[HN Gopher] Utah is first US state to limit teen social media ac...
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       Utah is first US state to limit teen social media access
        
       Author : djoldman
       Score  : 501 points
       Date   : 2023-03-25 21:33 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | psithurism777 wrote:
       | I applaud the law. I personally have children and want my
       | children to be able to manoeuvre through adolescence,
       | development, and puberty without the barrage of garbage the world
       | throws at them.
       | 
       | The law allows parents to open up everything and give full access
       | if that's what they decide is best for their children. No
       | freedoms are removed.
       | 
       | The world existed before the internet. Let kids be kids. I
       | personally would rather have my children playing outside, running
       | through creeks barefoot, learning to interact with people face to
       | face than have them develop so many of the destructive behaviours
       | that can develop through un monitored internet access. Many here
       | are assuming it's an all or nothing approach to internet usage
       | which really isn't the case. The spirit of the law is to limit
       | the facebooks and the TikTok's that have been shown to be one of
       | the influences on increased suicide rates among youth.
        
         | kjkjadksj wrote:
         | I feel like banning outlets for self expression is going to be
         | even worse for teen mental health than the status quo.
        
         | heresie-dabord wrote:
         | > without the barrage of garbage the world throws at them.
         | 
         | Surveillance, for-profit mythomania, and predatory consumerist
         | garbage... as well as other types of predation.
        
       | adamredwoods wrote:
       | As a parent, this isn't something for the state to mandate. I
       | feel they took the choice away from me.
       | 
       | If my child breaks one of these vague laws, who gets brought to
       | court?
       | 
       | The parents.
        
       | MomoXenosaga wrote:
       | Keep saying it. Whatever China does is ridiculed and laughed at
       | only to be quietly adapted into Western democracies 10 years
       | later. But we get to vote on it so that makes it better I guess?
        
         | jquery wrote:
         | First of all, this law isn't going anywhere. Second, I was in
         | China ten years ago and their internet was absolute garbage.
         | Any site not on the approved list was blocked or throttled. I
         | had to use a VPN the entire time. China does some thing well,
         | but its internet policies are absolute trash.
        
       | systemvoltage wrote:
       | I feel like a lot of discussion has already the color of Utah's
       | politics even before discussing the objective aspects of this
       | issue. Would HN have the same reaction if this was a law passed
       | in California or EU?
        
       | r00fus wrote:
       | This law might _might_ make sense if it simply disallowed
       | children to view algorithmically curated feeds.
       | 
       | Most of the harm from FB, TikTok, etc stems from a non-
       | chronological algorithmic "amplification".
       | 
       | Otherwise this is clearly 1st amendment bait.
        
         | devalidating wrote:
         | How is it 1st amendment bait?
        
           | r00fus wrote:
           | Interaction on a public forum may be construed as speech.
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > How is it 1st amendment bait?
           | 
           | Because it restricts speech and association, on both sides
           | (provider and user.) While minors' rights in this area are
           | somewhat attenuated, they are not null, and while commercial
           | entities have rights which are attenuated in different ways
           | than minors, the fact that it the regulation is _explicitly_
           | content based (in that the exceptions are content-based)
           | means the first amendment is more relevant than in the
           | average commercial regulation.
           | 
           | (Depending on how the 5,000,000 user cutoff was reached, it
           | might also have Commerce Clause issues; if its a selectively
           | measure that imposes costs and favors in-state entities by
           | only targeting at a scope that no in-state entity otherwise
           | within its coverage has reached, that looks a lot like a
           | prohibited discrimination against out-of-state business.)
        
       | AbrahamParangi wrote:
       | Social Media use is probably worse than smoking for kids. Smoking
       | gives you a 15% chance to get cancer in 50 years but instagram
       | gives you a 66% chance of depression today.
       | 
       | It's incredibly, empirically unhealthy and it should be banned
       | for children.
        
         | Mezzie wrote:
         | Why let 18 year olds+ use it then? If it's that bad, it sounds
         | more like crack, which we ban for everybody.
        
           | AbrahamParangi wrote:
           | I'm in favor of autonomy for adults but yeah, that might be a
           | better world.
        
             | Mezzie wrote:
             | I can respect that position. I tend to be very in favor of
             | autonomy for older kids/adolescents because I think going
             | from 0 to 100 and having them be 18 and fully responsible
             | is going to result in bad decisions. Like we see with
             | drinking, or if we gave kids driver's licenses at 18 with
             | no education. They need a period of time when they have
             | autonomy but also support and some people around them to
             | veto things or else they can't learn to make good
             | decisions.
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | Social media is toxic and addicting. Kids hardly stand a chance
         | against it.
        
       | tzs wrote:
       | Europe might help here with getting around the privacy issues.
       | 
       | Organize your social media company so that all of the posts are
       | made through, stored, retrieved, and controlled by a European
       | company and all the processing/storage occurs in Europe.
       | 
       | GDPR would then apply to the European company. Yes, it would
       | still apply even when the data is about someone who is not
       | European. GPDR's extraterritorial rules are that it applies (1)
       | to companies not in Europe that are offering products or services
       | to people "in the Union" or tracking the actions of people in the
       | Union that take place in the Union, and (2) to companies in the
       | Union regardless of where they operate or where the data subjects
       | are.
       | 
       | The CLOUD Act in the US would not apply, because the data would
       | be controlled by a European company. The CLOUD Act applies to the
       | case where a US company is storing data in a non-US location but
       | still under its control, and allows the US to order that US
       | company to retrieve the data.
       | 
       | It should be fine if the European company is partly or even
       | completely owned by a US company, just as long as it is set up so
       | that the European company controls the data. GDPR would still
       | apply because of the European company, and the CLOUD Act would
       | still not apply because the US company would not control the
       | data.
        
       | jjcm wrote:
       | Actual bill is here:
       | https://le.utah.gov/~2023/bills/static/SB0152.html
       | 
       | For those wondering if it'll affect your site/service, this only
       | applies to social media companies that have > 5m account holders.
        
         | judge2020 wrote:
         | 5 million is not a lot, especially if you're just counting the
         | number of users in your DB. Something like MAUs would be a
         | better metric, but would still include things like Steam.
        
       | thelock85 wrote:
       | This is smart for the times and perhaps useless in the future. I
       | wonder what is the level of support amongst parents and teens in
       | Utah.
        
       | vlunkr wrote:
       | Can anyone familiar with the law tell us if this will stand? What
       | grounds does the government have to limit access like this?
       | 
       | On an unrelated note, I'm a little surprised how positive people
       | are on this. How many of us spent time online in forums or chat
       | rooms as teens? That can be a very formative experience.
       | Especially for kids who feel like they don't fit in with the
       | local crowd or feel unaccepted by their parents. I'm too old to
       | get discord, but I can see that internet subculture is going
       | strong there.
        
         | docandrew wrote:
         | I think the toxicity and addictiveness of modern social media
         | are a whole different ballgame from the forums and chat rooms
         | of old. The forums we grew up with weren't explicitly trying to
         | maximize "engagement" by showing the most viral content and
         | distorting perspectives of the world around us. The fact that
         | most of the forums were anonymous meant that people could be
         | honest if they wanted to, but also bred a healthy skepticism of
         | what strangers were up to, I think.
        
           | vlunkr wrote:
           | And yet this bill will probably impact them in the same way.
        
         | sibeliuss wrote:
         | > How many of us spent time online in forums or chat rooms as
         | teens?
         | 
         | As if this relates in any way to visual social media like
         | Instagram and TikTok, the primary sources of teen discontent.
         | Nerds buried on some internet forum or chat room can hardly be
         | compared to what is clearly a rapidly deteriorating public
         | health crisis brought on by the use of these applications.
         | 
         | I'm overjoyed for all of the parents in Utah right now.
         | Legislators are looking at the data.
        
       | krapp wrote:
       | I assume by default the true motive behind this is surveilling
       | and outing gay and lgbt youth, thought-policing and suppressing
       | progressive political speech and activism. I don't trust the
       | motives of any red state in this regard.
        
         | seb1204 wrote:
         | I would rather argue it is again easier to treat the symptoms
         | rather than address underlying issues - regulate the toxic
         | platforms. Similarly like smoking, the please don't smoke signs
         | and over counter sales have not really helped until
         | advertisement was largely prohibited/limited.
        
         | gtop3 wrote:
         | Teenagers need access to social activity and information
         | outside of their parent's view to form their own identity and
         | ideas. This is very healthy and natural. I understand social
         | media is having a negative impact on teenage mental health, but
         | so is having your parents listen in on every conversation.
        
         | ashleyn wrote:
         | That was the first thing I thought of, personally. The internet
         | is how I came to learn what transgender identity was in the
         | thick of the Bush era, when _you could not talk about these
         | things with anyone in person._ In many parts of the country,
         | that hasn 't changed since then, or it's even gotten worse. The
         | internet helped me put into context a lot of things I simply
         | couldn't talk about with mom and dad, or even god forbid, let
         | them find out it was something I even wanted to talk about.
         | 
         | This wasn't mentioned in the debate over the bill (only it
         | being marketed as some "common sense" bipartisan initiative),
         | but I strongly suspect it benefited from the culture war over
         | queer kids, and they will be disproportionately harmed by this.
         | 
         | One thing worth mentioning is that it only affects platforms
         | with >5M users, and many of the resources I used back then were
         | garage-run websites with much fewer users. I'm kind of mixed on
         | this because I do believe major platforms are better equipped
         | to handle abuse reports than rinky-dink forums. But on the flip
         | side, said rinky-dink forums weren't constantly manipulating
         | you for attention.
        
         | t-writescode wrote:
         | You're downvoted; but this is the obvious result. Mormons in
         | the state don't want their kids learning about sex or have good
         | sex or find out all the contradictions in their holy book and
         | they don't want to find out that what their parents are doing
         | is serious and scary manipulation and abuse and so banning
         | their access to the internet is a way to protect the families
         | and "protect" the children.
        
           | ksenzee wrote:
           | I'm no longer a practicing Mormon, and I understand where
           | you're coming from, but that's not what's happening here.
           | They'd be banning wider swaths of the internet if they were
           | trying to keep kids from learning about sex or church
           | history. This is a more generalized "protect the children
           | from the world" instinct.
        
           | lumb63 wrote:
           | I think you and the parent comment are off base. I have no
           | concrete evidence of that, but in a very blue Massachusetts,
           | most parents I know begrudgingly allow their children on
           | social media, and only to the extent required to prevent
           | their children from being social outcasts. Social media has
           | very real negative consequences for a lot of kids (and
           | adults). I don't think this is a red team/blue team game.
        
             | MBCook wrote:
             | I agree. The stated reason is easily enough to explain the
             | action. Tons of parents are concerned about this everywhere
             | and would probably love such restrictions (if enacted by
             | the networks instead of the state).
        
       | heavyset_go wrote:
       | I feel like this is a response to the exponential popularity of
       | sites like r/exmormon among younger generations. For example,
       | look at these exceptions. It seems like organic, unapproved
       | discussion between users is what the bill is trying to stifle:
       | 
       | > _(D) news, sports, entertainment, or other content that is
       | preselected by the provider and not user generated, ... (Q) to
       | permit comments on a digital news website, if the news content is
       | posted only by the provider of the digital news website,_
       | 
       | If this law was in place when I was growing up, my life would
       | probably look very different, and not for the better. My
       | interests, hobbies, profession, my sense of humor etc, all have
       | deep roots in the online communities I participated as a kid.
       | More importantly, those communities gave me a sense of hope when
       | I didn't have much.
       | 
       | Parental approval does nothing to stop the real harm that social
       | media can cause, nor does this bill provide incentives for
       | platforms to improve past that potential for harm. It's about
       | ensuring that kids aren't exposed to their peers, or ideas, that
       | might disagree with what their parents believe.
        
         | morbia wrote:
         | Gay guy here.
         | 
         | I have always said that these sort of laws designed to protect
         | children will do precisely the opposite. An LGBTQ child is
         | effectively forcibly outed by this law, potentially before
         | they've come to terms with their sexuality / gender themselves.
         | 
         | Whilst I don't doubt social media causes a lot of harm on
         | children growing up, giving parents full access to your
         | messages is not the solution. In my opinion, based off a scale
         | of a child's age and maturity, children are entitled to some
         | privacy. Clearly a 4 year old shouldn't be left alone with
         | unfettered access to the Internet, but equally a 16 year old
         | shouldn't have to feel like their parents are watching
         | everything they do or say. Both can cause long term
         | psychological harm to a child.
        
           | stuckinhell wrote:
           | Social media is not the same as it was 10 years ago.
           | 
           | The level of which kids compare themselves to other kids took
           | an exponential leap to a near hive mind level. Constantly
           | comparing themselves to the instagram people with fake lives,
           | rich kids, or extremely beautiful people is mentally damaging
           | them.
           | 
           | My daughter asked me for plastic surgery, and I was
           | dumbfounded. So I went check her internet logs, and she's
           | been watching rich kids of instagram/tiktok/etc. So now I'm
           | trying to figure out how to talk with her about this.
           | 
           | There is balance, but as her mother I don't think I'll be
           | letting her have internet privacy until she's grown up and
           | moved out.
        
             | whats_a_quasar wrote:
             | The mental health of teens and pre-teens has gotten really
             | bad. This isn't just another "think of the children scare."
             | Since the early 2010s the rate of self harm among girls
             | 10-14 has ~tripled, and the rate of suicide among 10-14
             | year olds has doubled [1].
             | 
             | And there is now lots of evidence that this is because of
             | social media and smartphones. The social lives of kids have
             | changed drastically, in a way that does not meet their
             | basic psychological needs [2].
             | 
             | I think that people's perceptions of social media are
             | lagging behind the reality on the ground. There have always
             | been moral panics and silly scares about whether the kids
             | are alright, most of which were unfounded. So I think we
             | are now reacting too slowly to the genuine health crisis
             | caused by technology.
             | 
             | [1] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/the-teen-mental-
             | illness...
             | 
             | [2] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/social-media-
             | mental-ill...
        
               | api wrote:
               | I really think it's important to stress that it's not all
               | technology generally. It's a specific thing: addictive
               | content on mobile phones, especially when it also
               | delivers toxic messaging (whether intentionally or not).
               | 
               | The really toxic thing here is the portable omnipresent
               | virtual Skinner box.
               | 
               | Highlighting that specific thing will help make sure any
               | regulation we do enact will be properly targeted. Kids
               | learning to code or doing homework on a computer or even
               | playing a few games is not the problem. "Social" media
               | and hyper-addictive content is the problem. _Tech that is
               | designed to be addictive_ is the problem.
               | 
               | Addictive trash on PCs can be harmful too, but the form
               | factor limits just how extreme and pervasive it can be.
               | 
               | I also think the mobile ecosystem is just culturally more
               | oriented toward making things addictive. Mobile games,
               | media, everything on the platform seems designed to suck
               | people in and keep them staring. The PC ecosystem still
               | seems to have some sense that computers should exist to
               | help people or make them smarter, not addict them. It's
               | like mobile is run by the people who design slot
               | machines.
        
               | heavyset_go wrote:
               | > _https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/the-teen-mental-
               | illness..._
               | 
               | I don't necessarily buy the premise that the economy
               | isn't having poor effects on teenagers' mental health
               | just because the GFC is "over". Maybe to financial
               | markets it is, but for people who need to work for a
               | living, things changed since 2008 for the worse.
               | 
               | Teens are more likely to see their parents struggle to
               | pay bills despite working full-time and with two incomes,
               | they're more likely to see their parents face real
               | threats like being unable to afford housing and the
               | consequences that brings, they're going to see how the
               | march of increasing costs of living affects their family
               | in the face of stagnant wages. They also see countless
               | examples of older people who do "everything right", yet
               | are still laid off and can't re-enter the workforce in
               | the same capacity as they had in the past, and are pushed
               | out of their careers entirely.
               | 
               | On top of that, they're being told that they'll be
               | relegated to a life of even worse poverty if they don't
               | get into a good college, but even then, they aren't
               | guaranteed a sustainable job and will have to take out a
               | mortgage-sized loan just to attend. That loan will hang
               | around their necks until they die even if they're only
               | able to find a job that pays $30k a year. And if they
               | _want_ a job that even pays that much, they 'll need a
               | degree anyway, because those jobs have degree
               | requirements, too.
               | 
               | I can understand why that would be overwhelming and
               | depressing to teenagers.
        
             | Version467 wrote:
             | May I ask how old your daughter is? It's concerning
             | regardless of age, but if she's ~17 than I can see how this
             | came to be, vs. if she's ~12 then I need to update my
             | mental model of the world.
             | 
             | Also, did she ask _about_ plastic surgery, or did she
             | express interest in _getting_ plastic surgery?
             | 
             | I don't mean to pry, I'm just more surprised than I
             | (apparently) should be and would like to fix my gap in
             | understanding.
        
               | bcrosby95 wrote:
               | I'm not sure why it would be too surprising.
               | 
               | The problem with the internet is simple: it's easy to be
               | constantly exposed to the top 0.001% of any aspect of
               | life.
               | 
               | Consider this website. How many people feel diminished in
               | the face of the achievements of others? How many seek out
               | their advice on how to up their game? If you could get
               | surgery to make you better at software development, how
               | many would do so? If grown-ass adults are subject to this
               | sort of stuff, how do we expect children to be able to
               | cope?
        
           | brvsft wrote:
           | Think of the _gay_ children.
        
           | kvetching wrote:
           | [flagged]
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | They are not designed to protect kids. There is always
           | campaign designed to elicit fear and contempt and then they
           | take controlling laws.
           | 
           | Talking about it as if safety was a goal instead of control
           | is just falling into their lie.
        
             | xboxnolifes wrote:
             | It's never about the kids protection/rights. Kids don't
             | vote, parents do. Nearly every proposed law marketed as
             | protecting kids is actually about increasing parent or
             | state control over kids.
        
               | nine_k wrote:
               | It's always important to remember that the tools that
               | enable freedom, like voting, can be used against freedom,
               | if enough of the population does not value it.
        
           | rayiner wrote:
           | The science is that people's brains aren't fully developed
           | until age 25. What they have access to before that time
           | should be carefully curated by adults.
        
           | insane_dreamer wrote:
           | In theory I agree with you and the other posters on this. But
           | as someone with preteen kids there's the other side of me
           | that wants to a) protect them from all the actual shit out
           | there, and b) perhaps more importantly encourage them to do
           | something more constructive than mindlessly scrolling through
           | TikTok clips that have no value whatsoever. In fact I'm far
           | more worried about b) than a) because I know they can learn
           | to discern a) but b) can become a true addiction. I want them
           | to explore whatever their interests are - which may be very
           | different than mine were at their age - what I don't want is
           | for them to become the equivalent of "zombie couch potatoes".
           | I'm also concerned about all the negative comparisons that
           | come with "oh look how those peoples lives are so much better
           | than mine" ; I suffered from that myself as an adult (even
           | though I knew that what I saw on social media was not a true
           | representation of peoples lives) and was happier after I
           | deleted my FB account (not to mention wasting less time).
           | Anyway I wonder how many people responding here have
           | teenagers, because when you do, you think of this issue from
           | a different perspective. (I'm not religious nor in Utah)
        
             | insane_dreamer wrote:
             | PS. Having said the above, I do not agree with a law
             | parental consent being required until 18. I would want my
             | kids to have acquired good habits and be able to make
             | reasonable decisions in their own without our involvement
             | by 14 or so.
        
           | realworldperson wrote:
           | [dead]
        
           | nonethewiser wrote:
           | > An LGBTQ child is effectively forcibly outed by this law,
           | potentially before they've come to terms with their sexuality
           | / gender themselves.
           | 
           | How?
        
             | woodruffw wrote:
             | Presumably the "giving parents full access to online
             | accounts" part. It isn't difficult to imagine scenarios in
             | which a minor is "outed" because a parent exercises their
             | power under the law.
        
             | Eumenes wrote:
             | This has me scratching my head too
        
             | GrabbinD33ze69 wrote:
             | How is it that difficult to imagine how someone could be
             | outed as gay etc if another party has the right to read
             | through all of their messages etc lol.
        
           | pjc50 wrote:
           | Yes. This should be seen in the context of the huge set of
           | anti-trans laws and the Florida book banning. There is going
           | to be another attempt at making it illegal for kids to hear
           | about non-straight people at all. And outing kids to their
           | parents, even at risk of violence, is a part of that.
           | 
           | The "land of free speech" always has a big "not you"
           | exemption that can be wielded against people who aren't WASPy
           | enough.
           | 
           | Edit: see the absolutely huge number of people on HN
           | downthread cheering this on because they hate Facebook.
           | Strange world.
        
             | rayiner wrote:
             | > The "land of free speech" always has a big "not you"
             | exemption that can be wielded against people who aren't
             | WASPy enough
             | 
             | WASPs are the ones pushing pornographic books in schools.
             | Florida is one of the most diverse states in the country.
        
               | pjc50 wrote:
               | Neither of those things are true? The books being banned
               | are not pornographic?
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | "WASP" has the specific connotation of northeastern white
               | people of longstanding American lineage. (The term
               | typically excludes southern and Appalachian whites that
               | technically also are Anglo Saxon and Protestant.) Those
               | people are the vanguard of social liberalism today, in
               | states like Massachusetts and Connecticut.
               | 
               | In Florida, meanwhile, non-Hispanic whites are just 51%
               | of the population (versus 65-70% in Massachusetts and
               | Connecticut). And the white people who are there aren't
               | really "WASPs" in the typical sense of the word.
               | DeSantis, of course, isn't a WASP at all. He's a
               | Catholic. American social conservatism is primarily a
               | coalition of southern whites, "ethnic whites" (German,
               | Italian, and Irish), and Hispanics--none of whom were
               | traditionally considered "WASPs."
               | 
               | The books are absolutely pornographic:
               | https://www.ibtimes.sg/texas-school-sparks-outrage-after-
               | mom.... They contain graphic depictions of underage
               | people engaged in sex acts.
        
               | throwaway-blaze wrote:
               | The graphic depiction of underage people engaged in sex
               | acts is against federal law and most likely Texas law as
               | well. It is baffling to me how the media depicts this as
               | "anti trans" or "anti lgbt" book banning while managing
               | to never mention the specifics of the books.
               | 
               | I'm about as liberal as they come on social issues. But I
               | don't think these books are appropriate in an elementary
               | or middle school library.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | > It is baffling to me how the media depicts this as
               | "anti trans" or "anti lgbt" book banning while managing
               | to never mention the specifics of the books.
               | 
               | It's because a lot of people are using a small number of
               | sexual minorities as a pretext for encouraging everyone's
               | kids to explore their sexuality.
        
           | WeylandYutani wrote:
           | It is well known that more teens commit suicide in insular
           | religious communities.
           | 
           | It's not social media it is people driving other people to
           | despair. Ofcourse you can't really fix that.
        
             | throwaway-blaze wrote:
             | Source? That isn't true.
        
           | datavirtue wrote:
           | The goal was to make kids unwilling to use social media.
        
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         | deepGem wrote:
         | +1. As an Indian kid growing up in a very conservative
         | family/neighborhood I can attest that what I have learned and
         | have helped me in becoming successful was all through my peers
         | and books (mostly fiction). If I had no access to those and had
         | purely followed what my parents prescribed, I would have been a
         | very different individual and most likely, would not have
         | pursued computer science. More than anything, succees or
         | otherwise, peer learning and learning on my own was and still
         | continues to be the emblem of freedom.
         | 
         | There surely is a downside to this, that this self learning can
         | veer you off in a sub optimal direction of laziness,
         | procrastination, lost concentration etc, as experienced in
         | today's social media. However, it's better to bet the odds on
         | freedom of individuals than on oversight.
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | > (D) news, sports, entertainment, or other content that is
         | preselected by the provider and not user generated, ... (Q) to
         | permit comments on a digital news website, if the news content
         | is posted only by the provider of the digital news website
         | 
         | Sounds more like they are protecting against children consuming
         | toxic or mind numbing content.
        
           | tzs wrote:
           | > Sounds more like they are protecting against children
           | consuming toxic or mind numbing content.
           | 
           | If that was the case it would not exclude comments on digital
           | news websites. Those are usually a cesspool.
        
             | jjeaff wrote:
             | I doubt anyone thinks reading those comments are good. They
             | just made the carve out to avoid including news sites in
             | the ban.
        
         | taxyz wrote:
         | I think this is a little less sinister than you are making it
         | out to be. To me, it reads as the intent of those exemptions is
         | because those sites (CNN, Fox, ESPN, etc) exercise editorial
         | discretion around what content is posted and, presumably,
         | should be more active in moderating/enabling/disabling
         | discussion comments. Sites like reddit (since you mention
         | r/exmormon) while are user moderated ultimately escape
         | liability behind section 230.
         | 
         | It's a separate debate for us to argue what is more harmful to
         | children/minors/teens - news/sports/entertainment media vs
         | social media but with our current legal framework these
         | exemptions kinda make sense. If what you are worried about is
         | brainwashing, being solicited, general harm from both users and
         | algorithms, its probably true that that is less likely to
         | happen to a kid in the comments section of an ESPN article than
         | it is on reddit/4chan/tiktok/instagram - and when it does
         | happen at least there is someone to hold somewhat responsible.
        
         | data_maan wrote:
         | This is yet another instance of "Think of the children":
         | 
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Think_of_the_children
        
         | johnchristopher wrote:
         | > If this law was in place when I was growing up, my life would
         | probably look very different, and not for the better. My
         | interests, hobbies, profession, my sense of humor etc, all have
         | deep roots in the online communities I participated as a kid.
         | More importantly, those communities gave me a sense of hope
         | when I didn't have much.
         | 
         | There's not enough details but I take it online communities
         | were social networks of that time ?
         | 
         | I understand self-hosted boards would still be available to
         | teens under this law.
         | 
         | Otherwise, I don't see how algorithmic generated content
         | benefits teens if the goal is to participate in a community.
        
         | Mezzie wrote:
         | I'd like to add that this may have outsized unintended effects
         | like COPPA did - COPPA being the law that established that
         | accounts online required you to be 13. I was 12 when COPPA went
         | into effect. What a lot of people don't know about COPPA is
         | that there is a provision to allow for children under 13 to
         | have accounts with proven parental permission. My parents would
         | have allowed me - I'd been online for 8 years at that point and
         | they were both techy types who could supervise me. However, it
         | wasn't worth the extra logistics for companies, so they just
         | outright banned anyone under 13.
         | 
         | Likewise, if this is enacted in enough states or the logistics
         | of figuring out which people to track becomes too burdensome,
         | I'd expect to see sites not letting _anyone_ under 18 use them
         | and to start collecting _everyone 's_ information.
         | 
         | Which would have some really bad second-order impacts. In
         | addition to the impacts others have mentioned on minority
         | populations, I have two main concerns:
         | 
         | - Cutting off the parental rights of those who _want_ to be
         | permissive with their kids. My parents didn 't believe in
         | content restrictions; the one ideological idea they agree on is
         | free access to knowledge. I was given an adult library card at
         | 5-6 and full Internet access at around the same age and
         | discussions on how to interpret what we saw in the news/in
         | media/etc. was a common discussion point. My mother is from a
         | media studies family and my father's family are tech tinkerers.
         | Families like mine will be functionally unable to raise their
         | children as _they_ would prefer.
         | 
         | - More relevant to society as a whole, sure, let's ban their
         | access until they're 18. Then when kids move out/leave at 18,
         | not only do they have to navigate the world, they have to be
         | introduced to social media with absolutely no oversight. And 18
         | year olds are legally "adults", so companies will have a group
         | of _completely defenseless people to take advantage of who can
         | be held to their bad decisions_. (Think like credit card
         | companies who hang out at freshmen college /uni events). It's
         | similar to raising the driving age: While raising the driving
         | age does prevent accidents, the highest rate of bad driving
         | comes from _new drivers_. If the driving age is lower, those
         | new drivers are more likely to have people to call if they do
         | get into trouble and make their mistakes when they 're less
         | likely to ruin their lives. Likewise, the worst effects of
         | social media will be felt by those who are _new users_.
        
           | BeFlatXIII wrote:
           | How likely is it that today's teens simply check the "I am
           | over 18" box and set themselves a fake birthday that is Jan 1
           | from 20 years ago? I've been 25 for the past 25 years, after
           | all.
        
             | Mezzie wrote:
             | The problem is that you can't easily verify whether someone
             | is 12 or 14 with documentation so the checkbox is all they
             | had. You _can_ easily verify if someone is over _18_ and
             | there are systems in place to do so, which means it 's
             | highly likely if this takes place that ID is going to be
             | required. (I mean I also just lied after COPPA, but I was
             | pissed to lose so many accounts that I'd signed up for
             | honestly in 95-99.)
             | 
             | Are the kids going to get around it? Yes. (And _good_ ,
             | that's one way to develop a healthy skepticism as well as
             | some systems thinking.) But it's going to be way harder and
             | likely involve forging documents or impersonating
             | _particular_ adults. (I can see a reverse of a situation I
             | had growing up where my parents used us as shields against
             | piracy accusations:  "Ooops, sorry, I'll talk to my kid.
             | They're totally the one who downloaded this game." _nudge
             | nudge wink wink_ where children act through their parents -
             | it 's not like it's hard for a 15 year old to take their
             | mom/dad's driver's license and use it). Those actions are
             | more likely to be punished, whereas a simple lie is 'kids
             | will be kids'.
        
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         | thrwwy27464 wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | transcoderx wrote:
           | Fox News makes the laws in Utah?
        
       | blintz wrote:
       | The idea that nobody is entitled to privacy until they turn 18 is
       | crazy. I shudder for all the LGBT kids whose parents all now have
       | a (state enforced!) right to snoop on them.
       | 
       | (Honestly headline should be: "Utah bill gives parents full
       | access to their children's online accounts, including posts and
       | private messages")
        
         | JumpCrisscross wrote:
         | > _that nobody is entitled to privacy until they turn 18 is
         | crazy_
         | 
         | But precedented, through the history of parenting.
        
           | jquery wrote:
           | Child abuse is precedented, doesn't make it okay.
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | Straw man.
        
               | jquery wrote:
               | The most likely parents to exercise a right to read their
               | 16-year-old teenager's online messages would be abusive,
               | controlling ones.
        
               | WeylandYutani wrote:
               | The American stance on children is different. Children
               | are the property of their parents, to raise and
               | indoctrinate however one sees fit.
               | 
               | Luckily everyone grows up and when you're 18 you can move
               | to a Democrat state never entering a church ever again.
        
               | sacnoradhq wrote:
               | That's a further, unsubstantiated assumption of malice.
               | 
               | Some involved, worrying parents want to know their kids
               | aren't getting mixed up with bad lifestyle habits or
               | dangerous persons.
        
         | kepler1 wrote:
         | Why are LGBT youth for some reason the special subgroup of
         | people against whom every concern about rights being tested
         | against? More so than anyone else's rights? It's like they
         | somehow occupy a privileged position in your mind that everyone
         | has to watch out for this group. Why is that?
        
           | WeylandYutani wrote:
           | As a European my concern is actually for Muslim girls. Every
           | year a few of them end up honour killed.
           | 
           | So no it's not just the gays who have to fear their parents.
        
           | throwawaysleep wrote:
           | They are the targets of one of the largest hate groups in
           | North America. Christians. And in particular, they are forced
           | to live under the roofs of people who hate them by virtue of
           | being children. Who if they discover they are gay, may send
           | them to camps to be tortured until they are "cured."
        
             | JackMorgan wrote:
             | Downvoted for speaking real facts right here. Many
             | Christians are given a pass to feel contempt for LGBTQ
             | folks, which leads to dehumanization and hate. I had
             | friends growing up in the 90s who were outed and then
             | forcibly disappeared off to realignment camps. I never saw
             | two of them again and lost contact. After the camp didn't
             | work, they were sent away to live with relatives or
             | boarding schools so to not embarrass the parents with the
             | gay. The comment above isn't hyperbole, it's what really
             | happens. I grew up in terror of my close LGBTQ friends ever
             | getting outed, because I knew we'd never see them again. We
             | all did everything we could to help them keep their cover.
             | We'd never even mention it, we all just knew, and would
             | fabricate stories that made them appear straight.
             | 
             | And keep in mind, there is no evidence that conversion
             | therapy has any success rate. However, it is well known to
             | increase suicide rate by 2.5x. The people who run these
             | groups know they don't work, but do it anyway. There's a
             | saying that sums this up perfectly, "the cruelty is the
             | point".
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > They are the targets of one of the largest hate groups in
             | North America. Christians.
             | 
             | "Christians" is overly broad here, though, yes, its a large
             | subset of Christians. (Its a particularly divisive issue
             | _among_ Christians, both between denominations and in some
             | cases - e.g., the Catholic Church - within them.)
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > Why are LGBT youth for some reason the special subgroup of
           | people against whom every concern about rights being tested
           | against?
           | 
           | They _aren't_.
           | 
           | But they are a group particularly targeted right now, and
           | targeted by legislation, and targeted by the same religious-
           | social-political faction pushing this legislation even if
           | this particular piece of legislation doesn't _overtly_ target
           | them, so...its reasonably to pay particular attention to how
           | this legislation affects them.
        
           | blintz wrote:
           | I'm gay, so it just hits more personally.
        
             | monksy wrote:
             | I'm not, but I wish it was known that I want to unify in
             | the importance and right to privacy.
        
           | Barrin92 wrote:
           | >against whom every concern about rights being tested
           | against?
           | 
           | because they're often the first group these legislations aim
           | at. It's no coincidence that the state in question is Utah,
           | effectively run by the Mormon church with a strong interest
           | in censoring youth access to the internet.
        
         | Illniyar wrote:
         | Children are not entitled to autonomy - they do not have
         | freedom of movement in general, freedom of employment etc...
         | 
         | Privacy, like any other form of autonomy, is in control of the
         | parent and should be given out as part of the educational
         | process.
         | 
         | 18 perhaps is too old for the state to grant independence, but
         | that's a problem in general and not restricted to privacy.
        
           | vasco wrote:
           | You should go read about children's rights ratified by pretty
           | much every country on earth.
        
           | photochemsyn wrote:
           | I recently saw a short video by Syria's Assad in which he
           | argues that parents should be able to dictate their religious
           | beliefs to their children, rather than allowing children to
           | decide their religious beliefs on their own initiative.
           | 
           | It's somewhat less extreme than the old medieval feudal that
           | the feudal lord should be able to dictate their religious
           | beliefs to their serf population, but not really by much.
           | 
           | Freedom of choice with respect to religious beliefs, and
           | legal bans on religious discrimination, are a fundamental
           | necessity in any democratic system of government.
           | Additionally, children do have the right to privacy, just as
           | adults do.
        
           | guerrilla wrote:
           | > Children are not entitled to autonomy
           | 
           | Counterpoint: Of coursw they are.
        
         | sacnoradhq wrote:
         | "Entitled to privacy" _from whom_?
         | 
         | 1. Corporations?
         | 
         | 2. Educators?
         | 
         | 3. Strangers?
         | 
         | or
         | 
         | 4. Parents?
        
         | Dalewyn wrote:
         | >Utah bill gives parents full access to their children's online
         | accounts, including posts and private messages
         | 
         | I see no problem with that.
         | 
         | Parents, as legal guardians, are legally liable for their
         | childrens' actions. Parenting also necessitates having
         | privileged knowledge of their childrens' circumstances and
         | situations.
         | 
         | So no, I see no problem with parents having "full access to
         | their children's online accounts". That is simply part of the
         | duties and responsibilities as parents, and whether the parents
         | exercise their authority is also their decision to make as they
         | raise their children.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | This makes abuse much worst. Also, this is about teenagers -
           | 16-18 years old. Parent demanding full control is neither
           | normal nor healthy nor something historically expected.
        
             | Dalewyn wrote:
             | Teenagers are still minors and legally beholden to their
             | parents or guardians. Parents should have full access to
             | their childrens' circumstances because parenting
             | occasionally requires such privileged information.
             | 
             | Whether parents would make full use of such authority is
             | another story, of course. In most cases they probably
             | won't, but the option to exercise must exist in order for
             | parents to parent properly.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | I think that this is simply not true. Actually, starting
               | 16 parents dont have access to what was said in
               | psychologist office anymore. Nor should they. Parents
               | should not have full access to their teenage children
               | diaries nor to all their communication.
               | 
               | > Whether parents would make full use of such authority
               | is another story, of course
               | 
               | The most abusive parents would use that access.
        
       | Buttons840 wrote:
       | A Utah resident connects to a server in California, controlled by
       | a company in California. This seems like interstate commerce to
       | me, and is thus regulated by federal law, not the laws of
       | individual states.
       | 
       | Consider Wickard v. Filburn[0], in which the courts ruled that a
       | farmer growing crops on his own land, to feed to his own animals,
       | all within a single state, was participating in "interstate
       | commerce". Given this extreme bias towards classifying everything
       | as interstate commerce, I can't imagine that a Utah resident
       | connecting to a California company wouldn't also interstate
       | commerce. This isn't something Utah can regulate.
       | 
       | [0]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wickard_v._Filburn
        
         | dehrmann wrote:
         | > This isn't something Utah can regulate.
         | 
         | The stream of commerce doctrine gets silly pretty quickly since
         | literally everything has some degree of it.
         | 
         | I was convinced federal courts wouldn't allow states to collect
         | sales tax on out-of-state purchases (or at least say states
         | can't enforce it), that seems to be ok.
        
         | roywiggins wrote:
         | I may be wrong, but I think it depends on whether it actually
         | conflicts with any federal law. States _can_ pass laws that
         | affect interstate commerce if there 's no superceding federal
         | law and if they don't fall afoul of the Dormant Commerce
         | Clause, which sort of generically restricts interstate
         | protectionism.
        
           | Buttons840 wrote:
           | So, for example, I could setup a server in Oregon, which
           | responds to requests received from other servers in
           | Oregon[0], and then suddenly I find myself in legal trouble
           | in Florida? Why am I subject to Florida law when I live in
           | Oregon, and I have no representation in the Florida
           | legislature?
           | 
           | [0]: In this example, I connect to an Oregon ISP and respond
           | to requests being relayed through this ISP, but I never
           | directly connect to servers in other states. This is a
           | reductionist view, and may be silly, but it helps make my
           | point.
        
             | roywiggins wrote:
             | I think that goes to jurisdiction, which is a different
             | issue.
             | 
             | The sibling comment by dragonwriter (which I missed somehow
             | when posting) is a better-worded version of my point about
             | interstate commerce.
        
         | soerxpso wrote:
         | You are so smart! I suppose now I can start a gambling site for
         | users in all states, in violation of state regulations, as long
         | as the servers are hosted in a state with loose gambling laws.
         | Can't believe other gambling sites weren't doing this!
        
         | ryanfreeborn wrote:
         | Yup. Federal law enforcement uses interstate nexus via server
         | locations to establish jurisdiction.
        
         | sircastor wrote:
         | Assuming they acknowledge this at all, more and more laws are
         | being written and passed knowing full well they violate federal
         | law and will be challenged. The intent is not regulation of
         | society, it's political visibility and winning "points" among
         | your electorate. Whether the law stands scrutiny is irrelevant
        
           | shostack wrote:
           | Don't forget trying to tee things up for our extremist
           | leaning SCOTUS bench.
        
             | Dalewyn wrote:
             | Posts like yours only serve to vindicate this new
             | law(bill?) in Utah.
        
               | shostack wrote:
               | Care to explain your statement?
        
         | dragonwriter wrote:
         | > A Utah resident connects to a server in California,
         | controlled by a company in California. This seems like
         | interstate commerce to me, and is thus regulated by federal
         | law, not the laws of individual states.
         | 
         | Interstate commerce is generally subject to concurrent
         | jurisdiction of the federal and state governments, except that
         | state laws which discriminate against out-of-state trade are
         | presumptively illegal, state law cannot negate federal law, and
         | federal law can explicitly (and sometimes implicitly) forbid
         | state regulation of the same conduct. It is not the case that
         | the mere fact that it involves interstate commerce
         | automatically, without federal law addressing the subject,
         | precludes state regulation.
         | 
         | OTOH, to the extent that the elements of site design likely to
         | be challenged under this are very closely related to the
         | functions protected by Section 230, which _does_ include a
         | preemption clause, even if this is otherwise Constitutional
         | applying it is going to often be tricky in practice.
        
         | prpl wrote:
         | In a fun twist, the data centers are quite possibly in Utah.
         | 
         | That said, assuredly Meta, Twitter, etc... have some kind of
         | foot print in Utah
        
           | sacnoradhq wrote:
           | Meta has Eagle Mountain. It's ~ $3B CapEx + ? OpEx. If it
           | means billion in losses, it would pull up stakes and move.
           | 
           | https://datacenters.atmeta.com/all-locations/#united-states
        
       | capableweb wrote:
       | Governments of the Industrial World, you weary giants of flesh
       | and steel, I come from Cyberspace, the new home of Mind. On
       | behalf of the future, I ask you of the past to leave us alone.
       | You are not welcome among us. You have no sovereignty where we
       | gather.
       | 
       | We have no elected government, nor are we likely to have one, so
       | I address you with no greater authority than that with which
       | liberty itself always speaks. I declare the global social space
       | we are building to be naturally independent of the tyrannies you
       | seek to impose on us. You have no moral right to rule us nor do
       | you possess any methods of enforcement we have true reason to
       | fear.
       | 
       | A Declaration of the Independence of Cyberspace
       | 
       | https://www.eff.org/cyberspace-independence
        
         | krapp wrote:
         | ... a sentiment as impotent as it was naive.
        
         | jjulius wrote:
         | This has, "If you write in your FB status that FB doesn't have
         | permission to use your pictures as outlined in their ToS (which
         | you already accepted) then they have to comply with your
         | request," vibes.
        
           | capableweb wrote:
           | There was a time when what Barlow wrote spoke to a lot of
           | hackers out in the world. Maybe that's not how the world is
           | today, sadly.
        
             | ajhurliman wrote:
             | Gonna be honest, it's kind of cringey. I don't think the
             | sentiment is disagreed with here, but the fact that it
             | sounds like an overzealous dungeon master.
        
               | capableweb wrote:
               | I'll give you honesty right back: back then, most of us
               | either were overzealous dungeon masters or had one as a
               | close friend.
        
         | mindslight wrote:
         | This would ring a lot more true if we weren't talking about
         | centralized websites that will enjoy the excuse to demand your
         | government identity, adding to the surveillance databases that
         | power their real business. And until tech culture moves on past
         | this evolutionary dead end, governments will continue to think
         | that the "Internet" is just another thing to be micro-
         | regulated.
        
       | norgie wrote:
       | I think it's unlikely this law stands up to a court challenge, so
       | we'll see what's actually limited
        
       | willmadden wrote:
       | I wish this was the case in all 50 states. Kids' minds need to
       | develop without screen addiction.
        
       | whats_a_quasar wrote:
       | I think that people aren't giving enough credence to the reason
       | Utah gives for the restrictions: The teen mental health crisis.
       | 
       | Social media has radically changed the social lives of
       | adolescents, and as a result anxiety, depression, self harm, and
       | suicide have all skyrocketed. The data on this is not ambiguous
       | [1].
       | 
       | And there's now a lot of evidence that social media and
       | smartphones are the cause of the crisis: they screw up childhood
       | in a way that has serious health consequences [2].
       | 
       | Time spent in person with friends by 15-24 year olds has dropped
       | from an average of 155 minutes per day in 2003 to an average of
       | 42 min per day in 2019, a drop of 3x [3, figure 4]. How could
       | that not have huge effects on psychological health?
       | 
       | I think these restrictions are a good thing - it's a crude
       | approach and will have some negative consequences, but the scale
       | of the health crisis requires something to be done.
       | 
       | [1] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/the-teen-mental-
       | illness...
       | 
       | [2] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/social-media-mental-
       | ill...
       | 
       | [3] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/the-new-cdc-report
        
         | Mizoguchi wrote:
         | It would be interesting to see also how much time are couples
         | spending with their kids as it seems to be more common to have
         | now both parents working long and tiring hours (purely
         | observational). With the continued increase in the cost of
         | living it would be reasonable to think that many kids are
         | actually spending more time alone at home, particularly those
         | in lower income families.
        
         | Fatnino wrote:
         | Kids hanging out with classmates on Discord instead of in
         | person certainly leads to a reduction in teen pregnancy
        
         | api wrote:
         | I've been calling social media companies "the tobacco companies
         | of the mind" for years.
         | 
         | Modern social media like Instagram and TikTok are not even
         | social. They are just skinner boxes that crowdsource and
         | amplify addictive content to keep people staring and scrolling.
         | Social media started to stop being social when algorithmic
         | timelines, weighting of content for engagement, and
         | monetization were introduced.
         | 
         | The next major innovation in the field will be pure AI
         | generation of the feed. No more human sources at all, just
         | endless amounts of mindless addictive filler fine tuned for
         | each person.
         | 
         | You can already see it on kids channels on YouTube where the
         | content is at least part machine generated and is pure mindless
         | drivel. The adult version is coming I'm sure.
         | 
         | Edit: actually I think Replika may be the first adult AI
         | Skinner box of note. Imagine that model crossed with TikTok.
        
         | chrisan wrote:
         | I don't have any answers to the problem but teen mental health
         | issues have grown quite a lot since social media.
         | 
         | My wife works in PICU and she has never seen so many suicide
         | attempts in all her career (going back to 2006) as she has in
         | past few years. She talks to other doctors who come from other
         | areas and their concerns/experiences are the same.
         | 
         | I feel like every week she is talking to me about some new
         | kid's attempt.
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > My wife works in PICU and she has never seen so many
           | suicide attempts in all her career (going back to 2006) as
           | she has in past few years.
           | 
           | Social media has been around a lot longer than the last few
           | years. (In fact, while they weren't even the first wave of
           | widely-used-by-young-people social media, both Twitter and
           | Facebook opened to the public in 2006.)
           | 
           | There have been a few major events that have occurred in the
           | last few years, though, that aren't social media that might
           | relate to the effect under consideration.
        
             | philwelch wrote:
             | > Social media has been around a lot longer than the last
             | few years.
             | 
             | Setting aside the (valid and important) point about the
             | lockdowns, it also took time for social media to evolve
             | into its current form. Snapchat and Vine came out in the
             | early 10's and TikTok in 2017. Twitter has never been
             | especially widely used; it has outsized influence because
             | corporate media types use it, but it's not what the masses
             | are scrolling. Social media might not be new, but the
             | short-form video style of social media has taken off a ton
             | in the past decade.
             | 
             | At the risk of speculation, I'd also surmise that this is a
             | major part of the problem. Humans have a primal desire to
             | interact face to face. Full motion video of people talking
             | to the camera is sort of a junk food version of human
             | interaction. It's the same reason watching people play
             | video games on Twitch is more engaging when you can see
             | their face in the corner of the screen, and why so many
             | YouTube thumbnails include some recognizable face either
             | looking into the camera or expressing an emotion. Photos
             | and text don't scratch the same itch, so they're less
             | addictive.
             | 
             | (Some people can be addicted to text-based social media. I
             | am one of these people. But we were the ones who got
             | addicted to webforums and Usenet; probably not the typical
             | user.)
        
             | whats_a_quasar wrote:
             | I will continue posting links to Jonathan Haidt's review
             | docs all over this thread.
             | 
             | Social media and smartphones became widespread in the early
             | 2010s, and that's exactly when teen suicides started
             | rising. [1]
             | 
             | COVID does not appear to have significantly affected teen
             | mental health [2]
             | 
             | If you have evidence that something else is driving the
             | rise in teen suicide rates, I'd love to see it.
             | 
             | [1] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/social-media-
             | mental-ill...
             | 
             | [2] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/the-new-cdc-report
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > Social media and smartphones became widespread in the
               | early 2010s
               | 
               | Among adults (or in "household" surveys where adults were
               | surveyed? Sure, but the _majority_ of teen internet users
               | were using "social networking sites" in 2006.) [0]
               | 
               | If your contention is that _adult_ social media use is
               | driving teen suicide rates...well, that's actually more
               | plausible than teen use, but none of the policy responses
               | address that.
               | 
               | [0] https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2013/05/21/part-
               | 1-teens...
        
               | Scalestein wrote:
               | It isn't just social media, it is the combination of
               | social media and smartphones. This makes social media far
               | more pervasive in a teen's life.
               | 
               | See section 6[0] where they discuss how mental health
               | declines correlating with Facebook coming to college
               | campuses and with high speed internet arriving in cities
               | for some evidence.
               | 
               | [0] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/social-media-
               | mental-ill...
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | > the majority of teen internet users
               | 
               | This stat can't be meaningfully compared to teen suicide
               | rates because the latter is across _all_ teens,
               | regardless of online /offline status. If the number of
               | "online" teens grew dramatically between 2006 and 2013
               | (as I suspect it did), then the relative change in
               | percentage of "online" teens on social media would be a
               | fraction of the much larger change in teens _in general_.
               | 
               | My personal experience growing up around then is that a
               | majority of my peers weren't deep in social media and
               | smartphone use until well into the 2010s. I didn't have a
               | smartphone when I graduated high school in the early
               | 2010s, and I certainly wasn't an outlier at the time.
        
               | WarOnPrivacy wrote:
               | > If you have evidence that something else is driving the
               | rise in teen suicide rates, I'd love to see it.
               | 
               | Will reality do?
               | 
               | Over recent generations, kids have systematically been
               | robbed of critical developmental environments - primarily
               | they are denied regular hours of unsupervised alone/peer
               | time and expansive areas to free range.
               | 
               | The environments that kids absolutely need to develop
               | social and problem solving skills have been replaced with
               | ceaseless supervision, ceaseless containment and a
               | soundtrack of false messaging about risk from stranger
               | kidnapping (spoiler: FBI stats are clear that kids aren't
               | and haven't been at meaningful risk of stranger
               | kidnappings). At the edges of all that are justice
               | systems/LEO/authority that stand ever-ready to transform
               | routine stupid transgressions into forever penalties that
               | systemically ruin future life/job/housing opportunities.
               | 
               | We adults have erased their life prep and endlessly
               | notched up pressure on every front. What else do we
               | expect to follow that except poor mental health?
               | 
               | As for social media's part, one has to take a lot of
               | nuance out of teen mental health studies to single out SM
               | as the primary driver of bad mental health. ref:
               | https://www.techdirt.com/2022/07/21/blaming-social-media-
               | for...
        
               | Izkata wrote:
               | I think they were referring to lockdowns, not covid. Kids
               | weren't really affected by covid, but lockdowns and
               | school closures were massive. To see if there was an
               | effect on this from that you'd have to account for
               | duration and severeness of lockdowns in various places,
               | not look at overall rates.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > I think they were referring to lockdowns, not covid.
               | 
               | Both were among (but not, even together, the totality of)
               | the things I was referring to.
               | 
               | > Kids weren't really affected by covid
               | 
               | A massive wave of death, incapacitation, and serious
               | illness that very likely struck sonewhete in their
               | families? Kids may not have had particularly severe
               | _acute health_ cobsequences from COVID, but that doesn 't
               | mean they weren't affected by it.
        
               | whats_a_quasar wrote:
               | The link I posted is data for the change in teen mental
               | health between 2019 and 2021. The data incorporates all
               | of the effects of COVID, Lockdowns and school closures,
               | and does not show a significant change from pre-pandemic
               | trends.
               | 
               | I was using "COVID" as a shorthand for all of the changes
               | during the pandemic.
        
               | Izkata wrote:
               | > The link I posted is data for the change in teen mental
               | health between 2019 and 2021. The data incorporates all
               | of the effects of COVID, Lockdowns and school closures
               | 
               | Yes, my point is that is exactly the _problem_ with your
               | data. It needs to be broken down by location to account
               | for differences in lockdowns and school closures, to
               | claim there was any or no effect.
        
         | prh8 wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | whats_a_quasar wrote:
           | > How about not having a theistic culture? How about not
           | stigmatizing kids who don't fit into the blonde white
           | monoculture that Utah pushes everywhere?
           | 
           | The teen mental health crisis is happening everywhere in the
           | US, and in Canada, the UK, Australia, and New Zealand. It
           | started about the same time everywhere. Utah's particular
           | culture doesn't have anything to do with it. They're just the
           | state that has reacted first [1].
           | 
           | The suicide rate among 10-14 year olds has doubled since
           | 2010, nationwide. If you can present data that shows the
           | suicide rate increase is caused by any of those things, I'd
           | love to see it.
           | 
           | There's now lots of evidence that smartphones and social
           | media changes childhood in a way that does not meet
           | fundamental psychological needs [2]. Those changes are
           | causing enormous psychological and physcial harm. Regulating
           | technology is the only way to deal with that.
           | 
           | [1] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/the-teen-mental-
           | illness...
           | 
           | [2] https://jonathanhaidt.substack.com/p/social-media-mental-
           | ill...
        
             | hedora wrote:
             | There's no evidence regulation would help, and strong
             | evidence the form of regulation being proposed will make
             | things worse, which the article outlines.
             | 
             | Things that could work, that are not known to be harmful:
             | 
             | - Parental education campaigns.
             | 
             | - Elimination of tracking and other privacy invading
             | technologies for all age groups, not just children.
             | 
             | The latter eliminates the need for age blocks, and matches
             | consumer preferences of 90+% of the US population. It also
             | de facto bans technologies that track and encourage mental
             | illness (such as cambridge analytica, and arguably
             | youtube/tiktok content targeting).
        
               | whats_a_quasar wrote:
               | > Strong evidence the form of regulation being proposed
               | will make things worse, which the article outlines.
               | 
               | The only evidence in the article that the law will be
               | harmful is a quote from a free speech lawyer, which
               | doesn't cite any research. If there is strong evidence
               | that the law will be harmful it hasn't been presented
               | yet.
               | 
               | These laws certainly might be harmful! But I think it's
               | much more likely they will have no effect or a positive
               | effect. But we don't know, because restrictions like this
               | haven't been attempted before.
               | 
               | Regardless, it's the state legislature's job to protect
               | public health. I think there's assumed ill intent because
               | it's Utah, but I think the evidence is stronger that this
               | measure will stop so many kids dying by suicide.
        
               | hedora wrote:
               | > _But Common Sense Media and other advocacy groups
               | warned some parts of the new legislation could put
               | children at risk._
               | 
               | So, at least three groups concurred. Also, the only
               | proponents quoted in the article were "commons sense
               | media", which is either a typo (implying the proponents
               | are actually ambivalent) or someone trademark squatting
               | (implying malicious intent).
        
               | api wrote:
               | Regulation is needed to kill the peer pressure factor
               | that almost forces teens into social media. Without it
               | even if the parents try to enforce healthy boundaries it
               | won't stick. Network effects are a thousand times more
               | powerful for teens that are deeply and pervasively
               | immersed in peer pressure and social anxiety.
               | 
               | This is the same reason alcohol, cigarettes, gambling,
               | and drugs have age limits. Anything addictive needs to at
               | least be age restricted until people are old enough to
               | enforce their own boundaries about it.
               | 
               | At this point it should be obvious that social media is
               | highly addictive and is designed that way on purpose. In
               | some cases the same kinds of spaced repetition techniques
               | as slot machines are used.
        
           | rayiner wrote:
           | How do those things help the vast majority? What you deride
           | as "theism" and "monoculture" have been declining in sync
           | with broad indicators of mental health showing more problems.
           | Your problem is minoritarian thinking, where you're focused
           | on how those social structures might harm small groups of
           | people, while overlooking the benefits they provide for the
           | broader majority. For example, scientific studies
           | consistently show that religion is correlated with better
           | mental health, greater longevity, and greater happiness: http
           | s://www.forbes.com/sites/nicolefisher/2019/03/29/science...,
           | https://news.stanford.edu/2020/11/13/deep-faith-
           | beneficial-h..., https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23146600/
        
             | dgacmu wrote:
             | These generalizations ignore the specific - Utah has long
             | been an outlier on things like teen suicide rates (about
             | #10), antidepressant use (#1) [1], and before that valium.
             | It has a very specific set of cultural features that are
             | not necessarily the same as the broader studies you note.
             | 
             | (I'm from Utah; three of my friends killed themselves as a
             | teenager, and all three had aspects of what the GP was
             | talking about. It's a culture that blames people's mental
             | difficulties on themselves, instead of encouraging getting
             | help)
             | 
             | [1] https://www.brainerddispatch.com/community/study-finds-
             | utah-...
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Utah isn't an outliers:
               | https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/pressroom/sosmap/suicide-
               | mortality/.... Sparsely populated rural areas tend to
               | have high suicide rates. Vermont and Oregon are at the
               | opposite end of the spectrum in terms of theism and
               | culture, but have similarly high suicide rates. New
               | Hampshire and Maine are also higher than Mississippi and
               | Alabama.
               | 
               | Reducing theism (mandatory social interaction and social
               | support) may well increases suicide rates in these
               | places.
        
               | dgacmu wrote:
               | Salt lake city is not a sparsely populated rural area,
               | and its suicide rate is about the same as the state's
               | overall rate (24 vs 20.8).
               | 
               | Could be some altitude effects as a sibling comment
               | observed, though SLC at only 4200 ft isn't in the Denver
               | range.
               | 
               | But Utah also had a large rise in teen suicide over times
               | that align also with the social media hypothesis:
               | https://utah-health.shorthandstories.com/state-of-
               | suffering/...
               | 
               | (It went from already high to awful)
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Regardless, pointing to Utah" specific "cultural
               | features" doesn't make much sense. Neighboring Colorado
               | has an even higher suicide rate, and is at the opposite
               | end of the spectrum in terms of culture compared to Utah.
        
               | dgacmu wrote:
               | This is a logical fallacy - "Colorado is not X, therefore
               | Utah is not either".
               | 
               | In your earlier comment, you noted religion's correlation
               | with happiness, but allow me to quote from a review
               | article about religion and suicide specifically [1]:
               | 
               | > Whether religious affiliation protects against suicide
               | attempts may depend on the culture-specific implications
               | of affiliating with a particular religion,
               | 
               | [...]
               | 
               | > The relationship between religion and suicide is
               | complicated because both religion and suicide are complex
               | constructs
               | 
               | You're making the mistake of conflating the individual's
               | own degree of religious belief (which is _possibly_
               | mildly protective against suicide) with the _cultural
               | context_ and its effect on people of varying religious
               | belief and identity.
               | 
               | Colorado is not Utah. Utah is, as the saying almost goes,
               | a bit "peculiar", and it's tricky.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7310534/
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Just look at the map I linked. There is a clear
               | geographic pattern, and Utah isn't an outlier within that
               | pattern. Yes, it's theoretically possible that
               | religiosity is causing suicides in Utah and something
               | else is causing suicides in Colorado (and Oregon and
               | Vermont), and for some reason it's not causing suicides
               | in Mississippi and Alabama.
        
               | seizethegdgap wrote:
               | It's possible Utah's high teen suicide and antidepressant
               | use rates have something to do with altitude.
               | 
               | https://theconversation.com/the-curious-relationship-
               | between...
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | warning26 wrote:
           | _> How about, hmmm, having more mental health resources?_
           | 
           | This rings hollow, in the same sense that every time there is
           | a shooting in the US, we are always treated to comments
           | explaining that "well actually, you see, the REAL problem is
           | that there aren't enough mental health resources", shifting
           | discussion away from how easy it is to get a gun in the US.
           | 
           | Solutions are allowed to be multifaceted; we can both
           | restrict social media _and_ have better mental health
           | resources.
        
       | monksy wrote:
       | This is a strange way to legislate behavior. The fact that
       | they're selectively cutting access to a population during a time
       | period rather than limiting the overall negative reprocutions is
       | a weird thing.
       | 
       | This is not the internet I want to participate in. It's freaking
       | scary that the government is associating your ability to freely
       | access information based on your class and standing. Why we have
       | weak journalists and activists who aren't making a shitfit over
       | it is just mind-boggling.
       | 
       | Subcomment: I do believe that social media has caused harm,
       | however the negative reprocutions on how they're going about it
       | does not seem like a good intention.
        
         | gjsman-1000 wrote:
         | We as a society have decided you need an ID for alcohol, and ID
         | for marijuana in the states where it is legal, and so forth. We
         | know that social media can be just as habit-forming, addictive,
         | and dangerous to mental health; especially among teenagers.
         | 
         | I see no reason why society should not extend ID requirements
         | to certain times of night.
        
           | lotsofpulp wrote:
           | An important difference being the ID's purpose being just to
           | prove your age during for that transaction, not provide a
           | mechanism to create a permanent record of your behavior.
        
             | gjsman-1000 wrote:
             | Well, what is your plan? We can't pretend that letting teen
             | suicide jump 29%, and having 1 in 5 teens now having severe
             | depression, is an issue that parents should be solely
             | responsible for solving. And we shouldn't pretend yet
             | another social program could be as effective as slowing
             | down the source.
        
               | monksy wrote:
               | If you have an intelligent problem solving governance:
               | 
               | 1. Acknowledge the problem
               | 
               | 2. Seek a root cause
               | 
               | 3. Attempt to mediate this issue at it's root. My
               | uninformed, and unasked for, opinion on this is this is
               | due to the adjustment of living situation and social
               | expectations of that age group pushes their developing
               | social environment to go global rather than staying
               | local. (People are scared of their kids in the local
               | community hanging out and social, where they've been
               | stuck in doors playing xbox/tiktok).
               | 
               | 4. In doing #4 attempt to mediate this issue with the
               | parents. Don't try to punish people in the situation,
               | provide acceptable alternatives to help people be better.
               | 
               | On a surface level:
               | 
               | 1. Demonstrate in public a way that live without social
               | media is a workable thing for people at that age
               | 
               | 2. Provide mental health outreach for the effected people
               | (This costs money so it's never done)
        
               | zamadatix wrote:
               | I have strong support for the provisions that require
               | certain features be built into social media sites
               | themselves (e.g. "sites must support curfew scheduling"
               | or "sites cannot have free reign on targeted
               | advertisements") as it gives controls people want but
               | currently can't easily get from most of these types of
               | apps.
               | 
               | At the same time I'm not really a fan of the
               | implementation being based on providing real identity for
               | a hard age cutoff. Maybe I'm 20 years old and don't want
               | my real identity to be tied to the social identity for
               | privacy/coming out/political/other reasons as personal
               | info uploaded seems to always get leaked. Maybe I'm 17
               | years old and having the same restrictions as a 7 year
               | old that will disappear instantly in 3 months doesn't
               | make any sense and I never had good chances to learn to
               | make good choices on my own accord while I had the
               | strongest support structures I'll have all my life
               | available. Maybe I'm worried this is part of a slippery
               | slope for all, as the ages keep rising on this type of
               | legislation over time.
               | 
               | Overall I'd much rather put the tools (like curfew
               | support or removal of targeted advertisements) in the
               | hands of people and argue why they should want to use
               | them. Similarly, with the tools made available, I'd
               | rather trust parents are able to learn to raise their kid
               | on this matter as they have every other matter so if kids
               | are found to be working around curfews set by parents we
               | don't need the government to step in. If one argues too
               | many parents can't then I'm sorry to say you've done a
               | horrible job convincing anyone what you think is good is
               | actually so and relying on unpopular law creates more
               | problems than it solves.
               | 
               | Alternatively I'd at least like a solution where the
               | associated age verification identification is unrelated
               | to your real identity (e.g. a one time proof at the DMV
               | when you're getting your first 18+ license that gives you
               | some identity token which identifies you as 18+ but does
               | nothing else and is not stored or mapped with your real
               | identity otherwise). It doesn't solve a lot of the blind
               | application problems (and still lacks guarantee
               | limitations you want to follow you into adulthood, if you
               | so choose, can) but at least it prevents one class of
               | issues.
               | 
               | It may sound like I fit in the small government camp for
               | everything but I'd say I'm fine with government getting
               | involved with what corporations can do a lot more often
               | than when people are involved. Overall it also depends on
               | the issue and the alternative outcomes with
               | implementation. I guess what I'm saying is don't
               | generalize because I argue for small government here I
               | also argue for it in every case all the time, even if it
               | is about people. There are some things I think it's great
               | to centrally legislate but content consumption is one I
               | don't think the benefits outweigh the costs on. It's
               | certainly the most direct and probably has the largest
               | impact but "we've waited so long to do anything about it
               | that the problem to become really big" is a horrible
               | reason to pick direct and largest impact approaches.
        
               | monksy wrote:
               | This was a long read, but I'm glad you wrote it out.
               | 
               | I too am in full support of zero trust tokens. However, I
               | feel like society doesn't understand and would never
               | support this. Corporations have no punishment for
               | collecting and abusing people's information, that it's
               | disgusting. Even when they're caught abusing it, theres
               | no negative repercussions for the organizations.
               | (Experian.. which should have been completely closed..
               | got a minor fine to continue leaking people's info)
               | 
               | Another point I wanted to make for you. I want to see
               | anonymous identity tokens as that we're continuing on
               | this path. For example: Hetzner is now requiring
               | biometrics + id proof of who you are to pay them money
               | for a server. I understand they want to avoid fraud and
               | provide services to legitimate people, but that kind of
               | info is insane to give to some random person at some
               | corporation.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | That would be for Utah to solve. At a minimum, Utah
               | should be providing the infrastructure for its people to
               | be able to obtain a digital ID that has an API for
               | websites to use which legally cannot have its history
               | recorded.
        
             | yeahsure22 wrote:
             | [dead]
        
             | anon291 wrote:
             | Large numbers of states actively monitor (via swiping IDs)
             | your alcohol purchase history. Many states have entire
             | bureaus whose job it is to keep this information.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Interesting, I did not know that, and that is
               | disappointing to find out.
        
               | monksy wrote:
               | I believe that Utah is one of those places who do that.
               | (I can't find a resource that they do, but it's too
               | similar to the patronscan tech that near by states
               | endorse). That's one of the things that turned me away
               | from enjoying that state.
               | 
               | From what I did find, they are required to keep that info
               | for at least 7 days. As a Chicagoian, required tracking
               | of how much and where I drink at is super concerning.
               | 
               | https://www.abc4.com/news/top-stories/why-is-the-bouncer-
               | sca...
        
         | anon291 wrote:
         | Age is not a class
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | elchief wrote:
       | HN commiserating kids killing themselves due to social media last
       | week
       | 
       | HN complaining about a state doing something about it this week
        
       | throwaway-blaze wrote:
       | I really don't see the overall negativity towards this bill. Yes,
       | there may be problems with id verification, but outside of that,
       | is it such a big deal that a parent needs to give permission for
       | their kid to start using Instagram?
       | 
       | My kids don't get to start using Disney+ or Netflix without my
       | permission -- namely my credit card on the family account. This
       | doesn't feel much different.
       | 
       | Do you think kids under 14 shouldn't have parents involved in
       | guiding them online? I agree once they're older they need more
       | freedom. But an 11 year old who wants to use TikTok because all
       | his friends do or a 12 year old who wants to use Instagram or
       | Snap because all her friends want to message in a group there
       | should have some parental involvement. The amount of bullying,
       | wealth-shaming (your house sucks), etc going on is mind-boggling.
       | 
       | And yeah, we used to have bullies when I was a kid too, but it
       | would be on the schoolyard in front of 2 or 3 other kids, not a
       | chat thread with half the school on it.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | specialist wrote:
       | Next, they should limit boomer social media access.
       | 
       | And then everyone in between.
       | 
       |  _"...Meta said it has robust tools to keep children safe. "_
       | 
       | Sure.
       | 
       | --
       | 
       | Watching the socials get lumped into the same moral category as
       | cigarettes, domestic abuse, the Sacklers, and cable news, is
       | giving me a bit of schadenfreude.
       | 
       | Don't worry. My joy won't last.
        
         | UncleEntity wrote:
         | > Next, they should limit boomer social media access.
         | 
         | Yeah, target the one group who consistently shows up to vote...
        
         | xwolfi wrote:
         | Very weird feeling I have here, in China. For once, I feel it's
         | the americans following us. What's next, limiting online video
         | game time ??
        
           | ngokevin wrote:
           | Limiting the platforms of celebrities and influencers?
        
             | specialist wrote:
             | Oh no, that'd be limiting Freedom Speeches(tm).
             | 
             | But the US Constitution doesn't guarantee anyone will be
             | listening.
        
           | throwayyy479087 wrote:
           | That would also be good. I know people who have shit their
           | pants during RuneScape sessions. They can't use it
           | responsibly.
        
           | seanmcdirmid wrote:
           | We are talking about banning china owned TikTok in the USA,
           | which would be like banning US owned Facebook in china. So
           | ya, maybe you have a point?
        
           | kube-system wrote:
           | I feel like it is a universally constant thing for some
           | subset of people to want their government to "force those
           | other people to do what I think they should be doing".
           | 
           | The only the US does relatively well is to provide mechanisms
           | to reverse course when these things happen. Which is also why
           | a lot of changes end up in gridlock.
           | 
           | Which I suspect will happen soon in this case.
        
             | syklep wrote:
             | I'd guess it's more of a "make sure our children grow up
             | into healthy working adults, instead of more minimum wage
             | tech addicts".
        
               | gtop3 wrote:
               | When I was a teenager my screen time was the maximum
               | feasible. Now my average screentime is between 12 and 14
               | hours a day. I'm yet another gainfully employed software
               | engineer.
               | 
               | I don't think there is any empirical evidence correlating
               | tech addiction to income, but if there was I wouldn't be
               | surprised if the relationship was positive.
        
               | kube-system wrote:
               | _Who_ is going to make them grow up a particular way?
        
           | barbazoo wrote:
           | For me this is a public health measure. If video games were
           | shown to have a similarly destructive effect on our youth I'd
           | consider regulating that too.
        
         | s5300 wrote:
         | I find what Facebook has done to a non-negligible portion of
         | boomers to be a morbid & highly interesting phenomenon.
        
       | patientplatypus wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | willis936 wrote:
       | The context of "authoritarian theocracy is the first to do X"
       | really helps highlight how bad of an idea it is. _No social
       | policy_ that Utah 's government does first is a good idea.
        
       | pc2g4d wrote:
       | Generally I support parents taking action to protect their kids
       | from the harms of social media; but coming from a state
       | government, and this one in particular, it comes across as a bit
       | draconian the approach being taken. The hidden agenda does seem
       | to be keeping Mormon youth from encountering materials critical
       | of LDS church truth claims. Too little too late, but I'm sure
       | that's one intended consequence.
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | You might be experiencing cognitive dissonance
        
       | tamaharbor wrote:
       | Will the app ask, "Are you over 21?" YES - NO
        
         | Buttons840 wrote:
         | No, qualifying social media sites will need to see ID. The bill
         | specifically mentions driver's license, passport, or birth
         | certificate. Although this is a "think of the children" style
         | law, all adults would also be affected.
         | 
         | Papers please. Want to speak and assemble online? I'm gonna
         | need to see some papers first.
        
       | spoonfeeder006 wrote:
       | I get that SM can have lot of bad effects on people
       | 
       | But being controlled and micro-managed by your parents when
       | you're at a stage to naturally seek independence and autonomy....
       | yeah, can't imagine how that would badly impact anyone of these
       | kids. Like, at all.
       | 
       | How about instead empowering kids to learn about the science of
       | tech addiction, or addiction in general, and the science of how
       | SM effects people...and also teaching them the science of how to
       | free ones self from addiction
       | 
       | Allen Carr's "Smart Phone Dumb Phone" might be a good option for
       | instance
       | 
       | But micromanaging teens is the worst thing for them. We all learn
       | from knowledge and understanding, not being controlled
        
         | _AzMoo wrote:
         | In Australia lots of kids are already directly taught about the
         | downsides of social media. My daughter is 16 and has had
         | mandatory classes about it in school every year since she was
         | 12. The problem is the kids don't give a shit and it's the
         | parents that don't understand. This should be dealt with
         | through education campaigns, but it's the parents who those
         | campaigns should be targeted at. If somebody's parents group
         | were going to gossip about them actively enabling their kid to
         | get access to social media when we all clearly know the dangers
         | of it then it would very quickly lead to a dramatic reduction
         | in kids having access.
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | > How about instead empowering kids to learn about the science
         | of tech addiction
         | 
         | What if we made selling tobacco legal to minors but continued
         | to educate them on the health risks?
        
       | lilboiluvr69 wrote:
       | I am...very surprised by some of the discussion here. Maybe I'm
       | just not that familiar with the harms of social media as someone
       | who chooses not to use it. But support for anynomity and free
       | access to information was always part of what I interpreted as
       | the 'hacker ethos'.
       | 
       | It's been odd to see this pushback against social media transform
       | into actual legislation for a flat out ban. Not forcing social
       | media companies to end the use of tracking and dark patterns mind
       | you, a flat our ban. It seems like admitting that humans just
       | can't have unfettered access to each other's lives on a global
       | scale. We can't stand to talk and exchange controversial opinions
       | and see each other's best highlights without falling into
       | toxicity, envy, and tribalism, nihilism and depression.
       | 
       | I don't like that thought, it doesn't bode well for our species.
       | 
       | I can't imagine what my childhood would have been like if I
       | wasn't able to break out of the box my parents and society out me
       | in and really reach out to conversations and ideas that many
       | people would find dangerous. I don't think its an exaggeration to
       | say I probably would have killed myself. And I mean that in a
       | very real way. Society doesn't tend to be very kind to people
       | like me. I realized I was a MAP from a young age and grew up
       | thinking no matter what I did I was going to be a monster. I
       | can't imagine what it would be like not to have anyone to talk to
       | about that. Being at such a vulnerable age and not finding anyone
       | who would listen.
       | 
       | The other commenters are right, this law is going to harm
       | marginalized groups in Utah. Replacing the parents and preventing
       | children from freely exchanging ideas isn't going to fix the core
       | negative incentives that make these platforms addictive and
       | toxic. Nor is it going to address the societal changes that would
       | reduce people's dependence of social media. It's not going to
       | make kids suddenly go outside and meet one another again. Maybe
       | I'm wrong, I mean I hope I am, but I doubt it.
       | 
       | God I remember how much it sucked being a kid. Getting treated as
       | property of my parents, as if they knew what was best for me when
       | they couldn't even take care of them selves. All that unfiltered
       | internet access led me to a successful InfoSec career, it led to
       | an escape from my shit-hole life.
       | 
       | But my biggest concern is the possibility of stifling online
       | anonymity through some aged verification system. A second-order
       | effect that basically chills free speech without directly
       | legislating on it. I'd hate for my kid to inherit a world like
       | that, a world where they have to supply an ID to comment on
       | Hacker News.
       | 
       | It seems like something worth fighting against. It makes me feel
       | like being violent.
        
       | williamDafoe wrote:
       | What a joke every teenager knows how to cloak themselves with a
       | VPN to evade parental access restrictions & new tech will emerge
       | to thwart all these laws! Google builds infra to make sure your
       | kids have 24/7 access to YouTube! I know I used to work there!
       | The only restriction we could impose at our house was to turn off
       | the router at midnight!
       | 
       | I freaking HATE google / YouTube for filling my kids' childhoods
       | with Smosh videos instead of real books or high quality active
       | play.
       | 
       | And yes my son flunked out of college because of online social
       | media - twice! He's got ADHD which makes him a perfect target for
       | the addiction phd psychologists employed at social media and
       | videogame companies! For these online tech vampire companies
       | addicting your kids is like shooting fish in a barrel! And yes
       | I'm a cs phd who got my start in network security!
       | 
       | As a left-wing free speech parent STILL STRUGGLING against online
       | addiction with a 21-year old son who is STILL spending 24/7 to
       | waste time online I'd put the threat up there with : hard drugs &
       | gambling addiction. Yes it's that severe for a not trivial part
       | of the population. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!
        
       | data_maan wrote:
       | This is yet another instance of "Think of the children":
       | 
       | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Think_of_the_children
        
       | killjoywashere wrote:
       | First they came for the trade unionists...
        
       | egl2021 wrote:
       | In the long run, this could be a boon for social media companies:
       | they now have a requirement to ask you to identify yourself and
       | provide clear proof of your location. This will drive away some
       | users, but the remaining users will be great for targeting ads.
        
       | mrcwinn wrote:
       | The Democrats have their own flaws certainly, but I'm having such
       | a hard time finding a consistent ideology among conservatives.
       | Free speech absolutism, mixed with parent choice, no choice for
       | women, censorship for some kinds of speech, anti-regulation
       | limited government but strong regulation of tech products. I just
       | can't square any of this.
        
         | weberer wrote:
         | I don't know if there's a term for this fallacy, but I see it
         | happening all the time. You're trying to break the world down
         | to us-vs-them where "us" is a single narrowly defined group and
         | "them" is everyone outside that group. In this case you're
         | incorrectly grouping together classical liberals, neocons,
         | Christian/Jewish/Islamic fundamentalists, Laissez-faire
         | neoliberals, and paleoconservatives. Then being confused why
         | they all disagree on different issues.
        
         | stametseater wrote:
         | > _I'm having such a hard time finding a consistent ideology
         | among conservatives_
         | 
         | I'm having a hard time figuring out why you would expect to
         | find one. The people who "vote conservative" do so for numerous
         | different sorts of reasons, conservationism is not their root
         | ideology, it is downstream of other disparate ideologies. A
         | conservative voter who is Mormon has different motivations than
         | a conservative voter who is a secular small business owner, and
         | both have a different root ideology from an old school Catholic
         | or an anti-communist Cuban-American.
         | 
         | Knowing this as I'm sure you do, why would you expect
         | "conservatism", aka "voting for republicans", to be a
         | consistent ideology? The people who do so were never all coming
         | from the same ideological position in the first place.
         | 
         | Btw, the group of people who vote for democratic candidates
         | also do so for a wide array of reasons, and don't all share
         | much of a common and consistent ideology either. Welcome to the
         | two-party system, in which innumerable ideologies get
         | pigeonholed into two bins.
        
         | wincy wrote:
         | Look, I'll take a risk here and speak my thoughts, assuming you
         | genuinely want to learn more about Republicans in 2023.
         | 
         | It's confusing because they aren't unified. I was a Democrat
         | until 2015, when it felt like both sides had lost their mind
         | and I voted libertarian. It seemed like there was no place for
         | free speech advocates in the Democrat party anymore.
         | 
         | Eventually, my wife and I decided to become officially
         | Republican when we realized that the Libertarians were totally
         | ineffective as a party (the libertarian convention is literally
         | just an excuse to have orgies and do drugs) and couldn't fight
         | back against the progressive ideology that we see as harmful
         | towards successful child rearing, as well as us retaining a
         | principled moral stance for free speech against the primarily
         | leftist ideologies that had become so pervasive in social media
         | circles. We feel like Elon Musk purchasing Twitter was one of
         | the most important positive events of 2022, and a huge win for
         | free speech.
         | 
         | There's a lot of weird transition going on in the Republican
         | Party because of this new group of "former Democrat refugees"
         | who tend to be libertarian and free speech supporters are
         | trying to integrate with the old guard republicans. We roll our
         | eyes at this kind of stuff, but figure "it's better than the
         | crazy stuff going on these days on the other side". Republican
         | is turning into a much wider tent.
        
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           | Dalewyn wrote:
           | Speaking as someone who more or less went down the same road
           | as you have politically, this is spot on.
        
         | staunton wrote:
         | What do you need a "consistent ideology" for? These things seem
         | to be what the majority of people in those states want (for
         | better or worse).
        
         | yieldcrv wrote:
         | Your cognitive dissonance comes from thinking this is a
         | monolithic party platform thing.
         | 
         | This is a Utah thing, with burgeoning consensus in a couple
         | other states.
        
         | twodave wrote:
         | That's just humanity in a nutshell. I'd be more worried if
         | everybody had the same views.
        
       | etimberg wrote:
       | Related, but my prediction is that by the end of the decade
       | internet anonymity will be gone forever. Social will be the first
       | place it falls with governments requiring SSO to a government run
       | IdP that is verified by ID
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | End of anonymity and end of large scale unfiltered user-
         | generated content. The internet is going to become like every
         | other form of information media where a tiny group of
         | people/companies is publishing and the rest of us are
         | consuming, no questions asked.
        
         | gtop3 wrote:
         | It's not impossible, but that's a lot of tech for the fed to
         | setup and they aren't the best at consumer level software.
         | There's also the fact that many political players utilize the
         | anonymity of the internet in their campaign tactics. Not to
         | mention the possibility of connecting to a VPN to circumvent
         | the requirement for using a US ID.
         | 
         | I think it's more likely to see intelligence agencies insist on
         | more direct control over stopping "viral" spread of
         | "disinformation", and to at least threaten to hold platforms
         | responsible.
        
           | throwaway742 wrote:
           | They'd probably outsource it. REAL ID by Meta or something
           | horribly dystopian like that
        
         | ketzo wrote:
         | I could get behind this prediction just because it feels like
         | you could take literally any political affiliation and still
         | end up pushing for it.
        
           | MacsHeadroom wrote:
           | Libertarian? Privacy conscious liberal? First amendment
           | conservative?
           | 
           | No.
        
       | AussieWog93 wrote:
       | A good first step. Hopefully they can limit their parents' access
       | next.
        
       | Mizoguchi wrote:
       | The People's Republic of Utah.
        
       | loeg wrote:
       | How do they tell if a user is under eighteen?
        
         | tstrimple wrote:
         | They don't. They will require everyone to provide an ID when
         | signing up.
        
           | loeg wrote:
           | Not just signup. The language of the bill says it applies to
           | existing Utah account holders as well.
        
         | jmathai wrote:
         | <select name="age">
        
           | loeg wrote:
           | Clearly teenagers are smart enough to select an age over 18.
           | 
           | The governor's tweet is:
           | https://twitter.com/GovCox/status/1639015949964840960
           | 
           | > SB152 requires social media companies to verify that users
           | in the state are 18 or older to open an account. Minors will
           | need parental consent to create an account.
           | 
           | Ok, so what age verification does SB152 require?
           | https://le.utah.gov/~2023/bills/static/SB0152.html
           | 
           | > 246 (3) (a) Beginning March 1, 2024, a social media company
           | shall verify the age of an > 247 existing or new Utah account
           | holder and, if the existing or new account holder is a minor,
           | > 248 confirm that a minor has consent as required under
           | Subsection (1):
           | 
           | They totally punt on the issue of how you determine if an
           | account is a minor:
           | 
           | > 256 (4) In accordance with Title 63G, Chapter 3, Utah
           | Administrative Rulemaking Act, the > 257 division, with
           | consideration of stakeholder input, shall make rules to: >
           | 258 (a) establish processes or means by which a social media
           | company may meet the age > 259 verification requirements of
           | this chapter; > 260 (b) establish acceptable forms or methods
           | of identification, which may not be limited > 261 to a valid
           | identification card issued by a government entity; > 262 (c)
           | establish requirements for providing confirmation of the
           | receipt of any information > 263 provided by a person seeking
           | to verify age under this chapter;
           | 
           | It is not remotely clear how you are supposed to enforce this
           | without requiring government id for all users. Or at least,
           | Utah users.
        
             | oceanplexian wrote:
             | There are already laws on the books in numerous states
             | requiring porn sites to verify that users are over 18. As
             | far as I know, none of them require users to upload a
             | government ID. As usual I think HN is making leaps of logic
             | without actually reading the law or thinking of how else
             | users might be verified (A $0.10 refundable credit card
             | charge for example).
        
               | loeg wrote:
               | To my knowledge no porn site requires anything beyond
               | clicking "yes, I'm 18," which is the exact kind of "how
               | old are you?" mechanism easily circumvented by teenagers.
               | A credit card charge is not exactly less burdensome than
               | providing state ID.
        
       | 7sidedmarble wrote:
       | It absolutely boggles my mind how this website can purport to be
       | about hacker ethos, and yet every time a thread like this comes
       | up you get tons of commenters talking about how they are going to
       | tightly control which games and websites there kids have access
       | to, what kind of devices they have access to, when they have
       | access to them, etc.
       | 
       | Myself, I think like a lot of people on this website, grew up
       | with basically unfettered access to the internet and computers.
       | And that period of time today seems like a golden age of the
       | Internet. Maybe you think the internet today is just so
       | insidiously dangerous compared to them, but I think that's just
       | naive. The internet had a lot of fucked up content when I was
       | accessing it at that age too. Our kids are going to grow up
       | thinking the time they used the internet as a teen was the golden
       | age.
       | 
       | I'm not saying unfettered access is what you should do, but maybe
       | imagine yourself in your kids shoes, only it was the 90s with
       | home computers instead of the 2000s with apps and social media?
       | 
       | You may have great arguments about the net harm of social media
       | or apps you don't happen to like, but they are not going to
       | resonate with your kids if you approach it via "I know better
       | then you." If you're on this forum, you are very capable of
       | setting up home wifi that you can monitor. Why not see what's a
       | problem _for them_ first and address it then?
        
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         | corobo wrote:
         | My parents and schools having an "I know better than you"
         | attitude and blocking sites/access is how I learned how to
         | bypass those restrictions in fairness. Within a year I knew
         | more than they did about tech, and they could no longer block
         | me without physically removing cables (good luck with _that_ in
         | a 5G-enabled world!)
         | 
         | They're just setting up the next generation of hacker!
        
           | jart wrote:
           | I got my mom to disable parental controls so I could do
           | hacking. I showed her that the programming websites I wanted
           | to access were blocked and so were the IRC servers where
           | programmers congregated. She decided she didn't want to hold
           | back my education. I don't think the people who build these
           | things really mentally model for children that do more than
           | consume Disney.
        
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         | dmos62 wrote:
         | Are you going to take the same stance with your kids and
         | tobacco or alcohol? Why not see what's the problem for them
         | first instead of pretending pretending we know better? Come on.
         | Regulating social media exposure is somewhere between basic
         | hygiene and diet control.
         | 
         | Hacker ethos? Hackers use the unbeaten path to solve problems.
         | That's what a hacker is to me. Is a hacker for you someone
         | against all forms of moderation?
        
         | base698 wrote:
         | > dangerous compared to them, but I think that's just naive.
         | The internet had a lot of fucked up content when I was
         | accessing it at that age too.
         | 
         | Same. However, my impression is that the focus here is on the
         | volume of access not the type of content. We didn't carry the
         | internet around in our pocket. Allowing us to use it on the
         | bathroom, waiting for the bus, or even in class during a
         | lecture.
        
       | aizyuval wrote:
       | > "As leaders, and parents, we have a responsibility to protect
       | our young people."
       | 
       | So why don't you educate them?
        
       | shampto3 wrote:
       | As much as I dislike social media sites and think there is
       | sufficient evidence of their harm to teens, I don't think these
       | bills have any legs.
       | 
       | There are already people in law that are pushing back on the
       | legality of this in regards to violating first amendment rights.
       | [1]
       | 
       | 1. https://techfreedom.org/wp-
       | content/uploads/2023/02/TechFreed...
       | 
       | EDIT: pluralized bills, after realizing that there were two
       | related bills regarding this.
        
       | yieldcrv wrote:
       | Its always crazy to me how proponents and opponents never address
       | _each other's_ points. They just talk past each other saying
       | their own completely unrelated points.
       | 
       | A: "But what about kids in abusive households that get cut off
       | from communication"
       | 
       | B: "We have tools to ensure kids safety that requires actively
       | using our social network already"
       | 
       | that's a frustrating way of having a conversation
        
         | staunton wrote:
         | You're assuming they're trying to have a conversation...
        
           | yieldcrv wrote:
           | It annoys me that they are presented as opposites, people
           | segregate themselves as if they are opposites, imagine the
           | other side is opposite, and then when you actually look at
           | the stances they aren't opposite at all and probably actually
           | reconcilable
           | 
           | but yes, "opposing" is more accurate than opposite. people
           | just seem to only have the mental capacity for two opposites
        
       | uptownfunk wrote:
       | Something has to be done. It is too close to alcohol and tobacco.
       | Makes you feel good but causes some yet to be diagnosed disorder.
        
         | pongo1231 wrote:
         | Agreed. I'm unsure whether this is the right approach, it
         | should be the parents' duty to monitor what their children are
         | doing and limit access appropriately but it's been clear that
         | many of them simply can't be bothered to do so. Someone has to
         | step in eventually.
        
       | acd wrote:
       | What is the difference between tobaco and social media? What are
       | the similarities between tobaco and social media in the brain?
        
         | the_only_law wrote:
         | For one I won't end up with emphysema, lung cancer, mouth
         | cancer, whatever nor can I pass off the negative affects to
         | other people around me by proximity.
        
       | falcolas wrote:
       | Is it a bad time to mention that sites like stack overflow,
       | discord, sub stack, medium, Reddit, hacker news, GitHub, YouTube,
       | and so forth have the same traits - the same identifying markers
       | - as what we consider traditional social media sites?
       | 
       | How the bill defines social media:
       | 
       | 10) (a) "Social media platform" means an online forum that a
       | social media company 160 makes available for an account holder
       | to: 161 (i) create a profile; 162 (ii) upload posts; 163 (iii)
       | view the posts of other account holders; and 164 (iv) interact
       | with other account holders or users.
       | 
       | There's exceptions for email, Netflix, Amazon, news, traditional
       | media kinds of sites.
       | 
       | https://le.utah.gov/~2023/bills/static/HB0311.html
        
         | throwayyy479087 wrote:
         | Yes, and a 13 year old should absolutely not use any of those
         | services.
         | 
         | Discord in particular has become known as "groomercord" for
         | it's open pedophilia.
        
           | wincy wrote:
           | Discord is where my friend runs his youth DM games where he
           | carves out a safe space for teens to dip their feet into
           | playing D&D and having healthy interactions with adults on
           | his discord server. We keep it PG-13 and it's fun. I've been
           | giving a kid pointers on AI art generation.
           | 
           | It'd be sad if all them got run off because of hysteria about
           | them being "groomed".
        
           | deadbolt wrote:
           | > Discord in particular has become known as "groomercord"
           | 
           | Nobody without sufficient brain-rot (ironically likely caused
           | by social media) would call it that.
        
           | thot_experiment wrote:
           | 90%+ of the useful interactions I have with other humans
           | working on interesting problems is through Discord these
           | days. If I have an issue with a library, or run into a tough
           | to solve physics problem, basically anything where I might
           | want to talk to someone more knowledgeable or experienced
           | than me the answer is hop on a discord server and ask. It's
           | absolutely asinine to deny this resource to kids.
           | 
           | At least we're teaching kids the basics of computer security
           | by forcing them to circumvent these restrictions, and I have
           | full faith than they will. Most kids are much more
           | technologically literate than someone who would unironically
           | type "groomercord".
        
           | holmesworcester wrote:
           | I haven't read the bills yet but according to the article it
           | applies to children under 18.
           | 
           | 17-year-old me would have considered this draconian bullsh*t,
           | for the same reasons I would now. (So does dad me,
           | incidentally. My kid's messages have always been her
           | business, not mine.)
        
             | raincole wrote:
             | I'm sure many of us wouldn't have been a programmer if we
             | hadn't had access to SO/Github around 17.
        
               | cesarb wrote:
               | > I'm sure many of us wouldn't have been a programmer if
               | we hadn't had access to SO/Github around 17.
               | 
               | I'm sure many of us didn't have any access to
               | StackOverflow and GitHub when we were around 17 years
               | old, because StackOverflow and GitHub didn't exist yet.
               | For several of us, _git_ didn 't exist yet. Heck, for
               | some of us, _the web_ didn 't exist yet!
               | 
               | Kids these days...
        
               | matwood wrote:
               | > Heck, for some of us, the web didn't exist yet!
               | 
               | Haha...I learned when the web was mainly AOL. MSN at the
               | time had pretty good forums which helped a lot. But the
               | main place I was learning programming from was books, but
               | they were expensive - especially for a college kid. When
               | I would run into problems I couldn't solve I would head
               | to the book store with a pencil and paper and copy bits
               | and pieces that I hoped would help. Then head back home
               | and try again (talk about a long debug run loop). Luckily
               | this was around the same time of the rise of big
               | bookstores where they encouraged hanging out so no one
               | ever questioned me.
        
               | mahkeiro wrote:
               | Wow I'm almost 50 and I have been interacting through
               | forums (first one on minitel when I was 12), bbs,
               | newsgroup since I was a young teenager. Maybe github or
               | stackoverflow didn't exist but they were plenty of cool
               | places where to exchange.
        
               | raincole wrote:
               | Many of us != most of us. What I said and what you said
               | are not mutually exclusive.
        
               | brabel wrote:
               | Many of us, older people, had access to similar things
               | that made us interested... in the 70/80's it was computer
               | magazines (paper magazines, that is) as people got their
               | first home computers and could follow along programming
               | examples, play games etc. If you ran into trouble, you
               | needed either help from someone you already knew or you
               | would have to find a book or manual.
               | 
               | In the 90's most teens already had access to a primitive
               | internet where they could chat with anyone in the world
               | using BBS[1], which was not too different from a modern
               | social network. Email was already a thing as well for
               | some time, but probably became widespread at this time...
               | by the late 90's the internet was already quite similar
               | to today for geeks, except perhaps videos (and even high
               | resolution pics) were not a thing due to the low speed of
               | the net.
               | 
               | StackOverflow and GitHub only came around in the late
               | 2000's, which is basically yesterday. Before them, there
               | were similar sites as well (the infamous expertsexchange
               | for SO, and SourceFourge for GH, for example) for quite
               | some time, but they surely became very dominant in their
               | areas.
               | 
               | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulletin_board_system
        
               | raincole wrote:
               | And I know these. I'm not "punched card old" but I did
               | start learning programming before SO got traction. And I
               | remember how big the difference SO made for my own
               | learning/career path, compared to mailing lists.
               | 
               | As a side note, my first intern job was to make a
               | localized ripoff of SO (within a team, of course). It was
               | still a relatively shining new thing by the time.
        
               | brabel wrote:
               | Cool... it's just that your comment seems to imply that a
               | lot of programmers were learning their basics when SO was
               | already there to help us... that's only true for those of
               | us lucky enough to be really young, like in their 20's
               | :D. Hope you understand many of us are well past that and
               | watched GH and SO take over the world as a very recent
               | phenonenom.
        
               | raincole wrote:
               | Uh, yes, this is why I said "many of us" not "most of
               | us". (not sure why i need to repeat this...) Of course I
               | know people who are in 20s are not necessarily the
               | absolute majority of HN. But there are still many of
               | them.
        
               | brabel wrote:
               | > I said "many of us" not "most of us". (not sure why i
               | need to repeat this...)
               | 
               | We understood it. Not sure why you think we didn't.
        
               | MattRix wrote:
               | Really? Because there are about 20 comments under their
               | original post with the tone of "um actually many of us
               | didn't grow up that young".
        
               | McSwag wrote:
               | I'm kind of surprised but also not surprised in the
               | outrage over the "draconian bulls*t." The problem I have
               | as a parent is that I can see it causing real social
               | damage to adults around me, my own kids, and kids around
               | my kids. Anti-social behavior, Disrespect for authority,
               | extreme violence is easy to see and normalized (stuff
               | that would normally be considered traumatic), wokeness
               | and anti-wokeness is normalized (must we all have such
               | strong opinions?). I'm talking behavior way more at
               | extreme ends of the polarized spectrum and at earlier
               | ages than what I grew up around.
               | 
               | It's basically force-fed opinions at a global scale, how
               | can that possibly be healthy? We can barely fathom how
               | this media impacts adults as it stands. All this clear
               | evidence aside, I feel like it's obvious, how can the
               | absence of these things do any measurable harm to kids?
        
               | komali2 wrote:
               | Regardless of your ethical stance on the subject, it
               | would be a good exercise to consider who you're ok with
               | determining what kind of content your children can view.
               | Allowing a government to step in to pass laws like this
               | is a draconian step too far.
               | 
               | As a parent do you not already have all the tools you
               | need to ensure your children don't use tik Tok? From the
               | light touch and mundane, using the built in features of
               | the operating system (parental blockers and app timers
               | are available on Android and IOS) to the heavy touch of
               | not allowing your kid to have a smartphone.
               | 
               | Why do you want the government taking over this role for
               | you? Maybe there's some parents who don't care if their
               | children are on tik tok. Why should they follow the same
               | parental strategy you have?
        
               | McSwag wrote:
               | I do think this a reasonable rebuttal, but there must be
               | some middle ground here. Generally speaking, I can block
               | TikTok sure, but because it's so ubiquitous, my kids are
               | ostracized because all their friends have access to it,
               | they still pass around the content like drugs, alcohol
               | and tobacco. It almost becomes one of those things that
               | because they're not allowed to have access to it, it does
               | just as much damage, socially.
               | 
               | There are three general categories of parents on this,
               | and to be clear, I don't think any of these are bad
               | parents: 1. Those who are extremely weary and tech savvy,
               | like myself 2. Those who are weary but have no earthly
               | idea how to set up these controls effectively. 3. Those
               | who don't give a f*all about it at all.
               | 
               | I tend to believe it's just as bad but it's about as
               | misunderstood as tobacco used to be. The industry KNOWS
               | it's bad for kids, it's been proven bad for kids but it's
               | peddled to them anyway.
               | 
               | All that aside, let's just say hypothetically I wanted to
               | manage this all myself and wanted the government out of
               | it, sounds good in theory. The tooling around limiting
               | inappropriate content is mind-blowingly inadequate. At
               | the very least this should be mandatory and more
               | concretely standardized. I'm not flatly against giving
               | kids some access to it but it's reached a point where my
               | kids can't even do their homework at all without full
               | access to all of Youtube which by itself has loads of
               | content not remotely appropriate for elementary school
               | kids. Youtube kids is a joke.
               | 
               | It's pretty frustrating as a parent to manage content
               | restrictions for the 3-4 major browsers, search engines,
               | youtube, messenging apps, iphones, macbook, windows app
               | store, and so on. This could be a full time job. Then,
               | the kids bring home a school provided chromebook or login
               | to chrome with a school account which has no content
               | restrictions at all and I have zero control over anyway.
               | Honestly, parental controls in the current state is
               | largely a waste of time.
        
               | nicoburns wrote:
               | Doesn't the fact that drugs, alcohol and tobacco (which
               | are already illegal for kids) are available in this way
               | illustrate how useless a ban would be?
               | 
               | If you want to protect your kids from these things then
               | you need to educate them and get them to enforce the
               | rules themselves.
        
               | McSwag wrote:
               | Yes, parental controls are not are replacement for
               | teaching kids why this stuff is damaging. It's not an
               | excuse to be lazy parents. Kids need to hear their
               | parents say it (with the why). Setting limits instead
               | outright blocking can be helpful. It sets the stage for
               | letting the kid decide if they would consider what they
               | just watched be viewed as inappropriate, which believe or
               | not does happen, but some content really shouldn't be
               | available to them at all.
        
               | swexbe wrote:
               | The vast majority of 13 y.os do not have access to drugs,
               | alcohol and tobacco.
        
               | datavirtue wrote:
               | Uh...are you a parent of teenagers? Because that
               | statement is not true and smacks of Ivory Tower thinking.
        
               | McSwag wrote:
               | I mean it's somewhat true, if it were legal for 12 year
               | olds to have these things AND it was marketed toward
               | them, way more kids would be have it than not. That's not
               | to say they can't get it now, but it's harder and
               | somewhat self regulating because the stigma around doing
               | something illegal.
        
               | nicoburns wrote:
               | This doesn't invalidate your point (I think your correct
               | that making it illegal provides a disincentive and
               | reduces overall uptake), but I should note that making
               | something legal does not necessarily mean making it legal
               | to market it towards kids.
               | 
               | Case in point being that here in the UK it is illegal to
               | market tobacco products _at all_ (including to adults in
               | this case). This also applies to politicians,
               | prescriptions medicine and a bunch of other things. And
               | IMO it's often a good compromise that allows for harm
               | reduction without outright banning something.
        
               | nicoburns wrote:
               | This probably varies depending on where you live, but
               | where I grew up (in a small town in the UK), the vast
               | majority of 13 year olds did have access to drugs,
               | alcohol and tobacco (which didn't necessarily mean the
               | vast majority were indulging in those things, but they
               | were definitely available).
        
               | arbol wrote:
               | The overhead of managing content restrictions on families
               | devices is a very good point. I'll be reaching this stage
               | soon and I'm not looking forward to this additional task.
               | 
               | I also think state sponsored content moderation should be
               | used to restrict access to harmful online media as
               | opposed to lumbering this task on individuals. As you've
               | mentioned, some parents need this enforced upon them.
               | 
               | If we were talking about vaping, which is still highly
               | unregulated and available for children to buy, I'm sure
               | the majority would be in agreement about age
               | restrictions. The fact that we're talking about
               | preventing psychological addiction and trauma makes it
               | harder for people to agree on the harmful effects of this
               | type of content. It's simply not as visible as the huge
               | plumes of oil-steam breathed out by every 12 year old in
               | a bus stop these days.
               | 
               | However, I don't agree with the implementation of content
               | moderation proposed by Utah state. It's totally
               | unworkable and poorly thought through.
        
               | McSwag wrote:
               | I also want to recognize that in the case of Utah's
               | implementation,it likely doesn't have my best interests
               | in mind so I do see your point. There's always a
               | possibility of an agenda which isn't necessarily "good
               | for kids."
               | 
               | Maybe what we should focus on is more standardization,
               | effectiveness of controls and requiring these trillion
               | dollar companies to build parents one single pane of
               | glass to monitor and control content for all platforms.
               | May not even be feasible but it really just sounds like
               | another engineering challenge that requires a major
               | investment to get it done.
        
               | datavirtue wrote:
               | Hmmm...all I had was a blank screen and a Byte article.
        
               | nkrisc wrote:
               | So that's why I didn't become a professional programmer.
               | SO and Github hadn't been invented yet when I was 17.
        
               | Godel_unicode wrote:
               | You're thinking about it wrong. How many people that you
               | knew when you were 17 would have become programmers if
               | the current resources existed.
               | 
               | See also: survivorship bias.
        
               | bawolff wrote:
               | Oh i feel so old.
               | 
               | I probably wouldn't be a programmer without sourceforge.
        
               | spiralx wrote:
               | I probably wouldn't be a programmer without ordering
               | floppy disks full of random source code by post from
               | software-by-post catalogues - one letter to ask for a
               | catalogue, get the catalogue in the post, send them a
               | letter with your order and a cheque and receive a bunch
               | of disks a week later...
        
               | jay_kyburz wrote:
               | Now I feel old.
        
               | LouisSayers wrote:
               | You have no idea.
               | 
               | Before StackOverflow it was PAINFUL. Staring at "Reached
               | end of file while parsing" errors and wondering wtf that
               | even means...
               | 
               | Then finding out after 5 hours that you missed a
               | semicolon.
               | 
               | Oh, and forget rounded borders, what a f@#%king
               | nightmare.
        
               | raincole wrote:
               | Oh I have a lot of ideas. I started learning programming
               | before Stackoverflow got traction. Plus I'm not a native
               | speaker and by the time I didn't really speak English at
               | all. So I practically needed to learn what "Reached end
               | of file while parsing" means in plain English, then tried
               | to find out that I had missed a semicolon :'(
        
               | Spivak wrote:
               | Absolutely zero chance, SO was the only resource on the
               | internet that had simple enough explanations for me when
               | I started out programming at 11.
               | 
               | I was making PRs to oss projects on Github and churning
               | through Project Euler by 15.
               | 
               | I literally owe my entire career to SO which is weird to
               | say typing it out now.
        
               | folkrav wrote:
               | Reading these comments about people relying on SO - a
               | site founded in 2008 - at age 11, doesn't make me feel
               | any younger, and I'm not even that old (inching closer
               | and closer to my mid-30s). I got into Linux and
               | bash/Python scripting by following tutorials on random
               | shady sites and reading official documentation and
               | manpages. Let's just say it wasn't as seamless as
               | Googling an issue and having a SO thread directly answer
               | my question.
               | 
               | Yes, I do realize I now sound like I just said "back in
               | my day, we walked to school, uphill both ways".
        
               | raincole wrote:
               | "I feel old" on the internet can mean 15yo to 80yo, so
               | you have all the right to feel old at mid-30s lol
               | 
               | When I learned my second programming language
               | (JavaScript), I asked most of my questions via a mailing
               | list. It's quite weird trying to recall it... I almost
               | forgot how mailing list work today.
        
               | Mezzie wrote:
               | Right? I learned through reading _browser documentation_
               | in elementary school when CSS and JavaScript were
               | implemented and then running to my dad or internet forums
               | /chat rooms when I ran into topics or problems I didn't
               | understand. None of us knew what we were doing. It was
               | great.
        
               | tstrimple wrote:
               | Certainly you participated in related forums right?
               | Before SO I was much more involved in online communities
               | like https://gamedev.net/ which are also at risk due to
               | this sort of bill.
        
               | Avicebron wrote:
               | Yea, it was actually wild when SO came out, because I'd
               | been teaching myself lua pretty much independently, and
               | by the time I got to high school, SO just barely on its
               | way out and immediately everything was a lot easier.
               | 
               | Old man yells at cloud, but kids these day won't even
               | have to look at code, everything will be filtered through
               | natural language.
        
               | swader999 wrote:
               | I'm sure our parents would have all let us sign up for a
               | programming site. This bill still allows for that.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > I'm sure our parents would have all let us sign up for
               | a programming site. This bill still allows for that.
               | 
               | But would the site let you sign up if _even with parental
               | permission_ if it had to do additional identification
               | verification to identify that the permission was from
               | your parent, and was liable for (1) actual damages if you
               | got addicted [0] because of some element of their site
               | design, and (2) huge ($250,000 per feature) penalties if
               | they also didn't do quarterly audits to identify, and
               | within 30 days after identification eliminate, any
               | feature which _might_ addict you?
               | 
               | How many programming sites see minors in general, much
               | less _Utah minors_ specifically, as that important to
               | their mission to take on the extra costs and risks this
               | bill imposes on serving that population?
               | 
               | [0] Using an intentionally broad definition of addiction
        
               | falcolas wrote:
               | Who will pay GitHub to not only install age validation
               | but parental bypass (also with validation)?
               | 
               | I don't believe they even allow under-13 today due to
               | COPA laws.
               | 
               | Of course this focus on the age 13 is completely missing
               | the point that the actual age gate is 17.
        
               | bdw5204 wrote:
               | The good part about the COPPA law is that it's an IQ
               | test. If you're under 13, you have to be smart enough to
               | understand that it's a "don't ask don't tell" situation
               | and know to keep quiet. I did when I was 10 and joined
               | Yahoo (the most popular social media site at the time) so
               | I could have a Geocities web site and play fantasy
               | baseball.
               | 
               | I'd suggest that teens in Utah just use a VPN but social
               | media sites have been cracking down on VPN users for
               | years and many of those sites now require phone number
               | verification to sign up. This law illustrates yet another
               | reason why that's a bad idea.
        
               | htag wrote:
               | Looking back on my youth, I think these age verification
               | check boxes were my earliest disregard for authority. I
               | understood the checkboxes were there because there was a
               | law that wanted to prevent me from accessing an online
               | service. I thought the law was stupid, and after
               | contemplating it for days decided to ignore it.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > I don't believe they even allow under-13 today due to
               | COPA laws.
               | 
               | COPPA. COPA was the second attempt (after CDA, which was
               | the first), COPPA was the third and the one that stuck.
        
               | judge2020 wrote:
               | You underestimate how hard it might be to get your parent
               | to sign some weird consent form from a "github" site,
               | especially if it asks for a picture of the parent's ID
               | (to ensure the kid isn't accepting the terms on their own
               | behalf).
        
               | swader999 wrote:
               | Ok, a picture of parent id is ridiculous. I didn't know
               | that part.
        
               | judge2020 wrote:
               | Technically it's not spelled out, but chances are Utah
               | law enforcement / regulators won't accept a tech
               | company's measures if a kid can just say another one of
               | their own emails is their parents' and can then consent
               | to the social media access themselves. Everyone affected
               | by this will likely outsource it to a company like Stripe
               | with their Identity product, where you're entrusting
               | Stripe to do the ID verification and to delete the data
               | once it's been verified.
        
               | Godel_unicode wrote:
               | Good thing gp made that part up then.
        
               | hackernewds wrote:
               | GitHub is not being banned. Neither is SO.
        
               | falcolas wrote:
               | What part of the bill provides them an exception?
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | >What part of the bill provides them an exception?
               | 
               | For Github? 10(b)(i)(N), to the extent that source code
               | files are "documents".
               | 
               | For Stack Overflow? 10(b)(i)(J), which was probably
               | written for LinkedIn specifically.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | RockRobotRock wrote:
               | Reddit is also an incredible resource for niche,
               | constructive topics like learning how to build a
               | computer. You could draw the line anywhere you want for
               | social media.
        
             | PragmaticPulp wrote:
             | > 17-year-old me would have considered this draconian
             | bullsh _t, for the same reasons I would now.
             | 
             | If anyone thinks that this bill is going to keep 17 year
             | olds from accessing everything from Reddit to GitHub, they
             | are going to be very disappointed.
             | 
             | It's kind of wild to see so much of these comments
             | insisting that anyone under the age of 18 be locked up and
             | prevented from accessing basic internet sites _and*
             | encouraging laws that would force every site to implement
             | strict ID verification just to use it.
             | 
             | Did everyone just forget what it was like to grow up with
             | draconian content blockers at school preventing you from
             | getting to benign information on the internet?
        
               | rhn_mk1 wrote:
               | I don't think people instituting such laws are young
               | enough to remember contet blockers at school.
        
               | easrng wrote:
               | > draconian content blockers
               | 
               | most school content blockers were pretty easily bypassed
               | in my experience. i was in school relatively recently, my
               | highschool had fortinet which sucked (sni blocking +
               | blocks a bunch of protocols), but tor still got through
               | if i used a bridge. i probably could've used a vpn but
               | tor was easier. before highschool there wasn't anything
               | more than dns filtering (and briefly http host blocking
               | but not sni blocking) which was bypassed by approximately
               | everyone (who wanted to bypass it). most people used
               | random vpn apps, i changed dns, both worked fine.
        
             | decremental wrote:
             | > My kid's messages have always been her business, not mine
             | 
             | This is such a hilariously bad take. No wonder kids are so
             | screwed up with parents having an attitude like that.
        
               | throwayyy479087 wrote:
               | Agreed. It's not even a take it's just a concerning
               | statement. They should care.
        
           | falcolas wrote:
           | The bill explicitly calls out "Utah minors". That is,
           | everyone in Utah under 18.
        
           | thfuran wrote:
           | Known to whom? I've never seen it called that.
        
           | encryptluks2 wrote:
           | [dead]
        
           | shadowgovt wrote:
           | Agreed.
           | 
           | Hacker News had a good run. I'm going to miss it when it's
           | decided that tracking enough PII on its users to be compliant
           | with this law (and the ones that will follow) is more trouble
           | than it's worth to Y-Combinator, but so it goes.
           | 
           | The open forum era was a grand experiment, and the experiment
           | is winding down.
        
             | 14 wrote:
             | Can you not just vpn in to Canada with me for the time
             | being? I mean hopefully they don't implement it site wide
             | for all regions I can't imagine them doing that.
        
               | shadowgovt wrote:
               | I'm not sure how VPN'ing to Canada helps.
        
           | eru wrote:
           | Why should a 13 year old not use GitHub?
        
             | swader999 wrote:
             | They still can with parental permission.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | If Github wasn't confident that (10)(b)(i)(N) excluded
               | them from coverage, they probably wouldn't allow Utah
               | minors to use the site _at all_ (and the same would be
               | true of any other covered or potentially covered site)
               | because, _even if_ they are allowed parental access, of
               | the civil penalty and actual damages for "causing
               | addiction" (under the statute's non-clinical definition
               | of "addiction"), only the civil penalty portion of which
               | is avoidable with costly quarterly audits. It is a whole
               | bunch of dumbass liability that can be almost entirely
               | mitigated by excluding Utah minors, and if that does
               | economic and developmental harm to Utah, that's not the
               | sites' problem.
        
           | redeeman wrote:
           | I agree, and along that same logic we should also be
           | extremely concerned about what the local libraries are up to.
        
           | alex_lav wrote:
           | By who? Source?
        
           | jquery wrote:
           | I've never heard it called "groomercord", ever. A google
           | search for that term doesn't find anything, either.
           | 
           | I dunno where you're finding all this discord pedophilia, is
           | this a self-report?
        
             | Temporarily21 wrote:
             | I have heard Discord mentioned a few times on CP catcher
             | 
             | https://m.youtube.com/@CPCatcher
        
           | hackernewds wrote:
           | What about YouTube? Lots of educational material there. Fits
           | all of the points.
        
             | Gigachad wrote:
             | There is YouTube for kids which is meant to be more
             | stripped down.
        
               | Syonyk wrote:
               | Meant to be, sure.
               | 
               | Ends up being this weird blend of "disturbing kid crack"
               | videos that you really shouldn't leave a child unattended
               | with. The whole "Peppa Pig Drinks Bleach" stuff was only
               | the shallow end of the darkness of the stuff generally
               | tossed in the "Elsagate" category.
               | 
               | There is no "safe" way for a... oh, 2-7 year old, I'll be
               | nice, to use the internet unattended. I've seen an awful
               | lot of it out and about.
        
               | tstrimple wrote:
               | I've found YouTube kids content to be significantly worse
               | than general YouTube content. Not to say that there isn't
               | a lot of content inappropriate for kids on YouTube, but
               | the Kids version is explicitly designed to target kids
               | with addictive content. The advertisers targeting
               | children for their products is brutal on YouTube Kids.
               | Since pushing my kids onto the full YouTube, they are
               | consuming better content.
        
         | 6gvONxR4sf7o wrote:
         | Stack overflow and github are the only ones that feel out of
         | place there.
        
           | falcolas wrote:
           | Stack overflow and GitHub both allow you to make public posts
           | and interact with others. The text targets public user posts
           | and interactions between users explicitly.
           | 
           | Whether the consequences are intentional or not is still to
           | be determined.
        
             | ask_b123 wrote:
             | but are they made available by a "social media company"?
             | and should that be relevant?
        
               | falcolas wrote:
               | Well, here's their definition of such a company (from the
               | same link):
               | 
               | 155 (9) "Social media company" means a person or entity
               | that: 156 (a) provides a social media platform that has
               | at least 5,000,000 account holders 157 worldwide; and 158
               | (b) is an interactive computer service.
               | 
               | So, size is really the only relevant discriminator.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > So, size is really the only relevant discriminator.
               | 
               | No, its not, see the vast horde of use/function based
               | exclusions starting at line 165 comprising code section
               | 13-63-101(10)(b).
        
               | falcolas wrote:
               | None of which clearly protect GH or SO, the subjects of
               | this thread branch.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > None of which clearly protect GH or SO, the subjects of
               | this thread branch.
               | 
               | I disagree, see
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=35310413 (especially
               | considering that because this law creates a penalty, and
               | because it restricts speech, its definitions of the
               | covered parties and conduct must be read narrowly - and
               | its exceptions read broadly [0] - per the rule of lenity
               | in statutory construction.)
               | 
               | [0] if, in the first instance, it is Constitutional at
               | all.
        
               | [deleted]
        
         | irrational wrote:
         | I don't consider Reddit, HN, etc. to be social media, at all.
         | There might be media, but there is no social. Social requires a
         | network of real people. You can't prove that anyone on these
         | sites is a real person, other than yourself. Maybe I, and
         | everyone else on here, is a bot. When everyone is anonymous,
         | there is no network. And, not only is everyone anonymous, but
         | there are no connections. To the best of my knowledge I have
         | never read a post or comment from the same "person" twice.
         | Every single interaction might as well be (and probably is) our
         | first interaction on the site, ever. Complete strangers passing
         | in the dark.
        
           | fullshark wrote:
           | Reddit used to have an actual community, things like in
           | person meetups and its own culture based on various in-jokes
           | (bacon,narwhals, etc) and behavior expectations. It was
           | pretty social I'd say, though now it's basically just an
           | aggreator and not that different from google news for various
           | interests.
        
           | CapstanRoller wrote:
           | Interesting argument.
           | 
           | Can a site without discrete named accounts, where everyone is
           | called 'Anonymous', claim that there's no way to verify
           | whether the content is generated by humans? It's basically
           | the 4chan model.
        
             | wincy wrote:
             | Thank goodness teeangers will still be able to frequent
             | 4chan just like I did when I was a teen.
        
             | systoll wrote:
             | No need to even do that.
             | 
             | The law defines 'social media platform' in terms of what
             | account holders can do, and 'social media company' in terms
             | of the number of account holders.
             | 
             | It really goes out of its way to distinguish 'users' and
             | 'account holders', and if there are no account holders,
             | it's not social media. Apparently.
        
               | tstrimple wrote:
               | So kids can visit 4chan, but not TikTok. Makes sense.
        
         | judge2020 wrote:
         | > There's exceptions for email, Netflix, Amazon, news,
         | traditional media kinds of sites.
         | 
         | The fact that there are 20 categories of services exempted
         | shows that this is a terrible bill that is based on punishing
         | specific actors and not regulating data privacy or child
         | wellbeing in a meaningful way.
         | 
         | for reference, line 165 to 224 of that link are the exceptions:
         | 
         | "Social media platform" does not include an online service,
         | website, or application: (i) where the predominant or exclusive
         | function is:                 (A) electronic mail; (B) direct
         | messaging [only between two users],  (C) a streaming service,
         | (D) news, sports, entertainment, or other content that is
         | preselected by the provider and not user generated,   (E)
         | online shopping or e-commerce [when limited to posting reviews
         | and wish lists], (F) interactive gaming, virtual gaming, or an
         | online service, that allows the creation and uploading of
         | content for the purpose of interactive gaming, edutainment, or
         | associated entertainment,  (G) photo editing that has an
         | associated photo hosting service, if the interaction with
         | other users or account holders is generally limited to liking
         | or commenting, (H) a professional creative network for
         | showcasing and discovering artistic content, (J) providing
         | career development opportunities, including professional
         | networking, job skills, learning certifications, and job
         | posting and application services,  (K) business to business
         | software,  (L) a teleconferencing or videoconferencing service,
         | (M) cloud storage, (N) shared document collaboration, (O) cloud
         | computing services, (P) providing access to or interacting with
         | data visualization platforms, libraries,  (Q) to permit
         | comments on a digital news website, if the news content is
         | posted only by the provider of the digital news website, (R)
         | providing or obtaining technical support for a platform,
         | product, or service, (S) academic or scholarly research, (T)
         | genealogical research
         | 
         | (J) is a carve-out for linkedin, wonderful.
        
           | UnpossibleJim wrote:
           | LOL, according to this, my family's group text thread is
           | illegal under this law, as DMs can only be between 2 people.
           | 
           | EDIT: serious question; would Slack be professional
           | networking or, how does that work under this bill? It's DMing
           | for business, but it isn't really networking.
        
             | hattmall wrote:
             | Group chats wouldn't be illegal, that's not an online
             | service where you sign up and make a profile etc. This
             | applies only to sites that would serve you random content
             | from random users... i.e. Social Media.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | That would not need a carve out for private messages
               | between two profiles
        
               | eyelidlessness wrote:
               | Most Slack usage I'm aware of doesn't fit the
               | description, but some does. Quite a lot of Discord usage
               | however...
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > as DMs can only be between 2 people.
             | 
             | Nothing in the law restricts to DMs being between two
             | people, it just distinguishes them from public content.
        
               | judge2020 wrote:
               | As I understand it,
               | 
               | > (I) shared between the sender and the recipient; 171
               | (II) only visible to the sender and the recipient; and
               | 172 (III) are not posted publicly;
               | 
               | maybe sender and recipient can be considered a group chat
               | with multiple recipients? Otherwise you wouldn't classify
               | something like Kik or Discord as social media.
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | ipaddr wrote:
           | "preselected by the provider"
           | 
           | This is the area that gets grey. If the provide applies any
           | filter or AI judgement it becomes preselected. This applies
           | to tiktok, facebook, youtube and ig.
           | 
           | This law bans old school forums and reddit but not if results
           | are displayed by "best match"
        
           | saalweachter wrote:
           | I owe my entire professional career to the Megatokyo forums
           | and the associated IRC server.
        
           | javajosh wrote:
           | _> (J) is a carve-out for linkedin, wonderful._
           | 
           | It would be utterly fascinating if LinkedIn became Utah's de
           | facto LGBTQ online space.
        
           | hackernewds wrote:
           | There are a lot of J) category content on TikTok. They should
           | have just curated and mandated a kid's version
        
           | bawolff wrote:
           | Facebook starts a career networking subfeature in 5, 4, 3, 2,
           | 1
        
             | hackmiester wrote:
             | You can already apply for jobs on Facebook. (J) already
             | applies to Facebook.
             | 
             | edit: This is false as of 22 Feb, when Facebook Jobs was
             | discontinued. I didn't realize.
        
           | srcreigh wrote:
           | This seems like a reasonable list.
           | 
           | I'm not opposed to the idea of whitelisting healthy online
           | activities and limiting anything else. They could go further
           | and whitelist sites like HN, arch forums etc where it's
           | educational
           | 
           | Sibling comment mentioned how group chats aren't exempted.
           | I've seen group chats get very unhealthy before. 2 is low,
           | maybe 5 or 8 participants max would be ok.
        
             | MacsHeadroom wrote:
             | I hope you realize that every adult in the state will now
             | have to verify their state ID to use an account on
             | virtually any website so that the site can prove they're
             | only serving adults. These lists of IDs will leak.
        
             | Mezzie wrote:
             | I mean when teens/children congregate in large numbers
             | anywhere they get unhealthy. Like it or not, the digital
             | realm is part of life and they have to learn to handle
             | disagreements, toxic people, etc. at some point. If their
             | adults won't supervise them/help them, that's on the
             | adults. If they _can 't_, then our society needs to start
             | educating adults on how to parent in the digital age. But
             | that would be slow and cost $$$ and possibly empower the
             | populace, so we won't do it.
        
           | noduerme wrote:
           | I don't know how to judge a bill, but I read this, and it
           | seems that the intent is to broadly ban everything first and
           | then carve out exceptions for _almost everything_ except for
           | a single category: Direct messaging (^B) between MORE than
           | two users for non-creative, non-commercial, non-educational
           | purposes.
           | 
           | AKA forums and memes.
           | 
           | Is that a fair analysis?
           | 
           | [edit] : per privacy advocates - no, I don't think it's okay
           | to start with a law that bans everything and carve out
           | exceptions; obviously, that way lies totalitarianism. I'm
           | just trying to get a handle on the immediate intent. There's
           | a boolean at work here. I guess someone was like, "hey, why
           | chip away at forums and meme sites when we can just ban
           | everything in theory, let most of it slide, and work back
           | toward totalitarianism from there with the law already in
           | place?"
           | 
           | [edit2] HN appears to be totally banhammered under this since
           | /the mods/ don't post the news.
        
             | EGreg wrote:
             | Seems that forums are exempt, look:
             | 
             | content that is generated by an account holder, or uploaded
             | to or shared on the 270 platform by an account holder, that
             | may be encountered by another account holder;
        
             | prox wrote:
             | We believe something first and then we add our reasoning
             | for it. That is what it sounds like. Which seems
             | appropriate for a religious state like Utah.
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > HN appears to be totally banhammered under this since
             | /the mods/ don't post the news.
             | 
             | Does HN have more than 5 million user accounts?
        
               | jandrese wrote:
               | I guarantee that there are more than 5 million bot
               | accounts alone.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | Ooh I'm curious to hear more. Do you have inside
               | knowledge, or see widespread evidence of bots? I've only
               | seen perhaps a few here and there, almost always
               | downvoted to oblivion.
        
               | judge2020 wrote:
               | It's not just bots posting, but other bots upvoting those
               | posts. If it can get on the bottom of the front page for
               | even 5 minutes, that's probably x > 1000 clicks.
        
               | EGreg wrote:
               | What does it matter whether it has more than 5 million
               | accounts? Why not 50K accounts?
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | It matters because that's the cutoff in the law. If you
               | want to know why that's the cutoff in the law, that's a
               | question for the authors, sponsors, and supporters of the
               | law.
        
               | _heimdall wrote:
               | Because every law we write is ultimately arbitrary. Lines
               | have to be drawn through massive swaths of gray area,
               | those lines are entirely arbitrary and should be a sign
               | that making laws like this is pointless.
               | 
               | The 90s Era gun ban that Biden was so proud of is a
               | perfect example. They had to include so many caveats and
               | arbitrary descriptions of what makes a gun an "assault
               | rifle" that manufacturers just dodged the rules with
               | tweaked rifle designs. Something as small as a thumb hole
               | in the grip made a gun legal because of how specific the
               | law had to be.
               | 
               | In this case, what stops a social media company from
               | coming up with some business model where a child company
               | is spun up for every 4.9m users? You could argue its more
               | like Mastodon, a decentralized network that just happens
               | to use the same proprietary protocol, app, and is owned
               | by the same parent Corp.
        
               | lo_zamoyski wrote:
               | Marginalium: _Some laws_ are arbitrary, not all. They may
               | all be _contingent_ , which is different from arbitrary.
               | Ultimately, law is a prudential determination of moral
               | principle.
        
               | _heimdall wrote:
               | The distinction between arbitrary and contingent is very
               | muddy in a legal sense where arbitrary has a specific
               | meaning related to laws and court decisions. The two
               | relevant definitions of arbitrary are:
               | 
               | > based on or determined by individual preference or
               | convenience rather than by necessity or the intrinsic
               | nature of something
               | 
               | > law : depending on individual discretion (as of a
               | judge) and not fixed by law
               | 
               | A law itself fits the first definition. At best, a law is
               | written by a tiny minority of the population but with the
               | intent of best reflecting the majority opinion or
               | preference.
               | 
               | I'd be really interested to hear an example of a law that
               | is based on necessity or intrinsic nature, though maybe
               | there are a few!
               | 
               | https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/arbitrary
        
               | EGreg wrote:
               | I meant where does this law mention 5 million ?
        
               | _heimdall wrote:
               | Hah, sorry! I misread your question and have been
               | thinking a lot about that topics lately!
        
             | xg15 wrote:
             | > _(F) interactive gaming, virtual gaming, or an online
             | service, that allows the creation and uploading of content
             | for the purpose of interactive gaming, edutainment, or
             | associated entertainment,_
             | 
             | Doesn't this loophole even defeat their own hidden agenda?
             | Almost every online game today features a chat function.
        
               | prox wrote:
               | I think Discord even passes that.
        
               | [deleted]
        
             | pyuser583 wrote:
             | It seems they're worried about peer to peer interactions.
             | 
             | My experience regulating my daughters internet access is
             | that interactions with other kids have the highest
             | potential for toxicity.
             | 
             | They seem ok with kids passively consuming a stream of
             | adult generated content.
             | 
             | They're also excluding SaaS which just emulates desktop
             | software.
             | 
             | I think that's about right.
        
               | EGreg wrote:
               | Apparently videoconferencing with kids is AOK while chats
               | are not?
        
               | ipaddr wrote:
               | Kids can be mean to each other, now or in your day. Next
               | they ban kids from talking to each other in person or
               | having friends. Is that the life you want for your
               | daughter?
        
               | MacsHeadroom wrote:
               | Guess we should ban all teens from stack overflow,
               | LinkedIn, and hacker news because kids might have toxic
               | interactions online if we don't.
               | 
               | Let's also not mention how the only way to reliably do
               | this is to require identity verification from all adults.
               | Get ready to scan your drivers license to post on hacker
               | news and every other site (except traditional news sites
               | apparently).
        
               | frob wrote:
               | Utah is small enough that some sites may just geoblock
               | Utah. I know if I had to choose between collecting every
               | user's ID ever and just adding a block list, I'd go with
               | the second.
        
           | JumpCrisscross wrote:
           | > _that there are 20 categories of services exempted shows
           | that this is a terrible bill_
           | 
           | This is how privacy died. Someone fought for everything.
           | Compromised for everything but twenty. Nobody supported the
           | fight.
           | 
           | Then, when the deal was announced, out came the pitchforks
           | for perfection.
        
           | quotemstr wrote:
           | Doesn't G exempt Instagram? And isn't Instagram allegedly
           | among the worst social network for teens?
        
           | hackmiester wrote:
           | (J) applies to Facebook as well.
           | 
           | edit: This is false as of 22 Feb, when Facebook Jobs was
           | discontinued. I didn't realize.
        
             | 8note wrote:
             | If you've got professional contacts on Facebook, or if
             | you're following businesses, I think it would count?
        
           | vanilla_nut wrote:
           | (G) photo editing that has an associated photo hosting
           | service, if the interaction with      other users or account
           | holders is generally limited to liking or commenting
           | 
           | Does this mean the 2012 version of Instagram is rendered
           | immune to this law thanks to this obnoxious Google Photos
           | carveout?
        
           | hatsunearu wrote:
           | >(F) interactive gaming, virtual gaming, or an online
           | service, that allows the creation and uploading of content
           | for the purpose of interactive gaming, edutainment, or
           | associated entertainment,
           | 
           | So Roblox, arguably quite harmful to children, is
           | specifically carved out. That's great.
        
             | okhuman wrote:
             | Whats going on at Roblox? Curious, as a parent myself.
        
               | red369 wrote:
               | This article and thread lists some of the issues:
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32014754
        
               | jb1991 wrote:
               | History of adults masquerading as children for purposes
               | of pedophilia.
        
               | MomoXenosaga wrote:
               | History of adults masquerading as church leaders for
               | purposes of pedophilia.
        
               | tstrimple wrote:
               | The church is often on their "team" so it gets a pass for
               | rampant child abuse. Notice none of the groomer
               | allegations are directed at the church despite the church
               | abusing exponentially more children than people in drag.
               | There is no global drag organization which is protecting
               | members found to be abusing children by moving them into
               | new areas where people don't know their priest is a
               | pedophile the way we see in the church. If the "protect
               | children" cries were honest, the churches and clergy
               | should be one of the primary targets.
               | 
               | https://www.nbcnews.com/news/religion/nearly-1-700-priest
               | s-c...
               | 
               | > Nearly 1,700 priests and other clergy members that the
               | Roman Catholic Church considers credibly accused of child
               | sexual abuse are living under the radar with little to no
               | oversight from religious authorities or law enforcement,
               | decades after the first wave of the church abuse scandal
               | roiled U.S. dioceses, an Associated Press investigation
               | has found.
               | 
               | > These priests, deacons, monks and lay people now teach
               | middle-school math. They counsel survivors of sexual
               | assault. They work as nurses and volunteer at nonprofits
               | aimed at helping at-risk kids. They live next to
               | playgrounds and daycare centers. They foster and care for
               | children.
               | 
               | > And in their time since leaving the church, dozens have
               | committed crimes, including sexual assault and possessing
               | child pornography, the AP's analysis found.
        
               | bradford wrote:
               | Highly addictive to my kids for reasons that I can't
               | grok.
               | 
               | Unfettered social interaction with other participants in
               | an unmonitored environment that superficially 'looks'
               | like a video game. This social interaction leads to
               | bullshit purchases. Not purchasing the bullshit leads to
               | peer pressure and bullying.
               | 
               | Is it a technical problem? is it lack of content
               | moderation? or do social networks that are catered
               | towards children simply lead to a toxic environment? I
               | can't say if it's more one or the other, which makes it a
               | challenge to try and fix.
        
               | _heimdall wrote:
               | That sounds a lot like any other childhood in my opinion.
               | Sure I wasn't feeling pressured to buy digital assets on
               | an online game but I would noticed when half the school
               | has the same LL Bean fleece jacket or backpack with their
               | initials embroidered on it.
               | 
               | Was there peer pressure and potential for bullying based
               | on what others had? Absolutely. Should a state have
               | intervened with a required mandatory dress code and
               | government-approved backpack? Hell no, there's always
               | going to be peer pressure and bullying no matter how
               | oppressive laws become.
        
               | genewitch wrote:
               | I watch my son play Roblox sometimes. The chat is heavily
               | censored.
               | 
               | He also learned most countries, their capitals, and their
               | flags. And that was just a few servers with "country
               | balls".
               | 
               | I find the YouTube videos involving those far more
               | insidious, because children don't really understand
               | biting sarcasm and satire as well as adults, and I'll
               | often make him switch videos.
               | 
               | But I haven't noticed anything necessarily harmful about
               | Roblox.
               | 
               | Then again, don't they make like a billion dollars a
               | year?
               | 
               | I'm more upset that they screw content creators so badly
               | that the "bullying and peer pressure" seems to be
               | necessary.
               | 
               | Roblox is one of those things that seems impossible on a
               | technical level. And with a billion dollars, they could
               | hire social workers, moderators, etc.
        
               | geraldwhen wrote:
               | But have you actually played Roblox? It's absolute toxic
               | trash.
               | 
               | Almost every single game is a front for purchases, and
               | those that aren't are barely games at all. Many Minecraft
               | mods are one time purchases that are way, way better than
               | anything Roblox produces, but Minecraft is so buggy that
               | it's truly not suitable for kids, or anyone for that
               | matter. Minecraft will continuously corrupt saves, so you
               | need to fully reinstall the game, and log out of your
               | Xbox/MS account and fail to authorize.
               | 
               | I grew up on counterstrike and StarCraft mods, and there
               | is nothing available today that fills the same role. I've
               | played chess implemented in StarCraft, DOTA before it was
               | standalone, and zombies maps that wouldn't be brought to
               | other shooters for years ahead of time.
               | 
               | My kids aren't allowed to play games I wouldn't play. The
               | list of actual-games-that-arent-ads is huge, and there is
               | no need to let in Roblox.
        
               | _heimdall wrote:
               | Sure sounds like a game that will suck and go unplayed if
               | kids just aren't allowed to click the buy button.
               | Children don't have to have access to spend money online
               | and a parent is well within their right already to not
               | add a credit card.
               | 
               | That one change would make Robolox a terrible game based
               | on how you described it. Isn't that problem solved
               | without the need for a complex law full of arbitrary
               | definitions and one-off carve outs?
        
               | 7sidedmarble wrote:
               | >Minecraft is so buggy that it's truly not suitable for
               | kids,
               | 
               | >My kids aren't allowed to play games I wouldn't play.
               | 
               | Nothing says 'hacker mindset' like your parents deciding
               | for you what games you should and shouldn't like.
        
               | newjersey wrote:
               | This is such a difficult topic. On one hand I want to
               | give the next generation the same freedoms that I enjoyed
               | but on the other hand the "game" has gotten more...
               | everything. Even adults can't avoid falling for these
               | traps. I've seen with my own eyes someone justifying
               | spending USD 90+ on candy crush saying it isn't that much
               | compared to bla bla.
               | 
               | It is a frightening thought though to think -- am I more
               | conservative than my parents?
        
               | wholinator2 wrote:
               | I'm certainly not. Though i have different conservations
               | in different directions than they could've ever dreamed
               | possible, i doubt that adds up to anywhere near the real
               | conservatism of watching Bill O'Reilly or god forbid
               | Tucker Carlson every night
        
               | stametseater wrote:
               | > _Many Minecraft mods are one time purchases_
               | 
               | > _Minecraft is so buggy that it's truly not suitable for
               | kids, or anyone for that matter._
               | 
               | > _Minecraft will continuously corrupt saves you need to
               | fully reinstall the game_
               | 
               | I don't recognize the game you are describing. I've never
               | heard of a paid minecraft mod, they're all free. Buggy?
               | It has some odd in-game behavior that you could
               | reasonably call bugs, but the only crashes I've ever
               | gotten were during modding, caused by incompatible or low
               | quality mods. Corrupting saves? I've never experienced
               | it, nor can I imagine how a corrupted save would be
               | addressed by reinstalling the game. What is the supposed
               | connection between a save file being corrupted and
               | needing to reinstall the entire game?
               | 
               | You've obviously got some strange prejudices about this
               | game which simply don't resemble reality.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | My kids never paid anything on roblox. Also, the bullying
               | you describe sounds like issue with real world bullies in
               | group ofnkids your kids know personally. That sux and is
               | hard to fix, but blaming roblox is weird. I would blame
               | those kids parents.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | Roblox is neopets afaict
               | 
               | There's a game engine/a large variety of games combined
               | with a common community. The games can be silly, but
               | they're silly with other people who recognize they're
               | silly, and others who aren't in on the joke yet
        
               | crooked-v wrote:
               | Basically every negative aspect of modern gaming at once.
               | Loot boxes, exploitative use of user-created content,
               | unmoderated interaction between adults and children,
               | free-to-play treadmilling to peer pressure children into
               | spending money, etc etc.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | People Make Games is one of the YouTube channels that I
               | respect in this domain...
               | 
               | Investigation: How Roblox Is Exploiting Young Game
               | Developers - https://youtu.be/_gXlauRB1EQ
               | 
               | Roblox Pressured Us to Delete Our Video. So We Dug
               | Deeper. - https://youtu.be/vTMF6xEiAaY
        
               | melagonster wrote:
               | Isaw twice similar comments but I didn't spend time to
               | found it :/
        
             | ssalka wrote:
             | Twitch as well
        
               | okhuman wrote:
               | Twitch's gambling phase was brutal and no doubt harmful.
        
           | frob wrote:
           | And (T) is a carve-out for the genealogy industry run by the
           | Morman church
        
           | Brybry wrote:
           | Texas had to do similar exclusions for their "anti-
           | censorship" anti-moderation bill. [1][2]
           | 
           | [1] https://capitol.texas.gov/tlodocs/872/billtext/html/HB000
           | 20F...
           | 
           | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Texas_House_Bill_20
        
             | _heimdall wrote:
             | The list of bills that don't require long lists of
             | arbitrary definitions and exceptions is ridiculously small.
             | 
             | Making laws that cover millions of people is way too
             | complex for something so detailed. There's no way around
             | that complexity leading to a pile of garbage legal mumbo-
             | jumbo as they realize it's nearly impossible to draw a neat
             | line around the problem.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | nodemaker wrote:
         | There is a point to be made that anything coming from Meta is
         | just designed by its makers to destroy your mental health for
         | ad clicks. Other companies do not have such toxic business
         | model even Tiktok.
        
         | MBCook wrote:
         | Just more of the unintended consequences we all know will come
         | from this.
        
           | falcolas wrote:
           | Given how the government reps talked (hah) to the TikTok CEO,
           | and some of the speeches leading up to that farce, I'm pretty
           | convinced it's entirely intentional.
           | 
           | It gives power and eyeballs back to the entrenched
           | traditional media moguls.
        
           | Spivak wrote:
           | There won't be any. Look, it's fun to imagine these shitty
           | lawmakers getting bit by their own laws applied to the letter
           | but that's not how it will go. The law will only ever be
           | enforced against social media platforms they see as
           | threatening their ability to shelter their kids.
           | 
           | I think it says a lot about any politician that pushes for
           | laws that are meant to be selectively enforced.
        
             | falcolas wrote:
             | It's not the lawmakers who will be bit, that's true. It's
             | any company, and their users who are targeted by an
             | incensed enough Karen.
             | 
             | Picture a GitHub.io site that hosts images of nude art.
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > Look, it's fun to imagine these shitty lawmakers getting
             | bit by their own laws applied to the letter but that's not
             | how it will go. The law will only ever be enforced against
             | social media platforms they see as threatening their
             | ability to shelter their kids.
             | 
             | It'll be enforced against whoever individual citizens
             | decide to enforce it against; its a purely private right of
             | action.
        
               | pjc50 wrote:
               | Ah, that's the carveout against the 1st amendment.
               | 
               | Conservatives have discovered that the constitution only
               | binds the _state_ , so if they delegate enforcement to
               | private lawsuits they can completely bypass protections.
               | 
               | Edit: see https://theintercept.com/2023/03/24/texas-
               | bounty-hunter-drag... and
               | https://www.cbsnews.com/news/texas-abortion-law-bounty-
               | hunte...
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | I don't understand how any court allows this
               | interpretation to exist. If a state deputizes a person to
               | act against the rights of others, that person is acting
               | as the state, and should be bound as the state is bound.
               | Otherwise the state can abrogate all limitations on its
               | powers by deputizing people or companies.
        
         | boppo1 wrote:
         | Oddly enough, 4chan is not part of that definition.
         | 
         | There's an edgy 12 year old somewhere in my head cackling and
         | gleefully shouting 'Let the good times roll!'
        
       | kyleblarson wrote:
       | If the US government had control of an app in China or Russia
       | used by tens of millions of impressionable young people do any of
       | you really think they would not take advantage of that to tip the
       | scales and slowly affect political opinions and other outcomes?
        
         | hackernewds wrote:
         | How is that relevant to the Utah declaration?
        
       | bananapub wrote:
       | this is a crappy headline.
       | 
       | by trying to put some age limit on things, they're forcing
       | _absolutely everyone to give up their identity_ to the government
       | / sites.
        
         | MBCook wrote:
         | Unfortunately that is the most reliable form of age
         | verification we have: government ID cards.
         | 
         | If this is 100% true in its face it would look identical to if
         | it was a scheme to de-anonymize people.
        
           | morpheuskafka wrote:
           | And all of the security is in the physical card manufacturing
           | itself. Uploading a photo of a card is trivial to photoshop
           | and requires no hardware at all.
        
         | ars wrote:
         | And is that bad or something? If you want to use a harmful
         | product (and make no mistake social apps are harmful), then
         | being careful about who is using it is a good idea.
        
           | dannyw wrote:
           | This law affects GitHub. You shouldn't be able to upload code
           | or submit a pull request anonymously?
        
             | ars wrote:
             | GitHub knowing who you are does not prevent you from being
             | anonymous to the rest of the world.
        
         | tzs wrote:
         | It's not hard to design age verification to avoid that. Briefly
         | you have age verification done by sites that already have to
         | have your identity or that you trust giving your ID to, and
         | then provide a protocol that lets you use the verification from
         | them with other sites.
         | 
         | With a little modern cryptography you can make this protocol so
         | that the age verifier gets no information about what sites you
         | are using the age verification with, and the other sites gets
         | nothing that ties the identity used with the age verifier site
         | to the identity you are at the other site.
        
       | jquery wrote:
       | This bill is draconian BS. Goodbye anonymity. "For the children"
       | is always used to pass the worst crap. This bill doesn't do
       | anything to help children, it only increases power for power-
       | tripping parents by making it so that their kids have no privacy,
       | even as teenagers. Imagine being an LGBT teen in Utah right now.
       | 
       | If they really cared about mental health, there's so many things
       | they could do... but instead, they did... whatever this is. This
       | is the same state that wants to ban pornography on mobile devices
       | "for the children", so excuse me if I don't trust their motives
       | one whit.
        
       | chiefalchemist wrote:
       | Sure, let's blame social media for the troubles of our youth.
       | 
       | It's not the endless wars.
       | 
       | It's not the endless poverty.
       | 
       | It's not the endless divisiveness.
       | 
       | It's not the endless media fearmongering of X or Y.
       | 
       | It's TikTok. It's Instagram. Etc.
        
         | stametseater wrote:
         | Endless wars...
         | 
         | The children of North America have by in large not experienced
         | war themselves in well over a century, with cartel violence
         | being the standout counterexample _of sorts_. More lost parents
         | to wars, but the Vietnam War was now a few generations ago and
         | the  "wars on terror" effected only tens thousands of North
         | American families in this way, counting all casualties not just
         | fatalities. Tens of thousands sounds like a lot but this
         | country has hundreds of millions of people, so you can hardly
         | explain broad social trends with this.
         | 
         | So how else might wars be effecting children in North America?
         | Well for one, children may become depressed after watching tons
         | of graphic foreign war footage online... on social media.....
        
         | prawn wrote:
         | Is this a bit like "what about all the other cancers?!" in a
         | discussion about breast cancer? It's not as though this
         | prevents action/attention for poverty or other issues. It's one
         | tack of many, whether you agree or not with the plan itself.
        
         | docandrew wrote:
         | We've always had endless wars, endless poverty, endless
         | divisiveness, endless media fearmongering, etc. Those things
         | have all been much worse in the past than they are today (maybe
         | not the media fearmongering). But youth (and adults too)
         | weren't exposed to it every waking minute of their day the way
         | they are today.
        
         | 1over137 wrote:
         | Good points. But 3 and 4 are partly caused by social media I
         | think.
        
           | chiefalchemist wrote:
           | They existed prior and yes have been elevated since SM. Not
           | necessarily because of SM, but because SM can take the blame
           | while those who drive the wedge get a free pass.
        
           | MBCook wrote:
           | They did it plenty before social media. That just accelerated
           | the spread of individual stories.
        
             | stametseater wrote:
             | Mass media did it from the start, but was less effective
             | because they were trying to create "one size fits all"
             | narratives that could reach and influence very large
             | portions of the population. Recommendation engines tuned to
             | the individual changed the game dramatically. They can lead
             | people down rabbit holes that the other people in their
             | life don't even know to exist. At least when the town
             | newspaper or local church starts shilling some truly wacky
             | shit, everybody in town knows about it. But now youtube/etc
             | personalized recommendation engines can send your brother
             | or father down radicalization paths you never even heard of
             | before and had no possible way of noticing before the
             | damage was done.
             | 
             | If you think _" Oh I'll just watch youtube to get an idea
             | of what other people are watching"_, you're stuck in 20th
             | century thinking. It doesn't work like that anymore,
             | youtube/etc are fundamentally unlike old media. These
             | systems have atomized society in a way that newspapers
             | never could.
        
         | jmathai wrote:
         | As a parent, restricting social media is one of the most
         | effective tools I think we have to promote well being. The
         | things you mentioned are also problematic but I can limit
         | social media access and when I do my kids are better off.
        
           | chiefalchemist wrote:
           | My point is, blaming SM and only SM is a (false)
           | oversimplification. There are systematic societal issues
           | getting a free pass because of our collective willingness to
           | buy into a distraction that the cause is SM.
           | 
           | Just because adults have normalized the baggage of negativity
           | and lack of progress doesn't mean the kids aren't feeling
           | beyond the lies. FFS, any reasonable adult should be feeling
           | pain and distraught at this point.
           | 
           | p.s. I forgot to mention climate change / environmental
           | damage. Imagine being young and thinking "someday this shit-
           | show will be mine." It's foolish and naive to blame SM for
           | this.
        
             | jmathai wrote:
             | I agree SM isn't the only issue.
             | 
             | But I also don't think my teenagers are nearly as concerned
             | about climate change and the world they are inheriting as
             | they are living up to the life social media says they
             | should have and feeling inadequate being unable to attain
             | it.
        
       | Overtonwindow wrote:
       | Isn't this similar to a law that Florida passed? That got
       | overturned and I don't see how they could ever enforce this.
        
       | StrangeATractor wrote:
       | Sounds like they're incentivizing kids to learn about networking
       | to get around this.
        
       | isaacremuant wrote:
       | Laws can't and shouldn't substitute good parenting.
       | 
       | Laws of this kind only make it worse for everyone and teen who
       | knows a bit will find ways to bypass them.
       | 
       | It's a bad slippery slope to even more government overreach in
       | what was once, an avenue for democratisation of the conversation
       | and freedom: the internet.
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | YouTube has content filtering for kids which parents could
         | never mimic. App level moderation just cannot be achieved by a
         | parent.
         | 
         | These social media companies have a direct relationship with
         | their users, many of which are kids. They need to serve their
         | child users appropriate content, and in an appropriate manner.
         | 
         | Furthermore, there is nothing in this bill that stops parents
         | from parenting.
        
       | pyuser583 wrote:
       | Good. I really wish we changed the "privacy age" from 13 to 18.
        
       | nodemaker wrote:
       | As a tech pioneer and also an otherwise liberal person, I welcome
       | this move. The company called Meta is doing extreme damage to
       | society and needs to be stopped at all costs.
        
         | vineyardmike wrote:
         | > needs to be stopped at all costs.
         | 
         | I can think of a few prices I wouldn't be willing to pay. This
         | bill is one of them.
        
           | nodemaker wrote:
           | Wait till you have kids who get their lives destroyed by Meta
           | products.
        
       | thrwawy74 wrote:
       | So this is like... let's introduce these concepts at a certain
       | age level ("think of the kids") to normalize control over a
       | population, eventually expanding it to undesirables? This is
       | dangerous. Just like the groomers thing. The best thing about the
       | internet has been unadulterated, unrestricted access to
       | information. Parents should be more involved with what their kids
       | are seeing, but kids seeing anything (from neopets to al'queda
       | beheadings) are what has created some seriously talented and
       | informed people. We need outliers and deviants, not curfew-ed
       | lambs.
       | 
       | They've had so much success with "groomers" in other states.
       | They're trying to "protect" more young kids now.
        
         | eldritch_4ier wrote:
         | "Restricting the firehose of content driving mass upticks in
         | childhood suicide rates, obesity, porn usage, and mental health
         | issues - this is dangerous!".
        
           | tiedieconderoga wrote:
           | Interesting analogy.
           | 
           | Have you ever tried to squeeze a firehose shut without
           | turning off the water first?
        
           | SpaceL10n wrote:
           | "Restricting the firehose of content driving mass upticks in
           | Atheism - this is dangerous!".
        
       | ipnon wrote:
       | They will not be the last. There is a lot of political capital
       | being spent in this area, both because it improves health
       | outcomes for young people, and because whatever negative side
       | effects might arise will largely be borne by California and the
       | larger tech industry alone. Big Tech is not seen as an ally in
       | many state capitals.
        
       | doublejosh wrote:
       | If only we could get states to increase the age of consent.
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_the_United_...
        
       | paxys wrote:
       | Whether this is a reasonable law or not, my big problem with it
       | is that it puts the burden of enforcement on tech platforms
       | rather than the kids' parents. There is no way for any company to
       | check for something like this without also affecting every other
       | user of the site, whether they are in Utah or not and whether
       | they are a teen or not. What do they do exactly, start collecting
       | government IDs from us before every visit?
        
         | gjsman-1000 wrote:
         | I would say that anonymity on social media currently has a
         | serious, real-world price to pay. Teen girls and Instagram
         | don't mix - the numbers reporting depression and suicidal
         | thoughts since it took off is heartbreaking.
         | 
         | They made us wear masks due to a threat to our physical health.
         | Social media is currently having extremely acute effects on the
         | mental health of a generation. It may have reached the point
         | that losing anonymity and requiring ID is better than suicides
         | and depression. At this point, if you look at the numbers, it's
         | like claiming the government is infringing your rights to buy
         | alcohol anonymously. We should stop pretending that mental
         | health damage is of lower priority than physical health.
         | 
         | (And don't get me started about the parents - outside of SV,
         | only a few percent even know parental controls exist, let alone
         | how to use them effectively without loopholes.)
        
           | monksy wrote:
           | > Teen girls and Instagram don't mix - the numbers reporting
           | depression and suicidal thoughts since it took off is
           | heartbreaking.
           | 
           | This has been a claim for a long time. Esp with self esteem
           | and teen mags or the beauty industry. Unfortunately, social
           | media is the greatest prison people created for themself.
           | 
           | > losing anonymity and requiring ID is better than suicides
           | and depression
           | 
           | Mr gjsman-1000, is this a reasonable claim? SM that advocates
           | free discussion in a mostly anonymous forum [HN].. is that
           | causing the issue that we're discussing? [My stance is
           | engagement oriented industries are causing this at the
           | benefit of profit]
           | 
           | > outside of SV, only a few percent even know parental
           | controls exist, let alone how to use them effectively without
           | loopholes.
           | 
           | This sounds like a great acknowledgement of a problem that
           | can be fixed.
        
           | prawn wrote:
           | Is anonymity the key issue for your example of Instagram and
           | teen girls? I'd guess that a lot of the pressures come from
           | their peers and professional users who are quite openly using
           | their own identity.
        
             | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
             | Cyberstalkers use phony IDs. Consider the case of the
             | mother who harassed her own daughter last year.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | > Teen girls and Instagram don't mix - the numbers reporting
           | depression and suicidal thoughts since it took off is
           | heartbreaking.
           | 
           | Funny how people care about youth suicide only when it is
           | about making controlling laws they want.
           | 
           | Somehow, there is zero interest in teen girls as persons -
           | all I see on HN is tons of contempt towards them, again and
           | again. Somehow, boys suicides dont matter at all despite
           | being higher. Somehow, boys mental health issues matter only
           | when you can use it as talking point against feminists (boys
           | are depressed? must be because girls are allowed to refuse
           | the sex).
           | 
           | Stop pretending you heart is breaking.
        
           | heavyset_go wrote:
           | > _I would say that anonymity on social media currently has a
           | serious, real-world price to pay. Teen girls and Instagram
           | don't mix - the numbers reporting depression and suicidal
           | thoughts since it took off is heartbreaking._
           | 
           | I wouldn't say that anonymity is the problem here, but rather
           | that social media sites are crafted to abuse the psychology
           | of their users for attention, engagement, ad impressions etc.
           | 
           | It isn't a given that social media has to make teens
           | depressed. If the psychologists and researchers that are
           | hired by these companies to hone in on engagement were
           | instead were paid to make their platforms less
           | psychologically harmful, we could see better results. Hell,
           | platforms have the potential to improve people's lives if
           | they were optimized for those outcomes. Civil and criminal
           | liability could be introduced to social media operators to
           | ensure that their products aren't causing harm, as well.
           | 
           | Incentives to achieve those results can come from legislation
           | and the judicial system.
        
             | monksy wrote:
             | In my reply the poster, I did directly point out that we're
             | using a mostly anonymous platform to discuss this issue.
             | However, I agree with you.. it's about how the platform
             | encourages or ignores bad outcomes.
        
         | taylodl wrote:
         | Call their bluff - don't make your service available in Utah.
        
           | bdw5204 wrote:
           | The solution is actually simpler than that. Just shut down
           | any company operations in Utah, refuse to accept any payments
           | from users with Utah addresses and require all of your
           | employees that are located in Utah to relocate. But people in
           | Utah can continue using the service.
           | 
           | It's also quite possible that this law gets thrown out as
           | unconstitutional by the federal courts since it seems similar
           | to the California video game censorship law from Brown v.
           | EMA.
        
             | dumbotron wrote:
             | Remember the time Facebook blocked news in Australia?
        
           | jfengel wrote:
           | That is the goal. It's not a bluff. The kids are just an
           | excuse.
        
           | BeFlatXIII wrote:
           | Or be a company based outside the US. "Your laws, your
           | problem: my government doesn't care"
        
           | kerpotgh wrote:
           | [dead]
        
           | ars wrote:
           | That would be nice wouldn't it - mental health would improve
           | so much.
        
             | MBCook wrote:
             | There are plenty of people it would help. But there are
             | likely quite a few it would really hurt, losing access to
             | distant family or support.
        
               | ars wrote:
               | It's only social networks at question. Direct messages to
               | people would not be changed.
        
           | MBCook wrote:
           | Honestly this seems like the best idea. You can't get accused
           | of letting a kid access outside approved hours if you don't
           | allow people in Utah on.
           | 
           | What about adults? They may be lying kids. So either no
           | access (safer) or strict age checks involving checking
           | licenses and stuff. But that's expensive. No Utah is easier.
           | 
           | How do you know they're in Utah? IP addresses. Blocks people
           | outside Utah? Sorry, our lawyers made us do this. Complain to
           | _your_ reps that Utah is messing with your state's citizens.
           | VPNs? Maybe gotta block that too.
           | 
           | Utah is not a big state. The social networks could easily use
           | this to try to "teach a lesson". Just say you'll let Utahans
           | back in when their government makes a foolproof age
           | verification system.
           | 
           | And wait.
           | 
           | I don't necessarily disagree with the intent of the law, it
           | just seems unenforceable/unimplementable, as usual. No
           | benefit to the social networks but huge legal downsides.
        
             | chudmeister wrote:
             | [dead]
        
             | ajhurliman wrote:
             | I'm sure you're writing all of this in a "yeah, that'll
             | teach em" voice, but this all sounds amazing. Please, let
             | social media block everyone, become irrelevant, then bring
             | back the old internet.
        
               | MBCook wrote:
               | I expect if it were to happen there would be a very large
               | outcry (in Utah at a minimum) and the law would be
               | changed/repealed quickly.
               | 
               | It would be a VERY interesting natural experiment if it
               | stayed in effect. People would find ways back on, but not
               | everyone would be willing to go through the hoops. What
               | would that do in even a month or two?
        
               | christophilus wrote:
               | I suspect it would improve things drastically in Utah.
               | That's what I'd bet on, anyway. I'm a libertarianish
               | person, so I don't love this legislation, but... I'm not
               | gonna lie. It half makes me want to move to Utah.
        
               | bawolff wrote:
               | Wouldn't web forums, usenet, etc all be considered social
               | media under this bill?
        
               | t-writescode wrote:
               | While you may not like the current method of
               | communication and congregation, you must understand _why_
               | we have the first amendment, right? Congregating together
               | and discussing ideas of (nearly) any sort is an
               | absolutely vital part of democracy and a free society
        
               | raincole wrote:
               | People (like the one above you) don't care about the
               | first amendment as long as their favorite things aren't
               | affected.
               | 
               | ...and that's why the first amendment exists.
        
               | Dylan16807 wrote:
               | They're excited about the idea of those sites blocking
               | users _in general_. It 's not really a first amendment
               | thing. That comment isn't focused on the broader context.
        
               | ajhurliman wrote:
               | I'm sure someone else will cook up a new way to talk to
               | people online after we've all decided the current one
               | needs to go; nature hates a vacuum. The current
               | manifestation is not helping anyone though.
        
             | meghan_rain wrote:
             | Lmao imagine Utah becoming the most mentally healthy region
             | on earth, suicide rates plummeting, productivity up 300%,
             | people spending time with parents and grandparents again?
             | record sign ups in sports clubs, record birth rates etc.
             | 
             | Be careful what you wish for ;-)
        
               | paxys wrote:
               | If the state has total control over every aspect of their
               | citizens' lives they can model the population into any
               | perfect utopia they desire. I'd still not like to live in
               | that world.
        
               | eru wrote:
               | > If the state has total control over every aspect of
               | their citizens' lives they can model the population into
               | any perfect utopia they desire.
               | 
               | That has never worked before. I don't think it'll work in
               | the future.
        
               | barbazoo wrote:
               | Isn't this the opposite though? They're not telling
               | people how to live their lives. They're taking away the
               | power Facebook has over many people's lives so people
               | might enjoy their lives in more social and healthy ways
               | again.
        
               | pavel_lishin wrote:
               | > _Isn 't this the opposite though? They're not telling
               | people how to live their lives._
               | 
               | Is this not _exactly_ them telling people how to live
               | their lives?  "Live offline."
        
               | barbazoo wrote:
               | Not offline, just not using social networks. Same way
               | kids can drink juice, water and pop but not alcohol.
               | Should kids be allowed to drink alcohol or smoke? Again,
               | if I see this as a public health measure I think it makes
               | sense.
        
               | staunton wrote:
               | "any legislation restricting behavior actually frees
               | people to do what they always wanted (the government
               | knows best what that is) but just couldn't because of all
               | these other possibilities misguiding them"
        
               | throwaway290 wrote:
               | "there should be no laws against tobacco, alcohol, drug
               | abuse, gambling because people can't possibly be
               | misguided by powerful corporate interests for profit or
               | otherwise"
        
               | staunton wrote:
               | That's not what I said. There is a balance to be found. I
               | only objected to "this restriction actually makes
               | everyone free (to do what I think they should)" being
               | used as an argument. If enough people agree, sure, you
               | can ban social media. The reasoning should be a cost
               | benefit analysis though, not "my laws shall make you
               | free".
        
               | throwaway290 wrote:
               | Yes, balance is important. I guess if the law is passed
               | then enough people agree...
        
               | MBCook wrote:
               | They're also taking away the support some marginalized
               | people may get from social networks (eg LGBT, uncommon
               | religions for the area) that their local community
               | doesn't provide/discriminates against/their parents hate.
               | 
               | Social networks, for all their faults, are not pure evil.
               | They _can_ be beneficial for _some_ people.
        
               | throwaway290 wrote:
               | Do you think one would have to be on a network with at
               | least 5 million users to get this sort of support as
               | opposed to a smaller one, perhaps specifically oriented
               | towards this sort of stuff? The latter is as legal as
               | before I think.
        
               | MBCook wrote:
               | If you join the GaySupportForum, it's really obvious why.
               | That could be problematic or even dangerous for someone.
               | 
               | If you join Facebook, it doesn't signal anything because
               | everyone is on Facebook. Or Instagram. Or TikTok. Or any
               | of the other called out platforms.
        
               | throwaway290 wrote:
               | I said "perhaps". Just join a social network with less
               | than 5m users without "gay" in its name then. This
               | attitude of trying to help a monopoly and pretend it's
               | good just baffles me.
        
               | vxNsr wrote:
               | And your argument is that you're ok with the general harm
               | these cause to most people for the marginal possible
               | benefit for a very small minority.
               | 
               | Notwithstanding the fact that many so-called marginalized
               | minorities are also terribly bullied online.
        
               | MBCook wrote:
               | I'm not trying to advocate either way, just pointing out
               | it's not as clear cut as some people in these comments
               | act like it is.
        
               | throwaway290 wrote:
               | Are you referring to China or USSR by chance? Hardly
               | utopias.
               | 
               | It's not about every aspect of life but a few key norms.
               | I see this predatory social media like gambling if not
               | worse, and gambling is regulated in most places
        
           | syklep wrote:
           | Software Developer is the most common job in Utah, it's kind
           | of surprising this happened despite that.
        
             | Jensson wrote:
             | Software developers are more anti tech than most.
        
             | monksy wrote:
             | It's not surprising at all for Utah. That is a highly
             | Mormon run state that has strong stances on how you should
             | live your life. Even if you are a "goi" (I use the word
             | loosely to illustrate the cultural metaphor in a us v them
             | mentality) to them.
             | 
             | What is amazing is that they have this strong stance on how
             | to restrictively govern the people inside their borders,
             | but yet expect to have a western lifestyle support them.
             | More organizations should stand up and say "I'll pass" in a
             | blanket ban on them.
        
               | Slava_Propanei wrote:
               | [dead]
        
               | smooth_remmy wrote:
               | > That is a highly Mormon run state that has strong
               | stances on how you should live your life. Even if you are
               | a "goi" (I use the word loosely to illustrate the
               | cultural metaphor in a us v them mentality) to them.
               | 
               | I think you're crossing a line here. You are accusing the
               | Mormons in Utah of having a us-versus-them mentality. But
               | your own comment tries to turn readers against Mormons.
               | 
               | Never forget: The Missouri Executive Order 44, also known
               | as the Mormon Extermination Order, was issued on October
               | 27, 1838, by Governor Lilburn Boggs. The order authorized
               | the expulsion of Mormons from the state and is sometimes
               | referred to as the "Mormon Kill Law". However, the order
               | was rescinded by Governor Christopher S. "Kit" Bond in
               | 1976.
               | 
               | I think we should all be more charitable to Mormons after
               | what they've been through.
        
               | kyledrake wrote:
               | That was 185 years ago, how charitable have Utah mormons
               | been this year to the LGBT community? The unspoken
               | intentions of this bill given the state's recent
               | legislative priorities are absolutely horrifying and far
               | more deserving of criticism and deep skepticism than
               | charity.
               | 
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/8:_The_Mormon_Proposition
        
               | chudmeister wrote:
               | [dead]
        
               | kortilla wrote:
               | Being through some shit isn't a reason to alienate
               | everyone else though.
        
               | taurawah wrote:
               | Yeah because the Mountain Meadows Massacre 19 years later
               | wasn't an us vs them mentality or anything
        
               | WeylandYutani wrote:
               | Mormonism was persecuted because it was a sex cult and it
               | refused to follow American law.
        
               | yeahsure22 wrote:
               | [dead]
        
           | ryankshaw wrote:
           | I live in Utah. If that's what happens, that would be
           | awesome! "Sorry kids, no fb/tiktok/insta and there's nothing
           | I can do about it. None of them work where we live"
           | 
           | Would be a huge win for all parents. No social media, and we
           | don't have to be the bad guys taking it away.
        
             | readams wrote:
             | Hacker News would fit the definition also
        
             | arpowers wrote:
             | Ya would be awesome
        
             | matthewfcarlson wrote:
             | I don't know how I feel about living in Utah if I couldn't
             | use GitHub, YouTube, stack overflow, most blogs, or any of
             | the dozens of websites I enjoy.
             | 
             | I lived there for a few years in college and while I'm
             | somewhat surprised the law passed, I'm not that surprised.
        
             | sbrother wrote:
             | Another Utahn here and I feel the same. I don't really see
             | how this could work and think it will probably go away
             | quietly, but I'd kind of love it if these platforms (and
             | the social pressure our kids feel to be on them) just went
             | away.
        
               | Buttons840 wrote:
               | Is love to see Instagram, etc, replaced with a static
               | site in Utah asking people to vote for better leaders.
        
             | GuB-42 wrote:
             | Also, no Reddit, no Discord, no forums and no Hacker News.
             | 
             | Paradoxically, TikTok and Instagram could pass in a limited
             | form. What is targeted is communication between people,
             | mindless consumption is fine by that law.
        
             | judge2020 wrote:
             | From other comments, it seems the definition is not "what
             | you assume is a social media app" but "any service with
             | over 5 million users that facilitates chat via posts". I am
             | 99% certain this includes Hacker News, Steam, probably also
             | bugs.chromium.org and bugzilla.mozilla.org, and maybe even
             | any website that allows user comments if they happen to
             | have over 5 million users.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | PragmaticPulp wrote:
               | > From other comments, it seems the definition is not
               | "what you assume is a social media app" but "any service
               | with over 5 million users that facilitates chat via
               | posts".
               | 
               | It's baffling to read all the HN comments encouraging
               | draconian restrictions and forced PII collection on
               | websites, all with the assumption that it will only apply
               | to _websites I don 't like_.
               | 
               | Laws like this, if enforced, would make a lot of the
               | sites you use on a daily basis require strict ID
               | verification. Are you really ready to be doing the ID
               | verification dance with GitHub, Reddit, Hacker News and
               | every other big site on the internet just to post?
               | 
               | Of course not. You're going to sign up for a VPN and use
               | it, just like all of the 17 year old kids who just want
               | to use the internet like normal people.
        
               | throwawaysleep wrote:
               | I support it because I want to see the Silicon Slopes
               | destroyed and young people abandoning Utah.
        
               | vxNsr wrote:
               | I welcome it. Breaking the way the internet is used these
               | days would be a huge win for society as a whole no matter
               | how painful it might look at first.
        
               | hooverd wrote:
               | You want full corporate control and mandatory remote
               | attestation on your devices to comply with these laws?
        
               | FredPret wrote:
               | Some people love being controlled
        
               | vxNsr wrote:
               | I don't think that's where this goes. I think this leads
               | to less internet use in general. Just like when Apple
               | broke Facebook's mobile tracking the ad dollars dried up
               | and forced Facebook to scramble to find a new tracking
               | mechanism which most agree is subpar and thus that
               | revenue hasn't returned. I'm hopeful that people spend
               | less time in anonymized spaces that aren't conducive to
               | healthy discussion and relationships and instead seek out
               | each other in real life.
        
               | lucaspfeifer wrote:
               | There are benefits to reducing anonymity: accountability,
               | trust, relationships, etc. It's why humans evolved to
               | recognize faces so well. We decide who to trust based on
               | experience. It doesn't matter who controls the
               | identification process, so long as its done fairly. And
               | if corporations or government misuse identification for
               | self-serving purposes, we should certainly push back.
        
               | pavel_lishin wrote:
               | > _And if corporations or government misuse
               | identification for self-serving purposes, we should
               | certainly push back._
               | 
               | The time to push back is _now_ , before we give them this
               | power.
        
               | data_maan wrote:
               | There are also downsides to reducing anonymity - many
               | more than benefits.
        
               | swexbe wrote:
               | Like what?
        
               | pavel_lishin wrote:
               | Two off the top of my head:
               | 
               | - Chilling effect on political discussions. Good luck
               | campaigning to overturn these laws if you can't do so
               | without fear of reprisal from government officials or
               | your local community.
               | 
               | - Limiting the ability for marginalized groups to seek
               | support; LGBTQ youth, ex-mormons, etc., would be directly
               | harmed by this.
        
               | vxNsr wrote:
               | Why would your local community attack you for campaigning
               | for anonymity?
        
               | pavel_lishin wrote:
               | It doesn't necessarily have to be these laws, it could be
               | anything, but to answer your question - they might paint
               | me as somehow being "against the children", having bought
               | in to the angle that these laws make children safer.
        
               | vxNsr wrote:
               | Just curious is the any different from what happens right
               | now, when someone campaigns against something you
               | disagree with? If someone online, pseudo-anonymously
               | posts something that is perceived to be against trans
               | rights or pro-life, there is already a mob of people
               | working to de-anonymize and punish them for their wrong-
               | think. How is it any different or better to have the
               | current system?
        
               | pavel_lishin wrote:
               | > _Just curious is the any different from what happens
               | right now_
               | 
               | Because right now you _can_ be anonymous /pseudonymous?
               | Of course people will try to unmask you, but I'm
               | contrasting it in a world where you can't even attempt
               | it.
        
               | vxNsr wrote:
               | But what's the benefit if any time you actually espouse
               | an unpopular opinion you will be unmasked.
        
               | throwaway-blaze wrote:
               | The sponsors of this bill are likely less worried about
               | the 17yr olds who can hack around the restrictions.
               | They're more worried about 12 and 13yr olds who are
               | attempting suicide and experiencing mental health crises
               | at a rate that far exceeds any previous time.
        
               | hra5th wrote:
               | I would be surprised if bugzilla.mozzila.org has over 5
               | million users
        
             | prh8 wrote:
             | So kids are just going to replace all of that with more
             | porn? Utah is already the biggest consumer of it
        
             | seandoe wrote:
             | Utahn with two young kids, yes please!!
        
             | pavel_lishin wrote:
             | But that's not what would happen:
             | 
             | > _Utah has become the first US state to require social
             | media firms get parental consent for children to use their
             | apps and verify users are at least 18._
             | 
             | > _The bills also impose a social media curfew that blocks
             | children 's access between 22:30 and 06:30, unless adjusted
             | by their parents._
             | 
             | So there would very much be something you could do about
             | it, and your kids would find out.
             | 
             | You're still the quote-unquote bad guys. You still have to,
             | gasp, parent.
        
             | vasco wrote:
             | > we don't have to be the bad guys taking it away
             | 
             | You not wanting to explain something to your kids and
             | enforce limits based on said explanations isn't a reason to
             | make a law.
        
             | sircastor wrote:
             | It's a narrow win. If people can't post to their sites,
             | they're going to start thinking about going to Colorado
             | rather than Utah for their skiing. The so-called "Silicon
             | slopes" are going to thin out as large companies question
             | what the legislature is going to arbitrarily decide to
             | screw with next. Tourism dollars and high tech jobs are a
             | hefty price.
             | 
             | As an aside, I lived in Utah for many years and I generally
             | thought people preferred to not have the government
             | dictating what was allowed and not allowed.
        
               | throwaway-blaze wrote:
               | Willing to bet most of the Utahns you lived around are
               | more worried about the impact of these services on their
               | kids than on government overreach. They can't figure out
               | a non-governmental way to fix the issue.
        
             | fludlight wrote:
             | You realize these companies will quiet-fire all employees
             | residing in Utah and never hire there again? That this will
             | place massive negative pressure on all software salaries in
             | Utah? Possibly on all software salaries outside of deep
             | blue states?
        
             | veec_cas_tant wrote:
             | Hopefully this is hyperbole. Seems a bit extreme to hope
             | the government legislates away industries because you don't
             | want to handle the parenting yourself.
        
               | arpowers wrote:
               | Social media, crypto, gambling and the cigarette
               | industries should be legislated away. Yes.
        
               | PragmaticPulp wrote:
               | > Social media, crypto, gambling and the cigarette
               | industries should be legislated away. Yes.
               | 
               | Ironically posted on a social media site (Hacker News has
               | the characteristics of "Social Media Site" under this
               | definition).
               | 
               | Reddit would also be gone.
               | 
               | It's funny to read all the comments from people who think
               | "social media" just means "sites I don't like"
        
               | chudmeister wrote:
               | [dead]
        
               | HideousKojima wrote:
               | >Reddit would also be gone.
               | 
               | Don't threaten me with a good time.
        
               | mvnuweucxqokii wrote:
               | I'm always very unimpressed by this kind of
               | argumentation. There's a clear difference in kind between
               | Hackernews, Reddit, Instagram, and TikTok. Sure, they all
               | feature user-submitted content, but to pretend that there
               | is any meaningful similarity beyond that seems silly.
        
               | adgjlsfhk1 wrote:
               | In the eyes of the law, they are essentially the same.
        
               | komali2 wrote:
               | > There's a clear difference in kind
               | 
               | Is there? Is there to your 80 year old senator and their
               | constituents that think the internet is a series of
               | tubes. You know, the constituents that actually vote?
               | 
               | Does it matter how well you explain it anyway? Modern
               | political language lacks definition by design. Do street
               | interviews and ask Americans what socialism is. Then ask
               | them what they'd call the government giving banks money.
               | Then ask them how many times in the last 20 years the
               | government has given banks money.
               | 
               | My argument is that we should just not let the
               | governments pass these kinds of laws because it opens the
               | door to using these laws to arbitrarily block whatever
               | website they can vaguely hand wave as "social media" or
               | whatever they pick.
        
               | MisterBastahrd wrote:
               | I'm always very unimpressed by people who believe that
               | politicians have the intellectual capacity to
               | differentiate between HN and Reddit.
               | 
               | They don't, especially when they're throwing their weight
               | around after screaming about internet boogeymen for
               | years.
               | 
               | Go watch the Tiktok hearings. They were losing their
               | minds because filters could track your eyes and your cell
               | phone could use the internal wifi network in order to
               | access the internet.
        
               | acover wrote:
               | You have to show id to buy cigarettes. How hard is it to
               | id people before account creation?
        
               | veec_cas_tant wrote:
               | The quote was "Call their bluff - don't make your service
               | available in Utah.", it didn't mention ID.
        
               | Aachen wrote:
               | You can ban social media as a parent today and damage
               | your child's social life.
               | 
               | If it's banned for every child equally, they will have to
               | meet up irl or call each other like in the 80s or
               | whatever. Whatever the alternative, it shifts the dynamic
               | and doesn't isolate your child.
               | 
               | Regulations for kids is not simply about bad parenting
               | but can be about prisoner's dilemma-like situations where
               | everyone needs to work together for a good outcome and,
               | unless a decent percentage gets on board at more or less
               | the same time, it's counterproductive for individuals.
        
               | tstrimple wrote:
               | We should also enforce strict school dress codes so
               | students don't have to see other students wearing new
               | shoes and feel pressured to update their wardrobe right?
               | Kids shouldn't be able to talk about family vacations
               | because it might make other students jealous and hurt
               | their mental health. We need to ban these books because
               | it might make kids feel bad about themselves. Where do
               | these ridiculous steps end?
        
               | hayst4ck wrote:
               | I would love it if you would state what you think the
               | viewpoint opposite yours is and then try to defend it,
               | then explain why that defense is wrong.
               | 
               | > legislates away industries because you don't want to
               | handle the parenting yourself.
               | 
               | What are your thoughts on pharmaceutical/heroin
               | legislation? What are your thoughts on making it illegal
               | to advertise unhealthy food to kids? How do you feel
               | about the idea of product placement in children's TV
               | shows? How do you feel about letting pharmaceutical
               | companies directly market to children?
               | 
               | You look at parenting as black and white. Good parents
               | would prevent their kids from doing bad things. Bad
               | parents can't prevent their kids from doing bad things.
               | "If a kid does something bad then it is because they have
               | bad parents."
               | 
               | The reality is that parents are just one element of the
               | childs environment and that their choice to do bad things
               | can be fit to a bell curve based on the complete set of
               | environmental factors for which parenting is one element.
               | 
               | Holding parenting ability constant, the government could
               | make changes that would improve outcomes for some set of
               | children.
        
               | komali2 wrote:
               | > What are your thoughts on pharmaceutical/heroin
               | legislation?
               | 
               | The USA government already makes the incorrect decision
               | regarding these substances by criminalizing them, banning
               | them, and throwing users in prison. Evidence shows that
               | legalizing these substances and providing addiction care
               | and universal healthcare, as well as tackling
               | homelessness with empathetic solutions (literally just
               | give them housing, it's that simple), is the so far most
               | effective method to reduce usage of these substances.
               | 
               | Thus the highly retributive, reactionary USA government,
               | or its local manifestations, can't be trusted to make
               | these kinds of laws well.
               | 
               | Great, it banned tik tok for the kids. It passed a
               | morality law. You know, fox news isn't really news, and
               | some have suggested to that it provides a direct path to
               | radicalization that leads to political violence. We
               | should probably ban that, too. Don't worry, if you want
               | to watch it, you can unlock it by applying at the local
               | Office of Moral Wellbeing, just provide a photocopy of
               | your photo ID and proof of address for them to file. That
               | way if Fox changes channel registration, they have a list
               | of all the people that watch it, so they can send someone
               | to let you know the channel number changed.
        
               | hayst4ck wrote:
               | I agree with the first half.
               | 
               | TikTok is a national security issue and a reciprocity
               | issue and for that reason it was a bad choice of example.
               | 
               | You can look at other social media as a morality problem.
               | I could see why someone would think of it that way, but
               | we are literally quite governed by our neurotransmitters,
               | and these companies literally have "engagement" (read:
               | addiction) engineers. There are literally addiction
               | engineers working on creating the state of addiction.
               | Engineers working on figuring out how to get people to
               | spend the maximum amount of time possible on the apps.
               | 
               | At some point it becomes a health issue. Stimulus is
               | stimulus. Dopamine dysfunction is real.
               | 
               | What's the difference between scrolling an infinite feed
               | for 10 hours and feeling good on an opium den couch for
               | 10 hours? I am not saying that's a perfect comparison,
               | but I don't think it's as simple as morality. These
               | social media apps cause real biological response and
               | there are engineers literally working on manipulating
               | those responses.
        
               | komali2 wrote:
               | I agree with you that social media is a social toxin.
               | Kind of like alcohol or heroin.
               | 
               | The solution for all three I think is the same. Don't
               | allow the government to pass laws criminalizing these
               | things, because that has bad outcomes. It's a lot easier
               | to say "the government isn't allowed to restrict bodily
               | autonomy" than it is to for example try to write into law
               | the 800 different specific exact scenarios where society
               | thinks abortion is ok. In this case, "the government
               | isn't allowed to pass laws restricting access to
               | information" or something along those lines.
               | 
               | Certainly we should allow our government to offer
               | alternatives, information on the negative effects of a
               | toxin, treatments, and use our governments to ensure good
               | social safety nets that prevent people falling into toxin
               | abuse as their only escape.
               | 
               | I'm talking about the problems of using the State to
               | enforce whatever given values or ideals. The State is at
               | best completely imperfect, at worst, it's fascist and
               | trying to kill you and people like you. Don't let it get
               | to that point, don't let it ban what it today defines as
               | "social media."
               | 
               | There are better ways to protect society from these
               | harmful things. Mostly I think solutions around good
               | public education.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | hayst4ck wrote:
               | I don't think criminalizing is the right approach. I
               | think taxing them for usage that exceeds a reasonable
               | amount of time might be a reasonable policy. I think it
               | would be ok to 100% tax any advertising profit gained
               | after 1 hour of use. I suppose that creates a conflict of
               | interest because then the government directly benefits
               | from over-use which is its own hazard. I think the most
               | American approach would be to codify that Facebook (or
               | other social media) is directly liable for medical
               | treatment related to social media use creating a feedback
               | mechanism that disincentivizes bad behavior.
               | 
               | I don't know what to do, but I do think social media is
               | becoming a cancer, and I do think we need treatment. I
               | don't now what the treatment is.
               | 
               | I think you're saying the treatment can be worse than the
               | disease, and I agree.
               | 
               | > I'm talking about the problems of using the State to
               | enforce whatever given values or ideals.
               | 
               | I think we probably agree on a lot politically, but this
               | is where I think I take a hard turn.
               | 
               | Somewhere bad faith behavior must be discouraged.
               | Education is one place that happens, the legal system is
               | another place. Education is only a first line defense
               | against bad faith.
               | 
               | In the game theory of daily life, defectors and defection
               | cannot be a winning strategy otherwise society will turn
               | from a high trust society into a low trust society.
               | Consensus will be abandoned in favor of dominance. To be
               | honest, I think we are already to that point.
               | 
               | Human rights are an example of an ideal that the state
               | must enforce. Contractual obligations are an ideal a
               | state must enforce. Rule of law is an ideal that a state
               | must enforce. Property rights are an ideal states must
               | enforce.
               | 
               | Where it becomes less clear is the Fox News case you
               | stated because Fox News is actively trying to destroy the
               | idea of rule of law.
               | 
               | I don't know how to deal with that.
               | 
               | Do you think that's a problem? Should nothing be done?
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | > I would love it if you would state what you think the
               | viewpoint opposite yours is and then try to defend it,
               | then explain why that defense is wrong.
               | 
               | Ok, this would be opposite: I want absolute access to my
               | 17 years old kids account. I want read all their messages
               | with their friends and I do not want them to have any
               | privacy, because I want to fully control them.
               | 
               | Second part of the opposite: I dont want to talk with my
               | kids about social dynamic in their peer group. I do not
               | want to talk with them about beauty standards, realistic
               | or not. I do not want to help them navigate peer
               | relationships and I do not care about my kids thoughts.
               | My idea of solving these issues is to cut their access to
               | communication methods.
               | 
               | I am not about to defend either.
               | 
               | > What are your thoughts on pharmaceutical/heroin
               | legislation?
               | 
               | I am actually fine with whole bunch of regulations and
               | law. Really, this dichotomy where if you dont like one
               | law you need to hate all of them is ridiculous. It
        
               | veec_cas_tant wrote:
               | > I would love it if you would state what you think the
               | viewpoint opposite yours is and then try to defend it,
               | then explain why that defense is wrong.
               | 
               | Sorry, I don't know what this means.
               | 
               | > What are your thoughts on pharmaceutical/heroin
               | legislation? What are your thoughts on making it illegal
               | to advertise unhealthy food to kids? How do you feel
               | about the idea of product placement in children's TV
               | shows? How do you feel about letting pharmaceutical
               | companies directly market to children?
               | 
               | The comment this chain is replying to was about tech
               | companies not offering their services at all in Utah. I'd
               | think, for the most part, I'd be against most regulations
               | that basically say "to protect the children, we will ban
               | X for everyone". I'm sure there are exceptions though.
               | 
               | > ...rest of the comment
               | 
               | I agree, the government can act to improve the outcomes
               | for children and I didn't state anything to the contrary.
               | Rather, I believe that gleefully accepting or cheering on
               | a ban of all technology, for both adults and children,
               | that the government might believe causes harm to children
               | is quite unfortunate.
        
               | hayst4ck wrote:
               | > Sorry, I don't know what this means.
               | 
               | You called something hyperbole. You said you had a hard
               | time imagining someone in good faith wishing that the
               | government would legislate away an industry so that they
               | don't have to "parent."
               | 
               | So I asked:                 What do you think the person
               | you are responding too's position is?       What do you
               | think is the best defense for that position?       What
               | do you think that position is wrong despite what you see
               | as its best defense?
               | 
               | I think the tobacco industry is an obvious industry to
               | make reference to. I think now days most people who don't
               | smoke would be happy to see it regulated away and I think
               | it would be an extremely fringe position to think the
               | tobacco industry should be able to advertise to kids
               | today.
               | 
               | > I'd be against most regulations that basically say "to
               | protect the children, we will ban X for everyone". I'm
               | sure there are exceptions though.
               | 
               | Just because we don't know the full extent of how bad
               | Facebook is now, doesn't mean it isn't bad.
               | 
               | How bad do you think we thought smoking, opiates, or
               | other problems were before we decided they were bad?
               | 
               | We saw the correlation with harm of tobacco, investigated
               | more deeply, then regulated their wide spread use
               | particularly use by children.
               | 
               |  _Facebook is modern day tobacco._
               | 
               | I am much less black and white about this than you might
               | expect, because I am generally pro letting people do what
               | they want with their bodies. After the age of 25 (when a
               | person's prefrontal cortex is fully developed) there are
               | few good arguments for preventing a net tax payer from
               | doing what they want to their bodies or time. If someone
               | can be told they are old enough to die (or kill) for
               | their country, that's another factor that makes limiting
               | their freedom to make bad decisions a hard argument.
               | 
               | > that the government might believe causes harm to
               | children is quite unfortunate.
               | 
               | When you say "the government" that is entirely jaded.
               | There is more nuance than us (the oppressed) and them
               | (the government). Replace the government with "my fellow
               | neighbors," and I think it harms the anti-government
               | righteousness a bit.
               | 
               | The context of the original conversation was clearly not
               | about banning Facebook, but about not being sad if they
               | went away. Telling facebook it can't do business in utah
               | if it serves children and Facebook deciding to not do any
               | business in Utah as a result is not banning Facebook.
        
               | yieldcrv wrote:
               | I hope that corporations more frequently put less
               | relevant jurisdictions in their place and remind
               | representatives that they are in competition with other
               | jurisdictions and this overrides their public service
               | ideas.
               | 
               | So I'm more of a fan of seeing that. Not the actual
               | outcome.
               | 
               | Would make more people choose more collaborative
               | solutions faster.
        
               | mvnuweucxqokii wrote:
               | Honestly if social media companies pulled out of Utah, I
               | could see tens of thousands of families choosing to move
               | to Utah for that reason alone.
        
             | archgoon wrote:
             | [dead]
        
         | bparsons wrote:
         | You could say the same thing about cigarette and alcohol sales.
        
           | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
           | Those have been solved by requiring ID. Personally, I find
           | online storage of my ID to be a lot less acceptable than a
           | bored teenager giving it a 2 second glance while I'm picking
           | up beer.
        
           | kxrm wrote:
           | Why not require an ID to own a smart phone? Seems far more
           | realistic to set up regulation around smart phone ownership
           | than to require businesses outside of your state to check
           | IDs.
        
           | nonethewiser wrote:
           | Which are illegal to minors.
        
           | MBCook wrote:
           | ID checks are far easier in person than over the internet.
        
             | nonethewiser wrote:
             | Credit card.
        
         | somethingreen wrote:
         | Just use BankID/GovID/whatever verified OAuth service and
         | request a single age/date of birth data point once. No need to
         | authenticate or store anything.
        
         | wrineha2 wrote:
         | > What do they do exactly, start collecting government IDs from
         | us before every visit?
         | 
         | That's the idea actually.
        
           | throwaway5959 wrote:
           | Submit thumb for verification.
        
         | ShamelessC wrote:
         | That is precisely the solution. Tech platforms are far more
         | culpable than parents in this matter. If that means your
         | startup idea no longer scales - good riddance.
        
           | judge2020 wrote:
           | > If that means your startup idea no longer scales - good
           | riddance.
           | 
           | And if that means no startup can possibly compete against the
           | existing players in the industry that have the bandwidth and
           | resources to implement the regulation?
        
             | ShamelessC wrote:
             | > And if that means no startup can possibly compete against
             | the existing players in the industry that have the
             | bandwidth and resources to implement the regulation?
             | 
             | I think starting a tech startup under a VC model is a high-
             | risk, high-reward setup and that your idea should be strong
             | enough to withstand regulations such as this, yeah. There
             | has been a lot of false innovation lately and it has soured
             | my view on the model.
             | 
             | I think it also hurts the incumbents, even though they get
             | a moat of sorts. But only a moat around "tracking teenagers
             | for advertising data".
        
             | raincole wrote:
             | After reading this thread I realized that's exactly what
             | people (in this thread) want.
             | 
             | They want "the old internet" back, whatever it means. Of
             | course it means no more startup. Startups change things and
             | we don't want that! We want the exact internet from 1998.
        
               | BigJono wrote:
               | I don't know why they want the "old internet" in a thread
               | talking about protecting children lol.
               | 
               | When I was 13 I was playing CS 1.6 on dedicated servers
               | with a small number of strangers that were like 30, I was
               | also on I don't even know how many random forums with
               | small numbers of users.
               | 
               | It's like a 13 year old hanging out at some random
               | adult's house vs walking around a mall.
               | 
               | I can't see how a bill limiting access to websites with
               | more than 5M users is going to reduce paedophilia.
        
         | ars wrote:
         | > it puts the burden of enforcement on tech platforms rather
         | than the kids' parents
         | 
         | What else do you expect? When tech companies make phones secure
         | enough for the NSA, every app has passwords, and most apps have
         | disappearing messages, how exactly do you expect parents to
         | monitor what their kids are doing?
         | 
         | All the "parental monitoring" apps do is check how much _time_
         | kids are using the phone. They give _zero_ info on what the
         | kids are actually doing.
         | 
         | So tell me, you want to put the onus on the parents? OK, then
         | require any app used by kids to make all messages available to
         | parents, and forbid disappearing messages.
         | 
         | You don't want to do that? Well, then don't say: "parents you
         | watch them".
         | 
         | You can't simultaneously make something someone else's
         | responsibility, and also make it impossible for them to do it.
        
           | MarkSweep wrote:
           | I'm not really sure if I disagree with you, but in the past
           | we're parents really able to see everything their children
           | were doing? Like telephones did not record conversations,
           | they were effectively "disappearing messages".
           | 
           | I guess the argument would be technology enables children to
           | do secret stuff without any of the obvious signs, like
           | sneaking out in the middle of the night?
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | Of course they were not able to see everything kids do.
             | They were not able to track kids movements via app either.
             | Parents have huge amount of control that was impossible in
             | the past now.
             | 
             | They also lost some control, if you lived in ideologically
             | segregated community, kids had no way to learn about ideas
             | from outside. That was destroyed by internet. Your Utah
             | Mormon kid can read pre LBGT materials now.
        
             | ars wrote:
             | Telephones did not record, but they did have a log of
             | incoming and outgoing numbers. So it was possible to check
             | if a child was suddenly talking to someone new.
             | 
             | > I guess the argument would be technology enables children
             | to do secret stuff without any of the obvious signs, like
             | sneaking out in the middle of the night?
             | 
             | Yes, it was rather obvious when a teen was behaving
             | secretive, or there were middle of the night calls.
             | 
             | Privacy is important, but if your teen was suddenly
             | displaying secretive behavior you could tell.
        
           | BeFlatXIII wrote:
           | That's all fine for 12-year-olds but becomes absurd
           | authoritarianism for high schoolers.
        
           | boolemancer wrote:
           | You don't have to give your kids a phone...
        
             | ars wrote:
             | Yes you do. You can't live in the modern world without a
             | phone.
             | 
             | Try it if you don't believe me. You can't even ride the bus
             | without a phone because bus stops no longer display
             | schedules and routes.
             | 
             | Want to go trampoline jumping? It's impossible without a
             | phone because they want you to sign a waver in advance
             | using your phone.
             | 
             | Pay Phones are no longer a thing. The "phone behind the
             | counter" in restaurants and shops is no longer a thing.
             | 
             | Even grade school children are staring to have trouble
             | navigating the world without a phone.
        
               | wincy wrote:
               | We got our six year old daughter an Apple Watch with cell
               | service. I think that's allowed her a lot of freedom
               | since she can walk to her friends house without crazy
               | people calling CPS on us (totally happened before). She
               | just met another girl with the same watch and now they
               | are best friends.
        
               | throwaway22032 wrote:
               | Okay? The bus stops near me growing up didn't have signs
               | on them either. We just knew the timetable, or went and
               | waited for it.
        
             | kxrm wrote:
             | This, I think it would far more realistic to ban the type
             | of devices a child can purchase or own then push this
             | burden to "social media companies" on the internet.
        
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         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | Absurd objection. Tech platforms are obviously the only ones
         | capable of moderating their users at an application level.
         | 
         | Should we remove content filters on YouTube and ask parents to
         | filter content instead?
        
         | japhib wrote:
         | For exactly this reason, there is no way this law will stand in
         | court
        
           | sacnoradhq wrote:
           | Utah's political system, and by virtue, judiciary, is run by
           | LDS. Don't consider anything rational will necessarily
           | prevail when powered by magical thinking.
        
       | siquick wrote:
       | > The bills also impose a social media curfew that blocks
       | children's access between 22:30 and 06:30, unless adjusted by
       | their parents.
       | 
       | The main bill is a possibly a bit overreaching but I'm fully in
       | favour of this part. There's a huge problem where I live with
       | kids just not going to school and many of those same kids are
       | staying up until 1am each night doom scrolling or watching
       | YouTube.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | ashton314 wrote:
           | > Now I'm more successful (and better educated) than almost
           | everyone I grew up with
           | 
           | You realize you might be something of an outlier, right? Most
           | teenagers are dramatically sleep-deprived, more so than teens
           | of your generation. Your experience won't generalize.
           | 
           | > This law is just religious fundamentalist tradlife
           | censorship dressed up in the moral panic of the moment.
           | 
           | Really?
        
           | jackson1442 wrote:
           | Considering we have compulsory schooling in the US through
           | age 18 (generally), I don't think this is making the point
           | you think it is.
        
           | kortilla wrote:
           | How would you know you're better educated? Seems like
           | precisely the type of thing you can't judge about yourself
           | very well and the Dunning-Kruger effect doesn't bode well for
           | you either.
        
       | doublejosh wrote:
       | Seems appropriate to bring up the gross the age of consent issues
       | in the US...
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_the_United_...
        
       | mrlonglong wrote:
       | Isn't this against the first amendment?
        
         | ttyprintk wrote:
         | The Governor promised, "there will be lawsuits".
        
       | staunton wrote:
       | The way to solve social media is to ban advertising. There, I
       | said it.
        
       | Slava_Propanei wrote:
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