[HN Gopher] 'That girl is going to get herself killed'
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       'That girl is going to get herself killed'
        
       Author : mooreds
       Score  : 215 points
       Date   : 2023-01-09 13:18 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | fallingfrog wrote:
       | My friend's brother in law was a river guide- 25 years old, arms
       | like tree trunks, wearing his life jacket and helmet, and with
       | years of experience. Drowned anyway while kayaking one summer
       | afternoon. It was a terrible loss, he was a wonderful person.
       | Rivers are dangerous.
        
       | giantg2 wrote:
       | Risk can be fun. I don't feel bad if someone gets hurt or killed
       | doing an activity that is inherently dangerous. They died doing
       | what they enjoyed and feeling alive. Don't feel bad for me if I
       | go that way either.
        
         | ip26 wrote:
         | In many incidents, people are completely misinformed on the
         | degree of risk, or woefully unprepared, which does strike me as
         | tragic. E.g. happy family who takes a pleasant hike a few miles
         | from the car, except they weren't thinking about the fact it
         | was August in Utah and they only brought 8oz of water.
         | 
         | It's also evident in her story about getting caught by the
         | river. She thought, _I'm not going to do anything crazy like
         | those climbers_ - and then did something that seemed innocent
         | but was actually far more dangerous.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | I think she had fair warning. The story states that the
           | ranger told her that statistically one of them would die that
           | summer. Sure they didn't enumerate all the possible dangers,
           | but who could? It's a wilderness or near wilderness setting
           | with innumerable risks and scenarios.
           | 
           | Simply saying it's so dangerous that one of you should die
           | this summer should be sufficient for someone to then do their
           | own research and take precautions given that the total risks
           | of the area can't be covered.
        
             | ip26 wrote:
             | She was young and assumed it was the mountain climbers who
             | were at risk. Is that her own fault? Yes. Would it still be
             | tragic if youthful hubris & ignorance took her life in a
             | senseless accident? Also yes.
        
         | antipotoad wrote:
         | I do feel bad when it seems needless. Lost a good friend to an
         | avalanche in an avalanche-prone area, in dangerous conditions
         | (weak layer in the snow from earlier in the season, big wet
         | dump on top, turns into a slab slide so easily). He could and
         | should have known better. He's at peace now, as are those of us
         | left behind. I just miss my friend.
        
         | Waterluvian wrote:
         | I think it's basically an "informed consent" thing. If people
         | are clearly informed and consciously aware of the risk, that's
         | completely up to them (eg. free solo climbers).
         | 
         | Where it gets tricky, in my opinion is:
         | 
         | - we aren't convinced the person is currently capable of making
         | rational decisions
         | 
         | - we aren't convinced the person is fully informed and equipped
         | with an intimate understanding of the risk they're undertaking
         | 
         | I think both of these cases are about wanting what's best for
         | the individual, but struggling with the balance of support vs.
         | control.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | I'm not sure how we could enumerate all the possible risks in
           | a wilderness or near wilderness setting.
        
             | TheCleric wrote:
             | You don't have to enumerate, just acknowledge. Some people
             | think trying to get a selfie with a buffalo is a good idea.
             | You don't have to tell them all the was it could end badly,
             | just that it likely will. Same for the person hiking
             | something like Zion. They should be prepared for any
             | relatively expected contingency, and if they don't know
             | what those are, they are unprepared to do so.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | The picture thing is such a small part. You'd have to
               | also do that for everything else - bear
               | defense/prevention, hot springs, numerous injuries, etc.
               | And you'll still have people who go "I was trying to take
               | a picture with an elk, not a buffalo!".
        
             | michaelt wrote:
             | No, but you can know that A people out of 100,000 have died
             | doing B making it less dangerous than C, more dangerous
             | than D and 100x as dangerous as E and so on.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | That might actually false confidence. For example, some
               | activities might be comprised of more skilled people
               | driving down the fatality rate. But another activity
               | might have fewer or more manageable risks for unskilled
               | people but have a higher fatality rate because more
               | unskilled people do them.
        
               | optimalsolver wrote:
               | Very relevant XKCD:
               | 
               | https://xkcd.com/795/
        
         | toss1 wrote:
         | Yes, risk can be fun.
         | 
         | But everyone I encountered in risk sports knew the difference
         | between "smart crazy" vs "dumb crazy".
         | 
         | It is the difference between using knowledge, skill,
         | technology, and mental focus to reduce risk to manageable
         | levels, vs "getting away with it".
         | 
         | Getting away with it, riding on PDL -- Pure Dumb Luck -- can
         | work for a long time. Until it doesn't, and you're dead. Like
         | those YouTube idiots in the article. Getting away with it is
         | just Russian Roulette with a different name and method.
         | 
         | Yet by using knowledge, skill, technology, and mental focus,
         | people can live entire careers in situations that would
         | reliably kill us in seconds, everythign from mountaineering,
         | deep underwater, aviation, space, racecar driving, and more.
         | Understand the risks, the skills to avoid them, the technology
         | to minimize them, and pay attention, and you'll likely be
         | rewarded with a lifetime of risky and rewarding adventures.
         | 
         | Read the books, take the lessons, get some good coaching and
         | apprenticing, and don't cheap out on good gear (as they say, if
         | you've got only a $10 head, then fine, get a $10 helmet,
         | otherwise...). Also, listen to your body and the surroundings.
         | If the conditions or your body is off, you don't have to TODAY
         | climb that route, do that dive, whatever; you can do it or
         | another one tomorrow.
         | 
         | It is no less joy to be wise about it!
        
           | antipotoad wrote:
           | Thank you for this. Calculating risks and knowing when to
           | turn back is what keeps my wingsuiting squirrel of a
           | childhood best friend alive to this day, after more than 2000
           | flights.
        
             | toss1 wrote:
             | Wow, good for him/her! That is something I haven't yet
             | gotten to do and would love to. May they live long and
             | enjoyably!
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | In my experience, some people operate on PDL because they
           | never learned about risk in general, or are incapable of
           | operating differently.
           | 
           | If you get hurt as a kid in a lower stakes fashion, you start
           | to learn that breaking the rules hurts. That opportunity for
           | lower stakes learning might be shrinking as we legislate away
           | some "risky" stuff.
           | 
           | Some people simply can't handle the "constraints" of being
           | responsible... like my wife. Her favorite quote is "I just
           | want to live life". No thoughts to "what if?" or being
           | prepared. If some stranger held the same beliefs and died, I
           | still wouldn't feel bad - that's the way they chose to live
           | thier life.
        
             | toss1 wrote:
             | >>operate on PDL because they never learned about risk in
             | general
             | 
             | Yup, humans are generally awful at understanding and
             | managing risk, and it is in no small part because there is
             | almost anti-training about risk outside of high-risk
             | activities, and even some of those are very low on guidance
             | and high on PDL.
             | 
             | >> I still wouldn't feel bad - that's the way they chose to
             | live thier life.
             | 
             | True, 'tho I feel like it is my better to not die soon-ish
             | doing what I love, but enjoy many decades of doing what I
             | love; doing it a little smarter and sometimes not quite at
             | Warp-9 every second, so I can do more Warp-9 seconds later.
             | 
             | I used to be an alpine ski racer, downhill my best event.
             | At one national championship, the lower half of the race
             | course was pretty flat and the race organizers decided to
             | spice up one of the drop-offs with a bigger jump, building
             | an illegal ramp before the drop-off (the FIS rules for
             | Downhill stated that features cannot be sloped up before
             | the racers leave the ground, level or down-slope only). I
             | decided I had the knowledge I needed without pushing it on
             | that feature in training so shed some speed every training
             | run. For the several days of training runs before the race,
             | every afternoon we were visiting friends in the hospital
             | with fairly serious injuries from that feature (one back
             | injury never raced again and never fully recovered). By
             | race day, they'd decided to make it legal and shaved off
             | the ramp. I have never felt that I missed out on anything
             | by being aggressive on the top and skipping the Warp-9
             | attitude there...
        
               | dsfyu404ed wrote:
               | >Yup, humans are generally awful at understanding and
               | managing risk,
               | 
               | Normal humans are normal at understanding and managing
               | risk because normal is defined by typical human behavior.
               | 
               | It is your expectations that deviate from the norm.
               | 
               | (the above applies to pretty much all "people suck" type
               | gripes)
        
               | toss1 wrote:
               | Interesting point; I'm not sure if we agree or not.
               | 
               | While I've been very fortunate to have been able to
               | pursue and get training in a variety of activities
               | considered high-risk, I'm amazed at how often it applies
               | to ordinary situations. Plus, an awful lot of ordinary
               | life is much higher-risk than people think.
               | 
               | We don't need extensive experience in sports or
               | motorsports to understand that the difference between
               | wearing a helmet or not in even a stupid little fall
               | where your head hits something hard is the difference
               | between "damn, I scratched my helmet" and your family
               | organizing your funeral. This applies to everyone, and
               | yet it is only this generation that is normalizing
               | wearing helmets on bicycles, etc., and people still
               | vociferously fight motorcycle helmet laws despite
               | mountains of statistics of higher severe injury and death
               | rates among non-helmeted motorcyclists vs. people who
               | wear gear.
               | 
               | While it is ordinary for most people to not only not
               | understand epidemiology and statistics, a significant
               | portion also willfully ignore the advice of those who do.
               | Just because this significant portion exists, should we
               | no longer expect people to either understand something or
               | at least respect those who do?
               | 
               | Most particularly, humans are obviously capable of
               | understanding the difference between getting away with
               | relying on Pure Dumb Luck vs applying knowledge, skill,
               | technology, and attention to managing risk.
               | 
               | Yet, just as obviously, MOST people haven't got a clue
               | and consistently engage in foolish risks, and get injured
               | or dead as a result, whether we're talking about YouTube
               | idiots, people going to COVID parties, or in massive
               | drinking binges, and nevermind understanding anything
               | about engineering risk building bridges, aircraft, or
               | whatever.
               | 
               | It seems an obvious line to draw at understanding risk
               | between using skill/knowledge/tech/attention vs using
               | Pure Dumb Luck that the latter suck at risk management,
               | and objectively most people are in the latter group.
               | Moreover, I'd say more people are in this latter group,
               | and the consequences are more serious, than in other
               | fields, such as saying "most people suck at proper
               | grammar".
               | 
               | What am I missing?
        
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       | gernb wrote:
       | I feel like the phrase "you only regret what you didn't do" is
       | survivorship bias. I'm pretty confident the majority of the
       | people that die in these situations were not happy to die.
        
         | TheCleric wrote:
         | Whoever says that must not have anxiety of any form. I regret
         | things I've done that didn't even endanger anyone's life.
        
       | wcarron wrote:
       | I would like to say that I'm generally a pretty experienced
       | outdoorsman. I camp, hike, backpack, snowshoe, boulder,sport
       | climb, used to snowboard extensively and do whitewater rafting.
       | I've summitted Mt. Washington, NH in late October, done plenty of
       | hikes from Death Valley and the Mojave to Sequoia NP, to the
       | bright angel trail, etc. Enough to say I've got some experience,
       | and done my fair share of risky stuff.
       | 
       | Most people really should not be in the wilderness. It sounds
       | elitist, but truthfully, the vast majority of people are unable
       | to handle themselves in nature. They can't navigate using a map &
       | compass, they get too close to wildlife and feed them, they don't
       | adequately store their food in animal-resistant containers, don't
       | understand how to treat water and deal with small medical issues,
       | don't understand FIRE RISKS, how to manage fires and simply how
       | to not have fires. They trample off trail and destroy flora. They
       | don't carry first-aid or basic survival kits. They carry
       | inadequate gear. I could go on and on. Most people do not belong
       | in nature.
       | 
       | There are so many facets of safety and competence that go into
       | safely exploring the wild, it's impossible to enumerate them
       | here. Stuff like climate, rockfall risk, relative isolation,
       | tempurature changes between day/night, wind, animal risks, etc.
       | Knowing where you're going, how long it'll take, having a backup
       | plan, leaving an itinerary with a trusted person, knowing the
       | profile & route of your travel, knowing what's likely to go
       | wrong, understanding the danger of drinking untreated water,
       | checking sources to see what potential issues have or may arise
       | commonly, being able to tell direction based on the sun & stars.
       | These are all basic skills of outdoorsmanship that most people do
       | not have.
       | 
       | Sadly, these are mostly types of common sense. The lack thereof
       | is the real issue, not ones experience level. Don't be a dumbass,
       | and you'll probably get out just fine aka: Play stupid games, win
       | stupid prizes. The other real issue is people not knowing when to
       | suck it up and retreat. Knowing your limits and when to call it
       | quits is more important even than being prepared. One can be a
       | dumbass or unprepared up to a certain point; but beyond that
       | point, there are very real consequences. Knowing when to back out
       | is, in some senses, even more important than being prepared.
        
       | sixstringtheory wrote:
       | Drowning is the leading cause of death in national parks and
       | recreation areas. It's scary how powerful water is.
        
         | have_faith wrote:
         | A great example of this just down the road from me is The
         | Strid: https://the-yorkshireman.com/the-strid/ (ignore the
         | hyperbole title)
         | 
         | Looks entirely harmless but is incredibly dangerous in some
         | parts. Apparently the river "turns on it's side" creating a
         | narrow but very deep stream with very fast underwater currents.
        
           | orobinson wrote:
           | There was a good discussion about this a few months ago
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32933603
        
         | dsfyu404ed wrote:
         | This is one of those lies right up there with "the box cutter
         | and the step stool are the most dangerous tools"
         | 
         | Frequency/exposure matters. A lot of people swim. Not a lot of
         | people choose the more extreme hike that's borderline on rock
         | climbing.
         | 
         | The danger of the typical or average swim is basically nil.
         | Worrying about it other than just knowing there's baseline
         | danger (that you can amplify by poor decisions if you choose
         | to, but same goes for everything in life).
        
           | sixstringtheory wrote:
           | It's more obvious how a cliff is dangerous versus a seemingly
           | calm body of water. Thus people are less wary about water,
           | and more people die that way.
           | 
           | It's not a lie, because the results are the results. And
           | spreading awareness of the outcomes is about reducing the
           | exposure that you mentioned, especially amongst the
           | unprepared/unskilled.
        
         | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
         | Force in numbers.
         | 
         | It's powerful because there's _a lot_ of it.
         | 
         | Also it's deceptive as hell. See all the stories here about
         | strange pockets of rivers that almost killed people, or the
         | author's own note about the 252 degree hot pockets in
         | Yellowstone Lake with an average survival time of 20 minutes.
         | 
         | I think when people see water they're tempted to think it's a
         | nice pool or a lazy river to enjoy - when really it's most
         | likely a death trap.
        
         | FlyingSnake wrote:
         | Most people don't understand how woefully unprepared modern
         | humans are for nature.
         | 
         | I've lost friends to drowning in calm looking waters where they
         | got trapped in hidden potholes in river bed.
         | 
         | Water bodies are no joke.
        
       | User23 wrote:
       | Winter Storm Elliott was a good reminder that even in urban areas
       | sometimes nature is going to make a solid effort to kill you.
       | Nature deserves our respect, and everyone should do some basic
       | preparation for the potential hazards where they live.
       | 
       | How many people have road flares in their car? Or blankets? Or
       | some sort of emergency heat source? These things don't take up
       | much space, are cheap to acquire, and easy to maintain. They can
       | save your life or someone else's.
        
         | jessaustin wrote:
         | _Or some sort of emergency heat source?_
         | 
         | Any automobile with adequate fuel is a fine source of heat. As
         | long as you're not parked inside.
        
           | User23 wrote:
           | The engine is your primary heat source. Your primary heat
           | source failing is the emergency. Thus the need for an
           | emergency source as a backup. Or at least a bivy sack or some
           | other way to not freeze.
        
       | dang wrote:
       | Related ongoing thread:
       | 
       |  _An analysis of deaths in U.S. national parks_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34316529 - Jan 2023 (5
       | comments)
        
       | nadakandil wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | oldstrangers wrote:
       | It's impressive how quickly things can go south. Camping in
       | Gunnison National Park a year or two ago when a severe snowstorm
       | blew in that we had zero warning of. Went from sunny and fairly
       | warm to a foot of snow and 10 degree weather over night. We did
       | not have the equipment nor the experience for that kind of cold,
       | and while the first night was ok, it was the next night when the
       | ground froze beneath us that we realized how dangerous this
       | really was. I woke up that night with only what I can assume was
       | mild hypothermia. Couldn't get warm, heart beating like crazy and
       | I kept throwing up.
       | 
       | Ended up having to sleep in the car, and even that really wasn't
       | enough to stay warm without having to turn the car on every few
       | hours. Roads were frozen and impassable so if anything had really
       | gone south, we'd have been screwed.
       | 
       | Since then we obviously educated ourselves a lot and improved our
       | winter camping gear and now we actively seek out cold weather
       | camping.
       | 
       | You can see some photos here: https://roambyland.com/colorado-
       | winters-sawpit-telluride-gun...
        
       | angst_ridden wrote:
       | A lot of folks don't appreciate how quickly normal can turn into
       | dangerous in the wilderness. Because most of the time, it's all
       | so tame. With our specialized gear and tech, there's not much
       | threat ... most of the time.
       | 
       | I've been on mountain peaks on nice summer days when storms
       | appear as out of nowhere (not the typical afternoon rains), and
       | there's lightning, high winds, and 50oF temperature swings. In
       | that kind of situation, things can turn very dangerous very
       | quickly. Stuff that you take for granted suddenly isn't true any
       | more: some rock which is rough and gives great traction suddenly
       | gets slippery, winds that come from a prevailing direction
       | suddenly come from somewhere else and the formerly sheltered
       | areas aren't any more, clouds and fogs may come in and visibility
       | may drop to zero.
       | 
       | A common trap is slot canyons in the southwest desert in the
       | summer, when it's hot and dry, and hikers don't know about the
       | rains in the distant mountains.
       | 
       | It's easy to turn your back on the ocean, which isn't forgiving.
       | Large waves can happen when least expected.
        
         | switchbak wrote:
         | "It's easy to turn your back on the ocean" - this almost
         | deserves its own category. Other/shipping traffic, waves,
         | weather, lightning (especially risky on a sailboat!),
         | hypothermia ... there's just very little margin for error in
         | some situations, and those concerns can so easily compound.
         | 
         | I've done some crazy things in my life, but it's always been
         | the ocean that puts me truly close to death. If there's
         | anything positive about those experiences, it's the lesson that
         | sometimes the difference between life and death is keeping your
         | head and not panicking.
        
         | bentcorner wrote:
         | > _A common trap is slot canyons in the southwest desert in the
         | summer, when it 's hot and dry, and hikers don't know about the
         | rains in the distant mountains._
         | 
         | Good example of a flash food in a canyon, and subsequent
         | rescue: https://youtu.be/FJOpZF_4b-w
        
         | JeremyNT wrote:
         | > _I 've been on mountain peaks on nice summer days when storms
         | appear as out of nowhere (not the typical afternoon rains), and
         | there's lightning, high winds, and 50oF temperature swings. In
         | that kind of situation, things can turn very dangerous very
         | quickly. Stuff that you take for granted suddenly isn't true
         | any more: some rock which is rough and gives great traction
         | suddenly gets slippery, winds that come from a prevailing
         | direction suddenly come from somewhere else and the formerly
         | sheltered areas aren't any more, clouds and fogs may come in
         | and visibility may drop to zero._
         | 
         | Even hiking out here in the Appalachians the swiftness of the
         | arrival of thunderstorms has caught me offguard a few times.
         | You can go from sun to hail, blistering wind gusts, and
         | lightning in short succession, and if you're on a high bald you
         | really may have nowhere to hide.
         | 
         | As the essay above hints at, this potential danger is part of
         | why we seek these places out. When you follow the happy path,
         | you get exercise, views, solitude... all rewarding of course.
         | But being apart from the safety net of civilization can put you
         | on a knife's edge. You can find yourself off that happy path
         | surprisingly quickly - and for the adrenaline junkies among us,
         | it's part of why we're out there.
         | 
         | (Maybe ops engineers, or old school sysadmins, can somewhat
         | relate...)
        
         | xeromal wrote:
         | Just read this article and I love how they called the Grand
         | Canyon, the inverted mountain.
         | 
         | I hiked down into it a few years ago. I feel like I'm a well-
         | prepared person. On less than a day mountain hikes, I always
         | bring about 1500 calories worth of bars, 2.5L of water, a
         | flashlight, multitool, and something warm if it's cold. It adds
         | a bit of weight but I feel at ease with some backup tools. I
         | made my way down to the bottom (easy) when I realized I was
         | already out of water. WTF I said and I opened my camelback and
         | behold, there was a hole. When I had sat down for a short
         | breather, a really sharp rock had stabbed right through my bag
         | and water bladder with ease and the the bag completely drained.
         | 
         | I pushed my way back up but it was very hot and I think I hit
         | the first or 1.5 stage of heat exhaustion. Like the article, my
         | brain felt like mush and I felt a massive struggle to move.
         | Luckily, there's a spring or some kind of water source midway
         | or so and I just drank a solid amount of water before moving on
         | to the next. I ended up making it ok but it definitely was
         | uncomfortable thinking you were going to dehydrate as you went
         | up.
         | 
         | Random story but I just wanted to share that you can prepare
         | all you want and sometimes life still tries to kick you in the
         | butt. These days I carry a small garmin device that can call a
         | helicopter anywhere in hte world. It costs a bit but it's worth
         | the peace of mind that if I manage to injure myself to the
         | point of being unable to move, I can call for help.
        
       | cratermoon wrote:
       | Moose do not fuck around. I was solo camping just off Death
       | Canyon trail in Grand Tetons in September of 1998 and a bull
       | moose appeared a bit up the hill from me and started bellowing
       | and shaking his horns at me. I really had no where to go, so I
       | pressed myself up against a small tree, no really knowing what
       | was going on or what to do. Just then two female moose charged
       | through my camp down towards the stream a couple of hundred yards
       | away. After that the bull turned and wandered around me downhill.
       | 
       | Turns out I had set up my tent on a barely-visible trail that
       | they were probably accustomed to using to get up and down the
       | slope. I don't know if I was really in any danger, but I gained
       | more respect for moose after that.
       | 
       | Ironically, I'd spent the entire hike that day worrying about a
       | bear encounter, but the only time I saw a bear was from long
       | distance, across the valley, a mother and her cub.
        
       | justsocrateasin wrote:
       | I recently went on a 60 mile gravel bike trip with a rather large
       | group (50 riders) in the PNW. It was ~May of last year, and a
       | freak storm came out of nowhere over the mountain, while we were
       | in a large national forest. We were all wearing shorts (weather
       | was in the 60s), and woefully unprepared as the temperature
       | dropped into the 20s. I had thin gloves with holes in them. The
       | storm dumped sleet on us and we had to descend a mountain in the
       | snow for an hour in those temperatures, soaking wet. After 30
       | minutes I couldn't feel anything past my forearm, or below my
       | ankle, and we had to bike about 2 hours in those conditions. The
       | group got split up, and we all got hypothermia. it's a miracle no
       | one died. I somehow got a flat tire and my sealant didn't fix it.
       | Apparently I turned to my friend and asked if my rear tire was
       | low and he lied and said it looked fine, knowing that if I
       | stopped to try and fix it, I wouldn't have the coordination to
       | actually repair the tire with how cold my hands were, and I would
       | have really struggled to get going.
       | 
       | Entire thing could have been avoided if we had gone into it with
       | the assumption of "When you enter the mountains, assume that any
       | cold/wet weather is possible". Bring hand warmers and/or safety
       | blankets, or even just a big roll of aluminum foil. Someone in
       | the group had brought an amazon package specifically for that
       | reason, and they shoved it in their jersey to block wind and keep
       | their core body temperature up. They were fine, the rest of us
       | were not.
       | 
       | EDIT: another storm I'm just remembering - not mine, but my dads.
       | When he was 18 he was hiking on the side of a ravine in
       | California with two friends. They were supposedly trying to find
       | some caves in the side of the hilltop, and my dad grabbed some
       | loose rock and fell - over 100ft straight down, another 200
       | tumbling at an angle. He spent 3 months in the hospital, mending
       | a fractured skull and jaw, 2 broken vertebrae, and a whole lot of
       | other injuries.
        
         | starwind wrote:
         | What time did the storm roll in?
        
         | switchbak wrote:
         | I got caught near the top of Mt. Fromme - literally a 40 min
         | climb from city streets in North Vancouver. A flash storm hit
         | us near the top, hit us with rain + hail in the middle of
         | summer, and from +24 degrees C down to 3. We went from fine to
         | hypothermic VERY quickly. Bombed down to the bottom of the hill
         | through gnarly trails, freezing my hands and feet off all the
         | way down. Since we were in t-shirts it was getting pretty
         | serious. At the bottom of the hill the weather pattern
         | disappeared and it was warm and sunny again.
         | 
         | Sometimes you can even have life risking events in the front
         | country, on a gorgeous day with a great forecast. Now I take
         | small emergency jacket all the time* regardless of anything.
         | Another good reason is if you sustain an injury, you can get
         | tremendously cold even in decent weather. Heating packs are a
         | good idea too.
         | 
         | * - well until I get negligent again, and get caught out in
         | another hailstorm.
        
       | josefresco wrote:
       | Rivers are no joke. Took my kids on a chill, grandparent friendly
       | "lazy" river at a campground years ago. One of them flipped their
       | tube on the only hazard half-way down and while we were safe she
       | was in a panic. Fast forward to the same river years later, me
       | and the (older) kids are set to exit the river on a fast shallow
       | rocky area and all of us were almost swept off our feet and (most
       | likely) badly injured. I had to grip my daughters arm so tight I
       | was worried she'd be bruised.
        
       | pge wrote:
       | There are two takeaways from this story:
       | 
       | (1) always know the risks you are getting into - while she was an
       | experienced outdoorsperson, the author clearly had little to know
       | awareness of the dangers of moving water.
       | 
       | (2) statistically, things happen outside your control - and our
       | natural response is to pretend it can't happen to us because we
       | follow the rules, but that's not true. Sometimes lightning hits
       | you, or the drunk driver slams into your car, or your foot slips
       | in a place where there's no margin for error.
       | 
       | To me, (2) is the more important point, and can be lost in the
       | harrowing story that she uses to make point (1). You can do
       | everything right, whether that is in the outdoors or driving on a
       | highway, and still become a fatality. When we pretend it couldn't
       | happen to us, because we are better prepared, respect the
       | environment, etc, we are kidding ourselves.
       | 
       | The outdoors may bring this into starker focus because the margin
       | for error is lower, but the point applies throughout our lives.
        
       | alistairSH wrote:
       | It doesn't take much. I live near the Potomac, just upstream of
       | Great Falls and DC. People drown on the flat stretches every
       | summer. Usually a family picnic, somebody goes for a quick dip,
       | and never returns. It looks calm. It isn't.
       | 
       | And just downstream, world class kayakers paddle Great Falls for
       | fun and practice.
       | 
       | It's wild (and sad) to think about the two groups of river users.
        
       | RcouF1uZ4gsC wrote:
       | Because of modern civilization we have a rose-tinted view of
       | nature and take it for granted.
       | 
       | Raw nature is scary and easily able to kill you.
        
         | h2odragon wrote:
         | "Raw nature" is around you all the time.
         | 
         | Safety is an illusion, you never know when there's a meteor
         | with your name on it.
        
           | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
           | Sure, but if you live in New York City, you don't really need
           | to worry about getting eaten by a bear on your walk to the
           | coffee shop.
        
         | rob74 wrote:
         | ...and the more we try to legislate away any possible source of
         | danger we might encounter in our day-to-day lives, the less
         | prepared we will be for places where nature is left to fend for
         | itself.
        
           | mihaic wrote:
           | I don't think it's a problem of legislation as much as
           | forgetting to repeat the message that danger is everywhere.
           | 
           | A car can easily crush you, electricity can stop your heart.
           | Don't be paralyzed in fear, but still think a bit of the
           | worst plausible case.
        
           | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
           | That doesn't make a lot of sense to me as an argument. "We
           | need to keep life more dangerous in general so that when we
           | hit special cases it'll be easier to deal with" strikes me as
           | generally doing more harm than good because our day to day is
           | going to cause more harm and those special cases are always
           | going to be special.
           | 
           | Unless you have specific examples that you're thinking of
           | here.
        
             | michaelt wrote:
             | _Hypothetically_ I 'd rather my kid learn her limits by
             | breaking her arm in the playground at age 10, than doing so
             | in the wilderness at age 20.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | What limits are those? The "I shouldn't have fallen off
               | the monkey bars" lesson isn't applicable to the
               | wilderness, is it? What's the carry over? "Broken arms
               | hurt"? I don't think people are unaware of that. Also,
               | what will break your arm at 10 is different than what
               | will break your arm at 20.
        
               | scruple wrote:
               | Doing risky things in an environment where you can get
               | help vs. an environment where _you 're on your own_.
               | There are good lessons to learn by taking physical risks
               | in more controlled environments. Like learning not to
               | take dangerous and/or unnecessary risks when you're on
               | your own because you know you might get yourself into a
               | situation where you depend on help.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | Given this is a story about a woman who repeatedly nearly
               | dies it doesn't seem like it helps.
        
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               | scruple wrote:
               | Maybe she should've spent more time at the playground as
               | a child.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | I see it as more of a vicious cycle.
             | 
             | The "don't put this plastic bag on your mouth" warnings
             | come about because the public supports those laws/cases.
             | Those people are at the point were they rely on other to be
             | responsible for them rather than using common sense. Those
             | laws/cases create an environment where people come to
             | expect warnings for everything rather than rely on their
             | own common sense.
             | 
             | I do think you're right that day to life would cause more
             | harm without any warnings, at least for certain people. The
             | people who are responsible for themselves are generally
             | going to be ok in either situation. The people who are
             | happy-go-lucky and rely on others to think for them and
             | arlt high risk in either situation, sometimes regardless of
             | if warnings are present.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | Are those warning labels there because they've been
               | proven to be effective, or because someone sued and
               | that's their way to mitigate that? I have a problem
               | visualizing the venn diagram of people who are so stupid
               | they'll put the bag in their mouth but also people who
               | will listen to the words written on said bag.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | I mean, all the time people slip and fall on ice and then
               | sue. You can see it, you walk on it, but you don't assume
               | the risk and force the property owner to pay. I assume
               | that most warnings are just there because someone got
               | sued or doesn't want to get sued.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | People do, it's true. The question I have is would a
               | "Danger! Slippy ice!" actually stop people from hurting
               | themselves? Because I don't think it would, it would just
               | make the sueing harder.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | For some yes, for some no. My point is that having that
               | warning won't help the reckless. It's not needed for the
               | intelligent. It might help those people who have come to
               | expect warnings for things. However, it hurts them
               | overall because it's a common risk and other areas won't
               | have those warnings possible causing then to act without
               | caution and getting hurt there. So the warnings might
               | help in a specific Cass for a very small group of people,
               | but will overall be a negative if the person encounters
               | that risky situation when it doesn't have a warning. I
               | hate to say it since it tends to have political tones,
               | but sheeple - people who just do whatever they're told
               | and don't think for themselves - will increase as we
               | remove the need to think to survive. Supposedly wild
               | animals are more intelligent than similar domestic
               | animals.
        
               | themaninthedark wrote:
               | A mix of both I think.
               | 
               | The plastic bag warning is aimed at parents of children
               | mostly. Babies, love crinkly things. I know that my son
               | when he started crawling would seek out the on floor
               | garbage cans to play with the bags we used as a liner.
               | 
               | If you have someone who is not thinking about the
               | ramifications, they would let the kid play with the bag,
               | kid would end up putting it over their head(yay, surround
               | sound) and some percentage would die.
               | 
               | There are similar warnings on buckets, about drowning.
               | Kids that age love water, if they manage to get
               | themselves head first in a 5 gallon bucket it only takes
               | an inch of liquid of so for them to drown. Most people
               | wouldn't think it takes so little.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | In theory, children that young shouldn't be unattended
               | anyways. The onus shouldn't be on the company for not
               | printing a warning, but on the parent for a lack of
               | supervision (aka negligence).
        
               | jessaustin wrote:
               | Printing the warning might be cheaper than dealing with
               | lawsuits? Courts don't accept "ha, Darwin!" as an
               | argument.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | And people still sue even if a warning was present. And
               | nobody is saying "ha, darwin". They're saying stuff like
               | "why weren't you supervising your 1 year old" or "how
               | could we anticipate that someone would get [object] stuck
               | in their butt".
        
             | cdot2 wrote:
             | I don't think he was making that argument. Someone who
             | climbs mountains every week is less likely to be hurt in a
             | given mountain climb than someone who doesn't but that
             | doesn't mean that the best idea for safety is to climb
             | mountains often.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | I hope they clarify, because "legislate away any possible
               | source of danger" doesn't seem related to "frequency of
               | mountain climbing" to me.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | > _Someone who climbs mountains every week is less likely
               | to be hurt in a given mountain climb_
               | 
               | On any given mountain climb, maybe. But overall? I don't
               | know. A coworker of mine who liked mountaineering made
               | lots of acquaintances in that lifestyle, and he told me
               | they are often missing limbs and show lots of ugly scars,
               | and have lots of near-death anecdotes about themselves.
               | I'm talking about people who do this either _for a
               | living_ or as an all-consuming lifestyle, not casuals.
               | 
               | He told me of a girl, a pro mountaineer, who was missing
               | several fingers and had plenty of teeth knocked out. Her
               | skin looked terrible, too. And he told me this is common.
               | Her boyfriend was also a mountaineer, because that's yet
               | another common fact: mountaineers band together, it's
               | difficult to be in a couple with one if you don't find
               | that lifestyle fascinating.
               | 
               | Another friend who does parachuting (from airplanes) told
               | me he knows lots of people who do BASE jumping (or even
               | worse, those senseless "wingsuit" jumpers) and they tend
               | to die young. They do _a lot_ of it, always chasing a
               | more extreme high, until one day they simply don 't make
               | it.
        
           | alocasia-1 wrote:
           | The author made decisions to put herself in dangerous
           | situations. What does that have to do with seatbelt laws or
           | food inspection guidelines?
        
             | rob74 wrote:
             | Ok, maybe my statement was too generic... it's more about
             | the environment in cities that looks suspiciously similar
             | to nature but isn't - trees that are tested regularly for
             | stability, paths that are kept free of roots or stones you
             | might trip over, guardrails and warning signs everywhere
             | there might be the slightest possibility of danger etc.
        
             | kubb wrote:
             | Depends on your worldview. If you believe that all
             | regulation is inherently bad, you might be searching for
             | reasoning chains that lead to the conclusion that she died
             | because of it.
        
               | alocasia-1 wrote:
               | Feels like a serious reach, and trying to shoehorn
               | unrelated issues into a discussion they don't belong. The
               | author goes over her repeated brushes with death - and
               | the warnings she received prior - and they don't seem to
               | deter her from putting herself in more situations. Making
               | everyone else unsafe isn't the solution. (If a "solution"
               | is even needed. I think she's just describing her own
               | instance of human behavior.)
        
               | kubb wrote:
               | Agreed, it's just something we humans do: we search for
               | information that confirms our worldview.
        
       | iso1631 wrote:
       | Heat Stroke was something that really took me from my last
       | hostile environment course. Sure bombs bangs and bullets are the
       | things most think about in those types of hostile climbs, but I
       | expect if I go to Ukraine for a few weeks I might have a bomb
       | land on my head. The Matthew Power case it what really stuck with
       | me.
       | 
       | He was a journalist who lived in New York, it was winter and well
       | below freezing for weeks and he'd acclimatized, but he agreed to
       | go for a walk with a friend in Uganda. So he flew there
       | overnight, landed, went out drinking and catching up, then headed
       | off on a walk along the Nile in 100F+ weather. They were fairly
       | well prepared, had emergency satelite communication etc. First
       | few days were fine, but then they headed off the road. Only a few
       | miles, then over the course of an hour he went from needing a
       | short break, to being delirious, struggled to drink, then finally
       | passed out. The rescue helicopter they had the coverage for
       | didn't get there in time - literally two hours from "can we pause
       | a minute" to "he's dead".
       | 
       | Power was an experienced traveller, on a decent expedition, with
       | good support. Not a flip-flop wearing tourist you find up half
       | way up a mountain with no map and a twisted ankle. A walk for a
       | few miles from a road in 30C sun is the kind of thing you may
       | think will end up with some sunburn if you forget to wear a hat,
       | not something that will kill a 39 year old before a helicopter
       | can reach him.
        
       | sweetjuly wrote:
       | It's tragic but it seems like anyone who regularly does any
       | wilderness activities/adventure sports knows one or many people
       | who have died doing it. I know some that have drowned, others
       | that fallen due to badly placed cams. It's awful but, as the
       | article says, if you know enough people it'd be bizarre if you
       | _didn 't_ know a few...
        
       | bryanrasmussen wrote:
       | reading it I got the feeling the thing that was going to kill her
       | was the constant alcohol abuse.
        
       | kkielhofner wrote:
       | I think it's important to note poor planning, unawareness, and
       | frankly stupid, naive, or ignorant decisions can make nearly any
       | environment or activity dangerous.
       | 
       | As an example I once got in a car with people I'd just met. After
       | driving a few blocks one of them held a gun to my head. The
       | driver then drove us out to the middle of nowhere... I was
       | convinced I was going to be killed. I couldn't say how long the
       | drive was but it felt like hours. They "just" robbed me and left
       | me there. Frankly, dealing with the police after this was just as
       | traumatizing as the initial experience - after I described the
       | perpetrators (yes, including race) and the overall situation they
       | assumed it was a drug deal gone bad (even though I've never had
       | anything to do with drugs) and more or less dismissed me. They
       | actually took it a step further and started mocking me.
       | Essentially, they heard the race of the suspects and assumed I
       | was initially in that situation because of something criminal
       | (I'm white). It was awful.
       | 
       | I was pretty traumatized for a while but in the years since I'm
       | much more aware of my surroundings at all times. I certainly
       | don't trust people I don't know well and put myself in situations
       | even remotely similar to that. I definitely have some PTSD but it
       | doesn't impact my life much on a daily basis. In telling this
       | story people frequently respond with "that was stupid". I can't
       | say I disagree but it's also been eye-opening to observe a lot of
       | casual and overt racism in response.
       | 
       | Point being, I essentially "victim blame" myself to some extent.
       | I don't know if that's psychologically good or bad but what I do
       | know is factoring everything in the chances of anything like that
       | ever happening to me again are much lower. I'm not an outdoors
       | type person but I imagine that (as the article describes) similar
       | factors can easily and rapidly assemble to lead to more-or-less
       | near death experiences.
        
         | nsxwolf wrote:
         | I've always found the way the term "victim blaming" is usually
         | used to be unhelpful. For example when you recommend someone
         | lock their doors, someone might object and accuse you of victim
         | blaming - because you have the right to leave your door
         | unlocked and not be victimized. You may have that right in a
         | perfectly just world, but in this world people don't respect
         | that right, so it's good to protect yourself.
        
         | shortstuffsushi wrote:
         | If you don't mind sharing, what was the reason to get in the
         | car with them to drive? Were you planning to head out to an
         | event like a hike or something that you had arranged online,
         | but hadn't known the people ahead of?
        
           | kkielhofner wrote:
           | I wish it was anywhere near that "respectable".
           | 
           | I was visiting a college town for an away football game. This
           | was the night before the game and some of my friends and I
           | went out. I met these two guys at a college bar my friends
           | and I went to. My friends were going back to our hotel but
           | these guys (who we had all met maybe an hour before) had
           | invited me to a party. It was still fairly early and I
           | thought "Neat, this will be a different and interesting
           | experience". Unfortunately it was - much more than I had
           | imagined.
           | 
           | It's likely that if the circumstances were closer to what
           | you've described the police would have taken me more
           | seriously.
           | 
           | I should also probably add that this was in a period of my
           | life where I was unknowingly experiencing untreated bipolar
           | disorder. If you're not familiar with manic or even hypomanic
           | episodes your risk assessment can be very warped. That was a
           | large component of this situation.
        
             | shortstuffsushi wrote:
             | I guess in the scheme of "things that happen in a college
             | town," being invited to another party from a public bar
             | with people you just met there doesn't seem like a
             | particularly unusual thing to take part in either. It being
             | a college town, and stemming from a bar, does seem like it
             | may have aided in the inappropriate response from the
             | police, unfortunately. I wonder how many college kids end
             | up in a similar situation, where in most cases the police
             | likely won't even be able to do anything to follow up. A
             | friend's brother had a similar experience, having been
             | approached at a gas station for help and ultimately being
             | beaten up and mugged. Aside from also being treated like a
             | drug addict (which he was, to be fair), he was told they
             | they couldn't/wouldn't do anything about it anyway since
             | they had no way of knowing the people involved.
        
               | kkielhofner wrote:
               | That's the other side - when describing the situation to
               | the incredulous officers my take was (essentially) "The
               | beginning of this scenario likely happens multiple times
               | every single day in this city and it's not about drugs or
               | other criminality". It's a fairly standard situation by
               | college town standards, not some fantastical story or
               | some other scenario that screams "a bad guy ripped off
               | another bad guy". At one point they even said "we just
               | don't understand why you would get in a car with people
               | you just met". It was clear to me the subtext there was
               | "why would you trust /those/ people". Again, sadly, it
               | was clear race was a factor.
               | 
               | In my situation the bar was a corporate national chain in
               | the downtown center with locations in most college towns
               | (at least in my experience). They likely had video
               | surveillance from every angle. The perpetrators may have
               | even paid by credit card, been already known to others
               | there, possibly even the staff, etc. Compared to the
               | situation your friend's brother experienced it seems like
               | there's a decent chance my assailants could be caught. As
               | I said I'd been talking to them for an hour, left with
               | them, etc. Video wouldn't be tough to get.
               | 
               | I often wonder if it was a one-off crime of opportunity
               | or some MO/pattern of theirs. No way to know I suppose
               | but given my case they certainly wouldn't have any reason
               | not to do it again.
        
         | P_I_Staker wrote:
         | Victim blaming does NOT just happen with SA cases. I know
         | someone that was mugged in a small town. When he reported to
         | the police it was recommended for him not to file an official
         | report, because they would be forced to arrest him for underage
         | drinking.
         | 
         | P.S. Arrest doesn't mean taken away in cuffs, so it was
         | probably gonna be a ticket. Still, this is utterly ridiculous.
        
           | kkielhofner wrote:
           | It's interesting you mention SA cases. I'm not proud to admit
           | it but prior to this experience I was firmly in the camp of
           | "Of COURSE you report it, go to the police, testify, etc". In
           | my incident even though the responding officers were
           | terrible, racist, victim blaming, etc they filed what I'm
           | sure was a mandatory report. I received a call (voicemail)
           | from a detective about a week later. I was still having
           | nightmares and pretty messed up at that point. I never even
           | called them back - I just wanted to move on and after the
           | initial experience with the police I didn't even want to
           | think about how much worse it could get. I felt (and still
           | feel) very violated and a bit traumatized by the experience.
           | I can't even remotely imagine how much more violated I would
           | feel if it was a SA.
           | 
           | The most positive outcome of this experience was the 180 in
           | my understanding of these types of violations and the empathy
           | I acquired. Again, I'm not proud to admit it and I'm still a
           | little bothered it took something happening to me personally
           | to better understand this.
           | 
           | While we're on the topic of empathy I also better understand
           | poverty. The perpetrators of this incident risked kidnapping,
           | armed robbery, who knows what charges with what I'm sure
           | would be considerable amounts of jail time - for the $100 I
           | had in my pocket and $100 (or whatever) they got from selling
           | my locked iPhone to part out (after being marked stolen with
           | iCloud it pinged once several months later - from China
           | IIRC). I couldn't imagine risking going to jail for $100,000
           | let alone $100. Poverty and life circumstances create a level
           | of desperation I can't fathom.
        
       | Xeoncross wrote:
       | Every year I watch as more entitled people cause the state and
       | national parks to restrict access.
       | 
       | Someone doing something dumb, going where they shouldn't, taking
       | something, saying something, posting something.
       | 
       | The majority loose out because of the selfishness of the few.
        
       | 4ggr0 wrote:
       | First I thought that I'm lucky, because I'm not a big outdoor
       | kind of guy. Then I remembered that I've had like 4 close calls
       | while motorbiking, so to each their own risk I guess.
       | 
       | (Let's not forget how many people die per year just by falling
       | from a step-ladder etc.)
        
         | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
         | Something that I was thinking of last week as I stood on the
         | top rung of a wet, icy ladder in a snowstorm, clearing wet snow
         | off a satellite dish!
        
       | xcskier56 wrote:
       | One of my favorite quotes is "Good judgement comes from
       | experience; experience comes from bad judgement". I really like
       | this article for showing the other side to viewing other people's
       | mistakes... almost everyone very experienced in the wild have
       | made some bad judgement calls before, and through luck or skill
       | have managed to not get themselves killed. Everyone was a
       | beginner at some point, and while we can take solace in knowing
       | we will hopefully not make the mistake that whomever we're
       | reading about did, remember that we've all done stupid things and
       | gotten lucky.
       | 
       | I follow a few of the prominent ski mountaineers, and one of my
       | favorite times is when they talk about a decision they made on a
       | trip that was a bad one, but didn't end up badly. "Another notch
       | on the belt of 'I got away with something'". I think this
       | acknowledgement of making a mistake and getting away with it is
       | very important b/c that is how you identify the lessons you need
       | to learn.
        
       | nebulous1 wrote:
       | I enjoyed reading this but I have a mixed opinion on it at the
       | end.
       | 
       | The rules and reasoning seem weak. Rule #1 (be prepared) seems
       | fine. Rule #2 (be respectful) Seems to blur the distinction
       | between respecting the danger and respecting your impact on the
       | environment. You should of course do the latter, but not because
       | you will be less likely to get hurt. Rule #3 (trust the
       | statistics) I don't know what they're trying to get at, if there
       | were fewer than 8 deaths per 10 million visits that would imply
       | that it's a safe activity. They completely incorrectly say that
       | the majority of deaths are men aged 55-64, when in fact that's
       | just the largest group (we assume, the original report treats
       | gender and age separately, but only 19% of deaths are in that age
       | group). Even the source page mislabels the graph for this one.
       | 
       | Overall I just would have rewritten or cut out the end. It was
       | what I thought was an interesting discussion on human actions but
       | then it turned into something prescriptive with weak reasoning.
       | 
       | The statistics the article draws from:
       | https://www.psbr.law/nevada/deaths-in-us-national-parks/
        
         | idontpost wrote:
         | [dead]
        
         | aendruk wrote:
         | You've misread that part; the rules are offered tongue-in-cheek
         | as a critique of false reassurance.
        
           | nebulous1 wrote:
           | Looking at the end again this seems very likely. In fact I'm
           | not even sure I read the "repeat these" paragraph the first
           | time, as that one hammers home your point.
        
       | tasuki wrote:
       | How does:
       | 
       | > Either way, statistically, one of you will die this summer.
       | 
       | go together with:
       | 
       | > But you can take comfort in knowing that there were less than
       | eight deaths per 10 million visits to national park sites between
       | 2007 and 2018.
       | 
       | ?
       | 
       | I'm confused. How many people were there in that room when the
       | ranger said statistically one of them would die? Were they for
       | some reason more statistically likely to die than the other
       | visitors? What was the reason?
        
         | advisedwang wrote:
         | They were employees of the park, not random visitors.
        
           | tasuki wrote:
           | How many do you think there were? And what do you think is a
           | chance for a single park employee to die during a given
           | summer? To me, this still doesn't make any sense whatsoever.
        
       | itsmemattchung wrote:
       | Some tips on where to begin to learn more about nature and
       | survive in the wild? Maybe an REI class?
       | 
       | I'm _a little_ embarrassed to admit that should I ever venture
       | out into the wilderness, I would definitely not survive. I lack
       | basic survival skills and nature would eat me alive.
       | 
       | That being said, I always admired folks who could go camping for
       | days (or weeks), who could cook up a warm (and edible) meal over
       | a campfire.
        
         | user3939382 wrote:
         | The first thing to learn is to have respect for the harsh
         | reality of the environment. You'd be surprised how many people
         | get killed because they don't (looking at you Christopher
         | McCandless). So your awareness itself is already a good start.
        
           | the_af wrote:
           | I don't understand why McCandless was idolized (I do know
           | there was backlash from actual knowledgeable people, like
           | park rangers). He purposefully put himself in harm's way and
           | didn't have any relevant skills that would have helped him
           | survive. So what's admirable or romantic about the way he
           | died?
        
             | blackbrokkoli wrote:
             | Well he most likely died due to poisoning himself with a
             | misidentified plant that was only ever documented as
             | dangerous in an ancient encyclopedia over 100 years old.
             | Nothing romantic about it, but nothing screaming "no
             | relevant skills", either.
             | 
             | Don't think this is the part people romanticize, I think
             | it's the whole "I think careers are a 20th century
             | invention and I don't think I want one" and the "Instead, I
             | will walk into the wild" that does it for people.
        
               | chc wrote:
               | The only reason he was even still there when he died is
               | because he didn't have a map of the area and thus
               | couldn't figure out how to cross the river to get back.
        
               | blackbrokkoli wrote:
               | Certainly a way to look at it!
               | 
               | Zooming out a bit, you could also say he died because he
               | churned the philosophy of using the aids and crutches of
               | civilization to maximize his hedonistic well-being at all
               | cost - which is maybe a more interesting and ambiguous
               | point to discuss than whether maps are useful ;)
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | I think the plant itself was a detail. He was likely to
               | hurt himself one way or the other. He was cut off from
               | civilization or help, he didn't know about relatively
               | nearby crossings (having "ditched the map" on purpose)
               | and he had no survival skills.
               | 
               | He could have poisoned himself with something else, or
               | been attacked by a wild animal, or treaded on some
               | treacherous ground and broken a leg, all of this outside
               | the reach of human help, and he did this on purpose.
               | 
               | > _" Instead, I will walk into the wild"_
               | 
               | But this is what I don't get. "I will commit suicide by
               | walking into the wild without resources or knowledge",
               | what's admirable about that? He was basically playing
               | Russian Roulette! I mean, I get that suicide itself is
               | the stuff of romantic ideation, maybe that's the thing?
        
               | blackbrokkoli wrote:
               | You know, I wanted to type out some sassy reply, but I
               | keep failing to put my finger on what's romantic about it
               | (even though I guess I "relate" to that position).
               | 
               | I don't think it's the suicide aspect, and - maybe
               | besides the point - personally I don't think the guy was
               | trying to die (not anymore or less than a freeclimber).
               | 
               | Maybe the Webster 1913 definition for "romantic" can help
               | shed a light:
               | 
               | > Characterized by strangeness or variety; suggestive of
               | adventure; suited to romance; wild; picturesque; --
               | applied to scenery; as, a romantic landscape.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | Why sassy? I like that you didn't try that angle.
               | 
               | I know what "romantic" means. I don't think McCandless
               | was a romantic; I think he was reckless. His romanticism
               | was entirely artificial -- Krakauer's opinion that he
               | "threw away the map" on purpose since there are no really
               | unexplored lands anymore hints at this -- and he didn't
               | need to live this rough life, he strived to put himself
               | in harm's way. Someone who crosses the highway with their
               | eyes closes is not a romantic, they are simply stupid.
               | 
               | And like I said in another comment, I think he completely
               | misread Jack London and failed to learn the lesson from
               | that writer: that wilderness is ruthless and will kill
               | you the minute you let your guard down, or simply out of
               | bad luck.
        
               | pvaldes wrote:
               | Poisoned by legumes, that most people seen (wrongly) as
               | safe to eat, just because they are legumes
        
             | poulpy123 wrote:
             | You mistake idolization and fascination. People (myself
             | included) are fascinated by his calling to quit society and
             | to act on it, but I never saw someone idolizing him
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | Ok, so it's fascination. And a heavy dose of
               | romanticization.
               | 
               | Yet McCandless was essentially reckless rather than
               | heroic. It's not that hard to die if you put yourself in
               | an extreme situation, without preparing yourself or
               | having any safeguards. It's a form of Russian roulette
               | rather than "rejecting society"; though, I suppose,
               | suicide is the ultimate form of rejecting society.
               | 
               | I see that he liked Jack London. So do I! However, I must
               | wonder how thoroughly he read London's work, especially
               | his Klondike gold rush stories, because very often in the
               | stories the main character ends up dead, defeated by bad
               | luck and an unsympathetic wilderness which is hostile to
               | clueless men. I mean, did he read "To Build a Fire"?
        
           | rob74 wrote:
           | Another cautionary tale is the one of the "Death Valley
           | Germans" (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_Valley_Germans)
           | - to me, this one is even more chilling...
        
         | TheCleric wrote:
         | Start small. Buy a decent tent, sleeping pad, and sleeping bag
         | (if you like REI, their people are usually very good at helping
         | you find what you need in your budget). Find a local car
         | camping campground (such as a state park) and just go car
         | camping. For those unfamiliar, car camping is where you go to a
         | campground that you drive up to your campsite (and you are
         | rarely very far from some sort of civilization). Before you go
         | think of all the things you'd want with you (food, water,
         | entertainment, etc.) and pack it up in your car (cold food in
         | cooler with ice, of course). If things go wrong (which they
         | probably will at first, and that's fine), you can always choose
         | to drive to the store if you forgot something or go home if
         | something else happens. Most of these campgrounds have small
         | hiking trails as well. Start small (<2 miles) and bring some
         | water. When leaving, practice the principles of leave no trace
         | and make sure the campsite looks how you found it when you
         | leave.
         | 
         | Do a few of these and try something new out every time. Maybe
         | you want to work on building skills like fire making. Maybe you
         | want to try out new equipment such as using a camping stove
         | with dehydrated food instead of a fire. Or try out techniques
         | like packing all of your stuff in a backpacking pack and take
         | it on hikes to see how what you'd need (and possibly not need)
         | go backpacking.
         | 
         | Once you feel comfortable start expanding out. Maybe try a day
         | hike where you cover more ground (but don't overdo it at first,
         | stay within what you know for a fact you are capable of). Do an
         | out and back one where you start at your car, and end back up
         | at your car. Maybe try going for one night of backpacking to
         | "wilderness" camp sites at a local park. These sites are
         | usually a short hike from where you'll park with no amenities.
         | Practice your skills. Enjoy the nature.
         | 
         | From there figure out what you are enjoying and maximize that.
         | Do you like the hiking? The camping? Just hanging out with
         | friends around a campfire? Do that. It's not about how extreme
         | you can make it, it's about what you like. If hiking makes you
         | miserable and all you want to do is sleep outdoors for a few
         | nights with a stable fire, then there is no shame in sticking
         | to car camping. There will be purists who look down on it, but
         | who cares?
         | 
         | Try new things, find what you enjoy, and don't push yourself
         | more than you know you are capable of.
        
         | unregistereddev wrote:
         | A lot is just experience, and others have given great advice on
         | getting started. I want to add a few rules, in no particular
         | order, that I find valuable. Some of the rules are slightly
         | overkill for basic drive-in camping, but they're worth
         | following anyway.
         | 
         | - If you go hiking, take a small backpack. It should have an
         | extra layer of clothing, some snacks, and water, at minimum.
         | 
         | - Never eat anything unless you are 100% certain you know what
         | it is and it is non-toxic. Only drink from a lake or stream in
         | an emergency, and then purify or boil the water if possible.
         | 
         | - Always bring a hat. Like the girl in the article, I've found
         | myself in unexpected relentless sun.
         | 
         | - Wear sensible shoes. The definition of 'sensible' depends on
         | what you're doing, but when in doubt go slightly overkill.
         | 
         | - Never go into nature alone. Ideally, go with a group of at
         | least 3 people. Then if 1 person is seriously hurt, 1 person
         | can stay with them and the last person can go for help.
         | 
         | - Always tell someone where you are going and when you plan to
         | return. When you get back, tell them you're safe. For a simple
         | weekend campout, that means telling a friend or family member.
         | For a strenuous full-day hike, that means stopping at a ranger
         | station before and after the hike.
         | 
         | - Never go off trail (both because it's easy to get lost, and
         | because it's bad to trample mother nature).
         | 
         | - Always have maps - ideally paper ones. Even for a simple
         | trail, pull out a cell phone and take a picture of the map at
         | the trailhead.
         | 
         | - Bring more supplies (including food and water) than you think
         | you need. With each trip you'll learn more about what you wish
         | you had and what you brought but didn't use.
         | 
         | - Bring backups of critical things. Two flashlights, two ways
         | to start fires, and two knives of some description (they don't
         | have to be fancy).
         | 
         | - Have a realistic view of your limits (and your gear's
         | limits). Seeing a nifty rock face doesn't mean you know how to
         | climb it. Even if you know how, you probably don't have
         | climbing equipment with you.
         | 
         | - Animals are not your friends. Research in advance what
         | animals to expect wherever you're going, and what precautions
         | to take. Camping in bear country is different than camping in
         | raccoon country, for example.
         | 
         | - Research where you're going and pack accordingly. Is there
         | running water? If not, plan how you will get and purify water.
         | Are fires allowed? If not, plan how you will cook your food.
         | 
         | If this whole list is intimidating, just start simply and enjoy
         | figuring things out - it can be a lot of fun as long as you
         | come prepared (and try to over plan and over-pack at first
         | while you learn).
        
         | blitz_skull wrote:
         | Lots of local SAR communities will offer survival 101 classes.
         | I know East TN has a REALLY good one that I've been to and will
         | be back again.
        
         | jonfw wrote:
         | Taking a class, hiring a guide, or going with an experienced
         | friend would all be a great way to get started.
         | 
         | If you wanted to bootstrap by yourself or with other
         | inexperienced friends- I would start by getting a car
         | accessible campsite, and then use that as a base camp. Go on
         | small hikes that take you back to your site. Very few survival
         | skills are needed for that sort of thing- you can get started
         | with a cooler, a grill, and a bundle of firewood.
         | 
         | If you enjoy that, then start using more primitive tools and
         | trying larger hikes in future trips, and you can work your way
         | up to backpacking or whatever your goals are
        
         | Loughla wrote:
         | Look to your local Community College or State University
         | extension office. Many of them offer outdoors classes.
         | 
         | The problem with private wilderness survival classes you may
         | find in the community, even the light versions, is that they
         | tend to come with a very particular political slant. And that
         | slant tends toward the paranoid.
        
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           | themaninthedark wrote:
           | As long as the paranoia is about how nature is going to try
           | and kill you at any chance it gets, sounds good to me!
        
             | antipotoad wrote:
             | That paranoia is the creeping realization that civilization
             | coddles us to the point of uselessness in the face of
             | trivial survival challenges, and that nature actually cares
             | not one jot for your continued existence as a living being.
             | I'd modify your statement to say not that nature is
             | _trying_ to kill you, but that you're irrelevant. The
             | difference is deeper than it might at first seem.
        
               | krisoft wrote:
               | > civilization coddles us to the point of uselessness in
               | the face of trivial survival challenges
               | 
               | I scoff at this notion. Each of us is a weak, fragile
               | hairless monkey. There is no such thing as
               | "civilisation". It is just other monkeys just like you
               | and me caring about fellow monkeys so much that we go to
               | extremes to protect each other. Civilisation is the term
               | one uses to describe these combined efforts. It is not
               | something which makes you weak, it is the way we choose
               | to cling together and protect each other. It is our way
               | to face the survival challenges.
        
             | Loughla wrote:
             | Sadly the paranoia in outdoors survival groups tends to be
             | less about nature, and more about the government coming to
             | take your guns and homes and what-not.
             | 
             | Although, that is my experience in multiple mid-western
             | states; so it may not translate to other parts of the
             | country.
        
               | xcskier56 wrote:
               | I've done a lot of ultralight backpacking. That community
               | is, in general, on the more liberal/hippie side of the
               | spectrum. One of the funniest things I noticed however is
               | that the far other end, the doomsday-preppers, start to
               | share a lot of the same tools and food. For example I was
               | making my own freeze-dried meals, and most of the sites
               | where you could buy the food were targeted towards
               | preppers. A little bit of if you go so far right (or
               | left) you end up on back on the other side.
        
         | poulpy123 wrote:
         | There are millions of people practicing outdoor activities
         | without problems, you would do fine if you don't do something
         | stupid for getting views on youtube or tiktok.
         | 
         | (and cooking a meal on a camping stove is just cooking, nothing
         | magical)
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | Honestly the three things you can do easily:
         | 
         | 1. Only go deep into nature (out of cell range) with someone
         | experienced.
         | 
         | 2. Obtain a rescue device (Apple satellite cell, Garmin GPS
         | emergency beacon, etc).
         | 
         | 3. If stranded in a vehicle _stay with the vehicle!_
        
           | _fat_santa wrote:
           | I disagree with #1, I live in Colorado and many trails here
           | are out of cell range. My advice here is either get a
           | satellite phone and/or do some research about where you are
           | going and only go if it's a well travelled trail. I often go
           | out by myself into places without cell coverage but I always
           | research the place to make sure that if I run into issues,
           | there will almost certainly be someone there to help me. It's
           | not a perfect system but it's better than going in blind
           | somewhere.
           | 
           | Also, pack 2-3x the water you think you will need.
        
             | TheCleric wrote:
             | > Also, pack 2-3x the water you think you will need.
             | 
             | This. Or pack the water you think you need AND have a water
             | filtration system with known locations of accessible water.
        
           | Swizec wrote:
           | "out of cell range" is not a great measure for deep nature
           | imo. On the California coast, for example, you can lose cell
           | range without even leaving the road.
           | 
           | And in the Alps, you have areas with so many tourists the
           | path is affectionally called a highway, but it would take 2
           | hours of hiking to get into cell range because mountains
           | block signals.
           | 
           | I think it depends more on how many people you're likely to
           | meet per hour than cell range.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | True, but "out of cell range" is a helpful indicator; if
             | you're in cell range you can call for help. There are
             | places out of range that are perfectly safe (due to people
             | passing by) and there are places in cell range that I'd be
             | worried to travel without others; but as a rule of thumb I
             | think it works.
             | 
             | This also goes for driving - especially in winter! Do not
             | leave the commonly travelled roads if you don't know what
             | you're doing! A stuck car gets freezing cold quite fast in
             | many places.
        
           | itsmemattchung wrote:
           | > 1. Only go deep into nature (out of cell range) with
           | someone experienced.
           | 
           | I think the above is probably the most important. Having
           | someone experienced within arms reach would be the best bet
           | when/if shit hits the fan.
        
             | krisoft wrote:
             | > Having someone experienced within arms reach would be the
             | best bet when/if shit hits the fan.
             | 
             | Not just that. One can learn a lot from the mere presence
             | of someone more experienced. How do they prepare, what do
             | they bring, how do they pace themselves, how do they make
             | decisions. Basically it makes it more likely that you don't
             | even get near the bad situation.
        
           | whymauri wrote:
           | Garmin GPS coordinates + downloaded topos got me out of a
           | dicey situation slightly lost solohiking in the Grand Canyon.
           | Similar situations when the trail flooded in Ouachita
           | National Forest. It's a must have for solo hikers.
        
           | antipotoad wrote:
           | If you're in the Swiss Alps, have the REGA app installed and
           | active, pay the incredibly reasonable membership fee, but for
           | goodness sake do not treat it like your personal helicopter
           | rescue service.
           | 
           | It's a classic case of moral hazard [1].
           | 
           | [1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moral_hazard
        
       | wil421 wrote:
       | Do your research before getting into rivers. My local river has
       | several gauges and hotlines you can call to get dam releases.
       | They also have a chart of the water release amounts and if you
       | could paddle/float/canoe/kayak etc. It even has a turbidity gauge
       | that will show you if any harmful bacteria is present, we have
       | issues with fertilizer runoff and e-coli. It's a rather mundane
       | river in an area not as known as Glacier National Park.
       | 
       | >The river was swollen with alpine runoff.
       | 
       | Red flags right immediately.
       | 
       | If you ever hear 3 horns blasts, get out immediately. A dam might
       | release.
       | 
       | I would NOT go down any side forks. Just like the author I have
       | been messed up and thrown off my kayak by downed trees on a fork.
       | Luckily the water was waist deep and I could stand right away.
        
         | the_af wrote:
         | > _Do your research before getting into rivers_
         | 
         | What's amazing from this article, and from others like it, is
         | that even being reasonably knowledgeable is not a guarantee of
         | anything. I mean, better be knowledgeable, of course -- but
         | even people who should know better die and get caught in freak
         | accidents. Or simply, one day they let their guard down. After
         | plenty of near death experiences, the author of this article
         | was still doing some dumb shit, she hadn't learned the lesson
         | by her own admission.
         | 
         | This isn't an argument against research; of course you should
         | know the dangers and treat the environment carefully. But even
         | this isn't a guarantee of survival.
        
           | dahfizz wrote:
           | "Research" means something different than "being reasonably
           | knowledgeable" in this context. You might be familiar with a
           | certain river, but "Is the dam going to release water today"
           | and "how much runoff from the mountains is there today" are
           | question that you should still research before going out.
        
         | foobarian wrote:
         | Acquaintance did some suburban kayaking and didn't see a 3ft
         | drop (some kind of dam or culvert under a bridge) until too
         | late. The fluid mechanics of that drop are such that there is a
         | vortex at the base that makes it difficult to get out. He was
         | able to stand but just barely - scary to think how close a call
         | that was in a pretty innocuous looking setting.
        
           | jollyllama wrote:
           | Yep. A couple of girls got killed in Pittsburgh a few years
           | back. They were kayaking down the river and didn't realize a
           | dam was ahead. People die all the time in nature for lack of
           | preparedness because they don't know the environment they are
           | getting into and they don't know their limitations. This also
           | endangers rescuers.
        
             | shagie wrote:
             | Practical Engineering has a video on the dangers of a
             | lowhead dam - https://youtu.be/GVDpqphHhAE
        
               | psychphysic wrote:
               | What on Earth!? I just submitted Kyle Hills video on this
               | early today to HN.
               | 
               | What an eery coincidence. I hope it's not a bad omen that
               | I keep coming across this topic today...
        
               | antipotoad wrote:
               | Seems about five others of us also linked his video in
               | this thread :) Guess you're experiencing the Baader-
               | Meinhof effect, AKA the frequency illusion [1].
               | 
               | [1]: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frequency_illusion
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | It is interesting that Practical Engineering is an often-
               | cited channel on HN. Not surprising, but rather a good
               | indication of its content, quality, and value.
        
               | whymauri wrote:
               | I crossed a small dam solo hiking the Wichita Mountains.
               | Not the one at Kite Trail on the Bison Trail Loop (Lost
               | Lakes) which is wide and dry, but completely off trail
               | since I had to get off trail to avoid bison. It was mossy
               | with very little traction and I almost slipped. Brushed
               | it off as an annoyance since I didn't get wet.
               | 
               | Watched this video a year later and it made me think...
               | how deep was that water, and was it really as calm as it
               | seemed? Yikes.
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | How about The Strid from the River Wharfe? While your
               | river isn't likely that extreme, crossing unknown water
               | is not on my top list of things to do.
               | 
               | Tom Scott - https://youtu.be/mCSUmwP02T8
               | 
               | The Most Dangerous River in THE WORLD is HOW DEEP?! -
               | https://youtu.be/uJFQXT6PIP8
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/River_Wharfe
        
           | codeduck wrote:
           | weirs are drowning machines. Nothing more, nothing less.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | Yep, we call those low head dams around here. It's like the
           | roll under a big surf wave, but perpetual.
        
           | giraffe_lady wrote:
           | Yeah those things are notorious for that. Place I grew up in
           | had a lot of small rivers you could pretty much wade across
           | most of the year. But you'd still hear of drownings every
           | once in a while and if it wasn't a small child it was always
           | someone going over a low head dam.
        
           | cafard wrote:
           | Back in the 1980s, a number of soldiers drowned in the
           | hydraulic below the dam at the Little Falls pumping station
           | on the Potomac. One of Tufte's books (I think _Envisioning
           | Information_ ) includes the illustration of the effect that
           | The Washington Post published shortly after that.
        
           | el_nahual wrote:
           | Those are called "weirs", and often known as drowning
           | machines. Practical Engineering on youtube has a great video
           | about them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkR79oDAgOg&vl=en
        
             | DLwdTxdU6smHQA wrote:
             | The same guy has a video called "The Most Dangerous Dams"
             | [length 8:43]. It seems so be less technical and more
             | focused on the dangerous aspects.
             | 
             | edit: link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVDpqphHhAE
        
           | gonzo41 wrote:
           | That's called hydrolic lock. It kills experienced people all
           | the time. Weir style dams are so subtle and dangerous.
        
           | antipotoad wrote:
           | See this video from Practical Engineering, aptly titled 'The
           | Drowning Machine':
           | https://practical.engineering/blog/2019/3/16/drowning-
           | machin...
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | https://www.weather.gov/lmk/LowHeadDamPublicSafetyAwarenessM.
           | ..
           | 
           | Low head dams are the drowning machine, and they can look
           | very safe and simple.
        
             | james_pm wrote:
             | Practical Engineering discussed low head dams:
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVDpqphHhAE
        
           | AYBABTME wrote:
           | I almost drowned on a beach without surveillance, jumping
           | into the surf waist high, for fun, until suddenly the
           | receding water pulled me just a few meters further away and
           | now I couldn't touch the floor anymore, and was slowly being
           | pulled further and further away from the beach. My girlfriend
           | of the time was on the beach far enough away that she
           | couldn't hear or grasp that I was struggling. By luck and
           | after perhaps 10 minutes of fighting, I managed to move
           | sideways and forward by persistence until I could touch the
           | ground again and walk out. I was completely exhausted and I'm
           | not sure how much longer I could have persisted like this.
           | Just as I exited a few locals were arriving in haste for me.
           | Apparently they had seen me struggling to come back. I'm
           | guessing they had witnessed tragedies there before, because
           | whereas my girlfriend hadn't picked up that I was in trouble,
           | they had.
        
             | danenania wrote:
             | The key in surf is to never fight against the rip. While it
             | can feel scary to get pulled out, remember that 99% of the
             | time, it will end after you are pulled past the break, at
             | which point you can swim laterally a bit and then go back
             | in with help from the waves. Breaking waves naturally
             | create alternating channels in the sand that either push
             | you towards the shore or pull you back out to the break.
             | 
             | The other 1% of the time is when you are close to the mouth
             | of a bay or some other feature that creates a current
             | independent of the dynamics in the surf zone. You'll know
             | that's the case if the current stays strong after you're
             | past the break. If it's too strong for you to swim against
             | it, then you're in trouble and should start waving for
             | help.
        
               | rozab wrote:
               | The good news is _if you don 't struggle against the
               | current_ you should be able to stay afloat for a couple
               | hours, long enough for help to arrive
        
               | ogre_battle wrote:
               | A couple hours in even moderately chilly water -- to
               | include off the coast of California -- will give you
               | hypothermia in an hour, often as little as 30 minutes. If
               | you have to float for 2 hours without being able to get
               | out you'll have a problem.
               | 
               | Rip tides pull out, so let them pull you past the break
               | then swim side to side. You shouldn't need more than
               | 15-20 min to get past the worst of it, and can work
               | laterally to inbound waves.
        
             | jakogut wrote:
             | I watched numerous tourists do this in Cancun from our
             | penthouse rental on vacation. In one case, a full-grown man
             | was swept out approximately 100m and kept getting tugged
             | and dashed by the waves as he fought them. A lifeguard kept
             | whistling to him from shore and motioning to move
             | perpendicular to the current to get back to shore, and he
             | finally did.
             | 
             | We also saw lifeguards retrieve a drowned child. They
             | worked on him for about fifteen minutes in front of the
             | parents before stopping, and the ambulance took him away.
             | 
             | The beaches were marked with red flags as far as the eye
             | could see, along with signs in English and Spanish clearly
             | indicating that this meant swimming was prohibited, as it
             | was unsafe. Many people paid no heed to the warnings.
        
             | MrFantastic wrote:
             | If you aren't strong swimmer you should not play in ocean
             | waves. If you don't know if you are a strong swimmer you
             | are NOT.
             | 
             | The ocean doesn't give a shit about your life.
        
               | dsfyu404ed wrote:
               | Why not just tell people never to swim? There are never
               | "no waves" when you are at an ocean beach. These sorts of
               | absolutist rules of thumb are of no benefit to anyone but
               | the people offering them up.
               | 
               | People will go swimming in the ocean and in all myriad of
               | bays and estuaries that are more than capable of having
               | enough surf to kill them depending on the weather. You
               | just need to exercise good judgement about how much surf
               | is too much.
        
               | alar44 wrote:
               | That's just ridiculous. Most public beaches are perfectly
               | safe.
        
             | xenadu02 wrote:
             | Drowning doesn't look like drowning. The thing they show in
             | movies or on TV is not what happens so most people have no
             | clue when someone is in trouble. In some cases kids drown
             | in pools while parents are not only present but looking
             | right at them. In others like yours people wave and smile
             | from the beach as the person in the surf is about to die.
             | 
             | Mayo Clinic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h0FH9b1LiwY
             | 
             | WebMD Spot the Drowning Person:
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=beNheoRRdKk
             | 
             | Another one is Bondi Beach - you can find episodes on
             | YouTube. There are a bunch of examples of rescues and how
             | little notice any of the people on the beach or other
             | swimmers nearby give to people struggling.
        
             | whimsicalism wrote:
             | Interesting. I think they teach to not swim against rip
             | currents in primary school now. I did not live near the
             | coast
        
             | scanny wrote:
             | Sounds like you encountered a "rip" [0]; usually letting it
             | take you out and then swimming after the current eases is
             | the safest thing to do. At school (Oceania) we get taught
             | this as part of water safety, but I suppose it would be a
             | foreign concept to many people, particularly those not
             | living near the coast.
             | 
             | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rip_current
        
               | anthomtb wrote:
               | Can confirm. My childhood in Colorado taught me nothing
               | of rip currents. A few weeks on the east coast of
               | Australia was quite the eye-opener.
        
               | vasco wrote:
               | I was taught to immediately start swimming parallel to
               | the beach. Some rip tides can take you very far away very
               | quickly, enough that nobody would be able to get to you
               | without a boat, and that is if they were looking at you.
               | Best advice is to swim parallel to the beach, while
               | remaining calm and swiming at a pace you can hold. Do not
               | sprint-swim due to fear.
        
               | danenania wrote:
               | Swimming parallel to the beach will get you out of it,
               | but it could be a struggle depending on the width of the
               | rip and the size of the waves. Getting past the break
               | first is often easier since then you can swim parallel to
               | the beach and away from the rip without having to deal
               | with waves breaking on you.
        
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         | Godel_unicode wrote:
         | I've done a decent amount of white water and stories like this
         | make me shiver. If you're in moving water, standing is
         | surprisingly dangerous. Float or swim (depending on the
         | current) to calm water and get out there.
         | 
         | If you stand (and especially walk) in a fast current, you're
         | asking to get your foot caught and then drowned.
        
           | wil421 wrote:
           | My story was short. A tree at chest level knocked us over a
           | couple feet from the end of fork. We floated a couple feet
           | until we were dumped back into the main channel were there is
           | little to no current. My heel caught a treble hook from my
           | fishing pole. I had to dog paddle the kayak a couple feet to
           | the bank and get the hook out of my heel.
           | 
           | There aren't even any classed rapids in this area its more of
           | a lazy river thing. An hour or so away there are some cool
           | rapids leftover from prior Olympic Games that has a
           | consistent dam release.
           | 
           | We were on sit on top kayaks.
        
       | kwhitefoot wrote:
       | > I pulled myself onto land and collapsed on my back, my stomach
       | rising and falling, my bikini top torn clean off my bleeding
       | breasts, my legs dark with bruises, my arms slick and red. In
       | shock, I got up and ran up the hill, through the trees, and onto
       | the side of the road, rocks slicing the soles of my feet as I
       | wept and screamed. Cars containing tourists passed me by, despite
       | the fact that I was waving at them.
       | 
       | What's the matter with people?
        
       | MrBuddyCasino wrote:
       | > I did other reckless shit with my own car. [...] Drove it 120
       | miles per hour just to see what it felt like.
       | 
       | Admittedly this gave me a chuckle. Most people don't go that
       | fast, but with the right kind of car this no big deal on the
       | Autobahn.
        
         | JumpinJack_Cash wrote:
         | It's not about the speed, it's about proximity with other
         | vehicles.
         | 
         | On AutoBahn stretches old M3s and Mercedes E190 are capable of
         | 150 mph and they do absolutely floor it. The only risk it's
         | mechanical failure or tyre blowing up.
         | 
         | I still mantain that for those looking for kinetic adrenaline
         | the big Cigarette powerboats are better, even though they are
         | slower than cars you are essentially always surrounded by
         | nothing and the feeling is more intense (even though they are
         | slower than cars) because you are in the wind yourself and the
         | jumping on the waves makes it seems even more kinetic.
        
         | jononomo wrote:
         | That is 193 KPH -- seems pretty fast to me, even for the
         | autobahn.
        
           | Udo wrote:
           | > That is 193 KPH -- seems pretty fast to me, even for the
           | autobahn.
           | 
           | German here, it's not fast for the Autobahn, per se. The
           | issue is though talking about the speed on its own is nearly
           | meaningless, the most important factor becomes the road and
           | what speed it is designed for. There are plenty of stretches
           | on the Autobahn where there is no speed limit AND you can
           | "safely" go 250+kph. Although I personally get uneasy at
           | speeds beyond that because it starts to feel like you're
           | entering an event horizon where unforeseen things on the road
           | ahead are now beyond your ability to meaningfully react to
           | them.
           | 
           | That being said, there are _lots_ of stretches on the
           | Autobahn where the speed limit is 80-100kph, often with good
           | reason.
        
         | jacquesm wrote:
         | Old ladies in economy cars will pass you...
        
           | MrBuddyCasino wrote:
           | Haha yeah the struggle is real. Still, the majority of cars
           | in the leftmost lane is usually expensive with a good
           | suspension.
           | 
           | I recently floored it for hours in a Dacia Jogger, going its
           | absolute Vmax of 175 km/h, and that was uncomfortable. The
           | same in an Audi or BMW is hardly noticeable.
        
             | jacquesm wrote:
             | Downhill for hours eh? Calling bs ;)
             | 
             | But seriously: I've had the old lady thing happen to me
             | more than once.
        
               | MrBuddyCasino wrote:
               | It really only goes that fast on even stretches, of which
               | there are plenty in northern & east Germany, and you
               | literally need minutes to get there - downhill you can go
               | a bit faster, but that gets scary quick. As soon as there
               | is even a slight incline it starts to slow down, thats
               | true. And I'm talking about the LPG version with 90 PS!
               | Thats why you want to floor it: "Und bist du nicht
               | willig, so brauch ich Gewalt."
        
               | jacquesm wrote:
               | > Und bist du nicht willig, so brauch ich Gewalt.
               | 
               | That had me laughing.
               | 
               | Funny story: I once, long ago in the corridor stopped to
               | help a bunch of people in a Trabant, the engine had
               | seized and it really wasn't going to go anywhere so I
               | offered to tow them behind my 230E, which could easily do
               | that. They agreed happily and we hooked them up, and one
               | of their party switched to my car to show me where to go
               | (illegal to go off the corridor, but screw it, this had
               | massive consequences later on but at the time I was still
               | totally oblivious). So we're back on the highway and
               | doing 50 or so and the guy asks 'can't you go any
               | faster?'. I say sure, but what about the tow? 'They will
               | have to follow ;)'. Ok, so doing a 110 or so (where you
               | could legally go maybe 90 at the time) for an hour took
               | us to Frankfurt a/d Oder where they lived, I dropped them
               | off at home and the guy that drove the Trabbi came to me
               | and said that they'd never gone that fast with it
               | before...
               | 
               | Good times. Obviously, for East Germans before the wende
               | there was a lot of misery (same in Poland, my
               | destination) but there was also a strong camaraderie, 'us
               | against the system'.
        
               | MrBuddyCasino wrote:
               | Lovely story! I can see how 110 is scary in a Trabi,
               | especially so considering the state the roads were in.
               | 
               | > there was also a strong camaraderie, 'us against the
               | system'
               | 
               | I think this is what gets lost in prosperity, and what
               | causes some of the current spiritual misery. You simply
               | don't need other people anymore if you have enough money,
               | which in turn destroys community. Maybe the land of
               | plenty is a dystopia, and we're not meant to live like
               | this for extended periods of time.
        
               | CadmiumYellow wrote:
               | This is such an interesting point. When people have
               | something to lose they turn inwards with the goal of
               | protecting what they have. There's something to be said
               | about how people can connect when nobody has resources to
               | guard. Maybe this is part of why kids and college
               | students can form such easy camaraderie compared to
               | adults.
        
               | jacquesm wrote:
               | Yes, this is _very_ true. The same in Poland. Now it 's
               | dog-eat-dog. The difference is night and day and
               | obviously there are many gains but also there are some
               | remarkable losses and this is one of them.
        
       | emtel wrote:
       | One time, I was driving at night in the Sierra after a storm -
       | roads were covered in snow. It's a drive I've made close to 100
       | times without incident. Going around a bend, I saw a car in the
       | ditch on the outside of the curve. I stopped the car, put on the
       | hazards, and went to see if there was anyone in the car.
       | 
       | As I was about to cross the highway a car come sliding around the
       | bend more or less sideways. I stopped and watched it slide past.
       | I could tell it was going to miss me by 10 feet or more, but
       | afterward I couldn't stop thinking: What if it had been headed
       | towards me? Could I have gotten out of the way in time? What if
       | I'd slipped? I couldn't believe how close I might have come to
       | dying without even thinking about it. I'll never get out of the
       | car in a storm again, at least not without thinking very
       | carefully about the situation first.
       | 
       | My other near miss experience was staying at a bread-and-
       | breakfast farmhouse in Portugal. I had taken a shower, and was
       | standing in front of the bathroom mirror, when I noticed the
       | light above the mirror was crooked. It was one of those swiveling
       | can fixtures, so I reached up to adjust it. I knew it wouldn't be
       | hot since I'd just turned it on, so I grabbed it firmly and then
       | asked myself why it was vibrating. And for that matter why was my
       | whole arm vibrating? When I realized I was being shocked I was
       | able to let go and spent 20 minutes pacing around my room making
       | sure I wasn't dead. You really can't do worse than standing
       | barefoot, soaking wet, on a stone floor, and grabbing a live
       | fixture, can you?
       | 
       | If anyone would like to explain why that didn't kill me I'm all
       | ears.
        
         | no_butterscotch wrote:
         | Kind of related, but if someone is being shocked, live, what is
         | the safest way to help them?
         | 
         | The immediate answer might be turn of the circuit breaker, but
         | what if we're in a giant office building? Or I don't have
         | access or know where the circuit breaker is?
         | 
         | Grab them with rubber gloves?
        
           | PeterisP wrote:
           | IMHO that's a rare event, usually instead of being
           | continuously shocked, someone _gets_ shocked and then in the
           | worst case they die and you have to apply CPR until an
           | ambulance can try to save them.
           | 
           | If someone is being shocked, live, then it all depends on the
           | circumstances, but the most generic standard suggestion in
           | various first aid courses seems to be using a non-conductive
           | stick (e.g. broomhandle) to push them away from the source of
           | power or vice versa. They have probably grabbed the thing
           | with their hand and are unable to release it as the hand is
           | cramped, so that may be difficult.
           | 
           | Finding a circuit breaker may be too long. My intuitive guess
           | (though that's not something I have seen recommended) is that
           | intentionally causing a short-circit and trip the breaker
           | might be faster.
        
         | rootusrootus wrote:
         | Probably not the full voltage, just a leak. 230V is quite an
         | experience. 120V is a mere annoyance by comparison, even if you
         | touch live terminals directly. Even 120V is more than
         | vibrating, though.
        
           | saalweachter wrote:
           | My received wisdom from prior generations was "120V will just
           | tickle you, it's 240V you have to watch out for."
        
           | s1artibartfast wrote:
           | For context, a modern defibrillator is about 3,000 volts and
           | 15 amps.
        
             | bonzini wrote:
             | It seems a bit too much, but in any case it's direct
             | current. Compared to AC there's almost an order of
             | magnitude difference.
        
               | Ygg2 wrote:
               | It's not just AC vs DC, but frequency changes a lot. High
               | frequency AC can be safe at 30000V can be safe at 10^6
               | Hz.
        
         | brnt wrote:
         | Oh, I had that "why is my arm vibrating" more often than I
         | should. But not often enough for my brain to reduce time to
         | diagnosis, which surprises me every time.
        
           | tootie wrote:
           | Me too. A light socket was apparently powered via two
           | separate circuits. I turned off one but not the other. Idk
           | what was happening because I touched a live wire with my hand
           | while my elbow brushed a metal door jamb so I think the juice
           | flowed through my forearm and not the rest of my body. Made
           | my arm buzz, but didn't really hurt and I was able to let go.
           | New rule is just turn off every circuit in the house every
           | time.
        
         | phillc73 wrote:
         | Last Saturday afternoon I was driving home in heavy fog.
         | Suddenly coming towards me was a BMW SUV at least 75% in my
         | lane. I managed to brake heavily and drift towards the outside
         | verge. We didn't hit.
         | 
         | It's about the closest I've come to a head on collision. With
         | my whole family in the car, there was utter silence for the
         | next several minutes.
         | 
         | Pretty sure I nearly died three days ago.
        
           | cassepipe wrote:
           | In case you had hit, a deadly accident would be more likely
           | because of the SUV's weigh. A 4000 pounds vehicle contains
           | has twice the energy of a 2000 pounds vehicle at the same
           | speed. Just another example of inequality in face of death
           | between rich and poor.
        
             | hex4def6 wrote:
             | The solution, obviously*, is to just drive faster if you're
             | in a light vehicle, to match the SUV's kinetic energy. If
             | they're going 40 MPH, you just need to go ~60MPH, thanks to
             | the v^2 in the kinetic energy equation.
             | 
             | *(/s)
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | Equality of outcome, that's indeed the modern western
               | take on things.
               | 
               | That v2 in there also means that, if enough people follow
               | your advice, we'll eventually start seeing SUVs equipped
               | with reactive armor.
        
               | chowells wrote:
               | No one reasonable wants blind equality of outcome. They
               | want an to understand the cause of the differences, and
               | they want that cause to be moral.
               | 
               | That's far different from proclaiming either that there
               | is no problem or that outcomes are to be measured
               | blindly.
        
               | dbspin wrote:
               | An arms race of sorts is inevitable. Your reactive armour
               | will be worthless in the face of my active measures.
               | Innocent casualties are inevitable, but they're the price
               | we pay for freedom.
        
           | antipotoad wrote:
           | From one survivor of a near-certain-death scenario to
           | another: glad that you're still here with us to tell your
           | story. No two experiences are alike, but don't be surprised
           | if it takes you a long while to process what happened. Good
           | that you're able to talk about it here; if you can, I
           | encourage you to talk to your family about it, even if only
           | to let them know you acknowledge it happened.
           | 
           | (Then again, feel free to ignore the unsolicited advice of an
           | internet stranger, but if you say you nearly died, then
           | you're likely in shock to a degree. Maybe this sounds
           | excessive, but consider professional support.)
        
             | phillc73 wrote:
             | Comment appreciated. My wife, in the front seat next to me,
             | and I were certainly in shock. We pulled over and had a 15
             | minutes rest while the adrenaline wore off. We breathed
             | deeply and talked about what had just happened.
             | 
             | I used to commute in London for many years on a motorcyle
             | and also raced them for a few years. I've had my share of
             | near misses and ended up in hospital once. That was all
             | somehow different - it was only me in danger usually and at
             | least when racing I was always hyper aware that things can
             | go bad fast.
             | 
             | This was a totally different experience. Completely
             | innocuous one might think, on a road regularly traveled, at
             | legal speeds. I think having my family with me made a big
             | difference to my reaction. It wasn't just me in danger any
             | more.
        
               | antipotoad wrote:
               | Glad to be of even the smallest help. I think you have
               | the right head on for dealing with this. Just keep open
               | the door to communication with all the others, especially
               | since the shock will fade differently for each of you.
               | 
               | All I can say is that it took me a _long_ time to regain
               | the appetite for calculated risk. My companion in the
               | scenario seemingly shrugged it right off, but only
               | through keeping talking did I know otherwise.
        
         | newaccount74 wrote:
         | I've accidentally touched live electricity (230V) several
         | times, and from speaking to other people it's not a rare
         | occurrence. I think you actually need to be pretty unlucky to
         | die from an electric shock at home.
        
           | philjohn wrote:
           | Depends - if the path it takes is through your heart (or
           | head) you're probably going to have a bad time. eg touching
           | live with one hand and neutral with the other.
           | 
           | I've had a few mains shocks before as well, a fair few years
           | ago, and what saved me was live and neutral touched the same
           | hand. I now have an inductance tester I use first, then
           | follow up with multimeter and only THEN do I start whatever
           | I'm doing.
        
           | Tao3300 wrote:
           | > I think you actually need to be pretty unlucky to die from
           | an electric shock at home.
           | 
           | Though if there's one thing we've learned from the article,
           | there will be plenty of people waiting in the wings of the
           | Intenet to sputter "Karma!" and "Darwin!" when you do.
           | 
           | Aside, if you ever feel like saying that sort of thing, take
           | an idea, principal, or religious icon that has a deep meaning
           | to you, or in the latter case, someone whose work you think
           | was influential and great. Fix that image in your mind, think
           | "serves you right, asshole", and scream the word or the name
           | out at the top of your lungs. Then reflect on how _fucking
           | stupid_ that was.
        
           | jfk13 wrote:
           | I can confirm that 230V is plenty to give you a serious jolt
           | -- like, throw you a couple feet backwards from the thing you
           | shouldn't have touched. I imagine it could've killed me if
           | the connection hadn't been so rapidly broken.
           | 
           | And that came from the "ground" pin of an outlet! Except that
           | the building (in a third-world country that I'll leave
           | unnamed here) hadn't been wired correctly, as I learned the
           | hard way.
        
           | johnmaguire wrote:
           | I've never been hit by 240V thankfully, but when I was a kid
           | I felt 120V when plugging a computer into the wall.
        
           | agentwiggles wrote:
           | During an ill-advised electrical experiment in my youth, I
           | discharged a big capacitor into my hand. Luckily I think the
           | current just went into and then out of my thumb back into the
           | circuit. Still, the resulting shock knocked me over and gave
           | me a tangible and valuable lesson about caution around high
           | currents!
        
         | joveian wrote:
         | One thing I learned from reading some stuff on an electician
         | forum years ago is that the actual ground is really not that
         | attractive to household electricity, mostly just to lightning.
         | I recall them mentioning a video of, IIRC, someone connecting a
         | 15A circuit to a metal stake driven several feet into the
         | ground without the circuit breaking. This is also why things
         | like stray voltage shocking cows can happen. I'm guessing that
         | this might potentially be part of why electric shocks aren't
         | deadly more often, it may not be just a path to ground needed
         | but a path through ground and back into the circuit (although
         | the current needed to kill you is much less than tripping a
         | breaker and I think there are various situations that can make
         | it easy for that amount to flow into the ground even if there
         | isn't a good path back to the circuit, which sometimes there
         | is, so possibly this isn't really a factor).
        
         | poulpy123 wrote:
         | After wondering for 20 years why people got shocked when
         | electric safety is common knowledge, I got shocked myself twice
         | in one year because I was stupid
        
         | vinceguidry wrote:
         | The path from your hands to feet doesn't go through your heart.
         | Really that simple.
        
         | rqtwteye wrote:
         | It just shows that life is a long sequence of being lucky. It
         | bet during the course of a week everybody does something that
         | may get them killed if unlucky. Most people are lucky but a few
         | aren't.
         | 
         | I can relate to the shock story. In a school lab I managed to
         | lean on a exposed 220V cable. I remember my arm shaking and
         | hearing a low hum but couldn't figure out what's going on. It
         | felt like an eternity until I pulled my arm away but I bet in
         | reality it was just a second.
        
         | ptaffs wrote:
         | i think to kill you either there needs to be enough power to
         | burn organs, which still may only affect one limb and not be
         | fatal, or to pass through your heart, say from one arm to
         | another, or arm to opposite leg, and for your heart to be
         | disrupted rather than just shocked. But the two aspects are the
         | amount of power and the path the current takes. Maybe the floor
         | tile was above a waterproof membrane, like a wet-room, and so
         | inhibited the power current flow?
        
         | falcolas wrote:
         | Most of the current is going across your skin, not through it,
         | and stone isn't necessarily a good ground.
         | 
         | A light fixture generally won't create enough current to kill
         | you. Usually. Probably not worth testing excessively though.
        
           | rideontime wrote:
           | Aren't light fixtures typically direct mains power?
        
             | falcolas wrote:
             | Limited by the wiring and circuit breakers - typically
             | 15amps.
             | 
             | With as resistive as skin is to electricity, 110 isn't
             | usually enough to overcome it and push power through the
             | heart.
             | 
             | Keyword: usually
        
               | mkipper wrote:
               | I don't think the breaker is really relevant here. Unless
               | you've been impaled by a spike, it's impossible to draw
               | 15A of current through your body from a 120V or 240V
               | circuit. At those voltages, there's really no difference
               | (to you) between shocks from circuits with or without a
               | 15A breaker.
               | 
               | I guess there is a asterisk here if you're also shorting
               | something much more conductive than yourself, since the
               | breaker might cut power before you'd naturally let go and
               | break yourself from the circuit. But that seems like a
               | pretty unlikely situation for most home shocks.
        
               | iso1631 wrote:
               | The wiring is meaningless. 1 amps is more than enough to
               | kill you. Even if enough current flew to melt the cable
               | you'd be dead well before the cable caught fire if it's
               | flowing through you.
               | 
               | A breaker may provide some protection against electric
               | shock (assuming it's an RCD or RCBO), but I wouldn't like
               | to rely on it.
               | 
               | Portugal is 230V. Not sure what breaker the lighting
               | would be on but in the UK it's not uncommon for a 6A
               | lighting circuit to not be on an RCD at all.
        
               | ak217 wrote:
               | The 15A limit in the circuit breaker is there to protect
               | the wires, not you. 15A at 110V passing through your body
               | will cause massive damage and literally cook you after
               | stopping your heart if it's in the way.
               | 
               | Modern circuit breakers and outlets have GFCI/AFCI
               | electronics that detect abnormal current leaks to ground
               | and abnormal waveforms, and shut off the circuit. These
               | actually stand a chance of saving you in a scenario like
               | this.
        
               | iso1631 wrote:
               | If you have the live and neutral on the same finger you
               | might be ok, the current wouldn't pass through your
               | heart.
               | 
               | If you're earthed/grounded through your feet though,
               | that's a problem, likewise if it's live on one hand and
               | neutral on the other.
        
             | _nalply wrote:
             | Yes but we can only speculate what happened.
             | 
             | My speculation: most of the power went through the light
             | and only a part of it shocked the OP.
        
               | falcolas wrote:
               | I'd agree, and not being connected to a good ground
               | helped.
        
               | kragen wrote:
               | this is nonsense, and potentially deadly nonsense at that
        
         | sowbug wrote:
         | PSA about driving around bends. If you're ever in this
         | situation, don't stop your car anywhere near the bend! If the
         | bend is caused by nature, that usually means that it's wrapping
         | around a hill or trees, which means it's blind in at least one
         | direction. Human drivers are not physiologically capable of
         | stopping a car in time to avoid an obstacle on a blind curve.
         | 
         | I've lived near two such blind curves in my life, and at each
         | I've seen minor issues like a flat tire turn into catastrophic
         | accidents when the driver parks and someone else comes along
         | and hits them.
        
         | jjtheblunt wrote:
         | low amperage perhaps
        
           | iso1631 wrote:
           | A lighting circuit will deliver plenty of amps if there's a
           | low resistance path to ground.
        
         | foxyv wrote:
         | Typically when a fixture like that is connected to a live line
         | it is pretty well grounded. In this case it sounds like the
         | grounding wasn't perfect and pretty much turned you and the
         | mirror into a voltage divider. Your saving grace was the fact
         | that you were the bigger resistor. If the mirror wasn't mostly
         | grounding out the circuit, the wet skin would have provided nil
         | resistance and you would have probably at least been burned if
         | not killed.
        
           | Balgair wrote:
           | Pro tip: Always touch electrical-y things with the back of
           | your hands first; like with a strange animal. Any spasms will
           | cause you to contact away from the thingy.
        
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         | intrepidhero wrote:
         | It only takes 80ma across your heart to stop it. Mains voltage,
         | in both the US and the rest of the world, can easily develop
         | that kind of current, especially if there is moisture involved.
         | And yet plenty of folks have accidental contact without lasting
         | effects. Electricity is fickle that way. The difference
         | between, no problem and totally dead can be subtle, random and
         | not obvious. It all depends on the path the current takes. Show
         | it respect.
        
           | Someone wrote:
           | > It only takes 80ma across your heart to stop it. Mains
           | voltage, in both the US and the rest of the world, can easily
           | develop that kind of current, especially if there is moisture
           | involved. And yet plenty of folks have accidental contact
           | without lasting effects.
           | 
           | I think that's because most accidental contact doesn't
           | produce much current across your heart. Touching the two
           | wires of mains electricity with one hand? Not a good idea,
           | but unlikely to kill you. Touching one with your left and one
           | with your right hand? Way more risky. Grabbing one with your
           | left and one with your right hand? Even more risky.
           | 
           | And of course, modern circuitry often has circuit breakers
           | that in many cases rapidly stop the current from flowing.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Residual-
           | current_device#Purpos...:
           | 
           |  _"To reduce the risk of electrocution, RCDs should operate
           | within 25-40 milliseconds with any leakage
           | currents[clarification needed] (through a person) of greater
           | than 30 mA, before electric shock can drive the heart into
           | ventricular fibrillation, the most common cause of death
           | through electric shock. By contrast, conventional circuit
           | breakers or fuses only break the circuit when the total
           | current is excessive (which may be thousands of times the
           | leakage current an RCD responds to). A small leakage current,
           | such as through a person, can be a very serious fault, but
           | would probably not increase the total current enough for a
           | fuse or overload circuit breaker to isolate the circuit, and
           | not fast enough to save a life."_
        
           | dsfyu404ed wrote:
           | >It only takes 80ma across your heart to stop it
           | 
           | In a lab, sure. In reality you need a lot of amps going into
           | the body to get enough amps across the heart to screw with
           | it. Defibrillators wouldn't be chock full of capacitors if
           | that wasn't the case.
           | 
           | Constantly repeating these sorts of misleading DARE-esque
           | talking points is why nobody takes what the safety preachers
           | have to say seriously.
           | 
           | People find out through life experience that smoking while
           | filling gas, a couple amps from arm to arm, working under
           | suspended loads, side rolling big cylinders long distances,
           | using ladders on less than perfect surfaces and other little
           | stuff like that isn't the instant death and dismemberment
           | that they were told it was supposed to be and that throws
           | doubt at everything else.
           | 
           | You can't lie to people 50% of the time even if it's "for
           | their own good" and expect them to believe the other 50% of
           | stuff you say. Electricity and many other things are
           | sufficiently dangerous that you shouldn't need to lie.
        
             | ak217 wrote:
             | > Defibrillators wouldn't be chock full of capacitors if
             | that wasn't the case
             | 
             | Disrupting the heart's rhythm is way easier than restoring
             | it. Especially if the disrupting current got in through
             | punctured skin (which the defibrillator is not allowed to
             | do)
             | 
             | > a couple amps from arm to arm
             | 
             | This is very bad advice. A couple amps at 220VAC is
             | devastating if actually delivered inside your body. The
             | reason people routinely survive mains shocks is the current
             | doesn't actually get through due to intact dry skin, pure
             | (poorly conducting) water, no path across their body, or no
             | path to ground, which is all a matter of luck.
        
             | nerdponx wrote:
             | Wait, what? This is like advocating for playing Russian
             | roulette because it's not guaranteed to kill you.
        
               | rootusrootus wrote:
               | There's a pretty big difference in the odds of a house
               | mains electrical shock stopping your heart compared to
               | the 1 in 6 chance of the bullet being in the chamber that
               | lands in alignment with the barrel.
        
               | nerdponx wrote:
               | How big? Big enough to disregard?
               | 
               | Humans are notoriously bad at evaluating probabilities
               | and expected outcomes in probabilistic scenarios,
               | _especially_ in when one possible outcome is catastrophic
               | with low probability. Otherwise you wouldn 't see so many
               | reckless distracted drivers on the road.
               | 
               | You are advocating for a public communication strategy
               | that only makes sense in some kind of rationalist fantasy
               | world, but not in the real world.
               | 
               | It's not some conspiracy to infantilize the public, it's
               | just good sense to not do dangerous stuff and tempt fate.
        
               | rootusrootus wrote:
               | > How big? Big enough to disregard?
               | 
               | Yes, pretty much. 400 people are electrocuted in the US
               | every year, usually in industrial situations. Thousands
               | of people will get shocked today. The odds of a heart
               | problem are low enough that suggesting people should be
               | terrified of light sockets because it may stop their
               | heart is just fearmongering, and reduces the
               | effectiveness of other safety-related communication. This
               | is like California proudly proclaiming that _everything_
               | causes cancer. Counterproductive.
        
               | gameman144 wrote:
               | I read it more like saying that we should teach "Russian
               | roulette has a 1/6 chance to kill you, which increases
               | every round", rather than "Russian roulette will
               | definitely kill you."
               | 
               | The former puts the information into the hands of
               | individuals, and let's them draw the appropriate
               | conclusions. With the latter, you risk someone saying "I
               | played Russian roulette and it was fine, this whole
               | safety thing is BS"
               | 
               | This risk is even bigger if millions of people have tried
               | and survived the purportedly deadly activity, such as
               | home wiring shocks.
        
             | antipotoad wrote:
             | Exactly why I believe telling the public anything but the
             | whole truth in a pandemic is a terrible idea (not that I
             | really wish to open that can of worms).
        
             | intrepidhero wrote:
             | Defibrillators are full of capacitors to boost the voltage,
             | not current. They also use carefully located electrodes,
             | and come with a razor to remove body hair to create the
             | ideal conditions to affect the heart because they need to
             | work _every time_. That has nothing to do with whether
             | residential power is dangerous or not.
             | 
             | I said mains voltage won't kill you every time but it
             | definitely can. We wouldn't put it in residential settings
             | if it was instant death. The problem is that the conditions
             | that can lead to a deadly accident don't trigger any of our
             | ape-brain fear response. Like any risk it should be
             | approached with knowledge and care.
             | 
             | If you think any of the things you listed are fine and safe
             | just because they don't result in "instant death" then I
             | would say we have very different ideas about risk
             | management.
             | 
             | I don't appreciate you calling me a liar for presenting
             | facts and urging caution.
        
               | dsfyu404ed wrote:
               | Portraying the 80ma number as anything other than what
               | can happen in a freak accident is misleading and
               | dishonest and is counterproductive if the goal is to get
               | people to respect electricity because it is in
               | contradiction to the lived experience of basically
               | everybody.
               | 
               | >The problem is that the conditions that can lead to a
               | deadly accident don't trigger any of our ape-brain fear
               | response.
               | 
               | No. The problem here is that you are peddling fear to get
               | the reaction you want out of people. Potential energy,
               | electric or otherwise is potentially dangerous.
               | Pretending like it's more dangerous than it is to scare
               | people straight is bad. Just because reality doesn't
               | scare people into behaving how you like doesn't entitle
               | you to be dishonest.
               | 
               | >If you think any of the things you listed are fine and
               | safe just because they don't result in "instant death"
               | then I would say we have very different ideas about risk
               | management.
               | 
               | If you think it's ok to just lie to people because you
               | think the end goal is noble I don't care what your ideas
               | are.
        
               | OkayPhysicist wrote:
               | Volts and amps are not independent values if you're
               | applying them to the same resistance (you), and you
               | cannot "boost voltage" using capacitors. A capacitor can
               | only charge to the voltage that it is charged with.
        
               | martyvis wrote:
               | Yes, a single capacitor will only hold the voltage
               | applied to it. But after charging each one and cleverly
               | arranging them in series you can hold very high voltages
               | with a bank of them. This is what occurs in a voltage
               | multiplier circuit.
        
             | idiotsecant wrote:
             | This is a really silly take. Parent post didn't say YOU
             | WILL DIE IF YOU EVER GET SHOCKED, FULL STOP.
             | 
             | They said that you can die if you're shocked. If you have a
             | substantial chance of death doing something it's common
             | sense to avoid that thing, especially when it's trivial to
             | do so. If you want to be a manly man who don't need no
             | safety, go for it, but you're setting up a straw man in
             | OP's post and safety awareness in general that isn't there.
        
               | dsfyu404ed wrote:
               | >Parent post didn't say...
               | 
               | Oh please, Officer Do Good who's doing his guest lecture
               | doesn't tell the class that most of those people who's
               | overdose he responded to probably wouldn't have been
               | saved if they eschewed pot. Presenting the edge case as
               | worst case as though it's the common case is lying.
               | Gating it with verbiage designed to make it not provably
               | lying doesn't change that. There's a reason I compared it
               | to DARE. The dishonest messaging is common to both
               | contexts and does more harm than good to the core
               | messaging.
               | 
               | Getting people worried about low voltage or low amperage
               | serves no useful purpose in any context. It is pure
               | manipulative fear peddling of the same level as making
               | people think pot and alcohol are likely to lead to hard
               | drugs.
               | 
               | I'm not saying electricity can't be dangerous. I'm not
               | saying to be cavalier about stuff in general. I'm saying
               | people engaging in dishonest messaging are doing harm by
               | casting shade upon all the people who are preaching
               | similar messages but with honesty.
        
               | idiotsecant wrote:
               | I'm not sure why you're so determined to be outraged
               | about something.
        
             | MayeulC wrote:
             | Hmm, I didn't experiment much with that, but most houses
             | are wired with 30 mA differential circuit breakers. If
             | there is a difference of more than 30 mA between phase and
             | neutral, it means there is a leak to ground somewhere, so
             | the breaker trips. Well below 80 mA (though not instantly).
             | 
             | If you're wet though, your impedance is lower, so a lot
             | more current can flow through you. That makes it much more
             | dangerous to touch electrical stuff. Same with being
             | barefoot.
             | 
             | Our bodies also have capacitance (complex impedance), which
             | makes us more sensitive to AC than DC.
             | 
             | What I don't get is why do we still use differential
             | circuit breakers while connecting neutral with ground
             | instead of monitoring line impedance a thousand times a
             | second. You'd trip the circuit breaker when connecting
             | (including touching) neutral or phase to ground, without
             | endangering the user (currently we only detect a user
             | touching phase via the current flowing through them).
             | 
             | Have the circuit self-test multiple times a second, and use
             | 10kV (like livestock fences) with very low capacity to
             | measure impedance: give a serious jolt to the person
             | touching a wire, with no danger.
        
         | ealexhudson wrote:
         | I've done the whole "why is my arm vibrating thing" before,
         | except in my case I was trying to get the end of a light
         | fitting off, and both the hot and cold prongs were in my hand.
         | Got a nice couple of blisters where they touched the skin.
         | 
         | My guess would be not enough of the main current was passing
         | across your heart to kill you? I didn't think mains electricity
         | was necessary powerful enough to kill people in most scenarios,
         | just that it is powerful enough to do it in an unlucky few. I'd
         | also imagine the floor wasn't really conducting to earth.
        
         | atoav wrote:
         | > If anyone would like to explain why that didn't kill me I'm
         | all ears.
         | 
         | What kills people is current, not voltage. With AC having your
         | heart beat 50 times a second can also cause you to die _hours_
         | or even _days_ after receiving a shock, but even that requires
         | enough current to flow and cross your skin resistance. Go to
         | ghe hospital even if you are alive and feel well after an
         | electrical shock! Your heart may have suffered from this.
         | 
         | That being said, there can be many things at play here. E.g.
         | there could have been contact resistance between the live wire
         | and the fixture, which would mean the current that could have
         | flown through your body was limited by that resistance. The
         | reason why you can touch an insulated wire is because there are
         | megaohms of resistance between your hand and the wire. Lower
         | that resistance gradually and there will be a point where you
         | feel the electricity slightly, lower ot more and there is the
         | shock. The most hurtful thing would piercing a wire through the
         | skin, because then the skin resistance is gone.
         | 
         | Aside from contact resistance it could also be that the bath
         | the current took through your body was good (so more on the
         | surface, not across the heart, but down one side of the body
         | and so on).
         | 
         | That being said, your description of the shock does not sound
         | like a fully fledged 230V 50Hz shock to me (certified electical
         | engineer). In my experience you _will_ definitely notice it
         | right away, e.g. because you suddenly just see black and a
         | sharp pain including with extreme vibrations that feel like
         | pure energy is hitting you with a brick in the face. Feeling
         | the vibration like you described it and then making the
         | decision to let go sounds like only a very small current was
         | flowing.
        
         | dguest wrote:
         | I worked the lowest paying job in a ski lodge one winter. One
         | day while waiting in the cafeteria line, one hand on the
         | stainless steel counter, I noticed that I got a bit of a shock
         | from the steel railing on the other side.
         | 
         | There was also a stainless fryer on the counter, but insulated
         | with plastic legs, so I did some experimenting by completing
         | the circuit a few ways:
         | 
         | - Counter to rail: weak shock
         | 
         | - Counter to fryer: stronger shock
         | 
         | - Fryer to rail: nothing
         | 
         | I reasoned that the rail and fryer were both grounded, the
         | fryer more so because the metal exterior was wired directly to
         | the ground pin in a 3-prong electrical plug. The problem was
         | the counter.
         | 
         | I was pretty stoked: as a lowly ski lodge porter / custodian
         | I'd diagnosed an electrical fault in the cafeteria! Everyone
         | working there was way above my pay grade, but I got the
         | manager's attention and excitedly explained my three
         | experiments. The manager looked annoyed, confirmed that
         | touching the counter and fryer gave a shock, and then unplugged
         | the fryer (thus removing the _ground_ ) and went on with the
         | day. As far as I know the counter remained electrified for the
         | rest of the season, or longer.
         | 
         | I'm amazed more people don't get electrocuted.
        
         | DamnInteresting wrote:
         | I once worked maintenance at a department store, and one of my
         | main responsibilities was electrical repairs (despite lack of
         | formal training). The lighting circuits were all commercial 277
         | volts. A fluorescent light appeared to be burned out, but as I
         | was changing it, I learned that it was actually a wiring issue
         | when I was installing the new tube atop a 12 foot ladder. My
         | knuckle grazed the fixture and I lit up like a Christmas tree.
         | The resulting reflex caused me to crush the fluorescent tube,
         | but somehow I managed to not fall. Oh, hello death, I
         | acknowledge the brush.
        
         | citizenpaul wrote:
         | Nearly the same thing happened to me. Except instead of the car
         | missing me my brain told me perhaps from tornado safety
         | training in school? If I dropped into the narrow V shaped
         | drainage ditch so the car would pass over me I would live. It
         | did and I did. I can still remember the tire passing inches
         | over my face in slow motion as the car flew into the trees.
         | 
         | I was fine. The driver was some kid that stole their parents
         | car. The kid seemed uninjured. The parents were I guess chasing
         | them in another car as they arrived only a few seconds after
         | the wreck.
        
           | Arrath wrote:
           | Holy shit, glad you're okay. That was quick thinking.
        
             | MrMan wrote:
             | [flagged]
        
               | citizenpaul wrote:
               | I guess you are mocking my near death experience? You
               | must be a wonderful person.
               | 
               | Allow me to even further your disbelief. Nearly the same
               | thing happened to me again years later. Except the second
               | time was a motorcycle. I narrowly sidestepped a
               | motorcycle on a mountain road that had taken the turn too
               | fast while I was looking over a marked "scenic
               | viewpoint". The driver in this case though I do not know
               | if they lived. As they did go over the side of the ravine
               | into very rough rocks and ground. They were alive when
               | Ambulance took them away though.
        
         | kibwen wrote:
         | _> Going around a bend, I saw a car in the ditch on the outside
         | of the curve. I stopped the car, put on the hazards, and went
         | to see if there was anyone in the car. As I was about to cross
         | the highway a car come sliding around the bend more or less
         | sideways._
         | 
         | The lesson here is this: _lightning strikes twice_
         | (frustratingly, the usual idiom is as wrong as can be). In
         | other words, if you observe an outcome and have no other data
         | whatsoever about the conditions that produced that outcome, it
         | is safe to assume that the conditions continue to exist to
         | allow the outcome to happen again.
         | 
         | In this case, the existence of a car that has spun out around a
         | curve is the clue that cars will continue to spin out along
         | that curve.
        
           | j_mo wrote:
           | They teach Motorsport marshals in the UK to always keep the
           | car that has come off-track between yourself and live
           | traffic, and never turn your back to the track.
           | 
           | Whatever caused the accident is just as likely to cause
           | another car to go in, ie oil or coolant on track, or even
           | debris from the current incident.
           | 
           | Same applies on the roads I guess, especially in poor
           | conditions.
        
             | rqtwteye wrote:
             | I was military police in Germany for a few months and the
             | one useful thing I learned there is that when you help
             | another car to always protect yourself with their car or
             | your own. So always park behind the stopped car and avoid
             | being in direct line of traffic.
        
               | jstarfish wrote:
               | That's police training in the US too.
               | 
               | Also, in confrontations where you are outnumbered, keep
               | one of the suspects between you and the rest. Discourages
               | anybody taking a shot at you when their friend/accomplice
               | is in the line of fire.
        
           | taeric wrote:
           | Is it that lightning strikes twice, or that most events are
           | not as rare and in need of as much setup as a lightning
           | strike?
        
             | chaps wrote:
             | It's "better safe than sorry".
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | No, its "the occurrence of a rare event is an indication
               | of the existence of the conditions in which that event
               | occurs in that time and place, so if you have evidence
               | that such an event has recently occurred, you should
               | treat the place where it did as a place where that kind
               | of event has an elevated likelihood of occurring", which
               | is far more specific and actionable than "better safe
               | than sorry".
        
               | chaps wrote:
               | This is a lovely example of HN pedanticism.
        
             | saurik wrote:
             | I think the idea for the metaphor is that, if you see
             | lightning hit a tree, you shouldn't think it is so rare
             | that it wouldn't hit the tree _a second time_ (as some
             | people then think  "lightning never strikes the same place
             | twice")... it is, in fact, _so rare_ to have hit _anything
             | at all_ , that it having hit that tree in the first place
             | is maybe an indication that that tree is acting as some
             | kind of preferential local lightning rod and it is actually
             | likely to hit the same tree again.
             | 
             | https://www.theweathernetwork.com/ca/amp/news/article/can-
             | li...
             | 
             | > Believe it or not, this long-held myth is far from the
             | truth. While the odds of being struck by lightning are low,
             | the chances of lightning striking the same place twice are
             | high. Lightning can, and often will, hit the same spot
             | multiple times.
        
               | taeric wrote:
               | Right, but this is different than if you see a tree that
               | has clearly been hit by a bolt.
               | 
               | That is, seeing the strike shows that things are primed
               | at the moment. Seeing a singed tree is not. (That make
               | sense?)
               | 
               | That said, I can see how that still fits the idea.
        
             | brianpan wrote:
             | I think other people have sort of answered it, but a more
             | general version might be:
             | 
             | If you observe an extremely unlikely event, you should
             | update your Bayesian prior about how likely that event is.
        
               | taeric wrote:
               | Makes sense. I was stuck with the idea that "seeing a car
               | on the side of the road" is closer to seeing a tree that
               | had been struck. Actually seeing it get struck would be
               | like seeing the car actively crash.
               | 
               | Close in thought to each other, but still different
               | things. Granted, I think your point still fully holds.
               | There is a decay function for the likelihood of repeating
               | events. And if you don't have evidence that what you are
               | looking at is old, much safer to assume it is not and
               | that the circumstances are still primed for it to happen
               | again.
        
           | vasco wrote:
           | One very easy application of this axiom is whenever you're
           | near water or rain and don't want to get wet. You're at the
           | beach, climbing on rocks and you're not sure if a wave will
           | hit you if you climb on the next rock. Is the rock wet? If so
           | it will, if it's dry, you're fine. You're next to a sprinkler
           | system and it's going around and you don't know if you'll get
           | hit if you stand here, is the floor wet? And so on.
        
             | jehanson wrote:
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sneaker_wave
        
             | ckdot wrote:
             | Until a bigger wave will hit the dry rock.
        
         | bitexploder wrote:
         | Couple of thoughts: Probably just leaking voltage, so not a
         | full circuit shock, that is my first guess. Also, even wet your
         | skin has high-ish resistance. It also may have traveled on the
         | outside of your body to ground, path of least resistance? I
         | have been bit by 120 and 240. When it is a full load it hekkin
         | hurts.
        
           | 13of40 wrote:
           | Does it matter whether the light was switched on? It seems
           | like the path of least resistance in that scenario would be
           | the other copper wire leading out of the light socket rather
           | than the high resistance person connecting to ground.
           | 
           | I've had a similar experience, where (at the age of about 10)
           | I touched an exposed 120v AC wire on a running water pump,
           | while standing in a muddy field, and I only got a mild
           | vibrating feeling from it.
        
             | kragen wrote:
             | ideally the hot wire is switched, and the outside of the
             | edison socket connects to the neutral wire, so especially
             | if the light is switched off, you're often only in a
             | position to get a shock from whatever is on the neutral
             | wire, which might have been what happened in the bathroom-
             | fixture case
             | 
             | commonly the neutral wire has something like 20vac rms on
             | it for a variety of reasons
             | 
             | if you are ungrounded (due to rubber boots or whatever)
             | your body is in series with your capacitance to ground, and
             | that will commonly give you just a mild vibrating feeling
             | or nothing at all
             | 
             | this 'path of least resistance' thing can be pretty
             | misleading, because if you have two resistors in parallel,
             | the least resistance is always the parallel resistance
             | (i.e. current through both resistors in inverse proportion
             | to their resistances) and not just one resistor or the
             | other
        
             | rootusrootus wrote:
             | > Does it matter whether the light was switched on?
             | 
             | Depends on how it is wired. Sometimes lights are wired so
             | that the switch comes before the fixture, sometimes after.
             | One of several reasons you should always turn power off at
             | the breaker when fiddling with the wiring, instead of
             | assuming it won't be hot if the switch is off.
        
               | 13of40 wrote:
               | No, I mean if the switch is closed...
               | [hot wire]---[switch]---[load]---.
               | |       [neutral wire]-------------------+
               | |                                    [person]
               | |                                    [ground]
               | 
               | In this situation would the current "prefer" to go to
               | neutral or to ground?
               | 
               | Edit: Or this one...                 [neutral
               | wire]---[load]---[switch]---.
               | |       [hot wire]---------------------------+
               | |                                        [person]
               | |                                        [ground]
               | 
               | ...where "load" is like a 20 watt LED bulb or something.
        
               | kragen wrote:
               | this is the wrong way to think about it; the current will
               | prefer to flow through both paths, which is why you can
               | have a 20-watt lightbulb and a 10-watt lightbulb on the
               | same circuit
               | 
               | the parallel resistance is lower
        
               | nucleardog wrote:
               | > One of several reasons you should always turn power off
               | at the breaker when fiddling with the wiring
               | 
               | And once you've turned the power off, test wit with a
               | non-contact voltage detector. A brand name one that's
               | actually been built to UL/CE standards and is subject to
               | actual recalls/etc is under $30. It's a straightforward,
               | pretty much foolproof way to make sure you don't get
               | yourself shocked.
               | 
               | A multimeter is, in theory, a fine alternative but in
               | practice is not. The non-contact detector detects the
               | presence of the fluctuating magnetic field from A/C. A
               | multimeter measures the difference in potential between
               | two points. If you were to, say, have 120V on from same
               | phase on both hot and neutral in an outlet, it would read
               | 0V. If, say, the ground were also not connected then
               | you'd also get 0V testing either against ground. By all
               | accounts there is no voltage in the plug. If, say, each
               | side of the plug were on a different breaker you might
               | think you'd killed the power while it's still live. (Yes,
               | this is based on a true story.) The only way to avoid
               | this is to make sure you have a known good ground to test
               | against. Whereas a non-contact voltage detector
               | immediately lights up like a christmas tree telling you
               | this situation is all sorts of fucked up.
        
         | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
         | > You really can't do worse than standing barefoot, soaking
         | wet, on a stone floor, and grabbing a live fixture, can you?
         | 
         | Would the wetness have actually helped? Why go through all that
         | higher resistance human flesh when the current can go straight
         | to ground via the electrolyte solution that's around you
         | instead?
        
           | Filligree wrote:
           | Only really the case if the available power is limited, so
           | flowing around you means the voltage drops. Otherwise it'll
           | just do both. That, and wet skin has (massively) lower
           | resistance than dry skin. It's unlikely to work out for you.
           | 
           | Skin is also hydrophobic. You're unlikely to have a complete
           | circuit with no breaks on the outside of your body, unless
           | you're currently standing in the shower.
        
             | pflanze wrote:
             | I'd expect blood to conduct electricity much better than
             | house hold water, due to higher salt content. Thus once the
             | resistance of the skin has dropped because of the water on
             | the skin, the path of least resistance should be through
             | the inside of the body.
        
         | peepee1982 wrote:
         | I've been shocked by 230 V light fixtures twice. Both times I
         | had a very similar experience as you described.
         | 
         | My guess is that it went only through the one hand, and the
         | sensation in the arm is just a side effect.
        
       | JoeAltmaier wrote:
       | The Ranger suggested an average one one hotel staffer a year
       | would get themselves killed.
       | 
       | If there were say 60 staff in that hotel, that gives Park
       | employees a half-life of around 40 years.
       | 
       | Don't stay in that industry too long! The demographics are
       | terrible.
        
       | Quillbert182 wrote:
       | My family vacations growing up were often to National Parks, and
       | Glacier is definitely my favorite.
       | 
       | On my first trip there, when I was hiking with my family on the
       | Iceberg Lake trail, a couple appeared running back towards us
       | with their bear spray pointed behind them. We were at first
       | concerned that they were running from a bear, but a few moments
       | later, a moose appeared behind them trotting down the trail. We
       | turned around and booked it back down the trail until we found a
       | spot where we could get off the trail behind some trees, and the
       | moose ended up turning off.
       | 
       | That was quite a scare at the time, and it could have ended very
       | poorly, but it makes for a great story now.
        
       | bell-cot wrote:
       | Ah, humans. Even when there are no cultural / group loyalty /
       | greed / etc. reasons for a person to behave very differently from
       | how they clearly know they should...they still tend to behave
       | very differently from how they clearly know they should.
        
         | gpapilion wrote:
         | According to Jonathan Haidt in the righteous mind, western
         | cultures value autonomy, so the behavior is well explained by
         | this.
        
       | NordSteve wrote:
       | Many years ago, my wife and I were driving from Phoenix to
       | Flagstaff AZ USA on the I-70 expressway. We encountered a
       | blizzard about halfway there. Driving conditions were bad, so we
       | turned around and headed back to Phoenix. We're from a snowy
       | climate, so understand the dynamics of driving in slippery, snowy
       | conditions -- you need to a) stay away from other vehicles and b)
       | not slide off the road.
       | 
       | Driving through the storm in darkness, we saw through heavy
       | snowfall the lights of a vehicle that was obviously off the road.
       | I immediately started to slow down and we were both watching the
       | vehicle, which had its backup lights on, to see what it might do.
       | 
       | Just as we arrived near the vehicle, my wife called out and I
       | narrowly avoided hitting someone who was standing in the middle
       | of the freeway trying to prevent vehicles from going behind their
       | car.
       | 
       | That's the closest I've ever come to killing someone with my car.
        
       | throw827474737 wrote:
       | > laughing as we chanted it on the days when we took acid and
       | went swimming.
       | 
       | WTF, even without the additional "challenges" of Yellowstone
       | Lake.. I neither would nor could imagine go swimming then :o
        
         | bioemerl wrote:
         | There was recently a foot found in a pond. Lake was acidic and
         | hot. Someone jumped in.
         | 
         | Please don't fuck with nature for fun. It's all great memories,
         | but one of 100 of you will die and someone else has to find
         | your body and clean up your mess.
        
           | sambapa wrote:
           | That's not the kind of acid they're talking about ;)
        
         | sva_ wrote:
         | It seems to me that dropping acid and entering large bodies of
         | water is not a good combination.
        
       | cat_plus_plus wrote:
       | Any optional activity has some risks and activities that are most
       | fulfilling and exciting tend to have the most risk. Taking
       | maximum precautions also tends to take away from fun, like flying
       | commercial with an experienced pilot vs hang gliding. For me the
       | takeaway is simply to weigh pros and cons of different options
       | and if someone doesn't make it, it was still their choice.
       | 
       | I once decided to climb Half Dome cables despite clouds that
       | could have brought a thunderstorm and electrocuted me. On the
       | other hand, I feel that 1. having had the experience of climbing
       | Half Dome was a great asset to me in two decades since, 2. due to
       | various life circumstances since I would probably not have come
       | again later and 3. By now I am probably too old and busy with
       | other priorities to manage requisite backpacking trip with two
       | full days of hiking. So in retrospect, I don't regret my decision
       | and, had it not worked out, well I would not be around to regret
       | it. So long as one goes into things with eyes open, I am not
       | going to judge.
        
       | keyme wrote:
       | Life is lived in those moments one later calls stupid shit. I
       | wish I did a lot more stupid shit when I was younger.
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | I know someone who spent her twenties as an ocean lifeguard,
       | including the real Baywatch, LA County Fire Department
       | lifeguards. That's competitive to get in, and she's one of the
       | few women to qualify. 6 feet tall, blonde, and muscular. Country
       | girl who grew up on ten acres in Northern California. She spent
       | years rescuing people who did stupid stuff. During the off-season
       | for the beach she did off-road vehicle rescues. (Not the vehicle,
       | just the driver.) She's surfed Fiji and New Zealand, and bicycled
       | from Portugal to Italy alone. She's done endurance riding
       | (horses) in Death Valley, and has ridden the Tevis 100 mile ride
       | through the Sierras twice. Both she and the horses came back
       | unharmed.
       | 
       | She's a cautious person. She prepares and trains hard for
       | everything she does. She qualified as an emergency medical
       | technician (that gets you a big pay boost with LA county
       | lifeguards). She's totally anti-drug. She comes across as a laid-
       | back surfer girl, very relaxed, and doesn't seem competitive or
       | too serious. She is, but it doesn't show.
       | 
       | That's how you do it and not get yourself killed.
        
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         | lamontcg wrote:
         | I got certified as a cave diver in 2009 and I'm still alive. I
         | don't break rules and keep things nice and mellow underwater.
         | Same mentality as dealing with internet security or complicated
         | changes in brittle codebases--think about all the edge cases.
        
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