[HN Gopher] The Great Decentralization? Geographic shifts and wh...
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       The Great Decentralization? Geographic shifts and where tech talent
       is moving
        
       Author : cwoolfe
       Score  : 106 points
       Date   : 2022-06-10 14:42 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | ecshafer wrote:
       | The top 10 metro areas list is interesting. Philadelphia, San
       | Antonio, Houston, San Diego and Phoenix not on there despite all
       | 5 being in the top 10 MSA and city population, while DC,
       | Portland, Seattle, Atlanta, Boston are on there.
       | 
       | I am also shocked that Portland is growing. I went to Portland
       | this year recently, it is the worst city in the country I have
       | been to. 90% of downtown is boarded up, city is deserted, massive
       | homelessness crisis.
       | 
       | Elmira/Corning dropping is kind of interesting. Since Corning is
       | entirely propped up by Corning Glass.
        
         | lastofthemojito wrote:
         | > The top 10 metro areas list is interesting. Philadelphia, San
         | Antonio, Houston, San Diego and Phoenix not on there despite
         | all 5 being in the top 10 MSA and city population, while DC,
         | Portland, Seattle, Atlanta, Boston are on there.
         | 
         | Yeah, I found that to be an odd "top 10" as well. My guess is
         | that they are the top 10 US metro areas from which Stack
         | Overflow traffic originates? It'd be nice if we didn't have to
         | guess though.
        
         | citizenkeen wrote:
         | It's been fascinating watching the suburbs of Portland
         | (Beaverton, etc.) get all the culture funding and investment as
         | everybody flees downtown.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | JumpCrisscross wrote:
         | > _I went to Portland this year recently, it is the worst city
         | in the country I have been to. 90% of downtown is boarded up,
         | city is deserted, massive homelessness crisis._
         | 
         | I had the opposite response, but I guess I've been in San
         | Francisco. All the locals were scared of downtown. Yes, it was
         | boarded up. But it was safe. One homeless guy was being talked
         | to by a cop because he was yelling. (They were all sitting
         | cross legged on a corner. Super non-confrontational.) They left
         | and then he left (not yelling). I don't think you could get a
         | San Francisco cop's attention if a homeless person were
         | flinging things at you.
        
           | ecshafer wrote:
           | In the week I was there I saw people be physically attacked
           | twice, once at a tram stop and once at a restaurant. This is
           | on top of maybe a dozen other "incidences". I spend a lot of
           | time in Philly and New York both, and that's beyond the pale
           | for either of those cities.
        
         | kryptozinc wrote:
         | > 90% of downtown is boarded up, city is deserted, massive
         | homelessness crisis.
         | 
         | Patently untrue. Portland is booming.
        
           | ecshafer wrote:
           | I went to a half dozen neighborhoods over a week. Even post
           | covid, comparing it to Chicago, Philly, NYC, DC (all places I
           | have also been to in the last 6 months) it felt like an
           | absolute ghost town. Almost no people are walking around,
           | even in the "hip" areas. If it weren't for the cars, it would
           | have felt downright post-apocalyptic.
        
           | rednerrus wrote:
           | It's not as nice as it was in 2019...
        
           | citizenkeen wrote:
           | The greater Portland area is booming, but downtown just feels
           | sad.
        
           | jjtheblunt wrote:
           | where? i've been to Portland many times, and haven't seen any
           | booming.
        
         | francisofascii wrote:
         | The Corning drop is interesting. Maybe the Corning engineers
         | are all working from home but live in towns not included in the
         | defined Corning/Elmira area like Binghamton?
        
         | rovolo wrote:
         | > shocked that Portland is growing ... massive homelessness
         | crisis.
         | 
         | This statement reminds me of "Nobody goes to that restaurant
         | anymore because it's too crowded".
        
       | frankfrankfrank wrote:
       | Could it also be that the pageview method is not accurate?
        
         | joshmaker wrote:
         | It's probably directionally accurate
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | davidw wrote:
       | This is pretty interesting. There are tons of small towns
       | throughout the western US that are nice places in their own way.
       | Will the remote work trend cause people to move there?
       | 
       | A few random ones the top of my head:
       | 
       | * Baker City, Oregon: near a small ski area, mountains, sunnier
       | and nicer than western Oregon.
       | 
       | * Silver City, New Mexico: (very) small college town next to the
       | national forest. Great climate because it's far south, but at
       | enough altitude that it's not miserably hot in the summer
       | compared, to, say, Phoenix.
        
         | dboreham wrote:
         | Yes. Here in Southwest Montana we have seen a very significant
         | increase in transplantation in the past 2 years. House prices
         | have soared. The freeway looks like 101 now (101 north of
         | Eureka, but heck..)
        
       | rgrieselhuber wrote:
       | After living in SF for 7-8 years and seeing a serious decline in
       | quality of life for residents there, I wouldn't be real excited
       | about the tech industry spreading out to one of these new regions
       | if I happened to live there.
        
         | cs137 wrote:
         | This. I wonder if Bay Area people still claim to be "living in
         | the future", as they did in the 2000s and early 2010s. They
         | were right, but I wish they hadn't been, because the future
         | turned out to suck.
        
       | tren-hard wrote:
       | This is great news. I love that tech jobs and workers are
       | spreading out.
       | 
       | Some concentration is good but it's way over saturated. That said
       | real estate is still bonkers in Seattle (and everywhere really)
       | so even with a huge out flow it isn't even making a dent in
       | affordability.
        
       | krinchan wrote:
       | I feel surprised that Miami or Fort Lauderdale or just South
       | Florida in general didn't rate in any category. It's even more
       | baffling to see Tampa, of all cities, used for the "Warmer
       | Climes" category. I can't really overcome the gut feeling this
       | data is cherry-picked.
        
         | rootsudo wrote:
         | I've been to all those Floridian cities quite recently, and
         | went frequently yearly. There are a high number of out of state
         | plates,and drivers are much much worse - in FL driving is
         | absolute so it's a easy check to see who's from where - most
         | people avoid changing the registration/title until the
         | registration expires.
         | 
         | It makes me more considerate that there is a housing crisis,
         | simply because Florida does not have enough diversity of
         | industry - it's very hospitality, real estate, entertainment
         | and military driven even though the state and people have tried
         | to diversify into tech and manufacturing - but the pay is quite
         | low when comparing to other cities.
         | 
         | Growing up in FL in the late 00's also had me see people buy
         | condos that went one year fro 35k, then to 150k, then left
         | empty and then sold for 25k in a period of 5 years. Houses,
         | similar.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | jeffbee wrote:
       | Comically bad analysis. Take a bunch of tiny denominators and
       | stochastic numerators, cherry-pick one instant in time, and then
       | declare Joplin and Tulsa the two hottest tech talent markets,
       | despite the latter being so desperate for in-migrants that they
       | will still pay you $10k to move there.
        
       | jmyeet wrote:
       | I'm glad they looked at climate because for a lot of people it's
       | a huge factor. Some people seem to like but for me the Pacific
       | Northwest is the most depressing place on Earth (outside summer).
       | The Northeast? Less depressing but the winters are harsh.
       | 
       | I expect family is a big factor in wwhere people move, as in
       | people are moving to have some proximity with their extended
       | families. It's just that remote work has allowed this to happen.
       | 
       | But here's another potential factor: the Trump tax "cuts" did
       | three big things to individuals, which is particularly relevant
       | in tech:
       | 
       | 1. _Raised_ taxes in the $200k to $500k tax bracket;
       | 
       | 2. Ended the longstanding SALT deducation (mostly); and
       | 
       | 3. Any personal income tax cuts (unlike the corporate tax cuts)
       | are temporary and are slowly being rolled back.
       | 
       | So consider a software engineer with TC of $500k in CA or NY.
       | You're paying close to 10% of your income in state income taxes
       | and might be paying $30k in property taxes. In addition to losing
       | $80k in taxes, you no longer get a Federal deduction of 33% for
       | those taxes so you can be losing more than 20% of your income to
       | state and local taxes.
       | 
       | Now that same engineer moves to, say, Nevada. State income tax is
       | gone and property taxes are low (because of casinos) so your net
       | pay could be almost $100k higher.
       | 
       | Put another way: that means working in CA for 5 years will net
       | you the same money as working in NV for 4.
       | 
       | The Northeast has already had a longstanding trend of migration
       | to the Sun Belt, so much so that NY lost a congressional seat in
       | apportionment from the 2020 census while Florida gained 1 and
       | Texas gained 2. For non-US people, every 10 years there's a
       | census and based on the results the 435 Congressional seats are
       | distributed. If a state gains or loses enough population they can
       | gain or lose (respectively) Congessional seats. It's actually a
       | big deal.
       | 
       | I'm happy people have the option of living outside a few big
       | urban centers. Some locals are mad at skyrocketing real estate
       | prices. The biggest reason for this is and overall demand shock
       | but migration doesn't help. Still, it's more high-paying jobs in
       | those economies.
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | That software engineer is unlikely to make $500K in Nevada,
         | even if working remotely for a CA or NY company. If remote tech
         | work really does mainstream, companies will surely begin
         | adjusting compensations to match the local cost of labor where
         | their employee lives.
        
       | NortySpock wrote:
       | As a Missourian, the percentage-pageview-change data looks odd,
       | highlighting two cities, Joplin and St. Joseph.
       | 
       | Both cities are small, between 50,000 and 75,000 population (2020
       | census), and are about an hour's drive away from the nearest
       | larger city (Joplin is near Springfield, St. Joseph is near
       | Kansas City, and it would take 3 hours to drive from Kansas City
       | to Springfield.)
       | 
       | In terms of Midwest tech hubs,the ones nearest to me are Kansas
       | City, Missouri; St. Louis, Missouri, and Omaha, Nebraska (3.5
       | hour drive from Kansas City).
       | 
       | If I were to guess, I would say you could cause this apparent
       | shift in traffic simply by shifting a few corporate VPN exit
       | points from several large companies in the region from St.
       | Joseph, Missouri to Joplin, Missouri.
        
         | ravedave5 wrote:
         | Similarly Mankato MN being on the list is wierd. Very small
         | town, a college town actually. I would imagine 50% + of
         | stackoverflow traffic to come from college kids.
        
         | bitbang wrote:
         | Can't speak for St. Jo but Joplin and Pittsburgh are growing
         | from proximity to the Fayetteville, Springdale, Rogers
         | metropolitan area just exploding in growth. The interstate was
         | finished up that now puts them only an hour drive away, and
         | they have been benefiting greatly from that.
        
         | corrral wrote:
         | I put the likelihood that the Joplin, MO / Pittsburg, KS area
         | is becoming any kind of destination for remote tech workers at
         | 0%. That one has to be a case of a very small number not
         | needing to increase much to have a large percentage increase.
        
       | mywittyname wrote:
       | There's an issue with scale with those numbers on the metro area
       | growth/decline.
       | 
       | For example, Vegas, Cincinnati, and Columbus are metro areas home
       | to 2+ million people, while Elmeria is the 10th smallest American
       | metro area listed wikipedia with just 83k people, literally a
       | rounding error compared to the others.
        
       | yacine_ wrote:
       | This is a good analysis. I think we're going to see an even more
       | extreme selection of the more highly skilled individuals. The
       | bigger the pool, the further you can go on the right tail of the
       | pareto distribution. There's going to be a big influx of people
       | moving to tax havens.
       | 
       | Especially considering the fact that highly sought out engs end
       | up spending 90% of their time in meetings with teams across the
       | globe, they're much more likely to continue being remote.
        
       | adamhi wrote:
       | Keep in mind that they're really measuring pageviews to
       | Stackoverflow, not actual data about movement. My intuition is
       | that it's probably right, but this is suggestive at best.
        
         | jsdwarf wrote:
         | Isn't the SO pageview data skewed by the fact that most remote
         | workers are on their company's VPN, hiding their true location?
        
           | LimaBearz wrote:
           | Slightly maybe but split tunnel would avoid that. If it was
           | full I'd expect to see an increase from popular cloud hosting
           | regions (if it was a prod vpn) or if corporate VPN's their
           | home offices (which would show as a net zero change)
        
             | sanjams wrote:
             | AWS has a large data center near Portland... (And
             | Washington DC for that matter)
        
           | rubidium wrote:
           | Eh, maybe your company' vpn is better than mine, but I do as
           | little work as possible on the VPN due to abysmal speed.
        
         | mahogany wrote:
         | This data could also signal that people in less traditional
         | areas for software development now have access to remote jobs
         | and are starting to learn more about programming (thus visiting
         | Stackoverflow) to try to get those jobs. The fall in traffic in
         | the traditional places is a signal about movement, but I wonder
         | how much the upticks in other places are a combination of
         | multiple things.
        
         | lmarcos wrote:
         | During my first years as a developer I used regularly SO.
         | Nowadays perhaps once per month or so.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | Also, a decent amount of SO traffic is stolen by SO-copy SEO
           | spam sites, too. I used to frequent it, but haven't needed to
           | in years (it seems to more rarely show up in searches for the
           | problems I have, even though I avoid the spam sites, too).
        
           | swman wrote:
           | You're basically a god now
        
           | omginternets wrote:
           | Huh, I hadn't even thought about it, but I'm in the same
           | boat. I haven't needed SO since switching to Go in 2014.
        
           | smt88 wrote:
           | This is the correct (and massive) caveat for everything
           | StackOverflow posts from their own data. It tells you a lot
           | about some developers and absolutely nothing about others.
           | 
           | I use it a lot for my secondary languages, but when writing a
           | well-documented language/framework like C# .NET, I never use
           | it. The Microsoft docs cover everything.
        
       | hwbehrens wrote:
       | I feel like the dataset they've chosen is extremely noisy at the
       | tail, but they've obscured this in their analysis. An 11%
       | increase in Portland should be a lot more impactful (in absolute
       | terms) than a big decrease in El Centro, which I can imagine
       | could be caused by a single company moving.
       | 
       | I guess it's probably unrealistic to expect P-values in a blog
       | post, though...
        
         | TooKool4This wrote:
         | Agreed! The list of highest growth and highest decline cities
         | by page view is almost entirely small cities. This is a
         | pointless stat because of course the small cities are going to
         | see the largest change from even the smallest of trends.
         | 
         | I'm skeptical of the rest of the analysis if simple things like
         | that are not considered.
        
       | swman wrote:
       | I think eventually we will be back in the cities. Just not now.
       | And by we I mean people in tech who are the only real group with
       | this privilege.
        
         | rednerrus wrote:
         | I grew up in a really small town and all of the kids who wanted
         | to get good jobs left the town when they finished high school.
         | I have a feeling if this had been available to them at least
         | some of them would have come home afterwards. It would have
         | brought some of the money and some of the brain power back to
         | the town and created a little bit of a virtuous cycle.
        
           | amyjess wrote:
           | I think you have cause and effect backwards. I've talked to a
           | few friends who came from small towns like these: they put in
           | the effort needed to get good jobs so they could get out of
           | their hometowns.
           | 
           | They were all unhappy growing up in a town where there's
           | nothing to do but opioids and where being LGBTQ+ or anything
           | other than an evangelical protestant would get you ostracized
           | by the community at best or violently assaulted at worst.
           | Getting a good job was just their method of getting the hell
           | out of that environment.
        
         | redisman wrote:
         | Especially if we get a recession and tech employment is hit in
         | a major way. We could be back to square 1 soon.
        
       | outside1234 wrote:
       | It would be interesting to see what the trends are for
       | "spreading" decentralization.
       | 
       | I still live near enough to San Francisco / San Jose that I can
       | go to the office if needed once every few weeks -- but far enough
       | away that I have a much better quality of like (Santa Cruz). I
       | can't help but think I am not alone in that.
        
         | zucked wrote:
         | I suspect the housing data would support this theory. While the
         | 90's and early oughts marked an inflow of people and investment
         | into the city cores, the last two/three years seems to have
         | reversed that and sent people scurrying into the suburbs and
         | exurbs. If your commute needs are sporadic at best, the quality
         | of life is going to be (perceived to be) higher in single
         | family houses, even if you're an hour or two from the "office".
        
       | angarg12 wrote:
       | This year we finally moved to the US after 2 years of Covid-
       | induced delays. We moved to Seattle because it's where my team is
       | based.
       | 
       | I'm far from impressed. The housing market is so inaccessible
       | that we had to rent a house about 1 hour commute from the office.
       | I have hardly visited the offices a handful of times since we
       | moved, and every time there is maybe 1 or 2 people there. Also
       | this spring seems to be one of the wettest and coldest in recent
       | memory.
       | 
       | So high prices, dreadful weather and no value from visiting the
       | office is making us very seriously consider moving to a southern
       | state. I have already brought this up and my manager is ok with
       | me going fully remote and coming to the office on an as-needed
       | basis. For anyone who has no roots or reason to stay here sounds
       | like a no brainer.
        
         | rootsudo wrote:
         | This is a common problem w/ Seattle. I've always thought that
         | the bad weather did push enough people away in tech.
         | 
         | This spring is one of the wettest and coldest, but it has been
         | going that way, wetter springs, colder winters/snows Jan-Feb
         | 
         | High prices and reduced value all around.
        
         | themanmaran wrote:
         | The southern states are pretty great. ATL (hometown) is getting
         | more expensive but has a pretty decent tech scene. Also the
         | best airport in the US (direct flights everywhere).
         | 
         | I've also been interested in North Carolina for a little while.
         | Much more affordable (compared to PNW), and has some really
         | nice areas (Asheville, Raleigh/Durham). But transportation is a
         | bit more limited.
        
           | havblue wrote:
           | While the job market and the airport is great about ATL, I
           | have to say the traffic, public schools, crime, etc are not
           | great.
           | 
           | Expensive housing as well, maybe not terrible compared to
           | some places, though. Moving outside the perimeter doesn't
           | help on the traffic front either.
           | 
           | The south in general seems like a stable job market and place
           | to buy a house for the decades ahead. However, it seems like
           | Atlanta shifted from being a fast growing area to moderate
           | growth a while ago.
        
           | shmatt wrote:
           | ATL averages about 33% more rain than Seattle
           | 
           | Honestly unless OP goes to California, where the housing
           | situation is much worse, or middle of nowhere like Nevada,
           | they're going to be much wetter (albeit in the Summer and not
           | Winter/Spring) in most of the south
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > Honestly unless OP goes to California, where the housing
             | situation is much worse, or middle of nowhere like Nevada,
             | they're going to be much wetter
             | 
             | A lot of the drier parts of California, if you aren't tied
             | to the LA Basin because you need local work, don't have as
             | much of a housing problem, though. (That's also true of a
             | lot of the _wetter_ parts that you might chose to live in,
             | if you aren 't dependent on local work, too., though the
             | wetter places that's true of often aren't the best places
             | for the affordable, reliable high-speed internet you want
             | for remote work.)
             | 
             | If you've got a Seattle tech salary, and want a dry
             | location, you can find plenty of places in California where
             | you can live like a king. Though I suspect you could as
             | well or better, in that regard just by moving to Eastern
             | Washington instead of Seattle.
             | 
             | US States are often neither climatically nor economically
             | homogenous.
        
               | jeffbee wrote:
               | You can live like a king in Hanford on a tech salary,
               | except you'd be like the king of Somalia. Not sure if
               | that's the crown I want to wear. You're still paying
               | $400k for a house but now you need private schooling and
               | you have a 3-hour drive to the nearest thing that even
               | resembles culture.
        
             | ripper1138 wrote:
             | Take it from people who have lived in Seattle, it's not the
             | amount of rainfall. In the winter months you can literally
             | go weeks without seeing clear skies.
        
               | swearwolf wrote:
               | Light therapy and vitamin D supplements are essential in
               | the PNW. They aren't a replacement for the sun, but they
               | can make it bearable to be without it.
        
             | wing-_-nuts wrote:
             | More rain yes, but that rain comes down in heavy storms
             | instead of miserable perma-drizzle and mist. This means
             | even days with a forecast for rain will often be sunny
             | until the front rolls through.
        
               | juve1996 wrote:
               | Sunny and oppressively humid and hot.
        
               | wing-_-nuts wrote:
               | It's all relative. Atlanta is refreshingly cool compared
               | to cities located closer to the gulf coast.
        
               | TrueGeek wrote:
               | With massive swings in barometric pressure. Atlanta is
               | great for many things but I hate the weather here.
        
               | themanmaran wrote:
               | Plus the storms are really awesome. When I lived in SF I
               | really missed the massive thunderstorms in Georgia. I
               | only saw lightning 1 or 2 times in SF.
        
               | susanasj wrote:
               | same. almost complete lack of thunderstorms on the west
               | coast kinda bummed me out when I lived there.
               | spring/summer storms in the south rock
        
           | mgkimsal wrote:
           | Had expected NC to show up on that list somehow, but with
           | respect to raw % deltas, those other areas might still be
           | having larger % growth (or shrinkage).
        
         | bin_bash wrote:
         | I've lived all over the west coast my entire life but moved to
         | the Dallas area (a place I'd never been to) somewhat recently.
         | 
         | We're incredibly happy. The schools are outstanding, I've never
         | seen a single homeless person in our town, and the crime rate
         | is nonexistent. We bought a 4000sqft palace for half of what
         | our last house cost. Cost of living generally is far lower.
         | There is virtually never any traffic. People we meet are
         | generally happy and not obsessed with their careers. There is
         | actually a lot more for us to do since a lot of places cater to
         | people with young children.
         | 
         | Yes it's hot, but everywhere is air conditioned. There isn't a
         | lot of outdoorsy things to do aside from hanging out by the
         | pool anyways. The nature is ugly and there are no hills, but
         | with the money we save we are able to travel a ton to prettier
         | locales. We're right by one of the biggest airports in the
         | world after all.
         | 
         | I would never recommend visiting Dallas, it's a dull city, but
         | as far as places to _live_ it 's far surpassed my expectations.
        
           | rjsw wrote:
           | I turned down a job in Dallas 30 years ago because I felt
           | that I wouldn't be able to do outdoor stuff, I had been there
           | on business before this.
        
             | bin_bash wrote:
             | It's our biggest drawback for sure, but I think it's also
             | the reason it's so affordable since the lack of hills means
             | the city can expand out in every direction. Austin (in
             | contrast) has become very expensive and has bad traffic I
             | suspect because of their hills.
        
           | kurthr wrote:
           | Dallas (and Fort Worth) is a huge metropolis (especially in
           | area because it's not dense). There is definitely easily
           | visible homelessness and crime in the downtown (got to
           | DeepEllum) and actually surrounding many nicer neighborhoods
           | (Turtle Creek, or even NorthBranch ). That you say there is
           | no traffic implies to me that you are outside the Loop12 (and
           | the Interstate ring) and don't ever take Central or I35
           | through Dallas.
           | 
           | I'm guessing Richardson... Arlington? Those are really
           | satellite suburbs.
        
             | bin_bash wrote:
             | I'm in the northern suburbs, and you're right that I don't
             | live in Dallas proper but I said "Dallas area". There are
             | certainly homeless people once you get to Downtown--and
             | they can be a lot more "forthcoming" than they are even in
             | SF or LA. Downtown Dallas isn't like any of the west coast
             | city downtowns though, it's small and there isn't much of a
             | need to go there.
             | 
             | However up here I haven't seen a single one in over a year.
             | 
             | As far as traffic, yeah some areas have a bit of congestion
             | but I'm comparing to Seattle, Portland, SF, and LA.
             | Compared to those cities the traffic in DFW is nothing even
             | in the worst parts of the city center at rush hour.
        
               | causi wrote:
               | Speaking from a totally selfish perspective, it really is
               | incredible to have a downtown area in the 15-30 minute
               | drive range away. They act like heatsinks to suck the
               | riffraff out of the surroundings. If you're homeless, why
               | stay in the unwalkable town where you see 1/10 the
               | people? If you're a criminal, why stay where you might be
               | recognized and have 1/10 the targets and no alleys to
               | hide in? Let the people who want to live in a concrete
               | anthill do it.
               | 
               | My personal target for living is a city of at least
               | 50,000 people but less than 1,000 per square mile.
        
           | amyjess wrote:
           | > I would never recommend visiting Dallas, it's a dull city
           | 
           | Oh, sure Dallas, doesn't have the usual tourist attractions,
           | but I bet that if someone came to Dallas for a week I could
           | put a huge smile on their face by taking them to as many
           | different ethnic restaurants as I can fit into a week. Just
           | thinking of all the food options we have here makes me drool.
           | And the best part is that all of these wonderful places are
           | out in the suburbs, not in the city core (in fact, 95% of
           | what I've seen in the city core is pretty solidly made for
           | white yuppies).
        
             | bin_bash wrote:
             | Suggestions please! I've found the food especially in
             | Dallas proper (but not downtown) to be surprisingly good
             | but always looking for more. Also the art museums are a lot
             | better than I expected.
             | 
             | We went to Vrindivan last weekend and it was easily the
             | best Indian food I've ever had outside of India.
        
               | amyjess wrote:
               | Well, this is gonna be a doozy... this might be multiple
               | posts, and I'm rate-limited, so we'll see...
               | 
               | Let's start with Chinese food...
               | 
               | There are multiple places here that can easily be called
               | Chinatowns, the bigger ones being the one in Richardson
               | on Greenville between Arapaho and Belt Line/Main and the
               | one in Plano at Park & Coit. Lots and lots of good
               | restaurants in both places, and the one at Park & Coit
               | has a lot of non-Chinese Asian places too (like a
               | fantastic Korean fried chicken place called BBQ Chicken).
               | Any place with "Sichuan" in the name is going to be a
               | banger; Sichuan King (now merged with Royal Sichuan, and
               | I think the restaurant carries both names) is one of my
               | favorite places to order ma po tofu. One of the more
               | famous places in Richardson Chinatown is called Jeng Chi,
               | they were one of the restaurants that introduced
               | xiaolongbao (soup dumplings) to Dallas though they've
               | kinda let their fame go to their head lately (they're
               | kinda expensive now, and other places are better) though
               | they're still pretty good. Canton's another decent place,
               | some of the best chow fun and Hong Kong-style wonton soup
               | in Dallas. One of the few Hunan restaurants in Dallas,
               | Hunan Bistro, is at the Plano Chinatown, right next door
               | to another Sichuan place. Plano Chinatown also has a
               | decent hot pot place, called Chubby Cattle.
               | 
               | Of course, there are lots of Chinese restaurants that
               | aren't in the Chinatowns. First Chinese BBQ is a local
               | chain with locations all over town... they used to be
               | cash-only but i understand they started taking card very
               | recently. Fat Ni at Spring Creek & 75 in Plano serves
               | Chinese street food, mostly on skewers--I recommend their
               | vegetarian stuff, such as their fried gluten and tofu
               | (yes, fried gluten on a stick, it's good). Sichuan Folk
               | at Spring Creek & K in Plano is another fantastic Sichuan
               | place (there are a ton of other great Sichuan places all
               | over Dallas too). Wu Wei Din at 15th and Independence in
               | Plano specializes in Taiwanese food. I'm fond of Tian
               | Tian at Preston & Frankford in Far North Dallas, which
               | has a huge menu including Peking Duck and gold and silver
               | buns. We also have some wonderful hot pot places, Happy
               | Lamb at Legacy & 75 in Plano being one of my favorites.
               | My current favorite place to order from is Long Time Ago
               | at Coit & Belt Line in Richardson, they have a huge and
               | diverse menu with a huge selection of Sichuan dishes and
               | Cantonese food like BBQ pork fried rice.
               | 
               | Next, on to Japanese food. We have an actual sushi buffet
               | here, Osaka on Belt Line & Midway in Addison (we used to
               | have more, but this is the only one left). We have lots
               | and lots of ramen joints that also serve other things
               | including some great takoyaki and curry rice: Ramen
               | Hakata at Belt Line & Marsh in Addison, Higuma Ramen &
               | Izakaya at Belt Line and Midway again (different corner
               | from Osaka though), Monta Ramen at Coit & Arapaho in
               | Richardson, and several Yama Izakaya & Sushi locations
               | all over town. We have an actual Japanese supermarket,
               | Mitsuwa Marketplace, at Legacy & 75 in Plano, which has a
               | food court inside full of great places. Gyu-Kaku is a
               | chain of yakiniku restaurants (with an all-you-can-eat
               | option) and locations in both Addison (Belt Line &
               | Montfort) and Plano (Preston & Headquarters).
               | 
               | Korean food... our main Koreatowns are at Old Denton Road
               | & Trinity Mills in Carrollton and Royal Lane & I-35E in
               | Northwest Dallas. I've only been to the one in
               | Carrollton, but it's amazing. Korean barbecue (some of
               | which are all you can eat!), Korean fried chicken, Korean
               | bakeries, Korean shaved ice places for dessert... the
               | centerpiece of it all is H-Mart, a giant Korean
               | supermarket with a wonderful food court inside.
               | Everything in that food court is fantastic, and they
               | serve food from several other Asian countries too,
               | including my favorite place for xiaolongbao in Dallas.
               | But their actual Korean food in the food court is
               | fantastic too, there's one place that seves bulgogi in
               | stone bowls and amazing sundubu (tofu soup). There are
               | also a number of Korean fried chicken places outside the
               | Koreatowns, including a number of BBQ Chicken franches
               | all over and Bonchon Chicken at Belt Line and Quorum in
               | Addison.
               | 
               | Thai food... we have Thai restaurants all over.
               | Admittedly, I'm not familiar with the breadth of them
               | because I've usually stuck to my favorites because
               | they're so good. Banana Leaf at Preston & Campbell and
               | Thai Spice at Frankford & the Tollway, both in Far North
               | Dallas, are fantastic and I always find myself going to
               | one of those two when I want Thai food (keep in mind:
               | Thai Spice lives up to its name... I can handle spicy
               | food really damn well normally, but I got a 4 on their
               | menu once and it was too much for me, I've been told by
               | friends that their food is usually one or two levels
               | spicier than other restaurants at the same number).
               | Plenty of other good places, I'm just a bit set in my
               | ways here.
               | 
               | Vietnamese food... oh we have a _ton_ of them. Lots and
               | lots of pho places, just search Google Maps for any
               | restaurant with  "Pho" in its name and you'll find
               | something fantastic. The best places are the holes-in-
               | the-wall with no decor. My go-tos are Pho Pasteur II at
               | Belt Line & Josey in Carrollton and Pho Truong at Arapaho
               | & Custer in Richardson. I have to admit I haven't gone
               | for pho much lately... thanks to the pandemic I've mostly
               | just been ordering delivery with a few exceptions, and
               | pho doesn't deliver well. But it's still good, and I'm
               | starting to go out to eat again so hopefully I should be
               | eating more pho.
               | 
               | ...and I think I'm going to take a break before typing
               | out any more. I'm sure I'm rubbing up against a character
               | limit anyway, and I want to get this submitted now in
               | case my machine eats this post. I'll write up some stuff
               | about food from India, Nepal, West and East Africa,
               | various parts of Latin America, other regional American
               | cuisines, etc. later.
        
           | gringoDan wrote:
           | _> I would never recommend visiting Dallas, it 's a dull
           | city, but as far as places to live it's far surpassed my
           | expectations._
           | 
           | I think this point is key. When your day-to-day is spent
           | staring at a laptop, it doesn't really matter where you live.
           | 
           | I used to live in NYC. I loved it; great city to be in your
           | 20s. But I left due to COVID. Since then, I've returned to
           | visit a handful of times and realized that visiting NYC is
           | probably better than living there. In a long weekend, I'm
           | able to visit great restaurants, see a show, and catch up
           | with friends. Essentially, I pack the social activities that
           | I would have spread out over a month into 3 days. Then in my
           | day-to-day, I don't have to pay Manhattan rent, fight the
           | crowds on the subway, or deal with all of the friction the
           | city has.
        
             | bin_bash wrote:
             | yeah I put this on another comment but different cities are
             | great for different stages of your life. I lived in Santa
             | Monica and SF (in the city) during my formative years and
             | can't imagine a better way to have spent my 20's. In Dallas
             | I would've been super bored and probably wouldn't have
             | advanced in my career nearly as much. Do _not_ move to
             | Dallas if you 're 23--that would be a poor life choice.
             | 
             | I'm well into my 30's with a family now though and those
             | more "dynamic" environments would just cause a lot of
             | problems in my life.
        
           | namdnay wrote:
           | The problem is that that type of lifestyle, while
           | comfortable, is the polar opposite of what we should be doing
           | for the next generation. Air travel, massive houses that you
           | have to drive to, air conditioning 6 months of the year...
           | it's just not sustainable
        
             | bin_bash wrote:
             | You're not wrong: I'd rather have a lifestyle like living
             | in Holland or Japan in a family-friendly, walkable city
             | near a major airport. Trouble is there really isn't
             | anywhere in this country that offers that for a reasonable
             | price that I'm aware of (we looked).
        
           | EB66 wrote:
           | > There isn't a lot of outdoorsy things to do aside from
           | hanging out by the pool anyways though. The nature is ugly
           | and there are no hills.
           | 
           | That's primarily why people tolerate Seattle's climate. 9
           | months out of the year it will often be grey and rainy, but
           | the natural wilderness is phenomenal exactly because of that.
           | If you're into the outdoors, backpacking, fishing, kayaking,
           | canoeing, mountain biking, trail running, skiing, rock
           | climbing, there's tons of stuff within an hour drive of the
           | city. If you get out backpacking and chat with other people
           | you meet on the trails, it's a pretty common refrain that
           | they moved here in large part for the outdoors.
           | 
           | And then when July - Sept rolls around and it's consistently
           | warm and sunny -- you can't beat it!
           | 
           | Personally, the grey rainy weather was never really off
           | putting for me. But that's probably because I was born here
           | and I'm used to it. It's like that Bane quote from Batman:
           | "Ah you think darkness is your ally? You merely adopted the
           | dark. I was born in it, molded by it. I didn't see the light
           | until I was already a man, by then it was nothing to me but
           | blinding!"
        
             | bin_bash wrote:
             | One notable difference between Texas and PNW weather is
             | that during the winter in the PNW you'll pretty much never
             | get a nice day. There might be a single weekend in March
             | where the weather hits 65 or so. In Texas our winters have
             | a lot of variability, there isn't a 2 week period without a
             | 75 or even 80 degree day. Perfect for hanging out in the
             | park or going for a walk in the dead of "winter".
             | 
             | I wouldn't advocate for our weather generally but I do like
             | these breaks from winter we seem to get.
        
             | davidw wrote:
             | But with remote work, you can, say, go east of the Cascades
             | where the weather is better and you have all that outdoor
             | stuff too.
             | 
             | I grew up in Eugene and I am just _done_ with that much
             | rain and, like others have mentioned, endless gray.
        
               | bin_bash wrote:
               | As someone that's done remote work for a long time, I
               | wouldn't live east of the Cascades because it's so far
               | from any good airport. (Also because my family and I are
               | big travelers). Post-2020 we don't visit the office much
               | but once your company wants you to come into the office
               | every quarter that 3 hour drive each way from Bend is
               | going to be hell--or dealing with that postage stamp of
               | an airport in Redmond.
               | 
               | Even if your office is close enough for a regional
               | airport you might change jobs.
               | 
               | Of course Eugene basically has the same problem.
        
               | davidw wrote:
               | I don't travel much for work and am not a big traveller.
               | 
               | This isn't really a big problem, and RDM does have daily
               | flights to most major west coast destinations.
        
               | simmons wrote:
               | I haven't had to do any business travel since the
               | pandemic started, but I agree that proximity to a good
               | airport can be an important consideration. There are
               | probably a number of other reasons keeping me in the
               | Denver area, but the ability to walk out my front door,
               | take a train to an airport where I can travel anywhere in
               | the country quickly and cheaply... it's a killer feature.
               | 
               | Some friends recently moved to Asheville, NC, which seems
               | to be an attractive destination these days. But it's hard
               | for them to find affordable flights, and they end up with
               | out of the way connections that make travel onerous. Once
               | when I was visiting Deadwood, SD, I talked to a guy who
               | recently moved there from Denver and travels for work.
               | But his company doesn't want to pay the high prices to
               | fly out of Rapid City, so he found himself driving six
               | hours back to Denver to catch flights!
               | 
               | If I was considering a move to a smaller metro or a rural
               | area, I'd need to think hard about how well I could push
               | back against my customer's requests for travel.
        
         | mkr-hn wrote:
         | You might not like the constant thunderstorm/tornado watches
         | and warnings from all the pop-up thunderstorms during the
         | summer due to the Gulf. Everywhere you go will have problems.
         | It's mostly a choice of which problems you can live with.
        
         | dixie_land wrote:
         | don't you wish you was in Dixie! :P
         | 
         | I'm in the Seattle area too and it was indeed the wettest May
         | in like 30 years. (Usually summers are great in the area but
         | not so sure about that this year)
         | 
         | With remote work a lot of options opens up for you, esp with
         | some rural areas getting community built fiber! You don't have
         | to choose between acres of pasture and fast Internet any more!
        
         | zucked wrote:
         | Yes, the housing is, by-and-large, a lot cheaper, but the
         | cities are not super walkable (if that's important to you) and
         | the weather is often the opposite of cold and wet - it's hot
         | and muggy. I don't do well with humidity, so a huge swath of
         | the US is out for me.
         | 
         | Plugging this tool again because it ate up an hour of my day
         | last time it was posted: https://www.movemap.io/explore/us
        
           | softcactus wrote:
           | If you can find a pre-war (WWII) neighborhood there is
           | actually still a decent amount of walkability. The issue is
           | that these neighborhoods are typically the first to be
           | gentrified and are likely very expensive. Small to mid sized
           | southern towns typically have a nice dense pre-war core
           | nieghborhood with high levels of tree cover and small
           | businesses within walking distance which is nice.
        
           | Victerius wrote:
           | Cold and wet weather is great. When climate change renders
           | the southwestern United States and large parts of Africa, the
           | Middle East, and South Asia uninhabitable, people will be
           | ready to kill for the right to live in a cold and wet
           | weather.
        
             | lllkgxsgnc wrote:
             | Here's a great example of someone fully in thrall to the
             | idea of anthropocentric warming as an apocalypse myth.
             | 
             | This view has as little grounding in reality as the idea
             | that we will be able to burn oil forever with zero
             | consequences
             | 
             | As with most things, reality is somewhere in the middle.
             | The climate apocalypse cult is doing real damage to the
             | mental health of the youth:
             | 
             | https://www-vox-
             | com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.vox.com/platf...
        
               | zucked wrote:
               | While I agree that having a modicum of restraint about
               | making claims of Mad Max being imminent is prudent, I
               | also believe that this is coming to a head at least
               | during our children's lifetime, if not ours.
               | 
               | The earth isn't hosed tomorrow - we've probably got a
               | couple of decades yet, but the writing is on the wall. OP
               | can plan according to their risk appetite. I'm sure as
               | heck not trying to buy a million acre ranch in Wyoming
               | right now, that's for sure.
        
           | angarg12 wrote:
           | Great website! thanks a lot for that.
           | 
           | This seems to confirm my intuition. Our parameters spit out
           | southern california and a few places in Texas, including
           | Austin.
           | 
           | SoCal is still incredibly expensive. I considered Austin
           | before but I'm a bit concerned about politics. Although I
           | know it's a bit of a progressive bubble, Texas is still
           | overwhelmingly and overly conservative, so that might be a
           | big drag.
        
             | kodah wrote:
             | > Texas is still overwhelmingly and overly conservative, so
             | that might be a big drag.
             | 
             | Kind of, keep in mind ~50% of Texas votes Democrat,
             | Republicans just squeeze wins. Also keep in mind that Texas
             | Democrats are not like national Democrats, and I'd hardly
             | call Austin something like "progressive". It marches to its
             | own tune, which is just fine for Texas.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > Kind of, keep in mind ~50% of Texas votes Democrat
               | 
               | In Presidential elections, since 1976, the range is 37.1%
               | to 51.1% with 46.5% in 2020 the highest since the 51.1%
               | which was in 1976. The median in that time period has
               | been 41.4%.
        
               | kodah wrote:
               | Sounds about right, there's more variance for local and
               | state elections. Definitely doesn't fit the narrative
               | that a lot of folks like to run with about Texas.
               | 
               | Personally speaking, I'd go back to Texas if it stayed
               | purple-ish and didn't adopt or drive national narratives
               | of either party.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | If you go back to '74, gubernatorial elections are pretty
               | similar in distribution to the Presidential since '76,
               | but with less recent strength; you've got a narrow Dem
               | majority in '74, a plurality win by a Democratic in 1990,
               | and a lot of big blowout wins by Republicans, with all
               | but one after 1994 being 10-point or greater margins ('98
               | was over 30 points, 2006 was a hair under 10 points, but
               | it was also a weird four way race.)
               | 
               | "~50%" as the typical Democratic share of the vote in
               | Texas requires a generous interpretation of the
               | approximation symbol.
        
               | amyjess wrote:
               | It doesn't matter how the local government votes as long
               | as the state government is run by people who are actively
               | committed to making LGBTQ+ people's lives hell.
               | 
               | The state government is actively criminalizing any kind
               | of gender-affirming treatment for LGBTQ+ youth, and
               | there's nothing the local governments in Dallas or Austin
               | can do about it. If I had kids, I would have already
               | uprooted my family and left the state months ago.
               | 
               | Right now, as someone who lives alone I'm torn between
               | wanting to get the hell out of here before they come for
               | adult trans people and knowing that I'm going to be
               | miserable no matter where I move because I love
               | everything else about Dallas and absolutely no other city
               | will be just like it. I'll just be a bitter, miserable
               | refugee for the rest of my life.
        
           | mhzsh wrote:
           | Well, thanks for eating up a bunch of my time, too. It feels
           | like some of the data its using for hazards is wrong. My
           | current county gets excluded by "avoid hurricanes" and "avoid
           | tornados", where I don't remember there ever being a tornado
           | (definitely nothing major), and hurricane risk is very low
           | (not directly coastal).
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | "Tornado" is way too wide - there are some places where
             | they're more common, but even there the chance a tornado
             | hits _where you are_ is still low.
             | 
             | Where I am we had a big tornado _120_ years ago and we 're
             | still talking about it. So we're in a "tornado danger area"
             | but ... snow is the much bigger danger.
        
         | subsubzero wrote:
         | For weather you are right, it has been incredibly cold on the
         | west coast all winter/spring this year, I lived down in Socal
         | and cities near me were seeing records broken for all time
         | lows, our old neighbors were saying this was one of the coldest
         | winters they had ever seen. I think its a La Nina event that is
         | causing the colder weathers so you make have been unlucky in
         | that regard.
        
         | usrn wrote:
         | God only knows why we still have net immigration. I guess
         | despite the way minorities and lower classes are "oppressed"
         | we're still better than everywhere else somehow?
        
           | squaresmile wrote:
           | Like Swizec said, the pie is unfathomably large in the US
           | compared to developing countries. There are many nooks and
           | crannies you can slot yourself into. Sometimes I feel like on
           | HN people can't fathom how to live in the US if you make less
           | than double the median salary lol. It's not a walk in the
           | park but it's manageable.
           | 
           | It should also be noted that very few people immigrate even
           | among people who have "plausible" paths to it. I don't think
           | it's fair to draw much conclusion about the whole society
           | from immigration flows.
        
             | BlargMcLarg wrote:
             | Even on the remainder of the net, it's pretty difficult for
             | others to get an idea what a modest living in the US is. On
             | the flip side, many (less fortunate?) American anecdotes
             | lament the lack of safety nets in America compared to
             | Europe.
             | 
             | Most anecdotes I read are either "I earn 200k+ and work 40
             | hours", "My job is my life and I do great love the American
             | Dream" or "I can barely make rent and work 60 hours a day".
             | I don't doubt average people survive but it sure would be
             | nice to get an idea what "average" actually entails across
             | an entire year. Especially someone who doesn't have a house
             | or an inheritance on their name.
        
               | woobar wrote:
               | Are you asking about averages/medians across the country?
               | 
               | Median family will have 1 child, earn $80K/year, pay <20%
               | income taxes, live in 2400 sqft house, own two 12 year
               | old cars and commute 1 hour/day to work. Will have ~15
               | vacation and another 10 days of paid holidays per year.
        
           | Frost1x wrote:
           | I'd say that and and the global propoganda machine is strong.
           | There's many from outside the country who have a picture of
           | what it's like to live here that doesn't align with reality.
           | I think much of it is due to entertainment: movies, TV shows,
           | etc. that give this false impression that everything is rosey
           | all the time.
           | 
           | The lower classes are abused here as well and classes do
           | exist but it's probably better being poor in the US than
           | being poor in most parts of the world. If nothing else you
           | have access to emergency rooms and food, although you may not
           | have real housing.
        
             | redisman wrote:
             | Immigrants aren't dumb. The problem is that westerners have
             | no idea what a median persons life in Africa or South
             | America is like
        
               | cscurmudgeon wrote:
               | Or even EU. There is a reason there is still brain drain
               | from Europe to the US.
        
               | wincy wrote:
               | It's true. I was asking a person I know from Kenya what's
               | it's like there. She said it's a beautiful please, pretty
               | good but I'd have to hire security guards to avoid
               | getting kidnapped and ransomed. We just don't realize how
               | good the US is.
        
           | BlargMcLarg wrote:
           | The US is still a pretty good place for people with highly
           | desirable skillsets, no / small families and specific
           | mindsets.
           | 
           | If you're Average Joe looking to start a family, a middling
           | job and no assets or inheritance to your name, it's pretty
           | mediocre (though some would argue "well you could learn
           | programming").
        
           | Swizec wrote:
           | As an immigrant I often wonder if America's economy works so
           | well in spite of or because of its policies.
           | 
           | But one thing is clear: Last year I saved more money than I
           | made in my last year in Europe. And that's while paying rent
           | in downtown SF
           | 
           | To give a more surprising comparison - my country's entire
           | GDP fits into Apple's quarterly _profits_. The pie is large
           | here.
        
             | nopenopenopeno wrote:
             | America's economy doesn't work well at all for most people.
             | It only works well for the rich, i.e. those who directly
             | benefit from a higher GDP.
        
               | Swizec wrote:
               | I'm going to assume you've never lived in an economy
               | where median wage is $1000/month. Because it sounds like
               | you have no idea what you're talking about
               | 
               | Everyone benefits from higher GDP. Yes the rich benefit
               | more, but I promise you that everyone being equally
               | destitute is no walk in the park either.
               | 
               | Reading about the economic histories of South America,
               | China, Eastern Europe, and Africa are great places to
               | learn more about how low GDP is terrible for everyone
               | involved.
        
               | cscurmudgeon wrote:
               | Yes, that's why America is #1 for immigrants.
        
           | nopenopenopeno wrote:
           | The word is _exploited_. The lower classes are _exploited_.
        
           | angarg12 wrote:
           | Don't know about others, but I can tell you my reasons:
           | 
           | a) Higher salary
           | 
           | b) Better career opportunities
           | 
           | c) An idealized view of the American society
           | 
           | a) is easiest. I more than doubled my income by moving here.
           | If I jumped companies (I can't due to visa) I could easily
           | expect a 50%-100% bump. That's nothing to scoff at. Even
           | accounting for increased cost of living, we are talking about
           | life changing amounts of money. Also it's impossible to not
           | feel bad when you know that the junior eng. you are coaching
           | due to perf issues makes more money than you, just because he
           | lives in the US and you don't.
           | 
           | b) is more subtle. I always had the perception that people at
           | the main offices got better opportunities and faster promos
           | than people at satellite offices. Other's have echoed these
           | feelings, but I've never seen data. Outside the company, it
           | is undeniable the job market is bigger and hotter here. Even
           | the largest EU tech hubs don't come close.
           | 
           | c) is the lousiest one. I haven't had much chance to
           | experience it yet so I don't have much of an opinion. I'd say
           | though that having lived in 5 different countries, there are
           | other places with a culture that resonates with me. So yes,
           | USA might be better than my home country, but there are
           | alternatives.
           | 
           | Now due to Covid points a) and b) are becoming less
           | important. Salaries in the EU have gone up, and with mostly
           | remote workforces career opportunities are better
           | distributed. c) was always subjective and a matter of taste.
           | So far I haven't got a great image of the American society,
           | but our landing here has been particularly rough. I think
           | I'll give it a couple of years before I pass judgement.
        
             | BlargMcLarg wrote:
             | >Salaries in the EU have gone up
             | 
             | Source on this? Preferably with respect to inflation.
             | 
             | >and with mostly remote workforces career opportunities are
             | better distributed
             | 
             | I think you're overestimating the effects of this.
             | Companies are already making a fuss about remote work in
             | the same time zone, let alone 4-6 time zones apart.
        
               | angarg12 wrote:
               | That's fair. Most of it is hear say and anecdotal
               | evidence. I know my company has increased salaries but
               | that's one data point.
               | 
               | The only data I got from the top of my head is levels.fyi
               | annual report. Numbers are all over the place but it
               | shows a general upward trend. These numbers are from past
               | years so they shouldn't account for the massive inflation
               | of late.
               | 
               | Regarding opportunities, again this is mostly personal
               | and anecdotal evidence. Due to Covid I worked remotely
               | across the ocean for 2 years. Last year I got a top perf
               | rating and I got my case for promo, despite being the
               | only person in the whole org working 8 hours apart. I
               | feel in EU there were more project with collaborations
               | between people from different countries compared to pre-
               | covid.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.levels.fyi/2019/
               | 
               | [2] https://www.levels.fyi/2020/
               | 
               | [3] https://www.levels.fyi/2021/
        
             | 908B64B197 wrote:
             | > Also it's impossible to not feel bad when you know that
             | the junior eng. you are coaching due to perf issues makes
             | more money than you, just because he lives in the US and
             | you don't.
             | 
             | That sounds like a failure to negotiate properly.
             | 
             | > there are other places with a culture that resonates with
             | me. So yes, USA might be better than my home country, but
             | there are alternatives.
             | 
             | American culture was built by trailblazers, innovators and
             | adventurers who left wherever they came from to build here.
             | It's up to you to build the culture you want to see.
             | Welcome!
        
         | michaelbrave wrote:
         | I've lived quite a few places all over the US, Most of my time
         | being spent in California, Texas, Utah and Colorado. But I've
         | also lived in Florida, Oklahoma, Washington, Arizona, New
         | Mexico, an Louisiana. So I've got some perspective. Not liking
         | cold and wet eliminates Utah/Colorado and the best parts of New
         | Mexico since they all get snow, a caveat of the south is the
         | humidity is rather strong, so the wetness might still be there.
         | Since you are thinking about going to the south and since I'm
         | most familiar with Texas I'll explain about that.
         | 
         | I think most of the US is can be disappointing in different
         | ways, but it's still mostly divided between City, Suburbs and
         | Rural lifestyle. A prevailing problem is how most cities are
         | designed as car first, this goes back to lobbying in the
         | 50s-Today but its enough to say that the only places with good
         | walkability and public transportation are large cities in
         | mostly progressive areas.
         | 
         | As an example Southern California Vs Texas. Cali has worse
         | traffic and more people, but has better public transportation
         | (though its still not great compared to other countries), while
         | Texas has lots of toll roads, near the highways instead of
         | loading ramps they have frontage roads (which to me feels like
         | a solution optimized for about 30% of what the population is),
         | has almost no public transportation and has somehow made their
         | cities even less walkable than nearly anywhere else I've ever
         | been (only certain districts are walkable, usually places like
         | a downtown or places to bar crawl). The sprawl in the south is
         | even more pronounced than almost anywhere else, the cities are
         | not condensed at all, The Dallas-FortWorth area is a good
         | example, it's probably easier to call it a region of 10-20
         | cities than to call it a city area, just the way it's designed,
         | they are all kinda separated districts that don't mix with each
         | other, don't connect properly.
         | 
         | Housing is expensive anywhere the closer to a city you get,
         | it's slightly cheaper in Texas than California, but if you live
         | in the middle of nowhere in Cali, and the middle of nowhere in
         | Texas it is comparable.
         | 
         | The rest of the south I've visited or spent time in, once you
         | get away from the cities there is a kind of weighty feeling
         | there, almost despair, it's palpable. I think it comes from
         | centuries of poverty and how nothing changes except prices
         | going up. The weather is nice but the culture, lack of
         | resources, lack of opportunities and lack of networks almost
         | always make it a negative to be there.
         | 
         | The positives are the food is tasty, the music is good, Atlanta
         | is doing some cool stuff in entertainment and AI and Miami is
         | also doing some interesting stuff in Finance and Stocks, Austin
         | has a fun culture of music + tech + weirdness, San Antonio
         | actually could become a place of tech manufacturing if they
         | play their cards right. There are some fun places to go fishing
         | too. Thats about it really. I've found most of the south to on
         | the whole be a rather unpleasant place.
        
         | switchbak wrote:
         | The PNW has had an unusually rainy spring/early summer though,
         | I think Seattle is usually a lot drier. The only silver lining
         | might be fewer forest fires.
         | 
         | In my case I've been leaning hard into remote work for about 15
         | years now. Mostly for quality of life/access to nature. I've
         | made real sacrifices to make that happen, but I'm glad to see
         | the rest of the IT world is coming around to embracing us
         | remote devs. It's still an uphill battle in many cases though.
         | 
         | I don't think you'll ever see me in a big city again, and I
         | don't think I'm alone.
        
           | smt88 wrote:
           | Seattle weather is... polarizing... even in a more typical
           | year. I personally find it hard to deal with so little
           | sunshine.
        
             | switchbak wrote:
             | Where I live gets about 2.5x as much rain as Seattle, and I
             | consider it a big improvement over the East Coast (of
             | Canada). It's all relative I guess.
        
             | redisman wrote:
             | I am amazed by how many people from Southern California
             | move here and buy a house immediately. Only to scuttle back
             | after the first year. Give it a test run first guys.
             | 
             | Personally I come from a much colder climate than the PNW
             | so I enjoy how mild and lush it is all year. And I find
             | rain to be cozy.
        
             | adamredwoods wrote:
             | It is difficult, but we try to travel when it gets bad.
             | Traveling to the east, over the pass helps. Otherwise we
             | fly somewhere.
             | 
             | Personally, I find the amount of violence and crime (all-
             | time high for road rage shootings this year) is more
             | demoralizing than the weather.
        
             | delecti wrote:
             | That's definitely true. Lots of people I know here have a
             | hard time with SAD, and Seattle being so far north is
             | exacerbated by how cloudy the winter is.
             | 
             | Though if the winter isn't a dealbreaker, the summer makes
             | up for it by being absolutely gorgeous for a few months
             | almost straight, at least aside from wildfire smoke and a
             | handful of days of unbearable heat.
        
               | redisman wrote:
               | The smoke sucks but as for heat, I'm not sure you can
               | avoid some hot days anywhere in the US
        
               | delecti wrote:
               | Yes, though most places in Seattle don't have AC because
               | it's not hot enough often enough, so 90+ here can be more
               | disruptive than 100+ in other places, and 100+ here is
               | dangerous and debilitating.
        
         | tjr225 wrote:
        
           | angarg12 wrote:
           | Hey, I want to answer this one because I think it's
           | important.
           | 
           | You might think of me as a privileged high paid tech worker
           | driving prices up. Actually I come from a working class
           | family in southern europe. I'd spare you the details but I
           | spent all my live slowly crawling up my way to where I am.
           | Nearing 40 my life savings are 5 figures, and I have never
           | owned any property or anything of value. Had I been born in
           | the US I would be held as a paragon of the American dream and
           | social mobility.
           | 
           | So now I move and start in a new country all over again. We
           | live in a visa that would kick us out of the country if I
           | lost my job, and it will take years to achieve any kind of
           | stability. We have to pay a good chunk of our inflated tech
           | income to pay for rent.
           | 
           | I know complaining as a tech worker is playing the world
           | smallest violin. I recognize and appreciate my privilege. But
           | we aren't exactly the winners here. The winners are landlords
           | and investment funds.
           | 
           | Blaming highly paid immigrants misses the point and just
           | serves to tear us further apart. Instead we should look at
           | the systems that have caused a systematic shortage of
           | housing.
        
           | coenhyde wrote:
           | What a terrible take. You're the kind of NIMBY who creates
           | the problems then blames them on new residents. How about you
           | listen to their problems and solve some of them instead of
           | blaming them for problems they did not create.
        
             | EB66 wrote:
             | The problem in Seattle is that it's been flooded by highly
             | paid tech workers. Our population has exploded in the past
             | decade (over 21% increase). The city council has pushed
             | through tons of rezoning and construction has been faster
             | here than elsewhere in the country but it can't keep up
             | with demand.
             | 
             | So, it may not be polite to point it out, but it's not
             | inaccurate to say that the problem is in fact people like
             | the OP.
        
               | gedy wrote:
               | 20% increase in 10 years? Wow what an impossible number
               | to accommodate. /s
               | 
               | This likely points to slow bureaucracies or people
               | fighting change or growth at all costs.
        
               | EB66 wrote:
               | It doesn't sound like you're familiar with the area.
               | Seattle is geographically constrained and there was
               | already no empty land available for development in 2010
               | when the latest surge of new residents began. We can only
               | accommodate new people by tearing down structures that
               | already exist and replacing them with denser structures.
               | 
               | > This likely points to slow bureaucracies or people
               | fighting change or growth at all costs.
               | 
               | There are NIMBY elements here, but the city hasn't been
               | shying away from development. It's a completely different
               | story up here than compared to San Francisco. Take a look
               | at the city skyline from 2010 to 2020 -- it's completely
               | different.
               | 
               | But there hasn't just been development in the downtown
               | core. In 2017, the city council approved major upzoning
               | changes in 27 neighborhoods across the city. It was
               | passed unanimously. Lots of single-family housing zoning
               | went away and tons of construction has followed, but it
               | can't keep pace with new arrivals.
               | 
               | In areas where single-family housing still exists, the
               | city changed zoning laws to allow backyard ADUs. The
               | number of backyard cottages exploded and many of them are
               | being rented out.
               | 
               | Is the situation perfect? Absolutely not -- housing
               | prices are still sky high. But it's a vastly different
               | situation than the one you've dismissively alluded to.
        
               | coenhyde wrote:
               | Land utilization is always close to 100% in cities. It's
               | a misnomer that cities can "run out of land". Cities go
               | up, they increase density. If they can't go up, it is
               | usually because of zoning restrictions. And that's a
               | choice of local residents and authorities.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Seattle is still only the 10th densest city in the
               | country.
        
               | kipchak wrote:
               | From what I can find it looks like Seattle's growth rate
               | was about 2% annually from the 1980s to 2000, then
               | tapered off to 1.2% from 2000 to 2019.[1] I'm not very
               | familiar with Seattle, but maybe that growth has been
               | extremely localized? [1]https://www.macrotrends.net/citie
               | s/23140/seattle/population
        
               | EB66 wrote:
               | You're looking at numbers for the Seattle metro area. The
               | story with the city itself is different. The population
               | went from 608k in 2010 to 737k in 2020. That's a huge
               | jump for a city that's geographically constrained and
               | already had no empty land available for development.
        
               | BlargMcLarg wrote:
               | And the ridiculous concentration of wealth caused by tech
               | companies able to hire those highly paid tech workers
               | goes without blame? It's fairly inaccurate to present it
               | in a way people like OP are the only issue here.
        
               | EB66 wrote:
               | Of course they're not the only issue -- no one's arguing
               | that.
               | 
               | What we're talking about is the negative reaction from
               | other Seattlites to highly paid newcomers who complain
               | about the weather and high prices.
        
           | savant_penguin wrote:
           | Those pesky people living their own lives and spending their
           | own money moving to where they want to, driving up costs by
           | existing
           | 
           | If only they did with their lives exactly as I told them to
        
           | matthewmacleod wrote:
           | Person: "I don't really like it here and think I might leave"
           | 
           | You: "stop talking shit and just leave"
           | 
           | ???
        
             | tjr225 wrote:
        
             | EB66 wrote:
             | I don't see what's so confusing. Unfortunately, it seems
             | like a pretty predictable and rational response to me. All
             | of the high prices in Seattle have been caused by the
             | whopping 21%+ increase in city population (!!!) over the
             | past decade.
             | 
             | When Seattlites hear newcomers, particularly highly paid
             | software engineers, moaning and groaning about the weather
             | and high prices, there is _very_ little sympathy to be had.
        
         | czbond wrote:
         | I'm glad you're happy in Dallas. I'm a Dallas native who moved
         | - bc we couldn't stand it. Many folks I know also moved, it
         | seems to be a city for a certain type. I'll relay my type for
         | others who may read your version.
         | 
         | We moved due to the consumerism (I've called it the Los Angeles
         | of the South) and utter boredom of the city if you're not into
         | shopping, eating out, sports teams, and many are focused solely
         | on their corporate j.o.b. However, after moving I've also found
         | that places that don't care about their career - are on the
         | opposite end of the annoying spectrum (ha!)
         | 
         | The people in Dallas are some of the best I've met, down to
         | Earth, easy to talk with and get along. But hell if I'd ever
         | move back.
        
           | bin_bash wrote:
           | Dallas has a definite "consumerist" feel to it. You see more
           | luxury cars here than in SF even though there is a lot less
           | money. Sports are big though I'm definitely not into them.
           | 
           | I think it depends on where you are in life and what you want
           | out of your city. I would hate this place if I was 20. It's
           | not the best for meeting new people from different walks of
           | life and experiencing new things. It's for people looking to
           | settle down in comfort with their families. It has a real
           | 1950's postwar America feel to me. If you don't have a family
           | don't bother moving to Dallas: you'll be bored out of your
           | skull and have no way to relate to people.
           | 
           | I think you're wrong that people are focused solely on their
           | job here, for that experience move to the Bay or Seattle.
           | Here I find even software engineers are more likely to talk
           | to me about what fruit trees they're growing in their
           | backyard than what Series their startup just entered.
        
       | newaccount2021 wrote:
        
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