[HN Gopher] Are hospitals overtreating patients nearing the end?
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       Are hospitals overtreating patients nearing the end?
        
       Author : pseudolus
       Score  : 110 points
       Date   : 2022-10-08 13:20 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | _qua wrote:
       | I haven't had a chance to read the article yet but as a physician
       | --yes we often overtreat at the end of life. I have had horrible
       | experiences basically torturing patients with repeated invasive
       | procedures and disease-focused treatments who have designated
       | their decision making to a family member who is unable to accept
       | a recommendation for hospice care from the treating physicians.
       | In some cases this is motivated by religious beliefs that
       | "everything must be done" to save a life no matter how much pain
       | or suffering is causes. It's morally distressing.
        
         | JoshTko wrote:
         | Blaming just the patients and families is disingenuous. The
         | incentives on the hospital, and doctor to overtreat are large
         | and are an equally contributing factor.
        
           | Macha wrote:
           | Even in socialised medicine in western europe, this
           | phenomenon exists, where the financial side of those
           | incentives is much reduced as funding is much less directly
           | tied to treatments.
        
           | kennend3 wrote:
           | You are very much mistaken, it is almost always the family
           | doing this.
           | 
           | As an example:
           | 
           | https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2017/2017onsc6511/2017.
           | ..
           | 
           | [2] Following Shalom's brain death his family had discussions
           | with the staff at Humber River Hospital. They explained that
           | in accordance with Shalom's and their religious beliefs,
           | Shalom was not considered to be dead under Jewish law until
           | he stopped breathing and his heart stopped beating. Neither
           | had occurred because he was on ventilator life support.
           | 
           | The hospital board ruled he met the guidelines to be
           | considered "dead" - the family went to court to overturn
           | this.
        
           | ouid wrote:
           | having been on the family side of this, i can personally
           | guarantee that the people actually performing the procedures
           | are against it. You should draw a distinction between a
           | hospital and its doctors.
        
           | lotsofpulp wrote:
           | The doctors I know (roughly ~10 to ~15) are very much against
           | "overtreatment". The biggest problem they have is dealing
           | with emotional family members.
           | 
           | There was also huge public fervor when the suggestion of
           | funding mere discussion of end of life options was proposed
           | with the Affordable Care Act:
           | 
           | https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26195604/
        
             | jstanley wrote:
             | > The doctors I know (roughly ~10 to ~15) are very much
             | against "overtreatment".
             | 
             | Well of course that's what they think. Everybody is against
             | "overtreatment". If they aren't against a treatment, they
             | don't consider it "overtreatment", they just consider it
             | "treatment".
             | 
             | Different people have different boundaries for what they
             | consider "overtreatment".
        
               | s1artibartfast wrote:
               | Yes, but the point is that most doctors would treat less
               | than patients and their families if it were their choice.
        
           | saiya-jin wrote:
           | No, wife is a doctor and she faced this many times. Doctors
           | in such places are never working there for the money, if you
           | consider them as such you are just projecting your morals on
           | other people.
           | 
           | Its almost always the family - they just can't let go or have
           | some christian type of excuse. Thus their moral weakness
           | causes tremendous amount of suffering of their closest ones.
           | And doctors have to obey family wishes, even if they
           | personally wouldn't chose to, which is true for most doctors
           | in such situations.
           | 
           | I've been been recently an unfortunate witness to one of the
           | cases when its not closest family - grandmother of my wife
           | was nearing her end, suffering tremendously. Her daughter, my
           | mother in law who is a nurse and teaches nursing too and
           | knows all staff of their hospital very well was looking for
           | some strong painkillers ie morphine to help her with final
           | sufferings, which went on about for a week. As her mom didn't
           | want to die in hospital, nobody was willing to sign receipt,
           | not even close personal friends (mind you we don't have
           | opioids crisis in the country, so its not controversial to
           | give them to 92 year old dying). Some folks from closer
           | family or friends even said its fine to suffer before the
           | end, to shorten/skip purgatory, or some similar religious
           | bullshit. One of those times when I hated christianity and
           | its believers more than ever, you know those. As they say,
           | you will know true friends when you need them the most.
           | 
           | Switzerland is, as usually quite ahead on this - assisted
           | suicide. Folks from all over the world come here to die
           | peacefully, in full control. Ie Alain Delon is going through
           | the process of getting this done right now. It doesn't cover
           | all possible situations, but it gives certain control and
           | dignity in times where most people have none left. Me
           | personally, if facing such a situation, would do grand
           | farewell gathering with all, sign my will and go somewhere in
           | the nature to die quietly, ie jump from some cliff or
           | overdose on heroin (first and last dose, but they say its
           | quite an experience).
        
             | A4ET8a8uTh0 wrote:
             | <<As her mom didn't want to die in hospital, nobody was
             | willing to sign receipt, not even close personal friends
             | (mind you we don't have opioids crisis in the country, so
             | its not controversial to give them to 92 year old dying).
             | Some folks from closer family or friends even said its fine
             | to suffer before the end, to shorten/skip purgatory, or
             | some similar religious bullshit. One of those times when I
             | hated christianity and its believers more than ever,
             | 
             | I am not a religious person by anyone's description, but
             | the choice here appears to be that of lesser evil. Final
             | wish of a dying person ( along with their ability to govern
             | their life ) here being that she did not want to die in a
             | hospital. Wouldn't 'helping' her die break that wish? And
             | more importantly, what if the dying person is ok with
             | suffering?
             | 
             | <<Thus their moral weakness
             | 
             | It feels like the sentence is emotionally loaded. Is it a
             | moral weakness to follow one's moral compass? I hear what
             | you are saying, but you may want to consider that they do
             | not want to make that decision, because their moral compass
             | marks it as killing someone ( including some earthly
             | jurisdictions ).
        
           | ako wrote:
           | Hospitals and doctors are already fully booked, they don't
           | need the additional work from overmedicating and overtreating
           | patients in the last weeks of their lives.
        
             | sandworm101 wrote:
             | Being overbooked is only the start of profitability. Just
             | like airlines, once you have the customer inside your
             | facility, you upsell. A patient recuperating/dieing in a
             | bed nets only a daily rate. You need to then charge for as
             | many additional treatments as possible.
        
               | physPop wrote:
               | Only in broken for-profit systems. This is a non issue in
               | Canada and UK.
        
               | _qua wrote:
               | This is not how hospitals work. There are always outliers
               | that get news stories but most physicians do not wish to
               | torture the dying.
        
         | oski wrote:
         | Yeah, it's very distressing. It seems that there is often a
         | correlation between religious thinking and hoping for a miracle
         | that defies reason.
        
           | candiddevmike wrote:
           | You'd think they'd be pro-death and look forward to meeting
           | them again in whatever afterlife they believe in. Or does
           | faith falter in the face of the fragility of life?
        
             | refurb wrote:
             | No, I wouldn't assume the religious are "pro-death".
        
           | denton-scratch wrote:
           | There's a correlation between being religious and being "pro-
           | life". Even the dimmest pro-lifer can see that it's
           | hypocritical to insist on saving the life of a foetus that
           | has never seen daylight, at the risk of the mother, while
           | allowing an old, sick person to die naturally. So they are
           | forced into an "all lives matter" posture.
        
         | sandworm101 wrote:
         | I have always considered some of that as practice for the
         | eventual patient who may actually be helped. All those ecmo
         | treatments on doomed elderly covid patients is good practice
         | for when a 12yo kid with hope of survival needs the proceedure.
         | Over the decades, hail mary treatments at end of life
         | (radiation/chemo etc) eventually trickled down to become
         | practical treatments for everyone. Appendectomies were likely
         | debated as painful end-of-life treatments by those who first
         | attempted them.
        
         | alistairSH wrote:
         | I'll counter with my own anecdote... My BIL passed earlier this
         | year after a life of alcohol and drug abuse led to organ
         | failure. He made peace with his fate and was ready to go. But,
         | the hospital placed him in a coma and on a ventilator. Then
         | made it extremely difficult to have him moved to hospice and
         | removed from the vent. It took days of phone calls, lawyers,
         | and social workers to allow him to die. This caused much
         | unnecessary stress for my wife, who was the only family member
         | present. This was at a facility run by Floridas largest
         | hospital group. I wonder if it was profit or their own
         | religious affiliation that caused this? Either way, it wasn't
         | as simple to let a family member pass on as it should have
         | been.
        
           | sandworm101 wrote:
           | Florida's largest hospital group has a religious affiliation?
           | Ugh. We can be crititcal of goverment-run healthcare, but at
           | least that headache is avoided. I live across the street from
           | the one hospital in my small city. I think there would be
           | protest marches if it ever proclaimed a paticular religion.
        
             | Parmenidea wrote:
             | Not just any religion, it's a Seventh Day Adventist
             | Hospital (an offshoot of the Mennonites, who believed the
             | end of the world was predicted in the Bible). This has all
             | sorts of weird implications; from my memory, they can't
             | serve caffeine on the premises. There's a giant painting of
             | Jesus guiding a surgeon's hands in the front of the Orlando
             | branch when you walk inside.
        
               | sandworm101 wrote:
               | I grew up overseas. All the hospitals were technically
               | "islamic" but the great thing about that was zero
               | religeous paintings. There were no crosses hanging over
               | beds, but neither was any other image. Christians felt as
               | welcomed as anyone else. The architecture and decoration
               | was agnostic. Even the attached mosque was basically just
               | a square room pointing in a strange direction, and was
               | open to all peoples.
        
               | elgenie wrote:
               | That's just Islamic aniconism:
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aniconism_in_Islam
               | 
               | Islamic religious art na look agnostic ... if you don't
               | know what you're looking at.
               | 
               | Of course, without context Christian religious art is a
               | lot of plus signs, moms with babies, winged babies, weird
               | bonnets, and torture porn.
        
               | vidanay wrote:
               | Isn't that a direct result of the Islamic belief that man
               | made art is offensive to God? The same reason mosques are
               | decorated with geometric patterns and not "art".
        
               | inglor_cz wrote:
               | I think the prohibition is against depicting _living
               | things_.
        
           | oaktrout wrote:
           | Most times when this happens its because the patient doesn't
           | have these goals clearly documented, in my experiences
           | hospitals are willing to follow the wishes of the patient. If
           | the patients wishes aren't clearly documented that's when it
           | gets tricky.
        
         | kennend3 wrote:
         | I feel bad for you having to deal with this stuff.
         | 
         | It is strange how they often cite religious beliefs, but if
         | they firmly believe in "god" why are they always willing to go
         | to such great lengths to prevent dying?
         | 
         | This is VERY unfortunate in Canada because these people cost
         | the country a small fortune for no real reason. There was a
         | story a while ago about an individual, 70+ and braindead,
         | family fought and fought to keep him alive. I cant help but
         | wonder if they had to pay, would they have continued to fight?
        
           | FpUser wrote:
           | Health care wise Canada already heading down the drain.
           | Trying to save few people should be the least of your worries
           | in this department. Our fucking "servants" are doing stellar
           | job.
        
             | formerkrogemp wrote:
             | Don't denigrate healthcare workers. They're most often
             | doing the best they can.
        
               | FpUser wrote:
               | I am "denigrating" our masters, not workers. And if you
               | think we do not have huge problem in healthcare you've
               | got your head firmly planted into the sand
        
               | FredPret wrote:
               | What exactly is wrong? There's no perfect way to run a
               | huge system, but Canada comes close.
        
               | FpUser wrote:
               | We must be living in different Canadas. It is getting
               | worse every year. And the people responsible just keep
               | raising their own salaries. "Heckuva job (TM)" they do.
        
               | FredPret wrote:
               | What are the specifics? I've had great experiences,
               | getting tests, seeing specialists, all for free
        
               | VancouverMan wrote:
               | How do you see those as being "free" to you? Do you not
               | pay taxes?
        
               | FredPret wrote:
               | Yes, and far too much. I don't get the doom and gloom
               | about how the system is supposed to be collapsing though.
               | Canadian health insurance is much better than the private
               | insurance I had before I moved here.
        
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         | rs_rs_rs_rs_rs wrote:
         | >religious beliefs that "everything must be done" to save a
         | life no matter how much pain or suffering is causes. It's
         | morally distressing.
         | 
         | A life full of pain and suffering is still a life. The
         | alternative you're offering is not something without paid and
         | suffering, it's worse. Notexisting is worse than pain and
         | suffering.
        
           | _qua wrote:
           | A case I recall particularly vividly was a man in his late
           | 90s who had end stage dementia to the point that he couldn't
           | interact with his environment or even speak. His limbs were
           | contracted and he was permanently in a kind of fetal
           | position. He was fed through a tube but was still severely
           | malnourished. He had a line of bed sores starting from his
           | coccyx extending up to his middle thoracic spine and most of
           | the bones and ligaments could be clearly seen. The only real
           | signs of life were moaning when he was turned in bed. I saw
           | him in the icu where he was being treated for these incurable
           | bed sores and bone infections. To me it was pure torture and
           | his poor nurse was new to the job and broke down sobbing one
           | day after she had to turn and clean his wounds. It was
           | terrible for all of us.
           | 
           | I would never want anything other than comfort care for me or
           | my family in that situation but the families religion
           | dictated that we continue.
        
           | secondcoming wrote:
           | You didn't exist until you were conceived. That wasn't so
           | bad, was it?
        
           | jamesredman wrote:
           | Except that death is fact of life, pain and suffering are
           | not.
        
           | ako wrote:
           | For some, the pain and suffering is so bad that notexisting
           | is actually better.
        
           | bwhaley wrote:
           | > Notexisting is worse than pain and suffering.
           | 
           | That's a stretch.
           | 
           | Far more important to come to terms with mortality than
           | extend life indefinitely.
           | 
           | Is it even still living to have a heartbeat but with motor
           | control, limited or no ability to speak, and no memory? Is
           | "living" in this way best for the next of kin?
           | 
           | I found a recent episode of the Making Sense podcast in this
           | topic to be thought provoking. You might give it a listen.
           | 
           | https://www.samharris.org/podcasts/making-sense-
           | episodes/297...
        
           | Pwhy1 wrote:
           | I completely disagree. I would rather not exist than be in
           | truly agonising pain for the rest of my existence.
           | 
           | Heck, I've had something as simple as bad food poisoning
           | where, if it was a terminal symptom, I would have ended it.
        
         | mattmaroon wrote:
         | I know a lot of doctors and all of them have told me much the
         | same.
        
         | daniel-cussen wrote:
        
         | throwaway6734 wrote:
         | who pays for these treatments?
        
         | dominotw wrote:
         | As someone who was on the other side. I will say that these
         | decisions are made by patients and family on a daily level, one
         | at a time. It is hard to step back and look at a big picture
         | and say ok today is the day when we pull the plug on the
         | treatments.
         | 
         | I do agree that a final 'big picture' decision needs to be made
         | but its hard to get that mental clarity when you are in the eye
         | of the storm.
         | 
         | Also, I've personally decided to go by euthanasia after I lose
         | my independence but I am also not clear at what point I should
         | make that decision. I am worried that I will delay that
         | decision and end up in a situation where I lose my faculties to
         | make that decision.
        
           | citboin wrote:
           | " I am worried that I will delay that decision and end up in
           | a situation where I lose my faculties to make that decision."
           | 
           | Same. I have cognitive issues from m.s. and intend to move
           | somewhere where my desire is respected. My quality of life
           | already sucks, so I may make the decsision sooner than would
           | normally be expected.
        
           | denton-scratch wrote:
           | > I am worried that I will delay that decision and end up in
           | a situation where I lose my faculties to make that decision.
           | 
           | I'm concerned about that too. Broadly, the circumstances in
           | which I'd want to get it over with painlessly are
           | circumstances where it's hard to see what I could do about
           | it, like if I'm immobile in a hospital bed. I want a stash of
           | Nembutal in my medicine cabinet, that's the drug recommended
           | by Exit International; but I can't get it. You sometimes see
           | sellers offering it on dark markets at $600 for 10g, but
           | typically they have zero trades and zero reputation.
        
             | Eisenstein wrote:
             | Go to a big city and get a bindle of heroin. Or fentanyl on
             | the dark markets.
        
               | denton-scratch wrote:
               | AFAIK, most "opiate deaths" are the result of vomiting
               | while asleep.
        
               | Eisenstein wrote:
               | You are incorrect. Opiates slow your respiration and you
               | stop breathing. You are probably thinking of alcohol
               | deaths.
        
         | gedy wrote:
         | I know this an outlier, and not related to emotional hospice
         | decisions, etc but my mother had a heart attack in her 60s and
         | was flatlining after they were reviving from cooling? protocol
         | at the hospital. The doctors used defribrillators multiple
         | times while I and siblings were in the room. The head doctor
         | turned to us with an annoyed tone saying "look this isn't
         | ethical to continue" when we asked if they could do anything.
         | He then agreed to give her an adrenaline? shot, then they
         | packed up and everyone walked out to our confusion.
         | 
         | She stabilized and survived, and is still here 12 years later.
         | I appreciate what the doctors did for her, but I am very
         | cynical about blindly trusting what overworked/numb medical
         | workers tell us now though.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | veltas wrote:
         | > In some cases this is motivated by religious beliefs that
         | "everything must be done" to save a life no matter how much
         | pain or suffering is causes.
         | 
         | Can you explain what you mean by this?
        
           | ceejayoz wrote:
           | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6525567/
           | 
           | > Patients who rely heavily on their religious beliefs to
           | cope with cancer have been shown to receive more aggressive
           | interventions (e.g., cardiopulmonary resuscitation and
           | ventilation) in the last week of life compared to those who
           | rely less heavily on [Religion and spirituality] beliefs.
           | 
           | > The most commonly highly endorsed items (i.e., at least
           | 'somewhat') were "my faith helps me to endure the suffering
           | that comes with difficult medical treatments" (71%); "I will
           | accept every possible medical treatment because my faith
           | tells me to do everything I can to stay alive longer" (67%);
           | and "I believe God could perform a miracle in curing me of
           | cancer" (69%). Most patients (87%) reported some ('somewhat',
           | 'quite a bit' or 'a great deal') endorsement of at least one
           | of the RBEC items and a majority (62%) endorsed three or more
           | RBEC items.
           | 
           | > Item-total correlations revealed high item-total
           | correlations (>0.7) for five items and moderate correlations
           | for the items "do not resuscitate orders are immoral due to
           | religious beliefs" (0.48) and "I would be giving up on my
           | faith if I stopped pursuing cancer treatment" (0.63).
        
         | paranoidrobot wrote:
         | There's the "everything must be done" crowds, but they're not
         | (just) religious folks. There's also the bean counters (more
         | tests/treatments = more revenue), and the paranoid about
         | litigation folks who worry more that it's easier to explain
         | action than inaction.
         | 
         | My grandmother went into a facility for palliative care in the
         | last few weeks of her life. We saw all of these folks, and it
         | was a struggle to reign them in.
         | 
         | There's a whole lot of really terrible behaviour that's done
         | just because it makes someone more money or someone's job
         | easier, and if it results in actual pain/discomfort to the
         | patient, who cares.
        
           | sxg wrote:
           | I wouldn't characterize it as "paranoid about litigation".
           | Lawsuits against physicians are common, and you absolutely
           | have to consider the small but real risk of having to defend
           | your actions in court. I'm a physician and see this play out
           | all the time, and there's a reason malpractice insurance is
           | as expensive as it is.
        
             | toast0 wrote:
             | Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out
             | to get you. Justified paranoia is still paranoia.
        
               | s1artibartfast wrote:
               | No it quite literally isn't
        
             | oa335 wrote:
             | How expensive is malpractice insurance, as a proportion of
             | your salary?
        
               | pixelmonkey wrote:
               | Malpractice can be $30-$90k/year for an OB-GYN. Hospitals
               | may cover part of this, but a private practice may not.
               | This is a huge percentage of an OB-GYN salary, and
               | creates negative career satisfaction across the
               | specialty. (As if medical school debt and the residency
               | hazing process were not enough.)
               | 
               | In private practice, OB's also often have to pay for
               | their own tail insurance, which also means if they quit
               | the practice, they have to pay malpractice insurance
               | (basically in perpetuity) to protect against late-
               | arriving lawsuits. This also traps physicians in their
               | job/specialty and makes early retirement challenging.
               | 
               | It's a great system. /s
        
               | sxg wrote:
               | Depends on the specialty, but roughly $500-$1500 (higher
               | for surgeons and proceduralists; ~5% of your salary).
               | However, if you work as an employee for a hospital or a
               | large group practice, you don't pay for malpractice
               | insurance directly. The institution covers it, but
               | obviously it will indirectly impact your salary.
        
           | oneoff786 wrote:
           | I would question whether extra treatments for an end of life
           | patient is really a profitable venture for a hospital vs the
           | opportunity cost of more lucrative elective stuff.
        
             | londons_explore wrote:
             | End of life treatments are, I assume, very profitable,
             | because either they'll be covered by insurance, or they'll
             | be paid by the deceased's estate. They'll probably get paid
             | the full asking price rather than having to give a discount
             | too.
        
               | refurb wrote:
               | I wouldn't argue they aren't profitable, but there is a
               | good chance Medicare is covering it, which is
               | substantially lower reimbursement than private insurance.
               | 
               | If they have a limited volume of beds, I'm sure a focus
               | on profit would drive a private patient getting care
               | versus an elderly Medicare patient.
        
               | oneoff786 wrote:
               | If the estate can't pay then the debt is just written off
               | though.
               | 
               | That aside, ability to pay is not going to be the top
               | consideration of the baseline profitability of a
               | procedure.
               | 
               | I don't know any specifics though.
        
               | londons_explore wrote:
               | But most people do die with an estate of some kind
        
       | Something1234 wrote:
       | I've been trying to figure out how to define a living will that
       | is actually quantified, but I just can't come up with anything.
       | Everything I can think of has exceptions in it, and I'm sure I
       | won't cover all the holes.
        
         | denton-scratch wrote:
         | Mine is very simple; I don't want people struggling to keep me
         | alive, if the chances are that I'm going to die soon anyway.
         | But this kind of thing can only work if the medical staff are
         | trustworthy, and use common sense. My GP knows my attitudes,
         | but in an emergency it might be any old jobsworth that has to
         | interpret my wishes.
        
         | bittercynic wrote:
         | I think making a reasonable effort to cover likely scenarios is
         | a good way to communicate your intent, and if a situation comes
         | that you didn't cover, a trustworthy reader has a good chance
         | of taking the action you would have wanted. At some point you
         | have to accept that you're going to have diminishing control
         | over things.
        
       | civilized wrote:
       | Soon we can expect an article criticizing Canada as inhumane for
       | putting limits on overtreatment at the end of life.
        
         | VancouverMan wrote:
         | In Canada, both situations are just symptoms of the same
         | underlying problem: the various public health care systems in
         | Canada are quite inefficient, including when it comes to the
         | allocation of resources.
         | 
         | This should be expected, though, since socialist systems tend
         | to remove, or lack, the balancing factors that can encourage
         | improved efficiency.
         | 
         | There is little incentive for Canadian medical practitioners to
         | do better. The artificially restrictive and anti-competitive
         | nature of these health care ecosystems, from education, to
         | funding, to providing service, helps ensure that the situation
         | doesn't improve over time.
        
           | civilized wrote:
           | That's interesting. I've seen a table that said Canada's
           | health system has the among the lowest percent admin overhead
           | of any developed country, so I had the impression it was
           | relatively efficient.
        
             | inglor_cz wrote:
             | Administration costs are just one of many possible
             | inefficiencies. Choosing what to spend on is a very
             | different can of worms.
             | 
             | You can be very efficient in building bridges, but if you
             | choose to build bridges to nowhere, the entire system is
             | far from efficient.
        
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       | theow7384iri wrote:
       | Hospital has to make money somewhere! Procedures done on corpse
       | are financing ER and other departments!
        
         | Waterluvian wrote:
         | Not really how it works in Canada.
        
         | kennend3 wrote:
         | Your post makes no sense.
         | 
         | Given this is posted on a Canadian site, and discusses
         | Ontario....
         | 
         | Hospitals don't "make money" in Canada, they are all owned and
         | funded by the government.
        
           | photochemsyn wrote:
           | I think it's a bit more complicated than that, because in
           | most socialized medicine systems, the suppliers are not owned
           | by the government, so there's a lot of private industry
           | billing (pharmaceuticals, medical devices and implants. etc.)
           | 
           | It's comparable to the USA's freeway system - yes the roads
           | are publicly owned, but road repairs and material procurement
           | are contracted out to private industry, and there's always
           | the possibility of things like a government employee getting
           | a kickback from a construction company for signing off on
           | unnecessary work requests, etc.
        
             | kennend3 wrote:
             | > the suppliers are not owned by the government
             | 
             | Correct..but pretty much any "medical supplier" requires a
             | doctors note to provide services.
             | 
             | "blood testing labs" for example might want to blood test
             | everyone in the country for everything imaginable..Without
             | a doctors note they are prohibited from taking blood.
             | 
             | Doctors (effectively government employees) do control the
             | gates.
             | 
             | Kickback schemes are possible (and have been uncovered),
             | but this is a pretty big tangent to "over-treating those
             | near death" isnt it?
             | 
             | Most "medial fraud" in canada tends to focus on "services
             | charged but not rendered".
        
           | inglor_cz wrote:
           | Hospitals perhaps not, but someone always makes money in the
           | system and those people may have conflicts of interest.
           | 
           | I live in a country with a population-wide insurance system.
           | Big Pharma dealers do their utmost to curry favors with all
           | the doctors out there, showering them with gifts, inviting
           | them to "conferences" in attractive locations etc.
           | 
           | As my friend from high school, now an accomplished ORL
           | expert, said: "Of course it works. They wouldn't be doing it
           | otherwise."
        
           | refurb wrote:
           | Hospitals in Canada aren't always "owned" by the government.
           | For example in Ontario they are mostly private non-profits.
           | 
           | And even if they are publicly owned, there is someone looking
           | at the financials to make sure they have enough money to keep
           | operating.
        
       | Animatronio wrote:
       | Lots of people here are willing to let others die so as to not
       | "overburden" the medical system - financially or otherwise. I for
       | one would like be overtreated to the max, because then what's the
       | point of having EOL care if not to prevent death. Also, I'm a
       | religious person, and I don't think it's in any way conflicting
       | with my beliefs.
        
         | Someone wrote:
         | > then what's the point of having EOL care if not to prevent
         | death.
         | 
         | Death can't be prevented, only delayed.
         | 
         | I would say EOL care is for making your last days as pleasant
         | as possible for you and (a bit less so) those who care about
         | you.
         | 
         | As an example, "overtreated to the max" may mean replacing "a
         | few days to talk with family, sitting in the sun" by "a few
         | weeks being sedated undergoing various invasive procedures". I
         | think that, if the choice were that clear, few people would
         | choose the latter.
        
           | Animatronio wrote:
           | Obviously I meant delayed as much as possible. Honestly, I'd
           | take any invasive procedure over death, no questions asked.
        
         | wl wrote:
         | You might want to talk with some of the healthcare workers that
         | are performing these treatments. Most of them will say things
         | along the lines of, "I don't want the last moments of my life
         | to be someone breaking my ribs" or "there are fates worse than
         | death."
        
           | Animatronio wrote:
           | I don't think healtcare workers are more qualified than
           | anyone to say there are fates worse than death, besides I
           | don't think it's true.
        
             | cpsns wrote:
             | It's definitely true, though I'm glad you've not had to
             | whiteness such fates. I've seen it first hand with family
             | members and it's traumatic for all involved.
        
             | sethammons wrote:
             | Was it bad for you before being born?
        
               | Animatronio wrote:
               | How would I know?! Might have been a terrible time for
               | me, but I have no memory of it. So I'd rather err on the
               | side of caution.
        
         | denton-scratch wrote:
         | > what's the point of having EOL care if not to prevent death.
         | 
         | That remark sounds odd to me. "EOL care" is provided to people
         | who are at end-of-life, by definition. And neither EOL care nor
         | anything else can "prevent" death.
        
         | throwaway6734 wrote:
         | Just don't expect others to pay for it
        
           | Animatronio wrote:
           | Why not, after all I've been paying for subsidized healthcare
           | for 20+ years without getting anything in return.
        
             | throwaway6734 wrote:
             | The level of healthcare you're talking about will end up
             | costing significantly more than any amount that you paid in
        
         | refurb wrote:
         | Of course, it's always easy to be cold and calculating when
         | it's not your life or your love ones at stake.
         | 
         | And sure, I think most people would argue it's not worth
         | spending another $500,000 treating a terminally ill patient
         | with a 0% chance of survival.
         | 
         | But often the chance isn't 0%, it might be 15%. So if it's your
         | loved one who has stage 4 cancer and the doctor says "it's
         | going to cost a lot of money and only a 15% chance we'll cure
         | the cancer", not many people will say "meh... those odds aren't
         | good enough, so lets just put grandpa in a hospice and let him
         | go"
        
           | NoPie wrote:
           | 15% is clearly too optimistic. It is closer to 0.15% and it
           | is usually not only about chances but that the person is
           | experiencing extreme suffering despite pain killers that any
           | therapy only prolongs this suffering.
        
             | refurb wrote:
             | What do you mean?
             | 
             | Here is an example: https://www.tecentriq-
             | hcp.com/urothelial-carcinoma/clinical-...
             | 
             | For people with cisplatin (chemo) resistant metastatic
             | (spread through the body) bladder cancer, if you treat with
             | immunotherapy only 6% achieve complete response (cure). The
             | other 94% has a partial response (which means they
             | progressed) or no response at all. So they would likely die
             | of their cancer relatively soon.
             | 
             | Lots of cancer drugs are like that.
             | 
             | Immunotherapy is expensive. Is it worth spending $250,000+
             | on cancer drugs for a 6% chance of a cure?
        
               | Animatronio wrote:
               | Then why bother with immunotherapy at all if it's so
               | expensive. After all it's been available for 130 years if
               | google serves me right, and it still hasn't come down in
               | price besides being not very effective.
        
             | Animatronio wrote:
             | Maybe it's closer to 0.15%. So what? We do things with
             | little chance of succes all the time. As I said, I'll take
             | my 0.15% chance of living longer and be very grateful for
             | it. Others might not. I still find it strange that money
             | has a part to play in this at all. How cruel would it be to
             | be denied life-saving treatment just because it's not 100%
             | guaranteed to work.
        
               | NoPie wrote:
               | Because 0.15% is not a life-saving treatment but hoping
               | for a miracle. And when people are immensely suffering
               | they actually prefer to die than prolonging the
               | sufferings.
               | 
               | How could not money pay part in this? If the continued
               | care costs, let's say $10,000/month (not unusual for the
               | US) and you have 1:1000 chance to live that month, it
               | means this month has cost $10 million dollars. Who is
               | going to pay for that? In fact, taking all this money for
               | yourself, the healthcare for other people will need to be
               | reduced which can lead to shortened life expectation for
               | those people.
        
           | _qua wrote:
           | A basic issue is simply choosing to have a no cpr order if
           | you have a terminal cancer. It doesn't mean you won't get
           | treatment but if your heart stops in this particular
           | situation (metastatic cancer) odds of survival to hospital
           | discharge are routinely quoted as <1%. No cpr doesn't even
           | mean no intubation or no critical care, it's more of a
           | "seatbelt" to protect you and your loved ones from suffering
           | if everything goes to hell.
        
       | denton-scratch wrote:
       | I've prepared a "living will" - basically a signed directive that
       | I don't want anyone to strive officiously to save my life, a.k.a.
       | "Do Not Resuscitate". I gave a copy to my GP, and I sent another
       | to my health trust. There's a copy in my desk-drawer. My kids
       | know my intentions.
       | 
       | But I'm afraid that if a paramedic attends me in an emergency,
       | she won't know about these documents, and will be in too much of
       | a hurry to search. Also, if I get in trouble outside the area of
       | my health trust, they won't have this document at all.
        
         | _qua wrote:
         | A living will is only as good as your designated power of
         | attorney when push comes to shove. It's just as important to
         | have these discussions with you power of attorney repeatedly
         | and in depth before the time comes.
        
         | bell-cot wrote:
         | Might this be useful?
         | 
         | https://store.medicalert.org/classic-medical-id-bracelet/A12...
        
         | ejb999 wrote:
         | Not sure where you live, but in my state (and states around me)
         | EMT/Paramedics know to check the fridge door for a MOLST form
         | that is usually brightly colored (easy to see) and contains
         | your wishes - i.e. no CPR or no intubation etc; usually these
         | are filled out in conjunction with your doctor, they keep a
         | copy and you put a copy on your fridge where it is easy to find
         | - more common for very elderly folks and those with terminal
         | illnesses - but I supposed anyone could have one.
        
           | denton-scratch wrote:
           | > and those with terminal illnesses
           | 
           | My terminal illness is called "life". I have COPD, which is
           | supposedly incurable, and there's a fair chance that's what
           | will kill me; but what _guarantees_ that I 'll die is the
           | fact I'm alive.
        
           | denton-scratch wrote:
           | Yeah, that only works well if I carry my fridge around with
           | me! /s
           | 
           | I could carry the note, of course; but the chances are I'd
           | forget to pin it back on the fridge. Perhaps I should stick a
           | colourful note to my fridge, saying "Paramedics: instructions
           | in desk drawer".
        
       | TomMasz wrote:
       | I had to make the decision to stop medical intervention and start
       | palliative care for my 92-year-old father. He had developed an
       | infection, exacerbated by poor circulation and a reluctance to
       | seek medical care. He was hospitalized, given massive amounts of
       | antibiotics, and rallied it a bit. They told us he might be able
       | to go home if he could get around on his own. He was sent to a
       | rehab center but soon declined without the hospital's level of
       | care and was re-hospitalized. This happened a few times, the
       | rally was less each time. Finally, it was impossible to ignore
       | the reality of what was happening despite the doctors'
       | willingness to keep going. He had explicit instructions regarding
       | end-of-life care but my mom couldn't make the decision so I had
       | to. The hospital set up a quiet private room for him and he
       | slipped away quietly in the night before he could be moved to
       | hospice.
       | 
       | I totally understand families not wanting to give up but you have
       | to ask "who are you doing it for, yourselves or them?"
        
       | cityzen wrote:
       | Great book called The Conspiracy Against the Human Race: A
       | Contrivance of Horror touches on this... the fact that everyone
       | is so obsessed with keeping people alive whether the patient
       | wants it or not. Some people may just want to die... and that's
       | ok.
        
       | mrec wrote:
       | For anyone who hasn't already seen it, Scott Alexander's _Who By
       | Very Slow Decay_ [1] (2013) is a classic on the subject. Please
       | take the trigger warning seriously.
       | 
       | [1] https://slatestarcodex.com/2013/07/17/who-by-very-slow-
       | decay...
        
         | srvmshr wrote:
         | I read this in its entirety last year and sat quietly for a
         | long time knowing many of these observations will one day be
         | true for me too. Its sad, depressing and really harsh truth.
        
       | swayvil wrote:
       | Being the fantasy-loving creatures that we are, theater always
       | replaces reality, sooner or later.
       | 
       | The costumes. The magic language. The shiny apparatus. The heroic
       | striving. All necessary props in the drama. Ticket sales are
       | good.
        
       | andromaton wrote:
       | Must read: Being Mortal Illness, Medicine and What Matters in the
       | End (Atul Gawande).
       | 
       | Summary: quality not quantity.
       | 
       | It gave me hope while helping family members and hope for when
       | it's my turn.
        
       | fuzzfactor wrote:
       | This is the time when all parties already do expect to expend
       | more resources.
        
       | Waterluvian wrote:
       | After years of declining health my grandfather ended up with some
       | sort of flesh eating infection. My aunt and grandmother wanted to
       | keep fighting.
       | 
       | I remember being in the room with extended family and the doctor
       | double checking that everyone wanted to stay for the discussion.
       | 
       | He then discussed, ...in detail, how they would treat it and what
       | his life would be like after.
       | 
       | The decision makers in my family quickly came to a consensus.
       | 
       | What I remember most is that it didn't feel like manipulation.
       | The way the doctor laid out the situation felt like he was
       | informing everyone. Equipping us to understand the situation
       | almost as well as the doctors might. I remember that making it
       | far easier on my aunt and grandma afterwards.
        
       | Consultant32452 wrote:
       | We over-medicalize life too.
        
         | inglor_cz wrote:
         | Someone downvoted you for no reason. Yes, we over-medicalize
         | life, too. Death is but the end stage of life, so it suffers
         | from the same problem.
        
       | gsatic wrote:
       | Ofcourse they are. Having spent a whole lot of time in hospitals
       | with elderly family members over the last couple years its pure
       | madness. One doc told me its like watching farmers keep entire
       | fields of mostly dead plants alive.
        
       | Silverback_VII wrote:
       | It is not very ethical to spend hundreds of thousands to
       | minimally extend the lives of people who will use this new gained
       | time to watch a little more television. Someone has to pay the
       | bill.
        
         | Animatronio wrote:
         | How does it compare to spending hundreds of billions to
         | continuously prepare for war? Ethically speaking, of course!
        
           | inglor_cz wrote:
           | Ethically speaking, Ukraine would now be toast (which means:
           | occupied, enslaved, tortured and raped) if the Western powers
           | didn't spend enough money on their war readiness.
           | 
           | World peace requires unanimity. Absent that, there is nothing
           | principially unethical to prepare for future wars. And that
           | has to be done continuously, because technology evolves.
        
             | Animatronio wrote:
             | I wasn't referring to Ukraine at all. Let's not make this
             | about current affairs please. Whenever there's a new
             | billion dollar plane or ship or whatnot there's plenty of
             | money for it. When someone requires half a mil for some
             | procedure suddenly it's a big no-no.
        
       | lbriner wrote:
       | One of the problems is that we think that we deserve to have
       | everything done to save us, even if futile and families think
       | they get the next priority in deciding what the hospitals will
       | spend.
       | 
       | How does a Government/Medical Profession agree to what is
       | considered acceptable or not acceptable without incurring the
       | expense of legal action? It seems like the "easy" answer is to be
       | seen to do everything you possibly could.
       | 
       | The article did mention, however, how the communication of the
       | medical staff can be instrumental in coneying the graveness of
       | the situation, although it's a lot to take in if everything has
       | happened in the last 30 minutes and you are suddenly staring
       | death in the face.
        
       | debacle wrote:
       | My least favorite statistic is that roughly 50% of an
       | individual's lifetime medical costs come in the last few weeks of
       | life.
       | 
       | This is seriously problematic. Families need to learn to let go
       | and doctors need to be more honest about outcomes. My mother was
       | facing multiple organ failure and she was still given a feeding
       | tube against her stated wishes and my family's protests.
        
         | denton-scratch wrote:
         | > she was still given a feeding tube against her stated wishes
         | and my family's protests.
         | 
         | How did that happen? That sounds like assault. Did they not
         | know her express wishes?
        
           | mjevans wrote:
           | The forms they make families fill out are often given too
           | late; and don't offer an affordance of nuance.
           | 
           | My dad had dementia before anyone realized, and even if he
           | had been of sound mind, the forms tend to be all or none,
           | rather than reflecting the range of outcomes that are
           | remotely likely.
           | 
           | The discussions that are suddenly forced onto family at the
           | end of life are an extra level of pain on top of the
           | inevitable loss.
        
           | lotsofpulp wrote:
           | There is a very complex calculation of liability going on in
           | medical decisions, and they depend on various interpretations
           | of the jurisdiction's laws.
        
       | purplerabbit wrote:
       | The overmedicalization of death is a giant ethical problem that
       | we haven't developed the culture to healthily deal with.
       | 
       | If you haven't read the book "Being Mortal", I would highly
       | recommend it. It addresses how to approach death from a
       | perspective that combines existential and medical issues. It's
       | one of a very small set of books that should probably be required
       | reading for all of humanity
        
       | the-printer wrote:
       | I suspect that people are more likely to want their loved ones to
       | be treated in spite of glaring suggestions toward the end of
       | their love one's life when they fear that death will approach
       | within the hospital walls.
       | 
       | It's likely that many people would prefer their loved one to die
       | at home than elsewhere. Which I suppose is a natural feeling. But
       | they then catch themselves in the dilemma of choosing between
       | what they feel is an environment of care medically and an
       | environment of care, well, "familial-ly"?
       | 
       | It's easy to make faith or religion a target for phenomenons such
       | as as this. But which faith (or whose, rather) are we talking
       | here?
        
       | bberenberg wrote:
       | Being Mortal by Atul Gawande has an interesting look into this
       | topic.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | jgurewitz wrote:
       | Informed, decision making away from the pulse of the emotion is
       | essential here. High quality physicians with the time and space
       | to guide a family are immensely impactful but sadly both the time
       | and space are becoming increasingly limited. Having a trusted
       | advocate by your side who is not as connected is becoming a
       | significant trend.
        
         | lotsofpulp wrote:
         | Hence the need for everyone to have advanced health directives.
        
       | Silverback_VII wrote:
       | All your vitality and youth eaten up on the hamster wheel to get
       | 10 miserable years surrounded by medical equipment at the end of
       | your life consuming the rest of your fortune.
       | 
       | And why exactly? to move the doomsday clock an inch closer to
       | midnight?
        
         | k__ wrote:
         | I didn't buy into that. I wanna live while I still can.
        
           | daniel-cussen wrote:
        
         | sangnoir wrote:
         | > And why exactly?
         | 
         | <sacarsm>Are you questioning the best economic system there
         | ever was? Your comment smells a little commie-adjacent, but
         | I'll have you know {insert example of vaguely socialist regimes
         | that failed}. Furthermore, {insert poverty-reduction statistics
         | from China, but attributed to capitalism}. Therefore, our
         | current capitalist society is the epitome of mankind, and
         | cannot be improved. QED </sarcasm>
        
       | andrewl wrote:
       | I thought this story in "comic book" form of end of life in a
       | hospital was very powerful:
       | 
       | https://www.acpjournals.org/doi/10.7326/G14-0009
        
       | mensetmanusman wrote:
       | The entire system seems somewhat incentivized to harvest as much
       | cash out of situation as possible...
        
         | s1artibartfast wrote:
         | For the most part, doctors and hospitals don't want to do it.
         | This is a patient and family driven phenomenon for the most
         | part
        
         | t00ny wrote:
         | Not in Canada.
        
         | stevenwoo wrote:
         | The last few paragraphs detail specialized long term ICU
         | centers in the USA that treat such patients where the survival
         | rate is low compared to non patients and the medical technology
         | is utilized to fullest so as many patients as possible reach
         | the one year point so the statistics look great, and then it is
         | withdrawn after the 365 day mark (because that is the only
         | measurement used for funding) so the care can be used on the
         | next customer. There's one near me where any time I pass by
         | there is usually an ambulance taking away a patient or
         | delivering a patient (the lights and siren are never used).
        
       | mywacaday wrote:
       | This was a discussion that stuck with me:
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28463482
        
       | voakbasda wrote:
       | The cost of care at end of life is unsustainable in its current
       | form. The graphs of average cost per patient as a function of age
       | are all shaped like hockey sticks. As a civilization, we cannot
       | afford to spend like this. It will catch up to us, and then
       | everyone will suffer.
        
       | SkipperCat wrote:
       | I can't stress this enough. Get a living will and end of life
       | directives. Your family will do everything to keep you alive
       | because they'll feel awful if they don't. Their guilt about not
       | doing enough will override common sense.
        
       | wpietri wrote:
       | Two points:
       | 
       | One, this barely touches on the opposite side, when doctors give
       | up too soon. When my mom had a brain tumor that had a high 5-year
       | mortality rate but still had plenty of time left, a number of
       | doctors we encountered either gave us premature "time to give up"
       | speeches or were just lackadaisical about treating her symptoms.
       | (None of those doctors were her neuro-oncologist, and my mom was
       | a fighter who would not give up on the time left to her.) Had I
       | and my brother not been there to push back on the medical system,
       | we would have had months less with her. Should we minimize the
       | suffering when there's no hope? Definitely. But not until that
       | point unless the patient clearly chooses otherwise.
       | 
       | Two, I think the much bigger problem on either side is not doctor
       | attitudes, but cultural attitudes towards death. It's something a
       | lot of Americans avoid talking about, avoid thinking about. My
       | mom was a fighter, but because she had run an adult foster care
       | home with an elderly wing, she was was also a realist. She had a
       | DNR on file and we had all talked about what we wanted years
       | before she got sick. We knew she wanted as much of a good life as
       | possible, and then she wanted to be done. So when the neuro-
       | oncologist said we couldn't do any more, that was it, and we
       | transitioned to hospice. But from what I understand, that's not
       | the common reaction. I hear stories from friends of dying
       | patients dragged through all sorts of unwanted treatment because
       | the adult children of the patient are unable to deal with their
       | emotions enough to honor the patient's wishes, tend to the
       | patient's needs.
       | 
       | So I ask everybody to talk with your family about what you each
       | want. One framework I've used is Five Wishes, which has forms you
       | fill out and material to help a family discussion along:
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five_Wishes
       | 
       | https://www.fivewishes.org/for-myself/
       | 
       | This is the most important thing you can do to minimize
       | overtreatment: talk about it with family and get something
       | written down. That way when the doctor turns to you and asks what
       | the patient wants, you can answer with confidence.
        
         | Waterluvian wrote:
         | > Get something written down.
         | 
         | Important advice.
         | 
         | I think it's also true the other way. Write down what doctors
         | say. Far too often what doctors said and what people heard or
         | can recall do not line up. That's just human nature.
         | 
         | A physician friend of mine prints out what she is going to say
         | in serious moments and then hands it over after the
         | conversation. She said this was because of how many times, "in
         | cases like this, the x year survival is y percent" being later
         | repeated as "doctor said Z only had x years to live."
        
           | wpietri wrote:
           | Yes, definitely. And it shouldn't be the patient doing the
           | writing! Having somebody less involved to take notes can be
           | super helpful.
           | 
           | And yes, physicians should absolutely write things down too.
           | Once I went in for surgery and after I woke up both the
           | surgeon and the anesthesiologist talked with me and told me
           | important things. Hours later, I only remembered scattered
           | phrases, with my clearest memory being me saying I didn't
           | think I was in shape to talk then. Happily, some of what they
           | said was written down. But not all of it!
        
         | crispyambulance wrote:
         | Yes, this stuff needs to be discussed by every family, at
         | length, and years before stuff starts to happen. I have not
         | heard of 5 wishes before now, but my family had health-care
         | directives as well as power-of-attorney written up by a law
         | firm that specializes in elder law. This was super valuable.
         | There are also serious financial implications for families who
         | end up with someone in a nursing home.
         | 
         | "End-of-life" gets really complicated and bureaucratic at one
         | of the most stressful and challenging times for families. It's
         | really important to plan ahead for this time, in advance, when
         | everyone is thinking clearly and rationally.
        
         | chucksmash wrote:
         | I'd tend to put myself into the other camp, that doctors tend
         | to be too slow to reach for palliative care options, but your
         | comment is thought provoking. A lot of my thoughts on this were
         | shaped by Atul Gawande's 2014 book on the topic of end of life
         | care and the suffering that can arise from never "giving up."
         | Your anecdote about feeling the doctors were too quick to
         | suggest palliative care makes me wonder if it was the exception
         | or if the pendulum is now swinging the other way. I'd say the
         | viewpoint of the article is pretty in line with Gawande's as
         | well.
         | 
         | > Should we minimize the suffering when there's no hope?
         | Definitely. But not until that point unless the patient clearly
         | chooses otherwise.
         | 
         | There are so many things to weigh here, I can't imagine having
         | to help other people make this choice. How do you decide when
         | there is no hope? When literally every possibility has been
         | exhausted? How do you decide when the hope that remains is
         | likely outweighed by the suffering that will be endured to
         | achieve it? What is an appropriate amount of suffering for a 1
         | in 4 chance of a few more good years, or a 1 in 10 chance, or a
         | 1 in 25 chance? What is the break even point in terms of
         | quality of life where it's better to have a gradual decline at
         | home and then in hospice rather than spending the only months
         | or years you have left under a battery of treatments to buy the
         | lottery ticket that you might come out well-ish in the other
         | side?
        
           | wpietri wrote:
           | > other camp, that doctors tend to be too slow to reach for
           | palliative care options
           | 
           | I don't see a need for camps here. Both can be true! Some
           | people can get over-treated. Some people can get under-
           | treated. These are both problems that we should fix.
           | 
           | > I can't imagine having to help other people make this
           | choice
           | 
           | These are inevitably personal decisions. There are few wrong
           | choices, and often few good ones. In my limited experience,
           | the doctors who specialize in these sorts of thing are pretty
           | good at helping with that choice. They explain the options,
           | say what they can about the odds, and then let the patients
           | and their families decide.
           | 
           | Which is why it's crucial that families talk about these
           | questions before it matters. We need to understand our loved
           | ones' preferences and views, and they need to understand
           | ours. Because once it comes to it, at best it will be a very
           | fraught and difficult time. And at worst, the patient may not
           | be in any state to answer the questions.
        
         | oneoff786 wrote:
         | Your first point implies it's a situation of giving up and
         | dying vs. trying not to die.
         | 
         | But it ignores the view that that act of trying not to die
         | might make the remainder of your life much worse.
        
           | Animatronio wrote:
           | There's also the chance that your life could be saved and
           | your health restored, TBF.
        
             | oneoff786 wrote:
             | Sure. But we ought not characterize doctors as "giving up"
             | if they come to a conclusion that it would be better for
             | the patient to pursue a path that shortens expected life
             | span but increases quality life span.
        
               | wpietri wrote:
               | That is a conclusion that doctors should certainly
               | express if it is a well-informed and well-considered one.
               | Which is what our neuro-ongologist did at the right time.
               | 
               | But we had one doctor give us the "time to let go" speech
               | because he had confused a "grade 4" astrocytoma with a
               | generic "stage 4" cancer. He wasn't my mom's oncologist.
               | He wasn't an ongologist _at all_. He was an arrogant
               | idiot.
               | 
               | And then there were the doctors, also not oncologists and
               | who had not spoken with my mom about her preferences, who
               | did not see the point in properly treating secondary
               | symptoms in somebody who was trying for the extra months
               | her oncologist thought was possible. Those doctors can
               | also go fuck themselves.
               | 
               | It is those doctors that I am thinking of when I talk
               | about under-treatment.
        
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