[HN Gopher] The X-Y Problem
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       The X-Y Problem
        
       Author : dp-hackernews
       Score  : 38 points
       Date   : 2023-01-19 19:17 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | a_c wrote:
       | As the saying goes, half of problem solving is about asking the
       | right questions
        
       | scubbo wrote:
       | I suspect this will be a highly divisive comment, but - the
       | `greycat` character in these vignettes exemplifies the
       | "knowledgable asshole" stereotype that does more damage than
       | good.
       | 
       | The division is likely to be as to whether this is a good and
       | justified thing - "if they couldn't hack it, they don't belong
       | here" // "respondents do not owe politeness to dumb questioners"
       | - or not. As with many questions, I suspect the answer is
       | somewhere in the middle (though closer to the "or not", IMO).
       | 
       | And just so this comment isn't entirely meta-commentary and
       | actually delivers some value - a broader guide on "asking
       | technical questions" is here:
       | http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html (FWIW the "How
       | To Answer Questions in a Helpful Way" section supports my
       | suspicion that a gentler approach is more productive)
        
         | thethirdone wrote:
         | I think I would prefer a greycat to be among the people helping
         | me most of the time. Being correct and helpful even if you are
         | not nice about it is still pretty good.
         | 
         | I think answerers can be correct, helpful and nice, but getting
         | a least two of those is good enough to be worth listening to.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | Maybe more familiar as the response: "What are you _really_
       | trying to do? "
       | 
       | Which is a little related to:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five_whys
        
         | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
         | Followed immediately by "You don't want to do that. I, some
         | internet guy, know what you _really_ want to do even though I
         | have no understanding of the constraints you are working under
         | or what you 're ultimately trying to accomplish!".
        
           | neilv wrote:
           | It used to have better connotations (such as when coming a
           | good sysadmin), than it got from the same phrase being used
           | on, say, StackOverflow.
        
       | keyanp wrote:
       | Though this is a common issue, it is certainly bothersome when
       | someone _wrongly_ assumes you are experiencing the XY problem and
       | demands a lot of unnecessary information before helping you with
       | something.
        
         | TillE wrote:
         | Right, it's fine to say that 90% of the time you shouldn't do
         | X, but it's important to understand _why_ you 're saying that,
         | and why sometimes you really do need to do X.
        
         | pathikrit wrote:
         | Why not respond with both X and Y? e.g. for the last 3
         | character thing, here would be an appropriate response:
         | 
         | To get the last 3 characters, do `echo ${foo: -3}`. Are you
         | trying to get the file extension though? What if the extension
         | is not 3 characters e.g. `foo.jpeg`? You then want to do
         | `${foo##*.}`
        
           | IshKebab wrote:
           | Yeah this is definitely the best response. Unfortunately most
           | people (especially on Stackoverflow) are not as wise as you
           | and will just downvote your question and say "you shouldn't
           | do that".
        
           | bee_rider wrote:
           | Some more probing might still be needed for the second
           | solution, how a .tar.gz gets handled might depend on the
           | programmer intent, could be different from a .gz
           | hypothetically.
        
           | seba_dos1 wrote:
           | Because not every answer is as quick and straightforward as
           | your example.
        
         | AbrahamParangi wrote:
         | Definitely frustrating for everyone following as well, since
         | answering the question _assuming_ it 's an XY problem is only
         | useful to subsequent readers who are trying to solve the same
         | problem _and doing it wrong in the same way_.
         | 
         | It is not helpful to people who are trying to solve a different
         | problem correctly, who would like an answer to the exact
         | question that the original poster asked, nor is it useful to
         | people who are trying to solve the same problem but in a
         | different, also wrong way - as they will likely never see the
         | post.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | In general people don't want to hear that they have a problem
         | from anyone but themselves. I've had so many I Told You So
         | moments with certain individuals that at some point you just
         | assume everything they ask for has been rendered
         | incomprehensible in a game of Telephone, either with other
         | people or with themselves. In public policy they call it,
         | "Something must be done, this is 'something', so we must do
         | it."
         | 
         | Neal Gaiman did a compendium of Norse Mythology, and in it he
         | claims that Thor says, "When something weird happens I always
         | assume Loki is involved. It saves time." That's the line that
         | stuck with me the most out of that entire book.
         | 
         | The people who fall into this category will tune you out while
         | you say over and over "this is going to hurt us next year" and
         | come in with a Pikachu face a year from now when they find out
         | that it's been a year and the chickens have come home to roost.
         | 
         | People, as it turns out, are much more accepting of a team
         | delivering consistently 10% slower than expected versus a team
         | that delivers to expectations one year and suddenly drops by
         | 50% a year later. They can't understand that. They can't
         | predict it. It just looks to them like you've stopped doing
         | what you are paid to do, rather than the truth which is you
         | stopped doing what you were paid to do 2 years ago and you
         | didn't jump ship before the consequences showed up.
        
         | db48x wrote:
         | It's also really annoying when people cannot recognize that
         | they have asked an X-Y question :)
        
         | dredmorbius wrote:
         | It's less wasteful of collective time and effort to determine
         | up front that the situation is NOT an X-Y problem than to
         | traipse down the primrose path presuming it _isn 't_ only to
         | subsequently learn that it _is_.
         | 
         | Those who are experienced enough to understand the X-Y problem
         | will recognise and acknowledge this. Those who aren't will
         | often find reason to take offense.
         | 
         | <shrug>
        
         | KeepFlying wrote:
         | How else can I delay needing to actually think through your
         | question??
        
         | ithkuil wrote:
         | Indeed. I think it even deserves a name. The "XYX problem"?
        
       | at_a_remove wrote:
       | Here is the big stumbling block with this, right at this step:
       | "Others try to help user with Y, but are confused because Y seems
       | like a strange problem to want to solve."
       | 
       | Of course it is strange. If it were common, I would have, in my
       | due diligence, already found it. I realize the Internet is filled
       | with idiots who cannot or will not use Google, but it sure makes
       | everything else fairly hard.
       | 
       | Worst is having to specify, in the question itself, "This is not
       | an XY problem," only for someone to try to find some way to
       | _make_ it an XY problem (you almost always can, if you try hard
       | enough, and not just the degenerate case of  "You wouldn't have
       | this if you just stopped caring about X.") and then, once you
       | have sufficiently proven yourself, those folks are nowhere to be
       | found.
        
       | wetpaws wrote:
       | This resonates so much. Literally the biggest lesson in my IT
       | career was to always ask "what problem you are trying to solve"
       | to every question.
        
       | Turing_Machine wrote:
       | Reminiscent of, though not exactly analogous to, the apocryphal
       | Henry Ford quote:
       | 
       | "If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said
       | faster horses."
        
       | gaze wrote:
       | From being on both ends of this, just answer the question as
       | asked. It's especially irritating when people essentially
       | overreach and just decide you're asking the wrong question.
       | You're saying "no I'm insisting on being more helpful than you're
       | asking me to be." Just answer the damn question and let the
       | person run into the next stumbling block. Why be so upset that
       | the problem you're now imagining hasn't yet been solved? Your job
       | is done.
       | 
       | The most I think that's appropriate to do is to answer the
       | question and THEN ask what they're trying to do. If they bite,
       | they bite.
       | 
       | Truly where does this end. You could say -- they're asking the
       | wrong question for a reason. Sounds like you're not thinking
       | about the situation right because you're not staying sharp. Have
       | you tried doing sudoku puzzles? Maybe your mind is clouded due to
       | anger. How's your relationship with your parents? Have you
       | checked for a gas leak in the room you're working in?
        
         | fluoridation wrote:
         | You're being silly. Why are "answer the question as stated" or
         | "deconstruct the person's entire life to find their ultimate
         | problem" the only logically consistent possible courses of
         | action?
         | 
         | If someone asks a question that suggests something might have
         | been misunderstood, there's nothing wrong with probing a little
         | to find the reason for the question. Maybe the person really
         | does know something you didn't, but it's much more likely that
         | by asking clarifying questions you'll save theirs and your own
         | time.
        
           | gaze wrote:
           | I was providing a silly example but there is a continuum as
           | you've identified. My point is that it's not your place to
           | decide how far along this continuum to go. It's the job of
           | the person asking the question.
        
             | ecnahc515 wrote:
             | I think it is your place, because it's your time being
             | taken by people asking questions. It's an often a thankless
             | job people do because they want to help. If you think you
             | might be doing more harm than good by "just answering the
             | question" you're not helping anymore, which then somewhat
             | defeats the purpose many people are doing it. But really,
             | the simpler reason is that, if your helping out others,
             | your giving them your time, so they should respect it, so
             | answering some questions while getting help is part of that
             | respect.
        
             | ignite wrote:
             | The person asking the question is frequently not the person
             | with the knowledge to determine this.
             | 
             | The X-Y response shows up frequently on support forums
             | where people are asking questions that show they haven't
             | yet grasped the system they are working on.
        
         | ketralnis wrote:
         | A big reason is that you work at the same company working to
         | the same goals. Your "job" is probably more than just answering
         | contextless questions.
         | 
         | A questioner asking "how do I get all of the emails from the
         | production database?" certainly does warrant some additional
         | probing and "what's a regex for valid emails?" might need a
         | "don't do that, we need the validity of emails to be consistent
         | across services even at the expense of correctness so..."
        
       | kelseyfrog wrote:
       | I can see why the author would want to write about the X-Y
       | problem, but what we really need is a way for those trying to
       | answer to quickly discern if an X-Y problem actually exists. When
       | it doesn't, the querent finds themselves at an unending cycle of
       | attempting the clarify and justify in an insatiable appetite to
       | convince them they are solving the wrong problem. The author
       | really should be writing about that.
        
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         | prettyStandard wrote:
         | Why do you think people have trouble identifying X-Y problems?
         | ;)
        
           | gpderetta wrote:
           | Parent is saying that the author has an X-Y problem.
        
             | hinkley wrote:
             | Parent has suckered you into an X-Y problem conversation.
        
               | prettyStandard wrote:
               | I suppose I might have disproved my own disbelief that
               | this is a problem.
        
         | aidenn0 wrote:
         | That's the Y-X problem...
        
       | evandale wrote:
       | The thing that always annoyed me with the last 3 characters
       | question is that it assumes everyone knows everything. Relevant
       | XKCD: https://xkcd.com/1053/
       | 
       | The noob clearly thought extensions are always 3 characters
       | because that's the only thing they've been exposed to. They
       | didn't know "how do I get the last 3 characters in a filename?"
       | and "how do I get a file extension?" are different questions. It
       | may not have occurred to them to ask how to get the extension,
       | and to take it further, maybe they don't know everything after
       | the . is called an extension.
        
       | menacingly wrote:
       | I don't think we need to evangelize what smug gatekeepers already
       | far over-apply across many domains
        
       | didgetmaster wrote:
       | From the title, I thought it might be just another rant about
       | people with certain chromosomes (also called males).
        
       | unwind wrote:
       | When I was the most active on Stack Overflow, the recommended
       | link for a description of the XY problem was [1]. This was (is?)
       | commonly used in a comment to tell a poster that their question
       | seems dubious, and might not get high-quality answers.
       | 
       | Now I see that it seems to be a more or less exact copy of the
       | OP, which is kind of confusing. Does anyone know the
       | background/ownership?
       | 
       | [1]: https://xyproblem.info/
        
         | mcdoogal wrote:
         | Your URL (which I've also seen and referenced a lot) sources
         | the OP link at the bottom as "Source 2", so it at least seems
         | the OP link predates this one.
        
         | prettyStandard wrote:
         | Based on these two/four links,
         | 
         | https://mywiki.wooledge.org/XyProblem?action=info
         | 
         | https://mywiki.wooledge.org/XyProblem?action=recall&rev=1
         | 
         | https://web.archive.org/web/20230000000000*/https://xyproble...
         | 
         | https://web.archive.org/web/20140908180346/https://xyproblem...
         | 
         | Definitely seems to be wooledge when you follow the linked
         | sources as well.
        
         | bananapub wrote:
         | this link is from a (at least in the past) very active person
         | on various IRC Linux and programming help channels who wrote
         | the wiki article at least fifteen years ago.
         | 
         | make that sixteen years ago:
         | http://mywiki.wooledge.org/XyProblem?action=info
        
       | rossdavidh wrote:
       | The most important lesson here, is that when you realize that the
       | person is asking for X when they wanted Y, make sure to somehow
       | say something critical, sarcastic, or dismissive. That way along
       | with a bit of knowledge that helps them for a moment, you are
       | also delivering a blow to their self-confidence, that will be a
       | detriment for the rest of the day (or, if they were already
       | lacking in confidence, perhaps many days). This may not work on
       | veteran co-workers, but it will work especially well with anyone
       | lacking experience or suffering from Imposter Syndrome.
        
       | warkanlock wrote:
       | It's only possible to guess beforehand what you want by wasting
       | considerable time. Look at modern society and how much time they
       | spend pursuing happiness, yet still, nobody knows what they want.
       | 
       | There's a well-known quote from a singer in Argentina that
       | claims, "No se lo que quiero pero lo quiero ya." (translated into
       | I don't know what I want, but I want it now)
        
       | readthenotes1 wrote:
       | This reminds me of the gauss Weinberg scenario where the salesman
       | wanted to buy a another fax machine cuz they burnt out the
       | previous one.
       | 
       | Or, in other words, we don't have any XY problems, what we have
       | are people not properly educated. This is a long-standing problem
       | and we do not have to make up a newfangled name for it
        
         | evandale wrote:
         | Exactly, the XY problem happens because of ignorance. You can't
         | ask X if you don't know X exists.
        
           | chowells wrote:
           | That's not what the XY problem is. The XY problem is asking
           | for Y because you think it's the only way to solve your
           | actual problem X. It's more of a lack of perspective than a
           | lack of education. You tunnel-vision on what you think the
           | solution will be, and when you go looking for help you you
           | ask only about Y, instead of providing the larger context of
           | X.
           | 
           | You can't have an XY problem unless you're trying to solve
           | problem X. It's not a lack of education, it's a lack of
           | perspective on what your real goal is.
        
       | benchaney wrote:
       | Something that I think is pretty important to keep in mind is
       | that when handling a possible XY problem, the key is
       | communication. It is good to ask clarifying questions and
       | questions about context when answering a question. It is good to
       | provide context and be open to the possibility that your question
       | is misguided when asking. Insisting that there isn't or isn't and
       | XY problem and being condescending or combative is bad when
       | asking/answering. I suspect part of the reason this link is so
       | controversial is because the "hero" of the stories screws this up
       | horribly.
        
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