[HN Gopher] Tell HN: DEI initiatives undermine the self esteem o...
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       Tell HN: DEI initiatives undermine the self esteem of PoC within a
       company
        
       As a black man, I have some issues with the DEI (Diversity, Equity,
       Inclusion) trend. As it exists within some (most?) companies, it
       seems to perpetuate imposter syndrome significantly. For example, I
       know I'm talented - I've got the projects, certs, and experience to
       back it up.  However, when I have to join a cheesy townhall once a
       month to discuss diversity hires, it makes me feel like I have no
       right to feel proud of any accomplishments I've made within the
       company.  "Why should I feel proud of my accomplishments, when the
       accomplishments were spoon-fed to me by the company because of my
       skin color? If I were a white man with the same experience, I might
       not even be here?"  In my opinion, it would be beneficial if DEI
       initiatives were confidential and kept "hush hush" within a
       company. Diversity is able to be seen. If you're actually a diverse
       company, then people will notice.  I could understand publishing a
       quarterly report, but creating townhall meetings and parading your
       black/brown employees around like show ponies is nothing short of
       corporate virtue signaling.  I realize this isn't the type of
       content posted to HN usually, and I realize it is in 'rant'
       territory, but I know a lot of managers in a lot of influential
       companies hangout here, so I figured posting this could spark some
       meaningful discussion.
        
       Author : qzx_pierri
       Score  : 964 points
       Date   : 2023-02-06 13:45 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
       | workOrNah wrote:
       | [flagged]
        
       | TheLoafOfBread wrote:
       | Same issue with hiring quotas for women in Europe. Did she really
       | get this job based on her merit or did she get it, because she is
       | a woman?
       | 
       | From my perspective, quotas are just covertly saying, that women
       | are stupid children who needs to be pampered by society. I see
       | quotas as degrading and disgusting and I hope that nobody will
       | come with quotas for men.
        
       | tmnstr85 wrote:
       | I had my boss and the CTO (both Black) tell me I was no longer
       | "part of their culture". This was after mid year reviews where
       | attendance at DEI events was the center of discussion.
       | 
       | There is a thin line between personal and professional when
       | dealing with DEI, and it is a tough line to walk. I agree that
       | two things can be true at once.
       | 
       | I also believe that every individual has the ability to break
       | cycles of hate and prejudice, regardless of what we have
       | experienced and encountered. If we are to have hope in the human
       | race, I pray the ability to choose peace is what saves us all.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | throwawayacc6 wrote:
       | I love DIE because I'm a quarter Black. I leverage every DIE
       | initiative I can, in college, in software companies, everywhere I
       | declare myself as "Black". When I finally stroll in for the first
       | day, the HR coordinator and others are shocked that someone as
       | White as Bill Clinton "identifies" as Black.
       | 
       | And we've gone full circle: it's like I need to carry a card
       | around to show my quadroon status because it's just unbelievable.
       | We're back to brown paper bag tests and racial purity.
        
       | malcolmgreaves wrote:
       | You just have a problem with capitalism. Nearly all companies'
       | DEI efforts are fake because they're about marketing. They don't
       | care about using their resources to ensure that they have hiring
       | practices that don't put a spotlight in the places where white
       | people congregate. I got laughed out of the room when I pointed
       | out that my company never attempts to find candidates at HBCUs.
       | Or, frankly, any place that isn't Stanford or MIT. It's cheap for
       | them to lie, saying "oh sure we give a shit!" and then literally
       | do the same thing every brain dead recruiting team "thinks" up
       | for a strategy.
       | 
       | Also, until a company would fire someone for being racist, any
       | DEI work there is meaningless. And I'm not talking hooded-klan
       | level racism (that one you can just sue and win it's so cut and
       | dry).
        
       | damita111 wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | lampshades wrote:
       | Undermines the self-esteem of whites too.
        
       | slowalgo77 wrote:
       | I'm a black man working at a start up for the past 3 years and
       | about 10 YoE at various companies.
       | 
       | No one is forcing you to attend these meetings, at the end of the
       | day you are there to make money for the business and solve
       | problems. Sooner or later there might be one or two people at
       | these meetings and leadership will 'get' the message. Usually
       | these meetings have anonymous surveys where folks can give
       | feedback. On the other hand, the company believes it is worth
       | something for you to know that they are attempting a diverse work
       | place, otherwise they wouldn't have the meeting. I assume
       | positive intent until proven otherwise.
       | 
       | If you want to figure out the 'spoon feeding' issue talk to your
       | manager about why are you selected for tasks and why others are
       | selected for tasks. I'd also change the 'spoon feeding' to
       | something more positive. Spoon feeding has a negative vibe, like
       | you are a helpless little crying baby just waiting for food. But,
       | the reality is that you built a reputation to build software and
       | deliver it on time. The business requires your expertise for
       | certain tasks. The other part of spoon feeding is that there is
       | 'food.' Who makes the baby's food? The CEO? The PM? Is it
       | possible this baby could make their own food?
       | 
       | Essentially, you want to understand how are certain tasks doled
       | out. You should ask if there are certain tasks that are promotion
       | worthy and are those tasks fairly distributed? What tasks are
       | 'beneath' your level i.e. did you spend a quarter working on a
       | highly esoteric distributed problem that not a damn soul cares
       | about, did you solve that nasty race condition that's been
       | haunting the code base for years? This can be hard to get right
       | because some problems are much harder to solve at certain
       | companies than others. This conversation should reveal bias
       | and/or general lack of competence within your manager. Then you
       | will have to figure out how to manage your manager to get what
       | you want out of the business.
       | 
       | There was one point at a startup where one engineer kept getting
       | tasked 'big' issues and he delivered on them very well. I could
       | have interpreted this as a fault of the company but I instead saw
       | that he is a good engineer and can communicate and deliver on
       | business items. On the other hand, he is also being spoon fed
       | business objectives. Again, who is making all of this delicious
       | food??? I had to grow in another way... I had to crawl into the
       | kitchen, play with the ingredients, burn myself, and learn how to
       | make my own food. From scratch mind you! I objectively look at
       | the business without any hand holding and figure out where we
       | could be more efficient, what we would change to save costs,
       | risks/opportunities, and come up with a strategy to deliver. A
       | good manager should give you hints about opportunities, but
       | genuine curiosity can be a savior. I make the food now.
       | 
       | On a more personal note it is nice to have allies/friends. These
       | days it is incredibly easy for someone to do something that could
       | be considered culturally insensitive. Not every interpersonal
       | issue needs to go to HR. Sometimes it's nice to talk to a trusted
       | colleague something that only your religion/race/upbringing would
       | understand.
       | 
       | Having worked at large enterprises and small enterprises I have
       | witnessed and experienced a fair share of soft racism, weird
       | random microaggressions/gaslighting, and people randomly being
       | unpromotable/uncoachable/unhireable despite checking all of the
       | boxes.
       | 
       | In conclusion I decided to focus on me, my work, my own personal
       | growth as engineer, and protecting my mental health. These are
       | concrete things I can measure and control.
        
       | atkailash wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | broast wrote:
       | I think part of DEI is to compensate for currently existing
       | racial prejudices that are unknowingly disadvantaging your
       | probability of hire. What you see as an advantage gained by DEI
       | might actually just be the equalizer that brings you to equal
       | footing with others
        
         | programmarchy wrote:
         | OP _already has_ equal footing based on his qualifications.
         | _He_ doesn 't need an "equalizer". The people who would
         | discriminate against him are the ones who need an "equalizer".
         | In that light, companies who are celebrating diversity are
         | essentially patting themselves on the back for not being
         | racist. So when companies grift so hard off this, it's
         | embarrassing everyone in the process.
        
       | benmmurphy wrote:
       | its probably a deliberate strategy in order to make you feel that
       | you haven't earned your position but rather you are beholden to
       | the people that gave it to you
        
         | FartyMcFarter wrote:
         | I don't think that's right. Most people involved in DEI have
         | good intentions, they're often just too short-sighted to see
         | second order consequences of the way they do things.
        
         | oaiey wrote:
         | that assumes competency of someone to have a real strategy and
         | then competency to conceal it because it is a timebomb waiting
         | to explode.
         | 
         | Too complicated ;).
        
       | rvz wrote:
       | These companies are chasing ESG points to show who is the most
       | diverse company to get more investment, despite DEI being a
       | useless trend that proves nothing but virtue signalling as you
       | said.
       | 
       | It is indeed nonsensical virtue signalling and an enormous and
       | very expensive distraction.
        
       | moomoo11 wrote:
       | I'm Asian and grew up dirt poor. It's annoying af when people
       | think of me as some math genius or whatever with parents who are
       | doctors (they're not.. far from it). I had no choice but to do my
       | best because as a kid I remember no running water and no
       | electricity before we moved to the USA and lived in small
       | apartment with bugs. My parents English is terrible and I saw
       | them suffer here by not being able to afford visiting their
       | family back home. My dad moved here and never went back, could
       | only afford to send my mom a couple times and me once. I'm glad
       | we are doing better today.
       | 
       | I find a lot of these DEI policies to be very generalizing and
       | uncomfortable to be completely honest.
        
       | Zigurd wrote:
       | What you are describing sounds performative, which doesn't mean
       | it's tokenism, window dressing, or a bad faith put-on show. It
       | could all be with the best intentions. However it's hard to
       | disagree with your take that DEI results should be self-evident.
       | If a company feels a need to be self-congratulatory, they might
       | be doing it wrong.
       | 
       | You put your finger on it right here: "I could understand
       | publishing a quarterly report, but creating townhall meetings and
       | parading..." Women and minorities in tech have their networks and
       | know what's what. Accurate reporting of positive results is what
       | makes a company welcoming to applicants.
        
       | tjpnz wrote:
       | Tangential to the current discussion but why do I always sense a
       | reluctance to include matters relating to social class in these
       | programs? When I bring it up during D&I discussions I'll usually
       | get blank stares, and in one instance there were crude comments
       | made about needing to beef up building security first.
        
         | gizmo wrote:
         | Because DEI efforts come from the Ivies that are vestiges of
         | class privilege. It's hard for people to recognize they can be
         | oppressed as well as oppressor, privileged and disadvantaged at
         | the same time. Even though this is the entire point of
         | intersectionality, it's still hard to be self-aware.
         | 
         | The thought leaders of intersectionality, by virtue of their
         | thought-leadership, have a privilege and a reach almost nobody
         | else has. This does not discredit them, but it's awkward to
         | acknowledge that those who preach about privilege are sometimes
         | meaningfully more privileged than the people they preach to.
         | 
         | When people point out this privilege it looks like derailing
         | from their perspective. Because when unprivileged people talk
         | about oppression nobody pays attention to them, but when
         | privileged people talk about it their privilege is then used to
         | discredit their arguments. They can't win!
         | 
         | This exact effect poisons discussions about wealth inequality.
         | When poor people talk about inequality they're ignored because
         | they're sore losers. Rich people are ignored because they must
         | be virtue-signaling hypocrites.
        
         | gadders wrote:
         | It's starting to get traction. For instance, this is a
         | government-sponsored organisation in the UK trying to encourage
         | it in banking: https://www.progresstogether.co.uk/our-purpose/
         | 
         | There are similar orgs for consulting and law. Not heard of any
         | for the FAANG/start-up/tech world.
        
         | Mountain_Skies wrote:
         | DEI took off right after Occupy Wall Street. The whole purpose
         | is to destroy the class discussion entirely and use DEI issues
         | as a weapon against anyone who brings up class. That's why DEI
         | feels so disingenuous, because at its core, that's exactly what
         | it is.
        
           | AustinDev wrote:
           | Bingo, much like the political brinkmanship that is the
           | current left and right divide it's all a distraction from
           | that moment of class clarity.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | Because people believe that social class is your own fault.
         | That people can just pull themselves up by their bootstraps if
         | they weren't lazy. Not that I agree with this.
        
           | rytor718 wrote:
           | This. In US especially, the thought processes around race are
           | just ...catastrophically delusional due to our terrible
           | history with it. And by that I mean it seems to reduce us to
           | rituals like DEI because we simply are terrible at reckoning
           | with it in meaningful, material ways.
           | 
           | But the resistance to dealing with race and class together is
           | real, in part because class is seen as individual problem.
           | Race is seen as more cultural, systemic, or the province a
           | minority running around with sheets on their heads.
           | 
           | I've personally only seen strong efforts to dissect them
           | both, in earnest, at the same time, in the margins of
           | society.
        
         | coffeebeqn wrote:
         | It's easier to hang out with different colors of people from
         | your social class and pretend like you've solved all the
         | problems in diversity. People from lower classes also have icky
         | views that don't align with yours so no thanks!
        
         | LegitShady wrote:
         | your employer doesn't want you talking about social class
         | because they're the ones who have to pay you enough to get out
         | of one class into another. It's much easier if they talk about
         | your DIE 'identity' instead of paying you more.
        
         | ericmcer wrote:
         | Social class, attractiveness, intelligence, charisma, mental
         | health, physical health, luck, etc. all play a big role in your
         | success in life but we don't try to equalize those at all.
         | 
         | Race and gender are probably just really easy to quantify vs
         | "we have a program to make sure we hire people who are dumb,
         | ugly and socially awkward".
        
         | pessimizer wrote:
         | Because the people hired in diversity programs and to run
         | diversity programs are more extreme outliers in wealth relative
         | to the groups they represent than the mean non-diverse
         | candidate. Diversity outreach largely benefits the 1% of black
         | people.
        
         | kneebonian wrote:
         | Because the focus on ID Pol came after Occupy Wall Street
         | started threatening the people in charge, by changing the focus
         | from class to race, sex, and sexual orientation they manage to
         | keep the middle and lower classes fighting each other instead
         | of pushing against the fact that during COVID was saw some of
         | the largest redistribution of wealth imaginable in this
         | country.
        
         | FartyMcFarter wrote:
         | That's definitely true. As an example, if you're a low-class
         | white male kid, you're actually quite disadvantaged compared to
         | the general population (for example in educational outcomes).
         | But the DEI initiatives in most companies won't recognize this,
         | as they often don't look past skin color and gender.
        
           | gadders wrote:
           | I've started getting into socio-economic diversity, and
           | having some success pushing it as a diversity characteristic
           | at work. Whatever your other diversity characteristics are,
           | coming from a lower socio-economic background just makes
           | things harder.
        
           | spacephysics wrote:
           | My brother is about 8 years younger than I, and we both grew
           | up in a small city, but city none the less.
           | 
           | There really wasn't talk about sexuality/gender beyond
           | someone being gay vs straight, or some group of kids being in
           | a gang (there were a few subgroups depending on ethnicity,
           | which they proclaimed themselves)
           | 
           | He's nearly out of high school, and now it's very much
           | focused on DEI. After the states standardized testing is
           | accomplished, most focus is on equality of outcome talk,
           | about how he being a young white male has oppressed groups of
           | people unconsciously, and that he should feel guilty.
           | 
           | Fortunately he's smart, and questioned this at a young age.
           | And a family that accepts him and helps him. But I fear this
           | stuff could make less well off kids feel excluded, shunned,
           | and guilty, and could ferment vengeful ideologies against
           | society, which we need far less of.
           | 
           | It's sad how divided as a country we are. I hope for us to
           | get past this, even as cliche this sounds, for the children.
        
         | barry-cotter wrote:
         | You can't see social class. Social class barely exists as a
         | politically relevant group identity. None of this is about
         | justice. It's about distributing spoils to politically relevant
         | groups. People don't care because there's no benefit to them or
         | their political coalition.
        
         | CPLX wrote:
         | This is a complicated question, but at least one aspect of it
         | is that American culture has always had an incredibly difficult
         | time admitting there is such a thing as social and economic
         | class division and confronting it head on.
         | 
         | At least some of this is probably cultural, it's part of our
         | foundational myth that we broke the rigid class structures of
         | the old world countries and we want to believe that is true.
         | There is of course at least some kernel of truth to it, in some
         | sense, for some kinds of people, historically speaking.
         | 
         | The other reason is that there has been a multi-generational
         | extremely well funded initiative to cultivate media and public
         | opinion against the idea. It's everywhere and is the basis of
         | much of the "culture war" signaling we see around us. Examples
         | include the idea that driving a pickup truck or avoiding lattes
         | is some kind of meaningful class marker, rather than things
         | like who owns and controls the capital of this country.
         | 
         | That effort has been highly effective, in part because it's
         | been well executed and in part because of the total collapse of
         | the concept of a labor party in this country, leaving us with
         | two parties ruled by different professional classes.
        
       | fmajid wrote:
       | Minorities just can't win (although women are actually a slight
       | majority of the population, so it's really white men who are the
       | minority). Every now and then a woman like Marissa Maier or Carol
       | Bartz will get a "Hail Mary" chance at the top job, and when they
       | eventually fail, it's blamed on them being women.
        
       | tohnjitor wrote:
       | If only HR and executives understood the amount of resentment and
       | distrust these policies grow in many of their employees.
        
       | didgetmaster wrote:
       | I remember seeing a cartoon of a dog typing at a computer with
       | the caption of 'Nobody knows you are a dog on the Internet'.
       | Unless someone goes out of their way to point out their race,
       | gender, ethnicity, or age; you generally have no idea who is
       | commenting or who wrote the software.
       | 
       | I couldn't personally care less if my computer was created by a
       | Japanese woman or if my software was created by a black gay man.
       | I just want it to work properly. Same goes for nearly everything
       | else I buy.
        
       | StanislavPetrov wrote:
       | Most marginally intelligent people understand that "DEI
       | initiatives" are all about virtue signalling that do little to
       | nothing except make people feel uncomfortable. Many people who
       | study the issue have concluded that these "DEI initiatives"
       | actually lead to _worse_ outcomes.
       | 
       | https://www.nytimes.com/2021/08/11/opinion/workplace-diversi...
       | 
       | Is it any surprise that contrived struggle sessions and compelled
       | behavioral modification seminars aren't helpful?
        
       | DebtDeflation wrote:
       | DEI has become just another corporate metric for executives to
       | game in order to optimize their bonuses. Same with ESG, NPS, and
       | everything else before it - eventually the metric becomes the end
       | unto itself and the original objective gets completely lost.
        
       | avip wrote:
       | DEI can mean 2 orthogonal things:
       | 
       | 1. Affirmative action. I'll be mostly "against" this vague
       | concept, as it seems incompatible with meritocracy.
       | 
       | 2. Making sure workspace is a safe and pleasant place to work in,
       | where people can generally be heard. This is almost
       | unconditionally "a good thing" which should be actively
       | encouraged.
        
       | PathOfEclipse wrote:
       | Diversity should be natural, not forced. DEI forces diversity,
       | which causes more problems than it solves and harms more people
       | than it helps. It's been this way forever, including back when it
       | was called "affirmative action." I suggest reading this book to
       | see just how disastrous it's been:
       | https://www.amazon.com/Affirmative-Action-Around-World-Empir...
       | 
       | How do we improve natural diversity? Through persuasion, not
       | coercion. That means, first and foremost, improving education for
       | people and instilling the right cultural values so that they have
       | the right skills and qualifications. When we have diverse people
       | with the right skills, diverse workforces occur naturally in a
       | free market system.
       | 
       | Finally, people who think America has a huge racism problem
       | should travel across the world now and also read history better.
       | America is one of the least racist places overall in recorded
       | history. It's something we can always improve on, bu, at this
       | point it's just another problem among many, and our overemphasis
       | on it is also causing far more problems than helping people.
        
         | GaryNumanVevo wrote:
         | Personally, I wouldn't link anything Thomas Sowell has written.
         | He has literally claimed that Black Americans were better off
         | during slavery than they are today [1].
         | 
         | > America is one of the least racist places overall in recorded
         | history [citation needed]
         | 
         | [1] - https://www.aei.org/carpe-diem/thomas-sowell-on-the-
         | legacy-o...
        
           | PathOfEclipse wrote:
           | Personally, I wouldn't blatantly tell obvious lies. I clicked
           | on the link. Sowell didn't say that at all. But I have to
           | admit, that's a new one. Falsely claim someone said something
           | awful, then provide a link to make it look legitimate. It's a
           | pretty vile and disgusting tactic, honestly. But that's what
           | I've come to expect from people of a certain political
           | persuasion.
           | 
           | Anyways, I'll continue to link Sowell. I suggest you stop
           | with the dishonesty, though.
        
       | Eumenes wrote:
       | Big tech companies openly discriminate in the hiring process
       | towards non favored groups, this is a fact. People involved in
       | the hiring committees at these companies know and this has
       | downstream effects. DIE is perpetuating harmful stereotypes no
       | doubt.
        
       | joemazerino wrote:
       | Not surprised we have arrived here on HN. After BLM, there were a
       | flurry of posts supporting DIE as if it's the tyleonal to the
       | racism headache.
       | 
       | "If we hire non-whites, WE can solve systemic racism!".
       | 
       | People didn't stop to think that it hurts everyone all around.
       | White people are now ignored for hires based on their race (as is
       | the Left's proposition towards black names on resumes) and
       | minorities are paraded around as if they are corporate mascots.
       | 
       | I feel for you OP. IMO the next hiring landscape is in anonymous
       | handles providing superior results. Keep increasing your skills
       | and climb above the DIE garbage hole.
        
       | Scubabear68 wrote:
       | I'm a tall white middle aged dude living in the US, so I am
       | probably not the best person to comment. But to me DEI is mostly
       | window dressing.
       | 
       | I agree with OP that companies should have policies around this,
       | but they should be aimed at being quietly effective, not
       | something to trumpet in the quarterly corporate report.
       | 
       | And emphasis on "effective".
       | 
       | If we fold in environment and governance, I see too many
       | companies doing things like planting a zillion trees to show
       | their environmental savvy - which in reality are unfortunately,
       | saplings which are eaten by deer within a few months and end up
       | being a net loss to the environment.
        
       | AdamN wrote:
       | You shouldn't have to do this but if you're being asked to
       | present at the DEI townhall, you might politely but firmly ask
       | for a different panel makeup to reflect the power the company is
       | putting behind the effort. These initiatives should be driven by
       | the business units, is the VP of product there, the SVP of
       | engineering, the officers of the company, board members even???
       | 
       | This panel can talk about what they're doing to drive the
       | initiative and ideally there are no DEI/People people on stage at
       | all aside from maybe a moderator. If there is no diversity on
       | that stage ... ask them what they're doing about it and if it's a
       | goal for them to drive inclusion at all levels.
       | 
       | Also, big monthly meetings are an anti-pattern. Once high level
       | people are participating, you will hopefully see the frequency go
       | down and the quality go up.
        
       | micromacrofoot wrote:
       | > If I were a white man with the same experience, I might not
       | even be here?
       | 
       | I get this... but is the contrary worse? you've very possibly
       | missed out on jobs at the expense of a less qualified white
       | person. There's some evidence that even having a "black sounding
       | name" results in resumes being looked over.
       | 
       | https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2021-07-29/job-appli...
       | 
       | Inclusivity initiatives can be problematic, but prior to their
       | existence a lot of the time it was "continue not even being fully
       | aware that you only hire white people"
        
         | joemazerino wrote:
         | Applying real world hard from theoretical data is exactly why
         | DIE should die. It is absolutely absurd to assume that data
         | supporting racism (ie: black people can't get jobs because they
         | are somehow handicapped) is more applicable than data showing
         | equality of opportunity.
         | 
         | Play this logic game: besides racism, why do you think these
         | resumes are passed over?
        
           | micromacrofoot wrote:
           | It's not really a "logic game"... that seems like a
           | dismissive way to approach this conversation and makes me
           | feel like you may not be willing to entertain any ideas
           | through the course of a discussion.
           | 
           | There have been multiple experiments run using resumes with
           | identical experience but different names, and it seems that
           | "black sounding" names are consistently called back less
           | often, in some cases 50% less.
           | 
           | https://www.nber.org/digest/sep03/employers-replies-
           | racial-n...
           | 
           | This makes me feel like some kind of hard requirement like a
           | quota might actually be corrective given that there are
           | measurable biases in who gets called back for an interview?
           | 
           | Or maybe to put it in a different lens, given this is a
           | narrow scope of data that doesn't do much to support the
           | vague idea of a "diversity initiative" -- perhaps the better
           | approach would be anonymizing resumes during the initial
           | outreach process?
        
       | benj111 wrote:
       | >corporate virtue signaling
       | 
       | See, you do get it. Although TBF the 'progressive' left is
       | basically nothing but virtue signalling at the moment.
       | 
       | And you highlight the problem with putting 'diversity' front and
       | centre. It disadvantages me if I don't get the job and end up
       | annoyed at you, legitimately or not because you got the job. Your
       | achievements are devalued because you don't know whether you got
       | the job because of the colour of your skin, and neither do your
       | work colleagues.
       | 
       | Employers shouldn't care about the colour of your skin any
       | further than potentially examining why they aren't attracting
       | certain groups in the interest of getting the very best talent
       | available.
       | 
       | Equality should be the goal.
        
       | mberning wrote:
       | I feel like it has a chilling effect on everything. As you have
       | pointed out, it can make people in the target group feel
       | patronized. And at the same time it can make people in the non-
       | targeted group feel less desirable or less useful to the
       | organization. I could say a lot more about it and what I have
       | seen first hand, but I'll leave it at that.
        
       | warchowder wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | antisceptic wrote:
       | One problem with DEI is that many ethnicities get thrown under
       | the white or white-adjacent umbrella and aren't given the same
       | opportunities simply because the popular view of history doesn't
       | seem them as historically oppressed when in fact they were. For
       | instance, Armenians are a historically oppressed group, even
       | genocided, yet they are not afforded any DEI perks in their
       | career paths. Palestinians are also not included in DEI because
       | it isn't politically expedient to side with them, even though
       | they have lost their homeland and are generally treated like
       | dogs. Many, many such groups exist but because they don't come up
       | during AP US History, they have no mindshare.
       | 
       | Another is that DEI seems to simultaneously accept that race is a
       | social construct while also using race as a key criterion for
       | purposes of inclusion, which is absurd. For example, a Black
       | Swede, growing up in Sweden her whole life, would be considered a
       | candidate that improves diversity in the workplace. However, I'm
       | not aware of Swedes being an oppressed people. In fact, growing
       | up in Sweden your life is probably better than in America. The
       | judgment is made purely on skin color and lineage.
       | 
       | Lastly, I also want to say that I know this is an ugly situation,
       | because high paying jobs are often about connections, which have
       | a strong correlation with ethnic background in the United States.
       | In that view, it makes sense to have something like DEI shine a
       | light on power structures within the workplace and make them more
       | fair. So despite the above, I support DEI if it helps
       | underprivileged people. After all racism still exists, and it's
       | virulent. Many people harbor racist views and will lie through
       | their teeth in order not to be canceled.
       | 
       | I just hope eventually racism is extinguished so we could move
       | forward to a purely merit-based system.
        
       | logicalmonster wrote:
       | > In my opinion, it would be beneficial if DEI initiatives were
       | confidential and kept "hush hush" within a company.
       | 
       | That arguably defeats the real purpose of why companies go along
       | with DEI initiatives.
       | 
       | First of all, a big part of companies promoting DEI initiatives
       | is to boost a company's ESG score amongst investors like Larry
       | Fink of BlackRock that focus on it. There's billions and billions
       | of dollars in investment money directed just because of some
       | peoples' hard-on for ESG scores. Courting investors well enough
       | can be the difference between a company's survival or not.
       | 
       | Second of all, it feels a lot like DEI initiatives are meant to
       | serve as a shield/insurance against ever being called names like
       | racist. Companies are just using DEI to playact as being good
       | people. If they ever get embroiled in some dumb scandal that
       | presents a real risk to their business, they can just point to
       | their DEI initiatives and act like they're doing everything they
       | possibly can to be anti-racist.
       | 
       | The DEI Industry (and yes, it's an industry) goes along with this
       | because it's a grift that's financially beneficial to them.
        
       | tomp wrote:
       | (We've told you so.)
        
       | barbazoo wrote:
       | > most
       | 
       | I'm trying not to extrapolate. You might have more experience
       | than me but I would not generalize here unless you have seen
       | what's going on in the vast majority of companies.
       | 
       | In my organization the DEI I am exposed to is, luckily,
       | completely outside of hiring. It's about raising awareness for
       | people that are interested, it's opt-in, and gives a safe space
       | to share experiences, events, etc. It's not only about
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | afavour wrote:
       | I don't want to take away from your personal experience and
       | opinions but the title led me to believe its assertion was from a
       | study or some other kind of statistically backed examination.
       | 
       | If there is one I'd be fascinated to read it. Do the majority of
       | PoC employees feel this way? That's the kind of question that
       | can't really by answered by an HN thread.
        
       | marknutter wrote:
       | The replies to this thread are giving me hope that the DEI
       | madness is starting to wane.
        
       | itronitron wrote:
       | When I was in graduate school, we had a guest speaker who was a
       | diversity consultant come give a talk and ran us through one of
       | the example exercises they do for clients. It basically involves
       | everyone standing in a conference room, on one side of a line,
       | and the diversity consultant standing on the other side. They
       | iteratively make statements relating to personal attributes or
       | experiences and anyone that chooses to identify with that
       | statement step over the line briefly before returning back to the
       | group (either before the next statement or not).
       | 
       | For example, the first statement might be "I have served in the
       | military" and veterans that don't mind being known for their
       | military experience can step over the line. Other statements
       | might be "I am the first person in my family to attend college",
       | "I have questioned my sexuality", "I was raised in an upper class
       | family", "I am vegetarian", "I am a recovering addict", ... etc.
       | 
       | It's a good exercise for showing both the things people have in
       | common as well as the breadth of experiences that might exist in
       | a group.
       | 
       | Interestingly, though I've never seen that exercise performed in
       | an actual company in the twenty years since...
        
         | cccybernetic wrote:
         | Maybe I'm just more of a private person than some people, but
         | I'm absolutely floored that people would volunteer such private
         | life details to a group of random strangers. I'm not saying
         | it's a bad thing either, it may very well be healthier to share
         | more about ourselves, but I can't wrap my head around it.
        
       | paweladamczuk wrote:
       | I don't like any policies based on gender or skin color.
       | 
       | I also don't like that my gender and skin color determine how OK
       | it is for me to say that.
        
       | NDizzle wrote:
       | ~15 years ago, at a big 4 accounting firm...
       | 
       | One of the network engineers that I became work-friends with, as
       | he was leaving the office at 2:15 on a Friday...
       | 
       | <Me> Man you always bail around this time, how do you get away
       | with that? <Him> I'm a Mexican with a CCIE - what are they going
       | to do, fire me?
        
       | inglor_cz wrote:
       | DEI is one huge attempt to make a right out of two wrongs.
        
       | fastball wrote:
       | This has been a criticism of Affirmative Action / DEI initiatives
       | since they were first proposed.
       | 
       | Unfortunately, I've never heard a good rebuttal to this argument.
       | As long as such a system is in place, the potential beneficiaries
       | of such programs cannot be sure if they are there because of
       | merit or just to fill quotas; potentially causing harm to the
       | exact people you're trying to help.
        
       | pjc50 wrote:
       | > I realize this isn't the type of content posted to HN usually
       | 
       | This is because it's going to start a flamewar and get flagged
       | off the front page. It's also suspicious that it might not be
       | authentic.
        
       | spacephysics wrote:
       | I think these initiatives had great intentions, as the saying
       | goes, "road to hell is paved with good intentions"
       | 
       | We shouldn't be "color blind", but at the same time shouldn't
       | raise (or especially demote) anyone for their skin color
       | 
       | These initiatives are antithetical to what MLK preached, to much
       | of the civil rights movement
       | 
       | And just like the scrum cult, once these systems are implemented,
       | they understandably have motive to keep themselves "alive" and
       | worth the investment.
       | 
       | That begs the question then, if there's perfect diversity in a
       | company, why would you need DEI? You'd only justify the cost if
       | it's a perpetual problem that will never be solved, one that
       | every individual is conscious or unconsciously guilty of, and
       | actions must be taken to curb the ever-encroaching perpetuation
       | of anti DEI thoughts/behaviors.
        
         | not_a_pet_rock wrote:
         | > but at the same time shouldn't raise (or especially demote)
         | anyone for their skin color
         | 
         | thats literally what colorblindness is all about, recognizing
         | people for their actions not their skin color.
        
       | ecmascript wrote:
       | Personally, I really dislike DEI initiatives and think they
       | should be avoided. Just treat everyone the same. How hard is it,
       | really? Unfortunately, because I am a white man that express
       | these thoughts I am now a racist and a sexist even if the ones
       | who actually commit the racist/sexist/etc acts nowadays mostly
       | are the ones who claim to fight it.
       | 
       | If more people would view people as individuals instead of some
       | kind of collective, I believe a lot would be improved.
        
       | ksec wrote:
       | All roads to hell are paved with good intentions.
       | 
       | People may want to look back, given most comments on HN are not
       | deleted, between ~2014 to 2020. How DEI took over nearly every
       | single Tech company, and then somehow spread across different
       | domains and industry.
       | 
       | Yes, Twitter along with MSM played a big part of it.
       | 
       | And yes, it took until 2021 / 2022 before we (could?) had any
       | push back. Remember when people were trying to cancel DHH? Most
       | of what you wrote were true since Day 1. And it is not like
       | anything is unforeseen or new. But we cant even talk about it,
       | writing the above in 2018 you will have likely been labeled as
       | Trump supporter even if you are not an American.
       | 
       | Basically the hypocrisy level in unreal.
       | 
       | It has die down quite a bit, I dont see an angry Microsoft
       | employees shouting or tweeting in all caps about DEI and pronouns
       | to non-native English speakers. ( It is somehow always Microsoft
       | ) We have enough "influencers" backing the some of these Anti-DEI
       | / Woke movements. ( Although the word Woke is now being used by
       | Right Wing meaning something different )
        
       | koonsolo wrote:
       | We shouldn't care about the skin color of people. And when I was
       | young, I thought we would evolve into a world were skin color
       | wouldn't matter.
       | 
       | But now it seems some people 'accepted' that skin color matters,
       | and so we have to positively discriminate skin colors that get
       | discriminated against. Their belief is that there will always be
       | racism against colored people, and somehow it needs to be
       | offsetted.
       | 
       | If find this very strange. I would hope one day we could still
       | evolve into a world where skin color doesn't matter. But it seems
       | further away as we move along.
        
         | ModernMech wrote:
         | The problem is that as we started to transition to a world that
         | didn't discriminate against racial groups based on skin color,
         | the people who _wanted_ to discriminate against those groups
         | changed tactics. They discriminated using _other_ signals
         | strongly correlated with race, largely with the same effect.
         | The coup de grace was then declaring racial discrimination
         | "over", all the while maintaining the same racially
         | discriminated power structures.
         | 
         | Now we live in a world where racial groups can be targeted with
         | surgical precision using such signals. The racists aren't using
         | the N word out loud anymore, but the racial animus is still
         | there. The promise of a colorblind world was naive, and it
         | won't work.
        
       | mabbo wrote:
       | > In my opinion, it would be beneficial if DEI initiatives were
       | confidential and kept "hush hush" within a company.
       | 
       | The problem is incentives and selection bias.
       | 
       | Let's imagine a company that has a pretty obvious diversity
       | problem when anyone happens to look around the room. What kind of
       | person is likely to either be assigned "fix the diversity
       | problem" or take on the job on their own? Probably they're
       | someone high up the corporate ladder who has learned how to play
       | the game.
       | 
       | That kind of person already knows that being "hush hush" about
       | anything doesn't get them the next promotion, the big bonus. It
       | doesn't achieve _their_ personal goals. That 's not how they got
       | here.
       | 
       | And if this person is someone who meets the 'diversity' label
       | (because who else would they assign it to?) in a company that has
       | a clear diversity problem that they don't seem to understand
       | (usually caused by implicit bais the leadership have and will
       | never acknowledge exist), then this person has already learned
       | that being quietly successful gets them no where. The only way to
       | succeed is to do so loudly, publicly, and undeniably.
       | 
       | The goal isn't to increase diversity. It's to get the person in
       | charge of increasing diversity a bigger paycheck.
        
       | TurkishPoptart wrote:
       | I tried to bring this kind of issue up in an earlier Ask HN but
       | it got flagged for some reason:
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34526053.
        
       | hnhamdani wrote:
       | Reading DEI related threats, it's interesting that this phenomena
       | happened in the US which impacting US institutions/companies.
       | 
       | From the outside looking in, it kind of a consequence of treating
       | the symptom which is not the permanent solution. The actual root
       | cause of the bug is still not yet addressed, hence why you see
       | the side effect of the bug fix.
       | 
       | The root cause is multi faceted ofc, but some of them we could
       | already identify. Economical inequality, social mobility which
       | correlates with the given opportunity along the way. Once this
       | fixed, the opportunity given to each individual will be fairer.
        
       | moomoo11 wrote:
       | I wish we would transcend to a point where we look up to people
       | based on their achievements and separate their race from it.
       | 
       | I'm Asian btw. I can relate to Lebron just as much as I can
       | relate to Neil Armstrong or Satya or Matz or Woz or Marie Curie
       | because they are all excellent at what they did/do.
       | 
       | I want to be excellent like them. Because we all are humans.
        
         | avip wrote:
         | It's also funny to use the term "Asian". I'm also "Asian" (from
         | Israel). There are hundreds of completely non-related ethnical
         | groups in this vast continent.
        
           | DrThunder wrote:
           | It's because certain terms to explain other parts of Asia
           | have been deemed not pc.
        
           | foolinaround wrote:
           | Asian has a different meaning in US Tech circles.
           | 
           | I found that out, when I arrived in this country, and was
           | informed that Indians are their own groups, and Asians
           | referred to Chinese and Koreans (and others).
           | 
           | The 'Asian' tag is a clear racist way, determined by the way
           | one looks.
        
           | goatlover wrote:
           | Yeah, and what do you call a white Siberian? A large part of
           | Russia is in Asia as well. Asia must have the most ethnic
           | groups, along with the largest population, but somehow
           | they're all one race to the West.
        
             | anonymouskimmer wrote:
             | You call a white Siberian a Russian, and Russia wasn't
             | considered part of the orient by US immigration law back in
             | the day.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | HideousKojima wrote:
         | I always get confused when people say they need to have people
         | who look like them in prominent roles in order to feel welcome
         | in a hobby/career/whatever. I'm a fan of boxing, and my
         | favorite boxer is a black Muslim. I do some hobby-level game
         | dev on the side, and most of my favorite devs that I look up to
         | are Japanese. Young black men seem to disproportionately love
         | Dragon Ball Z, with an Asian-appearing main character based on
         | the Chinese epic _Journey to the West_ whose hair turns blond
         | when he gets angry and powers up.
        
           | balls187 wrote:
           | Are you truly confused or is it that you choosen not to
           | listen to the reasons "people" have for finding value in
           | representation?
           | 
           | Does your comment mean that because your human experience is
           | different than other people that you find it difficult to
           | understand how others may think and feel differently than
           | you?
        
           | strawpeople wrote:
           | [dead]
        
           | 0_____0 wrote:
           | Assuming you're white and male: there are loads of white
           | boxers and game devs! And you probably know some of them!
           | 
           | Think about how men feel about traditionally femme activities
           | which may be stigmatized for hetero men. If you see even one
           | other straight man get their nails done at a salon it sort of
           | implicitly opens that door to you.
        
             | balls187 wrote:
             | Not sure about getting a manicure, but speaking as a hetero
             | man, getting a pedicure is amazing and I recommend every
             | person with the means to, try it once.
        
               | 0_____0 wrote:
               | I was hoping someone would chime in with this!
        
           | excerionsforte wrote:
           | Dragon Ball Z was introduced into lower income neighborhoods
           | via Cartoon Network among many other anime, so it was hard to
           | miss. It was pretty hard to miss Pokemon, Dragon Ball Z and
           | etc. in elementary school especially with the merch kids
           | brought to school. Marketing, re-runs and perceived
           | coolness/epicness, I'd say drove the continued popularity of
           | it. Once you hit high school and college though, Dragon Ball
           | Z/Pokemon are niche and less visible (it stopped being cool
           | and a relic of age) at least that was my experience in low
           | income neighborhood. DBZ is still awesome because of its
           | familarity, but not something I will watch intentionally.
           | 
           | Goku being Japanese and loved by people of lower income is
           | like how Final Fantasy 7 is beloved in predominately white
           | (western) countries. There's still discussions of people
           | thinking Cloud Strife is white even though he is Japanese.
           | 
           | Race, in general, isn't a big deal when you are younger since
           | it is not taught in schools (shockingly to some people :O).
           | It becomes an issue when people actively start generalizing
           | and using tropes for the purposes to make you feel like shit
           | (in)directly.
        
             | YurgenJurgensen wrote:
             | There's no country called 'Japan' in Final Fantasy VII, so
             | I don't know why you're so confidently stating that. The
             | closest analogue is Wutai, and Cloud's not from there.
        
             | balls187 wrote:
             | Cloud isn't Japanese. He is a fictional character from a
             | fictional planet.
             | 
             | And Goku isn't Japanese either; he is Saiyan, an Alien
             | race.
             | 
             | > Race, in general, isn't a big deal when you are younger
             | 
             | It isn't a big deal, if you're not impacted by it
             | (colloquially known today as 'privilege').
             | 
             | However, what you might not believe is a big deal, is
             | arguably a big deal to other people.
             | 
             | A few examples:
             | 
             | You may not be aware that black women in the US are 3-times
             | more likely to pregnancy related issues than white women.
             | There is a downstream impact on the children of those
             | women. [1]
             | 
             | Separately, there still exists a serious gap in achievement
             | for Alaska Native / American Indian children.
             | 
             | 1: https://www.cdc.gov/healthequity/features/maternal-
             | mortality... 2:
             | https://www.nsba.org/ASBJ/2020/December/condition-native-
             | ame...
        
               | excerionsforte wrote:
               | Let's be honest here, a creator can make Apples be purple
               | and slightly deformed and call it Banora Apples, but it's
               | still an apple. Plenty of people who like DBZ or FF to
               | debate with on how to classify said characters based on
               | traits such as skeletal structure, influences from the
               | creator, etc. These classifications, I don't think about
               | much when playing games in general, not that much of a
               | fanboy in trying to identify with any character. Gonna
               | have to find someone else here to debate with on any
               | particular character's race or racial influences.
               | 
               | You clearly misread. Elementary and even some high school
               | school kids don't think about "race" until it is pointed
               | out in some way whether by a national event or cited as
               | bullying reason etc. How you could extrapolate that to
               | "race doesn't matter", I have no clue other than a
               | misread whether intentional or not.
        
               | balls187 wrote:
               | Japanese isn't a race it's a nationality and/or
               | ethnicity, and neither Goku nor Cloud are from Japan nor
               | do they share any real cultural traits with Japanese
               | people.
               | 
               | You've changed crux of your argument (or perhaps
               | clarified what you inteded to argue) to now be what
               | school age children do or do not think; though that isn't
               | very compelling as neither you nor I are capable of
               | reading minds. However the comment I did respond to was
               | clearly written--"Race, in general, isn't a big deal when
               | you are younger..." and it clearly can be a big deal to
               | young people; just perhaps not a big deal to you.
        
               | excerionsforte wrote:
               | Don't know how you can say that with a straight face. You
               | got me laughing right now. [1] shows clear influence by
               | Japanese culture. With Japanese language symbols in each
               | creation, again, I can't see how your claim stands that
               | there is no influence. I could never say that creations
               | are not influenced in any way by the world we live in.
               | Race/Nationality/Ethnicity tend to be used in an
               | intertwined manner these days so I have to believe you
               | are not being of good faith here. It's 2023, so you can
               | read it as Pokemon and DBZ are of Japanese origin and
               | leave out the fluff. If we really used the race term
               | literally, it wouldn't be used at all to describe
               | differences between people in the human race.
               | 
               | I've changed nothing. You misread it and I clarified it
               | for you to come to an understanding. Race/Skin
               | Color/Nationality, whatever it is you want to read it as
               | with the negative connotations assigned, isn't something
               | any young-in thinks about on a daily basis without it
               | being pointed out in some way.
               | 
               | Anyway, I'm not interested in going on circles on this. I
               | would know about said experience given my own culture and
               | interactions. No one needs to reads minds to give
               | anecdotes about their life experience and talk to other
               | people in the same situation about their life experience
               | and thoughts about things that happen(ed) to this day.
               | 
               | [1] https://scontent-
               | hou1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.6435-9/106206584_2...
        
           | BeFlatXIII wrote:
           | Not sure why your comment was greyed-out when I saw it.
           | Voting patterns are truly bizarre and disconnected from
           | truth.
        
             | alocasia-1 wrote:
             | Probably because there is no shortage of white boxers, and
             | an observation about black people liking a cartoon isn't
             | all that relevant?
        
         | busterarm wrote:
         | It's interesting to me seeing all asians and pacific islanders
         | lumped together and excluded from most DEI efforts because HR
         | departments think there's too many of you already and that
         | you're too white-adjacent. Seems like blatant racism to me.
        
           | AustinDev wrote:
           | Pro-tip DEI is, by definition, a racist endeavor.
        
           | mixmastamyk wrote:
           | Also doesn't ever mention ageism, even in lip-service or
           | passing.
        
         | dcow wrote:
         | In the 90s we did this.
        
         | domain8543 wrote:
         | Lebron's struggles as a black man in America are a huge part of
         | his success story. Not just that he's excellent at what he
         | does. Pretending that race doesn't exist does not actually work
         | in practice. LeBron himself will tell you that.
        
           | foolinaround wrote:
           | IMHO, LeBron's struggle was one of an poor kid growing up.
           | 
           | I would even say that being black was an advantage, and gave
           | him great genetics that he took to the next level with
           | discipline.
        
             | anonymouskimmer wrote:
             | > "I would even say that being black was an advantage, and
             | gave him great genetics that he took to the next level with
             | discipline."
             | 
             | Being Jewish was a great advantage to Einstein, and gave
             | him great genetics that he took to the next level with
             | discipline.
             | 
             | Being French was a great advantage to Joan of Arc, and gave
             | her great genetics that she took to the next level with
             | dedication.
             | 
             | LeBron may have great genetics. But if he does, it's
             | because of his parents and luck, not his race per se.
             | Otherwise everyone who is black would have a genetic
             | advantage that they could take to the next level with
             | discipline.
             | 
             | It is racist as hell to attribute to race what are personal
             | qualities. Other than, perhaps, traits that only certain
             | races possess, such as the ability to breath at high
             | elevations without taking weeks to adapt to the conditions.
        
           | goatlover wrote:
           | Lebron plays in a league that's majority black in the
           | footsteps of Michael Jordan, who was the most famous athlete
           | on the planet and on the way to being a billionaire and
           | owner. Lebron was anointed Jordan's heir while still in high
           | school, and he got drafted straight into the NBA with the #1
           | overall pick. He's had numerous huge endorsements over his
           | career.
           | 
           | Exactly how did he struggle as a basketball player? White Men
           | Can't Jump was a 90s movie, and back in the 80s, Bird was a
           | the great white hope as redneck from Indiana, because the top
           | players were mostly black, and Bird was even called out as
           | unathletic by Dennis Rodman and Isaiah Thomas after he won a
           | playoff game over them in Detroit.
        
             | domain8543 wrote:
             | I said his struggles as a black man. As in being raised in
             | poverty in the midwest (not a lot of opportunity for people
             | of his background) and having no real shot at success in
             | America other than selling his body.
        
               | GameOfFrowns wrote:
               | >having no real shot at success in America other than
               | selling his body.
               | 
               | Selling his body? Are you serious?
               | 
               | He wouldn't have been able to become a cop, a nurse, a
               | clerk, a financial professional or any of the other
               | thousands of professions that black people in the midwest
               | find themselves in?
               | 
               | LeBron's struggles seem less part of his success story
               | and more part of a self-penned "rags to riches" legend.
        
               | goatlover wrote:
               | Selling his body? Is that what millionaire athletes are
               | doing? Or just the black ones? You mean Lebron didn't
               | want to play basketball but had no other choice? Unlike
               | us office workers who grew up dreaming of being
               | professional athlete, but weren't good enough at sports?
        
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         | DrThunder wrote:
         | This is exactly the way normal anti-racism was up until
         | recently. It's how MLK wanted it to be and it's pretty much how
         | the US was treating it up until the last decade. Somehow we've
         | switched in the last few years to the point where skin color
         | and/or specific race is the MOST important attribute someone
         | has.
         | 
         | Diversity based on skin color is absolutely asinine. You can
         | have a multitude of poc in one room but if their backgrounds
         | and the groups they associate with are all the same, then their
         | thinking is all going to be alike.
        
           | dcow wrote:
           | People are impatient. Changes that take a few generations to
           | notice are too slow. Instant gains now now now. We learned
           | identity politics worked for LGBTQIA so we deployed them for
           | BIPOC as well. The ends justified the means. The ends are
           | undefined.
        
           | ejstronge wrote:
           | From a very sincere position, can you link to your sources
           | for 'how MLK wanted it to be' and 'how the US was treating'
           | DEI?
           | 
           | Unless we were all in the same positions within our careers
           | since the time of MLK to now (and I'll also ignore some other
           | confounders, like the fact that many black Americans could
           | not easily attend college in the time of MLK), I wonder
           | whether a recency bias may explain the differences you are
           | reporting.
        
             | DrThunder wrote:
             | A link to sources? Really? Come on man, you've got to do a
             | little work yourself here.
             | 
             | All you need to do is read what DEI is striving to do and
             | listen to MLK's "I have a dream" speech when he
             | specifically states he doesn't want a society where we
             | judge the character of people on skin color but instead
             | merit. This is something you should have learned in
             | elementary school if you're an American. Are you trying to
             | claim this isn't the case?
             | 
             | Explain to me how making everything equitable and inclusive
             | for specific class oppressed poc isn't basing things on
             | skin color vs. merit? This is a logical test, not one that
             | needs sources.
             | 
             | Here's another test for you - explain how you make everyone
             | equitable without lowering the higher achievers in society
             | down to the average? Do you think it's possible to make
             | under-achievers the same intelligence, physical capability
             | as higher-achieving people?
        
               | ejstronge wrote:
               | I was being very charitable - it seems you are asserting
               | knowledge of Dr. King's canon of work based on your
               | memory of a very meme-ified quote.
               | 
               | I also requested information about how the US used to
               | treat racial equity better in the past; do you have any
               | such evidence?
               | 
               | > Explain to me how making everything equitable and
               | inclusive for specific class oppressed poc isn't basing
               | things on skin color vs. merit? This is a logical test,
               | not one that needs sources.
               | 
               | The quote you reference mentions character. The issues at
               | hand are whether hiring ignores qualified candidates
               | based on their skin color. I understand that you wish for
               | a colorblind world but this is not the world we live in.
               | I suspect that it is easy for you to forego a 'patch' in
               | our current situation because the problems at play do not
               | affect you. To rephrase, because you're not running an
               | affected version of a problematic script, nobody should
               | be allowed to install a hotpatch. Better to wait for the
               | perfect v1.0 to be released.
               | 
               | > Here's another test for you - explain how you make
               | everyone equitable without lowering the higher achievers
               | in society down to the average? Do you think it's
               | possible to make under-achievers the same intelligence,
               | physical capability as higher-achieving people?
               | 
               | This is the perennial boogeyman and strawman. I think the
               | reason it comes up is to make those who have enjoyed
               | unappreciated benefits feel that their experience relates
               | solely to their ability.
               | 
               | One of the best pitchers in baseball history never had a
               | chance to play in his prime. Why? Because of an accident
               | of his genetics.
               | 
               | With the arguments you set up, I surmise that you would
               | argue that expending any effort to finding such good, but
               | unappreciated, players necessarily debases all players;
               | let's leave the greats in the dust to ensure that the
               | sons of the wealthy get to play the game.
               | 
               | I would say that it is a disservice to humanity not to
               | explore every option to uncover wasted talent.
               | 
               | We will disagree on this, but I encounter brilliant
               | people whose life stories hinge on just one lucky break
               | regularly. When I am confronted by the _mammoth_ systemic
               | inequalities the United States has imposed against some
               | of its daughters and sons for hundreds of years, I am
               | motivated to spend an extra moment to find qualified
               | candidates in unappreciated venues.
               | 
               | Finally - your argument presupposes that every job search
               | finds the best candidate. This may be a surprise to you,
               | but as someone who hires, the candidate I end up with is
               | as much defined by the vagaries of chance as by the
               | candidate's ability. This is not controversial to any one
               | who hires and is indeed a confound that we all must
               | consider.
               | 
               | One key factor in someone getting their foot in the door
               | is knowing someone who can contact me. Is this fair? Do I
               | lower the average quality of all candidates if I use this
               | very common source of referrals?
        
       | type0 wrote:
       | Isn't it ironic that the most famous African-American in US is
       | white?!
        
       | onion2k wrote:
       | _For example, I know I 'm talented - I've got the projects,
       | certs, and experience to back it up._
       | 
       | I think a lot of people who are relatively new to tech (less than
       | 20 years experience) fail to realise that DEI measures were
       | invented to tackle _literal racism and misogeny_ in tech hiring.
       | Companies would routinely screen out resumes from people whose
       | names weren 't white enough or who were a bit too feminine. You
       | could have all the best projects, certs, and experience, but if
       | you'd been in tech in the early 2000s you still wouldn't have got
       | an interview at _quite a lot_ of companies if your face didn 't
       | fit the perceived "this is what an engineer looks like ... oh
       | looks it's a white dude!" mould.
       | 
       | People started to complain, and other people listened. DEI is the
       | result. There's a strong argument that companies do it in a tone-
       | deaf manner today, and _maybe_ it 's now so much better in hiring
       | that DEI isn't needed any more (a very dubious claim in my
       | opinion) but it's definitely better now even if you have to do a
       | shitty monthly meeting, because in the bad old days you wouldn't
       | have had the job in the first place.
        
         | trabant00 wrote:
         | > Companies would routinely screen out resumes from people
         | whose names weren't white enough or who were a bit too feminine
         | 
         | Could you provide any details on this? I've been in tech for
         | more than 20 years and never heard of anything like what you
         | stated.
        
           | Manuel_D wrote:
           | More recent studies indicate the opposite, women's resumes
           | are preferred over men at tech companies:
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25069644
        
           | hedora wrote:
           | This still happens today. The easiest way for a computer
           | programmer to see how is to consider the problem of building
           | a non-racially biased hiring algorithm that takes resumes as
           | input.
           | 
           | Heuristic one: Pick candidates with first names that are
           | correlated with high performance. This works because certain
           | areas have better math education, and first names help filter
           | on parents' incomes.
           | 
           | It is obviously racist. Eliminate it.
           | 
           | Heuristic 2: Look at educational experience. Public schools
           | in the US are horribly racist/classist, so this doesn't work
           | either.
           | 
           | Heuristic 3: Look at work experience. Other employers used
           | heuristic 1 and 2, so this inherits racism from them. Also,
           | older hires are (hopefully) less diverse, assuming the field
           | is improving.
           | 
           | Heuristic 4: Objective performance based whiteboard coding.
           | People with imposter syndrome are more likely to choke in
           | high-stress environments. Scratch this.
           | 
           | Heuristic 5: "Cultural fit" bonus points to fix up #4.
           | Studies show this selects for things like drinking the same
           | brand alcohol or enjoying the same sports. Strike it too.
           | 
           | Heuristic 6: Tailor the interview for the specific candidate.
           | Studies show that women/minorities tend to get "softball"
           | questions like "how did you handle this", which accidentally
           | puts them on the defensive. Men get alpha male planning
           | questions "how will you grow this company".
           | 
           | I personally prefer #3 graded on a scale from 1-4 with 0.5
           | increments. I add 0.5 to nervous people's (women, or english
           | as second language, mostly) scores and truncate the integer.
           | 
           | On average, this corrects the bias inherent in the interview
           | setup and in my monkey brain. It pisses off almost everyone I
           | know though.
           | 
           | If I controlled recruiters, I'd add women / minority quotas
           | to the candidate stream, but not to the interview phase. I
           | would also track job performance vs. ethnicity/gender, and
           | loosen standards for any group that was outperforming the
           | team.
        
           | onion2k wrote:
           | _Could you provide any details on this?_
           | 
           | Not really. Nothing that can't easily be dismissed as
           | anecdotal any way. But when lots of people have the same
           | anecdotes you start to ask questions. People did, and now we
           | have DEI initiatives.
        
             | Manuel_D wrote:
             | Then here's my anecdote to add: I've repeatedly been
             | instructed to favor women and URM applications over white
             | and _especially_ Asian men. I 've also had managers that
             | outright told me that racial and gender discrimination
             | favoring the former is the norm, and any opposition to it
             | would get me fired and blacklisted.
        
       | cabbagesauce wrote:
       | As a white european dude, who's ancestors never oppressed anyone,
       | rather were oppressed by other white dudes through history. Can
       | you ELI5 why the DEI exists and what problems does it solve, from
       | but from a perspective of someone of my position?
       | 
       | Not a troll-bait question, but I sincerely try to comprehend this
       | as to me the mere term _people of color_ is the uttermost racist
       | label imaginable. Also, that presumes I 'm from people of no-
       | color...
        
         | hedgehog wrote:
         | In the US discrimination based on skin color is widespread and
         | goes back to before the country's founding, and access to
         | opportunities is very uneven based on wealth. The PoC term is a
         | reflection of the general pattern of discrimination as
         | practiced here. This situation both has strong inertia (easier
         | to get access to opportunity if you have relatively wealthy
         | parents and/or blend in with wealthier people who tend to be
         | white) and is also reinforced by vested interests (demonizing
         | Latinos and Asian immigration for taking jobs helps keep
         | immigration regulations tight and labor costs down). DEI
         | initiatives are one take on how to get the system to correct
         | towards giving everyone a fair shot.
        
           | ianhawes wrote:
           | Discrimination in the US is based on socioeconomic status
           | just as much as race.
        
             | hedgehog wrote:
             | There are both, and they are related. For example family
             | wealth and wealth accumulation in the US is weighted
             | heavily to home ownership and appreciation, the GI bill
             | that powered a great deal of home purchases was structured
             | to exclude blacks, and the combination of those facts
             | shapes the distribution of wealth today. Expensive
             | neighborhoods tend to have better public schools, the
             | quality of that schooling is a lifelong advantage, yet
             | redlining was only banned around 50 years ago. This
             | directly affected the cohort of people in their 60s who are
             | still part of the work force. Overall social mobility in
             | the US is pretty poor compared to other wealthy countries
             | but I'm not sure if there is any rigorous work to attribute
             | causes.
        
       | workOrNah wrote:
       | > However, when I have to join a cheesy townhall once a month to
       | discuss diversity hires, it makes me feel like I have no right to
       | feel proud of any accomplishments I've made within the company.
       | 
       | DEI doesn't prescribe monthly townhalls about to discuss
       | diversity lol Why are you blaming the failings of your company on
       | DEI?
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | spangry wrote:
       | > If I were a white man with the same experience, I might not
       | even be here?
       | 
       | I can understand how DEI initiatives might undermine your self-
       | esteem and I'm sorry you are made to feel this way, but take
       | solace in the fact that you have a job. Imagine how the white guy
       | who was excluded from employment because of his skin color feels.
       | That's who the real victim is here - the person who was racially
       | discriminated against.
       | 
       | > In my opinion, it would be beneficial if DEI initiatives were
       | confidential and kept "hush hush" within a company.
       | 
       | Personally, I prefer companies to be loud and proud about their
       | DEI initiatives so that I know which companies engage in racial
       | discrimination, rather than it all happening behind closed doors.
        
         | Spoznaja wrote:
         | Right; the companies that are pro DEI are like the man at the
         | bar with a swastika arm badge. Sure it's morally repugnant, but
         | at least you know ahead of time what you're dealing with.
        
         | malcolmgreaves wrote:
         | YIKES
         | 
         | > Imagine how the white guy who was excluded from employment
         | because of his skin color feels. That's who the real victim is
         | here - the person who was racially discriminated against.
         | 
         | White guys are not discriminated against in tech. This is such
         | a racist take.
         | 
         | I bet you also think that reparations for slavery and Jim Crow
         | -- literally, the government actually discriminating and
         | harming people for their skin color -- would be bad because
         | they somehow "hurt" white folks today.
        
         | ejstronge wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | joemazerino wrote:
           | No, it was decided to chastise the downtrodden minority
           | class.
        
             | ejstronge wrote:
             | Yes - allowing blacks in America to attend college and move
             | into neighborhoods without the threat of being killed was
             | an act designed to chastise them.
             | 
             | I think posts of this nature (including OP) reflect a fear
             | of not belonging to the dominant 'caste' and of being seen
             | as either losing status (dominant caste men not getting
             | jobs they are 'the best' for); or, alternatively, lower
             | caste men wanting to be seen as valuable in a space they
             | continually feel they do not belong in.
             | 
             | I say this as a someone who is a minority who regularly is
             | discriminated against - and who has easily attained markers
             | of success. There is no way to avoid feeling like we do not
             | belong, but returning us to poverty and shutting us out of
             | jobs is definitely not a way to attain a feeling of
             | belonging.
             | 
             | Finally, DEI initiatives are very public - nepotism, alma
             | mater connections etc are not. Let's be careful in assuming
             | that the only non-LEET code metric used to hire people is
             | the color of the skin or their biological sex.
        
               | alocasia-1 wrote:
               | Thank you for pointing out that last part. I think folks
               | forget how vital that foot in the door is/was, whether
               | it's the school on your resume or the reference from the
               | internship your uncle got for you. You might get 99% of
               | the way there by hard work but if the other applicant's
               | essentially grandfathered in (analogy intentional), what
               | have you gained?
        
               | factsarelolz wrote:
               | [dead]
        
           | azangru wrote:
           | > Please take a moment and reflect on why these sorts of
           | initiatives exist.
           | 
           | These sorts of initiatives are trying to cure a racial or
           | sexual bias with a different sort of racial or sexual bias.
           | How does the question "why they exist" help those of us who
           | think, in Kant's deontological terms, that racial or sexual
           | biases are wrong?
        
             | ejstronge wrote:
             | Very respectfully, I do not read Kant - and I wish I had
             | the opportunity to do so in the very poor high school I
             | attended.
             | 
             | Please consider an old house you may buy if you live in New
             | England or Europe. Sure, if you were building a new house
             | everything should be plumb and level. But the house you're
             | able to buy in old cities is not brand new. So what does
             | one do if you wish to have a level floor? We add shims to
             | obtain some objective reasonable result, accepting that to
             | get to a this result we must try to address systemic
             | problems that are not our fault, but are now our
             | responsibility.
        
               | azangru wrote:
               | > So what does one do if you wish to have a level floor?
               | 
               | Let me offer you a different metaphor about levels :-) In
               | Greek mythology, there was a character named Procrustes.
               | He had an iron bed of a certain size, to which he
               | strapped his captives, and if they happened to be taller
               | than the bed was long, he cut off their legs to fit the
               | bed; whereas if they were shorter, he stretched them to
               | fit the bed tearing their sinews and muscles. That's what
               | I think of when I hear about arbitrary levels applied to
               | living people.
        
               | ejstronge wrote:
               | I appreciate your analogy and I will politely remind you
               | that in American history, members of certain classes did
               | indeed have limbs cut off or their body parts stretched
               | for arbitrary reasons.
               | 
               | In fact, this practice only really ended in the 1960s;
               | controversially, one might even say that this practice
               | continues to today.
               | 
               | So what do we do when confronted with an anecdote from
               | antiquity versus system inequities from our modern era?
        
               | azangru wrote:
               | > So what do we do when confronted with an anecdote from
               | antiquity versus system inequities from our modern era?
               | 
               | I guess, in the spirit of the analogy, your options are
               | to either stop cutting off body parts from anyone, or to
               | start cutting them off those who look like people who
               | engaged in body cutting two or more generations ago. DEI
               | prefers the second option. Some people would rather see
               | the first.
        
               | ejstronge wrote:
               | I imagine that there are lessons in antiquity where a
               | famous Greek or Roman thinker chooses a pragmatic option
               | instead of a spiteful or absolutist option.
        
               | syzarian wrote:
               | I really like your phrasing:
               | 
               |  _problems that are not our fault but are now our
               | responsibility_
               | 
               | That's a very nice, concise way of summarizing the
               | essence of the issue.
        
           | robertlagrant wrote:
           | I don't know enough about the subject, but I will say that
           | arguing on the basis of the purported reasons for creating a
           | movement is totally irrelevant to the movement's effects.
           | 
           | For example a white friend in South Africa has a daughter who
           | years ago, when looking at university applications, was
           | distraught because to study to be a doctor she had to hit
           | over 90% in her exams, vs 70% for her black South African
           | classmates. Does it matter to her that this wasn't meant to
           | happen? Or is reality also worth talking about?
        
         | jaltekruse wrote:
         | Is the top comment on this thread seriously a reverse racism
         | rant?
         | 
         | You are right about something, affirmative action is racist,
         | but I feel it is absolutely necessary to try to balance out
         | current inequities. I strongly believe people making arguments
         | like yours, people fighting against affirmative action need to
         | propose an alternative rather than just complain about it.
         | 
         | There are lots of people alive today that couldn't drink from
         | the same fountain or use the same bathroom as white people, and
         | people who had friends and family members lynched (and in the
         | eyes of many George Floyd's death was a lynching). Their
         | neighborhoods were bulldozed to make the highways and they were
         | systematically excluded from housing by redlining. You won't
         | convince me for a second that their children and grandchildren
         | got an equal opportunity. There is so much evidence of systemic
         | disadvantaging of PoC communities today too, underfunded
         | schools because of how we fund schools with local property
         | taxes, turning lots of the public school system into
         | effectively fancy private schools for families well off enough
         | to live in rich neighborhoods.
         | 
         | So I will say it again, I do think at the surface level
         | affirmative action is racist, but it's such a simple thing to
         | realize it seems extremely pointless to even bring up. It is
         | fighting centuries of truly heinous racism and genocide with
         | just a tiny bit of an attempt at positive racism and white
         | people still find a way to be pissed off they aren't getting
         | everything the "deserve".
        
           | x86_64Ubuntu wrote:
           | This is the general course of any thread concerning DEI on
           | HN. It's filled with concerns about reverse-racism, and how
           | "skin color shouldn't matter" and whatnot. The history behind
           | why such initiatives exist is intentionally ignored.
        
             | Spoznaja wrote:
             | If racism is wrong (which I believe it is), then it is
             | always wrong, no matter which groups are benefited or
             | harmed.
        
           | trabant00 wrote:
           | > people fighting against affirmative action need to propose
           | an alternative rather than just complain about it
           | 
           | Not only is an alternative proposed, it's already implemented
           | for quite a while: discrimination is illegal. Equal outcome
           | vs equal opportunity. You can argue for any side you want,
           | just don't pretend you don't see or don't understand the
           | other position.
        
             | hgsgm wrote:
             | Equal opportunity as in paying reparations for slavery, Jim
             | Crow laws, and the rest?
             | 
             | Or no because the statute of limitations expires while
             | white government was busy refusing to entertain the idea?
             | 
             | Support for reparations is table stakes for anyone talking
             | about "equal opportunity".
        
         | x86_64Ubuntu wrote:
         | Us blacks only make up 7.4% of the tech industry. It's always
         | amazing how if you were to take the anecdotes in DEI threads
         | seriously, you would think there weren't any whites in the tech
         | field as they had all been replaced by black people.
        
           | hgsgm wrote:
           | They were replaced by more qualified Chinese and Indians, but
           | that's too awkward to complain about.
        
         | chuckhendo wrote:
         | This take is radically wrong, and you're just reinforcing OP's
         | insecurities. How do you know that OP has a job at the expense
         | of a white person? How do you know that OP isn't in fact the
         | best candidate for the job? You're making a whole lot of
         | assumptions here that are bordering on outright racism
        
           | spangry wrote:
           | That assumption was suggested by the OP, not me. Thanks for
           | suggesting I'm racist, but I'm basically immune to such
           | thought stopping non-arguments at this point.
           | 
           | If disagreeing with making hiring decisions on the basis of
           | skin colour is racist, then I suppose I'm racist.
        
             | chuckhendo wrote:
             | OP never said he was hired due to the color of his skin
             | though. Not once. Is it possible that's the case? Sure. But
             | for all we know, he was hired on merit.
        
               | hgsgm wrote:
               | Again with the thought-starting cliches that parent
               | already explained they disregard.
        
               | chuckhendo wrote:
               | What are you trying to suggest with this? Are you saying
               | that OP only has their job because of their skin color?
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | Taurenking wrote:
               | [dead]
        
           | catiopatio wrote:
           | "Race aware" hiring is inescapably racially discriminatory,
           | and it's not racist to point that out.
        
           | azangru wrote:
           | > How do you know that OP has a job at the expense of a white
           | person?
           | 
           | Which part of the parent's message says that he does?
           | 
           | What it does say that if an organisation gives preferential
           | treatment to a certain group based on their skin color, then
           | it follows, inevitably, that people with non-preferred skin
           | color will lose to those with the preferred one, all else
           | being equal. And thus, there will inevitably be "the white
           | guy who was excluded from employment because of his skin
           | color" (or sex, or both). Whether it was OP or someone else
           | who was preferred to that guy is unknowable, and thus
           | ultimately irrelevant. But that must take place in an
           | organisation that is truly committed to DEI; because
           | otherwise this abbreviation is meaningless.
        
           | HideousKojima wrote:
           | While it's not certain that the OP was hired over a white
           | person, it is _mathematically certain_ that DEI policies
           | cause whites to be discriminated against in aggregate.
           | 
           | 1. There are fewer qualified black and Hispanic candidates
           | per capita (i.e. without a college degree, without the right
           | experience, etc.) than white and Asian candidates. The cause
           | of this is irrelevant to the argument, it is factually true.
           | 
           | 2. There are a finite amount of positions at any given
           | company paying any given amount.
           | 
           | 3. If companies hire a larger percentage (beyond a certain
           | margin of error) of black and Hispanic candidates than
           | actually exist in the hiring pool then they must commit
           | racial discrimination against whites and Asians in order to
           | accomplish this. You can try to redefine racism and
           | discrimination as "prejudice plus power" or whatever you want
           | to justify the fact that you mistreat people on the basis of
           | their skin color, but factually that is what is being done.
        
             | chuckhendo wrote:
             | It's completely fair to look at the big picture, but it's
             | dangerous to look at specific situations and make
             | assumptions is the only point I was trying to make. Without
             | DEI, OP may have still gotten the position he has. We have
             | no way of knowing that. I wasn't fond of the original
             | replier making it seem like he got the position over a
             | white person only due to the color of his skin, which is an
             | unfair assumption to make
        
         | hgsgm wrote:
         | You're right. The US should end DEI/AA efforts and just pay
         | reparations for the $trillions in debt owed to descendants of
         | slaves and others who were oppressed and robbed by law for
         | centuries.
         | 
         | Or is that not what you meant?
        
         | arcturus17 wrote:
         | I'm as anti-woke as they come, but whoa.
        
         | syzarian wrote:
         | The U.S. has a long history of discriminating against brown
         | people and an especially nasty history of discriminating
         | against black people. This discrimination was so ingrained
         | amongst the white population that after desegregation public
         | pools declined. Blacks were discriminated against when it came
         | to getting a mortgage. Whites fled the major cities to the
         | suburbs leading to cities having gutted public schools due to
         | lack of funding.
         | 
         | How does a nation overcome that legacy with its accompanying
         | negative effects on people of color? We aren't all equal when
         | the effects of centuries of policies and attitudes can still be
         | seen. I don't know the answer but I think it is OK for
         | companies to be cognizant of these issues and attempt to go out
         | of their way to hire qualified people of color.
         | 
         | It sucks for one to feel they didn't get a job because they are
         | white but I think this doesn't happen in statistically
         | significant numbers. It's known that people with "black
         | sounding" names are less likely to get interviews. I don't know
         | the solution. I suspect that if we didn't tie health care to
         | employment and had a better system for unemployed people then
         | the issue of reverse discrimination would largely go away.
        
           | Spoznaja wrote:
           | Translated; "Racism is bad, so we're going to use racism now
           | to counter balance previous racism." This won't end well for
           | anyone.
        
             | domain8543 wrote:
             | Are you also vocal when Native American tribes are given
             | things? Quite a bit of money goes to them directly -- that
             | is racism to you, right?
        
             | syzarian wrote:
             | That is obviously not a valid translation. It appears you
             | did not understand what I wrote.
        
         | pessimizer wrote:
         | > Imagine how the white guy who was excluded from employment
         | because of his skin color feels.
         | 
         | The stupidest, least-qualified white man at a company that
         | still employs more white men than they statistically should.
         | He's getting affirmative-action too, it's just not official.
        
           | Spoznaja wrote:
           | What does "statistically should" mean? How skin pigment have
           | anything to do with qualifications? Using skin pigment as a
           | lens for "statistically should be employed", what are your
           | thoughts on requiring the NBA to be more diverse?
        
       | throwaway85858 wrote:
       | On a tangent... but has anyone here had some success in
       | correcting their unconscious biases?
        
       | Symmetry wrote:
       | There are some behaviors that society wants people to avoid. In
       | most cases where you want to stop a behavior you have to be
       | careful to not make it seem normal, with "It's bad but common"
       | being the second worst message you can send after "It's good and
       | common" in terms of trying to get people to stop. A social
       | psychologist will say this is due to the power of norms and talk
       | about the famous Petrified Forest National Park experiment. An
       | economist will talk about how we can see punishments for
       | behaviors better than their commission in many disapproved
       | behaviors and so making them seem common makes it seem like the
       | odds of getting caught are lower.
       | 
       | But in any event in things like drug use, sexual harassment, or
       | bribery we have pretty clear evidence of campaigns against these
       | behaviors being counter productive with, e.g., D.A.R.E actually
       | increasing drug use among high schoolers. So I'd just like
       | anybody looking to conduct a DEI campaign to be careful of this
       | effect.
        
       | klik99 wrote:
       | Living in Atlanta with an open mind and friends with different
       | political opinions (though pretty clustered around "moderate" to
       | left), this subject has come up a lot. I'm a strong believer in
       | both moral and business benefits for diversity, but what
       | surprises me is the universal dislike of these efforts.
       | 
       | I believe the major problem is the role of optics in corporate
       | environments. In a corporate environment people have to justify
       | their existence, and visible efforts are prioritized.
       | Unfortunately these visible efforts are not only superficial
       | (they make the people running the initiatives look good, the
       | company itself can posture, but not much changes internally), but
       | also single out and "other" people. These initiatives can be
       | doing good work behind the scenes too, but how do you judge
       | someone doing a good job in this area? Metrics about hiring?
       | Metrics about promotions?
       | 
       | Maybe it would be better if these initiatives answer to and be
       | judged by the people they should be helping, and not to some
       | success metrics thrown out during a board meeting or company
       | optics. Instead of focusing on diverse hires, focus on supporting
       | the diverse staff you already have. If it's a good place to work,
       | the hires will come out of that.
       | 
       | I believe these efforts are ultimately a good thing, even if
       | they're getting it wrong, but as a white male I hesitated to even
       | write that, because I know how vastly different the experience of
       | a minority in America is from my own, and from what I've heard
       | it's a mixed bag. I always remember reading an interview with one
       | of the little rock nine who said she felt forced to go to an
       | integrated school and was still angry about it as an adult. It
       | absolutely sucks to be in that position - something that's
       | ultimately good for society but devastating for an individual. So
       | while I think the general thrust of DEI is a good thing, it has
       | to be tempered by the individual experience and always support
       | people as individuals and not perpetuate lumping everyone in the
       | "minority" bucket.
        
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       | narrator wrote:
       | If you're dissatisfied with this stuff, I wouldn't talk to
       | management to solve this, but instead I'd work on communicating
       | with ESG funds and ask them to change their guidelines for their
       | DEI initiatives. Let me explain.
       | 
       | The corporation you work for is just trying to get a better ESG
       | score. The DEI initiative and programs were probably handed down
       | in some quasi-government fashion from Blackrock and other ESG
       | funds who chose investments and even board votes based on that.
       | Your company's HR department might have had all this mandated
       | from Blackrock who has a ton of control on the boards of publicly
       | traded companies. Corporations have to regularly report their DEI
       | initiatives to Blackrock and other ESG funds.
       | 
       | "Last week, BlackRock released its 2021 proxy voting guidelines
       | for the U.S. and other major markets ... These updated materials
       | demonstrate how BlackRock intends to pair higher expectations for
       | corporate responsiveness across a number of topics, including
       | diversity, equity and inclusion and environmental risk, with a
       | greater willingness to vote against management where these
       | expectations are not met."
       | 
       | "In 2021, BlackRock will expect disclosure of workforce
       | demographics, such as gender, race, and ethnicity in line with
       | the EEO-1 Survey, _along with steps being taken to advance
       | diversity, equity, and inclusion_. Where BlackRock believes
       | disclosures or practices fall short of market or peer practice,
       | it may vote against members of the appropriate committee or
       | support related shareholder proposals*. "
       | 
       | https://corpgov.law.harvard.edu/2021/01/12/blackrocks-2021-p...
       | 
       | If you look throughout Blackrock's governance documents they talk
       | about "Stakeholder Capitalism" which is a world economic forum
       | program[1] to bring all sorts of influences into the running of
       | companies besides shareholder value. Thus, the bottom line isn't
       | always the goal and often there are other reasons for all of
       | this, so appeals to corporate profitability aren't even going to
       | work here.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.weforum.org/stakeholdercapitalism
        
       | trieste92 wrote:
       | I always thought the reason why companies all started doing this
       | (pretty much simulataneously) is because they think it minimizes
       | settlement liability or something
       | 
       | It isn't about making people feel welcome, it's about making it
       | harder to sue them and playing corporate politics
        
       | docmars wrote:
       | DEI is explicitly an anti-White conspiracy that unfortunately
       | ends with it being anti-Black/Brown outcomes, both indirectly and
       | intentionally.
        
       | thorawayz wrote:
       | Not to mention the non "diverse" members of a team. I feel
       | marginalized for being a conservative technologist, even though
       | I'm a PoC.
        
       | steve1977 wrote:
       | > creating townhall meetings and parading your black/brown
       | employees around like show ponies is nothing short of corporate
       | virtue signaling.
       | 
       | That is the point of DEI for companies. Pretty much all HR
       | initiatives are just virtue signaling.
        
       | gabereiser wrote:
       | As someone who loves to hire people with different backgrounds
       | and experiences, don't see you being included in diversity hiring
       | discussions as a negative. Don't see it as "Oh, they just want
       | the black guy's opinion". Yes! They very much do! They also want
       | to know how it all is perceived by you. You should tell them
       | this. We, as humans, should celebrate our diversity. We should
       | make it a culture where it's seemless (as you put it, "able to be
       | seen"). We should NOT make it hush hush. This is how things
       | become swept under the rug and issues not addressed. The fact
       | that you are here, discussing this, instead of with your manager
       | and (hopefully) your director is a sign that they are missing the
       | point. Diversity is great. Inclusion is better. Participation is
       | best. Go bring these issues up with your manager with ideas on
       | possible solutions. You can't complain about not having a better
       | system without presenting a better system.
       | 
       | That said, it obviously feels to me like you have some
       | sensitivity issues because of this, probably justifiably so. One
       | of the cool things about tech is that when it comes down to it,
       | it's the output that makes the "man" and not the skin color or
       | their name or their religion or nationality. If you can write
       | some clean, tested, code, I'm all for it! The fact that you are
       | YOU, is even better! Why? Because I don't want a room full of
       | white guys that just agree to what I propose. I want females, I
       | want PoC, I want refugees, I want "I pulled myself out of
       | poverty", I want "I would use this", I want "I care about the
       | outcomes". Not in a cult like way, but in an empathetic to the
       | customers problems way.
       | 
       | Some companies have put metrics around this. Hire so much
       | diversity... hit 40% something-or-other... Ignore these false
       | metrics that are doomed to failure. They aren't approaching the
       | problem right. Let them do what they think is right unless you
       | have a better solution. Keep just doing you and look at their
       | efforts as a good, not a negative, even if their methods are
       | naive.
        
       | nivenkos wrote:
       | It's crazy how it's become so commonplace.
       | 
       | I hope one day we can really reach the point where skin colour is
       | as unremarkable as eye colour. Where people really are judged not
       | by the colour of their skin but by the content of their
       | character.
        
       | ryanmentor wrote:
       | I have heard first hand from trans hires that they KNOW their job
       | is to 'be diverse', and there's no reason to grow technically or
       | professionally - just coast and fail to get fired.
       | 
       | Everyone reasonable hates that shit.
        
       | bigbillheck wrote:
       | The only people that have to worry about loosing opportunities
       | due to DEI are the kind of mediocre white dudes who didn't
       | previously have to worry about competition from anybody except
       | themselves.
       | 
       | If they lose out to a more qualified candidate because DEI made
       | them look a little harder, well that's just how it's supposed to
       | work. If they lose out to a candidate of similar qualifications
       | because DEI made them look a little harder that might sting a
       | little but considering how the deck has historically been stacked
       | in their favor the fact that they're only 'similarly qualif[ied]'
       | suggests that one candidate might have a little more gumption
       | than the other, which is in itself grounds for making a choice.
       | 
       | If they lose out to someone less qualified, well that's not
       | great, but there's a whole lot more jobs out there, and if it
       | keeps happening maybe you're not as qualified as you thought.
       | 
       | I write this as a white dude who, when younger, didn't want to
       | think he had been the beneficiary of the system, but with
       | hindsight figured out the difference between 'not being at the
       | top' and 'being at the bottom'.
        
       | sequoia wrote:
       | (a bit tangential to your point, but I think related:) "...that
       | leads to what I call the Iron Law of Woke Capitalism: brands will
       | gravitate towards low-cost, high-noise signals if these are
       | accepted as a substitute for genuine reform."[0]
       | 
       | Companies engage in these practices (IMHO) from a mix of genuine
       | desire to "be good" and do the right thing, as a marketing
       | exercise, and as PR insurance against charges of racism. If you
       | get "called out" on twitter for being a racist company (for
       | whatever reason) you will probably fare much better if you can
       | point to your diversity initiatives & goals, diversity officer
       | etc.
       | 
       | That said I think most individuals are acting in a genuine well-
       | meaning way.
       | 
       | It is disturbing to me that (as you point out) the initiatives we
       | have to promote inclusion may end up stigmatizing the people that
       | are intended to be "included."
       | 
       | 0: https://helenlewis.substack.com/p/the-bluestocking-woke-
       | capi...
        
       | stncls wrote:
       | You're not alone. My partner has the same issue. They work in a
       | field where performance can be judged somewhat objectively, but
       | in which reputation still matters. They get not only impostor
       | syndrome, but also the fear that other people will think their
       | achievements are only due to DEI initiatives.
       | 
       | Another issue is that senior minorities constantly get dragged
       | into (useless, time-wasting, chore-like) committees that have
       | representation quotas.
       | 
       | > In my opinion, it would be beneficial if DEI initiatives were
       | confidential and kept "hush hush" within a company.
       | 
       | That would be great: "do the right thing but don't brag about
       | it". Unfortunately, "keep doing the wrong thing but pretend
       | otherwise loudly" seems more common.
        
         | Taurenking wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | _fat_santa wrote:
         | Whenever my company has had conversations about DEI
         | initiatives, I always come back to the same argument: "talk is
         | cheap, we can talk all day long about how we are diverse. How
         | about we shut up, put our money where our mouth is, and
         | actually hire some folks from diverse backgrounds".
         | 
         | DEI is something that is easy to talk about but actually kinda
         | hard to implement. Part of the problem is the makeup of the
         | industry in general. In tech for example it would be physically
         | impossible for companies to be 50/50 male/female because the
         | broader industry doesn't break down that way, same goes for any
         | race, religion, background, etc. Companies love to scream from
         | the rooftops about DEI because yelling about it is
         | significantly easier than actually doing it.
        
           | xienze wrote:
           | > actually hire some folks from diverse backgrounds
           | 
           | Because you're trying to hire from a small pool of candidates
           | (minority software developer or whatever) that EVERY OTHER
           | tech company is trying to get in a desperate attempt to not
           | look bad (because not having a sufficient number of
           | minorities on staff is a sin).
           | 
           | It's simply a question of numbers. There's only so many
           | minorities, and only a fraction of them are sufficiently
           | talented, and everyone wants them. Your company may not be a
           | big enough name to woo these folks. So it's not necessarily
           | the fault of your leadership to act on their principles.
           | 
           | Now there's a whole OTHER can of worms associated with DEI,
           | which is that everyone wants minority employees => there's a
           | lack of them => let's lower our standards to widen the pool
           | we have to choose from, and your company certainly could go
           | down that route if you think they're not doing enough.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | pocman wrote:
             | [flagged]
        
             | frozenchrome wrote:
             | Locally the pool of candidates might seem small. Globally
             | it is much larger than one thinks or realizes.
        
               | Macha wrote:
               | To say that the company has a moral duty to file
               | immigration paperwork or set up remote offices solely to
               | increase diversity is a big ask.
        
             | scythe wrote:
             | When this topic comes up I always remember a friend's
             | comments about Google shuttering their Atlanta office: they
             | say they want to hire Black employees, but not "where they
             | actually, you know, live". It's not _that_ hard to find
             | employees of color; they just tend to live in different
             | places. It 's also not necessarily easy to move somewhere
             | nobody looks like you -- which I also experienced as a
             | white guy in China.
        
             | _fat_santa wrote:
             | Yeah I look at it from a top level. Say that in the tech
             | industry, 20% (totally made up number BTW) of your workers
             | are black. It would be possible for some companies to have
             | >20% of their workforce be black, but if you look at the
             | top employers (GOOG, AMZN, MSFT, AAPL, etc), there would be
             | physically impossible for them to hire >20% black workers
             | because there are simply not enough of them out there in
             | the broader workforce.
             | 
             | The solution here is to drive more black people into the
             | tech field, in order to raise that 20% figure that would
             | then get reflected among tech companies. This is something
             | that an individual company cannot solve, even at Google or
             | Apple scale, it would have to be at the government level
             | and even that is a complete crapshoot.
             | 
             | TL;DR: Diversity quotas are hard.
        
               | xienze wrote:
               | > The solution here is to drive more black people into
               | the tech field
               | 
               | What's funny is everyone will agree the pool of available
               | candidates to choose from is incredibly small due to
               | (among other things) issues in education, but those same
               | people won't cut companies any slack if they don't hit a
               | certain percentage of minority employees. It then becomes
               | a game of brute forcing minorities into every part of
               | society where they're under-represented, all at once --
               | because the "real fix" will take decades.
        
               | jonathanlb wrote:
               | Agreed that DEI initiatives are hard, but the picture is
               | a bit incomplete.
               | 
               | Quotas are the boogey/strawman that get trotted out when
               | DEI initiatives are mentioned.
               | 
               | Quotas _must_ be filled, and this serves no one, not the
               | companies doing the hiring (because there aren't enough
               | qualified candidates, and hiring unqualified candidates
               | is bad for business), nor the candidates themselves
               | (because they didn't get hired on their own merits, and
               | imposter syndrome).
               | 
               | Hiring _targets_, on the other hand, should be attained
               | but can be missed due to lack of qualified candidates.
               | When these misses occur, if the company is serious and
               | capable about DEI initiatives, there's an investigation
               | into why that is and if there's anything that can be done
               | to remedy it, e.g. supporting educational/industrial
               | pipelines, creating internship/apprenticeship programs or
               | training opportunities for those changing careers, and so
               | on.
        
               | rajin444 wrote:
               | > Hiring _targets_, on the other hand, should be attained
               | 
               | How do you determine what those targets should be? This
               | implies the we can determine the correct % of X
               | race/gender/etc.
        
               | benj111 wrote:
               | >TL;DR: Diversity quotas are hard
               | 
               | Diversity quotas are wrong.
               | 
               | If you hire the black candidate because you have a quota
               | to fill. How is that morally different to hiring a white
               | person just because they're white?
               | 
               | The only situation where I can think of quotas being a
               | 'good' is to rectify a past self sustaining imbalance. If
               | you made the case that the police are racist, because
               | they're all white, therefore black people don't want to
               | join, I would say that's a good candidate. But it isn't a
               | good thing in and of itself, and shouldn't be an ongoing
               | thing. Because it's corrosive in its own right.
               | 
               | I would rather Google/apple/Amazon put effort into
               | education if they feel there's an issue. I would guess
               | the issue is one of poverty rather than colour per se.
               | Targeting and helping schools in poor areas would
               | actually be helping where it mattered, giving people the
               | best start in life whatever their colour, rather than
               | someone who already had that start, but happens not to be
               | white.
        
               | jonathanlb wrote:
               | Quotas are a straw/boogeyman. Most companies have hiring
               | targets. The difference is that quotas must be filled
               | (which doesn't make business or social sense) whereas
               | hiring targets are goals (which aren't required to be
               | attained).
        
               | Manuel_D wrote:
               | Except those "targets" are often tied to things like pay
               | and promotion. That really blurs the line between "quota"
               | and "target". For example Intel docked people's pay
               | unless they hit their totally-not-a-quota target of 40%
               | women and URM hires:
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34679982
        
       | shtopointo wrote:
       | Makes perfect sense.
       | 
       | Unfortunately, anything that gets hush-hushed or moved to
       | confidential may spark even more controversy than if it were out
       | in the open.
       | 
       | So imo you can only be in 1 of 2 states: all-in or not at all.
        
       | f154hfds wrote:
       | There are two possible goals. Affirmative action or color-blind
       | meritocracy. Both will lead to diverse hiring practices (using
       | the term diverse loosely - people who are not like those hiring
       | them). Affirmative action makes sense to get momentum going but
       | becomes its own worst enemy when acted upon for perpetuity. This
       | makes it hard when designing policy because inevitably years will
       | go by and you still haven't reached your diversity goals. Is this
       | because your company is still 'biased' somewhere deep down or is
       | it indicative of real group level differences that have deeper
       | causes than your affirmative action policy can address? In our
       | current navel gazing culture, we will always assume the former
       | and the policy grows in scope.
       | 
       | Our companies can't always fix these group level differences,
       | they aren't even always 'problems' (for example, men and women
       | are different and have different strengths and weaknesses, will
       | _tend_ to be interested in different fields, etc.)
       | 
       | In my view the way forward is color-blind meritocracy. Tech needs
       | to look closely at the symphony 'blind' interview techniques and
       | be very self-critical of 'culture fit':
       | https://abilitymap.com/articles/recruitment/blind-hiring/
        
       | canadiantim wrote:
       | An acronym called DIE should give everyone pause for
       | consideration...
        
       | posdeiefforts wrote:
       | All the people that came from non-colonial countries which are
       | innocent bystanders of these fascist DEI efforts just told all of
       | you that are in involved: Go Suck A Dick!
        
       | fatnoah wrote:
       | I think you raise some good points, and I think there are ways to
       | handle DEI hiring well, and ways not to do it well. IMHO, when
       | it's done well, DEI hiring isn't about filling quotas or giving
       | anyone an edge, but it's about making sure that everyone has an
       | equal chance. I've been part of DEI hiring at a couple companies,
       | and my role has been much more about answering questions and
       | making sure that candidates start the process on a level footing
       | with everyone else. All of the candidates are fully qualified for
       | the roles -- I wouldn't be talking to them if they weren't.
        
         | rel2thr wrote:
         | > it's about making sure that everyone has an equal chance
         | 
         | How does that look in practice? In most companies it seems that
         | means that under-represented people get green lighted at the
         | resume screen step at a much higher percentage than over-
         | represented people. But the bar is the same at the interview
         | stage.
         | 
         | But don't you see how that is a big dis-advantage for the
         | median over-represented applicant?
        
           | backzerman wrote:
           | > But the bar is the same at the interview stage.
           | 
           | If the bar is sufficiently high, the median applicant, over-
           | or under-represented, won't get the job anyway. I've heard
           | from people who work at companies (specifically big tech)
           | that have diversity interview quotas (but not hiring quotas).
           | In practice, you just end up interviewing more people: the
           | candidates you would have interviewed anyway, plus some
           | diverse candidates with closer-to-the-median resumes. And
           | then you end up hiring the people you would have anyway,
           | because interviews are much harder to pass than resume
           | screens. It's a fairly pointless exercise that mostly
           | disadvantages the interviewers, who have to spend more time
           | interviewing, and the "lucky" candidates, who almost never
           | outperform expectations in the interview.
        
           | SargeDebian wrote:
           | If you're doing this at selection time, you're already late.
           | 
           | * Make sure you have a campus presence on a diverse set of
           | universities. I'm not American, but as I understand it that
           | could mean Historically Black Universities, and not just the
           | Ivy League or a place where the current workforce went
           | 
           | * In line with that, think through which organizations you
           | partner with. An employer that traditionally hired
           | from/sponsored fraternity-like organizations that are mostly
           | white, could also work with student associations that
           | represent a broader spectrum of potential talent, or that
           | specifically represent underrepresented groups
           | 
           | * One job ad I saw had a line "Did you know women are less
           | likely to apply if they don't meet all criteria, whereas men
           | are more likely to apply when they meet a few? If you think
           | you can add value to our team, we encourage everyone to
           | apply". I thought that was helpful.
           | 
           | Anyone can still apply, and the best candidate gets picked.
           | Just not the one that happens to come from a specific
           | background.
        
           | pnutjam wrote:
           | I've sat in on group interviews where we usually have a side
           | chat discussing the candidate. Wouldn't you know, every time
           | a candidate of color was being interviewed one guy on our
           | team would take much longer to convince they knew what they
           | were doing. White women and men, got an ok much more quickly.
           | I asked my boss if he noticed this, and he said he did not,
           | but when I asked another PoC on the team, he definitely
           | noticed. This is the way things usually go.
        
         | bitwize wrote:
         | That's not really DEI, though, that's equal opportunity. DEI is
         | about putting your thumb on the scale for groups higher on the
         | progressive stack, to redress the lack of social capital
         | they've had due to systemic oppression and/or because if you
         | just select for talent, experience, and drive, in certain
         | fields like tech the candidate pool will just skew white/Asian
         | anyway because of the established good ole boy networks.
         | 
         | I'd really rather it stop at equal opportunity also but the
         | world of finance -- where it really counts -- is all in on DEI,
         | and companies demonstrating insufficient virtue will get
         | clobbered on their ESG scores and hence, stock valuations.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | I think it would be impossible to conclusively say people have
         | an equal chance without having objective, quantifiable,
         | measures of performance. Otherwise, it's easy to use subjective
         | measures, even subconsciously, to make a biased decision.
        
         | TylerLives wrote:
         | Not a native English speaker, but my understanding is that the
         | word "equity" is now used specifically to mean "equality of
         | outcome", which is incompatible with giving everyone an equal
         | chance. I found an article[0] explaining the difference:
         | 
         | >Equality means each individual or group of people is given the
         | same resources or opportunities. Equity recognizes that each
         | person has different circumstances and allocates the exact
         | resources and opportunities needed to reach an equal outcome.
         | 
         | [0] https://onlinepublichealth.gwu.edu/resources/equity-vs-
         | equal...
        
           | unregistereddev wrote:
           | I agree; at least in the context of my employer's DEI
           | conversations you are correct that "equity" is meant to be
           | interpreted as "equality of outcome".
        
         | sokoloff wrote:
         | > when it's done well,...it's about making sure that everyone
         | has an equal chance
         | 
         | If that's the measure, then I think it's not done well in a lot
         | of places (possibly most). Some places are biased one way;
         | other places biased the other way; relatively few are dead-
         | centered.
        
       | AdrianB1 wrote:
       | About 10 years ago I had an incompetent colleague, but she was a
       | woman of native American ancestry, with a lot of visible tattoos
       | and she was a lesbian. She was passed on from one department to
       | another every couple of years to check a lot of diversity boxes
       | and not to spend too much time the headcount and budget of any
       | department. She was actually a cool person, in my opinion, but
       | she had a fame way bigger than the real person. I looked for her
       | in the internal directory, but she is not around anymore or she
       | changed the name.
       | 
       | The big problem with diversity hires is that good people that are
       | hired will be automatically tagged as bad people. It is hard to
       | fight this image and prove it wrong, especially when it is
       | widescale in some places and it not just based on race, but any
       | diversity target. For example my country is almost exclusively
       | white (with a couple of non-white celebrities as exceptions),
       | there are legally no trans people so the pressure is to hire
       | women, lots of them (70-80% is the desired target). That fires
       | back visibly, the really good ones leave the company, the bad
       | ones remain (to cash in on their gender) and this makes the image
       | even worse.
        
       | Vaslo wrote:
       | We need to get started with recruiting PoC much earlier in their
       | careers. I almost never get resumes from african americans beyond
       | entry level. I get why this happens - I fell accidentally into my
       | career - my parents were blue collar and knew nothing about
       | careers in business and couldn't help me. I imagine this is the
       | same for other groups. If people really knew what was out there,
       | like if I knew what the path was in business for IT, Finance, etc
       | I'd be further ahead in my career. Force your HR teams to get out
       | to schools with minority groups and volunteer your time to visit
       | these groups and talk about careers.
        
       | notchatgpt wrote:
       | I was admitted to university through an EOP (Equal Opportunity
       | Program), which is in the same vain as DEI. One of the criticisms
       | of the program was just that-- people felt like they didn't
       | deserve to be where they are. A constant worry that people would
       | view you as the "one that got in because of their
       | skin/income/background, etc). Obviously this applies to DEI as
       | well.
       | 
       | As someone who benefited from EOP, it's weird for me to say this
       | but in all honesty I think we would all be better off without it
       | or perhaps doing it in a way where it isn't labelled or
       | "celebrated" the way it is... it should be unobtrusive and not
       | call attention to itself.
       | 
       | I was one of three white people out of 350+ people that was
       | accepted through EOP. If I felt that way as a white person I
       | can't imagine how much more amplified those feelings would be as
       | a person of color.
        
       | OJFord wrote:
       | I really strongly agree, but I'm a white man, so it can be
       | difficult to confidently have a reasonable conversation about, or
       | maybe I really shouldn't care/be talking at all.
       | 
       | I think it was the actor Morgan Freeman who in an interview
       | answered something like 'how do we fix racism/diversity' with
       | 'stop talking about it'.
       | 
       | But I'd go further, I find 'PoC' (person/people of colour) which
       | you used yourself a _really_ strange term, I think I 'd hate it.
       | 'Why aren't I just a P? Those white guys aren't called Pw/oC.'
       | Your prerogative, of course.
       | 
       | Trends come and go, I suppose - it just seems so close to
       | 'coloured', which has itself been both a preferred 'PC' term and
       | considered racist at different times. It's so similar to PoC that
       | I'm honestly not sure where it stands now, I wouldn't use it.
       | 
       | When the distinction actually does matter, do we need such
       | euphemisms? At least in the UK, though 'PoC' seems to be catching
       | on a _bit_ , people are and have long been happy with
       | white/brown/black, IME.
       | 
       | I'm not a 'manager in an influential company' but if I am ever
       | running the show I don't even want a hush-hush programme - just
       | hire good people and shut up about their heritage/preferences
       | IMO. I realise there's a pipeline problem, but I think you help
       | fix that by funding and otherwise supporting the early stages of
       | it, not by being lax on merit or setting quotas for your late-
       | stage admission process.
        
         | hedora wrote:
         | The sad thing about PoC is that using the grammatical synonym
         | "colored people" has recently ended people's careers.
         | 
         | The funny thing about PoC is that it (apparently) includes
         | Asians.
         | 
         | In California, Asians are greatly over-represented in colleges,
         | etc.
         | 
         | So, any effective equity system would mostly just be
         | reinstating old-school quotas against hiring/admitting too many
         | Chinese people (which UC correctly eliminated decades ago).
         | 
         | Anyway, I suggest the UK revert to the global favorite of the
         | 1990's: African American.
        
       | tarotuser wrote:
       | I've always found these telling when companies bandy around with
       | "DEI great!"... All the while the C-levels are 'white male
       | sausagefest' except for the DEI position, which is invariably a
       | black woman.
       | 
       | I like seeing real diversity at all levels of a company, and not
       | the fake diversity pushed by DEI initiatives.
        
         | adolph wrote:
         | > All the while the C-levels are 'white male sausagefest'
         | 
         | Aren't those the wurst? It's like they could at least include
         | vegetables, like aubergine or something.
        
           | tarotuser wrote:
           | +1 for the funny joke!
           | 
           | But as a story of "DEI" in real practice vs a company who
           | fakes it:
           | 
           | I worked as a system engineer for a gov contractor SaaS
           | company with 4 C-levels. 2 were men, and 2 were women. The
           | CEO was a second generation Italian. The CFO was a guy. The 2
           | women were in charge of the core part of the business:
           | development lifecycle (design, dev, QA), and customer
           | experience (helpdesk, consultants, sysads). The lady
           | responsible for dev was also a developer and designer, and a
           | damned sharp one at that. The lady responsible for customer
           | experience was a systems engineer by trade. More than a few
           | times I consulted with her about company direction for our
           | infrastructure and growth plans.
           | 
           | There never really was public vocalizations in the company
           | for DEI - it was about actually getting people from a wide
           | background and putting them in power. And to that, our group
           | reviewed potential hires, with all demographic details wiped.
           | It was just the facts what they had done, to prevent us from
           | focusing on demographics unchangable by us.
           | 
           | When BLM hit news hard, our CEO said bluntly in our monthly
           | meeting "We're not able to hire most black candidates because
           | police regularly harass their communities, give them an
           | arrest record or a criminal record, and that prevents getting
           | a public trust clearance. We are also powerless to change
           | this by ourselves." I've *NEVER* heard spokespeople say even
           | close to that, and here's our CEO pulling the curtains aside
           | to look at the meat grinder.
           | 
           | Aside that terrible fact, the company did its best to hire
           | diversely, promote from within, and put a diverse group of
           | people in charge at leadership positions. Federal regulations
           | GREATLY hamper good people with asinine decisions and local
           | governmental harassment.
           | 
           | Sadly, this company a year prior got in bed with a venture
           | (vulture) capitalist. They, after assuring "no real changes
           | will happen (HAH!)", sold us like a Pokemon card to a
           | terrible company. You could feel the grease off of this
           | place. Felt like a used car lot combined with a county
           | carnival/fair.
           | 
           | There were 8 C level positions in this 600 person company.
           | For 7 of them it was "White male". The "DEI Officer" was a
           | black woman. Doing this shows me you absolutely do not care
           | about actual diversity, but only the thinnest veneer as not
           | to be called out by other companies. (See? We have a token
           | Black Woman on our C levels!) Like... You just "bought" a 200
           | person company with 2 scary sharp women as proven C level
           | leadership... and threw them away as their newest
           | acquisition.
        
             | adolph wrote:
             | It is gratifying you enjoyed the humor. At the time I
             | thought I was following your redundant usage of "male" and
             | "sausagefest," the latter referring in metaphor to genital
             | particulars. But maybe it isn't redundant in that the
             | practice of SOGI informs that gender identity is different
             | from sex assigned at birth. Thus perhaps you were
             | attempting to say that the all members of the group had a
             | gender identity that matched their sex assigned at birth?
             | It is beyond my comprehension of what constitutes workplace
             | communication to communicate such matters.
             | 
             | I'm sorry to hear your federally regulated employer headed
             | by an Italian, a guy and two scary sharp women who were
             | ladies was bought out and sold to a terrible company.
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | pookha wrote:
       | We need specifics...
       | 
       | My view of racism: A specific and targeted activity aimed at a
       | race of individuals with the aim of removing their ability to
       | compete in the free-market.
       | 
       | Examples: CIA backed rebels in South America sent (oddly) marked
       | down\cheap product to Rick Ross and he proceeded to flood black
       | neighborhoods with crack. The US then passed mandatory sentences
       | during the war-on-drugs. Most of this affected black
       | neighborhoods affected by Hubert Humphrey (Senator in the 60's)
       | redlining.
       | 
       | Nothing AT ALL approaching wholesale racism was EVER part of the
       | early (unplanned) IRC scene. If you were new to tech it was a
       | harsh environment and you would get housed on. But there was not
       | a gatekeeper to IRC that channeled blacks into substandard rooms.
       | There was no coordinated effort by the early internet to target
       | black people online with threats and harassment or blacklistings.
       | There was just a lot of dudes talking shit. Calling them racist
       | is a slap in the face to the tech industry that we have in 2023.
        
       | monero-xmr wrote:
       | It boils down to a core philosophical difference - do you want to
       | emphasize equal access to opportunity, or do you want to
       | emphasize equal outcomes? Some would argue it isn't an either-or
       | thing, and we can do both at once, but I argue mandated equality
       | of outcomes is insidious and causes social strife.
       | 
       | If you are a minority and get hired, and the company has an
       | explicit policy of hiring N% of minorities, then you will always
       | wonder (as will all other employees) whether you were hired
       | because of your minority status or because of your actual skills.
       | This is very bad for morale and self worth.
       | 
       | I don't think the minorities themselves were consulted. Perhaps
       | it is being instituted by a minority, but they do not represent
       | the preferences of people they purport to help with these
       | policies.
       | 
       | I think the UC university system has it right because they ban
       | racial preferences for admitting students. While overall the
       | percentage of certain racial minorities is lower there, those
       | that do get in feel accomplished and deserving. This is a better
       | outcome for society and personal self worth.
        
         | pessimizer wrote:
         | This isn't a discussion about banning racial preferences in
         | hiring, or about the real racism being affirmative action.
        
           | jimbokun wrote:
           | They are certainly closely related, though.
        
         | surement wrote:
         | The problem is companies do DEI as marketing, and equal
         | opportunity is invisible. If there are fewer black ballet
         | dancers it doesn't necessarily mean that there's discrimination
         | or racial barriers, it could just be that black people are less
         | interested in that career. Further, different communities vary
         | greatly in age, for example. The median age for Mexican
         | Americans is 25, compared with 49 for American Jews. So you
         | would expect to see a big difference in distribution for, say,
         | senior positions within these racial groups even in a world
         | with zero racial discrimination.
         | 
         | references:
         | 
         | https://www.pewresearch.org/hispanic/2011/07/14/ii-mexican-a...
         | 
         | https://www.timesofisrael.com/us-jews-getting-younger-on-ave...
        
         | hedgehog wrote:
         | What does equal access mean? If I go to an all purple school,
         | and focus my sourcing fro new hires on my school, then my
         | company will by construction be more purple than the overall
         | population without any explicit discriminatory treatment after
         | that. If I broaden my sourcing is that discriminating against
         | minorities? If I know that school B does a better job of
         | interview prep than school A should I take that into account?
         | Am I hiring for SAT scores or predicted performance on the job?
         | It's much messier than just "equal access or equal outcome"
         | because access and outcomes are continuous processes.
        
         | spacephysics wrote:
         | Fully agree. I think it's damaging to a society to assign a
         | spokesperson for certain groups that wasn't "elected", but
         | rather given the position, prestige, and reputation due to
         | fitting in that group.
         | 
         | Thus it perpetuates the in-group, and causes the symptoms
         | you've mentioned with equality of outcome derived solutions.
        
         | HideousKojima wrote:
         | >I think the UC university system has it right because they ban
         | racial preferences for admitting students.
         | 
         | The UC system only did so because they were mandated to by law
         | (specifically a voter initiative), and they still try to use as
         | many proxies for race as possible in order to try and be racist
         | in their admissions policies.
        
           | jimbokun wrote:
           | > and they still try to use as money proxies for race
           | 
           | But that's completely legitimate. If black people (for
           | example) are systemically poorer than white people as a
           | group, it makes sense to give them more help.
           | 
           | It's favoring a wealthy black person over a poor white
           | person, that's arguably problematic.
        
             | barry-cotter wrote:
             | But that's completely legitimate. If [Asian|Jewish] people
             | (for example) are systemically [better at university] than
             | white people as a group, it makes sense to [hold them to
             | much higher standards than white people in university
             | admissions].
        
               | tastyfreeze wrote:
               | No, it doesn't. Your statement assumes that a university
               | population should have a certain makeup of races. Let in
               | the best of the lot regardless of color. If that makes
               | the university population mostly Asian or Jewish so be
               | it. That means that everybody else is resting on their
               | laurels and not actually competitive in the market for
               | university positions.
               | 
               | Every color of person is capable of performing at the
               | same level as any other. However, not every person is
               | capable of performing at the level some universities
               | require. There are dummies and geniuses in every
               | color/racial group. There are high achievers and low
               | achievers in every group. Every single human attribute is
               | a bell curve in the general population. By not picking
               | the best of the lot regardless of how the result looks we
               | are damaging the ability of the nation to compete.
        
             | HideousKojima wrote:
             | That was a typo due to autocorrect, I meant to write "as
             | many."
        
           | koops wrote:
           | This is true. If you are from a bad class background, as a
           | Maoist would put it, you are at a significant disadvantage
           | when applying to the UC system.
        
         | jimbokun wrote:
         | I think we need to decouple the reparations discussion from the
         | affirmative action discussion.
         | 
         | You can make a case that descendants of slaves and victims of
         | Jim Crow laws and red lining policies deserve some kind of
         | compensation.
         | 
         | But arbitrarily engineering the racial and gender composition
         | of universities and industries is treating a symptom, not the
         | underlying causes of current disparities.
        
         | flippinburgers wrote:
         | Obviously the only route to a healthy economy is one where
         | everyone is paid the same wage /s
        
         | LeifCarrotson wrote:
         | On the other hand, if you only emphasize equal access of
         | opportunity you will never reach equal outcomes. White men have
         | centuries of cultural expectations, family wealth, and other
         | advantages, and minorities have none of those advantages, and
         | may be only a few decades (if that) removed from illiterate,
         | impoverished inequality.
         | 
         | Give those groups equal opportunity and it's unsurprising when
         | an inequality of outcomes is perpetuated, observe that
         | inequality of outcomes long enough and you start to foment the
         | idea that maybe those people aren't actually intrinsically
         | equal.
         | 
         | Our office has a similar problem as a woman-owned business...
         | The WBENC seal is valuable for winning bids in the government
         | and aerospace industries, where regulatory measures encourage
         | taking contracts with us over those that are still in the "old
         | boys' club." Are we actually providing more value than our
         | competition? Are we as innovative and sharp as we think we are?
         | Or is much of the work we build together only selected because
         | it satisfies some regulatory checkbox?
         | 
         | I don't know, but I'd rather suffer that social strife and
         | doubt for a few decades in my generation, wondering about my
         | own accomplishments and worthiness, than kick the can down the
         | road and leave the inequality unaddressed. I believe that
         | temporarily creating equal outcomes, while temporarily
         | problematic, will be a much faster route towards long-term
         | equality than doing nothing.
        
           | Manuel_D wrote:
           | And yet Asian Americans and Jewish Americans significantly
           | outperform those white men. And in the last several decades,
           | women have outperformed men in university and in the 2010s in
           | the workforce, too. This analysis does not hold up to close
           | scrutiny.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | hedora wrote:
           | Can you name a single place which has equality of opportunity
           | and where black people were somehow still unable to prosper?
           | 
           | In California, the equality of outcome groups in Sacramento
           | are trying to lower the educational bar to the federally
           | mandated minimum. The result is that most people reading this
           | with kids in California will use their wealth to supplement
           | public education (or pay for private schools), while people
           | in poorer districts won't have that option. They already
           | defunded science and art, state wide, and the equity brigade
           | tried to defund high school calculus last year.
        
           | jimbokun wrote:
           | Why do you think it will stop after a few decades?
           | 
           | What if by that point men are doing categorically worse in
           | employment and entrepreneurship than women, and demand their
           | own compensatory programs?
           | 
           | Where does it end?
        
           | rirze wrote:
           | The only thing minorities lack is a proper value system.
           | There are multiple immigrant groups that start from nothing
           | and achieve upper middle-class status in a generation's time.
           | Once we realize, as a society, that what minorities really
           | need is internal support to reform their cultural systems,
           | only then will minorities will empower themselves to do
           | better.
        
             | Animats wrote:
             | _There are multiple immigrant groups that start from
             | nothing and achieve upper middle-class status in a
             | generation 's time._
             | 
             | Irish, Italians, Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, Koreans...
             | 
             | In Martin Luther King's day, the line was that all that was
             | needed was equality of opportunity.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > In Martin Luther King's day, the line was that all that
               | was needed was equality of opportunity.
               | 
               | If you actually read and/or listen to King's speeches and
               | writings, rather than just passively consume the
               | propaganda image constructed by exactly the forces King
               | railed against, you would know that it wasn't, at least
               | not the way you seem to be thinking. King _explicitly_
               | saw as necessary radical redistribution to acheive much
               | greater equality of material condition (see, e.g., the
               | "Three Evils" speech); he did not buy into the idea that
               | material conditions that are the outcome of systems of
               | distribution of scarce resources could be cleanly severed
               | from "opportunity", such that you could have even rough
               | equality of the latter with gross inequality of the
               | former.
        
               | goatlover wrote:
               | Malcom X also said this and pointed to immigrants As
               | examples to immulate.
        
             | nemothekid wrote:
             | > _There are multiple immigrant groups that start from
             | nothing and achieve upper middle-class status in a
             | generation 's time_
             | 
             | You can't compare an immigrant group, which is _most
             | likely_ elite in their home countries (it is very expensive
             | and very difficult to immigrate to the united states), to
             | minorities in America who have seen their family units
             | destroyed as recently as 60 years ago.
             | 
             | You can point to the success of Nigerian-Americans; one of,
             | if not the most educated[1] racial group in the US. If you
             | are an immigrant from Nigeria, the second richest country
             | in Africa by GDP, the US as a result of its immigration
             | policies simply selects for the best and brightest.
             | 
             | Minorities "lacking a value system" (??), isn't something
             | innate to their culture. It's been a purposeful policy for
             | America for most of it's lifetime. Just look at the Tulsa
             | Race Massacre; it was an incredible destruction of future
             | generational and cultural wealth for the people who you now
             | say "lack a value system".
             | 
             | > _minorities really need is internal support to reform
             | their cultural systems_
             | 
             | There are multiple ways to approach this but it tends to be
             | labeled as socialism, woke-ism, CRT, or DEI.
             | 
             | [1]
             | https://www.bloomberg.com/opinion/articles/2015-10-13/it-
             | isn...
        
           | stcroixx wrote:
           | Equal outcomes is an evil goal which can only be ultimately
           | achieved through forced labor.
           | 
           | Much more humane to just provide equal opportunity to all and
           | then let people decide for themselves what they want to do
           | for a living.
        
       | PaulHoule wrote:
       | It's a problem.
       | 
       | In our town people went past "Black Lives Matter" to a lot of
       | cheap pandering to the effect that "Black people are awesome" and
       | maybe all of them are right out of Wakanda Forever. It comes
       | across as not based in reality, not really sincere, and not
       | really attending to black people in the community.
       | 
       | I voted an Alumni Trustee ballot on the weekend and there were
       | two black people on the ballot. One was a woman who'd done some
       | of the biggest jobs in the biggest banks, the other was a man
       | who'd leapfrogged from one "diversity officer" job to another.
       | The first one was someone who proved black people could get it
       | done, I'm afraid the second one may be perpetuating the problems
       | of that community. You know who I voted for.
        
         | GrinningFool wrote:
         | > The first one was someone who proved black people could get
         | it done
         | 
         | This phrasing suggests an base expectation that a black person
         | needs to prove they could get it done [like a white person
         | could].
         | 
         | What I think DEI tries[1] to do is normalize the idea that
         | anyone of sufficient ability /can/ do the work by giving more
         | opportunity to people who 'traditionally' have not received
         | those opportunities. And in so doing, remove the [often]
         | unconscious perception that says a black person needs to
         | 'prove' something extra in the first place
         | 
         | [1] at its best, which it often isn't.
        
       | sciencesama wrote:
       | Its all just corporate drama, its like an insurance when
       | something shit happens with other senior execs !
        
       | dougSF70 wrote:
       | I had not realized this problem would exist.
        
       | taude wrote:
       | I was talking to a black woman friend about DEI recently. As a
       | white man, I can't really share any of our discussions. But we
       | both agree'd the whole thing does more damage than benefit to an
       | org, especially the people, etc. My friend also added the slant
       | of her escape from generational poverty, and the decisions she
       | made in her life that her siblings, didn't. I wish she could come
       | into companies and have an honest conversation about it.
        
         | pnutjam wrote:
         | Another angle, are you certain this person was comfortable
         | having a real conversation with you? PoC are very accustomed to
         | bending with the wind and playing their cards close to their
         | chest. I know it's only caused me grief to speak out.
        
           | alphabettsy wrote:
           | Exactly. Go along with what the white guy says to continue
           | being seen as one of the good ones.
        
             | exohell wrote:
             | Wow, so when a POC says something you don't agree with,
             | you're rationalizing it by saying they can't possibly mean
             | what they're saying. As a disabled POC immigrant who was
             | born in a refugee camp, please believe me when I tell you:
             | DEI is hot garbage, and it's full of people like you who
             | refuse to take POC at their words.
        
               | pnutjam wrote:
               | Attack, attack, no room for discussion?
        
             | taude wrote:
             | Not claiming to be good. But I will say most my white
             | friends don't actually engage with this conversations, nor
             | do they even have friends of color, so....whatever.
             | 
             | EDIT: BTW, I was only offering opinion to support what the
             | OP was feeling and saying.
        
               | pnutjam wrote:
               | I was not intending to denigrate you, just opening up
               | another possibility that could be overlooked.
               | 
               | People in tech say question your assumptions, right?
        
               | alphabettsy wrote:
               | The prevailing HN demographic doesn't want their
               | assumptions on diversity and race questioned.
               | 
               | The opinions and views of minorities are only acceptable
               | and elevated on HN when they support the existing views
               | that maintain the status quo or revert to some inaccurate
               | remembrance of a better past.
               | 
               | Compare the comments and upvotes of this post to any of
               | those discussing experiences with racism or lack of
               | diversity.
        
       | wereallterrrist wrote:
       | What a great time for a thread like this to pop-up and remind me
       | why I basically want nothing to do with this fucking community. I
       | gotta stop making this mistake.
       | 
       | Sorry to those that took the time to share their experiences and
       | then were told "no, you're wrong, here's why". Nothing will
       | change here, good luck.
        
       | hondo77 wrote:
       | I recently worked for a government organization. DEIA
       | (accessibility) was omnipresent. That's not a bad thing, for the
       | reasons others have pointed out. Lots of recruiting in non-
       | traditional places, for instance. However, there was no need to
       | trot out, as you called them, "diversity hires" because when they
       | would announce the new hires, they would just be diverse. I'm
       | trying to imagine your scenario and cringe.
       | 
       | Have you thought of raising your concerns with HR or even
       | townhall feedback, if your company has such a thing (one of mine
       | did and they actually acted on some of my suggestions)? The
       | actions sound well-intentioned but clueless so they just may need
       | to be clued in.
        
       | asimpletune wrote:
       | Honest question for the crowd. Obviously DEI or affirmative
       | action-esque initiatives are not perfect. But is there something
       | better that could be done?
       | 
       | Asking bc I went to a good school that had affirmative action. It
       | was for years that I just assumed it was racist, even if it was
       | helping poc. Then it dawned on me in my last year that it was
       | also benefitting _me_. That if the govt hadn't done something to
       | intervene, I wouldn't have had the opportunity to know any poc
       | until I was an adult.
       | 
       | (For those of you wondering, a lot of Americans are born in
       | highly segregated communities, where there are few (or even zero)
       | poc, like many suburbs, and it's not by choice or fault of their
       | own)
       | 
       | Anyways, without that experience and diversity in college, I
       | would have been very deprived. So, I'm not saying OP doesn't have
       | a point. I just want to share my pov and ask what else can be
       | done? In an almost selfish way, as a white guy born in the
       | suburbs, I am extremely grateful that I had a chance, even if by
       | intervention, to go to a diverse college. I take it for granted
       | now, but I shudder to think what school would have been like
       | without that.
       | 
       | So what's the better alternative to diversity initiatives? Which
       | is the least evil option?
        
         | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
         | The problem you're describing is extremely rare in tech. The
         | industry is full of immigrants and people of color; I've
         | personally never worked on a team with more than 30ish% white
         | people, although I've interviewed for a few and I hear they're
         | more common in different specialties.
         | 
         | But of course one of the key goals of diversity initiatives is
         | to frame the discourse so people don't think this way. How
         | often do you hear the Google diversity office talk about how
         | proud they are to have a PoC as CEO?
        
           | asimpletune wrote:
           | Thanks for your response. I meant the question to be more
           | broad than just tech.
        
             | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
             | It's less egregious in other contexts and other industries,
             | but I still haven't ever seen e.g a college whiter than the
             | state it's located in. I'm sympathetic to affirmative
             | action as a solution to break up a true monoculture, and
             | I'm sure there's some institution somewhere that would be
             | 100.0% white if not for their valiant efforts to fight it.
             | But I don't see any indication this is a common problem.
        
         | barry-cotter wrote:
         | > That if the govt hadn't done something to intervene, I
         | wouldn't have had the opportunity to know any poc until I was
         | an adult.
         | 
         | Your greater comfort with the differently skin coloured members
         | of your social class came at the expense of the people who
         | would have gotten in under a colour blind system. That's fine
         | as long as people are ok with the fact that different groups
         | are being held to different standards. (Asians famously have
         | "bad personalities".) But it's considered declasse to mention
         | it. This is bad. Lying to people is bad. It leads to children
         | believing the bullshit and then they grow up and believe the
         | bullshit still.
        
           | asimpletune wrote:
           | The system in place at my university was color blind. The top
           | 5% of students were automatically accepted.
        
             | barry-cotter wrote:
             | > Asking bc I went to a good school that had affirmative
             | action.
             | 
             | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34678203
             | 
             | Which was it? Was your school colour blind or did they
             | practice affirmative action? They can't both be true at the
             | same time.
        
               | asimpletune wrote:
               | It is both. The top 5% of students from each high school
               | doesn't mean the top 5% overall. There was even a recent
               | supreme court case over this. Something can be
               | technically colorblind and still be affirmative action.
        
         | dbrueck wrote:
         | A big part of the problem is that it's not really a problem for
         | companies to solve. Or, put another way, it's nearly impossible
         | for most companies to address the problem in a non-ham-fisted
         | way; arguably they end up doing more harm than good.
         | 
         | Opinions vary wildly on how much of a problem still needs to be
         | solved, but to the extent that it's still there, it's a
         | societal problem. The most effective ways to address it are
         | going to be in the education of each new generation, both
         | formally (in schools), but also informally (in family
         | discussions, in media, etc.).
         | 
         | Ultimately, anything that boils down to judging people based on
         | something like the color of their skin has great potential for
         | being harmful and counterproductive.
        
       | blissfullynot wrote:
       | I have a close friend who expresses similar sentiments sometimes,
       | as someone who is sometimes the target of DEI initiatives.
       | 
       | I've seen DEI hiring initiatives abused to paradoxical ends. Once
       | department administration got into an attempt to basically hire
       | someone using funds set aside for DEI, essentially with the plan
       | to terminate them later, just to collect the support monies that
       | came along with the position. The situation was complex but none
       | of this had to do with hires' actual competence, it had to do
       | with the available pool and this zealotry in unit aims at the
       | time (basically the minority applicants were all working in areas
       | different from the types of projects administration thought
       | people should be working on).
       | 
       | In any event, it created this disturbing situation where an
       | attempt to increase DEI by the higher powers that be was actually
       | having the opposite effect on a hire arguably, by creating this
       | opportunity for unit management to use them for support funds
       | with no actual intent to support them in their career or keep
       | them around long term.
        
       | dbrueck wrote:
       | I'm so sorry that this is your experience, and I'm sorry that
       | you're being used. This is one of the unfortunate outcomes of so
       | many DEI initiatives - or at least every single one I've seen
       | directly or heard about secondhand. It's wrong that they use you
       | this way and, worse, by doing so they are effectively putting a
       | little asterisk next to every one of your accomplishments, which
       | is of course deeply unfair to you, but also to everyone around
       | you.
       | 
       | Hopefully not many DEI efforts are insincere from the outset
       | (i.e. driven by a desire to not look bad), but it certainly seems
       | that DEI efforts are cheapened by their publicity. Keeping them
       | private might be an improvement, but human diversity has so many
       | dimensions to it, and the fixation on relatively superficial
       | things like skin color is largely unhelpful if the goal is actual
       | diversity of things like ideas, perspective, and experience (as
       | opposed to the goal of _appearing_ diverse).
       | 
       | I don't know how to reverse the damage of past eras of things
       | like racism and sexism, but diversity hiring does a lot of harm
       | (and, at the end of the day, is really just more racism and more
       | sexism anyway).
        
       | shadowgovt wrote:
       | > "Why should I feel proud of my accomplishments, when the
       | accomplishments were spoon-fed to me by the company because of my
       | skin color?"
       | 
       | Because they're still your accomplishments. White people hardly
       | ever ask if they should be proud of their accomplishments when
       | they live in a society that assumes they should and will succeed.
       | 
       | > "If I were a white man with the same experience, I might not
       | even be here?"
       | 
       | If you were a black man with the same experience, you also might
       | not even be there. Many aren't. Statistically, most aren't (in
       | the sense that relative to the population, black men are still
       | extremely under-represented in tech).
        
         | ChickenNugger wrote:
         | > black men are still extremely under-represented in tech.
         | 
         | Are they? Should be about 6% as black people are 12.1% of
         | Americans (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race_and_ethnicity_in_
         | the_Unit...) and this source:
         | https://www.zippia.com/advice/diversity-in-high-tech-statist...
         | says black Americans (doesn't separate genders) are 7% of tech,
         | and if 73.3% of which are men (same source) means 5.1% are
         | black men, which is damn close 6%. Less than 1% off isn't
         | "extremely under-represented".
        
       | _trackno5 wrote:
       | Heh, I feel the same way towards DEI: I'm from Brazil and this
       | stupid DEI stuff keeps putting me in the "LatinX" bucket.
       | 
       | I freaking hate that. I'm not a freaking latino. That is a dumb
       | denomination created by the US.
       | 
       | Yet I keep getting invited for dumb LatinX events as if that
       | means anything.
       | 
       | I want to be recognized by the stack of excellent work I've done.
       | Not because I happen to be from a part of the world that is
       | poorer than yours or because you decided I need some kind of
       | nomenclature.
        
         | ejstronge wrote:
         | I'm a little confused - why do you say that Brazil is not part
         | of Latin America? Is it because Brazil speaks Portugese (a
         | descendant of Latin) instead of Spanish (another descendant of
         | Latin)?
         | 
         | I heard a very humorous and apt anecdote that there are no
         | black people in Africa - maybe the same phenomenon is happening
         | here, where the identity you have in Brazil (just a Brazilian)
         | is different from the identity you are ascribed in the US
         | (namely 'Latino/Latina')
        
           | _trackno5 wrote:
           | I'm not saying Brazil is not part of Latin America. What I am
           | saying is I don't call myself a latino. Nobody in South
           | America or Central America calls themselves latinos. That's a
           | US made up term.
           | 
           | We all call ourselves by our nationalities.
           | 
           | The anecdote on Africa is probably correct though.
        
             | ejstronge wrote:
             | Yes - we are saying the same thing. Your identity from your
             | home may differ from the identity with which you are
             | perceived in a different nation.
        
       | hgsgm wrote:
       | DEI gets a lot of unfair hate because it's a fraught topic. It's
       | a job, and like any job, some people do it badly.
       | 
       | People here complain about hiring and "agile" and which language
       | smarter people program in and whether unit tests are a good use
       | of time, but it doesn't rise to the level of vitriol that is
       | applied to missteps and bad ideas in DEI. To me that shows that
       | DEI is important but hard. Maybe the problem is DEI doesn't pay
       | enough to attract people who can do it well.
        
       | px43 wrote:
       | Unconscious bias is really really hard to get past in job
       | interviews. People have this weird instinct where they want to
       | work with the kinds of people that they've worked with in the
       | past. A well implemented DEI program nudges the scales towards
       | selection of candidates who are best for the role, rather than
       | who are most similar to the interviewers. Implementing an
       | effective DEI program is hard.
       | 
       | The other side of that is also true. Candidates want to work for
       | teams that include the kinds of people that they have worked with
       | in the past. Because of this, having visible diversity in your
       | teams is more likely to attract a wider candidate pool, which
       | means more chances to hire good people.
        
       | sebastianconcpt wrote:
       | Reverse racism is a form of preventing racism from going extinct,
       | of course.
        
       | tootie wrote:
       | I mean, you put it right in the first paragraph. This is just a
       | version of Imposter Syndrome. Maybe being in a DEI initiative
       | gives you an easy target to blame, but it's still just in your
       | head. I think you have to understand what DEI is actually try to
       | solve for and that's racial bias in hiring. As much the hiring of
       | POC may have been foisted on HR, the opposite was likely due to
       | inherent bias and legacy of cultural bias. Were you only hired
       | because you're black. Were your white colleagues hired because
       | they were white? And you're personally worried about what,
       | exactly? What you think people think of you? Everybody worries
       | about that in that a general sense. You're just worrying about is
       | more specifically.
        
       | bobleeswagger wrote:
       | > If you're actually a diverse company, then people will notice.
       | 
       | Yep. But the damage has already been done.
       | 
       | At least you have a voice. I recommend using it to change what
       | bothers you.
        
       | User23 wrote:
       | Become a founder. You might benefit from some early advantages
       | raising seed money or getting picked for an incubator, but
       | probably not appreciably more than founders like Gates or
       | Zuckerberg from well connected families and communities. And past
       | that first step if you succeed it's going to be because you made
       | it succeed. And if you somehow end up founding the affirmative
       | action unicorn because private equity gives you an undeserved
       | valuation on the basis of your race, well so long as you don't
       | sell your soul you may as well enjoy the ride.
        
       | kohanz wrote:
       | This is a great topic and I support the OP for posting it.
       | 
       | However (and as a PoC myself), to me, "Tell HN" is generally
       | reserved for alerting the community to statements of fact (e.g.
       | "Tell HN: AWS us-east-1 is degraded").
       | 
       | This post is an opinion - albeit an informed opinion based on
       | experience. You might ask: "What's the big deal?". To me, the
       | problem is that posting "Tell HN: DEI initiatives undermine the
       | self esteem of PoC within a company" tries to make it sound like
       | the post speaks for all POC.
       | 
       | The post is a good one and it's an important discussion, but I do
       | wish it would be framed a bit differently. For example, simply
       | "DEI initiatives undermine the self-esteem of _some_ PoC within a
       | company "
        
       | NickC25 wrote:
       | > _but creating townhall meetings and parading your black /brown
       | employees around like show ponies is nothing short of corporate
       | virtue signaling._
       | 
       | It doesn't just undermine the self-esteem of a PoC, it undermines
       | the self-esteem of white folks, too. Hiring or promoting people
       | due to their skin color is just wrong, no matter what skin color
       | that is. As a white dude, seeing my PoC teammates in the past
       | celebrated not for their accomplishments, but for something they
       | had no control over (their skin color) is sad.
       | 
       | "John in Engineering is really talented, and works his tail off
       | daily. He has come up with some really ingenious solutions to
       | tough problems that have allowed us to grow as a company....but
       | we're celebrating him because he's black, not because he's a
       | kickass engineer". Seen things like this before, which make no
       | sense. Celebrating an employee who is awesome at their job for
       | being awesome at their job is great. You're a company, after all,
       | not a social club. The goal is to grow and make money. Celebrate
       | anyone who can do help with that, regardless if they are black,
       | white, yellow, orange, green, pink, whatever.
       | 
       | Diversity is cool, but when it's put into practice and not
       | shouted from the rooftops, it's even better.
        
         | version_five wrote:
         | > PoC
         | 
         | > White folks
         | 
         | I just want to mention that one of the worst aspects of all
         | this is trying to sort people according to (here apparently a
         | binary) label. There is not really such thing as either of
         | these categories - it's stereotyping of the worst kind, and
         | takes us back many generations
        
           | bjt2n3904 wrote:
           | Oh heck, let's not even address that saying "people of color"
           | is respectful, but "colored people" is racist.
        
             | CharlesW wrote:
             | I'm assuming good faith, and that you truly don't
             | understand the difference. I'd be curious to know if it's
             | because you're old enough to remember when "colored" was
             | "fine", or too young to have an understanding of the racist
             | usage of "colored".
             | 
             | https://www.chicagotribune.com/columns/dahleen-glanton/ct-
             | da...
             | 
             | "While the distinctions can be complicated, the information
             | is readily available for anyone willing to seek it out.
             | That means reading and having meaningful conversations with
             | people of different races."
        
               | bjt2n3904 wrote:
               | What I truly understand is that if it is racist to say
               | "colored person", then switching the terms around on the
               | euphemism treadmill doesn't fix anything.
               | 
               | Give it another decade, and I promise you that BIPOC will
               | be a racial slur. I've just ditched it ahead of time, so
               | I won't have to write apologies about how I "didn't know
               | better back then."
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Sorry, both are racist--they're just two almost identical
               | ways to say "not white." It's a term that gets used
               | primarily by white people--most black people consider
               | themselves black, not "poc," most Guatemalans consider
               | themselves as such, not "poc," etc.--to erase all the
               | differences and distinct interests between all these
               | groups and reduce them to really the only think they have
               | in common: that they're not white.
        
               | geraldwhen wrote:
               | That's similar to how "Asian" is used. Ask a Vietnamese
               | person if they would include themselves in a group of
               | Chinese people.
               | 
               | Asia is half of earths population, so "Asian" cannot
               | possibly mean anything.
        
               | marknutter wrote:
               | Yet the NAACP...
        
               | ChickenNugger wrote:
               | For anyone not aware, it stands for The National
               | Association for the Advancement of Colored People.
               | Founded in 1909, when polite society was at "colored
               | people" on the https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Euphemism#Eu
               | phemism_treadmill for "African Americans". Or are we
               | fully at BIPOC now?
        
               | Plasmoid wrote:
               | This is genuinely one of the less helpful comments I've
               | seen on HN.
               | 
               | Instead of simply saying the reason is 'X' or even
               | providing a link to a resource that explains why. You
               | have linked to an article that can be fairly summarized
               | as "Educate yourself".
               | 
               | This is possible even less helpful than LMGTFY link.
        
           | Swizec wrote:
           | I'll never forget a coworker explaining to me that in America
           | she's PoC, but back home she's white. That really blew my
           | mind.
        
             | consumer451 wrote:
             | > I'll never forget a coworker explaining to me that in
             | America she's PoC, but back home she's white. That really
             | blew my mind.
             | 
             | I think that's a huge and extremely valuable lesson.
             | 
             | That's because there is no such thing as "white" ethnicity.
             | It is a word used to categorize us vs other. This is not my
             | theory, afaik it's a fact. A fact which seems to upset a
             | lot people. Based on previous conversations, it appears to
             | be the most controversial knowledge which I posses.
             | 
             | The generally accepted "white" ethnic groups have changed
             | over time. Irish people were once not "white" in the USA.
             | Neither were Slavic people. These two groups have the some
             | of the lightest colored skin known to man.
             | 
             | No one is white. Some people pass for white.
        
               | Swizec wrote:
               | On that topic, there's a fascinating essay by Benjamin
               | Franklin explaining how Germans aren't sufficiently
               | white* and shouldn't be allowed in America in such vast
               | numbers.
               | 
               | https://www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/disp_textbook.cfm?psid=
               | 85&...
               | 
               | > What is perhaps most striking about Franklin's essay
               | today is his sophisticated use of "social science" data
               | to convince the British ministry to alter its colonial
               | policies. Particularly jarring, however, is Franklin's
               | plea that America be maintained as an entirely Anglo-
               | Saxon society.
               | 
               | *This was probably a few centuries before one would use
               | the word "white" in this context. Too many pale folk who
               | don't qualify. It was more about calling out ethnicities
               | directly as people still do in Europe.
        
           | flippinburgers wrote:
           | Didn't you get the memo? We cannot "move forward" until we
           | properly asses people based the the fantastically shallow
           | marker that is skin color!
        
           | oh_sigh wrote:
           | It gets even worse, where people are pushing for BIPoC
           | instead of just people of color, indicating that black and
           | indigenous are of primary import, and the rest of the non
           | whites are relegated to "other people of color"
        
             | colpabar wrote:
             | The goal of the bipoc label is to exclude asians from
             | diversity stuff.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Unless the goal is to make political hay of asians
               | getting assaulted on subways, in which case asians are
               | "people of color" who are "victims of white supremacy."
        
               | _wolfie_ wrote:
               | Yellow is not a color? I always assumed that Asians are
               | included in PoC.
        
               | BurningFrog wrote:
               | Side issue, but I grew up in Sweden thinking asians have
               | yellow skin.
               | 
               | After living and working with asians for decades in the
               | Bay area, I have yet to meet a yellow one. To my eye,
               | they're on the same white(pink)-brown-black spectrum as
               | the rest of humanity.
        
               | ChickenNugger wrote:
               | Well yeah...
               | 
               | White people are pale to darkly tanned
               | 
               | Natives Americans are brown, not red
               | 
               | Black people are brown, not black, some not even very
               | brown
               | 
               | Indian people are shades of brown too, and yet can be far
               | darker than "black" people.
               | 
               | Japanese people are brown, not yellow
               | 
               |  _None_ of the colloquial color terms for races are
               | accurate when you sit down and think about it.
               | 
               | The one time it might have been accurate is redheads are
               | often pale enough to be white, so of course we call them
               | gingers/redheads.
               | 
               | It's all a bit silly.
        
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               | AdrianB1 wrote:
               | What we learned in school decades ago is no longer
               | considered correct by some people. Also logic is not a
               | strong point of DEI people, for them math is racist [0]
               | and logic is the basis of most math, so it is also
               | racist.
               | 
               | Also white is a color and white people are not even
               | white, but pink [1].
               | 
               | [0]https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29650790
               | 
               | [1]https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Pink_skin
        
               | colpabar wrote:
               | Technically, white is _all_ colors.
        
               | zdragnar wrote:
               | So are Black and Indigenous. The point is to lump Asians
               | into "other" and only pay lip service to their inclusion.
        
               | f6v wrote:
               | It seems that some Asians are already over-represented in
               | certain fields, like sciences. I heard somewhere that
               | being Chinese makes your chances of admission worse.
        
             | PuppyTailWags wrote:
             | I always understood bipoc to be used primarily in places
             | where either black people or indigenous people (usually
             | both) had way more oppression than any other race. America
             | is a good example of where bipoc makes way more sense,
             | because they literally stole indigenous kids right out of
             | their homes and built an economy on making a race of people
             | into property. There's something to be said that there
             | wasn't a case where all indian people who immigranted to
             | america systematically had a generation of their children
             | taken, shoved into a school where many of them were
             | renamed, abused, starved, raped, experimented on, and
             | eventually died there, never to see their families again.
        
         | zozbot234 wrote:
         | > He has come up with some really ingenious solutions to tough
         | problems that have allowed us to grow as a company....but we're
         | celebrating him because he's black, not because he's a kickass
         | engineer
         | 
         | The soft bigotry of low expectations.
        
           | godshatter wrote:
           | Why are you making the assumption that they added a silent
           | "for a PoC" on the end of the first statement?
        
       | JCM9 wrote:
       | This is a challenging subject, but there's a lot of valid
       | criticism of DEI efforts of many large companies.
       | 
       | For one, these programs tend to be led by teams that are,
       | ironically, not very diverse. They tend to focus too much on box
       | checking while ignoring broad swaths of underrepresented
       | populations. "Asia" is a big complex region of the world with
       | those from this region often very underrepresented in the US and
       | subjected to discrimination. However many DEI programs fail to
       | recognize those from this region as underrepresented and the
       | whole lumping everyone under the generic label of "Asian" is
       | itself painting with a very broad brush that's insensitive to all
       | the nuanced cultures in this region.
       | 
       | They also tend to push messaging that is not broadly accepted,
       | even by the communities they claim to be helping. For example DEI
       | had a big push on saying the word "Latino" was offensive and
       | insisted people must say "Latinx." Many Lantinos in companies
       | were outraged and pointed out that in fact this concept of
       | "Latinx" can in fact be extremely offensive to those it's
       | attempting to describe. For one, it's suggesting that a gendered
       | language is somehow inferior and must be corrected.
       | 
       | As the OP indicates, putting people up in a pedestal when someone
       | that checks a desired box is hired also diminishes that person.
       | It sends the message that they're hired and celebrated in part to
       | check the box vs the skills they bring to the team.
       | 
       | The above is all complicated that people are terrified to discuss
       | these matters because of their sensitive nature. Rather that
       | creating an inclusive environment to discuss these issues DEI
       | programs more frequently establish a culture of indoctrination
       | into the thinking of a few (such as the Latinx example above).
       | 
       | In short, DEI programs have a lot of self-reflection to do and
       | need to be more aware that many of the efforts so far have caused
       | more harm than good.
        
         | tablespoon wrote:
         | > They also tend to push messaging that is not broadly
         | accepted, even by the communities they claim to be helping. For
         | example DEI had a big push on saying the word "Latino" was
         | offensive and insisted people must say "Latinx." Many Lantinos
         | in companies were outraged and pointed out that in fact this
         | concept of "Latinx" can in fact be extremely offensive to those
         | it's attempting to describe. For one, it's suggesting that a
         | gendered language is somehow inferior and must be corrected.
         | 
         | IMHO, in almost all cases, DEI isn't about helping _anyone_ ,
         | except white liberals who feel guilt they want assuaged.
         | 
         | The Latinx example you cite is nice example of the
         | contradictions of DEI: you can't actually "include" everyone
         | without dominating them (colonizing?) and forcing a new
         | identity on them, because different groups have mutually
         | exclusive aspects of their identities.
        
       | tomrod wrote:
       | I see you and what you're saying. I always feel a bit awkward in
       | these conversations because I feel I have received a lot of help
       | in life and also am a complete dunce when it comes to race/gender
       | and DEI discussions as a cis white male. So... if I haven't shot
       | my own foot off yet, take my thoughts with a grain of salt and
       | feel free to hit me with some better ways to see things if I'm
       | dumb/ignorant?
       | 
       | From my perspective, _everyone_ stands on the shoulders of other
       | folks. Not one single person built what they have, know, and can
       | do in a silo. I'm convinced that anyone that claims otherwise
       | lacks introspection.
       | 
       | I see the concern around thinking "I couldn't have done XYZ
       | without help of others" and feeling patronized and concerned that
       | you are unable to have accomplished the same under a
       | counterfactual world without help. I feel this assessment misses
       | that everyone else would have had "help" of similar variety as
       | well to accomplish XYZ.
       | 
       | And yes, townhalls parading around folks as tokens is abysmal. My
       | undergraduate school, a notoriously bad-at-race-relations school,
       | had a Multiculutral office from which the same 15 people were
       | requested for dozens of brochures produced each year. In my mind,
       | these are the same things and my friends doing the brochures
       | didn't like being token folks. Doing so undermines the confidence
       | of the people being paraded.
        
       | EVa5I7bHFq9mnYK wrote:
       | While I was still employed, I recall filling fields in my yearly
       | self-evaluation form to the tune of "ate rainbow-colored cake at
       | an LGBTQI++ event - 2 times".
        
       | debacle wrote:
       | My first introduction to the DEI movement was in college, reading
       | "None of This is Fair," which at the time reflected on the DEI
       | initiatives on the 2000s poorly.
       | 
       | Since then we've considerably doubled down on the things
       | Rodriguez was critical of over 20 years ago.
        
       | Zvez wrote:
       | I knew a _very_ talented female software developer. And she was
       | radically against any benefits based on her being female. For
       | example she actively tried to avoid female discounts some
       | conferences offered.
       | 
       | It seems that people who drive DEI don't have real connection
       | with people they are trying to 'protect'.
        
         | ModernMech wrote:
         | You cannot generalize an anecdote about a single person you
         | know to draw conclusions about "people who drive DEI". By your
         | own admission this person had a radical position. How do you
         | know other women appreciate these benefits?
        
       | fuckdei123 wrote:
       | Hi, bitter Asian man here who constantly got rejected from
       | FAANG/Unicorns because of DEI.
       | 
       | I'm not bitter anymore though. I now work at a hedge fund, they
       | pay cash, and they pay more than FAANG/Unicorns.
       | 
       | And lots of layoffs are happening in FAANG/Unicorns, especially
       | the DEI. Meanwhile I just got a raise.
       | 
       | So, they (the DEI companies and the DEI hires) got what they
       | deserve. I felt vindicated. There is justice after all in this
       | world.
       | 
       | Sorry not sorry. I'm out. No, no one's gonna change my opinion.
       | Save your breath.
        
       | samhuk wrote:
       | The concern I have with DEI is that it's the manipulation of the
       | natural function of a market - the jobs market. Just like others
       | in this space such as quantitative easing, printing money, and
       | "stimmy cheques", this often comes with positive _and_ negative
       | effects.
       | 
       | Personally, I have a few thouhts:
       | 
       | * If we didn't have DEI (which in practice is really just the new
       | AA (Affirmative Action)), would hetero-ethnic areas like Europe
       | and US ever have balance in the workforce? Would society
       | naturally trend towards ethnic balance in the workplace without
       | DEI, or would we end up with a Gattaca? Is DEI necessary in that
       | sense? Without DEI-like influences, would we just be stuck with a
       | black valet and a white CEO?
       | 
       | * Psychologists have known for decades about "the tyranny of low
       | expectations" - the tendency for lower expectations to lead to
       | lower performance in humans. I wonder if long-term DEI will lead
       | to performance imbalances as those who are favored by DEI become
       | reliant on it. It's a scary thought to imagine in the long term.
       | 
       | * Personally, I think a _small_ amount of _temporary_ DEI
       | exposure is required to offset the human 's natural tendency to
       | be hostile towards those of a different ethnicity. I think that
       | if DEI exposure is either acute (a lot in a small time frame) or
       | chronic (little bit over a long time frame), it is likely to lead
       | to systemic negative consequences, such as performative imbalance
       | and/or aggression/hatred between those favored and unfavored by
       | DEI.
       | 
       | It's a really complex situation!
        
         | maldev wrote:
         | The curse of low expectations is real. I recently moved out of
         | Baltimore because of the long term implications of DEI in
         | education. There's schools where a gpa of 0.13 puts you in the
         | top half of your class (https://foxbaltimore.com/news/project-
         | baltimore/calls-to-shu...). You also have 77 % of seniors being
         | illiterate (https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/policy/77-of-
         | students-at-...). I also dated a teacher for a bit, they can't
         | even teach, it's daycare and the bar for a highschool senior to
         | pass is literally being able to write their name. Teachers
         | can't fail or require more.
         | 
         | This is going to lead to decades of crime, most major cities in
         | America are like this. And it's going to get worse and worse.
         | The future is scary, and I wonder what the outcome will be.
         | These are also largely black schools, what happens when these
         | communities can't read and stay illiterate due to DEI in the
         | school system?
        
           | samhuk wrote:
           | It's a pretty sad fact of life that sometimes you hurt the
           | most by offering what you think is help.
        
       | entwife wrote:
       | An important consideration is that nobody performs better when
       | you tell them that people like them are discriminated against, or
       | often perform poorly.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | backzerman wrote:
       | I'm seeing a lot of claims here that DEI initiatives are about
       | actively hiring under-qualified under-represented candidates to
       | change the demographics of the company. I've sat through a lot of
       | DEI sessions at work (as have many of my friends), and I've yet
       | to hear of anyone actually _hiring_ under-qualified candidates
       | for the sake of a quota.
       | 
       | The DEI sessions I've sat through have focused heavily on the I--
       | inclusion. Sure, they were corny, and there was plenty of virtue-
       | signalling. But making a conscious effort to make sure everyone
       | at the company feels socially welcome and fairly treated is a
       | worthwhile effort.
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | DEI is about factoring in race. Race should never be part of
         | the decision making process. On top of being morally
         | reprehensible its also illegal.
        
           | anonymouskimmer wrote:
           | DEI can also be about looking past stereotypes.
           | 
           | A couple of decades worth of research has shown racial bias
           | against URMs in hiring exists. Breaking past it with a
           | requirement to interview and consider URMs is a start, not
           | the finish.
           | 
           | https://hbr.org/2021/02/research-how-companies-committed-
           | to-...
        
             | Manuel_D wrote:
             | Alternatively, it could be ameliorated in a non-
             | discriminatory way by anonymizing applications.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | Sure. Which would require a specialized group of trained
               | people at the company. This would involve such things as
               | changing Alma Mater University to "completed degree". It
               | would involve fudging things such as how long it took to
               | graduate (which can be an indicator of familial status,
               | in so far as people from poorer backgrounds are
               | disproportionately likely to take longer to complete due
               | to financial reasons).
               | 
               | Genuinely anonymizing an application is a difficult task
               | without losing pertinent data.
        
               | Manuel_D wrote:
               | Both of the things you listed are as simple as text
               | replacement.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | And how do you replace this text without losing
               | important, non-origin context? What you probably need is
               | an entire re-write. But a re-write, or even a bad text
               | replacement, can make it look like the applicant is
               | better or worse at grammar or writing in general.
               | 
               | This is not as easy a task as a simple text replacement.
        
               | Manuel_D wrote:
               | The important content is their work history, projects,
               | technical skills, etc. If the rewriting is awkward, it's
               | affecting all candidates uniformly.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | A genuine bad rewrite would tend to affect all candidates
               | uniformly (except those who have pre-anonymized their
               | applications, thus gaming the process), but a find-
               | replace is more problematic.
        
               | Manuel_D wrote:
               | If that's an issue, the companies could just tell
               | applicants to pre anonymize their resumes to eliminate
               | any potential gaming.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | I think it's worthwhile A/B testing your idea.
        
         | pocman wrote:
         | >> I'm seeing a lot of claims here that DEI initiatives are
         | about actively hiring under-qualified under-represented
         | candidates to change the demographics of the company.
         | 
         | DEI efforts try to conflate ethnicity+gender, effectively
         | trying to build the effort on the backs of black, hispanic, and
         | indigenous populations -- _but_ try to count gender as well.
         | Effectively, the DEI outcomes I see at companies end up being
         | wealthy white women getting more opportunities, and the company
         | conveniently checking off DEI as  "done"
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | rsj_hn wrote:
         | > I'm seeing a lot of claims here that DEI initiatives are
         | about actively hiring under-qualified under-represented
         | candidates to change the demographics of the company.
         | 
         | This is _exactly_ what DEI is, and I guarantee you that your
         | own company, if it is of any substantial size, systematically
         | hires under qualified candidates because of DEI. It would
         | require a hermetically sealed reality-avoidance filter to not
         | notice this. While there are some people who walk around with
         | these filters on, the vast majority of people do not, and will
         | readily tell you exactly what DIE is about once they feel safe
         | enough to speak honestly with you. Listen to them.
        
         | SpeedilyDamage wrote:
         | A problem a lot of tech/math minded people make is that there
         | is some set of metrics, some set of tests or achievements or
         | qualifications that make a candidate "objectively" the best.
         | There isn't, not even a tiny little bit.
         | 
         | The argument goes like: There's some objective rubric, and
         | hiring a black person despite that rubric's indication that
         | they're 2.345312% repeating below the best candidate, is DEI
         | gone wrong!
         | 
         | Anyone here who's ever hired for a technical role knows how
         | wildly wrong that idea of recruitment is, but for engineers, we
         | want to put a model to a system, and then we want to worship
         | that model, so it's hard for some folks to grasp.
        
         | bradlys wrote:
         | We've hired people at my jobs (big tech to startups in SV) that
         | were underqualified because of diversity measures. If we had
         | ran them through the typical interview gauntlet with the same
         | rubric, they wouldn't pass. We often changed the interview
         | format or the rubric when presented with someone who was URT
         | pool.
         | 
         | I've talked to enough managers who complain about lackluster
         | employees and how they're not fireable because the person is
         | URT. It's a thing - even if we all like to think it isn't. Your
         | best effort is to manage them out.
        
           | oytis wrote:
           | IMO the right way to implement diversity is to get more
           | underrepresented people into the funnel, not lowering the
           | bar. But it requires resources that startups might not
           | have/might be unwilling to allocate.
        
             | m348e912 wrote:
             | >>the right way to implement diversity is to get more
             | underrepresented people into the funnel, not lowering the
             | bar
             | 
             | This is the best comment in the thread. If you have a
             | diverse funnel you will have diverse employees and as long
             | as you maintain standards, they will be well qualified for
             | the job. This includes internships and job training
             | programs.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | Eh, the resume stack is fundamentally flawed. A lot of
               | URT are never going to go into tech because they just
               | don't want to. It's a large cultural issue.
        
               | oytis wrote:
               | Yes, that's why if a company is committed to diversity,
               | it reaches out to candidates, promotes itself on events
               | for underrepresented people etc.
        
           | John23832 wrote:
           | The solution is simple, hire better minority candidates.
           | 
           | There are minority candidates who can thrive at all levels of
           | tech. Nobody is telling your to hire subpar candidates.
           | That's on your company's lazy implementation of their
           | inclusion efforts, not on DEI.
        
             | willcipriano wrote:
             | Some places are targeting percentages of certain races that
             | exceed that races representation in the general population,
             | let alone the population within a given field. It may be
             | that the demand exceeds the supply.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | As an under credentialed, relative to the general
               | population very smart white guy, I doubt the demand for
               | any group exceeds the supply. It just might involve
               | searching outside of the range of the lamppost. Gasp,
               | horror, it might involve internal training as opposed to
               | expecting people to hit all the marks for a position on
               | their prior labor and education. It might involve hiring
               | _a lot more_ entry level positions than advanced
               | positions, regardless of the needs of the moment.
               | 
               | The best I've seen as a person who's not part of the DEI
               | team is cultivating relationships with universities with
               | large numbers of URM students. But that's really still
               | just searching slightly outside of the range of the
               | lamppost.
               | 
               | Are you straight up going to small towns and offering
               | scholarship opportunities? Going to college fairs (no,
               | not hiring fairs at colleges, but the fairs that high
               | school students go to to find a college) and marketing
               | what jobs are available at your company for majors of
               | certain degrees? These are just off the top of my head;
               | I'm sure there are a lot better, and tested ideas out
               | there.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | willcipriano wrote:
               | Let's say green people are 10% of the population to make
               | the numbers easy and not call out anyone in particular.
               | You have company A and they are killing it on their
               | diversity goals, 20 percent of its employees are green
               | people. Now you have company B, same size and industry as
               | company A, they want to hire green people but their
               | "share" of greens is already working at company A,
               | perhaps they can pull greens from other industries but
               | ultimately someone is going to be left holding the "you
               | don't hire enough green people" bag.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | > but ultimately someone is going to be left holding the
               | "you don't hire enough green people" bag.
               | 
               | This would be a good argument if we ever get to that
               | point. But we aren't even close, and plenty of smaller
               | companies and startups don't have diversity goals at all.
               | There's plenty of room for some big names to go 100%
               | green without being a tithe of a tithe of the full
               | working population. Or even a tithe of a tithe of the
               | working population of greens.
               | 
               | Even Walmart is less than 1% of the total employed
               | population in the US. Much more so for smaller companies
               | such as Alphabet or Meta.
        
             | seneca wrote:
             | This is the classic excuse. "Bad outcomes aren't the fault
             | of X, you're just doing X wrong" even though X always leads
             | to the same bad outcomes.
             | 
             | When an initiative fails, the solution is rarely to do more
             | of it.
        
               | John23832 wrote:
               | If you don't think you can hire better minority
               | candidates, then the implication is that there are no
               | better minority candidates?
        
               | SpeedilyDamage wrote:
               | Except study after study shows that _good_ outcomes
               | result from hiring diverse candidates...
        
               | throwaway894345 wrote:
               | My impression is that the mechanism is that
               | racial/gender/etc diversity proxies for some amount of
               | viewpoint diversity, and it's the viewpoint diversity
               | which is improving outcomes. Assuming I'm correct on that
               | point, my strong suspicion is that a lot of DEI programs
               | in the US are not resulting in much more diverse hiring
               | than their peer groups while simultaneously limiting
               | viewpoint diversity pretty considerably (or if they're
               | not limiting the viewpoint diversity of the people they
               | hire, they're limiting the willingness of those people to
               | express diverse views--probably a combination of the
               | two).
               | 
               | I'm also vaguely of the impression that at least some
               | research is finding DEI initiatives to be neutral or
               | perhaps even counter-productive, but I'm having a hard
               | time finding those papers--if this is jogging anyone's
               | memory, I would appreciate links.
        
               | ModernMech wrote:
               | > X always leads to the same bad outcome
               | 
               | X does not always lead to the same bad outcome here
               | though. That is, DEI initiatives that increase diversity
               | while not lowering the hire bar do exist. That some
               | particular company decided to lower their hiring bar
               | doesn't indicate that DEI initiatives _always_ cause
               | companies to lower their hiring bars.
        
           | busterarm wrote:
           | I've had HR force under-qualified people into my interview
           | pipeline completely bypassing our technical pre-screen phone
           | call.
           | 
           | We even had an interviewee who only spoke an obscure language
           | not spoken by anyone on our team _and_ had no work
           | experience. This was for a staff engineer position!
           | 
           | We hired someone despite some misgivings in the interview
           | phase who turned out to be a pathological liar (and identity
           | thief) and they proceeded to torment the entire company with
           | insane false allegations for two years and did zero work
           | while we couldn't get rid of them. Finally they quit on their
           | own and this person just made the news recently for stripping
           | down naked and violently attacking a convenience store's
           | workers with a knife.
        
           | BeFlatXIII wrote:
           | Find the legal definition of hostile workplace and skate just
           | below that until the problems find solutions on someone
           | else's paycheck.
        
           | backzerman wrote:
           | That's disappointing to hear. It also seems like a mixed bag
           | for these lackluster hires, who get a paycheck but likely
           | have a less-than-stellar work experience and little
           | opportunity for advancement.
           | 
           | Is there any effort at follow-up training? Seems like this
           | interview strategy HAS to be paired with a long-term training
           | strategy for taking less-qualified hires and turning them
           | into very productive employees.
           | 
           | If not, do you end up hiring more people in total? Do these
           | lackluster employees just eat up time and budget, or do they
           | also actively occupy a desk that you need to reclaim to hire
           | more talented replacements?
        
             | slackfan wrote:
             | >Training Hahahaha, you dare suggest that we hired somebody
             | underqualified? You can't make them feel like they are
             | inferior, you utter racist.
             | 
             | Yes, I have had a slightly less hyperbolic version of this
             | actual conversation about less-than-qualified diversity
             | hires. Good way to end your career.
        
         | slackfan wrote:
         | >actively hiring under-qualified
         | 
         | Oh it's absolutely been done. I have very strict color and
         | gender-blind hiring standards, because I want to hire the
         | actual best people for the job. My filtering of candidates has
         | absolutely been overruled by (white) upper management, because
         | they needed to make the department I was in more $diverse, for
         | whatever that means.
         | 
         | The punchline is that I'm not white.
         | 
         | I've since moved on from that firm, but I've run into this
         | elsewhere. Really leaves a bad taste in ones' mouth, and hits
         | the demoralization hard. The doublespeak is miserable. But I
         | suppose I have literally these policies to thank for forcing me
         | to strike out on my own to build something actually better.
        
           | hunter2_ wrote:
           | I think the idea is that even if blind hiring makes for the
           | best possible employees on an individual basis in the short
           | term, loosening that optimization in favor of diversity is a
           | worthwhile pursuit because the company actually will thrive
           | more when you look at long term collaboration (conversations
           | and opinions that draw from a larger variety of life
           | experiences can improve user advocacy, for example) and the
           | possibility that amazing potential employees down the road
           | might pass on applying to companies that aren't so diverse.
           | 
           | I see the irony in using protected characteristics for
           | profit, but it's a win-win...
        
             | slackfan wrote:
             | Yes yes, that is the sales pitch.
             | 
             | In reality DEI in general doesn't give a shit about
             | diversity of experience. There is zero investment into
             | training programs to actually get people from non-
             | traditional backgrounds into $company, because it's
             | significantly less profitable in the short term. And when
             | the training is set up, it is done in the most mealy-
             | mouthed "equitable" way possible, where everybody gets a
             | gold star, and then people act all surprised when the
             | outcome is unproductive, virtually unfireable workers. And
             | god help you if you are a "diverse" person who doesn't toe
             | the DEI line, that is the fastest way to find yourself a
             | pariah in an org.
        
             | slowmovintarget wrote:
             | Thomas Sowell pointed out two problems with the "idea" in
             | _Discrimination and Disparities_.
             | 
             | First, what evidence do we have that diversity does result
             | in a company performing better, or gaining that amazing
             | employee? He argues that this is an unfounded assumption.
             | 
             | Setting that aside, his second point requires deeper
             | consideration. Disparities are often caused by upstream
             | circumstances, like fewer children having adults in the
             | home that value education, leading to fewer candidates that
             | meet diversity criteria to hire from in the first place. By
             | laying quotas on at hiring time, people are wrongly
             | assuming the problem to be occurring where it is detected
             | (in hiring) and not where it originates (in-home attitudes
             | to education and work).
             | 
             | In the meantime, corporations hire consultants that emplace
             | DEI "initiatives" that train workforces to detect
             | "microaggressions," among similar evidence-free curricula.
             | They do this, not because it solves a problem, but because
             | it allows favorable public relations announcements.
             | 
             | How about initiatives funding scholarships, and
             | contributing to in home book programs? How about funding
             | campaigns for supporting community libraries?
             | 
             | These would go at the root of the issue, rather than the
             | cosmetics of the issue. But then, they couldn't gain the
             | indulgences for failing to actually be diverse as a
             | corporate culture.
        
               | SpeedilyDamage wrote:
               | > First, what evidence do we have that diversity does
               | result in a company performing better, or gaining that
               | amazing employee? He argues that this is an unfounded
               | assumption.
               | 
               | It's not an assumption.
               | 
               | > Along all dimensions measured, the more similar the
               | investment partners, the lower their investments'
               | performance. For example, the success rate of
               | acquisitions and IPOs was 11.5% lower, on average, for
               | investments by partners with shared school backgrounds
               | than for those by partners from different schools. The
               | effect of shared ethnicity was even stronger, reducing an
               | investment's comparative success rate by 26.4% to 32.2%.
               | [0]
               | 
               | > Increased diversity in the healthcare workforce helps
               | reduce or eliminate racial health disparities, according
               | to a 2014 meta-analysis of 25 studies. [1]
               | 
               | > A large-scale study of all Texas schools reveals
               | diversity's impact in public education systems. They find
               | student performance most-improved when there was greater
               | management diversity, and a closer racial match
               | (representation) between management and student. [2]
               | 
               | > Most of the sixteen reviews matching inclusion criteria
               | demonstrated positive associations between diversity,
               | quality and financial performance. Healthcare studies
               | showed patients generally fare better when care was
               | provided by more diverse teams. Professional skills-
               | focused studies generally find improvements to
               | innovation, team communications and improved risk
               | assessment. Financial performance also improved with
               | increased diversity. A diversity-friendly environment was
               | often identified as a key to avoiding frictions that come
               | with change. [3]
               | 
               | > Our latest report shows not only that the business case
               | remains robust but also that the relationship between
               | diversity on executive teams and the likelihood of
               | financial outperformance has strengthened over time.
               | These findings emerge from our largest data set so far,
               | encompassing 15 countries and more than 1,000 large
               | companies. By incorporating a "social listening" analysis
               | of employee sentiment in online reviews, the report also
               | provides new insights into how inclusion matters. It
               | shows that companies should pay much greater attention to
               | inclusion, even when they are relatively diverse. [4]
               | 
               | > Using data from the 1996 to 1997 National Organizations
               | Survey, a national sample of for-profit business
               | organizations, this article tests eight hypotheses
               | derived from the value-in-diversity thesis. The results
               | support seven of these hypotheses: racial diversity is
               | associated with increased sales revenue, more customers,
               | greater market share, and greater relative profits. [5]
               | 
               | This is just the tip. Study after study shows diversity
               | improves outcomes of group work, it's really hard to
               | justify believing otherwise, in light of the overwhelming
               | data.
               | 
               | [0] https://hbr.org/2018/07/the-other-diversity-dividend
               | 
               | [1] https://www.ucdenver.edu/docs/librariesprovider68/def
               | ault-do...
               | 
               | [2]
               | https://academic.oup.com/jpart/article/15/4/615/991022
               | 
               | [3] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30765101/
               | 
               | [4] https://www.mckinsey.com/featured-insights/diversity-
               | and-inc...
               | 
               | [5] https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/000312240907
               | 400203
        
               | hunter2_ wrote:
               | A pattern I'm seeing here is the possibility that these
               | beneficial outcomes could be rooted in
               | racism/sexism/etc.: having enough diversity among staff
               | such that you can easily pair up people (provider and
               | patient, fiduciary and client, or whatever scenario) who
               | share personal characteristics can increase trust and
               | synergy between them? Ugh!
        
               | slowmovintarget wrote:
               | Great! All the more reason to focus on the underlying
               | problem and not just where it's detected.
        
               | crackercrews wrote:
               | I haven't read all these studies but wonder if they claim
               | causality or mere correlation. I see lots of correlation,
               | which could be reverse correlation in disguise. Companies
               | that are on a good trajectory decide to engage in more
               | DEI than companies that are fighting to survive. Analysts
               | conclude that DEI and success are correlated. They don't
               | consider the possibility that the causal arrow runs the
               | other way.
        
               | jensensbutton wrote:
               | > I haven't read anything, but I have opinions.
               | 
               | Great contribution.
        
               | hunter2_ wrote:
               | True, and it could even be as simple as: well-educated
               | people make companies more successful, and they pursue
               | diversity more, compared to other people -- i.e., one
               | input has these two outputs.
        
         | voxic11 wrote:
         | Well hiring under-qualified candidates purely for the sake of a
         | quota (relating to a protected class) would be illegal in the
         | United States. So its unlikely you will hear anyone explicitly
         | saying that is what they intend to do.
         | 
         | https://www.aclusocal.org/en/inclusion-targets-whats-legal
        
           | sp332 wrote:
           | For government contractors:
           | 
           | "If women and minorities are not being employed at a rate to
           | be expected given their availability in the relevant labor
           | pool, the contractor's affirmative action program includes
           | specific practical steps designed to address this
           | underutilization."
           | 
           | "Where, pursuant to SS 60-2.15, a contractor is required to
           | establish a placement goal for a particular job group, the
           | contractor must establish a percentage annual placement goal
           | at least equal to the availability figure derived for women
           | or minorities, as appropriate, for that job group."
           | 
           | https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-41/subtitle-B/chapter-60/.
           | ..
        
           | busterarm wrote:
           | We opened a director level technology position, were
           | encouraged to apply and then we were told explicitly at a
           | company meeting that it was only open to a female PoC (which
           | could only possibly be filled by an outside hire based no our
           | org chart).
        
             | 908B64B197 wrote:
             | Here in America that would be completely illegal (And a
             | lawyer somewhere would probably buy his next boat with that
             | case!).
        
               | nullc wrote:
               | It's illegal. It's also at least somewhat common now.
               | 
               | It's easier to leave a company for another, probably
               | better paying, job elsewhere than it is to bring a
               | lawsuit.
        
               | busterarm wrote:
               | Also if you bring a lawsuit, you'll pretty much be
               | blacklisted from any company doing DEI, which is everyone
               | that can pay well.
        
               | 908B64B197 wrote:
               | This reads like high school bullying.
        
               | busterarm wrote:
               | We are here in America, and I was shocked when it
               | happened. But also no lawsuit came of it, because
               | everyone who stood something to lose buys into the idea
               | in the first place.
        
             | cm2187 wrote:
             | I have seen in several UK firms the need for a waiver from
             | HR to hire a white man for middle management level and up.
             | I am not even sure it is legal, but in any case it is
             | openly discriminatory. Imagine if you did that with any
             | other category in the population.
        
           | mst wrote:
           | I've heard anecdotes from nonwhite Intel employees who
           | claimed that that was definitely happening there and it meant
           | they could basically only bother to do any work when they
           | felt like it because nobody expected decent productivity out
           | of them anyway.
           | 
           | I don't claim to have remotely enough knowledge of the
           | situation to know whether they were right or not, mind.
           | 
           | It strikes me that your colleagues being acceptable, you
           | being better but having high enough standards for yourself
           | that they don't seem acceptable, plus a moderately apathetic
           | manager could produce pretty much precisely the same
           | observable results and then if you're already primed to
           | expect diversity stuff to be stupidly implemented it'd be
           | easy enough to draw an incorrect conclusion.
           | 
           | It also strikes me that under the previous leadership Intel
           | was kind of a shitshow in general so given that both
           | possibilities seem depressingly plausible.
        
             | kenjackson wrote:
             | I've heard from white males at Intel that they didn't need
             | to be productive either. I think this was an Intel problem.
             | But interestingly I suspect POC think it's about their
             | race. While white males assume this is the case for
             | everyone.
        
             | Manuel_D wrote:
             | For context, Intel introduced quotas back in the mid 2010s:
             | 
             | https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/04/why-
             | is-...
             | 
             | > Now, of course, the talk is of inclusion, not
             | confrontation. And I was surprised to hear Intel--old-
             | fashioned Intel--mentioned as one of the companies
             | successfully innovating around gender. It had been
             | releasing diversity numbers since 2000, though not with as
             | much fanfare as some of its peers, and without much
             | improvement. But in the past couple of years, Intel decided
             | to try a few other approaches, including hiring quotas.
             | 
             | > Well, not quotas. You can't say quotas. At least not in
             | the United States. In some European countries, like Norway,
             | real, actual quotas--for example, a rule saying that 40
             | percent of a public company's board members must be female
             | --have worked well; qualified women have been found and the
             | Earth has continued turning. However, in the U.S., hiring
             | quotas are illegal. "We never use the word quota at Intel,"
             | says Danielle Brown, the company's chief diversity and
             | inclusion officer. Rather, Intel set extremely firm hiring
             | goals. For 2015, it wanted 40 percent of hires to be female
             | or underrepresented minorities.
             | 
             | > Now, it's true that lots of companies have hiring goals.
             | But to make its goals a little more, well, quota-like,
             | Intel introduced money into the equation. In Intel's annual
             | performance-bonus plan, success in meeting diversity goals
             | factors into whether the company gives employees an across-
             | the-board bonus. (The amounts vary widely but can be
             | substantial.) If diversity efforts succeed, everybody at
             | the company gets a little bit richer.
             | 
             | TL;DR: Intel docked your pay unless you met a quota for
             | women and URM hires.
        
         | seneca wrote:
         | > I've sat through a lot of DEI sessions at work (as have many
         | of my friends), and I've yet to hear of anyone actually
         | _hiring_ under-qualified candidates for the sake of a quota.
         | 
         | That's because it's often illegal, and most people find it
         | immoral. It's the "quiet part", if you will. I've been in a
         | hiring role for a decade, and I can tell you that it happens at
         | every company I've been at that has a DEI program.
         | 
         | Many of the larger companies even have manager bonuses
         | dependent on diversity metrics of their teams. That's about the
         | biggest weight you can possibly put on the scale.
        
           | kenjackson wrote:
           | I've seen just the opposite. We always hire the best
           | candidate. Sometimes the question will come up. : "why were
           | there no POC brought in to interview?" They want to know
           | about where we recruited from. But our hiring was never
           | questioned.
           | 
           | That said I hired way over industry average in females. But
           | under for POC. But I probably got slack for all the female
           | hires. All of whom were the best we interviewed.
        
         | BeFlatXIII wrote:
         | > But making a conscious effort to make sure everyone at the
         | company feels socially welcome and fairly treated is a
         | worthwhile effort.
         | 
         | Or it would be worthwhile if it actually worked. Note the use
         | of the subjunctive tense.
        
         | dbrueck wrote:
         | > I've yet to hear of anyone actually _hiring_ under-qualified
         | candidates for the sake of a quota.
         | 
         | My experience is the opposite, unfortunately. Big companies
         | know where the legal line is and are careful to not cross it
         | too often, but here are some examples I've encountered first-
         | hand:
         | 
         | 1) My org's annual score had a prominent section highlighting
         | the fact that our diversity was deemed low. Your org's score
         | affected your annual budget for raises and bonuses, so I'm
         | embarrassed to say that it was definitely a factor in hiring.
         | 
         | 2) We'd have an opening to fill and sometimes would get a stack
         | of resumes of just women. This would otherwise be fine (or even
         | great - see #1, above) if there were some good ones, but
         | honestly if you're a woman who is a great dev you'd almost
         | certainly be able to get stellar offers elsewhere (this was a
         | large-but-not-FAANG company). In one particular case, a guy
         | friend of one of my employees applied for the same position and
         | would have been a perfect fit at least on paper, but somehow
         | his resume didn't make it past HR so he didn't get interviewed.
         | We interviewed several from the pool we got and ended up hiring
         | one who was an ok dev. Not great, but ok - we definitely
         | "settled".
         | 
         | 3) One time I needed a dev with a somewhat specific skillset
         | and was soon told that they had found someone and had started
         | the hiring process - even without an interview. I asked to at
         | least see this person's resume (woohoo, it was an Asian woman -
         | checking TWO diversity boxes!!). I pointed out that she didn't
         | have the skill set we needed and nothing indicated that she had
         | a background that would be good for it. I also pointed out that
         | she didn't speak much English (it was literally a caveat listed
         | on her resume), so I asked if we could at least interview her
         | to try to assess if she'd be willing to pick up the skills we
         | needed. Nope, the hiring was already done by then, and there
         | she was in our office two weeks later. I have never felt so bad
         | for anyone who has worked for me; she always seemed sad and
         | lost, and I did a really poor job of figuring out how to help
         | her. I'm still haunted by our extremely awkward 1-on-1 meetings
         | (kinda hard to have much of a conversation when, you know,
         | there's not a shared language).
         | 
         | On the flip side, some of the most talented and brilliant and
         | enjoyable people I've worked with have been people who check
         | lots of the diversity boxes, but weren't hired as part of any
         | sort of push to increase diversity.
        
         | throwaway35934 wrote:
         | I have absolutely been pressured to "reconsider" when I marked
         | an intern in a diversity target group as a no-hire, and said
         | intern was then switched into a different team.
         | 
         | EDIT 1: The more effective mechanism that my company uses is to
         | verify at the time of hiring a candidate that you can show you
         | at least considered diversity target candidates (in
         | engineering, basically women and non-Indian/Asian/white).
         | 
         | EDIT 2: also definitely see diversity target group employees
         | being flagged for second-look when identifying layoffs, PIPs
         | etc.
        
       | DubiousPusher wrote:
       | > "Why should I feel proud of my accomplishments, when the
       | accomplishments were spoon-fed to me by the company because of my
       | skin color? If I were a white man with the same experience, I
       | might not even be here?"
       | 
       | I'm not a PoC but I am disabled. I have uncorrectable low vision.
       | My perspective is different. If they want to hire me and promote
       | me because I'm blind that's fine by me. I'm just happy that for
       | once, something I have no control over, is maybe giving me a
       | boost instead of being a drag.
       | 
       | But maybe it's because I'm skeptical of meritocracy. Not in an
       | absolute sense. I have a strong suspicion that if I weren't
       | delivering value, I'd be gone by now despite being a diversity
       | hire. But simultaneously, I don't believe people are promoted one
       | over another strictly due to performance, even when DEI isn't a
       | consideration.
       | 
       | There's plenty of research indicating that humans and especially
       | organizations suck at evaluating job performance. And I've seen
       | many cases directly where someone is filling a leadership role to
       | everyone's satisfaction yet someone else gets promoted to the
       | permanent position even though they are clearly inadequate for
       | the job. Promotions already appear chaotic, political and quasi-
       | random. Essentially, what does it matter if DEI is just one more
       | wonky variable in quantum mechanical promotion engine.
        
         | BolexNOLA wrote:
         | > I don't believe people are promoted one over another strictly
         | due to performance, even when DEI isn't a consideration.
         | 
         | I wish I could find the study but this one fascinating read
         | pointed out that the greatest predictor of whether you'd get
         | promotions/raises/etc. was whether or not you were 1) white, 2)
         | male...
         | 
         | Those 2 aren't surprising but then it continued:
         | 
         | ...3) 6ft tall or taller, 4) "conventionally handsome" (very
         | loaded to term I know), 5) well-groomed/dressed by whatever
         | standards of the industry you were in.
         | 
         | Height in particular had a ton of correlation.
         | 
         | As you said, the meritocracy idea is kind of BS. It's a
         | consideration, but it's not the _primary_ consideration.
         | Presentation appears to have an outsized effect, whether you
         | control it or not.
        
           | pessimizer wrote:
           | The bias is toward looking like a better version of your
           | boss. Match him in everything culturally, but be cooler than
           | him, better looking that him, _taller_ than him. As a black
           | man, I 'm pretty sure I got more than one programming job
           | because I played in punk bands in the 90s.
           | 
           | This would be bad if the demographics of the people hiring
           | were representative of the general population. They're not,
           | so it makes it worse for specific groups.
        
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       | aabm wrote:
       | If there's no actual problem to be solved here, isn't this just
       | the same sort of virtue-signalling OP is accusing the entirety of
       | DEI of? Which is ironic, because my understanding of the matter
       | is that diversity has been studied and found to correlate with
       | increased profitability. Even if you zoned out through DEI
       | training, inclusion should be a no brainer-- you'll retain
       | employees who feel like they are part of your organization.
       | Equity is probably a little harder (and the part people get hung
       | up on), but frankly, I haven't seen any numbers to convince me
       | that we're approaching anything near equity so again I ask: what
       | is the problem to be solved here?
       | 
       | Is it really such an important goal for the IT industry in the
       | U.S. that instead of having the 3% or 4% of our employees be
       | black (by that I mean historically disadvantaged African
       | Americans, descendants of enslaved people, a qualification which
       | would _further_ reduce that percentage), that we bring that
       | number down to 1-2%, or even lower? I'm sorry, but this is such
       | an absurd problem to want to solve, and it just reeks of
       | insecurity to supposed "high performers" bring it up.
       | 
       | I don't want to dismiss this issue entirely because I know it's a
       | sensitive topic for a lot of people, but it's pretty frustrating
       | to see the constant anti-DEI posts in tech spaces when nearly
       | every team I've been on in my 10+ year career has been almost
       | exclusively white and male. Why are we clamoring to return to the
       | days of total unmitigated unconscious bias and homogeneity?
       | 
       | > However, when I have to join a cheesy townhall once a month to
       | discuss diversity hires, it makes me feel like I have no right to
       | feel proud of any accomplishments I've made within the company.
       | 
       | Why in the world would you feel this way, after admitting that
       | you have the chops? What does these "diversity hires" being
       | simply _hired_ have to do with your actual material
       | accomplishments within your company? It strikes me that perhaps
       | the real problem here is that our most insecure colleagues are
       | being threatened by unqualified employees stealing their jobs, in
       | which case I would suggest that the real solution here is
       | therapy, not returning to some idealized version of the past.
       | 
       | I can only speak for myself, but my self esteem is not undermined
       | by the fact that DEI could mean that there will be two black men
       | on my team instead of just me, or that my small organization of a
       | few hundred could have maybe four black men instead of three. If
       | anything, my self esteem is undermined by the fact that those
       | numbers are so low to begin with.
       | 
       | - Another Black Man
        
       | calvinmorrison wrote:
       | For all the energy private companies do working towards DEI,
       | think about how easily it could be transitioned into something
       | you don't like. If the winds blow to a falangist anti-capitalism
       | under not catholicism but protestant sects for example, all these
       | little HR people will suddenly be touting the reasons not to hire
       | women and get them back in the home.
       | 
       | HR departments should not be cultural enforcers, and while you
       | may enjoy it now or think positively of DEI, it can flip around
       | just as easily to something not very nice
        
       | tastyfreeze wrote:
       | Hiring preferences for PoC is discriminating against all not PoC.
       | It is in practice exactly what these initiatives claim to be
       | fighting, bigotry.
        
         | tootie wrote:
         | That infers the baseline is equality. The reality is that
         | hiring without explicit guidelines will bias against POC. DEI
         | is about counteracting unconscious (or conscious) bias.
        
           | Dooflegna wrote:
           | Exactly this. DEI isn't about ignoring race--DEI is
           | -recoginizing- the impact that things like gender, race, and
           | sexuality has on our biases.
        
           | throw_m239339 wrote:
           | > That infers the baseline is equality. The reality is that
           | hiring without explicit guidelines will bias against POC. DEI
           | is about counteracting unconscious (or conscious) bias.
           | 
           | No, DEI is about replacing one bias with another in order to
           | make a bunch of white people feel better about themselves.
           | DEI doesn't consider Indians or South Asian looking people
           | "People of color", because there are "too many of them in
           | tech already". DEI is just institutionalize racism. So much
           | that some Indians have to fake being black to get jobs in DEI
           | corporations, cause white people can't always tell the
           | difference.
           | 
           | The baseline was never equality, however DEI is blatantly
           | racist against people who objectively suffer from racial
           | discrimination themselves.
        
             | tootie wrote:
             | I don't think any of that is true or at least I've never
             | observed it. It's also entirely possible for a DEI program
             | to be run incompetently.
        
         | cycrutchfield wrote:
         | Who is talking about hiring preferences? Why are you
         | mischaracterizing diversity programs?
        
           | jablongo wrote:
           | Literally the OP
        
             | cycrutchfield wrote:
             | Where in the OP do they talk about hiring preferences?
        
       | giantg2 wrote:
       | "...it would be beneficial if DEI initiatives were confidential
       | and kept "hush hush" within a company."
       | 
       | "...is nothing short of corporate virtue signaling."
       | 
       | It might be most beneficial for individuals if it's kept-low key.
       | It's best for the company to scream it to the world. Or at least
       | that's what the leaders think right now.
       | 
       | Personally, I think any medium to large company that talks about
       | DEI and isn't addressing the supply side issues are just just
       | marketing. Without addressing that, it's just companies trying to
       | outbid each other, and not using money but using virtue
       | signaling. They should be putting their money where their mouth
       | is and sponsoring scholarships/internships/apprenticeships.
       | Instead of asking you talk at town halls, maybe they should be
       | asking you to talk at high schools so the students can ask
       | questions about your career journey. But hey, I'm just a dev so
       | what do I know that these highly intelligent and highly trained
       | CEOs/HR don't...
        
         | wyager wrote:
         | People fail to understand the entire point of DEI: avoiding
         | hiring discrimination lawsuits. There's a tacit understanding
         | that, if you spend enough money on DEI coordinators, and hire
         | enough of the right people, you will not be punished by state
         | or federal prosecutors.
         | 
         | This has nothing to do with eliminating hiring discrimination
         | or whatever; it's part of a political patronage network. You
         | hire our most dedicated people, we don't bring the hammer down.
        
           | TimTheTinker wrote:
           | I disagree - DEI is about upholding the prevailing form of
           | political correctness so as not to get publicly shamed.
           | Federal law still bans racial discrimination in hiring, so
           | lawsuits are less of a concern than looking bad in the public
           | eye.
           | 
           | The irony is that DEI as a _worldview_ promotes and condones
           | racial discrimination in many forms -- that is, treating
           | people differently because of the color of their skin, not
           | the content of their character, their skills, or their
           | physical ability (for physically demanding jobs).
           | 
           | Martin Luther King Jr. said "I have a dream that my four
           | little children will one day live in a nation where they will
           | not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content
           | of their character." Based on statements like this, I believe
           | he would be publicly against DEI if he were still alive (and
           | he'd probably have been de-platformed by now).
        
             | wyager wrote:
             | I'm not disagreeing with you at an object level, but at a
             | meta level you're at least 30-40 years behind what's going
             | on with title VII legal strategy, and your grade school
             | understanding of MLK is not helping things. I would suggest
             | looking more into what he was actually about, rather than
             | taking at face value a few words from his most popular
             | speech.
        
               | TimTheTinker wrote:
               | I have no doubt the federal government at large wants to
               | adopt a woke/DEI legal framework, and that legal strategy
               | is moving strongly in that direction. I just don't think
               | Title VII legislation is all the way there -- it still is
               | illegal to discriminate when hiring on the basis of
               | certain protected criteria.
               | 
               | > I would suggest looking more into what he was actually
               | about, rather than taking at face value a few words from
               | his most popular speech.
               | 
               | I've listened to that speech over and over again
               | throughout the years. I think he was utterly sincere in
               | his desire for _equality_ and brotherhood between people
               | of different racial backgrounds. Most of the time, the
               | simplest and most straightforward reading of a text
               | (keeping the context in mind - author, audience,
               | circumstance) is also the most correct. I believe he was
               | not being duplicitous.
               | 
               | > your grade school understanding of MLK is not helping
               | things
               | 
               | If you're referring to taking things at face value, then
               | I proudly stand with grade schools insofar as they teach
               | children to take people at their word and take truth at
               | face value. And I defy the university-level critical (or
               | rather, cynical) theory that seeks to redefine all texts
               | according to its rubrik of oppressor/oppressed.
        
         | jcims wrote:
         | I've seen quite a few people angrily push back on statements
         | like 'pipeline problem' and I don't understand why. Obviously
         | there's more to it than that, but it's also that (with hard
         | numbers to back it up).
        
           | cloudier wrote:
           | I think it's because focusing on the pipeline problem focuses
           | on the parts of hiring that a company doesn't have control
           | over. Those decisions often happen in high school and tech
           | companies don't have direct influence in these decisions.
           | 
           | Instead, companies are better off focusing on making the
           | later parts of the pipeline less leaky. Minorities tend to
           | leave tech at a higher rate than average due to factors the
           | company has some control over.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | I generally agree. However, they should be addressing both.
             | 
             | They should have outreach programs in high schools, partner
             | with schools to offer intro to coding, or even help sponsor
             | some students for after school coding classes. Sure, these
             | won't necessarily convert these individuals into employees.
             | But it would be part of being a good corporate citizen even
             | if those students end up going to other companies. So there
             | are things they can do. They aren't completely powerless.
        
               | 908B64B197 wrote:
               | > They should have outreach programs in high schools,
               | partner with schools to offer intro to coding, or even
               | help sponsor some students for after school coding
               | classes.
               | 
               | Here's the thing: by the time students reach high school,
               | a lot of weeding out has already happened. I recall such
               | a program where where they had something like 7% black
               | students. All but one were children of wealthy Nigerian
               | immigrants. The rest of the class was actually more Asian
               | and White than the district.
        
           | michaelt wrote:
           | _> I 've seen quite a few people angrily push back on
           | statements like 'pipeline problem' and I don't understand
           | why._
           | 
           | Well, some people think when a company says "pipeline
           | problem" it's a PR-vetted way to announce they ain't going to
           | do shit.
           | 
           | Whether you think that's true probably depends on how cynical
           | you are.
        
             | throwaway35934 wrote:
             | I mean, what are they _supposed_ to do?
             | 
             | To take one obvious example: there's massive under-
             | performance of black men (vs. any other group) at every
             | stage of the educational ladder up to the tertiary level.
             | There simply aren't enough qualified candidates for
             | engineering jobs for firms to be representative of the
             | relative populations at a national level.
             | 
             | 36% of white men have at least a bachelors degree; only 19%
             | of black men do. Black college graduates choose STEM majors
             | at only two-thirds the rate of white graduates, and one-
             | third the rate of Asians.
        
               | hedora wrote:
               | I've slowly come to the conclusion that talking about the
               | pipeline problem is unacceptable precisely because the
               | powers that be do not want any of the issues you describe
               | to be addressed.
               | 
               | I came to this conclusion by watching what the California
               | government has done in the SF Bay Area over last decade
               | or so.
               | 
               | They keep narrowing commuter corridors, which
               | disproportionately impacts low income workers. They only
               | allow high density housing to be built far from transit
               | corridors and walkable downtowns. They explicitly keep
               | housing scarce via zoning restrictions, then have special
               | ghetto projects for low income families.
               | 
               | Public education has gone from top ten to bottom five in
               | the country, but rich areas have excellent public schools
               | because they let parents pay to add back educational
               | programs that have been defunded in the poor public
               | schools.
               | 
               | Oakland has a special privatized police force for its
               | downtown commercial district area so that the businesses
               | there don't have to "subsidize" police coverage for the
               | other (mostly black) parts of the city.
        
               | 908B64B197 wrote:
               | The solution to this seems to be dumbing down the
               | curriculum so that more kids "succeed". With things like
               | "anti-racist math" [0] or "equitable math" [1]
               | 
               | [0] https://equitablemath.org/wp-
               | content/uploads/sites/2/2020/11...
               | 
               | [1] https://reason.com/2021/05/04/california-math-
               | framework-woke...
        
               | noobermin wrote:
               | 1. pay their taxes, so the government can fund public
               | schools so that they can educate black kids in the inner
               | city and poor suburbs better. That can be step one.
               | 
               | Also, the GP did say they can do scholarships and such,
               | there's that. Also (shudder) consider hiring from state
               | schools and don't filter on where you got your degree,
               | but the quality of education, which yes is much harder to
               | judge. Also, fucking train your own hires, don't expect
               | them to be brill out of the gate.
               | 
               | There is a lot they can do that really is actually quite
               | colorblind on the surface that will lift all boats, but
               | will actually disproportionately lift PoC since they skew
               | worse on the metrics, as you stated.
        
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         | dsfyu404ed wrote:
         | >They should be putting their money where their mouth is and
         | sponsoring scholarships/internships/apprenticeships.
         | 
         | I worked at a BigCo that did all the usual DEI garbage and
         | their only initiative that actually had results was the one
         | where they spent a bunch of money sponsoring "women in stem"
         | stuff at the high-school and college level.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | My company at least used to bring high school students to the
           | company for a women in STEM tour. I believe they stopped it.
           | I have no idea if it worked or not. It certainly didn't work
           | for the company since we weren't seeing any of them join
           | after college.
           | 
           | At least in the case of an intern we had, she went to some
           | other company. Which in fairness, was the better choice. In
           | the conversation we were having, the _manager_ even told her
           | to go to any other company if she has the option because they
           | will pay more. One of the best managers I 've seen and he
           | wasn't even my manager. Of course he left for another company
           | shortly after.
        
             | jimbokun wrote:
             | Yes, this is one of the funny things about DEI discussions
             | to me.
             | 
             | In a work conversation, a coworker mentioned recruiting
             | more women to work for us. I basically said we're never
             | going to win against FAANG companies competing for the
             | limited pool of women software engineers, and he didn't
             | have a response to that.
             | 
             | Some companies may not be diverse because they don't want
             | to hire from under represented categories, but because
             | candidates from those categories have better offers.
        
           | pocman wrote:
           | >> a bunch of money sponsoring "women in stem"
           | 
           | IME, a bunch of them were sweetheart good deals and giveaways
           | to BigCo's own daughters, cousins, sister-in-laws. And the
           | money sloshes around amongst the wealthy inner crowd.
        
           | zmgsabst wrote:
           | I'm unsurprised their only program was for the majority in
           | education.
           | 
           | Weird how there's programs for the majority (women) when the
           | minority (men) succeed -- but no help for the minority (men)
           | in any form. And this isn't some new issue... men have been
           | the minority in education longer than I've been alive.
        
             | dsfyu404ed wrote:
             | They had many DEI programs dating back to before it was
             | called DEI. The one targeting women who were predisposed
             | toward stem careers and keeping them on that track was the
             | only one that persisted over time because it was the only
             | one that wasn't asinine when you actually looked at the
             | results. Management basically said as much but less
             | directly whenever they cut other programs but kept that
             | one.
             | 
             | The women hired as a result were far more socially diverse
             | than people from the other hiring pipelines and I think
             | that is of greater value than the fact that they were
             | women.
             | 
             | This is a big non-FAANG tech company FWIW
        
         | lettergram wrote:
         | > It's best for the company to scream it to the world. Or at
         | least that's what the leaders think right now.
         | 
         | After sitting in a room where we were told we needed to
         | increase our "minority representation in upper management" (and
         | I'm a mostly white manager). There were already 20% apparently,
         | they wanted 40%.
         | 
         | I asked my boss, "so what does that mean to me? To me it seems
         | like you don't want me"
         | 
         | Boss: "oh no, you're fine"
         | 
         | Me: "I don't know, pretty obvious you want a higher
         | representation of people not like me"
         | 
         | I quit after that. I was manager of one of the most productive
         | research teams, created the most IP for the company, had the
         | top projects, and yeah -- lost me to this bs. I was joined by
         | several other top people. Now they have a "diverse", but less
         | passionate, less competent team. Good luck with this stuff.
        
           | kenjackson wrote:
           | Honestly your take seems a bit childish. I coach basketball
           | and I say "we need more bigs". Should my smaller lightening
           | quick point guard quit? No. I want a diverse team. The fact
           | that you didn't get that would make me question if I wanted
           | you on the team. Not your race/gender.
        
             | lettergram wrote:
             | > I coach basketball and I say "we need more bigs".
             | 
             | First, yes I'd say that is ridiculous. There are shorter
             | NBA players, the fact we target "bigs" shows a lazy coach
             | who's incapable of assessing the best way to form a team.
             | 
             | Second, size does play a factor [one of many] in
             | basketball; In coding, neither the amount of melanin, hair
             | color, eye color, nor gender play a role. We can argue a
             | diversity of ideas or backgrounds are good. That's why we
             | hired people with degrees in different fields; we hired
             | people with different work experience. You don't want to
             | say "we need less white people" or "we need less green eyed
             | people". Sorry, but in your example it's equivalent to
             | saying "I want more blonds in basketball" -- there is no
             | relation.
             | 
             | > The fact that you didn't get that would make me question
             | if I wanted you on the team
             | 
             | I did not want to work with bigots of any kind.
        
               | kenjackson wrote:
               | > First, yes I'd say that is ridiculous. There are
               | shorter NBA players, the fact we target "bigs" shows a
               | lazy coach who's incapable of assessing the best way to
               | form a team.
               | 
               | The fact that you speak so confidently about a topic you
               | clearly know almost nothing about I think speaks to why
               | maybe your old team seemed OK to let you go.
               | 
               | > You don't want to say "we need less white people" or
               | "we need less green eyed people". Sorry, but in your
               | example it's equivalent to saying "I want more blonds in
               | basketball" -- there is no relation.
               | 
               | You clearly missed the point of the analogy. The point
               | was that you can look for one attribute, while still
               | having a need for another. You seem to have conflated
               | this with an unrelated point. Maybe not surprising.
               | 
               | But now lets talk about your latter point. You seem to
               | miss one of the main points of DEI. Let's use another
               | basketball example :-)
               | 
               | Jeremy Lin. He went largely unrecruited in HS, despite
               | winning the California state championship over powerhouse
               | Mater Dei, winning Nor Cal player of the year and was 1st
               | team all state. And basically had no D1 offers. Why?
               | Largely because he was Asian.
               | 
               | So, he goes to Harvard and has a good career there. He
               | went undrafted despite great measurables -- including
               | being one of the fastest people in the combine -- think
               | Kyrie quickness and John Wall speed. He was in many ways
               | a generational athlete. He eventually signed as a free
               | agent after summer league to languish on the bench.
               | 
               | It wasn't until one night, at the end of his contract,
               | when he was likely done with his NBA career did he play
               | and he played with a "if I'm ever gonna do it, I gotta do
               | it now attitude". And he went on one of the most
               | impressive runs in NBA history -- Linsanity. Go look it
               | up.
               | 
               | Now I tell this story because his whole life he was
               | discriminated against because he was Asian. He never
               | asked to be played over people that were better than him.
               | Simply to give him a chance. He would never show up in a
               | referral from John Wall or Kobe Bryant. He doesn't run in
               | those circles. His last name doesn't evoke images of a
               | ridiculous skilled guard. But he was.
               | 
               | DEI is about saying, "you've done a sufficiently good job
               | of demonizing everything that comes from POC -- so that
               | you immediately discount the way they walk, talk, where
               | they go to HS, go to college, etc... But set aside these
               | biases and try to let some in the front door to at least
               | give them a chance at the interview. Try not to assume
               | because they went to Howard they are less than." Lin went
               | to Harvard because no other D1s would give him a spot. He
               | was a Duke level player at a low-level non-scholarship
               | school.
               | 
               | And the thing is that sports/basketball are among the
               | most meritocratic activities on this planet. Yet racial
               | bias reared its heard. You don't think this happens
               | everyday in investment banking? Or for consulting? All
               | the places where its so much harder to objectively
               | measure the quality of work done.
               | 
               | If you're a GM in basketball and you're not saying, "we
               | need to look at more Asian player. We need to look around
               | the globe for talent" then you're not doing your job. And
               | coincidentally its now arguable that the four best
               | basketball players in the NBA are all international:
               | Giannis, Luka, Jokic, and Embid. Peoople had to open
               | their eyes and see that it wasn't just an inner city
               | game.
        
               | lettergram wrote:
               | It could equally be argued that alternative players could
               | have been better than Jeremy Lin. Then they promoted Lin
               | at the time because they wanted to enter new markets. As
               | it expanded in popularity new demos entered they pitched
               | the "over coming race" angle because new people joined.
               | Imo using it to make an example kinda proves the real use
               | of DEI - to give people feels and sell stuff.
               | 
               | Teams are trying to sell seats. Businesses are trying to
               | target various markets, but more importantly raise
               | capital and get cheap labor.
               | 
               | You could argue the same thing in my case, and that's
               | fine. I won't play the race game. For reference, me and
               | others were offered an exorbitant amount to stay. But to
               | your point, give those opportunities to others, who by
               | definition didn't earn their place.
        
           | DebtDeflation wrote:
           | Unfortunately, I had an even worse experience.
           | 
           | Boss: "You need to build a more diverse team."
           | 
           | Me: "What are you talking about? I'm 1 of only 2 white people
           | on the entire 12 person team."
           | 
           | Boss: "Indians and Asians don't count as diverse."
           | 
           | Me: "Really? I did not know that. I do have 2 Hispanics on
           | the team though."
           | 
           | Boss: "You're not hearing me. You don't have any black people
           | and only have 2 women."
           | 
           | It became clear that "diversity" was not the goal, but rather
           | something much more specific, likely because the metric the
           | company was tracking specified it that way.
        
             | lettergram wrote:
             | > It became clear that "diversity" was not the goal, but
             | rather something much more specific, likely because the
             | metric the company was tracking specified it that way.
             | 
             | Indeed, it's not about "diversity" in the classic sense.
        
       | dillutedfixer wrote:
       | Thank you for sharing this. I feel the exact same way. Work at a
       | state university. Found out at a big town hall style meeting that
       | I was hired during a "diversity cluster hire." I know I am
       | talented but I was sitting there questioning myself. I am
       | hispanic. Everyone speaking about the cluster hire was white. I
       | appreciate the overall push towards awareness of this issue but I
       | agree this felt like we were being paraded around. I skipped the
       | "DEI Luncheon."
        
       | t344344 wrote:
       | In reality you got like 10% salary boost. Just take it and be
       | happy, or send that money to people in Africa. There is no need
       | to make it personal.
        
       | pessimizer wrote:
       | > I realize this isn't the type of content posted to HN usually
       | 
       | It was once very common, until a "no politics" rule was
       | experimented with, where "politics" was largely a euphemism for
       | "discussion of minority issues in tech." This rule was eventually
       | abandoned, and just applied manually through direct moderation.
       | After that point the only race/diversity stuff that gets through
       | is _anti-diversity_ stuff. I assume this is being upvoted because
       | it 's being mistaken for libertarian "race realism" from the
       | title.
       | 
       | You're saying that companies should stop parading their
       | "diversity" in their PR, and especially stop focusing on
       | individuals. I tend to agree, but if they stop using black people
       | in their PR, they're probably going to stop hiring black people.
       | They don't know any.
        
       | etchalon wrote:
       | As someone who hires people, I think this is a double-edge sword.
       | 
       | Bluntly, without a sustained effort by managers, teams will
       | default to hiring people who are as most "like them" as possible.
       | Shared interests, vernacular, professional personas, etc.
       | 
       | That's generally going to mean a lot of very homogenous teams,
       | and in tech, that means very white, potentially very male.
       | 
       | On the other side, I have a distaste for DEI being made so
       | prominent as to make anyone feel their job wasn't earned. Which
       | is never, ever the case. Unqualified people don't hired. Poor
       | performers get let go. But given the subjectivity of the hiring
       | process - there exist no objective metrics for the vast majority
       | of jobs - you just HAVE to tip the scales sometimes.
       | 
       | But it seems an impossible line to walk. If you keep it quiet,
       | staff isn't aware of what you're doing, and may think you're
       | doing nothing at all. That has a cost too.
        
       | kbrannigan wrote:
       | Are they parading them around, or are they just good at their
       | job?
       | 
       | Minority hires stick out because they look different. A fresh
       | white hire being exceptional is just a kid being exceptional
       | 
       | Is a black hire being exceptional and standing out only getting
       | the attention because he's a minority?
       | 
       | Let me me a wild assumption, you are used to being the only black
       | guy dev at your company.
       | 
       | Now that the company is making an effort to hire people, not just
       | and endless stream of white people, you might feel a little
       | threatened.
       | 
       | You're no longer the special unicorn.
       | 
       | On the other hand companies could humanize the process more, less
       | bureaucracy.
        
       | tcgv wrote:
       | Thanks for bringing your experience and sentiment to the
       | discussion. Its eligthening and makes perfect sense.
       | 
       | DEI is a complex, multivarible subject. People have a multitude
       | of different views and opinions on the subject. Companies have a
       | bias for profit and for getting good PR.
       | 
       | It impacts more predominantly people that are considered of a
       | minority or underepresented group, such as yourself.
       | 
       | I see DEI initiatives as a necessary measure for transitioning
       | from a condition of structured inequality to a more balanced
       | society. We can work and hope for a future in which we won't need
       | these initiaives anymore (utopical?).
       | 
       | It's a generational change. I see no path forward in which we can
       | overcoe this issues in a shorter timespan, and that people from
       | all backgrdounds won't have to face diffcult challenges, such as
       | the one you shared.
        
       | hnbad wrote:
       | The purpose of DEI initiatives in most companies is not to
       | actually create equity but to be able to demonstrate that you're
       | doing something. If your company explicitly does "diversity
       | hires" to hire people by skin color, they're clearly more
       | interested in tokenism, which only serves the company, not the
       | candidates.
       | 
       | I think "diversity hires" are fine for marginalised communities
       | analogous to grants but this would apply to paid internships or
       | apprentice programs, not regular positions. Otherwise as in your
       | case it clearly sends a message that the candidates wouldn't
       | qualify otherwise.
       | 
       | If a company takes DEI seriously, the best approach for diversity
       | in hiring would be to recruit specifically from the target
       | demographics via targeted advertising (the old-fashioned way, not
       | Google ads). Having to apply a diversity filter to an already
       | existing applicant pool will always create an impression of
       | tokenism.
       | 
       | Of course the elephant in the room is that these are usually
       | companies founded by white guys, run by white guys, owned by
       | white guys, who mostly initially hired other white guys. In the
       | past decades you might also have some Asian (specifically Chinese
       | or Indian) guys in the mix and some might be openly gay or bi but
       | they'll almost always share the same upper-middle class rich kid
       | background. Trying to bolt on "diversity" to that after the fact
       | is always going to be more about optics than genuine concern for
       | marginalised folks.
       | 
       | The real thing to worry about is company culture as building a
       | culture around a bunch of wealthy white guys is likely going to
       | make it hard to be welcoming to people outside that microcosm, at
       | least if you care about more than mere skin color. But from the
       | sound of it, your company's attitude to DEI is more akin to that
       | of a Victorian Englishman proudly presenting his "coloured"
       | servants.
        
       | mach1ne wrote:
       | I know this has nothing to do with the subject of this post, but
       | this is a prime example of why I greatly dislike the widespread
       | use of obscure acronyms especially prevalent in the US. It took
       | way too long to process that PoC meant "Person of Color" and not
       | "Proof of Concept".
        
         | harryvederci wrote:
         | IANAL, but idk. It's not an issue, imo. You gotta stay on your
         | tip top game with your GTL to stay FTD to keep 'em DTF in MIA.
         | Just my 2c.
        
       | rayiner wrote:
       | I find the way DEI people talk about "people of color" to be
       | demeaning. The language alone is bizarre: people will talk about
       | an individual being "diverse," like they have multiple
       | personalities or something. It's also extremely reductionist. As
       | an immigrant from a Muslim country, I _do_ bring a very different
       | perspective on many things than native-born white Americans. But
       | that 's not really what they mean by "diversity." In practice
       | they reduce "diversity" to the negative experiences darker
       | skinned people may or may not have in a majority white society.
       | "Tell me where the bad white people touched you."
        
       | brodouevencode wrote:
       | There's a God-shaped hole in many people's hearts. Unfortunately
       | this hole has been filled with other ideas that are religious in
       | nature, and DEI is one of them.
        
       | parasense wrote:
       | > However, when I have to join a cheesy townhall once a month to
       | discuss diversity hires, it makes me feel like I have no right to
       | feel proud of any accomplishments I've made within the company.
       | 
       | I feel the same way, kinda...
       | 
       | I'm male, and not a PoC, so perhaps maybe my perspective is
       | different?
       | 
       | I'm told that I'm privileged, but that's not how I feel.
       | 
       | I'm told due to systemic bias that I'm probably unaware of my
       | privilege, but I feel well aware of all the disadvantages I've
       | actually experienced. And yet I'm open minded to exploring the
       | way I could be oblivious to other people' problems.
       | 
       | I'm not sure if I'm actually the bad guy, or if I'm being gas
       | lighted.
        
         | Dooflegna wrote:
         | > I'm male, and not a PoC, so perhaps maybe my perspective is
         | different? > > I'm told that I'm privileged, but that's not how
         | I feel.
         | 
         | Think of it this way:
         | 
         | As a male and not POC, you're starting at the starting line
         | with no inherent disadvantages.
         | 
         | If you're a woman, you're farther behind on the starting line.
         | 
         | If you're a POC, you're farther behind on the starting line.
         | 
         | Privilege isn't supposed to make you feel -bad-. You didn't
         | choose to be born male and white. It just happened to you. Your
         | accomplishments are still your own, your life is still your
         | own.
         | 
         | But it's ignorance (willful or otherwise) to deny the inherent
         | advantages of being male and white, as compared to women, or
         | POC, or people who are LGBTQ.
         | 
         | Put differently: if feeling bad about being privileged is the
         | worst part of your experience where it comes to things like
         | diversity, then you are a very privileged person.
        
       | subjectsigma wrote:
       | I've no evidence to support this, but I strongly suspect these
       | kind of dog-and-pony shows are a result of there simply not being
       | enough black voices. White people want to be inclusive but they
       | consistently fail to understand what black people actually want
       | out of DEI... because they're not consulting enough (or any)
       | black people.
       | 
       | The best thing you can do is speak up and make sure your opinion
       | is heard in a way that is simple and direct. Doing it on HN is
       | fine but that won't change your immediate situation, you need to
       | talk to your leadership.
        
         | concordDance wrote:
         | > because they're not consulting enough (or any) black people
         | 
         | They are, problem is those black women they consult are mostly
         | DEI people. Who are very different from the actual worker.
        
           | subjectsigma wrote:
           | I would include that under "not consulting enough black
           | people" but you make an important clarification & I agree
           | with you.
        
       | smcl wrote:
       | Damn yeah it sounds like your company is really clumsy and a bit
       | patronising in how they've implemented or communicated these
       | initiatives. I think if I was in your position I would feel the
       | same way. I wish I had some advice for you, I think only you and
       | other PoC in your company would know whether mentioning this to
       | HR would help the situation or make it worse and more annoying :/
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | dncornholio wrote:
       | And thus, hiring for diversity is just another form of
       | discrimination.
        
       | stcroixx wrote:
       | Unequal treatment based on skin color harms all of us.
        
         | pjkundert wrote:
         | And DEI programs are the most pernicious form of racism
         | existing today.
         | 
         | Nothing is worse than a group who believes they are
         | harassing/oppressing you for your own good.
         | 
         | There is no true diversity in human affairs apart from
         | intellectual diversity.
         | 
         | And if you look at the most DEI-compliant places -- they are
         | desserts of intellectual diversity.
         | 
         | Nobody interesting would want to work/study there.
        
       | xwowsersx wrote:
       | Interestingly enough, Pew Research ran a study[0] a few years
       | back which found that the majority of whites, blacks, and
       | Hispanics reject race-conscious hiring--even if it results in
       | less diversity.
       | 
       | I can only imagine what it would feel like to be a PoC in a
       | company that has openly stated that their goal is to achieve a
       | certain racial/ethnic composition regardless of standards. How
       | would I not always have a sneaking suspicion that I was hired to
       | fulfill some quota rather than on my own merits? Worse, I would
       | feel that all of my colleagues are looking at me and wondering
       | the same thing.
       | 
       | Excuse the cynicism, but I think the reason these companies have
       | to shout about their DEI initiatives from the rooftops is because
       | they care less about diversity and helping disadvantaged groups
       | and more about signalling their virtue to the rest of the world.
       | 
       | [0]: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-
       | trends/2019/05/08/america...
        
         | Firmwarrior wrote:
         | As a Hispanic man, I can say that I don't care about whether I
         | earned my spot or lucked into it through my ancestry. Life
         | isn't fair, and I'll gladly take whatever advantages I can
         | scrounge up.
         | 
         | The software interview process in particular is already so
         | capricious that I feel absolutely no shame in tilting it in my
         | favor in any way that I can.
        
           | DrThunder wrote:
           | You didn't "earn" anything if it was due to skin color and
           | that's the point. I've gotten plenty of breaks in my life but
           | I'm aware of what is earned and what isn't. It's one thing to
           | be ok with the fact you got in but you need the awareness to
           | understand the negatives of a system that gives you chances
           | due to an innate characteristic you have no control over.
           | 
           | The irony here is that if we all just accept the line of
           | thinking you're using our society will go back to the exact
           | "white male patriarchy" this DEI stuff is supposedly trying
           | to fight. The only difference is that BiPOC or LGBTQ will
           | replace the white male as the superior class. The next step
           | is we can just ensure white males don't get a vote and can't
           | own land or credit cards right?
        
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             | Firmwarrior wrote:
             | Man, it's really weird to find myself on the SJW side of
             | this argument for once. I'm usually the token brown guy in
             | Libertarian circles.
             | 
             | Despite what you might've read on Tumblr or Fox News, I'm
             | not planning to oppress anyone or commit white genocide.
             | 
             | When I'm doing interviews or looking at resumes, I'll give
             | an extra moment of consideration to anyone born in the USA
             | who seems to have pulled him/herself up by their
             | bootstraps. I personally think that's enough DEI from me,
             | and I don't think it's something you should be too incensed
             | about.
        
               | DrThunder wrote:
               | You're strawmanning a lot of what I said.
               | 
               | My comment is just about what it leads to if we have a
               | society that bases their hiring on specific skin colors.
               | It seems like you're failing to differentiate between
               | exactly what you're personally doing and the society wide
               | affect of sitting back and accepting race based hiring.
        
           | debacle wrote:
           | You shouldn't feel bad about leveraging a system to your
           | advantage. Life is hard.
        
           | Manuel_D wrote:
           | Would you be okay with white and Asian people similarly
           | applying in-group advantage towards their own races to the
           | detriment of ours? The software interview process is
           | capricious, but this doesn't justify racial discrimination.
           | If we're so nonchalant about racism favoring us, we're
           | hypocrites for criticizing racism favoring other groups over
           | us.
           | 
           | I am deeply troubled by racial discrimination favoring Latin
           | people, despite benefitting from it in a narrow and immediate
           | sense, because it makes people justified in carrying out
           | their own discrimination potentially to my detriment.
        
             | ProfessorLayton wrote:
             | >Would you be okay with white and Asian people similarly
             | applying in-group advantage towards their own races to the
             | detriment of ours?
             | 
             | This isn't a great take because there's tons of in-group
             | advantages going on today that are deeply rooted in racial
             | discrimination.
             | 
             | The U.S. is still reeling from its deeply racist housing
             | policies. What does this have to do with this DEI thread?:
             | 
             | - Wealth is the _highest_ indicator of educational
             | attainment, and in turn education is a high indicator of
             | wealth. [1]
             | 
             | - Zoning laws were explicitly racist and meant to keep out
             | certain races from white neighborhoods. My parent's home
             | built during the WWII era in the SFBAY had covenants
             | attached to it that _stated under no uncertain terms that
             | no PoC may live in the home_ (No longer enforceable of
             | course). The racist roots of these laws is not a matter of
             | speculation.
             | 
             | - Most household wealth is through homeownership. [2]
             | 
             | - High quality education is tied to housing via school
             | districts, more expensive houses are located in schools
             | with better funding and higher quality education.
             | 
             | - Many zoning rules such as absurdly large minimum lot
             | sizes, high setbacks, height limits (Designed to make it
             | more expensive to buy for PoC in particular) remain in
             | place _today_. It 's a positive feedback loop where those
             | who had an advantage are more likely to retain that
             | advantage.
             | 
             | As OP stated, life isn't fair, and the rules are indeed
             | rigged to favor those in power. Rebuking a group for using
             | their limited advantages while ignoring the plethora of
             | advantages for those up top isn't very equitable.
             | 
             | [1] https://research.stlouisfed.org/publications/page1-econ
             | /2017....
             | 
             | [2] https://www.federalreserve.gov/econres/notes/feds-
             | notes/disp...
        
             | anon019293 wrote:
             | [dead]
        
             | kodah wrote:
             | There's different reasons we design different systems to
             | combat discrimination or lop-sided outcomes. White and
             | Asian people, if that is their only identifying class
             | characteristic, are not discriminated against generally. An
             | argument could be made that white and Asian people from
             | poor backgrounds don't make it into programming as much,
             | but again - class lines. We probably should compensate for
             | class more in discrimination laws.
             | 
             | Black and Hispanic people do face more _active_
             | discrimination. That has to do more with outward appearance
             | and last names.
             | 
             | Vets on the other hand are an example of a lop-sided
             | outcome. It was discovered a while back that most vets
             | often went into blue collar professions and didn't really
             | climb that many ladders. They instituted a rule where
             | campaign badge holders and disabled vets _must_ have their
             | resumes reviewed first. Working on the west coast I can
             | attest it 's rare to see vets at all. I've met more vets
             | from non-US military in the tech world than I have from my
             | own country (not complaining, but worth noting). There's
             | definitely a small contingent of people who would put their
             | political disposition into hiring if they saw a candidate
             | was a vet, but military are coached to chop their military
             | experience from their resume once they have a stack of
             | experience to avoid this.
             | 
             | All that to say, if I were OP I would not be okay with what
             | you proposed just on a facade basis. If it incorporated
             | class distinctions I might agree.
        
               | Manuel_D wrote:
               | I don't think I've ever been discriminated against for
               | being Latin. Quite the contrary, I likely had significant
               | advantages on account of my race in university
               | admissions. I'm not sure if I've had such advantages in
               | tech hiring, as I don't outwardly advertise my Latin
               | identity precisely because I don't want progressive race-
               | realists to use it as a factor in hiring, but if they did
               | find it it probably did help.
               | 
               | Unlike military service which has a discrete set of
               | experiences and criteria, race is just something you're
               | born with.
        
               | kodah wrote:
               | Every story is going to be different I think. Having
               | tools that marginally shift our statistical outcomes
               | makes sense to me. What doesn't make sense to me is the
               | people who propose specific proportions as a set of
               | diversity criteria, as it's difficult to determine _what_
               | those proportions should be. At the moment I think most
               | people are comfortable saying,  "better than what they
               | are".
               | 
               | It also stands out in my mind that most of these
               | statistics rely on self-identification. I don't know if
               | anyone's dug into the validity of self-identification.
        
             | Firmwarrior wrote:
             | Ah, well, I didn't want to go on some long tangent. I'm
             | sure elsewhere in the thread people are hashing out the
             | pros and cons of giving underrepresented people an unfair
             | advantage.
             | 
             | I just wanted to say that I don't think anyone should feel
             | bad or like an impostor if they manage to get their foot in
             | the door some way other than the traditional routes: you
             | get lucky on a coding quiz, your dads meet at the country
             | club, you bust your hump for 10 years in crappy jobs to
             | work your way up to a good one, etc.
        
           | conanbatt wrote:
           | Argentinian here - this 100%.
        
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           | hedora wrote:
           | The concern is that there are places where minority hires are
           | explicitly a lower bar, so those people get junk jobs and
           | layoffs, regardless of ability.
           | 
           | Personally, I think the problem should be pushed upstream
           | whenever possible. (More funding for minority elementary and
           | high schools, and candidate quotas for recruiters but not
           | hires both are good examples of effective approaches).
        
           | dayvid wrote:
           | I agree 100%. I know many white and asian people who didn't
           | get their foot in the door or opportunity solely because they
           | had amazing skills and talent.
           | 
           | Get in however you can and then work your ass off so no one
           | doubts you.
        
         | sinity wrote:
         | > Interestingly enough, Pew Research ran a study[0] a few years
         | back which found that the majority of whites, blacks, and
         | Hispanics reject race-conscious hiring--even if it results in
         | less diversity.
         | 
         | Ideologues who are a tiny minority, which is overwhelmingly
         | white, don't care tho.
         | 
         | The Atlantic - Americans Strongly Dislike PC Culture -
         | https://archive.ph/OXs6F
         | 
         | It's a bit sad how little discussion it generated, because this
         | data should be pretty damning.
         | 
         | > 25 percent of Americans are traditional or devoted
         | conservatives, and their views are far outside the American
         | mainstream. Some 8 percent of Americans are progressive
         | activists, and their views are even less typical. By contrast,
         | the two-thirds of Americans who don't belong to either extreme
         | constitute an "exhausted majority." Their members "share a
         | sense of fatigue with our polarized national conversation, a
         | willingness to be flexible in their political viewpoints, and a
         | lack of voice in the national conversation."
         | 
         | > So what does this group look like? Compared with the rest of
         | the (nationally representative) polling sample, progressive
         | activists are much more likely to be rich, highly educated--and
         | white. They are nearly twice as likely as the average to make
         | more than $100,000 a year. They are nearly three times as
         | likely to have a postgraduate degree. And while 12 percent of
         | the overall sample in the study is African American, only 3
         | percent of progressive activists are.
         | 
         | > While 83 percent of respondents who make less than $50,000
         | dislike political correctness, just 70 percent of those who
         | make more than $100,000 are skeptical about it.
         | 
         | 8 percent of US population, who knows how tiny proportion of EU
         | population (we're also on the Internets, you know). And they
         | constantly pretend their views are default, and try to
         | marginalize others online. With some success, sadly.
         | 
         | Also, they blatantly discriminate against neurodivergent people
         | - and if there's a single obviously beneficial diversity
         | program, it'd be increasing neurotype diversity. Ways of
         | thinking, not surface characteristics.
         | 
         | Example: Damore, who was an aspie. You know, the disability
         | where you have trouble with unclear communication that normies
         | rely on. Which causes sth like 90% afflicted to be unemployed -
         | because people insist on ignoring their issues. Tech is one of
         | the areas where they can thrive - except in the name of
         | "diversity", left wants to push them out. I don't understand
         | how's that coherent. Who decides which identity group are
         | worthy of protection?
         | 
         | See "The Neurodiversity Case for Free Speech":
         | https://static1.squarespace.com/static/58e2a71bf7e0ab3ba886c...
         | 
         | > Administrators assume that the most vulnerable 'snowflakes'
         | are always listeners, and never speakers.
         | 
         | > Autism spectrum disorders are central to the tension between
         | campus censorship and neurodiversity. This is because there's a
         | trade-off between 'systematizing' and 'empathizing'.
         | Systematizing is the drive to construct and analyze abstract
         | systems of rules, evidence, and procedures; it's stronger in
         | males, in people with autism/Asperger's, and in STEM fields.
         | Empathizing is the ability to understand other people's
         | thoughts and feelings, and to respond with 'appropriate'
         | emotions and speech acts; it's stronger in females, in people
         | with schizophrenia spectrum disorders, and in the arts and
         | humanities. Conservative satirists often mock 'social justice
         | warriors' for their 'autistic screeching', but Leftist student
         | protesters are more likely to be high empathizers from the
         | arts, humanities, and social sciences, than high systematizers
         | from the hard sciences or engineering.
         | 
         | > Consider the Empathy Quotient (EQ) scale, (...) it seems like
         | a higher EQ score would strongly predict ability to follow
         | campus speech codes that prohibit causing offense to others.
         | People on the autism spectrum, such as those with Asperger's,
         | score much lower on the EQ scale. (Full disclosure: I score 14
         | out of 80.) Thus, aspies simply don't have brains that can
         | anticipate what might be considered offensive, disrespectful,
         | unwanted, or outrageous by others - regardless of what campus
         | speech codes expect of us.
         | 
         | > From a high systematizer's perspective, most 'respectful
         | campus' speech codes are basically demands that they should
         | turn into a high empathizer through sheer force of will.
         | 
         | > The ways that speech codes discriminate against systematizers
         | is exacerbated by their vagueness, overbreadth, unsystematic
         | structure, double standards, and logical inconsistencies -
         | which drive systematizers nuts. For example, most speech codes
         | prohibit any insults based on a person's sex, race, religion,
         | or political attitudes. But aspie students often notice that
         | these codes are applied very selectively: it's OK to insult
         | 'toxic masculinity' and 'patriarchy', but not to question the
         | 'wage gap' or 'rape culture'; it's OK to insult 'white
         | privilege' and the 'Alt-Right' but not 'affirmative action' or
         | 'Black Lives Matter'; it's OK to insult pro-life Catholics but
         | not prosharia Muslims. The concept of 'unwelcome' jokes or
         | 'unwelcome' sexual comments seems like a time-travel paradox to
         | aspies - how can you judge what speech act is 'unwelcome' until
         | after you get the feedback about whether it was welcome?
         | 
         | > When a policy is formally neutral, but it adversely affects
         | one legally protected group of people more than other people,
         | that's called 'disparate impact', and it's illegal. People with
         | diagnosed mental disorders qualify as 'disabled' people under
         | the 1990 Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) and other
         | federal laws, so any speech code at a public university that
         | imposes disparate impact on neurominorities is illegal.
        
           | docmars wrote:
           | Absolutely based, thank you for sharing this. I know my
           | comment doesn't contribute much here, but if anything, a
           | signal of validation.
        
       | zxcvbn4038 wrote:
       | My advice is to be a great engineer - not a diversity hire. Stay
       | clear of all the DEI stuff.
        
       | rubyist5eva wrote:
       | > In my opinion, it would be beneficial if DEI initiatives were
       | confidential and kept "hush hush" within a company.
       | 
       | They shouldn't exist at all. If DEI favored white people, it
       | would be "problematic", and that tells you all you need to know.
       | As if non-white people can't be successful on their own and need
       | special treatment. Tokenizing human beings to get social-credit
       | for your corporation is, frankly, disgusting and extremely
       | racist.
        
       | John23832 wrote:
       | (Black man here)
       | 
       | Two things can be true at once.
       | 
       | I have built great things. I can stand on my own. My merits are
       | great. I do not want to be the token employee that is trotted
       | around for Diversity Points (tm). I do not like the diversity
       | porn that a lot of these DEI groups get off on.
       | 
       | That being said, I do recognize that I have benefited from these
       | groups (at least at their most genuine). There are groups that
       | are aimed at cultivating black people in tech. Prior to this, in
       | the earlier internet age, you had to cut your teeth on IRC and
       | forums. That was where technical people were in the computer tech
       | space.
       | 
       | Do you know VIRULENTLY anti-black (or woman, or gay) these
       | communities were? I can't begin to describe it. That is totally
       | off-putting to someone who has the ability succeed but does not
       | want to deal with the hate. There's also the fact that most
       | (read: all) of the computing pioneers are white. I respect all of
       | those people, but it does help to have someone to look up to. I'm
       | positive that Satya and Sundar are great motivators for indian
       | kids to look up to (as they should be).
       | 
       | These DEI initiatives aren't perfect in any way, but the goal is
       | to give the affected groups the foundations to succeed. To put
       | people in the affected communities out front as role models. I
       | accept the annoyances for the sake of good and progress.
       | 
       | EDIT: In the below thread are many people who personally identify
       | as omnipresent IRC Gods, so my experience must have happened in
       | an alternate universe. My bad.
        
         | rayiner wrote:
         | > I'm positive that Satya and Sundar are great motivators for
         | indian kids to look up to (as they should be).
         | 
         | I'm doubtful about that. At least among my cohort (first
         | generation south asian immigrants to the east coast) there's
         | not a strong sense of racial identity. There's strong identity
         | in the sense of ties to religion, home countries, culture, and
         | traditions, but not group identification or a feeling of
         | collective destiny. I recently told my dad about being at a
         | professional event where there were three south asians "at the
         | table" so to speak. He was like "huh, that's interesting." He
         | had a stronger positive reaction when I mentioned that Chris
         | Sununu (governor of New Hampshire) went to the same high school
         | as my brother and me. I have to think it's similar to Jewish
         | Americans--they're not looking up to Mark Zuckerberg because
         | he's Jewish.
         | 
         | I also disagree that Indian kids "should" look up to Pichai or
         | Nadella because of their ethnicity. Insofar as there is an "us"
         | --a definable group with distinct interests--"representation"
         | will never advance those interests. Pichai or Nadella will run
         | their companies how white shareholders want them to, exactly
         | the same way as a white CEO would. They wouldn't have been
         | selected if that wasn't the case. The "representation" doesn't
         | advance the agenda of the group in any meaningful way.
         | 
         | To the contrary, "representation" is used by white people to
         | obtain the support of minority groups without giving them
         | anything. I see white people pressuring my daughter to look up
         | to Kamala Harris (because Harris "looks like her"). This is
         | just manipulation. Harris will not meaningfully advance the
         | distinct interests of south asian people, nor is she a good
         | model of south asian culture or values.
         | 
         | As to your main point--for sure people on the internet have
         | better manners today. Is that creditable to DEI initiatives?
         | Can we have online spaces and workplaces where nobody is made
         | to feel excluded because of their immutable characteristics
         | without forcing people to write diversity statements or having
         | Robin Di Angelo types come in to lecture white people about
         | their inherent racism?
        
           | rirze wrote:
           | I was hoping to find a reply like this; glad someone could
           | articulate it better than I could.
           | 
           | Overall, I believe that culturally-same role models is a
           | stand-in for lazy parenting. Children whose parents
           | constantly push their kids to be better, push harder will
           | look towards successful people of any cultural background.
           | Compare that with children with apathetic parents, who I
           | surmise will only have the imagination to self-associate with
           | those who "look" like them.
        
             | rayiner wrote:
             | It also robs even involved minority parents and communities
             | of power. If you persuade minority kids to look to
             | "representation" for ethnic role models, then the white
             | people who select those representatives gain tremendous
             | power in defining ethnic identity. Call me crazy, but I
             | want my kids to learn what it means to be Bangladeshi from
             | me and my parents and my extended family, not from teachers
             | or role models selected by white people for that purpose.
             | 
             | It also reduces identity to something that's offensively
             | shallow. White people think Kamala Harris is a role model
             | for south Asian girls because she has the experience of
             | walking around with dark skin in America. But white
             | people's reaction is extremely low on the list of things
             | that define south Asian identity.
        
           | nilmask wrote:
           | > To the contrary, "representation" is used by white people
           | to obtain the support of minority groups without giving them
           | anything. I see white people pressuring my daughter to look
           | up to Kamala Harris (because Harris "looks like her"). This
           | is just manipulation. Harris will not meaningfully advance
           | the distinct interests of south asian people, nor is she a
           | good model of south asian culture or values.
           | 
           | It's also not hard to receive this behavior as completely
           | fucking racist. Do whites presuppose that just because we
           | have the same skin color, ethnic background, or similar
           | physical features, that we will be aligned on political or
           | philosophical points?
           | 
           | How has it become acceptable to participate in such blatantly
           | racist behavior, while still somehow being able to publicly
           | label one's self as "liberal" or "anti-racist?"
           | 
           | I think it's time we conduct an audit of all self-identifying
           | liberals or DEI advocates to determine which ones are
           | actually free from unconscious bias and implicit
           | associations, and which have merely co-opted the movement to
           | weaponize minorities as part of a political power struggle.
        
         | qdog wrote:
         | Yeah, I dunno if these people hung out on the Care Bears irc
         | channel or what, but every 'open' forum and most of the closed
         | ones had tons of racism/sexism/whateverism. Just look at
         | twitter nowadays to see how awful some posters can be.
         | 
         | I've worked with a very small handful of black people over my
         | career, several indians, a fair number of asians and a few
         | hispanics.
         | 
         | The demographics in my experience were all pretty abyssmal,
         | without some sort of policy in place, the actual bias that ends
         | up hiring only other white males was never going to end. I
         | would say it's probably still strong, as a recent place I
         | worked was incredibly white and male.
         | 
         | My understanding is that hiring becomes much more fair if you
         | are able to remove all racial/sexual details from a hiring
         | process (at least, if resumes are shown without those details
         | you get expected results, but with those details a bias
         | appears).
         | 
         | That said, I think a lot of these people are upset by DEI
         | precisely because it is resulting in more diversity. If you are
         | biased against the people who DEI helps get hired, you are
         | obviously going to think they are poor hires, because you
         | always thought "those people" tend to be poor hires. Assuming
         | OP is actually a black man, I think he needs to realize that
         | many, if not most, people who make assumptions about him based
         | on DEI or the like, are always looking for an excuse for their
         | own biases.
        
           | lliamander wrote:
           | > That said, I think a lot of these people are upset by DEI
           | precisely because it is resulting in more diversity.
           | 
           | You are exemplifying a fallacy known as _asymmetric insight_
           | , whereby you assume to know more about someone else's "real"
           | intentions than they do. While at some level we do have to
           | have a mental model of other people's motivations, the
           | temptation is strong to pathologize those we disagree with
           | rather than take their ideas seriously.
           | 
           | So tell me, did you come to your conclusion based on sincere
           | effort to actually understand the mindset of those opposed to
           | DEI, or are you using it as an excuse to avoid thinking about
           | their actual arguments?
        
             | qdog wrote:
             | I certainly haven't conducted a scientific study, this
             | isn't my field.
             | 
             | I am, however, a white male who checks most of the 'tech
             | dude' boxes, and I don't usually have to guess what people
             | are thinking about this. I just have to be around at the
             | right time for people to make their opinions known. So my
             | evidence is anecdotal, but no, I don't have to wonder if
             | people have racial bias, they will tell you if you let
             | them. I have also observed a manager who's religion made
             | women subservient, and no woman he ever managed was
             | promoted. Bias or just probability? One of those women is
             | now a very successful director of engineering. (She left
             | his team and was promoted elsewhere)
             | 
             | While I can't speak to all DEI programs, the intent at most
             | places I've been is to interview a wider range of people.
             | That might show slight favor to interviewing, but the bar
             | for hiring does not change. This is not just a problem in
             | tech, the relatively recent NFL head coach issue of teams
             | deciding to hire a coach and then interviewing a black
             | coach after that "for compliance" with no intent of
             | actually considering them is a huge problem.
             | 
             | If you work at a place that truly only hires people to
             | check a box and doesn't care about that person's success or
             | the impact around them, sure, move on.
        
         | throwawaydei wrote:
         | [dead]
        
           | domain8543 wrote:
           | In other words, if you received hate it was probably
           | something you did. I literally cannot fathom the idea that
           | something was wrong was us.
        
         | LarsDu88 wrote:
         | As someone who was born at the dawn of the internet age, was
         | the early internet really that racist?
         | 
         | I feel this is something that will be lost to the history books
         | if it isn't at least recorded for posterity.
        
         | slackfan wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | eldaisfish wrote:
           | way to miss the point and your argument is a strawman.
           | 
           | People on IRC didn't care about "Who you were" because the
           | assumption was that you came from privilege. Privilege
           | usually translated to white, urban, heterosexual male. Those
           | groups said some horrible things about other communities
           | because they felt the space was "safe".
           | 
           | Now that this is changing and calling people "orientals" or
           | "gay" is no longer acceptable, there is an attempt to rewrite
           | history - as you are trying to do here.
        
             | slackfan wrote:
             | Privilege is not assumed, it is given. Who is this
             | privelege given by?
        
           | flippinburgers wrote:
           | If by new era of enlightenment you mean a new era of
           | unquestionable bigotry I suppose you are correct.
        
             | slackfan wrote:
             | You know what doesn't translate in text? Sarcasm.
        
           | barneygale wrote:
           | > unless you made your incidental identity the central topic
           | of discussion in unrelated conversation
           | 
           | http://bash.org/?top try ctrl-fing for "fag", "homo", "jew",
           | etc. These insults were routinely used on the early internet
           | _without_ anyone volunteering their gender/ethnicity/sexual
           | preferences/whatever.
        
           | dang wrote:
           | I'm afraid you're breaking the site guidelines in more than
           | one way. Your comment crosses into personal attack by
           | implicitly accusing the GP of lying ("you weren't there").
           | And you're posting ideological battle/flamebait comments not
           | just in this thread but in other threads.
           | 
           | These things are not what HN is for and destroy what it is
           | for, so we end up having to ban accounts that do them.
           | 
           | If you'd please review
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and stick to
           | the rules when posting here, we'd appreciate it.
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | > There are groups that are aimed at cultivating black people
         | in tech. Prior to this, in the earlier internet age, you had to
         | cut your teeth on IRC and forums.
         | 
         | This reasoning sucks. We need DEI in corporations now because
         | IRC was toxic?
        
         | golergka wrote:
         | > it does help to have someone to look up to
         | 
         | I keep hearing this idea from americans, that it's important to
         | have a role model that has exactly the same ethnicity, gender
         | and sexual identity as you do. It never made any sense to me.
         | Can you explain it please?
        
         | Pegasus930 wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
         | jablongo wrote:
         | To be clear, do you think race-based diversity hiring is good?
         | I can agree that having good role models and educational
         | opportunities is important but I'm not so sure race-aware
         | hiring is a good thing, for the reasons stated by OP and
         | others.
         | 
         | At what point do you think DEI should stop? Is there any metric
         | or threshold at which these programs/events should end? One of
         | the biggest issues for me is that these measures are either
         | argued as good because "diversity is intrinsically good" or
         | because "we are righting historical wrongs", meaning
         | reparations. While one could argue for or against either of
         | these justifications, it would seem that the former would
         | terminate once some ideal demographic composition is achieved,
         | while the latter would end once some calculated total sum of
         | restitution is reached. To me, these details are very
         | important, since race-based hiring is an intrinsically bad
         | thing that should be avoided. After all, it is part of the
         | reason people of color got so screwed over in the 20th century
         | in the first place.
        
           | nullfield wrote:
           | They'll never end, because 1. The people making money off of
           | running them don't want them to, and 2. "historically
           | oppressed groups" never (and can never) become "not
           | historically oppressed"; it's my belief that this is
           | intentional via the choice of words used by the DEI cadre.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | f6v wrote:
         | > Do you know VIRULENTLY anti-black
         | 
         | Many communities were and are generally anti-human.
        
         | lliamander wrote:
         | It's certainly not obvious to me, as someone who never ventured
         | on IRC, that IRC culture would have a serious impact on
         | minority representation. Most people (minority or not) were
         | never on IRC to begin with, so I doubt that would explain (for
         | instance) the under-representation of minorities in Computer
         | Science programs.
         | 
         | I mean, you say that IRC was virulently anti-gay, and yet gay
         | and trans people are over-represented in tech.
         | 
         | Even if we accept that IRC culture drove minorities away from
         | tech, that doesn't justify common corporate DEI policies such
         | as affirmative action, unconscious bias training, etc. Those
         | are just bad, counter-productive polices.
         | 
         | > EDIT: In the below thread are many people who personally
         | identify as omnipresent IRC Gods, so my experience must have
         | happened in an alternate universe. My bad.
         | 
         | You are generalizing from you own experience, expect others to
         | do the same. And, to be fair, they probably aren't saying that
         | your experience didn't happen, but that it either wasn't
         | representative, or that you are misinterpreting some of it.
        
         | trenchgun wrote:
         | > Prior to this, in the earlier internet age, you had to cut
         | your teeth on IRC and forums. That was where technical people
         | were in the computer tech space.
         | 
         | > Do you know VIRULENTLY anti-black (or woman, or gay) these
         | communities were? I can't begin to describe it. That is totally
         | off-putting to someone who has the ability succeed but does not
         | want to deal with the hate.
         | 
         | Wow, thank you. Gives me a new perspective.
        
           | catiopatio wrote:
           | He's completely, totally, and absolutely incorrect.
           | 
           | I spent decades on IRC starting in the early 90s, and this is
           | a politically-driven contemporary re-imagination of what
           | existed at the time.
           | 
           | We were open to all because we ourselves didn't fit in
           | elsewhere.
        
             | zozbot234 wrote:
             | Some communities did have a lot of virulently racist and
             | male-chauvinist trolling. The infamous 4chan forum culture
             | didn't just spring up out of thin air, after all. It's a
             | bit harder to tell whether that was anywhere close to
             | representative, of course.
        
               | spoiler wrote:
               | I think 4chan can _hardly_ be put in the same category as
               | freenode channels. It 's just an incredible leap in
               | reasoning in my experience with both (albeit not much
               | experience with 4chan, others than the occasional snippet
               | I've seen online)
        
               | moomoo11 wrote:
               | Yeah but 4chan and sites like it are shit. Why even go
               | there? For one of those low tier sites there were
               | hundreds of forums and communities which were normal.
               | 
               | Not a valid data point. You're picking some fringe
               | element and assuming the whole internet is like that.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | dylan604 wrote:
             | [flagged]
        
               | drstewart wrote:
               | What evidence did the person he replied to provide to
               | back up his claims? Or does he get a pass from providing
               | facts because of... reasons that are related to DEI
               | initiatives on your part?
               | 
               | I believe they call this "the soft bigotry of low
               | expectations"
        
               | spoiler wrote:
               | My experience is different, too. I've never experienced
               | these racist/sexists IRC communities in the past either.
               | Sure, there'd be the occasional asshole like everywhere
               | else online, but they'd get warned (and banned
               | eventually).
               | 
               | Why is your comment so passive aggressive, though? While
               | the counter claim hasn't presented any proof, the same
               | holds true for the original claim.
               | 
               | You seem to be only thinking critically of the comment
               | that goes against your confirmation bias. It's not a good
               | habit to have.
        
               | darkwater wrote:
               | > My experience is different, too. I've never experienced
               | these racist/sexists IRC communities in the past either.
               | Sure, there'd be the occasional asshole like everywhere
               | else online, but they'd get warned (and banned
               | eventually).
               | 
               | Would you be part of the target audience, back then? Or
               | you were part of the main group and just remember that
               | "nobody was harassing nobody"?
        
               | spoiler wrote:
               | Disclaimer: White gay man here.
               | 
               | So, I experienced homophobia first hand at least.
               | 
               | I've never felt like the communities (any of the tech
               | related ones) were anything but wholesome, though.
               | 
               | Bullshit was immediately called out, and in more severe
               | cases handled by ops (as was I in a few channels).
               | 
               | Again, we are talking about COMMUNITIES. Not INDIVIDUALS.
               | 
               | So, I guess I was (somewhat) in the privileged white male
               | group, but that doesn't mean I'm illiterate or can't
               | reason and feel empathy.
        
               | dylan604 wrote:
               | just dismissing someone else's claims out of hand because
               | they don't fit your personal experience--while not on the
               | same level of negative as making actual racists posts--
               | it's not helpful to say the least.
               | 
               | when someone makes posts of their personal experience,
               | the follow up posts that claim "my experience is
               | different" proves what? are you honestly suggesting
               | you're having a better experience? that's great for you.
               | are you trying to make the the original poster jealous
               | and feel superior?
               | 
               | are you suggesting, "keep your head up because it's not
               | that way everywhere so don't let 'em ruin it for you"?
               | 
               | are you trying to argue and say they are wrong because
               | their experience differs from yours so it must not be
               | true?
               | 
               | but to tell someone that they are totally incorrect about
               | their very on personal experience is just baffling
        
               | spoiler wrote:
               | I can't tell if your questions are genuine or not, since
               | they seem passive aggressive. But I'll humour you:
               | 
               | They made a blanket statement about how all of IRC is a
               | racists/sexists shithole. They obviously have some
               | unresolved resentment, and I am not denying it seems from
               | a bad experience; certainly wouldn't from good ones.
               | 
               | My comment wasn't meant to make them feel bad (maybe
               | that's something you indulge in, given your comment
               | etiquette).
               | 
               | It was meant to offer a different perspective--of someone
               | who was _a part_ of some of those large communities. And
               | I was involved in a lot of technical ones on Freenode
               | around 2000s. Those communities put a lot of effort into
               | inclusivity (and was an operator in some) and generally
               | making everyone feel welcomed.
               | 
               | So it feels a bit like a spit in the face to see someone
               | going around talking about technical IRC channels being
               | Xist.
               | 
               | I'm not sure when they added the EDIT to their original
               | post, but the hypocrisy added another layer of annoyance,
               | trying to invalidate any comment speaking about their
               | experience and writing off authors as "omnipotent IRC
               | Gods" when nobody here but them is talking blanket
               | statement bullshit.
               | 
               | Edit: I'm not saying there's weren't
               | racist/homophonic/whatever communities on IRC. I know a
               | lot of shitty fandom channels I joined and promptly left
               | to find better ones. So yes they were out there.
               | 
               | Edit 2: Also, I think I took their comment too
               | personally, given I was there and I know how much effort
               | was put into making it feel welcoming for everyone.
               | 
               | Also, I find it ludicrous you're trying to tell me off
               | for commenting online--whilst you yourself are commenting
               | online--and claiming my experiences don't matter, but
               | another person's do, all in an attempt paint me as doing
               | the same lol. But anyway, I digress.
        
             | pjc50 wrote:
             | This is obviously going to depend on the space, but I
             | suspect many of the white participants simply won't
             | remember it because the bigotry was both casual and just
             | euphemistic enough.
        
               | duckmysick wrote:
               | I don't think there are IRC logs from the 90s, apart from
               | bash.org, but we could check Usenet archives to see how
               | inclusive (or not) it was back then.
        
             | darkwater wrote:
             | > We were open to all because we ourselves didn't fit in
             | elsewhere.
             | 
             | Yes, totally, most of us were indeed social misfits. But
             | many of us also instead of being empathic and understand
             | what was the real issue there, simply perpetrate the same
             | abuse to someone else who was in a weaker position.
        
             | bigbillheck wrote:
             | I was never on IRC much but I spent an awful lot of time on
             | usenet and he's a lot more correct than you are.
        
               | hedgehog wrote:
               | That was my experience as well.
        
           | DEDLINE wrote:
           | Yeah I forgot all about this. Also a lot of anti-Semitism.
           | You had to have some thick skin on the old internet.
        
         | jrm4 wrote:
         | (Black man here as well)
         | 
         | This is a great way to put it. I mean, I'm a bit older and over
         | time I've been used to actually being that token, because for a
         | lot of places I've been it was me and no one else. So, I didn't
         | much mind the role as something of a pioneer.
         | 
         | So I'd say, anyone who doesn't like it, e.g. DEI, definitely
         | understand the history, please -- and moreover, the difficulty
         | of externally changing culture. It's ultra-clumsy, but at least
         | for a time it was both inevitable and necessary.
         | 
         | I very much don't personally enjoy is at as well -- but I don't
         | think that means it's without value. I suppose I see even the
         | bad parts as a "bug, not a feature," because we're talking
         | about it.
        
         | aliqot wrote:
         | Growing up on IRC, I have very much the same experience as you
         | but quite opposite as I experienced hardly any racism, and
         | nobody knew my identity either.
         | 
         | Nobody wanted to involve their personal lives or details until
         | recently when identity and identifying became the thing.
        
           | Quarrelsome wrote:
           | I don't remember anyone trying to doxx anyone's race on
           | freenode. Perhaps they're talking about USENET/IRC at large
           | as opposed to the tech community which I believe were mostly
           | on freenode (now libera).
           | 
           | Otherwise I can only assume that chats within all-chat
           | appeared to be racist in nature but again, that's not
           | something I've seen (especially unchallenged) in any of the
           | freenode channels I frequented.
        
           | kfajdsl wrote:
           | I'm much much younger than John23832, but I definitely
           | recognized a lot of the same in some of the gaming
           | communities I was a part of in the mid to late 2010s. There
           | wasn't quite as much racism (at least in the places I hung
           | out), but there was plenty of sexism and homophobia. It
           | wouldn't necessarily be explicit, but there were lots of
           | offhand comments and jokes. That's how racism (and sexism,
           | homophobia, ...) tends to present itself; it's a lot more
           | subtle than people straight up going "I hate ${group}".
           | 
           | However, I will say that I first got properly exposed to
           | tech/computing by doing FIRST robotics in high school (2017),
           | and those competitions were very diverse. Everyone I met
           | through FIRST (students and mentors) was very accepting of
           | everyone, regardless of gender, race, sexuality, etc. My
           | college experience (classes, competition team, internships,
           | etc) has thankfully been more of the same.
        
             | letrowekwel wrote:
             | I feel that with gaming communities the main problem is
             | simply having too many teenagers without supervision. It's
             | pretty much like school really, immature people picking on
             | others because of their own insecurity / problems.
             | Eventually most people even in very toxic communities grow
             | up and stop hating people for no logical reason, at least
             | the smart ones.
        
             | John23832 wrote:
             | I did FIRST (about 10 years before you, ha). FIRST is a
             | very inclusive space by design. I think it's great.
        
               | kfajdsl wrote:
               | Ha, that's awesome; I loved meeting the mentors who also
               | did FIRST way back. It's a great program, I credit it for
               | putting me where I am now!
        
             | naasking wrote:
             | > It wouldn't necessarily be explicit, but there were lots
             | of offhand comments and jokes. That's how racism (and
             | sexism, homophobia, ...) tends to present itself; it's a
             | lot more subtle than people straight up going "I hate
             | ${group}".
             | 
             | Don't conflate those jokes and offhand comments with hate.
             | You're erasing all sorts of meaningful differences between
             | basically harmless husbands joking about their wives or
             | differences between men and women, and Andrew Tate.
             | 
             | It's also a poor tactic to effect change. If you
             | immediately group basically harmless in-group type
             | behaviours like these with actual devastating harm, you
             | make yourself and your objections look silly causing people
             | to dismiss you, and it's far harder to change behaviour
             | after calling someone a hateful bigot, than it is to ask
             | they tone it down because a joke made someone a little
             | uncomfortable. I think you can easily imagine the
             | difference in defensiveness each response might elicit.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | tremon wrote:
               | Similarly, don't assume that all racism is expressed as
               | hate. You're erasing all sorts of meaningful difficulties
               | experienced by minorities if you assume that only overtly
               | hateful comments can be disparaging.
        
               | naasking wrote:
               | > Similarly, don't assume that all racism is expressed as
               | hate.
               | 
               | Who really claims that though? Saying "black people are
               | always late" is racist because it's a racial prejudice,
               | but that's not an expression of hatred towards black
               | people. I think everyone gets that.
               | 
               | I also agree non-hateful comments can be insulting. So
               | we're in agreement: erasing nuance is dumb. My point is
               | that this nuance dictates that we shouldn't group these
               | distinct behaviours all together and respond to them the
               | same way.
        
             | snovv_crash wrote:
             | Angsty teens trying to push the boundaries of what is
             | socially acceptable are unfortunately heavily
             | overrepresented in Internet culture, from what I've found.
             | 
             | A bit of pushback and people are usually super apologetic.
             | Usually they're just aping someone else who said something
             | counter-culture because they thought it sounded badass, and
             | don't really believe it.
        
           | doix wrote:
           | I was only active on IRC in later years (early 2000's
           | onwards) and there was definitely a lot of casual homophobia.
           | Using 'gay' as a synonym for bad was extremely common, I
           | picked it up as well. Calling someone a fag was done all the
           | time as well, not even always as an insult.
           | 
           | I don't think the majority of people using the words were
           | actually homophobic (I wasn't), just copying other people to
           | "fit in" without even thinking of the possibility it was
           | harming someone. I think it was early 2004-05 that someone
           | private messaged me explaining that it sucks when people use
           | the word that way and I stopped.
           | 
           | I don't recall much racism against black people, but I can
           | totally see the N word being used casually in the same way in
           | some other servers/channels.
        
           | John23832 wrote:
           | It's not about telling people your ethnicity, gender, or
           | sexual orientation, it's about WHAT IS SAID about your
           | ethnicity, gender, or sexual orientation.
           | 
           | The beauty of the internet is anonymity (to a certain
           | extent), but that doesn't mean that you can't see or hear
           | things that exclude you.
        
             | busterarm wrote:
             | 2/3 of GNAA weren't even white people.
        
               | [deleted]
        
             | caeril wrote:
             | [dead]
        
             | shadowgovt wrote:
             | Exactly. The old saying was "The beauty of the Internet is
             | nobody knows if you're a dog."
             | 
             | ... except they didn't mean dog, and we never said why it
             | might matter what you are or what other people were
             | assuming you were absent further information.
        
               | slavik81 wrote:
               | > The beauty of the Internet is nobody knows if you're a
               | dog
               | 
               | That comic meant a lot to me. When I was growing up, I
               | found that most adults would treat me with condescension.
               | On the internet, I could engage in conversation as an
               | equal. Anonymity didn't change the prejudices that people
               | held, but it did change my experience.
        
               | shadowgovt wrote:
               | I agree, and I had a similar formative experience.
               | There's a great quote about being alive during the era of
               | the moon landing that also resonates with me on this
               | topic: "It was as if all of us, all over the world, had
               | been given permission to dream big dreams."
               | 
               | I think it was a strict step forward over the previous
               | status quo but (not unlike the changes to American
               | culture after military necessity broke racial segregation
               | barriers in the military during World War II) it's not
               | the final step.
        
               | thesuperbigfrog wrote:
               | >> except they didn't mean dog
               | 
               | The quote is from a 1993 New Yorker cartoon which
               | literally has two dogs talking.
               | 
               | See the original image:
               | 
               | https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/f/f8/Internet_d
               | og....
               | 
               | 'Dog' could be a placeholder, but the cartoon showed
               | dogs.
        
               | John23832 wrote:
               | Dog was used a a euphemism for undesirable. In the more
               | specific case of the image, black. Look at the color of
               | the dogs.
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/On_the_Internet,_nobody_kno
               | ws_...
        
               | sinity wrote:
               | Of course they meant dog. Which is a placeholder for
               | _anything else_.
        
               | shadowgovt wrote:
               | > they meant dog
               | 
               | > which is a placeholder for
               | 
               | ... exactly. It's a placeholder; not literal.
               | 
               | It's a placeholder because if the New Yorker had run a
               | comic that said "On the Internet, nobody knows you're a
               | black man," that wouldn't have been funny at all.
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | Definitely no hints to that in the cartoon at all.
               | None... none at all... >.> <.< >.>
               | 
               | https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/f/f8/Internet_d
               | og....
        
               | catiopatio wrote:
               | No, we literally meant dog. It was a joke.
               | 
               | Why might it matter? Because the rest of the world was a
               | lot more racist and sexist, but IRC wasn't.
        
               | some_furry wrote:
               | The joke is even funnier if you're a furry, and the
               | entire point of your online persona is _people knowing
               | you 're a dog_. (Even if your fursona actually is, say, a
               | cat. The joke is enhanced.)
        
               | shadowgovt wrote:
               | > but IRC wasn't
               | 
               | No, sorry, I was there. That's the key thing people need
               | to remember about the Old Internet.
               | 
               | Some of IRC was _extremely_ racist and sexist. Almost all
               | of the rest was  "regular" racist and sexist. It was
               | pretty closely related to 4chan culture (under-moderated
               | by outside forces that had little power to force any
               | particular standards upon the moderators). The magic of
               | the medium was that since everything was text, nobody
               | knew _you_ were the butt of the joke and you could
               | pretend you weren 't.
               | 
               | But go mask-off and admit you were a woman or a minority,
               | and oh boy. Good luck with that. Good thing it's easy to
               | change your handle, right?
               | 
               | There's a reason anonymity as a virtue grew in that
               | space: it protected people from those who hadn't left
               | their IRL baggage behind by letting people pretend to be
               | the "default" (which was almost always white men).
               | 
               | We made a mistake believing the online space wasn't the
               | real world. It was. It was just the real world where you
               | could pretend to be something else. That was good at the
               | time; it let more people participate by donning masks.
               | But we should aim for better.
        
               | mensetmanusman wrote:
               | IRC isn't a place, it's a platform for speech for lots of
               | diverse groups, some of which were/are racist. Saying IRC
               | was/is racist is like saying the internet is racist.
        
               | shadowgovt wrote:
               | Yes. It's a generalization.
               | 
               | ... but it's also a true generalization, in the sense
               | that if you throw a dart at a random IRC channel across
               | all networks, you'll proabably hit one where the level of
               | tolerated racism and sexism is at least "American
               | standard."
               | 
               | > Saying IRC was/is racist is like saying the internet is
               | racist
               | 
               | I completely agree.
        
               | mwcampbell wrote:
               | Saying we should aim for better sounds nice, but I fear
               | that bias and prejudice based on things that shouldn't
               | matter is an incurable part of human nature, and
               | anonymity, and using text for everything, would be our
               | best defense. I say "would be" because I doubt that I can
               | convince a large enough percentage of people, including
               | my own cofounder, to use anonymized text chat for
               | important things like interviews and work conversations.
               | Especially the "text chat" part since, at least for now,
               | talking is still much faster and smoother for most of us
               | than accurate text input. But I can dream.
        
               | spoiler wrote:
               | No, no. You need other people to tell you what you meant.
               | It's how things work now. Don't you dare think otherwise!
               | 
               | And now we're doing this whole "guilty of X by technology
               | choice".
               | 
               | /s
               | 
               | Where and when does this this neurosis stop?
        
             | catiopatio wrote:
             | We focused on technical discussions on technical channels.
             | 
             | I'm sorry if you had a bad time on IRC, but as someone who
             | cut their teeth on IRC in the early 90s, and got their
             | career started through contacts made on IRC, what you
             | describe couldn't be further from the kind of technical
             | communities I participated in.
        
               | John23832 wrote:
               | Great, that's your experience. But I was sharing mine,
               | and those of the other minorities I know very well.
        
               | trogdor wrote:
               | How do you know the experience of other _categories_ of
               | people very well?
        
               | John23832 wrote:
               | I don't. I only know my experience and the experience of
               | other minorities, that I personally know well, who have
               | convey their experiences to me.
        
               | spoiler wrote:
               | > EDIT: In the below thread are many people who
               | personally identify as omnipresent IRC Gods, so my
               | experience must have happened in an alternate universe.
               | My bad.
               | 
               | There can only be one omnipresent IRC God, and you're
               | talking to them. You can wipe your ass with your
               | experience for all they care.
               | 
               | My lord, the lack of self awareness...
        
               | HideousKojima wrote:
               | My experience was a lot of petty interpersonal drama
               | instead of technical discussions, but very little about
               | race.
        
               | [deleted]
        
         | coffeemug wrote:
         | For context, I grew up in an ex-communist country.
         | 
         | Elevating people, giving them opportunities to fulfill their
         | potential, and giving people someone credible to look up to is
         | a wonderful thing. We should do more of it, hopefully a lot
         | more.
         | 
         | The problem is that these things start out for a very good
         | reason, but then take on a life of their own. When that happens
         | it's very difficult to stop them, and in the limit case they
         | result in horrendous tragedies. It isn't an abstract
         | philosophical thing. There is an underlying social process, as
         | real as gravity, and it's crucial to study and understand. I
         | saw the consequences of this process first hand in my country.
         | 
         | Roughly, it goes like this. When you create a mechanism to
         | oppress someone to fix oppression, however small and
         | ineffectual, this mechanism gets captured by bad actors. Then
         | it grows and grows and grows in their hands. It's very
         | difficult to stop because of a combination of moral-sounding
         | purpose that many people fall for, and the benefits that accrue
         | to a wide variety of interest groups. At the limit of this
         | there is nothing left but oppression, for _anyone_.
         | 
         | I'm not overly concerned about this in America because we're
         | extraordinarily good at preventing centralization of power, but
         | I must say watching bad actors accrue power and watching
         | politicians pander to them has been disconcerting to say the
         | least. I hope we can find a compromise that allows us to create
         | opportunities while simultaneously kicking bad actors to the
         | curb. I promise you you do not want to live in a society where
         | the annoyances continue down their natural course.
        
         | MockObject wrote:
         | > Do you know VIRULENTLY anti-black (or woman, or gay) these
         | communities were? I can't begin to describe it.
         | 
         | That has not been my experience at all, whatsoever, and my
         | involvement in tech communities, both online and in the flesh,
         | dates back to the 1980s.
         | 
         | > There's also the fact that most (read: all) of the computing
         | pioneers are white. I respect all of those people, but it does
         | help to have someone to look up to.
         | 
         | I don't need people with whom I share superficial
         | characteristics to look up to. I can look up to brilliant white
         | men, men from all over the globe, or even women, believe it or
         | not.
        
         | tacitusarc wrote:
         | I see a different risk with DEI, and I'd sure love your
         | perspective if you're willing to give it. I think there's a
         | certain class of people (mostly young and white though the fact
         | they are white is explainable as a statistical artifact) who
         | feel empowered by DEI to push for changes that are meaningless
         | and burdensome, but give them a feeling of power and
         | virtuousness. This includes changing away from "master" as a
         | branch name, to creating an extensive list of taboo words such
         | as "whitelist", "blacklist", and "subordinate", to chiding
         | colleagues for saying "brown bag lunch"*.
         | 
         | DEI not only legitimizes, but actually encourages the above
         | behavior. This seems problematic to me for two reasons: first,
         | it creates a positive feedback loop for (at best) actions that
         | make one feel self righteous without adding anything of real
         | value, and second, it undermines the importance of critical
         | thinking and analysis in engineering.
         | 
         | So, all that being said, the justification is these changes
         | help make black people in tech feel more included, a goal I
         | support. In your opinion, do these changes have the intended
         | effect? Are they meaningful and useful?
         | 
         | * For those who don't know, there used to be a racist practice
         | by some fraternities, etc called a "brown bag test" where a
         | brown bag was used to judge skin color for entry. This made
         | brown bags racist, which in turn made brown bag lunches racist.
        
           | tablespoon wrote:
           | > * For those who don't know, there used to be a racist
           | practice by some fraternities, etc called a "brown bag test"
           | where a brown bag was used to judge skin color for entry.
           | This made brown bags racist, which in turn made brown bag
           | lunches racist.
           | 
           | I think that's a inaccurate and misleading description. I
           | think the correct term is "colorism" not "racism," and it
           | sounds like those distinctions were more significant within
           | the black community than outside of it. I don't think a
           | stereotypical anti-black racist would accept a black person
           | into a social club if his skin was as light as a paper bag.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brown_Paper_Bag_Test:
           | 
           | > "The Brown Paper Bag Test" is a term in African-American
           | oral history used to describe a colorist discriminatory
           | practice within the African-American community in the 20th
           | century, in which an individual's skin tone is compared to
           | the color of a brown paper bag....
           | 
           | > The Brown Paper Bag Test was heavily documented and
           | normalized with historically black fraternities and
           | sororities (especially among sororities) and historically
           | black social clubs founded before 1960, whose members
           | selected others who resembled themselves, generally those
           | reflecting partial European ancestry.[8][9] Some privileged
           | multi-racial people of color who came from families freed
           | before the American Civil War attempted to distinguish
           | themselves from the mass of freedmen after the war, who
           | appeared to be mostly of African descent and from less
           | privileged families.
        
             | not_a_pet_rock wrote:
             | colorism is just racism.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Colorism isn't racism because racism isn't about color.
               | Color is merely an imperfect proxy for distinguishing
               | different groups of people. (Many white people,
               | especially Greeks or Italians, are darker than many East
               | Asians, but that doesn't change the racial categories.)
               | 
               | In some communities, colorism is a byproduct of racial
               | categorization based on color. But in many places it's
               | just an aesthetic preference. Colorism in Asia and Africa
               | long predates colonialism or contact with white people.
               | An important thing to note is that in these societies,
               | colorism doesn't imply that white people are seen as the
               | most beautiful. A person can be too light, just as they
               | can be too tall or too skinny.
        
           | DrThunder wrote:
           | There is power in victimhood now. If you can prove you're a
           | victim or prove you're submitting to a certain group you've
           | "victimized" then you are put at the top of the order. You
           | become part of essentially a religious cult and given certain
           | "powers" that you can bash the "sinners" over the head with.
           | 
           | I think you're exactly right here, the largest proponents of
           | this stuff tend to be white and left wing (mostly women). In
           | a way I find them extremely racist. To me, they're acting
           | just like OP says. They don't think certain groups are
           | intelligent enough to bring themselves out of squalor and
           | everyone MUST believe like they do; that skin color is an
           | impediment. So, they need the white savior to come rescue
           | them.
        
             | LordDragonfang wrote:
             | >There is power in victimhood now
             | 
             | Anyone who's been to Sunday school can tell you this isn't
             | a new concept, and is _at least_ two millennia old (almost
             | certainly longer, since Judaism has an even longer shared
             | tradition). Christians have continued riding the coattails
             | of their martyrs and  "persecution" for centuries after
             | they became the dominant force. If anything, the modern
             | "woke victimhood" is merely the cultural legacy of
             | evangelical Christianity that was (and arguably still is)
             | deeply engrained in US culture.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | https://twitter.com/realchrisrufo/status/1490844296328593
               | 411...
               | 
               | This is probably the best description I've seen of the
               | parallel:
               | 
               | > wokeness is racialized neo-Marxism that uses collapsed
               | mainline Protestantism as its leverage point,
               | manipulating the guilt of the remnant elite and capturing
               | the institutions that they have abandoned.
        
               | DrThunder wrote:
               | I'm confused... are you endorsing acting this way or
               | against it?
               | 
               | Kinda seems like you're justifying the current action of
               | "woke" people by discussing past injustices? Isn't the
               | whole idea of the "woke" DEI initiative to fix injustices
               | in our society?
        
               | kodah wrote:
               | I think they're just saying this occurrence isn't unique
               | and it doesn't look like they approve of it. Many of us
               | identify with our own struggles in deep ways. If you
               | create an opportunity for people to organize around those
               | struggles then people will, because as was said, there is
               | power there. That power is in representation. The problem
               | is generally in the silo'ing of representation. This is,
               | imo, what things like intersectionality begin to address.
               | 
               | We have an entire country now that was founded based on
               | legitimate religious persecution that devolved in the
               | ~200 years since it's founding to go on to oppress
               | others. We can and should do better.
        
               | DrThunder wrote:
               | Ok, and my point is that doing the exact same thing as
               | those people did in the past isn't doing better. You
               | don't fix oppression by moving that oppression to a new
               | group.
               | 
               | Simply pointing out that victimhood has always existed
               | serves no purpose at all in response to my original
               | comment.
               | 
               | "This is, imo, what things like intersectionality begin
               | to address."
               | 
               | How? All intersectionality does is create a competition
               | for the most oppressed. You will never be enough of a
               | victim. Nothing good comes of a society that focuses
               | specifically on how oppressed they are and vies for the
               | most oppressed group or person.
               | 
               | "We have an entire country now that was founded based on
               | legitimate religious persecution"
               | 
               | Name a country where this hasn't happened. There are many
               | where this is still happening and to a further extent
               | than anything in the US.
               | 
               | Ironically, you're right in weird roundabout way that I
               | do not think you fully comprehend. EVERYONE has been a
               | victim of some sort so it's irrelevant and we shouldn't
               | spend one iota more of our short lives trying to discern
               | who the highest victims of our society are. What a waste
               | and it does nothing to improve the supposed oppressed.
        
               | kodah wrote:
               | > Ok, and my point is that doing the exact same thing as
               | those people did in the past isn't doing better
               | 
               | This occurs to this day. I do agree that repeating bad
               | patterns doesn't do us any favors but if you'd like to
               | move _that_ needle, you need to sign on the largest
               | groups first.
               | 
               | > All intersectionality does is create a competition for
               | the most oppressed
               | 
               | This is not true. I can't give you a hip pocket
               | introduction to intersectionality in a thread, but I can
               | at least clarify things for you. There is no "hierarchy
               | of oppression" in intersectionality. Not at least in any
               | reading I've done, but as in all philosophies - beware
               | who you read. The best short description I've found is
               | this, "Intersectionality is the acknowledgement that
               | everyone has their own unique experiences of
               | discrimination and oppression and we must consider
               | everything and anything that can marginalise people -
               | gender, race, class, sexual orientation, physical
               | ability". The key takeaway here is that oppression is
               | _just_ oppression, the topic makes no inclination as to
               | what 's worse. Someone who got bullied for having a
               | southern accent in a northern state could've had a
               | measurably worse experience than someone who was
               | marginalized for their physical ability. Point being,
               | intersectionality doesn't make a distinction between
               | them. Instead, intersectionality promotes meeting people
               | where they are and attempting to be thoughtful about how
               | you approach those cases.
               | 
               | While I do agree that perpetual victimhood is _not good_
               | , there is no accepted timeline to stop seeing yourself
               | as a victim of something. Rather, the steps you can take
               | _after_ you stop seeing yourself as a victim are far more
               | profound in your happiness.
               | 
               | > Name a country where this hasn't happened. There are
               | many where this is still happening and to a further
               | extent than anything in the US.
               | 
               | I can't. I'm not sure there's a point here on your end.
               | We had high minded goals, saying we should do better is a
               | reminder of those high minded goals and our own roots as
               | Americans. It's not to rub your nose in some dirty
               | history. Anyone that expects a perfect society is already
               | starting from the wrong place.
               | 
               | Your last statement veers onto intersectionality tracks
               | and then derails suddenly. The reason intersectionality
               | matters isn't to promote the most suffered people on the
               | planet to the top. It's so that you as a human can
               | understand them and they can understand you without your
               | significantly different life experiences making you think
               | each other are aliens or villains.
        
               | foolswisdom wrote:
               | Clarification please - where do you find "power in
               | victimhood" in Judaism 2000+ years ago?
        
               | Tycho wrote:
               | The argument is probably that Judaism was the first
               | religion to introduce _concern for the victim_ into its
               | moral teachings, and therefore inevitably there would be
               | people hijacking that to differentiate themselves, boost
               | their status through claims to victimhood.
        
           | John23832 wrote:
           | > I see a different risk with DEI, and I'd sure love your
           | perspective if you're willing to give it. I think there's a
           | certain class of people (mostly young and white though the
           | fact they are white is explainable as a statistical artifact)
           | who feel empowered by DEI to push for changes that are
           | meaningless and burdensome, but give them a feeling of power
           | and virtuousness.
           | 
           | Yes there are plenty of people who want to sit at the top of
           | the food chain by way of gathering a "diverse" crowd.
           | 
           | > DEI not only legitimizes, but actually encourages the above
           | behavior. This seems problematic to me for two reasons:
           | first, it creates a positive feedback loop for (at best)
           | actions that make one feel self righteous without adding
           | anything of real value, and second, it undermines the
           | importance of critical thinking and analysis in engineering.
           | 
           | This is not a problem with DEI. Look at the landgrab that is
           | enterprise management.
           | 
           | > In your opinion, do these changes have the intended effect?
           | Are they meaningful and useful?
           | 
           | Your premise is off, so I can't answer this.
           | 
           | > * For those who don't know, there used to be a racist
           | practice by some fraternities, etc called a "brown bag test"
           | where a brown bag was used to judge skin color for entry.
           | This made brown bags racist, which in turn made brown bag
           | lunches racist.
           | 
           | This isn't true. Paper bags were never racist. I don't know
           | where you picked this from. This is a misleading description
           | to make anti-racism seem absurd.
        
             | vmilner wrote:
             | Well, it (brown bag lunch) made the Stanford harmful
             | language list. I agree there is enough moronic content on
             | that list to give the impression that the writers were
             | playing false-flag games. But I'm prepared to believe they
             | were sincere.
        
             | strawpeople wrote:
             | [dead]
        
             | travisjungroth wrote:
             | > Yes there are plenty of people who want to sit at the top
             | of the food chain by way of gathering a "diverse" crowd.
             | 
             | Woah this suddenly made the behavior of some people who
             | gave me the creeps but were doing "all the right things"
             | make sense. Thanks.
             | 
             | On the brownbag thing, I've had someone tell me we
             | shouldn't say "picnic" because of a racist etymology. When
             | I showed her this etymology wasn't real, she said it didn't
             | matter. We still shouldn't say it because it might harm
             | someone. This doesn't make anti-racism absurd. I think
             | there are real heroes there. But _that_ interaction sure
             | felt absurd.
        
             | cmh89 wrote:
             | >This isn't true. Paper bags were never racist. I don't
             | know where you picked this from. This is a misleading
             | description to make anti-racism seem absurd.
             | 
             | What do you mean by 'isn't true'? It's at least real to
             | some extent, without regard to how widespread it was.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brown_Paper_Bag_Test https://
             | www.ferris.edu/HTMLS/news/jimcrow/question/2014/febr...
             | 
             | It's also the case that DEI groups want people to stop
             | using 'brown bag lunch'.
        
               | John23832 wrote:
               | > What do you mean by 'isn't true'? It's at least real to
               | some extent, without regard to how widespread it was.
               | 
               | The paper bag test doesn't make paper bags racist. It's a
               | shade test.
               | 
               | > It's also the case that DEI groups want people to stop
               | using 'brown bag lunch'.
               | 
               | I can't say that this hasn't happened. But if it has,
               | this is one of the useless things that I take umbrage
               | with in my original post.
        
               | rnk wrote:
               | Yes! Brown bags aren't racist, fraternities doing things
               | like that were racist, at least as I see it.
        
               | replygirl wrote:
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34681801
        
           | throwaway4848 wrote:
           | > I think there's a certain class of people (mostly young and
           | white though the fact they are white is explainable as a
           | statistical artifact) who feel empowered by DEI to push for
           | changes that are meaningless and burdensome, but give them a
           | feeling of power and virtuousness.
           | 
           | A more compelling reason is because demonstrating
           | "leadership" in DEI is a prerequisite to getting a promotion
           | or getting a management job. It's baked into many job
           | listings now and is part of the executive interview process.
           | If you don't check the DEI box on some tangible dimension,
           | you don't progress to the next round, especially if you are
           | white.
        
           | replygirl wrote:
           | the brown bag thing was colorism, which while technically a
           | subset of racism is not useful to investigate in the context
           | of popular anti-racism as it pertains to DEI in the west,
           | which would be better labeled as anti-white-supremacism
        
             | [deleted]
        
         | gfodor wrote:
         | The key thing is there needs to be a falsifiable condition
         | whereby we agree these programs have achieved their primary
         | goal, and that the risk of scope creep, corruption, or other
         | externalities like the ones the OP mentions has exceeded the
         | potential further benefits, so they should be wound down. I'm
         | not going to state my opinion here, but if such a condition is
         | _not_ identified in any way, we should assume these groups will
         | do what it takes to perpetuate themselves far past their point
         | of utility, like any bureaucracy that doesn 't have a way to
         | prove directly how they're contributing to the bottom line.
        
           | grumpy_coder wrote:
           | Very much agree with this comment, creating and gaming KPIs
           | is at the heart of most DEI departments now.
           | 
           | We do need long term improvements at the start of the funnel,
           | but no-one is adding a 7 year KPI for improving stats of 14
           | year old girls quitting AP math.
        
           | kmeisthax wrote:
           | The falsifiable condition is that the underlying social
           | attitudes driving the racism/sexism/etc have dissolved.
           | 
           | Problem is, this is a social process that takes centuries to
           | complete. You are never going to hit a point in a single
           | institution where you can say "We fixed our diversity
           | problem, let's go home", because it can just come back as you
           | hire more people and older hires leave.
           | 
           | Furthermore, society is frustratingly prone to generating new
           | discriminatory attitudes. America is pretty conscious of a
           | handful of very specific racial minorities, and we have a
           | vague idea of what sexism looks like, but we have little
           | knowledge of things like caste discrimination[0],
           | colorism[1], classism and so on.
           | 
           | To fully explain why this is a problem, try re-reading your
           | original comment, but pretend it's talking about the police
           | instead of DEI initiatives. What's our falsifiable condition
           | where we say "ok, all the crimes are solved, let's abolish
           | the police?"
           | 
           | [0] Discrimination based on the occupation of your ancestors,
           | typically driven by religious beliefs. India is the poster
           | child for this though Japan had a form of it too.
           | 
           | [1] Skin-color discrimination within a specific race. We
           | don't see this in the US or Canada all that often because the
           | mix of European ancestry that we brought over and called
           | "White" is universally one skin color. Latin America has this
           | in droves.
        
             | gfodor wrote:
             | What you have pointed out is the exact opposite of a
             | falsifiable condition. If we can't disprove the possibility
             | of a regression back to the past, then this is not meeting
             | the test, and we should expect the results I mentioned.
             | 
             | You actually could and should abolish the police in certain
             | kinds of terminal states where crime was eradicated - the
             | eradication may be due to a genuine shift in the way people
             | behave (due to some other underlying reason.) One
             | falsifiable condition would be "surveys show a fundamental
             | shift in sentiment by the public towards the motives that
             | have historically led to crime." If you're going to
             | condition the abolishment of the police on a scenario where
             | we need to also prove that this won't regress, then in a
             | scenario where the underlying motive of crime is
             | systematically gone, the police will exist and seek out
             | ways to regenerate it to ensure they have a purpose, among
             | other toxic phenomena.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | > the eradication may be due to a genuine shift in the
               | way people behave (due to some other underlying reason.)
               | 
               | For a generation or two, sure, but eventually it will
               | come back unless the cultural training continues. I mean,
               | there's a reason for historic cultural universals such as
               | racism, dueling between men, and talking down to lessers.
               | 
               | I think the best case scenario is that DEI eventually
               | gets rolled up into regular HR.
        
               | gfodor wrote:
               | Tribalism is pretty innate but the tribes change. I'd
               | argue if DEI programs had an analog during the
               | reformation era we would be more likely to see Protestant
               | vs Catholic discrimination persist as those programs
               | inflamed it for their own self preservation.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | Why do you assume any particular DEI goalpost will
               | persist for years or decades or centuries? It's not as if
               | generalized racism has persisted against the same
               | categories since the late 1500s.
               | 
               | And why do you assume the generalized tribalism will
               | persist based on particular initiatives? The old
               | initiatives used to be hire from the gentry. Attitudes
               | amongst the many do change. It doesn't matter if some
               | vocal minorities keep the same attitudes going.
               | 
               | DEI initiatives and targets are measured periodically:
               | https://hbr.org/2021/02/research-how-companies-committed-
               | to-...
        
               | gfodor wrote:
               | The entire question of this thread is the mechanism by
               | which DEI can unwind a given goalpost. (And if/when the
               | last goalpost evaporates, so would DEI.) It sounds to me
               | like your own perspective there is no way for them to do
               | so, given that any given goalpost could be argued as
               | possibly at risk of regression.
               | 
               | Concretely, if your own perspective is taken as the
               | standard, we ought to expect that without any motive or
               | standard to dictate we unwind DEI goalposts around (for
               | example) racial groups, we should expect those goalposts
               | to persist, regardless of the general presence of the
               | phenomena which motivated their creation in the first
               | place.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | Irrational bias will always exist, but it will always be
               | a bunch of shifting goalposts.
               | 
               | Once DEI systematizes enough it can be incorporated into
               | whatever HR eventually turns in to, instead of being a
               | separate division.
        
               | gfodor wrote:
               | Purely irrational bias isn't really the issue since most
               | people of sound mind can be dissuaded from purely
               | irrational acts. The issue is stereotyping of individuals
               | based upon statistical or anecdotal patterns by people
               | imagined to be a member of the same class _combined_ with
               | the usual human natures of otherization and tribalism.
               | This isn't purely irrational, since stereotypes can
               | provide predictive power beyond pure randomness - if you
               | don't believe me, consider the fact that there are
               | countless "positive stereotypes" for certain groups we
               | happily tend to accept and make decisions on given it
               | complements the presumed members of that group, as
               | opposed to increasing distrust or hatred of them.
               | 
               | Ironically, programs seeking to reduce discrimination
               | which characterize the former phenomenon as entirely
               | irrational is what helps perpetuate the latter, because
               | it undermines any sense that there is a good faith
               | engagement going on.
        
               | anonymouskimmer wrote:
               | I didn't use "purely", "entirely", or other otherwise
               | modify "irrational", because I didn't want to be too
               | verbose, but yes, any stereotyping has some degree of
               | irrational underpinnings. Figuring out and teaching
               | people what is irrational (or at least irrelevant) bias
               | and what isn't irrational bias are the difficult parts.
               | 
               | > "Ironically, programs seeking to reduce discrimination
               | which characterize the former phenomenon as entirely
               | irrational is what helps perpetuate the latter, because
               | it undermines any sense that there is a good faith
               | engagement going on."
               | 
               | From what I recall I don't believe these programs
               | generally characterize implicit bias as entirely
               | irrational. I see them characterize it as problematic. So
               | I don't see how the "undermine good faith engagement"
               | follows from this.
               | 
               | On a total tangent I think the main problem with
               | counteracting people's biases is that it can lead to
               | people totally discounting their gut reactions. Which has
               | lead to people getting murdered, raped, etcetera, by bad
               | people.
        
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         | whoopdedo wrote:
         | > There's also the fact that most (read: all) of the computing
         | pioneers are white.
         | 
         | Would you count Katherine Johnson as a tech role model?[1]
         | 
         | But I agree with you. The old IRC culture gave the illusion of
         | equity since by default your face isn't seen. But the rose-
         | colored glasses overlook that once a person's age, race, or sex
         | became known they'd be treated differently. And it often was
         | not pleasant because as we've seen the pseudonymity tends to
         | make people, who already generally suck at being kind to
         | strangers, even more awful.[2](warning: language)
         | 
         | That's the reason we should have DEI. If the implementations of
         | it are flawed, that should be a motivation to make the programs
         | better. Think of it as fixing bugs in the human codebase.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.nasa.gov/content/katherine-johnson-biography
         | 
         | [2] https://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2004/03/19/green-
         | blackboa...
        
         | jimbob45 wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
         | gautamdivgi wrote:
         | This is true. Here is the other thing. Promotions in corporate
         | America are based on how well you know the hiring manager chain
         | of command. Golf buddy? Oh he's a great guy for a promotion.
         | Church person - yup very ethical, let's promote him. Know him
         | personally - maybe went to the same college or support the same
         | college football team, oh yes they're a candidate for
         | promotion.
         | 
         | Corporate America needs to get promotions out of the hands of
         | the hiring manager chain of command. Create a board that's
         | independent and can deal with promotions impartially.
         | 
         | In absence of and independent entity handling promotions DEI is
         | needed and necessary. Otherwise a lot of promotions are just
         | plain nepotism.
        
         | catiopatio wrote:
         | Are you joking? We were _absolutely not_ "virulently" anti-
         | _anyone_ on early IRC.
         | 
         | We didn't even have real names or photos. Nobody had any idea
         | who was behind the keyboard, and that was okay.
        
           | jakelazaroff wrote:
           | Do you think it's impossible to say something racist without
           | specifically directing it at someone in the conversation?
        
           | stirfish wrote:
           | If there's a text box anywhere, the first thing people will
           | type into it is the n-word
        
           | camgunz wrote:
           | I can say with experience that there was an assumption that
           | these groups were pretty much all white men and boys. Maybe
           | not everywhere all the time, but enough. I wouldn't
           | categorize it as virulent, but I would say that a lot of
           | insensitive things were written about minorities, women, and
           | LGBTQ people. It's like when you go back to watch _Friends_
           | and cringe at all the anti-gay jokes. Is it virulent? I guess
           | not. Is it fun to watch if you 're gay? I doubt it.
        
           | tyingq wrote:
           | It's hard to characterize with absolutes. There were a lot of
           | different networks and channels in IRC. It's true it was
           | anonymous, but I'm also sure there were inappropriate jokes,
           | perceptions, etc, shared in IRC.
        
           | Quarrelsome wrote:
           | to be fair "there are no girls on the internet" is
           | technically somewhat misogynistic and was a popular meme of
           | the era.
        
             | surement wrote:
             | I've never heard this and there were plenty of girls on IRC
        
               | fknorangesite wrote:
               | Well if _you 've_ never heard that old joke, then clearly
               | it can't ever have existed, right?
               | 
               | Oh wait:
               | 
               | > Welcome to the Internet, where the men are men, the
               | women are men, and the kids are cops.
               | 
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1546789
               | 
               | I picked this instance of course because it was said on
               | HN, but it was a dead horse even in 2010.
        
               | surement wrote:
               | by 2010 IRC was largely replaced by social media except
               | for niche communities, sorry you were on there in the
               | wrong decade
        
               | fknorangesite wrote:
               | Of course it was, but that's not what we're talking
               | about. The link I chose was just the arbitrary one I
               | picked from the google results.
               | 
               | Personally I remember hearing that joke in the 90s. If
               | you want a different example, here's a variant from 2001:
               | http://www.bash.org/?2832
               | 
               | Note that this one ends with "but some of the men are
               | really women"; it's already old and well-known enough in
               | '01 that people are modifying it for meta-humor.
        
           | odiroot wrote:
           | What I loved the most about IRC is no one cared about your
           | age too! I was very passionate about tech since early primary
           | school. But I couldn't really share this passion with anyone,
           | being a little kid.
           | 
           | Once I got dialup (in middle-school) and could join IRC
           | channels, I realised, no one would know, how young I was. It
           | felt great.
        
           | grogenaut wrote:
           | Yet the n-bomb, gay and b*tch and other words as a universal
           | slur and negative adjective were everywhere on irc. Casual
           | rape references were constant, it was about as bad as Xbox
           | voice chat. I have trouble going back and reading much of
           | bash.org's top 100 due to the things you're claiming didn't
           | exist. http://bash.org/?99060 http://bash.org/?5775
           | http://bash.org/?23601
           | 
           | Just because you didn't mean it or it didn't bother you
           | doesn't mean it wasn't hostile to others.
        
             | jakelazaroff wrote:
             | Wow, forgot about bash.org but that's a good reference to
             | pull. Definitely a microcosm of IRC culture at the time.
        
             | drstewart wrote:
             | Wow, solid resource:
             | 
             | http://bash.org/?121764
             | 
             | ><p00p> why do you crackers steal everything from us?
             | 
             | http://bash.org/?51331
             | 
             | >(@virt) cracker barrel is the most hilarious name for a
             | place where a bunch of white people go
             | 
             | http://bash.org/?86009
             | 
             | ><Gabe> It's sad when white people try to talk like black
             | inner city people. It's doubly sad when those white people
             | are European. :P
             | 
             | Incredibly virulent anti-whiteness. Thank you for posting
             | this to open our eyes to this.
        
               | bigfoot675 wrote:
               | You're just proving their point -- these types of
               | communities follow "Internet chat" trends which includes
               | toxicity to literally everyone. Minorities are affected
               | most by this dynamic. By moving the discussions "above
               | ground", we force the discussions to use professional
               | etiquette, and move the conversation closer to where it
               | can have actual impact
        
               | John23832 wrote:
               | None of that is good? That's the point.
        
               | jakelazaroff wrote:
               | The fact that these are so low-ranking compared to the
               | top quotes is instructive. Also, the third one is
               | definitely an example of anti-Blackness, not anti-
               | whiteness.
        
               | dude187 wrote:
               | > the third one is definitely an example of anti-
               | Blackness, not anti-whiteness.
               | 
               | Why do you capitalize the b but not the w?
        
               | drstewart wrote:
               | Low ranking based on what? Are you telling people what
               | feelings they should have towards slurs directed towards
               | them? The "top quotes" don't bother me at all, for
               | example.
        
               | jakelazaroff wrote:
               | Low ranking based on the number of votes they got. That's
               | the green (or red) number in parentheses between the plus
               | and minus signs. The top 100 quotes range from 9,000 to
               | 41,000. If I refresh random a few times, the most common
               | number of votes seems to be in the mid-100s, which is
               | exactly where these fall.
               | 
               | So the fact that
               | 
               | - you had to search to find a couple low ranking quotes
               | that might be insulting to white people
               | 
               | - there are numerous top ranking quotes that might be
               | insulting to women, gay people, black people, etc
               | 
               | - those top quotes don't bother you
               | 
               | supports OP's point and undermines your own.
        
               | MacsHeadroom wrote:
               | Votes have no relation to how much any quote exemplifies
               | IRC culture.
               | 
               | Bash.org is not IRC or IRC culture, despite being built
               | on IRC logs.
        
             | busterarm wrote:
             | anything on bash.org is pretty solidly mid->late era IRC,
             | not "early IRC" as was discussed above.
             | 
             | "Early IRC" ends with The Great Split (ircnet fork). Heck,
             | most of Early IRC is extremely Euro-centric even.
        
               | PuppyTailWags wrote:
               | ngl the implication that something happened in the world
               | of irc that turned it from this apolitical, progressive
               | utopia to a jew-joke, rape-joke, -ism-everywhere cesspool
               | is fascinating and please tell me more about it, not
               | sarcastic
        
           | John23832 wrote:
           | Why would I be joking? I'm glad you didn't have a negative
           | experience, but my point wasn't about you. You are not a "we"
           | in the masses of the internet.
           | 
           | You don't have to know anything about anyone to say
           | derogatory things about a group they identify with. Just look
           | at the bigotry shared on social media today.
        
         | Dooflegna wrote:
         | > EDIT: In the below thread are many people who personally
         | identify as omnipresent IRC Gods, so my experience must have
         | happened in an alternate universe. My bad.
         | 
         | It's amazing how blind people can be to experiences that don't
         | match their own. And when you _tell_ them what has happened to
         | you, point at the preponderance of evidence out there about it,
         | they still don't believe you.
        
         | venatiodecorus wrote:
         | there are definitely racists online but i think in these
         | environments, where you are limited to text only, certain words
         | became 'weaponized' such as specific slurs. in my experience
         | this is less about racism and more about trolls trying to anger
         | as many people as possible with minimal effort.
        
         | dbrueck wrote:
         | Not disputing your bad experiences, but do you know how
         | virulent some of those communities were to just about everyone?
         | :)
         | 
         | Speaking of 2 things being true at once, what's amazing about
         | BBSs/USENET/IRC/etc. especially in the early years was that
         | they had:
         | 
         | - online discussions where a lot of things just didn't matter.
         | Race, gender, etc. just didn't matter. You got judged on the
         | merit of your ideas, not what you looked like, not what you
         | sounded like. It wasn't white people and black people talking
         | together. It was just people. Genuine friendships developed
         | between people that otherwise probably would have never
         | connected because of societal barriers.
         | 
         | - online discussions where people were insanely cruel. Prior to
         | getting online, I thought I understood how mean people could
         | be. Boy was I wrong. It was a real learning experience to be on
         | the receiving end of vile hatred, bigotry, insults, just...
         | meanness. There are interests I walked away from because the
         | toxicity of the community was too much to deal with.
        
           | dimmke wrote:
           | Yeah not to defend how bad those spaces were but my memories
           | of technical IRC channels on like Freenode was that they were
           | mostly about helping people and discussing the technology the
           | channel was about.
           | 
           | You never had to disclose any aspect of your identity. Your
           | gender or ethnicity. You were just a username. The only thing
           | someone could find out about you was your general location
           | based on IP address but even that could be masked if you
           | want.
           | 
           | I understand closer relationships formed on IRC I'm just
           | saying, you could go there for help without experiencing
           | prejudice. There was no expectation of revealing your real
           | self.
        
             | jldugger wrote:
             | Man, IRC was so toxic in many regards. Two stories:
             | 
             | On EFnet, there were aggressive racists in positions of
             | authority. References to burning crosses, etc. Many of the
             | earliest bash.org quotes originated there, including the
             | idea that "the bash.org 'worst' quotes list is just "the
             | best racist jokes list." The place was in generally
             | incredibly abusive, and frequent channel and nick
             | takeovers. The expectation of anonymity was a feature that
             | enabled this behavior.
             | 
             | On Freenode, things were better. Pseudonymity let you hide
             | from others but less so admins. But still there was a
             | period of time where everyone was getting PM's about an IRC
             | network where black people were banned (also, the thing was
             | offensively named). It got so bad they had to institute a
             | system to prevent DMs from unregistered accounts. You may
             | also recall that one of Ubuntu's earliest contributions was
             | a Code of Conduct, and that this was relevant because the
             | #debian-* help channels were borderline abusive.
             | 
             | So yea, you didn't have to identify yourself, just
             | humiliate and dissociate.
        
           | oceanplexian wrote:
           | > Online discussions where a lot of things just didn't
           | matter. Race, gender, etc. just didn't matter. You got judged
           | on the merit of your ideas, not what you looked like, not
           | what you sounded like.
           | 
           | We actually had real diversity and inclusion before these
           | rent-seeking social media corporations and their fake DEI
           | came in and ruined it. On IRC no one knew I was a 14 year
           | old, or an 80 year old retiree, or male or female, or black
           | or white, whatever.
        
             | fsociety wrote:
             | This ignores the rampant racist/sexist comments often made
             | on IRC/BBS, which were a reflection of society. Anyone who
             | spent a good amount of time in these communities know it
             | was a problem - hence why some very small invite-only
             | communities were formed.
             | 
             | So yes, the idealism is there. No one knows who you
             | identify as in a text channel unless you let them. But it
             | does not remove the fact that these communities could often
             | have bigoted pockets.
        
               | FFRefresh wrote:
               | As an anecdote, I was very active in those
               | communities/networks back in the day, and I don't
               | remember the rampant racism/sexism you suggest.
               | 
               | The main vector that people demeaned others on was based
               | on technical skills.
        
               | venatiodecorus wrote:
               | i'm curious how much of this was actual racism vs
               | spouting off a specific n-word in order to anger as many
               | people as possible via minimal effort
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | parasense wrote:
               | > This ignores the rampant racist/sexist comments often
               | made on IRC/BBS
               | 
               | Nice straw man argument you got there...
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
               | 
               | But I'll take the bait...
               | 
               | > Anyone who spent a good amount of time in these
               | communities know it was a problem...
               | 
               | Interesting.
               | 
               | I've been on IRC for decades, and while any online forum
               | has the feature where trolls are capable of making awful
               | remarks for the lulz, it's been my observation those are
               | outliers, and NOT an actual problem for focused
               | communities.
               | 
               | > So yes, the idealism is there. No one knows who you
               | identify as in a text channel unless you let them.
               | 
               | hrm... yeah, there is a dichotomy there, but not the
               | false kind, more of the ying/yang kind. The same feature
               | that fosters diversity is the same feature that allows
               | for trolls.
               | 
               | > But it does not remove the fact that these communities
               | could often have bigoted pockets.
               | 
               | There is no reason to practice fatalism here, or
               | characterise rare events as common place. This is
               | probably a variation of another fallacy called reductio-
               | absurdism
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reductio_ad_absurdum
               | 
               | Ultimately IRC has admins, moderators, and the ability to
               | mute other people. That is why good prevails over evil on
               | IRC, and why IRC has remained the place for smart people
               | to connect online for so so very long... longer than any
               | other mode of chat communication.
        
               | PuppyTailWags wrote:
               | I've been on IRC for a similar amount of time, sexual
               | harassment was always done in private so you wouldn't
               | have seen it on main rooms, and victims were often
               | newbies who didn't know reporting channels or didn't feel
               | empowered to report, being the noobs and all. (Think
               | randomly PMing women to ask for feet/boob pictures, or
               | asking to be PMd to help debug something and then use it
               | as an opportunity to pressure for sext)
               | 
               | I used to be part of multiple IRC channels that swear up
               | and down that they're not a bigoted/political community
               | they're just a focused technical chat about .NET or
               | something, and then spout off calling things "faggotry"
               | every day with no self-awareness whatsoever.
        
               | FFRefresh wrote:
               | If one wanted to substantiate some of your claims here to
               | be convinced of the problem you suggest, what's the best
               | way to do that?
               | 
               | What are the names of the IRC channels you were part of
               | that said they weren't bigoted but used homophobic slurs
               | every day?
        
               | PuppyTailWags wrote:
               | I'm just responding to one flimsy anecdote with my own
               | flimsy anecdote. You can believe me or not. But I would
               | suggest you ask yourself why you responded to me with
               | this and not the guy I responded to, who also didn't
               | provide evidence where they were.
        
           | Mezzie wrote:
           | I can't speak to not being white, but I can speak to being
           | female and gay in those spaces. I'm a 3rd generation
           | geek/techie/hacker and the hostility really ramped up when I
           | hit puberty. 8 year old me was treated decently: I got a lot
           | of shit for asking stupid questions and me + my intelligence
           | was insulted regularly (since most people didn't know I was a
           | child), but the rape threats and constant sexual comments
           | starting when I was about 11/12 and had the audacity to let
           | people know I was a girl were terrifying. There was also a
           | clear difference in how I was treated when people knew I was
           | female versus when they were assuming I was male. By the time
           | I was 18 and considering what to do with my life, CS and
           | programming weren't options to me because I didn't want to
           | put up with that crap for the rest of my life.
        
             | killjoywashere wrote:
             | As a father of a daughter, I appreciate you speaking up
             | about this. I'd say the problem with being raised to be
             | respectful toward women I really haven't seen much bad
             | behavior toward women. I just didn't realize what a problem
             | it was. But a regular at the coffee shop my daughter was
             | working at started stalking her. We and the store both got
             | restraining orders against him. Then we were out at dinner
             | one night, sitting outside, and she actually saw him. I was
             | facing my daughter and he came around a corner walking
             | toward her (my back to him) and I saw my daughter's face.
             | It was crushing as a father to see my daughter so utterly
             | devastated so quickly. That is a memory I will carry to my
             | grave.
             | 
             | Guys - be decent. Just, always. Always be decent.
        
               | ljf wrote:
               | This - be decent, and even more importantly - call out
               | "indecentness" when you see it.
               | 
               | Call it out to 'friends', to family, online, in person -
               | even if all you feel you can say is 'that isn't right' -
               | say it - you don't need to get into fights, you don't
               | need to be a saviour, you just need to call it out. You
               | can use that as excuse to leave, or you can use that as a
               | reason to stay.
               | 
               | But don't just ignore it.
        
             | hnuser123456 wrote:
             | As a straight white dude, yeah there were a lot of nerd
             | spaces with white dudes that imagined they were surrounded
             | by other white dudes and some of them felt no need to be
             | inclusive. But I wouldn't judge any profession too deeply
             | solely by the behavior of teenagers who express interest in
             | that profession. They're going to act like teenagers no
             | matter which profession. Find a big enough young hacker
             | space and you'll be able to find the more mature subgroups
             | within.
        
               | The5thElephant wrote:
               | I know for a fact a lot of the people participating in
               | these communities were fully adults, and the age of the
               | people being racist does little to mitigate the impact it
               | has on the people on the receiving end of it.
               | 
               | I find it really bizarre how many people here are
               | insistent on diminishing or excusing the experience the
               | original commenter had.
        
               | hnuser123456 wrote:
               | I find it bizarre you're diminishing mine. I got roasted
               | by leetcode pros and othered by turbonerds too. That's
               | humanity. I bet they haven't gotten as far as me since
               | then, and that's an attitude that anyone who has faced
               | pointless discrimination should keep in mind.
        
               | DonaldPShimoda wrote:
               | > I find it bizarre you're diminishing mine. I got
               | roasted by leetcode pros and othered by turbonerds too.
               | 
               | But you weren't targeted for this behavior due to your
               | gender identity or skin color, and you more or less
               | started off with "I don't think your issues as a Black
               | person/as a woman have been that bad because _my_
               | experience hasn 't been bad." Like you immediately
               | centered yourself in a discussion about other people, and
               | have done nothing to show any effort to even hear what
               | they're saying.
               | 
               | Additionally, one person's positive anecdotes do not
               | outweigh another person's negative anecdotes. If I'm
               | thinking about joining some arbitrary group of people and
               | most of my friends say it's a good time, but even _one_
               | person says  "I showed up and all the men either sexually
               | harassed me for being female or witnessed the harassment
               | and did nothing about it", well, that tells me a lot more
               | than the other person who says "They kind of joke around
               | a bit but it's really a mostly positive place!"
        
               | PuppyTailWags wrote:
               | I think it's nuanced. Women experience way more sexual
               | harassment and being stalked than men online, even though
               | men as slightly more likely to experience any online
               | harassment in general. I can totally understand being
               | specifically stalked or sexually harassed is on a totally
               | different field than being called a retard for a
               | suboptimal leetcode answer.
        
               | Mezzie wrote:
               | It's very different.
               | 
               | Being roasted for being a moron was something where it
               | was/is allowed to stand up for yourself. I know that when
               | people thought I was male, I was allowed to give as good
               | as I got as long as I knew how to take an L once in a
               | while and had a thick skin. Arguing and insulting back is
               | accepted and a lot of the arguments can be conclusively
               | settled in some way. Even if you pedantically argue for
               | something incorrect long after you should, you can
               | usually make amends by accepting you acted like a dumbass
               | and letting people clown on you for it.
               | 
               | The shit I got for being female was different because it
               | was a bunch of projection that I had no way of
               | addressing. There are a lot of people who are just plain
               | not okay with the opposite sex and could not handle being
               | turned down. The most vile crap was spewed in private and
               | then it turned into 'he said/she said' or 'I/we can't
               | control what members say or do outside of the
               | channel/forum/newsgroup'. Ambient sexist atmospheres
               | could not be diffused by giving the guff back as places
               | that are 90/10 male to female do not respond well to the
               | women clowning on the men: You can't answer 'get back in
               | the kitchen and make me a sandwich' with 'get back to the
               | factory and make me money' because the men fall in line
               | to support each other. You can't answer it by bringing it
               | up seriously because then you're a buzz kill, etc. It's
               | not two equals arguing; it's one side being told to shut
               | the fuck up.
        
               | hnuser123456 wrote:
               | I had someone pay money, like $10 to attach a banner to
               | my name on a forum, denying that I had a certification
               | that I revealed I had to back up my claims of knowing a
               | superior answer to some pointless argument. It was
               | unsettling and aggravating for about a month before I
               | found humor in it all. It's still one of my favorite
               | communities and overall far more mature than when that
               | happened ~10 years ago. Most people there are within a
               | few years of my age, currently 30.
        
               | PuppyTailWags wrote:
               | That doesn't address my point that women are way more
               | likely to explicitly receive sexual harassment and
               | stalking even when men report receiving more online
               | harassment generally. I'm not arguing that you weren't
               | harassed online, only that harassment is way more nuanced
               | than whether or not everyone was equally victimized.
        
               | hnuser123456 wrote:
               | I mean, I get lots of sexual hate/harassment online for
               | being traumatized from being circumcised, and advocating
               | against it when not absolutely medically necessary, from
               | people who tell me it's not a valid thing to be
               | traumatized by. Most people just don't want to think
               | about it but some people really put in effort to trolling
               | about it. There really isn't a worse form of sexual
               | discrimination than preventing one of the sexes from
               | feeling full sexual pleasure.
        
               | PuppyTailWags wrote:
               | That's still not addressing my point that this is more
               | nuanced than "who got victimized more". You're just
               | giving me multiple anecdotes of harassment you
               | experienced personally, which is myopic if we want to
               | talk about harassment on a population level (whether or
               | not early-IRC was incredibly vitriolic towards minorities
               | moreso than what is baseline normal for early-IRC). I'm
               | literally agreeing with you that we have studies that
               | show harassment generally occurs equally to everybody,
               | _except_ that _some_ minorities receive _greater
               | proportions of specific kinds of harassment_ , and maybe
               | that adds some nuance to the conversation. It has nothing
               | to do with you personally.
        
               | chrisrhoden wrote:
               | Nobody diminished your experience since you didn't relate
               | your experience - you simply said that someone else was
               | taking their own too personally.
        
           | throwaway894345 wrote:
           | This was what I was thinking. There were _lots_ of jerks on
           | those forums[^1], but I didn 't see many _racists_. Frankly,
           | I don 't know how anyone would be able to ascertain others'
           | races in the first place.
           | 
           | [^1]: as far as I can tell, _no one_ was welcome to ask
           | questions unless they could first prove that they were
           | smarter than everyone else about computing, in which case you
           | wouldn 't actually need to ask questions in that forum in the
           | first place
        
           | The5thElephant wrote:
           | Sure, virulent about everything that differed from the
           | "engineering norm". How often were comments made mocking,
           | stereotyping, or denigrating whiteness and white people? I
           | can tell you not nearly as many as were made punching down at
           | everyone else, and not nearly as harsh or gross.
           | 
           | The argument isn't that there was no good to be had from
           | those communities, it's that you can't dismiss or ignore the
           | bad that they put out as well.
        
             | mc32 wrote:
             | I would not disagree, but wouldn't that follow the
             | demographics of the population to a big extent? If we
             | examine other communities in other languages, what were
             | their dispositions, who did they target or not target? Did
             | blondes target blondes or non-blondes, etc.
             | 
             | In other words did it or does it show disproportionality?
             | If it's disproportional then that indicates it's outside
             | the global norm. The above does not mean the global norm is
             | an acceptable norm but helps calibrate and figure out how
             | good or bad things were or are.
        
               | The5thElephant wrote:
               | How is that relevant? Yes communities tend to be
               | prejudiced against things outside their assumed norm and
               | the anonymity of the web makes it easy for them to
               | express it without repercussion. That doesn't make the
               | negative impact it had on people in those communities not
               | real.
               | 
               | Furthermore in regards to race specifically I would argue
               | there probably were very few online tech/engineer
               | communities anywhere in the world that widely targeted
               | and denigrated white people until maybe just recently,
               | and even then they are likely not popular or widely
               | participated in.
               | 
               | I'm struggling to understand what the point you and other
               | commenters here are trying to make responding to the
               | original comment.
        
           | John23832 wrote:
           | > Not disputing your bad experiences, but do you know how
           | virulent some of those communities were to just about
           | everyone? :)
           | 
           | So the opportunity to make many different people feel
           | excluded is better? I'm not sure what you're getting at?
        
             | slackfan wrote:
             | So you're arguing equality is bad, therefore some people
             | need to be more equal than others?
        
               | John23832 wrote:
               | I'm not.
        
             | dbrueck wrote:
             | The point was an answer to this question:
             | 
             | > Do you know VIRULENTLY anti-black (or woman, or gay)
             | these communities were? I can't begin to describe it.
             | 
             | The answer is: "in a somewhat limited way, yes, yes I do".
             | I can't know _exactly_ what it was (and is) like, but the
             | diversity of awfulness in some of those communities allowed
             | me to experience meanness on a level I had never
             | experienced before, which in turn has helped me feel more
             | empathy towards those who deal with things like sexism and
             | racism both online and offline.
             | 
             | Before, I had only an intellectual understanding that those
             | things were terrible, which led me to under-appreciate just
             | how much they can hurt. Perhaps I still under-appreciate it
             | (who knows?), but I'm definitely closer to understanding
             | than I was before, and that's a good thing.
        
               | ParetoOptimal wrote:
               | > The answer is: "in a somewhat limited way, yes, yes I
               | do".
               | 
               | Prefacing "I know your experience" with "In a
               | (very|somewhat) limited way" is vitally important.
        
           | lettergram wrote:
           | > Not disputing your bad experiences, but do you know how
           | virulent some of those communities were to just about
           | everyone? :)
           | 
           | The red head jokes were endless.
        
           | noobermin wrote:
           | Tbf, I miss the former dearly but am happy the latter is
           | gone, particularly from forums. I don't know why people
           | online felt they could be so abusive and harsh to others for
           | no reasons. The taunting and garbage on twitter is mild (yes
           | with "cancel culture" and all that) than the sheer virtriol
           | that was just common place on forums in even the mid to late
           | 00s.
        
           | mostly_lurks wrote:
           | I think you might want to reflect for a minute on why you
           | thought "but do you know how virulent some of those
           | communities were to just about everyone?" was an appropriate
           | response to a black person talking about their experience of
           | racism. I recognize you believed yourself to be mitigating
           | the effect of your statement by prefacing it with "Not
           | disputing your bad experiences," but I think you'll find that
           | the net effect of your comment is still one of dismissing a
           | black person's lived experience, or at least pulling focus
           | away from it in an unhelpful way.
        
             | dbrueck wrote:
             | Hmm... this sounds an awful lot like, "because you're
             | responding to a comment made by a black person, the only
             | acceptable response is one of total agreement". I think you
             | might want to reflect for a minute on the importance of
             | nuance in a discussion, and the net effect of trying to
             | police comments on others' behalf.
             | 
             | I completely believe the commenter's experience, but I also
             | witnessed the opposite a lot (and was deeply encouraged by
             | it), and it's not wrong for me to chime in and point it
             | out. And guess what? Experiencing vitriol on the internet
             | directly contributed to me being more sensitive to things
             | like racism. Although I've been on the receiving end of
             | racist remarks offline, it wasn't until the internet that I
             | caught a glimpse at how hurtful people could truly be.
             | Again, not wrong for me to pipe up about it.
        
               | projectazorian wrote:
               | > Hmm... this sounds an awful lot like, "because you're
               | responding to a comment made by a black person, the only
               | acceptable response is one of total agreement".
               | 
               | Not true. There is another acceptable response - not
               | posting, taking some time to read and reflect, and moving
               | along with your day.
               | 
               | You no doubt have any number of other things you could be
               | doing, but you're in here. Might be worth thinking about
               | why that is.
        
               | dbrueck wrote:
               | > You no doubt have any number of other things you could
               | be doing, but you're in here. Might be worth thinking
               | about why that is.
               | 
               | Obviously this applies to you as well. Maybe you've taken
               | what I wrote as some sort of disagreement or getting
               | defensive or... something? And then from there concluding
               | that I shouldn't be allowed to participate? I'm not sure,
               | but this is a discussion site and I'm participating in
               | the discussion, and please don't take this the wrong way,
               | but it's really not your place to tell me that I
               | shouldn't participate. My original comment was in
               | agreement with the poster I was replying to, and I was
               | adding nuance and finding common ground in a semi-shared
               | experience. None of that is wrong for me to do. Have a
               | great day!
        
               | projectazorian wrote:
               | > Obviously this applies to you as well. Maybe you've
               | taken what I wrote as some sort of disagreement or
               | getting defensive or... something? And then from there
               | concluding that I shouldn't be allowed to participate?
               | 
               | You're allowed to participate, but I trust you can
               | understand that in many situations there is a difference
               | between what discourse is permitted in a space, and what
               | discourse others might see as appropriate or a value add
               | to the discussion.
               | 
               | > I'm not sure, but this is a discussion site and I'm
               | participating in the discussion, and please don't take
               | this the wrong way, but it's really not your place to
               | tell me that I shouldn't participate.
               | 
               | Hmm, it is your place to be able to post whatever you
               | like as long as it's permitted by the rules, but it's not
               | the place of others to suggest doing so might not be
               | appropriate, even if that is also permitted. Kind of a
               | narcissistic, authoritarian mindset, it seems to me. Note
               | that I didn't post "mods???" or report you.
        
               | dbrueck wrote:
               | "Authoritarian mindset" indeed!
               | 
               | Anyway, you seem to have misunderstood by initial and
               | subsequent comments, so other than rereading them in good
               | faith until you believe me when I say that I was neither
               | disagreeing with the comment, nor trying to undermine his
               | experience, nor defending bad stuff online, I don't think
               | we can make any progress, so I'm moving on to other
               | things. Have a great day!
        
               | zamalek wrote:
               | > the only acceptable response is one of total agreement
               | 
               | That's not exactly it. The only _informed_ response about
               | a black person 's experience on these platforms is a
               | black person's. When people talk about "lived
               | experience," the implication is that empathy is
               | practically impossible. The best you can offer is
               | sympathy.
               | 
               | > I've been on the receiving end of racist remarks
               | offline
               | 
               | I am a white person who has been on the receiving end of
               | racially-motivated police brutality. Even though it was
               | racially-motivated I would not consider it a racist act.
               | The fucker was merely angry at white people, that's
               | different to _racism._ While there are places on the
               | planet where white people experience racism (typically at
               | the hands of other white people), I can almost guarantee
               | that you have not - especially if you are American.
               | 
               | Don't wash the black community's suffering with white
               | experiences.
        
               | dbrueck wrote:
               | > The best you can offer is sympathy. > I can almost
               | guarantee that you have not [experienced racism] -
               | especially if you are American.
               | 
               | My goodness! How can you honestly make such an assertion?
               | I _am_ American, I 've visited every state and lived in a
               | dozen of them. I am well-acquainted with many forms of
               | racism and am fascinated that you could believe such a
               | statement. All I can say is that you are unequivocally
               | wrong.
               | 
               | > Don't wash the black community's suffering with white
               | experiences.
               | 
               | This is absurd - finding common ground is the key to
               | rooting out and overcoming things like racism. Always
               | insisting that someone's experience is too different for
               | others to understand only serves to perpetuate division.
               | 
               | I will never know what it's like to be a black person and
               | all of the stupid things black people have to up with.
               | But experiencing unkindness and bigotry helps me
               | understand a little. And while having just a couple of
               | experiences where someone judged me and was cruel to me
               | simply for being white is nowhere near the same thing as
               | dealing with it for years, it's something I can
               | extrapolate from, and it taught me more about racism than
               | any number of books or articles ever could.
        
               | zamalek wrote:
               | > All I can say is that you are unequivocally wrong.
               | 
               | You, as a white person, have been a victim of racism?
               | 
               | Edit: > finding common ground is the key to rooting out
               | and overcoming things like racism
               | 
               | How is refuting the experiences of a black person finding
               | common ground?
        
               | dbrueck wrote:
               | > You, as a white person, have been a victim of racism?
               | 
               | Have I been told to leave somewhere because they don't
               | want "whiteys" there? Yes. Have I been yelled at for
               | being a "honky"? Yes. Have I been told things like, "all
               | white people are ___"? Yes. Have I been in a group when
               | someone said, "don't give any to the white kid" ? Yes.
               | Have I been threatened with violence with the sole given
               | reason being that I am white? Yes. Has a friend of mine
               | been told not to be my friend because I'm white and we
               | shouldn't mix? Yes.
               | 
               | (for reference, these occurred while living in Alabama,
               | Georgia, North Carolina, and Virginia)
               | 
               | Are these common experiences across the U.S.? I doubt it.
               | Are they as bad as what black people have to deal with?
               | No. Are they as widespread as racism towards black
               | people? Almost certainly not.
               | 
               | > How is refuting the experiences of a black person
               | finding common ground?
               | 
               | I haven't done that at all - maybe you read some other
               | comment and thought it was mine? If so, no worries for
               | the confusion, there's a lot of comments flying around.
        
               | zamalek wrote:
               | > Have I been told to leave somewhere [...]
               | 
               | Why do some black people hate white people? Because their
               | great grandparent perished on a cotton plantation,
               | because their friend was hunted by some white folks in a
               | truck, because their friend was choked to death by a
               | white policeman, because your race is targeted by
               | disenfranchisement.
               | 
               | Why do some white people hate black people? _Because they
               | hate black people._
               | 
               | There is a substantial difference between those two, and
               | the difference is central to the definition of racism vs.
               | racially-charged. Someone being a vengeful asshole does
               | not make them racist, someone being an asshole to a race
               | in general does not (necessarily) make them racist.
               | Racism is hating a race, it is _not_ being angry with a
               | race that participated in horrific acts against you and
               | your (in some cases near) ancestors.
               | 
               | Is it fair that you are being held accountable for the
               | acts of your ancestors, and other living white people?
               | No, that isn't the claim. You find the retribution you
               | face unfair/unkind/unjust, as you have the right to. Now
               | imagine facing the same for merely existing. The claim is
               | that you couldn't possibly understand the experiences of
               | a black person. The claim is that you do kinda' have to
               | accept the stories of black people at face value.
               | 
               | The claim is that the vast majority of their life is
               | defined by racist experiences, where you have a _handful_
               | of racially-charged experiences to point towards.
        
               | dbrueck wrote:
               | You're conflating racism with the reasons for racism.
               | 
               | It doesn't matter how good or bad your reasons are: once
               | you are feeling or expressing prejudice simply because
               | someone is a member of a particular ethnic group, that's
               | racist.
        
               | The5thElephant wrote:
               | But it is unclear what you are disagreeing with. They
               | never said that there was nothing positive in those
               | communities. So what is the point of your comment? To
               | make sure no one leaves this thread thinking that those
               | communities were a net negative or something? I
               | understand the desire to defend something you were a part
               | of and got something positive out of, but the original
               | commenter isn't criticizing people for enjoying or
               | benefiting from those communities, they are pointing out
               | that they had a clear negative impact on people who were
               | targeted by those types of awful comments.
        
               | dcow wrote:
               | It's unclear because you've concocted it. _You're_
               | asserting that there's disagreement when there never was.
               | I don't strictly blame you for perpetuating ill rhetoric,
               | but at least be aware that you're responding to a stance
               | that the comment in question never took in a fever to
               | defend a black OP that never asked for any help and
               | frankly IMO doesn 't need it based on the high quality of
               | their comment.
        
               | dbrueck wrote:
               | This is a discussion site, so not every comment needs to
               | fit neatly in a 'agree' or 'disagree' bucket. That said,
               | I'm in agreement with the comment I was replying to, and
               | not actually defending anything at all - I meant for my
               | comment to be taken at face value, nothing more.
        
             | meowkit wrote:
             | And to counter your claim here - someone's "lived
             | experience" is not a sufficient ballast for blindly
             | accepting an anecdote.
             | 
             | People's memories suck. And more often than not subjective
             | experiences don't map onto reality, especially when
             | negative or stressful emotions are involved.
             | 
             | One negative experience on an IRC/forum can cloud a
             | person's entire recollection simply on the basis of the
             | Negativity Bias.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negativity_bias
        
               | The5thElephant wrote:
               | The point isn't to figure out whether these communities
               | were a net positive or negative. I wasn't a target of any
               | of the racism, sexism, homophobia, etc on these forums
               | and chat rooms but I sure saw a lot of it everywhere I
               | participated at a level that was kind of ridiculous in
               | some cases. It clearly had impact on the people it was
               | targeting, the degree to which it "clouds a persons
               | recollection" is entirely irrelevant.
               | 
               | Is your point that their recollection should be
               | dismissed? That they were too sensitive? It's unclear
               | what this response's intent is.
        
               | dcow wrote:
               | I think the point was that you can't debate or argue with
               | anecdotes, in essence dismissing both comments.
        
             | boppo1 wrote:
             | I think you might want to reflect for a minute that you are
             | playing the exact DEI game that the OP is complaining
             | about. You are dismissing your parent post's argument
             | without addressing content of the argument. Essentially,
             | your post boils down to "Don't argue with Black people.
             | "Lived Experience" trumps all rhetoric and discussion. In
             | the future, please keep your thoughts and concerns to
             | yourself."
             | 
             | You are fostering a culture without room for discussion.
             | You are also presuming to speak for the Black person two
             | posts up. Solidarity is important, but shutting people down
             | based on racial context isn't it.
        
             | JLCarveth wrote:
             | And you're here dismissing _their experience_ because they
             | 're not black. See the issue?
        
             | naasking wrote:
             | > but I think you'll find that the net effect of your
             | comment is still one of dismissing a black person's lived
             | experience
             | 
             | Pointing out that those venues were full of anti-everything
             | hate is not dismissing a black person's experience, it's
             | validating it, while pointing out that he's not alone.
        
               | ParetoOptimal wrote:
               | > Pointing out that those venues were full of anti-
               | everything hate is not dismissing a black person's
               | experience, it's validating it, while pointing out that
               | he's not alone.
               | 
               | But it implicitly implies the negative experiences were
               | similar in scale unless otherwise noted.
               | 
               | It downplays the very large weight that racism adds to
               | the negativity of that experience even if the intent is a
               | noble one of making that person not feel alone.
        
               | dcow wrote:
               | Or, maybe you're the one projecting negativity for
               | assuming that the existence of another anecdote downplays
               | the black one in play? I give it no such credence.
        
         | ndjsnsinsis wrote:
         | I suppose if that's the goal, we should have a defined goal. I
         | grew up in India and I think we have the problem of a runaway
         | effect of this. I totally agree that it helps, there are remote
         | tribal communities or disadvantaged communities in India (say
         | based on caste that historically, and even currently, face
         | stuff like untouchability) but there's got to be a goal at
         | which point you stop. When I had to pick a college for
         | undergrad in India, there are so many quotas put aside based on
         | caste, tribals, sports, defence, rural/urban, language medium
         | of schooling etc that college quotas available for general
         | merit is roughly 50% (haven't kept up recently, but should be
         | there abouts). Some people game the system to try and get
         | paperwork to show you belong to such a section so that college
         | enrollment, public sector jobs etc get a lot easier.
        
           | pocman wrote:
           | )))Some people game the system to try and get paperwork to
           | show you belong to such a section so that college enrollment,
           | public sector jobs etc get a lot easier.
           | 
           | Prominent lawmakers in the US also game the system.
           | 
           | https://www.npr.org/2019/02/01/690806434/warren-
           | apologizes-t...
           | 
           | https://www.vox.com/2018/10/16/17983250/elizabeth-warren-
           | bar...
           | 
           | VOX: New evidence has emerged [SENATOR!] Elizabeth Warren
           | claimed American Indian heritage in 1986 Warren identified as
           | "American Indian" on a registration card for the State Bar of
           | Texas, according to a Washington Post report.
           | 
           | By Ella Nilsen Updated Feb 5, 2019, 8:29pm EST
           | 
           | (TLDR for those not in the US: wealthy powerful while woman
           | rose in ranks after abusing DEI quotas, now has huge
           | influence over tech industry and always angry about an
           | industry which has real diversity (tech:Asians) but
           | conveniently not angry about lack of diversity at Harvard or
           | Senate.
        
         | zozbot234 wrote:
         | Is it any better when supposedly "tech" focused communities are
         | virulently anti-white, anti-male or anti-Asian? These things
         | have no place in genuine professional discourse.
        
           | backzerman wrote:
           | > virulently anti-white, anti-male, or anti-Asian
           | 
           | I'm a white guy. I've sat through many a DEI session. I've
           | never, ever felt this. How could I? 85% of the people in the
           | room are white or Asian men.
           | 
           | I'm not trying to sound disingenuous here, but I really want
           | to know, how does "virulently anti-" empirically manifest
           | itself in the communities you speak of? Hiring? Pay?
           | Promotion decisions? Possibly freedom of speech? Even then it
           | seems like I'm free to say whatever I want as long as I stay
           | on topic.
        
             | flippinburgers wrote:
             | Yeah you are free to say whatever you like as long as you
             | say what you are told to parrot.
        
         | kodah wrote:
         | > There's also the fact that most (read: all) of the computing
         | pioneers are white
         | 
         | Not refuting this take as it's accurate, but if you're looking
         | for someone that's Black in early computing I'd recommend free
         | software pioneer Brian Fox (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bri
         | an_Fox_(computer_programm...) best known for inventing Bash.
         | 
         | Kelsey Hightower is also notable as the man that pioneered the
         | use of Kubernetes at many businesses through his book.
         | 
         | Marian Croak is the pioneer of VOIP and now heads SRE among
         | other things at Google.
         | 
         | Mark Dean pioneered ISA which is still the leading standard
         | today in industrial applications.
         | 
         | (Non-exhaustive list, but these are the programmers that are
         | Black that I know of off the top of my head)
         | 
         | I'll caveat this with my own take: all these folks worked in
         | what is in the industry referred to as Systems Engineering,
         | which is very much still a "working man's" profession when
         | compared to traditional software engineering and prior to
         | things like SRE paid accordingly less. It's also how a lot of
         | vets, POC, and people without degrees enter the industry.
        
         | Siira wrote:
         | As a PoC who has benefited from IRC, I don't see how they would
         | even know you're not white unless you tell them yourself. Can
         | you elaborate on your experience?
        
         | roenxi wrote:
         | A question, perhaps, of babies, bathwater and relative
         | velocity.
         | 
         | I'm not sure if anyone worth listening to is complaining about
         | efforts to clean up racism in moderated communities. HN, for
         | example, self polices that sort of thing quite effectively.
         | "Racism bad" as a principle is one of the most solid points of
         | consensus in the modern political sphere. We should keep
         | moderating out racism.
         | 
         | But your post is going to different issues than the original
         | one, which was talking about initiatives _inside_ companies. I
         | do not want to be in a position where I look at black
         | colleagues and have formal evidence that they got hired
         | /promoted/praised/ because of their skin colour, not their
         | competence. That is setting up an environment where racists
         | opinions will also be evidence-based and doing a disservice to
         | literally everyone involved.
         | 
         | A company initiative supporting building up hiring pipelines is
         | just good business practice. "A cheesy townhall once a month to
         | discuss diversity hires" (from op) is a dangerous precedent for
         | stirring up actual racism. There does need to be debate to
         | decide where the line between these things is drawn, and why.
         | 
         | We were on a good thing with the aspiration of skin colour
         | making no difference. It is a shame to see backsliding on that
         | subject amongst many HR departments.
        
         | excerionsforte wrote:
         | IRC was pretty toxic for sure. If you didn't know the other
         | person, you assumed they were white since it is the predominate
         | skin color and American for that matter. Typically wouldn't
         | question it unless they used different wording patterns or
         | languages. IRC was attractive in some ways and offputting in
         | others. I never really got into it outside of my #gamedev
         | interests.
         | 
         | DEI initiatives as a backlash against the forced exclusion of
         | people from the broader economy makes sense to me. It's crazy
         | the amount of the legal and government system that was employed
         | in the past because of what people thought to be true about
         | other people.
         | 
         | I'm unclear of how much impact the intiatives have on hiring or
         | retention. I feel this is one of the reasons why DEI
         | initiatives highlight token people probably to show they are
         | doing something (results) and the budget for it is justified.
         | Would be nice to see the statistics from mid to large companies
         | on how these initiatives have fared on multiple groups and
         | worker productivity for that matter, but until then it feels
         | like it has no to mixed impact at a company which seems to be
         | the ideas of people not included in these initiatives.
         | 
         | DEI just feels vague and threatening to some people. I've seen
         | Reddit threads of people saying they don't support DEI
         | initiatives because how can they "secure a future for their
         | child" which to me is highly obtuse. Who knows what a child
         | will do in the future.
         | 
         | I'm all for hiring diverse candidates and helping those who
         | have high curiosity and propensity to just do the work rather
         | than the idea that one must be experienced in order to execute.
         | It's the same way I am towards younger people, though you don't
         | see the same backlash against initiatives in that arena unless
         | older people are losing their jobs for the sake of it. In the
         | end, I want people who will (not can) help with the work and
         | will teach others.
        
         | AdrianB1 wrote:
         | I am on some IT forums for almost 20 years; I don't know what
         | is the gender or race of most people there, I have no idea what
         | is their sexuality and there is no racism, sexism or any "ism"
         | in these communities. The day someone will bring the argument
         | "I am a green isomorph Martian, so for me DDR4 is way slower
         | than DDR2 with the same CAS" then the acid answers will not be
         | related to the color green, Martial descent or anything else
         | but lack of merit of that statement.
        
         | lynndotpy wrote:
         | > EDIT: In the below thread are many people who personally
         | identify as omnipresent IRC Gods, so my experience must have
         | happened in an alternate universe. My bad.
         | 
         | For what it's worth, this aligns with what I've seen on IRC as
         | well (in the 00s.) I really think a lot of people just don't
         | _see_ bigotry for what it is when it 's not explicit. (E.g.
         | "lol girl = guy irl, there are no girls on the internet" being
         | a common sentiment that might just be easily forgotten.)
        
           | nilmask wrote:
           | My experience growing up as a southeast Asian child in the
           | early 00s is that I suddenly had access to practitioners and
           | even experts in the field who now gave me an audience, as
           | both my age and ethnicity were completely inaccessible to my
           | counterparty on the other side of the chat window.
           | 
           | No one asked, and no one cared. We discussed technical
           | topics, and what mattered was the strength of your ideas and
           | their ability to withstand rebuttal. Your identity did not
           | factor into the discussion, as the medium being used (IRC)
           | abstracted away all notion of geographic location, physical
           | appearance, skin color, accent, tone of voice, gender, sex,
           | etc... into the written word. That's all everyone saw - your
           | words, and your words only.
           | 
           | Now, in our photo and video driven digital landscape, your
           | physical appearance - the way you look, present, the color of
           | your skin, etc. - is front and center. In fact, without a
           | visual representation, you may as well not exist - "pics or
           | it didn't happen."
           | 
           | Which makes the matter all the more aggravating - people are
           | now using media that bring cues for common stereotypes (i.e.
           | judging someone for the way they look [0]) to the forefront,
           | while simultaneously declaring that, no, they are completely
           | free from any and all such bias. Why not remove all doubt,
           | the, and use blind Zoom interviews (which I did myself), text
           | fora (such as this one), and text-only protocols (such as
           | IRC)?
           | 
           | It's fascinating to see just how differently I am treated and
           | perceived on purely textual media vs. other media where my
           | physical appearance is evident. If IRC was racist, then I
           | would say the new media is orders of magnitude more so, as I
           | have been subject to numerous misjudgments of my character
           | and/or microaggressions based on my physical appearance -
           | which simply would not have been accessible in older, text-
           | based protocols.
           | 
           | I can't escape the new "ethnic minority" or "visible
           | minority" label that these DEI initiatives (and related
           | ideologies) have created - they are now automatically and
           | subconsciously applied to me the minute others take a look at
           | me, and as a result all of the associated ideas are
           | subsequently brought to mind - "disadvantaged," "lacking
           | education," "lower socioeconomic status," "hired because of
           | their race," etc.
           | 
           | I'd rather go back to IRC. None of these judgments would be
           | possible there, and I wouldn't have to have the "minority"
           | label applied to me if I chose to simply not to disclose my
           | appearance or ethnic background.
           | 
           | [0] https://gap.hks.harvard.edu/orchestrating-impartiality-
           | impac...
        
           | LordDragonfang wrote:
           | This is why it's so sad/annoying that the word "priviledge"
           | has devolved into a meaning-devoid cudgel, because it's such
           | a _useful_ term in discussions like these. If you 're not
           | personally affected by something, it's easy to miss something
           | for what it is or even just not see it, even if it's
           | happening all around you.
        
           | Insanity wrote:
           | +1. Not just on IRC but all around the internet and online
           | gaming in those days. Back when you had dedicated servers and
           | they would devolve into more of a chat room anyway.
        
       | rdl wrote:
       | I wish there were an HR "brand" for "We want the absolute best
       | team possible, with diversity of thought and experience, and
       | aligned on our mission and core values. We recognize lots of
       | people are excluded because they're not part of our existing
       | networks, or because they don't think they belong here, so we'll
       | put extra effort into looking for them and showing them what's
       | possible, but we've got the same standards for everyone we bring
       | in, and will always pick the people who make our team the best.
       | This might not always be the best individuals at their
       | specialties in isolation, but the people who will work the best
       | together to achieve our mission. This isn't a single-round game,
       | so we do value long-term evolution of our company, the industry,
       | our country, and humanity overall, but if we aren't successful in
       | the short term, we won't be at the table to make positive changes
       | over time, either. We have minimum moral, ethical, and legal
       | obligations in how we treat people which we will always meet (and
       | hopefully far exceed), but the minimums are not our targets."
        
       | LatteLazy wrote:
       | I don't think we as a society can have our cake and eat it: if
       | there is an initiative, it will become public one way or another.
       | So if you must have one, you must be honest about it and accept
       | the consequences. Lying about it will just make everyone all the
       | more suspicious and prejudiced.
       | 
       | And that is without touching any of the other issues here
       | (pipeline problems, defining diversity by external criteria, etc)
        
       | hvs wrote:
       | To be fair, as a pretty smart, white man in technology, my
       | parents paid for half of my college to a prestigious engineering
       | university and I've had friends and acquaintances (that I've
       | built from my network) that have gotten me to where I am today.
       | If it helps, you can think of DEI initiatives as making up for
       | the lack of an existing network that many minorities have in the
       | business world.
        
         | ianhawes wrote:
         | To be fair, you still had to graduate from said prestigious
         | engineering university. And a degree doesn't net you a job. And
         | a job doesn't net you a career.
        
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