[HN Gopher] How to lose $950 quickly on Airbnb
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       How to lose $950 quickly on Airbnb
        
       Author : goostavos
       Score  : 255 points
       Date   : 2023-03-05 21:33 UTC (1 hours ago)
        
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       | stavros wrote:
       | I don't know why nobody is suggesting this, but wouldn't the
       | simplest thing be for the author to say "oh oops, yeah, OK, I'll
       | stay there then" and then just... not stay?
       | 
       | What was the host going to do, go make the guest show ID to
       | verify they're the author?
        
       | Matheus28 wrote:
       | I don't see why someone would still use Airbnb for short stays.
       | At $1.5k for 5 nights in Seattle you can surely stay at a decent
       | hotel (which the OP ended up doing anyway, at $1.3k), and not
       | have to deal with some weird hosts.
       | 
       | Hit them with a chargeback, who cares about getting banned from
       | Airbnb.
        
         | vasco wrote:
         | I used airbnb for a couple of years but soon became apparent
         | that booking through a hotel website directly was cheaper and
         | lots of times included breakfast and you don't have to be their
         | housekeeping at the end. I don't know why people still do it.
         | Since then I've only used it as backup for last minute bookings
         | in the middle of nowhere for just a night if I can't camp
         | because it's raining.
        
         | joezydeco wrote:
         | My Corp just issued a new travel policy last week. AirBNBs are
         | completely forbidden.
        
         | fruit2020 wrote:
         | Homes are sometimes nicer than hotels, better suited for
         | families with children.
        
           | londons_explore wrote:
           | An airbnb feels like 'mine'. Whereas a hotel I have no
           | confidence that some overzealous room service won't barge in
           | and try to change the towels while I'm using them!
        
             | yakireev wrote:
             | Put a "do not disturb" sign on your door, every hotel room
             | has one.
             | 
             | I too don't like it when room service touches my stuff (it
             | is a mess, but it is _my_ mess!) - putting a DND sign on
             | the doorknob and not removing it for the whole stay fixed
             | that problem for me.
        
             | rocket_surgeron wrote:
             | I travel for work approximately 120 nights per year, and
             | have done so since 2011.
             | 
             | The number of times room service has barged into my room
             | without my knowledge and/or permission can be counted on 0
             | fingers.
             | 
             | If this has happened to you you may want to reexamine what
             | hotels you stay in because the only thing you have to do to
             | not experience this, even if you forget to hang up the "Do
             | Not Disturb" sign, is lock the deadbolt on your hotel room
             | door.
        
             | zeroonetwothree wrote:
             | If anything hotels have cut back on cleaning now so no one
             | ever goes in.
             | 
             | And you can always physically lock the door
        
           | Matheus28 wrote:
           | True, but Airbnb isn't the only option. In the past I simply
           | used local companies that specialize in that. It's extremely
           | common in tourist heavy areas. And you don't have a laundry
           | list of things to do before your checkout like some Airbnb
           | hosts expect you do to. The keyword to google for is
           | "vacation rental".
        
         | sdenton4 wrote:
         | I often want to stay in a city for a couple weeks or a month to
         | maximize time with collaborators. An Airbnb with a functional
         | kitchen beats the pants off a hotel.
        
           | dan-robertson wrote:
           | Some cities have aparthotels which can be a reasonable
           | compromise. They can have similarly poorly kitted out
           | kitchens to many Airbnbs, but you don't have to do your own
           | housekeeping and you are dealing with an experienced
           | business.
        
       | jemmyw wrote:
       | Everything about this is silly. You can contact hosts beforehand
       | on AirBnB and I almost always do that, and certainly would if I
       | was going to be booking an even slightly unusual situation (for
       | someone else). I've booked for third parties before too and did
       | exactly that, during a COVID lockdown when we needed to find a
       | place for an old couple.
       | 
       | I'm not sure I believe the host either. Perhaps AirBnB have
       | changed things, but as far as I knew from talking to hosts
       | before, the host could always refund up to the booking date, they
       | had tools to do more than guests in exceptional circumstances.
       | And it's in their interest as this dude is now going to give the
       | host a 1-star rating.
        
         | DangitBobby wrote:
         | Maybe to you it seems like an unusual situation, but to people
         | who maybe don't travel very much, "booking a room for my
         | spouse" isn't something they'd think is "unusual". It's a
         | little absurd that it's "unusual", in fact.
        
       | casenmgreen wrote:
       | IME, the larger a company, and the longer it exists, the more it
       | asymptotically approaches evil, and the less awareness and
       | responsiveness there is to actual end-user experience, and these
       | two factors in the end are the demise of large companies.
       | 
       | Google, Facebook, AirBnB and I would say now Amazon too, are all
       | on this path.
       | 
       | No one like them or trusts them, they are broadly considered evil
       | and their services are used where there are no reasonable
       | alternatives or their monopoly hold of whatever form acts to
       | prevent users from leaving, but the moment there are reasonable
       | alternatives, those companies will be deserted.
       | 
       | Speaking for myself, I have used AirBnB a great deal over the
       | years - back in the early days I thought it was an amazing
       | company. Now I avoid it as much I possibly can; hell, whenever I
       | come to log in again I have no idea if log in will even work,
       | with whatever latest false positive alarm that might have been
       | introduced. It is my last choice, not my first, and I would be
       | very happy never to use it again. When people are writing that
       | about your company, the writing is on the wall.
        
       | wffurr wrote:
       | Can you even leave the host a review at that point to warn
       | others?
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | Why would a scam operation allow someone to post something that
         | discourages other marks from getting scammed too?
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | delegate wrote:
       | There was a time, not so long ago, when you could 'fix' the
       | things that didn't work in the world by building a new app or
       | website. This is how airbnb came about.
       | 
       | Sadly, that is a lot harder now, because all the apps have
       | already been built and they're huge and have all the users. And
       | now millions of people have to deal with the side effects or
       | poorly built or abusive online services which are too big to
       | disrupt or change. Policies upon policies, which, when applied to
       | particular cases mean 'you gave us your money, now it's ours and
       | you get nothing in return and we'll get away with it'.
       | 
       | I think time is ripe for new disruptions.
        
       | Nextgrid wrote:
       | Charge it back via your bank and explain the situation. Worst
       | case scenario, it gets denied, you don't lose anything either
       | way.
       | 
       | The initial misunderstanding was cleared up just one hour after
       | the booking - it should be very reasonable for the host to offer
       | a full refund, it's not like it was a last-minute cancellation
       | where the host would struggle to get it rebooked in time and lose
       | out. The host is clearly being malicious here and trying to make
       | a quick buck by double-dipping - getting some money from the
       | cancelled booking _and_ then relisting the property back on the
       | market.
       | 
       | I am always surprised how many people don't know about payment
       | card disputes/chargebacks or refuse to use them, even _right here
       | on HN_. The bank and card networks are biased towards you to
       | begin with, and there 's no downside to losing one as long as
       | you're not being outright fraudulent or acting in bad faith.
       | 
       | Card chargebacks (or litigation, if you have the means) is the
       | only thing companies understand, especially in a country where
       | consumer protection isn't a thing.
        
         | olliej wrote:
         | Don't do this. Not in America, and not in places with "consumer
         | protection".
         | 
         | Chargebacks are for fraudulent or erroneous charges, not for
         | "you changed your mind about a purchase"
         | 
         | (1) first up in this case, I'm fairly sure that every other
         | party to the transaction would have grounds to say that the
         | chargeback is fraudulent. The author is not saying that they
         | didn't make the reservation, they're saying they realized after
         | entering a contract that the contract was not what they wanted.
         | Similarly the "host" is not breaking the contract: the person
         | agreed to these terms of the contract, apparently having not
         | read them. So this is not a fraudulent transaction, and
         | claiming it is (for a charge back) just sounds like fraud
         | 
         | (2) charge backs are not free to the merchant - as I understand
         | it the merchant is subject to penalties from the processor
         | and/or bank that can easily be hundreds of dollars. So even if
         | the bank doesn't take you to court for fraud, airbnb maybe
         | unhappy at having to cough up a few hundred dollars.
         | 
         | (3) it seems like (IANAL) your chargeback could also be taken
         | as a breach of contract by the host, and frankly they don't
         | seem like people who will take a no harm, no foul response to
         | this, especially if they not only don't get paid but if Airbnb
         | offload any of the chargeback costs.
         | 
         | Fundamentally your running into the reason that there are
         | regulations governing hotels and rental, and why Airbnb insists
         | that in spite of all evidence that is not what they are
         | providing.
        
           | DangitBobby wrote:
           | This is fraud.
        
           | triyambakam wrote:
           | Isn't it fraudulent though? They didn't even use the service.
        
             | makeitdouble wrote:
             | The other side's argument will be they cancelled the
             | reservation and issued a refund under the agreed policy
             | (so, partial refund only)
        
             | olliej wrote:
             | No. If you agree to a contract, and then choose to back out
             | of that contract, or not use the service or whatever you
             | agreed to, that's your choice.
             | 
             | For example: if I rent a car, but then don't pick it up,
             | the rental agency has not defrauded me. If I buy some food
             | at a restaurant and then don't eat it all, the restaurant
             | doesn't owe me a (partial) refund.
             | 
             | If the person believes the host breached their contract,
             | then they can try small claims courts and/or lawyer town.
             | 
             | More realistically given most Airbnb hosts are land lords
             | violating tenancy and hotel regulations it might be worth
             | contacting the local regulatory authorities.
             | 
             | But while you make think the behaviour of the host here is
             | illegal, they placed this person booked was available, and
             | was available under the terms they apparently agreed to, so
             | being told "no you can't violate the terms you agreed to"
             | is not fraud. This person could still go and stay at this
             | property themselves, they just couldn't have some other
             | person stay their instead.
        
           | guluarte wrote:
           | maybe he can sue the host in small claims?
        
         | avalys wrote:
         | I have heard of companies reacting to a chargeback in
         | situations like this by banning your account.
        
           | AdamJacobMuller wrote:
           | And nothing of value was lost.
        
           | burnte wrote:
           | Yeah, but if I have to file a chargeback, I probably don't
           | want to do business with them again anyway.
        
           | miohtama wrote:
           | Uber, others, ban you on a chargeback immediately.
        
             | fencepost wrote:
             | Heck, years ago Uber used to ban you for having an old
             | credit card on the account and trying to book a ride - no
             | warning that the payment method had a problem, just boom,
             | banned. Procedure for resolving was apparently sending a
             | picture with the physical card (showing just the last 4
             | digits) that was on the account, but since it'd been
             | changed months before I didn't have it and didn't care
             | enough to pursue unbanning.
             | 
             | I think the card was replaced after a Home Depot breach,
             | but not sure. Was definitely in or prior to 2015.
        
           | GiorgioG wrote:
           | Firing your customers is not a good long term strategy.
        
           | bsg75 wrote:
           | I would be fine with that. The problem is both with the host
           | and AirBnB, neither of which I would want to do business with
           | again after this.
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | I don't think this person will use Airbnb ever again anyway.
        
           | darknavi wrote:
           | Not a huge issue probably because after loosing that much
           | money I'd be surprised if they ever use AirBnb again.
        
           | davidw wrote:
           | See my other comment elsewhere, but they did not ban me even
           | though I did a chargeback and won.
        
           | nixpulvis wrote:
           | Imagine being banned from Best Western, for example, because
           | you disputed a charge!
           | 
           | Having a dispute, especially one which is so reasonable like
           | this, being grounds for banning is insane to me. Companies as
           | large as Airbnb cannot be just banning whoever they want.
           | 
           | This whole notion of, we don't agree with you, so we'll just
           | ban you thing has got to stop.
        
             | loeg wrote:
             | You should not be issuing chargebacks all the time. Most
             | businesses will resolve without resorting to that. Airbnb
             | absolutely failed here.
        
             | jeromegv wrote:
             | Companies want you to file the dispute through their
             | support system using their existing process.
             | 
             | Once you file a dispute through the credit card company,
             | the dispute process is moved to the credit card company and
             | now the company has a LOT less power on what might be
             | happening. They also get severely impacted from having a
             | high amount of charge back and hurts them the next time
             | they want to negotiate their credit card rate.
             | 
             | So from a market perspective, it makes total sense for a
             | company to ban you. You're causing them problems, refuse to
             | follow procedure on how to handle the dispute, and hurt
             | their bottom line in ways that could impact them at the
             | rate of millions of dollar. They would rather not have you
             | as a customer at all than deal with you again.
             | Statistically, a customer that uses charge back is a lot
             | likely to end up using it again, so they avoid themselves
             | future trouble as well.
        
               | briHass wrote:
               | Not Home Depot. Their support representative was
               | worthless for an online order that was never delivered
               | (lost in transit). They advised me to do a charge back.
               | Luckily, it was an online chat, so I screen capped that
               | to add to the CC docs you have to submit.
               | 
               | Blows my mind; reshipping the item would (given they sell
               | it for a profit) cost HD less than me doing a 100%
               | chargeback, and it would be better customer service. I
               | guess they use the friction of doing a chargeback to be
               | their fraud prevention.
        
               | tromp wrote:
               | He did follow BnB dispute procedure and gave them a
               | chance to overrule the host's unreasonable stance. But
               | BnB conspired with the host to screw him over and should
               | bear the consequences.
        
               | nixpulvis wrote:
               | So we need to externally regulate this market... cool.
        
               | wruza wrote:
               | How can they avoid future trouble by not refunding a 1
               | hour cancel? The next person who makes a similar mistake
               | will chargeback too, unless they aren't aware of it. For
               | a company, the only way out of it is to stay within
               | common sense, because that's what _all_ their clients
               | have in common.
        
               | vuln wrote:
               | Their clients are the Hosts.
        
               | Nextgrid wrote:
               | Silicon Valley scum relies on a lot of people not knowing
               | their rights to open a dispute/chargeback. Seems to be a
               | winning strategy considering even on here most people
               | don't seem to be aware of this option.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | Best Western hotels are individually owned and operated,
             | and Best Western itself does not lose any money from
             | chargebacks, the motel owner does. Best Western gets paid
             | their 10% to 15% of gross revenue royalty either way from
             | the hotel owner.
             | 
             | Hotel owners, however, can and do ban individuals for
             | chargebacks.
        
               | Nextgrid wrote:
               | Hotel owners will in general not screw a potential
               | customer for an honest mistake like this, so maybe the
               | chargebacks actual hotels get actually do warrant a ban
               | compared to VC-funded scammers.
        
             | eli wrote:
             | Uh yeah that absolutely can happen. Car rental companies
             | are known to ban people who do chargebacks. If you refuse
             | to pay a business what they think you owe then there's a
             | decent chance they won't want future business from you.
        
               | luckylion wrote:
               | Isn't the charge-back lower stakes than actually suing
               | them? Because that would be the only alternative left,
               | the charge-back is the third-party arbitration.
        
           | JumpCrisscross wrote:
           | > _have heard of companies reacting to a chargeback in
           | situations like this by banning your account_
           | 
           | Reporting this back to your bank, better yet, with your state
           | financial regulator and maybe a federal copied, usually gets
           | this swiftly reversed.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | I am curious how this would work. I have not heard of a US
             | government forcing a business like AirBnb to do business
             | with a customer unless there was a violation of
             | discrimination against a protected class.
        
               | Nextgrid wrote:
               | I think it's less about forcing them to do business and
               | more about the regulator/consumer protection agency
               | getting wind of what is obviously malicious and
               | potentially illegal behavior from the company - a lot of
               | companies will fold when a case gets anywhere near
               | litigation/consumer protection/arbitration just to not
               | attract attention.
               | 
               | In this case, the chargeback was just the last resort
               | solution for the customer because they were stonewalled
               | by customer "service", but they otherwise didn't want to
               | chargeback and would rather just be able to cancel their
               | booking properly and keep using the service.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Sure, but refusing to do business with someone is legal
               | in most cases.
        
           | bboygravity wrote:
           | I'm confused by the banning comments. Can't you just create a
           | new account with a new payment method and different email
           | address?
           | 
           | Maybe I still have too much of that 90's internet mentality,
           | dunno.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | It should be trivial to ban a certain billing address, plus
             | a lot of companies require SMS 2FA now, and most people do
             | not have multiple phone numbers to burn. Besides that, I
             | think AirBnb might require you to upload government issued
             | photo identification too, but I am not sure.
        
               | zarzavat wrote:
               | Myths that programmers believe about reality:
               | 
               | - Only one person can live at an address
               | 
               | - Two people with the same name can't live at the same
               | address (Jr/Sr)
        
               | Nextgrid wrote:
               | They use heuristics, but yes in general you can work
               | around them if you're persistent enough.
        
               | baremetal wrote:
               | >It should be trivial to ban a certain billing address,
               | 
               | Everything is trivial when you aren't the one who
               | actually has to implement it.
               | 
               | If you ban a billing address: what if someone else moves
               | to that address?
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | With the same name? I think the probability is low enough
               | to accept the false positive.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | dghlsakjg wrote:
               | Haha. I had the same reaction. Clearly this person has
               | never had to deal with addresses in a database.
               | 
               | There are any number of ways to represent the exact same
               | address (apt vs. unit vs. suite vs. '#', 5 digit zip vs.
               | 9- digit zip, st. vs. street), and there are cases where
               | the same address serves multiple people (private/virtual
               | mail boxes). A billing address is a loose identifier at
               | best.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | ScottEvtuch wrote:
               | Surely almost everyone does address standardization on
               | user inputted fields, right? You'd be silly not to do
               | this.
        
             | rcruzeiro wrote:
             | You need to verify your account with an ID or passport
        
             | FractalParadigm wrote:
             | Personal experience shows you can typically use the same
             | payment method and often even the same email address (with
             | a different alias) to get around most bans. You'll get the
             | odd place where this doesn't work, usually because they're
             | implementing IP bans instead of just user bans. Bans are
             | typically, at worst, a minor inconvenience for the
             | person/party receiving it.
        
           | steveBK123 wrote:
           | So you use another email address next time if you must
        
             | Nextgrid wrote:
             | And phone number, and fake name and address (you can do
             | very creative things with billing addresses and have it
             | still match - the matching is very fuzzy).
             | 
             | But yes, these companies will lie and break the law when it
             | suits them, no reason to feel bad about giving them a taste
             | of their own medicine.
        
         | rcruzeiro wrote:
         | I was in a very similar situation and requested a charge back
         | through Visa. it got denied after 2 months and AirBnb sent me a
         | stern email saying they will ban my account if I try something
         | like this again.
        
         | kornish wrote:
         | One danger of chargebacks: companies may ban your account or
         | otherwise treat your activity as fraud. It can be extremely
         | difficult to get through to a person to correct the situation.
         | 
         | I know a couple folks who still can't use Lyft, for instance,
         | because they charged back an NYC Citibike subscription. You can
         | allegedly cancel a Citibike subscription by contacting customer
         | support -- but after no response, they issued a chargeback and
         | Lyft banned them a couple days later. Since the accounts are
         | tied to the phone number, they simply can't use the service.
         | 
         | Support actually managed to reverse the ban for a few days, but
         | then it was re-triggered (presumably by some automated system).
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | Get a new phone number/email/etc. These companies will lie to
           | you when it's convenient, no reason not to lie back if it
           | becomes convenient for you.
           | 
           | However, in this case I don't believe the author will ever
           | want to do business with this disgusting company, so nothing
           | of value will be lost.
        
           | ergocoder wrote:
           | It is cute to think that a person who was scammed on Airbnb
           | for $950 where Airbnb refused to help resolve a blatant scam
           | would even touch Airbnb again.
        
           | dubcee349 wrote:
           | I don't think I would want to ever use Airbnb after that
           | experience so charging back would be worth it.
        
           | WheatMillington wrote:
           | Why would you want to keep using a service that just ripped
           | you off anyway?
        
         | grandpoobah wrote:
         | > Nicky (from the movie Casino): Where the f** do you get off
         | talking to people about me behind my back going over my head?
         | 
         | I'm guessing if he does a chargeback he gets banned from
         | AirBnB.
        
           | goshakkk wrote:
           | This is correct. I had an issue with an Airbnb at some point
           | that Airbnb was struggling to resolve. When I said "whatever,
           | I'll just dispute the charge", the rep said that it is their
           | policy to permanently suspend an account when a user
           | initiates a chargeback. Not "may" but "definitely will". The
           | issue did end up getting resolved after countless phone calls
           | and escalating the issue to supervisors of supervisors but
        
             | zeroonetwothree wrote:
             | That seems like more a 'pro' than a 'con'
        
             | jazzyjackson wrote:
             | Yes at the very least chargeback gives you leverage.
        
             | the_af wrote:
             | It doesn't seem like the author intends to use AirBNB ever
             | again, so a chargeback seems like the right solution...
        
         | dghlsakjg wrote:
         | An important thing to remember is that the chargeback doesn't
         | necessarily absolve you of the legal need to pay.
         | 
         | Just because the credit card company claws the money back
         | doesn't mean that a merchant can't come after you in court/debt
         | collection.
         | 
         | It's not common, but for a big enough transaction, there's
         | nothing stopping a business from coming after you.
        
           | shusaku wrote:
           | On a related know, I wonder if an Airbnb can effectively sue
           | you or there is some kind of mediation clause
        
             | ape4 wrote:
             | Perhaps take AirBnb or the "host" to small claims court
        
           | monksy wrote:
           | Don't forget they've already collected a digital copy of your
           | ID so that it's easier to let them track you down to sue you.
           | [On sign up]
        
           | dubcee349 wrote:
           | Suing someone across state lines for a small amount like 1k
           | is not really worth it in most scenarios if the host is the
           | one that tries to sue you. If its air bnb i don't think a
           | jury would find they deserve the money if it was cancelled
           | within 1 hour of booking due to a misunderstanding.
        
           | User23 wrote:
           | Likewise there's nothing preventing you from suing the scammy
           | host in small claims court. You probably won't get the money
           | for a while, but once you get the real estate lien you'll see
           | it sooner or later.
        
         | londons_explore wrote:
         | Are you actually likely to win this chargeback? I'm sure that
         | airbnb made the terms very clear in their million page T&C's
         | document...
        
           | zeroonetwothree wrote:
           | He paid for a service they didn't provide. So there is
           | definitely some argument to it.
           | 
           | I guess they could say they will still provide the service?
           | lol
        
           | grecy wrote:
           | I've been with my bank 15+ years, and have a good credit
           | rating.
           | 
           | The one and only time I tried a chargeback, they approved it
           | virtually before I could ask for it. I think they look at
           | your account and see you've been a good customer and give you
           | the benefit of the doubt.
        
           | the__alchemist wrote:
           | If it was an Amex card, very likely to win, from my
           | experiences with them.
        
             | baremetal wrote:
             | paying colossal annual fees on a credit card does come with
             | a few perks
             | 
             | edit: they do have cards that have no annual fee. disregard
             | my comment.
        
               | dghlsakjg wrote:
               | I don't know if it counts as a true AmEx, but I have a
               | free one through Wells Fargo
        
               | BenjiWiebe wrote:
               | Amex does have at least one free card issued directly
               | from them. I have one. Blue Cash Everyday I think it's
               | called.
        
               | baremetal wrote:
               | Ah fair enough.
               | 
               | Sometimes you get one free through employers too.
        
               | DangitBobby wrote:
               | My AmEx card doesn't have any annual fees.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I don't have Amex. But higher-tier Visas with annual fees
               | can be worth it for a variety of reasons if you travel
               | and charge a lot.
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | It will depends on the local laws/regulations that apply to
           | distance-selling and the card network rules. Considering
           | there is clearly no bad faith involved from the buyer (he's
           | not even trying to weasel out of the booking - he was looking
           | forward to use the service he paid for), I'd say he has a
           | good chance.
        
         | che_shirecat wrote:
         | Getting yourself banned off of Airbnb for $950 doesn't sound
         | optimal unless you are swearing off short term lodging around
         | the world (outside of hotels) for the foreseeable future.
         | That's one of the negative externalities of capture-the-market
         | VC investing - getting banned on one of these platforms cuts
         | you off from almost the entirety of supply because of how
         | marketplace dynamics work.
        
           | ilikehurdles wrote:
           | Maybe your market is different, but Airbnb is hardly a
           | monopoly on either short term housing or vacation rentals
           | these days. The entire travel booking industry has caught up.
           | 
           | Similarly to the OP, both my wife and I had to pull teeth for
           | weeks to get the full refunds we were entitled to after
           | booking airbnb units. We both had dozens of stays and 5 star
           | reviews under our belts prior to those experiences, dating
           | back through 2013. In my case, it was a unit that the host
           | admitted was infested with rats prior to arrival. In my
           | wife's, it was a unit that didn't remotely match the photos
           | of the listing.
           | 
           | At this point it's my very last resort for booking any kind
           | of stay, which is to say I've effectively sworn off the
           | service. Since then, I've had no trouble finding vacation
           | rentals elsewhere. For $900, yeah, I'd chargeback in a snap.
        
           | twelve40 wrote:
           | it was the case when they were the hot new disruptor. By now
           | there are alternatives for house/apartment rentals, so they
           | can't dick around and rip people off like that anymore.
           | They've been called out on "cleaning fees", at some point may
           | be forced to implement a sane cancelation window as well.
        
           | gsich wrote:
           | I doubt that after such an experience you'll want to use
           | Airbnb again.
        
           | loeg wrote:
           | I would absolutely end any customer relationship with Airbnb
           | for a $950 host scam. If they can't fix that they don't
           | deserve your business and you are better off off their
           | platform.
        
           | hkgjjgjfjfjfjf wrote:
           | [dead]
        
           | SV_BubbleTime wrote:
           | If this is how the service is going to work - why would I
           | want to be part of it? I'm not interested in playing some
           | VC's network effects game.
           | 
           | The era of free money is over for now, they're going to want
           | business soon.
        
             | che_shirecat wrote:
             | You assume you have a choice in playing. Most of the supply
             | will never consider listing on multiple marketplaces,
             | because its a massive hassle. $ABNB is up 48% YTD bucking
             | the rest of the market, they have strong financials and are
             | massively profitable. The growth-at-all-costs play DID
             | work, and now you have no choice but to bend the knee. Edge
             | cases like this will never materially affect their
             | business.
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | Just have a friend use their account. Or make a new
               | account. Or use VRBO or a number of Airbnb's competitors.
               | Or use a sock Airbnb account to connect with a host and
               | then negotiate directly.
        
               | srcreigh wrote:
               | There was a thread this week (?) about how AirBNB will
               | ban you for traveling with a banned person
        
               | SV_BubbleTime wrote:
               | Great, maybe they get banned too and it's two less people
               | playing a stupid game. I'm not going to tell anyone else
               | how to live their lives, but cowering on my knees to tech
               | bureaucracy out of San Fransisco is not how I'll live
               | mine.
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _how AirBNB will ban you for traveling with a banned
               | person_
               | 
               | Why do they need to know?
        
               | ilikehurdles wrote:
               | > $ABNB is up 48% YTD bucking the rest of the market
               | 
               | Thats pretty cherry-picked, and I wouldn't look to stock
               | price to make the conclusions you've shared. Lots of
               | growth companies are bouncing back after being oversold
               | last year. As another cherry-pick, it's also down nearly
               | 50% from its 2021 high.
        
               | twelve40 wrote:
               | I've never been a host so can't speak for multiple
               | listings, though there seem to be a ton of services that
               | try to market to multichannel listing, so "never" seems a
               | pretty strong word here?
               | 
               | But, if the interwebs are correct, airbnb has 7 mil
               | rentals, booking - 6 mil rentals (vacation specifically,
               | not hotels) and vrbo - 2 mil
               | 
               | https://hosttools.com/blog/short-term-rental-tips/vrbo-
               | vs-ai...
               | 
               | whatever advantage airbnb has, they are no longer the
               | only game in town *
               | 
               | * depends on the town
        
           | A_D_E_P_T wrote:
           | There are lots of alternatives. Agoda, Booking.com, and many
           | similar sites offer short-term apartment rentals. Also, in
           | much of the world outside the US, hotels are a better and
           | surer bet than short-term apartment rentals.
           | 
           | Look at it like this: Would you pay $950 for the privilege of
           | using AirBNB? I sure wouldn't. An "AirBNB Membership fee" on
           | the order of $950 should seem absurd.
        
             | r00fus wrote:
             | The alternatives are often better than airbnb too.
        
             | dahfizz wrote:
             | Even in the US, hotels are better and cheaper than airbnbs
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | For most people I can't imagine that keeping AirBnB "happy"
           | is so important that you wouldn't try to get $1000 back. But,
           | yes, it's a problem when keeping AirBnB, Google, Twitter,
           | etc. placated requires rolling over.
        
           | latency-guy2 wrote:
           | If a service stole $950 from me, the last thing I would be
           | worried about is getting banned from the service
           | 
           | They would not get a single cent from me for the remainder of
           | my life and in fact I would do plenty of things to cost them
           | business at any chance I will get.
           | 
           | AirBNB is also not the only short term rental option out
           | there. E.g. Vrbo
        
       | mariopt wrote:
       | Sometimes some hosts make up some ridiculous excuse to lure you
       | into cancelling yourself to make a quick buck. A minority but
       | they do exist for sure.
       | 
       | When I had an issue with "funny" hosts, I reached out to the
       | Airbnb supported and I actually got a full refund and a discount
       | for a future booking as an apology for the situation.
       | 
       | To be fair, your host was extremely rigid. Reach airbnb support,
       | maybe you'll get a full refund.
        
         | brian-armstrong wrote:
         | The post very clearly explains that they did reach out to
         | airbnb
        
       | benj111 wrote:
       | Credit card chargeback?
        
         | twelve40 wrote:
         | what a greedy-ass host! they probably turn around and book
         | these dates with someone else after ripping off the author. I
         | think a chargeback is definitely worth a try here.
        
       | trhr wrote:
       | I had the same thing happen to me. Not only do I not stay at
       | AirBNBs anymore, I cancelled my Discover Card when they refused
       | to fix it... after ~15 years as a customer.
       | 
       | Once you hit a certain tax bracket and your purchases tend to be
       | of a certain value, you start getting a more skilled person
       | trying to fuck you, and they often win. At this income bracket,
       | it's time to get an AmEx (or another card with really good
       | payment protection policies).
       | 
       | But in this case, I'd let the family member sleep in my bed, and
       | I'd go stay at this AirBNB, and I'd probably trash the fuckin'
       | place or something.
        
         | ralph84 wrote:
         | Meh, Amex denied my chargeback when StubHub was illegally
         | refusing refunds for events canceled due to covid. I don't
         | think there is any card out there that hasn't gotten much
         | tougher on chargebacks recently due to both the covid shitshow
         | and the massive increase in chargeback fraud.
        
           | dawnerd wrote:
           | chwrgebacks from stubhub/Ticketmaster/etc are hard since they
           | have you basically agree to not charge back and they use that
           | against you. Had to try a chargeback one with them and also
           | got denied because I signed a waiver. Complete nonsense
        
           | zeroonetwothree wrote:
           | I had no issues charging back thousands because of covid
           | cancellations
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | Outright trashing the place is obvious and will backfire, but
         | there are plenty of subtle ways to generate significant
         | inconvenience and expenses in a plausibly-deniable manner that
         | will only take effect weeks or even months after the fact.
         | 
         | Hint: perishable goods and unaccessible (maintenance?) areas in
         | the property. Pests would also work.
        
           | sva_ wrote:
           | 'Forget' a nice swiss cheese behind the heater.
        
           | Meph504 wrote:
           | Many states have laws that are specific extra penalties for
           | this sort of malicious behavior. Not only could it cost you
           | the cost of undoing any damage you've done, but criminal
           | charges on top of it. probably not the best advice to be
           | giving to people.
        
             | Nextgrid wrote:
             | Key words being "plausibly deniable".
        
           | shitlord wrote:
           | Maybe you could also leave the water running and keep all the
           | appliances turned on for the duration of the stay.
           | 
           | edit: I did a ballpark estimate and it won't even come close.
           | If a bathtub wastes 10000 gallons/day at 0.25 cents/gal, then
           | that's only about $25/day.
        
             | Turing_Machine wrote:
             | I used to do something like that whenever I was in a hotel
             | that charged outrageous fees for WiFi (this doesn't seem to
             | be as common nowadays, though oddly it's more likely to
             | happen in a "luxury" hotel than a "business" hotel).
             | 
             | Nothing damaging or malicious per se, but "Oh, hey, I think
             | I need a fresh copy of every Linux distro"... stuff like
             | that.
        
           | trhr wrote:
           | idk, i'd feel morally duplicitous engaging in plausibly-
           | deniable damages to someone else's property. i'd rather just
           | steal all their lightbulbs or burn the place to the ground.
           | but that's just me.
           | 
           | the nice thing about this strategy is that _you_ don't have
           | to do any of it. because eventually, they'll try to fuck me.
        
         | vasco wrote:
         | Or just say that you'll be staying there even if you're not and
         | not trash anything? I feel like any normal person would not
         | just throw $900 bucks away like this, probably because they
         | wouldn't have planned for a $900 bucks extra spend. What is the
         | host gonna do?
         | 
         | What if you book for a couple and the one that booked gets sick
         | and has to return early? This makes no sense, I feel like most
         | people would've edited the form through support and just added
         | themselves in and not use airbnb again after this.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Are they going to have bed checks?
           | 
           | But depending on the circumstances of how the rental is
           | handled with respect to checkin etc., if the host is going to
           | be an ass, now you have someone else thinking they have a bed
           | and the host won't let them--because you already told them
           | you won't be there.
           | 
           | It does sound in this case though that they could have just
           | checked in with their friend and then taken off.
        
       | toomanyrichies wrote:
       | I recently stayed in Panama City, Panama for a week, and booked
       | an Airbnb for my stay. When I checked in, I was so tired from the
       | flight that I just wanted to take a hot shower and crash. I
       | turned on the shower and waited for the hot water. And waited.
       | And waited. Finally I messaged the host to ask if I was doing
       | something wrong with the shower controls.
       | 
       | The host's response: "We don't offer hot water at this rental."
       | 
       | I was, let's say, surprised.
       | 
       | I asked them where in the listing they mentioned that, and they
       | said "We didn't list hot water as one of the amenities. That was
       | intentional."
       | 
       | So essentially, Airbnb considers hot water to be an "amenity", on
       | the same level as a coffee maker or a carbon monoxide alarm.
       | 
       | Of course I escalated to Airbnb support and of course they sided
       | with the host. So completely aggravating. Like, ok but you also
       | didn't list "front door" or "roof" among the amenities. What
       | should I infer from that?
        
         | saboot wrote:
         | This comment is the one that has convinced me to never use
         | AirBnB again.
         | 
         | That is absurd.
        
         | yakireev wrote:
         | Never been in Panama, but my experience in Colombia was
         | similar: in warmer areas hot water just was not a thing -
         | homes, hostels, hotels just did not have it, without special
         | notice. "Yeah, the temperature outside is above 30C all year
         | round, why would you need more heat?". To be fair, the "cold"
         | water was not really cold either, 25-30C or so, so showering
         | with that was not unpleasant.
         | 
         | Not sure whether things are similar in Panama, but it could
         | very well be. If so, it's cultural barrier, not malignacy.
        
       | SeattleAltruist wrote:
       | Had a similar experience with an ethics-free host. Support was
       | execrable. So canceled my account and use VRBO or hotels.
       | 
       | Don't understand how AirScrewYouAndB is still in business.
        
       | dkjaudyeqooe wrote:
       | This is a scam. We were almost a victim of something similar, but
       | through Expedia. The scam is to induce you to cancel so they can
       | extract a fee.
       | 
       | Basically the listing was nonsense, but we didn't notice it
       | immediately. In our case the flat in Paris was both in the 2nd
       | and 14th androssiment, somehow. It was listed in the 2nd but
       | elsewhere it says 14th.
       | 
       | Of course we went to cancel but there was a 30% fee. We explained
       | it to Expedia customer service and of course they're useless and
       | said the fee was legit and didn't understand the scam.
       | 
       | We took it up with our bank (Chase) who took months to resolve
       | it, we basically kept on getting passed up the chain of people
       | who examine the claims, until we got to a high enough level that
       | they actually understood the scam (after a hour explaining it
       | several times). We were fully refunded our ~$500.
       | 
       | Of course we never will use Expedia again. We generally stick to
       | booking.com because they seem to side with the customer most
       | consistently. Free cancellation, or pay at the hotel is a must.
       | One of the main reasons to avoid AirBnB is that they will keep
       | your money in most cases.
        
       | sambull wrote:
       | I've had too many bad experiences with them AirBNB is a liability
        
       | just4down6 wrote:
       | I had a terrible experience this January with airbnb and it's
       | support.
       | 
       | I had a 6 days stay in Zakopane, Poland. My friend was physically
       | attacked by the owner of the house, and support done nothing but
       | removing my review from one of his apartment page(it's seems that
       | the owner can create identical listing pages for one house, and
       | just hide/show the ones with best reviews on it)
       | 
       | At first support seemed very supportive, but it the end they done
       | nothing, but a "close investigations with an undisclosed results
       | by internal guidelines", according to one of the support-stuff. I
       | also got my review removed because of the "links to external
       | resources"(I've attached the link of the video with screaming
       | home-owner) and emotional advice to use other services like
       | Booking(without direct link). The last one is understandable.
       | Through it wasn't specified as a reason to remove the review, the
       | support gave me no chance to edit or re-post the review.
       | 
       | So at the end I can surely say the only thing they care is the
       | money, and your well-being is the latest thing they care.
        
       | skilled wrote:
       | I would be so mad if this happened to me, what an absolute
       | asshole of a host. Can't believe Airbnb wouldn't enforce it
       | either.
        
         | daneel_w wrote:
         | _> "Can't believe Airbnb wouldn't enforce it either."_
         | 
         | They'd lose money if they did. They understand they can get
         | away with it because nobody can raise enough hell for anything
         | to happen.
        
       | znkynz wrote:
       | Otoh, you did crash a confirmed booking for the host, at too late
       | a date for them to find another guest. I can see both sides here.
        
         | skilled wrote:
         | 1 hour is too late?
        
         | avalys wrote:
         | The article says the initial interaction (including trying to
         | cancel) happened within one hour of booking.
        
       | weaksauce wrote:
       | I had a bad experience with airbnb too. trash company with trash
       | employees that offer no help.
        
       | DangitBobby wrote:
       | I wish we would prosecute fraud in the US.
        
       | GiorgioG wrote:
       | From all the comments here I'm glad I've never used AirBnB. VRBO
       | has thus far been ok - anytime we've had an issue with the place
       | (once) the hosts were reasonable and provided a refund.
        
         | narrator wrote:
         | I think the issue with AirBnB is they are trying to be the
         | cheap low maring option. They rent individual rooms, etc. I
         | think that's where all the terrible customer service comes
         | from.
         | 
         | Perhaps most of their hosts can barely pay expenses and so they
         | do all these sorts of cheats to avoid going broke? Perhaps
         | AirBnB is just desperate for inventory and lets too much stuff
         | slide on both the customer and vendor sides of the marketplace?
         | 
         | Anyway, I have had great experiences with VRBO, which is a bit
         | more expensive generally, and always got a refund if there was
         | a significant issue.
        
       | noncoml wrote:
       | Why wouldn't they fuck your up? They got nothing to lose. They
       | don't have a brand name to protect and it's not like they will
       | not lose you from a customer(it's unlikely you would book with
       | the same host again).
       | 
       | I really don't know why people chose AirBnB. It's the shiniest
       | experience ever.
        
       | WirelessGigabit wrote:
       | First thing that annoys me: they ask for your email address. That
       | way whatever communication you have can be done outside of
       | AirBnb. Big no-no. Like eBay. Don't move outside of the platform.
        
       | madaxe_again wrote:
       | 4.47 rating. That is, believe it or not, a pretty appalling
       | score, and not something I would book. Also, the host is an ass,
       | I cannot count how many times I have had people book for family
       | members, and I've had numerous occasions where someone has booked
       | for someone else for work.
       | 
       | You also want to avoid 5.00 or 4.99 with hundreds of stays as
       | they are inevitably buying or extorting reviews. 4.88-4.97 is the
       | sweet spot.
       | 
       | I really wish Airbnb would just ban hosts like this, as it makes
       | those of us who are honestly trying to provide good hospitality
       | all get tarred with the same brush.
        
         | avalys wrote:
         | Pretty funny that the 5-star system compresses the actual
         | useful signal into less than 10% of the range.
        
           | madaxe_again wrote:
           | It's ridiculous - and Airbnb perpetuate it. If you get a 4.8*
           | or below review, you get a cranky email from Airbnb saying
           | that you suck and red warnings all over the "improvements"
           | section of the admin. It works, just barely, as long as you
           | only book places with like 50 stays and a score in the range
           | I mentioned - which isn't something you expect your average
           | Joe to realise.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | At least historically, eBay was the same. Anything other
             | than Positive: A++++++++++++++++ Fantastic seller meant
             | that they shipped me a cinder block rather than the MacBook
             | I purchased.
             | 
             | >If you get a 4.8* or below review, you get a cranky email
             | from Airbnb saying that you suck and red warnings all over
             | the "improvements" section of the admin.
             | 
             | The one stay I've had at AirBnb--a lovely place in Maui
             | (mostly because the hotels were so expensive and it was
             | nice)--there were at least a couple pleas in the various
             | information about talking to them before leaving anything
             | like a 5 rating because they might lose their super-host
             | status.
        
       | daneel_w wrote:
       | Smells like a systematic scam. An opportunistic one-off like this
       | would already be beyond immoral, but I bet the host is abusing by
       | plan and full understanding of what they can get away with "by
       | policy".
        
       | xwdv wrote:
       | Am I missing something? Why didn't the author just say yes he was
       | staying as well? In fact he was going to be there at check in,
       | just not sleeping there. Do you really think they'll check the
       | bed to see if you're in it every night?
       | 
       | The host is not your friend, if you're doing anything odd with an
       | Airbnb it's best to just be quiet and not divulge more info than
       | what is necessary.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | richiezc wrote:
       | Hot take from somebody I follow on twitter:
       | 
       | "AirBnB is the new Facebook, everyone complains about how
       | terrible it is and yet they keep growing usage & making even more
       | money each year."
       | 
       | https://twitter.com/Carnage4Life/status/1625607351083597825?...
        
       | davidw wrote:
       | My elderly parents were going to visit us last spring, but my
       | daughter came home from school with a sore throat, so I went to
       | cancel immediately, and they weren't willing to work with me _at
       | all_ , and also mentioned I shouldn't have booked for my parents.
       | I did that because they're not very tech savvy.
       | 
       | In any case, I did a chargeback and got all of my money back,
       | even though I would have been happy to forfeit some since this
       | was the day before they were supposed to arrive.
       | 
       | Airbnb did make some noises about removing my account "if this
       | happens again" or something like that, but they can take a hike.
       | The whole thing was handled very badly.
        
         | zdragnar wrote:
         | I ran into a similar situation- booked for my wife to have a
         | girls getaway, the place was disgusting and unsafe (no walking
         | path up a hill covered in snow) and had to book elsewhere
         | because the host wasn't around when they arrived.
         | 
         | Airbnb refused to help, because per Airbnb policy, me booking
         | for my wife counted as a "third party booking".
         | 
         | They tried being reasonable up until the person said "well if
         | your wife damaged something you wouldn't want to be responsible
         | would you?" and I pointed out that legally, in my state spouses
         | are responsible for debts incurred by their partners.
         | Mentioning the word "legal" put an immediate stop to the
         | conversation with a blunt sentence along the lines of "we have
         | done all we can for you. Goodbye."
        
       | stagger87 wrote:
       | I had something very similar happen to me when a mudslide
       | physically prevented me from getting to the property. You'd think
       | you would be able to get a full refund, but the host had to
       | approve and of course they didn't. $400 in my case. This was
       | years ago, and I've never used the site again.
        
       | rjh29 wrote:
       | This is the reason I hope booking.com are successful (they
       | increasingly have aparthotel listings). They usually offer free
       | cancellation and I've never had a problem cancelling for free if
       | I had a good reason (such as illness).
       | 
       | Other thing to watch out for is fees. The place I'm staying at
       | charges 20000yen ($150) if you enter the apartment without taking
       | off your shoes, 6000yen ($44) per hour overstayed after checkout,
       | and inviting anyone into the house for any amount of time causes
       | your entire booking to triple in price ($2000 in my case). I'm
       | not sure if they can enforce those...
        
         | franciscop wrote:
         | They definitely cannot enforce those. Now if you do enter with
         | shoes AND damage the floor a bit*, I still doubt they could
         | even enforce those. Even courts here are not punitive in nature
         | (they are restorative), so even if they sued you and won for
         | going in with shoes, which I highly doubt, at most you'd have
         | to pay for the damage they can prove that you made, which would
         | be few thousand yens.
         | 
         | The only one I am a bit unsure is about guests, since they
         | might technically be able to limit who goes around.
         | 
         | *if you do go with dirty shoes and make a mess is a different
         | matter, I'm just talking about normal walking with shoes
        
           | dan-robertson wrote:
           | Presumably local laws apply. I don't have any idea whether
           | fees like that would be allowed in Japan.
        
       | LewisVerstappen wrote:
       | Looks like you just got the 11 star experience!
        
       | guluarte wrote:
       | I'll call my bank and ask for a chargeback, you may get
       | permabanned from airbnb but fuck them.
        
       | oh_sigh wrote:
       | He should have just stayed the nights then if it was that
       | important and he would be there anyway. And then misplace his
       | frozen fish in a vent somewhere.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | jrootabega wrote:
       | I think "Claire" is a fake persona.
        
         | zeroonetwothree wrote:
         | Probably
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | zoklet-enjoyer wrote:
       | I refuse to use Airbnb after a couple of shitty experiences. The
       | first time, the place was fine and everything. The issue was that
       | when I got there the host told me that he wasn't supposed to be
       | renting out his apartment, gave me a description of the property
       | manager, and told me to tell the manager that I'm friends with
       | the host and staying with him for a few days if the property
       | manager chats me up. So it was just awkward and I was a bit
       | paranoid.
       | 
       | The 2nd situation, and the one which made me decide to no longer
       | use Airbnb, was when we had booked a fake rental. So Airbnb
       | doesn't give you the exact address until after you've booked. My
       | brother booked a house for 11 of us to stay at in Minneapolis. A
       | couple hours outside the city I was trying to figure out the
       | quickest route to the train station when I saw that the pictures
       | on Google Maps didn't match up with the pictures on the listing.
       | This place just didn't exist. We were unable to contact the host.
       | So we contacted Airbnb and cancelled while I tried my best to
       | find a couple of hotel suites to house us all. It was really
       | stressful and dumb and I'm pretty sure there was some sort of fee
       | that my brother didn't get refunded.
        
       | elzbardico wrote:
       | This is one of the reasons, besides all the ethical stuff, that
       | made me stop using AirBnB. Some hosts are a-holes, and AirBnB
       | usually sides with the hosts. Personally I never had issues, but
       | have seem to many having this kind of issue. So, go to an hotel,
       | that pays taxes, have employees and where you are not a source of
       | nuisance for neighbors and an agent of gentrification. As a bonus
       | you will avoid this kind of problems.
        
       | jgb1984 wrote:
       | I don't understand why anyone would still bother with Airbnb. So
       | many headaches. I've used booking dot com, to reserve real hotels
       | or apartments managed by real professional people, all over the
       | world, for over a decade and counting, and I never had a single
       | issue.
       | 
       | Airbnb is built on evading taxes, skirting the law and exploiting
       | the real estate market to the detriment of the local population
       | AND the traveler. Don't support them.
        
       | jedberg wrote:
       | Another notch in the "AirBnB is a totally different experience
       | outside the USA vs inside of it".
       | 
       | Every story I've heard, as well as my personal experience, is
       | that people outside the USA are very customer service oriented,
       | want you to have a good time exploring the place they live, and
       | are generally very attentive and accommodating.
       | 
       | Inside the USA people are just in it as a side hustle. Usually it
       | works out fine, sometimes not so much.
       | 
       | I've never had a bad experience personally, but I've had some
       | pretty amazing experiences outside the USA, but never within it.
       | 
       | (Stuff like hosts buying us groceries ahead of time because they
       | knew we were arriving late, personally showing us around town
       | upon arrival, paying for my offsite parking when my rental car
       | wouldn't fit in the provided garage, etc).
        
         | PufPufPuf wrote:
         | Yes. I've stayed in AirBnBs in Italy, Germany, Hungary, and
         | Japan, and mostly met very hospitable and helpful hosts that
         | seemed genuinely interested in providing the best service.
         | Maybe I'm picky with the listings, maybe I'm lucky, maybe it's
         | a thing of culture like you suggest.
        
       | zeroonetwothree wrote:
       | I only use Airbnb when I have no other options (no nearby hotel
       | or I have too many people). Which has been a total of three times
       | ever.
       | 
       | It certainly doesn't make me want to use them more often. Hosts
       | always have insane rules like I basically have to be a full time
       | cleaner and also the only parking is three miles away and I can
       | only eat in exactly one place.
       | 
       | And I always have to live in fear that something will come and
       | I'll have to cancel and lose 100% of my money. Why is it that
       | hosts can have misleading listings and cancel days in advance
       | while I have no power at all?
       | 
       | Really tells you who Airbnb's customer is.
        
       | akinbio wrote:
       | I also recently lost $3050 to Airbnb and a terrible host in
       | London. The listing was wrong (including the address), but both
       | Airbnb and the host didn't want to refund my long term stay and
       | dragged it to force me to stay. I am still fighting it through my
       | bank to no avail :(
        
       | cubico wrote:
       | Airbnb is awful, it's like all the problems of landlords without
       | any of the protections.
        
       | smallerfish wrote:
       | I'm picturing "Claire" swinging a knife every time "she" says
       | "Chris".
       | 
       | "Hello Chris [stab] might I ask Chris [stab] if you wish Chris
       | [stab] to be scammed today Chris [stab]? That's wonderful Chris
       | [stab] but I'm afraid Chris [stab] that I am required to scam you
       | Chris [stab] by my boss Chris [stab] nothing personal Chris
       | [stab] it's fine Chris [stab]."
        
       | tiredrunner wrote:
       | Airbnb hosts these days are insane for real. You pay a premium
       | and still you do laundry, clear the garbage, mop the floor and
       | what not and still be charged for cleaning.
        
       | anadem wrote:
       | Commenting as a "host" on Airbnb: yes, it's a reeaaally nasty
       | company with absolutely horrible "support", from the hosting side
       | as well as from the guest side.
       | 
       | In this particular case it's an unkind and nasty host as well;
       | they could perfectly well allow the guest despite Airbnb's
       | policies, though Airbnb would say that their laughable "Aircover"
       | "insurance" would not apply to the rental.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | This is exactly what happened with eBay and PayPal. The
         | scammers learn how to work the system and "innocents" on both
         | sides get screwed.
        
       | diogenescynic wrote:
       | I've only used AirBNB a few times and it always sucked. The fact
       | that you have to pay a cleaning fee, then you have to do all
       | these chores on the way out (strip linens down, do dishes, take
       | out trash, etc.) never made any sense. I just wish hotels would
       | have found a way to compete better for longer term stays. You
       | should get some kind of price break for staying longer in a
       | hotel.
        
         | dghlsakjg wrote:
         | Lots of hotels offer weekly and monthly discounts.
         | 
         | They cater to 1. People without housing 2. Longer term business
         | travelers. The former is more affordable, but comes with...
         | issues. The latter is probably what you want.
         | 
         | IME, the nighly cost of an Airbnb is generally in the same
         | ball-park as a reasonable budget friendly hotel after you
         | factor everything in.
        
       | jonplackett wrote:
       | I would absolutely go stay in the Airbnb myself regardless where
       | it is.
        
       | Leader2light wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | onphonenow wrote:
       | Uhh - I came ready to blame Airbnb as I no longer use them.
       | However - you obviously can't do third party bookings and if a
       | host has had third party booking issues (Airbnb will not cover
       | these at all) I think hosts will have a very negative reaction to
       | a third party booking.
       | 
       | Maybe blame Airbnb for not being clearer, but the profile photo /
       | ID verification stuff is designed for the guest.
       | 
       | Do people do third party dating or car reservations etc?
        
         | dan-robertson wrote:
         | Well people do blind dates or get set up by friends or both, so
         | maybe that counts? And the OP managed to make a third-party
         | hotel reservation fine.
         | 
         | I think the actual issue was not the Airbnb rule but that it
         | makes little sense that the OP was unable to cancel at no
         | charge for a reasonable reason an hour after making the booking
         | (and plenty of time before the stay).
        
       | johnfn wrote:
       | This kind of article makes me angry because an extremely similar
       | situation happened to me. I made a reservation months in advance,
       | only to have Airbnb cancel it on me days before the flight out.
       | 
       | I panicked and booked another place, only to try to cancel the
       | booking a few hours later when I calmed down and realized it
       | wasn't large enough. But I couldn't, because of the cancelation
       | policy. I contacted Airbnb customer support and they wouldn't
       | cancel it either, so I ended up having to pay the entire bill.
       | 
       | The supreme irony of course is that Airbnb cancelled a
       | reservation I made months in advance without a single penny paid
       | to me for my inconvenience - but when I cancelled because of
       | Airbnb's incompetence I had to foot the entire bill. Truly
       | absurd.
       | 
       | Airbnb completely lost me as a customer at that point, and I'm
       | someone who had spent quite a good deal on Airbnbs in the past.
       | Hotels have never cancelled on me days before a trip.
        
       | normaldist wrote:
       | Airbnb customer support is terrible. I placed a booking and got
       | complete radio silence from the host. Support wouldn't provide a
       | refund until checkin-in failed.
       | 
       | I had already booked a hotel, and don't use Airbnb anymore.
        
       | irrational wrote:
       | Why didn't they do a chargeback?
        
       | JakaJancar wrote:
       | Why not just tell them you'll be there yourself too?
       | 
       | It's not like they're going to drop in unannounced, ID you, and
       | if you're missing a few times while your friend is there, make a
       | case to cancel the booking in the middle of it.
        
       | ddoolin wrote:
       | I don't use Airbnb since they did a background check (which I
       | guess I agreed to at some point) and then banned me when my
       | record came back. I thought that was strange since it's up to the
       | host if they want your record checked, I think, and instead of
       | preventing me from reserving that particular listing, they banned
       | me for life. It doesn't seem to matter how long ago the offense
       | was, and it also seems pretty indiscriminate with regards to the
       | type of offense as well.
       | 
       | Oddly enough, I can usually go to VRBO and rent the exact same
       | properties, or go to any hotel.
        
       | bensons1 wrote:
       | Had more or less the same situation. My flight got cancled some 8
       | hours after my AirBNB booking. Story is similar, host refused to
       | refund "no refund policy" and AirBNB trying to blame the host. In
       | the end I went to PayPal, as I used them for payment. Opened up a
       | ticket, explained the situation and after 5 days I received a
       | full refund. AirBNB afterwards sent some two horribly translated
       | E-Mails to me, explaining I might loose my account blabla, but
       | nothing happend. Still I stopped using them.
        
       | DueDilligence wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | whiplash451 wrote:
       | Note that the cancellation policy for Hosts is quite generous:
       | https://www.airbnb.com/help/article/990
       | 
       | This lets a host dump you three days before your booking and get
       | away with "only" 25% in fees.
       | 
       | AirBnB definitely invests in their inventory (the hosts).
        
         | ape4 wrote:
         | Easily found in article 900 ;(
        
         | zeroonetwothree wrote:
         | Even if you cancel 1 second before checkin the fee is only 50%.
         | 
         | Meanwhile a guest is on the hook for all of it.
        
         | 123pie123 wrote:
         | I will never ever use airbnb again
         | 
         | In munich I had booked 3 night stay, 2 HOURS!! before i was to
         | turn up the host made an excuse of their dad had died and
         | cancelled the reservation - this was obv nothing to do with the
         | fact they had just realised there was an exhibition on in the
         | area (where rates sky rocket x4)
         | 
         | I spoke to the person and they was extremly unconvicing of the
         | real reason of cancelling - luckly I managed to get a hotel for
         | a little more, but the stress!!!!!!! I WILL NEVER EVER use
         | airbnb again
        
           | plantain wrote:
           | There's something in the water in Munich - I had the same
           | experience, probably because it was just coming into
           | Oktoberfest...
        
             | 123pie123 wrote:
             | Oktoberfest... the memeries make up for all the bad
             | experiances from airbnb
        
       | cmsonger wrote:
       | This sucks. I was doing exactly this yesterday and fortunately
       | figured it out before sending money that I could not do the
       | booking. Instead I told the people I wanted to stay close to me
       | "book it and I'll send you the money."
       | 
       | I bet AirBnB people read hacker news.
       | 
       | Folks: I should be able to pay for another user's booking. It
       | just can't be that hard. I set the dates, supply the payment
       | info, anoint another user of your platform to reach out to the
       | host.
       | 
       | Alternatively (if there's something with payment processing that
       | I don't understand), the user who wants me to pay chooses the
       | dates, writes what they want to say to the host, and then passes
       | the baton to me for supplying payment info.
       | 
       | I've paid for friends and family to stay in hotels a zillion
       | times. I was amazed that your platform does not allow this. Now
       | I'm appalled that it allows situations like OP's to happen. And
       | for the record, I was not thrilled to have to disclose what I was
       | paying for my friends. Until this is fixed, will actively try to
       | use hotels for this in the future. (This was a unique case.)
        
       | berkle4455 wrote:
       | They said "kindly". Claire isn't a real person, that was a an
       | intentional scam.
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | Yep, sounds like third-world boiler room and will explain the
         | determination to make a quick buck and screw the customer
         | despite an honest mistake.
         | 
         | Chances are, the listing itself is a complete scam and there
         | would've been something else gone wrong if the booking
         | proceeded, but the author being honest about the third-party
         | booking gave them an easy way out to begin with.
        
       | gameman144 wrote:
       | I wonder what the outcome would have been here if the author just
       | turned this into a game of chicken with the host.
       | 
       | It sounds like the host said "You can't have this reservation you
       | made", the author said "Okay, I'll cancel", and the host said
       | "Whoops too late".
       | 
       | Since the host is the one who was requesting that cancellation,
       | I'd be curious what would have happened if the author replied
       | with "You can cancel the reservation if you can't fulfill it, not
       | a problem".
       | 
       | Obviously no ruling out that AirBNB wouldn't just charge the
       | author _and_ not give access to the property, but seems like at
       | least a higher probability of success.
        
       | barrkel wrote:
       | AirBnB is like a no-recourse Paypal for random third parties of
       | unknown psychological stability. You do not contract with AirBnB.
       | I recommend staying well away from them.
       | 
       | I have my own horror story, involving an overflowing toilet and
       | hysterical accusations from the host.
       | 
       | We noticed the toilet was backed up in the bowl in the morning
       | and alerted the host. The person the host sent round to look at
       | it found some kind of cosmetic wipe, then the host leapt the
       | conclusion that we were at fault, thinking they were nappy wipes.
       | We were not at fault; we use laundered reusable cotton wipes. In
       | any case, this lead her to _not fix_ the problem!
       | 
       | In the evening, after we came back to the apartment, the toilet
       | started overflowing when the apartment upstairs flushed. Then the
       | apartment upstairs had a shower; water was coming up out of our
       | shower, out of the toilet, flooding out of the bathroom, into the
       | living area. We had a toddler, and toilet water started flooding
       | into his bedroom too.
       | 
       | After some heated phone conversations, the apartment upstairs was
       | determined to be the problem (she was flushing cosmetic wipes),
       | and still the host was incredibly nasty, because we weren't
       | grateful enough that it was cleaned up late at night.
       | 
       | I deleted my AirBnB account after this experience.
       | 
       | It's not worth the risk. Not once.
        
       | browningstreet wrote:
       | Just say you're staying there.
       | 
       | The last few Airbnbs I stayed in had self-checkin. I never saw a
       | person, host or owner. There's an easy way around this issue, as
       | crafty as it might be.
        
       | xadhominemx wrote:
       | I don't understand why you wouldn't just go through with the
       | original plan.
        
       | breatheoften wrote:
       | The "third party booking" element is a drag here since there's a
       | definite scam angle for this from either side.
       | 
       | Guest: always book only for others in order to get refunds
       | against policy somehow (minor) or to do fraudulent bookings with
       | stolen account creds (major problem!)
       | 
       | Host: create a misunderstanding in order to lead a guest down a
       | suboptimal refund flow
       | 
       | I wonder if airbnb support would have been able to advise the
       | customer to just add themselves to the reservation -- seems like
       | that would've actually worked for everyone involved in this case
       | assuming the guest actually trusted the family member that was
       | staying in the airbnb ...
       | 
       | I suppose there could also have been an upcharge for the second
       | guest ...? Really makes this feel even more scammy ...
       | 
       | If airbnb really doesn't think it has the power to take the money
       | back from the seller in this case - they definitely should have
       | the power to eat this fee themselves because this kind of
       | experience will lead people to stop using the platform imo ...
        
       | reverend_gonzo wrote:
       | I am a host and an often traveler.
       | 
       | AirBnb doesn't necessarily side with one side or the other, but
       | rather, there, customer service is outsourced to the Philippines
       | and they just don't care. The side you wins is the side you can
       | say the magic words that specific agent wants to hear.
       | 
       | I've had guests stay at our place and get a refund at the end by
       | lying, and even admitted to me, he knows how Airbnb support works
       | so knew what to say to them.
       | 
       | I've been able to get damage claims paid by Airbnb when guests
       | refused.
       | 
       | Looking at this host though and reading the reviews, this looks
       | like a complete scam. Claire, for one, is definitely not real.
       | Also anything under 4.7 on Airbnb is generally not good. I
       | generally only rent 4.8 and up. The first review (I hough it may
       | not have been up when he booked) mentions being hit up for money,
       | bad checking, etc, lol of which point to a scam.
       | 
       | Had it been me, I wouldn't have cancelled and would have just
       | said I'll stay there and been done with it.
        
       | kadomony wrote:
       | AirBnB is dogshit.
        
       | bsuvc wrote:
       | Unfortunately, I found that the best way to resolve these
       | situations is to post publicly on Twitter about what happened
       | making sure to @ the relevant company and # the relevant things.
       | 
       | If the support group won't help you, then maybe the PR group can.
       | 
       | Basically you attitude has to be "either you give me my $900
       | back, or I'll make sure this problem costs you more than $900 in
       | bad publicity."
       | 
       | The math becomes better for them to give you your $900 back, if
       | they can publicly look responsive to complaints or maybe even get
       | you to take down your post.
        
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