[HN Gopher] Only Intrinsic Motivation Lasts (2019)
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       Only Intrinsic Motivation Lasts (2019)
        
       Author : _trackno5
       Score  : 40 points
       Date   : 2022-10-27 15:17 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (dvassallo.medium.com)
 (TXT) w3m dump (dvassallo.medium.com)
        
       | nonameiguess wrote:
       | Amazingly little perspective some of these guys have. Appears to
       | have been his first job and he's 8 years in, so we're looking at
       | what? A roughly 30 year-old guy who has worked at all of one
       | employer and he's sitting here talking as if he's an expert on
       | what motivates humans across a lifetime.
       | 
       | Feel free to share your experience and beliefs, but please don't
       | act like this is science and you're some kind of authority. You
       | have no idea if you'll even still agree with yourself in another
       | decade. I know for damn sure I no longer believe life has the
       | same purpose for me I thought it did when I was 30.
        
         | travisjungroth wrote:
         | > Feel free to share your experience and beliefs, but please
         | don't act like this is science and you're some kind of
         | authority.
         | 
         | I'd suspect there's a correlation between this behavior and
         | quick IC SWE promotion at big companies.
        
       | airza wrote:
       | Other than the fact that it is insanely self-indulgent to brag
       | about leaving all this money behind, but it's not even true. I
       | left my job to work on my own project/startup for a while and the
       | shine certainly wears off after a while.
        
         | ok_dad wrote:
         | Did the shine wear off once your personal project became actual
         | work? I want to quit and work on my personal stuff so badly,
         | but I think I'll get to the point that I won't see a reason why
         | I stopped getting money for doing the same thing.
        
         | paales2 wrote:
         | At first you choose something, after a while you have
         | something. That is the time to choose something again.
        
       | moosedev wrote:
       | Please update the post title to add "(2019)".
        
         | _trackno5 wrote:
         | Done :)
        
           | moosedev wrote:
           | Thanks!
        
       | rippercushions wrote:
       | (2019). If you're wondering what happened next, he bootstrapped a
       | business selling PDFs and videos and claims to be have made over
       | $200k off it in 2021.
       | 
       | https://dvassallo.medium.com/from-employee-to-bootstrapper-9...
        
         | ghostbrainalpha wrote:
         | Is there reason to doubt his "claim"?
         | 
         | His class costs $375.
         | 
         | It seems reasonable that he has 600 sales in a year.
        
         | kritiko wrote:
         | Ah the old rise & grind trick of teaching other people to have
         | grindset.
         | 
         | I went to his Twitter/website and the course is well marketed.
         | But it's disqualifying to me that he's not building something
         | else.
        
           | solarmist wrote:
           | He's also part-time head of product (I think) at GumRoad.
        
       | berkeleyjunk wrote:
       | I think this depends a lot on how you are wired. Not everyone
       | thinks of their job as their identity (some certainly do). Some
       | people would just do the job for the lots of money/security and
       | do something more meaningful in their spare time.
        
       | dottedmag wrote:
       | > I'm going all in on independence, and I'm going to try to make
       | a living with my own bare hands starting from nothing.
       | 
       | This sounds pretty wild, given $511K/y last year.
       | 
       | I don't want to sound bitter about it, but I am a sole provider
       | for a family of 5, and I guess I could _retire_ after two years
       | of these earnings.
        
         | shadowfoxx wrote:
         | Yeah there's some real mental gymnastics here; "Starting from
         | nothing..." "...The goal is to provide for my family before I
         | run out of savings"
        
           | travisjungroth wrote:
           | I'd take it to mean starting a project from scratch.
           | Obviously he's not "starting from nothing" like he was kicked
           | out of an orphanage.
        
         | hosh wrote:
         | If your intrinsic motivation is for your family, you might be
         | able to pull it off. It's a recipe for burnout, but it can be
         | doable. Assuming that the work itself is something you're not
         | intrinsically motivated for.
         | 
         | You'd also be sacrificing a lot with time with your family.
         | Your marriage will get tested. You'll miss out on some things
         | with your kids growing up. If the stress is severe enough that
         | it changes how you would habitually relate to your family
         | (getting crankier, for example), that is the kind of dad you
         | will be remembered by your kids. The question is if on your
         | deathbed, looking back at how it all played out, that the
         | sacrifice was worth it.
         | 
         | I don't think there is a universally right or wrong choice in
         | this. The emotional toll of _not_ having enough to support your
         | family _and_ being in a soul-sucking job is worse.
        
           | dottedmag wrote:
           | Two years of a senior job in Amazon that isn't motivating
           | enough is a recipe for burnout? Come on.
        
         | BaseballPhysics wrote:
         | > I don't want to sound bitter about it, but I am a sole
         | provider for a family of 5, and I guess I could _retire_ after
         | two years of these earnings.
         | 
         | To be clear: You really couldn't. After tax that's probably
         | more like, what, 300k depending on where you live. Family of
         | five, you could save, what, 250k optimistically? Which means
         | 500k in two years. And you cannot retire on 500k.
         | 
         | But, say, 10 years? That's doable depending on your expected
         | income in retirement. Which is, admittedly, still pretty damn
         | good...
        
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           | dottedmag wrote:
           | > And you cannot retire on 500k.
           | 
           | Not everyone lives in US, and I would not be starting from
           | scratch, unlike what author suggests :)
        
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       | taeric wrote:
       | This is a false idea that we have any idea what motivation
       | actually lasts. As the saying goes, "change is the only
       | constant."
       | 
       | Certainly intrinsic motivation is the more likely to last
       | compared to extrinsic. But, I think there is a lot of selection
       | bias when we choose to claim which is which.
       | 
       | And there is a lot of ignoring what having the ability to take a
       | risk has. Stability and safety can help most anything last.
        
       | chatterhead wrote:
       | Money motivates me intrinsically. Feel free to send me whatever
       | monies you have that don't have that affect on you.
        
         | uni_rule wrote:
         | You fool! Not starving or freezing is an _extrinsic_ motivator!
        
         | citizenpaul wrote:
         | Exactly, I despise these articles. I will never believe they
         | are anything other than propaganda to trick people to want less
         | money from work.
         | 
         | Oh so this guy is starting a company. Is there any chance that
         | perhaps he cannot afford to pay people $500k like he was
         | making. Now I guess he has some intrinsic motivation to promote
         | lower pay so he can hire people to work for him cheap.
        
         | HWR_14 wrote:
         | I'm sure some subset of people are _intrinsically_ motivated by
         | money as a high score. I 'm _extrinsically_ motivated by money.
         | That 's nice too.
        
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