[HN Gopher] Be careful how you pay the bills
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       Be careful how you pay the bills
        
       Author : vitabenes
       Score  : 121 points
       Date   : 2022-07-19 11:08 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | meowzero wrote:
       | It depends on the person, their stage in life, and many other
       | factors why people do what they do.
       | 
       | I went through something similar. I had to choose between chasing
       | my passion or security. I chose security. Things get real when
       | you get older, your body starts falling apart, you need to
       | provide for family, etc.
       | 
       | Even if you choose to follow your passions, the lure of security
       | will come. The author gives an example of writers needing to
       | write pulp novels, courses, copywriting, or any other boring
       | stuff.
       | 
       | And even if you do end up doing your passions and still live
       | comfortably, is it really worth it? Would your passions become
       | monotonous and cause you to seek other passions?
        
       | anewpersonality wrote:
       | Interesting insight into the mindset of an internet hustler
       | 
       | Does anything they do contribute to society?
        
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       | jacknews wrote:
       | It's natural to work hard, in order to then spend time doing
       | things you enjoy.
       | 
       | But it's important to understand that to make a living at
       | something, especially something like writing, you need to be good
       | at it, not just enjoy it.
        
         | BlargMcLarg wrote:
         | Software development is pretty much testament to the opposite,
         | you can very much make a living being average or even below
         | average.
         | 
         | The passion industries are the ones requiring high amounts of
         | dedication. For good reasons.
        
           | swagasaurus-rex wrote:
           | Seems to me the passion industries either pay less
           | (education, game dev, social or environmental work) due to
           | high supply of candidates, or demand way too much (medicine,
           | lawyers, cutting edge sciences)
           | 
           | I for one would like to see my doctors, nurses and police
           | officers well rested and relaxed.
        
             | BlargMcLarg wrote:
             | It's just supply and demand putting its greasy fingers in
             | everything combined with poor unionization from the
             | employee side (of their own accord, often enough).
             | 
             | Nurses could force better circumstances if they
             | collectively accepted to work more sane shifts and make
             | society deal with the problem of too few nurses instead.
             | 
             | Animators could be better if they stopped accepting working
             | 60+ hours to push animation which gets bingewatched for a
             | few cents in a day.
             | 
             | But we collectively accept the circumstances, and so a few
             | years of intense practicing drawing is paid worse than
             | taking a bootcamp on how to write API calls and play
             | planning poker (poorly).
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | The bar for many professions to earn a living (whatever that
           | means exactly) is probably minimal competence--which may be
           | easier for some in some professions than others in other
           | professions.
           | 
           | Then, as you say, "passion industries" probably require some
           | combination of talent/hard work/luck no matter who you are to
           | do more than scrape by--if that.
        
             | spoonjim wrote:
             | Minimum competence to earn a living as a basketball player
             | is much higher than minimum competence required to earn a
             | living as a software engineer.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Tournament jobs is the general term. [1] It's also the
               | case that some professions have a rather limited number
               | of slots that offer someone a decent living of which
               | professional sports leagues are a good example. Basically
               | being the 300th best software developer (or engineer or
               | chemist etc.) probably means you can get a pretty good
               | job. Being the 300th best basketball player may mean
               | you're a car salesman or teaching high school gym
               | classes.
               | 
               | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tournament_theory
        
               | seanmcdirmid wrote:
               | There are 450 NBA players, so being the 300th best
               | basketball player gives you a chance of playing the NBA
               | or maybe in China.
        
               | Ekaros wrote:
               | Team sports go deep. Individual sports quite a lot less.
               | 300th best swimmer or runner likely won't do that well.
               | On other hand 300th best in sport with reasonably sized
               | team means you are either on top level or level just
               | below that. Which usually mean reasonable living.
        
               | spoonjim wrote:
               | Yes but the 30,000th best software engineer is making $1
               | million working at Google.
        
           | cbanek wrote:
           | The work of a mediocre software developer is not only not
           | done, it's self sustaining.
        
       | kneel wrote:
       | Nat has a great podcast that he has recently restarted.
       | 
       | https://madeyouthinkpodcast.com/
        
       | sarchertech wrote:
       | I followed the author's links to the course they got started
       | with, and it's all just very self referential.
       | 
       | Buy this course I'm selling. It will teach you to do the stuff I
       | did to make this thing that I got you to pay me for.
        
         | DeRock wrote:
         | Its a pyramid scheme distilled to the fundamentals.
        
         | nathanvanfleet wrote:
         | I skimmed. 4-hour workweek some years ago (I downloaded it) and
         | I realized that it was pretty meta. The thing you're reading is
         | the thing he's "teaching" you to do. This whole article smacks
         | of that. "Wow my passive income was just too effective." I'm
         | not crying that he doesn't have time to write. It sounds like
         | if he really had that time dedicated to writing he would churn
         | out more self help block posts or booklets anyway. He doesn't
         | seem to describe any other sort of writing that he does? Just
         | navel gazing, tallying his passive income etc? I kind of wish
         | he had no time at all to write.
        
         | beckingz wrote:
         | The secret to becoming rich: "get people to pay you to tell
         | them the secret to becoming rich"
        
         | spelunker wrote:
         | Most of the blog post just feels like a humblebrag.
        
           | abnercoimbre wrote:
           | Barely made it halfway through. The post was largely an
           | exercise in bragging.
        
         | kritiko wrote:
         | Yes, he's very much in the educational product passive income
         | space.
         | 
         | At the end of the day most "gurus" doing this seem to fall into
         | it and it gets a bit recursive. Ramit Sethi seems like an
         | archetypical influencer here.
        
           | allenu wrote:
           | I've noticed this too in the indie hackers community. Some
           | people look around and realize they're part of a gold rush
           | and then realize it's more lucrative to sell shovels. The
           | more shovels you sell, the more successful you become, and
           | the more you self-promote your success.
        
       | borroka wrote:
       | From the blog posts, it seems to me that he is not very keen on
       | writing. I could be wrong. But when you start finding an excuse a
       | day not to do what you theoretically think you should do, maybe
       | the theory is wrong. Maybe he likes the idea of being a writer,
       | but without being a writer.
       | 
       | Also, writing means many things. There are a lot of books, think
       | of business books, that are written because it is the most
       | effective way to provide a certain kind of information to a wide
       | audience. Watching a video seems like a waste of time before,
       | during, and after. Reading a book, most of the time, even if the
       | information in it is ridiculous and of poor quality, does not
       | seem like a waste of time. And there is "writing" like, say,
       | Hemingway, James Salter thought about writing. Are we talking
       | about "writing" the way Salter intended it or about "presenting
       | information in a book"? Does "I like to write" means "I like to
       | provide information" or it means "I like to use the written word
       | specifically to present ideas"?
       | 
       | Rossellini, the famous director, said that he was not just a film
       | director, but an artist and disseminator using whatever medium he
       | thought was the most appropriate in order to show his ideas or
       | his view of the world.
       | 
       | I have almost stopped reading recent books. I find them
       | formulaic, winking at the "mythical" audience and what they want,
       | which most of the time is cheap entertainment. There is an author
       | I liked, Adrian McKinty, who had written a series of books set in
       | Belfast at the time of the Troubles. It was a joy to read them.
       | They were erudite and had a great rhythm. But he found himself
       | forced to become an Uber driver to pay the bills--the books were
       | not selling.
       | 
       | Then, with the support of Don Winslow and Winslow's agent, he was
       | able to break through with a book, The Chain, which was so
       | formulaic, poorly written and full of the adjectives and adverbs
       | that make college-educated people drool, that I found it hard to
       | recognize him as the same author of the series set in the
       | Troubles era. It was very good for him and disappointing for me.
       | 
       | I am now reading novels written between the 1930s and the 1960s,
       | and although each decade has its sins, I sense that most authors
       | were not that much concerned about their audience, were not
       | corrupted by literary agents and book clubs, but wrote what they,
       | and not others, wanted to write.
        
       | janandonly wrote:
       | So this author is anxious about not being able to pay the bills.
       | And this hinders him from pursuing his true calling, which is
       | writing.
       | 
       | Well, if I had a side gig that raked in $2000 per month steady
       | then I would be a writer for sure. I would just not try to live
       | in Manhattan. Problem of thought money solved.
        
         | meowzero wrote:
         | That's probably one part. But a young, hip, professional like
         | this author (based on his writing, that's what he seems like)
         | probably doesn't want to live in a suburb in Ohio, even though
         | he could be much more comfortable there with his $2000 passive
         | income, which could allow him to follow his dreams of writing.
         | 
         | There is a reason why artists go to places like NY or other
         | HCOL places. There are other people like them. It's probably
         | easier to find inspiration and meet peers at those places.
        
           | buscoquadnary wrote:
           | The most prolific writer of our era lives in Utah and has
           | most of his life.
           | 
           | He wants to be trendy hip and part of the artistic in crowd
           | more than he wants to write.
        
             | xoxxala wrote:
             | Utah writer is Brandon Sanderson?
        
               | buscoquadnary wrote:
               | Yeah. You might not like his writing but no one can say
               | he doesn't produce. I think he is up to a novel every
               | year usually with a novella thrown in as well.
        
         | enominezerum wrote:
         | But author wants to surround themselves with smart people per
         | another of their postings, obviously this can't be done in low
         | cost of living areas...
        
         | plainnoodles wrote:
         | The problem is that the author probably likes manhattan for
         | various reasons that you can't just move outside of manhattan,
         | like:
         | 
         | - family nearby
         | 
         | - friends nearby
         | 
         | - as a consequence of the above two: support network is in
         | manhattan
         | 
         | - enjoying the local parks/scene/etc
         | 
         | I grew up in <midwest plains city> and then moved to <rival
         | midwest plains city> for a long while after college, eventually
         | moving back to my home city because that's where all my family
         | was.
         | 
         | It was a hard move in _both directions_ and all things
         | considered, I didn 't even move that far. In city B, I missed
         | my family and the stuff there was to do in city A. But after
         | moving back, I now miss a lot of the things we did in B. And I
         | don't even consider myself to be someone to particularly likes
         | leaving my house!
         | 
         | Advice that tells people to "just move" is pretty shortsighted,
         | I think. I really doubt OP moved to manhattan just to be able
         | to be snooty about living in an expensive city, or something,
         | which is honestly how I kind of read these kinds of advice -
         | though it's probably not a very charitable read of your
         | argument, for which I apologize.
        
           | buscoquadnary wrote:
           | Ah so now it's transformed from I want to be a writer to I
           | want to be a writer in Manhattan specifically, and I'm sure
           | there are a lot of other caveats.
           | 
           | Do you want me to tell you about someone who really has a
           | passion for writing. Brandon Sanderson, he loved writing so
           | much that in college he got a job at a desk clerk at a hotel
           | at night just so he could write more. He writes "novellas" on
           | his flights for fun just because he can, during COVID he
           | wrote 4 more novels just for funsies to deal with the
           | anxiety.
           | 
           | A lot of people say they have a passion what they have is an
           | interest. Anyone who has a real honest to God burning passion
           | is going to be doing it regardless of anything else just
           | because they love it.
           | 
           | Alot of people think they have a passion but really they just
           | kind of like the idea doing something that seems easier.
        
             | dataflow wrote:
             | > A lot of people say they have a passion what they have is
             | an interest. Anyone who has a real honest to God burning
             | passion is going to be doing it regardless of anything else
             | just because they love it.
             | 
             | You're confusing "would you be pursuing that passion
             | regardless of other factors" with "would/should you
             | sacrifice other aspects of your life if you could still
             | follow that one passion".
             | 
             | It's not about the circumstances under which you're willing
             | to still follow your passion. It's about what sacrifices
             | you're willing to make in your life, regardless of your
             | passion. e.g., you might be willing to go to prison or live
             | in a dumpster and still love writing books so much that
             | you'd continue doing that, but your love for writing books
             | doesn't imply you should be willing to go live in a
             | dumpster. The other factors still matter in your life. They
             | just won't get in the way of you writing, is all.
        
             | projectazorian wrote:
             | A lot of people in creative fields thrive off the presence
             | of other creatives around them with whom they can discuss
             | ideas, etc. NYC is hard to beat for that. You're also
             | likely to come across more opportunities to get your work
             | published if you live in one of the centers of the global
             | publishing industry.
             | 
             | People choose to live in NYC for reasons other than
             | narcissism or lifestyle amenities - for many creative
             | fields (especially anything "high culture") it is
             | objectively the best, sometimes the only, place to be if
             | you want to develop your career.
             | 
             | And I'm sorry but if quantity written had any relevance on
             | one's seriousness as an author then Stephen King would be
             | the greatest English-language author of all time.
        
               | hoistbypetard wrote:
               | > And I'm sorry but if quantity written had any relevance
               | on one's seriousness as an author then Stephen King would
               | be the greatest English-language author of all time.
               | 
               | While I would never reach for that kind of superlative,
               | and I definitely don't think it's related to quantity
               | written, I do think Stephen King is an exceptionally good
               | English-language author.
        
             | AlotOfReading wrote:
             | This whole "you aren't a _real_ <x> unless you suffer
             | through <y>" is just as unhealthy for authors as it is for
             | programmers. Just because someone isn't grinding out
             | leetcode on their lunchbreak or novellas on flights doesn't
             | mean they don't have a genuine love and passion for the
             | underlying art. Sanderson is an exceptional author,
             | emphasis on _exceptional_. Most people would burn out at
             | the pace he sets.
        
               | buscoquadnary wrote:
               | My point wasn't to say your aren't a real writer unless
               | you write like he does it was to illustrate what a real
               | love and burning passion is.
               | 
               | A lot of us here think we would love to but physicists as
               | it is all so interesting but we can't because of our
               | jobs. The greatest physicist since Newton couldn't get a
               | job as a physicist but loved it so much that he spent any
               | spare time he had working on it and thinking about it and
               | obsessing over it.
               | 
               | If you really actually love something you'll find a way
               | to do it, otherwise it's a hobby. Hobbies are good there
               | is nothing wrong with it. But if you really feel a
               | burning desire to do something you'd do it regardless of
               | finances and time because you won't be able to stop
               | yourself from doing it.
        
               | AlotOfReading wrote:
               | Speaking from personal experience, that's not true. I
               | truly loved being an archaeologist, but I also enjoy the
               | creature comforts of bathing, housing, and having access
               | to the basic institutions of society like voting or
               | dating. Pursuing one effectively meant giving up the
               | others, so I returned to my more moderate (and
               | financially rewarding) love of tech.
        
               | meowzero wrote:
               | I agree with you to some extent.
               | 
               | There are exceptions like your examples. There are
               | probably others who do have strong passions where they
               | obsess over their art and still want to move to a place
               | where other artist like themselves are.
               | 
               | That's probably why Paris was the place to be if you were
               | an aspiring impressionist painter in the 19th century.
               | Renoir, Monet, etc probably were passionate about their
               | art. And being in close proximity probably helped each
               | other in positive ways.
        
             | allenu wrote:
             | > A lot of people say they have a passion what they have is
             | an interest. Anyone who has a real honest to God burning
             | passion is going to be doing it regardless of anything else
             | just because they love it.
             | 
             | This reminds me of a part of a Ken Robinson talk (maybe
             | it's a TED Talk), where he describes talking to a friend
             | after a musical performance. He tells his friend, "I'd love
             | to be able to do what you do on the stage." And his friends
             | basically tells him, "No, you don't. If you wanted to do
             | what I do, you'd be practicing on your guitar daily. What
             | you want is the praise and benefits of the hard work. You
             | don't actually want to do what I do."
        
           | the_watcher wrote:
           | The author lives in Austin. He used to live in Manhattan.
        
       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | I've been inspired by Nat's journey for awhile. I always had the
       | impression that he was doing quite well financially from all the
       | self-help/teaching products, mobile apps, and SEO business he's
       | built.
       | 
       | I stopped following him when he got into crypto though. I don't
       | quite understand the article's point if the money in crypto was
       | "too good". Does that mean something crashed to the point of not
       | being able to live sustainably off of?
       | 
       | I wrote a little bit about this phenomena the article talks about
       | of "distracted from distraction by distraction":
       | 
       | https://jondouglas.dev/distracted-from-distraction-by-distra...
        
         | 11101010001100 wrote:
         | At least crypto helped you figure out that at the end of the
         | day, it's just business.
        
       | andrewfromx wrote:
       | "Jason needs to stop interrupting Sacks" very funny line.
        
       | sys_64738 wrote:
       | I thought this was going to be about the dangers of paying bills
       | online. Clearly not.
        
       | GCA10 wrote:
       | Long-time writer here. Couple of thoughts.
       | 
       | Yes, conjuring up the right words can be a b*tch, and it's so
       | tempting to step away from the keyboard in favor of something
       | that's simpler or more lucrative. But the magnet that keeps
       | pulling me back -- and making it easier -- is this sense that
       | people out there genuinely need the story or lessons that I'm
       | trying to convey.
       | 
       | Start with: Who's my audience? Then: What's my message? Then: Why
       | do they need this? Get solid about all three of these, and a lot
       | of good things happen. You'll press ahead with flawed but fixable
       | first drafts. You'll come back and do the rewrite necessary to
       | get it better. And when your confidence flags, you'll get revived
       | by connecting with readers, friends, fans, etc. who want and need
       | you to succeed.
       | 
       | Writing may seem like a solo sport. In a lot of ways it is. But
       | the more you can conjure up a community that cares, the stronger
       | you'll be.
        
       | Alex3917 wrote:
       | I totally get the point of wanting to write things that benefit
       | others, or even society at large. But why aspire to earn your
       | living from writing? That makes less sense to me.
       | 
       | E.g. given the choice, I'd rather get paid for having written
       | software than for writing software.
        
       | egypturnash wrote:
       | So I got some bad news for you, dude. It sounds like you spent
       | all this time not writing much, if at all. There's only one way
       | to get better at a creative pursuit and that is to keep doing it.
       | That means you're no closer to being good enough at writing to
       | earn a living at it than you were when you started, never mind
       | write anything "great".
       | 
       | On the other hand it also sounds like you spent a lot of time
       | learning to sell shit, and selling your stuff _is_ an important
       | part of making  "creative work" worthwhile. The dude who draws
       | "The Oatmeal" is a terrible artist, for instance, but his SEO
       | skills sure have made him a lot of money with his bad drawings.
       | So you might be able to make money selling shitty writing. Nobody
       | will probably ever say "there goes a great writer" when you're
       | about to die, though.
        
         | enominezerum wrote:
         | The overall vibe I got from reading that post and a few more by
         | Nate is "I found success, you can to, give me money to find out
         | how."
         | 
         | There are also quite a few posts arguing against typical
         | financial wisdom. Things like "yea, I could have made some
         | decent returns investing my money, but it permitted me to
         | become who I am" and "you don't need a budget", which all just
         | starts linking back to referral links and other things that
         | make Nate money.
         | 
         | The page about not needing a budget and that it eats into your
         | productive time is extremely BS. Dude knows this, but it is
         | something that will prey on financially illiterate people who
         | are looking an excuse 'oh, this rich dude Nate said I didn't
         | need a budget'. It also sucks because he then talks about
         | automating credit card payments, if you don't have a budget and
         | don't track your spending that is a HUGE recipe for disaster.
         | 
         | Even some of this writings about wealth vs money, while
         | thoughtful in how they convey the concepts, fail to account for
         | other concerns. Pointing out that a job only pays you while you
         | work, but something like real estate rental may generate
         | wealth, ignores just how much more complication there is in the
         | later.
         | 
         | Which is my final complaint. I am not seeing the nitty gritty
         | truth of just how much work is being put in in any of his
         | writings. He touches on things briefly, but he doesn't really
         | convey that there is a huge startup burden that is incredibly
         | risky everytime you start something like building wealth.
        
       | 8bitsrule wrote:
       | > I would care a lot though if you told me I never wrote anything
       | great. That's what I'm most afraid to fail at....
       | 
       | Sounds like he's always taking care of the bills from others but
       | running away from the bills he owes himself. Giving writing a
       | real shot might mean giving up running each day until after there
       | are at least a hundred words on that day's blank page. (36,500
       | words of first draft each year.) Prime the pump every day.
        
       | f0e4c2f7 wrote:
       | I enjoyed the article and could relate to large parts.
       | 
       | Check out Substack. Probably the most straightforward way for
       | writers to make money today and you still own the content.
       | 
       | Ghost.org is also interesting for creating a self hosted version.
       | 
       | I think it's also good to have what you love at the core of what
       | you do, but there may be other parts of the system / funnel that
       | mostly serve to let you work on the thing you love (TikTok's,
       | courses etc).
        
       | readme wrote:
       | Here in my garage, just bought this new Lamborghini here. It's
       | fun to drive up here in the Hollywood hills.
        
       | adrianmsmith wrote:
       | I think the fear of failure (of something we really care about)
       | leads us to procrastinate and find diversions. I think "In order
       | to do my passion X, I first need to do Y e.g. earn some money" is
       | often just a distraction.
       | 
       | The brain does this to us because if we don't do X we can
       | continue to believe that we'll be successful at it if we do do
       | it. Whereas if we do actually do it, we might fail, which will be
       | hard to take.
       | 
       | If you find yourself thinking in that direction, I think it's
       | always better to just go ahead and do the X if at all possible.
       | You'll fail, you'll learn, etc.
        
         | throwk8s wrote:
         | > Whereas if we do actually do it, we might fail, which will be
         | hard to take.
         | 
         | It's hard to take because unless you've already got substantial
         | financial security, you may end up broke, and may no longer
         | have any readily available "for-the-money" job opportunities
         | afterward.
        
           | kitsunesoba wrote:
           | This is the big thing for me. I know full well that failure
           | is not only possible but highly likely, and that the price is
           | my financial safety net being expended. The ego hit isn't the
           | problem, it's the resulting inability to pay bills.
           | 
           | Thankfully I like my day job quite a lot so my strategy has
           | been to try to drive down cost of living where reasonable and
           | accumulate more padding than is actually necessary, so when I
           | finally commit to doing my own thing I'll be able to fund
           | multiple attempts, preferably with some downtime between each
           | to prevent burnout. Success is still anything but guaranteed
           | but I figure that my chances are better that way than if I
           | were stressed and in a hurry trying to make things work
           | before my bank account ran dry.
        
             | ModernMech wrote:
             | I feel like that's reasonable, but I've never attempted it
             | because I think I would do the same thing with money that I
             | do with time; fritter it away until I get desperate enough
             | to light a fire under my ass.
        
           | r3trohack3r wrote:
           | Not OP but I read this as it's hard for the ego to take.
           | 
           | Even for bets that require little financial investment (i.e.
           | digging deeper into physics) and occupy R&R time - failing
           | can be hard to take.
           | 
           | We like to believe we are the version of ourselves capable of
           | doing anything. If you do nothing - you can die believing you
           | wasted your potential. If you do something and fail to meet
           | your own expectations, you can die knowing there wasn't any
           | potential there to waste.
        
             | allenu wrote:
             | This is so true. I think the fantasy that we have the
             | capacity to do amazing things in our lives, but there's
             | some external force stopping us, is a lovely, ego-saving
             | one.
             | 
             | I've always thought, I have some great ideas and if I'm
             | ever able to take some time off, I can build something that
             | will surely be successful. A few months ago, I decided that
             | this is as good a time at any at striking out on my own, so
             | I quit my job to pursue my own projects.
             | 
             | With a few months under my belt, I'm realizing, wow it's
             | not that easy. Doubt starts creeping in: Maybe I don't have
             | what it takes. The fantasy I had is starting to crumble a
             | little bit and I start to wonder, if I give up on this
             | dream, what other fantasy can I fall back on when times are
             | tough and I want to dream of a better future?
        
         | mjr00 wrote:
         | > I think the fear of failure (of something we really care
         | about) leads us to procrastinate and find diversions.
         | 
         | Absolutely, you see this all the time in creative fields.
         | People want to believe they can be the next ( _insert their
         | favorite musician /author/artist/etc here_), and as long as
         | they don't make a sincere attempt at it, the possibility will
         | continue to exist. If only they had more money, or time! That's
         | the only thing stopping them -- as long as it's not actually
         | attempted, this thinking can't be disproven!
        
       | cortesoft wrote:
       | > My ideal work life is to write about whatever I want, however I
       | want, and be able to turn that into a comfortable living.
       | 
       | I am always torn when I read something like this. On one hand, I
       | want people to be able to pursue their passions. On the other
       | hand, I know that it is impossible for the world to function if
       | everyone got to only do what they want.
       | 
       | This person wants to be able to earn a living doing whatever they
       | want, but they also want to enjoy the benefits of other people
       | doing things they don't want to do. They want to be able to
       | travel, but that requires other people to do a lot of labor they
       | probably don't want to do. The boarding agent, flight attendant,
       | and pilots likely all don't want to be doing what they are doing
       | while he flies. The person who cleans the plane and loads the
       | luggage aren't doing what they want to be doing.
       | 
       | This is going to apply for so much of what the author is going to
       | expect from others to support his lifestyle of doing whatever he
       | wants whenever he wants. He wants to write while other people
       | grow his food, provide his infrastructure, the services he
       | requires.
       | 
       | In the end, I don't think it is a healthy goal for people to
       | expect to not have to do work that they don't want to do. Sure,
       | it might turn out that you can support yourself doing what you
       | wanted to do anyway (although even then you will probably have to
       | do a lot of stuff that isn't what you want to do, too), but I
       | don't think you should expect it or define success in life as
       | being able to do that.
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | I think of wall street, google and others hiring the brightest
         | minds to assure their revenues...
         | 
         | Meanwhile, if a small fraction of those minds worked on a more
         | efficient toilet, or desalinating water the ROI for society
         | would be significantly higher.
         | 
         | But I guess market forces are at work. and they make it
         | possible for people to be paid for growing food or building
         | infrastructure in accordance with demand.
        
         | jrm4 wrote:
         | I could not possibly disagree with this sort of "everybody has
         | to work" view more; I think it's the primary _problem_ with our
         | current society if you could boil it down to that. Thorstein
         | Veblen said it better than I ever could.
         | 
         | More precisely, I suppose, it's not the factual content that I
         | have a problem with. It's technically true, but it also doesn't
         | need to be said. It's like telling a human to keep breathing.
         | So instead, it serves the purpose of contributing to a society
         | that values "sacrificial work" too much.
        
           | bluefirebrand wrote:
           | So who gets to decide who has to do the necessary work for
           | society to function and who gets to sit around and do nothing
           | except benefit from their work?
           | 
           | Do you have an equitable way to solve this issue?
           | 
           | Or maybe people who don't do strictly necessary work still
           | need to do something. And maybe you consider that
           | "sacrificial", I consider it "contributing"
        
             | jrm4 wrote:
             | I do, because it's not actually that big of an issue. The
             | correct answer here is "localism." What would it look like
             | in your town? I don't know, but I don't need to. Just
             | ensure that small groups are able to figure it out for
             | themselves.
             | 
             | The real harm isn't the imaginary laziness you fear here..
             | It's scaled political power that allows groups to exploit
             | others.
        
               | yibg wrote:
               | Where would a small group of people get their electricity
               | or medicines? What if none of the small groups of people
               | wants to develop medicines? This isn't a solution, it's
               | just handwaving things away.
        
               | epups wrote:
               | That makes no sense. Most stuff you consume is not
               | produced locally. And even then, why would I want to be a
               | local firefighter or whatever if some other people get to
               | sit on their ass every day?
        
               | xmprt wrote:
               | How is localism supposed to enable things like mobile
               | phones, internet, video games, movies, travel, etc.,
               | function? You're suggestion is essentially to go back to
               | the stone age. Additionally, wouldn't localism require
               | more people to do things that they don't enjoy? For
               | example, I'm not a fan of farming and I don't think many
               | of my neighbors are either but fortunately, we're all
               | able to eat pretty much any dish we like because of the
               | food shipped from distant farms every day.
               | 
               | > What would it look like in your town? I don't know, but
               | I don't need to
               | 
               | This sounds a lot like a non-answer. Perhaps I would
               | understand what you're talking about better if you
               | explained how you believe it would work in your town
               | where you do have more context.
        
         | swayvil wrote:
         | You think that we need people doing stuff they don't want to do
         | in order for the world to function.
         | 
         | Ok. But how much?
         | 
         | For example, somebody needs to clean the sewers. But does
         | anybody need to do that 40 hours a week?
         | 
         | How about 4 hours a week?
         | 
         | I dunno about you but I could do any horrible job if it's only
         | 4 hours a week.
         | 
         | And then I could spend the rest of my time doing my fun job
         | and/or whatever I feel like doing.
         | 
         | That would be pretty close to doing only what I want.
         | 
         | How does that work for you?
        
         | Bubble_Pop_22 wrote:
         | > but I don't think you should expect it or define success in
         | life as being able to do that.
         | 
         | Why not? Maximum consumption with minimum amount of work is the
         | very definition of success in every process.
        
         | iglio wrote:
         | What you say is true and necessary today with the limited
         | deployment of automation in the world.
         | 
         | However, it needn't be that way forever:
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fully_Automated_Luxury_Commu...
        
           | colineartheta wrote:
           | I'm rather ambivalent about it all myself, but just in case
           | anybody else is curious I've found Nihislist Communism [1] to
           | be the most coherently argued critique of FALC (and other
           | utopian Marxist ideologies).
           | 
           | [1] https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/monsieur-dupont-
           | nihi...
        
         | dasil003 wrote:
         | I feel like this framing conflates personal and societal
         | responsibility in an unhealthy way. At the end of the day we
         | all benefit from specialization, that's the entire basis for
         | our modern standard of living. I don't think it's the
         | individual's responsibility to ensure that things are fair at a
         | societal level. Not only would it be impossible given personal
         | preferences and the subjective experience of work, but it can
         | also have negative psychological consequences if one believes
         | that work is not morally valuable if one doesn't dislike it.
         | 
         | Now, if the OA felt entitled to his chosen career path
         | regardless of economic reality then I agree that would be
         | uncool, but I'm not seeing that here. The author is not looking
         | for a handout. He is simply grappling with the tradeoff between
         | optimizing for max remuneration vs the nature of the work
         | itself.
        
         | frittata wrote:
         | I've co-founded two startups and the biggest surprise/lesson
         | for me was that most people don't want to forge their own path
         | and customize every detail of their life. I had co-founders in
         | each who after leaving our startups went on to 'normal' jobs
         | and are much happier now.
         | 
         | There are without a doubt flight attendants who hate their job,
         | but I'd guess that most of them like their jobs and like the
         | structure and accountability that is provided to them, and not
         | having to figure out every detail themself.
         | 
         | And then there are people like myself who can't stand being
         | told what to work on and how to schedule my day.
        
           | hirvi74 wrote:
           | > but I'd guess that most of them like their jobs and like
           | the structure and accountability that is provided to them,
           | and not having to figure out every detail themself.
           | 
           | It's also nice not having to worry about when/if your next
           | paycheck will come in, if you can afford your health
           | insurance, get company matches on 401ks, etc.. Freedom is
           | free, after all. While security may be an illusion to some
           | degree, it's a compromise for freedom that many are willing
           | to make (myself included).
           | 
           | I sometimes get urges to go out and sow some wild oats, but I
           | debate if it's worth all the effort in the end.
        
         | jvalencia wrote:
         | IMO, I think that pursuing a standard of living for you and
         | your family is a reasonable and honorable goal, even if that
         | means work is a chore. If you can love what you do that's a
         | perk, but even if it's not there, the goal still remains.
         | 
         | Having disposable income means you can pursue leisure
         | opportunity, give charitably, gain security for your loved
         | ones, etc. You don't have to love your job to accomplish your
         | goals.
        
         | lijogdfljk wrote:
         | Agreed. It's why i get frustrated in a lot of the antiwork
         | movements. The core of the antiwork movement is about respect
         | and healthy treatment of course; but as a community they also
         | fraternize (?) with people who think we shouldn't have to work
         | at all; that it's optional and society is just asleep to this
         | simple and obvious "fact". But of course it's bunk.
         | 
         | Until automation "saves humanity"[1] we have to work. We can
         | and should push for healthy balances, respectful treatment of
         | workers, sane retirement ages, etc. But still, work needs to be
         | done, and i find it incredibly frustrating that some people
         | think we can all just stop working.
         | 
         | [1]: Though i'm quite pessimistic that automation will save
         | humanity. I suspect that while it could, it will also cause
         | such turmoil in the beginning that we fail as a species. A
         | nuclear winter of the working class.
        
           | kgwgk wrote:
           | Automation saved humanity from spending a large chunk of
           | their lifetimes sowing and reaping. Humanity found other
           | works to do.
        
           | brightball wrote:
           | I have the same frustration when people conflate libertarian
           | with anarchist.
        
           | wollsmoth wrote:
           | Yeah the antiwork reddit in particular is kind of..
           | uncomfortable to read sometimes. I want it to be more about
           | giving workers more of the benefit of their labor but they
           | seem to be just anti doing anything at times.
        
             | hirvi74 wrote:
             | r/WorkReform is slightly better about this, but sometimes
             | is plagued with the same issues.
        
           | juve1996 wrote:
           | For work to matter it has to help people achieve goals. If
           | their goals are unachievable then they will not see a point
           | in work. This is where we are.
        
           | brailsafe wrote:
           | Well... if work was optional, but sufficiently and
           | progressively rewarding, then people would choose to do the
           | jobs that they're currently not choosing to do.
           | 
           | So many jobs not only pay like shit while extracting so much
           | value from that labour, but in most cases you also have no
           | incentive to give even the slightest shit about it. No
           | ability to buy into the company, no autonomy, very little
           | functional leverage over increasing your fixed salary, and in
           | most cases not even remotely knowing how much the conpany is
           | making.
           | 
           | My current company thought it was wierd that I basically just
           | peaced out for a bit when they ran out of money to pay me and
           | at the same time aren't the slightest bit transparent about
           | details regarding potential acquisition. Likewise I learned
           | early on that if you don't literally have either a seat at
           | some table, or a real stake in the company, or any decision
           | power, you might as well stop trying after your work is done
           | with an acceptable level of quality. It ain't worth it.
           | 
           | Lots of companies rn complaining about worker shortages, but
           | they offer crap pay and it's fixed. You either don't get a
           | commission, or you get maybe a gift card as a bonus from time
           | to time. Most don't offer benefits.
        
             | bluGill wrote:
             | Some jobs, would you clean latrines if that was somehow the
             | only job we couldn't figure out how to automate,
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | We already have self cleaning public toilets. Generally
               | jobs that suck are the easiest types of jobs to automate
               | because novelty is interesting.
        
             | WalterBright wrote:
             | > you might as well stop trying after your work is done
             | with an acceptable level of quality. It ain't worth it.
             | 
             | It's been worth it for me.
        
           | grecy wrote:
           | > _people who think we shouldn 't have to work at all; that
           | it's optional and society is just asleep to this simple and
           | obvious "fact"._
           | 
           | The evidence is clear if there were not people making $8.56
           | million dollars per hour, there would be plenty enough money
           | to give everyone enough to do what they want with their
           | lives.
           | 
           | Yes plenty of BS jobs would vanish, and you'd have to pay
           | people more to do "undesirable jobs" like taking the trash,
           | but in developed countries like Australia we already do. I
           | made $120k/year stacking boxes in a factory because it's
           | mindless work that nobody wants to do. Instead they sit at
           | home at get $1280 each month from the government as welfare.
           | And that's fine.
        
           | ModernMech wrote:
           | At the same time, a lot of us who are "working" are actually
           | doing bullshit nonsense that is created just to keep us busy.
           | Meanwhile a lot of people who do _actual_ work like raising
           | children, taking care of elder parents, or educating
           | themselves are not considered to be "working" because they're
           | not generating someone else a profit.
           | 
           | What would happen if all the bullshit work ended tomorrow?
           | Would the world come to an end? I don't think so. But if all
           | the unpaid work out there went undone, yes, society would
           | quickly fall apart.
           | 
           | I don't follow the "anti work" movement so I won't pretend to
           | know what they as a group believe. But for me, I believe we
           | can drastically redefine the concept of work and come out
           | ahead.
        
             | foobiekr wrote:
             | >What would happen if all the bullshit work ended
             | tomorrow?<
             | 
             | It can't. Some of the bullshit work is actually just to
             | provide a bizarro-world downtime where you can't just tell
             | people to take extra vacation because that is unthinkable:
             | "fairness" complaints, worries that idle time makes people
             | more likely to consider their options, and frankly the
             | inconceivability of the idea in and of itself. So what you
             | do is have this kind of idle time work that doesn't
             | actually need to be done but keeps people busy. Think of it
             | as the workplace version of engagement tweaking.
             | 
             | As a concrete example, in the ASIC space, the sub-teams
             | involved routinely finish their part of the current
             | generation, and in some cases the next generation work
             | isn't ready to start yet. One thing startups used to do
             | (and were still doing in my direct observation as recently
             | as 4 years ago) was lay off their ASIC guys as they
             | finished the current generation until they could see
             | whether the chip was getting traction, and then they'd
             | hurry up and hire for the next generation of so.
             | 
             | And so on.
             | 
             | What the companies eventually started doing by ~2000 was
             | creating bullshit background work projects that were
             | clearly, at least to most observers, either senseless (like
             | bumping the generation for a low-volume ASIC where even
             | just the mask costs would never be paid back if the project
             | shipped) or speculative-but-not-productive projects.
        
             | cortesoft wrote:
             | > At the same time, a lot of us who are "working" are
             | actually doing bullshit nonsense that is created just to
             | keep us busy.
             | 
             | I am not going to argue that some work is more essential
             | than other work, but I disagree that some jobs are created
             | just to keep people busy. Why would anyone hire someone
             | just to make sure they stayed busy? That is simply not
             | happening. The people who control the money aren't worried
             | about keeping people busy, they are worried about making
             | more money.
             | 
             | Now, is there a large part of our economy that only exists
             | because people who have capital will pursue anything in
             | order to grow their capital? Yes, absolutely, but those
             | jobs still exist because someone else will give them money
             | to obtain what the job produces. Companies aren't sitting
             | around thinking, "oh man, too many people in the world
             | aren't busy... let's create some more useless jobs"
        
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               | ModernMech wrote:
               | > Why would anyone hire someone just to make sure they
               | stayed busy? That is simply not happening.
               | 
               | I'll give you an example. My wife worked as an intensive
               | case manager, where the job was ostensibly to help
               | severely ill people manage their lives. Was that her
               | actual job though? No, her actual job was filling out
               | reams of paper work instead of actually helping anyone.
               | That paperwork was sent to the state and the company got
               | paid, with the vast majority of the money going to
               | executives.
               | 
               | What would happen if her job were eliminated? Would the
               | people be worse off? No, the whole point was to _not_
               | help them and keep the state aid checks coming in. My
               | wife wasn't using her skills and was depressed and
               | stressed all the time so she'd be better off if that job
               | had never existed. Then there were the 3 layers of middle
               | management coordinating all of the form filling. Their
               | job was wholly redundant, and they didn't do any
               | meaningful work at all. Did they even need to exist? It's
               | not clear, but their existence didn't work toward
               | actually helping any real people. They just helped
               | collect government checks. They were paid well though.
               | 
               | The people who would be harmed the most by that "work"
               | not getting done are the executives.
        
               | throwaway0a5e wrote:
               | Ha! I have family members who were the bureaucrats who
               | audited that paperwork your wife sent in. The situation
               | is exactly the same on the government side. Over
               | qualified people doing meaningless paperwork while
               | politically connected upper managers make tons of money
               | joining conference calls from the golf course. It's great
               | at crushing the spirit of anybody who actually wants to
               | accomplish whatever the organization's mission is.
               | 
               | And when the service being provided are also paid for by
               | the government the taxpayers take it on both ends!
               | 
               | Edit: Is my comment unpopular because some people think
               | I'm endorsing the status quo or because some people find
               | this state of affairs inconvenient to their world view?
        
               | ModernMech wrote:
               | Lol yeah. The main job of those middle managers seemed to
               | be reviewing reports so they didn't make it sound like
               | they were driving people anywhere, even though that was
               | half the job. The state side bureaucrats probably did the
               | same thing! So it's even worse than a useless job, but a
               | useless job done twice!
        
               | cortesoft wrote:
               | Ok, I see where the disconnect is. You are talking about
               | work that has no value for 'real people', or humanity in
               | general. They aren't providing a good or service that
               | anyone wants directly.
               | 
               | However, they are clearly providing value to SOMEONE. The
               | person paying your wife gets more value (money) than they
               | pay your wife to do the job. They aren't trying to keep
               | her busy, they are trying to make money.
               | 
               | You could call this rent seeking, which is a completely
               | fair criticism. It just isn't the same as 'make work'
               | that is simply trying to keep someone busy. They are
               | trying to extract value in a way that is not good for
               | society as a whole.
        
               | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
               | I would say it is precisely exactly the same in the vast
               | majority of cases. These jobs exist to help some rich
               | fucks extract even more value from society in a way that
               | benefits them personally at the expense of society. They
               | are worse than useless, they are actively making the
               | world worse.
        
               | cortesoft wrote:
               | That isn't the same as "employing someone just to keep
               | them busy", though. They are employing them to make more
               | money; it just so happens that the work they are doing
               | doesn't actually provide value to society.
               | 
               | It might seem like a minor distinction, but I think it
               | matters when trying to understand the motivations
               | involved.
        
               | ModernMech wrote:
               | Right, I would define something like getting an education
               | to be work, because it's done with the intention of
               | bettering one's self to better society; while going
               | around and breaking all the windows in town just to be
               | paid to fix them again is not work, even if some
               | individual ends up getting rich in the process. It's a
               | net loss for the rest of us.
               | 
               | I guess from a physics pov it all depends how you define
               | the boundary of the system, and I draw it at a society
               | level.
        
               | mindslight wrote:
               | > _sitting around thinking, "oh man, too many people in
               | the world aren't busy... let's create some more useless
               | jobs"_
               | 
               | This is exactly what the Federal Reserve does with its
               | mandate for "full employment". When there aren't "enough"
               | jobs, it loans out of a bunch of new money at low
               | interest rates, for bankers to spend on outlandish bets -
               | like say polluting the environment with electric scooters
               | and hoping they'll turn into a recurring revenue stream.
               | 
               | "Full time employment" in 1950 was 40 hours per
               | household. The definition was never adjusted when women
               | entered the workforce en masse, so it's now 80+. With
               | technological advancement, "full time work" should mean
               | an individual works around 15 hours per week (with that
               | "exempt" loophole closed). Economically, workers should
               | have accumulated surplus and then demanded lower working
               | hours regardless, but the previously described economic
               | feedback loop saw that didn't happen, and instead the
               | gains got siphoned upwards as housing and other economic
               | rent.
               | 
               | That's the macro. At the micro level there are certainly
               | motivations to create useless jobs. For one, the more
               | people you manage/employ the more powerful you are, even
               | if they're spinning idle. Also, adversarial entities can
               | create jobs beneficial to their own self-interest while
               | the overall situation remains nonproductive or even
               | antiproductive (eg healthcare billing).
        
               | Ekaros wrote:
               | I would accept reasoning that on some level specially the
               | large organizations are dysfunctional. And they don't
               | necessarily optimize for costs on all levels. Sometimes
               | it is just higher-ups wanting more resources and people
               | under them. Even if it is not productive or needed... And
               | what of the stuff people doing end up being productive?
               | 
               | And then sometimes I really question is that new version
               | website really needed?
        
               | ForHackernews wrote:
               | There are books about this![0]
               | 
               | > Why would anyone hire someone just to make sure they
               | stayed busy?
               | 
               | 1) flunkies, who serve to make their superiors feel
               | important, e.g., receptionists, administrative
               | assistants, door attendants, store greeters, makers of
               | websites whose sites neglect ease of use and speed for
               | looks;
               | 
               | 2) goons, who act to harm or deceive others on behalf of
               | their employer, e.g., lobbyists, corporate lawyers,
               | telemarketers, public relations specialists, community
               | managers;
               | 
               | 3) duct tapers, who temporarily fix problems that could
               | be fixed permanently, e.g., programmers repairing bloated
               | code, airline desk staff who calm passengers whose bags
               | do not arrive;
               | 
               | 4) box tickers, who create the appearance that something
               | useful is being done when it is not, e.g., survey
               | administrators, in-house magazine journalists, corporate
               | compliance officers, quality service managers;
               | 
               | 5) taskmasters, who create extra work for those who do
               | not need it, e.g., middle management, leadership
               | professionals
               | 
               | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullshit_Jobs
        
               | corrral wrote:
               | Companies are, internally, command economies. Of course
               | they're full of inefficiency and crazy shit like people
               | hired to do nothing. Competition curbs it somewhat, but
               | economies of scale and various moats and probably some
               | under-the-table collusion and such are _very_ effective
               | at protecting them from what we might consider
               | _desirable_ market effects.
        
               | foobiekr wrote:
               | >Why would anyone hire someone just to make sure they
               | stayed busy<
               | 
               | This happens _constantly_. It is a side effect of how the
               | promotion ladder in the management profession typically
               | works at large companies: your likelihood of being
               | promoted to the next grade depends entirely on a small
               | number of metrics one of which is how many people you
               | manage.
               | 
               | I actually have been documenting a very strong example of
               | this for a book I have been thinking about writing about
               | what destroyed a high flyer after the dotcom. After the
               | collapse of the dotcom, one group, which had the CEO's
               | ear as "the project that will save us" had effectively
               | unlimited headcount even while the rest of the company
               | was in cuts-and-freeze mode for 2+ years, and because of
               | the headcount = promotion issue, they hired armies of
               | people that they were barely even interviewing. The
               | project ended up 2-4 years late depending on whether you
               | count the first release as a viable product (it wasn't).
               | 
               | I have seen this behavior in every single large company I
               | have worked for. I'm not going to give more details
               | because it would ID me, but this is very common and I was
               | in a position to witness it with actual data, not just a
               | leaf node engineer telling myself stories about why XXX
               | got a promotion to VP or whatever.
        
               | ForHackernews wrote:
               | This is accurate. As an engineering manager, one of the
               | primary criteria I'm judged on when interviewing for new
               | roles is the size of the teams I've managed previously.
               | Bigger = better.
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | This is why over time large companies tend to slide and
               | then fail. Instead of growing and growing until they take
               | over the world.
        
               | UncleOxidant wrote:
               | I think you're both right to a degree. Yes, nobody's
               | specifically hiring people just to keep them busy. But
               | there are many instances where people are employed to
               | make some manager (and it could be management at any
               | level) look good, or retain power within the organization
               | or even just for them to retain a management position
               | within the organization long past the time when their
               | position could've been eliminated. This is more likely in
               | larger organizations, but can also happen in mid-size
               | ones as well.
        
             | tablespoon wrote:
             | > What would happen if all the bullshit work ended
             | tomorrow? Would the world come to an end?
             | 
             | Honestly, it might. It would take an extraordinary amount
             | of work to correctly identify all the work that's
             | _actually_ bullshit, and there might not be any time left
             | for anything else.
             | 
             | There's work that's bullshit, but no-one realizes it
             | because it's very hard to have an expansive yet detailed
             | view of everything. There's also work that seems like
             | bullshit, but performs an important, non-obvious function
             | [1].
             | 
             | [1] Sort of like Congressional earmarks: they were attacked
             | for a long time as corrupt waste. Now that they're gone, it
             | seems like they might have actually been grease that helped
             | keep polarization in check.
        
             | aleksiy123 wrote:
             | Like with any process there is some waste (bullshit jobs),
             | but the question is, it worth committing the extra
             | resources to eliminate these bullshit jobs or would those
             | resources be better used elsewhere.
             | 
             | Essentially not all waste is actually worth eliminating.
        
             | psyc wrote:
             | The number of people in this subthread who think true
             | bullshit jobs don't exist because they're inefficient
             | astonishes me. You'd have to believe that all middle
             | managers were good at allocating effort.
             | 
             | Or senior executives for that matter.
             | 
             | In big companies, cash cows subsidize all manner of
             | boondoggles. That's why we have a term for cash cows.
             | 
             | Ever have a long term project cancelled, either for a good
             | reason, or just because a new VP showed up and the project
             | didn't have his brand on it? Did that cancelled project
             | make the company money? Companies only do things that make
             | money, right?
             | 
             | Never saw a high level goal in your company that was
             | misguided? A roadmap for getting there that was misguided?
             | Never seen a process (methodology, etc) that wasted a lot
             | of time, but one important person swore by? I could go on.
        
               | powerhour wrote:
               | This is why I roll my eyes when I see people suggest that
               | government is wasteful and should be run like a business.
               | It's like they have never worked a job in their lives.
        
             | wollsmoth wrote:
             | what kind of bullshit work do you mean exactly? Who is
             | wasting their money paying people to do "bullshit work"
             | that doesn't actually need to happen?
        
               | corrral wrote:
               | Tons and tons of organizations. It's extremely common.
               | 
               | It makes more sense when you consider that companies
               | mostly don't experience market effects internally, but
               | operate much more like the Soviet Union, and that,
               | especially for very large companies, the effects of
               | external competition are rather _less than ideally
               | efficient_ , to put it mildly. Throw in a heaping
               | spoonful of principal-agent problems up and down every
               | organization, the fact that information is very far from
               | perfectly available and distributed to managers, and more
               | than a little good ol' incompetence, and it'd be weird if
               | it _wasn 't_ common.
        
         | flippinburgers wrote:
         | I am fairly confident that many (most) pilots love their job.
         | The others that you listed are probably valid.
        
           | treis wrote:
           | Judging by their reputation as alcoholics I'd disagree.
           | Actually seems like a quite terrible job. Doing the same
           | thing every day over and over. And after the novelty of
           | flight wears off probably quite boring. I know being a
           | passenger is and outside of take off/landing I'm not sure
           | there's much difference.
        
           | Ekaros wrote:
           | Some might be stuck there, but I still agree that it is
           | largely a passion career unlike many others. Not that there
           | is levels where compensation isn't horrific, but even those
           | are working towards career growth.
        
         | spoonjim wrote:
         | Just because something's not attainable for everyone doesn't
         | mean you shouldn't aspire to it yourself. Sure, lots of people
         | will have to do stuff they don't want to, so what? It's like
         | aspiring to be the best basketball player of all time. Not only
         | is it unattainable for more than one person, but to achieve it
         | you have to destroy everyone else's ambitions to do the same.
        
           | cdkmoose wrote:
           | To extend the analogy, OP is saying I want some team to pay
           | me to play basketball, but I will only play on the days I
           | feel like it, independent of the team's schedule. That
           | generally doesn't hold up well. If you want someone to give
           | you money you need to conform to their desires enough to get
           | the money, and that won't be what you want all the time.
        
           | cortesoft wrote:
           | I don't think it is bad to try to make money doing what you
           | want, but I do think it is unhealthy and antisocial to define
           | success in life as only doing what you want at all times.
           | 
           | To compare it to your basketball analogy, it is fine to
           | pursue becoming the best basketball player of all time, but
           | if you think you have failed if you don't achieve it is not
           | good.
        
         | ericmcer wrote:
         | This assumes everyone has some higher ambition that they are
         | unable to pursue due to bills. A lot of people grew up in
         | shitty situations so job security and the ability to provide
         | stability for their family gives life enough meaning.
         | Expectations are definitely relative.
        
           | colpabar wrote:
           | I think the point is that if you asked someone with a job
           | such as a janitor or an airline luggage worker if they'd
           | rather get paid to do something that they enjoy doing, the
           | answer would be yes 100% of the time. To go even further, the
           | answer would be yes for everyone with a job except for that
           | small lucky few who actually enjoy what they do.
           | 
           | And of course, this is not realistic, because some people
           | would want to get paid for things that no one would be
           | willing to pay for.
        
             | asah wrote:
             | disagree: I've known lots of workers who are actually quite
             | content.
             | 
             | Obviously, everybody wants more money/benefits/etc,
             | respect, pleasant work conditions, etc. But the workers I
             | know have ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST in jobs like research
             | scientist, politician, stockbroker, lawyer, doctor,
             | programmer, etc because they involve all sorts of skills &
             | tasks they fear, despise or seem wildly unobtainable. Many
             | people are introverted and fear meeting strangers and
             | public speaking. Many people are enjoy the physical world
             | and "it makes my head hurt" to spend hours thinking about
             | abstract stuff, which a lot of these "desk jobs" involve.
             | 
             | I highly recommend the book: How to Tell When You're Tired
             | 
             | source: 30 years working all sorts of jobs, from warehouse
             | and retail jobs to executive and board roles.
        
               | hirvi74 wrote:
               | > source: 30 years working all sorts of jobs, from
               | warehouse and retail jobs to executive and board roles.
               | 
               | Do you mind answering a few questions? I am kind of in a
               | "should I stay or should I go?" dilemma with my current
               | employment, and I have no idea what I want to do (I know
               | more about what I do NOT want to do).
               | 
               | You've been working almost longer than I have been alive,
               | and I am curious what you think (and others).
               | 
               | 1. What job made you the happiest, and Why?
               | 
               | 2. Did you happen to find any positive or negative
               | correlation between life satisfaction/happiness and the
               | amount of money you made?
               | 
               | I'm just your average, run of the mill developer. Nothing
               | special about me, and that's okay. It's just a job for
               | me, and I enjoy the work. I have no desire to be some Big
               | N programmer. I could chase dollar signs considering what
               | is out there for us devs, but I am not sure the juice is
               | worth the squeeze when I am already living comfortably.
        
             | ericmcer wrote:
             | If you asked them what they would rather be doing I doubt
             | many would reply with painter, writer, musician, or other
             | career worthy passions. Obviously if someone's passion is
             | eating pizza or watching TV or spending time with their
             | kids it would be unrealistic that they turn that into a
             | career. I have many friends who work blue collar jobs and
             | most of them aspire to do the same work but get paid more,
             | work less or work for themselves.
        
           | cortesoft wrote:
           | I think everyone has a 'higher' ambition in the sense of
           | "this is what I like to do". Even people in shitty situations
           | have things they would rather be doing than working their
           | job.
           | 
           | I agree that only people born with privilege think that
           | supporting yourself while only doing what you want is a
           | viable option, but that is kinda my point.
        
             | mrits wrote:
             | Not everyone likes doing things. It's one of the reason
             | depression is so common in people with a lot of free time.
        
               | hirvi74 wrote:
               | "Idle hands are the Devil's workshop" as the saying goes.
        
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         | ge96 wrote:
         | Easier said than done but save and retire then free to do what
         | you want.
        
         | Animats wrote:
         | And then he turned to the dark side: _" The obvious opportunity
         | at the time was to sell SEO services."_
        
         | NikolaNovak wrote:
         | Basically, what is the equilibrium?
         | 
         | There are many social equilibriums, and not all are equally
         | desirable for all; but Everybody writing from their backpacks
         | while traveling is not one of the equilibria states (which does
         | not necessarily mean it's not a suitable goal for an
         | individual, as long as expectations are tempered:)
        
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       | Damogran6 wrote:
       | Hopefully it just didn't make it far enough into the
       | conversation, but your minimum income to survive should have
       | $100-$300 a month in long term savings, so you're not forced to
       | grind in your 70's.
       | 
       | Can you make that Million dollar Idea and be independently
       | wealthy for the rest of your life? Maybe, but hedge your bets.
        
       | jll29 wrote:
       | > My ideal work life is to write about whatever I want, however I
       | want, and be able to turn that into a comfortable living.
       | 
       | It might be possible to find such a lifestyle; in fact, it is
       | much easier than the other goal of the poster, namely to write
       | something truly great. In fact, writing something truly great and
       | writing to get a comfortable living may be contrarian goals.
        
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