[HN Gopher] The Millennials in Sexless Marriages
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The Millennials in Sexless Marriages
Author : metadat
Score : 7 points
Date : 2022-10-20 22:09 UTC (52 minutes ago)
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| BlargMcLarg wrote:
| So basically it turns out stressing women more, giving men
| alternatives and actively teaching men to not be sexually
| aggressive has lead to a lot less sex.
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| Did people really expect anything else? The writing has been on
| the wall for a while now.
| treeman79 wrote:
| 15 year old college humor bit on needing lawyers before fun
| times.
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| https://youtu.be/f--u_puzhGs
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| Was funny at the time. Seems prudent now.
| tbihl wrote:
| >others say their "low-libido" husbands can watch endless
| pornography,
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| >They can't erase the influence of porn or social media.
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| Or, they can and should.
| metadat wrote:
| Why does porn consumption tend to result in less sex between
| couples? I see three common possibilities:
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| 1. It increases arousal, which would hopefully increase sexual
| desire
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| 2. People use it as more of a "complete solution".
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| 3. People use it as a tool to avoid confronting and dealing
| with the inevitable problems and complexities which are bound
| to arise in any long-term relationship.
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| To me, pornography seems like such a poor substitute for real
| life connection and experiences, I've found it doesn't replace
| anything beyond, uh, basic "maintenance" needs.
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