[HN Gopher] On the cheap, like a local, and without a lot of lug...
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       On the cheap, like a local, and without a lot of luggage
        
       Author : brandrick
       Score  : 307 points
       Date   : 2022-10-14 12:41 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | elif wrote:
       | All this to say "I'm a contrarian"
       | 
       | I don't think most people legitimately enjoy "empty military
       | museums" "walking across town aimlessly twice" "visiting in bad
       | weather" "watching bad soccer matches" "eating at the same place
       | three quarters of meals for 8 weeks"
       | 
       | I do 4-8 month backpacking trips semi-regularly and try to visit
       | new countries whenever possible... But even I can't find a single
       | piece of appreciable advice from this whole read.
        
         | dang wrote:
         | > All this to say "I'm a contrarian"
         | 
         | " _Please don 't post shallow dismissals, especially of other
         | people's work._":
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
         | 
         | Arnade is one of the more interesting writers online these
         | days. Tastes vary, of course, but let's try to avoid the
         | middlebrow dismissal thing here. Your comment would be fine
         | without that first bit.
        
         | localhost wrote:
         | People travel for different reasons, and that's OK. Chris'
         | reasons are stated in his post:
         | 
         | "This style of travel, of aiming to be a local, isn't for
         | everyone. I'm blessed with a lot of free time, and it's best
         | done in weeks, not days."
         | 
         | And
         | 
         | "Traveling is my education, so I treat the question like
         | choosing which course to take. What do I want to learn about
         | this semester? For me, currently that's faith and religion. So
         | I've been trying to go to places of deep faith, and ones
         | different from what I'm familiar with. To see faith as it's
         | practiced by the average follower, not by the high priests, or
         | the most sacrosanct. The local mosque rather than the Blue
         | mosque"
         | 
         | He really does want to create relationships with the people in
         | the places that he visits. And he's done that for years. His
         | book Dignity chronicles a lot of his writing about the
         | differences between the "front of the classroom" and the "back
         | of the classroom" people. He focuses on trying to just listen
         | and understand how other people live rather than sitting back
         | and judging them based on tiny snippets of their worlds that
         | you see in places like the news.
         | 
         | So this is very much on brand for him, and I applaud him for
         | sharing how he does what he does with us. And FWIW he did come
         | from a very Western elite background as well: PhD in particle
         | physics, bond trader on Wall Street before escaping that life
         | at considerable personal cost to live this life of trying to
         | show us how others live.
        
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         | randomdata wrote:
         | _> I don 't think most people legitimately enjoy "empty
         | military museums" "walking across town aimlessly twice"_
         | 
         | Not in and of itself, you are right, but I do enjoy the
         | happenstance encounters along the way. Like the time I was
         | aimlessly walking through a neighbourhood in a far off city,
         | heard someone holler in my direction, and out of that was
         | invited in to join their barbecue. I don't remember the rest of
         | the walk at all, but I sure do remember the fun people I met
         | and the great time I had there.
        
           | antihero wrote:
           | Yep, you have to create situations with potential for weird
           | and wonderful stuff to happen. If you're hell bent on
           | following a rigid plan there's no cracks in between for the
           | plants to grow.
        
         | Chris_arnade wrote:
         | So I guess compared to you I really am a contrarian.
        
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         | kotlin2 wrote:
         | You travel a lot and you don't walk around town aimlessly?
         | That's the best part.
        
           | itake wrote:
           | I've cut that down a bit. When I wondered in old town
           | Mombasa, Kenya last year, some people got out of a taxi and
           | warned me to turn around and go back because I was in a very
           | dangerous area for tourists. It was certainly quiet, but it
           | was clean in the city.
           | 
           | Living in Seattle, there are certain parts of downtown that I
           | would normally feel comfortable walking through but was
           | warned by locals about gun and drug violence.
           | 
           | There are many examples of lost tourists in Mexico or South
           | America that get approached by drug traffickers on YouTube.
           | 
           | It is extremely difficult to go wrong in Vietnam, but there
           | are many places that appear peaceful but are actually run by
           | crime.
        
             | kurthr wrote:
             | I drove a foreign friend through SouthCentral (where the
             | riots started) in the mid 90s. She really liked the
             | neighborhood with big streets and palm trees. I pointed out
             | the bars on the windows and she said her homes had all had
             | bars on the windows growing up. She also liked that there
             | were a lot more people hanging out, until I pointed out it
             | was a school day and the kids on the corner ought to be
             | there instead. Also, that I was blowing stop signs didn't
             | bother her, until I mentioned that we would be expected to
             | buy crack, if we stopped.
             | 
             | Of course when I visited her home town and walked up a hill
             | for the view one afternoon, I didn't think that much about
             | a syringes off the side of the trail, but her family lost
             | their minds that I had been in the most dangerous part of
             | the city, "people are killed there all the time".
             | 
             | We are terrible about judging dangerous areas outside of
             | our cultural experience. Many westerner's can't even
             | identify a RedLight area in Asia, "Why are all those women
             | wearing such short dresses?", "all those girls (actually
             | boys) are really dressed up nice".
        
         | spfzero wrote:
         | I guess there are more than one type of people. Some people
         | like to watch sports for the individual performance of top
         | athletes. Other people, love to watch the game, and to them it
         | doesn't matter much whether the players are in the top 0.01%.
         | Try watching a high school baseball game, and see whether you
         | enjoy the experience as much, or more, than a major league
         | game. Errors just add to the fun!
        
         | yodsanklai wrote:
         | I think there's a middle ground. Nowadays, with exponential
         | growth in tourism, the most famous places can feel a bit
         | hellish if you don't like crowds. Without going to extremes,
         | it's worth looking for slightly less popular options or
         | avoiding peak times, even if that means getting suboptimal
         | weather.
        
         | wongarsu wrote:
         | Being a regular at a small selection of bars or restaurants is
         | just good advice on how to make friends. I assume the same can
         | be said about pretending to be an avid fan of a bad soccer
         | team.
         | 
         | You could title the blog post "I care about the people, not the
         | place. This is how that affects my travels".
        
         | jccalhoun wrote:
         | I'm curious what you do like to do while traveling?
         | 
         | I would much rather go to an empty museum than something
         | stuffed full of people like the Louvre and I would much rather
         | go to a local sporting even than a Lakers game or something
         | like that.
        
         | maire wrote:
         | I also would not go exactly where the author goes, or do what
         | the author does, but I appreciate the stimulation of being
         | taken out of the pre-packaged presentation and into reality.
         | 
         | You are a backpacker so you already embrace the spirit of the
         | article. You already have a purpose to your trip that takes you
         | outside of tourist traps. Tourism packages destinations so they
         | all start to look the same.
         | 
         | You are not a contrarian. You have an alternate path to the
         | same goal.
         | 
         | You can even do this locally (no need to travel). My husband
         | and I started biking and often this takes us to unseen parts of
         | our own community.
        
         | e1g wrote:
         | I imagine someone visiting my "home" cities using that
         | strategy, and it's hilarious how wildly incorrect and poor
         | their experience of these places would be. Like a local? Ok,
         | just not like any local I've ever met living here.
        
           | Cthulhu_ wrote:
           | I mean looking around where I live (a quiet, fairly middle
           | class suburb), I'm sure they would get bored pretty quickly.
           | There's no stores or landmarks here, just some playgrounds
           | and bits of greenery. People live here, they do business and
           | entertainment elsewhere.
        
           | notahacker wrote:
           | "Living like a local" in most places means spending the
           | majority of your waking hours working to pay rent and much of
           | the rest of it doing household chores, and your rare trips
           | out being more likely to be to McDonalds than to enjoy the
           | local cuisine...
        
             | randomdata wrote:
             | That's how I like to travel. Stay with someone, help with
             | their chores, go to work when they do (the benefits of
             | WFH), basically mirror the life they live. Those rare trips
             | get compressed somewhat, largely because being able to
             | share the experience with the host means that there is
             | greater desire to make those rare trips happen while I am
             | there as a guest, but not excessively.
        
               | hunter-gatherer wrote:
               | There used to be (maybe still is) a pretty robust couch
               | surfing crowd in the days before airbnb. I did a decent
               | amount of traveling that way in my 20s around the world
               | and was able to accomplish this that way. Good times.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | Anyone who has ever been a local knows that locals spend time
           | living their life; they rarely go to museums, etc in their
           | own town; and if they do they probably go to specific ones
           | multiple times (the ones that go with their hobbies, say).
           | 
           | There _is_ something to  "not being a stereotypical tourist"
           | but that's easy enough to do by being polite, and paying
           | attention to what is going on, and wandering off the beaten
           | path now and then.
           | 
           | Visiting off-season can be a great deal, especially if you're
           | not concerned with weather (for example, if you're going to
           | be visiting museums in Rome, they will be open during the
           | rain as well as the shine).
        
             | hooverd wrote:
             | I'm very aware of the nature of my relationship as a
             | tourist, but I do want to be an active participant and not
             | a passive observer.
        
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         | unethical_ban wrote:
         | The writing just felt "off". To me. Like the incomplete
         | sentences. Mostly.
         | 
         | I get what the writer is getting at, and I think some of his
         | ideas are fine. I envy his travel time. And I'll have to make
         | my way to the tips on packing, because the one time I did go
         | overseas, I _way_ overpacked.
         | 
         | FWIW I do enjoy walking around town aimlessly - if you haven't
         | done it, you should try. It's how I've experienced Boston, New
         | York, Munich, Belgrade and San Francisco. Of course I find a
         | few places online that I should check out, like the fortress in
         | Belgrade or the Eisbock and gardens in Munich. But "aimless
         | walking" through ubran areas is the essence of peace for me. I
         | am rarely happier.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | >the one time I did go overseas, I way overpacked.
           | 
           | For urban/semi-urban travel (i.e. don't require a lot of
           | specialized gear/just in case supplies) carry-on is pretty
           | doable for most people--though I wouldn't go as far as tiny
           | backpack. It requires a certain mindset. You're not going to
           | have a lot of outfits and may be dressed on the downscale
           | side if you go to nice restaurants, etc. Make a lot of things
           | do double/triple duty. You may be washing some clothes in the
           | hotel sink. You're prepared to buy something you need in a
           | pinch.
           | 
           | I'm not fanatical about it and do carry enough stuff to want
           | to drop off a bag wherever I'm staying but rarely check
           | luggage either.
        
             | unethical_ban wrote:
             | Indeed. I bought an bag from $fancybrand at REI that
             | doubles as backpack and luggage. It is compressible and is
             | about as large as a carryon bag can be.
             | 
             | When I travel via air, I wear the least compressible shoes
             | possible (boots) on the plane and squeeze loafers or tennis
             | shoes in the bag. My blue jeans are upscale enough to look
             | casual but also look well at dinner. And yes, at least one
             | nice shirt is needed for dining out or looking decent at a
             | bar.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | My standard is a 40L travel backpack and a compact
               | shoulder bag that can hold a laptop and/or stuff for
               | walking around town for the day.
               | 
               | Recently (pre-pandemic) when I was doing a lot of travel
               | I did optimize my clothing somewhat for synthetics and
               | merino wool that could be easily washed and dried
               | quickly. And, yes, I usually have walking shoes--whether
               | they're trail shoes or leather walking shoes depends on
               | the trip and some sort of very compact light shoe as
               | backup etc. Also a couple little kits that have all sorts
               | of cables, repair items, basic first aid...
        
         | Scene_Cast2 wrote:
         | So, two counterpoints. One is that although most people
         | probably won't enjoy it, enough of a fraction will.
         | 
         | The other - just like I don't follow Richard Stallman's
         | extremism but find some of his ideas interesting, I think she
         | of the mentality in the blog post could be applicable to most
         | people. For example, staying in a hip neighborhood in Paris for
         | a couple of weeks but taking half a day to visit some niche
         | "people just live here" suburbs or countryside.
        
         | openfuture wrote:
         | Because, as you no doubt already know, the only useful advice
         | is "just do it" - the whole point is that you are more capable
         | than you think (or I guess not you since you've already put
         | yourself to the test I suspect).
        
         | glonq wrote:
         | I'm not a contrarian, but I to tend to second-guess the bang
         | for the buck out of typical tourist activities.
         | 
         | My favorite activities in Paris were 'not going to the louvre'
         | and 'not going up the eiffel tower' :)
        
       | justnotworthit wrote:
       | Are you collecting "local" trophies? The quaint lives of
       | indigenous grandmas and blue collar workers? Are they the "real"
       | ones whose wisdom you absorb? Do they stop being real when they
       | enter a chain restuarant?
       | 
       | Some locals (as if they're museum artifacts!) don't live cheaply;
       | or have learned your language; or are overeducated; or buy in
       | bulk; or like to travel too (can a local travel?); Are they not
       | authentic? Not able to teach you something? You've heard from
       | them already, I guess.
        
       | a-user-you-like wrote:
       | We'll this is one way to tell the poor people who gad their money
       | inflated away by the fed printer, "get used to a lower standard
       | of life"!
        
       | throw7 wrote:
       | Walking around is great, but I think it's a good idea to
       | generally be aware of "unsafe" parts of town. If you think about
       | your own local city, you would know areas to avoid, but, hey, if
       | that's your thing, then go for it.
        
       | steele wrote:
       | Orientalism as struggle tourism
        
         | fritztastic wrote:
         | #facts
        
       | invalidusernam3 wrote:
       | The part about visas is purely from an American perspective. I
       | always find it weird when people write assuming everyone reading
       | will be American. It's extra surprising when the person is a
       | supposed travel guru.
        
         | Bakary wrote:
         | It's not that strange. They are writing a paid newsletter
         | oriented towards Americans, which is why it has that "Live,
         | laugh, love" tinge to it. Besides, you could say an endless
         | number of troubled audiences might read the article.
         | Handicapped folks, parents with needy and noisy children,
         | depressed/repressed engineers who don't leave their house, and
         | thousands of other profiles for whom travel is but a distant
         | dream. You just have to write and not worry about all that.
         | Heck, the people who can't travel might enjoy the escapism.
        
       | gniv wrote:
       | I had discovered the author through his series on Istanbul, which
       | I thought was interesting and insightful:
       | https://walkingtheworld.substack.com/p/walking-istanbul-part...
        
       | PopAlongKid wrote:
       | >Next time you travel, when you get home, unpack and see what you
       | didn't use. You'll be surprised how much you've overpacked.
       | 
       | >I also bring lots of cash
       | 
       | Best travel advice I ever received, pre-Internet era (but still
       | relevant):
       | 
       | Bring twice as much money, and half as many clothes, as you think
       | you are going to need.
        
       | smoovb wrote:
       | A Buddhist monk might call this kind of travel extravagant.
        
       | blacklion wrote:
       | Hanoi as off-beaten path in Vietnam? Ok, I see what you did here.
        
       | rippercushions wrote:
       | Some of this advice is good, some of it is bizarre:
       | 
       | > _I prefer to travel to a city the time of year its most
       | uncomfortable. So like Montreal in the winter, or New Delhi in
       | the summer. I want to see a place when it's at the apogee of its
       | essence, not when it's the most comfortable. A kinda, if you are
       | going to do X really do X thing. It's also when it's a lot
       | cheaper._
       | 
       | No, sorry, if you visit New Delhi in May, Tokyo in August or
       | Montreal in February, you're going to have a pretty miserable
       | time.
        
         | ehnto wrote:
         | I guess it depends on your sensibilities. Tokyo in the summer
         | matches where I live in the summer, so it's no real change.
         | Also I'd say weather is all part of the experience. Places like
         | Sapporo or Sendai are great to visit in the winter, because you
         | get a real winter experience. Something we don't get in my
         | country.
         | 
         | Most countries have more than 4 season in practical terms
         | though, and going during the "seasons inbetween" is my
         | recommendation. In Australia, the indigenous have up to 6
         | different seasons they identified depending on the
         | location/tribe, and they have more nuanced events expected for
         | each season. Most countries are like that in real terms, so
         | intimate knowledge can get you a great budget off-season
         | holiday experience.
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indigenous_Australian_seasons
        
         | blamazon wrote:
         | I was in Japan during the hottest part of the year pre-pandemic
         | and it was delightful. The cicadas from anime are a real thing,
         | not sure why that surprised me exactly but I loved the vibe. I
         | experienced how an onsen visit can completely refresh me in any
         | weather - so interesting how steeping in super hot water makes
         | me feel better in super hot weather. I bought a neck towel with
         | a fun waving cat print and shopkeepers watering plants always
         | offered to water my neck towel. Always ice cold water. My hikes
         | were made all the more satisfying under the intense heat. In
         | the moment you're hot and sweaty, but afterwards you are washed
         | and air conditioned and drinking ice cold beer and life is so
         | much sweeter.
        
           | Cthulhu_ wrote:
           | I'd probably be okay with that, but I don't like being
           | uncomfortable. My girlfriend gets heat stroke when
           | temperatures go over 25 degrees celsius, so that's a definite
           | nope. Still want to visit Japan at some point though.
        
             | prottog wrote:
             | Where is your girlfriend from, Antarctica? I'd be hard-
             | pressed to find many people who would find 25oC unpleasant,
             | even with high humidity.
        
               | pxx wrote:
               | I find 25C fairly unpleasant and definitely "warm."
               | 
               | OSHA recommends offices to be cooled below that point,
               | with 24C/76F being the upper end of acceptable. Some of
               | this observation is also dependent on metabolic rate,
               | which makes opinions on this somewhat gender-skewed.
        
         | wirthjason wrote:
         | If you visit Chicago in the winter, the absolute worst part of
         | the year, you'll miss what makes Chicago great.
         | 
         | The beautiful summers are so great it makes the winters
         | tolerable.
         | 
         | For example I always take visitors on a river/lake boat tour.
         | Even though I grew up here it always blows my mind mind. The
         | problems is those are completely shut down in the winter.
         | 
         | If someone wanted to visit me in the winter and "act like a
         | local" I don't know what I would suggest, maybe stay indoors
         | where it's warm.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | I think there's "off season" and there's "midwest in January"
           | - you can aim to visit Chicago in the very early spring or
           | late fall just as the boat tours begin or end.
           | 
           | As in all cases, careful research can reveal opportune times
           | that you can balance with your other goals. If you want to
           | see the cherry blossoms in Japan, you're stuck to a very
           | particular time, for example; but I don't think they put away
           | Mt Fiji until very late in winter.
        
             | rippercushions wrote:
             | Mt Fuji is best _seen_ in winter, when the air is clear and
             | it can be seen from far away. If you actually want to climb
             | it, you 're limited to a brief season of a couple of months
             | in midsummer.
        
             | kritiko wrote:
             | I was in Chicago in mid-May a few years ago and took a boat
             | tour. The weather was still very cold and windy and it
             | ended up being pretty miserable!
             | 
             | I'd still recommend it. But it taught me to pack based on
             | the weather forecast and historical weather. I make sure to
             | bring a warm and dry enough outer layers that I can sit
             | outside for an extended period.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | And one of the best things you can do "as a local" is ...
               | buying weather-appropriate clothes you forgot! Almost all
               | cities have thrift stores or equivalent, too, which can
               | be even more fun.
        
           | zach_garwood wrote:
           | This is precisely the comment I was going to make. If you
           | want to come to Chocago in the "off season", you're more than
           | welcome, but you'll just be as miserable and bored as the
           | rest of us locals.
        
         | joncp wrote:
         | I'd tweak the advice: go in the shoulder seasons.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | And in the US and much of Europe, school and general vacation
           | schedules play a role as well. September and October tend to
           | be really good times to visit a lot of places that are packed
           | in July and August--and the weather is often even better. Get
           | into the winter and it's at least a different experience out
           | of doors and may not even be really doable for the casual
           | visitor (though of course cities are always visitable to some
           | degree).
        
           | brandall10 wrote:
           | Exactly, that's generally my tact on my digital nomad
           | adventures... try to avoid peak season, but don't go in the
           | middle of winter/summer in a seasonal area
        
         | Chris_arnade wrote:
         | Had a great time in Montreal in February. Great time in Hanoi
         | in July!
        
           | cptn_badass wrote:
           | The thing is even locals will have a greater time during the
           | nicer times. Using Montreal, where I was living until a few
           | years ago, is a much nicer place to wander around when
           | there's no snow. It's a colourful city, lively and full of
           | small and big activity to do, so you can get by with the sort
           | of tourism you described in high season (summer), but also
           | end of spring and early fall.
           | 
           | In the winter, it's a cold, wet and relatively low
           | interaction time of the year. I assume some place have a
           | high, low and dead season for tourism, and I personally aim
           | for low, but to each their own. Quebec in general is a great
           | place for winter vacation, just have to go outside Montreal
           | island.
        
         | MerelyMortal wrote:
         | Maybe for someone who is always used to A/C or central heating.
         | 
         | For someone who has experience with such weather and has
         | adapted to it, it's not a big deal.
         | 
         | I wouldn't presume to tell other people how they should feel,
         | but giving them a head's up that it may be miserable if they're
         | not ready for it is wise.
        
           | rippercushions wrote:
           | Delhi hit 49 deg C this May. I don't think it's humanly
           | possible to adapt to this kind of temperature.
        
             | Freak_NL wrote:
             | Certainly not if you come from a region where 35degC is
             | already at the extreme end.
        
           | hinoki wrote:
           | Tokyo had a few days this last august with lethal wet bulb
           | temperatures. I assume Delhi would be similar.
           | 
           | Winter in Montreal just needs the right clothing, but then
           | you're not packing light. A proper winter coat, gloves,
           | boots, etc. will need way more space than exists in that tiny
           | backpack.
        
             | birdman3131 wrote:
             | This depends on the person. Looking at this past febuary it
             | had a min of -4F.
             | 
             | We had similar in AR back in 21 and I was outside in a
             | tshirt or if more than 10 minutes the thinnest windbreaker
             | ever. (Single layer of plastic and compresses to a baseball
             | size or so.) I might go to a hoody at -20 but not sure even
             | then.
        
             | saint_fiasco wrote:
             | You can buy the right clothing in Montreal. Since the
             | stores in Montreal sell to people in Montreal, the right
             | clothing will be cheap and easy to find.
        
               | madcaptenor wrote:
               | I didn't plan it, but I did this once in Bergen, Norway.
               | Showed up and immediately got soaked by the rain (I think
               | I had a pathetic little umbrella). Noticed that most
               | people outside seemed okay with the rain and had nice
               | rain jackets. Found a store, bought a nice rain jacket.
               | It comes in handy now when my kid wants to play in the
               | rain and I don't want to be miserable afterwards.
        
               | raverbashing wrote:
               | Sure. Enjoy walking up to the stores in -20C (or -5F) in
               | your light clothes from home (and before someone goes
               | "but actually I'm gonna rent a car" suuure you think that
               | will solve all your problems. sure)
               | 
               | Easy yes, cheap, not so much.
        
               | Swizec wrote:
               | > the right clothing will be cheap and easy to find
               | 
               | Tell me you've never lived in a place with actual winter
               | without telling me. The clothes aimed at locals are
               | designed to be a 5 to 10 year investment. Not a jacket
               | you buy to throw away in spring.
               | 
               | That said, you are right that unless you're in a place
               | like that, the correct gear isn't even available for you
               | to buy.
        
               | saint_fiasco wrote:
               | Of course I don't live in a country that has actual
               | winter, that's the point.
               | 
               | If I buy winter clothes in my home country, the clothes
               | will be ugly, expensive, and I have no way to make sure
               | if they even work for their intended purpose. It's too
               | hot here.
               | 
               | But when I go to countries that have actual winters,
               | especially First World countries, then I can find decent
               | winter clothes even in, say, a Target.
               | 
               | > The clothes aimed at locals are designed to be a 5 to
               | 10 year investment
               | 
               | Not if you shop at Target :)
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | Taking a quick look at Target's winter coat selection for
               | men... the coats that are appropriate for December -
               | February in Chicago are still in the $150+ range price
               | there. There are some in the $100 that wouldn't be awful
               | for going a block... maybe two... but I wouldn't want to
               | be wearing them if there was a substantial wind, snow, or
               | if I found that I needed to turn around and go back to
               | the bus stop and wait for the next bus.
               | 
               | We're comparing https://www.target.com/p/cutter-buck-
               | mission-ridge-repreve-e... (and honestly, the puffy
               | jackets are... to me, as a local to the upper midwest,
               | those... they're not what you see many locals wearing...
               | some, yes... but not many) to things in
               | https://www.rei.com/c/snow-jackets?ir=category%3Asnow-
               | jacket...
        
               | saint_fiasco wrote:
               | When I went to Minneapolis in winter a few years ago I
               | brought lots of winter clothes. I ended up replacing most
               | of it with cheap clothes from Target, except the coat and
               | the boots.
        
               | Bakary wrote:
               | My own experience is that in Canada and northern US
               | states cheap and high quality winter goods are easy to
               | find. Usually used.
        
               | hinoki wrote:
               | You could probably get something used, but it would be a
               | bit of a hassle. Or another way to experience the city
               | like a local.
               | 
               | But while you're shopping, and the trip in from the
               | airport would be pretty miserable.
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | I'd tend to avoid buying used long underwear or wool
               | socks.
               | 
               | The "cheap, serviceable, but used" is... fairly picked
               | over by the locals (and especially the homeless).
               | 
               | Consider San Francisco for a moment and the daily
               | occasion of tourists who suddenly find that the fog
               | rolling in the evening is cold and then buy the "cheap"
               | (but horribly marked up) jackets that aren't the right
               | size in which they stand out like sore thumbs.
               | 
               | Or they could go to the Salvation Army store and buy a
               | winter jacket - consider the availability of them there.
               | 
               | Or they could go to REI or Farm and Fleet (I know there
               | aren't any F&F in SF) and buy a new winter jacket there.
               | 
               | After childhood, locals have winter clothes that often
               | last 5-10 years or more (and they pay for durability). My
               | winter jackets are from '10 (I've got a medium weight
               | photographer's jacket that I got in Keeble & Shuchat in
               | '01 that I still wear... wish I could find something like
               | it again). My father's winter jackets are in the 10-20
               | year range.
               | 
               | I'm also going to note the plural. Locals will often have
               | two or three "winter" jackets depending on the weather.
               | 
               | The only time you get a jacket for a season that is cheap
               | is for a child who is going to outgrow it by the next
               | winter.
        
               | germinalphrase wrote:
               | You can get pretty far with a thick wool base layer,
               | packable down jacket, and a wool hat/mittens/socks. Maybe
               | not ultralight one bag travel, but with some reasonable
               | clothing choices - not terrible.
        
               | prottog wrote:
               | Pack nothing but your American Express and just buy
               | everything you need at the destination! That's one way to
               | pack light ;-)
        
               | charbull wrote:
               | But then your spending your time at the mall instead of
               | exploring
        
               | openfuture wrote:
               | Well you aren't fully packed unless you also pack an
               | income source to refill the card, travelling (at least
               | for a lot of "true" travellers) is about finding a
               | sustainable means of "going infinite" (to borrow MTG
               | terminology).
        
             | prmoustache wrote:
             | > A proper winter coat, gloves, boots, etc. will need way
             | more space than exists in that tiny backpack.
             | 
             | Depending on where you live it might be winter already
             | there too so not necessarily a problem as you already wear
             | the shit and remove what you don't need during the flight.
             | Otherwise you just have to wear them when you enter the
             | plane and put them back in the ikea bag that was in the
             | coat's pocket the rest of the time.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | I agree with that.
             | 
             | I've spent a few weeks in Tokyo and Kyoto mid summer
             | (though less extreme I guess than this summer) because of
             | business trips and you can "manage"--in the sense that you
             | can limit activities during the hottest parts of the day or
             | just in general--but I don't really recommend picking
             | visits at those times unless you have some specific reason
             | to.
             | 
             | Montreal in winter on the other hand is fine. But, as you
             | say, you need the right clothing which can be reasonably
             | compact but isn't going to fit in tiny luggage. (And
             | activities will be at least somewhat different from in
             | summer.)
             | 
             | I'm a fairly compact traveler in general (just carry-on
             | usually) and you can get off with a lot in temperate to
             | warm climates in urban locations where you don't need to
             | dress up. But I also don't like to pack only those things
             | that I'm sure I need. For example, I have a little kit bag
             | of miscellaneous stuff I mostly don't need but am sometimes
             | glad I have.
        
             | triceratops wrote:
             | Delhi is quite dry though.
        
         | rtanks wrote:
         | Agreed
        
         | mvexel wrote:
         | I think it actually makes sense, but perhaps more so for
         | "traditional" tourism. I lived in Amsterdam for 20 or so years.
         | I found winter to be positively miserable: cold, rainy and
         | dark. But it is the best time of year to see tourist highlights
         | like the Anne Frank House, Rijksmuseum etc. Not as much waiting
         | and crowding. The old town in general felt less like an open
         | air museum. Not sure if this still holds true, it's been over a
         | decade since I moved away.
        
         | dominotw wrote:
         | Maybe around the edges of peak season is better option?
         | 
         | Skiing in colorado is best end of March into April. Crowds are
         | completely gone and snow is the best.
        
       | throw_lfnsooemd wrote:
       | IMO this misses out on how to create deep connections with
       | people.
       | 
       | What I often do is meet people through Grindr and try to get a
       | short term romance. The relationships that ensure are quite
       | profound and it creates a very special connection with the place.
       | Maybe through the eyes of the person that you've met.
        
       | state_less wrote:
       | Another benefit of packing light is that you can rent a
       | motorcycle and carry your kit cross-country without much trouble.
       | 
       | I like covering a lot of ground and coming and going whenever it
       | suits me.
        
       | pengaru wrote:
       | pro-tip: Traveling light/backpacking is _far_ simpler in a fasted
       | state.
       | 
       | Now whenever I go on a multi-day trip I'll deliberately pack on a
       | few extra pounds before departing while in keto mode. From there
       | it's a painless transition to simply not eating, and after 48hrs
       | it feels like a potentially infinite modus operandi. No need for
       | pooping in random foreign places and less demand for bathing
       | daily, no need to carry bulky/heavy food... These problems are
       | effectively reduced to just drinking water and finding places to
       | pee.
        
         | samatman wrote:
         | Eating is a top five reason for me to travel, maybe top three.
         | 
         | I know, not everyone's like me, that's fine. "Just don't eat,
         | it'll make your vacation easier" is nonetheless one of the
         | stranger life hacks I've seen proposed.
         | 
         | I think you're saying this with a straight face?
        
           | pengaru wrote:
           | > I think you're saying this with a straight face?
           | 
           | I'm definitely saying it with a straight face, but I also
           | ceased abusing food as entertainment and a primary source of
           | short-term happiness over a decade ago.
           | 
           | Except what I'm referring to is _traveling_ , as in, actually
           | in-transit.
           | 
           | If you're boarding a plane to spend just one night somewhere,
           | then yes I suppose I'm suggesting just fast the entire trip.
           | That's not a form of travel I engage in. Obviously while
           | visiting a foreign place for months I'm not suggesting you
           | abstain from eating the entire time - it's impractical and
           | missing the cultural experience.
           | 
           | What I _am_ saying is when you 're hoofing it days with a
           | backpack, or boarding a 52-hr train ride, or bikepacking a
           | couple days, it's substantially more pleasant in a fasted
           | state. No bulky food to carry and you won't have a dirty
           | bum/as much want for a bath.
           | 
           | For example I'll be riding the Zephyr from IL to CA (~2.3
           | days) at the end of the month, followed by a 60-mile bike
           | ride from the Sacramento Valley train station, east up into
           | the Sierra Nevada. I'll eat a few whole chickens in the days
           | leading up to the train ride, and won't eat again until
           | arriving at my destination in the Sierra Nevada. The train
           | ride won't require #2 bathroom breaks fasted, and the bike
           | ride will be 100% adipose-fueled, light, and way more fun in
           | that state. Of course I'll be eating meals with friends in CA
           | over the following months though.
        
       | seydor wrote:
       | Travel is easy now. You don't need to ask locals, you can't get
       | lost, and only a few remote places have anthropologic interest.
       | The author travels for entertainment, it is certainly a time-
       | consuming kind with slow reward's but as time goes by i wonder if
       | travel will simply go out of fashion, as every place looks alike.
       | We have google earth to explore even remote dangerous favelas,
       | (accompanied by police). Tech is making travel a pure exercise in
       | movement, without need or purpose
        
         | ilikecakeandpie wrote:
         | You can absolutely get lost if you are super reliant on your
         | phone and it is inaccessible or you go somewhere with limited
         | service and you didn't download offline maps.
        
           | em-bee wrote:
           | not if they have public transport
        
         | virgildotcodes wrote:
         | I mean, I think there is a difference between being somewhere
         | and looking at pictures of it on google earth, akin to having
         | sex versus watching porn, being in love versus reading about
         | love, eating spicy food versus watching people do it on Hot
         | Ones etc.
        
           | seydor wrote:
           | That was not my point, and there are gradations in those
           | analogies. Cookie-cutter tourist vacations are not much
           | different than watching the corresponding youtube
           | travelogues, except for the smells, because they are so
           | stereotypical. There is something interesting to traveling
           | but i wonder how much value there is in it anymore. The
           | author himself said that traveling is like fiction to him.
        
       | Markoff wrote:
       | How to travel on the cheap
       | 
       | Author uses Airbnb. /facepalm
       | 
       | I have one advice for you - don't use Airbnb, small guesthouses
       | are way cheaper than any Airbnb in SEA and busy areas have often
       | lot of competition pushing prices much lower than done deserted
       | areas, you have no clue about cheap travel.
       | 
       | And if you want really local experience then stay at CS hosts or
       | find whatever you can like when I argued about price in one Thai
       | island with owner and they suggested for price I propose I can
       | sleep somewhere in floor, which I said it's fine with me, couple
       | from bus station heard us and I ended up sleeping on mattress in
       | their bus station office.
       | 
       | Also Hanoi is less touristy and more local than HCMC? You what?
       | Who is this noob? I enjoyed motorbiking around Ninh Binh a lot,
       | Hanoi is like top 1 or 2 most touristy place in Vietnam, heck
       | even Hue or Danang are less touristy than Hanoi.
        
         | sixothree wrote:
         | Many people here blame airbnb for rising house prices in my
         | city. Every block seemed to have multiple houses dedicated to
         | airbnb. And the visitors certainly are problematic at best.
        
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       | ricardobayes wrote:
       | Travelling is like real estate, location matters. Certain places
       | are popular for a reason usually. Off-the beaten path travelling
       | is like advocating people to move to an off-grid farm with no
       | running water. It might work out fine for you, but most people
       | are not into that thing.
        
       | penner_im_auto wrote:
       | 2 years Vanlifer here.
       | 
       | I am surprised he didn't mention once asking the locals. That is
       | my key to knowing how people live in different countries. Also
       | you get tons of inside information and it is an easy step to
       | connect to people. Often times you get 'adopted'. You find
       | yourself as a special guest on a private family garden party. Or
       | on parties in locations that only the 'cool people' know it is
       | open because Corona regulations mixed things up.
       | 
       | I am currently recording hundreds of videos to share all
       | knowledge on YT.
        
         | usrusr wrote:
         | > I am currently recording hundreds of videos to share all
         | knowledge on YT
         | 
         | An interesting way to say thank you to all the people who
         | helped you: send in the copycats!
        
       | tayo42 wrote:
       | This idea that nyc isn't real America and some fly over country
       | city bugs me a lot. Its marketing that says NYC isn't authentic.
       | 
       | if you say something like
       | 
       | > They've got such a strong self-image, a strong desire to be
       | seen as special, that many residents have become actors playing
       | NYC, or LA.
       | 
       | Then claim your traveling like a real local, i cant help but feel
       | your kind of full of it. If this is your take away, you didn't
       | travel like a local, you didn't meet enough new yorkers. Probably
       | met an extroverted transplant and judged from there. A small part
       | of what makes up a place like NYC. Its like someone is looking to
       | feed their bias about what a place should be like.
       | 
       | >Cities where the residents are more focused on living their
       | life, for themselves, not for a global audience.
       | 
       | This is what NYC is. 10 million people, and you think they're
       | putting on a show for a global audience?
       | 
       | Be a local always bugged me. Its seem to always be followed up
       | by, hang out in dive bars and crappy restaurants and do poverty
       | things. I'm local, my friends are local. We don't hang out in
       | dive bars, or eat at crappy restaurants. Why would i think that
       | is the thing to do in another country? After traveling a bit, if
       | you cant speak the local language you'll never understand what
       | its like to be local or understand their life.
       | 
       | I can rant more i guess but w/e
        
         | pcglue wrote:
         | I get what he's doing and why and even agree with some/most of
         | it. But a subtle pervasive holier-than-thou attitude in the
         | writing just turns me off.
        
         | codalan wrote:
         | NYC, LA, and Chicago are bubbles. They are not reflective of
         | the rest of the US in my experience. They are much more
         | cosmopolitan and are the top destinations for tourists,
         | migrants, and other people looking for opportunities. You can
         | find a little bit of the rest of the world within 30 sq. miles
         | in those cities. I can't really say the same for the rest of
         | the major American metropolises. Boston, DC, SF, Seattle come
         | pretty close, though.
         | 
         | Where I do diverge in opinion w/ the article (and agree with
         | you on) is the whole idea of traveling "like a local", as a lot
         | of traveloguers like to call it. I think the best most
         | travelers can expect is maybe some curiosity from the community
         | they're visiting, but they'll never have the full local
         | experience. Only locals get that experience. You could live in
         | a foreign city for years and even learn the language, but you
         | will always be an outsider to the people in that community. You
         | will never gain the years of culture and context that comes
         | with having grown up in the area you are visiting. The best you
         | could ever do in that situation is accept it and be gracious
         | and courteous to the people in those communities.
        
           | cityzens wrote:
           | > NYC, LA, and Chicago are bubbles. They are not reflective
           | of the rest of the US in my experience.
           | 
           | I'm from the US. Having lived for years in each of New York,
           | LA, Seattle, and 6 other metro areas, towns, and census
           | designated places in the US ranging from ~3000000 to ~300
           | people in the American South and West, I pretty strongly
           | disagree. All places are bubbles to a degree - that's what
           | makes them definable as places.
           | 
           | Having lived outside the US for the last decade, and for
           | months-long stretches over the decades before my current
           | (indefinite) expatriation, it could not be clearer to me that
           | - as people within the larger place (bubble) of the USA - the
           | median New Yorker, Angeleno, or Chicagoan each has more in
           | common, culturally, with the median Dakotan, Alaskan,
           | Alabamian, or Puertorriqueno than with the median Irish,
           | Bedouin, Xhosa, or Punjabi.
           | 
           | And I cannot but reserve the deepest contempt - truly - for
           | those who would exclude city dwellers from full citizenship
           | within their national polities. The combined metro areas of
           | New York City, Los Angeles, and Chicago alone are about a
           | sixth of the total population of the USA. Add your examples
           | of Boston, DC, SF, Seattle and you're at 20%. As of the 2020
           | census, 55% of Americans lived in a metropolitan area of
           | greater than 1 million people. The "real america" narrative
           | is an 'othering' trope, used in the service of dehumanization
           | for political ends.
           | 
           | America's cities _are_ real America.
        
         | tantalor wrote:
         | "Real America" is a narrative to understand the (mostly) White,
         | Christian, blue collar, small town folks.
         | 
         | > Real America is a very old place. The idea that the authentic
         | heart of democracy beats hardest in common people who work with
         | their hands goes back to the 18th century. It was embryonic in
         | the founding creed of equality.
         | 
         | This Atlantic article from last year puts "Real America" into a
         | frame with 3 other narratives: "Smart America", "Just America",
         | and "Free America".
         | 
         | "How America Fractured Into Four Parts"
         | https://archive.ph/r5udO
        
         | Chris_arnade wrote:
         | Guess you missed this line
         | 
         | "That doesn't mean entirely ignoring places like NYC, Istanbul,
         | Seoul, or Tokyo. Some cities are so important they can't be
         | missed, and every city is a confederation of very different
         | neighborhoods. NYC is as much Dyker Heights as it is Upper East
         | Side.
         | 
         | That makes where you stay in a city more important than the
         | city itself. "
        
           | tayo42 wrote:
           | right before this is a section about how ho chi minh city is
           | a big tourist city but suggests real or authentic vietnam is
           | in hanoi. then a comparison between that says ho chi minh
           | city is nyc, that people should visit indianapolis for a true
           | american experience and that nyc is full of the cynical take
           | i quoted above.
           | 
           | That quote "doesnt mean ignoring ...nyc..." reads more like
           | NYC is a great show, go their for entertainment and spectacle
           | of what it is, but somehow that's not real america.
        
             | Chris_arnade wrote:
             | No. The intent was go to Dyker heights, Hunts point,
             | Jackson Heights, Sunset Park, Jamaica, Crown Heights. Not
             | just Upper East Side or Times Square.
             | 
             | Nowhere do I talk about Real or Fake or whatever.
             | Everyplace is as real as any other place. Its about who you
             | want to meet. How fancy you want stuff to be. How packaged.
        
         | p_j_w wrote:
         | >> They've got such a strong self-image, a strong desire to be
         | seen as special, that many residents have become actors playing
         | NYC, or LA.
         | 
         | >Then claim your traveling like a real local, i cant help but
         | feel your kind of full of it. If this is your take away, you
         | didn't travel like a local, you didn't meet enough new yorkers.
         | 
         | Similarly in LA. Anytime someone says that "everyone in LA is
         | fake," I find that reflects more poorly on them and how they
         | spent their time there than it does LA. Big cities are
         | _different_ , not inauthentic.
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | I lived in NYC for 20 years and wrote a book about the Bronx.
        
       | jonfromsf wrote:
       | My parents used to have a simple approach to traveling on the
       | Greek Islands. They would buy a Lonely Planet Greece guidebook,
       | then go to the dock in Athens and look at the signs for the
       | ferries. They would only go to an island that wasn't listed in
       | the book. Worked like a charm for years and years.
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | I worked with a Japanese chap, who was a 3rd Degree blackbelt
       | travel ninja.
       | 
       | He had one Zero Halliburton carry-on case. Had about three
       | changes of clothes, and all his tech gear in there.
       | 
       | He would travel for months at a time, but always used just that
       | case. In many cases, he slept on the plane, and never even got a
       | hotel room.
       | 
       | Once he became a VP, he had to pack a suit, so he had to add a
       | suit bag.
        
         | user3939382 wrote:
         | > In many cases, he slept on the plane, and never even got a
         | hotel room.
         | 
         | How did he shower/bathe?
        
           | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
           | I didn't ask, but he had a _lot_ of travel percs, so he
           | probably used the airport lounge facilities. They can have
           | the full Monty, in some of these lounges.
        
           | klausa wrote:
           | Airport lounges, I assume.
        
         | laundermaf wrote:
         | > In many cases, he slept on the plane, and never even got a
         | hotel room.
         | 
         | Doesn't sound like such a great life. Anything short of a bed
         | is pretty awful to sleep, let alone planes; even less once-a-
         | day long-haul flights that would allow any acceptable amount of
         | sleep.
         | 
         | I'd guess "never even got a hotel room" is an exaggeration.
        
           | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
           | _> I 'd guess "never even got a hotel room" is an
           | exaggeration._
           | 
           | No, it isn't. It wasn't that frequent, but he (and others)
           | did, from time to time. I traveled with him, many times, and
           | can attest to a lot of it (I'm a wuss. I'll _always_ get a
           | hotel room, and insist on a night of rest).
           | 
           | It was the life he chose. I suspect that he leveraged the
           | extreme. It did get him a Corporate VP seat, after all (and
           | the fact that he's one of the smartest bastards I'd ever
           | met). I don't know if the office would have been much less
           | stress. Japanese work culture is pretty intense.
        
       | nkingsy wrote:
       | I'll add my three rules for exciting travel:
       | 
       | 1. Travel alone.
       | 
       | 2. Always politely brush off people that approach you.
       | 
       | 3. Approach people that look like they're having fun.
       | 
       | Alternatively, go places where you have a good friend who will
       | let you stay with them.
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | or use couchsurfing or an equivalent
        
       | mvexel wrote:
       | If you need a travel guide for this type of tourism, you may find
       | the "tourists vs locals" maps interesting and useful. Made by
       | analyzing Flickr photos grouping them in ones likely taken by
       | locals (blue) vs ones likely taken by tourists (red).
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | Those were fascinating when geotagging was just becoming a
         | thing. All they show though is that a lot of tourist locations
         | aren't where people live and work. (If you look at the SF
         | example, relatively few locals are regularly taking pics on
         | Alcatraz.)
         | 
         | It's not that visitors should avoid locales like the Mission
         | (personally a lot of it is probably more interesting than
         | Fisherman's Wharf) but it's not surprising that overall areas
         | with a lot of housing or downtown businesses don't necessarily
         | overlap with tourist attractions (though they probably do in SF
         | more than some other places. Seattle may be a more obvious
         | example although there are many that make a lot of sense.
         | 
         | https://www.flickr.com/photos/walkingsf/albums/7215762420915...
        
       | reedf1 wrote:
       | I have a song for you, Common People...
        
       | throwaway123120 wrote:
       | > * When I decided to go to Vietnam, everything and everyone told
       | me to go to Ho Chi Minh City. It had better food. More art. More
       | high culture. Less government. So I went to Hanoi.
       | 
       | The US equivalent is to go to Indianapolis instead of NYC or
       | Houston instead of LA.*
       | 
       | Uh huh. Indianapolis is a great idea for an international
       | traveler. And while you are at it, go visit Indiana's state parks
       | instead of Yosemite or Zion /s
        
         | laundermaf wrote:
         | The US equivalent is to go to LA instead of NY. Hanoi is the
         | capital, the second largest city and very touristy. Picking
         | Hanoi over HCM isn't off the beaten path at all.
         | 
         | Try Da Lat if you want to travel like a local.
        
       | ilamont wrote:
       | There's a correspondent named Paul Salopek walking _around the
       | world_ and writing /shooting it for National Geographic. He
       | started in Africa and he is currently in Asia, headed northeast.
       | His final destination is Tierra del Fuego. I follow him on
       | Twitter and it's very interesting seeing the pictures (mostly in
       | rural areas) and understanding how he does it (he has locals
       | walking with him on each leg). He's gone through many sets of
       | hiking boots.
       | 
       | https://twitter.com/PaulSalopek
       | 
       | https://www.nationalgeographic.org/projects/out-of-eden-walk...
        
       | ochoseis wrote:
       | There's a really good subreddit for this called r/onebag. You can
       | get by with surprisingly little clothing by utilizing wool
       | t-shirts, socks and underwear, plus semi-stylish nylon shorts and
       | pants (I've personally had good luck with Unbound merino, Western
       | Rise, and Outlier).
       | 
       | Pure wool is more fragile than cotton, but pretty comfortable
       | these days, resists odor, dries quickly, and is easy to sink-
       | wash.
       | 
       | Shoes are the one thing I have yet to crack -- hard to find ones
       | that dress up and down well.
        
         | tbran wrote:
         | For the more adventurous, there is also r/zerobag!
         | 
         | Lots of interesting little posts and articles, but few enough
         | to read them in an afternoon.
         | 
         | https://old.reddit.com/r/Zerobag/
        
           | TremendousJudge wrote:
           | It's amazing that some people do this, but it just seems very
           | inconvenient
        
         | oasisbob wrote:
         | re: sink washing...
         | 
         | I spent most of 2019 in SE asia, and full-service laundry was
         | just too good, universal, and cheap to pass up. About a euro/kg
         | everywhere. Never any problems.
         | 
         | Sink washing and dealing with damp clothing was a time suck I
         | always ended up regretting.
        
         | adwi wrote:
         | They're not for serious hiking but I'm a fan of Clark's Desert
         | Boots re: up and down.
         | 
         | Look great with jeans (even shorts, IMO) and work with a suit.
         | I recommend you getting the Bushacre version, as the
         | effectively turn any moisture on the ground into ice. Cheaper,
         | too.
        
         | kritiko wrote:
         | Allbirds are pretty good - and some of them are made of wool. I
         | became a devoted fan because of their odor resistance.
        
         | coyotespike wrote:
         | I will check out that reddit!
         | 
         | Shoes are hard.
         | 
         | Personally, I tend to use one of:
         | 
         | - Astral Loyaks, which are minimalist boating shoes. Fine for
         | casual style, and can work out in them - Chuck Taylor's, again
         | casual but super flexible style. Again, you can work out in
         | them - Good leather town boots. Can walk anywhere in them and
         | they dress up excellently.
         | 
         | For the rest of my clothing, I tend to wear things Lululemon's
         | collared shirts and long pants, which are technical fabric but
         | look downright dressy.
        
       | wdutch wrote:
       | > When I decided to go to Vietnam, everything and everyone told
       | me to go to Ho Chi Minh City. It had better food. More art. More
       | high culture. Less government. So I went to Hanoi.
       | 
       | I'm not sure why the author acts like those are the only 2
       | options. I spent a year living in Ho Chi Minh city and the vast
       | majority of the city of is not aimed at international people but
       | at the 9 million Vietnamese speakers living there (districts 1, 2
       | and 7 being the exceptions).
       | 
       | That being said, both HCM and Hanoi are subcultures of their own
       | and don't give any impression of a 'typical' Vietnamese person's
       | experience. If I were to look for a completely ordinary city, I'd
       | pick a random city with a population of around 500,000 and
       | nothing notable on Wikipedia.
        
         | notahacker wrote:
         | Not to mention that most backpackers probably visit _both_
         | cities, and Hanoi is arguably the more touristy of the two...
        
       | hayst4ck wrote:
       | I spent over a year traveling like this person. I agree with most
       | of what he said.
       | 
       | My most treasured experiences were from being a regular
       | somewhere. I think that is the most important lesson of the post.
       | Friendship is proximity + time, so without spending a lot of time
       | in one location you won't make friends.
       | 
       | Random aimless walking through non tourist areas is also an
       | enriching activity.
       | 
       | I also found that traveling to places local people would visit to
       | be far more interesting than the major tourist destinations.
       | 
       | If I had one uncommon piece of advice, it would be to invest in
       | an extremely comfortable pair of shoes. After your phone, your
       | shoes are by far your most important investment.
       | 
       | I personally prefer to travel with more stuff, although the
       | author is absolutely right that you almost always travel with a
       | lot more than you need. I like large cities more than the author,
       | mostly because larger cities have more English speaking people so
       | they are significantly less isolating. In larger cities it's
       | nicer to have more clothing (and shoe) choices. I travel with a
       | 55L osprey bag. I put all my electronics and papers in the day
       | bag, and in the main bag I have clothes shoes and toiletries. If
       | you know you are going to a single climate, you can pack less,
       | but if you are going to both hot and cold places, you will want
       | to pack more. The size of your pack mainly determines the rate of
       | your laundromat trips and number of times you have to wait at
       | baggage claim.
       | 
       | If you are an American tech worker, your credit card is almost
       | certainly better than cash anywhere you can use it. I could also
       | withdrawal cash from ATMs at the official forex exchange rate
       | with my bank card. You do have to be very careful because all
       | forms of payment will ask if you want to pay in local currency or
       | your own currency. If you choose to pay in your own currency, you
       | will be charged a predatory exchange rate, so you must always pay
       | (or atm withdrawal) in the local currency. I left the US with
       | $400USD and came back with $300USD after a full year of travel
       | abroad, I gained a lot of peace of mind from traveling with cash
       | I wouldn't be heartbroken to lose and electronics (chromebook)
       | that I didn't particular care if they were stolen or destroyed.
       | 
       | After traveling without valuable items, I did feel mildly
       | deprived. I would put a grand or two aside as "just the cost of
       | traveling" money and use that as my "bad things happen sometimes"
       | budget to get peace of mind about having valuable stuff in poor
       | areas. If nothing bad happens, call it karma and donate it to a
       | good cause.
       | 
       | The author talked about visas. The hardest problem for me was
       | that countries wanted round trip tickets. They wanted a ticket
       | showing you were going to leave the country. This can often be
       | circumvented by buying a $10 bus ticket out of the country.
       | That's the only way I found to reliably purchase one way tickets
       | to various countries ad hoc.
       | 
       | > When I decided to go to Vietnam, everything and everyone told
       | me to go to Ho Chi Minh City. It had better food. More art. More
       | high culture. Less government. So I went to Hanoi.
       | 
       | I experienced this when I visited Vietnam as well. I thought Ho
       | Chi Mihn felt kind of empty and not too different from other
       | major cities. Hanoi was a wonderful city and felt much more
       | lively. I liked Da Nang a fair amount as well.
       | 
       | A lot of the authors post can be summarized fairly succinctly:
       | 
       | If you want to grow as a person, you need to be uncomfortable. So
       | don't optimize for comfort.
       | 
       | You can choose big comfortable cities with comfortable sights,
       | comfortable food choices, and comfortable companions, but that
       | won't lead to personal growth.
        
       | woevdbz wrote:
       | Next level: do this but as a woman and try not to get harassed
        
         | FrecklySunbeam wrote:
         | this was the only thing I could think while reading the
         | article, if you're not /a white guy/ a lot of this advice is
         | not useful at best or dangerous at worst
        
           | googlryas wrote:
           | Huh? Being white puts a target on your back in a lot of areas
           | of the world, because you'll be assumed to be a naive tourist
           | with money, and possibly drunk. I'm positive a Filipino
           | person can move around Hanoi more easily than a white person
           | from the perspective of random harassment.
           | 
           | Yes, sometimes being white is a boon, and people will treat
           | you nicer or more respectfully than they would a brown
           | person. I'm not trying to say being white is a negative, I'm
           | saying it is really dependent on where you are traveling to.
        
       | Lio wrote:
       | Whenever I see "travel light" advice now I just think of Vagrant
       | Holiday[1].
       | 
       | Of course, once you've seen how The Vagrant travels it makes the
       | rest of us look like pretentious bourgeois pretenders no matter
       | how regimented our carry on bags are. :P
       | 
       | 1. https://www.youtube.com/c/VagrantHoliday
        
         | mastax wrote:
         | Similarly I recently ran into the YouTube trainhopping
         | community. Was surprisingly interesting. e.g.
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8OYWjIvycY
        
           | Lio wrote:
           | Yeah I love the idea of trainhopping but seeing The Vagrant's
           | trainhopping video pretty much robbed any residual romance
           | from it for me.
           | 
           | It's a dirty, dangerous and cold way to travel. A bit like
           | the guy that packed himself up in a crate to get back home;
           | not something I'd ever really want to experience myself.
        
         | 2Gkashmiri wrote:
         | holy shit that guy swears a lot. am definiely not used to
         | that....
         | 
         | other than that, he doesnt explain where he showers, does
         | mcdonalds offer shower+washing at their restrooms across
         | europe?
        
       | kritiko wrote:
       | Lots of commentary on Arnade's recommendations already, so I'll
       | ask a question instead ---
       | 
       | Does anybody here have a regular job and family and take multiple
       | multiple-week trips per year? If so, how do you do it?
        
         | tayo42 wrote:
         | No family, but it's not hard with tech companies and unlimited
         | pto. In the post covid world and wfh my gf and I work on trips
         | I wouldn't have been able to do before too
        
           | kritiko wrote:
           | So the how is roughly: -Work remotely -Take unlimited PTO
           | (how many days is that for you?)
           | 
           | Do you find that working on trips impacts your itinerary or
           | choice of accommodations?
        
             | tayo42 wrote:
             | im not working currently but at my last job of 5 years I
             | took between 6-8 weeks of pto a year. 2-3 week trips
             | internationally. my gf works a little more then i do on
             | trips her unlimited pto isnt as flexible.
             | 
             | > choice of accommodations?
             | 
             | I have to make sure there is working space for 2 and good
             | wifi and internet so I had to pay a little more on those
             | trips and carefully read reviews and look at all the
             | pictures. I'm not a work from a coffee shop person. I need
             | quiet.
             | 
             | > impacts your itinerary
             | 
             | Not so much, though we don't really plan that much. While
             | working you can stay a little longer. So it becomes do one
             | thing in the afternoon, or in the morning. I like trying
             | lots of new food and exploring cuisine so filling the day
             | with work then eating is fine with me. I did the work-
             | cation thing more on surf trips where I was surfing a lot,
             | less tourist focused stuff. Did this in bali, kauai, puerto
             | rico and europe
        
       | jobs_throwaway wrote:
       | Nice read, but for all the "I want to travel like a local", I
       | find it funny that he refers to the large city in the south of
       | Vietnam as "Ho Chi Minh City" when virtually all locals call it
       | its traditional name "Saigon".
        
       | varispeed wrote:
       | These guides to travel "like a local" always sound patronising
       | and demeaning. It's almost short of saying travel "like a poor"
       | and reminds me of rich middle class coming to deprived parts of
       | town to have pint with the locals to hear how they struggle and
       | at the same time feel better about themselves.
        
         | biftek wrote:
         | That's the real issue I have with this article. I think it's
         | possible to have a considered approach to an off the beaten
         | path style of travel, but writing a "holier than thou" article
         | about it doesn't seem like it tho.
        
         | dahauns wrote:
         | Yeah, I couldn't help but hear Pulp's Common People in my head
         | when reading the article...
         | 
         | (Well, the Shatner version, to be exact ;) )
        
       | DustinBrett wrote:
       | I did this in my mid-20's and it was indeed a great way to
       | travel. Ended up going to 50 countries before I turned 30. Lots
       | of CouchSurfing along the way, although that community/site has
       | degraded. Had an Osprey Escapist 20L backpack which was more than
       | enough to fit a weeks worth of living into, I'd do laundry and
       | buy new t-shirts/underwear along the way. After years of
       | traveling I think I ended up being every type of cliche traveler
       | eventually. Doing the math it was about $15,000 CAD / year. It
       | was actually a very interesting way to live and it gave me a lot
       | of confidence to be able to survive in most places on very
       | little. Even the most expensive cities in the world you can
       | usually find a way to live cheap, if you are willing to
       | compromise and find a way to be ok with being uncomfortable.
        
         | Bakary wrote:
         | Did you use your savings or had a way to generate income on the
         | journey?
        
           | DustinBrett wrote:
           | Before I left I sold my car for $9k and all my stuff for
           | maybe $6k. And I think I had $9k in savings before, so I
           | started with about $24k which lasted me almost 2 years. But I
           | did work odd job Craigslist stuff along the way occasionally.
           | And near the end I got in debt a bit. But it was worth it I
           | think. Now with the way remote work is I could travel
           | indefinitely, but at that time I had less skills in
           | programming and I really didn't wanna work in general.
        
       | cowuser666 wrote:
       | Seems like people are criticizing this partially because it's
       | pitched as an alternative to normal tourism. Just wanted to point
       | out that Chris Arnade has done quite compelling photo journalism
       | based on his way of engaging with communities, so what might seem
       | like non sequitors or edge lord stuff might be in service of an
       | implicit goal of his that most travelers don't share. Not that he
       | does himself any favors with some of the framing.
       | 
       | Highly recommend his book Dignity.
       | https://www.amazon.com/Dignity-Seeking-Respect-Back-America/...
       | 
       | Some of his work in the Guardian:
       | https://www.theguardian.com/profile/chris-arnade
        
         | runjake wrote:
         | In fact, he's apparently on HN, also.
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/threads?id=Chris_arnade
        
         | neilknowsbest wrote:
         | Is this the guy who covered Hunts Point in the Bronx? I
         | remember seeing his pictures, feels like a long time ago now.
         | 
         | I found a Flickr album here [0]. I also vaguely recall a long
         | form article, talking about a few different people's lives, but
         | I can't seem to find that one.
         | 
         | [0] -
         | https://www.flickr.com/photos/arnade/albums/7215762646801687...
        
         | ericholscher wrote:
         | This is useful context, thanks for sharing it.
        
       | grammers wrote:
       | Traveling the world is awesome. At the same time I'm always
       | surprised at how many things you can do right at your doorstep.
       | At least for myself I can say I need to do a vacation at home
       | because if you're always on the go, you never get a chance to see
       | the beautiful spots right next to you.
        
       | WirelessGigabit wrote:
       | Am I the only one that gets bored on vacation?
       | 
       | Like I go hiking. Wake up, go hiking, spend 8 hours away, go
       | home, and then ... what do I do after that? I cannot sit still.
       | So I end up being on my laptop.
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | maybe 8 hours away is not enough.
         | 
         | the question is what is the purpose of the vacation. if it is
         | to take a break from work, then maybe you want to find
         | activities that help you take your mind of work but aren't
         | boring.
         | 
         | you enjoy hiking. i do too. but when i get home i am either
         | exhausted, or i write a diary. if i was alone all day i might
         | seek out a place with other people.
        
       | post_break wrote:
       | Reminds me of the guy who travels after a terrorist attack
       | because it's so much cheaper:
       | https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/l9y45v/travel_hacks/
        
       | soared wrote:
       | One sentence in and the article is already waving its cringe flag
       | proudly.
       | 
       | > I don't travel like most people do
       | 
       | The author follows that up by saying they'd rather travel to a
       | place like Indianapolis than NYC. In your words author, enjoy
       | spending 4 weeks in Indianapolis living out of your book bag, not
       | doing trips to other cities, sampling the local restaurants of
       | Applebees and chilis, all while using the glorious public transit
       | they have to offer.
        
         | prottog wrote:
         | The author in fact did spend some time in Indianapolis[0]. I'm
         | not really sure what your point is, besides that Indianapolis
         | is a hinterland town with no public transit (the author was
         | mainly on foot, anyway) and its height of cuisine being chain
         | restaurants?
         | 
         | Have you been to Indianapolis?
         | 
         | [0]: https://walkingtheworld.substack.com/p/walking-america-
         | part-...
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Well, one of the points of that link seemed to be that there
           | are nice little ethnic restaurants even in strip malls in
           | Indianapolis. I know that many smaller cities are perfectly
           | nice places to live in--especially for those who don't _want_
           | either a bustling metropolis or a rural location. But it
           | doesn 't mean I'll visit there for no particular reason
           | especially without a car to get around easily.
        
             | prottog wrote:
             | You might find yourself surprised at how many of these
             | smaller cities are good to visit for no particular reason!
             | Indianapolis does have more than just little ethnic
             | restaurants in strip malls. Of course, you may run out of
             | things to see and do there sooner than you would in NYC,
             | but who really has time to travel that much, anyway? ;-)
             | 
             | You have a point about needing a car in any number of such
             | smaller cities in America, but even in those places there
             | is a central core that remains relatively walkable.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | >You have a point about needing a car in any number of
               | such smaller cities in America, but even in those places
               | there is a central core that remains relatively walkable.
               | 
               | They're often pretty small though. I'm not familiar with
               | Indianapolis specifically, but there's one smaller city I
               | visit semi-regularly for work. It has a nice (relatively
               | gentrified) downtown but it's, to be generous, maybe 15 x
               | 10 blocks. And beyond that you mostly need a car. I'll
               | have a day to kill there in a month or so and I'll
               | probably end up renting a car for the day.
               | 
               | I also worked downtown of a similar city about a decade
               | ago. Same thing. (And both old mill towns.)
        
             | jjuel wrote:
             | So a town with a population of 800k is considered small to
             | you? Yikes don't come to Iowa then...
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I honestly didn't realize it has that large a population.
               | Although the city I was referring to in another comment
               | with a small downtown core has half that metro
               | population, so not a _lot_ smaller. Cities can have large
               | metro populations and still have a fairly small area that
               | 's what people consider a walkable downtown.
        
         | someguydave wrote:
         | I guess your tastes are superior to Mr. Arnade's, soared.
        
         | Chris_arnade wrote:
         | Yeah. And. I liked Indianapolis. Great Mexican food. Nice Twin
         | Peaks.
        
         | juve1996 wrote:
         | I've learned to dismiss these articles entirely. They're all
         | about optimizing something that shouldn't be optimized and
         | doesn't work for most people. It just serves to make people
         | feel bad about packing an extra suitcase, just in case.
         | 
         | Just go on a trip, and do what you want to do. You don't need a
         | philosophy behind every little detail - I find this takes away.
         | People care more to brag about how they travelled with just 1
         | bag than tell you about the places they actually went...
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | I make a living telling people where I went.
           | 
           | This article is based on lots of request of those people
           | asking me for an article like this.
        
             | em-bee wrote:
             | how is that working out?
             | 
             | is your subscriberbase enough to cover your cost of living?
             | 
             | maybe this is stuff for another post :-)
        
         | vehemenz wrote:
         | Dull people require interesting environments. Interesting
         | people thrive in dull environments.
        
           | yunwal wrote:
           | Gotta say I've met plenty of interesting people in NYC and
           | plenty of dull people in Wilmington Delaware, so this doesn't
           | check out to me. Interesting people are interesting partially
           | because they're inspired
        
           | Bakary wrote:
           | Interesting people tend to move to interesting environments
           | because of the shortness of life
        
       | aeturnum wrote:
       | This is _such_ a strange article.
       | 
       | I too, in general, avoid starting with "pre-packaged" experiences
       | when traveling. My most memorable experiences were only possible
       | because, like the author, I travel light and don't plan too far
       | ahead and mostly avoid being spendy. There's a kind of looseness
       | and spontaneity that is possible if one plans generally and keeps
       | funds available to take advantage of opportunities that only
       | crystalize once you get to where you are going.
       | 
       | But the high-handed tone in this article, denigrating the popular
       | attractions countries are known of, feels entirely at odds with
       | that philosophy.
       | 
       | > _I stay away from the coolest neighborhoods in the world, which
       | all end up being variations of the same thing._
       | 
       | If you have spent any time traveling, you know this is a silly
       | thing to say. Even the most tourist-y places like Bali, though
       | you see similarities, retain a national character. They are also
       | generally very different from the rest of their host country -
       | bubbles with their own rules and features. This is a feature! I
       | have never regretted spending some time in heavily tourist'ed
       | areas. Being catered to and seeing how culture shifts is
       | interesting and fun. Taking a break from forging your own path
       | and doing some pre-constructed-fun is nice. The reasons those
       | areas are popular is because they are interesting and fun!
       | 
       | To me, a lot of this comes down to balancing the time you invest
       | in figuring out how to spend your time and money v.s. the time
       | you want to take "doing the thing." If you have a low budget,
       | then just kind of scrap around (you don't have a choice so
       | there's no need to pretend this is some crazy tip). If you have a
       | higher budget you have options! You can jump right into a pre-
       | planned experience for a little bit or you can scrap it a bit and
       | see what turns out. Ultimately, for most of us, even if you
       | travel on "the cheap" you are still actually planning around a
       | budget of how long you can skip work.
       | 
       | I 1000% think that, if people have never taken just a carry on to
       | a less touristy city in a foreign city, you should consider it.
       | But the experience is a close cousin to the one you have when you
       | are in tourist land and the two approaches support each other.
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | I'm kind of conflicted here.
         | 
         | I used to avoid Pier 39 in san francisco because it was an
         | overpriced tourist trap.
         | 
         | But recently I went there and had a lot of fun. I just relaxed
         | and accepted the mini donut place and the left-handed store.
         | And I genuinely enjoyed the USS Pampanito submarine and the
         | Ripley's Believe it or not museum.
         | 
         | and the bacon wrapped hot-dogs...
        
         | x0x0 wrote:
         | Not really. The author was super clear -- sentence 1, para 2 --
         | what his goals were: "I travel to get an idea of how other
         | people live." And from that, everything follows.
        
           | aeturnum wrote:
           | I guess that's why I said called it strange. People live in
           | tourist towns. The people there are real people with real
           | lives (that involve a lot of interaction with foreigners).
           | There's no reason to avoid those places if you want to "get
           | an idea of how people live."
        
             | em-bee wrote:
             | if i want to get an idea of how people live making money of
             | tourists. (not that this is a bad thing) but i think that
             | is the point, the life of people making money from tourists
             | is similar everywhere. it's not the life that i am
             | interested in learning about. i want to interact with
             | people that don't make money from talking to me.
             | 
             | if i visit a tourist place, then i do it with local
             | friends, and my interaction is focused on the local friends
             | and not the rest.
             | 
             | you may say that not everyone living there makes money from
             | tourists, and that would be true. but why should i make
             | things hard for me, instead of going to a place where only
             | very few people make money from tourists.
        
         | com2kid wrote:
         | > If you have spent any time traveling, you know this is a
         | silly thing to say.
         | 
         | I know from my own home city, Seattle, that this is bad advice.
         | 
         | If someone comes here and doesn't do any of the tourist things,
         | hike up one of our many many mountains, go to the rain forest,
         | spend a day out on Lake Washington, or stop by one of the many
         | Sea Fair events, then they aren't actually doing the things
         | that _locals also do_.
         | 
         | Because, surprise surprise, locals around here also go hiking
         | and camping and go watch naked bicyclists.
         | 
         | Go to the "touristy" parts of Japan, and they are filled with
         | Japanese residents doing fun things! Feeding the deer in Nara
         | is something everyone loves to do, so don't be elitist, go do
         | it! The fashion districts in Tokyo are amazing, go buy an
         | outrageous new outfit! Anyone who spends half a second looking
         | around will see that plenty of people who live there have done
         | the same thing.
         | 
         | Likewise, the large museums in different countries are all
         | worth visiting. The museum in the Forbidden City has dioramas
         | made out of gem stones, they are one of the most memorable
         | things I have ever seen!
         | 
         | I agree, staying at an Air BnB in a "safe but not cool" part of
         | a city that is still on a transit line is a good idea. Eating
         | at local restaurants is a good idea, but wow, the author is so
         | self assured that his way of doing things is superior.
         | 
         | I agree that if someone goes to an all inclusive resort in
         | Mexico, then they haven't visited Mexico. I encourage everyone
         | I meet to go spend a week in Mexico City (CDMX is one of my
         | favorite cities!!!), it completely destroyed any lingering
         | bullshit stereotypes I had about Mexico. (Fun fact: Mexico City
         | has the second largest metropolitan GDP of any city in North
         | America)
         | 
         | But, again, also, GO DO FUN STUFF.
        
           | ambrose2 wrote:
           | Fully agree with your take on this.
        
           | aeturnum wrote:
           | Absolutely agree! I 100% think that, if you're not from
           | somewhere and you've heard of a thing to do - there's a good
           | chance that's because there's advertising money behind it and
           | you're going to pay a premium to do it (museums are a
           | frequent exception).
           | 
           | So, going into a trip, you will know about the "pricey" side
           | of the cool stuff in that area. That's fine! Those things are
           | still cool! But if you hang out a bit and look around at what
           | the locals do, you will pretty quickly learn about the
           | "cheap" side of the cool stuff in the area. You will also
           | discover the day-to-day parts of being in a city or town that
           | lead people to live in that area: small shops, hole-in-the-
           | wall restaurants, street food, the bar scene, etc.
        
       | dabedee wrote:
       | The author's behavior is, to some extent, an attempt at anti-
       | conformity by traveling in a way that he believes most people
       | don't do (i.e. by staying close to locals, staying longer than a
       | few days, avoiding popular places to experience authenticity). I
       | think most people would in theory like to travel that way. Places
       | that feel authentic draw people and become popular, which
       | eventually makes those places feel less "authentic". That's the
       | paradox. If everyone traveled and behaved like the author, then,
       | in time, there would be less "authentic" places to discover.
        
       | iLoveOncall wrote:
       | I genuinely never understood the people that travel to live like
       | locals, avoiding tourist spots, popular attractions, etc.
       | 
       | Popular things are popular for a reason, I just can't fathom
       | missing out on them on purpose, with the sole reason being that
       | they are popular.
       | 
       | If I pay thousands for flights and hotels, it's definitely to see
       | what's unique about the place, and after having lived in 4 very
       | different countries (and my girlfriend in 10+), I can tell you
       | that the locals' way of life is definitely not unique anywhere in
       | the world.
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | when i was a student i thought that every place i went to was
         | different until i visited japan and realized that before that i
         | had only visited western countries. (europe, US, NZ) and
         | compared to asia they suddenly felt pretty much all the same.
         | 
         | there are still differences however, and i don't agree that the
         | local's way of life is the same everywhere.
        
         | laundermaf wrote:
         | > Popular things are popular for a reason
         | 
         | Meh, it really depends. Some places look amazing on cameras and
         | especially on drones, but aren't _that_ interesting if you 're
         | not a bird.
         | 
         | Specifically, "un-popular tourists" generally don't like to
         | hang out with hundreds of other tourists, pay exorbitant fees
         | and being hassled by street sellers anywhere they go.
         | 
         | > the locals' way of life is definitely not unique anywhere in
         | the world
         | 
         | This reads like satire. You can't tell me that life in Vietnam
         | is _anywhere near_ life in the US. I don 't need to visit any
         | tourist places in Vietnam to enjoy living there.
        
         | Consultant32452 wrote:
         | I do the tourist attractions but try to find local mom and pop
         | restaurants over the recommended tourist places.
        
         | yunwal wrote:
         | Locals way of life is no different in South India vs. the US? I
         | get your point I guess, but there are huge differences in way
         | of life that are genuinely interesting to me at least.
        
           | iLoveOncall wrote:
           | No, it really isn't that different. I think you can see
           | differences in standard of living, not way of life or day to
           | day life.
           | 
           | Wake up, go to work, go for a drink with colleagues or
           | friends and go back home (and everything in between) is the
           | day to day routine of the vast majority of people, no matter
           | which country they are in and which standard of living they
           | have.
           | 
           | It's not because some do it in a megalopolis with skyscrapers
           | and some in a wooden shack in the middle of the mountains
           | that the way of life is different.
        
             | em-bee wrote:
             | the differences are in the details. the culture. how people
             | interact with each other. what they do in their free time.
             | the difference in the standard of living itself reveals a
             | lot in what people feel is important to them. there is a
             | lot we can learn, both from the similarities and from the
             | differences.
        
             | laundermaf wrote:
             | Your view on "the way of life" is so superficial.
             | 
             | Yes, we all breathe, eat and die. Day to day things are
             | different. Interactions are different. Food is different.
             | The time you spend between work and sleep is different.
             | 
             | Saying that "the way of life" is the same between South of
             | India and the US is completely laughable.
        
       | fritztastic wrote:
       | Something about this just seems very odd to me.
       | 
       | As someone who grew up in the global South, this reads to me like
       | a person from a privileged background trying to relate to the
       | everyday people in other places and the marginalized- but it
       | comes off sounding like a lot of projectionand assumptions- it
       | would read much better if the conclusions were accompanied with
       | dialogue from people, maybe explanations of where those
       | statements are coming from.
       | 
       | > _I don't travel like most people do_ I would think most travel
       | is done by a wealthy few, but most travelers aren 't wealthy- if
       | that makes sense? It sounds like the "travel" being referred to
       | here is "flying somewhere and being a tourist" but in fact to
       | many people "travel" means taking the train/bus to another city,
       | staying in a hostel, wandering around. Most people who go to see
       | a wonder of the world do it because this might be the one time in
       | their life they can afford to visit NYC, a place many people
       | dream of seeing, and so they want to experience those things that
       | are iconic there. I guess it really stands out to me, this
       | writing sounds like "I'm not like those other stereotypical
       | tourists" and the stereotypes are those behaviors associated with
       | privileged westerners- which isn't really an accurate
       | representation of most travelers.
       | 
       | From the Istanbul post:
       | 
       | > _Most Turks are not secular though, and neither are they
       | religious nuts like them Arabs_
       | 
       | He considers education by traveling as sufficient, which I
       | believe is not the best approach. Might be a good idea to read up
       | a little about the history and cultures of a region before going.
       | 
       | There is a lot going on with his writing that comes off
       | ethnocentric, uninformed, insensitive. I'm not going to dissect
       | it, but I'll just say I recommend familiarization with cultural
       | geography, anthropology, and ethnography if the topic of
       | understanding people in different places interests you- because
       | this blog is rife with problematic bias and some really broad
       | generalizations that are prejudice at best, racism at worst.
        
         | kodah wrote:
         | Actually, your synopsis isn't far off:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chris_Arnade Before he did it to
         | the rest of the world, he did it to others in the United
         | States.
         | 
         | FWIW, it looks like he's watching:
         | https://twitter.com/Chris_arnade/status/1580993239670136832 So
         | maybe he'll take your criticism.
        
           | fritztastic wrote:
           | Wow, the criticism of his "Faces of Affiction" work is spot
           | on.
           | 
           | From his Istanbul post:
           | 
           | > _Because being an addict here is an ugly and gross
           | rebellion against a town that feels like a single massive
           | mosque. A place that is welcoming, humble, peaceful, and
           | sublimely beautiful. It is like pissing on an alter. A gross,
           | ugly, and rebellious act that will bring scorn and shame.
           | Both in the physical and spiritual world. US cities by
           | comparison have all the ethos of an office park. Drab,
           | soulless, and endlessly competitive, where selfishness is
           | rewarded. Being an addict there is like pissing on the drab
           | shrub at the edge of a massive parking lot. It doesn't feel
           | that wrong. It even feels a little right. Especially if your
           | a tad depressed. A tad isolated. A tad lonely. And many
           | people are. "_
           | 
           | There is an issue here with this attempt at documenting
           | people but without taking the time to learn and understand
           | how to do it respectfully, ethically, and with consideration
           | to the people he's observing. I want to believe his
           | motivation comes from a good place, that he wants to bring
           | attention to people's lives... but the way his writing reads
           | sounds more like the fetishization of the marginalized and
           | elitism over exceptionalism. It sounds like "yes I'm
           | privileged but unlike those other privileged people I talk to
           | the poors", because rather than centering the voices of the
           | people he claims to "inhabit their tiny slice of the
           | world"(while claiming his goal is "to better understand how
           | they see the universe and their place in it") he dishes out
           | his value judgements. The hubris that all you need to get an
           | idea of how people live is to... show up. He does write that
           | he sees traveling as fiction with the plot written in real
           | time- evidently with him as the MC. He seems to want to
           | change for the better though, and I hope he learns to invest
           | a little more time into figuring out how to look at people's
           | lives more respectfully than as entertainment.
        
             | Chris_arnade wrote:
             | "rather than centering the voices of the people he claims
             | to "inhabit their tiny slice of the world"
             | 
             | I wrote a book center the voices of marginalized people I
             | spent up to 10 years with during my time documenting
             | addiction in the US. It's called Dignity. I don't expect
             | you to read it, but perhaps if you did, your criticisms
             | would be different.
             | 
             | This project, walking around the world and sending
             | dispatches, is different. While I talk to plenty of people
             | during my trips, its a more macro based approach.
             | 
             | While I appreciate your takes, I will say your making some
             | pretty huge assumptions based on one article. Such is life!
             | 
             | Take care and be well
        
               | smoldesu wrote:
               | I grew up in between Ypsilanti & Detroit, and I've lived
               | around/in a number of borderline-impoverished
               | communities. It's not my place to make generalizations,
               | but you should be aware that your tourism is not always
               | welcome. Many, if not most of these people, are not proud
               | of their situation. They might smile and take your money
               | as you photograph them, but your motivations are not
               | mutual.
               | 
               | When I was a kid, my decently wealthy grandparents
               | visited on my birthday and offered me $100 if I'd cut my
               | "garish, girly" hair down to a more typical length. Self-
               | righteous allegories aside, I still feel that choice
               | burned into my head like a brand. They let me choose
               | between living as I am, a resented shame in a family too
               | poor to buy cans of Coke or Pokemon cards, or take $100
               | to humiliate myself for a few short moments. In the end I
               | rejected them, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't dream
               | about yo-yos and Bakugan that night.
               | 
               | Nowadays I thankfully live in a different economic
               | strata, and I even sympathize with your curiosity to
               | explore different cultures and lifestyles. You should
               | stay fully aware of your optics at all times, though.
               | Sometimes, the greatest charity is treating other
               | individuals with the same respect you give your peers.
        
               | Chris_arnade wrote:
               | Again. There is nothing in this I disagree with. But
               | there is a lot of assumptions on what I have wrote over
               | my last 12 years based on not reading what I wrote.
               | 
               | If you read Dignity, and come to the same conclusion.
               | Fine. But this thread is based on a Wiki page.
               | 
               | Congrats on Living in a different Eco strata. That is
               | well done! (no snark intended. Genuine congrats)
        
               | smoldesu wrote:
               | I'm not here to throw stones at you or tell you that
               | you're wrong. You can't expect your entire bibliography
               | to be required-reading in an HN thread though (or
               | anywhere else, for that matter). Take my concerns with
               | the levity of someone who has no idea what your work
               | entails, since that's pretty much all it is.
        
       | pxx wrote:
       | > "You can almost always change cash with no commission and at a
       | better exchange rate than credit cards charge"
       | 
       | Can you? This doesn't seem to be the case except in countries
       | where the real exchange rate has drifted from a government-
       | imposed one. The spread on my credit card and ATM card are low
       | enough (very negative, in fact, on the credit card when we
       | consider cashback) where if this were the case I would be able to
       | arbitrage against said jewelry stores.
        
         | blacklion wrote:
         | Yes, you can. I've been in Laos, Vietnam, Cambodia, Myanmar
         | (not to mention Thailand) and I always has much better exchange
         | rate for USD cash, than my credit and/or debit card.
         | 
         | Yes, I'm not from USA, and we don't have any cards with real
         | cash-back. Typically exchange rate for all banks in my country
         | is like xe.com + 3-5%. It is terrible.
         | 
         | Only one time I seen really monstrous exchange rate for cash:
         | in Istanbul airport. It was complete rip-off. Exchange booths
         | in Istnabul itself were better than my bank exchange rate.
         | 
         | And typical spread in exchange booth in Myanmar is 0.1%. Yes,
         | 0.1%. Like, 1000/1001 per dollar if you have $100 bills (worse
         | for $50 and lower).
        
           | oasisbob wrote:
           | > Yes, I'm not from USA, and we don't have any cards with
           | real cash-back. Typically exchange rate for all banks in my
           | country is like xe.com + 3-5%. It is terrible.
           | 
           | Ahh, now I understand where the disagreement is coming from.
           | For US cards, it's not cash-back rewards which make them a
           | good value for foreign exchange. It's that the networks (eg,
           | VISA, or Mastercard) offer currency conversion rates which
           | are much closer to par than local retail services. (or, your
           | bank, apparently.)
           | 
           | This article has a few good example charts for the networks:
           | 
           | https://www.thinmargin.com/blogs/visa-vs-mastercard-who-
           | give...
           | 
           | Typically there is a 1% fee for the service. However, many
           | premium cards will waive this fee as a privilege. If you have
           | access to a card like this, it's a no-brainer.
        
         | rockinghigh wrote:
         | You're right. In order, the cheapest options are:
         | 
         | 1) an account in the local currency with a debit card;
         | 
         | 2) credit cards without foreign transaction fees and cash- back
         | 
         | 3) ATM withdrawal with a no-fee debit card
         | 
         | Changing USD in cash to get local currency is almost always the
         | worst option. They charge 5%-10% on the exchange rate plus
         | whatever fees.
        
         | Mikeb85 wrote:
         | Definitely not lol. Cash changing places are always colossal
         | rip-offs that give you an exchange rate that's off by like
         | 30%...
        
           | presentation wrote:
           | Yeah I've checked my credit card and ATM transactions against
           | google's exchange rates and they almost always are extremely
           | close matches. Local banks seem to basically just provide the
           | same rates with the extra annoyance that you have to carry
           | around a ton of cash.
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | No! Some are indeed. Especially in Airport. But almost every
           | country has, if you look for them, places with zero
           | commission.
           | 
           | Also, a lot of places around the world (where I go,
           | especially street food type places) don't accept cards.
           | 
           | Taking local money out of bank machines is a huge rip off.
           | Huge fees and bad exchange rates
        
             | Kranar wrote:
             | >But almost every country has, if you look for them, places
             | with zero commission.
             | 
             | Oh man this is hilarious. Places with zero commission end
             | up charging the absolute worst exchange rates. You're
             | better off paying a small commission/fee and getting a good
             | exchange rate instead of those zero commission places that
             | don't charge a fee and fleece you with a crappy exchange
             | rate.
        
               | blacklion wrote:
               | Did you been in Myanmar or Laos, for example? Did you
               | exchange money in Cambodia? Rural Vietnam? Armenia or
               | Georgia, maybe? Serbia or BiH? I've been in all these
               | countries (many times in some of them) and always, always
               | exchange of cash was much better than exchange rate and
               | ATM commissions for any bank of my native country.
               | 
               | Maybe, USA banks are better, but not everybody live in
               | USA and has USA credit card.
        
               | seattle_spring wrote:
               | I'm honestly confused. The ATM doesn't choose the
               | exchange rate, your bank does. I use my own bank's ATM
               | card to pull out cash in foreign countries and it's
               | always the correct exchange rate, and always the same as
               | using a credit card (which OP says is a good rate?).
        
               | oasisbob wrote:
               | Most people agree the best rates are obtained if the
               | transaction is done in local currency with the network
               | providing the conversion. However, some ATMs and credit
               | card terminals give the option to either send the
               | transaction to the network in local currency, or the
               | cardholders currency. If you choose to let the terminal
               | submit in your currency, you're going to get that
               | conversion rate instead.
               | 
               | I don't understand the advice here either. It's not hard
               | (at least as someone in the US) to find a card offering
               | no foreign transaction fees, and I thought everyone
               | agreed that the card network conversion rates are about
               | the best you're going to find as traveller.
               | 
               | ATM fees can sometimes be unavoidable, but sometimes even
               | finding a functional ATM was a blessing, so ...
        
               | Kranar wrote:
               | The best option for me as a Canadian who has travelled to
               | some (not all) of the places you listed, is to do the
               | exchange in your home country and bring plenty of cash
               | with you. If you're going to Vietnam, you bring VND with
               | you that you acquired from your home bank. Going to
               | Morocco, bring MAD with you.
        
               | oasisbob wrote:
               | I've been to most of those countries, and they're no
               | exception to the rule that the best exchange rates will
               | be provided by the credit card networks. Though, Cambodia
               | is strange--at least to someone from the US--since the
               | USD is still such a strong, preferred, unofficial
               | currency in many places there. You pull USD from a
               | Cambodian ATM in USD and there will be no conversion fee
               | whatsoever.
               | 
               | If your credit card doesn't carry high fees for the
               | service, the network currency conversion is the way to
               | go.
        
               | em-bee wrote:
               | it's been decades, but my experience was that places with
               | commission would only be better if you change large sums
               | of money, which, being a student on a budget, i never
               | did. and if the commission is a percentage, then how is
               | that different from a bad exchange rate? it's simply a
               | matter of math.
               | 
               | i remember annoying my hosts once because i insisted on
               | checking 3 or 4 places to compare rates and make sure i
               | didn't get ripped off.
        
             | pxx wrote:
             | But that's literally not the case. There are ATM cards that
             | reimburse you for fees and also give you great exchange
             | rates.
             | 
             | Again, this is assuming that there isn't some sort of black
             | market for exchange that's causing published rates to
             | diverge from real rates, but that's only the case in
             | relatively few countries.
        
             | iLoveOncall wrote:
             | Yeah so zero commission doesn't mean that the exchange rate
             | is the real one.
        
             | Mikeb85 wrote:
             | Zero commission is laughable because they give you a shit
             | exchange rate. That's literally the scam.
        
       | andirk wrote:
       | I do a combo of these, with more time being a local if I have a
       | lot of time, and little localing if I don't. There is often a new
       | world in the common activities like going to the laundromat,
       | getting groceries, plugging in your electric Alfa Romeo in the
       | nearby favela.
        
       | yosito wrote:
       | I've been traveling out of carryon luggage for almost 15 years,
       | and I really disagree with a lot of the stuff in this post. I
       | find many of the people who say "I'm traveling like a local not a
       | tourist" to be at least slightly self-deceiving. You're a
       | goddamned tourist, whether you go to restaurants with good
       | reviews or not. The packing tips here are utter nonsense, as well
       | as the suggestion that you get better exchange rates with cash
       | than with credit cards.
        
         | jakub_g wrote:
         | The general rule is: the more affluent the country, the better
         | off you're with paying with CC. The cost of exchanging paper
         | money is proportional to the prices of other things in the
         | country. Especially in big touristy cities in affluent
         | countries like France, you can easily lose 10%+ on currency
         | exchange. So in EU, stick to CC, and maybe just have 50 bucks
         | of emergency cash.
         | 
         | On the other hand, in cheap countries like say Georgia,
         | Kyrgyzstan, exchanging paper currency (especially USD) to a
         | local currency _and back to USD_ is almost free ( <~1%)
        
         | laundermaf wrote:
         | Rates yes, but fees not. Unless you're a US resident and can
         | get a Charles Schwabs, you're going to pay all those ATM fees
         | that a lot of countries charge, for example the inescapable
         | US$6 fee in Thailand.
        
         | lg wrote:
         | > The packing tips here are utter nonsense, as well as the
         | suggestion that you get better exchange rates with cash than
         | with credit cards.
         | 
         | I was surprised on a recent trip to Europe that my (fee-free)
         | credit card got me almost exactly the exchange rate I see on
         | Google. Much better than ATM withdrawal with fees or any posted
         | rate I saw in towns. Also all the internet advice about needing
         | cash left me with lots of unspent euros and zlotys, I used
         | apple pay almost everywhere (in fact my cash was refused in
         | some places!) Maybe a covid-times switch away from cash, not
         | sure.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | >Also all the internet advice about needing cash
           | 
           | I always want to have some cash but it really depends on the
           | country and location how much.
           | 
           | I just got back from London and Dublin. I took my ziplocks of
           | pounds and euros over and, aside from tossing some coins in
           | the donation bucket at a London museum (and I think you could
           | donate digitally) and using my Oyster card, I didn't spend a
           | single coin or note. On the other hand, if I were doing an
           | extended walk in the English countryside, I would absolutely
           | want to have a couple hundred pounds with me.
           | 
           | I have a feeling my widespread traveling pre-COVID during
           | which I pretty much figured I'd always have a use for most of
           | my baggies of foreign currency is going to leave me with a
           | fair bit of unused cash going forward.
        
         | blast wrote:
         | How can someone's packing tips be "utter nonsense"? That's
         | completely personal.
        
         | hooverd wrote:
         | Credit cards worth their salt don't have any foreign
         | transaction fees and convert transparently.
        
           | no_butterscotch wrote:
           | Unfortunately it seems like every card I have has a foreign
           | transaction fee. I'm traveling now and everytime I use my
           | Chase/Visa "Freedom" card I get the fee. And every time I use
           | my Amex I get it too.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | I have a premium travel-oriented Chase card that doesn't
             | have a fee. My free cards do as does my corporate card.
        
       | draw_down wrote:
       | Rick Steves said something like this once, about trying to get
       | the essence of a place. I think maybe there's no use avoiding
       | that wherever you go there you are.
       | 
       | I remember his adamance that he would never drink a beer in some
       | Italian place, because people there drink red wine. Meanwhile I'm
       | pretty sure you can find plenty of people around Italy who enjoy
       | a beer, or slivovitz or whatever.
       | 
       | Not only that but you're _not_ a local- and so what? Travel, that
       | is to say seeing other parts of the world than one's own, need
       | not involve an attempt at escaping into some other life.
        
       | xivzgrev wrote:
       | If most tourists go to popular areas, the author is the extreme
       | opposite.
       | 
       | I like somewhere in the middle. I seek out highly-rated
       | restaurants among LOCALS as a starting point. The fewer other
       | tourists I see and the less English the staff speaks, the better.
       | I also mix in places I see on the street that look good - they
       | may not even be on rating apps; sometimes I get lucky that way
       | too.
        
       | parthianshotgun wrote:
       | Relevant David Foster Wallace
       | 
       | > As I see it, it probably really is good for the soul to be a
       | tourist, even if it's only once in a while. Not good for the soul
       | in a refreshing or enlivening way, though, but rather in a grim,
       | steely-eyed, let's-look-honestly-at-the-facts-and-find-some-way-
       | to-deal-with-them way.
       | 
       | >
       | 
       | > My personal experience has not been that traveling around the
       | country is broadening or relaxing, or that radical changes in
       | place and context have a salutary effect, but rather that
       | intranational tourism is radically constricting, and humbling in
       | the hardest wayhostile to my fantasy of being a real individual,
       | of living somehow outside and above it all.
       | 
       | > To be a mass tourist, for me, is to become a pure late-date
       | American: alien, ignorant, greedy for something you cannot ever
       | have, disappointed in a way you can never admit. It is to spoil,
       | by way of sheer ontology, the very unspoiledness you are there to
       | experience. It is to impose yourself on places that in all
       | noneconomic ways would be better, realer, without you. It is, in
       | lines and gridlock and transaction after transaction, to confront
       | a dimension of yourself that is as inescapable as it is painful:
       | 
       | >
       | 
       | > As a tourist, you become economically significant but
       | existentially loathsome, an insect on a dead thing.
        
         | draw_down wrote:
        
       | insane_dreamer wrote:
       | For some reason I didn't expect an article about traveling the
       | world (something I've done a lot of and love) would get 250+
       | comments on HN.
        
       | mrb wrote:
       | << _I try to find non-traditional tourist destinations. Cities
       | that are viewed as ugly, or without a lot to see. Cities where
       | the residents are more focused on living their life, for
       | themselves, not for a global audience._ >>
       | 
       | This resonates so much with an experience I have had once. My
       | wife and I visited Japan for a couple weeks and we went to 4
       | cities: 3 big classic ones (Tokyo, Kyoto, Hiroshima), and a small
       | city that a relative used to live in: Beppu, which is not at all
       | a tourist destination. In fact Beppu is so off the radar that one
       | of the only guided tours available there to see local gardens and
       | one monastery was by a guide who didn't even speak English. I
       | didn't see a single restaurant menu in English. There was not
       | much to do except randomly exploring neighborhoods and trying
       | random shops, walking along canals, people-watching, bathing in
       | the local hot springs (which were completely empty), etc. We were
       | immersed in a tiny city with just people living their normal
       | lives. And yet, Beppu was my most favorite experience in Japan.
       | It felt like the real Japan.
        
         | bnralt wrote:
         | The thing is, most people in most cities are living for
         | themselves, not a global audience. Even a place like New York
         | isn't all Broadway and haute couture, and there are a number of
         | interesting neighborhoods that are generally overlooked by
         | tourists.
         | 
         | I saw this recently with the issue of migrants in Martha's
         | Vineyard, where people thought the entire island was populated
         | by millionaires. There's a lot of wealthy people who go to
         | these places for the summer, but the year-round population is
         | much more complex. About 1/5 of the population are actually
         | recent immigrants from Brazil[1], and if you look at the local
         | school notices you'll see they're printed in English and
         | Portuguese.
         | 
         | In an effort to get an "authentic" experience, it's possible to
         | overlook the authentic experiences that are right in front of
         | us.
         | 
         | [1]
         | https://web.archive.org/web/20220920163318/https://www.busin...
        
         | sosborn wrote:
         | Beppu is one of those places that lives off of domestic
         | tourism. I wouldn't say it's the "real" Japan, but it is
         | certainly in the realm of "traditional" japan.
        
           | ambrose2 wrote:
           | The main historical attraction was for the hot springs.
        
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       | bodge5000 wrote:
       | I've never travelled before (other than the usual British
       | holidays to france and spain, in which you make an immediate
       | detour to the first red lion you see and kind of just sit around
       | that for a week), but have recently been feeling like I should at
       | least try it. The problem is, I have no idea where to start,
       | where to go or what to do. I don't really have any opinions on
       | where I'd want to go because its never been something I've
       | considered doing.
       | 
       | Ideally, it'd be really nice to find a group of people who also
       | want to go travelling and who are also more into it that I can
       | join along with. Not like a tour guide, I'm not a huge fan of
       | strict activites and basically just want to go foreign pubs, but
       | a few people who I can socialise with and who know what they're
       | doing, that'd be great, but so far Google hasn't turned up a lot.
       | 
       | Anyone have any advice for somone like me? For some reason I know
       | the more granular advice like "travel light", but don't really
       | have a clue about the much broader stuff like "go to x"
        
         | virgildotcodes wrote:
         | If you're looking to meet a group of people to go to foreign
         | pubs with, especially (but not strictly) if you happen to be in
         | your 20s and 30s, just stay in social hostels.
         | 
         | You can occasionally find sites that highlight the most social
         | "party" hostels in each town, or you can get a feel for it
         | based on if their pictures feature extensive communal areas, an
         | on-premises bar, pool tables, etc.
         | 
         | Basically go to any destination that seems appealing, stay at
         | one of those hostels in the dorms, and you'll make friends
         | quickly.
         | 
         | It's not all about just getting trashed together, oftentimes
         | the people around you will tip you off to what's worth seeing
         | and doing in the area, and will even want to join you or have
         | you join their group and go do these things together.
         | 
         | It can be a lot of fun, not to mention typically the cheapest
         | option for housing while traveling.
         | 
         | Edit: More to the point of "go to x" - I'd highly recommend
         | Southeast Asia as a great entry point to travel. It's
         | beautiful, very different from Europe/North America so it
         | really feels like you're traveling, it's got the gorgeous
         | tropical beaches, rainforests, beautiful architecture, unique
         | street food scene, etc that all feel very foreign to anyone
         | who's lived in the West for most of their lives, it's
         | overwhelmingly safe, probably the cheapest place in the world
         | to travel ($3-$10/night for a hostel, $1-2 for a meal from a
         | street vendor), and it's a very popular destination with plenty
         | of hostels and fellow travelers to meet at those hostels and
         | befriend.
         | 
         | In terms of a couple specific destinations to start out with,
         | take a look at Thailand, especially Koh Phangan and Koh Phi
         | Phi, and Bali (Canggu and Ubud areas).
        
         | edent wrote:
         | The trick, I find, is to start small and see what you like
         | doing.
         | 
         | My advice would be - go to Rotterdam. Take the Eurostar there,
         | pick literally any hotel.
         | 
         | Open up Google maps, find some bars. Pick a couple of museums
         | or parks. Built a rough itinerary for, say, a long weekend. If
         | there's a Pride event on, that's fun. If not, just go
         | wandering.
         | 
         | Everyone there speaks decent English. Food and beer is great.
         | Good culture. Adequate weather. If you're gregarious, chat to
         | people in bars, clubs, concerts. If not, look at Greeters -
         | https://internationalgreeter.org/
         | 
         | They're locals who will show you around the city.
         | 
         | Have fun!
        
           | bodge5000 wrote:
           | Never heard of Greeters before, that sounds fantastic! Also
           | nice to finally have an idea of somewhere to go, that helps
           | tremendously
           | 
           | Cheers for the help!
        
       | duxup wrote:
       | Some of my best experiences were off the beaten path. Having said
       | that I kinda question this idea how local or representative of
       | local life those experiences were. I also would not what to have
       | missed out on the big attractions either... I can't imagine
       | skipping the Louvre, not seeing David...
       | 
       | For an article by someone who travels a lot there's a tone here
       | like that friend who comes back from some trip to tell you how
       | much more amazing X place is and all the wonderful things they do
       | better. Things that are different often make big impressions. I'm
       | always skeptical of these ideas, how many people you meet, what
       | that really represents and so on.
       | 
       | Otherwise I probably agree with most things in the article,
       | granted somewhat aspirationally (I wish I could pack that light)
       | ;)
        
       | Chris_arnade wrote:
       | I wrote the article. So you can yell at me here. Thanks again for
       | all the interesting comments. Hacker news is the best. One of the
       | few places I read the comments and learn.
        
         | localhost wrote:
         | Hey Chris - I wanted to drop a note here to thank you for what
         | you've done for me personally. I found you first on Twitter I
         | don't know how long ago and your posts there really brought
         | home to me the point about how we were all talking past each
         | other and don't engage in real conversations with people who
         | might have different viewpoints from our own.
         | 
         | When my kids were younger we went on a camping trip every
         | summer in a state park. There was this one group of people that
         | we would hang out with each year (I called it "redneck corner")
         | who were easily the most friendly and welcoming people in the
         | entire campground. They would feed you, watch your kids, hand
         | you a beer when you came by and we would just sit by the
         | campfire and shoot the shit until the wee hours of the morning.
         | They had nothing in common with me and my world and I loved it.
         | I still remember their stories today.
         | 
         | Reading this post of yours today reminded me of those times,
         | your writings (I loved Dignity), and the need for me to get out
         | of my private office in my house and actually meet people who
         | are different from me again. Until I figure out how to do that,
         | I want to thank you for everything that you do to help me
         | better understand the world a little bit better.
        
         | Chris_arnade wrote:
         | Wow. So many comments. I wish I could respond to all, but life.
         | 
         | Thanks again and always enjoy when a post of mine makes it to
         | Hacker news. I appreciate the feedback, and actually listen to
         | it, and when wrong, try to adjust.
         | 
         | Thanks again!
        
         | ravishi wrote:
         | I loved the article. It puts to words some patterns I have been
         | developing in my mind throughout the years. I haven't got the
         | experience to go that hardcore on localness yet, so my current
         | algo is to seek destinations where the locals go to tourist. I
         | find it a confortable middle ground between the shiny global
         | touristy places and "contrarian ultra-local" places (if I can
         | borrow a term tossed around here, not judging the article in
         | any way).
        
         | Aunche wrote:
         | >When I decided to go to Vietnam, everything and everyone told
         | me to go to Ho Chi Minh City. It had better food. More art.
         | More high culture. Less government. So I went to Hanoi.
         | 
         | >The US equivalent is to go to Indianapolis instead of NYC or
         | Houston instead of LA.
         | 
         | This is a really odd thing to say when Hanoi is the second
         | largest city in Vietnam (larger than LA) and a huge tourist
         | destination in itself. It's more akin to choosing LA instead of
         | NYC.
        
           | neither_color wrote:
           | Ive been to both and I definitely considered Hanoi more
           | (locally) cultured. Also the comparison to Indianapolis
           | doesn't make sense a smaller east coast US city like
           | Washington DC or Boston makes more sense as it's a cultural
           | and ideological center of the country.
        
             | piffey wrote:
             | Did you leave District 1? Just curious. HCM didn't hit for
             | me until I started getting out of that curated core.
        
           | koyote wrote:
           | I thought that was a very weird comment as well and your
           | comment about it being like choosing between NYC and LA is
           | spot on.
           | 
           | I am also surprised there's no mention of train travel. I
           | found this the best way to get to know a country and its
           | people. When you're stuck on a train for hours you end up
           | talking to your fellow passengers.
           | 
           | India was great for this as everyone was chatty and spoke
           | decent English. Vietnam was a bit more of a challenge on the
           | language front but you still got to have some interesting
           | conversations in basic English with some help by showing
           | pictures.
           | 
           | I did not go very far off the beaten path in Vietnam but I
           | really enjoyed the vibe and night life in Hue.
        
           | hmillison wrote:
           | I would argue that Hanoi is more touristy than Ho Chi Minh so
           | this comparison just tells me the author doesn't know what he
           | is talking about
        
             | hayst4ck wrote:
             | Hanoi feels more novel to Americans than Ho Chi Minh, which
             | feels like a fairly generic city. At least that's how I
             | felt visiting the two.
             | 
             | Another thing you have to remember is that there are a lot
             | of southern Vietnamese in the US, who brought their food
             | with them. The average American has experienced more of
             | south Vietnam than north without ever having visited.
             | 
             | Seeing the difference between a city that I perceived to be
             | kind of emulating western culture (Ho Chi Minh), versus
             | Hanoi, which has a culturally distinct feel about it, can
             | reasonably lead a person to see a touristy city as a more
             | cultural experience.
             | 
             | From an ameri-centric point of view, HCM is inundated with
             | a kind of unpleasant or generic tourism (eat at these
             | places, eat on a boat, go to this market, go to this tower,
             | go to these museums, go to these "palaces," climb into
             | vietnamese tunnels) compared to Hanoi where a lot of the
             | tourism is related to both food and how beautiful the
             | country is. It's kind of the difference between "this food
             | is objectively good" and "this food is new and
             | interesting."
        
         | abliefern wrote:
         | I generally would agree that touristy city centers tend to feel
         | similar to each other, be polished and therefore boring.
         | However, your example of Hanoi couldn't be more hilariously
         | misguided. Your characterisation of touristy areas ("places of
         | quaint storefronts mobbed with American retirees, hip bars
         | filled with plastered 25 year old Brits, and a few monuments
         | with millions of Instagram posts. Despite being in very
         | different cities, they all feel the same. You have your five
         | star hotels. Your restaurants that everyone says you have to go
         | to. Your buildings plastered with historic plaques") is
         | completely off the mark. The old town of Hanoi is precisely
         | where locals go in the evenings for a cheap beer on the streets
         | - it doesn't get more typically Vietnamese than that. And the
         | old town of Hanoi definitely does not feel the same as anywhere
         | else, even just within South East Asia, Hanoi is known as a
         | very special place.
         | 
         | Don't get me wrong, exploring other areas of Hanoi is a
         | wonderful experience as well.
        
         | ravedave5 wrote:
         | Unfortunately people are only seeing the bad in this article. I
         | do similar things with my family but not so extreme. I've
         | really found that restaurants/food are the keys to
         | understanding the local culture. I will never forget in Pureto
         | Rico we found a back street lechonera, when we were getting
         | food I asked the woman behind us what was good to eat. She
         | helped us then we sta with her for lunch. My family ended up
         | spending almost 2 hours talking to her over lunch and got deep
         | in to PR politics and such. An amazing experience.
         | 
         | What I've found helps the most is asking questions. Any time
         | you can ask someone a question they open up and you end up
         | making connections and learning so much. Usually it's simple
         | stuff like sitting at a full bar and asking the person next to
         | you how the sandwich is, or what is on their pizza. Next thing
         | you know you're making a friend and you're actually having real
         | conversations with locals.
        
           | Scarblac wrote:
           | Speaking as a NW European: talking to random people and
           | asking them random questions is like the perfect way to stand
           | out as a foreigner, probably American :-)
           | 
           | Eat in silence and leave others to their own, that's the key
           | to the local culture here. Especially in situations like
           | public transport, people like their silence on their commute.
        
             | imnotreallynew wrote:
             | Are there any cultures, other than American, that are the
             | exact opposite of this?
        
         | rntksi wrote:
         | Using google maps to spot out a non-touristy area was
         | ingenious.
         | 
         | I live near the spot you showed in the example that you picked.
         | 
         | I would suggest next time trying out another method, not based
         | on restaurants, but on using Historical Map: look at the city
         | and go back 100 years, then look at the city in the present,
         | and either choose a place that has not changed at all, or a
         | place that was a slum and now is housing.
        
         | quyleanh wrote:
         | Saigon is also good choice for your travel. Don't be biased by
         | people talking. I can see some parts of me in your post when I
         | went to Saigon. (Fun fact: I'm Vietnamese living in Hanoi)
         | 
         | Next time if you have time, come and enjoy your education in
         | Saigon.
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | Thanks! Will do. I also went to Hanoi so I could explore the
           | towns around the Chinese border. That didn't go so well. But
           | was interesting.
           | 
           | Thanks again
        
             | postsantum wrote:
             | Can you elaborate? What was wrong with them?
        
         | Vrondi wrote:
         | How do you get PB&J through airport security?
         | 
         | Also, can you somehow turn off your subscription popup on your
         | website just on the "About" page (where I'm not reading any of
         | your content yet)?
         | 
         | You seem to have some nice candid photography.
        
           | elil17 wrote:
           | How do you not get the PB&J through airport security? You can
           | bring any food. The ban on liquids is because liquid
           | explosives can't be frozen. So anyone bringing most okay
           | liquids (e.g. soup) can just freeze it but people trying to
           | bring something very flammable (e.g. ethanol) wouldn't be
           | able to.
        
             | llbeansandrice wrote:
             | My buddy had a jar of peanut butter confiscated because it
             | was a "cream"
        
               | elil17 wrote:
               | Should have gotten chunky /s
               | 
               | More seriously, though, your friend would have needed to
               | either freeze the peanut butter or put it on a sandwich
               | in a serving of less than 3.4 ounces.
        
         | phlarbough wrote:
         | I agree that there's a lot of value in traveling beyond the
         | beaten tourist path, especially with the bit that this path
         | tends to have a certain sameness to it, regardless of where you
         | actually are. However I disagree with going out of your way to
         | avoid it. Writing off entire cities because they're big or
         | popular is needlessly contrarian. If you're seeking the lived
         | experience of locals, why not go visit the NYC-equivalent of
         | their country?
         | 
         | Also can't help but point out your characterization of Hanoi as
         | the Indianapolis of Vietnam is ridiculous. Perhaps in
         | comparative size, but Hanoi is the old capital of Northern
         | Vietnam, and remains a fascinating vestige of what "old"
         | Vietnam was like. No offense, but Indianapolis is Indianapolis.
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | I don't write off entire cities. I do make choices with
           | limited time. As I write,
           | 
           | "That doesn't mean entirely ignoring places like NYC,
           | Istanbul, Seoul, or Tokyo. Some cities are so important they
           | can't be missed, and every city is a confederation of very
           | different neighborhoods. NYC is as much Dyker Heights as it
           | is Upper East Side.
           | 
           | That makes where you stay in a city more important than the
           | city itself. "
           | 
           | I wasn't attempting to suggest Hanoi is the Indianapolis of
           | Vietnam. I was Just using a stretched example to go to the
           | less obvious place. Maybe I'm wrong, but the vibes I got here
           | in my world is Hanoi is the less obvious place compared to
           | Saigon.
        
             | Markoff wrote:
             | Less obvious place would be Ninh Binh (my favorite place
             | and experience from visiting Vietnam), not the first/second
             | most famous place in Vietnam everyone knows (Hanoi/Saigon),
             | or at least go for Danang, Hue, Hoi An, Nha Trang and all
             | of these are on tourist trail anyway.
        
         | latchkey wrote:
         | The most interesting and beautiful places in Vietnam are not in
         | the large cities. It is the countryside and the places that
         | foreigners almost never travel to.
         | 
         | The places where you don't see another white person for weeks
         | on end (mostly in the North West of Hanoi... especially Ha
         | Giang area).
         | 
         | The places that are really hard to travel in if you don't have
         | a local who can speak the language. Why hard? Because just
         | getting food or even a place to crash in a random tiny town
         | late at night (because it took you too long to drive there), is
         | a real struggle.
        
         | brudgers wrote:
         | To the degree I have a difference of opinion, it is around the
         | idealization of planning and packing light.
         | 
         | I believe the most excellent choices are best made on the
         | ground and the expedition is a great way to explore.
         | 
         | The airport genericizes travel. It removes distance and
         | vastness and remoteness.
         | 
         | Flying gives you an MP3 - and that may be good enough - but it
         | is not the band playing live in someone's living room.
         | 
         | Getting there puts the flyer among travelers very much similar
         | dealing with very much the same things at the same time.
         | Airport food, flight delays, seat pitch, luggage limitations,
         | etc., etc.
         | 
         | Traveling light as virtue is heavy baggage exchanged for a 61
         | key synth and a worn tea kettle.
         | 
         | YMMV.
        
         | googlryas wrote:
         | Your viewpoint on walking matches my own. I refuse cabs when
         | traveling. However, public transit is usually fair game for me,
         | because that seems part of the culture itself and should be
         | experienced.
         | 
         | Have you ever visualized your GPS tracks(if available) of your
         | walks around a city?
        
         | zackmorris wrote:
         | I'm from Idaho, I feel like someone could drop me anywhere in
         | the world and I'd probably do ok. Unless there's humidity j/k
         | :-P
         | 
         | Kind of a random question, but what do you think about van life
         | aka Instagram tourism?
         | 
         | We're seeing a lot of stacked rock piles, trash left at
         | campsites, defaced natural formations, just people in general
         | crowding into areas that used to be "secret". We have a sense
         | that people visiting here don't share our values around leaving
         | no trace. Is that happening everywhere? Is it a trend? Will it
         | get better or worse? Etc etc.
        
         | com2kid wrote:
         | You seem to object to doing touristy stuff, but you neglect the
         | fact that locals also do touristy stuff[1]. I agree going to
         | resort towns is silly, but anyone with a keen eye will learn a
         | lot about local culture just walking around and observing in
         | any neighborhood.
         | 
         | My favorite observation, Chinese apartments with dedicated
         | areas to hang dry clothing outside, the drying area is fenced
         | off, in some places I saw, using decorative columns, with
         | line/bar put up to hang clothing on. Apartments have a large
         | window that opens to the fenced off area, and a stick with a
         | hook on the end is used to put clothing out on hangers. There
         | is still some privacy of what is being hung up, and it looks
         | much neater, and presumably it keeps birds and such away.
         | 
         | Wonderful bit of home design.
         | 
         | Another bit that stuck with me, I was staying at an AirBNB in
         | downtown Mexico City, when I went out in the morning I saw
         | store owners mopping down the fronts of their stores to get rid
         | of the dust and grime. I've never seen stores in the US care
         | enough to bother.
         | 
         | [1] If you come to the Pacific Northwest and don't hike a
         | mountain or go out on a lake, why the heck did you come and
         | visit in the first place? And as a third gen Seattle resident,
         | I've done plenty of shopping at Pike Place Market.
        
         | mhitza wrote:
         | Please get rid of that subscription popup.
         | 
         | OR make it only show on consecutive visits (not the first one),
         | and make the "let me read this first" option a bit more
         | obvious. I've been looking aimlessly for an obvious X or No and
         | missed the option the first time around.
        
           | jason-phillips wrote:
           | You can block the HTML element yourself with uBlock Origin's
           | dropper tool.
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | That's a substack thing that I'm completely unaware of and I
           | think powerless to do anything about.
        
         | bluekite2000 wrote:
         | You missed out on Saigon by picking Hanoi though :)
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | Ha. Yeah. Maybe next time.
        
           | gxespino wrote:
           | The whole point of the article is that he prefers to "miss
           | out"
        
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         | em-bee wrote:
         | i have been traveling with a similar aim, to get to know people
         | and learn about the day-to-day life. and i wish i would have
         | had some of your ideas. like eating at the same restaurant
         | frequently to get to know the people there. i used couchsurfing
         | (and earlier equivalents) to find locals to stay with.
         | 
         | i agree with most of what you say. maybe not the part about
         | picking the worst season. i'd mellow that one to "avoid tourist
         | seasons". i want to go somewhere there there are not many other
         | foreigners.
         | 
         | i also went one step further after i finished studying, and
         | went to places to actually work there, for 6 months, or a year,
         | or more. in one decade i lived in a dozen different countries.
         | i always connected to local linux user groups and local
         | chapters of other communities that i was part of. (if you
         | practice some sport, then join the local sports club to
         | continue practicing). i went to local tech events, even if they
         | were in a language i didn't speak. just showing up regularly
         | allowed me to make new friends.
         | 
         | one thing that was important to me is that i intentionally
         | didn't reading anything about the places i went to. i want to
         | experience a place without it being colored through the reports
         | of other foreigners.
         | 
         | and in a manner i am still traveling. i have been back home to
         | visit, but i haven't lived there for more than 20 years.
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | "and went to places to actually work there, for 6 months, or
           | a year, or more" -- yeah if you have the ability to do that
           | (job, family, etc) that is a great way to live IMO.
           | 
           | You mention the local linux groups. My brother, who does
           | something similar to you, uses the local Ping Pong clubs. He
           | is a top rated player, and its enough of a niche sport, but
           | one that is everywhere, that its a great international
           | community
        
         | russnewcomer wrote:
         | Hey, Chris - I think one of the difficulties I had with your
         | article(and with other writing like it), having lived outside
         | the US and trying to travel like this occasionally then, is
         | that we don't really get to live as the locals live. I spent
         | most of my time in one specific corner of the world, and I see
         | a difference of thought process in people who are tourists,
         | people who travel, and people who live in another culture. I
         | think you're in the second category, which is not bad, but I
         | think that there is a real sense of particular place missing
         | from your writing, while there is a distinct mindset missing
         | from my place (the third category) that lead to both
         | intrinsically lacking the full appreciation of the other. When
         | we travel, we live like some facsimile of local life if we stay
         | in an AirBnB and go to local places, but we still are
         | relatively rich, white (?male?) people with the option to leave
         | the place when we want to, and don't get a good, deep sense of
         | the culture. It's hard to be a real regular somewhere, for
         | example, when it's clear that you are a rich visitor who will
         | be coming regularly for a while, spending a good amount of
         | money, and then leaving. From your writing, for example, I felt
         | like you misunderstood the compliment that Jamal, the Turkish
         | restaurant owner, gave you when he complimented the economic
         | status that has allowed you to gain weight. I lived somewhere
         | in a decent amount of privilege while working for several
         | years, and it was only after regular, constant, and questioning
         | exposure to the culture that I began to understand it past the
         | surface. I don't see how your wide travel to many different
         | cultures lets you get a deep understanding of any specific one.
         | 
         | Put another way, (which can seem attacking, not my intent, I
         | just can't think of a way to say this better in a short
         | comment) the tourist has an experience an inch wide and an inch
         | deep, the traveler has an experience a mile wide and a foot
         | deep, and the person who goes to live in a third country for a
         | term that includes the word years has an experience a foot wide
         | and a mile deep. We just should all recognize what our
         | experiences are.
         | 
         | Solid writing, rolling is the way for clothes, one backpack
         | where at all possible(mine was larger than yours, but still so
         | much easier to just carryon when going to visit somewhere), and
         | I greatly enjoyed my visits to place I described as 'Wichita,
         | $COUNTRY', just not as much as living somewhere for years.
        
           | bnralt wrote:
           | Even foreigners living in a country among the locals people
           | often miss a lot. That shouldn't be surprising, we miss a ton
           | of stuff even in our own country while speaking the same
           | language. Have you ever heard someone from your country tell
           | foreigners about what people in your country are like, and
           | thought "what are they talking about"?
           | 
           | There's just so much variation, it's hard to really say. I've
           | known people who lived in a country for years, don't speak
           | the language, and live in their small expat circle. I've
           | known typical tourist types who found themselves living among
           | the locals because they ended up on a local tour. Or people
           | that don't live in a country, but have studied the language
           | and consumed the local media to an extent that they have a
           | better understanding of a lot of cultural trends than people
           | who lived or visited the place.
           | 
           | In the end, it's probably best to let go of the idea that any
           | one person is going to see the "true" place, or that one city
           | is more "authentic" than another. Everyone, even the locals,
           | are just going to know some piece of a much larger whole. I'm
           | not sure how useful it is to argue about which piece is
           | better than the others.
        
         | gopher_space wrote:
         | Enjoyed the article! I saw your line about not really caring
         | what you look like and wanted to add that throwing a collared
         | shirt and light sweater into your bag will open many, many
         | doors.
        
         | jdpedrie wrote:
         | Hey Chris, just wanted to say I love Dignity, and enjoy
         | listening to you on various podcasts. The Econtalk episode and
         | the recent Lamp Magazine ones were great!
        
           | Chris_arnade wrote:
           | Thanks so much. Really appreciate that.
        
         | pjmorris wrote:
         | Thank you for writing 'Dignity.' I've read it, shared it, given
         | it away.
         | 
         | You gave a tip during a panel in Chapel Hill about learning
         | from others by switching where to get your morning coffee, e.g.
         | from Starbucks to McDonalds, or more local places. I've added
         | it to my list of tactics and am richer for it.
        
       | glonq wrote:
       | My sister and her husband have been travelling throughout asia
       | and south america this way for years. It's a great way to stretch
       | the budget; they can get 4 months of travel out of what a typical
       | tourist might spend in 1 or 2 months.
       | 
       | It wouldn't work for me, but I really respect that they're able
       | to do it.
        
       | tomxor wrote:
       | Depending on the country this can ring very true when it comes to
       | food in my experience. i.e where popular = worse.
       | 
       | The most extreme experience I had was for a brief stay in
       | Thailand, where the main tourist streets are filled with
       | ridiculously glamorous looking and very busy restaurants serving
       | the blandest meals (by anyone's opinion) with the most watered
       | down and expensive drinks I've ever had. I don't think anyone
       | could ever eat at one more than once.
       | 
       | But within only a couple streets distance you can find amazing
       | street food for a fraction of the price and eat like a king,
       | which is exactly what all the locals were eating. Some westerners
       | might be a little worried about hygiene but they cook it right in
       | front of you and honestly I think the tourist restaurants were a
       | complete facade and are probably have far less hygienic kitchens
       | hidden away... Since then, in foreign lands, I'm more wary of
       | places filled with tourists and few locals.
        
       | Hakeemmidan wrote:
       | > And like good fiction, travel changes you. For the better.
       | Mostly.
       | 
       | Fiction changes you? For the better?! Mostly?!?!?!? I need some
       | expansion on this. I have been living in the non-fiction
       | darkness.
        
         | guggalugalug wrote:
         | Great literature -- not airport bestsellers, of course. How
         | could a deep, intimate window into another part of our shared
         | human condition _not_ change you? Mostly for the better.
        
       | renewiltord wrote:
       | His photos are great. The article does come across a little full
       | of itself, but I think it's overall a solid idea. Personally, I
       | allocate very little time to traveling these days so I'm forced
       | to squeeze in the big wins: i.e. if I go to Tanzania I'm going to
       | go see the wildebeest on the Serengeti. That's just how it is.
       | 
       | But I have to say, looking back, the most fun moments were less
       | curated. And one example that I remember is walking through Gent
       | with a friend of mine, feeling hungry, and stopping at one of
       | those kebab stores. My friend and I had traveled to Turkey at
       | some earlier time so when we asked the guy running the store (who
       | was quite obviously Turkish) if he knew where I could get some
       | fistikli kadayif (the wrong i but my keyboard is US) we ended up
       | having a really fun conversation with someone who hadn't been to
       | the country of his birth in a decade and really just enjoyed
       | talking about it.
       | 
       | Personally, I'm a huge fan of these human connections. I really
       | wish I could mind-meld with people and just absorb and share
       | everything I've seen and they've seen and experienced. We can't,
       | so this is what we get.
       | 
       | But besides that, when I as young I wrote copy for a bunch of
       | these sites/magazines freelance and the 'research' was incredibly
       | shallow. So what you're going to get is some teenager's online
       | echo of some other teenager's online echo. Then everyone is
       | convinced that only Giovanni's Shrimp Truck is the place to go.
       | So if you just go next door to the other shrimp truck without the
       | line, you'll get 99% experience with 1% trouble.
       | 
       | Following the herd has its value in that shared experiences
       | themselves are of value but there's fun to be had in not that,
       | too.
        
       | kylehotchkiss wrote:
       | This blog post is a nice guide! Some additions:
       | 
       | * Pack immodium for food sickness, this style of travel
       | guarantees it. Add some ORS packets to your bag too (don't just
       | trust gatorade or whatever)
       | 
       | * The new iPhone SE blends in remarkably well everywhere, it
       | looks like a 7 year old phone.
       | 
       | * I feel much better in foreign hotels than AirBNBs. They
       | generally adhere to some form of security backed by a legal
       | standard, as far as door locks, and having guards on the property
       | goes. AirBnB is great in trust-based societies, which travelers
       | on the beaten path are not visiting.
       | 
       | * As cheap as possible for flights isn't the wisest choice,
       | especially after covid where a lot of low cost carriers have cut
       | corners on maintenance (see google news for spicejet over the
       | past few months for more)
        
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