[HN Gopher] Skip the exit interview when you leave your job
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       Skip the exit interview when you leave your job
        
       Author : ohjeez
       Score  : 25 points
       Date   : 2022-06-13 20:05 UTC (2 hours ago)
        
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       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | I can't get behind this. You can be objective about why you're
       | leaving and still be seen on good terms without burning any
       | bridges.
       | 
       | Companies need to learn. They can't do that if everyone skips the
       | exit interview.
        
         | akhmatova wrote:
         | If these companies wanted to learn from you -- they would have
         | availed themselves of that opportunity while you were still
         | working there.
         | 
         | As the blogger himself put it:
         | 
         |  _If you have suggestions on how things should work differently
         | at the company, the time to tell your boss is while you work
         | there. If they can't bring themselves to act on it during your
         | tenure, telling them at the exit interview isn't going to do
         | any good._
        
         | dredmorbius wrote:
         | That's effectively what TFA advocates:
         | 
         |  _Say nothing negative about anyone or anything. Tell them that
         | you've found another opportunity that you need to take, and
         | that it's been a privilege to work with them all. And that's
         | it._
        
       | karmakaze wrote:
       | > Sometimes people say that "Well, how will the company get any
       | better?" I suggest that that's no longer your concern, and that
       | the time for that has passed anyway. If you're unhappy enough
       | with the company to leave, then they've been doing things wrong
       | for the duration of your employment.
       | 
       | And if we all do this, companies will blindly keep doing things
       | poorly making it increasingly hard to find places worth working
       | at. I would say that if you're in the position where any negative
       | consequences from being candid at an exit interview are
       | inconsequential, then by all means share.
        
         | makeitdouble wrote:
         | The import bit to me is "the time for that has passed": make
         | the effort to better the company before leaving. Talk candidly
         | (but politely) to your manager about things you think are going
         | wrong and try to work out something from there.
         | 
         | Don't wait your exit interview to burst the dam, and don't make
         | your leaving a revelation that you were serious about these
         | issues.
         | 
         | In that sense, the exit interview should be useless.
        
         | teg4n_ wrote:
         | Exit interviews aren't the only means of companies soliciting
         | feedback. Many companies I've been at have a anonymous survey
         | taken every 6 months of everyone in the company run by a third
         | party. Surely if they have bad turnover they can look at the
         | feedback in those kinds of things that led people to leaving.
        
           | dijonman2 wrote:
           | Which are bs because the vendor can attribute feedback to
           | your identity thereby causing a chilling effect.
           | 
           | The only real way to stop these issues is to be proactive,
           | not reactive.
        
             | brnt wrote:
             | Shut up and work, citizen!
        
               | infotropy wrote:
               | Pick up that can!
        
           | brnt wrote:
           | Psssj, many companies solely organise them to give those that
           | need a place to cent a place to vent.
        
             | waynesonfire wrote:
             | same can be said about exit interviews
        
               | Adraghast wrote:
               | Can it? I would think you'd want to let people vent so
               | they don't leave. If they've already decided to leave,
               | why not let them vent on their own time?
        
       | postalrat wrote:
       | What's the theory why a company would want an exit interview?
       | Maybe to dig up reasons not fondly remember the person leaving?
        
         | procinct wrote:
         | To try and find ways to prevent people from leaving in future.
         | They are looking to improve retention.
        
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