[HN Gopher] Load 'em up and throw 'em under the bus
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       Load 'em up and throw 'em under the bus
        
       Author : picture
       Score  : 575 points
       Date   : 2023-03-09 23:42 UTC (23 hours ago)
        
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       | busthrowaway844 wrote:
       | Throwaway for raw honesty.
       | 
       | I've worked under an engineering leader for a few years now that
       | I think must get a bonus to meet every quarterly goal. Others
       | must also, based on their behavior around these events. I've felt
       | the weight of the team being so understaffed for the workload for
       | so long that I've pendulum swung from high morale (i.e this is
       | important good work) to such an abyss of low morale. I'm having a
       | hard time shaking it and I could really stand to be more
       | productive on things I find interesting and important about the
       | work. I guess this article resonated with me enough to post about
       | it. Makes you weary after awhile.
        
       | a_c wrote:
       | Management problem is an engineering problem. Management is how
       | you engineer your organization.
       | 
       | I don't know how big the organization the author is working at,
       | too big in my opinion, too big in complexity.
       | 
       | What I observe, could be wrong
       | 
       | - the team "writing" the service is different from the team
       | "fixing" the service. It is like letting one guy write code, the
       | other guy compile code, but on a team level. Feedback of quality
       | is lost.
       | 
       | - "Then I got lucky and intercepted a few of the zanier ideas".
       | It is common in tech companies nowadays, but I think is really
       | not ideal, one party for ideation, one part for implementation.
       | This is not making full use of engineers in my opinion. Give me a
       | recipe, I cook for you. Engineer can be both chef and a cook, but
       | people seem to be happy being a cook. Feedback between ideas and
       | implementation is lost.
       | 
       | - "The surprise came later, when the biannual review cycle ". If
       | it is performance review. It is too sparse. Engineers might
       | already be gone and good luck keeping the service up
       | 
       | - "They wanted to give this person some bullshit sub-par rating".
       | Lacking objective measurement. Maybe that's why they run the
       | review biannually. Subjective rating is time consuming. I imagine
       | it having to compile "evidence" from various source, and give
       | "justification".
       | 
       | You always want the feedback be quick and whole. Code compilation
       | fast, test run fast, CI/CD fast, HTTP return fast, usage
       | gathering fast, the feedback about whether your piece of code is
       | useful fast, the feedback about team's performance fast. In
       | engineering, we take for granted that things can happen almost in
       | real-time. But in management, somehow feedback (reports,
       | performance) need to be "compile" X times per Y period. In
       | engineering, we somehow have the thinking that abstract only when
       | the code is repeated the 3rd time. Hence we avoid abstracting the
       | wrong thing. In management, we often form an abstraction (team)
       | based on some vague notion on how things are compartmentalize. Oh
       | yeah let's have 2 frontend and 2 backend on the completely new
       | recommendation feature. That's the team formation. Engineering
       | and management have a lot in common
        
         | jeremyjh wrote:
         | There was not another team fixing the bugs. I understood her
         | original team to be some kind of SWAT team that works across
         | the org to triage and pin root cause of high impact issues and
         | outages. That kind of team deals with incidents, but they don't
         | fix software bugs. How could they possibly do that across many
         | different teams and codebases?
        
           | a_c wrote:
           | I did't mean they fix bug. They are to notify "compilation
           | error". They are to triage and tell service team to fix it,
           | rollback the service to a previous version, keep system up.
           | They don't pin root cause, there is always rooter cause. The
           | root to them is probably figuring out which service is down,
           | which is not the root. This all come from SRE. From micro
           | service. From practice most company ain't going to need but
           | adopted. Which is my original intention: not sure how large
           | the organisation is, but felt overly complex
        
       | languagehacker wrote:
       | Anyone else get the impression that this blames managers without
       | thinking about making sure the members of the team made cross-
       | training a priority?
       | 
       | There's really not enough context to have a good opinion on this
       | anecdote. Rachel has a very specific perspective, as always, and
       | I often think she interprets her observations to fit that
       | perspective. Don't we all.
        
       | dizhn wrote:
       | I don't know why, maybe because I came across them around the
       | same time, but whenever I read rachelbytheway I am hearing Paula
       | Poundstone's voice in my head.
        
       | tristor wrote:
       | I have been that guy, unfortunately nobody stepped in to prevent
       | me from being thrown under the bus, and it ended up with me
       | departing a company where I otherwise loved the people I worked
       | with. It ultimately ended up being one of the driving factors of
       | some burn out, that in working through made me leave engineering
       | altogether for a different role. This can happen especially in
       | startups, because you're always resource constrained, growing
       | faster than you can handle (you hope), and everyone wears
       | multiple hats. That is all fine, generally, it only becomes a
       | problem when you never (after several cycles of hiring) get help
       | to remove some hats and/or you end up being held responsible for
       | failures outside your control due to that situation.
       | 
       | Now in a different role, I make it a point to try to identify
       | teams that are overloaded, shield them from unfair expectations,
       | and advocate for additional resourcing. If you bother looking,
       | it's generally pretty obvious, but most managers are focused on
       | managing up, not managing down, so ICs at the bottom are ignored
       | unless they're a source of waves that come back through
       | management onto their chain.
        
       | somsak2 wrote:
       | interesting story but wrong conclusion. this isn't about a
       | management problem but rather a case of an IC taking on too much
       | themselves. had they never attempted to do the work of 3-4
       | people, this general problem would have become apparent much
       | sooner. instead they overworked themselves and put their own role
       | at risk for a sub par rating.
       | 
       | do not allow yourself to be overworked for more than a few days
       | at most. it never ends well.
        
         | ahtihn wrote:
         | > rather a case of an IC taking on too much themselves
         | 
         | Which is a management problem. If management can't see that
         | this is happening and fix it, what are they even doing?
        
         | devwastaken wrote:
         | Management does not understand what a "3-4" workload looks
         | like. By their estimate they have the number of devs required,
         | therefore to them it must be the devs that are the problem, not
         | the number of them.
         | 
         | It's not as simple as getting more devs, it's justifying
         | another half mil a year in wage costs for that team. The people
         | at the top with the pocket books really don't like that. Is
         | your manager going to risk their neck, bonus, review? No. If
         | the dev doing all the work burns out thats not seen as a fault
         | of management by other management.
         | 
         | That dev likely did that work because they don't understand the
         | politics and had a mortgage and a kid in school to pay for.
         | They want to be able to claim their work for the next job
         | interview/resume. "I did less work while the project failed
         | because bad management." is not a selling point.
        
           | flerchin wrote:
           | The Engineer can leave, the project can utterly fail, and
           | only management will be left to take the blame and deal with
           | the consequences.
        
             | devwastaken wrote:
             | How do you think the interview is going to go for that
             | engineer for their next job?
        
         | GianFabien wrote:
         | Have been in a similar position. I simply pushed back. Did what
         | I reasonably could and well. It wasn't good enough for the
         | managers so they demoted me and hired 3 "yes-men" who as a
         | group accomplished less than I did whilst pushing back. It
         | didn't end well. But no managers were fired.
         | 
         | While there are less-competent yes-men out there, the managers
         | will continue to hire those who don't tell them to ...
        
           | anentropic wrote:
           | Seems like a problem of hierarchy
           | 
           | Maybe managers should be democratically elected
        
         | jeffrallen wrote:
         | > for more than a few days
         | 
         | Yes! But do occasionally fall on a grenade for your team. Pull
         | one 12 hour day to get a deployment plan just right, to check
         | that one last rollback scenario, etc. Plan 8 hours for a bug
         | and then follow it for 24, if the rabbit hole it takes you into
         | is important. Develop the discernment to be able to say "this
         | is where I'm going to overwork one time this quarter". And say
         | it, literally out loud if you need to.
         | 
         | You need to be able to look yourself in the mirror and say, "my
         | boss counts on me" before you can go and tell him the same
         | thing.
        
           | H8crilA wrote:
           | Why though? I don't want to overwork a single day per
           | week/quarter/year. And I have absolutely no fairness problems
           | with that.
           | 
           | If it can't be done this week it will be done next week. It's
           | your problem to deal with it, and my problem to make the tech
           | work.
        
           | whitemary wrote:
           | No, thanks.
        
       | clnq wrote:
       | An important cautionary tale to the "I'll take on the world to
       | save the project" types.
       | 
       | Do you want working the job of 3-4 people while being paid a
       | salary of one to become your baseline, not meeting which would
       | make you an under-performer in the eyes of the management? If
       | not, stop and delegate. If yes, good luck burning out while
       | blocking your own career progression.
       | 
       | I've seen this in so many tech companies and with so many well-
       | intentioned engineers. And it always ends sadly. Either in a burn
       | out resignation (worse if the break-up is messy because the
       | company is desperate to keep the "high performer"), or a dead
       | career (even if the engineer can sustain the pace, management
       | won't want to promote them out of the situation). Or worse, if
       | the engineer becomes stuck in this situation, they will ruin
       | their health through stress, and then the consequences of
       | returning to 1x workload and being an "under-performer" will
       | follow anyway. It can go poorly in so many ways, but only poorly.
        
         | PartiallyTyped wrote:
         | > If yes, good luck burning out while blocking your own career
         | progression.
         | 
         | Is there a career blockage if you don't stick around? The more
         | you do, the more you learn, the more you learn the faster you
         | do, the faster you do, the more you do.
         | 
         | > management won't want to promote them out of the situation
         | 
         | Management can pay a higher salary to retain them. A vertical
         | career into management is not for everyone.
         | 
         | > they will ruin their health through stress, and then the
         | consequences of returning to 1x workload and being an "under-
         | performer" will follow anyway.
         | 
         | Doesn't look like that if you leave a paper trail of everything
         | you do.
        
           | clnq wrote:
           | > A vertical career into management is not for everyone.
           | 
           | That's a different question which is even more polarizing -
           | should good engineers become managers. But to be clear, I
           | brought up promotion because that's why many people make the
           | decision to take on these responsibilities to save the
           | project. It could be a pay raise or a promotion to a higher
           | engineering level.
           | 
           | > Doesn't look like that if you leave a paper trail of
           | everything you do.
           | 
           | It works this way from what I've seen, I'm sorry to say. But
           | I've seen a lot. The paper trail is good evidence in a
           | grievance situation but it's hard to restore one's reputation
           | through the grievance process - formal or informal.
           | 
           | > Is there a career blockage if you don't stick around?
           | 
           | No, and leaving, to my mind, is the easiest healthy choice if
           | an engineer finds themselves in this situation. However, it
           | is still an undesirable situation to put oneself in if one
           | wants career growth. If leaving is the way they wish to
           | achieve that, it's better to just leave than to suffer for a
           | while and then leave. If they wish to achieve career growth
           | in the company, this will block them. In any case, it's
           | wasted time from a career advancement perspective.
           | 
           | You could say that working in a high-pressure situation would
           | teach the engineer something, and maybe it's true. But mostly
           | it will make the engineer make many mistakes and be
           | overwhelmed. Which is why most people argue that learning in
           | a relaxed environment is much more practical.
           | 
           | Even people who study extreme medicine (battlefield medicine,
           | mountain rescues, and similar topics) study it in a safe
           | environment. They do real life simulations but in a
           | supervised way. Throwing an engineer into the fire to teach
           | them handling a pressure-cooker situation would be much like
           | asking an extreme medicine doctor to learn on the
           | battlefield. You could say they would learn, but probably a
           | lot of what they would learn is to make mistakes.
        
         | oosk wrote:
         | It doesn't always end sadly -- it really depends on the
         | individual and the company.
         | 
         | In my case, I ended up doing the job of maybe 5-10 developers
         | for a year and a half leading up to the launch of a product at
         | a large tech company. It was tough, but I believed in the
         | product and wanted it to succeed, so I didn't mind putting in
         | the extra time. I was also fairly young at the time, so I could
         | handle marathon coding sessions without burning out.
         | 
         | After it launched (successfully), I developed a reputation
         | within the company that let me basically have my pick of
         | projects for the remainder of my time there. Additionally, I
         | was awarded a 7-figure stock grant that ended up being worth 8
         | figures by the time it fully vested, so it worked out well
         | financially too.
         | 
         | I view that project as sort of a career-defining moment, and
         | I'm extremely glad I did it.
        
         | franciscop wrote:
         | Since my top-comment is #1 and it's a bad example, I'll give a
         | positive example here.
         | 
         | In this company I joined I worked really hard. It was very
         | exciting work, an innovative startup, pretty good pay (for my
         | locale), great coworkers and manager. I still worked around
         | ~8h/day, but those were VERY intense 8-hours and after few
         | weeks it was clear that our office/team was shipping A LOT
         | faster than other teams in HQ. It was a really nice combination
         | IMHO:
         | 
         | - Our manager was amazing at getting the work requests and
         | converting them into technical tasks/projects, while shielding
         | us of the BS that was literally raining from HQ. No one lasted
         | too long when he eventually left, and they even closed the
         | office a bit after.
         | 
         | - Because of the timezone difference, we had meetings for 1-2h
         | in the morning and then calm for the rest of the day to execute
         | on those tasks. Our manager had more, but that was a really
         | good balance for IC.
         | 
         | - While we had different levels of seniority (and all hired as
         | the same "mid-level"), we worked well together and all were
         | reasonably knowledgeable, no one needed handholding.
         | 
         | So yeah, after few months/1 year we got some major projects
         | finished. One of which I made the major technical part, for
         | which I struggled and fought like never before, and
         | successfully delivered it. Our CEO used this project even for
         | presentations to our investors and clients (was supposed to be
         | an internal tool). So my manager got me from mid-level
         | ("Software Engineer") to Staff Engineer, a whole 2-level bump
         | and 40%-50% salary increase approx.
         | 
         | So sometimes working hard does pay off :)
        
           | Glawen wrote:
           | you were just leveling with your teammates which were also
           | hard workers. I experienced this in my last job and I'm
           | trying to reproduce it, but I find it difficult to recreate
           | in another environment.
           | 
           | It is different than being a super hero and hand hold a
           | project while your teammates watch you from the side.
        
         | crabbone wrote:
         | This is a very simplistic view of the situation. It doesn't
         | usually work like that in the real world.
         | 
         | In the company I left few years ago I was a lead developer in a
         | department which started with me alone, then at times grew up
         | to four developers and shrank to just two.
         | 
         | Here's what it looked like: we were almost always advertising a
         | position in my department, and about once a week I had to meet
         | another Python developer with X years of experience in infra,
         | who was barely literate... No, really, it was that bad.
         | 
         | After each such interview, I had to go back to my boss and
         | decide whether we should give this guy / girl a chance, or
         | should we spend more time and money looking for more
         | candidates. I tried both strategies. I tried to hold out until
         | we find a better candidate, and we were simply wasting time
         | running in circles. I tried to advocate hiring someone simply
         | on a basis that they looked promising. I had to promise my boss
         | to bring them up to speed, and that was a year of misery of
         | dealing with someone who made such a painstakingly slow
         | progress, being such a huge time sink that in the end I had to
         | abandon that person to have at least something done.
         | 
         | Infra projects, especially in large-scale products tend to be
         | this way. Outside, theres' a huge pool of "Python programmers",
         | but most of them are really "Django programmers", they have no
         | idea how computers work, and will require years of mentorship
         | to obtain that knowledge. Few will see that as valuable as it's
         | not a common enough requirement. Few will have the
         | determination or passion to get to the point where they are
         | confident and independent that they may continue their
         | education on their own.
         | 
         | On the other hand, those who gained such experience don't like
         | infra jobs for the very reason that they end up recruiting
         | novice programmers and leave for more system-like jobs. And
         | this dynamic affects every department both at a macro and at a
         | micro level: people either learn how to be good and leave, or
         | they never do and get replaced by the next batch.
         | 
         | In the end, it's fairly typical that infra department will be
         | "carried" by a single employee who's spend ages working there +
         | a number of younglings who come and go never contributing
         | anything of note. I wouldn't say it's a management problem.
         | Infra isn't the only department which sees that kind of
         | dynamics. QA is pretty much the same way. Front-end used to be
         | more like that, but I don't know what the situation is today.
         | It's caused by the pathological relationship which reinforces
         | itself with time that prevents expertise from growing both
         | locally in an org and generally in the field.
        
         | jjtheblunt wrote:
         | Every way you just mentioned seems to depend on a layer of
         | managers assessing things?
         | 
         | I ask that because I've observed in both deeply hierarchical
         | (and dysfunctional as all hell) Amazon, and super flat (at
         | least for a long time) Apple, and your characterizations only
         | fit the bureaucracies. (I've observed the same at other places
         | as well.)
        
           | clnq wrote:
           | You bring up an interesting point. I have not seen this in
           | flat or small companies as I have not worked in many. But I
           | imagine that those surrounding the engineer will still feel
           | that their expectations are no longer met if the engineer
           | tries to return to normality from their superhero role.
           | Though perhaps the colleagues might understand the full
           | circumstances of the situation better in a tighter or less
           | hierarchical team.
           | 
           | Ultimately, if someone has the engineer's back when they need
           | to stop being the proverbial "Atlas who holds up the world",
           | then maybe things could end better. But there are few
           | managers that have the insight to notice it and grace to do
           | something about it. The kind manager (or colleague) described
           | in the article we are discussing is not common.
           | 
           | So whatever the circumstances, generally it does end badly if
           | the engineer significantly over-commits to save the project.
        
             | jjtheblunt wrote:
             | True
        
         | treis wrote:
         | I don't think the engineer in the OP did a good job. They were
         | the last link in the knowledge chain. It's on them to pass the
         | knowledge along and onboard the newbies.
         | 
         | Is it possible that they got saddled with a bunch of
         | incompetent and lazy new hires? Sure. But by simple numbers
         | it's more likely that the hero was the problem than it is that
         | 4 other people are incompetent beyond help.
        
           | _corvo_ wrote:
           | I don't think the engineer in the OP did a good job. They
           | were the last link in the knowledge chain. It's on them to
           | pass the knowledge along and onboard the newbies.
           | 
           | I find it weird that you're blaming the Engineer and not the
           | managers or culture. Isn't it on them to make sure that
           | knowledge is passed as well?
        
             | treis wrote:
             | That's forcing the engineer to do what they should be
             | doing. You can blame them for not doing that but that
             | doesn't absolve the engineer of not doing what they should
             | be doing.
        
       | lacker wrote:
       | It's a tough situation to handle, because if someone is simply
       | struggling at their job, it can have the same symptoms. They
       | claim they have too much work to do, and important projects
       | always end up delayed, with their tasks being the ones that are
       | delaying everyone. As a manager you need to make a judgment call
       | about how much work they are actually taking on, but that can be
       | tricky when you're less familiar with the codebase than the
       | individual is.
       | 
       | Either way, you still want to move critical tasks off their
       | plate.
        
       | gorgoiler wrote:
       | Anyone who follows this blog -- it is frequently linked to from
       | this place -- would be able to understand the code words and time
       | frame to figure out which company this refers to. It's a small
       | world and it's not difficult to guess which piece of tech, which
       | team, and which engineers and managers were involved as well.
       | 
       | The story is a good one but, like all gossip, it's a guilty
       | pleasure. When someone spreads gossip about a third party then
       | you can assume they do it about you as well. It is toxic and the
       | opposite of _building trust_.
       | 
       | If the engineers referred to in the story were asked for comment
       | or OK'd the post (not that they have to) then I'm completely off
       | base with everything I just said.
        
         | draw_down wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | doitLP wrote:
         | Please enlighten us. I figure the company is likely Amazon, and
         | it's some core service like EC2 given that underpins basically
         | everything and has different agents running on each box that
         | are handled by different teams like CloudWatch?
        
           | philjohn wrote:
           | Not Amazon - the clue is "You know, Cat Pics" - what's a
           | service where you can share photos of things, like your life,
           | your pets etc?
        
         | weeeeelp wrote:
         | I've read about a hundred of Rachel's posts and never thought
         | "but who/what company was this actually, specifically, by
         | name", just enjoyed the stories. I mean yeah something
         | something facebook, big places needing big troubleshooting, but
         | in the end I think it's irrelevant to most people, as most
         | people don't work in SV.
        
         | ornornor wrote:
         | I for one have no clue whatsoever about which company this
         | might be, and even less who the individual people (other than
         | the author) might be.
         | 
         | The world is bigger than SV, most of us have never set foot
         | there or know anybody there.
        
         | walleeee wrote:
         | Is there not an enormous difference between spreading gossip
         | (in my mind, always _about_ someone in particular, which this
         | is absolutely not, or at least not to anyone not neck deep in
         | bay area software circles) and relating instructive, anonymized
         | anecdotes? I 'm not sure how you're reading this as gossip.
        
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       | dcchambers wrote:
       | Beautifully written and I'm happy there was a positive outcome in
       | this instance.
       | 
       | I feel like most of us have a similar story. I don't know if it's
       | unique to tech, but every team I've been a part of has had a
       | "well everyone who originally built this product left and we
       | don't really know how to manage it so it's just sort of hobbling
       | along but management won't prioritize decommissioning or
       | supporting it so it keeps all of us up at night." Do other
       | industries have this issue? How can we fix this problem?
        
       | bragadiru_mafia wrote:
       | Probable network behaviour. The other team members are part of a
       | "network" and their goal is to 1) get non network members to do
       | the work and then 2) get rid of them and 3) take over more
       | projects, expand hold on the org.
       | 
       | Crafty!
        
       | ok_dad wrote:
       | > I got to know him, and found out that he wasn't batshit or even
       | malicious. He was just under WAY too much load, and was shipping
       | insanity as a result.
       | 
       | I felt like this at my last job but they fired me instead when I
       | asked for time off without pay for a few months.
        
       | flybrand wrote:
       | It's straight out of Goldratt and Theory of Constraints,
       | ultimately the constraint becomes leadership. How many issues can
       | leaders address in a day? How do they prioritize the personnel
       | needs of their team?
        
       | marcus_holmes wrote:
       | Looking forward to hearing the similar stories that will be
       | coming from Twitter in a year or two. Egotistical shouty bosses
       | are a great source of tech war stories :)
        
       | babbledabbler wrote:
       | This is a common pitfall for software engineers and one that is
       | easy to fall into especially if you haven't gone through it
       | before.
       | 
       | Dysfunctional technical systems are symptoms of dysfunctional
       | political systems.
       | 
       | If the political system is not rehabilitated, the technical
       | system will continually evolve dysfunctional traits no matter how
       | much development effort is spent. It falls to management to
       | ensure the political system is functioning properly but software
       | engineers should keep this in mind to avoid getting caught up in
       | the gears of such systems.
        
       | wpietri wrote:
       | As Gerry Weinberg wrote in _Secrets of Consulting_ , "No matter
       | how it looks at first, it's always a people problem."
       | 
       | It's situations like this that keep getting me sucked into
       | management issues. I join something just wanting to build good
       | stuff. But the problems are so rarely technical ones.
       | 
       | I remember once when a friend of mine had joined a company with
       | terrible bug problems. They brought me in to solve a particularly
       | nasty one where a key client's key users were having regular web
       | app failures that presented as network issues. And also to give
       | them my take on the devs. After a week of late nights, I
       | discovered that certain versions of IE had weird Keep-Alive
       | behaviors, which then had a bad interaction with their load
       | balancers and their web servers. I changed some configurations so
       | the older IE versions had each HTTP collection closed
       | immediately, which was slightly slower but always worked. Victory
       | achieved, thorn pulled from paw, etc, etc.
       | 
       | That sounded like as technical a problem as they come. But the
       | root causes were really people problems. The key client was a
       | large company with an IT department that was overloaded and
       | underfunded, so lots of users were stuck on ancient Windows
       | versions. And my friend's company had a salesperson as a CEO, one
       | who would promise new features to close deals without ever
       | checking with the development team. They were massively
       | overloaded. They had to ship and ship and ship, leaving no time
       | for testing or debugging or polishing. They were just drowning in
       | bugs, so the CEO thought they were bad developers. But given time
       | and room, they could have figured it out just as well.
       | 
       | So I told my friend the developers were great; it was the
       | dysfunctional relationship between the CEO and the overstuffed
       | backlog that was the problem. I never heard how it turned out,
       | but I have my suspicions.
        
       | op00to wrote:
       | Note management never took accountability and nothing really
       | changed in the management situation.
        
       | kart23 wrote:
       | > Then I got lucky and intercepted a few of the zanier ideas
       | while he was still under the stupid-high load, and we got some
       | other people to step up and start spreading the load around.
       | 
       | it's also up to that IC to recognize they are being overworked,
       | and spread that load themselves. And if they're having trouble
       | doing so, surface that to the manager and get help.
        
         | vianneychevalie wrote:
         | That's the core of the issue: when you're so overworked that
         | you (a) don't have the time to reflect upon it and thus (b)
         | don't realize that the situation is terrible.
         | 
         | It's a not a new trope, Jack London's Martin Eden addresses the
         | inability of physical workers to gain culture and reflect on
         | their situation simply through the exhaustion they're subject
         | to.
        
         | ok_dad wrote:
         | Or, you get replaced or fired. Don't bet on most managers to
         | actually help.
        
           | midoridensha wrote:
           | Even if your direct manager wants to help, he may be
           | overruled by his manager or the upper management. Your direct
           | manager frequently doesn't have any ability to do much except
           | pass information up.
        
         | wiseowise wrote:
         | That's if you have coworkers capable enough.
        
       | draw_down wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | hdhddhshhshd wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | t344344 wrote:
       | I love companies like that. If you are a bit proactive, you can
       | snatch the easiest parts, and get rewarded just for sending
       | reports.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | hakunin wrote:
       | One mismatch I often see between engineers and management.
       | Engineers: "I must not be doing the best I can, because I'm not
       | keeping up with work. Gotta work faster, gotta do better."
       | Managers: "engineers are professionals with strong opinions who
       | will always tell me when/if they need anything to help them get
       | their work done. Right? If they aren't saying anything, it's
       | their own fault, right? They're adults, right?"
       | 
       | Unfortunately many engineers (and humans generally) can't easily
       | recognize and articulate what they need. One theory of mine is
       | that we assign senior-sounding roles in this industry too
       | readily. "Senior engineer" sounds like they would know how to
       | handle this, but while they might be great at programming, they
       | often have little experience recognizing their own limitations,
       | asking for help/resources, and understanding that this level of
       | self-awareness and focus on outcomes would make them look better,
       | not worse.
       | 
       | If I was to give one piece of advice to an engineer in a similar
       | position: you will always look more mature and professional if
       | you evaluate your situation and explain what sort of help you
       | need, than if you silently keep burning yourself out while the
       | quality keeps slipping.
       | 
       | If you're management and you actually reprimand them for asking
       | for help, you will have trouble retaining engineers. It would be
       | justifiable for them to look for work elsewhere on these grounds.
        
         | JustSomeNobody wrote:
         | > Managers: "engineers are professionals with strong opinions
         | who will always tell me when/if they need anything to help them
         | get their work done. Right? If they aren't saying anything,
         | it's their own fault, right? They're adults, right?"
         | 
         | Managers manage and bosses react.
         | 
         | Some (management) people are great managers. The rest are
         | bosses.
        
         | nitwit005 wrote:
         | If the story is accurate, all they had to do to figure things
         | out was to ask an engineer. Two people independently gave the
         | same feedback.
         | 
         | Probably the reason the team had everyone quit was because
         | management was dysfunctional.
        
         | SkyPuncher wrote:
         | I'll put a simpler, more likely explanation. It's dangerous to
         | complain about being overworked. It puts hard barriers on your
         | limits.
        
           | hakunin wrote:
           | I assume you're explaining the fear, because the opposite is
           | true. You'd be lifting a barrier. The barrier is you doing
           | all the legwork while having all the institutional knowledge.
           | Business cannot afford you doing the legwork, you need to be
           | mentoring and delegating.
        
             | imilk wrote:
             | Completely agree. If you never say that you are at capacity
             | you become the dumping ground for work that other people
             | should be doing.
        
           | jim-jim-jim wrote:
           | It doesn't have to be a complaint. Just put a higher
           | fibonacci on your work or whatever. Don't see how it's a
           | problem if you're honest from the get go.
        
         | quickthrower2 wrote:
         | More like: Managers: according to this metric he isn't working
         | hard enough let's pull him into a room, ply some pressure, see
         | if we can get him to shape up.
         | 
         | Engineer: my boss has explicitly been pulling me up for how
         | long it takes to do task so I need to start cutting corners,
         | stop helping others and work longer hours to keep paying my
         | bills.
        
         | Mc91 wrote:
         | > One theory of mine is that we assign senior-sounding roles in
         | this industry too readily.
         | 
         | Some large companies, particularly non-technical companies have
         | to pay a certain amount of money to get people of a certain
         | skill level, say a level below senior. However the company
         | management does not want to pay market rates for that level,
         | that salary only goes to "senior" people. So people with a
         | skill level below senior are put on work that fits for a level
         | below senior, but are given the senior title, because within
         | the company, that is the title that matches up with the market
         | rate for those people.
        
           | whstl wrote:
           | Not only that, but seniority is also often used as a
           | bargaining chip.
           | 
           | Having the title in your CV means something for future
           | employers, so employees want it and companies give it willy-
           | nilly as a very cheap perk.
           | 
           | No need to say that this causes more problems than it solves.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | It's funny that, more often that not, in tech roles (but
             | not a developer) I've mostly never used a title that was my
             | actual HR title (which more than once shifted without me
             | even knowing about it until I logged into the system for
             | some reason or other). Yet some areas of tech, which prides
             | itself on lack of gatekeeping, seems almost bank-like in
             | its obsession with job levels.
             | 
             | (To be clear, I'm not talking making up "Senior Vice
             | President" but just something less HR-like than my actual
             | title.)
        
             | realjhol wrote:
             | > No need to say that this causes more problems than it
             | solves.
             | 
             | As Senior executive vice principle king of engineering in
             | charge of ensuring our product has enough blue LEDs in it,
             | I don't know what you're talking about
        
               | germinalphrase wrote:
               | So you're the one keeping me up at night...
        
             | BeFlatXIII wrote:
             | Neither employees nor corporations have incentives to care
             | about the quality or future of the industry, so they keep
             | up the inflationary pressures.
        
         | brianmcc wrote:
         | This rings very true. I wonder if a quick nudge in the right
         | direction could be a standing 1-to-1 agenda, to provide a low
         | bar opportunity for such requests.
         | 
         | E.g. - what's going well - what's not going so well - how would
         | you rate the current pace, where 1 is too slow/boring, and 5 is
         | red-lining and we should review things?
         | 
         | Forgive the clumsy/rushed example, but point #3 is about an
         | opportunity to say "actually we're about 4 or 4.5 and it might
         | be worth looking at what's happening".
         | 
         | All the above assumes a good manager that can be trusted and
         | can make a difference, of course.
        
         | germinalphrase wrote:
         | "engineers are professionals with strong opinions who will
         | always tell me when/if they need anything to help them get
         | their work done. Right? If they aren't saying anything, it's
         | their own fault, right? They're adults, right?"
         | 
         | There can a cultural block here based on popular conceptions of
         | "leadership" vs "caregiving" which maps against "strong"/"soft"
         | & "male"/"female" in clearly counterproductive ways.
         | 
         | Edit: I am interested in counter arguments here from
         | downvoters. I am a pretty typical typical Midwestern guy with
         | traditionally 'macho' interests/hobbies, but I've seen the
         | above pattern play out repeatedly.
        
           | DiggyJohnson wrote:
           | This seems like quite a stretch. I don't think we should
           | eschew these aspects of a competent engineer just because it
           | may be possible to relate them to the current gender
           | discourse.
        
             | germinalphrase wrote:
             | Fair enough. My comment was directed toward the manager
             | rather than the engineer - though I could have left out
             | "male"/"female" without impacting my point.
        
       | mdekkers wrote:
       | I'm in this story and I don't like it.
       | 
       | I'm currently in a similar situation, and am desperately looking
       | to move on. The market is not kind right now.
       | 
       | We have a properly dilbert-esque management layer of PHBs with
       | meaningless titles running around demanding that all technical
       | aspects of the project are explained to them in detail, several
       | times, blame their frustration of not understanding on our
       | inability to explain properly, and then overrule every
       | recommendation and design decision.
       | 
       | Most of my emails are more disclaimers then content and
       | everything is BCCed to my private email, because disasters are
       | waiting to happen and this is an industry where "disaster" is
       | weeks in the global news cycles.
       | 
       | It's incredibly exhausting.
        
       | ChuckMcM wrote:
       | This is a good tale, and one that folks really should take to
       | heart. I have observed when good engineers get an over developed
       | sense of ownership they will move "heaven and earth" to get
       | things done. If you're managing one of these heroes it is your
       | job to spread the load of what they do across the team so that no
       | individual is so overloaded everything suffers.
       | 
       | New managers who had been engineers before management and care
       | about the work always tell me "I feel like I'm not doing
       | anything, I should be helping or something." And I tell them,
       | your job is to look. Look at your team, who is working late
       | nights, who isn't. Who is meeting their commitments, who isn't.
       | Let their actions guide you getting them what they need to be the
       | best they can be, things that you, and only you, as the manager
       | can get for them. That often means blocking incoming requests for
       | more "stuff" (features what not), carving out time for your
       | "doers" to help bring the new people up to speed. As part of an
       | IBM manager training video there was a discussion about how the
       | US Navy trains every person on a submarine to do every job
       | because you never know when the person whose job it is won't be
       | available to do it. That really resonated with me and I tried in
       | future groups to try to overlap skills and cross train folks so
       | that everyone could both appreciate what their peers were doing,
       | but could also help out in a crunch if one part of the work
       | needed more effort briefly.
        
         | jdwithit wrote:
         | The cross training point is absolutely crucial. I've managed or
         | worked on multiple Ops teams where one person was the "network
         | expert" or the "kubernetes expert" or whatever. If that person
         | left the company for any reason, or even went on vacation, it
         | was a _disaster_. People on a team can and should have their
         | specialties but you absolutely must document and cross train so
         | that someone can fill in when the expert is unavailable.
         | Anything else is a horrible failure by management.
        
           | mschuster91 wrote:
           | > I've managed or worked on multiple Ops teams where one
           | person was the "network expert" or the "kubernetes expert" or
           | whatever. If that person left the company for any reason, or
           | even went on vacation, it was a disaster.
           | 
           | The problem is in almost all of these cases the workload
           | doesn't match the financial capacity.
           | 
           | Basically, there is an absurd lot of stuff you have to know
           | for each of these fields, which is why domain experts develop
           | in the first place - it's just too much to handle for a
           | generalist unless you happen to run into a person on the
           | autism spectrum with eidetic memory (these are rare and worth
           | their weight in gold). So, assuming at least basic levels of
           | redundancy, you'll need at least _two_ people of each
           | specialty (at least network, storage, virtualization /cloud,
           | Linux, k8s, AD, macOS, Windows) in a company that has IT
           | needs beyond "they're shuffling papers and emails". That's 16
           | people, but many organizations don't have enough work to
           | justify employing that many people.
           | 
           | Most end up with going the "hire a generalist or two and have
           | them do everything", which can work for an incredibly long
           | time but then it collapses in a dumpsterfire (the generalist
           | calls it quits and no sane potential new hire wants that
           | workload for that paycheck, the company gets hacked because
           | the generalist only has rough concepts about client-side IT
           | security, ...).
           | 
           | Some end up with outsourcing their IT, either to some local
           | company or to body farms from India. That usually has better
           | capacity to account for vacations, sick days and whatnot, but
           | comes at the price that you don't have someone you can call
           | for a quick firewall change but have to wait days or weeks
           | for the ticket to make its way around, leading to frustration
           | and eventually attrition from the non-IT staff.
           | 
           | And a very select few end up hiring a bunch of specialists,
           | which produce very good quality and high amounts of internal
           | satisfaction... but as these few companies usually do that
           | because the CIO pushes for it, some day when the CEO wants to
           | count beans and the CIO can't defend the effort
           | ("preparedness paradoxon"), the department gets slashed, and
           | they end up like the first sort.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | There are other options to outsource these days. With the
             | Kubernetes example, you can use a managed service whether
             | cloud vendor specific or something that can run on multiple
             | clouds. This doesn't completely let you off the hook for
             | knowing what you're doing, but does effectively outsource a
             | lot of the SRE-related types of activities. In general,
             | managed services are a pretty decent middle-of-the-road
             | option for companies that need a relatively complicated
             | infrastructure for whatever reason but can't justify a
             | large (expensive) team.
             | 
             | Of course, it's also reasonable to ask if they really need
             | that complicated infrastructure.
        
             | whitemary wrote:
             | Where do the specialists come from? University? Or do
             | certain types of environments tend to produce them? How
             | does that happen?
        
               | mschuster91 wrote:
               | That depends. Some come from universities or various
               | types of schools (coding bootcamps, certification program
               | trainings like AWS Certified XYZ, MySQL/Oracle/... DBA,
               | Cisco Certified, Microsoft Partner, you name it). Some
               | drift into specialist roles from generalist jobs (with or
               | without the employer paying for additional training)
               | because they prove to be good enough at a topic no one
               | else cares much about. Some get ordered into it,
               | especially in public service/military where your choice
               | is to obey or get the boot.
               | 
               | Of these:
               | 
               | - the first group tends to have the greater holistic view
               | about their certification topic and know a ton about best
               | practices, but lack detailed knowledge about
               | dependencies, prerequisites and other experience you only
               | gain during real world experimentation and work.
               | 
               | - the second group, the ones I like most, may lack best
               | practices, but their experience makes more than up for
               | that
               | 
               | - the third are one hell of an explosive mixture. Either
               | you get a combination of the first two groups (basically,
               | someone with tons of certificates because you're not
               | worth anything in public service without a paper proving
               | your worth, and a lot of experience working in
               | constrained and otherwise troubled environments) which is
               | the best you can get, or you get a serial bullshitter
               | whose best experience is in kissing leadership arses (as
               | said, all that matters in public service is the papers,
               | not knowledge or performance).
        
               | cratermoon wrote:
               | I'm a specialist in identity and access management -
               | oauth, SAML, SCIM, that sort of thing. How did I get
               | there? In my first job I was tasked with bringing up an
               | organizational directory using x.500 and LDAP. Next job I
               | was asked to help implement what we'd now call a paywall
               | for newspaper's website, where subscribers to the paper
               | got access to additional features. Over the years, more
               | or less every job moved me through stages of knowing more
               | and more about the field.
        
               | tristor wrote:
               | > Where do the specialists come from?
               | 
               | They come from all different walks of life. That's part
               | of what makes hiring specialists difficult. Specialists
               | don't start out that way, they become that way, mostly
               | due to intense focus on a particular area for a long
               | period of time. Some people get that way quickly because
               | they are pre-disposed with passion for a particular area,
               | other people get that way due to their environment
               | needing them to be there and sticking to it.
               | 
               | There's consistent way, that I know of, to "create" a
               | specialist. Probably the closest is by rote memorization
               | and drilling from detailed and intensive instruction,
               | which is the method militaries use to staff specialty
               | roles, but quality and capability vary greatly. I don't
               | necessarily classify these folks as "specialists" in the
               | same way as someone who naturally gravitates towards a
               | subfield.
        
         | scrapheap wrote:
         | > who is working late nights, who isn't
         | 
         | Add to this who starts work early and who doesn't - just
         | tracking when someone finishes working doesn't give you any
         | information without knowing how long they've actually been
         | working for when they leave.
        
           | ajmurmann wrote:
           | This! I've had to step up for folks in the past who were
           | perceived by someone as "phoning it in" by calling out that
           | the person frequently shows up before 6am
        
         | jeffrallen wrote:
         | > Your job is to look
         | 
         | A really dramatic way of learning this is to be a volunteer
         | firefighter. After a couple of years of experience where you
         | know all the roles, they have you try out incident commander in
         | an exercise. Now your job is to keep your head up, your eyes
         | open, your hands off the equipment and manage your team. And
         | you fail and fail again until you finally understand the role
         | of a tactical commander (line manager).
        
           | bluGill wrote:
           | The problem is you can do any single job better than the
           | people under you, but by doing any job you can't keep track
           | of anything else and so all the other jobs you are not
           | touching get worse by more than the one you do.gets better.
        
           | ChuckMcM wrote:
           | I really love that example. Thanks for sharing it.
        
         | PragmaticPulp wrote:
         | > New managers who had been engineers before management and
         | care about the work always tell me "I feel like I'm not doing
         | anything, I should be helping or something."
         | 
         | Your points about managing (interfacing with the company,
         | translating company's demands into a reasonable, steady stream
         | of work) are spot on, but I would also note that the
         | expectations for engineering managers are all over the place
         | right now.
         | 
         | In my first engineering management job I was severely chastised
         | for writing too much code, even though I had the time and was
         | choosing non-critical tickets for myself. The company insisted
         | that managers should manage/delegate and developers should
         | develop with little to no overlap. I internalized this as the
         | way management was meant to be.
         | 
         | Later in my career I took another management role and followed
         | the pure delegation strategy. I was later chastised for _not_
         | writing enough code. They believed managers should only need to
         | spend about half their time managing and the rest should be
         | spent doing IC work. They never communicated this, but assumed
         | it was just how managers _knew_ they were supposed to operate.
         | 
         | Even later in my career I took a "director" role, which was
         | appropriate for my career progression to that point. I was
         | stunned when the VP I reported to informed me that I needed to
         | be spending "at least 2/3" of my time writing code, and that
         | managing shouldn't take more than an hour or two per day. They
         | then proceeded to book me into 20-25 hours of recurring
         | meetings every week. That company had major problems for other
         | reasons and it didn't work out, but after that I always made a
         | point to explicitly ask about manager expectations multiple
         | times during an interview.
         | 
         | Different companies have wildly different ideas about what
         | engineering managers should do.
        
           | andai wrote:
           | >The company insisted that managers should manage/delegate
           | and developers should develop with little to no overlap.
           | 
           | Did you ever find out why?
        
           | P_I_Staker wrote:
           | Wow, that's an insane request for a director. Even at the
           | management level, unless you have a specific, obvious "dual
           | role", this borders on inappropriate.
           | 
           | The company in the first case was the closest to correct. If
           | you really weren't sacrificing your commitments, then they're
           | being unreasonable, but I can say I understand their
           | perspective.
           | 
           | So many engineers move to management, yet want to remain
           | "hands on", and won't let go. It's obnoxious and frustrating,
           | when they inevitably have their heads spinning from meeting
           | after meeting, and no time remaining, but still insist on
           | trying to help.
           | 
           | Simply looking at code output and calling it a problem to
           | produce too much is hilariously shortsighted, but I can see
           | how someone with some bad experiences could trend in that
           | direction.
        
             | trashface wrote:
             | Some go into management for pay and promotions, not because
             | they want to. Long term, IC is often a dead end. Especially
             | at mismanaged companies, which are, (see this post) not
             | exactly uncommon.
        
             | pastaguy1 wrote:
             | > So many engineers move to management, yet want to remain
             | "hands on", and won't let go. It's obnoxious and
             | frustrating, when they inevitably have their heads spinning
             | from meeting after meeting, and no time remaining, but
             | still insist on trying to help.
             | 
             | Oh god, I hate this. The thing that happens most often in
             | my experience is they have time to do the "fun parts" of
             | something, and then leave others with all the testing,
             | paperwork, bug fixing, etc, to make their update into
             | something "real".
        
               | bch wrote:
               | [...] Now draw the rest of the owl.
        
         | coldtea wrote:
         | > _And I tell them, your job is to look. Look at your team, who
         | is working late nights, who isn 't._
         | 
         | Sounds like a toxic environment...
        
           | ianmcgowan wrote:
           | From context (and a charitable reading), it seems obvious
           | that the advice is to identify who is working nights in order
           | to get them some help and spread the load.
        
         | kevin_nisbet wrote:
         | I learned a similar lesson outside of tech... with low wage
         | employees. Often people would have problems dealing with our
         | employee's and complain, but if we dug a bit deeper, it was
         | very often an issue with training, manuals, high turnover, or
         | managers not being good at setting expectations.
        
           | scruple wrote:
           | > managers not being good at setting expectations
           | 
           | Expectation setting (and all of the things that fall out of
           | it) is such a huge problem in my experience. I'm always
           | trying to get clear expectations out of management. I had a
           | ~decade gap in my career where the expectations were vague,
           | ambiguous, bullshit... And worst of all misaligned. First-
           | time engineering managers, specifically, were _all_ so bad at
           | this. I 've walked from jobs where this was the root problem.
           | 
           | Recently, I've landed in a company and on a team where the
           | expectations are _crystal clear_ and, as a result, and
           | closing in on 20 years in this industry, I feel like I am
           | able to do some of my best, most impactful work. Work that
           | will likely outlive my tenure with this organization, and it
           | _feels fucking amazing_!
        
             | steveBK123 wrote:
             | New managers (or bad ones) have a hard time serving the
             | basic functions of - filtering incoming noise, making
             | priority decisions, and allowing some room for ICs to
             | breathe.
             | 
             | The last one - allowing ICs to breathe is extremely
             | important. Most of my best / most impactful / bragged-by-
             | others work was completely unplanned/unscoped/side project
             | kind of stuff where I saw a recurring problem that could be
             | addressed. Most of these were really like 1-2 days of
             | focused work to get to 80%, then when management saw what
             | it got them.. periodic planned/scoped/in-sprint tasks for
             | improvements.
             | 
             | New/bad managers often have a hard time not planning their
             | ICs time down to the minute.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | And, of course, there are people working for that manager who
         | don't think they are doing anything and that middle managers
         | are a waste of oxygen--even though, in fact, they're shielding
         | their team from a lot of crap and, as you suggest, they're
         | doing a lot of coordination of a situation that would otherwise
         | end up with a lot of wasted motion.
        
           | steveBK123 wrote:
           | I think the challenge is that ICs get "outed" pretty quickly
           | if they underperform.
           | 
           | Managers can be more at the whim of whether they have a good
           | team or bad. A bad manager with a good team can take a long
           | time to get "outed" while a good manager with a bad team
           | might get whacked anyway.
           | 
           | Upper Management doesn't really know how to measure the
           | effectiveness of line managers.
           | 
           | So it can make tech senior ICs pretty cynical about their
           | management, especially if you are in a role as I often am
           | where I am directly engaged by clients (directly receiving
           | new requests), planning sprints, sizing tasks, planning
           | roadmpaps, in hours of meetings per day, etc. At some point
           | you wonder if your line manager is just an empty suit.
        
       | D-Coder wrote:
       | Sometimes you have to manage your manager.
        
       | throwawaaarrgh wrote:
       | Blaming management seems like a symptom of a larger problem:
       | people continuing to work for unethical companies. If you're not
       | willing to quit due to bad management, they'll just keep having
       | bad management.
       | 
       | I've never heard of a company that cared more about the welfare
       | of employees than the company's bottom line. The natural result
       | is employees are expendable assets, like machinery.
        
       | danjac wrote:
       | I've been in that position once early on in my career - single
       | developer bearing the load of a project that should have been the
       | work of 3-4 people. It didn't end well - I got the thing done but
       | performance, quality etc were way below par and I got away from
       | the project and company as fast as I could. Nowadays with more
       | experience (not just technical) I would have seen the shit show
       | coming a mile off.
       | 
       | The key factor here was that management dictated a timetable then
       | pulled a fast one and decided to pre-release with a "soft launch"
       | three-quarters of the way through. It was insanity, and older-me
       | would have quit on the spot and told them where to stick it where
       | the sun didn't shine. As it was I got something out the door more
       | or less on time, but it was absolutely nothing else to be proud
       | of.
       | 
       | My advice to younger-me and junior developers in general is that
       | management are generally clueless about software development,
       | even if they did it once in the past (hello Elon Musk) and part
       | of your job is to push back against unrealistic deadlines and
       | features and if you don't do that, you are doing yourself and
       | your company a disservice. Don't let hubris and fear get the
       | better of you.
        
       | jimjonescoolaid wrote:
       | Duh!
        
       | franciscop wrote:
       | This is very common? The most extreme example I've seen by a
       | Dilbert-level hapless manager was assigning me and a coworker to
       | a fullstack project. I was doing front-end, and he was doing
       | backend, and by the nature of the project AND some bad tech
       | decisions the backend was an order of magnitude more complex than
       | the front-end. I did pick up React to learn then so at least I
       | also had some of a challenge.
       | 
       | That's on the technical side, on the project side it was even
       | worse, I had an earlier MVP to base my designs on while he
       | (backend guy) had to deal with multiple basically hostile 3rd
       | party vendors.
       | 
       | The predictable happened, after just 1 month it was 100% clear to
       | me that it was impossible to work at the same pace, so I mocked
       | up all the endpoints I expected, built most of the front-end and
       | was done in 5-6 months, after multiple iterations with the
       | previous business person who made the MVP. The backend (remember,
       | 1 guy) had just gotten the Auth right basically, and almost
       | nothing else in working conditions yet.
       | 
       | My manager reaction? He was pissed that I had done it against a
       | mock API instead of the inexisting real one, told me to wait
       | until the end-points were ready and integrate them and wouldn't
       | give me any other work otherwise despite of my best arguments.
       | What happened is during the next 3 months I was basically writing
       | and rewriting the app, becoming very proficient in React. Then
       | the manager started to hear heat from above, and he started to
       | complain about my coworker in a very similar situation of this
       | article, so I started to look for a new job. That backend
       | coworker left few days after me and never came back (I was
       | probably the only non-hostile one, even friendly, to him at work
       | by that point).
        
         | justinclift wrote:
         | No interest in learning backend dev stuff?
        
           | coldtea wrote:
           | Why should they be? If they were a doctor, would you ask them
           | "no interest in learning x-rays" in a similar situation, if
           | they were doing anesthesiology?
        
             | luckylion wrote:
             | Yes. "Our patients are dying left and right, I was able to
             | pick up a new field of anesthesiology, I could've picked up
             | doing x-rays" => "why didn't you?"
             | 
             | Totally understandable if he says "because I don't like
             | backend", but if you're essentially doing busy work just to
             | keep yourself from going insane while someone else is
             | struggling managing their work, you might as well help
             | them. You'll learn something new, they'll struggle less,
             | and the project will be better off.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | And the company would get away with using people as they
               | like, and under-stuffing roles because "everybody free
               | can do anything else we lack"...
        
               | luckylion wrote:
               | Maybe, but it's not like they'll learn from a project
               | failing and a developer leaving on bad terms that they
               | should staff projects appropriately. They'll shrug and go
               | on while some guy suffered for months and another guy was
               | bored out of his mind.
        
             | justinclift wrote:
             | Because there was a clear mismatch in available dev time vs
             | what was needed, in the front-end vs backend err... teams.
             | Thus asking the question.
             | 
             | As per the answer, although interest was there the
             | situation itself didn't allow it.
        
             | is_true wrote:
             | He could've learnt to mock the endpoints from the backend.
        
               | franciscop wrote:
               | I literally said I mocked up the endpoints from the
               | backend? To which my manager was angry?
        
               | is_true wrote:
               | Sorry. I wasn't able to see that on your comment.
        
             | malborodog wrote:
             | But what we do is not the same as medicine, which is highly
             | regulated and has implications for life and death. Nothing
             | stops us from learning any new technical thing we care to.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | > _But what we do is not the same as medicine_
               | 
               | Doesn't mean it's "whatever need there is and whatever I
               | ask you to do, and forget the role you applied for, to
               | and was hired to do".
               | 
               | > _Nothing stops us from learning any new technical thing
               | we care to._
               | 
               | Nothing should stop us from focusing on the kind of
               | programming layer/expertise we want to do, either, be it
               | systems, backend, front-end, data science,
               | 
               | If people WANT to change layer/role, they can do it
               | themselves. And hopefully at a better company, where they
               | can focus on their desired role, and aren't asked to also
               | write front-end code when they were hired as systems
               | engineers, or perhaps mop the floor because "you surely
               | can learn that too, it's not like moping the floor is
               | like medicine".
        
               | VBprogrammer wrote:
               | I'm not the cleaner in my office but I still take my cup
               | to the dishwasher and put my litter in the bin when I
               | leave. I'm not sure what I'd have done in the OPs
               | situation but it wouldn't have been going round and round
               | in circles slowly improving my own work in isolation.
        
               | tomrod wrote:
               | My thoughts:
               | 
               | > But what we do is not the same as medicine
               | 
               | It is extraordinarily similar from a systems aspect
               | 
               | > which is highly regulated
               | 
               | Some areas of software development are highly regulated,
               | and this is an environmental constraint instead of a work
               | methods outcome
               | 
               | > has implications for life and death.
               | 
               | Much of software has implications for life and death,
               | especially at firmware level or medical device & AI/ML.
               | If your experience is only with FAANG or web front ends,
               | then sure, this statement has teeth. But software
               | automates processes, and a lot of processes can end in
               | death, either by intent (military) or accident (health,
               | law enforcement, manufacturing)
        
           | franciscop wrote:
           | I knew some backend dev stuff (Node.js) and am very much
           | interested. This was Go, and while I wasn't particularly
           | interested (I'd prefer to continue with Node) I would
           | compromise and learn Go to help him and the project. I
           | suggested it but again our manager was strongly against it.
           | 
           | Something I didn't mention which adds an extra of why I was
           | unable to help, this was in Japan, and the
           | backend-{everything} was performed in Japanese while I didn't
           | speak the language, so talk about "not knowing the language"
           | they were using.
        
           | Accacin wrote:
           | For some people, it's not just about learning it's also about
           | extra stress and worry that they might take on work they
           | can't complete. I completely understand that.
           | 
           | I'm the type of person who will mostly say yes to anything,
           | given some allowance on estimates and time.
        
         | fasteo wrote:
         | >>> I was probably the only non-hostile one, even friendly, to
         | him at work by that point
         | 
         | If you did not help him, this is highly subjective
        
           | karamanolev wrote:
           | Not to me. If they wanted to be a frontend dev, billed
           | themselves as such and didn't want to take on backend duties,
           | then they did their fair share by speccing the API and
           | providing that. They have no direct obligation to work on the
           | backend.
        
           | franciscop wrote:
           | I did try to help him in any way I could, but didn't know the
           | language he was using so I was not able to actually code for
           | him. Couple of examples: I made a Node.js program to help him
           | debug why a 3rd-party endpoint he had to call wasn't working,
           | documented the endpoints he was doing (learned Swagger for
           | that), and acted as intermediary between him and our manager
           | to try to reduce the scope of the work or to at least ship in
           | two parts.
        
           | clnq wrote:
           | It sounds fair to me that a developer hired to do front-end
           | work does not want to do back-end. I can't blame him for
           | setting boundaries, especially in a dysfunctional management
           | workplace.
           | 
           | I've been in the back-end developer's situation and I still
           | didn't think it is fair for others to re-specialize and help
           | me in a large company. It's neither mine nor their fault the
           | management is incompetent.
           | 
           | If this was a small company with a close-knit team covering
           | for each other's blind spots, then it could be different. But
           | what was described was at least a medium-sized company where
           | in all likelihood the manager was paid a good amount of money
           | to be competent at their job.
           | 
           | And instead the manager played games, saw the results of
           | their actions, tried to slide the blame onto the person they
           | made fail, and lost good engineers. The situation was
           | completely in the manager's hands and so are the results. If
           | we start expecting people to manage themselves under the
           | managers, then what is the manager doing? Are they just a
           | liability to the company with no upside? The role doesn't
           | make sense then.
        
         | scary-size wrote:
         | What prevented you from helping him?
         | 
         | edit: This comes off as a rhetorical question. I'm really just
         | interested what happened here. The project was assigned to both
         | of you. I imagine that implies some responsibility for the
         | whole of the project. You spent your "free" time learning
         | React. Was there an organisational blocker that prevented you
         | from helping him out, in any capacity?
        
           | coldtea wrote:
           | That his expertise (and desired field) is a totally different
           | layer?
        
             | anileated wrote:
             | Their expertise was not in React either, yet somehow it
             | didn't prevent them from using it on this project. Turns
             | out in this field we can learn quickly and don't have to be
             | razor sharp focused in what we are able to do.
             | 
             | A somewhat charitable explanation could be some internal
             | politics which in large organizations are always baffling
             | to me.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | > _Their expertise was not in React either, yet somehow
               | it didn't prevent them from using it on this project._
               | 
               | Yes, because React is still front-end. He expanded his
               | front-end skills with a new front-end skill.
               | 
               | Sounds like job functon, role, and area of experise don't
               | matter, and everybody should do anything in your mind
               | ("they're programmers, so whether they do front-end,
               | server side, or program embedded software for artificial
               | hearts, they should just jump to it and like it too").
               | 
               | > _Turns out in this field we can learn quickly and don't
               | have to be razor sharp focused in what we are able to
               | do._
               | 
               | Turns out people have specific preferences for the areas
               | they like to work at, and have specific job functions
               | they were hired for (say, "front-end engineer" or "data
               | scientist") and whether they can learn another kind of
               | role is moot.
               | 
               | They might if they want to, or if they have to because
               | they need the money. But it's a totally disfunctional
               | organization one that has them do something they weren't
               | hired too, just because "it's all programming, surely you
               | can learn it".
               | 
               | If you hire a systems programmer you shouldn't expect
               | them to do UI or data science, just because your company
               | didn't bother to have someone else for that. If you do
               | have that need, ask for a "fullstack" engineer, or be
               | upfront that you want people to wear many hats.
               | 
               | Programmers are not just "do whatever/replacable cogs"
               | they have specific preferences, skills and expertise, and
               | career goals. Actually that's true for any profession,
               | not just programmers.
        
               | anileated wrote:
               | Well, in extraordinary circumstances it may be
               | warranted... Help out a colleague, then both leave ASAP
               | on good terms after victorious delivery.
        
               | lowercased wrote:
               | > Turns out in this field we can learn quickly and don't
               | have to be razor sharp focused in what we are able to do.
               | 
               | Turns out this is how many orgs end up with mountains of
               | half-baked copy/paste that sorta works-because-it-
               | didn't-break-yesterday, written by people that have
               | jumped ship to the next shiny-tech-of-the-month company
               | and never have to suffer the consequences of their
               | "quickly-learned non-razor-sharp-focused" actions.
        
             | theteapot wrote:
             | > ... a Dilbert-level hapless manager was assigning me and
             | a coworker to a fullstack project.
             | 
             | Oh so it was actually halfstack project.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | It was a fullstack project with someone doing the front-
               | end and someone doing the backend.
               | 
               | It wasn't a project given to two "fullstack engineers"
               | which is a different thing than a "fullstack project"
               | (which just means project involving all stack layers).
               | 
               | So the sarcasm falls flat.
        
               | theteapot wrote:
               | Oh a half-half-stack project. My bad.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | There's always Reddit for such stimulating intellectual
               | discourse
        
               | theteapot wrote:
               | Hardly qualifies as discourse.
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | bbarnett wrote:
           | _What prevented you from helping him?_
           | 
           | Guy already said, manager wouldn't assign other work.
           | 
           | I have worked in similar. Some workplaces are highly
           | political.
           | 
           | In one case I was on contract, 3 months ahead, suggested to
           | help in other areas, and even offered to "pause billing" and
           | take personal time off. Yes, the contract allowed for it.
           | 
           | Nope. Needed me there every day, doing nothing. Otherwise,
           | upper management would know the project was slipping?!
           | 
           | Some workplaces are highly broken.
        
           | franciscop wrote:
           | The backend was in Go, a language that I have no idea about.
           | Also this was in Japan and backend discussions and 3rd party
           | vendors all happened in Japanese, which I also didn't speak.
           | I suggested learning Go myself and try to help, but my
           | manager was also against it.
           | 
           | I was dubious I'd be of much help when I suggested but at
           | least I'd learn the language we were using and might be able
           | to help long-term. But as things kept getting delayed I'm
           | sure I'd have been able to learn enough to be of help even
           | within that project. But again, had a hard ban to either join
           | a different project or learn/help with Go, "just keep
           | improving the front-end and integrate it with the backend and
           | don't do anything else until that's done".
        
             | scary-size wrote:
             | Thanks for the additional context. In your initial post it
             | came across like you sat and watched the project burn.
        
               | franciscop wrote:
               | Sorry for my bad explanation/coming off as that, since
               | it's definitely the opposite. I actually left the company
               | because of the stress of wanting to help and not being
               | able to help. Going everyday seeing how the project was
               | going into the ground and being told I couldn't help and
               | to just sit there destroyed my soul.
        
             | Aloha wrote:
             | Working with Japanese engineers without either speaking
             | Japanese or being sufficiently acultured to Japanese
             | cultural norms was an interesting experience for me.
             | 
             | Brilliant fellows, with a very different way of thinking
             | about issues. Often however the solution was dictated by
             | things outside of the engineering problem at hand.
        
             | IshKebab wrote:
             | Your manager sounds like a complete tool. Go is easier to
             | learn than React IMO.
             | 
             | Japanese not so much, but it sounds like you could have at
             | least helped with the implementation without speaking it.
        
         | drunkpotato wrote:
         | In a thread about dysfunctional and mismanaged projects, you
         | describe a very dysfunctional and mismanaged project in a way
         | that brings out the hilarity, frustrations, contradictions, and
         | impossibilities of the situation. Good job! And then the
         | majority of the replies completely miss the entire point and
         | ask some variation of why didn't you just superhero up and solo
         | run the project? Providing extra entertainment by
         | unintentionally highlighting exactly the manager galaxy brain
         | that leads to such incompetently run projects. I love it!
        
       | gniv wrote:
       | This is an interesting management-training problem. When you're
       | left with a single veteran developer in a team, what to do? The
       | instinct would be to give them extra support/leeway etc. But I
       | wonder if the better solution is to simply remove that person
       | from the team and replace them with a junior. Short-term pain but
       | long-term gain, maybe?
        
         | dtech wrote:
         | That's only a good idea if the veteran actively prevents the
         | situation from getting better, e.g. by being possesive and
         | contrarian, trives on being the hero etc. This does tend to
         | happen a lot in these situations. The team will also need to
         | have the skill to actually do better.
         | 
         | If the veteran is not sabotaging things firing only throws away
         | the most valuable source of knowledge the team has.
        
       | hd95489 wrote:
       | I'm surprised they didn't house this person. The key to a
       | dysfunctional company is to completely screw over your key
       | workers and drive them out while promoting poor preforming people
        
         | tjpnz wrote:
         | It wouldn't surprise me if the rest of the team were
         | consistently exceeding expectations, proposing bullshit
         | initiatives while refusing to touch the parts which were on
         | fire.
        
           | hd95489 wrote:
           | Absolutely a solid career move. Touching broken things is a
           | mistake at dysfunctional companies. Much better move to chase
           | the initiative of the year
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | I was expecting that kind of twist too because I've seen it in
         | so many companies: Heroic old timer doing the job of 4
         | engineers because the poor performers were not carrying their
         | own weight. One of the poor performers, instead of doing his
         | work, spends his time schmoozing, boasting, and bullshitting
         | his managers, who then reward him with promotion and fire the
         | old timer. The team falls apart because they fired the only
         | person doing anything, and the brown-noser successfully blames
         | the ex-old-timer.
         | 
         | Take as old as time...!
        
           | klabb3 wrote:
           | Absolutely. The majority of old timers are heroes who don't
           | need to stay and tend to their understaffed garden.
           | 
           | However. There are also old timers who refuse to delegate,
           | only ever giving mindless tasks and not training the new
           | folks to be self-sufficient. "They would just screw it up,
           | it's better if I do just do it, it's both faster and better."
           | 
           | You could argue that's a leadership problem as well, of
           | course, but my response would be that if you're the only one
           | who understands a system, you _are_ a leader, and leaders
           | have a responsibility even if they aren't managers by title.
        
             | samatman wrote:
             | That's a great argument!
             | 
             | The hypothetical person in question gets a leader's salary,
             | title, and responsibility, right?
             | 
             | We're not expecting them to hold up the sky for free?
             | 
             | [waits for audience laughter]
        
             | jterrys wrote:
             | >However. There are also old timers who refuse to delegate,
             | only ever giving mindless tasks and not training the new
             | folks to be self-sufficient. "They would just screw it up,
             | it's better if I do just do it, it's both faster and
             | better."
             | 
             | Hah, just observed something similar in a different team.
             | They brought a teammate from overseas for training for a
             | month and during that time none of the old timers
             | interacted with this guy at all. Once this teammate
             | returned they were all mumbling how he doesn't know shit.
             | The same old timers are constantly ranting about being the
             | only ones doing weekend maintenance :)
        
             | scruple wrote:
             | > You could argue that's a leadership problem as well, of
             | course, but my response would be that if you're the only
             | one who understands a system, you are a leader, and leaders
             | have a responsibility even if they aren't managers by
             | title.
             | 
             | Hear, hear! Anyone who has on-boarded to some legacy system
             | has probably experienced this from one end or the other.
             | The trouble seems to be in getting the heroes, as it were,
             | to recognize that they have a responsibility to properly
             | on-board and train, _while simultaneously_ getting their
             | managers to give them the space to do this work and
             | properly prioritizing it (while also helping to keep the
             | fires at bay... Easily 50% of the on-boarding challenges I
             | have faced in my career were because the person who was
             | responsible for on-boarding me was constantly fire-fighting
             | by themselves).
        
             | gedy wrote:
             | Yes, it's usually a management issue, because unless that
             | hero person is given a team or put in a team lead type
             | position, it's frequently impossible to "train others",
             | especially other devs who are uninterested or have other
             | tasks to do.
        
       | megablast wrote:
       | Need to learn to say no and push back. Shouldn't need someone to
       | come and tell you this is ok.
        
         | MonkeyMalarky wrote:
         | But you risk a shitty performance review which still almost
         | happened.
         | 
         | Management should not be giving bad reviews for not meeting
         | unrealistic goals.
        
       | chiefalchemist wrote:
       | This sounds much like The Phoenix Project.
       | 
       | https://www.amazon.com/Phoenix-Project-DevOps-Helping-Busine...
       | 
       | It's a solid read for anyone in engineering or close (e.g.,
       | project manager).
        
       | physicsguy wrote:
       | I think I'm this person in my current role, and it's 100%
       | management related. I interviewed for a team and hand picked some
       | very skilled people to try and relieve my load... and then the
       | company decided to move them off of that project and onto another
       | big contract they've signed. At the same time I'm just completely
       | frazzled. Very hard to get yourself out of this situation when
       | there is no buy in from the organisation that there is an issue.
        
         | H8crilA wrote:
         | Leave, leave, leave. The universal solution to all problems in
         | a market(like) economy.
        
           | physicsguy wrote:
           | Right now it's not an option as I will be going off on an
           | extended period of paid paternity leave in a few weeks, but
           | I'll be looking after that.
        
             | scruple wrote:
             | Sure, but you can look _during_. You don 't owe them
             | anything. You've earned paternity leave and they haven't
             | earned your tenure beyond it.
        
       | unxdfa wrote:
       | Am in this situation. The 3-4 load isn't caused by me but is the
       | minimum work necessary to keep the company from crashing and
       | burning. The cause was a cargo cult restructuring that caused
       | enough ceremony, overhead and friction that ingrained expertise
       | left. The company made no effort to retain people either and
       | won't pay enough to attract new talent.
       | 
       | The solution is simple and will be applied within the next
       | quarter.
        
         | kozinc wrote:
         | If you're the one with the 3-4 load, can you rely on the
         | company to hire more people?
         | 
         | For the worker, the solution is to find a job with a smaller
         | load. For the company, it's to either to find more people to
         | join or to convince the person who manages the high load to
         | stay on as long as possible.
        
           | unxdfa wrote:
           | Well they had a chance to and failed so I'm fucking off.
        
         | anthlax wrote:
         | Atlas shrugged
        
           | unxdfa wrote:
           | That's an interesting perspective.
        
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