[HN Gopher] The Unequal Impact of Parenthood in Academia (2021)
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       The Unequal Impact of Parenthood in Academia (2021)
        
       Author : pepys
       Score  : 48 points
       Date   : 2023-04-25 13:04 UTC (2 days ago)
        
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       | gadders wrote:
       | I'd be interested to see if this gap still prevails in the social
       | sciences. I would expect (given how progressive they are) that
       | this gap would not exist.
        
       | bell-cot wrote:
       | If 1% of the effort that goes into re-re-re-verifying systematic
       | sexism in academia was re-directed to actually _doing something
       | useful_ about the problem...
       | 
       | But ([re-]^n)verification is a PC and peer-friendly source of
       | funding for endless studies. Vs. actually _doing_ anything would
       | involve confronting actual academics over their behaviors,
       | biases, ...
       | 
       | So fat chance.
        
         | myrmidon wrote:
         | "Actually doing something about it" is easier said than done.
         | 
         | I don't think that 1% of the effort of a few studies would get
         | you very far at all-- you would already exceed that by
         | basically sending the whole staff (not just the people doing
         | the studies, but the whole university) to a (mandatory) one-
         | afternoon-awareness-raising event, and even without trying to
         | ridicule the concept, that does not sound like it would achieve
         | ANYTHING...
         | 
         | We're probably best off with the Max-Planck approach of
         | advancing non-discrimination one funeral at a time...
        
           | bell-cot wrote:
           | If you believe many of the studies - just swapping male-
           | sounding and female-sounding applicant names on resumes and
           | papers submitted for publication would do a great deal of
           | good. The Max-Planck approach does not actually work WRT
           | human sexism.
           | 
           | (Yes, know that awareness-raising events are _only_ useful
           | for wasting staff 's time while covering management's *ss.)
        
       | Mezzie wrote:
       | I'd be really interested to see this broken down further:
       | 
       | * Single mothers, married mothers, single fathers, and married
       | fathers - does being married have an impact on productivity? If
       | married parents produce more, then perhaps the issue is the
       | mothers not having as much help as the fathers in aggregate.
       | 
       | * Same sex couples vs. Heterosexual ones. Do lesbian mothers
       | suffer from the same productivity penalty? Or do gay male faculty
       | members take a similar hit to mothers since they're acting as
       | primary caregivers?
       | 
       | * Adoptive/non-biological parenthood versus giving birth: Is it
       | _being a mother_ that causes the dip or _birthing a child_?
        
       | syngrog66 wrote:
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       | dekhn wrote:
       | When I was an undergrad I worked with a prestigious professor
       | whom I respected greatly.
       | 
       | One day, I stumbled into lab, apparently looking fairly love-
       | struck (i'm a man, and was seeing a new girlfriend), and he said:
       | "dekhn, if you want to be successful in science, you can't have a
       | wife or a girlfriend or kids. They are a distraction and to be
       | successful, you have to dedicate your whole life to science.
       | Nights, evenings, everything. A wife and kids will just waste
       | your time".
       | 
       | I'm glad I ignored his advice and got married to that new
       | girlfriend (and had kids, after establishing my career). He later
       | narrowly missed out on the Nobel Prize and married his postdoc.
       | But he was right: to be truly successful in science today, unless
       | you're a charismatic genius, requires an extraordinary level of
       | dedication- and a lot of family support.
       | 
       | That said I'm surrounded, in my job, with successful women
       | scientists who came from academia and have kids. This sometimes
       | leads to weekend meetings where both of us end up saying "Oh, I
       | have to go now to take my kid to soccer"...
       | 
       | [edit: I realized I left out an important bit. Both my wife and I
       | got phds and have professional jobs. But I optimized for high
       | salary and status, while she optimized for "freedom"- the freedom
       | to drive kids around to activities, etc. Which in some sense, I
       | guess, is just another anecdote supporting the paper.
        
         | strangeloops85 wrote:
         | What exactly does 'truly successful' mean here? If Nobel prize
         | is the standard that's ridiculous. As someone who is a fairly
         | successful (by conventional metrics) tenured academic at a
         | top-10 school in the physical sciences, this was really dumb
         | advice but not atypical from previous generations (along with:
         | "make sure you have a wife at home to take care of everything"
         | which, btw, was the more common advice to get, since almost
         | every male academic had a wife and kids)
         | 
         | It is quite possible to get grants, do valuable work, advance
         | your field (and get awards, if that's your jam) and still live
         | a pretty normal life. In my case my spouse is also a successful
         | (by conventional metrics) academic, and we have kids. It's not
         | without challenges, but it's quite plenty of positives. And
         | neither of us are charismatic geniuses. We have talents, sure,
         | but the more important thing is that we are organized.
         | 
         | The unequal impact highlighted here is very real. As the man in
         | a dual-career academic couple, I have actively worked (along
         | with my wife of course) to counter it. Simple examples include
         | strongly encouraging and supporting a spouse, including
         | crucially owning/ being the primary point person on childcare -
         | especially needed when they are in the midst of grant
         | applications or important conference presentations, even in
         | early childhood years.
        
           | dekhn wrote:
           | are you a professor at a tier-1 university (you say "tenured
           | academic at a top-10 school in the physical sciences")? Is it
           | in an expensive city? what's your h-index? How much time do
           | you spend writing papers and going to conferences, versus
           | doing research. Is it lab work or theory? how much money do
           | you bring in? Do you work weekends? Do you ever have to go to
           | a conference and it means your spouse has to do extra work
           | around the house?
        
             | strangeloops85 wrote:
             | Yes. Very expensive. h-index > 35. It varies. Both.
             | ~$0.5-1M/year. Sure. Yes, and vice versa for my spouse as
             | well.
        
               | dekhn wrote:
               | You run a lab on $1M/year (grant money?). When I was a PI
               | over a decade ago, that's enough to employ at best 2-4
               | research scientists.
               | 
               | What I actually meant was salary- because if you live in
               | an expensive city, it's almost impossible to buy a house
               | on an academic salary. Certainly you could buy in the
               | worst part of town, far from your institution, with
               | higher crime rates and lower quality of houses...
        
               | strangeloops85 wrote:
               | $1M / year is on the upper end in the engineering school
               | I'm at (average faculty brings in less than half that). I
               | mostly have Ph.D. students (as do most people in my
               | field) that cost ~$100K/ year incl. overhead, or postdocs
               | that cost ~$150K/ year incl. overhead. Things are very
               | different in medical schools where staff scientists are
               | more common and also you have to fund your own salary.
               | 
               | Total household income is > $450K/year, which along with
               | lots of saving early in our career, allows us to live in
               | a home close to work and in a nice neighborhood.
               | Everyone's experience will be different, and we are
               | certainly lucky, but I am in a pretty similar situation
               | to a dozen other recently-tenured faculty I know in my
               | career/life stage at my university. We work hard, but the
               | differences in hours etc. relative to my friends working
               | at various Bay Area companies seem modest. YMMV.
        
               | dekhn wrote:
               | Thanks for sharing.
               | 
               | Your experience is atypical in my field (medical
               | biology/ML/drug discovery)/region(SF Bay Area). Think
               | UCSF/UC Berkeley. My professor at UCSF was soooo happy he
               | could hire starting professors at $70K a year (20 years
               | ago; now it's about $120K).
               | 
               | A typical PI would have $10M/year in grants, have no grad
               | students (or 1-2), only postdocs (who are already
               | publishing), live fairly far away (45+minute commute).
               | Once they reach full tenure it's about $250K/year salary
               | (with summer free, but usually 1 day a week consulting
               | with pharma instead), plus a heavy teaching load. And
               | every single one of them is working nights and weekends
               | to just barely keep up.
               | 
               | I looked at that, and concluded there was no way for me
               | to be happy, and moved to industry, where I get paid
               | more, work less, and have a far better work/life balance.
               | I even have more time to do independent research and
               | publish than I ever did as an academic. So I'm always
               | interested in what attributes people who managed to pull
               | off the "two body problem" in the physical sciences are
               | doing.
        
               | zamfi wrote:
               | That's a fascinating comparison.
               | 
               | It's true that there are major differences in academia
               | across different fields. NIH funding is typically so much
               | more $$ than NSF[1] -- and I wonder if this has an effect
               | on how these fields are structured and thus who enters
               | them. In particular, could the soft money[2] salary
               | encourage people who are willing to take that bet?
               | 
               | But also UCSF/UCB's biomed stuff is kind of a different
               | machine as far as I can tell -- it's not as focused on
               | training (hence, fewer students and more postdocs/post-
               | PhD researchers) and more akin to a traditional
               | industrial research lab. But then: who are they teaching
               | exactly at UCSF (where's the "heavy teaching load" coming
               | from) if there are so few PhD students -- med school
               | students?
               | 
               | For those reading along:
               | 
               | [1] Think medical/biomed/bioeng/pharma/etc. (NIH) vs
               | physics/astronomy/computing/social science/etc. (NSF)
               | 
               | [2] "Soft money" means your (PI) salary is paid from the
               | grants you get; don't get enough grants to cover your
               | salary and you're out, typically, if you can't get a
               | friend to sponsor you under their grants.
        
               | strangeloops85 wrote:
               | $10M/ year seems unusually high, even for med schools -
               | are you sure those are annualized costs? Perhaps it's
               | because I'm familiar with the more basic science (non
               | clinical trial) parts of NIH, but a typical R01 is
               | $250K-$500K/ year in direct costs so that would imply
               | having to hold ~15 of them (with overheard) to reach
               | $10M/year.
               | 
               | It seems like $10M in total value of active grants in a
               | given year (~5 R01s) might be more typical (though the
               | standard for tenure I've heard of in med schools is maybe
               | ~2-3 R01s, so 5 would make you top tier and highly sought
               | after).
               | 
               | For clarity, when I'm referring to $1M/year in annual
               | funding, that's coming from ~6-7 active grants whose
               | total value might be in the $5M range total.
        
               | dekhn wrote:
               | R01s are too small to be worth applying for, typically.
               | Or rather, most PIs have an R01 that pays for themselves
               | and maybe some travel and publication feeds. Most of
               | these people end up making center grants or finding other
               | mechanisms (like non-NIH funding, such as CZI).
               | 
               | There's no way I personally would have been able to
               | manage 5-6 active R01s a year; but then, when I did grant
               | review, I noticed that other folks did a lot of
               | copy/pasting and exagerating about their publications
               | significance, which is not something I was willing to do.
        
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         | chrisbrandow wrote:
         | That's incredibly stupid advice. I got my Ph.D. at Caltech, and
         | as far as I know, every Nobel Prize winner in the chemistry
         | department had a wife and children.
        
           | Misdicorl wrote:
           | Its callous, not stupid. Consider whether those individuals
           | best work (nobel prize granting e.g.) came before or after
           | they started families. Consider how involved they can be with
           | their families given how often you likely saw them around the
           | department. Yes, it can be done. But its hard. And you're
           | unlikely to be ultra successful if you devote the time your
           | family deserves (not to mention the
           | luck/charisma/skill/dedication needed on top of that).
        
             | leroy-is-here wrote:
             | Maybe it's that being married and having children helped
             | them be successful.
        
         | lbeltrame wrote:
         | I was told the same: that if I weren't able to give up
         | everything "I would not be successful". 8 months later and with
         | a breakdown, I was fired from that lab. Better, because people
         | were forced to work (literally forced: even if you had nothing
         | to do you needed to stay until 8pm) at least 12 hours per day,
         | no weekends, no days off, nothing. And my scientific
         | productivity _tanked_.
         | 
         | I managed to somehow continue to a PhD and then I even got a
         | permanent position, but for that mindset I am "failed
         | scientist": I'm over 40, I don't lead anyone, I don't have
         | grants (only two failed ones that caused me so much stress that
         | I didn't want to do them again), nor I have a teaching position
         | (I would gladly get one if it were just teaching, and not the
         | hell of grant seeking). I do the same stuff I was doing during
         | my postdoc years, with a little more job security, of course.
         | 
         | FTR, I made sure that my connections outside work were nowhere
         | near labs, and nowhere around science. Much better for work-
         | life balance.
         | 
         | Academia seems so obsessed with "excellence" it's not even
         | funny. And that excellence needs to be obtained at absolutely
         | any cost. Probably I wouldn't have chosen this career had I
         | known beforehand what I was getting into.
        
       | photochemsyn wrote:
       | The researchers should have asked whether their metric,
       | publication count, is all that great for assessing a professor's
       | actual academic productivity:
       | 
       | > "If the productivity gap between men and women is entirely
       | caused by gendered parenthood effects, then the productivity
       | trends of men and women without children should be
       | indistinguishable. To investigate this hypothesis, we examined
       | each professor's publication history and calculated their
       | cumulative productivity over the 5 years before and 10 years
       | after beginning their first assistant professor position."
       | 
       | First, publication inflation is a common tactic in academia, in
       | which a study that really could be published in one or two papers
       | is broken up into two or three times as many in order to pad the
       | professor's CV. Some academics have taken this practice to fairly
       | ridiculous extremes, and that is going to skew the results.
       | 
       | Second, there are multiple other plausible productivity metrics,
       | such as the number of graduate students the professor has
       | successfully mentored through a Master's or PhD program, the
       | amount of grant dollars brought in, and the number and/or quality
       | of courses taught at the undergraduate level (all adjusted to
       | time spent as a professor).
       | 
       | All these measures are also value judgments of some kind - the
       | university administration may have its eyes on the grant dollars
       | above all else, but in the larger societal context, well-trained
       | young engineers, doctors, scientists etc. might be the more
       | valuable academic product.
        
         | goodcanadian wrote:
         | I take your point, and even agree with it. However, publication
         | count is by far the most important metric considered by hiring
         | committees and is thus critical to advancing your career. We
         | can argue all day about whether it _should_ be the case, but it
         | certainly _is_ the case.
        
       | marcodiego wrote:
       | There was a place I worked at where it was well known that if you
       | were a parent you had higher chances of getting higher pay. I
       | asked why and people explained me that employees who are parents
       | are more willing to make extra efforts to keep their jobs.
        
         | analog31 wrote:
         | It works the other way too. The only people I've known who
         | wanted the thankless but higher paying jobs like middle
         | managers were parents.
         | 
         | In some cases it helped compensate for a spouse's loss of
         | income.
         | 
         | I became a project manager when my daughter was born.
        
           | influx wrote:
           | After having kids, I know I can be a better manager after
           | thinking about someone else's needs 24/7, anticipating how to
           | coach them, grow them into successful individuals, and having
           | coaxed a 3 year old to get dressed and put on shoes, I'm way
           | more confident I can help software engineers ship product ;)
        
             | PeterisP wrote:
             | There are positions where I was thinking that the perfect
             | hire for that role would be someone who was successful as a
             | kindergarten teacher; all the other skills can be gained on
             | the job but the ability to coax a bunch of figurative three
             | year olds into something resembling organized activity is
             | challenging and rare.
        
         | gnarbarian wrote:
         | I think it contributes to a renewed sense of purpose and
         | dedication that comes from knowing you are responsible for
         | other people and a desire to show them a positive role model.
        
           | mandmandam wrote:
           | Maybe it does - but does that balance out the sleeplessness,
           | tiredness, extra stress, less free time and mindspace etc of
           | parenting?
           | 
           | I'd be confident the extra leverage on parents is a larger
           | factor.
        
             | gnarbarian wrote:
             | so maybe the additional leverage makes employers more
             | comfortable paying them more because they don't believe
             | they will leave as readily?
             | 
             | Increased leverage to me would imply suppressed wages.
             | 
             | edit:
             | 
             | I also think employers will often empathize with new
             | parents who may be operating on reduced sleep and hours,
             | giving them a little more leeway than otherwise. I know I
             | do this with my employees.
        
               | HPsquared wrote:
               | Maybe the employees who are parents push harder in salary
               | negotiations because they have people depending on them.
        
               | TexanFeller wrote:
               | Nailed it. People with kids are way more likely to seek
               | out higher earning jobs and be bucking for a promotion,
               | they've gotta pay for those kids' educations! I have no
               | kids, so I don't currently have any interest in getting
               | promoted and get to just nope out of the rat race.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | sdwr wrote:
         | Or it's need-based - parents need more income to support
         | dependents.
        
           | pc86 wrote:
           | This is close to "we're going to let $A go instead of $B
           | because $B [needs the job more/needs the money more/will have
           | a harder time finding another job]" when by any objective
           | measure $B is the lower performer. It has no place in this
           | type of decision-making (both the bad side with layoffs, and
           | the positive with raises or promotions) but it is still
           | probably there.
        
         | Zach_the_Lizard wrote:
         | Some of the other comments have some good ideas as to why that
         | is--motivation to earn more, management not wanting to fire
         | parents as readily, etc.--but I wonder if on top of all of
         | that, parents have some other selection effects going on.
         | 
         | Maybe whatever hoops must be jumped through to get married and
         | have children are similar in size and shape to hoops that help
         | in the workforce, so group averages move a bit in some positive
         | way.
         | 
         | Time for some light reading...
        
       | djoldman wrote:
       | It is interesting that it seems studies generally consider
       | "academic productivity" == "number of publications".
        
         | fwungy wrote:
         | It's actually the impact of the paper that matters, how many
         | cites it gets.
        
       | neogodless wrote:
       | Related:
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=35716768 The Wealth Gap in
       | Science: How Your Parents's Income Affects Your Career
       | (youtube.com - 1 day ago, 86 comments)
        
       | fwungy wrote:
       | How about an article on the unequal impacts of prison, suicide,
       | and homelessness?
        
       | zubiaur wrote:
       | Quoting Russ Roberts, discussing Charles Darwin's musings about
       | this topic:
       | 
       | "So, the Darwin thing is a somewhat--well, a number of thoughtful
       | people have written about it, including Agnes Callard and others.
       | We have access to Darwin's journal. You can get online and you
       | can look at Darwin's own handwriting in his journal. And, he's
       | trying to decide whether to get married. He's 29 years old and he
       | makes a list of pros and cons.
       | 
       | And, he's smart enough to know that there's a lot at stake for
       | him because he is going to have a chance to be a serious
       | scientist. I don't know if he knew he had a chance to be one of
       | the top two or three scientists of all time, but he's worried
       | about how marriage might bite into his productivity as a
       | researcher. And, he's worried about whether he is going to have
       | to go visit his wife's relatives a lot. He's worried she might
       | not like London, so he's going to be stuck out the countryside.
       | He's worried he's going to have to spend time with her or the
       | kids instead of his work. And, he makes a list of the pros and
       | the cons and--unbelievably embarrassing list in 2022--one of the
       | pros is female chitchat, and at one point: There's someone to
       | come home to, parentheses, 'better than a dog anyway'. So, it's a
       | little bit awkward. He'd be canceled.
       | 
       | He may still be canceled when my book comes out, but let's take
       | him as a man of his time for a moment.
       | 
       | Anyway, he makes this list. And, what I thought about when I
       | looked at it was--and by the way, sorry, important point: the
       | negatives way outweigh the positives. And, they're bigger. It's
       | pretty clear that he shouldn't get married if he's going to make
       | a rational choice based on his list. That kind of bothers him.
       | And so, at one point he comes back to the list and he has this
       | stream of consciousness, and he says, 'Ahhh, got to be in a dingy
       | apartment by myself, late in life, no one to talk to, no kids--
       | ehhh, I'm going to get married."
       | 
       | And he wrote on his journal... MARRY MARRY MARRY Q.E.D.
       | 
       | Darwin's journal: https://www.darwinproject.ac.uk/tags/about-
       | darwin/family-lif... https://www.darwinproject.ac.uk/tags/about-
       | darwin/family-lif...
        
       | OldGuyInTheClub wrote:
       | The snark during my grad school/postdoc years was to have both a
       | spouse[0] and a sidepiece. You tell the spouse you are with the
       | sidepiece, the sidepiece you're with the spouse so you can go to
       | the lab and get stuff done.
       | 
       | [0] Updated for current norms
        
       | JoeAltmaier wrote:
       | Young Professor driving candidate (friend of mine) back to the
       | airport after being interviewed by faculty. "How do you think I
       | did?"
       | 
       | Answer: "The moment they learned you had kids, you were out.
       | They're going to hire a man; you had no chance."
       | 
       | That was years ago. I hoped it was better now.
        
         | crackercrews wrote:
         | As of 2015 it is.
         | 
         | > National hiring experiments reveal 2:1 faculty preference for
         | women on STEM tenure track [1]
         | 
         | 1: https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1418878112
        
           | meepmorp wrote:
           | A preference for women isn't the same thing as no longer
           | penalizing people with kids.
        
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