[HN Gopher] Humanity's earliest recorded kiss occurred in Mesopo...
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       Humanity's earliest recorded kiss occurred in Mesopotamia 4,500
       years ago
        
       Author : wglb
       Score  : 78 points
       Date   : 2023-05-22 13:10 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | n1b0m wrote:
       | Do we have any evidence for the first person to shout "get a
       | room"?
        
         | pfdietz wrote:
         | It may have been sometime around the invention of rooms, which
         | is back in the neolithic.
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%87atalh%C3%B6y%C3%BCk
        
           | yieldcrv wrote:
           | I'd wager that sex wasn't private across cultures and time
           | periods
           | 
           | Even with loosening attitudes now you see that many people
           | prioritize safety and privacy removes that
           | 
           | So public and group sex is more appealing to a broader range
           | of people than might already be aware. For example, most of
           | our courtship is spending energy demonstrating to women that
           | we are safe to be alone with, and for women that its
           | worthwhile to take a chance since there is no accurately way
           | to predict which man will do what in private. (Men are
           | vulnerable to the same things, but its not part of our
           | culture to prioritize that, most supporting statistics are
           | based on an absence of stats to overamplify the stats that do
           | exist). This makes it seem like interest in sex is far
           | different across the sexes than is accurate. But when you
           | increase the safety aspect in other ways, you'll find many
           | more women would also rather skip the courtship games since
           | that assurance isn't necessary.
        
         | klyrs wrote:
         | Unsure about shouting but it's probably recorded in Roman
         | graffiti.
        
           | quickthrowman wrote:
           | I think this fits, implicitly anyways: "Theophilus, don't
           | perform oral sex on girls against the city wall like a dog."
           | 
           | I am unsure if this is the 'most excellent' Theophilus that
           | Luke and Acts both mention.
        
             | olddustytrail wrote:
             | It's from the parody "Acts of the Adonis"
        
             | pfdietz wrote:
             | Maybe he was really good at it.
        
       | pizzaknife wrote:
       | now im left wondering what sort of immune system
       | benefits/detriments this practice produces - I'll have to try it
       | sometime!
        
         | paulddraper wrote:
         | Strengthens immune system.
         | 
         | If you really cared about your well-being, you would set up
         | hand-desanitizing stations. A simple bowl at every juncture
         | filled with dirt, vomit, fecal matter.
        
           | lynx23 wrote:
           | That is so true, at least as far as an exaggregated
           | picturesque example goes. Already 20 years ago, stories
           | started to pop up about farms offering holidays for kids from
           | cities with immunological health problems. The explanation
           | was, and it just feels like a logical thing to happen, that
           | overly clean environments lead to all sorts of health issues,
           | and putting kids in contact with a bunch of dirt and around
           | animals can improve things. Presented by mainstream media, in
           | ya face. And then there came covid-19, and suddenly there
           | "we" were, spraying everything with disinfectant, and overall
           | worsening the immune system of everyone by artifical
           | separation and even mandated house arrest. And if you
           | remembered the past, and happened to utter something about
           | that making the immune system even worse, you were outcast as
           | a lunatic. And what happened? We had a _big_ wave of
           | infections of small children _after_ the pandemic, with
           | overfilled hospitals and everything, as a result of avoiding
           | certain infections you always happen to get. Postponing these
           | almost created yet another crisis. Ah, but meddling is always
           | a good thing I guess, and pointing at people with different
           | opinions, thats also very important for apes. When it comes
           | to  "how to life your live" we are such a pathetic species
           | blinded by materialism and systematically stupified by the
           | media. And, everyone writing such a statement is
           | automatically sort of cast aside as crazy. Its a lovely
           | place.
        
             | kortex wrote:
             | Actually, hygiene hypothesis primarily applies to parasites
             | and benign bacteria. Exposure to a wide variety of those
             | reduces type II hypersensitivity (allergies and asthma) and
             | digestive disorders. Data point of 1, I massively improved
             | my allergies with helminth therapy.
             | 
             | Viruses and systemic bacteria kind of just fuck you up for
             | the most part. Long COVID, Mono (EBV), Chickenpox/shingles,
             | HSV 1 and 2, HPV, those all just wreck your body in
             | difficult-to-repair ways, increase your risk of things like
             | cancer and MS (and possibly dementia). Lyme, syphilis, and
             | other nasties that hide from the body's defenses can cause
             | lifelong inflammation, rewire your immune system to cause
             | allergies and autoimmune disorders.
        
             | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
             | I mean, sure, believe this if you want to, but it's
             | simplistic thinking. You're taking the answer you find most
             | emotionally satisfying to you and running with it. As an
             | anecdote, I grew up on an acreage. I was exposed to cats,
             | dogs, dust, pollen, and horses and was in close proximity
             | to all of them throughout my childhood. What am I extremely
             | allergic to? Cats, dogs, dust, pollen, and horses.
        
               | paulddraper wrote:
               | Allergies are an over-response of the immune system.
               | 
               | So, yes, exposure will _absolutely_ strengthen your
               | immune system response. (...which in this particular
               | case, is the wrong thing)
        
           | cromulent wrote:
           | Dr Karl (aussie science guy) got all the well-wishers to put
           | their unsanitized finger into his eldest son's mouth on his
           | birth day. Sample size 1, worked OK.
           | 
           | https://twitter.com/DoctorKarl/status/820944574906368000
        
             | paulddraper wrote:
             | Cromulent username
        
         | simonh wrote:
         | Just so you know.
         | 
         | https://www.news24.com/amp/life/wellness/body/condition-cent...
        
       | RcouF1uZ4gsC wrote:
       | I wonder how far back the researchers think human sexual
       | intercourse goes?
        
         | jaldhar wrote:
         | "Sexual intercourse began in nineteen sixty-three (Which was
         | rather late for me) between the end of the Chatterley ban and
         | the Beatles' first LP."
         | 
         | -- Phillip Larkin
        
         | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
         | There are recordings going back at least to the early 1970s.
        
         | lynx23 wrote:
         | You nailed it.
        
       | akiselev wrote:
       | _> Recent research has hypothesized that the earliest evidence of
       | human lip kissing originated in a very specific geographical
       | location in South Asia 3,500 years ago, from where it may have
       | spread to other regions, simultaneously accelerating the spread
       | of the herpes simplex virus 1._
       | 
       | I find the implied thought process here hilarious: the first
       | stone tool industry is three million years old [1], fire a
       | million years, modern humans 300,000, and agriculture about
       | 10,000 years old.
       | 
       | But kissing? Yeah that's gotta be high tech invented 4,500 years
       | ago, a hundred years before the Egyptians gods invented felatio
       | [2]. Yeah that tracks.
       | 
       | At what point can we say without concrete scientific evidence
       | that the likeliest scenario is that we were too busy making out
       | for tens of thousands of years to record the invention of
       | kissing?
       | 
       | [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oldowan
       | 
       | [2] https://medium.com/lessons-from-history/worlds-first-
       | documen...
       | 
       | Edit: thank you for the correction on age of controlled fire
        
         | burnished wrote:
         | Look, when some one says that the earth moved, it didn't leave
         | a geological record. They checked.
        
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         | kbelder wrote:
         | Finding and documenting the earliest evidence of kissing is
         | legitimate research, and good on them.
         | 
         | But, yes, making even the slightest assumption that this
         | evidence is related _at_ _all_ to the actual origin of kissing
         | is ridiculous. I think researchers are very reluctant to add
         | "of course, it obviously started 100,000 years earlier, we just
         | don't have direct evidence" to their papers. That tacit
         | acceptance that lack of evidence is evidence of a lack shows up
         | in a lot of different fields, like cosmology, even our response
         | to COVID.
         | 
         | I get that researchers don't want to add speculation to their
         | publications, but overstating the certainty of evidence isn't
         | good either. We all need some Bayesian initial priors set.
        
           | cjohnson318 wrote:
           | One data point is that of all creatures, only bonobos and
           | humans kiss. Humans don't seem to learn the concept of a kiss
           | until at least a year, and even then it's more of a mirroring
           | gesture. It seems like a much higher level social construct
           | than smiling, laughing, nuzzling, etc.
        
         | simonh wrote:
         | Nitpick. Fire probably goes back a million years or more.
         | 
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Control_of_fire_by_early_hum...
        
         | francisofascii wrote:
         | Right. One of our closest relatives, the bonobo, also kiss.
        
           | zoklet-enjoyer wrote:
           | Also known for their unique handshakes
        
             | bonzini wrote:
             | Like this? https://youtu.be/Ub9Ed7AFlvw?t=15
        
             | sph wrote:
             | Probably something sexual... I was reading on bonobos
             | recently, and how female bonobos quickly rub their
             | clitorises together to greet one another.
             | 
             | It is really fascinating how sex is a huge part of their
             | culture.
        
         | ye-olde-sysrq wrote:
         | That was the prior research and hypothesis, which the article
         | claims this new finding supercedes, moving it back an
         | additional 1000 years.
         | 
         | Also the new research doesn't claim that's when it started,
         | it's just the earliest record. It even mentions further down
         | that kissing is seen in primates, suggesting that humans have
         | potentially always kissed. (It of course just took us a while
         | to develop art and preservation thereof enough that we could
         | both record it and have that recording survive to the current
         | day).
        
           | ComplexSystems wrote:
           | It does seem to claim that's when it started, and attributes
           | an increase in the spread of HSV to the introduction of
           | kissing.
        
             | SiempreViernes wrote:
             | No, the linked article is a summary of another article
             | written to contradict the earlier researchers that made the
             | claim about HSV spread being connected to the practice of
             | kissing.
        
         | aidenn0 wrote:
         | Yes, I think the researchers behind the work TFA is talking
         | about _also_ finds it hilarious, but  "that's stupid" is less
         | publishable than "we found a counterexample in the
         | archaeological record (and also that's stupid)"
        
         | facorreia wrote:
         | I agree. This is a common logical fallacy. The absence of proof
         | is not proof of absence.
         | 
         | a) There's no way to prove that this was the earliest recorded
         | kiss. Others may have been recorded but they haven't been found
         | (or the record has been destroyed).
         | 
         | b) Of course as pointed out in the thread, the "earliest
         | recorded kiss" is not the same as "the earliest kiss".
         | 
         | A better title would be "Earliest recovered record of a kiss is
         | from 4,500 years ago".
        
       | anigbrowl wrote:
       | Birds and numerous other animals (including humans) tear off or
       | chew food for infants. Making artwork sufficiently durable to
       | last thousands of years is the only recent invention here.
       | 
       | 'Earliest recorded ________' is archaeology hype, kinda like the
       | periodic 'x-rays reveal NEW image underneath famous pointing!!!'
       | stories are reliable art hype. It's interesting, but not
       | profoundly so.
        
       | syngrog66 wrote:
       | One of the best things I learned from an older software engineer
       | ever, way back, was when we were discussing about whether it was
       | worth investing effort into building some new tool or not.
       | 
       | "Is this actionable?" he said. Meaning, we shouldnt bother
       | investing the effort to decisively learn some thing X _if_ once
       | knowing its value its... not really actionable.
       | 
       | That it doesnt empower us to do something differently than we
       | would have done otherwise, in the absence of knowing X.
       | 
       | It was my first thought when I saw a story on HN about scientists
       | figuring out (and only approximately, mind you) when the first
       | kiss happened.
       | 
       | Who cares? What would we do _differently_ today if we were
       | confident the 1st kiss was exactly 8000 years ago or 5000 years
       | ago or 120,523.74 years ago?
       | 
       | Nothing. Nothing would be different. So perhaps we should spend
       | our time and focus on higher priorities (like say democracy
       | dangers, climate, curing cancer etc.)
        
       | tomcam wrote:
       | It appears to me there's a lot more than kissing going on in this
       | picture
        
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         | anigbrowl wrote:
         | I'm introducing new legislation to protect our youth from this
         | representational art menace. You may say it's been going on for
         | thousands of years, and I say that's what happens when you
         | don't nip it in the bud.
        
           | tomcam wrote:
           | That's what I call some out of the box thinking. Thanks for
           | dealing properly with this important matter.
        
       | onlypositive wrote:
       | [flagged]
        
       | mometsi wrote:
       | Abo and Nusur, sittin in a tree,
        
       | nologic01 wrote:
       | Earliest recorded sex act occured in Mesopotamia
        
       | JoeAltmaier wrote:
       | I think they have the tablet turned sideways. Given the flat feet
       | and only one leg raised, it seems likely they were standing.
        
         | SiempreViernes wrote:
         | Yeah, this phys.org repost is just a worse version of the
         | original letter to Science[1], where (among many other
         | benefits) they do show this tablet the right way up.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.adf0512
        
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