[HN Gopher] Self-control secrets of the Puritan masters
       ___________________________________________________________________
        
       Self-control secrets of the Puritan masters
        
       Author : dash2
       Score  : 109 points
       Date   : 2022-09-25 11:31 UTC (11 hours ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (wyclif.substack.com)
 (TXT) w3m dump (wyclif.substack.com)
        
       | otikik wrote:
       | Master bath ion.
        
       | seizethecheese wrote:
       | I enjoy reading old texts on how to live. Recommendation:
       | Epictetus' Discourses.
       | 
       | This article was interesting enough but I couldn't find any of
       | the cited texts online. Is anyone aware or examples that you can
       | actually access?
        
       | api wrote:
       | I'm starting to think the Diamond Age by Neil Stephenson may end
       | up being prophetic. In a culture overloaded with things trying to
       | addict you, Puritanism becomes in fact an act of protest and
       | transgression.
        
         | MomoXenosaga wrote:
         | The 17th century is what Dutch refer to as "the golden
         | century".
         | 
         | It was an age in which modern capitalism and banking was
         | invented, religious tolerance was practiced and everyone was
         | spending money like "the great Gatsby" on paintings and exotic
         | food. It was a remarkably "un-Puritan" age. What was preached
         | was rarely practiced. There's a reason why Puritans sought a
         | new home.
        
         | tsol wrote:
         | I mean I grew up leftist, punk rocker, etc and all my formerly
         | niche opinions are now in the mainstream. On the other hand, I
         | also grew up Muslim and I can say that being a practicing
         | Muslim right now can feel very counter- cultural. Dealing with
         | constantly waves of anti- religious criticism from
         | atheists(which for some reason liberals seem okay with, so I
         | have to deal with this everywhere online), views that the
         | government doesn't approve of in their current idea of what is
         | acceptable, fighting to make me and my communities voice heard
         | when neither party in power is really interested in listening
         | to our complaints-- this all feels very rebellious to me as
         | someone who grew up rebelling. I'm not even interested in
         | rebelling anymore, but at this point the system does not even
         | try to represent us.
        
           | steveBK123 wrote:
           | Yes, we seem to have reached a point that being
           | discriminatory against religion, a persons looks or being
           | lower class are the few traits that are somehow still
           | fashionable despite everything else being a cause for
           | censorship, loss of employment, lawsuit or prosecution.
           | 
           | Note, to front-run the typical knee-jerk reaction: I do not
           | believe the religious are in some way actually oppressed, but
           | that those most on the left who scream of oppression
           | everywhere are extremely comfortable with making snide
           | remarks on religion (and class, provided its white people).
           | 
           | Ironically this runs up against the preferences of the people
           | the left wishes to keep inside their political tent - they
           | are almost universally more religious on average than white
           | people.
        
             | dan_mctree wrote:
             | > I do not believe the religious are in some way actually
             | oppressed
             | 
             | Aren't they? Sure, western religious oppression is not
             | violent and nothing compared to what happens in say Iran.
             | But there are many circles where coming out as religious is
             | a terrible idea and religious people feel it and end up
             | self-suppressing and hiding their identity. Who wants to be
             | known as the Christian when the world has decided they are
             | idiots at best or villains at worst? You never quite know
             | when it's safe to open up and when you could face sudden
             | social exclusion, bullying, internet mobs, career impacts,
             | etc.
             | 
             | If this comment were under my real name I'm not sure I'd
             | have dared type it with the way the winds are blowing. Even
             | with anonymity, it's giving me pause whether it's really a
             | good idea.
        
               | steveBK123 wrote:
               | I say this as a Christian who doesn't go to church much
               | since COVID but used to go more weeks than not.
               | 
               | I would argue the idea that in the US religion is in any
               | way actually oppressed is more vibes than reality. But
               | vibes matter for votes if your party is the one seen to
               | be against religion.
               | 
               | Remember that one of the two major US parties is
               | basically the pro-theocracy party. The SCOTUS appointees
               | by the former guy follow with that theme, of trying to
               | impose a specific religions morality upon the nation,
               | etc. So I think it's hard to say.
        
               | socraticmethod wrote:
               | > Who wants to be known as the Christian
               | 
               | Christians do; many quite vocally, even aggressively.
               | Thus the pushback.
        
               | steveBK123 wrote:
               | Some, sure. No different than some vegans, atheists, DJT
               | voters and Jets fans.
        
               | selfhoster11 wrote:
               | "Christians" do, sure. But not all of us behave like
               | that, or want others to behave like that. This is
               | especially true outside the US, where a huge chunk of the
               | Christian community is watching the US situation with
               | concern.
        
               | trasz wrote:
               | I don't remember hearing about, say, Buddhists having to
               | hide their religiosity.
               | 
               | There is opposition about certain specific religions,
               | which come from the fact those religions were, and often
               | still are, hostile towards other people. An example would
               | be Catholic homophobia and misogyny.
               | 
               | tl;dr in the western world the "oppression against
               | religion" is actually opposition against social
               | pathologies promoted by certain religions
        
               | selfhoster11 wrote:
               | Buddhism had its share of violence too, IIRC.
        
               | taeric wrote:
               | I didn't think this needed a past tense?
        
               | trasz wrote:
               | Of course, and you will find cases of opposition to it in
               | eg Tibet; on the other hand the negative aspects of
               | Catholicism might be relatively unknown there.
        
             | tsol wrote:
             | >I do not believe the religious are in some way actually
             | oppressed
             | 
             | Then again, there are western countries where women cannot
             | control what parts of their body they reveal in government
             | jobs. They have to show their hair-- Muslim women cannot
             | wear a hijab. The problem is when discussions about
             | religion come up people don't think about the experiences
             | of most of the other religions in the world, they default
             | to whatever branches of Christianity exist around them.
             | 
             | >Ironically this runs up against the preferences of the
             | people the left wishes to keep inside their political tent
             | - they are almost universally more religious on average
             | than white people.
             | 
             | Yes. And while I generally support the democrats more, I as
             | a minority feel they are going to run into big problems if
             | they continue the way they do. Allowing the anti-religious
             | sentiments will push away a lot of people that currently
             | make up their base. Whether you like religion or not, it's
             | a bad strategy.
        
             | mindslight wrote:
             | Personally, we should all aim to be tolerant of others'
             | paradigms. Religions are really just heuristics for how to
             | live, including being sources of comfort based on the idea
             | there is some larger purpose. And aggressively shitting on
             | someone's belief system in passing conversation is a
             | terribly unkind thing to do.
             | 
             | But societally, religion has been used to keep people down
             | for millennia. It continues to drastically fuck up our
             | political environment, like the recent attempts of
             | prohibiting basic medical care. Religion's proper place is
             | that of personal belief system, not as a Schelling point to
             | rally around for oppressing others. Until its malevolent
             | societal power has been neutered, it's not terribly
             | surprising that many of those of us on the receiving end
             | will overreact.
             | 
             | Also for what it's worth, the rabid atheist seems to be a
             | less frequent real-world occurrence than the religious
             | person who won't stop mentioning the concept of god.
        
         | trasz wrote:
         | Until you realize puritanism is just another addiction.
        
       | swayvil wrote:
       | There's a world of difference between "look within yourself" and
       | "believe this authoritative stuff about what lays within
       | yourself".
       | 
       | Just like today, 99.99% did the latter. Trusting the narrative of
       | the hour, conforming to the hivemind, etc. That's people for you.
       | 
       | And all this fine discipline and self-control was guided by this
       | broken perspective.
       | 
       | Like a fine Lamborghini driven into a tree by a drunk. Don't
       | blame the Lamborghini, blame the drunk.
        
       | thrown_22 wrote:
       | I wonder if in coming decades people will look at stable
       | diffusion as the worst of corporate art.
       | 
       | Skeuomorphism at least looked attractive if incredibly gaudy,
       | this is just terrible.
        
       | teddyh wrote:
       | Warning: "Art by Stable Diffusion".
       | 
       | (I read the whole article assuming that the images were real
       | historical images, until I saw the last image, which was
       | obviously generated.)
       | 
       | I feel somewhat decieved. If you're going to use fake images, why
       | not go all the way and generate the whole article text as well?
        
         | dash2 wrote:
         | It says Art by Stable Diffusion on the first image. There are
         | few real historical images of Puritans meditating, levitating
         | and doing yoga!
        
           | rgrieselhuber wrote:
           | Indeed and you can tell just by looking at the second image
           | that it is not authentic yoga, the spinal alignment is
           | completely off.
        
           | _Algernon_ wrote:
           | In tiny, low contrast text. Easy to miss.
        
           | mylons wrote:
           | lol. i haven't read the blog yet, but were puritans actually
           | doing yoga?!
        
         | starkd wrote:
         | What a way to focus on irrelevant details. Is this person a
         | little bit autistic?
        
         | DennisP wrote:
         | Warning: modern artists are perfectly capable of making
         | illustrations like that even without the assistance of fancy
         | AI.
        
         | anothernewdude wrote:
         | Those fooled you? They're terrible.
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | I skimmed the images, and the initial images were woodcut-
           | style, and not very obviously fake. Only the last one was
           | styled like an engraving, and was much more obvious.
        
       | rgrieselhuber wrote:
       | From what I've read, of all the post-Reformation Christian
       | denominations in the West, the Puritans seemed the closest to
       | Orthodox Christianity, not necessarily in every dogmatic
       | theological detail but in their approach to repentance as self-
       | knowledge and taking an active role in improving the state of
       | their soul. The sola fide notion that came out of the Reformation
       | has resulted in a "set it and forget it" set of beliefs where it
       | is hard to see much in the way of self-control or self-knowledge.
        
         | _emacsomancer_ wrote:
         | > their approach to repentance as self-knowledge and taking an
         | active role in improving the state of their soul
         | 
         | I find this suggestion very hard to square with the prominence
         | of Predestination in Puritan theology.
        
           | rgrieselhuber wrote:
           | There were / are many theological concepts in the West that
           | diverge from what the early Church taught due to the Schism
           | of Rome, so I view some of that as symptoms of working within
           | a broken chain of knowledge to begin with, but I do agree
           | that the idea of Predestination as rigidly defined within
           | Calvinist tradition undermines the notions of free will both
           | of humans and of the Creator Himself.
           | 
           | That being said, of all the Western Churches, it was the
           | Puritans (specifically John Winthrop) who had the
           | intelligence and courage to secure the Massachusetts Charter
           | from King Charles I, providing both the intellectual and
           | legal basis for liberty from the Continental monarchies.
        
         | rpmisms wrote:
         | I am Orthodox, but it isn't limited to Orthodox thought. A
         | common way by which people come to Orthodoxy is through
         | Buddhism or related easter mysticism, and then realize that
         | Christian thinking combined with true mysticism is the way for
         | them.
         | 
         | Self-knowledge is really the core of a good life, and I'll
         | happily die on that hill.
        
           | rgrieselhuber wrote:
           | Indeed, Fr. Seraphim Rose is a great modern example of this
           | exact process. His essay on Nihilism is like reading the last
           | few centuries in reverse order.
        
       | jkcorrea wrote:
       | "make conscience of the idle rovings of our braines" and
       | "enter... those darke closets of thy heart"
       | 
       | I've been battling a few addictions recently. None so severe that
       | they impacted my health or relationships in any major way, and so
       | I lived with these habits very functionally for most of my adult
       | life.
       | 
       | It's incredible the kind of grip a habit can have on you. Despite
       | how much I tried to change, that grip only grew tighter. It
       | wasn't until I joined a 12 step program and met people who were
       | like me that I started the process of unwinding. Making
       | conscience every thought that led to my negative behaviors was
       | the first step. The next giant hurdle was de-identifying with
       | those thoughts and behaviors, which for me was probably the
       | hardest part.
       | 
       | Probably the best tool for me right now is like the quote says,
       | to just really examine your thoughts and honestly tell yourself
       | why you're having the craving/urge. If you can really be honest
       | about it and recognize your addiction is only going to make the
       | situation worse, I find you can start to "dampen" the craving. It
       | suddenly isn't as appealing.
       | 
       | It's not easy though, for every time I can successfully
       | introspect and tell myself an honest, hard truth, there's 10
       | times I tell a self-lie and let myself believe it simply because
       | to know otherwise would be too big a burden to bear in that
       | moment
       | 
       | I didn't last long in the 12 step program, maybe it's not exactly
       | for me. But a lot of what's talked about in this article is also
       | part of 12 step: self-awareness, daily journaling and gratitude,
       | spiritualizing others, having a community to go through the
       | process with, etc. Even though I didn't continue with it, the few
       | meetings I attended were honestly life changing and I highly
       | recommend anyone who thinks they may have an addiction problem
       | (pro tip: if you arent sure but a specific behavior came to mind,
       | you probably do) to try one out. There's plenty for all kinds of
       | addictions, turns out you're not alone
        
       | MomoXenosaga wrote:
       | I prefer self-control to government legislation or peer pressure.
       | 
       | There was an article here on HN about a spying app that lets your
       | church community make sure you're not watching porn. So bizarre.
       | Either you believe in what you're doing or you don't.
        
         | drdeca wrote:
         | Is the reason you view it that way due to having anti-anti-porn
         | sentiments?
         | 
         | Suppose instead of a app where a church community can see
         | whether the person who has installed the application has viewed
         | pornography, you instead consider someone who has suffered from
         | alcoholism and is trying to stay away from alcohol, and wishes
         | to be held accountable to others for their decisions.
         | 
         | (Now, of course, one difference between these scenarios is that
         | alcoholism is like, a medical condition? but the analogy is
         | about the type of intervention, not saying that the two
         | scenarios exactly correspond.)
         | 
         | What one might call a "revealed preference" might not be a
         | preference that the person who has it, endorses.
         | 
         | Suppose someone is finding that they keep distracting themself
         | with some diversion (perhaps a videogame) when the course of
         | action they endorse for themself is to complete some other task
         | first. They might turn to their friend, hand them the (e.g.)
         | video game console or whatever, and tell their friend to hold
         | on to it until they've demonstrated to the friend that they've
         | accomplished the task.
         | 
         | Of course, if someone doesn't choose such an arrangement, and
         | it is foisted on them by others, then that can be more
         | questionable,
         | 
         | but the general mechanism of using others, and the judgement of
         | others, to guide one's actions towards what one wants one's
         | future actions to be like, is legitimate, and can be useful.
        
       | neither_color wrote:
       | _There's an explosion of new movements and techniques to fight
       | procrastination, from Pomodoro (which gives you timed breaks when
       | your tomato-shaped kitchen timer runs out) to self-help books and
       | subreddits..._
       | 
       | The highlight of my early 20s was embracing the hedonism
       | treadmill as a rejection of "imposed morals", only to spend
       | countless hours trying tons of self help books and listening to
       | podcasts about discipline and grit and motivation and positive
       | thinking, etc.
       | 
       | At some point, no matter which path you take, you'll find good
       | secular justification for limiting your exposure to toxic people
       | in life and limiting your swearing to improve your vocabulary and
       | avoiding processed food, short term hookups, sleeping well,
       | helping others, meditating, saying affirmations, thinking
       | positively(using faith to counteract "rational evidence" that
       | something will fail or wont work) and so on.
       | 
       | You're following so many rules (self developed through experience
       | and knowledge) that it gives you more appreciation for how the
       | different religions were themselves using heuristics developed
       | over thousands of years of trial and error to give you an optimal
       | set of rules that would more than likely produce the best outcome
       | for your life, given the environmental constraints and lack of
       | scientific knowledge at the time. It was not simply "sky daddy
       | made rulebook"
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | alexvoda wrote:
         | However, the environmental constraints change and the amount of
         | scientific knowledge also changes(and hopefully improves) over
         | time.
         | 
         | Therefore the heuristics turned into rule book will inevitably
         | become harmful eventually.
         | 
         | Also keep in mind that the rulebooks did not produce anything
         | close to any ideal personal outcome. They always produced the
         | ideal societal outcome that would preserve the existing
         | structure of society. If said structure meant you were
         | inherently harmed, your personal ideal was subordinated to
         | that.
        
         | steveBK123 wrote:
         | Your response reminds me of the quote: "Tradition is a set of
         | solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away
         | the solution and you get the problem back. Sometimes the
         | problem has mutated or disappeared. Often it is still there as
         | strong as it ever was." -- Donald Kingsbury
         | 
         | Watching our politics speed-run the 60s-80s again reminds me of
         | this every day. Hopefully we hit the 90s soon, those were
         | pretty rad.
        
           | hcrisp wrote:
           | Reminds me of another quote: "Tradition is the living faith
           | of the dead; traditionalism is the dead faith of the living."
           | -- Jaroslav Pelikan (per the web)
        
           | darkteflon wrote:
           | Indeed, reminded me of this article from a few years back,
           | which left quite the impression: https://scholars-
           | stage.org/tradition-is-smarter-than-you-are...
        
             | rakejake wrote:
             | Fantastic article. Thanks for sharing.
        
             | steveBK123 wrote:
             | Another interesting read with some ideological bends I
             | can't completely buy into is Rob Henderson & his writing on
             | "Luxury Beliefs".
             | 
             | Basically the concept you may notice if you are in HCOL
             | blue urban elite circles..
             | 
             | Well to do left of center people who espouse discouragement
             | of / being against many traditional concepts (monogamy, two
             | parent households, kids after marriage, strict discipline,
             | follow the law, being drug-free, going to college for a
             | career, etc) .. but largely actually follow it and is how
             | they / their parents got where they are.
             | 
             | And either way they have the means to not be effected by
             | the negative effects of this non-traditionalism.
             | 
             | However if you are middle/lower class and follow the same
             | non-traditional path, the personal costs to you & your
             | offspring of frequent drug use, being a single parent, etc
             | are almost insurmountable and are some of the leading
             | causes of generational poverty.
             | 
             | That is - it is easy to say "hard work doesn't pay off, do
             | drugs, break the law, and free love" when you are going
             | from an elite (fully paid for by parents) university campus
             | to start your career & live in NYC/SF/LA/Boston (with
             | college & parents helping you with job connections, and
             | parents helping underwrite your housing until you get on
             | your feet). For them the worst cost of failure is moving
             | back with mom&dad to their comfortable leafy suburb.
        
               | SamBam wrote:
               | > discouragement of / being against...
               | 
               | I know lots of liberal elites, and don't know any who are
               | actually _against_ two parent households, kids after
               | marriage, following the law, being drug-free, going to
               | college for a career, etc
               | 
               | This is a ridiculous assertion.
               | 
               | But I know many of these same people who believe in not
               | judging those who do not follow all of these ideals, and
               | want systems in place that support, say, single mothers
               | or whatever.
               | 
               | This is very different.
        
               | steveBK123 wrote:
               | A fair critique I would probably rephrase it as
               | "questioning the value of" rather than "discouraging /
               | being against" x traditional values.
               | 
               | And yes, as these people age/mature it usually morphs
               | more into - we should be much more supportive with
               | systems in place to help single mothers, etc.
               | 
               | Unfortunately there's limits to what the state can do to
               | replace family, and there are good reasons to encourage
               | people to not fall for the same pitfalls that trap them
               | into cycles of poverty, no matter how much the state does
               | to make that poverty less painful.
        
           | JJMcJ wrote:
           | In the same way, N. N. Taleb talks of the wisdom of
           | grandmothers. All the old sayings represent hard earned
           | knowledge.
           | 
           | Some traditions are based on superstition, but certainly not
           | all of them.
        
           | lolinder wrote:
           | This draws on Chesterton's perspective on tradition. He's
           | most famous around here for his Fence. Past the part that is
           | commonly cited, he says this [0]:
           | 
           | > The gate or fence did not grow there. It was not set up by
           | somnambulists who built it in their sleep. It is highly
           | improbable that it was put there by escaped lunatics who were
           | for some reason loose in the street. Some person had some
           | reason for thinking it would be a good thing for somebody.
           | And until we know what the reason was, we really cannot judge
           | whether the reason was reasonable.
           | 
           | > ...
           | 
           | > If he knows how it arose, and what purposes it was supposed
           | to serve, he may really be able to say that they were bad
           | purposes, or that they have since become bad purposes, or
           | that they are purposes which are no longer served. But if he
           | simply stares at the thing as a senseless monstrosity that
           | has somehow sprung up in his path, it is he and not the
           | traditionalist who is suffering from an illusion.
           | 
           | [0] https://archive.org/stream/G.K.ChestertonTheThing/G.K.Che
           | ste...
        
             | endemic wrote:
             | Very applicable to programming as well.
        
             | SamBam wrote:
             | Often those traditions may have important, forgotten
             | reasons, but just as often traditions were created to say
             | "we are our people, we're not those other folk."
             | 
             | See: dietary laws, circumcision, restrictions on what
             | materials your clothes may be made out of, rules for what
             | hair you're allowed to cut, and when you should or
             | shouldn't cover your head, etc. etc.
             | 
             | (And before people jump in with "maybe there was a specific
             | reason for the dietary laws, e.g. pork was unhealthy," that
             | doesn't explain why you'd have peoples living side-by-side
             | with opposing dietary laws.)
        
               | pyuser583 wrote:
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | I agree, and Chesterton agrees. He's very explicit in
               | saying that if you can accurately identify the reason a
               | fence is there and that reason is no longer applicable or
               | was never a very good one, you are justified in removing
               | it. The point isn't to never tear down a fence, it's to
               | question your impulse to tear down _every_ fence the
               | instant you see one.
               | 
               | It's very much the same idea as "don't start ripping out
               | and refactoring 'legacy' code on your first day on the
               | job." You may actually have inherited a completely
               | garbage code base, but you may also simply not understand
               | the constraints that dictated the architecture you've
               | been given. Once you understand those constraints,
               | refactor away!
               | 
               | With regards to your example: Dietary laws may well be
               | outdated, but modern Jews may also argue that setting
               | themselves apart is still a very worthwhile reason to
               | avoid pork--it's probably part of the reason why they
               | managed to remain a separate culture even without a
               | proper homeland, and remaining a distinct culture is
               | valuable to them.
        
               | freahsteaksauce wrote:
               | What kind of fence is it when you think you know why the
               | fence is there but you're obviously wrong?
        
               | lazide wrote:
               | It does explain how you would have people living side by
               | side, if you look at how people tend to work.
               | 
               | Take cigarettes for instance. We know they're unhealthy.
               | There are also still millions (hundreds?) smoking them
               | every day.
               | 
               | People give up and fall into habits unless there is
               | strong reinforcement. If you get a parasite and have no
               | way to get rid of it (because of lack of modern medicine)
               | because you ate pork, not like you're going to stop
               | eating pork necessarily any more. Especially if it's
               | cheap in your area.
               | 
               | If there is another group of people who manages to not
               | have those issues because they don't eat pork - they're
               | going to keep not eating it after seeing that too!
        
         | thih9 wrote:
         | > heuristics developed over thousands of years of trial and
         | error to give you an optimal set of rules that would more than
         | likely produce the best outcome for your life
         | 
         | Unless you're cherry picking rules from the set, the outcome
         | would be far from best.
         | 
         | My point is that thousands of years of trial and error may
         | include some valuable insight but also some pretty outdated
         | approaches.
        
           | lolinder wrote:
           | The question isn't if we've reached a global maximum (we
           | obviously haven't) it's if _we_ can do better than thousands
           | of years of trial and error?
           | 
           | I can see the rationale for taking tradition as a baseline
           | and tweaking it to better fit modern times. That's what every
           | generation has done. The direction many of us are heading,
           | however, is to assume that tradition is all bogus and we can
           | do better today with just the scientific method.
           | 
           | I hope if the replication crisis in psychology has taught us
           | anything it's that science applied to people is still in its
           | infancy and we are not yet at a place where we can entirely
           | discard the wisdom of our ancestors.
        
             | thih9 wrote:
             | > The question isn't if we've reached a global maximum
             | 
             | On the contrary; top level comment said "rules that would
             | more than likely produce the best outcome for your life". I
             | disagreed.
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | "The best outcome" doesn't mean the best life
               | theoretically possible, it means the best life you can
               | achieve for yourself in the life that you have. You do
               | not have access to infinite information about how to live
               | a good life. You have access to a limited amount of
               | knowledge gained scientifically, an even more limited
               | amount of your personal lived experience, and a vast
               | trove of traditional wisdom. Given that limited
               | knowledge, OP asserts that the best outcomes are achieved
               | by paying heed to traditional wisdom.
               | 
               | There are certainly better ways to live than the ones
               | handed down to us over millennia, and I think we _ought_
               | to fine-tune what we 've been given and learn from other
               | cultures' traditions. But discarding _everything_ our
               | ancestors have given us because we think we know better
               | is sheer arrogance.
        
         | BigHatLogan wrote:
         | Beautifully said. It strikes me as incredibly arrogant and
         | condescending that so-called rational, educated people today
         | will gleefully throw out centuries (if not millennia) of
         | knowledge because they (justifiably) take issues with some of
         | it. Throwing the baby out with the bathwater comes to mind. I'm
         | not particularly religious, but there have always been aspects
         | of religion that I've admired and aspects that I've disliked.
         | 
         | Your local Crossfit gym and book club, I promise you, are not
         | adequate replacements for traditional recurring weekly
         | gatherings, where it's normal (and expected!) to share what's
         | on your mind, what's troubling you, what you are grieving over,
         | what you are celebrating, etc. I've found that the quality of
         | discourse here is much higher than the standard, "Did you watch
         | Succession last week?", surface-level discourse at many of
         | these alleged replacements.
         | 
         | And then, like you mentioned, they embark on a decades-long
         | quest, only to end up at more or less the place they would've
         | ended up otherwise. Or they find themselves completely lost and
         | wayward.
         | 
         | I don't have a prescription here, but complete rejection of
         | something seems almost as dull and narrow-minded as total
         | dogmatic acceptance of it.
        
           | xabotage wrote:
           | You're looking at weekly religious gatherings through rose-
           | colored lenses. A crossfit gym membership and book club could
           | very well produce a far healthier local community than a
           | church. Religion does not have a monopoly on the variables
           | that attract healthy, thoughtful, intelligent people (in
           | fact, trends in the US suggest quite the opposite).
        
       | aliasxneo wrote:
       | I appreciate the content provided, but I'm a bit confused about
       | who the target audience is in this piece. The methodologies
       | employed by the Puritans in regard to soul care were dependent on
       | accepting the fact that Christ is alive and active in us, working
       | through His Spirit. Attempting these techniques from a purely
       | secular standpoint is likely to not result in much value.
       | 
       | "Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not as in my
       | presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own
       | salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who works in you
       | both to will and to do for His good pleasure." (Phil 2:12-13)
        
         | tluyben2 wrote:
         | I read it as history, as I see anything religious; interesting
         | folklore and history.
        
           | aliasxneo wrote:
           | That makes sense, but I didn't see the thrust of the article
           | as a history lesson, it seemed to be recommending Puritan
           | methodologies outside of their religious context.
        
             | [deleted]
        
       | KaiserPro wrote:
       | I think drawing inspiration on temperance from "puritans" based
       | on their own writings is possible only going to tell you how they
       | wanted to be perceived.
       | 
       | "puritanism" and thats a wide term isn't overly specific. the
       | mayflower lot were "the Leiden congregation" or something
       | similar. You can see the range of opinion here:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/English_Dissenters#/media/File...
       | 
       | Also, as the colonies that were founded on religion were based on
       | social regulation, by people reporting, or falling out with
       | others for not following convention.
       | 
       | in short, its more playground than useable self discipline
       | example.
        
       | 6stringmerc wrote:
       | Conspicuously Absent:
       | 
       | The Puritan method of avoiding temptation by invading neighboring
       | communities that did not share their austere and guilt-riddled
       | lifestyle choice, driving them from their homes, taking them
       | prisoner, and/or outright murder in the name of their self-
       | proclaimed righteousness.
       | 
       | There's a reason they got chased out of wherever they showed
       | up...history should rightfully remember them as a bunch of self-
       | important no-fun assclowns.
        
         | Ntrails wrote:
         | > history should rightfully remember them as a bunch of self-
         | important no-fun assclowns.
         | 
         | Let us all remember everyone as only their worst things, and
         | learn nothing from their best eh?
        
         | swayvil wrote:
         | That's a bit of a caricature.
         | 
         | Surely they did what was only right and necessary. Put their
         | faith in good authorities and sensible arguments.
         | 
         | Just like us.
        
         | starkd wrote:
         | This completely misses the point. It's almost like you didn't
         | even read the article. He makes clear they were by no means
         | perfect, nor did they genuinely see themselves that way. Where
         | the Buddhists' self-reflection was to accept reality, the
         | puritans strove to change the self. This doesn't mean they all
         | succeeded. You just want to denounce everyone else as imperfect
         | (which is easy to do). You might try the Puritans' advice and
         | look at your own failings first.
        
         | dash2 wrote:
         | I assume you are thinking of America, but what makes you think
         | that's to do with Puritanism? Catholics did very much the same
         | in the Americas. In fact, didn't people of all religions,
         | including Native Americans, often fight with and attack their
         | neighbours, throughout human history?
        
           | thisiscorrect wrote:
           | The Puritans were especially strident in imposing their
           | beliefs though. Their concept of collective salvation meant
           | they'd brook no dissent at all. And so _anyone_ not toeing
           | the line was treated as a mortal threat and could be subject
           | to immense cruelty.
           | 
           | Interestingly, many descendants of these Puritans are still
           | just as willing to impose their own religious beliefs on the
           | rest of humanity. Although some details of the religion are
           | vastly different, its rough shape is still the same (humanity
           | can be remade and perfected, everyone must join in this
           | endeavor or we're all lost, rejection of hierarchy, etc.) I'd
           | wager this is even the source of many of the moral conceipts
           | we see in America's foreign policy. Every farflung tribe on
           | Earth must organize a government the way we organize ours.
           | Every society must tolerate the same beliefs that we do, and
           | also not tolerate the same things that we do not.
        
             | dash2 wrote:
             | I don't think they had a concept of _collective_ salvation.
             | They were very clear that salvation was individual, and
             | that even people who thought they were saved, and who
             | everyone around them thought was saved, might not be. I
             | think you 're right that they were strict about imposing
             | their beliefs, at least in C17 New England, but I am not
             | sure that relates much to their foreign policy wrt the
             | Indian tribes. But I will defer to someone who knows more.
        
               | thisiscorrect wrote:
               | A very accessible book which discusses exactly the
               | intersection of Puritan beliefs and their treatment of
               | American Indians is "American Nations" (https://www.googl
               | e.com/books/edition/American_Nations/Oc5VDw...).
               | 
               | https://www.chronicle.com/article/patriotism-and-the-
               | puritan... is an essay on a related topic.
        
         | Ensorceled wrote:
         | I was thinking also of this:
         | 
         | > If life coaches make their living by pushing us to do what we
         | know we ought to, for a Puritan, the whole community of
         | brethren was the coach.
         | 
         | Has this person even heard of "The Scarlet Letter"? Or know
         | anything about Puritans using stocks, whips or brands on
         | sinners? Or mutilating them by cutting off ears or boring holes
         | in their tongues.
         | 
         | When I think of "life coach" I don't envision someone branding
         | me or cutting off an ear if I don't meet this weeks "life goal"
        
           | starkd wrote:
           | Oh, c'mon. Everyone knows there's more depth to history than
           | the common populist version. As a group, most humans fail
           | miserably. At any time in history, this is is so. This
           | doesn't mean individual's from any era have nothing to offer
           | in terms of understanding ourselves. You might try broadening
           | your reading list beyond the high school approved reading
           | list.
        
         | jkepler wrote:
         | Actually, the Puritans left England for Holland because they
         | were at the receiving end of violent imprisonment for holding
         | religious convictions that differed with the Anglican church
         | and authorities. Then they left the Netherlands because they
         | felt that their children were becoming too Dutch.
         | 
         | After the Puritans founded Plymouth Bay colony, they let
         | William Rogers (if I have his name correct) leave when he
         | disagreed with them, and he went and founded Rhode Island...
         | where he eventually excommunicated his own wife (so maybe he
         | just had issues getting on with folks).
         | 
         | So I'm not sure what episodes of violently attacking neighbors
         | you're speaking of.
         | 
         | Additionally, according to American feminist history researcher
         | Mardi Keyes in a lecture I heard years ago, Puritan New England
         | was the first society in the world where legally women had the
         | full right to bring divorce suites in cases of abuse,
         | infidelity, or neglect; 50% of the cases were brought by women
         | (she said if you look of the court records one can see this
         | evidence) and it was the closeness of their communities that
         | enabled neighbors and friends to provide testimonial evidence,
         | which often enabled women to leave dreadful marriages. This
         | stands in stark contrast to the pejorative caricaturing of
         | Puritans as anti-women.
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | We are free to pick and choose what we think is worth
         | preserving or adopting.
        
           | aliasxneo wrote:
           | I've read a majority of the Puritan works available to us (at
           | least a couple of dozen), and while I don't necessarily agree
           | with them on all points theologically, they certainly
           | perfected the art of soul care. In particular, Richard Sibbes
           | is poetic in the way he addresses brokenheartedness (his
           | work, The Broken Reed, probably sits at the apex of this).
           | 
           | They also had a significantly higher view of pastoral care,
           | one that I wish had not been lost in our modern age. I try to
           | read the Reformed Pastor at least once every few years as a
           | reminder (contrary to popular belief, this has nothing to do
           | with reformed theology).
        
             | starkd wrote:
             | Also contrary to popular belief, it was not that the
             | Puritans genuinely thought themselves to be better than
             | everyone else. Their writing indicate they were all too
             | acutely aware of their sinfulness. They knew of the
             | difficulties in steering clear of it. When you are starving
             | and you find bread, it is only natural you want to inform
             | others how they too can find it. This is probably the root
             | of their overzealousness.
        
           | Kye wrote:
           | But maybe let's avoid things that are dependent on violent
           | overthrow of competing ideologies. If a way of life only
           | works by crushing other ways, it's a bit garbage.
        
             | yuuu wrote:
             | "dependent on" != "associated with"
        
               | Kye wrote:
               | Well, the topic is Puritanism. That's what I was talking
               | about.
        
               | yuuu wrote:
               | All aspects of Puritanism are "dependent on violent
               | overthrow of competing ideologies?"
        
               | Kye wrote:
               | These were people who fled Europe because they considered
               | the Catholic church of the 1500s/1600s too liberal. How
               | well do you think they got on with their neighbors? I've
               | seen firsthand how effective an eliminationist ideology
               | can be even without overt violence growing up in Baptist
               | country.
        
               | yuuu wrote:
               | It's unclear what you're trying to say. All aspects of
               | Puritanism are bad because some people did violent
               | things, historically? Nobody's arguing with the latter,
               | and the comment you originally responded to was, "We are
               | free to pick and choose what we think is worth preserving
               | or adopting."
        
               | smoldesu wrote:
               | You are definitely free to associate with whoever you
               | choose, just as others are are free to judge you for
               | associating with those people. I'm someone who likes to
               | give most ideas a fair shake, but I'm also not going to
               | entertain a defence of fascism that highlights the
               | decline of animal cruelty under Hitler. Most people who
               | aren't me would probably walk away as soon as you bring
               | up Orthodoxy.
        
               | starkd wrote:
               | The comparison to fascism is not even relevant here.
               | Fascism is a corporate/government collaboration to
               | achieve a specific end. Puritans were not talking about
               | this. They were about self-reflection and self-
               | improvement. The overzealotry of Puritism was based on
               | populist uprisings. The failed collectivist experiments
               | of the 20th century took a far greater toll on humanity
               | than the Puritans ever did. By far.
        
               | yuuu wrote:
               | You have a good point. I tend to not entertain ideas
               | based on overused strawman comparisons with Hitler and
               | Nazis.
        
             | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
             | Self reflection and discipline is garbage?
        
               | Kye wrote:
               | Those are features of many ways of life, not ways of life
               | in themselves. What those terms mean depends on the
               | backing ideology. They don't exist in isolation. This
               | thread is discussing Puritanism.
        
         | JasonFruit wrote:
         | Now do... the entirety of human endeavor. Whenever we discover
         | a way we think is good, some of us decide we should impose it
         | on others by force. The Puritans were nothing special in that
         | regard, though high school reading lists tend to focus on them.
        
           | maxbond wrote:
           | It's not that this is actually something everyone does, but
           | that those people also foist their views of history on us,
           | and include this narrative to naturalize and justify their
           | behavior.
        
             | JasonFruit wrote:
             | >> some of us
             | 
             | > not... something everyone does
             | 
             | Yeah.
             | 
             | That being said, I think you're ascribing to intent what is
             | attributable to worldview: people of that sort see history
             | in terms of the advancement of the Gospel, the ongoing
             | Communist revolution, or the progress of industrialization,
             | and they communicate it as such.
        
               | maxbond wrote:
               | > Yeah.
               | 
               | I misspoke, what I meant was, this isn't the inevitable
               | course of history; the past is prologue and not destiny.
               | I believe one of the reasons this pattern repeats is the
               | idea that it is "natural" and inevitable, and while it is
               | literally true that it is natural - everything is - that
               | doesn't mean it is "human nature" in the sense that it is
               | inescapable. Cancer is natural, that doesn't mean we have
               | to accept it.
               | 
               | > That being said, I think you're ascribing to intent
               | what is attributable to worldview: people of that sort
               | see history in terms of the advancement of the Gospel,
               | the ongoing Communist revolution, or the progress of
               | industrialization, and they communicate it as such.
               | 
               | I agree, I was personifying larger-than-human phenomena,
               | so while I find intent to be a useful metaphor it it
               | isn't literally true. The thing I want to communicate
               | with this metaphor is that there are choices and an
               | agenda involved, motivated reasoning.
               | 
               | Your examples are good, I think a particularly
               | illustrative one is "the white man's burden"; the idea
               | that white people must bear the "burden" of the Atlantic
               | slave trade and colonialism more broadly is patently
               | absurd, very clearly working backwards from the premises
               | that colonialism is good, actually, and good for the
               | colonized at that, to find an intellectual justification
               | for behavior that was obviously deeply immoral and
               | incompatible with their stated beliefs. This is just
               | going so far out on a limb that it's really easy to see
               | the game they're playing, but in all of these examples
               | we've cited, it's a repackaging of political realism to
               | match the aesthetics of that society and time in history.
               | 
               | Someplace I see this in our time is in the rhetoric of
               | Jordan Peterson, an obvious chauvinist who's created an
               | intellectual framework for why the patriarchy is good,
               | actually. If you peer past his showmanship and undeniable
               | charisma, you see the that same kernel of political
               | realism; "the strong do what they may, and the weak
               | suffer what they must." So for him in particular it's
               | like, oh isn't it so terrible that the lower class is
               | destitute, but what's much more important than their
               | conditions are that we need steep hierarchies, and
               | wouldn't you know it, I've got some misrepresentations of
               | lobster biology to justify this as natural and
               | inevitable. Peterson is far more artful than Kipling, and
               | he does a better job of keeping the quiet part quiet, but
               | it's a repackaging of the same ideas.
        
       | fedeb95 wrote:
       | In case you're tempted to fall for this rough classification of
       | modern sins and a revival of old ones, think again and discover
       | how awfully biased this article is toward a certain moral. If you
       | sleep with dogs...
        
         | Ensorceled wrote:
         | > In case you're tempted to fall for this rough classification
         | of modern sins and a revival of old ones, think again
         | 
         | Or, do a basic google search on Puritans and their punishments
         | ...
        
       | erganemic wrote:
       | " _The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that
       | which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new
       | thing under the sun._
       | 
       |  _Is there any thing whereof it may be said, See, this is new? it
       | hath been already of old time, which was before us._ "
       | 
       | - Ecclesiastes 1:9-10, KJV
        
         | thrown_22 wrote:
         | We fused the atom and became gods.
         | 
         | It's just that godhood is not evenly distributed yet.
        
           | tsol wrote:
           | ..God's with depression and an opioid epidemic lol
        
             | beckingz wrote:
             | Classically very Greek in that regard?
        
               | python_fnanatic wrote:
               | No. The Greek Gods were debauches but they didn't
               | cloister themselves in their homes and marinate in their
               | neurosis
        
               | wnoise wrote:
               | Lots of accounts of Hades are exactly that.
        
           | pyuser583 wrote:
           | Is that a quote?
        
           | kingkawn wrote:
           | Ain't no gods walking this earth, just a bunch of pompous
           | fools who give themselves goosebumps by calling themselves
           | gods
        
             | thrown_22 wrote:
             | And yet we're still better than a god who would drown the
             | world for reasons.
             | 
             | But then he promised never to do it again with a rainbow.
        
               | lonelyasacloud wrote:
               | > "And yet we're still better than a god who would drown
               | the world for reasons."
               | 
               | And one of the consequences of global warming is?
        
               | kingkawn wrote:
               | God gave Noah the rainbow sign / No more water / the fire
               | next time
        
       | sposeray wrote:
        
       | sramsay wrote:
       | The author is drawing comparisons (playfully, I admit) with
       | Buddhism, but the Puritans were following a tradition that goes
       | back to late antiquity in the west. Books like the ones being
       | described, in which the "psychology of sin" (so to speak) is
       | dissected and various remedies put forth goes back at least to
       | Evagrius (4th century), and likely far further than that.
       | 
       | The Reformers sought to change many aspects of the "old
       | religion," but a basic asceticism was not among them.
        
         | dash2 wrote:
         | I'd love to know more about this, why not expand your comment?
        
       ___________________________________________________________________
       (page generated 2022-09-25 23:02 UTC)