[HN Gopher] Shoshikantetsu
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       Shoshikantetsu
        
       Author : ashleynewman
       Score  : 385 points
       Date   : 2023-03-16 03:03 UTC (19 hours ago)
        
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       | tempestn wrote:
       | I really like this. At some point fairly early in my life,
       | teenage years I think, I decided that it is a fact that anything
       | I commit to myself that I'll do, I will indeed do. I don't recall
       | exactly when or how it happened, but I do know it's something
       | consciously decided was the case.
       | 
       | As far as I could tell at the time, it had been true for any
       | "serious" commitments thus far, and it's kind of a comforting
       | feeling that if something is in your control, and you decide to
       | do it, it will happen. Having made that affirmation, it because
       | somewhat self-reinforcing, because even when something got hard,
       | I didn't want to break the streak, and thereby... I guess, no
       | longer be able to rely on myself in the same way. I think it's
       | meant both that I'm somewhat careful about what I truly commit to
       | myself to do, but also that I always have extra motivation when I
       | do. (And of course, some degree of after-the-fact rationalization
       | helps too; I'm sure I've consciously let myself off the hook on
       | occasion when the situation changes.)
       | 
       | Anyway, that's a lot of rambling to basically say I think I've
       | been practicing shoshikantetsu most of my life without knowing
       | the term.
        
         | chrbr wrote:
         | Related term I came across the other day: internal locus of
         | control https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Locus_of_control
        
       | jaqalopes wrote:
       | Having a high say-do ratio has always been important to me
       | 
       | I've never encountered this idea, but as soon I read it I
       | suddenly see it everywhere. My roommate who tells me he'll clean
       | the kitchen then doesn't; my cousin who says he'll come to dinner
       | then cancels. My best friend who says she'll start going to the
       | gym and never does. My world is awash in people who say the most
       | wonderful things and then don't do any of them; it feels like a
       | distinctly modern phenomenon. I find it hard not to resent people
       | for this, but I try, because not everything is equally important,
       | and not everyone can be as determined as we might like. As this
       | article illustrates, we are ultimately only in control of our own
       | actions.
        
         | stavros wrote:
         | Why would you want a _high_ say /do ratio? Did he mean "low"? I
         | don't understand why you'd want to say a lot of things and do
         | only a few.
        
           | pmontra wrote:
           | Neither high nor low. I think that the author wants to have
           | that ratio close to 1 and got mistaken because of the bias
           | that high is better than low.
           | 
           | Or an high ratio of done / !done.
        
         | spoiler wrote:
         | > My best friend who says she'll start going to the gym and
         | never does.
         | 
         | My friend always calls me out on this, and now I'm being
         | haunted by you too, a person form the internet!
         | 
         | But on a more serious note, I think often times people believe
         | when they say they want to do something, but end up not doing
         | it for various reasons. Sometimes it's lack of self-love, other
         | times it's low energy levels or lapses in time management.
         | Sometimes people do try, but get discouraged and shy away.
         | 
         | I think the person on the other side ia often just as
         | frustrated by themselves--if not even more, but they can't tell
         | what and where it went wrong, which is equally frustrating in
         | itself.
         | 
         | I am the best person at frustrating myself and fucking my days
         | up. _Sigh_ I never learn.
        
         | wirthjason wrote:
         | People say things all the time that they never intend to do.
         | 
         | To go with the theme I'll add another common Japanese concept:
         | tatemae / honne. In short, what you say vs what you really
         | do/feel. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honne_and_tatemae
         | 
         | I heard it best explained by an old Japanese teacher. Say you
         | bump into an old high school friend on the street. You have a
         | quick chat and at the end he says "we should get together some
         | time". He doesn't really mean he wants to get together. That's
         | tatemae.
         | 
         | If he says "we should get together some time, how's next
         | Tuesday at 7?" That's honne.
        
         | _glass wrote:
         | I hated this when I was younger. But I've learned to do it,
         | too. To please people. I don't really want, but I also don't
         | want to have the discussion, of why I don't want. Now I try to
         | not do this anymore and speak the truth, but I understand the
         | meaning of why someone does this.
        
         | DFHippie wrote:
         | There are many things I want to have done but which I don't
         | want to do. I think the key to improving your say-do ratio is
         | to figure out how to do the thing such that it's something you
         | want to do, not something you want to have done. For me, many
         | tasks can be converted into something enjoyable by adding
         | earbuds and a podcast.
        
         | nordsieck wrote:
         | > it feels like a distinctly modern phenomenon
         | 
         | Probably not a modern phenomenon. Except in so far as it's a
         | lot easier to "hear" people say things much more easily now.
        
           | jollyllama wrote:
           | "Confucius said: 'The ancients were hesitant to speak,
           | fearing that their actions would not do justice to their
           | words.'"
        
         | lubesGordi wrote:
         | I bet you live in California.
        
           | jaqalopes wrote:
           | Close. Similar milieu, different American coast.
        
         | xhrpost wrote:
         | I think this is mostly the culture of "should". In our highly
         | individualized society that glorifies self ambition, the list
         | of things we "should" do are endless. However, when we say "I
         | should go to the gym", we're not saying "I value my personal
         | health and wellbeing and am convinced the gym is a path to
         | that", but rather, "Society/friends/family/work might value me
         | a little more if I do this" or "society may value me less if I
         | don't do this". Not too much different from when we buy
         | vegetables at the grocery store because we believe we "should"
         | eat them, only to see them rot away in our refrigerator until
         | we have to throw them out. The saying part is the easy first
         | step, but our values are not in-line to follow through. In the
         | end, "should" is just a mild-ish form of shame and shame is
         | often a terrible motivator for long-term change.
        
           | shantnutiwari wrote:
           | yeah a lot of the self help industry is built on shaming and
           | shoulds. We "should" excercise for 60 minutes a day, meditate
           | for 30-60 minutes, go for a walk after meals, work on career,
           | our brand, our hobbies, our business, read a book for 30
           | minutes.
           | 
           | Like Oliver Burkemann said, most of these producutivity
           | articles are written by and for 20 year old kids with no
           | family, no responsibility; and the rest of us are shamed if
           | we dont meet these impossible standards.
        
         | rowanG077 wrote:
         | Don't resent people for this. I used to as well. But these
         | people only try to become better versions of themselves. And
         | for various reasons fail. It's still noble of them to keep
         | trying.
        
         | mchaver wrote:
         | I think this is a common cultural practice in many places in
         | the US. It is nice to say nice things that are not necessarily
         | true or make friendly invitations that are not firm
         | invitations. In other cultures it is better to say true things
         | and/or limit pleasantries that are not true.
        
         | hyperjeff wrote:
         | A high say-do ratio would be bad. A high do-say works.
        
           | nerpderp82 wrote:
           | I tried this for awhile (3-4 months) and it was extremely
           | effective. Two rules.
           | 
           | 1) I only talked about what I did
           | 
           | 2) I only talked about things that occurred in the last <pick
           | a time horizon>
           | 
           | It biases you for action.
        
       | mromanuk wrote:
       | /Many times motivation isn't there, but that shouldn't be an
       | excuse for not doing it./
        
       | dejawu wrote:
       | A similar idea that resonated with me is CGP Grey's suggestion to
       | replace resolutions with themes:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVGuFdX5guE
       | 
       | Rather than set a lofty goal you're more likely to give up on
       | (leaving you having accomplished nothing), simply look for ways
       | in which you can do/be better than you were before.
        
         | mashygpig wrote:
         | Amusing to see this in the thread as, inspired by CGP Grey, my
         | theme for the year is "be intentional" so this post
         | particularly stood out to me.
        
           | Orthanc wrote:
           | And now I'm here reading your comment, small world. Good luck
           | with your theme!
        
       | aledalgrande wrote:
       | Putting in "some" effort on those hard days, is what
       | creates/keeps a habit.
        
       | mcqueenjordan wrote:
       | Very nice, I also like the other yojijukugo displayed at the
       | bottom, especially jyuunintoiro. I enjoy (what I perceive as) the
       | subtle wordplay of having two different readings of the same
       | character (ten) in the word, hinting at the sort of "more than
       | one way to skin a cat" theme of the word.
       | 
       | Literally, the characters are "ten people ten colors", but the
       | two "tens" are read differently: "jyuu" and "to" respectively,
       | because the same character can have multiple readings.
       | 
       | Yojijukugo are really fun, I've written about them a bit here if
       | anyone wants more context: https://jm.dev/yojijukugo
        
         | glandium wrote:
         | Some that I like:
         | 
         | Yi Shi Er Niao  (issekinichou ; literally: one stone, two birds
         | ; I'll let you guess the meaning (yes, it's very close to an
         | expression in English))
         | 
         | Zi Ye Zi De  (jigoujitoku ; reap what you sow)
         | 
         | Zi Zuo Zi Yan  (jisakujien ; self-made self-staged ; for
         | example, used for the act of creating a staged situation and
         | then acting as if it were genuine)
         | 
         | Zi Wen Zi Da  (jimonjitou ; answering one's own question)
         | 
         | Zi Bao Zi Qi  (jiboujiki ; self-abandonment)
         | 
         | Zi Hua Zi Zan  (jigajisan ; singing one's own praises)
         | 
         | Zi Gei Zi Zu  (jikyuujisoku ; self-sufficiency)
         | 
         | Zi You Zi Zai  (jiyuujizai ; free/unrestricted)
         | 
         | (Yeah, I have a thing for the Zi OZi O ones)
        
           | whym wrote:
           | > Zi Zuo Zi Yan  (jisakujien ; self-made self-staged ; for
           | example, used for the act of creating a staged situation and
           | then acting as if it were genuine)
           | 
           | The original meaning was a screenwriter-actor performing the
           | script they wrote, which is a perfectly fine thing to do. It
           | can mean 'sockpuppeting', too, and that other use might be
           | more common nowadays, though.
        
           | fenomas wrote:
           | It breaks the pattern but you might also like:
           | 
           | Zi Yan ripu (jien-ripu)
           | 
           | Literally it's "reply" together with a term for an actor
           | performing a work that they also wrote. And together the
           | phrase is net slang for sock-puppeting.
        
         | rippercushions wrote:
         | In some sense yojijukugo are the original memes, in that they
         | can be riffed off for humorous purposes. For example, the
         | Japanese idiom for "the strong devour the weak" is Ruo Rou
         | Qiang Shi  _jakuniku kyuushoku_ (the meat of the weak is the
         | food of the strong), but you can instead say Shao Rou Ding Shi
         | _yakuniku teishoku_ (lit. grilled meat set meal) for laughs,
         | and rakugo comedian Jakusaburo Katsura released an album called
         | Que Rou Gong Shi  _jakuniku kyuushoku_ (same reading, but
         | meaning  "let's eat sparrow meat together" and referring to his
         | own name).
        
           | nethdeco wrote:
           | Just had Shao Rou Ding Shi  for lunch.
        
           | labster wrote:
           | Japanese is a wonderful language for puns. Not only do they
           | have homophone puns (so many homophones) and rhyming puns,
           | but also visual puns like _Katamari Damacy_ Kuai Hun .
        
             | rjh29 wrote:
             | I like words where one kanji is changed to make the meaning
             | opposite (without changing the pronounciation)
             | 
             | Ming Yan  (great acting performance) -> Mi Yan  (baffling
             | performance)
             | 
             | Guo Dao  (highway) -> Ku Dao  (road in terrible condition)
             | 
             | There are also some horrible ones like Du Nu (Du Nu ) and
             | Hai Ren (Wai Ren )
             | 
             | Also Xiu Guan Ri  (museum holiday day) -> Xiu Gan Ri
             | ("give your liver a rest day" - i.e. sober day)
        
               | glandium wrote:
               | It's not actually a pun (at least, AFAIK), but
               | interestingly, Gang Men  (anus) is an homophone of Hou
               | Men  (back gate).
        
             | glandium wrote:
             | Kind of in the theme of Kuai Hun , there's a yojijukugo
             | with 4 Gui : Chi Mei Wang Liang  (chimimouriyou,
             | chimimouryou, evil spirits of rivers and mountains)
        
           | kinbiko wrote:
           | Qiang  and Gong  are read _kyou_ , not _kyuu_
        
           | nullsense wrote:
           | I always joke with my wife that my favorite yojijukugo are
           | Wen Ti Jie Jue  and An Quan Di Yi  which are literally just
           | "problem solving" and "safety first" haha.
           | 
           | My favorite actual yojijukugo is Dian Di Chuan Shi  which
           | water dripping on a stone in the same spot slowly wears it
           | away, which just means if you keep doing what you're doing
           | you will eventually make some noticeable progress in the long
           | run.
        
             | artemavv wrote:
             | Russian language has an idiom similar to Dian Di Chuan Shi
             | - "kaplia kamen' tochit", literally "a drip grinds a
             | stone", i.e. small but persistent effort eventually
             | overpowers even the most hardy obstacles
        
               | cbertoldi wrote:
               | I'd bet that many languages have this idiom. I know it in
               | Latin, Italian and German: - gutta cavat lapidem - la
               | goccia scava la pietra - steter Tropfen hohlt den Stein
        
       | noduerme wrote:
       | > I'm currently experimenting with doing 30 minutes of enjoyable,
       | productive activities once a day for 7 days
       | 
       | Carrying out your original intent is sometimes not possible. It's
       | called whisky dick. But who knows; you might end up having a good
       | conversation instead of your planned run. Turn off whatever app
       | you use to manage yourself. Fuck up sometimes. Refusing to go on
       | a run is just as good as going on one, usually better.
        
       | zoogeny wrote:
       | > What I ended up landing on was focusing on making the "original
       | intent" small enough that I had no excuses to not complete them.
       | 
       | This is something I am aiming for myself. It is very common for
       | me to feel motivated and to make big plans to change my life.
       | Then I fail to adhere to my plans and it creates anxiety and
       | depression.
       | 
       | I recently started rising at dawn every single day. When I
       | decided to make the change I limited myself to only that change.
       | Despite wanting to change 100+ things about my life I focused
       | just on this one idea - to set an alarm for sunrise and to get
       | straight out of bed.
       | 
       | It is such an easy premise that I really have no excuse to fail
       | at it.
       | 
       | My current idea is that focusing on a single virtue is a key to a
       | productive life. No more "7 highly effective habits" or "12
       | rules" or whatever. Just one thing: get up at sunrise. Easy to
       | remember, easy to verify compliance, difficult to achieve.
        
       | rippercushions wrote:
       | Many (but not all) Japanese four-character idioms ( _yojijukugo_
       | ) are actually Chinese imports, and they're IMHO far more
       | prevalent in that language.
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chengyu
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yojijukugo
        
         | justusw wrote:
         | It makes for a fun bridging the gap cultural experience when
         | talking to Chinese people about the Chinese idioms you learn in
         | Japanese class. Even the pronunciation is so similar (I mean,
         | of course it is, duh).
         | 
         | My favorite one is Wu Yue Tong Zhou  or Wu Yue Tong Zhou  (Wu
         | Yue tong zhou) meaning people of different backgrounds finding
         | themselves having to work together.
         | 
         | https://www.zdic.net/hans/%E5%90%B4%E8%B6%8A%E5%90%8C%E8%88%...
         | 
         | https://jisho.org/word/%E5%91%89%E8%B6%8A%E5%90%8C%E8%88%9F
         | 
         | If only the two countries were as close diplomatically as they
         | are in their shared culture.
        
           | wenyuanyu wrote:
           | It's indeed a regrettable circumstance that the diplomatic
           | ties between the two countries don't reflect their cultural
           | similarities. My parents, who are Chinese and in their 60s,
           | managed to travel around Japan without knowing Japanese or
           | English. They successfully took trains, hailed taxis, and
           | communicated with locals using just a pen and paper,
           | ultimately enjoying their trip.
        
           | mgdlbp wrote:
           | And Russian and Ukraine, presently superlatively so.
        
         | ThinkingGuy wrote:
         | An excellent book on yojijukugo is "Kanji Idoims." from the
         | "Power Japanese" series:
         | 
         | https://openlibrary.org/works/OL27733147W/Kanji_idioms?editi...
        
       | KTallguy wrote:
       | My favorite yojijukugo is from Chinese, despite the fact that I
       | barely speak it.
       | 
       | Zi Qiang Bu Xi , or "Pushing forward to better yourself without
       | ceasing," I think? Maybe there's a better way to put it?
       | 
       | Another poster mentioned Dian Di Chuan Shi  which is my second
       | favorite. It puts things in perspective quite well.
        
         | yqinyn wrote:
         | Be careful when you use "Zi Qiang Bu Xi " though. I have never
         | seen any native speaker who is also a sane person use it in
         | daily life without sounding sarcastic. This word does mean what
         | you say, but it probably one of the overused, insincere, and
         | meaningless words in government speeches. It's like people roll
         | their eyes when tech giants says "make the world a better
         | place" for the past 30 years. But instead of 30 years, this
         | came from <<Yi Jing >> ,which was roughly from 5,000 year ago,
         | and has been constantly used in a similar fashion since then.
         | So imagine how a Chinese speaker will think of it.
        
       | kevinmorio wrote:
       | I've recently developed a new habit of celebrating my daily
       | accomplishments as wins, no matter how small they may be. This
       | simple practice has had a remarkably positive impact on my
       | mindset. Last week, I wrote down the following:
       | 
       | > When it came to today's running session, I felt already
       | exhausted and unmotivated, my mind constantly telling me that I
       | was not feeling well and nagging me to skip the run. But I bit
       | the bullet and did it. And what's the result? This was the best
       | run I've had in months cutting my personal best by more than 3
       | minutes! Lesson learned: Our mind is pretty bad at assessing our
       | body's capabilities. Don't let your mind limit your
       | possibilities!
       | 
       | Similar to OP's experiment of doing 30-minute productive sessions
       | for 7 days, I create weekly SMART goals (Specific, Measurable,
       | Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound). For example
       | 
       | - Goal: Get better at cooking => Action: Try out two new recipes
       | on Tuesday and Thursday.
       | 
       | - Goal: Add comment section to blog => Action: Spend 30 minutes
       | after lunch from Wednesday - Friday
       | 
       | By expressing my goals in this way, I keep myself accountable and
       | on track. I also feel more motivated and focused on achieving
       | them.
        
       | segmondy wrote:
       | If you enjoy this, buy the book "The Japanese Have a Word For It"
       | 
       | https://www.amazon.com/Japanese-Have-Word-Complete-Thought/d...
        
       | dbtc wrote:
       | I like it a lot.
       | 
       | Do these characters make sense as a Chinese phrase as well?
       | 
       | Chu zhi guan che ?
        
         | wenyuanyu wrote:
         | Yes, it makes sense, but I have not seen this idiom used in
         | China. In China, a widely used idiom of similar meaning is Jian
         | Chi Chu Xin  (jian chi chu xin)
        
           | lifthrasiir wrote:
           | It seems that Shi Zhi Bu Yu  [1] is a more close analogue in
           | that this exact four-letter form is always used. The Korean
           | version is substantially different too, it's Chu Zhi Yi Guan
           | (cojiilgwan _Chojiilgwan_ ).
           | 
           | [1] https://baike.baidu.com/item/%E7%9F%A2%E5%BF%97%E4%B8%8D%
           | E6%...
        
             | wenyuanyu wrote:
             | As a Chinese person, I perceive "Chu Zhi " as having a
             | connotation of "original" or "initial" intentions, whereas
             | "Shi Zhi " simply implies determined wishes or promises
             | without emphasizing the "initial" aspect. While I'm not an
             | expert in Japanese, my understanding is based on the
             | Chinese perspective, and the actual meaning in Japanese
             | might differ. It's intriguing to see how these nuances can
             | vary across languages and cultures.
        
               | lifthrasiir wrote:
               | I personally analyze Chu Zhi Yi Guan  as simply being
               | consistent (Yi Guan ) from the beginning (Chu Zhi ), not
               | necessarily retaining the original subject (only
               | implied). I believe this is the most frequent Korean
               | interpretation because Chu Zhi  coji is not a common
               | Korean word (its synonym Chu Xin  cosim _is_ common) and
               | Chu Zhi Yi Guan  is probably the only phrase you can find
               | this word.
        
         | whoevercares wrote:
         | While making perfect sense, it just feels slightly weird due to
         | the order and IMHO less beautiful to its equivalent. In Chinese
         | it's Bu Yu  "unshakable" instead of Guan Che (insist)
        
       | forgotmypw17 wrote:
       | I write passion project software, and I decided a while ago that
       | I would do at least one commit per day, even if it is just
       | updating todo.txt or writing a one-line comment. It has served me
       | well.
       | 
       | I can't say that I've had a perfect streak, but I've had streaks
       | spanning weeks and months long when I was productive on this
       | project.
        
       | frankus wrote:
       | I think this is great advice in the short term. In the longer
       | term it's worth evaluating whether a commitment you made
       | only/mostly to yourself is still serving you, or whether the
       | "you" that came up with the commitment was missing some bit of
       | information that you have now.
       | 
       | Like, if the commitment is serving your past self rather than
       | your future self, give it up. You don't owe your past self
       | anything.
       | 
       | Hank Green did a really good talk on this a few years ago:
       | https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=lPtopvsxmZY
        
       | justinmayer wrote:
       | Carrying out the original intent (going on the run), even in a
       | lesser form than the ideal (going slower than usual), helps to
       | reinforce the habit. Ultimately, this is about mastering the art
       | of showing up.
       | 
       | This concept is closely related to the "Two-Minute Rule" proposed
       | by James Clear, of _Atomic Habits_ fame. Showing up consistently,
       | even in small ways, helps build momentum and leads to significant
       | accomplishments over time.
       | 
       | https://jamesclear.com/how-to-stop-procrastinating
        
       | tqwhite wrote:
       | I call the strategy 'lowering the bar'. As an old, I now set all
       | my goals to be so small that I have almost achieved them merely
       | by waking each morning.
       | 
       | I like to say that I have lowered my bar so much that I can roll
       | over it while laying on the floor. I am very successful in
       | accomplishing my 'original intent'. Consequently, my life is
       | nearly perfect.
        
       | slmjkdbtl wrote:
       | There are thousands of 4 letter idioms in Chinese and I believe
       | in Japanese too, a very common game in China is a group of people
       | each say a 4 letter idiom and next person say another that starts
       | with the last letter of the last one said.
        
       | whoevercares wrote:
       | In Chinese sense, IMO its chengyu of similar meaning are very
       | beautiful -Shi Zhi Bu Yu
       | https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/%E7%9F%A2%E5%BF%97%E4%B8%8D...
       | 
       | It's common to use this to express love as well - love is
       | unshakable
        
         | wenyuanyu wrote:
         | This is indeed a commonly used chengyu with similar meaning.
         | But I perceive "Chu Zhi " as having a connotation of "original"
         | or "initial" intentions, whereas "Shi Zhi " simply implies
         | determined wishes or promises without emphasizing the "initial"
         | aspect. While I'm not an expert in Japanese, my understanding
         | is based on the Chinese perspective, and the actual meaning of
         | "Chu Zhi " in Japanese might differ.
        
           | whoevercares wrote:
           | Yeah it's subtle - a better one is "Shi Zhong Bu Yu " which
           | the "intention"(Zhi )is dropped but implied
        
       | wenyuanyu wrote:
       | This is my first time encounter with this particular 4-character
       | idiom. As a Chinese person, I'm amazed by my ability to
       | comprehend both the writing and the underlying meaning
       | effortlessly. In China, a similar sentiment is more commonly
       | expressed as Jian Chi Chu Xin  (jian chi chu xin).
       | 
       | Interestingly, this phrase has gained significance (a buzz world
       | in politics) since Xi came to power a decade ago, that party
       | members should remain steadfast in upholding the original mission
       | of the Communist Party...
        
         | thrdbndndn wrote:
         | The buzz word version of it is Bu Wang Chu Xin
        
       | krackers wrote:
       | Beyond idiomatic yojijukugo (or perhaps because of it?), 4 mora
       | abbreviations seems to be really common in Japanese. E.g.
       | "debadora" for "device driver" [1]
       | 
       | [1] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23798995
        
         | GolDDranks wrote:
         | They are indeed. I participated in phonology seminar in Tokyo U
         | years back, and it was very interesting. According to the prof,
         | Japanese phonology definitely has a tendency to use "moraic
         | foots", that is, units of two mora, as a preferred unit of
         | morphophonologic processes, which then maps to abbreviations of
         | two-word phrases where each of the words get their own foot:
         | deba-dora.
         | 
         | I'd say that yojijukugo are not necessarily directly related,
         | as the readings of the kanji can be one or two mora, so there's
         | some variability in the structure of the readings of
         | yojijukugo.
        
           | GolDDranks wrote:
           | That being said, people often say that because of moras and
           | foots, syllables have no place in Japanese phonology, but
           | that's not true. Japanese pitch accent patterns (of Tokyo
           | Japanese) depend on the syllabic structure.
        
         | throwaway290 wrote:
         | Similarly in Chinese languages there are many such 4-character
         | stable phrases. Might not be a coincidence.
        
         | glandium wrote:
         | Just to make it clear, this doesn't only apply to imported
         | words (although it's probably where it's more common). It works
         | for purely Japanese words too. For example: naruhaya (naruhaya)
         | is a 4 mora abbreviation of narubekuZao ku (narubeku hayaku).
         | Another one: akeome (akeome) is an abbreviation of Ming
         | kemashiteomedetougozaimasu (akemashite omedetougozaimasu)
        
       | the_arun wrote:
       | Does Shoshikantetsu mean - Integrity without Compromise?
        
         | wenyuanyu wrote:
         | I feel it is more like "stick to your initial intention"
        
       | dools wrote:
       | I always say this to my kids when they don't feel like doing some
       | habit: just half arse it.
       | 
       | Another phrase I use is: if something is worth doing, it's worth
       | doing poorly.
       | 
       | I run 12km every day, but some days I don't get out until the
       | afternoon, like today, and it was 30 degrees C and I could only
       | run 8kms and when I got to the bottom of the hill at the 8km mark
       | I couldn't run up it and just walked the remaining 4km home.
       | 
       | Imagine if I didn't even go on the run because I was worried I
       | wouldn't be able to make it the whole way.
        
         | vlod wrote:
         | I have a favourite saying "Half arse is better than no arse".
        
         | discordance wrote:
         | Seems logical wanting to avoid running on a hot day, whether
         | you were unconsciously or consciously objecting to it.
        
         | gred wrote:
         | > if something is worth doing, it's worth doing poorly
         | 
         | I also keep coming back to this phrase. I believe this is the
         | source (G.K. Chesterton, What's Wrong with the World):
         | https://www.gutenberg.org/files/1717/1717-h/1717-h.htm#link2...
        
         | bee_rider wrote:
         | Half-assing is a fun one to spin around.
         | 
         | "We really need to whole-ass this one."
        
       | gabagool wrote:
       | > Having a high say-do ratio has always been important to me
       | 
       | You probably mean a "high do-say ratio"? That is, to complete as
       | many things as you set out to do.
       | 
       | Great story though, it reminds me a bit of how the German
       | language has individual words to describe specific intents and
       | feelings. Of course the German equivalents are far more verbose!
        
         | zwirbl wrote:
         | It's "gesagt-getan" in German so it's a combination of two
         | words in the order mentioned in TFA
        
         | riffraff wrote:
         | Doesn't every language have words for feelings?
         | 
         | I mean, sure there's variations (e.g. not all languages have
         | "saudade" or "schadenfreude") but it seems a pretty basic group
         | of words.
        
         | Kokouane wrote:
         | I think the original context could be correct: if they say they
         | will do something, they do it.
        
           | FPGAhacker wrote:
           | I know I'm being pedantic, but that would be a low ratio.
           | 
           | But I understand the point being made and my pedantry just a
           | peculiarity of English meaning having a strong word order
           | dependence than many other languages.
        
             | rdiddly wrote:
             | Just to throw another variable in there, the clause about
             | the ratio is separated from the one about completing
             | things, by the conjunction "but," indicating opposition. So
             | it can be read as something like "I've always prioritized
             | communication" (high say-do ratio, as written) "...BUT, I
             | wanted to" (make a change and) "strategize seeing things
             | through." Probably not what was meant, but plausible and
             | one of the possibilities I considered when I noticed the
             | thing you noticed!
        
             | stefncb wrote:
             | That's actually interesting, because if they'd said low
             | ratio, it would probably have confused people. I think it's
             | math having the strong order dependence; when people say a
             | high a to b ratio, they likely mean a 'good' ratio
             | contextually instead of mathematically high.
        
       | myrloc wrote:
       | This makes me wonder, does Japanese have an equivalent to the
       | Chinese concept of a chengyu?
        
         | justusw wrote:
         | So many are taken over verbatim from Chinese. There are some
         | very comprehensive Yojijukugo (literally just meaning former
         | character compound word) collections on the net like
         | 
         | https://yoji-jukugo.com/
         | 
         | Sometimes you will have to map between simplified Chinese
         | characters and modern Japanese characters. Easy enough though,
         | since they still look very similar.
        
         | GolDDranks wrote:
         | Japanese has Shou Yu  jukugo, which is similar (if I understand
         | the concept of a chengyu correctly): a set phrase of Chinese
         | characters. The famous case are the 4 character set phrases, Si
         | Zi Shou Yu  yojijukugo, which are mentioned in the article, but
         | there are other kinds too.
         | 
         | Besides that, there is Guan Yong Ju  kanyouku, which means just
         | an idiom in general, and isn't restricted to kanji expressions.
         | And Jue mariWen Ju  kimarimonku, which means something like a
         | "cliche phrase".
        
       | antiterra wrote:
       | Tangential, but the one that sticks in my mind is Qi Zhuan Ba Qi
       | , shichitenhakki, which is basically 'fall seven times, get up
       | eight.'
        
       | deafpolygon wrote:
       | Nothing like an adage or idiom in a foreign language to make you
       | ponder the meaning of life!
        
       | jdthedisciple wrote:
       | Here is another one, though admittedly I don't know its _direct_
       | translation.
       | 
       | Shisakanku
       | 
       | It means something like "point and do" (probably completely wrong
       | but should capture the essence) and it's a technique to help
       | avoid mistakes which I found actually works.
       | 
       | Needless to say, I was also weirdly fascinated with it the first
       | time I heard of it.
       | 
       | You can see it in action here:
       | 
       | https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Av_Kkh3mp4E
        
         | an_ko wrote:
         | Shisa kanko (Zhi Chai Huan Hu ) translates directly as "finger
         | pointing verbal check".
         | 
         | Dictionary entry:
         | https://jisho.org/word/%E6%8C%87%E5%B7%AE%E5%96%9A%E5%91%BC
        
       | creakingstairs wrote:
       | Sharing some Korean Yojijukugos (originating from China)
       | 
       | wirogjima(Wei Lu Zhi Ma ) wii rok ji ma
       | 
       | To point at a deer and call it a horse. Used for suck ups who
       | says agrees to things that are clearly not right.
       | 
       | eubcammasog(Qi Zhan Ma Su ) ub cham ma sok
       | 
       | To behead Ma Su (name) while crying. In the Romance of Three
       | Kingdoms, Zhuge Liang had to behead his favourite general Ma Su
       | as he wept because Ma Su ignored the given command resulting in
       | losing the war. This is used when you have to be fair for the
       | greater good.
       | 
       | There are also fake yojijukugos which were created on online
       | forums. These are not based on Chinese characters but made by
       | taking letters from Korean phrases. But they caught on because
       | they kinda sound like real yojijikugos :D
       | 
       | naeronambul nae ro nam bul
       | 
       | Romance for me, but adultery for you. Used for people who are
       | lenient to themselves but strict to others.
       | 
       | jagangduceon ja gang doo cheon
       | 
       | Fight of two strong-sprited geniuses. Used when two strong
       | characters butt head with each other.
        
         | umanwizard wrote:
         | > To point at a deer and call it a horse.
         | 
         | When indigenous Mexicans first met Spaniards, they described
         | their horses (which are not native to the New World, so they
         | had never seen before) as "a sort of giant deer".
         | 
         | It's totally off-topic here but I always thought that was
         | interesting.
        
           | dmix wrote:
           | There were actually horses in the new world, it's just that
           | the natives hunted them all to extinction well before the
           | Europeans arrived. Likewise with most other "mega fuana" in
           | North America. There's also theories that climate changes
           | played a role in addition to over exploitation.
        
             | umanwizard wrote:
             | True, but to be clear, they had gone extinct thousands of
             | years before the Spanish brought them back, so the natives
             | in the early 16th century had no way of knowing about them.
        
         | NalNezumi wrote:
         | >wirogjima(Wei Lu Zhi Ma ) wii rok ji ma To point at a deer and
         | call it a horse. Used for suck ups who says agrees to things
         | that are clearly not right.
         | 
         | Adding a little bit of context to this: This seems to be the
         | same origin as the Japanese word baka: Ma Lu  which means
         | stupid and is the combination of the word Horse(Ma ) and deer
         | (Lu ). It has a quite funny background story[1] from ancient
         | China:
         | 
         | >Zhao Gao was contemplating treason but was afraid the other
         | officials would not heed his commands, so he decided to test
         | them first. He brought a deer and presented it to the Second
         | Emperor but called it a horse. The Second Emperor laughed and
         | said, "Is the chancellor perhaps mistaken, calling a deer a
         | horse?" Then the emperor questioned those around him. Some
         | remained silent, while some, hoping to ingratiate themselves
         | with Zhao Gao, said it was a horse, and others said it was a
         | deer. Zhao Gao secretly arranged for all those who said it was
         | a deer to be brought before the law. Thereafter the officials
         | were all terrified of Zhao Gao.
         | 
         | The English wiki is a bit kind to him, because in the original
         | one it wasn't "put before the law" but killed/executed. So the
         | "fool/stupid" person is not the one that called a deer a horse,
         | but the ones that didn't
         | 
         | [1]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baka_(Japanese_word)
        
           | carapace wrote:
           | "Well, that explains a lot." Cheers!
        
         | lelandfe wrote:
         | > To point at a deer and call it a horse. Used for suck ups who
         | says agrees to things that are clearly not right.
         | 
         | Love this. A good English equivalent is "the emperor's new
         | clothes."
        
           | bee_rider wrote:
           | References to the emperor's new clothes seem to be focused on
           | the moment when the lie everyone is going along with finally
           | gets revealed, though. I think the English equivalent is more
           | like "brown nosing."
        
             | lelandfe wrote:
             | Brown nosing need not involve lying - you can be obsequious
             | without agreeing to an obvious falsehood.
        
         | Dalewyn wrote:
         | >Sharing some Korean Yojijukugos (originating from China)
         | 
         | This is neither here nor there, but you have me in stitches for
         | using Japanese to refer to Chinese sayings to describe Korean
         | (sub)culture.
        
           | creakingstairs wrote:
           | Haha, I did think about using the Korean word instead but
           | just decided to go with the flow. East Asian culture is so
           | intertwined, it's a pity we all have such a love-hate
           | relationship with each other.
        
         | fenomas wrote:
         | Here's another interesting one that gamers might recognize, JP-
         | from-CN:
         | 
         | > Long Tou She Wei  (ryuutou dabi) "Dragon head, snake tail"
         | 
         | Blizzard's Overwatch team decided that would make a cool family
         | motto for a ninja clan, so it features prominently in the
         | game's launch cinematic and some in-game areas. But they
         | apparently never looked up the meaning, which is basically
         | "starting strong but ending weak", or just "anticlimactic".
        
         | smaddox wrote:
         | > To behead Ma Su (name) while crying. [...]
         | 
         | I wonder how much further ahead of western cultures, eastern
         | asian cultures would have been if they didn't kill (or commit
         | suicide) every time someone made a mistake.
        
         | 1123581321 wrote:
         | Ma Su is also relevant because Zhuge Liang was repeatedly
         | warned that Ma Su had more head knowledge than ability so
         | should not receive a major command. Zhuge Liang's emotions and
         | admiration cost him not only the campaign, but a dear friend.
        
         | dxbydt wrote:
         | > wirogjima(Wei Lu Zhi Ma ) wii rok ji ma > To point at a deer
         | and call it a horse.
         | 
         | Very common South Indian proverb. Of course, our version goes -
         | 
         | To point at a donkey and call it a horse.
         | 
         | I guess because donkeys are way more common than deer in South
         | India. I'm curious about the etymology. Did it really originate
         | in China ? If so, how come its so commonly used in South India
         | ? The Chinese monks Faxian[1] and Xuanzang[2] visited India
         | during the 5th/7th AD...the proverb came along with them ?
         | 
         | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Faxian [2]
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xuanzang
        
           | rawgabbit wrote:
           | The phrase comes from Sima Qian's "The Records of the Grand
           | Historian" written in 94BCE. Zhao Gao was a eunuch and hid
           | the first Emperor's death and schemed to have the rightful
           | heir killed. Zhao installed a puppet and tested everyone's
           | loyalty by declaring a stag a horse and dared anyone to
           | question him.
           | 
           | https://cesnur.net/wp-
           | content/uploads/2022/07/tjoc_6_4_5_che...
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | I have always been a "My Word Is My Bond" guy.
       | 
       | If I say I'll do something; I follow through, come hell or high
       | water.
       | 
       | A lot of folks know this about me, and try to get me to commit to
       | stuff. I'll only commit to the stuff that I plan to complete.
       | 
       | It's interesting how hostile people get, when I mention how
       | important it is to _complete_ stuff. I had a trainer once say _"
       | It's really important to know what 'Done' looks like."_
        
       | undershirt wrote:
       | > Yi Qi Yi Hui  (ichigoichie) - "Treasure every encounter, for it
       | will never recur."
       | 
       | Interesting that science by design is the inversion of this-- to
       | only show concern with the parts of every encounter which must
       | always recur.
        
       | nerpderp82 wrote:
       | If you like this, you might like Nassim Taleb's thoughts on "Skin
       | in the Game", a book by the same name and plenty of discussions
       | and interviews on youtube.
        
       | kronks wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | nabla9 wrote:
       | Nei Bian Qing  (Common Saying in Japanese makes it sound deeper)
        
       | barrenko wrote:
       | The other posts on the blog are great as well. I've set out to
       | make some tiny projects myself this year, and it's going better
       | than I've imagined.
       | 
       | There are no big homeruns, but I feel like a different kind of
       | person.
       | 
       | To paraphrase "Build what you can (and love), until you love to
       | build."
        
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