[HN Gopher] How to communicate why your startup is worth joining
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       How to communicate why your startup is worth joining
        
       Author : flreln
       Score  : 115 points
       Date   : 2022-08-23 15:15 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
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       | f311a wrote:
       | A very well written article. I liked the writing style.
        
       | indymike wrote:
       | We've had really good luck just telling the truth. I'm 2 for 2 on
       | targeted hires (where we found them and landed them) this year.
       | Being radically honest really pays off when it comes to talent.
       | 
       | (you do have to have a good story and good place to work)
        
       | henning wrote:
       | At some point, it became acceptable to post hand-drawn diagrams
       | with illegible handwriting. If you don't care about presenting
       | information clearly, I don't care about what you have to say.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | It, like everything else outlined in that blog, is designed to
         | make you look fun and quirky.
        
       | lkrubner wrote:
       | I notice that, nowadays, startups are emphasizing "work/life
       | balance" much more than they used to. I'm sure part of that is
       | because of the pandemic, which created strange new realities,
       | where companies that had previously been workaholic and office-
       | centric were forced to change by the historic events of the last
       | 2 years.
       | 
       | But also, I think the trend had started before the pandemic. They
       | heyday of valorizing a workaholic, 24/7 lifestyle was awhile ago,
       | in the years after the 2008 crisis, when young people were trying
       | to start their careers in very difficult economic conditions.
       | 
       | As one data point, which I think suggests the change, I've
       | noticed how the comments have been changing, in regards to my
       | book "How To Destroy A Tech Startup In Three Easy Steps" which
       | describes events that happened in 2015. When the book first came
       | out, some people said "Lawrence should not have stayed so long at
       | such a dysfunctional startup" but everyone who read the book seem
       | to know about such workaholic startups. But lately the comments
       | have been more doubtful. A recent comment on Amazon:
       | 
       | "Working regularly till 2-3AM? I've never seen that even among
       | startups in co-working spaces. The boss screaming at employees at
       | video calls, yet everyone just takes it and nobody immediately
       | quits?"
       | 
       | I don't know who wrote that, but if they've truly never seen such
       | things, that suggests to me that they've been working at places
       | that have a healthy work/life balance, and I think such places
       | (in the startup world) are more common now than 7 years ago.
       | 
       | I created the first rough draft of the book simply by copying-
       | and-pasting text from Slack messages and email. Even after
       | editing, 80% of the final copy was based on text written at the
       | time of the incidents. There are no exaggerations in the book.
       | And yet I think the culture I describe is fading away (which is
       | probably a good thing).
       | 
       | The last few startups I've consulted with have all emphasized
       | work/life balance, and I'd like to think that startups in general
       | are moving towards supporting a more sustainable lifestyle for
       | their employees.
       | 
       | Having said that, I recognize, the world will always have
       | ambitious people who work 100 hours a week because they are
       | trying to get ahead. The question, always, is whether such people
       | have a right to ask others to also work 100 hours a week.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | > _"If I haven't responded to something that you've sent me,
       | that's probably because I've read it and don't feel particularly
       | strongly - so just make a call on what to do if you don't hear
       | back in a reasonable time frame."_
       | 
       | Surely there's a more effective protocol that works for an exec?
       | 
       | Even make a macro button for the exec that responds "dfps", so
       | that:
       | 
       | 1. sender is immediately unblocked and empowered when they get
       | the "dfps", and
       | 
       | 2. avoid accidents in which the exec would need to say something
       | but didn't get the message, but sender assumed an "implicit
       | dfps".
        
         | scrumbledober wrote:
         | yeah this sounds horrible. The primary role of a manager in the
         | manager/managee relationship should be unblocking the managee.
        
         | hammock wrote:
         | dfps?
        
           | __derek__ wrote:
           | I assume "don't feel particularly strongly" based on the
           | blurb, but new abbreviations really should be defined.
        
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         | __derek__ wrote:
         | From what I hear, this is common behavior for partners at law
         | firms (i.e. the folks that own the client relationship, much
         | like the CEO owns the decisions made), and it's absolutely
         | bizarre.
        
       | alex_zhezherov wrote:
       | reminds me of what Thiel in 0->1 was referring to when talking
       | about company culture / mission.
        
       | wnolens wrote:
       | Doing a job hunt right now and im trying to assess "what's my day
       | to day like" and it comes down to two factors: what are the
       | people like, and what is the actual work.
       | 
       | I want to really like the people, as I've discovered my life is
       | way more boring otherwise. I spend 8-10h/day working, I need to
       | be able to laugh and make other people laugh and have interesting
       | conversations. I'd love to make friends out of it. People often
       | tell me don't rely on work for that, but the time investment is
       | too steep not to use it as a social outlet.
       | 
       | I also want to know the actual work. Not the buzzwords, or the
       | product name, or fast paced industry, but the actual initiatives
       | for the next year. Crank out new features for mobile app? Not my
       | skill set. Typical oncall rotation? Nah.
       | 
       | I'm shocked how many companies are willing to start the interview
       | process immediately. I decline until I have at least an hour
       | convo with who would be my manager.
       | 
       | As per the article, yes more blogging helps but how do I know
       | it's genuine and not marketing bs? I don't.
        
         | nicoburns wrote:
         | > I decline until I have at least an hour convo with who would
         | be my manager.
         | 
         | Is that not part of the interview process? For some jobs I've
         | worked, that's been the entirety of the interview process!
        
           | khuey wrote:
           | It's usually towards the end of the interview process, not at
           | the beginning.
        
         | q7xvh97o2pDhNrh wrote:
         | I feel like this archetype (wanting to have fun, make friends,
         | etc) is actually very common, at least around SF/SV. I bet
         | you'll find it soon enough.
         | 
         | If I can be candid (and hopefully still amicable) behind my
         | random-string username, I do have to say: I don't _get_ the
         | approach, though.
         | 
         | Can you help me understand? Why does it really _matter_ if you
         | can share dank memes with your coworkers or have fun little in-
         | jokes?
         | 
         | Isn't it far, _far_ more important to find out things like: How
         | do people communicate? How do people disagree with each other?
         | Are people able to separate emotions and ego from the team 's
         | work output and outcomes? What values does each person _want_
         | to embody in the work that they produce? Are people willing to
         | sacrifice momentary comfort for genuine personal growth?
         | 
         | Maybe I'm a grumpy old man. Maybe I've just been burned too
         | many times by companies promising a "fun" work environment
         | where "everyone is friends" -- only to discover what they
         | actually mean is an environment where harmony and comfort are
         | valued above all else. The net result (in my anecdotal
         | experience) is an atmosphere of passive-aggressive
         | collaboration and mediocre work, because even the slightest
         | hint of disagreement is shut down brutally instead of being
         | talked through and genuinely resolved.
         | 
         | I'm not really disagreeing with you, because, like I said, I've
         | seen so many people who want what you describe. I only wonder:
         | How does it _work_? What happens when a colleague treats you
         | unprofessionally? What happens when one person is dragging down
         | the team?
         | 
         | In your live/love/laugh philosophy, how do you have meaningful,
         | uncomfortable, _worthwhile_ conversations that result in a
         | genuine, deep relationship forged through facing hard truths
         | together?
        
           | qazxcvbnmlp wrote:
           | To answer your question 'how do we separate ego and emotions
           | from our work outcome'.
           | 
           | Rarely are there people that are completely emotionless.
           | Often when people say they are rational, it means they don't
           | have a good cognitive understanding of their emotions.
           | 
           | So, in the context of a work environment, I've found it's
           | very helpful to take in account peoples emotions when getting
           | tasks accomplished. And like, there's countless studies
           | signifying the importance of emotional intelligence in the
           | workplace.
           | 
           | Fun in-jokes are a way of getting to know a person in a
           | casual way. This is really important, because knowing someone
           | allows you to know their motives, what's important, potential
           | hurt points, etc.
           | 
           | This all becomes very relevant when there is an important
           | issues to be addressed. I can adjust timing, who hears the
           | message, context of the message, etc based on what I know
           | about the person.
           | 
           | Eg, if during small talk, I find out someone has been up all
           | night because their kid is sick. Sure, that kid is not my
           | problem, but if I wait till they are more rested to tell them
           | about an issue in their design it will be more likely to be
           | resolved in a productive manner.
        
           | jrumbut wrote:
           | > In your live/love/laugh philosophy, how do you have
           | meaningful, uncomfortable, worthwhile conversations that
           | result in a genuine, deep relationship forged through facing
           | hard truths together?
           | 
           | That sounds like the kind of relationship I'd have with my
           | spouse, sibling, or very old friend.
           | 
           | In those relationships, you can't avoid it. At work, I try to
           | be mindful that ultimately everyone is there so they can feed
           | their family and not get cold in the winter time. That's an
           | uncomfortable truth, and everyone has to face it, so it's
           | good to stay light and breezy when possible.
           | 
           | Enforced fun is its own kind of hell, I try to share only the
           | most anodyne memes at work, and I have seen harmony
           | overvalued, but harmony and comfort do have value. If I see a
           | team where every decision provokes a lengthy and probing
           | inquiry into values, and they weren't building a warp drive
           | or cancer cure, I might be a bit put off. Is camel case vs
           | snake case really so important? Disagreeing productively is
           | an important skill, but so is picking your battles.
        
       | Terretta wrote:
       | We see what you did there.
        
       | stevebmark wrote:
       | It's weird, this is an advertisement for these companies, but I
       | would only mainly care about point 4 ("the business"), and
       | company values. The rest seem immature, like from the perspective
       | of someone just leaving college looking for a job that really
       | "vibes" with them, but don't know how to evaluate companies for
       | real substance.
       | 
       | How "fun" / "x" a founder is likely won't correlate with the
       | success of the business, in fact could be a negative. Teams
       | change frequently from turnover especially in the bay area and
       | especially in startups, so "the team" and these detailed team
       | bios will quickly become stale. Same for the "culture" built on
       | that team.
        
       | kradeelav wrote:
       | A bit amusing to see the article and think "they really could
       | have summed it up as "show, don't tell", aka the old sage
       | writer's advice. :)
       | 
       | Some very good points made in the article, glad I read. I admit
       | the personal instagram would be a huge turnoff for me since it
       | shows ("shows") that there's not an expectation for work sphere
       | and personal life sphere to be airgapped. Then again maybe that's
       | the kind of person they're trying to filter out.
        
         | solarmist wrote:
         | Sure, but it's embracing that by showing and not telling, then
         | giving tips and examples of how to do it effectively.
        
       | twalla wrote:
       | I'd be curious to see the results of A/B'ing doing all the stuff
       | in this article vs just advertising (competitive) pay upfront.
        
         | flreln wrote:
         | A YC founder I'm in the same WhatsApp group with said "I've
         | seen roughly 10x the volume of high quality senior+
         | applications after doing this a few times now"
        
           | twalla wrote:
           | Advertising pay up front or doing candidate outreach as
           | outlined in this blog post?
        
             | flreln wrote:
             | Doing candidate outreach as outlined in the post vs
             | traditional recruiting methods
        
         | indymike wrote:
         | HR Tech company founder here. When you advertise a competitive
         | salary in your job, you can expet 18% more people to apply for
         | that job. This is across all job boards we've tried. Research
         | is across 450,000 job applicants for 13,200 jobs:
         | 
         | Top 3 things you can do to get more/better candidates:
         | 
         | 1. Include salary in job ads (and make sure it's competitive)
         | 18% more applies.
         | 
         | 2. Talk to every applicant as quickly as you can and certainly
         | before resume screening 14.4% of resumes we checked had an
         | inaccuracy that would have resulted in a screenout. By talking
         | first, you can find and fix these problems and keep some very
         | good talent in the pipe.
         | 
         | 3. Remove unnecessary qualifications and preferences. Removing
         | "degree perferred" where it doesn't matter can get 8% more
         | applies. Removing bad technical requirements can make a huge
         | difference, too. No one has 20 years of Docker expeirence.
        
           | matijash wrote:
           | awesome insights, thank you!
        
           | thrwyoilarticle wrote:
           | >3. Remove unnecessary qualifications and preferences.
           | Removing "degree perferred" where it doesn't matter can get
           | 8% more applies. Removing bad technical requirements can make
           | a huge difference, too. No one has 20 years of Docker
           | expeirence.
           | 
           | Does this have a disproportionate effect along gender lines?
        
       | echelon wrote:
       | Speaking personally - if you have a fun product and a Discord,
       | hiring is a breeze. Talent finds you.
        
       | ednevsky wrote:
       | Wish more startups would do this.
        
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