[HN Gopher] I turned down $500k, pissed off my investors, and sh...
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       I turned down $500k, pissed off my investors, and shut down my
       startup (2016)
        
       Author : arunsivadasan
       Score  : 338 points
       Date   : 2022-06-11 08:33 UTC (14 hours ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (www.disruptingjapan.com)
 (TXT) w3m dump (www.disruptingjapan.com)
        
       | timoth3y wrote:
       | Hi, author here.
       | 
       | I'm surprised (and delighted) to see this back on Hacker News.
       | I'm happy that people find value in the article, and the process
       | writing it forced me to put my thoughts together and helped get
       | me through an emotionally difficult time.
       | 
       | To address a few questions from the comments.
       | 
       | 1) A common opinion is that I gave up too quickly, that I was
       | just burned out, or taking the money would have let me figure
       | things out later. This was simply not the case. An experienced
       | mountaineer knows if a mountain is climbable with the team, gear,
       | and weather he has. This one was not.
       | 
       | 2) I would have been 100% fine with the team and investors going
       | ahead without me, but AFAIK, neither side ever discussed it.
       | 
       | 3) We were absolutely not viewing contract information, and would
       | not have been able to do so even if we wanted to. We anonymously
       | logged when functions were called without storing user or input
       | data of any kind.
       | 
       | 4) Six years later, I'm doing well. The Disrupting Japan podcast
       | is going strong. I took a senior role in corporate VC for a
       | while, and ended up at Google.
       | 
       | I was overwhelmed by the attention and positive response I got
       | from this article. The asymmetry of value of money and time was
       | one of my main learnings, and I'm glad to see it resonates with
       | so many other founders.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | einpoklum wrote:
        
         | vlovich123 wrote:
         | Since you were done pursuing the idea and were just shutting
         | things down, did you ever consider open sourcing whatever you
         | had? Curious about the thought process you went through around
         | that.
        
         | crabbygrabby wrote:
         | Good for you, you did the right thing. Maybe you would have
         | shoe horned some fix, but honestly, screw it. Imagine waking up
         | at 5am and forcing yourself to work on a company that you knew
         | wasn't going to make it.
        
           | sshine wrote:
           | > Imagine waking up at 5am and forcing yourself to work on a
           | company that you knew wasn't going to make it.
           | 
           | Or to take up repeatedly at 5am and work 12+ hours a day on
           | something that gains traction slowly.
        
             | uptime wrote:
             | Both are valid, one does not cancel the other out.
             | 
             | I've been part of a fun project backed by good people and
             | then had new tech eat our lunch. We still spent long hours
             | trying to find value somewhere. That was less fun but OK,
             | not a waste.
             | 
             | I have been part of a slow traction project when the first
             | great dot-com crash happened and too many contracts got
             | cancelled. That was the worst time of my professional life
             | but not a waste.
             | 
             | I have spent time on very promising tech in a field ripe
             | for either a good living providing something needed in
             | service deserts, or an exit. The founder found every excuse
             | not to launch, to keep versioning pre-launch. That
             | neverlaunch project was a waste of a year that I'll never
             | get back.
             | 
             | Learning when to bail is a true skill. Not to quit just
             | because it is messy or inconvenient, but when it is
             | actually harmful.
        
         | thejammahimself wrote:
         | The comparison you made between money, and time is one which I
         | think perfectly explains the situation you faced. I can imagine
         | it must be incredibly difficult to spend so many hours working
         | on something you're not sure is going to work out. Time is, I
         | think, valuable to us all. Some of us often feel we don't get
         | enough of it, and I think sometimes we overlook how important
         | free time is when making decisions in life. Sounds like you're
         | doing well now; you learnt an important lesson through this
         | experience. Hope it all goes well in the future!
        
         | hypfer wrote:
         | > I might write another article on how to tell these tangential
         | feature requests from useful feature requests.
         | 
         | Did you ever get around to writing that article? It sounds
         | interesting
        
           | timoth3y wrote:
           | > Did you ever get around to writing that article? It sounds
           | interesting
           | 
           | I have not, but you know, I got that request a lot back in
           | 2016 too, so it sounds like i really should write that
           | article.
           | 
           | I promise I will get it written this year.
           | 
           | Who knows, it might even end up here on HN.
        
             | JohnTHaller wrote:
             | If this original post (and thank you again for it) pops up
             | on the HN homepage from time to time, it may be worth it if
             | you have the time and bandwidth.
        
             | kotcity wrote:
             | Yes, this is of high interest. The problem is more common
             | than many people think and I anticipate this post with
             | great enthusiasm.
        
               | mwigdahl wrote:
               | Same here, this would be very useful to me both directly
               | and in conversations with my executive management.
        
         | brokenodometer wrote:
         | Great article. I'm curious what ideas people sent you after
         | publishing for solving the gratification problem. What was the
         | strongest, even if you still don't think it would have worked?
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | yashap wrote:
         | It was a good read, thanks for writing it. Also, assuming this
         | is correct:
         | 
         | > Almost no SMB views contract management as an urgent problem.
         | 
         | And I think it probably is, then IMO you made the right
         | decision. I don't know the space very well, but my gut feel
         | would be SMBs don't have real CLM needs like Enterprises do,
         | they mostly just need something like DocuSign. Taking the money
         | and pivoting might have worked, but I agree, it's a massive
         | risk in terms of your time and your team's jobs.
        
           | coverband wrote:
           | DocuSign actually offers an integrated CLM product, built on
           | top of a smaller company they acquired a while back. With
           | everything also integrated with Salesforce, etc., it makes
           | automation pretty easy.
        
         | cynusx wrote:
         | Did you consider moving up earlier in the contract lifecycle to
         | the contract negotiation process?
        
           | ramesh31 wrote:
           | I think the reason these companies fail to begin with is that
           | they are too high level and generalized. Even a specific
           | subset of CLM like managing real estate transactions is an
           | exceedingly complex business domain with hundreds of
           | entrants. Trying to go after the entire market with a single
           | product is just naive IMO.
        
       | jimnotgym wrote:
       | >My team and most of my investors are pissed,
       | 
       | I know it is childish, but I always enjoy this difference between
       | US and British English.
       | 
       | In British English when someone is annoyed they may be described
       | as 'pissed off'. Describing someone as being 'pissed' means they
       | are drunk! These US articles paint such vivid surrealism in my
       | mind. In this case I love the idea of all of the investors being
       | permanently inebriated.
       | 
       | There is a lovely part of the 'special relationship' where the US
       | doesnt care what the UK thinks of them, and therefore the UK has
       | great fun at their expense. I suppose that is a win win
       | situation? The US projects an image of being the leader of so
       | many things, and the rest of the world jokes about how arrogant
       | this is.
        
         | have_faith wrote:
         | It's common in the UK to use both forms of "pissed".
        
           | havblue wrote:
           | You don't have to worry about which definition someone uses
           | if it's an angry drunk.
        
           | bencollier49 wrote:
           | Sadly that is now the case. I think the proper meaning will
           | fall out of use thanks to US media.
           | 
           | I am comforted by reports of US children talking about
           | pavements, dustbins and shopping centres thanks to Peppa Pig.
        
           | SoftTalker wrote:
           | It's also not unheard of in the US to use it mean "drunk." At
           | least, I would understand it in context.
        
       | grepfru_it wrote:
       | Found it interesting that the author describes CLM as a vertical
       | the requires strict access control then describes how they are
       | viewing those secure contracts. Sounds like lack of production
       | controls was the true fatal flaw!
       | 
       | I'm assuming they had a better way of analysis than actually
       | reading contracts since most vendor procurement processes I've
       | seen require attestation of data privacy..
        
         | browningstreet wrote:
         | I'm assuming the users of the CLM that he was observing were
         | the admins who would initiate contract flows in the product. If
         | NDAs existed between SaaS and clients, as would be typical,
         | there's no issue. Access controls would keep other employees in
         | client org from seeing contracts, but not.. say, infosec team
         | members.
        
       | 3np wrote:
       | Original post (2016): https://medium.com/startup-lesson-
       | learned/why-i-turned-down-...
       | 
       | Altfront: https://scribe.rip/startup-lesson-learned/why-i-turned-
       | down-...
        
       | jokethrowaway wrote:
       | I've been in a similar situation but we realised we couldn't rely
       | on marketing and that we need sales just before running out of
       | money, incapable of raising another round.
       | 
       | I would have definitely took the 500k.
       | 
       | Needing sales doesn't mean the business is to throw away, it just
       | means you need way more money than you were thinking.
       | 
       | Probably 500k wasn't enough to execute the scale the founder
       | imagined, but it could have been a good intermediate step to
       | raise more money later on.
        
       | aidos wrote:
       | OT I was looking for attribution for a little more context but
       | the only clue comes from the footer:
       | 
       | "This article was first published in Medium and appeared in
       | VentureBeat & Business Insider"
       | 
       | I get the syndication and the other outlets using this content at
       | the time it was written (2016). There's just something very
       | dishonest about the slapping the words on a page with some stock
       | images 6 years later though.
       | 
       | I don't really have a point - maybe it would be better to link to
       | the original medium (I know) post though?
       | 
       | https://medium.com/startup-lesson-learned/why-i-turned-down-...
       | 
       | Edit: on the other hand the article itself is very honest. And
       | it's an interesting question.
        
         | timoth3y wrote:
         | Hi. Tim here.
         | 
         | I first published in on my podcast site and then on Medium and
         | LinkedIn a few days later.
         | 
         | https://www.disruptingjapan.com/turned-500k-pissed-off-inves...
         | 
         | It seems that far more people will click on a Medium or
         | LinkedIn link rather than a personal blog. Then it was picked
         | up by Venture Beat, Business Insider and a dozen other
         | publications and it was off to the races.
         | 
         | I received my 15 minutes of internet fame and over 1,000 emails
         | about the article.
        
         | new299 wrote:
         | The author (Tim Romero) also runs disruptingjapan. So it's more
         | like he's just replicating content he originally wrote for
         | another publication to his personal/professional site...
        
           | aidos wrote:
           | Oh well that makes a _lot_ more sense. Thanks for the heads
           | up.
        
       | alephnan wrote:
       | Another option: let the team and investors continue without you.
       | 
       | You also have a fiduciary responsibility to the investor and a
       | responsibility to the team members who worked equally as hard.
        
         | ekidd wrote:
         | In the article, the author said that none of the team has quit
         | their day jobs yet. And this appeared to be their first
         | significant fundraise.
         | 
         | Their strategy critically depended on staying in the SMB
         | market, not the enterprise market. And it was apparent that
         | their product wasn't solving a major, urgent customer problem.
         | 
         | The last thing you want to do is to pour your life into a
         | startup that solves a non-problem. If you're not solving an
         | urgent problem, you won't be able to reliably close sales.
        
         | aidos wrote:
         | That's what struck me too. What about the others involved who
         | might be relying on it? But maybe the author _was_ the team and
         | without them it was dead in the water anyway?
        
           | menzoic wrote:
           | > The rest of the team kept their day jobs. That was fine. It
           | made my final decision easier.
        
           | sokoloff wrote:
           | " The rest of the team kept their day jobs. That was fine. It
           | made my final decision easier."
           | 
           | It sounds like there were others, but they had a good
           | fallback/continue without ContractBeast position.
        
           | usrusr wrote:
           | "The rest of the team kept their day jobs."
           | 
           | It sucks for them, because effort invested on the side
           | implies that it must have been quite loaded emotionally, but
           | right before turning the others full time seems like the
           | least bad time for giving up.
        
       | icambron wrote:
       | The article buries the startup's more fundamental flaw
       | 
       | > Almost no SMB views contract management as an urgent problem.
       | 
       | If you are a solving a problem your target market doesn't care
       | about, you're not going to get adoption. This isn't a product
       | problem or a top-down vs bottom-up problem.
        
         | jokethrowaway wrote:
         | It's not a flaw, it just means your target is bigger businesses
         | (hence why he needed sales instead of marketing)
        
           | icambron wrote:
           | Their whole thesis was that SMBs need contract management.
           | That thesis appears to have been mistaken. So it's certainly
           | a flaw. Sure, you could fix it by creating a new thesis about
           | a different market, building a product that addresses that
           | market, and setting up the right GTM for it. But that's a
           | whole other business, and they explain well enough why it's
           | not one they want to do.
        
             | SoftTalker wrote:
             | I think the thesis was, that SMBs could benefit from
             | contract management in the long term, but (and not
             | initially understood) it was not an urgent problem in the
             | short term. To get buy-in for a long term initiative,
             | they'd need consultative sales at the executive/owner level
             | of the businesss, but that would mean competing with
             | established "enterprise" companies, who already are not
             | selling to SMBs because software sold that way is too
             | expensive for the SMB market.
        
               | icambron wrote:
               | By "thesis" I meant the thesis of the business, not of
               | the article.
               | 
               | The article said just what you said; my point is that
               | another way to explain those dynamics is that you can't
               | sell software to SMBs if they don't urgently need it.
               | That's because that logic about top-down sales is true
               | regardless of what you're selling. And that's why the
               | foreknowledge that SMBs don't urgently need to solve a
               | contract management problem is a huge red flag, ideally
               | before you've written a line of code.
        
       | noduerme wrote:
       | >>Pressing them directly on why they were not using ContractBeast
       | to create all their contracts resulted in a lot of feature
       | requests.
       | 
       | >> Now, talking with customers about features is tricky. Often
       | you receive solid and useful ideas. Occasionally a customer will
       | provide an insight that will change the way you look at your
       | product. But most of the time, customers don't really want the
       | features they are asking for. At least not very badly.
       | 
       | This a thoughtful, well-rounded and obviously experienced view,
       | but ultimately it shades toward being very pessimistic about the
       | competence of the end-user.
       | 
       | >>When users are unhappy but can't explain exactly why, they
       | often express that dissatisfaction as a series of tangential,
       | trivial feature requests.
       | 
       | Clearly, the writer had the self-reflection to realize that the
       | product wasn't working, and for that should be applauded. On the
       | other hand, maybe there's something a little intentionally self-
       | blinding about the above statement. Assuming that people are just
       | putting out meaningless feature requests because they'll never
       | use the software anyway is, to say the least, taking things from
       | a very negative starting point of view. Maybe something larger
       | was actually missed in the "tangential, trivial feature requests"
       | which if compiled would have pointed to a fixable underlying
       | problem if one were take them seriously as a constellation of
       | indicators pointing to a root issue.
       | 
       | This is speculative:
       | 
       | >>These aren't necessarily bad ideas, but they had nothing to do
       | with why they were not using ContractBeast more extensively.
       | 
       | This is indicative of burnout, where you stop seeing the value
       | (for other reasons which are harder to quantify):
       | 
       | >>In any event, I was overwhelmingly getting these kinds of
       | tangential, trivial feature requests.
       | 
       | And this is resignation:
       | 
       | >>It didn't provide a significant immediate benefit. I was
       | fighting human nature and losing.
       | 
       | If I'd been sitting around that office, I might have suggested
       | adding a human consultant to the loop for every new client from
       | onboarding to full use -- not a virtual pop-up box, but someone
       | they could call on the phone. And not to sell anything but to
       | suggest uses and help implement the changes to the customer's
       | business ops that they would then come to rely on. Mid-sized
       | businesses don't make drastic changes overnight but that's also a
       | guarantee of lock-in if you can convince them to rely on your
       | product. So you'd give each one a sort of a "guardian beast
       | angel" if you like, who was available at all hours. The sole
       | purpose of the employee would be to track a few dozen customers
       | and their user experience, really understand how this worked in
       | their business models, and find ways to improve their use of the
       | software while filtering back some feature requests and bugs. And
       | thus get the customers to realize the full benefits of the
       | software, without any attempt to sell them anything. This kind of
       | thing would be a loss leader, it would be money out of pocket,
       | but it would be far more cost effective than any kind of
       | advertising, and it would establish trust and good word of mouth
       | in addition to providing a customer base that was now dependent
       | on you. Also, it wouldn't have involved actually writing any new
       | features if you felt that the software was already sufficient to
       | the tasks most users would require, if they knew how to use it
       | properly. It would also give you runway to roll out new features
       | on your own timetable without constantly trying to please an
       | audience, since the customer-facing "beasts" would provide
       | workarounds for niche use cases and reassure them personally that
       | improvements were in the pipeline.
        
         | jaclaz wrote:
         | Nice idea that of these people dedicated to evaluating
         | customer's ideas/suggestions.
         | 
         | As a (hopefully competent enough) end-user, I can confirm how
         | for _some reasons_ the process of accepting (or refusing if it
         | is the case) feedback or suggestions is often alien to many
         | developers /programmers.
         | 
         | I don't know if this is due to them being too busy with other
         | (possibly more important) things, if there is some sort of
         | arrogance involved (i.e. the way the program is written is
         | already perfect) or if there is some other reason, but surely
         | to try and convince some software makers (I am talking about
         | specific, "narrow", business software) that "feature x" is not
         | needed or implemented in such a way that makes working with the
         | program much slower or possibly making it more prone to errors
         | is often a lost battle.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | tluyben2 wrote:
       | > I was deciding whether this venture was worth committing to
       | another year of 70+ hour weeks. I need a higher level of
       | certainty than investors do because my time is more valuable to
       | me than their money is to them.Investors place bets in a
       | portfolio of companies, but I only have one life.
       | 
       | Both startup founders and investors alike seem to forget this
       | (for obvious reasons) so it is good to put this on your toilet
       | wall so you see it often.
        
         | jokoon wrote:
         | 70h per week, I really can't imagine a world where I could
         | accept this.
         | 
         | Sometimes I try to imagine how the alternative would be in a
         | planned economy for software.
         | 
         | On one hand, it would be very slow and very inefficient.
         | 
         | But on the other hand, venture capitalism also has its flaws.
         | Sometimes it sounds like there is an "excess efficiency" that
         | leads to burnout and non-sense, where you constantly need to
         | quote-unquote "innovate".
         | 
         | In my view there is a limit about innovation, you can't always
         | "disrupt" over and over and over again.
         | 
         | If I get paid that much money, I'm going to work on my own
         | terms, there is no way somebody will compromise my health like
         | that.
        
           | javajosh wrote:
           | _> 70h per week, I really can't imagine a world where I could
           | accept this._
           | 
           | I can think of several. The grandiose ones: your kid has
           | cancer, the kind that _might_ be fixable, but there is no
           | treatment, and you have to design one. You have a viable
           | theory for nuclear fusion or carbon sequestration and need to
           | get funding for and then perform the experiment. There is a
           | verified meteor /comet strike and there's some hope of saving
           | people underground, but it needs to be built and stocked.
           | 
           | In reality, you don't need grandiosity. This life is
           | 'acceptable' to a lot of people, especially small business
           | owners, the store owner/operator, or car mechanic, who
           | effectively lives at their store. For others there is "paying
           | your dues", doctors doing a residency, grad students doing
           | slave labor on something only tangentially related to their
           | degree. For others, like farmers, they work like this for
           | some part of the year, every year.
        
             | jokoon wrote:
             | all those example don't apply to digital contract software.
             | 
             | if someone is passionate about their job, I'm not sure
             | they're being well paid, or they also have very rare
             | skills, so it's an exception, not a rule.
             | 
             | also I live in a country with good healthcare.
        
           | nonameiguess wrote:
           | For how long? Not that I think it's healthy or anyone
           | _should_ do this, but for most of the past two decades,
           | American military services regularly deployed units of
           | thousands at a time for 15 months overseas, during which they
           | worked up to 20 hour days with 2 hours of sleep, 7 days a
           | week for the entire 15 months. And they did this with zero
           | chance or expectation that they might get rich, also knowing
           | there was quite a good chance they 'd end up permanently
           | disabled.
           | 
           | For better or worse, devotion to a cause is a proven
           | motivator of human action.
           | 
           | As for alternatives in the business world, we'd need some
           | economic system that wasn't analogous to warfare in which one
           | firm outcompetes all others to take most of the winnings. If
           | you want a lesson from the US losing in Afghanistan, and
           | arguably losing in Iraq, in spite of being able to drive its
           | labor force to such extreme exertion, consider that a massive
           | advantage of the insurgency was their ability to mobilize a
           | part-time gig-based workforce that mostly worked from home.
           | But _which_ lesson does business learn from that? Allow work
           | from home? Or getting part-time contractors with no benefits
           | to kill themselves and sacrifice children for you?
        
           | Aeolun wrote:
           | > 70h per week, I really can't imagine a world where I could
           | accept this.
           | 
           | On my own company, when single, and living in my one room
           | apartment? Absolutely.
           | 
           | With a family, children, with tons of responsibilities and in
           | someone elses employ? Not on your life.
        
             | the_common_man wrote:
             | I dislike this trope of a single person having nothing
             | better to do than work. Single people have responsibilities
             | too and have quality lives. They don't need to work
             | themselves to death
        
               | Kiro wrote:
               | And I dislike the trope of working being orthogonal to
               | quality of life. Sitting in front of the computer working
               | on my own thing is the ultimate enjoyment. That's what's
               | giving me a quality life.
        
               | the_common_man wrote:
               | I think the word work has a specific meaning. It's work
               | is a phrase. Nobody is saying you should not enjoy your
               | work but work is associated with drudgery and tedium in
               | the common usage
        
               | corobo wrote:
               | Yeah there's work (activity) and there's work (job)
               | 
               | I love working (activity) -- coding is a hobby I long ago
               | made the mistake of monetising haha.
               | 
               | My stuff? I'll spend a weekend chasing a dead end without
               | a second thought.
               | 
               | General sort of cog in the machine day to day work?
               | You're paying me to be a bit bored a lot of the time. Not
               | a complaint or anything, just the routine stuff that
               | can't be automated yet.
               | 
               | Fun comes from learning new things, money comes from
               | being paid for what you already learned.
               | 
               | Of course this is just me, if everyone was like me the
               | world would suck. Absolutely no judgement if you get your
               | fun outside of an IDE!
               | 
               | E: bit of context I'm currently single and have no
               | dependents, I would imagine (hope) my priorities would
               | change if that changed
        
               | kfajdsl wrote:
               | Yep, this so much.
               | 
               | Working for somebody else, where I have little stake in
               | the company? I won't just put in the bare minimum to not
               | get fired, but I also won't work absurd hours, especially
               | on a salary.
               | 
               | My own stuff? I'm ready for the 40 (job) + 60 (my own
               | projects) work week!
               | 
               | For reference, I'm very young and no where close to
               | having a family.
        
               | jimnotgym wrote:
               | I think this is where the Elon Musk is so detached from
               | reality. Because he can do exactly what he wants all day,
               | and he loves what he is doing what he does all day is not
               | work. Certainly in the sense that say, assembling parts
               | of a weird electric car for 12 hours a day whilst being
               | trapped in the factory for 24 hours is work.
               | 
               | I see it in smaller business. I once got a phone call
               | from my then boss, a sort of VC, who was clearly drunk,
               | who could not make my meeting because he was doing BD.
               | They worked collosal hours on this, in the corporate
               | entertainment suites of the local sporting venues, in the
               | city bars etc. Even lunch was a work activity for them.
        
               | bowsamic wrote:
               | A lot of people are not wired this way, we can't expect
               | it from all.
        
               | tshaddox wrote:
               | There's not really a "trope" beyond it being necessary
               | _but not sufficient_ to be able to work 70+ hour weeks.
        
               | sgt wrote:
               | Sure, but if the alternative (for you) is to waste time
               | in front of the TV or gaming, it may be a valid point.
        
               | wrren wrote:
               | I wouldn't consider those things to be a waste of time at
               | all...
        
               | leetrout wrote:
               | Careful there -- relaxing or enjoying something mundane
               | is not wasting time.
               | 
               | We have been conditioned to call things like this a waste
               | of time but it doesnt mean it is. Not for everyone.
               | Capitalism would have us believe we must constantly be
               | delivering value that is defined by external standards
               | but that is a dangerous game.
               | 
               | 4000 Weeks is a pretty good book with more on this topic.
        
               | brokenkebab2 wrote:
               | Gaming, and watching TV _sometimes_ may not be complete
               | waste of time. But both are addictive, and can easyly
               | make your life miserable.
        
               | mathgeek wrote:
               | This isn't really relevant to the current discussion
               | about how much extra time is spent on "work" beyond
               | normal working hours. Working ~40 hours a week and
               | choosing to spend most of your other conscious hours
               | consuming media is a different situation from spending
               | most/all of your hours on the latter.
        
               | mmmpop wrote:
               | https://i.redd.it/3hn1jb4p3ih41.jpg
        
               | brokenkebab2 wrote:
               | Not sure I see your point. "Choosing to spend most of
               | your other conscious hours consuming media" is certainly
               | choosing to waste a significant part of one's lifetime.
               | Doing it all the time is wasting most of it, and likely
               | being broke (with exception of rare edge cases). The
               | question we touched in this particular branch: whether
               | extra work constitutes a better alternative to more
               | gaming/media in the absence of other obligations/fields
               | of activity (such as family)
        
               | Aeolun wrote:
               | You are not necessarily producing value, you are ensuring
               | you are capable of producing value in the future.
        
               | rtpg wrote:
               | I think it's not that single people have nothing better
               | to do. It's that you would need to be single and have
               | basically no life to do this kind of 70h work week (or be
               | prepared to end up single, cuz you sure won't be tending
               | to your relationships/responsibilities )
        
               | wruza wrote:
               | As a consciously single I disagree along the lines of
               | this argument (not with the argument itself). You're
               | seeing lost relationships as something destructive, and
               | sure it is, but also disregard what others do as
               | something that you can get rid of without any harm ("no
               | life anyway"). I like my life, who's anyone to judge what
               | is important in it or not. Our world-wide society _has_
               | this trope. "Hey, these people have kids(!), and these
               | are in relationships, etc etc. And you are single
               | nolifer, your rights and opportunities can wait". As if a
               | kid or a partner were some kind of a universal voucher.
        
               | rtpg wrote:
               | I'm not judging people who are single w/o kids. just
               | saying if you're in a relationship or have kids that is a
               | commitment and time needs to be spent on there.
               | 
               | I don't think you should overwork yourself cuz you don't
               | have kids. Do what you want with your life.
        
               | RHSeeger wrote:
               | It seems like you're reading the argument incorrectly.
               | The argument being made is
               | 
               | > If you have a family, then there's no way you have time
               | for 70hr weeks
               | 
               | The argument is _not_
               | 
               | > If you do not have a family, then you _do_ have time
               | for 70hr weeks
        
               | nend wrote:
               | Seems like you're projecting a bit. I didn't see the
               | person your responding to make any judgement about a life
               | with a partner/kids vs one without.
        
               | wruza wrote:
               | You're right on projection, and I shouldn't have written
               | "you" and "disregard" in the same sentence. I meant some
               | part of normal-life folks, addressing _them_ via that
               | line. My mistake, sorry all for confusion.
        
               | quickthrower2 wrote:
               | It has got to fuck up your body too. You are either
               | asleep or sitting at a desk. Maybe sitting in a commute
               | too.
        
               | throwawayacc2 wrote:
               | It depends on what point in your life you are. I was at
               | one point single and fully committed to work. I worked
               | sometimes even 12 hours per day, every day, pulling in
               | weekends too and I had a payoff for that. I'm single now
               | too, but I'm not doing that. I'm focusing on dating.
               | Different people, at different times have different
               | priorities. It's not any one individual thing that's bad,
               | it's elevating one above the rest.
        
               | Aeolun wrote:
               | I'm not trying to speak for everyone. I'm saying that _I_
               | personally can absolutely see myself doing it in these
               | situations. Not trying to imply anything about anyone
               | else.
        
               | briandear wrote:
               | They don't have to. They could take a normal job and
               | don't have to do the extraordinary job of founding a
               | company.
        
               | Petersipoi wrote:
               | How is that a trope? Everybody here who has kids used to
               | not have kids, and all would agree that before they had
               | kids they had significantly more time to dedicate to non-
               | kid-raising activities.
               | 
               | Nobody is saying single people have "nothing better to
               | do". Just that they very often have more flexibility with
               | what they can reasonably choose to do.
        
             | crabbygrabby wrote:
             | In the US 70 hr work weeks at startups and even certain
             | industry's are not abnormal. Are those people usually
             | making good decisions, thinking clearly, and not being
             | jerks? Nope, but it's what a lot of people willingly do.
             | I've seen people pull 80 hr weeks
        
             | wruza wrote:
             | _On my own company, when single, and living in my one room
             | apartment? Absolutely._
             | 
             | If you're around 20 maybe. Before you've already developed
             | a hair-trigger on chronic disorders.
        
             | actionablefiber wrote:
             | > On my own company, when single, and living in my one room
             | apartment? Absolutely.
             | 
             | Speak for yourself. I have hobbies, a workout routine,
             | friends to meet up with, family members to visit, and
             | beauty sleep to catch. If you're working 70h a week you're
             | sacrificing most if not all of those things.
        
               | literallycancer wrote:
               | He already said he was single. You can have a workout
               | routine and plenty of sleep even when working 70h weeks.
               | Just skip the Netflix and other people, for a time.
        
               | actionablefiber wrote:
               | I'm single too... I don't see the relevance, though. You
               | don't just have to like working. You have to actively
               | decide against doing much of anything else. If you are
               | working ten hours a day with no weekend, or 14 hours a
               | day with one, you're going to be exhausted for the rest
               | of that time.
               | 
               | You can fit working out in there (~30-60 min a day, plus
               | travel time if you don't have your own equipment) if
               | you're willing to burn the candle at both ends like that.
               | At that point you will have committed the overwhelming
               | majority of your time, and if you try to add anything
               | else to your life, any kind of unexpected outing or
               | emergency, or even just waking up one day and not feeling
               | up for it, will have to come directly out of the time
               | you've budgeted for your work and health.
        
               | literallycancer wrote:
               | I forgot that some people still commute. I assumed that
               | you have an office in your residence and a gym in the
               | garden. You will have committed most of your time, yes.
               | Still at least in my experience it let me do more in a
               | quarter than in a year of taking it easy. You can retire
               | after a few years, which should still be early enough to
               | enjoy life.
        
           | andrepd wrote:
           | > Sometimes I try to imagine how the alternative would be in
           | a planned economy for software.
           | 
           | > On one hand, it would be very slow and very inefficient.
           | 
           | Why do you say that? Large, "boring" sectors of the economy
           | would probably work just fine being algorithmically steered.
        
             | jokoon wrote:
             | I said that to appeal to the HN crowds.
             | 
             | Computing and software was researched and invented in a
             | planned manner (NASA etc).
             | 
             | Maybe you can't "expand" and "generalize" software in a
             | planned economy, if you want everything to be made with
             | software. The article talks about about 80 competitors, so
             | it can easily be said something should be planned.
        
             | brokenkebab2 wrote:
             | Because there are 0 successful examples for it. And as
             | someone born in USSR let me say if you like to experiment
             | with planned economy you better choose a country nobody
             | will regret leaving in dust afterwards
        
             | Aerroon wrote:
             | Because they wouldn't be. A planned economy just takes the
             | power of business owners and adds it to the pile of power
             | politicians have. These algorithms would just 'happen' to
             | suggest things favorable to those in charge.
        
           | quickthrower2 wrote:
           | I have never done a 70h week. probably 50h the top. I think
           | it would be impossible for me. I mean I could be physically
           | in an office for that long... but that is not the same thing.
        
             | jimnotgym wrote:
             | It's impossible, that's why. I have seen people in my role
             | work a lot more hours than me, but not to turn out more
             | work than me.
        
         | d4rkp4ttern wrote:
         | Love this quote. As a cynical counterpoint to all the apparent
         | glamour to being a CEO of a small startup, especially one that
         | has taken investor money, I came up with this expansion:
         | 
         | CEO = Chief Enslaved Officer.
         | 
         | Enslaved to your investor obviously.
         | 
         | Enslaved to your customers.
         | 
         | And even enslaved to your employees. This one may need some
         | elaboration -- the CEO constantly needs to manage their
         | motivation through ups and downs and ensure they are
         | productive, and be responsive to them.
        
           | d4rkp4ttern wrote:
           | Actually I would improve this to:
           | 
           | CEO = Cheap, Enslaved Officer.
           | 
           | For obvious reasons -- CEOs intentionally take very little if
           | any pay.
        
             | lasc4r wrote:
             | Yeah, no.
        
           | mandmandam wrote:
           | I hope you're very careful about who you throw slavery
           | metaphors around with.
           | 
           | Anyone with not-too-distant relatives that were _owned_ by
           | wealthy old white dudes may find the equating of CEOs with
           | slavery an "I have no time for this person" level offense.
        
             | zdragnar wrote:
             | This silly notion that there has only ever been a single
             | form of slavery, and that there's no point in discussing
             | any other than what occurred in America in a specific time
             | period is so very harmful.
             | 
             | I understand why the topic at large is a sensitive one, and
             | more for some than others. That doesn't mean I'll be overly
             | concerned with someone who responds to such an analogy with
             | some variation of "I have no time for you".
        
               | klik99 wrote:
               | I don't think the problem is discussing other kinds of
               | slavery, because wage slavery is a thing that's
               | discussed, but there is a type of slavery that is very
               | recent, still relevant because we're still feeling the
               | effects of it, and it does seem in bad taste to compare
               | being a tech CEO to something people are still digging
               | themselves out of the effects of.
               | 
               | We're all on someone's dollar and beholden to them so by
               | the "chief enslaved officer" logic we're all slaves which
               | really cheapens and nearly erases a very real and very
               | recent thing.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | drc500free wrote:
               | The purpose of an analogy is to short-circuit a long
               | explanation by appealing to an already deeply understood
               | concept. It's important to understand how the referenced
               | concepts are understood and experienced by the audience
               | if it's going to be an effective analogy. Comparisons to
               | how the concept could technically be defined in a dry
               | academic context are a bit irrelevant, since the whole
               | point is to trigger a flash of intuition. Anyone who's
               | reaction is "no, that's no the way you were supposed to
               | experience that analogy" should probably not being using
               | analogies to convey anything at all.
               | 
               | Using a trauma that you haven't experienced as a point of
               | reference can also be seen as minimizing that trauma.
               | Especially if you're going for a purposefully extreme
               | juxtaposition like "being at the very top of a business
               | with control over other people's labor and livelihoods is
               | just like being a slave."
               | 
               | Because it's nothing like that at all to someone with
               | deeper experience with the subject, and is as false to
               | them as other shocking juxtapositions like "stubbing your
               | toe is like having your entire family murdered in the
               | holocaust (because they both hurt!)" or "needing to have
               | a license to operate a car is like being gangraped
               | (because you don't want either!)." Those kinds of
               | analogies can be interpreted as purposefully trivializing
               | and mocking that trauma, because there are quite a few
               | people out there who really enjoy doing that sort of
               | thing.
               | 
               | So when language is used like that, people who are hurt
               | by the reference have to decide whether the speaker is
               | simply ignorant of how it's going to land or if they are
               | doing it on purpose. Some of them are going to chuck
               | Hanlon's razor out the window and assume it's done on
               | purpose as part of some sort of power game or sadism.
        
               | afarrell wrote:
               | As someone who does have Black enslaved ancestors: Sure,
               | we can discuss comparisons among transatlantic chattel
               | slavery, the treatment of the helots, or the people
               | trafficked south along the Volga.
               | 
               | The problem with a CEO calling themselves a slave is that
               | it pretends that someone who has made an active choice to
               | start a company is a victim. As this article shows, a CEO
               | can choose to walk away from their company without fear
               | of violence or starvation. If I meet a CEO who labels
               | themselves enslaved, that tells me they are unwilling to
               | recognize their responsibility for their own choices.
               | That mindset makes them unfit to hold the power of the
               | leadership position they aspire to.
        
               | mise_en_place wrote:
               | Slave is a bit extreme, but servant leadership is what I
               | think they were trying to get at.
        
               | d4rkp4ttern wrote:
               | Indeed. The OP was able to quit relatively easily because
               | he had not yet taken investor money. Imagine trying to
               | quit after taking their money. That is where the element
               | of "servitude" comes in, which admittedly sounds extreme
               | but makes a point.
        
               | sangnoir wrote:
               | Does VC money come with a "CEO is not allowed to quit"
               | clause? CEO's can quit anytime they want - only their
               | preide or egos may prevent them.
        
               | maxwell wrote:
               | Why couldn't they quit after taking the money?
        
           | dbingham wrote:
           | You're missing a lot with that analogy - which is that of
           | everyone involved in the veature, the CEO has the most power.
           | 
           | They have the most knowledge of anyone and are the ultimate
           | decision maker about the future of the venture. The CEO gets
           | to make the choice: they can walk away any time, they can
           | quit and they can shut things down.
           | 
           | If they don't want to walk away, they get the strongest voice
           | in decisions about what paths to take. They have all the
           | knowledge they need about the venture on which to base those
           | choices. They have the full picture, access to all the
           | financial knowledge, the conversations with the investors,
           | the data from the customers - everything.
           | 
           | No one else in the venture has that. Even if others have the
           | knowledge (in the case where the CEO operates with a rare
           | level of extreme transparency) - they don't have the choices.
           | 
           | That is not enslavement.
           | 
           | With power, naturally, comes a lot of responsibility and that
           | can feel heavy. Especially if you are ethical. But that is
           | _not_ enslavement.
           | 
           | When you are enslaved, you have zero power.
        
             | d4rkp4ttern wrote:
             | These are great points, I agree. Especially:
             | 
             | >With power, naturally, comes a lot of responsibility and
             | that can feel heavy. *Especially if you are ethical*. But
             | that is not enslavement.
        
         | totetsu wrote:
         | Move over poster of New Zealand's fishes.
        
           | damagednoob wrote:
           | New Zealand. Why not?
        
         | effingwewt wrote:
         | Funny to me that these are seen as novel concepts, and all over
         | the comments are people going on about how this is so true for
         | _founders_.
         | 
         | What about the workers actually building the product, making
         | far less, and probably putting in more time. Why is the issue
         | of their valuable time compared to money almost never
         | discussed.
         | 
         | We _all_ only have one life and ot should be able to be
         | enjoyed. Why do we always forget the pursuit of happiness,
         | except as it applies to the upper class.
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | Sounds like this guy did the correct thing.
       | 
       | I am sorry it didn't make it, but, as the author points out:
       | 
       |  _> Human nature sucks._
       | 
       | Yup. I have to design for human nature, and it can be immensely
       | frustrating. I can tell you that this scar _< pulls up shirt>_
       | was from when I neglected to plan for users misinterpreting an
       | icon button, and this scar _< rolls up sleeve>_ was from when I
       | thought that a verbose help screen would help users understand a
       | somewhat abstract concept, but this scar _< drops pants>_ was
       | from when I assumed that users would cut me slack, because I'm
       | such a nice guy, and was doing this from the goodness of my
       | heart.
       | 
       | This is the main reason that I'm glad he pulled the plug:
       | 
       |  _> and the team ready to quit their day jobs_
        
         | timoth3y wrote:
         | > This is the main reason that I'm glad he pulled the plug: >>
         | and the team ready to quit their day jobs
         | 
         | Me too. I'm happy to report we all ended up on good terms with
         | each other once all the drama settled down.
        
       | menzoic wrote:
       | Why does he think he needs to work 70+ hour work weeks? He
       | mentioned he couldn't sleep knowing user adoption was low. I
       | think the biggest problem here is that he felt pressured to over
       | work himself to solve a highly visible problem.
       | 
       | This affects many engineers including myself. In many cases over
       | working is not necessary and there are diminishing returns,
       | possibly even less overall net returns if you burn out or become
       | too sleep deprived and stressed to function efficiently the
       | following days. In this case he quit, which is an example of
       | this.
       | 
       | As engineers we have to learn how to manage expectations and
       | disconnect from work. As engineering leaders we need to foster a
       | culture of maintaining good work life balance. As founder and
       | CEO, he's in the best possible position to do this. Especially in
       | this case where there is no external deadline.
        
         | FabioFleitas wrote:
         | The thing is - in startups, there always is an external
         | deadline (assuming you're not cash flow positive or profitable)
         | - it is tied directly to your runway and when you'd run out of
         | cash. That is the ultimate deadline for pretty much all
         | startups.
         | 
         | The very early stages of a startup (and even later stages)
         | usually require this much effort because you honestly don't
         | have enough money to last you the "right" amount of time you
         | need - and therefore you need to put in more time.
         | 
         | As you said - this isn't sustainable long-term - but,
         | especially in the early stages, you may not have a "long-term"
         | in that venture if you're not able to put these hours in.
         | 
         | Not to say it's impossible to find a great work-life balance
         | for an early stage startup - but it's highly unlikely.
        
       | sylware wrote:
       | "I was deciding whether this venture was worth committing to
       | another year of 70+ hour weeks. I need a higher level of
       | certainty than investors do because my time is more valuable to
       | me than their money is to them.Investors place bets in a
       | portfolio of companies, but I only have one life."
       | 
       | You do the real hard work, they provide numbers in a computer
       | database (and often kick you out once this hard work is done).
        
       | sakoht wrote:
       | There are a lot of projects that want to serve an under-served
       | space, but lack a novel idea about how to do it. In many ways,
       | even companies like Theranos fell into this trap. They knew it
       | would be great to have the device they promised, but the company
       | wasn't founded around any sort of novel idea about how to
       | accomplish it, just a wish.
        
         | etothepii wrote:
         | This. Exactly this.
         | 
         | However, if you do something full time the inspiration to
         | implement your wish can appear. Waiting to be blessed by
         | inspiration probably won't lead to a solution.
        
         | jimhi wrote:
         | I mean maybe but this is software. Providing enterprise
         | software per use or per customer at at low cost is a common
         | path.
        
       | pepelondono wrote:
       | You took the right decision given your context.
       | 
       | But the whole matter could have been avoided if you were solving
       | a problem you actually cared about. Then there would have been no
       | doubt if you should or should not invest another year of your
       | time.
        
         | sfink wrote:
         | I would challenge that.
         | 
         | If I'm solving a problem I personally care about, then I will
         | also be personally willing to put in vastly more effort into
         | learning and getting up to speed with the solution than the
         | vast majority of my target customers will.
         | 
         | As the OP said, you need something that will give relatively
         | quick return on investment of effort. If it's going to require
         | a larger up-front investment, then you have to really, _really_
         | care about the improvement it 's providing in order to put in
         | that effort.
         | 
         | I have innumerable half-baked solutions to various problems I
         | care about, and by "half-baked" I mean they only work in
         | specific situations and require massaging the inputs into a
         | form that the solutions will accept. And that's fine for me;
         | after all, I cared enough to implement the fancy solution in
         | the first place. But I don't expect anyone else to use it
         | unless I clean it up and package it nicely.
        
       | throwawayarnty wrote:
       | This is extremely selfish.
       | 
       | A founder has a team (investors are part of that team) that
       | trusts each other to have incentives towards having the startup
       | make it big.
       | 
       | Ditching the team and investors like that is extremely
       | distasteful and shows that the founder does not have the
       | qualities to be a leader.
       | 
       | The founder didn't do the right thing, he did the selfish thing
       | by throwing his employees under the bus.
        
         | Ma8ee wrote:
         | The "employees" had other day jobs. Why is it less selfish to
         | spend other people's time and money on a company that you can't
         | see any way for it to succeed than cutting everyone's losses as
         | soon as possible?
        
         | lwhi wrote:
         | No.
         | 
         | I think what you mean to say is, it's an extremely terrifying
         | situation for an investor.
         | 
         | By the end of the article, I wonder whether there weren't
         | actually fixable problems. I was left wondering whether I would
         | have made the same decision. However, it's essential we all
         | have the freedom and agency to choose how to live our lives
         | 
         | This is the choice the author made, and it's blatantly obvious
         | that the decision needs to be respected.
        
           | andi999 wrote:
           | Why does it need to be respected? Why not e.g. sell the
           | company and IP.
        
         | Simon_O_Rourke wrote:
         | > The founder didn't do the right thing, he did the selfish
         | thing by throwing his employees under the bus.
         | 
         | How is leaving them in their more secure day jobs rather than
         | binding then to a likely failed company throwing anyone under
         | the bus?
         | 
         | This founder did the smart thing, and probably did what was
         | best for everyone involved.
        
         | new299 wrote:
         | In this case it seems like he didn't have any full-time
         | employees, so there isn't the employee issue.
         | 
         | But I'm curious as to how this might effect investors
         | generally. I assume it could make them look bad, and cause
         | issues with the fund LPs?
         | 
         | I.e. you announced an investment, did a capital call and then
         | suddenly the money gets returned. LPs might get annoyed that
         | money is now sitting in the fund accounts collecting interest?
         | or I guess it just makes the fund look bad generally?
        
           | menzoic wrote:
           | Sounds better than burning the funds into a startup failure
        
           | jokethrowaway wrote:
           | The existing investors lost money, everyone else paid in
           | stress and overwork
        
       | polote wrote:
       | The problem with this article, is that it gives the feeling that
       | creating a company is a sequence of logical steps. But that's not
       | the case at all. OP stopped the company because he didnt want to
       | invest his time in working on this problem, and thats a fair
       | decision. But this has nothing do with unfixable flaw or "people
       | sucks" or something like that. Those things are part of any
       | business.
        
         | vlovich123 wrote:
         | I think you missed the main thrust of the article. They were
         | trying to land in the mid market segment and expand from there
         | into the large market where it's more expensive to acquire
         | sales. However, after doing a bunch of research actively
         | interviewing their user base, the author couldn't figure out a
         | way to get these users to use the product enough for that land
         | and expand strategy to work (it wasn't sticky enough to
         | actually start generating sales). In essence, from the author's
         | perspective, there was no path forward for success with the
         | current business stategy.
         | 
         | You are of course free to disagree and you may be right that
         | there was a path there or they could have pivoted to do
         | something totally different. What the author was trying to
         | convey and maybe you missed is that they weren't interested in
         | spending another year exploring trying to find a totally
         | different viable business strategy.
        
       | ChicagoDave wrote:
       | Sometimes there is no pivot. Hopefully he keeps swinging and hits
       | one out.
        
       | radisb wrote:
       | Couldn't someone else willing to give those 70h/week take your
       | place?
        
       | hk1337 wrote:
       | I would think their customers would also be pissed that their
       | contract service is now gone.
        
         | ransom1538 wrote:
         | This is the root problem! If you are a first time CTO which
         | contract service do you want to use? Generally, you bet on sure
         | wins. Some startup is not a sure win (it might not be there in
         | 2 months). When companies go under - paperwork is flying
         | everywhere (unsecured). You want your contracts flying around?
        
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