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       How I finally get daily journaling done with a workflow on my
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       Author : isaacfrond
       Score  : 147 points
       Date   : 2022-06-09 08:18 UTC (2 days ago)
        
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       | zaplin wrote:
       | An interesting twist about the gratitude practice:
       | 
       | It turns out that it does not work they way we think it works. At
       | least that's what the scientists say. To get the desired results
       | the practice needs to be inverted.
       | 
       | "The key elements of highly effective gratitude practices are
       | [...] the essential need for story (narrative), receiving or
       | perceiving gratitude rather than giving it, and the role that
       | theory of mind plays in this context" [ _]
       | 
       | [_] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVjfFN89qvQ
        
         | hackernewds wrote:
         | This is one of the most authoritative and influential 90m talk
         | on this matter. It has been transformational
        
       | npunt wrote:
       | I've discovered so much about myself journaling. Journaling
       | allows me to _listen_ to myself in a way I cannot otherwise do;
       | it separates me from my thoughts  & feelings, which gives me the
       | perspective I need to see myself a different way. I can't
       | reliably get this meditating the way I can journaling.
       | 
       | If you're a curious person, the habit of journaling is a
       | fantastic engine to drive your curiosity inward, and is often
       | quite fun and something to look forward to. It's also a great way
       | to get better as a writer - writing 500+ words a day, and really
       | thinking about the words being written, over a long period of
       | time really adds up. I'm so much faster at writing than I was
       | when I started.
        
       | dSebastien wrote:
       | Journaling is key to my productivity and creativity. I think that
       | many people associate the activity only with writing about their
       | feelings and personal stories. It's that, but also so much more.
       | My journal is central to my days. It's where I keep track of what
       | I've done, what I've discovered, the challenges I've faced, my
       | ideas for the future, etc.
       | 
       | I've blogged about this here: -
       | https://dsebastien.net/blog/2021-10-07-periodic-journaling-p... -
       | https://dsebastien.net/blog/2021-10-07-periodic-journaling-p...
        
       | rg111 wrote:
       | Journaling is definitely one of the things where you have to
       | figure your own way out.
       | 
       | I tried a lot of things. Markdown based apps (Obsidian), Diary
       | apps (Diarium), and so on.
       | 
       | What worked finally was pen and paper. Not any pen. Bought a
       | bunch of good fountain pens (Lamy, Pilot, Parker), and bought a
       | nice refillable leatherbound journal.
       | 
       | And I journal every night before my meditation session before
       | going to bed.
       | 
       | I do not plan to read them or store them. I just write my heart
       | out. I use writing as a tool of thinking, and dumping my
       | thoughts. The stuff that have some particular qualities, evolve
       | into actions (anywhere from visiting a friend or a travel trip to
       | learning something new), blogs, or projects.
       | 
       | I do not plan to do OCR or any kind of special storage.
       | 
       | I hated digital journaling because I had to pick up the phone or
       | sit somewhere to use the laptop/desktop. Also a quick figure
       | would require me to at least open a tool, and at most made me
       | connect my graphics tablet. Pen and paper just removed the
       | friction. Now I just journal in bed sitting or half-lying under a
       | lamp with my wifi turned off.
       | 
       | Pen and paper is my ideal workflow, and I reached here after
       | _months_ of trial-and-error.
        
         | kirso wrote:
         | Love it. The only issue I had with this approach is aggregating
         | notebooks but not enough storage (due to constant travel) to
         | keep doing this without having a separate bag just for it.
         | 
         | Its very contextual but I truly believe this is the best way!
        
         | bambax wrote:
         | I built myself a system that sends me an email every day, and
         | all I have to do is respond to that email; the answers get
         | stored in an SQLite database, which is backed up on Dropbox.
         | 
         | So, opposite to you, my system lets me revisit and read my
         | previous thoughts, something I do enjoy. It's also a great
         | tracking system that tells me when this or that event happened.
         | 
         | But, like you, it's not dependent on any specific tool. I can
         | lose my phone and all my devices, as long as I can receive and
         | send email, it'll work.
        
         | rpastuszak wrote:
         | >Pen and paper is my ideal workflow, and I reached here after
         | months of trial-and-error.
         | 
         | I finally stopped yak-shaving my writing workflow when I built
         | a web app with a single text field and no editing capabilities,
         | just pushing letters. It feels "dummer" than a piece of paper,
         | but works for me. 2.5 years of almost daily writing (700 words
         | on avg) so far. I practice calligraphy, but my regular hand
         | writing is terrible. I used to hoard piles of paper with
         | doodles and notes, and I'd always felt bad about throwing them
         | out. I do like that the list of notes keeps getting longer
         | every day although, but rarely re-read them. Otherwise I'd just
         | use a pen.
        
       | hkc wrote:
       | I think Diarium [1] is the most underrated journaling app. I have
       | been using it for around a while and can definitely recommend it.
       | Also, it is one time pay (for each platform though which I think
       | is still better than an overpriced subscription)
       | 
       | [1] https://timopartl.com/#diarium
        
       | political12345 wrote:
       | He fooled me until
       | 
       | "This also aligns perfectly with my roman-catholic faith as Jesus
       | Christ ..."
       | 
       | lol
        
         | fsiefken wrote:
         | hi pol1-5, I don't understand what made you feel this way.
         | Gratitude practice is universally human, in catholic culture
         | Christ is the human ideal and spiritual teacher (apart from
         | divine). You may disagree with the latter personally or think
         | people who are catholic - like me as well - are not to be taken
         | seriously. Fides et Ratio can go hand in hand (see the
         | encyclical or Contact by Carl Sagan).
        
       | rpastuszak wrote:
       | Seems like a good place to mention the writing web-app I made a
       | few years back: https://write.sonnet.io
       | 
       | I've been using it almost daily for 2.5 years, and I've been
       | quite happy with it so far.
       | 
       | I'm terrible at sticking to habits, but since the tool is so
       | limited and de facto aimed at inducing the flow state, eventually
       | it gets really hard not to end up with 700-800 words after just a
       | few minutes.
       | 
       | Sometimes this ends up being word soup full of typos, but that's
       | ok since I use it mostly as a "mental shower": I look at the past
       | day and try to understand my reactions better, gain perspective,
       | or just vent. For me, it's about staying focused and writing,
       | instead of over-analysing.
       | 
       | The fun part is that now I can go to almost any date in the past
       | couple of years, and look at the mental/emotional snapshot from
       | that time.
       | 
       | Some context: https://sonnet.io/posts/ulysses/
        
         | j1elo wrote:
         | The UI and UX of this is superb. Congrats for the nice taste!
         | 
         | I enjoy reading my writings from years ago... Are the notes
         | stored somewhere and are they available for re-reading later?
         | Is it possible to download or sync with external storage? I'm
         | on mobile so the site encouraged me to come back later on
         | desktop.
        
       | dinkleberg wrote:
       | What I've been doing for a while now is doing daily voice or
       | video logs rather than written logs. I find it removes any
       | barrier to journaling.
       | 
       | The app I use called Day One will show you previous entries "on
       | this day" from previous years and it can be fun to look/listen
       | back on.
        
         | mettamage wrote:
         | Thanks DINKLEBERG! (What show was that again?)
         | 
         | Thanks for the app tip, you removed my barrier to immediately
         | try it today. And I can skip the lengthy blog post too!
        
           | dinkleberg wrote:
           | Haha thank YOU for the message. That makes me happy to know
           | someone recognized the name. It was from the TV show The
           | Fairly OddParents.
           | 
           | And I've been loving the voice/video logs. It's so much
           | easier to just talk to my future self for 5-10 mins rather
           | than writing it all down.
        
         | wnolens wrote:
         | I like to talk things out with the Google Recorder app on my
         | Pixel phone.
         | 
         | The app automatically (and for free) transcribes as you go, so
         | you also have a readable and searchable version of your entry.
         | 
         | It's probably my favorite phone app after maps.
        
       | gennarro wrote:
       | I'm surprised by all the app and website talk here. I've always
       | associated my journaling with quiet reflection, which means no
       | phones or computers. That is, no notifications or requests for
       | updates, or other distractions so I've never considered anything
       | but pen and paper. I have one of these quite nice notebooks [0],
       | that I keep handy morning and night for my journal activity. Even
       | with quiet mode my phone is too distracting and my computer is
       | too closely associated with work.
       | 
       | [0] https://unsharpen.com/leuchtturm1917-notebook-sizes/
        
       | wenc wrote:
       | Journaling is actually a great way of promoting mental and
       | emotional health.
       | 
       | I don't journal daily because I don't have enough to say every
       | day, but I do something similar called "writing therapy",
       | especially when I'm feeling emotionally stuck. I find bad
       | emotions to only be bothersome because they are inside and
       | unprocessed. Externalizing emotions onto a physical page (not
       | digital!) helps me process them. The physical act of subsequently
       | crumpling the piece of paper and throwing it out is catharsis.
       | The act itself somehow tells my brain not to hold on to certain
       | feelings -- I've done the work to process them and I can now let
       | them go.
       | 
       | I do this when I'm experiencing minor issues that don't rise to
       | the level of needing to talk to a $150/hr therapist. Some people
       | prefer talking things out, but I prefer writing.
       | 
       | "So what do therapy, journaling, and meditation all have in
       | common?
       | 
       | All three are techniques to help us convert what is usually the
       | subject of our consciousness into the object of our
       | consciousness.
       | 
       | That's it." [1]
       | 
       | [1] https://markmanson.net/how-to-get-better
        
         | nindalf wrote:
         | When my friends ask why I pay for my journaling software
         | instead of a free option, I tell them $22 a year is a great
         | price for my primary therapist.
         | 
         | I found I wasn't being completely open and honest when I was
         | journaling on pen and paper because I was subconsciously
         | concerned someone else would read it. A password protected
         | journal works better for me.
        
           | dominotw wrote:
           | curious, whats the software called.
        
             | maxxam wrote:
             | Maybe https://dayoneapp.com/ which is popular on Apple
             | platforms.
        
             | nindalf wrote:
             | DayOne. OP mentions it as well.
             | 
             | I like it because it's password protected and cross
             | platform. It doesn't hurt that I can add pictures in for
             | trip reports.
        
         | prox wrote:
         | I can really recommend the book "If you want to write" by B.
         | Ueland.
         | 
         | It's a lovely ode to writing and ofcourse goes into the subject
         | of the title.
        
         | sdze wrote:
         | Forgetting is as good as journaling.
        
           | wenc wrote:
           | Ah, if only my brain would let me selectively forget!
           | 
           | Journaling is actually a way to forget as long as one throws
           | out what one writes and never revisit (which I never do). It
           | works like an accelerated Ebbinghaus curve.
           | 
           | That said, I suspect forgetful people are often less
           | emotionally burdened.
           | 
           | Similar to how heavy sleepers tend not to be grumpy people
           | because nothing prevents them from having a good night's
           | sleep.
        
         | karencarits wrote:
         | And, although it may be obvious, journaling is not a general
         | miracle cure;there are many stories of suicide where a diary
         | has been left, only to show to those left how someone has been
         | stuck in a spiral of desperation, self-hatred and anxiety for a
         | long time
        
         | hooande wrote:
         | > I don't journal daily because I don't have enough to say
         | every day
         | 
         | Just recount what happened I the last 24 hours. Had to be
         | something even if you just worked and watched netflix. ie, what
         | specifically did you do at work, how could you have done it
         | better, etc
         | 
         | I journal off and on, not currently doing it. But I found it to
         | be a great tool for introspection and improvement. I would
         | think in depth about technical problems, social interactions,
         | various distractions and impediments to productivity. It's a
         | great tool if you have the time. but you have to _make_
         | yourself do it, every day
        
         | rpastuszak wrote:
         | > Journaling is actually a great way of promoting mental and
         | emotional health.
         | 
         | Can't agree more. I built myself a simple writing app[1] a
         | couple of years back, purely because I wanted to have a place
         | to slow down, somewhere I could just pour my emotions/thoughts
         | into, without self-editing. I posted a bit more about in the
         | root thread. If you give the app a shot, let me know. I think
         | you might like it.
         | 
         | > "So what do therapy, journaling, and meditation all have in
         | common? [...]
         | 
         | I'd add any unconstrained (and ideally "childish") form of art
         | to the list. I write in the morning then doodle just before
         | going to bed [2]. I generally struggle with sticking to new
         | habits but relying on this form of mental hygiene, plus therapy
         | made a huge improvement in my quality of life.
         | 
         | [1] https://write.sonnet.io and
         | https://sonnet.io/posts/ulysses/ [2] https://potato.horse
        
           | vishnumohandas wrote:
           | write.sonnet.io is beautiful, you're quite the artist :)
        
           | liquidf0x wrote:
           | going to set this as my homepage and use it daily. thank you.
        
             | rpastuszak wrote:
             | Glad to hear that, good luck!
        
       | ham-sandwich wrote:
        
         | JimBlackwood wrote:
         | Breathing, eating, drinking and sleeping are also hallmarks of
         | mass shooters and incels. I even hear they cloth themselves
         | frequently.
         | 
         | In all seriousness; that is a really toxic take. I'm surprised
         | to find it on HN, where I feel constructive criticism and
         | thought-out comments are common.
        
           | ham-sandwich wrote:
        
       | krallja wrote:
       | Day One includes every feature requested by the author, including
       | templates, scheduled notifications, and cross-device sync. I
       | gladly pay the annual subscription. I have been journaling with
       | it for almost ten years, when it was in some free app bundle.
        
       | spoonjim wrote:
       | Find a lot of people I know living what I tend to consider an
       | overexamined life.
        
         | jl6 wrote:
         | There's certainly a public form of journaling that happens on
         | social media that seems to start with good intentions but then
         | descends into self-diagnosis.
         | 
         | In terms of private journaling - well, it's private, so hard to
         | draw any general conclusions, but I tend to think that if
         | you're spending more than half an hour each day writing about
         | yourself then you might have a problem.
        
           | hackernewds wrote:
           | Public journaling it seems inevitably devolves into
           | glorifying the highlights and seeking attention and
           | acceptance, rather than honesty. Which expectedly the media
           | platforms exploit for engagement metrics.
        
           | mpalmer wrote:
           | You pass judgement pretty easily. Private journaling is not
           | always "writing about yourself" in the narcissistic sense you
           | seem to mean.
           | 
           | Plenty of people feel like their thoughts and ideas are
           | worthwhile but can't keep track of them without writing them
           | down. Some of them even pass the 30 minute cutoff doing so.
        
             | jl6 wrote:
             | Don't get me wrong, I'm 100% behind keeping a private
             | journal, even one where you just write about yourself, but
             | you can have too much of a good thing, and I see 30 minutes
             | a day as the reasonable limit.
        
           | helpfulclippy wrote:
           | Yes, and addressing those problems is what I seek to
           | accomplish by writing to myself about them. :)
           | 
           | Highly verbose and time consuming journaling has gotten me
           | through divorce, major career changes, single parenthood,
           | relocation, a new relationship and a bunch of other life
           | changes. I usually journal only a few times a week, but in
           | the thick of that stuff, I needed much more than a 30 minute
           | window each day to check in with myself about where I was at
           | and where I was trying to get to each day. Sometimes I spent
           | hours. I took a year and a half away from it -- which turned
           | out to be by far one of the most impulsive and reckless
           | periods of my life!
        
         | TedDoesntTalk wrote:
         | What are the effects, in your opinion, of an overexamined life?
        
           | spoonjim wrote:
           | Anxiety, dissatisfaction, relentless comparison of oneself
           | with others, etc.
        
             | criddell wrote:
             | It would be very strange if gratitude journaling would lead
             | to those kinds of thoughts.
        
             | hackernewds wrote:
             | I have heard people say the unexamined life is one not as
             | gratifying
        
               | spoonjim wrote:
               | There is an optimal middle ground
        
               | petegordon wrote:
               | I agree self examining requires middle ground.
               | 
               | I made an Apple Watch App and then Shortcut[2] to record
               | by voice how I spend my time and write it to my calendar.
               | The goal was to make it so easy (<10 seconds) to record
               | when and how I spent my time that I would record even
               | every time I went to the bathroom. I did it consistently
               | for a few weeks and just couldn't bring my self to
               | continue, I was recording only ~40-50 activities per day
               | and I still felt burden by such detailed self
               | examination. What did I learn? That I was playing a lot
               | of Xbox with my son and too much alone. That the free
               | form text I was recording needed categorization and
               | keyword analysis to even hope of being useful and that I
               | really love spontaneity and aimless wandering, curiosity,
               | and learning--but ultimately what a weight it is to do
               | such detailed analysis of one's own self. I do still some
               | times have dreams of doing something similar with all of
               | my Google data[1] at some point maybe bringing both ideas
               | (recording how I spend every minute and full Google
               | download) together for analysis and self awareness.
               | 
               | [1] https://takeout.google.com/ [2] https://www.icloud.co
               | m/shortcuts/66271d52e6174d1a8b61c48e700...
        
       | longrod wrote:
       | I think journaling can be a great funnel to collect everything of
       | interest during your day. Like anything general a lot of it is
       | just noise but the few gems inside can really be worth the
       | effort.
        
       | DantesKite wrote:
       | I always compare journaling to trying to solve a math problem
       | with paper and pen. Of course you can do math problems in your
       | head, but it's so much easier when you can express thoughts as
       | symbols.
       | 
       | But the problems you're trying to solve aren't mathematical.
       | They're emotional and perhaps even spiritual ones; petty ones and
       | unexamined ones.
       | 
       | It's a great tool more people should use, not out of obligation,
       | but because once you become aware of it, you'll automatically
       | want to.
        
         | somat wrote:
         | To me it is the act of turning abstract thought into concrete
         | thought.
         | 
         | For this reason there is nothing wrong with talking to your
         | self. you are taking thoughts which are always a bit fuzzy and
         | turning them into solid actionable items. Writing things down
         | is even better at this. But the best is teaching someone else.
        
       | stoicjumbotron wrote:
       | I've started journaling daily myself and just pouring out my
       | thoughts somewhere makes me feel really really good. It doesn't
       | matter what those thoughts/feelings are: love, hatred, sadness,
       | gratitude, jealousy, ambition, anything really. Just writing
       | stuff down made the difference for me.
        
       | j1elo wrote:
       | There is this thing called https://750words.com/ which has
       | existed since seemingly forever by today's standards.
       | 
       | It is a simple and neat way to introduce the habit of writing 3
       | pages of text a day.
        
       | rudolfwinestock wrote:
       | The author uses a text file in a Dropbox account. That's one way.
       | There's another way that's just as future-proof. The idea was
       | described on Lobsters.
       | 
       | https://lobste.rs/s/utdgs1/what_is_good_journaling_desktop#c...
       | 
       | Make an email account which only you know about. Send yourself
       | mail to that account. Each mail is a journal entry. Any email
       | client (desktop or mobile) becomes your journal editor. Mails are
       | automatically time-stamped and can feature rich text and all of
       | the attachments supported by modern email providers.
       | 
       | You can switch all of your mail to another email provider thanks
       | to facilities built into email since the 1970s.
        
       | sircastor wrote:
       | I really like Day One for journaling. It's a very clean
       | experience though I admit I don't journal everyday.
       | 
       | I have bristled against the idea of subscribing to it as an app.
       | I think It's a great app, and I want to support the author, but
       | subscription to apps just rubs me the wrong way. So I live in the
       | free mode.
       | 
       | I've tried a few alternatives that are free (including markdown
       | and plain text), but always come back to it because it's so
       | comfortable.
        
         | swatcoder wrote:
         | Yes, Day One is great.
         | 
         | I push about 30k-50k words of text journaling into it per year,
         | for about 6 or 7 years now, and it handles it seamlessly while
         | keeping everything organized.
         | 
         | The most important feature to me is that it feels lightweight
         | and lagless to open the app and get to typing.
         | 
         | My impression is that Day One has a ton of features for people
         | who want multimedia entries, or sharing, or all the other
         | bullet points that keep it from getting squeezed out by
         | competitors, but it seems to keep those out of the hot path so
         | that my own niche experience is never ruined by bloat.
        
       | mgdlbp wrote:
       | Why write on the phone when routinely journalling before and
       | after bed? I always feel stifled by typing speed on a touch
       | keyboard; in this case especially, it seems minimizing the
       | friction of expressing a spontaneous thought would take priority.
       | I don't see mention of dictation, unless it's a given with the
       | app. Or is that particular workflow feature so beneficial as to
       | offset this?
        
         | swatcoder wrote:
         | It doesn't take that much practice to get typing speed/comfort
         | up to the speed of organized, phrased thoughts.
         | 
         | A lot of people have that already from communicating on their
         | phones a lot, or (for the young ones) growing up on touch
         | screens, but even if you just dive into journaling like the OP,
         | you'd probably get their soon enough.
         | 
         | And once you're there, dictation can't hold a candle. I'll type
         | a paragraph in the time it takes for some dictation assistant
         | to transcribe a sentence, with fewer mistakes, more precision,
         | and more linguistic creativity.
        
         | sircastor wrote:
         | > I always feel stifled by typing speed on a touch keyboard
         | 
         | My typing speed on a laptop keyboard was the thing that finally
         | made journaling work for me. I could never write fast enough by
         | hand to capture my thoughts.
        
           | hackernewds wrote:
           | Have you tried swipe typing?
        
             | sircastor wrote:
             | I have. It's actually my primary input method for my phone.
             | It's certainly fast, but I'm still better with a physical
             | two-handed keyboard.
        
       | tunatrout wrote:
       | My spouse stopped journalling when we started dating. A partner
       | can be the most effective way to work through emotions and ideas.
        
       | codegangsta wrote:
       | I've been journaling daily for the past few years and it's been
       | really fun to tick through each day around a year previous to
       | observe my current state. Most of it seems trite or meaningless,
       | but collated it feels like a meaningful picture of who I was back
       | then -- what my struggles were and how they split between the
       | distant and close.
       | 
       | TLDR; I highly recommend journaling daily. It forces you to slow
       | down and plug into feelings which is automatically a better start
       | to your day than usual
        
         | narrator wrote:
         | A practice I do that's related to this is a year end wrapup. I
         | write it at the beginning of January where I take my whole year
         | and write about what significant things happened each month and
         | then the major themes of the year and a reflection on it at the
         | end.
        
       | graylien wrote:
       | I started doing this, but for blogging
        
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