[HN Gopher] How to Befriend Crows
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       How to Befriend Crows
        
       Author : karmanyaahm
       Score  : 743 points
       Date   : 2022-12-26 16:27 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | lovehashbrowns wrote:
       | I had lunch with a crow once in downtown Austin at one of those
       | outside eating tables. I sat down with some pizza and saw the
       | crow standing by, likely waiting for me to finish and throw away
       | whatever I didn't eat. I figured it'd be easier if we ate
       | together, so I picked out a piece of bread and left it on the
       | table an arm's length away from me, and it hopped on top of the
       | table and ate the piece. Then I would take a bite of the pizza
       | and tear off a piece for my crow pal for it to eat, and it went
       | that way for about 30 minutes. Easily one of the most rewarding
       | experiences for me as a lifelong city slicker. The lil birb could
       | tell we were sharing a meal and I wasn't a threat. I'd love to do
       | that again! Peanuts sounds good. I s'ppose I can try picking a
       | consistent walking route and taking peanuts with me to try and
       | make another crow pal, maybe a longer friendship this time.
        
       | theteapot wrote:
       | TL;DR Give them food. Shocker.
        
         | 867-5309 wrote:
         | can vouch for this approach
        
       | osrec wrote:
       | Interesting. Also, Mastodon threads seem to be much easier to
       | follow that Twitter... Twitter feels like a confusing mess of
       | replies in any order. I could be wrong, but this felt much more
       | ordered, and therefore made more sense to me.
       | 
       | Edit: also faster.
        
       | wpietri wrote:
       | I can vouch for this approach. I lived in the territory of a
       | couple of ravens (close relatives of crows; just as smart and
       | twice as large) and it took me maybe 18 months to build a close
       | relationship.
       | 
       | I started out just talking to them and throwing whole peanuts
       | (roasted, unsalted) on the ground while I was doing it. They
       | looked at me warily and did not come close. Later on, the peanuts
       | would disappear, but I was never sure why. This period lasted
       | months.
       | 
       | Eventually they would come down when I threw a peanut and
       | approach it warily. If it was closer than 15 or 20 feet to me,
       | I'd have to back away to give them enough room. Then I could
       | throw another peanut near (but not at!) them and they'd walk over
       | to get it.
       | 
       | After many more months of this (six, I'd guess) they were
       | somewhat less wary of me and would hang out on our back fence
       | sometimes. So we worked out a ritual. I would place a piece of
       | food on the fence rail and back away; they'd hop over and get it.
       | As he suggested, I would talk with them as I did it. I'm sure the
       | words didn't matter, but I suspect the tone did, and it helped me
       | focus on being soothing with voice, body language, and behavior.
       | 
       | Toward the end of my time there we got so that one of them would
       | take high-value food, like a chicken bone with bits of meat left
       | on it, straight out of my hand. That one, who we called George,
       | would happily sit pretty close to me after eating. Out of arm's
       | reach, of course; they were still a bit wary. But it would settle
       | down and chill out. Truly a magical experience to just hang out
       | with a big, smart bird like that. You looking at one another,
       | both trying to figure out exactly what the other's deal is. And
       | me, at least, knowing, that I'd never fully know.
        
         | survirtual wrote:
         | I love this. Thank you for sharing. I've always found crows and
         | ravens to be majestic birds, even with the reputations they
         | have. Thank you for being kind to them.
        
         | fsckboy wrote:
         | > _I can vouch for this approach. I lived in the territory of a
         | couple of ravens (close relatives of crows; just as smart and
         | twice as large)_
         | 
         | Here's the thing. You're suggesting a raven is as intelligent
         | as a crow. Are they in the same family? Yes, _Corvus_. But
         | scientists who study crows, will tell say, specifically, crows
         | are smarter than ravens. But it would be okay for either of us
         | to just admit we 're wrong, you know?
         | 
         | https://crowadvice.com/crow-vs-raven-intelligence/
        
           | hexatin wrote:
           | Haha, I haven't seen a callback to Unidan in a long while --
           | I still think about this copypasta whenever I see people
           | talking about crows online.
        
         | prox wrote:
         | My amateur theory is that talking makes you less likely to be a
         | predator. You basically say "here I am", Predators tend to be
         | quiet and sneak up on their prey. I think the tone does indeed
         | help somewhat in my experience.
        
           | oasisbob wrote:
           | Makes sense to me. Crows have caught me tree climbing under
           | them during their evening flights to the communal roost, the
           | result was always a chaotic mess. They just couldn't leave it
           | alone. Without fail, eventually one crow would notice and
           | start the alarm call, then the hundreds of crows arriving at
           | the situation would break off flight and begin mobbing as
           | well.
           | 
           | I must have seemed very novel and sneaky.
           | 
           | https://youtu.be/RuOVY4r9ipg
        
             | dtgriscom wrote:
             | Looks like that scene from Kiki's Delivery Service.
        
             | tomxor wrote:
             | I sometimes end up crossing paths with birds while rock
             | climbing. You try to avoid them where possible (especially
             | if they are protected/endangered) but it's not always
             | possible to spot them from the ground. Peregrines will warn
             | you by swooping past you really fast, even if you are 10s
             | of meters to the side of their nest.
             | 
             | It can sometimes end up in a weird kind of stand off, where
             | they can see your path is through their nest or perch but
             | they don't really know what your intent is so you just end
             | up staring at each other. The most aggressive I came across
             | was a big seagull, which I'm pretty sure was protecting
             | it's eggs since it clearly wasn't going to move, thankfully
             | that line was easy enough that I could just figure out an
             | alternate way around. Climbing you also sometimes get to
             | see some of the horrific remains from the predators - One
             | time towards the end of covid lockdowns some peregrines had
             | reclaimed a pinnacle due to the unusual absence of
             | climbers. When I got to the top it looked like a
             | sacrificial temple, filled with the carcases of all the
             | other bird species, not to mention the bees nest en route,
             | that one was a mini adventure.
        
             | TedDoesntTalk wrote:
             | Great video. Were you scared? I once walked under some
             | trees in which many crows were roosting. Scared the crap
             | out of me. I thought they were going to attack. Maybe they
             | had young and wanted to protect them, I don't know, but I
             | ran.
        
               | oasisbob wrote:
               | Thanks. It was a bit scary the first time, but they keep
               | their distance. No resident crows in this grove, afaik.
               | 
               | Sometimes I wonder if I'm already being recognized as
               | "that weird tree guy", even on the ground, and what it
               | would take to test that.
        
           | busyant wrote:
           | > talking makes you less likely to be a predator
           | 
           | For a second I thought I was dead. But, when I heard all the
           | noise, I knew they were cops. Only cops talk that way. If
           | they'd been wiseguys, I wouldn't have heard a thing. I
           | would've been dead.
           | 
           | -Henry Hill, Goodfellas
        
           | agumonkey wrote:
           | yeah, the more information you give the less danger others
           | feel
        
           | lisper wrote:
           | Yes, of course. Your tone has to convey not only, "I am not a
           | predator" but also "I do not perceive you as a threat, and so
           | the purpose of my vocalization is not to scare you away
           | because I perceive _you_ as a threat, and if you come close I
           | am likely to try to harm you in order to defend myself. "
           | 
           | In nature, the Bayesian prior on an entity that is not a
           | member of your species, or even your tribe, seeking an
           | interaction with you that will ultimately be to your benefit
           | is very, very low.
        
             | Retric wrote:
             | There are quite a few symbiotic relationships in nature.
             | 
             | There are several examples where small birds, mammals,
             | fish, or even some invertebrates clean much larger animals.
             | The exchange straightforward, large animal gets clean
             | smaller one eats the parasites, etc.
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cleaning_symbiosis
        
               | lisper wrote:
               | > There are quite a few symbiotic relationships in
               | nature.
               | 
               | Yes, of course, but unless such a relationship is
               | _already established_ the odds are very much against a
               | random encounter between different species being mutually
               | beneficial.
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | The interesting bit around cleaning is the relationships
               | are between individual animals rather than being species
               | wide. Some species of fish for example will mix in
               | removal of parasites with drinking some blood and larger
               | animals eating the cleaners also happens.
        
               | jakzurr wrote:
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_cleanerfish
               | 
               | These things are incredible. (Or incredibly mean?)
        
             | maxbond wrote:
             | Hummingbirds I've noticed are very curious about other
             | creatures. To a fault even, mantises will sometimes exploit
             | this to catch hummingbirds (they are much more powerful
             | than you might expect). I don't know if this is universal
             | across hummingbird species/groups, but I'm able get very
             | close to them by just patiently standing still by the
             | feeder for 10 or 15 minutes, and they'll start
             | investigating me.
        
               | anthomtb wrote:
               | I have noticed this about hummingbirds as well. We have a
               | feeder on our deck and if you are out there when they are
               | feeding expect to receive an inspection. I like to think
               | the thought in their brain is "are you a flower?"
               | 
               | I've also had a hummingbird come within a few centimeters
               | of landing on my hand while mounting biking (stopped, of
               | course). I credit my new-at-the-time bright red gloves
               | for that interaction.
        
               | bbarnett wrote:
               | Most hummingbirds are opportunistic eaters, and also eat
               | insects.
               | 
               | Such as knats and such, which love humans.
               | 
               | So they may be looking for a meal, too.
        
               | dreamcompiler wrote:
               | I can go outside holding a feeder and as long as I stand
               | still, after about a minute the hummers will feed while
               | I'm holding the thing. Brave little birds.
        
               | dtgriscom wrote:
               | Nasty little birds. We put out a feeder, and they battle
               | each other for it, even when there's plenty for all. It's
               | a good thing they don't decide to gang up on humans; they
               | could do a lot of damage while we're still looking at
               | where they were a hundred wingbeats ago.
        
               | mark-r wrote:
               | I saw a hummingbird attack a squirrel once. Nasty indeed.
               | I suspect the squirrel was getting a little too close to
               | its nest.
        
               | yareally wrote:
               | Squirrels are cute, but they'll happily steal the eggs or
               | hatchlings out of the nest if given the chance.
        
               | maxbond wrote:
               | Different species, perhaps different groups within a
               | species, behave differently. I've heard of this but never
               | seen it.
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | My sister had one land on her finger and point with its
               | head to which flowers it wanted her to move her hand to.
               | This was without a feeder, but in an area with lots of
               | people around (at a winery).
        
               | quercusa wrote:
               | We used to have one that would hover in front of our
               | kitchen window when the feeder (at the other end of the
               | house) was empty.
        
             | 082349872349872 wrote:
             | > _the Bayesian prior ... is very, very low._
             | 
             | Felis Catus: OK, stubclaws, listen up. You're going to toil
             | the fields and by the sweat of your brow fill up a barn to
             | attract my mice. Got that? Agriculture, Architecture, the
             | works? Good. I'd explain to you how to make laser pointers
             | for chasing, but I doubt you'd understand ... your kind
             | always has to work things out for themselves, anyway. Now
             | go forth and do your best to hold this covenant, you
             | inflexible hairless monkey.
        
               | lisper wrote:
               | You owe me a new keyboard ;-)
        
               | tareqak wrote:
               | Felis Catus: Correction, human. It was always my
               | keyboard. You were just using it without my permission,
               | and I reappropriated it when I felt like it. Now, go get
               | me some wet cat food for your slanderous outburst before
               | I send you to the cat food factory permanently.
        
               | polishdude20 wrote:
               | Is this from a book?
        
               | 082349872349872 wrote:
               | Sorry, nope. Had one of my replies called a "nonsensical
               | answer produced by an AI" in a different thread, so I
               | done did my best to outpace the machine with that one.
               | When 082... was jus' a little baby, sittin' on their
               | papa's knee       Well they picked up a keyboard and a
               | little CRT       Said keyboard gon' be the death of me,
               | lord, lord       Keyboard gon' be the death of me
               | 
               | https://youtu.be/lY_s42QvOTs?t=50
        
               | numeri wrote:
               | I'd read it, if so!
        
           | 082349872349872 wrote:
           | I have an amateur theory that strange wildlife, unlike
           | strange people, are made much more comfortable by avoiding
           | eye contact.
           | 
           | Parent comment would explain this observation: predators gaze
           | upon their prey.
           | 
           | (flipping the arrows around, I've seen the advice to dance
           | tango, not so much with "snappiness" as is popularly
           | supposed, but in a predatory manner: slow stalking,
           | interspersed with rapid pounces)
        
             | eyelidlessness wrote:
             | This is definitely true for dogs/canids, eye contact is a
             | signal of dominance and/or aggression. It's common advice
             | to soften your glance if you're approaching an unfamiliar
             | or potentially aggressive dog. It's also helpful to make
             | _more direct_ eye contact when establishing you're in
             | charge when training them.
             | 
             | I've also noticed with many birds that they prefer indirect
             | attention. This includes not just eye contact, but pointing
             | a camera (or really anything) in their direction. Which
             | unfortunately means I have very little photographic
             | evidence of the many times I've had birds just hanging
             | around being pleasant companions for a while.
        
               | mcbits wrote:
               | The birds around here don't stick around long enough to
               | let me earn their trust, but I can get pretty close to
               | the deer, rabbits, and squirrels just by pointing the
               | camera off to my side so I'm standing perpendicular and
               | appear to be focused on stuff on the ground instead of
               | them.
        
               | eyelidlessness wrote:
               | Oh damn I meant to mention rabbits! At least the ones
               | around me don't even mind if I point a camera at them so
               | long as I'm looking another way. So I have lots of good
               | blurry or poorly aimed rabbit photos. They really do seem
               | to believe that if they go totally still nothing can see
               | them until proven otherwise. And maybe they're right, I
               | almost always have to tell my pup "there's a bun!" And
               | even then it's usually after I've directed her chase
               | before she sees the fleeing things.
        
             | naniwaduni wrote:
             | > unlike strange people
             | 
             | and ... like ... non-strange people?
        
             | julian_sark wrote:
             | I have read this somewhere, not sure where, but by someone
             | very much in touch with nature. He called it the "lost car
             | keys" approach. Always approach animals as if looking for
             | your car keys on the ground: avoiding eye contact, and not
             | in a straight line.
        
             | IIsi50MHz wrote:
             | Preference for eye contact varies with culture (among other
             | factors). While people in a place like USA might regard a
             | person who avoids eye contact as sneaky or untrustworthy,
             | people in a place like Japan are more likely to regard
             | direct eye contact as a sign that they are distrusted by
             | the person.
        
             | aidenn0 wrote:
             | Every bird I've interacted with prefers when I look at it
             | from one side, or barring that, closing an eye; I think two
             | eyes on it screams "predator"
        
             | KineticLensman wrote:
             | (I volunteer at a Raptor conservancy). Totally. Making eye
             | contact with a big predator generally means either 'I want
             | to eat you' or 'I want to make love to you'. But you also
             | have to maintain situational awareness, to avoid getting a
             | clout on the head from some big talons
        
         | tgtweak wrote:
         | My grandmother used to do the same with squirrels and chipmunks
         | - but only leave the nuts out for the first few times, then
         | she'd bring them back in after waiting for a bit. They
         | immediately figured it out and would come down to get them on
         | future attempts. I imagine the same would work with crows.
        
         | Abishek_Muthian wrote:
         | I belong to an ancestor worshiping culture(tmilll|Tamizh),
         | Crows have very high reverence here as they're believed to be
         | carrying our ancestors soul.
         | 
         | So each day many people here feed the crows first with rice
         | before breakfast and on new moon day many undergo fasting, Make
         | special food and give it to the crows first.
         | 
         | Obviously crows , Extraordinarily intelligent as they are keep
         | perfect timings for their food and seems to know the lunar
         | phases; No wonder we revere them.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | bothandeach wrote:
         | Never know. And so interesting that they are dinosaurs,
         | literally. They will probably win in the end with our own oh-
         | so-clever Warming pushing us out. Dinos the winners.
        
         | godelski wrote:
         | I talk to them and throw cashews at them from my balcony. They
         | have gotten pretty close in a matter of weeks, despite having a
         | cat (she is scared of them tbh and I think they know). I also
         | leave some nuts on the railing near my back door for them to
         | grab (make sure they watch me place them) so they can get them
         | when I go inside (my cat loves watching this and the little
         | birds). Though sometimes they do a quick grab if there's some
         | distance. It really is a lot of fun and to watch their behavior
         | patterns. For example, there will often only be one or two on
         | the ground and checking things out while more in the trees or
         | roofs. Once they realize those two are not dying from the food
         | you feed there's a few caws and more come down. The spotters
         | are the ones that make the quick grabs at my railing and it
         | took a bit for this to happen so I think they trust me some. In
         | a different place I lived one crow came right up to me, just
         | out of arm's reach, for sunflower seeds. They really are smart
         | and friendly creatures. They'll even talk back a bit.
        
         | h4x0rr wrote:
         | I misread the entire thread as cows instead of crows. I was
         | wondering how cows are supposed to hop on fence rails xD
        
           | unrealp wrote:
           | You are not alone. I did the same for some unknown reason :D
        
             | rozularen wrote:
             | haha me too but I'd say I have a bit of dyslexia
        
               | unrealp wrote:
               | on serious note, interesting. i have blind spots in the
               | eye, due to an auto immune type condition. since the
               | blind spots are near central vision, brain tends to
               | 'fill' or predict whats there. so i tend to sometimes
               | misread words.
        
         | fossuser wrote:
         | If you have a pet parrot you can get a more personal glimpse of
         | their intelligence. We have a cockatiel and it's interesting to
         | get to know another intelligent species from a different branch
         | of the tree.
        
           | vips7L wrote:
           | You will also get a more personal glimpse at their tyranny. I
           | type this as my conure is having a fit because I wouldn't
           | share any French fries with him.
        
             | janlaureys wrote:
             | I just spat out my tea reading this comment.
        
             | m463 wrote:
             | Have you taught your conure to dance? They have rhythm and
             | can dance the smile off the face of smug dog owners. ;)
        
       | infradig wrote:
       | Is it legal to feed wild animals in other countries?
        
       | ericlnu wrote:
       | amazing <3
        
       | newshorts wrote:
       | I can't confirm "befriending" crows, but I can confirm that you
       | can make them your enemy.
       | 
       | A while back I had found what I thought was an injured bird. I
       | captured it and brought it to a rehabilitation center for wild
       | birds.
       | 
       | Turns out I had just capture a baby crow that hadn't learned to
       | fly yet, which explains why there were two other crows (parents)
       | barking at me from trees as I tried to capture their chick.
       | 
       | After the rehab center verified I had not injured the chick
       | during capture they let me return it where I found it.
       | 
       | Let me just say the parents were not happy with me when I let
       | that chick out of the box they started divebombing me.
       | 
       | I had my own baby about a month later and as I was carrying my
       | kid in from the parking lot I got dive Bombed by a crow.
       | 
       | I've always thought it was one of the parents retaliating.
       | 
       | From that point on every time they saw me they would start
       | barking at me
        
         | diffxx wrote:
         | Once I was walking atop a mountain that is heavily populated
         | with ravens at certain times of year. I looked over and noticed
         | one was doing some aerial acrobatics. To my astonishment, it
         | was holding a fairly large rock that it was using as a
         | counterweight that it could spin against. When it landed, it
         | dropped the rock and I tried to find it. I'm not 100% sure I
         | found the right rock, but I estimate that the rock was
         | somewhere between a quarter and half a pound. As much as I
         | appreciated the bird's dexterity, it was a bit scary to think
         | of the damage it could do if motivated.
        
         | jrochkind1 wrote:
         | You are almost certainly actually right, the crows knew you and
         | were pissed. It can get very bad, the crows whose child you
         | stole can somehow tell all the other crows who you are too,
         | even city-wide, and they can get very aggressive. You have
         | gotten off easy so far.
         | 
         | Crows are _incredible_. And yeah, you can definitely make
         | friends with them too. This Harper 's article has some amazing
         | stories of people making enemies, and also really touching
         | stores of friendship.
         | 
         | > From then on, each time Adam or Dani walked onto their back
         | deck, a crow would call out and the murder would reappear as if
         | summoned, squawking so loudly that it was impossible to carry
         | on a conversation. Sometimes the crows would dive-bomb them or
         | attack Mona when she went out to pee. When Adam took the dog
         | for a walk, the crows swooped low and followed them. He tried
         | walking Mona in other neighborhoods, but the crows terrorized
         | him there too. Adam and Dani felt under siege. They worried for
         | Lina's safety. "The crows are like the Mafia," Dani told me a
         | few weeks into their ordeal. They'd stopped going outside, she
         | said, unless it was absolutely necessary. And because of the
         | pandemic, they couldn't really go anywhere else.
         | 
         | > The day Dani rescued Mona from the crows, a neighbor thought
         | he'd spotted a fledgling in Mona's mouth before the murder
         | first descended. Dani and Adam weren't so sure--they had never
         | seen Mona attack a bird before. But it nevertheless occurred to
         | them that they might be on some kind of crow hit list. Through
         | online research, Adam learned that crows have an uncanny
         | ability to recognize humans, assign them moral qualities, and
         | pass this information on to other crows, even to future
         | generations. Desperate, Adam took to Reddit. If you're at war
         | with the crows, post after post advised, your best option is to
         | move.
         | 
         | --https://harpers.org/archive/2021/04/the-crow-whisperer-
         | anima...
         | 
         | They enlist a crow expert to help them apologize and make peace
         | with the crows, and it does eventually work. Hope you don't
         | ever need that advice!
        
       | macawfish wrote:
       | People are upvoting this after watching "It's a Wonderful Life"
       | yesterday I see
        
       | 11235813213455 wrote:
       | All strategies here are about food, I don't think feeding any
       | kind of wild animals is good
        
         | Tepix wrote:
         | We wouldn't have non-wild animals if noone had started feeding
         | them.
        
           | astrange wrote:
           | IIRC dogs may have domesticated themselves by coming to visit
           | us to eat our poop, not our hand feeding.
        
             | Cupertino95014 wrote:
             | I realize that all this is conjectural, but:
             | 
             | Why is that more likely than just "eating the bones, skin,
             | feet, and other animal parts the humans didn't eat" ?
             | 
             | Either is more likely than "hand feeding" since that takes
             | a pretty tamed animal.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | Hunter gatherers eat the whole animal. Who's throwing out
               | skin and feet?
               | 
               | https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/animals-and-
               | us/20200...
        
               | Cupertino95014 wrote:
               | thanks. New name for a restaurant for dogs: _The
               | Coprophagia Cafe_
        
           | 11235813213455 wrote:
           | "have animals" is very anthropocentrist
        
           | voakbasda wrote:
           | In many places it is now outright illegal to feed wildlife.
           | Humanity's period of whole species domestication has passed.
        
         | Nomentatus wrote:
         | Turns out it's okay nutritionally to feed ducks (for example)
         | fresh (thawed frozen) peas. Just not bread. Changing their
         | habits might be a different consideration.
        
         | asdf123wtf wrote:
         | Yea, generally when people feed animals it is harmful to the
         | animal or potentially dangerous for humans in a variety of ways
         | or you turn the animals into pests.
         | 
         | Is there something special about crows where these things
         | aren't so much a factor?
        
           | fzeroracer wrote:
           | I think a lot of it is the high intelligence of crows. If you
           | feed say, wild deer or other animals they become dependent on
           | humans to survive or end up sticking around human areas.
           | Crows are already everywhere and their intelligence means
           | that if the food source stops, they can still just do their
           | thing. It doesn't disrupt the ecosystem though it can make
           | them into an annoyance for neighbors.
           | 
           | The more we learn about crows, their behaviors etc the more
           | we realize that we severely understate their intelligence
           | with each new finding.
        
             | aidenn0 wrote:
             | Also crows can tell humans apart, so feeding crows makes
             | them less afraid of _you_ while feeding other animals can
             | make them less afraid of all humans.
        
           | asmor wrote:
           | Crows are generally a pest inhibitor, given that they will
           | eat carrion before less desirable "pests" like rats get to
           | it.
           | 
           | They also already are adopted to living in human cities.
           | Usually in parks where they can do some traditional hunting
           | intermixed with trash collecting and some direct feeding. But
           | they are usually not reliant on the later and will move on in
           | Winter if the other sources dry up.
        
       | geocrasher wrote:
       | When I tried to befriend the neighborhood crows, my wife took
       | pity on me and got me a cat as a gift.
        
       | futuretaint wrote:
       | i fed a few blocks of crows for 4 years. mostly dry cat food.
       | each block had a unique family group and they swoop down in
       | succession, hop over and i'd stand there and watch them eat for a
       | bit. I also saw a crow funeral once and I stopped a crow dive
       | bombing run (on other pedestrians).
        
       | joe__f wrote:
       | I saved a blackbird's life once.
       | 
       | He was flying low across the road near my house and I saw him get
       | hit by a car. So I went over to stand in the road and make sure
       | the other cars coming drove around him, and I picked him up. One
       | of his eyes was bloody where he'd been hit, and he was stunned
       | and very distressed. I kind of just knew what to do, I held him
       | in my hands by the side of the road for a few minutes which I
       | think helped him calm down from the shock, and then he jumped
       | down and sat for a bit when he was ready. I stayed and watched
       | him for a while, but I could tell he'd had enough after a bit so
       | I just left him.
       | 
       | I didn't see him fly away but I don't think his things were
       | broken and he wasn't there the next morning. I guess he probably
       | only had one working eye, I don't know how well birds manage with
       | only one eye. Maybe he didn't make it but I hope he did, and I'm
       | sure he would've been stuck shocked and panicking in the road
       | until he got flattened without my help.
       | 
       | It was cool.
        
         | yamrzou wrote:
         | I was expecting the end of the story to be that you suddenly
         | met him after after a long time and that he recognized you :(
        
           | joe__f wrote:
           | Awh yeah, I see quite a lot of blackbirds and I always look
           | out for one with a broken eye. I haven't met him yet, it was
           | back in the summer some time
        
         | johnmaguire wrote:
         | I once came upon ducks that had been hit in the road. All were
         | dead, but one. It was a similar scene: blood from its eyes,
         | total shock, and it seemed blind. We kept it overnight and took
         | it to an animal rescue in the morning.
         | 
         | They kept us updated and let us know a week or two later that
         | it'd fully recovered and had been released. Made us very happy
         | to hear.
        
           | joe__f wrote:
           | Yeah I did think about taking him to an animal rescue centre,
           | in the end he seemed like he didn't want me around any more
           | so I just left him to it, hard to tell I guess
        
         | seunosewa wrote:
         | I feel bad to have to say that he may have been snacked on by a
         | predator. If he could fly, he would probably have flown while
         | you were there.
        
           | wan_ala wrote:
           | Excuse my ignorance, but what type of animal would eat a
           | crow?
        
             | tacotime wrote:
             | A raccoon can definitely kill and eat (part of) a chicken
             | so I'd imagine a crow could be on the menu. Or a coyote. Or
             | a possum or bear. There are vids of deer eating birds and
             | other animals.
        
             | joe__f wrote:
             | It wasn't a crow it was a blackbird [1], they're smaller
             | and definitely lower down the food chain. If a fox came by
             | while he was still on the ground it might have eaten him,
             | they don't normally come out in the daytime though
             | 
             | [1] https://cdn.birdwatchingdaily.com/2017/06/European-
             | Blackbird...
        
         | pierrec wrote:
         | So I've done a lot of volunteering at a bird refuge (LPO Ile
         | Grande). Birds hit by traffic get something similar to shock
         | and will sometimes recover and fly again just by resting for
         | some time, which can range from seconds to days. Unless they
         | have broken bones, in which case they're toast. So I'd say it's
         | possible that your bird survived. More likely it didn't, but
         | there is hope.
        
           | joe__f wrote:
           | Thanks that's nice to know, I like to think he did make it :)
           | He was lying sprawled out on the road and he seemed to fold
           | in his wings ok after I picked him up, so I guessed they
           | weren't broken
        
       | residualmind wrote:
       | I always loved the crows in the city and tried to be friendly to
       | them, even sometimes feeding them - one time I had up to 30 crows
       | patiently sitting around me, each one waiting for me to throw
       | them their little piece of cheese which they would catch from the
       | air. So I always was under the impression that my neighborhood
       | crows tolerated or maybe even liked me.
       | 
       | This changed when I got a dog and moved to a different part of
       | the city. The dog loves scaring away birds by running up to them,
       | which the crows weren't happy about obviously. I tried to prevent
       | the dog scaring crows (pigeons were O.K.) but she managed to
       | scare them a few times anyways.
       | 
       | The crows didn't like this. Up to a point where whenever the dog
       | and me encountered crows, the birds would warn and call others,
       | swarming around us in a threatening, scary way.
       | 
       | But after months of me carefully keeping the dog from scaring the
       | crows, pulling her back on the leash and letting her know the
       | crows are our friends, the crows are friendly again. Even when we
       | walk closely by crows, they don't mind. I'm 100% convinced the
       | crows have learned that the dog is under my control and I keep
       | her from charging at them.
       | 
       | No more warning caws and ganging up on us. Such amazing birds.
        
       | loudthing wrote:
       | "How to befriend crows", also known as "how to get away with a
       | murder".
        
       | keeptrying wrote:
       | I live in the Oakland hills so our living room is at the height
       | where birds fly.
       | 
       | Over the last 5 years I've realized that there are a pair of
       | crows which essentially own the airspace above our house and in
       | front of it.
       | 
       | Each time a hawk or owl or crane flies into this airspace, it
       | will be hounded by these 2 crows. And it happens pretty often.
       | 
       | (One of the crows only has 1 leg - that's why I know its the same
       | 2 each time. We've named him Blackbeard.)
       | 
       | I imagine there is so much of nature we just blindly miss.
        
         | Nomentatus wrote:
         | I've seen a woodpecker (I think it was) and a crow combine to
         | challenge a falcon, in Edmonton repeatedly; although not in the
         | air. The competition was for tree tops in the ravine and lasted
         | a while with the smaller birds zooming up to harrass the
         | sitting falcon then diving down to lower perches the falcon had
         | trouble getting at. Eventually the falcon had enough and left.
        
       | PreInternet01 wrote:
       | Just from my experience as a cyclist in Amsterdam, crows are
       | amazingly intelligent. They actually participate in traffic, and
       | know the difference between bicycles, motor vehicles and light
       | rail (they will get out of the way just-in-time for the first
       | two, and happily ignore the latter if they're outside the profile
       | of the train set).
       | 
       | Pigeons, on the other hand, are the species that gave birth to
       | the term 'bird brain'. They will happily sit in front of oncoming
       | traffic forever, then take evasive action that is, like, the
       | opposite of the optimal strategy...
        
         | jimmaswell wrote:
         | Waiting until the last second and zigzagging out of the way
         | works on animal predators, just not manmade machines
        
         | arcturus17 wrote:
         | Pigeons may be dumb as bricks but I've never seen one hit by a
         | car. When I'm driving I think I'm going to hit them but they
         | always bail. Credit where credit is due!
        
           | philsnow wrote:
           | Obligatory Seinfeld bit (George doesn't slow down for some
           | pigeons, they don't evade, he runs them over and his
           | girlfriend thinks he's a butcher because of it):
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xPCZtrac-Ss
        
           | giardini wrote:
           | One day I found, in the parking lot of HEB supermarket, a
           | beautiful, lightweight circular pattern approximately a foot
           | across that appeared to be fabricated. Closer inspection
           | revealed it was a pigeon that had been run over repeatedly
           | over many days.
           | 
           | Day and night the sun and cold air dry the pigeon mat. The
           | smashed meat and connective tissue act as a protein glue to
           | hold the mat together. Each vehicle presses, mixes, and
           | spreads the mat into, on average, a very light colorful
           | circular feather pattern (feathers tend to retain their
           | structure more than bone, possibly b/c of their flexibility)
           | that, once thin enough, wafts to and fro in the parking lot
           | winds before settling gently to the ground.
           | 
           | I first thought to spray them with a waterproof coating and
           | sell them as "Pigeon Frisbees" but alas, they were
           | aerodynamically unsuitable (they rode the air like cattail
           | seeds), and so, in the end I asked HEB parking lot employees
           | to consider cleaning the remains of dead pigeons as a favor
           | to their customers. The parking lots are more pleasant these
           | days.
           | 
           | Plenty of pigeons are killed by cars, esp. females resting in
           | empty parking spots, where they sometimes sleep.
        
         | jbotz wrote:
         | Pigeons are just about the most agile fliers in the bird world,
         | so maybe they just feel that they are above needing "optimal
         | strategies".
        
         | tlavoie wrote:
         | This story is about my son and his girlfriend's experience,
         | with a raven sort of wind-surfing off the front of their jeep
         | as they drove down the highway:
         | https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/north/raven-dempster-highway-...
         | 
         | It kept going, and going, and going, and at the end of the
         | video, he was feeding it cat treats.
        
       | blippage wrote:
       | I've been trying to befriend crows, but it's a slow process. When
       | I go for a walk I usually take a rich tea biscuit with me. I put
       | it on a post where a crow sometimes rests.
       | 
       | At first, it was more-or-less luck as to who and when a crow
       | found it. But they began to catch on, and I'm pretty sure at
       | least one was waiting for me. They were either on the post, or
       | nearby. They fly off when you approach, of course. But they get
       | the idea, and I know they're watching. I try to step back, but
       | they need quite a large distance before they'll try to take the
       | biscuit. Crows seem to know that humans are always up to
       | something. The probably know that it's always plans within plans
       | when it comes to those damn hairless apes. Is he really being
       | generous, or is he running some inscrutable psyop?
       | 
       | The problem is that I haven't been consistent the last few days,
       | so the crows lose interest.
       | 
       | A few days ago, mind, there was a crow sitting on the fence a few
       | feet from the house. He flew off as I left the house, but he
       | didn't seem particularly alarmed. He flew up to the top of a
       | conifer quite a few yards away. But I knew he was watching. So I
       | put a biscuit on a post and went for a walk. When I came back the
       | biscuit was gone.
       | 
       | I guess what I like about crows is that they're really smart, so
       | you're always left wondering as to how much they've cottoned on
       | to and how much of it is just blind coincidence.
        
         | arbitrage wrote:
         | It's an order of magnitude easier to befriend crows in the
         | city, as opposed to the country. The more rural you are
         | located, the more time it will take you to befriend a crow.
         | 
         | The first one is the hardest. They'll start bringing friends,
         | eventually. They like they rituals and consistency -- you've
         | already discovered this. They also lose interest if you don't
         | keep it up regularly.
         | 
         | Don't look straight at crows, they don't like it at all. When
         | they're ready to be your friend, they'll put themselves into
         | your field of vision. I was able to communicate vocally with
         | crows and get them to respond before they were comfortable
         | being face-to-face friends with me.
        
           | raffraffraff wrote:
           | I've noticed the face-to-face thing too.
           | 
           | My mother had been feeding birds for a while. The local crows
           | quickly realized that she's a soft-touch, so they sit on the
           | garden fence outside her window. If she sees them, she throws
           | something to them. It started with one female bird who
           | eventually brought her young. She would take treats and feed
           | them to her annoyingly loud offspring before eventually
           | having something for herself. My mother got a kick out of
           | this. The matriarch would eventually come to her window and
           | tap on it. But if my mother looked at her directly she'd fly
           | back to the fence. But she could open the window
           | "nonchalantly" and throw treats without scaring her off as
           | long as she didn't look straight at her. Other crows have
           | noticed this. She now has a dozen or so hanging around. The
           | original bird sits looking into her bedroom window in the
           | morning waiting for her to get out of bed, and then flies
           | around to the kitchen to tap on it. You see, there's
           | competition now.
        
       | jimmaswell wrote:
       | A raven flies over my house every day. It would be interesting to
       | try attracting it. It's never been interested in my feeder
       | though.
        
       | dssagar93 wrote:
       | My entire family has befriended crows. I live on the 3rd floor.
       | When the crow comes in, we feed them with hands directly. He
       | takes the food right from our hand and eats it slowly. This
       | worked out simply because we started feeding them daily.
       | Initially they used to just run away but we kept giving food and
       | slowly they started trusting us.
        
       | memling wrote:
       | Relevant:
       | https://www.reddit.com/r/bestoflegaladvice/comments/ki9gb1/i...
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | starkd wrote:
       | First read this as "how to befriend cows". So, inevitably
       | surprised on visiting the site!
        
         | geocrasher wrote:
         | Oh man, cows are awesome. They're smart, lovable, and even
         | playful. And when they reach a certain age, they're even
         | _edible_. What 's not to love?
        
           | 082349872349872 wrote:
           | For milk cattle, depending upon gender, that age may be
           | sooner rather than later. cf milanesa/schnitzel/chicken fried
           | steak.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wiener_schnitzel
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | baeaz wrote:
           | I was under the impression that, like chicken, cows became
           | _less_ edible as time passed?
        
             | Cupertino95014 wrote:
             | I don't think his comment meant "edibility rises linearly
             | with age." I think it meant "it reaches a peak" and
             | implicitly "and then declines from there."
        
               | geocrasher wrote:
               | Exactly.
        
               | Lio wrote:
               | There's only one way to get to the bottom of this...
               | we're going to have to have eat a _lot_ of crows.
               | 
               | No arguments now, this is science damn it!
        
               | Cupertino95014 wrote:
               | He said "cows" not "crows."
               | 
               | Although you can open up a new branch of Science.
        
           | Nomentatus wrote:
           | Having heard stories of my homesteading great-grandparents
           | being chased 'round and 'round their sod house by a steer
           | while screaming at their significant other to "open the **ing
           | door, for **'* sake!" I'm gonna stick with befriending crows.
           | 
           | (Cows give birth to steers, that's what not to like.)
        
           | starkd wrote:
           | yes, I'd rather befriend a cow than a crow. Who's going to do
           | the blog post?
        
         | cultofmetatron wrote:
         | ME TOO!!
        
         | parentheseus wrote:
         | Advice/Accounts on how to befriend crows has been submitted
         | here in the past, but there hasn't been anything regarding
         | cows, unfortunately.
         | 
         | https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=true&que...
        
           | 082349872349872 wrote:
           | IMX cows (they are all domestic, locally) treat anyone with
           | thumbs as a potential source of food.
           | 
           | They like licking hands and under-the-chin or cheek
           | scritches; move slowly and talk, and if they're skeptical try
           | crouching to make yourself smaller. (but don't make mothers
           | suspect you're after their calves!)
           | 
           | Anyone know about bison?
        
             | Cupertino95014 wrote:
             | Unless they're domestic bison, it's probably illegal to
             | approach them. And unwise.
        
           | IntrepidWorm wrote:
           | Oddly enough, cows seem to enjoy big band and jazz.
           | 
           | https://youtu.be/lXKDu6cdXLI
           | 
           | Now that's some cultured dairy!
        
       | 082349872349872 wrote:
       | With other wildlife, changing silhouette can make a big
       | difference in approach bubbles. Being in a kayak or on a horse
       | allows much closer approach before flight.
       | 
       | Does anyone know if the same goes for corvids?
        
       | jmann99999 wrote:
       | Interacting with birds has been so wonderful for my family.
       | 
       | We live in the mountains in North America. We were tearing down
       | and replacing our deck when the builders came upon a nest with
       | multiple eggs (finch eggs). Thankfully the builders asked us what
       | to do.
       | 
       | Our family decided to do some quick research, build a birdhouse
       | within 10 meters of the previous nest, and put the eggs inside.
       | We were able to watch as the mother bird found her eggs and cared
       | for them through their hatching.
       | 
       | Years later, so many of them come back every Spring. It makes us
       | smile and wonder what would have happened if we wouldn't have
       | moved those eggs a decade ago. I'd like to attribute how friendly
       | the birds seem to be to some sort of anthropomorphism, but that
       | is probably not the case.
       | 
       | Regardless, even the "most basic" birds are wonderful.
        
       | Jackson12 wrote:
       | Crow Tech Slaps
        
       | tasty_freeze wrote:
       | My wife set up a bird feeder on our floor to ceiling glass
       | windows in our living room -- it is a plexiglass module with
       | suction cups. It was nice seeing the birds, but it was really
       | entertaining watching the squirrels trying to get the food.
       | 
       | At first she tried to thwart the them, but in no time started
       | recognizing the squirrels as individuals and noticing their
       | personality and behavioral differences, and gave them names.
       | After that, she stopped buying birdseed and began stocking the
       | feeder with various nuts, and setting up some ramps and jumping
       | obstacles, but not to any crazy level, just something to watch.
       | 
       | They recognized her as the person that fills the feeder with
       | nuts. Once she tried hand feeding them it took only a couple
       | weeks for the first brave one, then other squirrels didn't want
       | to be left out and came up to her too. When the feeder goes
       | empty, they'll stand on it and peer into the living room to see
       | if she is around. Once they make eye contact, they hop down and
       | run to the door to get fed.
       | 
       | My wife has some chronic health issues that mostly keep her
       | housebound, except for doctor appointments. The squirrels have
       | been a godsend -- even on her worst days, the squirrels make her
       | smile and bring her joy at random times throughout the day.
        
         | zdragnar wrote:
         | > They recognized her as the person that fills the feeder
         | 
         | Even songbirds do this with my parents. If they're outside and
         | the feeder is empty, they'll perch on the closest (but not too
         | close) spot and squack until my parents move, then they'll
         | perch a little closer to the feeder and repeat if my parents
         | follow them.
         | 
         | If they're not outside, they'll sit outside the door or even
         | fly into the garage if it is open and chirp and squack until
         | they come out.
         | 
         | It's amusing and more than a little impressive to see since
         | songbirds aren't much associated with intelligence like corvids
         | are.
        
         | Jarwain wrote:
         | I'm glad these squirrels bring joy to your wife c:
         | 
         | This reminds me of my University days, where peeps would go and
         | eat under large banyan trees. There would be a number of
         | squirrels who'd hang out and be fed by students, and as a
         | result these squirrels would get gutsy. A friend had a squirrel
         | leap onto their table and steal fries while they weren't
         | looking!
        
         | sound1 wrote:
         | Loved it! Hope she gets better soon bro!
        
         | bothandeach wrote:
         | Bless her, and you
        
         | geocrasher wrote:
         | This is just wonderful. I'm so glad that your wife has
         | something to keep her going on her bad days. My wife passed
         | away at 46 years old, and the years leading up to her death
         | were very hard. I learned that sometimes it's the smallest
         | things that really bring joy- not _things_. Interacting with
         | nature whether by observation or active participation is a
         | wonderful thing.
        
           | austinjp wrote:
           | A comment like this shouldn't go without a reply. Saying
           | "sorry for your loss" always seems inadequate, so here's a
           | brief recollection instead. A few months ago, in one of the
           | covid lock downs when social distancing was a thing, I was
           | walking in a park. About 200 metres away I noticed a woman
           | walking a small dog, possibly a puppy. The woman had stopped
           | to watch the dog, something was going on. Then i realised the
           | dog was playing with a magpie. The magpie would hop up to the
           | dog then flap off when the dog bounded over. Then the magpie
           | lay on its back and let the dog sniff it before kicking its
           | legs and flapping its wings, making the dog bounce in
           | delight. The woman crouched nearby watching. I've no idea if
           | any of them noticed me. It went on for at least 5 minutes
           | before i had to leave. A wonderfully surreal, poignant moment
           | during the pandemic. Seems like aeons ago now.
        
           | nick__m wrote:
           | How did you cope with the loss ? My wife has one metastasis
           | on a vertebrae from a breast cancer that I tought defeated...
           | it was almost the fourth year of cancer free scans when we
           | had the terrible news, a month ago. Even though she's is on
           | expensive drugs and will receive bleeding edge radio surgery
           | in January... I fear that we don't have that much time left
           | together and I don't know how I will cope with that loss.
        
             | geocrasher wrote:
             | Oh man, I am so, so terribly sorry to hear this. You both
             | must be absolutely devastated, both individually and as a
             | couple. Clear open communication, just _listening_ to each
             | other, and accepting that you 're both grieving for the
             | loss of her health and for the awful effects it is bound to
             | have.
             | 
             | My wife was sick for several years before she passed, and
             | for the last 14 months, we knew it was coming. The main
             | thing that got us both through the ordeal was finding joy
             | in everyday life, wherever we could. My wife was amazing at
             | that, and that had a lot to do with her faith too. I'd be
             | remiss to leave that out. That's also been my coping
             | mechanism in almost every way. But it's not a blind faith
             | that she "went to a better place" or just listening to what
             | some pastor says. My faith is fully informed, and I've
             | chosen it after deep Bible study.
             | 
             | I know that may not be the answer you're looking for, but
             | it's the truth. Without my faith I'd have been wrecked. It
             | was hard enough as-is, but the religious organization I
             | belong to has excellent written articles as well as videos
             | that have gotten me through some really, really rough
             | times... the kind you don't know even exist until yougo
             | through them. Foremost however is my relationship with the
             | true God. He has helped me immensely and brought tremendous
             | relief.
             | 
             | This isn't a platform for proselytizing, and I respect
             | that, so I've limited my answer to an honest answer to your
             | question. There are resources that I'd love to share with
             | you that will help you even from a secular standpoint. If
             | you'd like, email me at my hn user at gmail. Take care, my
             | friend. You're welcome to reach out to me _any_ time.
        
         | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
         | You might enjoy this story, then:
         | https://www.countryliving.com/life/a32668694/former-nasa-eng...
        
         | Zak wrote:
         | She might enjoy Mark Rober's squirrel obstacle course series on
         | Youtube.
         | 
         | https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLgeXOVaJo_gl1ZIpbYyPR...
        
         | nick__m wrote:
         | Thank! I used to try fight the squirrels with cayenne pepper
         | (birds don't have receptor that can be activated by
         | capsaicin)... I should try to befriend them instead.
        
         | kstenerud wrote:
         | Reminds me of the Twirl-A-Squirrel bird feeder. It usually
         | works, but sometimes there are some VERY tenacious squirrels!
         | 
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgDa_cpgHWs
        
           | dtgriscom wrote:
           | My parents had one of those near a window. The squirrel would
           | jump on and go for a ride, banging against the window
           | (leaving the most entertaining skid marks). The payoff: this
           | would shake seeds out of the feeder which the squirrel could
           | then eat off of the ground.
        
         | spiffytech wrote:
         | My friend who does this warns to be careful - if you stop
         | feeding them, you've taught them there's food in the house, and
         | they will find a way to break in.
        
       | status200 wrote:
       | I play bamboo flute and started playing the same song after
       | feeding a crow that would come by my house, now I can just play
       | the song and I will hear the crow respond from far away and then
       | quickly fly over.
        
       | fencepost wrote:
       | And if you want to do the opposite, consider wearing a very
       | realistic Trump mask while you throw rocks at seagulls outside
       | Mar-A-Lago.
        
       | cc101 wrote:
       | Steller Jays are also approachable. I'm a camp host. One started
       | aggressively seeking food from campers. I took a close look at it
       | and saw the one of the recent forest fires had damaged its
       | feathers. It was desperate for food. I respected that bird. It
       | did what it had to do to survive. I started feeding it. Next year
       | when I returned to the campground, it showed up within an hour
       | calling for food, and its feathers had been replaced.
        
         | tpoindex wrote:
         | I too have enticed/befriended a group of Steller's Jays at my
         | weekend cabin. I've always put out seeds for casual bird
         | watching and about two years ago started giving them peanuts as
         | well. I make sure to give a distinctive whistle for that extra
         | Pavlovian effect. Many are quite accustomed to me, will come
         | within 5-8 feet to snatch a tossed peanut. Over the last year,
         | they often greet me when I drive up with some calls, or usually
         | come when I whistle if they're not around. The two resident
         | black Abert's squirrels also come up for the peanuts, often by
         | my feet.
         | 
         | They are also several ravens in the area, often staying at tree
         | top level, 60-70 ft. I've never been able to get their
         | attention. even with peanuts. I'm guessing they just don't see
         | the action at ground level, too many trees, or feel safer
         | higher up.
        
         | pugworthy wrote:
         | The Stellers are a lot more shy than the scrub jays. Handfulls
         | of peanuts in our front yard now and then leads to quite the
         | show, with Stellers, Scrubs, and Crows all gathering around.
         | Plus a gray squirrel or two.
        
       | sacnoradhq wrote:
       | Corvids must be Irish. ;) They have long memories and do exhibit
       | cooperative behaviors with other species. I've watched quasi-
       | documentaries first-hand accounts about this phenom on YT.
       | 
       | They're also quite socially/situationally adept. A crow snuck
       | into my mechanic's garage and stole a bag of sunflower seeds on
       | top of a rolling toolbox about 30 ft / 10 m into the building
       | without being seen. They then proceeded to take their loot back
       | to their murder and had a sunflower seed party in the alley.
        
       | smusamashah wrote:
       | There is a saying in my region told by our elders.
       | 
       | If crows are cawing it means there are guests outside.
       | 
       | It won't make sense in urban areas much but it does in rural.
       | Since they are intelligent and good at recognizing faces, there
       | cawing can mean there is someone unknown outside.
        
       | _448 wrote:
       | My Mom does this wherever she lives. She feeds as well as puts
       | bowls of water for birds and animals. And if there are regular
       | visitors then she talks to them. The trick is to be as natural as
       | possible and consciously avoid threatening tone or body language.
       | 
       | Having watched this since my childhood I too had once befriended,
       | in my case Cows and Sheeps from the nearby fields, while on my
       | daily walks few years ago. I use to sing songs and they use to
       | gather around me. It was so amazing to watch. Afterwards even if
       | I did not sing they use to gather around just after seeing me.
       | The sad part was some of these animals were raised for slaughter
       | and I thought making them believe in humans was not the right
       | thing to do. It use to be a dilemma for me whenever I saw them on
       | whether I should engage with them.
       | 
       | Having communication with animals and seeing them respond back is
       | one of the most amazing experiences. Most pet owners will
       | understand this.
        
       | phillc73 wrote:
       | My Mum did this with magpies in Australia. She lives alone in a
       | small rural town and started feeding these two magpies, that
       | seemed to like her garden, with small pieces of meat.
       | 
       | Over the course of a couple of years, the magpie pair even
       | brought their chicks along for a free feed. At one point there
       | were six or seven regular breakfast guests.
       | 
       | One of the original magpies would practically eat our of my
       | mother's hand, the other wasn't quite so bold.
       | 
       | Sadly, they stopped coming at one point. My mum heard from a
       | neighbour that a large number of local birds, including magpies,
       | had been poisoned. I guess that's what happened to them.
        
         | vgb2k18 wrote:
         | The magpie outside my place does perch on my arm to eat food,
         | but also engages in a friendly game of "guess which hand the
         | food is in", by giving a gentle peck (I flip the food back and
         | forth between my hands like a carnival game then close the food
         | in one hand quickly).
        
         | kaines wrote:
         | Similar to me, my experience has been that you barely have to
         | feed them for them to become comfortable being around you. I
         | had a couple at my last house, and they'd stand ~1 metre away
         | whilst I dug furiously with shovels, picks. I remember one time
         | one landed next to me and snatched half a sandwich from my hand
         | and took off.
         | 
         | They get a bad rep as they swoop, however, they're fascinating
         | and beautiful animals; from their social structures of forming
         | lifelong relationships or forming gangs[1], to their ability to
         | mimic[1].
         | 
         | [1] https://www.abc.net.au/news/science/2017-12-11/magies-ten-
         | th...
        
         | Lio wrote:
         | That's pretty cool. Aussie magpies have a ferocious
         | reputation[1] so kudos to your Mum.
         | 
         | We have lots of magpies where I live and I've always wanted to
         | make friends with them but they're both timid and obviously
         | pretty smart so very hard to get near here.
         | 
         | 1. https://gplama.com/2022/09/01/the-worst-magpies-ive-ever-
         | enc...
        
           | femto wrote:
           | The technique I have used for the magpies in my backyard is:
           | leave them alone. Eventually they learn that you are not a
           | threat and quite happily continue their everyday business
           | even if you're nearby, without turning into a demanding pest.
        
       | dilap wrote:
       | Does it work with grackles? I'd really love to befriend a grackle
       | or two.
        
         | erikig wrote:
         | I didn't know what grackles were, so I did a quick Google
         | search and encountered my avian nemeses!
         | 
         | These bastards are such a nuisance that they've made me fear
         | birds. During their nesting season they'll repeatedly dive bomb
         | innocent walkers-by and threaten to peck at their ears.
         | 
         | Any tips to appease these fascists of the sky would be
         | appreciated.
        
         | zxcvbn4038 wrote:
         | You probably don't want to befriend grackles - they are
         | absolutely magnificent to look at but they crap twice their
         | weight every hour, they chirp to each other around the clock,
         | and if you are feeding them they will bring dozens or hundreds
         | of their closest friends to the party, and they won't leave.
        
       | modzu wrote:
       | tl dr feed them
        
         | brigandish wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | mynameisvlad wrote:
           | Seriously? How long could it possibly have taken you, a
           | minute? It's like 4 Twitter-sized posts. That's under 1000
           | characters. Also, just because it didn't interest you doesn't
           | mean it's not an interesting topic; it clearly is otherwise
           | it wouldn't have made it to the front page or gotten dozens
           | of comments.
           | 
           | The same logic could be applied to your comment:
           | 
           | I could've saved the time, little as it was. That has to be
           | one of the lowest quality comments I've ever seen on HN.
        
             | brigandish wrote:
             | [flagged]
        
               | mynameisvlad wrote:
               | Are you seriously this immature? Grow up, this isn't
               | Reddit.
        
               | brigandish wrote:
               | [flagged]
        
         | dgacmu wrote:
         | Sometimes it's about the journey. The original post is full of
         | exceptional photos of crows and fun anecdotes that go way
         | beyond the simple answer to the thread title.
        
           | modzu wrote:
           | agree, the photos are really good and seem to capture a piece
           | of their individual personalities. i just got a bit of a
           | chuckle at the title, because you can befriend any animal
           | with this one simple trick ;)
        
             | pjmlp wrote:
             | Including fellow humans. :)
        
               | 082349872349872 wrote:
               | > _"There are three possible parts to a date, of which at
               | least two must be offered: entertainment, food, and
               | affection. It is customary to begin a series of dates
               | with a great deal of entertainment, a moderate amount of
               | food, and the merest suggestion of affection. As the
               | amount of affection increases, the entertainment can be
               | reduced proportionately. When the affection IS the
               | entertainment, we no longer call it dating. Under no
               | circumstances can the food be omitted."_ -- JM
        
       | shrimpx wrote:
       | My neighbor befriended a crow, and was recently asking around
       | about how to _un_ befriend the crow, who has become a nuisance
       | stealing every object it could carry from their back porch.
        
         | jimnotgym wrote:
         | Run at it clapping, try to grab it...or take a shot at it. I
         | think the crow will soon cotton on
        
       | dhosek wrote:
       | When I was in first grade, in the wake of a particularly big year
       | of cicadas, the area around my school and home was overwhelmed
       | with large numbers of crows and ravens. In fall, the numbers were
       | so high that they became somewhat aggressive and on multiple
       | occasions came to the windows of the school and pecked at them,
       | which was, unsurprisingly, an event that could disrupt classroom
       | activity for at least half an hour at a time.
        
       | allenbrunson wrote:
       | i kind of love the fact that posting fediverse links on hacker
       | news is coming to be almost as common as posting twitter links.
       | and i already read this, because one of the mastodon accounts i
       | follow boosted this into my timeline.
       | 
       | all hail decentralized social media!
        
         | justinhj wrote:
         | I would much prefer a Twitter link. I can more easily share it
         | with people and it's a much more pleasant user experience.
        
           | ggm wrote:
           | I don't understand this: I clicked on the link and saw the
           | thread in my browser. What's the barrier? It's no different
           | to sharing a link to a forum or mailing list archive really
        
         | superkuh wrote:
         | I just wish there were an html interface to read mastadon
         | posts. Something like nitter.net is for twitter. Right now to
         | read them I have to use the general RSS feed and then find the
         | post. And the .rss feature is only available on some
         | implementations of mastadon.
         | 
         | https://fediscience.org/@ct_bergstrom/109571409346371116 ->
         | https://fediscience.org/@ct_bergstrom.rss
         | 
         | My browser displays RSS natively well enough. It just can't
         | display mastadon pages even with JS on because it's old.
         | 
         | The api interface through
         | https://fediscience.org/api/v1/statuses/109571409346371116 is
         | handy but it doesn't seem to give the full post.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | jonas-w wrote:
           | If you mean all the comments with "full post" just add
           | /context after tha api url like so: https://fediscience.org/a
           | pi/v1/statuses/109571409346371116/c...
        
       | denton-scratch wrote:
       | I've seen this title about three times, and each time I've read
       | it as "How to Befriend Cows". Cows are fine and all that, but I
       | like to eat them.
        
       | senthilnayagam wrote:
       | from India, my wife feeds squirrels, crows and pigeon on kitchen
       | window, they recognise her and wait for her to put food.my wife
       | only feeds them freshly cooked food or raw rice and they have
       | varied taste. they kind of avoid me as I am stranger to them.
        
       | jalada wrote:
       | Cute. My parents' house has, for a few years now, been plagued by
       | crows attacking the windows in the early hours of the morning,
       | dive-bombing them, standing outside them screaming, pecking them,
       | etc. If they're not attacking the house they're on the roof or in
       | nearby trees screaming.
       | 
       | The closest to a solution has been to cover every window with
       | outside blinds to at least stop them smashing into them.
       | 
       | I stayed with them for a few months and was woken up by this
       | every morning without fail. Honestly, it was pretty distressing.
       | 
       | I love birds and feed them in our garden (so do my parents!), but
       | I wouldn't want to encourage crows to follow me around after
       | that. I'm always in two minds about this tendency for humans
       | to...humanise...animal behaviour.
        
         | vintermann wrote:
         | I can understand that. But I figure, I live near a huge
         | shopping mall and a golf course, built on what used to be the
         | finest farmland for miles around. The winter flock of crows,
         | probably many thousands strong, still come here every winter.
         | 
         | They're now competing with the endangered seagulls, which used
         | to roost in large colonies on the coast, but due to predation
         | from introduced species (mink), plastic pollution in the ocean
         | and commercial fishing, have now decided it's better to live on
         | the flat roofs of our malls and apartment blocks.
         | 
         | We're messing so much with their lives already. A little
         | kindness on an individual level doesn't seem like it would make
         | things worse. I try not to humanize them too much, let them be
         | birds, let them be wild (in particular I don't try to tempt
         | them to overcome their natural wariness at humans).
        
       | BLKNSLVR wrote:
       | There was a juvenile magpie on the balcony handrail outside the
       | large office kitchen / lunchroom space. I went out and left the
       | corner of a cheese biscuit on the balcony floor just to see what
       | it would do. It didn't show any interest until I went back
       | inside, and it spent a couple of minutes looking at the biscuit,
       | looking at the door.
       | 
       | I then had to go back to my desk, not knowing the end result.
       | 
       | A couple of hours later we had our monthly all-hands meeting in
       | the kitchen / lunch room space.
       | 
       | For the full hour of the meeting, there was a juvenile magpie
       | standing on the balcony floor, at the door, looking inside and
       | warbling.
       | 
       | I'm assuming it liked the country cheese sample.
        
       | ankraft wrote:
       | Two crows. Rick and Two Crows.
        
         | jcpst wrote:
         | I'll take it over a Morty any day.
        
       | jamal-kumar wrote:
       | Anyone ever seen a talking crow? Corvids are a lot like parrots
       | in this regard, they're just incredibly uncanny mimics [1] [2]
       | [3]
       | 
       | [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9I5Vm_YO_MY
       | 
       | [2] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O9epnUBQHXI
       | 
       | [3] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfsnHVaScjg
        
       | paulette449 wrote:
       | While this thread is about crows, I can't recommend Bernd
       | Heinrich's books, many of which feature his relationship with
       | ravens, highly enough. A Year in the Maine Woods [1] is a
       | classic. Mind of the Raven [2] and Ravens in Winter [3] may be of
       | interest to anyone following this thread and since I am speaking
       | about ravens in a thread about crows, an Audubon article "How to
       | Tell a Raven from a Crow" [4] may also be of interest.
       | 
       | [1] -
       | https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/77166.A_Year_in_the_Main...
       | [2] -
       | https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/254704.Mind_of_the_Raven [3]
       | - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/122665.Ravens_in_Winter [4]
       | - https://www.audubon.org/news/how-tell-raven-crow
        
       | visitect wrote:
       | My wife and I have successfully befriended the crows that inhabit
       | my neighborhood. When we first moved into our home a few years
       | ago, I would leave various nuts - and sometimes bits of
       | unfinished bacon - on the back fence when I would see them
       | perched on the neighbor's (tall) home. I would make a clicking
       | noise with my tongue and call out to them in a friendly voice.
       | Then I would retreat to the house and watch from the windows. It
       | didn't take very long at all for them to learn this routine.
       | After a few weeks, as soon as I would "click" one would swoop
       | down from the high perch and land on a nearby post and wait for
       | me to leave the treats. Another would keep watch.
       | 
       | Now it feels like we are old friends. If they happen to be around
       | when we pop out of the house, one will vocalize and come near.
       | Others show up soon after. My wife chats with them and leaves
       | various snacks. They really love peanut butter sandwiches! I kid
       | my wife about how much she spoils the crows with the peanut
       | butter, but she just laughs about her "extra shiny" crows.
        
         | boppo1 wrote:
         | Isn't bread terrible for birds?
        
       | maxnoe wrote:
       | On La Palma, there is a pair of ravens living up in the mountain
       | near the observatory.
       | 
       | They are incredibly smart and very tame. They will happily land
       | on your shoulder while you try to eat your lunch and pick away
       | into your lunch box.
       | 
       | They will do loopings above groups of tourists, land, beg for
       | food, and when they receive food, do some more fly-bys and
       | loopings.
       | 
       | They bury food in the ground and I bet they find all of it later.
       | 
       | I am pretty sure they recognize people, as they came straight for
       | me and my wife when we were hiking and not to the other people
       | around...
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | vintermann wrote:
       | I've tried to befriend the local winter-flock of crows. But
       | mostly, it's the magpies that's adopted me. Crows are like, can
       | this be true? Is the human leaving the food there for _me_? Or
       | would I be stealing it? Meanwhile the magpie has already gone,
       | human has food, YAY! and grabbed it all in seconds (they have a
       | surprising capacity in that crop of theirs).
       | 
       | The magpies certainly recognize me now, and do a kind of friendly
       | swoop in front of me to make sure I see them. Sometimes the crows
       | sweep in and grab the treat, to sharp protest from the magpie.
       | And in the summer half of the year, the crows too sometimes get
       | bullied away by a seagull.
       | 
       | I have a feeling the magpies definitively don't like it if I
       | deliberately feed any of the bigger birds. But even the seagulls
       | (which are rather aggressive when they have chicks) have gotten
       | noticeably nicer to me when they've understood there's a chance
       | at an unsalted peanut from time to time.
        
       | shmerl wrote:
       | Is there a way to make them come to a feeder? They seem to avoid
       | one with peanuts despite everyone saying they love peanuts.
        
       | mulmen wrote:
       | Why though? There are dozens of crows in my neighborhood. If I
       | befriend crows will they come to expect food from me? What about
       | the pigeons and seagulls? Will they come to resent me?
       | 
       | My policy on neighborhood birds has always been neutrality.
        
         | Cupertino95014 wrote:
         | If you were an administrator in a large, elite university,
         | you'd see this as a golden opportunity to establish the
         | Committee on Corvid Policy.
        
         | drakonka wrote:
         | Neutrality might be a smart choice in a suburban neighborhood
         | unless you like the idea of guard crows:
         | https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/ki6fnd/oregon_...
        
         | philwelch wrote:
         | You can eventually train crows to bring you stuff. I've read
         | stories of crows being trained to deliver money or cigarettes.
         | My favorite was a guy who used to hang out with crows on his
         | balcony when he smoked, and he had to move when he quit smoking
         | because the crows would just bring him packs of cigarettes.
        
       | zestyping wrote:
       | This was my pandemic hobby as well. After I consistently offered
       | peanuts for a couple weeks, a crow couple would visit my balcony
       | daily. In the springtime, they had a fledgling, and the whole
       | family would come over, which was adorable. I trained them to
       | open containers, and then put out puzzles of increasing
       | difficulty for them.
       | 
       | Here's a video of one of them solving a couple of puzzles:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0x0PwKHvW10
       | 
       | And here's one of them taking a bath, just because it's so cute:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-AgAIh43OUs
       | 
       | It's a highly entertaining hobby, and I'm excited to continue
       | putting out more interesting and complex objects for them to
       | interact with!
        
         | hackernewds wrote:
         | That is incredible adorable and impressive. Next they can open
         | jars and bring home coins from the tip jars in exchange for
         | treats :)
        
       | Reason077 wrote:
       | I first read the headline as "how to befriend _cows_ ", and that
       | seemed a lot more interesting!
       | 
       | I'm no friend of crows (specifically, magpies), having been
       | attacked by them in the past. They're also considered a non-
       | native, invasive species in my country.
        
       | kposehn wrote:
       | I've got ~55 ravens near my home that know me very well and
       | always come around for treats (unsalted unroasted cashews). Over
       | the last few seasons I've gotten to see a number of fledglings
       | getting trained, gotten to know their various personalities and
       | been fortunate to learn a great deal about them.
       | 
       | They're amazingly intelligent and very gregarious once they trust
       | you. A particularly brave one will even perch just out of reach
       | and snatch cashews out of the air. Others will hover over me in
       | the breeze asking for treats and catch them as well.
       | 
       | They definitely train you too - they know where I live. If they
       | don't get fed for a while, they'll croak their frustrations down
       | my chimney at me.
       | 
       | Amazing birds and I feel very fortunate to have formed some bond
       | with them.
        
       | jerrygoyal wrote:
       | came here to expect something counterintuitive but it's just
       | "feed them regularly".
        
       | eyelidlessness wrote:
       | I haven't made a point to befriend crows, but I've very much made
       | a point to establish mutual trust and respect. When I moved my
       | pup from Saint Paul (which had surprisingly few if any crows)
       | back to my long time home of Seattle (which, I've only since
       | learned, if famous for its crows), I had to teach pup not to
       | chase crows. She actually has learned the difference between
       | crows (and Steller's jays) and other birds.
       | 
       | And the crows definitely know us. And recognized us when we moved
       | to another neighborhood. They know we give them a wide berth if
       | they're doing their thing on the ground whenever we can, crossing
       | the road or splitting the middle wherever possible. And they
       | calmly move aside when they see that we can't. Sometimes one will
       | see us and (I think) find a perch to announce our approach to the
       | others. At first this seemed like a warning, but now it feels
       | more like a friendly heads up.
       | 
       | I don't regularly give them food, but I did sometimes leave
       | little stuff for them at a designated place outside my last
       | house. It was an accident the first time, I had left a little cup
       | of salsa out on top of my yard/food waste bin and forgotten it
       | was there until I saw a crow fly off with it. After that, any
       | deliberate offering left there was swept up within minutes.
       | 
       | I'd like to make better friends with them, but most of my
       | encounters are with pup in tow. While she definitely understands
       | they're different than other birds, she still needs fairly strict
       | control to keep her behaved while we pass by. So friendly respect
       | at a distance feels more appropriate.
        
       | acyou wrote:
       | Don't feed the wildlife!! Better to let crows be crows. They are
       | wild animals and not domesticated, nor is there a great reason
       | that they should be domesticated in any way. They along with the
       | seagulls and starlings are already clearing out the rest of the
       | other native species of birds, do they really need more help?
       | Moreover, isn't it incredibly self centric to do this sort of
       | bird feeding thing without any regard for the long term
       | consequences?
        
         | ggm wrote:
         | Bird scientists differ on the relative risk and benefits of
         | feeding. Darryl Jones who is emeritus Griffith uni I think, has
         | written on this in the Australian urban context: they don't get
         | dependent, it is marginal benefit, they rear bigger clutches,
         | pick food wisely. Not "never feed"
         | 
         | https://books.google.com.au/books/about/Feeding_the_Birds_at...
         | 
         | Darryl on research gate:
         | 
         | https://www.researchgate.net/scientific-contributions/Darryl...
        
           | acyou wrote:
           | He's selling his book:
           | 
           | "Feeding the Birds at Your Table is designed to provide
           | detailed, comprehensive advice and suggestions for people
           | wishing to feed wild birds in Australia from their own
           | backyards and balconies."
           | 
           | Seems like he has a vested interest in selling copies of his
           | book.
           | 
           | Australians of all people should know better than to claim to
           | understand the ramifications of human intervention on complex
           | natural systems. See: introduction of cane toads to
           | Australia.
           | 
           | Backyard wildlife feeding is extremely intrusive in all
           | cases, it should be and is blanket banned in many places.
           | 
           | People with feeders also have a vested interest in convincing
           | themselves that it's OK.
           | 
           | "I'm making friends with the bird", yes you are, it's a
           | profoundly toxic relationship.
           | 
           | If you can claim to understand the full and long-range
           | ramifications of your intervention in a natural system, who
           | thinks they are so smart?
        
             | ggm wrote:
             | Yes, he is. But he is also legitimately researching bird
             | ecology in the inner city, and knows what he's talking
             | about.
        
       | cainxinth wrote:
       | > _It 's probably not good for them, but they adore cheetos._
       | 
       | I can relate
        
         | zxcvbn4038 wrote:
         | If seagulls are in your area, put some Cheetos on your dash
         | board, press record, know the location of the nearest carwash.
        
         | asmor wrote:
         | If you want a healthy snack for crows that they adore, my local
         | murders (~100 crows) go absolutely nuts for cashews. We put
         | them at the bottom of our peanut can, because as soon as we get
         | the cashews out they will outright refuse peanuts and forego
         | any sort of social etiquette and sometimes even try to steal
         | from each other, so we only start feeding them cashews when
         | most of the murder is sated.
        
       | macrolime wrote:
       | Once when I visiting a friend I heard someone saying hello, hello
       | outside the window. I looked out and couldn't see anyone. Then I
       | saw this crow standing there and it said hello again.
       | 
       | Turns out one of my friends neighbors used to feed the crows and
       | taught one of them to say hello like a parrot.
        
       | 0xmarcin wrote:
       | I grow up in a small village in eastern europe. It is amazing
       | that you can befriend most of the animals. Chickens are too
       | primitive for that, but cows turned out to be quite intelligent.
       | You can do it the same as with crows, but you should start with a
       | younger animal. You may bring a young cow something to eat and
       | after some time it will recognize you. And they really love to be
       | hand carded (this thing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carding).
       | Also remember that cows are quite dangerous (as most of the huge
       | farm animals).
        
         | moistly wrote:
         | There are plenty of videos of chickens and children getting
         | along famously. The chicken running to greet the school bus,
         | enjoying a cuddle, playing chase, enjoying being petted.
         | 
         | Heck, there are videos of lizards and fish enjoying being
         | petted. Most every animal seems to enjoy being touched gently.
        
         | voakbasda wrote:
         | Cows can indeed be dangerous. We raise a few dairy cows here;
         | they know us and eat out of our hands. When one of our 1000lb
         | girls was in heat, she tried to mount my wife, and it was sheer
         | luck that she escaped with only a sore leg.
        
       | Waterluvian wrote:
       | There's two blue jays that live in the forest my house is in. A
       | squirrel was once giving them a hard time. They were on the fence
       | squawking away as the squirrel kept rushing them then retreating.
       | I let one of my cats out who executed the perfect hunt on the
       | squirrel that had no clue my cat was there. After ten mins of
       | proud trotting and wanting inside, I convinced my cat to drop the
       | squirrel, which ran off.
       | 
       | I want to say this was the beginning of a jay/cat alliance but
       | nothing came of it. The jays are around all summer though which
       | is nice.
        
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