miller, Room & Board, Blu Dot,
             | ...
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | Thanks this is really helpful. But how do I know what is
               | or isn't junk at these retailers? None of the ones on
               | this list have a showroom near me. And what goes in the
               | ... ?
        
             | ticviking wrote:
             | You have to learn enough about how they are built and then
             | haunt local consignment shops for good finds.
             | 
             | It's taken my wife and I years to slowly get pieces that
             | will last the rest of our life.
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | I have two young children, I don't have time to "haunt"
               | anything. But before we had kids we tried this with
               | consignment stores, would spend like a year looking for
               | some simple piece of furniture, and end up with junk
               | anyway.
        
             | vGPU wrote:
             | In general: pick the heaviest ones.
        
           | msla wrote:
           | > A Rolex is an incredible engineering marvel and is in fact
           | very high quality and durable.
           | 
           | But it's fundamentally worse at being a timepiece than a
           | digital watch synchronized to an NTP time server.
        
             | badpun wrote:
             | It's a Rube Goldberg machine.
        
             | Our_Benefactors wrote:
             | This is a completely different device than a mechanical
             | watch. Nobody cross shops GPS watches with a Rolex. Maybe a
             | grand Seiko.
        
             | CPLX wrote:
             | Not after a nuclear war.
        
           | nerdchum wrote:
           | Yeah completely agree that price is decoupled from quality
           | nowadays and it's pretty random.
           | 
           | Price seems to be based a lot more on marketing and brand
           | saturation than quality. And quality brands get bought up all
           | the time and the new company will coast on the brand while
           | outsourcing manufacturing to the lowest bidder.
           | 
           | And you can't trust reviews with affiliate marketing around.
           | 
           | So pretty much the only thing to do to identify quality is to
           | experiment or share info with people you trust.
           | 
           | I've wasted a ton of money on shitty products on the way to
           | identifying quality products.
           | 
           | I'm not even railing against status. I bought a pair of Alan
           | Edmonds specifically for job interviews to signal status but
           | I wear LL Bean shoes and Crocs the rest of the time.
           | 
           | Also, there's other factors besides just durability and
           | status. There's aesthetics, variable utility, ease of
           | replacement, warranty availability, price, etc.
           | 
           | I hate shopping so I think alot about this haha
        
             | DubiousPusher wrote:
             | In the world of fashion perhaps. In the world of tools,
             | absolutely not.
        
               | nerdchum wrote:
               | In human society its arguable that fashion is a tool of
               | communication. At least thats how I have to justify it to
               | myself because I hate being forced to participate in it
               | but we all are constantly being judged on how we look.
        
         | silverlake wrote:
         | From the documentary Idiocracy: Idiocracy director Mike Judge
         | revealed that they went with Crocs both because they were cheap
         | and that "no one would ever wear them." To the surprise of
         | Judge and Idiocracy's wardrobe department, by the time the film
         | came out after a delay, Crocs were all over the place."
         | 
         | In fact you could save more money by wrapping your feet in used
         | burlap sacks. Just need to be creative.
        
           | LargeDiggerNick wrote:
           | Right because Hollywood is great to look to for advice on how
           | to buy low cost high quality items....
        
             | klyrs wrote:
             | Idiocracy is _exceptionally_ prophetic. And we 've _still_
             | got people seriously evaluating if GPT can be better than
             | your doctor.
        
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         | benmanns wrote:
         | $50/$500 is a 10%/year yield, which is hard come by in any
         | guaranteed investment. The Crocs will likely have no retained
         | value, while the $500 shoes may be worth something after 10
         | years.
         | 
         | However, that ignores the cost of maintaining a nice pair of
         | shoes (both money and time) as one needs to clean, polish, and
         | resole every so often.
         | 
         | You might want shoes in two or three colors/styles, which would
         | make the Crocs last 2-3x longer, same for the other shoes, but
         | are you really going to want the same expensive shoes in 30
         | years?
         | 
         | I think the higher end stuff that retains value and requires
         | less maintenance might be a better example, like if someone is
         | good at buying watches they could get a Rolex that appreciates
         | in value and ends up costing them nothing vs a series of
         | cheaper watches. Or compare to a $500 Apple Watch you replace
         | every couple years. I don't wear watches, though, and I'm not
         | good at buying or selling them.
         | 
         | Really, I think there are some expensive, durable goods that
         | last longer and are cheaper you might think, but still more
         | expensive once you take into account the maintenance and time
         | value of money. But nice stuff is nice to have, and it's
         | helpful that you don't have to replace it so often.
        
           | mathgeek wrote:
           | > The Crocs will likely have no retained value, while the
           | $500 shoes may be worth something after 10 years.
           | 
           | This is the core of the "secret" to wearing high quality
           | shoes at a low cost. Buy good used shoes and get them resoled
           | as necessary. E.g. https://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice
           | /comments/1jhp8o/a...
        
             | nerdchum wrote:
             | I did that for a while. Resoling is $150 or more which is
             | more than a normal pair of shoes costs.
        
           | nerdchum wrote:
           | Oh completely agree. My beef is with this smug patronizing
           | attitude rich people have like theyre wise for buying
           | expensive things that will last longer and the rest of us
           | peons should learn from these wise sages. When thats not the
           | case at all. You want to learn how to buy quality things look
           | at a middle class family of four wearing big old granny
           | Kirkland panties and driving a Subaru.
           | 
           | Their overhead on purchases is low AND their returns are
           | high.
        
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         | chrismcb wrote:
         | Crocs aren't shoes. I understand what you are trying to say.
         | But that was a lousy comparison. Even if you consider Crocs
         | shoes, you typically won't wear them the same place you will
         | wear Aldens.
        
         | sanderjd wrote:
         | The way I would put the Crocs thing is that they are not
         | versatile. Maybe you could live a whole life with a pair of
         | Crocs and a pair of well made leather shoes. But in that
         | situation a minimalism extremist might ask: what are the Crocs
         | for? You can wear the leather shoes around the house but you
         | can't wear the Crocs to a wedding.
         | 
         | But I think your point is generally true, though I'm not
         | convinced it is very responsive to this specific article. I
         | didn't get much preachiness from this article, but maybe it was
         | there, or maybe you are familiar with this person's other
         | writing, I dunno.
         | 
         | My take is that "minimalism" is indeed often a status game as
         | you say, but that it also has good insights for the rest of us
         | who aren't interested in those games, but do feel this sense of
         | having too much junk cluttering up our lives.
         | 
         | I'm far from a "true" minimalist, but reading stuff like this
         | over the years has totally impacted my thinking. When thinking
         | about buying things now, I do think about whether I could spend
         | a little more for something I'll be able to use a lot more. Or
         | even ignoring price differences either way, I just evaluate
         | things from this perspective of durability. And I think that's
         | good.
        
         | mym1990 wrote:
         | I would say _rich people who want to signal status_ would not
         | get caught with those. But there are plenty of rich folks who
         | want to fly under the radar, your millionaire next door types.
        
         | lghh wrote:
         | For the shoes example, there's also value in reducing waste. 10
         | pairs of rubber Crocs that you throw out every year create much
         | more waste than 1 pair of 500 dollar leather boots that can be
         | repaired and are much more environmentally friendly when they
         | are eventually disposed of.
         | 
         | 100% agree about the Corolla though.
        
           | waboremo wrote:
           | I'm not so sure about this comparison even. There are
           | multiple factors at play that you're just assuming, that the
           | $500 leather boots are going to be worn for 10 years to be
           | equivalent to the crocs, but I'm not sure that's the norm.
           | Excluding those who have the means easily for $500 leather
           | boots, who likely will just buy more of them to rotate (thus
           | creating waste). Surely someone who spends $500 on leather
           | boots is also going to care about their status, and therefore
           | might get them repaired far more often.
           | 
           | These repairs, while likely less wasteful than full-on
           | recycling, have costs attributed to them. It costs to produce
           | the goods required to repair. These goods often aren't super
           | sustainable products either. With these factors in mind, is
           | the comparison equal? Can we absolutely stand by the idea
           | that paying for $500 leather boots will be better for the
           | environment and you for 10 years?
           | 
           | Which is why when making these comparisons we should really
           | get into the nitty gritty details, otherwise we're just
           | handwaving a bunch of things and making assumptions to
           | justify our position. By doing so, we'll be able to make
           | better choices with proper information rather than shifting
           | the burden of environmental impact elsewhere (to a repair
           | shop or shoe makers, etc).
           | 
           | Note, this is not a defense of crocs vs leather boots. The
           | product categories are just throwaway examples.
        
           | Cyph0n wrote:
           | Right, because reducing waste is what people buying $500
           | shoes are worried about.
        
           | KerrAvon wrote:
           | Corolla is a terrible example. It's not a nice car to
           | actually drive compared to almost any other. In that price
           | range: Subaru and Honda will be as reliable and much better
           | cars.
        
             | LargeDiggerNick wrote:
             | False. Corollas are one of the best cars ever made.
        
           | moffkalast wrote:
           | Waste disposal is usually a flat rate though, so it doesn't
           | really matter how much waste you produce in financial terms.
        
         | comfypotato wrote:
         | Crocs are not utilitarian (no structure or support for physical
         | activity) and they aren't appropriate in the wider spectrum a
         | nice pair of shoes are.
         | 
         | I settled on some classic Vans after a deep internet dive
         | signaled that they're the most popular among homeless people
         | for being durable and comfortable without being too expensive.
         | They look fine, and I have a lot of freedom regarding when to
         | replace them. I'm very happy with the decision actually. As an
         | added benefit, they're a welcome donation to the homeless if I
         | don't completely wear them out (which is basically impossible).
         | 
         | $500 sounds about right to me for the leather equivalent of the
         | Vans. By the time you've accounted for durability and comfort
         | without sacrificing appearances (and done it such that they can
         | be attractively resoled) you'll spend around that much.
         | 
         | I don't have a wardrobe to match leather shoes, but the logic
         | holds here if I did. You don't have to be rich to daily drive a
         | single pair of nice shoes, and the author's tone didn't strike
         | me as snobbish or smug.
         | 
         | It's just a different attitude. Lots of more expensive clothing
         | gets you added features, better style, and better comfort than
         | Kirkland. Expensive athleisure brands like Lululemon and Alo,
         | for example, have pockets in better places and are more
         | attractive than their Kirkland equivalents. The directly
         | equivalent spending on the two makes for a smaller wardrobe
         | that gets worn more often. If you have a ChatGPT Plus
         | subscription, have a quick discussion with it about fashion.
         | Its training is not among content from the rich but rather the
         | internet at large, and even it will tell you that fewer nicer
         | fashion choices make a better wardrobe than more less expensive
         | pieces.
        
         | ericpauley wrote:
         | Completely agree. People love to tout the boots theory but the
         | reality is that the people who claim this are often far beyond
         | the point of optimal cost. Mass manufacturing inherently allows
         | for better value to be delivered at greater scale, which tends
         | to occur at the lower end of the price range. Beyond a certain
         | point you're paying for prestige rather than lifespan.
         | 
         | I've had the same wallet for 10 years. It cost me $16 and was
         | made from recycled leather scraps (thanks, Phil's wallets!). I
         | plan to use it at least another 10 years. Will the $115 wallet
         | pushed in this article really last 7x longer than my scrap
         | wallet? I doubt it.
        
           | bthrn wrote:
           | It really depends what you mean by "optimal cost" and "better
           | value". For example, if you want something that's handcrafted
           | rather than made in a factory on the other side of the world,
           | you have to pay for the skills and labor that go into that.
           | Depending on what it is, it might not last longer - but could
           | be a better value in other respects than simply cost. Not
           | everything has to be about making widgets for the lowest
           | amount of money possible.
        
             | ericpauley wrote:
             | Of course. If you change the requirements the decision
             | space shifts too. With respect to the boots theorem optimal
             | cost is specifically focused on long-term concrete utility
             | per dollar. Fwiw I'd ( _very loosely_ ) classify the points
             | you're bringing under "prestige".
        
               | bthrn wrote:
               | > Fwiw I'd (very loosely) classify the points you're
               | bringing under "prestige".
               | 
               | If I'd like my clothes made and sourced ethically, or if
               | I want to support a local business that makes leather
               | goods rather than buying mass-produced ones from
               | somewhere else -- I wouldn't say those scenarios are
               | motivated by prestige, but by valuing people and the work
               | they do. It's a bit unfortunate that some things like
               | that are considered a luxury these days.
        
         | Veen wrote:
         | But "buying for quality" and "buying for status" are different,
         | and I don't think rich people conflate the two (or the people
         | here). The person buying Louis Vuitton luggage (or whatever
         | rich people buy these days) knows they are buying it for status
         | among their similarly wealthy friends. Although, you also get
         | counter-signaling among "old money" types, where it's seen as
         | declasse to try too hard; they wouldn't be seen dead with
         | something as vulgar as Louis Vuitton luggage.
         | 
         | However, I don't think this conversation is about them.
         | 
         | The smart middle class family buys the best they can afford
         | given their budget, but the less-smart family buys the cheapest
         | 'Buy well, buy once' encourages the first approach.
        
       | tajd wrote:
       | Sometimes I buy something cheap and then if I use it enough to
       | break it I end up investing in a decent one. Another perspective
       | on incremental delivery.
        
       | hiAndrewQuinn wrote:
       | I'm not a fan of buying it once. I prefer buying on feedback.
       | 
       | Here's my daily wardrobe:
       | 
       | - an oversized plain black T shirt, - a pair of jeans, - a belt,
       | - black socks, - and a pair of boxer briefs.
       | 
       | I wear these almost every day. Every single one of these items is
       | cheap enough to buy in bulk whenever I want them. So: If I ever
       | walk into my closet and find myself missing any one of these
       | items due to them all being in the laundry, I immediately
       | 
       | 1. Take out my phone and 2. Order another pack of them on Amazon.
       | 
       | The beauty of this feedback loop is that I very quickly converge
       | on the point where my buffer matches my flow, where my natural
       | cadence of laundry-doing never leaves me without one of these
       | five essentials. It works regardless of whether I do laundry once
       | a week or once a month, so long as I make sure to do _all_ of it.
       | Worst case scenario, I have a few shirts
       | /pants/boxers/socks/belts that mostly lie around unused, until of
       | course I eventually have to throw out old
       | shirts/pants/boxers/socks/belts because they were used heavily
       | enough to wear down.
        
         | KronisLV wrote:
         | > Every single one of these items is cheap enough to buy in
         | bulk whenever I want them.
         | 
         | I apply something like this to most of my purchases. If I am
         | buying a new phone or some computer hardware, I want to be able
         | to fit another replacement for what I'm about to buy into
         | whatever my budget is. The same goes for clothes, tools for the
         | garden like a tiller or a chainsaw or whatever.
         | 
         | And you know what? It's a decent approach: I have a used Ryzen
         | 5 1600 in my computer now (upgraded from Ryzen 3 1200), as well
         | as an RX 570 (and a spare RX 580 for similar price, bought
         | recently as new old stock), because under that reasoning that's
         | all I can afford, yet it's all that I realistically need. Some
         | spare HDDs (those die more than most other hardware) and a mobo
         | and everything in the shelf next to it. If any one of those
         | parts die like they have in the past, I don't have to cry about
         | how expensive replacing everything will be, nor wait for
         | shipping, just spend 30 minutes swapping out parts.
         | 
         | As for longevity of various items: I don't quite buy it. Sure,
         | there are also people with Stihl chainsaws that have lasted
         | them decades, but why would I spend 5-10x more money, when I
         | can get a new Chinese chainsaw for about 100 EUR that will be
         | enough for all of my casual usage needs around the farm? And
         | once it inevitably stops being useful, I can get a completely
         | new one without a worn engine, while still having some spare
         | parts for repairs. I can think of very few items where I'd want
         | the latest or greatest, even my daily driver phone isn't top of
         | the line and only stands out because of IP 68 and being shock
         | proof (up to a degree, dropped it out of my pocket and on
         | concrete while doing pull ups, didn't even crack the screen).
         | 
         | Perhaps the only exception to this is something like services:
         | dental care and other healthcare procedures, no reason to go
         | cheap on either of those, but then again, I live in Europe so
         | that's not a very contested subject for me due to the overall
         | affordability. Still pondering these thoughts in regards to
         | food, but store brand food is generally both affordable and
         | reasonably healthy over here.
        
           | hiAndrewQuinn wrote:
           | Ha, moved from the US to Finland 2 years ago myself, we could
           | be twins down to the phone. The deciding factor for me
           | picking up a ruggedized Nokia XR20 was because I said to
           | myself "all I do on this think is Anki, Spotify and social
           | media, so I might as well get an indestructible one if I have
           | to get a new one at all."
        
       | ajnin wrote:
       | Strange article. It is about an unrepairable pair of shoes that
       | need to be recycled but its title is "Buy well, buy once". Not
       | really the case, then ?
       | 
       | Then he mentions that he has only 192 "worldly possessions". I'd
       | like to see the actual list, because if it is accurate he mustn't
       | have many forks or boxes of food in his cupboards. So he probably
       | lives in a big city, eats out very often, takes public
       | transportation, and basically relies on external services for
       | things he does not have. Which is a kind of lifestyle that has a
       | lot of externalities and does not really have a minimalist impact
       | on society as a whole, so it feels less appealing to me.
       | 
       | I'm rather in the opposite camp, if I have some fixing to do in
       | my house, rather than call a plumber for example I'll buy the
       | tools, learn by watching youtube videos of experts, and do it
       | myself. Not because of a philosophical view of the world but
       | because I like to learn skills and be self-reliant. My
       | possessions also last a long time because I'm often able to
       | repair them.
        
         | anonymouskimmer wrote:
         | > Then he mentions that he has only 192 "worldly possessions".
         | I'd like to see the actual list,
         | 
         | Author didn't even seem to read the LA Times link he linked.
         | I've personally got close to 5000 staples in a drawer. And I'm
         | sure the author has some similar huge amount of an object. He's
         | undoubtedly not counting his shoelaces as separate objects,
         | where it seems likely the authors of the research on items in a
         | household are.
         | 
         | From the LA Times piece:
         | 
         | > The average U.S. household has 300,000 things, from _paper
         | clips_
         | 
         | emphasis, mine. A box of paper clips is considered multiple
         | items.
        
           | Noumenon72 wrote:
           | That seems like a pretty bad statistic. No source online,
           | possibly just an oft-repeated estimate from "professional
           | organizer Regina Lark". There are only 100 paperclips in a
           | box of paperclips, so that's not a major source of items.
           | This statistic requires 150 items for every square foot in a
           | 2000-square-foot house. Not even things like my laundry
           | basket or spice rack manage that.
        
             | anonymouskimmer wrote:
             | > or spice rack
             | 
             | I see you aren't counting the individual granules.
        
               | klyrs wrote:
               | Cue Monty Python; "Every Sperm is Sacred"
        
         | mailund wrote:
         | > So he probably lives in a big city, eats out very often,
         | takes public transportation, and basically relies on external
         | services for things he does not have. Which is a kind of
         | lifestyle that has a lot of externalities and does not really
         | have a minimalist impact on society as a whole,
         | 
         | Not sure how living in a big city and taking public transit has
         | more negative externalities than the alternatives, care to
         | expand?
        
           | abnry wrote:
           | He didn't say they are negative, he said they are
           | externalities. I've come to the same conclusion that
           | minimalism is only supportable by other people not being
           | minimalists. That's not necessarily a judgment on whether it
           | is good or bad, but a statement of fact.
        
             | mailund wrote:
             | Maybe I can clarify, I felt there was an argument that
             | living in a big city and using shared services (e.g. public
             | transit) had a bigger impact than other alternatives. I was
             | wondering what those alternatives that would be.
             | 
             | I also feel it was implied that this impact was negative -
             | or else it wouldn't be an argument against the post - but
             | that's besides the point.
        
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       | crazygringo wrote:
       | > _I even keep a record of all my worldly possessions in a visual
       | catalogue spreadsheet on Airtable. 192 items at my last count._
       | 
       | > _I don 't count hoodies, t-shirts, socks or usb cables but I
       | really don't own many. I count a pair of shoes in a box as 1
       | item._
       | 
       | Huh? Either you're counting things or you're not. Saying you own
       | 192 items except for the 800 (?) you're not counting doesn't make
       | a lot of sense. Why are shoes an item but socks aren't?
       | 
       | 192 makes no sense to me. I've probably got 192 items in my
       | kitchen alone, just from wanting to be able to cook and serve a
       | meal for 4 people because it's nice to eat with friends. A fork
       | is a worldly possession, after all.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | I have two items because I count my house as one and my car as
         | the other.
        
           | hanniabu wrote:
           | You also have keys to each so that's at least 4 items, and
           | then your clothes and computer, i'm sure you have soap and
           | toothbrush and toothpaste, and hopefully you have toilet
           | paper and a bed, and having a bed means you likely have a
           | pillow, pillow cover, sheet, blanket, and mattress, etc
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | I count all those as parts of the above!
             | 
             | (Counting owned items can get entirely silly).
        
               | Ryoung27 wrote:
               | I don't own anything at all, but my wife sure does have a
               | lot of stuff I use often that she never uses, and happen
               | to be in a men's large.
        
               | devilbunny wrote:
               | G. Gordon Liddy of Watergate fame once said something on
               | his radio show along the lines of "well, as a convicted
               | felon, I'm not allowed to own firearms. However, _Mrs._
               | Liddy has a large collection that she occasionally allows
               | me to use under her supervision. "
        
           | cookie_monsta wrote:
           | If you would like to reduce the number of possessions you own
           | by 50% you could park your car in the garage. You're welcome.
        
         | rootsudo wrote:
         | >192 makes no sense to me. I've probably got 192 items in my
         | kitchen alone, just from wanting to be able to cook and serve a
         | meal for 4 people because it's nice to eat with friends. A fork
         | is a worldly possession, after all.
         | 
         | You're assuming people are the same as you - I follow the same
         | but I live out of suitcases and can travel at a moments notice
         | for the best flights and pick up an airbnb somewhere.
         | 
         | But this is the life I want - literally 95% of my things fit in
         | 2 suit cases, a third is my bike and a bike is a bike thought
         | if you want to get really technical you can count the wheels,
         | the brakes, the brake rotors, the frame, chain, groupset, etc
         | as different but together it's a bike (and a bike bag!) but I
         | do count the clothes/water bottles, etc.
         | 
         | It's also so cool because you can use pivot tables to group
         | items into necessary or not - so if you want to wing just a one
         | backpack 25-40l trip, you know what to grab and also the
         | rolling cost of items associated too - and for more fun,
         | deprecation, purchase cost, etc.
         | 
         | I enjoy it, but thats the spirit, a pair of socks = 1 or do you
         | have 12 socks?
        
           | mazugrin2 wrote:
           | Can't people who live out of chests of drawers and closets
           | also "travel at a moments [sic] notice for the best flights"?
        
             | rootsudo wrote:
             | Suitcase, chest, drawers, yes - it's just the thinking and
             | not having "possessions."
             | 
             | The bigger takeaway is learning what keeps you grounded or
             | anchored. Nothing is wrong with that - can be family, can
             | be cars, can be real estate/houses, can be business, etc.
             | 
             | The idea is you inventory your life and see what is the
             | most minimal you need (haha, MVP basically.) and go from
             | there.
             | 
             | You can do it for spending, you can do it for consumption
             | via money, diet - eating/consumption/purchasing,etc.
             | 
             | It's fun, I enjoy keeping an inventory list, knowing what I
             | have where and for larger valued items, e.g. $500+ I can
             | put in last time usage so if I don't need it, I sell it -
             | lower value items giveaway/free.
             | 
             | For me, I've live in the PNW too - and it's quite fun to
             | just have a suitcase/duffel bag, and just camp out in my
             | car or drive somewhere new and do that - or like I said
             | above, hop on a flight and have everything I need for the
             | duration of my stay.
             | 
             | I get it can sound boring or non-exciting to many people,
             | but once you get into it - it really is fascinating. What
             | things do you need for everyday life?
             | 
             | Up in the air had a great segment about it,
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UsRP9EUrXjo I haven't read
             | the book, but I should - I've been seeing it quite a bit.
        
           | throwaway22032 wrote:
           | Is the idea that you're renting apartments and counting the
           | pots and pans, toilet brush etc as not being yours because
           | you leave them with the house?
           | 
           | So my bath mat is "mine" because I own the house and had to
           | buy it myself, but yours isn't because it's rented?
           | 
           | Because if we can cut that out then yeah, now I own far fewer
           | things. It seems like a weird distinction to make.
        
             | 2muchcoffeeman wrote:
             | I make a distinction between things I have sentimental
             | attachment to, important or expensive to replace vs things
             | that are not.
             | 
             | I wouldn't count all my dinner plates and cutlery as
             | "possessions" as such, but I'd count my good knives.
        
               | Noumenon72 wrote:
               | Those are "prized possessions". Possession means
               | property. If you own it, and would have to pack it up and
               | take it with you when you moved, it's a possession.
        
             | mildchalupa wrote:
             | Well you see I have a mortgage and if I walked away they
             | would take everything within the house thus I don't own
             | anything other than the clothing on my back.
             | 
             | Same with the cars.
        
             | rootsudo wrote:
             | It can be - if you do a STR/Airbnb/Hotel, the pots and pans
             | should come with the place and they're not yours. Many
             | hotels do include the above, especially mid to higher end
             | ones.
             | 
             | If you're renting on a standard long term lease - not short
             | term rental, and it isn't furnished with them, yes they're
             | yours because you _bought_ them.
             | 
             | It's up to you what you want to "count", but toiletries are
             | like petty cash. Pots/Pans can have realistic value, and
             | the rabbit hole for them goes deep from cheap iron,
             | stainless steel, ikea standard purchase, etc.
             | 
             | The idea is to take a break, catalog what you have and go
             | from there. You can catalog 1000+ items and just get rid of
             | ten but then you know "oh just ten items were fluff" vs not
             | knowing or getting rid of 200.
             | 
             | The idea is the exercise.
        
               | cortesoft wrote:
               | So if I rent everything, I can live my exact same
               | lifestyle but be called a minimalist?
        
               | TheDong wrote:
               | Minimalist is just a self-identified label, so you're
               | welcome to call yourself a minimalist if you feel that it
               | fits.
               | 
               | You don't have to look for some technical workaround to
               | some exact definition here, and pedantically arguing
               | about descriptive terms can get tiring real quick.
               | 
               | Maybe you're not trying to be pedantic and are coming
               | from a place of curiosity, and I do apologize for my tone
               | if that's the case. It is coming off as sounding a little
               | "debate-bro" though.
        
               | valleyer wrote:
               | And, really, don't we all rent everything?
        
               | quicklime wrote:
               | Most people buy everything, even their homes, using
               | rented money!
        
               | rootsudo wrote:
               | You don't own it - its furniture, comes with the house -
               | it's the lifestyle itself. While you technically seem
               | correct on it, you're missing the point.
        
         | ip26 wrote:
         | _wanting to be able to cook and serve a meal for 4 people
         | because it 's nice to eat with friends_
         | 
         | Don't be silly, having three friends is hardly minimalist. Have
         | you ever considered how friends weigh you down? One is more
         | than enough, and frankly even that might be too many.
        
           | sockaddr wrote:
           | Yeah and he'd have to list his friends on his airtable
           | bringing him dangerously close to that problematic 200
           | figure.
        
           | weregiraffe wrote:
           | Living is hardly minimalist.
        
           | Noumenon72 wrote:
           | This is not a joke for me. The same impulse that says I don't
           | want to maintain a lawn or bed frame makes me count the
           | benefit of a friend against the cost of committing time every
           | few weeks, time I could be using for whatever I want. Some of
           | us feel really burdened by commitments. We feel about each
           | outlay the way a normal person only feels when they get right
           | to their limit and have to cut back.
        
           | nocoiner wrote:
           | He's gotta be ready to walk out in 30 seconds flat when he
           | spots the heat round the corner.
        
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         | timeon wrote:
         | Do they count the spreadsheet itself? It does not have physical
         | weight but mental one certainly.
        
       | markus_zhang wrote:
       | Although the idea sounds intriguing, it doesn't really make a lot
       | of sense in modern world.
       | 
       | To "buy well", one has to understand every merchandise he is to
       | make a purchase, but who has the capacity to do the research? And
       | how do you do the research?
       | 
       | For example, how do you know that two fridges, one $800 and one
       | $2000, which one will last longer? Modern capitalism distorts
       | price-quality equation so you cannot simply pick the more
       | expensive ones.
       | 
       | It really makes sense to just pick a brand you heard of, take a
       | middle priced model, or what ever fits your need and go with it.
       | And never places too much hope on it. Expect that home appliance
       | will break in 5-7 years.
       | 
       | Our fathers and grandfathers had the luxury of living in a
       | different world. We don't. I guess the only saying that makes
       | sense is: don't buy screwdrivers from dollar shops.
        
         | cookie_monsta wrote:
         | I don't think there are any universal roles. I would use a
         | screwdriver maybe once or twice a year. Dollar shop ones seem
         | fine for that
        
       | edgarvaldes wrote:
       | Unrelated, but anyone know a good desktop program for home
       | inventory? No webapp, no mobile app.
        
       | sundvor wrote:
       | Amen. Not exactly a minimalist thing this, but more about
       | sourcing quality to "buy once": Rotel multi channel sound system
       | (amp and pre amp) from 1997 here, still going strong with one
       | repair five-ten years in, along with Infinity Kappa speakers from
       | the same time - their surrounds replaced once, a decade ago.
       | 
       | Amazing sound, I love how it feels.
       | 
       | Where it loses most is connectivity. Amps use DB25 cables both
       | between each other and for input, so the audio cable I've got
       | hooked up to the HTPC's Xonar Deluxe with RCAs out is a very
       | special one indeed - I'm amazed I found it at all, all those
       | years ago (DB25-RCA). All audio has to go through the HTPC, for
       | that reason, so the Samsung 65" QLED from 6-7 years ago is just a
       | dumb display (not a bad thing!).
       | 
       | For longevity I rarely if ever power the equipment down; it's
       | gotten a bit finicky to start the preamp after a power outage,
       | but for now it's still coming back.
       | 
       | I'll attempt to have it repaired prior to getting a replacement
       | if it ever fails.
       | 
       | Oh and the Win10 HTPC is a decade old at the core too, but I've
       | updated it with a modern case, cooling and storage - works
       | fantastic with a wireless Logitech keyboard.
       | 
       | Speakerbits in Melbourne who did my surrounds (they had all
       | disintegrated) has ceased to exist now, but they did a stellar
       | job - guy said the speakers had appreciated since my purchase, as
       | decent mid range speakers just didn't exist anymore, it was
       | either low end (rubbish) or the extreme high end.
        
         | rpearl wrote:
         | I respect using that stuff for a while (my amp is about 12
         | years old but I'm upgrading this year).
         | 
         | Stick with what you have if it sounds good to you, but I do
         | feel the need to point out two things: There have been
         | significant improvements in room correction DSP algorithms
         | particularly in the last decade. You don't need to ditch your
         | amp to add these, there are DSP boxes you can put in the preamp
         | stage. These _will_ improve sound quality considerably.
         | Audyssey, Dirac, and Anthem ARC are common names; there are
         | others.
         | 
         | And there are a huge abundance of speakers in the mid range
         | $200-$600 that are absolutely fantastic; it's a pretty wide
         | market segment. There's plenty of old options too, but... it's
         | not hard to find a new set of speakers capable of great sound
         | at a decent price these days. I don't know what exactly
         | Speakerbits was implying, but it's not true now.
        
           | sundvor wrote:
           | Thanks for those tips, great to know! I hadn't thought of
           | maybe upgrading the pre-amp only (one with a room processor
           | built in, for simplicity?), that's actually something that
           | would make sense especially for connectivity also.
           | 
           | I haven't really been following hi-fi products over the last
           | couple of decades, due to wanting to "settle", but it
           | wouldn't surprise me if things have improved since January
           | 2010 (checked the date they were repaired) - or maybe the
           | technician just had a particular affinity for the Kappa 6.2is
           | (4x same plus their centre speaker).
        
           | 0zemp3c wrote:
           | [flagged]
        
       | jrflowers wrote:
       | I enjoyed this article about the minimalist man getting two
       | minimally useful extra wallets.
        
         | replygirl wrote:
         | Mostly single-stitched and with unfinished edges to boot
        
         | mberning wrote:
         | Therein is the kernel of every hoarder pathology, which is
         | ironic.
         | 
         | "This is too <whatever> to get rid of!"
         | 
         | Wrong. Throw it away and don't replace it.
        
           | notatoad wrote:
           | or if throwing it away makes you feel bad, give it away.
           | 
           | either it finds its way to somebody who will value it, or
           | somebody will throw it out for you. either way is a win.
        
             | balaji1 wrote:
             | Giving things away definitely is a win. Good Will seems to
             | be a quick solution for this - is it a good place to give
             | things away? Hope the things find a second life.
        
             | mberning wrote:
             | I disagree. It's another pathological behavior. In many of
             | these cases you are taking your problem, something you have
             | no use for, and turning it into someone else's problem. My
             | wife and sister in law are terrible about this. Rather than
             | just getting rid of things they go to a relative to sit
             | around for years or decades, out of sight, before finally
             | making their way to the trash. I absolutely hate it when
             | the sister in law shows up with a new box of "priceless
             | treasures" for us to deal with.
        
             | nebula8804 wrote:
             | Giving it away has now haunted me. Father passed away two
             | years ago and a bunch of computing equipment he bought for
             | me had been donated years before he had passed when it was
             | worth very little. Now in this post covid era all of those
             | things are 'vintage' and super expensive. I have tracked
             | down some of the original equipment through the people I
             | originally gave it to but it has not really been possible
             | to get those things back. Yes I was a mild hoarder aspiring
             | minimalist before but now I have become a full on hoarder.
             | I desperately do extreme organizing in places like my
             | basement to be able to contain so much of the stuff I have.
             | I don't really know how to reconcile this fear of losing
             | something for good.
             | 
             | A fellow hacker at VCF once mentioned to me that this
             | obsession that many geeks have should graduate into letting
             | go of items because down the road you can always buy
             | another one if it scratches your itch again. He made a good
             | point.
        
               | Fr0styMatt88 wrote:
               | I'm going through my own journey with this at the moment,
               | the thing I keep telling myself is that "this item will
               | have a better life somewhere else" and "my house isn't a
               | landfill". It's tough though.
               | 
               | Plus selling stuff is a full-time job really and it's
               | annoying AF if it's not your day job. So I guess the
               | question is - are you going to ever sell it? If not, then
               | it doesn't really matter if it's expensive, it's just
               | taking up space.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I've gotten rid of a lot of stuff I've accumulated over
               | the years--including most computer-related hardware and
               | software I don't use. One thing I find hard is that you
               | know you have stuff that someone would be delighted to
               | get for cheap/free. But it really isn't worth my time to
               | try to make that connection. And a lot of it is niche
               | enough that I doubt I'd find takers at a yard sale out in
               | the country.
        
               | wongarsu wrote:
               | Keeping things isn't free, especially at scale. And it's
               | not just about the space, as you've noticed organising
               | and keeping track both of what you have and where to find
               | it is a lot of hassle. Only for 95% of things decreasing
               | in value over time, with no reliable way to identify the
               | 5% worth keeping.
               | 
               | Your income/purchasing power definitely plays a role here
               | too. Hoarding is more worth it if you don't have an
               | efficient way to covert time into money.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | I used to be interested in minimalism, but I realised that they
         | just obsess over objects in a different way.
         | 
         | I wanted to save money, avoid maintenance and reduce my mental
         | load. I found people who keep spreadsheets of their stuff and
         | debate whether it's okay to own tools or multiple coffee cups.
        
           | ta988 wrote:
           | That sound pathological, why would you do that to yourself
        
           | throwaway74513 wrote:
           | > I used to be interested in minimalism, but I realised that
           | they just obsess over objects in a different way.
           | 
           | This is really interesting, particularly since you use the
           | word "obsess". I meet all of the criteria for OCPD (obsessive
           | compulsive personality disorder -- NOT the same thing as
           | OCD), except for "unwilling to throw out broken or worthless
           | objects, even if they have no sentimental value". In fact,
           | I'm quite the opposite because I try to be as minimalist as I
           | can and am constantly throwing away or donating objects that
           | I don't need or that don't meet my quality standards.
           | 
           | I always thought it was strange that I don't match this one
           | specific symptom of OCPD, but then I started thinking some
           | more, and I realized that I do obsess over objects in a way
           | but not by hoarding them. If I want to order nail clippers
           | for example, I have to spend hours online researching the
           | best pair of nail clippers. I am currently wiring my house
           | for networking, and everything has to be of the highest
           | quality using data center components. Even rented a Fluke
           | network tester. Closet needs repairs? Now I'm learning about
           | drywall and level 5 skim coats. It's a nightmare because I
           | can't do anything in a way that I consider half-assing it --
           | I feel compelled to either do nothing at all or go into an
           | extreme level of detail with it.
           | 
           | This constantly causes relationship and work problems, but to
           | a lesser degree than I suppose hoarding stuff would.
        
             | opello wrote:
             | Hm, I find aspects of myself in this description that seem
             | like they should be troubling.
             | 
             | Nail Clipper: Green Bell G-1008
             | 
             | The frustration of needing to build expertise in things you
             | want to not do shabbily is particularly familiar.
             | Especially with home repair tasks that contractors end up
             | doing but not doing well ... I've learned far more about
             | roofing, flashing techniques, the guidelines for handling,
             | installing, and storing prefinished siding that were
             | nowhere near followed by contractors ... than I would have
             | expected or even truly wanted. It really emphasizes the
             | "ignorance is bliss" mindset which is a hard pill for me to
             | swallow.
        
             | metadat wrote:
             | In case you haven't already, please consult a professional.
             | Do yourself the favor, you're worth it.
             | 
             | Edit: @asddubs: thanks for taking the time to share your
             | thoughts, though you never know what reality faces the
             | person on the other end of a link, which is why I still
             | try. Sometimes you might be surprised. And thank you for
             | helping get my karma back to an even number, all is well
             | again. Your friendly friend, MD.
        
               | asddubs wrote:
               | I didn't downvote you if that's what you mean. Sorry if
               | my post seemed rude, but I think the other side of the
               | coin is that it can be a little grating to talk about
               | yourself without requesting help or indicating that
               | you're not already getting it and be offered extremely
               | obvious advice, so I think your post just rubbed me wrong
               | a little.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | asddubs wrote:
               | seems like a useless piece of advice to give to someone
               | with that level of awareness about it.
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | This will probably rub you even wronger, but your
               | defensive response here makes me think the advice was
               | more useful than you think.
        
               | asddubs wrote:
               | Except I'm not the same person the advice was given to
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | mrweasel wrote:
           | > reduce my mental load
           | 
           | That's has become my goal for new purchases. For some items
           | that means getting higher quality that will last longer, for
           | others it's get the cheapest that will work and replace it if
           | it breaks. It does lead to weird purchases like higher
           | quality charger cables, but cheaper a cheap TV.
        
           | emodendroket wrote:
           | It sounds kind of woo, but I tried the Konmari method and it
           | really was helpful without being overly prescriptive. It
           | definitely felt good to get rid of a lot of that stuff.
           | Though there are a couple that I'd probably take back if I
           | could do it over.
        
             | nicbou wrote:
             | It's a great technique, but I'd rather focus on reducing
             | purchases instead of getting rid of purchased stuff. The
             | environmental damage is already done, unless it finds a
             | second user.
             | 
             | I like that Konmari can also apply to obligations and how
             | you allocate your time. Thats the premise of a book: the
             | life-changing magic of not giving a f**.
        
               | emodendroket wrote:
               | Part of the promise of the book is that going through the
               | process once will change how you shop as you develop your
               | sense for which things you really want to have around.
        
           | ksec wrote:
           | It was suppose to be like _Simple_ , but not Simpler. But
           | modern minimalism went to an extreme.
        
           | 2-718-281-828 wrote:
           | well, i think it is mostly a form of self-therapy where you
           | project a mental stressor onto something you can touch, see
           | and deal with. then you try to manipulate that stressor and
           | heal your trauma by manipulating that object or set of
           | objects - or maybe an animal, a spouse or your child. of
           | course that won't work.
        
           | hotpotamus wrote:
           | I think Dieter Rams captured it best with the phrase, "less
           | but better". It's more or less the ethos I try to (and seldom
           | do) achieve.
        
           | joshcanhelp wrote:
           | Thank you for this, it put into words my uneasiness with this
           | practice. Our household definitely has too much stuff and we
           | always seem to be at battle with it but minimalism just feels
           | like a mirror image problem.
        
             | safety1st wrote:
             | > Replacing broken or worn items often feels like a
             | nightmare of upheaval and system change
             | 
             | It seems like if this is where someone's application of
             | minimalism lands them, they have missed the point.
             | 
             | On that note I went from owning one pair of shoes last year
             | to three. It was a great non-minimalist decision. My shoes
             | now take three times longer to wear out, and now I'm always
             | wearing shoes that are more useful or more fashionable for
             | the situation (or both) than what I used to wear.
        
               | pfannkuchen wrote:
               | Whenever I try to do this, I inevitably settle on wearing
               | one of the three 100% of the time. How do you manage it?
        
               | oefnak wrote:
               | Buy identical shoes in different colours.
        
               | safety1st wrote:
               | I go by function. A pair of everyday shoes for regular
               | days, a pair of cross-trainers for gym days, and an
               | expensive pair of boots for days when I get dressed up.
        
               | tharkun__ wrote:
               | Im finding out that the way I was brought up is not
               | universal. I was always taught that you have to alternate
               | shoes every day to make them last longer, because feet
               | sweat too. That's why expensive dress shoes have shoe
               | trees (not just to hold the shape better).
               | 
               | So two pairs of shoes for the office so they always have
               | a full day to dry out etc. Now with WFH that sort of goes
               | out the window as I don't wear shoes for as long any
               | more.
        
           | spacemadness wrote:
           | As soon as I read they store every item they own in a
           | database, that seemed like unhealthy obsessive-compulsive
           | behavior to me. Using technology to shame yourself does not
           | seem like a path toward happiness. I wasn't sure why I want
           | to take advice from someone that has that level of anxiety
           | around owning things.
        
         | patrec wrote:
         | One also has to admire Whitstable man's marketing genius if
         | he's able to live of his $100 "wallets" (which mostly amount to
         | two badly sewn together pieces of leather). This article feels
         | a bit too on the nose though. But he probably knows his
         | audience.
        
           | emodendroket wrote:
           | They're really more like card holders, but I looked up that
           | term and found they've now been rebranded as "minimalist
           | wallets." Hey, even minimalism can be commoditized and sold.
           | All that is solid melts into air after all.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | A lot fewer people regularly use business cards and a lot
             | more people rarely use cash or need to carry a lot of cards
             | with them given they can store info on their phone. I carry
             | one made by Saddleback and it's perfect for me.
        
       | justnotworthit wrote:
       | I don't think "buy well" is the proper response to "the things
       | you own own you". The warning is about fetishization, not
       | directly about "amount".
        
       | Kiro wrote:
       | > You are either in your bed or in your shoes, so it pays to
       | invest in both.
       | 
       | Do you wear shoes inside?
        
       | JansjoFromIkea wrote:
       | As someone who rents the main thing I've gained from this
       | philosophy is that it's way better to buy high quality used and
       | resell for close to the same price than to pay cheaper and
       | struggle to get rid of for free.
       | 
       | Not sure how well the durability arguments with new products will
       | hold up over decades like a 60s Braun product may have
        
       | olddustytrail wrote:
       | There's a UK company called "Buy Me Once"
       | https://uk.buymeonce.com/ specialises in this. I've bought some
       | stuff from them and it was always good.
        
       | fuzztester wrote:
       | There's a Hindi proverb I heard as a kid from adult friends and
       | relatives:
       | 
       | Mehngaa roye ek baar, sastaa roye sattar baar
       | 
       | Meaning, literally:
       | 
       | Expensive, cry once; cheap, cry seventy times.
        
       | throwaway22032 wrote:
       | This article, and people posting in this thread are saying that
       | they own 100 or 200 things.
       | 
       | I can't believe this at all.
       | 
       | My utility room, which basically just has stuff like cleaning
       | products and rags/cloths etc, has more than 200 items in it. It's
       | all useful, we're talking things like bleach, deodorant, shampoo,
       | handwash, etc.
       | 
       | My house probably has 50 or more pieces of art on the walls and
       | then another 50 pieces of furniture. My computery odds and ends
       | bin easily has more than 200 items in it.
       | 
       | Either you guys are all just-moved-out kids, single and living in
       | a single room, or we're defining "thing" differently. Which is
       | it?
        
         | thfuran wrote:
         | No kidding. If you own 100 items, a made bed is like 10% of
         | your belongings. That's nonsense.
        
         | Noumenon72 wrote:
         | > This article, and people posting in this thread are saying
         | that they own 100 or 200 things.
         | 
         | > I can't believe this at all.
         | 
         | > Either you guys are all just-moved-out kids, single and
         | living in a single room, or we're defining "thing" differently.
         | 
         | I feel like the assumption in this is that people who are
         | single and living in a single room are not "people", and
         | shouldn't be posting about how much they own? My utility room
         | contains a washer, a dryer, one bottle of Tide, and a paper bag
         | for dryer lint. I'm not posting "people say they have 2000
         | square feet in their home, I can't believe this. Either you
         | guys live in houses, or we're defining 'feet' differently".
        
         | pacifika wrote:
         | I think your house must be a bit bigger than most people, based
         | on 50 pieces of art, compared to a minimalist living in a
         | rented 2 bedroom apartment
        
           | throwaway22032 wrote:
           | It sounds like the entire distinction is just renting vs
           | owning to be honest, which makes it all a bit more boring.
           | 
           | My house is a fairly normal sized house, there are millions
           | of it in the UK.
        
         | lifeformed wrote:
         | Everything else is in their parents' basement.
        
         | EVa5I7bHFq9mnYK wrote:
         | I used to travel for extended times, and I actually counted the
         | items in my backpack. It was about 70 items (if you count a
         | money wad as one item and each sock pair as one item). That's
         | all I needed.
         | 
         | Of course, much more items are accumulating while staying
         | stationary. Easily approaches 1000, and I'm not a hoarder type.
         | If some item has not been used for 1 year, out to the garbage
         | it goes.
        
         | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
         | To be fair, I don't think it really makes sense to count
         | consumable items like the bleach, deodorant, shampoo, handwash,
         | etc. examples you gave. I wouldn't expect him to count the milk
         | in his fridge or the olive oil in his pantry, either. Point
         | being that just the natural day-to-day use of that stuff uses
         | it up.
         | 
         | But yeah, I agree with the general point.
        
           | timeon wrote:
           | > I don't think it really makes sense to count consumable
           | items
           | 
           | On the other hand if I count something it is more likely to
           | be consumable item, so I have track of what is missing. Why
           | bother with other stuff? That sounds like opposite of
           | minimalism.
        
         | rootsudo wrote:
         | "Either you guys are all just-moved-out kids, single and living
         | in a single room, or we're defining "thing" differently. Which
         | is it?"
         | 
         | It's just a different lifestyle, there are obvious exceptions
         | to it - but I was there once with a house and countless things
         | - most of them I forgot I had and such.
         | 
         | The idea is to do inventory and then catalog and see what you
         | _need_ and don 't need. But no, I can say with assurance my
         | life right now is basically two suitcases, by choice - and
         | airbnbs/hotels. 20 lb of clothes/about 80 pieces total.
         | 
         | Misc electronic stuff takes a ton of space, spare usb -
         | chargers, usb cables, etc - having spares for spares.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | FalconSensei wrote:
         | exactly. If you just count cutlery, dishes, pans, cleaning
         | products, chargers, cables, etc... it goes up way too fast.
        
       | csiegert wrote:
       | You'd think if you pay more you get quality. I paid 280EUR for
       | the Microsoft Surface Headset 2 when they came out. After a year
       | and a half, the plastic head band cracked in half. The part of
       | the device that is stressed whenever I put the headset on or take
       | it off was cheap plastic and just broke with regular use. 280EUR
       | down the drain because some MBA or stupid designer said hey let's
       | use cheap plastic.
        
       | 0x53 wrote:
       | I would love to be a minimalist. Unfortunately I have a wife who
       | is the opposite of that and a woodworking hobby.
        
         | 2muchcoffeeman wrote:
         | Hobbies are a great reason to accumulate stuff though. You
         | can't get good at stuff if you have nothing or need to hire
         | gear all the time.
        
       | s5300 wrote:
       | Things I have bought well and once:
       | 
       | Vitamix 5300 - going strong after 13 years of near daily usage, 4
       | family blenders from department stores failed/poor quality
       | blending before this
       | 
       | Zojirushi Rice Cooker - also close to 13 years, usage of a few
       | times a week
       | 
       | Breville Burr Grinder - decade or a bit older, frequently used
       | 
       | Sonicare Toothbrush - $150ish or so model, probably 8 years of
       | near twice daily usage. Presume I'll have to change the battery
       | sooner or later, but fine aside from that.
       | 
       | Being from poverty, I don't think anybody in my family prior to
       | me had ever spent nearly this much money on singular appliances.
       | Having made the money spent on them on my own in my early teens,
       | I consider it money very well spent - they've been with me in the
       | Midwest, to the East Coast, and the West Coast (and through more
       | than a few TSA baggage scans with people maybe wondering why is a
       | young male flying with this kitchen equipment)
        
         | cactusplant7374 wrote:
         | I was disappointed to learn Vitamix and Instant Pot aren't dual
         | voltage compatible. Can't use them in Europe.
         | 
         | So basically only low wattage stuff is 120 and 220 volts.
        
           | diffeomorphism wrote:
           | You can get both in 220V versions though.
        
         | aidenn0 wrote:
         | Mi Zojirushi/Micom rice cooker is good, but the battery is
         | essentially not user-replacable. I just set the clock any time
         | I'm going to use the timer; it's a real letdown in something
         | that otherwise has lasted me over a decade.
        
           | quesera wrote:
           | If you own a screwdriver and a soldering iron, some solder
           | braid and some solder, the battery becomes replaceable!
           | 
           | This is my objection to minimalism (not that you're
           | advocating, but ObOnTopic): Tools and materials are
           | _capability_ , which seems senseless to minimize!
        
         | 22c wrote:
         | Sadly, my Diamond Sonicare toothbrush failed after just over 2
         | years. I spent several weeks back and forth with Philips.
         | Initially they offered me 10% off buying a new one, which I was
         | not happy with having spent so much on a top of the line model.
         | I asked about the possibility of repair, they forwarded me the
         | details of several local certified Philips repairers who, when
         | I rang, all said they only really repair TVs or large consumer
         | electronics devices and have no idea where to even start with
         | repairing an electric toothbrush.
         | 
         | I contacted Philips again and explained that nobody is able to
         | repair it, they again offered me 10% off a new one (which I'd
         | have to buy through the official web store, which is already
         | more expensive than a retail store) which I declined, they sent
         | me details of a repair shop in a completely different state. I
         | rang that repair shop and explained in detail the entire story,
         | they were empathetic but also said they have no idea how they'd
         | repair a toothbrush or even why Philips would suggest I send it
         | there.
         | 
         | I'd say you got lucky with your Sonicare, and based on the
         | runaround they gave me, poor customer service and poor
         | serviceability, I would not recommend anyone buy an expensive
         | Sonicare unless they're made of money and don't care about the
         | possibility of having to replace it within a few years.
        
       | stormdennis wrote:
       | Sometimes buying well means buying cheap. I buy cheap DIY tools.
       | They're good enough for me as a hobbyist. But if I were a
       | professional they be a bad buy. For one, with constant use,
       | they'd wear out too quickly. Secondly while I can do accurate
       | cuts on my PS100 tablesaw, for example, each cut requires more
       | setting up time, than on a quality saw with an accurate fence.
        
       | Panushkin wrote:
       | Yeah i still drive my 86 plymouth horizon. Gets me to work on 60
       | bucks for the month.Bloody thing will outlast me if i have
       | anything to say about it.Plus it has a good radio 8)
        
       | eep_social wrote:
       | They had me with the title but the content reads like an elder-
       | millennial whose conversational voice got inescapably stuck in
       | memes and referral links.
        
         | nocoiner wrote:
         | I loved the faux naivete. "I can't believe I'm getting a
         | ~surprise~ package in the mail from the guy who recycles
         | leather just two weeks after I sent him a passel of recycled
         | leather totally out of the goodness of my heart!"
        
       | pwpw wrote:
       | An observation I have made of my grandparents, who certainly had
       | a bit of money, is everything they own is high quality and has
       | lasted them years.
       | 
       | My grandfather still has his Hickey Freeman suits and sports
       | coats tailored and repaired by a local menswear shop. Their
       | Dualit toaster still works while I have personally gone through
       | many Cuisinart toasters. Their technics AV components still work
       | with their high quality speakers. Their Sony Trinitron TVs still
       | work. Their pots and pans from their wedding are still in active
       | use. Their Pyrex continues to store leftovers decades on. I am
       | currently using the Minolta film camera and lens that my
       | grandfather bought in the 80s for traveling around the world
       | with.
       | 
       | When I go to their home, I am always in awe of the high quality
       | objects that still function perfectly fine and can all be passed
       | down. When I look at many of the things my parents own and most
       | of the things I own, I see less and less of that. Our clothes are
       | cheaper. Our pans less resilient. Our technology is less
       | repairable.
       | 
       | Buying well certainly leads to a longer lifespan for objects.
       | However, I find that's becoming tougher and tougher to find these
       | days.
        
         | edpichler wrote:
         | We all feel the same. The reason is the
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Planned_obsolescence
        
         | alecst wrote:
         | My grandparents grew up during the depression. They buy
         | everything on sale, including food. They have olive oil in
         | their cabinets that's from 2009 (it survived a move.) My
         | grampa, in his own words, loves buying "junk" and "crap" and
         | holding into it forever. They probably spend most of their
         | money on gifts, dining out, cruises, and trading stocks. I love
         | them so much. But I fear the day I have to accept their hand-
         | me-downs. I'll probably end up with the oil.
        
         | csunbird wrote:
         | As my father said: We are too poor to buy cheap stuff.
        
           | antongribok wrote:
           | My father said: We're not rich enough to by cheap things.
           | 
           | I wonder if the original saying has been translated multiple
           | times before getting to English.
        
           | ConroyBumpus wrote:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boots_theory
        
         | onion2k wrote:
         | _Our clothes are cheaper..._
         | 
         | There's a useful function in limited lifespan - things are much
         | easier to update and upgrade. My tastes have changed a lot over
         | the past 20 years. If my clothes lasted longer I'd have a
         | wardrobe full of things I don't like now and wouldn't wear. If
         | my TV lasted 20 years I'd still have an old, inefficient SD CRT
         | box in the corner, or I'd have passed it on to someone else and
         | maybe they'd have scrapped a functioning item now.
         | 
         | It's less true for basic things like toasters and pots and
         | pans, but I suspect the lower quality is partly due to being
         | cheaper to make and therefore more accessible. If everything is
         | made well and costs more then wealthy people have things that
         | last and poor people don't have things. Cheaper things balances
         | that inequality a little.
        
           | TonyTrapp wrote:
           | It's not useful that the thing happens to be broken at the
           | point of time where you don't like it anymore anyway. If it
           | wasn't broken and you didn't like it anymore, you could pass
           | it on to someone else.
        
           | anonymouskimmer wrote:
           | Poor people go to Goodwill or the Salvation Army store for
           | high-quality, inexpensive items. Or they used to when high-
           | quality items were in greater abundance.
           | 
           | It's not that much more difficult to periodically clean out
           | your wardrobe and donate it compared to throwing it in the
           | trash.
        
           | pjerem wrote:
           | > My tastes have changed a lot over the past 20 years. If my
           | TV lasted 20 years I'd still have an old, inefficient SD CRT
           | box in the corner
           | 
           | Societal context is important here.
           | 
           | Did your taste really changed on itself or did the constant
           | marketing pressure changed your taste for clothes and your
           | expectations for what is an acceptable TV ?
           | 
           | I mean : of course, I'm a tech enthusiast : I love big modern
           | OLED screens, I love 4K movies and beautiful video games. I'm
           | truly amazed by what we can do.
           | 
           | But, does all of this makes me truly happier than when I
           | played with my Nintendo 64 on a cheap CRT screen ? I don't
           | think so. The pleasure I feel playing video games alone and
           | with my friends never changed with technology evolution.
           | 
           | And it's just an example that can apply to mostly everything.
           | We just change things because we are encouraged to by
           | marketers. Sometimes things are more robust or more efficient
           | and that's really worth changing, but that's pretty uncommon.
        
             | Retric wrote:
             | I really don't notice much difference between 4k and 1080
             | or even 720 as long as it's minimally compressed data. High
             | compression ratios is IMO is a huge driver for 4k because
             | you can hide a multitude of artifacts once individual
             | pixels aren't as noticeable, but rarely do you compare
             | identical bandwidth streams at 1080 and 4k.
             | 
             | That's IMO what's driving a lot of technological
             | advancement. It's not necessarily about needing progress as
             | it is separating yourself from the profit maximization
             | processes which makes most things worse over time. Tiny
             | companies don't have inherent advantages when it comes to
             | say food, but they don't have the expertise to perfectly
             | maximize shelf life while keeping the food reasonably
             | palatable.
             | 
             | That same maximization causes Windows and smart TV's to
             | include so much advertising because it's maximizing their
             | profits at the expense of the product. But you don't see
             | that in new categories like AR headsets.
        
               | joshspankit wrote:
               | I have direct experience that supports your point:
               | 
               | There's a local TV/internet provider who rolled out a new
               | system of TV boxes. They compete with the big giant who
               | had "4K" at the time. This provider sent out a signal
               | that was 720P natively but it looked way better due to
               | the rock-solid bitrate that was planned from the
               | beginning. It was so noticeable that sports on the big
               | giant's boxes were a smeary blurry mess by comparison.
               | And yet, the majority of bigger-spending customers still
               | got pulled in by the "4k" marketing.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | I wish we had standardized on advertising bitrate instead
               | of resolution.
        
         | mdorazio wrote:
         | This sounds to me like a combination of survivorship bias and
         | cost preference.
         | 
         | You see the resilient things at your grandparents' house
         | because those are the only things that have survived. All the
         | poor quality things they purchased over the years are gone by
         | now. Also, you and your parents probably favor lower-cost items
         | (as do most people these days) over longevity. This may simply
         | not have been possible in your grandparents' time, pre-
         | globalization. It's still very possible to get high-quality and
         | long-lasting goods (the buyitforlife subreddit is a good
         | starting point), but you're going to pay a lot more for them
         | than most people are willing to in comparison to the "replace
         | it when it breaks" mass-produced-in-China goods.
        
           | mattmanser wrote:
           | I personally don't favour cheap over longevity, and I don't
           | really believe most consumer do either.
           | 
           | The problem is that it has become increasingly difficult to
           | discern if something will last.
           | 
           | An expensive product, from what was a trusted brand, can be
           | just as short lived as a cheap one these days. Cost does not
           | always reflect quality.
           | 
           | And brands that build long-lived products struggle as they
           | don't have the repeat customers of products that are good,
           | but contain forced obsolescence features.
           | 
           | It's a hidden cost to consumers that is often hard to figure
           | out without extensive research.
        
             | wellanyway wrote:
             | Exactly. Marshall Major headphones I bought some tears ago
             | looked and were priced in a way I thought would guarantee
             | decade of service at least. They fell apart in half a year
             | revealing multiple fundamental design flaws.
        
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             | adhesive_wombat wrote:
             | > And brands that build long-lived products struggle as
             | they don't have the repeat customers of products that are
             | good
             | 
             | I know of a company that was a national leader in a certain
             | kind of industrial equipment. Now that the industry isn't
             | expanding in this country, the market is saturated and they
             | can't sell anything because what they sold decades ago was
             | designed for excellence and just won't die. Nearly all
             | business now is occasional servicing of their old
             | equipment.
        
               | peteradio wrote:
               | They should be able to increase the margin of their
               | meager sales at the least, with a history like that.
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | Well, if their brand is that strong, that itself allows
               | them to start making something else - you know, "from the
               | makers of <stuff_that_just_wouldn't_die>"; won't need
               | much brand building and convincing because people are
               | still eating the pudding containing the proof.
        
           | pwpw wrote:
           | I definitely agree with you. I would also add that I believe
           | there's an element of the period of time in which they had
           | the money to purchase their goods. Many goods had been
           | iterated upon and become the best versions while having been
           | around long enough to make an informed decision on high
           | quality products.
           | 
           | Today, we have been in a period of rapid change as technology
           | advances. My grandparents bought the best of the analog
           | world. Their CRT TVs were the peak of consumer sets. The
           | world switched to LCDs when I was looking to buy a TV, which
           | took a long time to catch up to the height of CRTs (not until
           | OLED in my opinion). Their film cameras took exceptional
           | pictures. Only recently have most consumer DSLRs begun to
           | achieve the same level of quality. Their cars had battle-
           | tested V6 engines while the cars I looked at had newer,
           | unproven inline 4 engines that came with carbon build up
           | issues.
           | 
           | So a mix of survivorship bias and cost preference but also
           | the current state of the market. Fortunately for me, I have
           | been able to purchase a nice PVM to play my old video game
           | consoles on, have made use of my grandfather's film camera
           | and can develop the film at a local studio, and am able to
           | buy a used car with a proven V6 engine since they are still
           | available in the market. When buying products that will
           | hopefully last, I first look to what my grandparents own as a
           | starting point. Often, purchasing older goods let me take
           | advantage of those points you mentioned.
           | 
           | For a current product on the market that is pretty great, I
           | have been pleased with a Moccamaster coffee maker.
        
             | galacticdessert wrote:
             | Small and efficient ICE engines are as proved a technology
             | as it gets. If you end up buying a V6 engine now it is not
             | because of how good or reliable the engine is, it is either
             | nostalgia or status symbol. So, please don't and be more
             | mindful of your emissions.
        
         | itsoktocry wrote:
         | > _My grandfather still has his Hickey Freeman suits and sports
         | coats tailored and repaired by a local menswear shop._
         | 
         | Do you think people are getting new suits because they are
         | "worn out", or perhaps because they're no longer in style?
         | 
         | > _Their technics AV components still work with their high
         | quality speakers._
         | 
         | I'll bet modern engineered speakers will beat those high
         | quality speakers, at a fraction of the price. That's modernity.
        
           | photonerd wrote:
           | Eh, speaker tech--outside of miniaturization--seems to be the
           | one area that feels pretty static.
           | 
           | Mainly because the market did large speakers is so much
           | smaller now. Feels like the price/quality trade off is about
           | the same as it was 40 years ago.
           | 
           | The speakers that are "a fraction of the price" now are
           | there, but they're really terrible Chinese-made junk for the
           | most part.
        
           | bob1029 wrote:
           | > I'll bet modern engineered speakers will beat those high
           | quality speakers, at a fraction of the price.
           | 
           | You'd be surprised how shitty most "modern" speakers are.
           | 
           | Size is still king. Doesn't matter how fast your fancy
           | microcontrollers are. The big-ass cabinets from the 80s and
           | 90s still sound incredible when you put them next to the
           | typical experience you'd find on the shelves of Target or
           | Best Buy.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | Yeah, I'd probably ditch the big stereo system if I were
             | starting over from scratch at this point. But that would be
             | in the interests of downsizing, not because I have any
             | illusions that a soundbar is as good as my surround sound
             | setup with large speakers and a subwoofer.
        
             | hakfoo wrote:
             | The one argument I can see for modern speakers is
             | materials: theoretically we can have better materials
             | science-- better foams and rubbers for the gaskets and
             | such, better insulating batting.
             | 
             | However, it is frustrating that I can't get modern speakers
             | anything like my parents' three-ways with a 12 or 15 inch
             | woofer without finding some esoteric offering.
        
               | bob1029 wrote:
               | > However, it is frustrating that I can't get modern
               | speakers anything like my parents' three-ways with a 12
               | or 15 inch woofer without finding some esoteric offering.
               | 
               | You can get "modern" builds of the very same loudspeakers
               | right now with major brands like Klipsch -
               | https://www.klipsch.com/heritage-premium-audio The AK6 is
               | still considered by many to be the best loudspeaker you
               | can ever own.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Correct. The only downside on some of those large speakers
             | is the paper cones can get brittle and break, but when
             | properly repaired they sound great.
             | 
             | Often the woofer on the speaker is larger than a modern 5.1
             | subwoofer.
        
         | wrp wrote:
         | My very-elderly parents have a house full of stuff, from
         | appliances to towels, that they bought as a young couple on a
         | tight budget. They were always the type to buy the cheapest
         | thing that would do the job. Even that stuff, though, would
         | last practically indefinitely if you didn't abuse it. Except
         | for some cameras, all the old items I can think of there were
         | made in USA. My own view on this is that manufacturers didn't
         | necessarily have more integrity, they just hadn't yet figured
         | out how to make things more cheaply.
        
       | leipert wrote:
       | My grandma always says: "We are too poor to buy twice".
        
       | pygar wrote:
       | personally I "buy mid-range, and replace when it breaks". Not
       | obsessing over your possessions is freeing.
        
       | rdoherty wrote:
       | Reminds me of https://buymeonce.com/ . If this kind of thing
       | interests you, check it out.
        
       | irrational wrote:
       | > I struggle to understand how or why there are 300,000 items in
       | the average American home
       | 
       | It would be interesting to count everything in our home. The
       | author says they don't count clothing, but I wonder if the
       | article includes clothing. I probably have 10,000
       | screws/bolts/nuts/washers/nails/etc. in the bins in my garage. Do
       | I count all those separately? We have thousands of books. The
       | kitchen has lots of dishes, silverware, pots, pans, trays, etc.
       | Do we count all the food items separately? I have a 5 gallon
       | bucket of all purpose flour, a 5 gallon bucket of wheat flour,
       | bags of bread flour, a separate canister of flour on the
       | countertop... do I count all of those separately? I start to
       | think of all the things in the shed, in the garage, in closets,
       | and bedrooms. 300,000 probably isn't far off.
        
       | subjectsigma wrote:
       | I might have over 100 physical paper books. I know I have well
       | over 100 computer parts and accessories (including cables,
       | adapters, extra hard drives, USB drives, game controllers,
       | webcams, old CPU fans, PCIe cards, etc)
       | 
       | I don't think I'm making it to less than 500 items total. Maybe
       | not even less than 1K.
       | 
       | I also don't see anything wrong with that.
        
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