[HN Gopher] Playing video games can help to reduce stress and an...
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       Playing video games can help to reduce stress and anxiety, and
       improve mood
        
       Author : neomindryan
       Score  : 199 points
       Date   : 2023-03-27 14:08 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | aaron695 wrote:
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       | christkv wrote:
       | Playing the remake of Resident Evil is definitively not lowering
       | my stress and anxiety lol.
        
       | qaq wrote:
       | Based on the title alone I thought this would be about
       | programmers and ChatGPT
        
         | jvanderbot wrote:
         | Me too. This has been precisely my coping mechanism: Lean in
         | and _try_ it.
        
           | qaq wrote:
           | same thing :)
        
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       | r3trohack3r wrote:
       | I thought this was going to be an article about optimism
       | ("geeking out" as in getting excited about things). I acknowledge
       | that I'm responding to the headline and not the meat of the
       | article.
       | 
       | I've recently (past ~5 years) stopped viewing the world
       | pessimistically. I don't believe it's because I'm blindly
       | optimistic, but because I didn't have the perspective to
       | understand our ancestor's problems and how good of a life I had.
       | It's pretty cool that I didn't die in 6th grade when I put that
       | knife through my hand, that my knee doesn't lock anymore after
       | having my meniscus removed, and pretty cool my wife survived to
       | adulthood with unbelievably poor vision and asthma. It's pretty
       | cool that a large portion of living is automated now by the
       | systems around us, from food to cleaning, and that those systems
       | are affordable enough that they're common place in most
       | households. We've freed our societies up to focus on arts and
       | science which has created a flywheel that keeps paying us greater
       | and greater returns that we keep investing into arts and science.
       | 
       | Humans have done some cool things to conquer our basic nature and
       | environment, and we continue to do cool things. Compared to other
       | species we are absolutely killing it. Yes we suck compared to
       | what we are going to be in the future, but that's the point!
       | 
       | Whenever I get a brief feeling of "this is bad," I remind myself
       | that humans have conquered far worse than whatever "this" is and
       | that we are likely to triumph over this thing too. Taking a
       | second to appreciate what our species has accomplished, and
       | "geeking out" about it, has helped improve my quality of life,
       | thought I'd take a moment and share that with you.
        
         | onemoresoop wrote:
         | > Humans have done some cool things to conquer our basic nature
         | and environment, and we continue to do cool things. Compared to
         | other species we are absolutely killing it. Yes we suck
         | compared to what we are going to be in the future, but that's
         | the point!
         | 
         | At the same time it's important not to forget humans have done
         | some messed up things to the environment that are not easy to
         | clean up or undo. And they still do, all with a paltry goal to
         | make a short term profit. This is what drives my optimism away,
         | though I am not a pessimistic person by nature.
        
           | r3trohack3r wrote:
           | I have a longer response on another sibling.
           | 
           | But I'd say:
           | 
           | 1) Most humans mean well and these are side effects of
           | solutions to other problems - we can find and hold up
           | examples of people acting poorly but to extrapolate that out
           | I don't think is fair. Energy abundance has done unbelievably
           | important things for civil rights, quality of life, and the
           | prospect of life being able to outlive Earth.
           | 
           | 2) It's important to remember life on earth is ~75% behind
           | us. We've only got another 500m years until there is a
           | complete extinction event with little hope of coming back. If
           | you take humans out of the picture, you don't save nature,
           | you doom it to complete extinction.
           | 
           | Humans are awesome, all flaws considered. We are the only
           | golden ticket our planet has printed to get life off this
           | rock.
        
         | 411111111111111 wrote:
         | > _Whenever I get a brief feeling of "this is bad," I remind
         | myself that humans have conquered far worse than whatever
         | "this" is and that we are likely to triumph over this thing
         | too._
         | 
         | I do something very similar, though slightly different.
         | 
         | Whenever I notice something bad i rejoice that I've probably
         | lived through the best times our western society likely ever
         | have
         | 
         | I at least experienced a reality which didn't have [the bad
         | thing] as the norm.
         | 
         | Society is not gonna get more equal from now on, so Gen Beta
         | (people that are currently being born) are gonna have a
         | massively worse life then I've had.
        
           | spoonfeeder006 wrote:
           | Have we had to handle anything as bad as global climate
           | change which can possibly render much of the lower latitudes
           | near inhospitable for humans?
        
         | e_i_pi_2 wrote:
         | This is somewhat true but also somewhat not - we have a lower
         | chance of childhood mortality, but only in some countries. We
         | have a general higher standard of living, but income inequality
         | is worse than it's ever been. We have less people dying in
         | wars, but when we do have them more people die than ever would
         | have in the past. I'd recommend "The better angels of our
         | nature" as a book for more on this - it covers human history of
         | this well and shows the tradeoffs we've been making at the same
         | time. The average person today has more creature comforts than
         | a king a hundred years ago, but at the same time almost no one
         | today has as much vacation time as a medieval peasant did
        
         | pathartl wrote:
         | There are a few people in my circle that are overburdened by
         | conspiracy theories to the point where they think that humans
         | are corrupt and everyone is out to get them. It's exhausting to
         | live like that. My goal is to be my 13 yr old self's hero. Do
         | cool stuff, be in a good relationship, and fix things that
         | bother me to the best of my ability.
        
           | TMWNN wrote:
           | > There are a few people in my circle that are overburdened
           | by conspiracy theories to the point where they think that
           | humans are corrupt and everyone is out to get them.
           | 
           | The Trump presidency's existence broke a lot of brains on the
           | left.
        
             | PeterisP wrote:
             | Indeed, for many people on both sides it was (and is!)
             | quite a shocking revelation that in their surroundings
             | there is a _huge_ number of people who don 't just disagree
             | on opinions or facts but have completely contradictory
             | values, one side praising that which the other deems as
             | clearly, obviously evil, and vice versa.
             | 
             | I'd argue that this comes from a change in media - where
             | previously you had a clear consensus either in the small
             | community you lived in earlier times, or country-wide with
             | the advent of mass media, and even if you'd disagree with
             | that, then you still can't avoid knowing what the
             | surrounding reality was; but now with personalized social
             | media, so many people get a _false_ impression of the
             | actual social consensus around them, because they
             | communicate much less with people around them but rather
             | communicate in an  "information community" which is larger
             | geographically (often global), and which is different from
             | the actual community where they live and which makes laws
             | for their life; so they perceive that the "community
             | standards" go one way (in the way which their "online
             | information community" thinks) but then reality crashes in
             | with something totally different, and this does "break
             | people's minds" in some way.
        
             | pathartl wrote:
             | These people I'm referencing generally lean more towards
             | libertarian or anarcho-capital.
        
             | hutzlibu wrote:
             | And those left people then started believing in Q and drank
             | desinfection to cure covid?
        
               | eldritch_4ier wrote:
               | To be fair there are way more leftists who think trump is
               | as bad as hitler as there are conservatives who believe
               | in the Q stuff. Most conservatives don't even understand
               | what Qanon even is other than a catchall for "conspiracy
               | theories".
        
               | TMWNN wrote:
               | The non-crazy right laughs at, ignores, or (as
               | eldritch_4ier said) mostly does not know what "Q" is.
               | 
               | The left's equivalents to QAnon get 17.5K upvotes and
               | 2.5K comments on /r/politics, articles in _The Atlantic_
               | , and nightly _IT 'S HAPPENING_s on Maddow.
        
             | birracerveza wrote:
             | Weird take, I've seen nothing but seething insanity from
             | the right ever since Biden got elected.
        
             | [deleted]
        
           | 908B64B197 wrote:
           | Remember how, just a few months ago, one could get banned
           | from Social media for suggesting Covid-19 originated in a
           | lab? "Fact Checkers" were hard at work silencing that content
           | and attributing it to "conspiracy theorists".
           | 
           | Now the lab leak hypothesis is mainstream, with experts
           | supporting investigating the labs in Wuhan and bringing in
           | evidence that the disease indeed originated in a Chinese lab.
           | 
           | Sometimes, it seems the difference between facts and
           | conspiracy is 6 months or another presidential
           | administration, whichever comes first!
        
             | skyyler wrote:
             | This is the stuff that is exhausting.
             | 
             | Why focus on it? What good does it bring to you?
        
               | 908B64B197 wrote:
               | "Why keep looking at the stars through these telescopes?
               | We all know the Earth is at the center of the Universe,
               | the Pope said so. What good does it bring to you?"
        
               | hypertele-Xii wrote:
               | It's reality.
        
               | skyyler wrote:
               | And in your day-to-day life, how does a deep
               | understanding of the psyops being run against you and
               | your countrymen do anything to help?
               | 
               | Knowledge is for action.
        
             | skeaker wrote:
             | I mean, it was an unfounded conspiracy theory before,
             | wasn't it? When new evidence came about then it shifted
             | into legitimacy. That's just how evidence works.
        
             | mustacheemperor wrote:
             | Viewing this sort of issue as equivalent in personal
             | magnitude and meaning to Galileo's heliocentrism dispute
             | with the renaissance church is exactly the perspective I
             | seek to avoid by framing my mindset like the earlier
             | commenter, personally.
        
           | jahsome wrote:
           | Hear hear! Our current and 13 year old selves sound like we
           | could be a lot alike!
           | 
           | I'm really doing my best to make past/teenage me proud. I
           | know about 5 years ago, I'd probably have kicked my own butt.
        
         | zokier wrote:
         | > Whenever I get a brief feeling of "this is bad," I remind
         | myself that humans have conquered far worse than whatever
         | "this" is
         | 
         | It's a nice sentiment, but I see no reason to think it is true.
         | While I'd agree that in many ways life is nicer and easier, the
         | problems that we do have now are even more complex and
         | difficult than ever.
        
           | Damogran6 wrote:
           | You're still above ground after a global, full-blown,
           | pandemic. Which is nice.
           | 
           | The things that bring me the biggest anxiety all come from
           | Twitter, and I find they don't much impact my day to day.
           | While the internet shows me the absolute worst of mankind (in
           | addition to the best), I find my IRL world isn't half bad.
        
         | si1entstill wrote:
         | I feel like I am and always have been a "day-to-day" optimist,
         | but I struggle to apply that to larger, societal problems.
         | 
         | Our impact on the environment is measurable and the impacts
         | look dire. Income disparity seems to be increasing locally and
         | globally. The military industrial complex of the largest
         | nation-states feels eternal, as if it is a fundamental part of
         | neoliberal capitalism.
         | 
         | I can "half-full" almost everything day to day. Financial
         | issues, medical issues, family problems... never easy, but
         | doable. I can handle it, smile on my face, and tough it out.
         | But when I'm left alone with my thoughts, its hard for me not
         | to draw the conclusion that the world my children (or their
         | children) grow up in will be worse-off, and they will live
         | harder lives than we have.
        
           | fauxpause_ wrote:
           | Is the military industrial complex really that big? I'm under
           | the impression that it's honestly pretty weak and fragile.
        
             | PeterisP wrote:
             | Yep, the current Russian war in Ukraine exposed the fact
             | that the western 'military complex' isn't that industrial
             | anymore, as (for example) the total _annual_ production of
             | artillery shells is less than what we 'd shoot in a single
             | average day of WW2.
             | 
             | There's still a lot of money spent, but it's spent less on
             | actual industrial capacity but rather mostly on various
             | high-tech R&D things - probably because then you can
             | convert a larger portion of the order to profits instead of
             | hardware.
        
               | fauxpause_ wrote:
               | Yes that was what I meant. Lots of RD. probably an army
               | of contractors.
               | 
               | But industry? I really don't think so. Still curious if
               | others have evidence otherwise
        
           | r3trohack3r wrote:
           | We made it through a cold war. Previous generations had to
           | live with the very real risk of a fast escalating total
           | nuclear disaster. We still have nukes but I generally don't
           | worry about a fast escalating "everyone launches everything
           | they have and we are ill prepared to shoot them all out of
           | the sky before they make contact" doomsday scenario. Not only
           | did we make it through that, but we put humans on the moon
           | during that window of time and humans made some pretty
           | significant scientific advances with the backdrop of all that
           | stress.
           | 
           | > Our impact on the environment is measurable and the impacts
           | look dire.
           | 
           | Humans are pretty resilient and have been pretty good at
           | mitigating large scale problems. Yeah we are impacting our
           | environment, but we aren't the only species that does this.
           | Many species, left unchecked, go through natural boom+bust
           | cycles where they blast past the carrying capacity of their
           | ecosystem and then bust the next generation.
           | 
           | At no point do deer look around and go "hey, we are eating
           | all the food, maybe we shouldn't do that?" - they just eat
           | and reproduce and nature sorts it out. They aren't morally
           | corrupt for causing a boom/bust cycle, they're just animals
           | like us. However, when it comes to humans, we have blasted
           | past our ecosystem's natural carrying capacity (we've been
           | past it for a long time now). Not only do we look around and
           | go "hey, this is a problem" - something that puts us in a
           | league all our own - but we have repeatedly solved that
           | problem. And now we get to tackle the next set of problems.
           | 
           | Simply being aware that we are responsible for climate change
           | and the ending of the Holocene is a huge achievement for a
           | species, let alone putting together plans to over come it.
           | 
           | That is pretty cool!
           | 
           | What's even cooler is that all of the growing pains we are
           | going through are putting us on a trajectory to literally
           | save all life on Earth. Folks like to kick around the can
           | about how humans are destroying Earth's environment. That's
           | true, and we need to work our butts off to keep everything
           | balanced moving forward. There are very smart humans working
           | very hard to keep our ecosystems from collapsing.
           | 
           | But, no matter what we do to save our ecosystems, we are over
           | 75% through the window of time life can survive on this
           | planet.
           | 
           | A world without humans is a world where Earth slowly moves
           | out of the habitable zone and finds itself in a complete
           | extinction event in ~500m years - with little to no hope of
           | any life bouncing back.
           | 
           | Getting life off this planet is a noble cause. Doing that
           | requires either:
           | 
           | * a biological pathway to interstellar travel beyond the
           | micro-organism scale (maybe nature will produce this in 500m
           | years? find that _exceptionally_ unlikely)
           | 
           | * a species to develop the technology to get itself off this
           | rock and survive the extremely hostile environments in space
           | 
           | Humans are doing that latter, and I have no reason to believe
           | any other species would do a better job than we have getting
           | to "building rockets and settling planets." Not only is our
           | species going to the stars, but we are going to bring life on
           | Earth with us when we do.
           | 
           | That is pretty rad.
        
           | vlunkr wrote:
           | The way that I stay optimistic is to think about how
           | awareness of these issues is growing. As they say, knowing is
           | half the battle.
           | 
           | https://www.pewresearch.org/science/2019/11/25/u-s-public-
           | vi...
           | 
           | More people are concerned about climate change now, and the
           | younger generations are more concerned than ever. Hopefully
           | that leads to people in general making better choices, and
           | more importantly, electing people who aren't deep in the
           | pockets of the fossil fuel industry.
        
       | SammyNameTaken wrote:
       | the article mentions words with friends as if those games are
       | something to be shunned. maybe the social aspect is what improves
       | your mood not video games, based on this it would seem that
       | tabletop games would have the same if not better results
       | considering real life social interactions.
        
       | corobo wrote:
       | Why does the site want my location to read a blog post?
       | 
       | Ew lol
        
         | brandon272 wrote:
         | Yes, kind of stops me from sharing it with people.
        
         | erwinh wrote:
         | Searched to upvote this comment. More than happy to get some
         | bad karma for shaming this kind of website behavior.
        
       | GaryNumanVevo wrote:
       | Video games basically allowed me to get through college. I
       | accidentally implemented spaced-repetition learning by studying
       | for an hour or so, then playing a game of League of Legends, then
       | trying to recall what I had just studied previously.
        
       | VyseofArcadia wrote:
       | Different take on the headline: when I was little and scared at
       | the doctor, my mom would distract me from shots etc. by telling
       | me about how they work and all the science behind them.
       | 
       | I still do this at the doctor if I'm nervous about the procedure.
       | Try distracting yourself by attempting to work through the
       | details of what's going on. Even if you're wrong, it's a
       | distraction and a good exercise, and maybe you can ask the doctor
       | to clarify later.
       | 
       | Never works at the dentist, though. I can never tell what the
       | heck is going on in my mouth.
        
         | tombert wrote:
         | I'm 32 years old and I still have to do this whenever I get an
         | injection. I have no idea what kind of trauma triggers this but
         | I have an extreme phobia of needles, but I am a big supporter
         | of vaccines. Every time I get a shot, I have to look away, and
         | kind of go through the process of telling myself what the shot
         | is doing and how it works.
        
         | swasheck wrote:
         | i did this with air disasters. i'd been terrified of flying for
         | many years so i immersed myself in every kinds of media i could
         | find on the topic. i found it oddly comforting (though i
         | definitely overthink things whilst in the air at times).
         | geeking out has helped me navigate some tense moments.
        
           | 1-more wrote:
           | The audio recordings of pilots and air traffic controllers
           | doing their best Chuck Yeager voice during a malfunction and
           | going through checklists and binders and clipboards is
           | immensely reassuring to me. There's contingency plans for all
           | the contingency plans. Everyone involved made their bed well
           | enough to bounce a quarter off of it that morning and (where
           | applicable) trimmed their mustaches to conform to some NIST
           | standard. The drilling! Such drilling.
           | 
           | The reenactment in Sully is pretty rad in that regard
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6HYMpmxdaA
        
             | throwaway049 wrote:
             | A few years ago a passenger plane had a window blow out and
             | some other problems. In the radio recordings the pilot, a
             | former military flying instructor, sounded completely
             | unperturbed.
        
         | mettamage wrote:
         | I do this to get over my fear of flights :)
        
         | thomastjeffery wrote:
         | Objectivity is a totally different headspace. That's why
         | critical thinking is so difficult. As unfamiliar and
         | uncomfortable as it may be, it sure does have its advantages.
        
         | cramjabsyn wrote:
         | > Try distracting yourself by attempting to work through the
         | details of what's going on.
         | 
         | This helped a lot with flying anxiety, once I could put a
         | reason to most of the sounds and movements of flying I could
         | relax a lot better. An unexpected one will get my attention
         | though
        
         | SillyUsername wrote:
         | Not necessarily a good thing knowing the science - just off the
         | top of my head...
         | 
         | Topics I wish I'd never known about
         | 
         | - General anaesthesia and low dose
         | 
         | - General anaesthesia and the idea you are actually awake but
         | forget.
         | 
         | - General anaesthesia stats and possibility of being awake
         | (moreso if you're anxious about not going to sleep - it's
         | happened to me with gas).
         | 
         | - Flying and why the plane needs to dive for certain scenarios.
         | 
         | - Flying and tolerances for wings during a storm (they're good
         | but still!) or lightning strikes (Faraday cage but...).
         | 
         | - Flying and knowing about coffin corner stall
         | limitations/margin for error.
         | 
         | - Flying and survival stats if there's actually a serious
         | incident.
         | 
         | Probably a load more...!
        
           | LordDragonfang wrote:
           | >Flying and survival stats if there's actually a serious
           | incident.
           | 
           | This is such a bad contextualization of the risks if you
           | _actually_ know the stats on the matter, since there are ~600
           | million passengers per year and  <600 (as in, fewer than a
           | thousand) fatalities; you have less that one in a million
           | chance to experience a "serious" incident - in fact, I'm
           | pretty sure the definition of a "serious" incident in this
           | context is "an incident that normally results in a large
           | number of fatalities". Which makes your stat above very
           | nearly a tautology.
           | 
           | My point is that this is very much an example of where
           | internalizing the stats _should_ make you feel safer, unless
           | you 're letting a cognitive bias (like anxiety) prevent you
           | from actually internalizing the real risks.
        
             | SillyUsername wrote:
             | I fly because I know the stats. I worry because the stats
             | for survival are low (or worse, you actually survive the
             | impact). It also doesn't help that I live near a major
             | airport and almost on a fortnightly basis we get reports of
             | planes declaring minor emergencies and having to turn
             | around or be diverted. Occasionally it may be bird
             | strike/engine fire.
        
           | ambicapter wrote:
           | > Flying and knowing about coffin corner stall
           | limitations/margin for error.
           | 
           | Unless you're already one hell of a pilot you will never be
           | anywhere close to coffin corner.
        
           | VectorLock wrote:
           | >General anaesthesia and the idea you are actually awake but
           | forget.
           | 
           | This freaked me out as well. Wouldn't I know in the moment?
           | Do we actually experience something if we don't encode
           | memories for it?
        
             | gowld wrote:
             | > Do we actually experience something if we don't encode
             | memories for it?
             | 
             | It's not "don't encode memories"; it's "lose conscious
             | memory". Your body still scars from cuts when you are
             | unconscious. Your brain likely does too.
        
           | the_af wrote:
           | > _General anaesthesia and the idea you are actually awake
           | but forget_
           | 
           | Do you mean that this happens for some people? For me, GA
           | felt like a very deep dream where I didn't notice falling
           | asleep but I definitely remember what I dreamed.
        
             | munificent wrote:
             | I think the parent poster if confusing general anesthesia
             | from sedation [1]. If you got a colonoscopy or your wisdom
             | teeth out, it was probably sedation. If you got major
             | surgery where they cut a big hole in you, that's more
             | likely to be general anesthesia.
             | 
             | "Twilight sedation" is pretty spooky from a philosophical
             | perspective. You are somewhat aware of what's happening to
             | you and are experiencing it in the moment. But you are
             | unable to form long term memories of it, so after the
             | procedure, it's like it didn't happen. But there _was_ a
             | point in time where they you that you were was at least
             | somewhat conscious of the procedure.
             | 
             | [1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sedation
        
               | gowld wrote:
               | The other aspect of twilight sedations is: do you feel
               | pain and then lose the conscious memory, but retain the
               | stress reaction's affect on your body?
               | 
               | And similarly for anesthesia: even if you don't feel
               | pain, is your body having a stress reaction? Obviously
               | yes to some extent, for the non-neural pathways that are
               | physically insulted during the procedure, but what about
               | for neural pathways?
        
               | SillyUsername wrote:
               | Quite possibly, I don't know the difference - as a kid I
               | had to have serious orthodontic changes to my teeth as
               | none of my baby teeth fell out and grew to the size of
               | adult teeth.
               | 
               | One of the last surgeries I had, which was breaking off 4
               | molars, I felt like I was going to explode breathing the
               | gas - like really painful pins and needles everywhere, my
               | eyes actually opened and I felt like they were rolling
               | back into my head (think pain of a really bad migraine
               | but in your eyes). Fortunately they closed my eyes, and
               | it stopped but I couldn't speak, next thing I know my
               | mouth is being held open with a vice, very painful, but I
               | couldn't see, couldn't talk (wouldn't have been able to
               | anyway with the jaw vice).
               | 
               | Aside from remembering panicking further, and occasional
               | fuzzy memory of pain followed by (I guess) being
               | unconscious again, that's all I remember of being awake.
               | When they finished I had to be slapped hard across the
               | face at the end multiple times (this was the 80s),
               | probably because the anaesthesiologist had O/D'd me on
               | realising I was still awake. I was later told they were
               | considering taking me to hospital because I wasn't waking
               | up - this was the last time I had dental surgery.
               | 
               | About 5-6 years later they banned the gas they used on me
               | in the UK.
               | 
               | I may need some routine (real, hospital) surgery in a
               | year or so, and now I can't stop thinking about last time
               | I had the above, I even started googling chances of being
               | awake etc etc (because it does happen) and really wish I
               | hadn't.
        
               | austinprete wrote:
               | There's also the concept of anesthesia awareness [1],
               | which does apply to general anesthesia.
               | 
               | [1]: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anesthesia_awareness
        
               | whateverman23 wrote:
               | I've helped a couple of family members who have gone
               | under the sedation that you're talking about. I don't
               | care how much more dangerous or more expensive general
               | anesthesia is. I'm taking that option every time. I never
               | ever want to be under the sedation you're talking about.
               | 
               | That sedation takes hours and hours to wear off, where
               | you're worse than helpless. Completely memory free for
               | hours after the surgery is over and can barely function.
               | It's terrifying.
               | 
               | Meanwhile, when I've woken up from general anesthesia the
               | few times I've been under, I'm almost immediately
               | perfectly conscious and able to function on my own and
               | remember things.
        
               | throw__away7391 wrote:
               | When I had my wisdom teeth out, I had a "dream" that I
               | was on a old wooden mine-cart styled roller coaster with
               | wheels that were sparking dramatically against the rails
               | first on the left side, then on the right. (mirroring the
               | teeth removal)
        
         | kulahan wrote:
         | I've heard that one of the greatest counters to fear is
         | curiosity, and that people who tend to be more curious tend to
         | also be less fearful. It makes sense when you think about it.
        
         | chairmanwow1 wrote:
         | I asked my dentist a lot of questions and had them give me a
         | tour of the shop. I was getting a crown and they showed me
         | their CNC machine that took a 3D scan of the original tooth and
         | scan of the nub after eroding it down and just perfectly
         | machined a ceramic replacement.
         | 
         | Pretty fucking sick.
        
         | ashleyn wrote:
         | Sounds a lot like intellectualisation.
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intellectualization
        
           | VyseofArcadia wrote:
           | Hm, maybe it is that for some people, but for me, another
           | large component is that understanding the procedure makes it
           | less scary. The doctor isn't doing these mysterious horrible
           | things and you don't know what's coming next. You do know, or
           | at least suspect, what's coming next, so the fear of the
           | unknown/unexpected is mitigated.
        
         | quartz wrote:
         | I have a dentist who loves to use the little remote camera to
         | show me everything about my teeth and let me tell you: it
         | doesn't make it any better!
         | 
         | Totally agree on the "understand to remove fear" side of things
         | though.
         | 
         | When I was learning stick shift I had a terrible time until,
         | frustrated after I had stalled the car for the umpteenth time,
         | my dad stopped the lesson on "what to do" and instead spent a
         | few minutes explaining what was actually happening inside the
         | clutch system.
         | 
         | Suddenly it all made sense and I understood what I was
         | actuating and why the feedback was the way it was. I became
         | proficient quickly after that.
        
           | teachrdan wrote:
           | My father in law was a tennis coach. When a kid kept screwing
           | something up, he'd stop them and ask in quick succession:
           | "What's the capital of Illinois? Texas? Vermont?"
           | 
           | The kid would then, invariably, be able to hit the ball
           | again. Sometimes all you need is a focused distraction to be
           | able to perform.
        
         | pts_ wrote:
         | I have dealt with the pandemic and wfh stress by immersing
         | myself in science and technology.
        
         | JohnFen wrote:
         | The best dentist I ever had was as much a geek about all things
         | dental as I am a geek about all things computers. He would
         | happily describe, in great technical detail, every aspect of
         | what he was doing, why, etc.
         | 
         | It was pretty awesome, and I left every visit feeling very
         | positive about the experience.
        
           | olvy0 wrote:
           | There was this one time I had a prolonged dental operation, I
           | was fully conscious, the dentist talked himself through a
           | delicate situation while hunting in my mouth for the right
           | angle to do it. And I thought suddenly, hey, it's just like
           | me when I'm debugging! Cool!
        
             | JohnFen wrote:
             | Yes!
             | 
             | What your doctor (and dentist, etc.) are really doing with
             | you is exactly the same as what you do when you're
             | debugging a program. Except that health care providers
             | don't have the luxury of having a debugger or the ability
             | to examine the "machine" state in accurate detail.
        
               | doubled112 wrote:
               | For some extra perspective in the case of a dentist,
               | there's also a live, breathing, feeling, conscious human
               | they're about to drill into or debug on.
               | 
               | No thanks!
        
               | JohnFen wrote:
               | Just consider brain surgery! Same thing applies, except
               | worse.
        
         | dclowd9901 wrote:
         | Ha, you reminded me of when I got my vasectomy. Naturally a bit
         | nervous, I was asking about everything the doctor was doing as
         | he was doing it. It actually did help me get through the
         | procedure with less nerves (it's really not a bad procedure at
         | all, just for anyones edification).
        
       | DontchaKnowit wrote:
       | Yeah, of course, its a form of escapism escapism always relieves
       | stress and anxiety and improves mood for as long as you are
       | engaged in it.
        
       | denvaar wrote:
       | I've noticed when I begin to feel anxious (which for me is
       | basically "health anxiety" that spirals) I get back into
       | RuneScape (old school version), and it really helps get me back
       | to a good place IRL.
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | It's the opposite for me lol. It's when I'm most depressed that
         | I turn to osrs
        
           | denvaar wrote:
           | Oh, I see how what I said can be taken both ways. I think
           | we're on the same page actually: When I feel bad, I begin to
           | play osrs, and then after a while I feel good again and
           | usually stop playing. Then eventually the cycle repeats.
        
       | imchillyb wrote:
       | Stress requires release. Sometimes the release for stress is
       | actually more stress but of a different type.
        
       | chad_strategic wrote:
       | I made the mistake of clicking on the headline thinking it said
       | "Exercise can help reduce stress and anxiety, and improve mood."
       | 
       | I got to stop multi tasking...
        
       | mihaifm wrote:
       | Stress response depends vastly on the game. A lot of games will
       | actually increase stress levels. Take Elden Ring for example,
       | that game will make you sweat at almost every encounter. But it's
       | possible that this kind of exposure might make you more resilient
       | to stress in the long tun.
        
         | unixgoddess wrote:
         | this. I tried playing a variety of retro console games as an
         | adult; most gave me unbearable anxiety within a couple minutes,
         | especially platformers, side-scrollers and racing games. With
         | turn-based rpgs it came more slowly from the endless boring
         | grinding.
         | 
         | Only non-timed puzzles were chill enough to play as a
         | clinically anxious person.
        
       | Forestessential wrote:
       | So can heroin, the bible and television.
        
       | nfw2 wrote:
       | Heroin can also reduce stress and anxiety and improve mood (at
       | least in the short term).
       | 
       | It's great to be exploring ways to help cancer patients cope, but
       | the overall thesis of this article is hardly surprising.
        
       | hirundo wrote:
       | I think it would be useful to play a simulation of cancer
       | treatment that includes realistic odds of survival. It's
       | difficult to grok the idea that you have an X% chance of
       | surviving for Y months by just looking at the numbers, or that Z
       | treatment will affect those odds for some cost in extra misery.
       | Simulating the meaning of those odds by gameplay, watching your
       | avatars live and die, suffering more or less, could give you a
       | better gut feeling for your prospects and adjust your decision
       | making accordingly.
       | 
       | My mom fought cancer and died slowly and badly. My dad, having
       | lived through that, didn't fight it and went quickly. Some people
       | have the opposite experience. It would be good to have a less
       | expensive way to learn these lessons.
        
         | sidewndr46 wrote:
         | "Chemotherapy simulator" seems like a bit depressing game.
        
           | knodi123 wrote:
           | Not all games are meant to be a joyful memory. It's just an
           | art form, as versatile as any other.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Train_(board_game)
        
           | twinkletwinkle_ wrote:
           | It sort of exists:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/That_Dragon,_Cancer
        
           | gowld wrote:
           | So does "war simulator".
        
       | TheHypnotist wrote:
       | As a League of Legends players, it could also do the opposite.
        
         | Lapsa wrote:
         | played one today. had 1/16 yasuo around 20 min mark or
         | something. total joke of a game
        
       | bluescrn wrote:
       | Never expected to see a healthcare site recommending WoW raiding!
       | 
       | If you're not careful, a game that addictive and time-consuming
       | is a rapid route to weight gain, back pain, maybe even an
       | unhealthy drinking habit...
       | 
       | (To be fair though, for those who enjoyed the game in it's early
       | years, WoW Classic was really good 'comfort gaming' during the
       | Covid period, but it's certainly added to lockdown weight gain)
        
         | sandworm101 wrote:
         | For many truly sick people, including some cancer patients,
         | weight gain is not a bad thing. An old prof of mine, a man
         | dying of pancreatic cancer, once said to me "A whole life of
         | the doctor telling me to exercise more, and suddenly he is
         | worried about me loosing weight too quickly."
        
         | MrGilbert wrote:
         | Same goes for just hanging out with your friends in the evening
         | without any sports, eh?
        
           | deebosong wrote:
           | Just to take the comment seriously, when I kick it with
           | buddies, I seem to be naturally attuned and attentive to my
           | bodily needs way more than when I get sucked into a very
           | addicting videogame, where after I finally snap out of the
           | fugue state, a lot of my bodily needs are like, "WERE YOU NOT
           | LISTENING TO US FOR THE PAST 2-3 HOURS OR SOMETHING?"
           | 
           | It's legit made me try to find videogames that are not that
           | addicting, but not that boring, and it's extremely hard to
           | find lol.
        
       | calibas wrote:
       | In my experience, it depends on which game I'm playing. Some
       | games reduce stress but others, like League of Legends, greatly
       | increase my stress levels.
       | 
       | There's a number of games that I either play very briefly or
       | avoid entirely because I feel more anxious and stressed after
       | playing them.
        
       | neomindryan wrote:
       | Studies show that patients who played the[se] games responded
       | better to chemotherapy, and had a much better understanding of
       | the treatment process on the whole.
        
       | agumonkey wrote:
       | I enjoyed playing chess on my phone during gaps (train commute,
       | or else). It was a good blend of distraction and strategy.
        
       | smegsicle wrote:
       | or you could just smoke a cigarette like a normal person
        
         | 9991 wrote:
         | Despite the popularity, there's nothing normal about smoking
         | cigarettes.
        
       | rationalfaith wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | mayormcmatt wrote:
       | Not Tarkov, that's for sure.
        
       | rye-neat wrote:
       | I'm nearing 40 and in the past few years I've tried to focus more
       | on "real world" activities (I've never lacked them, I just felt
       | like gaming had less value). I've done well with this by spending
       | time with my interests/pastimes; however, my work lately has been
       | less stimulating. As a result, something has been missing.
       | 
       | Long story short, I realized I wasn't getting into a "flow-state"
       | often enough and guess where you can get an easy fix of that?
       | First-person shooters.. (for me anyway). I don't have 3+ hour-
       | long sessions or anything, maybe just a round or two and it's
       | like that first cup of coffee in the morning.
        
         | sacnoradhq wrote:
         | Try writing or coding for fun.
         | 
         | Caffeine, while increasing focus, ups anxiety and cardio load.
         | 
         | Exercise (HIIT) I find is better at increasing focus and
         | decreasing anxiety.
        
       | xwdv wrote:
       | Come hang out with us in VR Chat and engage in fiery debates
       | similar to what you find on hackernews except in real time VR and
       | you could actually punch someone maybe.
        
         | Nuzzerino wrote:
         | Too much anxiety there from the fact that they now require you
         | to run kernel-mode spyware (EAC). Haven't logged in since.
        
           | xwdv wrote:
           | Just get a dedicated gaming rig that is only for gaming. I
           | have one machine for browsing and general productivity which
           | is more locked down, and another purely for games. And a
           | third for all the illegal stuff.
        
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       | fullshark wrote:
       | Like all vices.
        
         | boshalfoshal wrote:
         | This should be voted higher. People really want video games
         | (and other things like certain drugs) to be innocuous and maybe
         | even "healthy" but its just like any other instant dopamine
         | rush, and can - and is often designed to be - addictive to keep
         | you hooked and engaged in their product.
         | 
         | Imo a far better method than this is to exercise, walk outside,
         | or play sports. These are natural dopamine boosts with little
         | to no real downside.
        
       | eigenvalue wrote:
       | I think the issue here is one of timescale and trading off short-
       | term versus long-term joy/fulfillment. Playing games is often fun
       | in the moment, and can certainly have a positive social component
       | and can be challenging and build skills and in general be a way
       | to blow off steam and decompress after a long day of work,
       | similar to how many people watch TV.
       | 
       | But I have basically stopped playing games totally for the past
       | decade, and I am so glad to have gotten all that time back to do
       | other things which build up over time and then ultimately provide
       | me with a lot more happiness, like learning new skills, reading
       | scientific papers on ML/AI, learning how to use tools like
       | Blender, reading biographies/history, etc. There is only so much
       | time in a day, and when I look back on how many hours I spent
       | during my mental prime playing stuff like Starcraft and Quake, I
       | really wish I could have that time back and instead done other
       | things.
       | 
       | Obviously this is just my take on it, and I'm not trying to shame
       | anyone about playing games or saying they are bad. But I think
       | it's wrong to focus on the upsides without at least being aware
       | of what you might be trading off for that short term dopamine hit
       | and fun.
        
         | e_i_pi_2 wrote:
         | I think this is mostly based on different needs at different
         | times - most people play more games when they're younger and
         | have more uncertainty in their life. As you get older there's
         | less uncertainty and less need for things with semi-predictable
         | outcomes. Doesn't mean you underestimated the benefit at the
         | time - just that it's not as useful to you in this stage of
         | your life
         | 
         | There's periods where I want to learn a bunch of new
         | technologies, and other times when I can't. It's all time well
         | spent just in different areas
        
         | otikik wrote:
         | Perhaps that time spent playing Starcraft in the past was part
         | of what enabled you to do other things now. Transition from
         | mid-game to late-game.
        
       | web3-is-a-scam wrote:
       | After 2 years of lockdowns, playing Elden Ring basically saved my
       | life. I had heard heard this a lot about the Souls series of
       | games from other people, how the hardships and overcoming them in
       | the game taught people how to overcome IRL hardshipand build
       | character; never thought it would have happened to me though, I
       | thought I had a pretty solid grasp of "adulting" and "real life"
       | but being in lockdown nearly broke me.
        
       | Ancalagon wrote:
       | Caveat being Super Smash Bros Ultimate - Online:
       | 
       | This greatly increases stress and anxiety.
        
       | havblue wrote:
       | I think one of the things that has kept me from games over the
       | past 6 months is the progression systems that are tricking me
       | into wanting to play more. I mean, everything in moderation, and
       | I'd like to finish Elden Ring, but family time, chores and work
       | don't exactly leave much for hobbies like this that require all
       | of your attention. (Audio books and podcasts in comparison allow
       | for partial attention)
       | 
       | I guess I'm wondering more how high up some of these games can be
       | on my bucket list when my time is already booked out.
        
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