[HN Gopher] The case for unique email addresses (2020)
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       The case for unique email addresses (2020)
        
       Author : ivanvas
       Score  : 49 points
       Date   : 2022-06-20 15:14 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
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       | focusedone wrote:
       | I've done this for some time. <companyname>@<mydomain>.com makes
       | it easy to see who sold my address, easy to make a filter for
       | that inbound address if needed.
       | 
       | Maybe there are security benefits? If every site has both a
       | unique email and PW I figure automated attacks are a bit less
       | likely. Could someone figure my clever email scheme out? Easily.
       | 
       | My thinking is it's like being chased by a bear when out hiking
       | with friends. You don't have to outrun the bear, just one of your
       | friends. I'm probably not willing to achieve perfect security,
       | but if I can be slightly more difficult to figure out than <next
       | person on the list> maybe that helps?
        
         | quirino wrote:
         | I do something similar with my passwords, where I include the
         | name of the website in there in some manner. Definitely not
         | very secure, but probably better than simply using the same
         | password everywhere.
        
       | tut-urut-utut wrote:
       | Back in the time when email was important, I considered doing
       | something similar. Now, I just use one personal mail address that
       | I share only with real-world friends, and one other for all my
       | online accounts.
       | 
       | At this point, I don't even bother whether I receive spam on that
       | email or not, since it's just something I'm probably not going to
       | read. I mean, who cares about LinkedIn notification or Amazon
       | receipts, if I need them, I know where to find them. The default
       | spam filter of my mail provider and a few custom filters based on
       | from domain names are enough to keep my inbox manageable.
       | 
       | And even private mail is not that important anymore, given that
       | most of the communication with real people is now done through
       | various messengers.
        
         | wizofaus wrote:
         | Except typically when you _do_ receive an email, it 's a more
         | important message and is more likely to contain important
         | attachments or other information you need to retain vs messages
         | via social media/ online messaging services, even if it's from
         | friends/family. Worse, not scanning your junk email regularly
         | can lead to missing key information that you've been sent. The
         | current situation in general with how messaging is done online
         | seems far from ideal, but it's hard to see too many good ways
         | forward. Logically though if there were a reliable way to track
         | _who_ you 've given out your details too, it should be possible
         | to simply block messages that aren't from such sources.
        
           | tut-urut-utut wrote:
           | Important email just doesn't come suddenly anymore. Nowadays
           | people will just message me to check my email address before
           | sending an important email, although it didn't change for
           | years. And then, they'll message me to ask if I actually
           | received an email. So no important private mail gets lost ;)
           | 
           | Or I just receive booking confirmation minutes after booking.
           | Even if I don't read it or save immediately, it's still there
           | in inbox ready to be searched for and found if needed.
           | 
           | The only exception is business mail, but there I usually
           | communicate only with people from my company or my address
           | book, so there's no spam problem there.
        
             | wizofaus wrote:
             | I can easily give 5-10 examples of personal emails I
             | received recently which had critical info I had to act on,
             | and/or documents I need to retain for future reference,
             | none of which were anticipated. One was an airline
             | canceling a flight!
        
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       | brunes wrote:
       | I have been doing this for ~ 10 years or more. It is trivial to
       | do if you own your own email domain, and only slightly more
       | difficult with GMail.
       | 
       | There are other benefits that the article author does not cover,
       | that become clear when you think about how threat actors analyze
       | breach data.
        
       | lowwave wrote:
       | or install https://wildduck.email or mail in the box type of
       | server, just host it yourself. Wildduck web interface allows you
       | to make unlimited alias already.
        
       | pvg wrote:
       | Previously:
       | 
       | Oct 2020, 19 comments
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=24814029
       | 
       | Related recent quasi-dupeversation:
       | 
       |  _Using a catch-all domain is a mistake_ , 18 days ago, 296
       | comments https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31585463
        
       | hansword wrote:
       | The email address I give out to companies is
       | theircompanyname@myserver.com - this has most of the privacy
       | benefits the author describes. But frankly, I did it just to find
       | out who sells my personal info to spammers. Turns out quite a few
       | do, and whenever I get a spam email, i just look at the to-
       | address and I know who betrayed me.
       | 
       | Edit: multiple typos
        
         | davchana wrote:
         | I too do it, although occasionally an hickup occurs. Last week,
         | I signed up for something, and their system was unable to send
         | an account activation email at theirCompanyName@myDomain.com I
         | spent about 30 minutes with customer service on chat, and they
         | were like, no, it's impossible to have them@my domain email. If
         | I have, I should send them an email. I did it, sent email, and
         | they were still not believing it.
        
         | nazca wrote:
         | I do the same. In addition to the security and privacy
         | benefits, the traceability have been helpful. Years ago my
         | Netflix account was hacked, and they refused to believe it was
         | on their end. They were sure someone had accessed my email. I
         | was not able to convince them that netflix@myserver.com was not
         | a thing you could log into. But having a unique email was one
         | of the clues that led me to be confident that my email had not
         | been hacked, and it must have been something purely on the
         | netflix side.
        
           | kolinko wrote:
           | Playing devil's advocate - it could've been your Netflix
           | password that was compromised, or someone you shared your
           | Netflix password with (if you do it).
        
         | phyzome wrote:
         | I'm not sure I've ever found any indication of someone
         | _selling_ my address, but I 've discovered multiple services
         | that have been hacked.
         | 
         | One of them, Avvo, has yet to admit it... but it's quite clear.
        
         | LinuxBender wrote:
         | I used to keep it that simple but some companies are catching
         | on and blocking the account in the name of "fraud" but really
         | they are just upset. Instead I use a realistic looking canary
         | that maps to their company without their company name being in
         | the email address.
        
           | indymike wrote:
           | Companies that do not respect RFC email addresses are simply
           | breaking the internet. Email addresses are not unilaterally
           | specified by your marketing department, they are at this
           | point, internet infrastructure.
           | 
           | https://datatracker.ietf.org/doc/html/rfc5322
        
             | LinuxBender wrote:
             | Agreed but I don't think they care about RFC's. Rather they
             | want to be able to track people and be able to sell _or
             | leak, but really sell_ your email address and email
             | canaries put a stop to that behavior and they don 't like
             | it.
        
           | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
           | I spell their name backwards to thwart this filtering.
        
         | philipwhiuk wrote:
         | It's not much better than "Your.Full.Name+company@example.com"
         | in practice tho.
        
           | pandemicsoul wrote:
           | Lots of company don't allow you to enter the + symbol in
           | their signup field.
        
             | anonymousiam wrote:
             | I do this too, and lots of companies also don't allow you
             | to use _THEIR_ company name in the email address that you
             | give them.
             | 
             | Sometimes their front-end is not aware of this restriction
             | and will let you register, but then you'll have
             | unresolvable issues. I've spent some time on tech support
             | phone calls with companies that have this issue.
             | 
             | Occasionally a company will implement blocking their own
             | name in a user-provided email after the user is already
             | registered. I've had this happen a few times too. Suddenly
             | the account will disappear without explanation.
        
           | forgotpwd16 wrote:
           | A spammer can just filter the +company bit out.
        
             | prash_ant wrote:
             | Yes, but the fraction of users using the +company part
             | would be similar to the fraction of linux desktop users on
             | the internet.
             | 
             | The way we don't see most software companies supporting
             | linux desktop users simply because it is not profitable, we
             | can hypothesize that the spammers won't spend time-energy-
             | money on getting the +company filtered out.
        
           | indymike wrote:
           | Removing the +company is not cool. When I give you
           | myname+yourcompany@mydomain.something, I'm authorizing you to
           | mail to that address, not myname@mydomain.something. If you
           | don't respect the recipient, you'll be rewarded with
           | unsubscribes, at best, and spam reports at worst.
        
             | core-utility wrote:
             | But we're talking about the same companies who will sell
             | your data for a fraction of a cent. I don't think they care
             | about being "not cool"
        
           | paulryanrogers wrote:
           | IME some may accept the plus address at sign up then break it
           | at sign in or substitute for another character. A major US
           | insurance company did this, which could have allowed
           | hijacking if one had registered the address with the plus
           | replaced with their substitute character.
        
           | samschooler wrote:
           | I'd say its one level beyond. Since "+" is so widely used, as
           | talked about in the article, its trivial to remove. However
           | with a non-standard domain and inconsistent username its not
           | as easy to remove. These are some of the formats I use, they
           | all offer exactly what I need (uniqueness, hard to
           | programmatically attach to another, and culpability):
           | 
           | lyft@account.example.com
           | 
           | liftcarshare@example.com
           | 
           | email@lyft.com.example.com
           | 
           | example.com@com.lyft.example.com
        
             | anonporridge wrote:
             | I would personally go one level further.
             | 
             | Generate random email addresses so you can't easily guess
             | what others I might have given out. Then keep track of the
             | mapping.
             | 
             | A service like simplelogin.io makes this easy.
        
               | bosie wrote:
               | icloud and also fastmail do this for you
        
               | turboponyy wrote:
               | What I usually do is servicename + 6 to 10 random
               | numbers. This way I can see the intended recipient whilst
               | avoiding people being able to check where I've signed up.
        
               | ZetaZero wrote:
               | FastMail does something like this. Their Masked Emails
               | are two random words plus a four digit number.
        
               | caust1c wrote:
               | Been using this feature since they introduced it and can
               | say that I'm very pleased with it so far in combination
               | with it's 1password integration.
               | 
               | When creating an account somewhere, fastmail
               | automatically generates a new email for the site via an
               | API in one click.
               | 
               | Highly recommend.
        
               | sereguze wrote:
               | What about base58 encoding their company name.
        
         | core-utility wrote:
         | Same here. It's fun getting doctors offices coming back and
         | asking me "Do we have your email right?"
        
         | samschooler wrote:
         | This is what I do as well, and its real nice to be able to
         | black hole a specific to email address vs trying to unsubscribe
         | from every piece of spam email sent to your one email address.
        
       | MarkSweep wrote:
       | The article talks a lot about imagining how Facebook can track
       | you with your email. You don't have to imagine, just go to "Off
       | Facebook activity" in the settings. You will see a list of
       | companies that have uploaded your email address to Facebook so
       | that they can target ads at you.
        
       | philipwhiuk wrote:
       | This is the worst written article I've seen in a while. It gets
       | very lost in the weeds, struggles to make any points, just sort
       | of wanders about.
       | 
       | There's no actual discussion of what a unique email should be. Or
       | how that could possibly work and be practical given that any
       | payment related site will also need your real name and address.
        
         | t0astbread wrote:
         | I disagree. This article is about the authors thoughts and
         | experiences related to privacy and working in the information
         | sector. It's not primarily about email. Criticizing the title
         | is fair I think.
        
       | zippergz wrote:
       | I did similar things for many years, but at the end of the day I
       | found that I was just adding friction for myself and not getting
       | any real benefit. Yeah, I can see who has sold (or inadvertently
       | leaked) my information, but then what? Don't do business with
       | them again? Fine, but it's too late. And so many companies have
       | problems like this that if you refuse to do business with any of
       | them, you're going to find yourself very limited.
       | 
       | In a broader sense, as I learned to grow out of my 1990s-era rage
       | about spam, I've found that my online life has gotten a lot less
       | stressful. No, I still do not like commercial email in my inbox.
       | But constantly being angry about it and trying to fight it did
       | not result in me getting any less of it. All it did was made me a
       | bitter person. Something something accept the things I cannot
       | change...
        
         | ebrewste wrote:
         | If you are committed to using the leaker, change your email for
         | them from company@myserver.com to company2@myserver.com and
         | block company@myserver.com. It gets the benefit of spam
         | blocking and leaker traceability in one easy step.
        
         | johnklos wrote:
         | Honestly, I can't help but be suspicious about postings like
         | this because they are way too common. They introduce no real
         | new information and only serve to offer, "it's too much work,
         | so just accept it".
         | 
         | It's completely disingenuous to say that you can't do anything
         | with the information gained from learning who is selling,
         | sharing or otherwise allowing email address lists to be
         | compromised. It's almost maliciously disingenuous.
         | 
         | You can do infinitely more with this information than you can
         | about any other kind of spam:
         | 
         | 1) you can demand to know how and why your address was shared
         | with third parties
         | 
         | 2) you can insist on disclosure, particularly if you live in a
         | state or country that mandates it, for any breach they may
         | blame it on
         | 
         | 3) if they ignore you, you can publicly shame them on social
         | media and inform others
         | 
         | 4) most importantly, you can STOP accepting email at that
         | unique address, and stop any future spam.
         | 
         | I really wonder these naysayers want. They clearly want the
         | rest of us to not expend the tiniest bit of energy to maintain
         | any agency in the control of our own email, but why? I really
         | wish I knew. They're not helping people by telling them to save
         | - what? - minutes of time per month? I'm so curious.
        
           | Beltalowda wrote:
           | > They clearly want the rest of us to not expend the tiniest
           | bit of energy to maintain any agency in the control of our
           | own email, but why?
           | 
           | No one is telling _you_ what to do, they 're just saying that
           | they didn't find it valuable for them personally. My
           | experiences are similar.
           | 
           | You can do whatever you want with your email (...except send
           | me spam...)
        
         | wrboyce wrote:
         | > Don't do business with them again? Fine, but it's too late.
         | 
         | Well no, not if you have assigned them a unique address. That
         | is the whole point of the exercise, no? Stop doing business
         | with them _and_ block their unique address.
        
           | Beltalowda wrote:
           | "Stop doing business with them" is not always a feasible
           | option, or the cost is very high (more than many are willing
           | to pay); that's the problem.
        
       | sbf501 wrote:
       | I've been doing this since 2013 and the only spam I ever get is
       | from the one email I put on my websites.
       | 
       | Spam filters are so good that the spam never sees my inbox (I use
       | RunBox.com email because of their extreme privacy).
       | 
       | The only downside: I have to keep this domain FOREVER. If I sell
       | it, and someone else connects it to a mail service, they will
       | have access to all of my email addresses.
        
       | dannysu wrote:
       | I always use unique email as well. Just recently I started
       | getting spam at newrelic@domain.com. It was easy to see where
       | spam came from and add New Relic to the list of companies I'd not
       | do business with.
        
       | mebazaa wrote:
       | There are a couple of websites that let you do this without
       | running your own email server.
       | 
       | https://33mail.com is one, for instance (disclaimer: happy
       | customer here.)
        
         | phyzome wrote:
         | The best approach is to buy a domain name and set up your mail
         | host with a catchall address. For example, I use Fastmail for
         | mail hosting, and they support this at a reasonable priced tier
         | -- but I can switch to another mail host if I want, and keep
         | all my addresses. With 33mail it sounds like you'd be locked
         | in.
        
         | lowwave wrote:
         | Hmm, just try to send an email to their support email. and
         | found this:
         | 
         | >>SMTP Error (450): Failed to add recipient
         | "support@33mail.com" (4.1.8 <xxx@xxx.com>: Sender address
         | rejected: Domain not found).
         | 
         | Hmmm don't even know how to contact them.
        
       | all2 wrote:
       | I'll toss in a mention of yggdrasil [0], which would put every
       | computer on the network at a unique address.
       | 
       | [0] https://yggdrasil-network.github.io/
        
       | t0astbread wrote:
       | My email provider limits the amount of aliases I can register
       | with them but they let me have a catchall and Sieve filters. So I
       | wrote a script that generates "normal-looking" email aliases,
       | then builds a Sieve filter out of that. Everything that goes to
       | an existing alias reaches my inbox, everything else goes straight
       | to the Junk folder.
       | 
       | I've uploaded it to my GitHub:
       | https://github.com/t0astbread/sievegen
       | 
       | Of course that's not a perfect approach in terms of privacy but
       | for most purposes, it strikes the right balance between privacy
       | and "hard to accidentally lose control of" for me.
        
       | vandyswa wrote:
       | I wrote about these concepts, and have lived with my system since
       | 2004:
       | 
       | https://www.vsta.org/spam/Traveler.html
       | 
       | (Ancient formatting, use reader mode if you're in Firefox.)
       | 
       | tl;dr Mail is broken because there's no authorization. Make your
       | address act as an authorization token which is (1) transitive,
       | and (2) revocable.
        
       | fmajid wrote:
       | I've been doing this for 20 years now, and Apple or DuckDuckGo
       | have made it accessible to normal people. The day I started
       | receiving pornographic spam addressed to dell@majid.fm (no longer
       | the domain I use, BTW), I knew Dell's security was worthless and
       | they had been breached.
       | 
       | BTW I build a simple spreadsheet-like GUI for Postfix to manage
       | the list, as it's grown quite large:
       | 
       | https://github.com/fazalmajid/postmapweb
        
         | encryptluks2 wrote:
         | I don't really think that getting an email at dell@domain.com
         | means that a provider's security has been compromised. Not only
         | do you need to use unique email addresses but they should be
         | uncommon. Otherwise it doesn't really do a lot to address the
         | issue. Might I also suggest using subdomains as well.
        
           | anonymousiam wrote:
           | I disagree. I've been doing this for decades and occasionally
           | I'll get spam/porn to one of the unique addresses I've
           | created. In the past, I would notify the entity of their
           | breach, but they almost never take me seriously so now I just
           | delete their email address.
        
             | encryptluks2 wrote:
             | Yeah, they don't take you seriously if you wonder why you
             | might be getting spam at obvious@domain.com
        
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