[HN Gopher] Thoughts on getting laid off after nine years at Twilio
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       Thoughts on getting laid off after nine years at Twilio
        
       Author : gregorymichael
       Score  : 97 points
       Date   : 2023-02-14 19:50 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | TobyTheDog123 wrote:
       | [flagged]
        
         | mrsuprawsm wrote:
         | The guy worked there for 9 years. That's a really long time,
         | longer than many posters here's entire careers (mine included),
         | and longer than most of us will ever work at a given job. Of
         | course he's going to be emotionally invested, and knocking him
         | for this is a bit cruel.
         | 
         | Not so long ago, your kids _would_ know you as someone who
         | drives buses for the local bus company, delivers the post, or
         | works down the mine.
        
           | TobyTheDog123 wrote:
           | This is fair take, but I do think there is an additional
           | difference between being emotionally attached to your job,
           | and the content of the post.
           | 
           | I also think there's a big difference between a very high-
           | visibility job like a bus-driver/mail-delivery-worker/mine-
           | worker (where the labor is very accessible/visible to kids),
           | and one in software engineering (my parents work with
           | computers at some company?)
        
         | tptacek wrote:
         | Don't be an ass. He's referring to the way in which all kids
         | see their parents as having a particular occupation. He's not
         | saying that he built his career at Twilio at his daughter's
         | expense.
        
           | TobyTheDog123 wrote:
           | I also don't think he built his career at his daughter's
           | expense, I'm saying that the over-dramatization of the post
           | leads to this even being something to call out, even when it
           | shouldn't be.
           | 
           | You can call me names all you like, but don't expect people
           | to not question intent over a poorly-conceived sentence.
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | You're right: what you wrote is poorly conceived. You can
             | probably just delete it (or edit-clear it)! I'm an ass all
             | the time; I'm not high-horsing you, but maybe we'd all just
             | be better off if this whole subthread vanished.
        
               | TobyTheDog123 wrote:
               | No thanks, I stand by it regardless of what smarmy
               | commenters like yourself think :)
        
       | twawaaay wrote:
       | I wonder if large companies recognise they are shitting in the
       | pond they are floating in.
       | 
       | As somebody with over quarter of century of experience managing
       | and hiring people I notice how candidates change over time
       | (trying to adjust for how I change myself). I notice people care
       | less about the company they work for and, honestly, it is more
       | and more difficult to find arguments against.
       | 
       | This whole trend of optimising everything to the max without
       | caring for people is going to create an employee base that is
       | completely disillusioned about their role or prospects or what's
       | their best strategy for life.
       | 
       | When more and more people started changing jobs every year just
       | to get an incremental raise without even bothering to get the
       | raise at the company I worked for I thought this is shortsighted
       | and it will backfire on them and it will teach them. Well, did
       | not happen. It just became a new normal.
       | 
       | I wonder what new things are going to pass as acceptable.
       | 
       | Any company needs _some_ people who care about what they do. But
       | these are in shorter and shorter supply every year, it seems.
       | 
       | When you run a query on LinkedIn it will show you a list of
       | candidates with their three last jobs. I noticed page after page
       | after page everybody has their third last job starting 2020/2021.
       | Meaning almost all seem to be spending less than a year on each
       | of their jobs in past couple years. And these are all supposed to
       | be _senior_ candidates.
       | 
       | It is no way to have a productive employee base.
       | 
       | You can pay people more to keep them at your company for a while
       | longer, but there is very little you can do to overcome their
       | inherent cynicism.
        
         | jjtheblunt wrote:
         | > When you run a query on LinkedIn...
         | 
         | > It is no way to have a productive employee base.
         | 
         | Does it follow that LinkedIn's misleading statistics, to filter
         | candidates, is also no way to build a productive employee base?
        
         | throwawaysleep wrote:
         | I don't see a reason to even report money being literally
         | wasted in my current jobs.
         | 
         | There is an unused cloud service burning money at one of my
         | jobs. Tens of thousands kind of money. Make a case for me even
         | bothering to tell someone about it.
         | 
         | You can't.
        
           | innomatics wrote:
           | Ok I'll bite.
           | 
           | If management discover that you knew about the wastage, and
           | did nothing, then it can be said that you aren't acting in
           | the best interest of the company. Possibly the opposite,
           | meaning you'd be fired. So there's that.
           | 
           | If there is a culture of apathy and zero oversight and you
           | are 100% sure no will ever care to show that you knew about
           | it, then I pity your situation. Not bothering to tell someone
           | about the wastage it is perpetuating that culture. Eventually
           | company will fail or at best struggle.
           | 
           | I'm my experience it's nicer working at profitable companies
           | where everyone is doing their best to help the company to
           | profit. That doesn't mean your income is less important than
           | company income. But you agree on the former, then do
           | everything in your capability to help with the latter.
           | 
           | If your still not convinced please consider the environment.
           | Cloud services consume not insignificant physical resources.
        
         | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
         | I feel like there's something weird going on in most companies
         | above a certain size. I've worked at small companies with a
         | wonderful culture and people put in lots of work to get a
         | beautiful product shipped. But then when the company grows
         | something changes and pushes those original passionate people
         | out. Everyone else sees the passionate people get treated bad
         | and react appropriately. Suddenly the large company carved its
         | own soul out, and then wonders why its workers come empty.
         | 
         | I would do all I could for a job that respected me as a human
         | being. But it's gotten to the point where you can't trust
         | anyone above you, no matter what they say. Doing well in a
         | growing company means you have to get more and more cutthroat,
         | so you're incentivized to try less and less.
        
         | timr wrote:
         | > This whole trend of optimising everything to the max without
         | caring for people is going to create an employee base that is
         | completely disillusioned about their role or prospects or
         | what's their best strategy for life.
         | 
         | While I get where you're coming from, it's a pretty big leap to
         | go from what's happening now to "optimizing everything to the
         | max". Twilio _tripled in size_ since the pandemic, and wasn
         | 't/isn't profitable.
         | 
         | The same arguments can be applied to most large tech companies.
         | Things got insane, and lean times were inevitable. Given your
         | 25+ years in the industry, you must realize that a huge number
         | of younger engineers have never seen anything other than boom
         | years.
        
           | fzeroracer wrote:
           | What are you referring to? We've gone through multiple cold
           | cycles already. 2012 was a year of large layoffs and tough
           | hiring, so was 2016/2017 and now 2022 for seemingly arbitrary
           | reasons. Some engineers may have gone through these cycles
           | without issue, but everyone was acutely aware of the layoffs
           | when they were occurring and if you graduated during those
           | times it was especially hard to find a job until the job
           | market resumed.
        
             | timr wrote:
             | > 2012 was a year of large layoffs and tough hiring, so was
             | 2016/2017 and now 2022 for seemingly arbitrary reasons.
             | 
             | Everything is relative, I suppose, but those are the sorts
             | of things a person might say if they've never actually seen
             | a downturn.
             | 
             | When I say "downturn", I mean: 2001. 2008. Compared to
             | _that_ , 2012 was boom times. I was running a startup then,
             | and hiring was a brutal competition. Maybe not compared to
             | 2020, but again...that's not normal.
             | 
             | In 2008 we were hiring Ivy-league grads into hourly
             | customer support roles. Circa 2000, programmers with
             | decades of experience were going on unemployment.
        
               | fzeroracer wrote:
               | I mean, 2001 and 2008 are all 'boom times' compared to
               | the great depression and other periods of severe economic
               | downturns if we want to be relative. I'm not sure that
               | really matters though to a new grad that took 6+ months
               | to find a job during one of the period of lean times I
               | mentioned in my prior post however.
               | 
               | It can always be worse, but that doesn't mean it's not
               | bad.
        
         | nibbleshifter wrote:
         | In many positions, and at many points in your career, job
         | hopping or the threat of it is the only real way to get any
         | noticeable raise in actual compensation.
         | 
         | Most companies just don't really reward loyalty anymore.
        
           | hypothesis wrote:
           | Is that what they call a "loyalty tax"?
        
           | atemerev wrote:
           | What is it, 80s? There is no "company loyalty" since 2000s,
           | and soon there will be no "jobs" in general.
           | 
           | We are all contractors and mercenaries now.
        
             | throwawaysleep wrote:
             | Anyone staying more than a year is loyal in my book. And
             | plenty stay more than a year.
        
         | wonderwonder wrote:
         | I very much take a mercenary approach to my jobs. At my very
         | first software job I remember seeing a let go employee walking
         | sadly through the office with a box of his possessions under
         | one arm and a potted plant in the other. Since then I have
         | brought nothing personal into work. If I'm let go I just have
         | to grab my keys and I'm out.
         | 
         | Work is something I do to earn money. If companies can replace
         | people for less or cut them they do. Why be loyal in that kind
         | of environment? I will work hard for the money they pay me
         | though.
         | 
         | At one point I got a job offer for 25% more than I currently
         | made. I told my current director at the time that I got a job
         | offer for 40% more. The director matched the imaginary 40% and
         | I stayed for another year. This company habitually fired people
         | for the most minor of productivity drop offs. They had just
         | recently promoted me without providing a raise. You reap what
         | you sow.
         | 
         | I would love to work in an environment where I felt valued as a
         | person but I have yet to find that. Remote work makes that even
         | harder to find now.
        
           | darkstar_16 wrote:
           | Are you me ?
        
             | wonderwonder wrote:
             | Probably
        
           | wg0 wrote:
           | Here's a very controversial and bitter take. Aiming for
           | maximum downvotes.
           | 
           | It's only when you get fired, you start to see clearly and
           | are able to come out of that flowery lala land of "we're a
           | team", "we're a family" and all that misplaced rather abused
           | analogies.
           | 
           | It's just a commercial relationship rooted in generating
           | profit (nothing wrong with that) for which have to
           | collaborate with others. There's no team, there's no family.
           | 
           | Any prose and poetry beides that is also about squeezing
           | every ounce of profit. It is a for profit activity so at
           | least be direct and honest about it and refrain from
           | borrowing analogies from other social constructs.
        
             | soundsgoodtome wrote:
             | Can you even downvote on HN?
             | 
             | E: For reference, I wouldn't downvote this because it ain't
             | wrong.
        
             | whstl wrote:
             | I don't think it's controversial. Or bitter.
             | 
             | Maybe I disagree about the part about "only when you get
             | fired". To me it was enough seeing people getting fired, or
             | having promotions postponed multiple times for no reason,
             | or seeing a co-worker getting a verbal offers of a raise
             | getting rescinded after they denied a job offer from
             | another company, or having a C-level give me silent
             | treatment when I disagreed with stupid release deadlines.
        
           | goostavos wrote:
           | >I would love to work in an environment where I felt valued
           | as a person but I have yet to find that
           | 
           | CAN that even exist? The mercenary approach seems to me the
           | only one that doesn't fall prey to living in a fantasy about
           | how things "Should" be -- there is only the way they are:
           | it's a business relationship.
           | 
           | Younger me thought otherwise. I was big into startup culture,
           | enjoyed the comradery of working long hours, taking pride in
           | this thing we were building together. Management was great.
           | Hierarchy was minimal. I felt "valued"... And then we were
           | all let go with a phone call. I remember just being like
           | "...Ohhhhh. Right." It's a business relationship. That's as
           | far as it goes. Anything else is an illusion.
        
             | throwawaysleep wrote:
             | Not just a business relationship. A fundamentally
             | adversarial business relationship.
             | 
             | Every dollar paid to me is a dollar less for the
             | founder/VCs.
        
             | JohnBooty wrote:
             | > > I would love to work in an environment where          >
             | > I felt valued as a person but I have yet to find that
             | > CAN that even exist?
             | 
             | Theoretically, yes.
             | 
             | I would be very loyal to a place that helped me grow as a
             | person with continuing education opportunities.
             | 
             | I would also be very loyal to a place that had a solid
             | balance of feature delivery versus vs. technical debt
             | management. (I feel this benefits the company in the medium
             | to long run as well, even moreso than the engineers)
             | 
             | Those things would not necessarily be hard to achieve and
             | would pay for themselves.
             | 
             | Yet nobody actually seems to run their company that way.
             | 
             | I guess the fundamental roadblock is that so many things in
             | capitalism force you to think _only_ about the short game.
             | Thinking even 12 months ahead is often viewed as sheer
             | insanity.
             | 
             | As an engineer, I understand the pressures faced by higher-
             | ups. Keeping the lights on is expensive. Investors want
             | results sooner or later. And higher-ups often don't have
             | the engineering chops to understand why good engineering
             | processes can be such force multipliers enabling faster
             | delivery in 18, 24, 72, whatever months.
        
               | whstl wrote:
               | Sometimes it's not even about the short game of
               | capitalism. I've seen multiple times undesired
               | meaningless features being highly-prioritized without
               | rhyme or reason because of hunches from some PO, because
               | it was politically good internally for some product
               | manager, or because the designer decided to do some
               | redesign, and no higher-up wanted to intervene and check
               | how important it was. When I saw that happening and _I_
               | was  "the higher up", I had to burn a lot of political
               | capital to get the message from the team across. Modern
               | software development is highly dysfunctional but we
               | somehow refuse to tackle it.
        
               | JohnBooty wrote:
               | Modern software development is highly dysfunctional
               | but we somehow refuse to tackle it.
               | 
               | And it's just _unreasonably_ difficult.
               | 
               | Sure, it's pretty rare to hear from anybody that their
               | particular field runs smoothly.
               | 
               | But our field. Man oh man. We know what tech debt is, and
               | we know how it affects the time+effort required to
               | achieve a certain velocity. And yet we spend more time
               | shooting ourselves in the foot than doing anything else.
               | 
               | Quite honestly I feel that the problem has become
               | massively worse in the last decade, with everybody cargo-
               | culting the highly complex architectures of FAANG
               | companies when in reality much simpler alternatives would
               | be an order of magnitude better.
        
             | vsareto wrote:
             | >CAN that even exist?
             | 
             | Fully remote lifestyle business where everyone's workload
             | is around 12-24 hours a week with $100k+ salaries. Everyone
             | in the company makes around the same amount (CEO to
             | junior). Full transparency for the accounting books. Excess
             | profits get evenly distributed to everyone. No investors to
             | answer to. A job that gives enough time and money to do
             | what you want in life.
             | 
             | This is really only for people who are already good at
             | something though.
        
           | kungito wrote:
           | At my first job our manager was fired around the time his
           | partner died of cancer and he was left with 2 little kids. He
           | was slacking but also they knew about the whole situation. He
           | was there for over 10 years. That changed me forever
        
             | wonderwonder wrote:
             | That's really harsh. At the job I mentioned in the above
             | they pip'd me because I delivered 8 points per week instead
             | of 10 for 2 weeks right when COVID lockdown hit. They
             | couldn't understand why the world melting down and my kids
             | suddenly home schooling would have any affect on my
             | productivity.
             | 
             | Companies treat us as replaceable widgets. If widget A is
             | broken just throw it away and use widget B. No reason to be
             | loyal in that environment.
        
               | nivenkos wrote:
               | To the suits we're just a translation layer between the
               | business requirements to deployed code. And they'll be
               | happy to reduce the work to story points and neo-
               | Taylorism, so they can try to treat each person as an
               | interchangeable unit of production, and then minimise
               | costs.
               | 
               | In an era of trillon-dollar megacorps and multi-
               | billionaire CEOs, Marx was ahead of his time:
               | 
               | > He becomes an appendage of the machine, and it is only
               | the most simple, most monotonous, and most easily
               | acquired knack, that is required of him. [...] As
               | privates of the industrial army they are placed under the
               | command of a perfect hierarchy of officers and sergeants.
               | Not only are they slaves of the bourgeois class, and of
               | the bourgeois State; they are daily and hourly enslaved
               | by the machine, by the overlooker, and, above all, by the
               | individual bourgeois manufacturer himself
        
             | malfist wrote:
             | I have a friend who spent 30 years working for a factory
             | building aircraft for the military. One year, a new lead
             | manager comes in and decides he wants everyone on the floor
             | to have a college degree and fires my friend and the six
             | other people there without college degrees.
             | 
             | It really messed up my friend, he was really close to a
             | comfortable retirement, but had to borrow against his 401k
             | to make it through until he could get another job. He was
             | the safety officer for the entire factory, 15+ years of
             | experience doing that. Now he's too close to retirement age
             | and no one will hire him, even though he's personally a
             | long way from retirement.
             | 
             | So now he's working a physically demanding job on the line
             | making cars. All that experience and skills with safety?
             | Junk.
             | 
             | No company has loyalty to their employees. It's all about
             | the next quarter.
        
         | denimnerd42 wrote:
         | accounting rules need to change such that employees are assets,
         | not liabilities.
         | 
         | https://hbr.org/2019/10/the-problem-with-accounting-for-empl...
        
         | gedy wrote:
         | My first two jobs out of college, were 14 years combined. End
         | result was had to move away to work remote to afford a house.
         | (Not SF either)
        
         | fzeroracer wrote:
         | We're seeing the consequences of this stuff. Productivity is
         | going down and you have a bunch of your typical CEO-favored
         | sites going on about quiet quitting, ghosted interviews,
         | unthankful employees etc. To counter this issue rather than
         | improving the workplace they're deciding to try and enforce
         | productivity through spying on workers and forcing people back
         | into the office.
         | 
         | It's all a symptom of what you mentioned where CEOs, upper
         | level management etc are all so thoroughly disconnected from
         | the workforce that they make boneheaded and bad business
         | decisions that destroy the business 3-5 years out. Though none
         | of them get punished for it because of golden parachutes
         | ensuring even the most failing CEO gets rewarded for destroying
         | the company they were running.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | I've worked at my same company for 10 years and I'm
         | disillusioned. There's no real advancement and nowhere else
         | seems any better.
        
           | whstl wrote:
           | Trust me, there is. But it requires the constant job-hopping
           | and series of mind-numbing interviews everyone is doing.
        
         | noddingham wrote:
         | I don't understand how Twilio could need 8500 employees?
         | Atlassian reports 8100 and I'd say they have a much larger and
         | diverse body of work than Twilio. Am I being crass in thinking
         | that this could have been avoided had they not grown headcount
         | "like a rocket ship: straight up and to the right"?
        
       | johncessna wrote:
       | Since the author posted this, what's your goal with writing
       | something like this?
        
         | paulgb wrote:
         | Does it need to have a goal? I found it to be a touching read
         | and an often not-seen personal perspective on the ongoing
         | layoffs.
        
           | johncessna wrote:
           | [flagged]
        
         | mcphage wrote:
         | Probably catharsis.
        
         | thomasfromcdnjs wrote:
         | Yeah, doesn't really say much.
        
       | asaph wrote:
       | As per https://layoffs.fyi/, Twilio laid off 1500 people on
       | 2/13/2023, 17% of its workforce.
        
       | julianeon wrote:
       | Very lovely window into what it's like to work at a place for 9
       | years, and then leave.
        
       | throwaway675309 wrote:
       | Sorry to hear about this, being let go is always a demoralizing
       | experience, but I just can't identify with this type of
       | histrionic response towards being laid off at a company. It's not
       | like you're losing a loved one, and if you properly built up your
       | friendships with your coworkers, they'll still be meaningful
       | relationships even after you're gone. All the lessons and skills
       | that you acquired are still persistent as well.
       | 
       | There must be some kind of cult of personality phenomenon that
       | applies to companies as well as people. I hope that the one good
       | takeaway for this person is that unless you're a majority
       | stakeholder or have ownership in the company, one should learn to
       | be detached about where your paycheck comes from.
        
       | haswell wrote:
       | Greg's "Devs and Depression" talk many years back was a light in
       | the middle of a very dark period of time in my life.
       | 
       | Having followed some of Greg's work when I was doing developer
       | relations, this particular post hit me closer to home than most,
       | and is just another reminder of the caliber of people impacted by
       | these cuts.
       | 
       | When I voluntarily left my job last year to refocus on my mental
       | health for awhile, it was one of the harder decisions to make and
       | I was an emotional wreck throughout the process. Having this
       | happen suddenly is something I'm grateful I haven't yet
       | experienced. Posts like this are a good reminder of just how
       | personal many of these layoffs are for people, and I have nothing
       | but empathy for everyone going through this right now.
        
         | e2e4 wrote:
         | https://youtu.be/CausE8Sc8Uc
        
       | danesparza wrote:
       | Why in the world would Twilio take somebody who is this loyal to
       | their culture and put them out on their ear?
       | 
       | This person was a true believer. They stuck with the company for
       | 9 YEARS.
       | 
       | If you want to shift the company, then do that -- and take your
       | true believers WITH YOU.
       | 
       | This isn't leadership on Twilio's part. This is a scared company.
       | They aren't making smart decisions. They're just cowing to
       | investors.
        
         | znpy wrote:
         | > They're just cowing to investors.
         | 
         | That's what company do... keep the investors happy.
         | 
         | That's also why some companies underline at every possible
         | occasion that they are bootstrapped (ie: they've grown
         | organically without investments from vc firms or similar).
        
       | giardini wrote:
       | I need a break: I read this as
       | 
       |  _" Thoughts on getting laid after nine years at Twilio..."_
       | 
       | and my first though was "...and I thought _my_ job was bad! "
        
       | vertis wrote:
       | One thing I recommend in this situation is forming alumni groups
       | if they don't already exist. Regardless of whether it's layoffs
       | or through just reaching the end of your journey it's a great
       | time to form and/or retain your community.
       | 
       | I'm part of several alumni groups on slack and they continue to
       | be one of the most important networks for all kinds of
       | opportunities. Way way better than Linked In.
       | 
       | Essentially all the trust benefits and social capital of being
       | part of the corporate tribe continue beyond the end of
       | employment.
       | 
       | Edit: fix really long sentence
        
         | cableshaft wrote:
         | Yeah, this is a good idea. There's one guy at my previous job
         | that invites all former coworkers to hang out at a bar a couple
         | times a year, and we get together and catch up. Not too many,
         | just about 10 people end up showing up, but it's enough. I
         | haven't used it for a new job yet, although it did get me an
         | interview.
        
       | busterarm wrote:
       | I can't imagine working for so long at a place burning huge piles
       | of cash every quarter. Looking for the exit is something I'd have
       | done at least 5 years ago.
        
       | rybosworld wrote:
       | I think it's awesome that some people enjoy their work and love
       | their jobs.
       | 
       | That said, if you aren't an owner of the company then I think
       | it's unhealthy to be emotionally invested.
       | 
       | In my last job, I had received a competing offer and informed my
       | boss that I would rather not leave but that this other offer was
       | too financially good for me to ignore. My boss responded by
       | beating the other offer and I stayed there for about five more
       | years.
       | 
       | I later admitted to him that I felt guilt about leveraging an
       | offer in this way. He said something that really stuck with me:
       | "You've got to put yourself first".
       | 
       | In retrospect, the thing that _actually_ stuck with me is that I
       | 'd gleamed into the mind of upper management. That is, they are
       | putting themselves first, and so should you.
        
         | qup wrote:
         | You gotta look out for #1, because nobody else will.
        
         | maccard wrote:
         | > "You've got to put yourself first".
         | 
         | This doesn't mean "take the highest offer", it means putting
         | yourself first. In your situation, going back to your boss was
         | clearly an ask to stay because that was what you wanted. It's
         | possible to be comfortable and content with your work and your
         | job, and to prioritize that over chasing more money too.
        
         | ravenstine wrote:
         | While I totally agree, I can't blame people for getting
         | emotionally invested because today's companies _hammer_ that
         | corporate propaganda into everyone 's heads all the time. There
         | are good intentions, but it's manipulative in the same way that
         | a flaky boyfriend or girlfriend can lead you on even though
         | they're not truly serious or committed. In the cast of
         | corporatism, the sentimentality is directed toward a group of
         | disparate individuals with an overlapping albeit replaceable
         | goal. The best thing for everyone is to see it for what it is,
         | not assume malice, and keep a safe distance.
        
         | znpy wrote:
         | Story time: many moons ago i was in the sane situation, and
         | decided to stay because i loved the team and had a very good
         | work relationship with my boss/team leader... despite the
         | company being kind of a circus on fire.
         | 
         | What I didn't know was that the company that was trying to hire
         | me was also in contact with my boss/team leader, which actually
         | accepted the offer and left.
         | 
         | We still have a good relationship and I still consider him a
         | friend (hope it's the same for him) and we meet from time to
         | time for a beer with other former colleagues.
         | 
         | Needless to say, that was a very formative experience.
        
         | vlunkr wrote:
         | > unhealthy to be emotionally invested.
         | 
         | I used to agree with this, but I've changed my tune recently.
         | Working 8 hours a day on something you're not emotionally
         | invested in for years is incredibly depressing and puts you at
         | risk of burn out. My more nuanced opinion is that you need to
         | find the right pieces of the company to be invested in. I can
         | take pride in the quality of the code, in trying to help out my
         | co-workers, etc.
        
         | twblalock wrote:
         | > That is, they are putting themselves first, and so should
         | you.
         | 
         | Another point to make is, it's possible to know this, put
         | yourself first, _and_ still love your job.
        
         | sgtnoodle wrote:
         | I've always been impressed with upper management at my current
         | company, and I don't believe any of them have that mindset. My
         | wife broke her leg a couple weeks ago, and we have a 3 month
         | old baby and a 4 year old. I had just started working again
         | after taking paternity leave. I've been a rather poor employee
         | the last several weeks, and will continue to be for a while.
         | Middle management is stressed out about schedules and stressing
         | me out, while the word from upper management has been
         | consistently clear: you've always gone the extra mile for the
         | company, so let the company do the same for you. Focus on
         | taking care of your family and don't worry about work.
        
         | andonisus wrote:
         | I see it like this: it is my work. It is my name that goes on
         | the CR, on the commit, on the documentation, etc. Why shouldn't
         | I take as much pride and genuinely care about it as much as I
         | can? At the end of it all, it is my effort, and I will give he
         | best effort I can.
         | 
         | I know I'm speaking about effort, and you're speaking about
         | becoming emotionally invested, but the latter is a natural
         | manifestation of of the former; the emotional investment arises
         | because of the effort I put forth.
        
         | tptacek wrote:
         | This is one of those things that makes sense in the airless
         | vacuum of a message board that has no connection to ordinary
         | life; the mythical "touchless grass" as the tweeters say. In
         | reality, people in all walks of life form deep emotional
         | attachments to their jobs. Plant closures disrupt the
         | identities of entire cities. People are emotionally attached to
         | jobs as checkout clerks. Hit songs have been written about the
         | phenomenon. You can't just tell people not to have human
         | connections to their work. It's like telling Glen Campbell that
         | the Wichita Lineman doesn't own enough of Southwestern Bell to
         | be identifying himself as such.
        
           | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
           | _> You can 't just tell people not to have human connections
           | to their work._
           | 
           | In my case, it has been required.
           | 
           | I'm very fortunate, to have worked for 27 years, for a
           | company that had many, _many_ faults, but always treated
           | their workers as if their career at the company was a
           | critical factor.
           | 
           | That's because it was a "classic" Japanese company.
           | 
           | The best managers that I had, were Japanese (including one
           | that eventually because the Chairman of the Board). The worst
           | ones -by a large margin- were the Americans.
           | 
           | The Americans had very little Integrity. They also tended to
           | be casually dishonest, in a jaw-dropping way.
           | 
           | Eventually, my team was dissolved, and I was laid off. I got
           | a year's severance (It was capped -by the Americans,
           | otherwise, it would have been more). My manager flew in from
           | Japan, to tell me. He was next on the chopping block,
           | himself.
           | 
           | Integrity is important, and very, very rare.
           | 
           | I like to feel as if I demonstrated it, in my own management.
           | My employees seemed to agree.
           | 
           | If I talk about it here, I tend to be met with some fairly
           | sneering, insulting responses.
        
             | perfecthjrjth wrote:
             | Integrity as a virtue is given less weight in almost all
             | business transactions, these days.
        
               | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
               | If you wander around the Diamond District, in NYC, you'll
               | see all these skinny little guys, in rumpled suits,
               | walking around; very often, accompanied by a much larger
               | guy, in a more fitted suit.
               | 
               | These chaps can have millions of dollars' worth of
               | diamonds in their pockets, and they routinely exchange
               | them on a handshake basis.
               | 
               | Integrity has worked for them for a long, long time.
               | 
               | It's not dead. It's just resting. Probably pining for the
               | Fjords.
        
             | lkrubner wrote:
             | In his autobiography Akio Morita (founder at Sony) tells a
             | story in the 1960s, they'd hired an American salesman, who
             | had done very well for them for many years, but then the
             | guy thought he could make better money elsewhere, so he
             | changed jobs. The next year they were all at a big
             | electronics conference in Las Vegas, and Akio Morita was
             | there talking up Sony's latest products, and this American
             | sales guy walks up to them to say hello. Akio Morita, and
             | the rest of the Japanese team, thought perhaps the American
             | would have a sense of shame and so would try to avoid them,
             | but instead the guy walked up and was very friendly and
             | chatted with them awhile. Afterwards Akio Morita realized
             | that the American saw nothing shameful in leaving Sony for
             | some other company that was paying better. It was a bit of
             | a shock for Akio Morita. He had initially thought of
             | America as a paradise for managers, because they could fire
             | a worker whenever they wanted to, but that incident with
             | the salesman caused Akio Morita to see the other side of
             | it, that a worker could quit at any time, and so Akio
             | Morita developed doubts about the American system.
        
               | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
               | I remember when a color scientist that we worked with
               | (she was Japanese), left the company, and joined a direct
               | competitor.
               | 
               | Her name was struck from the lists. It's as if she was
               | never there.
               | 
               | Damn good at her job. I suspect that the "classic
               | Japanese" culture of our company didn't give her the
               | opportunities that the more modern company she joined,
               | would.
               | 
               | I'm not giving names, but both companies are household
               | names.
        
           | throwaway675309 wrote:
           | I'd agree with what you're saying, although I think it highly
           | is dependent upon the personality and independence level of
           | the individual. Even at jobs where I found the work
           | interesting, I've never had the slightest emotional
           | attachment to the company. I'm vastly more interested in
           | working on my own projects and hobbies and after putting in
           | the requisite 7-8 hours in a day I completely switch off.
           | 
           | It's the same for the ostensible loyalty towards ones
           | hometown. I've been just as comfortable living in China as I
           | have back in the states.
           | 
           | I have no loyalty to abstractions like symbols, countries or
           | companies. Loyalty is reserved for friends and my family.
        
       | zerr wrote:
       | 2 hours notice - How do you handover the work? Or is there
       | nothing to handover?
        
         | sensitivefrost wrote:
         | Twilio fired 17% of its staff. There was no handover.
        
         | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
         | I got 0 hours notice -that's fairly common, in the US. Usually,
         | you aren't even allowed to go to your desk, and collect your
         | stuff. You have to schedule an appointment to come back, after
         | work hours, and be escorted there by a security guard.
         | 
         | I (and my team) already knew it was coming. The writing was on
         | the wall, and we had our affairs in order. My Japanese manager
         | appreciated it. I think the American HR manager was a bit
         | disappointed that there wasn't much of an opportunity for the
         | casual bullying and shaming that they do, in these
         | circumstances. The last HR manager was OK. I had zero respect
         | for his predecessor.
         | 
         | HR had the highest turnover of any department in the company. I
         | tended to have a somewhat adversarial relationship with most of
         | the HR managers, but the one that I respected most was fired in
         | an explosion, more than twenty years ago, and now manages a
         | much more prestigious organization. I sincerely wish her well,
         | and she has my respect; little as I'm sure that means to her.
         | 
         | In Marketing and Sales organizations, it's common for people to
         | be walked out the door, immediately after handing in their
         | resignation.
        
         | akmarinov wrote:
         | Who cares? You don't work there anymore. Not your problem.
        
         | rqtwteye wrote:
         | I have never seen a handover being very useful. Nobody has time
         | to receive the handover and if the system is not a total mess,
         | other people will get up to speed quickly as needed. Every time
         | I have seen somebody leave or being laid off, things just moved
         | on without much problem.
        
         | nibbleshifter wrote:
         | Here's the thing I've learned lately from friends who have
         | survived layoffs: handover often doesn't happen.
         | 
         | The company terminates access effective immediately (maybe with
         | gardening leave) for security reasons.
         | 
         | The immediate loss of institutional knowledge causes fucking
         | havoc across the board.
         | 
         | So some people will be taken back on as contractors for a while
         | at extremely expensive rates.
         | 
         | This also means there's a weird incentive to start hoarding
         | knowledge if you suspect layoffs are coming down the pipe...
        
           | nivenkos wrote:
           | And then more good people leave too, as they're more willing
           | to accept other offers.
        
           | paradox460 wrote:
           | This happened to me. Was the sole developer on a certain
           | service. Other engineers would use the service at the
           | company, but no one else really wanted to get into it and
           | work on it.
           | 
           | Was working on fixing an issue one morning, got roped into a
           | meeting, and escorted from the building. Next week, saw an
           | email from a coworker asking how to do something with the
           | service. Told him, politely (don't burn bridges) that I
           | didn't work there anymore and wasn't interested in helping
           | that company without payment. Yeah, it might be thought of
           | that I hung him out to dry, but that wasn't my intent. I just
           | won't work for free, particularly when I was booted without
           | much chance to get my affairs sorted
        
           | fzeroracer wrote:
           | This happens all the time and the downstream effects of
           | hazardous layoffs are often not seen or felt until Jim the
           | resident container expert isn't around to restart the
           | critical containers that all of your other services need, so
           | you start losing a lot of money and time as John the
           | replacement scrambles to figure out how the system works and
           | what to do.
           | 
           | Or they get hired back as a contractor for 3x-4x the hourly
           | wage as you mentioned.
        
       | librish wrote:
       | Reading the responses to some of these posts it feels like the
       | pendulum has swung too far in the other direction in the "the
       | company is not your family" discussion.
       | 
       | Yes, if you expect corporate America to always treat you fairly
       | you're going to end up disappointed. But spending _9_ years at a
       | place and not even giving a little bit of yourself to the company
       | seems even worse.
       | 
       | It's OK to think that your boss cares about you as a person, it's
       | OK to make friends at work, and it's OK to believe in the company
       | mission, as long as you don't overdo it.
        
         | znpy wrote:
         | The author of the post clearly would agree with you.
         | 
         | And got fired anyway.
        
           | znpy wrote:
           | This is not pure cynicism though: had they decided to leave
           | after the first round of layoff they would probably be in a
           | better position when negotiating the next job (something that
           | sadly now they have to do anyway, but as someone currently
           | unemployed).
        
         | Xeronate wrote:
         | Your sentiment is nice in theory, but in reality it's just a
         | recipe for getting taken advantage of.
        
           | librish wrote:
           | It's OK to be taken advantage of _a little bit_.
        
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