[HN Gopher] The unlikely odds of making it big on TikTok
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       The unlikely odds of making it big on TikTok
        
       Author : noplsbecivil
       Score  : 76 points
       Date   : 2022-07-29 18:44 UTC (2 days ago)
        
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       | taylorius wrote:
       | I worry that tiktok is such an all-or-nothing system, you have to
       | turn into a "maximally viral" artist to stand a chance. The
       | tiktok system itself warps what constitutes popular taste.
        
         | thenerdhead wrote:
         | It mostly is. Very unforgiving if you want to branch out to
         | different types of content or even subjects. You become a
         | person known for one thing that made you popular and it's hard
         | for most to break out of that unless they had an existing
         | platform.
         | 
         | You either follow trends or make your own. Otherwise you'll
         | fall off quickly.
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | Isn't the same true for, say, apps in an App Store?
         | 
         | Did anyone actually analyze what is happening there, i.e. how
         | fair the system is or how much it is like a lottery?
        
         | dopeboy wrote:
         | To be a self sustaining business, probably. For the hobbyist
         | creators, there's a long tail of creators that don't need to go
         | maximally viral and still enjoy a healthy following.
        
       | helsinkiandrew wrote:
       | A viral song in any format has usually never guaranteed continued
       | similar success (How many PSY or Rebecca Black follow up records
       | do people know?) - why would it be different on TikTok.
       | 
       | Often a viral hit will be due to a beat or quirky lyrics that
       | aren't repeated in the rest of an artists music. Continued
       | success needs a fanbase that's interested in a lot more of your
       | music.
        
         | phreack wrote:
         | Incidentally, I recently remembered about Rebecca Black and
         | went looking to find out she did continue singing and now has a
         | legit established pop career with tons of songs. I heard a few
         | and became a big fan, they're pretty good if you like pop!
         | 
         | I guess it's a good idea to use a viral moment to gather those
         | few fans who'll appreciate the art you'll like to make
         | continuously.
        
         | rvz wrote:
         | It is no different and it's the same old power law which the
         | rewards and success diminishes as more creators and users are
         | doing the same thing on the platform.
         | 
         | It's not about the one trick pony hit's that exist on a single
         | platform which the article is focused on, it is indeed the
         | continuation afterwards which a creator's following will still
         | exist beyond TikTok or wherever their debut hit originated
         | from.
         | 
         | Inevitably, The corporations, media and the existing larger
         | influencers from other platforms will join in and ruin the
         | platform, just like they did with the rest of the others. The
         | over glorified algorithm has already been gamed by them to
         | increase engagement, ads, etc such that smaller and late
         | creators have depleting chances of being recognised.
         | 
         | Nothing has changed.
        
           | eckza wrote:
           | All of this has happened before; and it will happen again.
        
         | Mikeb85 wrote:
         | > How many PSY
         | 
         | PSY was successful before and after Gangnam Style... But he's a
         | Korean artist and never meant to go global so of course his
         | appeal might be limited beyond one funny video.
        
         | est31 wrote:
         | The best example is mentioned in the post: Lil Nas X. His song
         | "Old Town Road" went viral thanks to TikTok, and "real" fame
         | followed afterwards.
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lil_Nas_X#2018%E2%80%932019:_B...
         | 
         | > Lil Nas X began creating memes to promote "Old Town Road"
         | before it was picked up by short-form video social media TikTok
         | users. [...] Lil Nas X estimated he made about 100 memes to
         | promote it; the song went viral in early 2019 due to the
         | #Yeehaw Challenge meme on TikTok. Millions of users posted
         | videos of themselves dressed as a wrangler or cowgirl, with
         | most #yeehaw videos using the song for their soundtrack; as of
         | July 2019, they have been seen more than 67 million times.
         | Another core audience tied to social media is children who are
         | hidden in the statistics of adult listeners. Quartz.com says
         | the song certainly owes part of its success to the demographic,
         | and notes they are attracted to the song being repetitive, easy
         | to sing along to, and using lyrics about riding horses and
         | tractors, which children can relate to. It debuted at number 83
         | on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, later climbing to number one.
         | The track also debuted on the Hot Country Songs chart at number
         | 19 and Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs at number 36. After an "intense
         | bidding war", Lil Nas X signed with Columbia Records in March
         | 2019.
        
         | pessimizer wrote:
         | > How many PSY or Rebecca Black follow up records do people
         | know?
         | 
         | Rebecca Black had a viral video that people liked because of
         | how bad the song was, and how badly it was performed. She not
         | only didn't disappear, but parlayed being known for something
         | terrible into a entire career.
        
         | Retr0id wrote:
         | Rebecca Black perhaps, but PSY is certainly not a 1-hit-wonder.
         | 
         | https://socialblade.com/youtube/user/officialpsy
         | 
         | > 120.75M (+5.8%) Video Views for the last 30 days
         | 
         | And that's just on YouTube. Sure, none of their followups
         | received quite the same amount of attention, but they certainly
         | have a healthy sustained audience.
        
           | antihero wrote:
           | She's making a comeback in hyperpop with various collabs!
        
           | asdajksah2123 wrote:
           | Psy was a well established artist in South Korea having won
           | national awards for his musc well before Gangnam Style. He'd
           | hardly qualify as a 1 hit wonder.
        
             | Retr0id wrote:
             | Yes, perhaps I should have said it more explicitly.
        
       | jer0me wrote:
       | Box made a video in collaboration with The Pudding about this:
       | https://youtu.be/S1m-KgEpoow
        
       | Ekaros wrote:
       | So what are the numbers compared to other platforms? Honestly
       | 12,5% doesn't sound too bad... How does that compare to let's say
       | Spotify, Youtube and so on...
        
         | 1123581321 wrote:
         | It's saying 12.5% of popular bands on Spotify were boosted into
         | it by Tiktok. The odds of becoming a successful artist are much
         | smaller.
         | 
         | He has another project that found that 21 of seven thousand
         | bands became big, and those 7k were bands that had actually
         | managed to book and play a small show.
         | https://pudding.cool/2017/01/making-it-big/
        
       | wizofaus wrote:
       | Apparently Tiktok allows videos of up to 10 minutes, which in
       | theory would make it suitable as a music distribution platform,
       | but how many videos over 3 or 4 minutes actually go viral?
        
         | dirtydirk wrote:
         | People don't have the attention span to watch anything over 30
         | seconds anymore
        
           | wizofaus wrote:
           | The average length of the 100 most popular TikToks is
           | apparently 15 seconds, which should tell you something.
           | Apparently the increase to 10 minutes max was only very
           | recent (up from 3). Either way it's hard to see how a
           | musician could become successful just by staying on TikTok.
        
       | TrackerFF wrote:
       | So are users completely at the mercy of its recommendation
       | algorithm - suddenly you appear at the feed of millions of
       | people, if the system finds your content viral enough?
       | 
       | Or is there room for people to game the system? I.e. publish
       | content, and pay click farms to make your stuff look legit?
        
         | rvz wrote:
         | > So are users completely at the mercy of its recommendation
         | algorithm
         | 
         | Yes they are.
         | 
         | It's the same old situation with YouTube's algorithm, where it
         | dictates what gets seen or unseen on people's feeds and which
         | tags get blacklisted or not and that is all done by TikTok.
         | Once you change it, it can be controlled by a single entity for
         | any reason. Since they have done this previously, angering a
         | large section of its user base, they have the power to do it
         | again.
         | 
         | > Or is there room for people to game the system? I.e. publish
         | content, and pay click farms to make your stuff look legit?
         | 
         | It already has been gamed, both by amateurs and professionally.
         | 
         | In the professional case, it's already happened with the large
         | advertisers, existing influencers and companies that have
         | started to jump onto the platform. They have done it through
         | promotional and backroom corporate deals, since they have
         | enough money, influence to make sure that their content is
         | pushed to the largest amount of users regardless. Hence this,
         | all these systems have been gamed by this old tactic, and that
         | includes this over glorified recommendation algorithm.
         | 
         | This is how it will get ruined, and it is beyond the hype
         | comments and boosters that you see here screaming about the
         | number of views they have, reminding us of the basic near peak
         | of the power law where the majority of the hype will deplete
         | once the large companies, existing influencers, advertisers
         | start aggressively pushing their posts, ads, etc for engagement
         | farming and growth in another social network, that will appear
         | regardless of TikTok's algorithm.
         | 
         | Rinse and repeat.
        
       | status200 wrote:
       | Tiktok will definitely be replaced by a similar app if they don't
       | start paying out to their content creators in a similar way that
       | Youtube (still awful, but better) does.
       | 
       | Hank Green has a great video[0] on the difference since he is on
       | both platforms, and unless there is more compensation to the
       | creators, they will get burned out chasing the high of the
       | occasional viral video.
       | 
       | [0] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAZapFzpP64
        
         | vonseel wrote:
         | Possibly. But users aren't likely to switch unless the content
         | creators leave, and the content creators will stay if they have
         | more views there than on Instagram / YouTube / etc. (actually,
         | they probably just post the same videos to all the platforms,
         | to maximize exposure at almost no cost).
         | 
         | People always say X network is going to go the way of MySpace,
         | but when's the last time that happened? I wouldn't say any of
         | FB, Twitter, Snap, Instagram have died off the way MySpace did.
         | Certain age groups may have migrated to other platforms, but
         | these networks are so ingrained and established that millions
         | of people can leave and it doesn't matter.
         | 
         | There's still a huge population using all of the networks and
         | unless a new app provides some new unique feature like Snapchat
         | and TikTok did when people first started using them, I don't
         | see anything popping up to replace them.
        
         | sudosysgen wrote:
         | I am very doubtful of that. A large percentage of YouTube
         | content creators are essentially ineligible for monetization in
         | any meaningful way due to various demonetization algorithms,
         | and thus sustain themselves outside of YouTube. I imagine the
         | same can happen on TikTok.
        
       | langsoul-com wrote:
       | The value of tiktok is that you don't need an existing audience
       | to get views.
       | 
       | Using it to establish yourself is great, it's a means to an end,
       | a marketing tool like the rest.
        
         | psyc wrote:
         | In all of the TikTok praise threads we've had here, this is the
         | first time I can remember ever seeing anybody mention what I
         | personally believe is a killer distinguishing feature. TikTok's
         | algo guarantees that every video will appear on at least N
         | FYPs. Then if it performs well in that ad hoc 'test group' it
         | will be show to a wider group, and so on.
        
           | atom-morgan wrote:
           | There really is no better platform for exposure. Just over a
           | week ago my TikTok had just under 1k followers. I'm currently
           | at 5.2k.
           | 
           | Compare that to something like Twitter or Twitch. You can go
           | for months, even years, without ever getting noticed.
        
             | notahacker wrote:
             | My friend posted a video of his wife stroking a cat on his
             | brand new TikTok account and within two days got >5 million
             | views and offers of sponsorship from cat food suppliers :D
        
           | zeroonetwothree wrote:
           | I posted a math video and it only got 2 views. I'm probably
           | terrible though.
        
         | Avicebron wrote:
         | Many of the most successful youtube/twitch streamers leverage a
         | blow up on TikTok to garner an audience on a more lucrative
         | platform.
        
       | txru wrote:
       | Wow I absolutely love the styling on that page on mobile.
       | 
       | When you scroll past the "8 signs of successful musician" guide
       | to the list of musicians, it pins the guide to the top of the
       | screen so you can compare every musician. Really natural, should
       | be everywhere.
        
       | liberia wrote:
       | I've figured out a way to get loads of views on Facebook. The
       | trick is to use their Groups feature. Join every group that has
       | no less than 100,000 members then when sharing choose 'Share to
       | group' and post to every group you joined. I've got silly little
       | cat videos getting 1M views within a week of posting...
       | 
       | Part of going viral is luck too. If you're lucky some high
       | profile account will share your post, and the popularity soars.
        
         | ok123456 wrote:
         | That's literally just spam.
        
           | liberia wrote:
           | Well I make sure the post is on topic. So funny stuff goes to
           | humor groups. Inspirational quotes go to all the
           | wisdom/spirituality/philosophy groups. Even better if it's
           | your own material. I find reposts of other's content a bit
           | shallow and meaningless.
        
       | winternett wrote:
       | TikTok operates in mystery and it's really a smoke screen for big
       | industry music and advertisers. The trending sounds are hand
       | picked behind the scenes, Kate Bush Running up the Hill, a song
       | originally released in the 80s on EMI Records (A major label)
       | trending now in 2022 is proof of the underlying influence that
       | big business has on the platform:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Running_Up_That_Hill
       | 
       | Many people think that TikTok's algorithm is showing them what
       | they want to see, but in truth it's showing people what makes the
       | platform the most money inserted into brief videos made by people
       | who aren't getting paid for their work, who are also hand picked
       | by platform moderators.
       | 
       | TikTok will collapse as quick as it is rising when, just like
       | Facebook, users stop logging in and stop posting content.
       | 
       | Platforms don't create sub-category lists for content because
       | that causes them do do more work, and it also causes them
       | generally to not be able to advertise things across the entire
       | platform and test ads on markets more effectively. The truth of
       | these giant platforms is that they don't help undiscovered
       | creators, they exist to capture money from the largest business
       | entities, and they woo big business in with huge user bases that
       | often involve huge volumes of non-engaged and bot followers.
       | 
       | These sites also limit users visibility regularly in favor of
       | showing platform ads and content from more popular *sponsored
       | accounts. They also run verification for popular accounts to
       | create even more content bias that hurts unknown creators that
       | can't qualify for verification, just to show they are an
       | authentic creator.
       | 
       | It's easy to tell how a platform's vibrance declines when a user
       | has tens of thousands of followers, but only a hand full of likes
       | on each post. This is most apparent right now on Twitter (for
       | example). Platforms often generate fake user accounts to mimic
       | vibrance as well, this also creates buzz as people don't take the
       | time out to investigate actual engagement on sites before they
       | report on them being popular.
       | 
       | TikTok removed post dates from being displayed on content they
       | play so that you can't tell as a viewer that new content posts
       | are in decline as users discover that the hype isn't working for
       | them and that ads and sponsored posts are increasing. The
       | majority of these large content platforms are all beginning to
       | converge into charging users for visibility by promoting ad
       | buying, another sign that they are really in decline rather than
       | growing. When ads are purchased, many of these sites steer the ad
       | content to overseas audiences that have no interest in buying
       | products and services advertised as they slowly lose the ability
       | to accurately target individual users.
       | 
       | The platforms that become most popular now are well versed in
       | creating false narratives on potential for creator success and in
       | creating smoke and mirrors and untruthful motivation content to
       | keep encouraging independent creators to prop them up, but behind
       | the scenes, they're all devoid of integrity and authentic user
       | experiences, while being full of hope and promises that they
       | don't deliver based on being their business models alone.
       | 
       | I recommend saving time and having a far better online presence
       | as a creator, business, or brand by building and cultivating your
       | own web site. Social media is dysfunctional, very costly for
       | minor success, and time consuming while only offering short-term
       | durability and name recognition.
        
       | unsignednoop wrote:
       | tangibly related: does anybody know how google and other search
       | engines fair in indexing TikTok/Douyin?
       | 
       | I wonder if the inability to go viral relates to the difficultly
       | of finding tiktok videos off-platform. Admittedly, every TT video
       | I have ever seen has been sent to me via a share link.
        
       | unityByFreedom wrote:
       | Does TikTok just have reams of content selectors deciding if
       | certain posts are good or not?
       | 
       | Otherwise I can't see how they could auto-decide to push out
       | content to large audiences without something they don't like
       | getting out.
       | 
       | Like, they'd only need to sift through a handful of videos to
       | reward random publishers with thousands of views, perhaps even
       | with fake numbers, and people would probably gobble it up.
        
         | OJFord wrote:
         | I suppose I don't know about 'reams', but a concierge in London
         | told me he'd taken a job there doing just that.
        
         | wongarsu wrote:
         | TikTok's app is the result of designing an app around a
         | recommendation algorithm (instead of adding recommendations to
         | an app, as everyone else did). As a result you get great
         | recommendations. I imagine that also really helps with
         | moderation and censorship: Identify videos you want to
         | restrict, check which cohort gets recommended those the most,
         | then concentrate your moderation efforts on videos that the
         | algorithm wants to recommend these people.
         | 
         | The recommendations and people's video interactions allow you
         | to classify both people and videos.
        
           | solalf wrote:
           | > TikTok's app is the result of designing an app around a
           | recommendation algorithm
           | 
           | First time I hear of TikTok in those terms. Could you expand
           | on what that means?
        
             | shep101 wrote:
             | he just did
        
             | paulcole wrote:
             | I'm very curious how you've heard TikTok described in the
             | past.
             | 
             | The whole point of TikTok is that you don't have to follow
             | people or engage with your friends on the platform. You
             | just open it up and it'll show you videos that you'll like.
             | Obviously, there is a little bit of "training" involved.
             | Within about 20-40 minutes it really started to zero in on
             | things I liked.
        
             | rolisz wrote:
             | Here's an article discussing this at length:
             | https://www.eugenewei.com/blog/2020/9/18/seeing-like-an-
             | algo...
        
             | wongarsu wrote:
             | The app is designed in a way that basically everything you
             | do results in a strong positive or negative signal for a
             | video that the recommendation algorithm can use.
             | 
             | Take Youtube, a video site that added suggestions. If
             | you're logged in, you get dumped on a homepage with an
             | endlessly scrolling list of recommendations. You scroll
             | until a thumbnail or video title catches your eye, you
             | watch that video, might like or comment, then click one of
             | ~10 recommendations. The algorithm gets a positive signal
             | based on what you click and your watch-time, but the
             | negative signal on anything you don't click is incredibly
             | weak. Because _you_ choose what you watch, positive signals
             | are mostly driven by titles, thumbnails and familiarity,
             | and negative signals are rare. As a result, most
             | recommendations are stuff you know or things adjacent to it
             | (people who watch this also watch this), and quickly get
             | boring. The recommendations can 't inject novelty or
             | purposefully expand the algorithm's knowledge.
             | 
             | Now on Tiktok: You open the app, you get a single video in
             | full screen. Either you scroll on (negative signal) or you
             | watch it until the end (positive), or you let it repeat
             | (very positive). Or you might like or comment. After
             | scrolling on, you get another video in full screen, same
             | game again. The cost of a bad recommendation is low because
             | videos are short and quick to judge, so the algorithm can
             | occasionally give you videos it's uncertain about or that
             | are selected completely randomly. Your reaction _will_ give
             | a signal, no matter what (either you watch till the end or
             | you don 't) and as a result the algorithm knows more about
             | you and about the video.
        
               | ma2rten wrote:
               | I don't know about other people but I tend to just watch
               | every video until the end because they are so short that
               | I don't have enough time to decide if I like them or not.
               | 
               | Maybe I'm too old for TikTok.
        
               | unityByFreedom wrote:
               | That explains the viewer's side, but what about the
               | publisher/influencer side? How does TikTok decide one
               | video is more suitable than another?
               | 
               | My guess is every single video is marked by a human for
               | how much exposure it should get, and if they let
               | something get out that shouldn't, that person is
               | reprimanded.
        
               | ksdnjweusdnkl21 wrote:
               | Just show it to a handful of people, if they liked it
               | show it to more. Keep looping this and good videos go
               | viral, and bad videos don't.
        
               | saurik wrote:
               | (Essentially using a standard strategy for multi-armed
               | bandit.)
        
               | scrollaway wrote:
               | > _My guess is every single video is marked by a human
               | for how much exposure it should get, and if they let
               | something get out that shouldn 't, that person is
               | reprimanded._
               | 
               | ... Wait what? Why would that be your guess? How is this
               | easier than, you know, anything else?
        
               | gernb wrote:
               | TikTok is about short videos. Youtube is about longer
               | videos. People expect short videos and are looking for
               | short videos so they'll put up with random videos. On
               | Youtube I look for 10-30 minute videos on specific
               | topics, not just random funny videos.
               | 
               | To put it another way, TikTok is Ice Creme, Youtube is
               | dinner. A popular Ice cream stand has a lot more
               | throughput than most restaurants. It only takes ~1 minute
               | to serve a customer some ice cream.
        
               | wongarsu wrote:
               | Which you could argue is another case of TikTok building
               | everything around the recommendation algorithm. It just
               | works better with short videos.
               | 
               | YouTube used to be full with 3-4 minute videos back in
               | the day, with a ten minute maximum. Longer than TikTok,
               | but not much. But those short videos all but died out
               | when the 10-minute videos got another ad spot and thus
               | more money for the creator.
        
               | lordnacho wrote:
               | > Either you scroll on (negative signal) or you watch it
               | until the end (positive), or you let it repeat (very
               | positive).
               | 
               | Sounds like this would heavily incentivize items that are
               | immediately catchy. Slow buildup stuff would die in this
               | environment.
        
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         | psyc wrote:
         | Yes. The users. TikTok is unique (afaik) in that every new
         | video is shown to a sample group of real users, and its
         | performance evaluated. If it does well in that group, it's
         | shown to a larger group. If it continues to do well, it's shown
         | to a still larger group, etc.
        
           | throwaway290 wrote:
           | You are forgetting TikTok mods tasked to shadowban from "For
           | You" anybody they think is physically unattractive, poor, go
           | political in livestreams, etc.
           | (https://theintercept.com/2020/03/16/tiktok-app-moderators-
           | us...)
           | 
           | Don't have any illusions, they can easily control what goes
           | viral if it matters to the mothership.
        
             | unityByFreedom wrote:
             | Yeah, keeping political content off the service must
             | require a company-connected person to review every piece of
             | content that reaches a certain level of exposure.
             | 
             | I don't think they are successful at keeping off political
             | content though, in the sense that denying political content
             | is a political statement itself in favor of the status quo.
        
               | throwaway290 wrote:
               | It's not about them making political statements, but
               | about their moderation policy. I almost think you are
               | responding to a wrong comment.
        
             | sudosysgen wrote:
             | They are quite unsuccessful at it. I often get _very_
             | political content on my for you page - for some of my
             | friends that 's the vast majority of the content they get,
             | and a good third of it is from either non conventionally
             | attractive people or very obviously poor people.
             | 
             | The manual shadowbanning fight is one they will never win.
        
           | vonseel wrote:
           | I wonder how the app determines what users should see a
           | video.
           | 
           | If someone post a clip playing guitar and singing for
           | example, would it determine this is a performance, and it
           | should show it to cohorts who have liked viewing performances
           | in the past?
           | 
           | Or would the AI model work more like... show (unknown type)
           | clip to random people, identify similarities in the people
           | who like or dislike the video based on those user's viewing
           | habits and then try to identify the video type based on that
           | knowledge? I guess the second method would be very
           | inefficient unless combined with some feature extraction and
           | metadata / tagging from the source.
           | 
           | Not an ML person, just a curious dev.
        
             | sudosysgen wrote:
             | One part of this is geographical - amongst the videos shown
             | to me that are clearly testing, about half of them are
             | clearly from near me.
        
         | Jensson wrote:
         | Technically they could have thousands of content reviewers in
         | China working fulltime rating videos based on emotions. With a
         | minute a video, they'd each crunch through hundreds of videos a
         | day, and language doesn't matter since you can feel emotion
         | from any language. Add some basic algorithm to select videos to
         | review (new creators and creators with a track record) and
         | you'd get a "magical algorithm".
        
           | unityByFreedom wrote:
           | Thousands? How about millions. Facebook employed 15,000
           | content reviewers in 2020, plus probably ten times that
           | volunteering to mod their own FB pages. I'd expect China's
           | state owned western-facing social media site to have far
           | more.
        
       | begueradj wrote:
       | Joe Reviews TikTok's Crazy Terms of Service:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wtGwlQWqQWs&ab_channel=Power...
        
         | charleskinbote wrote:
         | Undoubtedly very similar if not identical to what other social
         | media platforms do. For all these apps, there should be
         | explicit big banner opt-in prompts with a default of opt-out at
         | the very least, e.g. "can we correlate you to other devices
         | using your keystroke patterns?". I don't think the average
         | person should be obligated to accept or reject terms of service
         | wholesale but instead term by term; put the burden on the
         | company, not the consumer. It would encourage smaller sets of
         | terms and make the users more aware of what they're getting
         | into.
        
           | mtrycz2 wrote:
           | Nah, just leave. And explain to everyone why they should
           | leave.
        
             | shreyshnaccount wrote:
             | people who can afford to leave social media aren't prolly
             | in circles that have heavy uses of sm. I would love to get
             | off sm, but literally can't afford to, because it's almost
             | essential to stay in contact with friends and know about
             | events.
        
               | MichaelCollins wrote:
               | You have the choice. If you've weighted your options and
               | decided to stay on social media because you value what it
               | gives you more than what it takes, that's your choice.
               | But you _do_ have a choice.
               | 
               | Also, if your friends disown you because you choose not
               | to use social media, are they really your friends? If
               | they don't respect your decision, are unwilling to speak
               | with you except through social media, then I personally
               | wouldn't consider them friends. But that's up to you. And
               | you can always make new friends.
        
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         | theshrike79 wrote:
         | Are you making it big if you explode on any platform and are
         | forgotten later?
        
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