[HN Gopher] Company, Team, Self
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       Company, Team, Self
        
       Author : omoindrot
       Score  : 56 points
       Date   : 2022-12-01 08:30 UTC (14 hours ago)
        
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       | umutisik wrote:
       | Put customers first. The company, team, and self (in a work
       | context) are there to help customers.
        
       | misthop wrote:
       | It's always about incentive misalignment. As an employee thinking
       | Company first will improve the bottom line for the company. As an
       | executive thinking company first may well eliminate me as an
       | employee.
       | 
       | Why should an employee put the company interests above their own
       | with that incentive alignment? The company should work to make
       | the company's interests serve the individual interests of the
       | employees
        
         | lifeisstillgood wrote:
         | Yes.
         | 
         | And may I suggest a simple method: have employees vote for
         | executives
         | 
         | Incentives align naturally when there is two way feedback
        
           | twblalock wrote:
           | I suspect this would result in a lot of companies being run
           | into the ground, as executives would focus on keeping
           | employees happy at the cost of the business. "Vote for me,
           | and everyone gets a raise and a bonus!"
           | 
           | When the interests of employees are put ahead of the success
           | of the company, in the long run the employees end up losing
           | because the company will fail, or at least need to lay people
           | off.
           | 
           | Also, most employees simply aren't capable of understanding
           | or judging executives more than a few levels above them. I'd
           | hate to work somewhere where the junior devs get to pick the
           | engineering directors, for example.
        
             | lifeisstillgood wrote:
             | And that's the argument put forward in 1700s and 1800s for
             | not extending the vote beyond those with land.
             | 
             | Maybe employees will make intelligent informed decisions
             | about who is actually capable as an executive. Maybe they
             | will make more effective decisions themselves if they have
             | a greater say and commitment to the company.
             | 
             | Maybe not. Maybe we shall fall into totalitarian dystopias
             | and the dream of universal suffrage will enter myth.
             | 
             | maybe
        
               | civopsec wrote:
               | The real reason why the powers that be oppose workplace
               | democracy is because then the well-being of the people
               | that work at the company will be prioritized over making
               | profits for the shareholders.
               | 
               | > Maybe employees will make intelligent informed
               | decisions about who is actually capable as an executive.
               | Maybe they will make more effective decisions themselves
               | if they have a greater say and commitment to the company.
               | 
               | Yes, intelligent decisions. Such a red herring. For what
               | is an "intelligent decision" in the market economy?
               | Maximizing profits. So either the workers work within the
               | bourgeoisie logic of maximizing profits--creating the
               | same problems for themselves as they had under command
               | economy rule--or they make "unintelligent decisions" by
               | proritizing their collective selves. With the former they
               | "fail the test" of this red herring scenario because
               | _intelligent decisions_ according to the workers are not
               | the same as _intelligent decisions_ according to the
               | bourgeoisie.
        
               | lifeisstillgood wrote:
               | Ok - here's my take on intelligent decisions. The
               | European Union has 27 countries in it - each nation has a
               | proud and often violent past, with different cultural
               | triggers. Politicians in Hungary can put their hands on
               | hearts and talk of knights holding back the Mongols,
               | Politicians in Spain can talk of defeating Moors, and
               | guess what, Hungarian voters don't give two hoots about
               | El Cid and Polish voters laugh if the Greek Prime
               | minister lauds over Thermopylae
               | 
               | What's left is politicians wanting to do something for
               | the home crowds, and realising wrapping themselves in the
               | flag won't cut it - so they go for stuff that will
               | benefit everyone - build a railway from the tip of Italy
               | to the top of Sweden ? Yeah why not that ought to provide
               | a stronger market. We can sell that back home.
               | 
               | If you are diverse enough the phase space of intelligent
               | decisions becomes fairly narrow and surprisingly good for
               | everyone.
        
         | xyzelement wrote:
         | I think the idea in the article is something like - by thinking
         | company-first you can arrive at better outcomes for yourself in
         | the long run. It's not about self sacrifice.
         | 
         | Certainly all the good gains in my career happened as a
         | consequence of achieving big things for the company, which I
         | wouldn't have landed with me-first thinking.
        
           | zelon88 wrote:
           | Contrary to that, some of my biggest achievements have been
           | things I've done on my own for companies that the company
           | didn't realize it needed. Things that I've done to make my
           | job easier continue to make other people's jobs easier to
           | this day. Nobody asked me to do those things. The business
           | would have continued regardless. But these things I did to
           | make my job easier have payed dividends in the long run.
        
           | rqtwteye wrote:
           | "Certainly all the good gains in my career happened as a
           | consequence of achieving big things for the company, which I
           | wouldn't have landed with me-first thinking."
           | 
           | You did me-first. You just had situations where what was good
           | for the company was good for you too. If you repeatedly did
           | what was good for the company but never got anything for
           | yourself you would probably stop. A lot of people are in a
           | situation where what's good for the company doesn't give them
           | any reward or is even negative (lose their job, more work).
        
           | misthop wrote:
           | Interesting. I think I have come out about the same but being
           | rather self-serving, or at least not company first.. Doing
           | something big for the company reflects well on me, improves
           | my standing, and I can tout those achievements to others for
           | other career growth. But I do make a point of working for
           | companies where I think my own interests align with the role
           | in the company
        
             | xyzelement wrote:
             | Me too. I've generally only worked in companies where I
             | feel good about doing right for the company eventually
             | finding its way back to my comp and role. If you don't work
             | in a company like that (or don't feel like you do) then
             | probably the approach recommended here doesn't make sense.
        
         | conductr wrote:
         | Not sure I follow or just have contradicting experiences.
         | Executive's personal bottom lines are usually tied to the
         | Company's.
         | 
         | The company's goals are usually a derivative of customer goals.
         | Why are Customers not considered?
         | 
         | Any ways, I like being individual focused, but we all work for
         | _this_ Company for a reason (interest?) and so we should
         | probably just say something like; the company goals should be
         | such that they can be reasonably accomplished with  <100% of
         | available resources, time and efforts. Leaving time for some
         | independent individual development. Something like what Google
         | theoretically did with their 80/20 policy. It's up to you to
         | figure out what the right X/Y mix is.
        
       | pphysch wrote:
       | > As I've become a more experienced manager, I've stopped giving
       | this advice. I still believe it's the correct advice, and I
       | continue to see managers who fail because they are missing this
       | perspective. However, I've also seen some of the best leaders
       | that I've worked with burn out by following this advice too
       | loyally.
       | 
       | Most employees, especially in the West, especially in USA, are
       | going to be biased towards their individual interests. Aligning
       | their interests with the collective organizational interest is an
       | _extremely_ hard problem, but an extremely important one.
       | Definitely something that could burn out a manager. But very much
       | worth trying if you want a successful, healthy organization.
        
         | youallsuck wrote:
        
         | jacobyoder wrote:
         | I've been in situations as a dev where I've figuratively
         | screamed from the rafters "X is happening - we need to do ABC".
         | It's almost universally ignored because "well, devs just like
         | to do ABC! not happening this year... etc".
         | 
         | No... I hate doing ABC.
         | 
         | What's in _my_ immediate interest is to quietly paper over
         | problems, and pass them along to someone else.
         | 
         | What's _also_ in my interest _longer term_ is the organization
         | to fix operational issues to help ensure there _is_ a  'longer
         | term' for the organization to continue in to. To think I'm
         | _not_ thinking of that, and just wanting to do bullshit busy
         | work because  "he's a dev! that's what they do!" is patronizing
         | to say the least.
         | 
         | Many people are capable of looking at things from a few
         | perspectives.
        
           | xyzelement wrote:
           | This is a really common dynamic and I think it's an
           | opportunity.
           | 
           | Let's assume you are right, you are seeing some real threat
           | and have a solution in mind.
           | 
           | If others were "ready" to see it, they'd already see it on
           | their own and you'd have nothing additional to offer.
           | 
           | The reason your perspective is valuable is because you are
           | seeing something others aren't, but it also by definition
           | implies that they aren't ready to see it.
           | 
           | This is a universal thing - the gap between your insight and
           | the org's awareness is directly related both to the value of
           | your insight and how much of an uphill battle the sell is.
           | 
           | If you can become the person who can both see issues _and_
           | drive others to see them through persuasive education, you
           | become immensely impactful. Otherwise you are limited to only
           | making impact on things where others are already sold on the
           | issue while being frustrated by this limitation.
        
             | n0w wrote:
             | This is something I really struggle with. I think this
             | difference of perspective is one of my greatest strengths,
             | but in the last few places I've been I ended up burning out
             | trying to get others to see the same things.
             | 
             | Have you got any tips or advice for getting better at
             | "persuasive education" or inspiring others to see the same
             | things?
        
               | xyzelement wrote:
               | It's not just you who struggles with this - it's a very
               | hard thing to do even for those who do it a lot. The
               | number one barrier is just recognizing that it's _a
               | thing_ and you can work on it and do consciously (and
               | sounds like you did that, so that 's already huge!)
               | 
               | In fact, what distinguishes executives is their
               | experience, ability and _willingness_ to get others to
               | see and rally around a problem or goal - which is why I
               | positioned this to the person I was responding to as an
               | opportunity. If you can figure this out, your career (and
               | life) unlocks to the next level.
               | 
               | Now to answer your question, some practical advice:
               | 
               | 1. Most often, people conflate problems and solutions and
               | just say "we should do X" without making the person first
               | understand and agree that there's a problem to which X is
               | a solution. So when you get pushback on X, is it because
               | the other person doesn't think it's a good solution, or
               | did you not even help them understand that there's a
               | problem to begin with?
               | 
               | 2. People often fail to evaluate whether problems are
               | relevant, and to communicate that relevance. EG, have a
               | solid answer to "who gives a fuck?" Like "this system is
               | not well designed and I want to refactor it" - "who
               | cares?". "This system is hard to work on, and we work on
               | it all the time, so our feature delivery velocity is only
               | half of what it could be" - now I am listening.
               | 
               | 3. If you lost people, troubleshoot where you lost them.
               | "You don't agree with my proposal to refactor the system,
               | so I just wanted to double check if I had explained the
               | problem well. To remind, do you agree that our feature
               | velocity is slow? (yes/no) If yes, do you agree with me
               | that the root cause of the slowness is the
               | complexity/messiness of the underlying system? (yes/no)
               | Do you agree that my proposal to refactor it will address
               | it (yes/no) Do you just think now is not the time we can
               | afford that investment (yes/no)." etc. Walk them slowly
               | through the conversation, and if you ever get a "no" you
               | didn't expect - dig into that. Is it because you didn't
               | explain something, or because the person knows something
               | you don't? It's not THAT different that debugging code,
               | by trying to find the place where it disconnected from
               | what you expect. But it takes time and confidence to
               | stick with this process.
               | 
               | 4. Write it down and have someone read it and tell you if
               | you actually got the point across clearly. Writing things
               | down helps me establish the logic to my intuition which
               | is what enables me to do #3 better.
               | 
               | 5. Realize this will never feel easy because it's hard,
               | as long as you're trying and learning from the experience
               | you're doing all you can be doing.
               | 
               | 6. Take a class or read a book on negotiations
               | (negotiations is just a process of understanding the
               | other side's position as well as your own and talking
               | through it in a way that finds a solution that works for
               | both).
               | 
               | Good luck. Happy to answer anything else.
        
           | esparrohack wrote:
           | That's cus they don't trust you. Win their trust!
           | 
           | I don't like the persuasive education angle. You're going to
           | come off as smarmy.
           | 
           | So not everything is an opportunity. You gotta remember that
           | things are the way they are cus they got that way.
           | 
           | 1) solution may seem stupid bad now, but at the time, it was
           | the lesser of two evils
           | 
           | 2) the people most responsible are now your coworkers.
           | 
           | It's not always a good idea to see everything or comment on
           | everything. Pick your battles.
        
       | esparrohack wrote:
       | "It was very frustrating to me that the correct answer to most
       | prioritization and architecture projects was obvious"
       | 
       | Lost me there. People that think they know everything are the
       | easiest to trick.
       | 
       | "People are complex, and they get energy in complex ways. Some
       | managers get energy from writing some software"
       | 
       | No. We get energy from food.
       | 
       | "folks will accomplish more if you let them do some energizing
       | work, even if that work itself isn't very important."
       | 
       | Cited himself. No proof of claim.
       | 
       | " fun project is prototyping a throwaway service in a new
       | programming language, then hmm, maybe that's fine. But if you put
       | it into production, then your energizing detour is going to be
       | net negative on energy generation after other teams are pulled in
       | to figure out how to support it. Honestly, don't worry about the
       | other rules, just make sure to follow this one."
       | 
       | I think you should fix your deploy pipeline. Prototypes don't
       | belong in production. Now, if that started a prototype and team
       | decided it had to go to prod, then it's a good decision. They had
       | their reasons
       | 
       | ----
       | 
       | I gave up. It's hard to take it seriously. Obviously the self is
       | always more important.
       | 
       | Anyway, the main issue is you have two midwits purple-prosing
       | past each other.
       | 
       | Circumstances change. Shit happens. There is no such thing as
       | "the right way". Or correct. You pick the lesser of two evils and
       | do your best.
       | 
       | "still believe it's the correct advice, and I continue to see
       | managers who fail because they are missing this perspective.
       | However, I've also seen some of the best leaders that I've worked
       | with burn out by following this advice too loyally."
       | 
       | Then by definition it's not "correct" because it can fail and
       | fails spectacularly.
        
       | mfuzzey wrote:
       | Problem is who gets to decide what is best for the company?
       | 
       | In many organisations most people may not have enough information
       | to really know what is best for the whole organisation, even if
       | they do have good ideas about their part.
       | 
       | And top executives often can't be trusted to act in the best
       | interest of the _company_ (rather than that of the shareholders,
       | the stock market or themselves...). Short term vs longterm is
       | also very imporant, the best way to make a quick buck today is
       | often at odds with what is needed to remain relevant in 5 or 10
       | years.
        
         | bitwize wrote:
         | > Problem is who gets to decide what is best for the company?
         | 
         | People above your pay grade. What is best for the company for
         | your purposes will be made clear to you by your manager or
         | their superiors. Your job is to not question or criticize but
         | to carry out. Be wary of calls for feedback (e.g., eNPS); every
         | Hundred Flowers Campaign can be expected to soon be followed by
         | an Anti-Rightist Campaign, i.e., the feedback solicited will
         | likely be used to identify and eliminate potential
         | troublemakers rather than effect actual change.
        
       | codemac wrote:
       | meta, metamates, me
        
       | simonw wrote:
       | I loved this paragraph:
       | 
       | > People are complex, and they get energy in complex ways. Some
       | managers get energy from writing some software. That's great,
       | particularly if you avoid writing software with strict
       | dependencies. Some managers get energy from coaching others.
       | That's great. Some get energy from doing exploratory work. Others
       | get energy from optimizing existing systems. That's great, too.
       | Some get energy from speaking at conferences. Great. Some get
       | energy from cleaning up internal wiki's. You get the idea: that's
       | great. All these things are great, not because managers should or
       | shouldn't program/speak at conferences/clean up wiki's/etc, but
       | because folks will accomplish more if you let them do some
       | energizing work, even if that work itself isn't very important.
       | 
       | A think I've found challenging about management is that /people
       | are different/. What works for one person in terms of motivation
       | or style of work won't work for another person. A big part of
       | effective people management is understanding that and figuring
       | out what style works for each of the people you work with.
        
         | kqr wrote:
         | But it's not just about people being different. It's also about
         | how not everything people do has to be valuable to the
         | customer. It can be valuable in the sense that the person stays
         | in the organisation for longer if they get to do it.
         | 
         | This realisation hit me when I was in a heated debate with my
         | (then) product manager about what did and did not provide value
         | for our customers. Then suddenly he said, "I'm pretty sure
         | almost half of what I ask your team to do is not because it's
         | valuable to our customers, but because it's clearly important
         | to your team, for whatever reason I don't have to care about."
         | 
         | I had no idea until that point, but it did make a lot of sense.
        
           | wenholmes wrote:
           | The thing that brought the same idea home for me is the idea
           | that optimization is a destructive process. A business is a
           | complex thing with many, many variables influencing its
           | success. If you truly optimize "customer value" then you must
           | give up everything else. A much more nuanced approach is to
           | do what you did, and balance off various values against each
           | other. Unfortunately this is very difficult to measure or
           | "logic," it requires appreciating things like complexity,
           | uncertainty, and indirection. But ultimately it produces
           | better outcomes, and I'll take a manager who thinks like that
           | over one that doesn't every time.
           | 
           | P.S. Recommended reading on this topic, "Obliquity" by John
           | Kay is excellent.
        
       | throwawaysleep wrote:
       | If it will put a penny in my pocket, I will burn a billion of my
       | employer's dollars.
        
       | p0pcult wrote:
       | Dumb idea: what if we re conceptualized firms as entities whose
       | role it is to keep people meaningfully employed at good wages, in
       | order to support societal stability?
       | 
       | Oh right, I live in the USA.
        
         | PubliusMI wrote:
        
       | captnswing wrote:
       | I miss the customer in this. I've given the same advice in this
       | format
       | 
       | Customer > Company
       | 
       | Company > Team
       | 
       | Team > Self
        
       | smcleod wrote:
       | This feels like pretty typical capitalist rhetoric on the surface
       | at least.
       | 
       | Ignoring income - Do you go to work to make the company you work
       | for more wealthy? Or do you go to work to enjoy what you do and
       | make friends? Or do you go to work to learn new skills and better
       | yourself? - In which order do you place the statements? (Yes,
       | it's a false trichotomy.)
       | 
       | Unless you're the company founder or a major shareholder I would
       | really hope making the company more wealthy is not your top
       | priority.
       | 
       | I always say to my co-workers health > family > work. If they're
       | not healthy, they're not happy and they're not able to look after
       | family (or close friends), for family (or close friends) I'm not
       | happy or healthy they're less likely to be a viable support
       | network. You can be passionate, expressive, and absorbed in your
       | work - but doing what is best for the company above all else is
       | not what is best for humanity most of the time.
        
         | jmk123 wrote:
         | > health > family > work
         | 
         | 100% agree.
         | 
         | I would've flipped the thesis of the post in reverse order:
         | yourself, your team, your company.
        
           | wccrawford wrote:
           | I agree, but it's more complex than both of those. If
           | something matters to you, but matters a _lot_ more to the
           | company, it 's probably a good idea to do what's good for the
           | company. And if it matters a _lot_ to you and not much to the
           | company, it 's probably right to do what you want.
           | 
           | When things meet in the middle it means you have to take lot
           | of other things into account, too, to make the decision.
           | 
           | These hollow 1-way maps don't ever give good advice.
        
       | alex_young wrote:
       | Management theory ex Office Space?
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dA5rB63Mzc8
        
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