[HN Gopher] I only care about the helpful notifications, not the...
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       I only care about the helpful notifications, not the promotional
       ones
        
       Author : otras
       Score  : 333 points
       Date   : 2022-06-05 16:00 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
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       | nathanasmith wrote:
       | It's a shame there isn't some kind of system wide filter for
       | notifications using regular expressions or something. Probably a
       | job for an Android ROM creator.
        
       | anonymous_sorry wrote:
       | Android apps can classify notifications into different categories
       | that you can individually toggle. I haven't personally noticed a
       | lot of abuse of this.
        
       | dahart wrote:
       | In email land, the terms for helpful vs promotional are
       | "transactional email" for the helpful stuff (e.g.,
       | https://mailchimp.com/help/about-transactional-email/) and
       | "marketing email" for the promotional ones.
       | 
       | There are channels to report abuse if it's bad, not to mention
       | just leaving reviews and mentioning why.
        
         | webmobdev wrote:
         | Had similar ideas - I share the author's frustration in India,
         | the delivery apps and banking apps are the worst culprits.
         | 
         | I wonder if the regulators can be asked to extend the "Do Not
         | Call" registry to include barring such app notifications? For
         | example, the _National Do Not Call Registry_ in my country has
         | now been renamed to _National Customer Preference Register
         | (NCPR)_. This now gives indians more fine-grained options to
         | choose what kind of marketing calls we want to bar or receive:
         | 
         | > "Transactional message" means a message triggered by a
         | transaction performed by the subscriber, who is also the
         | sender's customer, provided such a message is sent within 30
         | minutes of the transaction being performed and is directly
         | related to it. Provided that the transaction may be a banking
         | transaction, delivery of OTP, purchase of goods or services,
         | etc. ... "Unsolicited commercial communication or UCC" means
         | any commercial communication that is neither as per the consent
         | nor as per registered preference(s) of recipient, but shall not
         | include: (i)Any transactional message or transactional voice
         | call ...
         | 
         | Source: TRAI regulation -
         | https://trai.gov.in/sites/default/files/DraftUCCRegulation29...
         | 
         | They can extend this to mobile OS notifications and ask Google,
         | Apple, Samsung etc. (mobile OS makers) to ensure that all
         | promotional messages through such notifications are blocked,
         | and only "transactional messages" are allowed.
        
         | shostack wrote:
         | I'm sad that phone notifications aren't in the same category of
         | governance as email. The promotional vs transactional
         | requirement could be used to good effect here with opt out and
         | CAN-SPAM legislation.
        
         | floren wrote:
         | Expedia is really bad about calling all their promotions
         | "transactional emails". You see, once upon a time in the
         | distant past, I used Expedia, so based on that _transaction_
         | surely I care deeply about how  "A more rewarding travel
         | experience is coming in February":
         | http://jfloren.net/content/expedia.png
        
           | kmod wrote:
           | I'm not sure of the bindingness of this page [1], but the FTC
           | says that transactional-vs-promotional is determined by what
           | what a recipient "reasonably interpret[s]" it as, not what
           | the sender says it is. Not that this prevents the kind of
           | abuse that you mention, but I find if I send a email
           | responding to the kind of email you mention and I politely
           | explain how it is a violation of CAN-SPAM and if reported is
           | a five-figure fine per email, then I magically get added to
           | some sort of "do not send promotional emails that we call
           | transactional" opt-out.
           | 
           | [1] https://www.ftc.gov/business-guidance/resources/can-spam-
           | act...
        
       | fmajid wrote:
       | Heh. I was woken up by an Uber greenwashing marketing
       | notification. All notifications off (and in any case if I am
       | waiting for a Uber I have the app on waiting for the countdown
       | and I don't need the notifications anyway). If there were a
       | viable competitor to them where I live, I would have deleted the
       | app altogether and given them a 1-star rating.
       | 
       | Apple's policies ban the use of push notifications for marketing
       | purposes, but they don't enforce it nor do they provide a way for
       | customers to report violation, so that policy is completely
       | useless.
        
         | deergomoo wrote:
         | > Apple's policies ban the use of push notifications for
         | marketing purposes
         | 
         | Not anymore, this was rolled back a year or two ago
         | unfortunately. About the same time Apple themselves started
         | using push notifications for marketing.
        
           | mawif wrote:
           | I think the relevant rule is section 4.5.4 of the App Store
           | Review Guidelines:
           | 
           | > _4.5.4 Push Notifications must not be required for the app
           | to function, and should not be used to send sensitive
           | personal or confidential information. Push Notifications
           | should not be used for promotions or direct marketing
           | purposes unless customers have explicitly opted in to receive
           | them via consent language displayed in your app's UI, and you
           | provide a method in your app for a user to opt out from
           | receiving such messages. Abuse of these services may result
           | in revocation of your privileges._
           | 
           | https://developer.apple.com/app-store/review/guidelines/
           | 
           | So the language is weaker, but it should still be possible to
           | disable marketing notifications.
           | 
           | (Edit to add: and I report apps that don't provide that
           | option, citing the above. So far, doing so hasn't achieved
           | anything though.)
        
           | fmajid wrote:
           | I hadn't noticed, thanks for letting us now. Very poor
           | decision (both rolling back the policy and spamming us with
           | push notifications).
        
       | bigmattystyles wrote:
       | Whatever rule requires Hulu to display a little ad logo (I assume
       | it's a rule) when they're on ad break, even the standard cable
       | channel feeds, is great. It should apply to everything, including
       | push notifications.
        
       | kbos87 wrote:
       | This is literally what drove me away from Facebook, completely.
       | Their constant "redesigning" of notification and privacy settings
       | was a veiled effort to force whatever notifications in front of
       | me. There are certain notifications I want from you Facebook, but
       | you made a grave miscalculation when you thought I'd put up with
       | everything else you threw at me. So here I am, a Facebook user
       | since 2007(?) who pretty much walked away in 2019 and has barely
       | been back.
        
         | InCityDreams wrote:
         | User since 2006, ran away in 2006. Not been back. Dodged a
         | bayraktar, there.
         | 
         | *though i am somewhat annoyed that i cant use whatsapp, as a
         | result. WA seems like a great app, just owned by a company i
         | can't support.
        
       | jrockway wrote:
       | Every notification system eventually becomes email. What that
       | means is that we probably need OS-level spam filters so that you
       | can report things as spam. If the notification looks spammy based
       | on the training, it simply won't show up. Marketers think they're
       | reaching you, an army of software engineers remained employed to
       | figure out how to refactor the API to send notifications with the
       | V3 protocol or whatever unnecessary change the OS vendor made
       | this week (driving up every other software engineer's salary;
       | thank you!), but you don't have to be woken up by the latest not-
       | actually-a-very-good-deal.
       | 
       | Whether or not the notification was delivered or blocked by the
       | filter probably shouldn't be fed back to the application, to
       | stave off the inevitable workarounds. But people will test stuff
       | on their own devices and find workarounds. "Your order has
       | arrived! Tap for details." But when you tap it's just an ad. On
       | the other hand, it would be nice for things like Pagerduty to
       | know that all of their notifications were blocked and that they
       | should escalate to the next person on the rotation.
       | 
       | The "mark as spam" data should be fed back to the app stores, and
       | if the app requested status notification privilege and not
       | marketing notification privileges, their app is pulled until they
       | fix it. (Cannot wait to read the whining about that. "I'm just
       | trying to hustle like some blog post from 30 years ago said I
       | should! <crying face emoji>")
       | 
       | In the meantime, I don't really ever turn on app notifications.
       | They usually email me, and what's great about email is I have the
       | Spam folder and the Promotions tab, so I never see most of their
       | communications.
        
       | gingerlime wrote:
       | There's an iOS feature called time-sensitive notifications (which
       | eg Uber uses). Unfortunately it's a subset of notifications as a
       | whole, so I can't disable notifications and allow only time-
       | sensitive ones :-/
        
       | bsedlm wrote:
       | I don't wanna be opted-in by default into any notification
       | generated by any automated process.
       | 
       | only when a fellow human clicks (i.e. directly triggers) _one_
       | action (intended to call my attention) should I be interrupted
       | with a full notification by default.
       | 
       | all notifications generated in bulk, by an automated script/bot,
       | or as a side-effect of a human action need to be explicitly
       | activated by me before they can interrupt me.
        
       | jerieljan wrote:
       | I highly recommend installing Buzzkill for those on Android.
       | 
       | In addition to built-in per-channel settings, Buzzkill allows you
       | to create rules to auto-dismiss or do certain actions depending
       | on the title or description of the notification, using basic
       | matching or regex.
       | 
       | It also gives you a nicer view of notification history, with more
       | days and scrubbing across time if you ever want to revisit past
       | notifications.
       | 
       | https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.samruston....
        
         | ajolly wrote:
         | I like buzzkill, also check out FilterBox, Spren, and
         | Notification Organizer. (Or tasker for raw power)
         | 
         | I find each of them have their own little quirks.
        
         | microflash wrote:
         | Buzzkill is a godsent and should be an OS feature. Setting
         | rules on notifications, automated actions and a history has
         | reduced the deluge of useless distractions for me.
         | 
         | The app is proprietary and closed source though; it also uses
         | Accessibility access. This might be a turn off for some threat
         | models.
        
           | pwpw wrote:
           | I would love to help on building an open source alternative.
           | Any clue on where to get started with documentation?
        
       | ianbutler wrote:
       | I was saying this yesterday, LinkedIn, as an example, sends me
       | the most inane notifications as do many apps trying to steal my
       | time. I pay LinkedIn 100 dollars a month, those notifications
       | should serve me, not the other way around. I really don't care
       | about some low substance content written by someone who I'm
       | neither connected with nor follow.
        
         | seqizz wrote:
         | Imho, Linkedin is one of the apps (for non-recruiters ofc) you
         | can just remove. Once-a-month visit to bulk-delete copy-pasted
         | offers is more than enough.
        
         | bbarnett wrote:
         | I was on the fence about a premium account, but thanks for this
         | info.
        
           | kmonsen wrote:
           | What's the draw of premium? Cannot see anything there that
           | would be more then marginal useful for me.
        
             | Nextgrid wrote:
             | It's completely useless, don't waste your time. The UI is
             | just as slow & terrible, all the dark patterns _and ads_
             | are still there even if you pay.
        
             | DoctorDabadedoo wrote:
             | You're able to directly message people that are not your
             | friends and see who saw your profile (no matter their
             | privacy configuration, I believe). For me that's about it.
             | Useful if you are job hunting, but nothing to go crazy
             | over.
             | 
             | Honestly, the only thing keeping me on LinkedIn is FOMO of
             | that spectacular job that a recruiter might reach out
             | about, but reality is that this doesn't happen at all for
             | positions worth their salt.
        
               | logifail wrote:
               | > You're able to directly message people that are not
               | your friends and see who saw your profile (no matter
               | their privacy configuration, I believe)
               | 
               | Haha. Sorry, but if someone really wants to see your
               | LinkedIn profile _and_ wants to remain anonymous, then I
               | doubt any  "premium" subscription is going to help.
        
             | bbarnett wrote:
             | They claim all sorts of wondrous benefits, and have a free
             | trial.
             | 
             | Figured I'd try it and see, but not if it is going to be an
             | abusive relationship.
        
             | gnicholas wrote:
             | I believe if you do too many searches in a month they force
             | you onto premium.
        
         | rlpb wrote:
         | I deleted my LinkedIn account many years ago because of
         | unwanted notifications and an inability to disable them.
         | 
         | I haven't missed it.
        
         | TedShiller wrote:
         | I haven't been on LinkedIn for 15 years and it hasn't affected
         | my career at all. Most people don't realize that you actually
         | don't need LinkedIn.
        
           | hackernewds wrote:
           | Counterpoint anecdata, I was unemployed for a year, and got
           | my first job interview the first week I set up LinkedIn.
           | Stayed there 6 years and has led to my subsequent career.
           | 
           | I dont believe you need LinkedIn premium at $60/month though
        
         | moritonal wrote:
         | You pay $100 a month for LinkedIn? Unless you're a recruiter
         | I'm really wondering what the value is?
        
         | ENGNR wrote:
         | I noticed the same thing recently, I got a notification "there
         | are xxx awaiting your attention!" and as a joke dared my
         | product focused co-founder to open it and count how much
         | useless crap was there. We were not disappointed. LinkedIn -
         | this is some seriously brand destroying shit but thanks for the
         | laughs
        
         | gnicholas wrote:
         | LinkedIn is surely one of the worst. They are constantly
         | creating new categories of notifications, which you have to
         | explicitly opt-out of. Guess what? If I didn't want any
         | platform-initiated notifications (engagement hacks, not based
         | on anyone trying to contact me or interacting with my content),
         | then I probably don't want this new invented category of
         | notification.
        
       | gondo wrote:
       | Revolut is doing this and it infuriates me. I want the payment
       | notifications, not the promotional, gamification spam.
        
       | pyrolistical wrote:
       | Canadians can report this
       | https://fightspam.gc.ca/eic/site/030.nsf/eng/home
       | 
       | CASL isn't just for emails, it's for all forms of spam you didn't
       | opt into
        
         | gmfawcett wrote:
         | Off-topic, but I haven't seen a .NSF URL in the wild for a
         | _long_ time. Apparently, Canada is fighting spam with Lotus
         | /Domino!
        
       | polotics wrote:
       | This post really lost me at: "and I'm sure they're getting that
       | many more engagements because of it" clearly what spam
       | notifications do is make me question having installed the app in
       | the first place. For me this has led to many uninstalls.
        
       | bambax wrote:
       | I have very few apps, and all notifications turned off for all of
       | them. I will check on new messages or info on my own time,
       | thanks.
        
       | coding123 wrote:
       | First thing I do with all apps is disable all notifications for
       | that app. The only exception is whatever app my workplace uses
       | (Teams). For that I simply turn the ringer to silent so they
       | can't vibrate the shit out of me. For those they just need to
       | wait for me to look at my phone.
        
       | spideymans wrote:
       | Apple rescinding the rule that banned promotional notifications
       | is one of the worst UX decisions they've ever made.
        
       | Tepix wrote:
       | Kaufda is guilty of this. When i complained a about their
       | promotional push messages, they pretended not to know what i was
       | talking about. I uninstalled the app which had been quite useful
       | until that time.
        
       | night-rider wrote:
       | I only care about NO notifications. Disabling all notifications
       | is the first step to more saner approaches to technology. I
       | turned my digital life into a pull medium where I check SMS
       | messages etc when I want to, and not having real-time
       | notifications of every little event gives me more peace. It's a
       | form of digital veganism that I employ. Turn your digital life
       | into pull mediums instead of push.
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | A more practical solution is to only let human-generated
         | notifications through and disable everything else. Calls &
         | texts (if you are lucky enough to not get spam, otherwise
         | change your number or use your spam-free third-party messenger
         | of choice) are OK, everything else is disabled.
        
         | p49k wrote:
         | The subject of the article is about apps bundling time
         | sensitive notifications that you can't realistically disable
         | with promotions.
         | 
         | You can turn off most notifications for a calmer life, but when
         | you order an Uber you need to know if it's arriving or if the
         | driver sent you an important message.
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | Keeping the app in foreground or checking it every few
           | minutes is usually not too big of a deal in my experience.
        
           | technothrasher wrote:
           | Granted I don't live in an urban area and so don't use these
           | apps all the much, but typically when I want an Uber or to
           | order something with Doordash, or whatever, I'll install the
           | app only long enough to use the service, and then uninstall
           | it. And my rule for apps that stay on my phone (and there are
           | not many) is that they get one chance. The first promotion
           | notification I get, either all notifications get disabled or
           | the app gets uninstalled.
        
         | theamk wrote:
         | I think this only works when you are alone. Once you miss a few
         | important notifications from your friends/spouse/kids/parents,
         | like "the place A was closed, we went to B", you'll want to
         | reconsider.
        
         | samwillis wrote:
         | Same here, have turned off all app notifications. Email set to
         | only notify for a short list of about 10-15 people who I
         | regularly communicate with.
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | I've been running with notifications disabled device-wide for
         | at least a few years now (iOS's Do Not Disturb mode) and it's
         | been great. No notifications, no texts, no phone calls. I use
         | my device when I want to, not when a rando app developer or
         | rando texter/caller wants me to use it. It's been all upside.
         | My phone is back to being a tool I use and then put away,
         | rather than me being its tool and doing its bidding.
        
       | midislack wrote:
       | Your smart phone is a store and you're the product. It's that
       | simple.
        
       | cdubzzz wrote:
       | > Better yet, it would be great to have some sort of "disable
       | marketing notifications" inside the app.
       | 
       | Given the current state of app distribution I'd rather have this
       | _outside_ the app. Add an OS level toggle to enable or disable
       | marketing notifications (system wide or app specific), force apps
       | to categorize their notifications, and provide a mechanism to
       | report bad actors. This problem creates a bad experience for all
       | users so seems like it's worth platform-level intervention.
        
       | jraph wrote:
       | This is one of the many aspect of why it is important to have
       | control on your computing device. Fight for it!
       | 
       | (And yes, if I can't find an open source app for a service, I
       | won't use it. I'm fine and very happy in my life, I don't miss
       | any specific thing, and yes, no useless notification indeed. Try
       | it!)
        
       | grose wrote:
       | I've noticed this in social networks as well. If you don't get
       | enough transactional notifications for a while they start making
       | up fake ones like Twitter's "in case you missed this Tweet",
       | Facebook's "[someone] posted for the first time in a while", all
       | the while lighting up the notifications badge. Leads to a "boy
       | who cried wolf" scenario in which I stop trusting notifications
       | entirely and just ignore them, possibly missing out on actual
       | useful ones.
       | 
       | I really wish companies let us turn this kind of thing off, or
       | better yet stopped trying to boost "engagement" numbers by
       | violating your user's trust.
        
         | dgellow wrote:
         | Linkedin is just the worst company ever doing stuff like that,
         | I try to disable all their notifications and almost never
         | engage with anything there (and I check the platform maybe 3-4
         | times a year max), and they continue to try to tell me some
         | people more or less in my network are doing things I never
         | cared about. God I hate this company.
        
           | RedGreenBlack wrote:
           | Yeah this has annoyed me for years. They have notifications
           | for literally anything. I keep disabling notification types
           | on LinkedIn and they just keep making new ones up
        
           | stjohnswarts wrote:
           | The linkedin website works fine on mobile unless you're a
           | power user or something.
        
         | alpaca128 wrote:
         | In the case of Twitter this also permanently broke
         | notifications for my account. It now shows exactly 2
         | notifications all the time. Both tell me that someone I follow
         | posted a tweet, as if I was too stupid to scroll down the feed
         | myself.
         | 
         | But in return I don't ever get any other notification. The only
         | way to find out whether someone answered my tweet is to
         | manually dig through my own profile.
         | 
         | Needless to say, I don't use Twitter anymore. Because of this,
         | and because 80% of content I saw was just a stream of pure
         | negativity.
        
         | pmoriarty wrote:
         | This is one thing I actually like on android: you have fine
         | gained control over not only which apps can send notifications
         | but also which kinds of notifications a particular app can
         | send.
         | 
         | So it's usually easy to just turn off all the annoying ones,
         | while keeping the useful ones.
        
         | BonoboIO wrote:
         | In that case i will go above and beyond to get rid of their
         | ads. uBlock, DNS Filtering, iOS Jailbreaking ...
         | 
         | Never used https://adnauseam.io/ ... but mhmmm maybe it's the
         | next step.
         | 
         | Install the extension, load Twitter end set up endless scroll
         | or Puppeteer script. Adnauseam would click EVERY ad it sees.
        
         | natly wrote:
         | I think this self awareness to disable notifications if they
         | abuse it mostly only occurs for engineering types or other
         | people with a lot of self control. It remains a powerful
         | engagement trick because it hooks into the brains of people
         | with less mental stability, like people with adhd etc (which
         | for all the mental health awareness tech platforms tries to
         | align themselves with would appear to have the opposite
         | effect).
        
         | technothrasher wrote:
         | I don't know if Facebook still does this, as I've completely
         | nuked it from my life, but when I had an account I asked it to
         | turn off all email notifications. But if I didn't log on to
         | Facebook after about two weeks I would get an email saying they
         | were concerned I would miss out and so they helpfully turned
         | email notifications back on for me.
        
           | wincy wrote:
           | I didn't use Facebook for a few years and they sent me a
           | completely fake account security notification. I was super
           | mad about it.
        
         | NaturalPhallacy wrote:
         | I have a folder on my phone called "Notification Jail" where
         | all the misbehaving apps get ignored.
        
         | UkrainianJew wrote:
         | >I really wish companies let us turn this kind of thing off
         | 
         | Well, if you are not paying for the service with your money,
         | you are paying with your attention. And this is the mechanism
         | to extract additional attention from you, and it works very
         | well.
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | Disagreed. This garbage happens even with paid services, in
           | fact the service in the article is a restaurant chain.
        
           | MrStonedOne wrote:
        
         | rapind wrote:
         | Apple kept a notification badge on my settings icon for Apple
         | Pay until I finally went in and opted out of it. Under the
         | guise of "Finish setting up your iPhone".
         | 
         | It's not a big deal I guess, but annoying and obviously
         | promotional. Now I partially associate Apple with intentionally
         | annoying.
        
           | gnicholas wrote:
           | There's also no way (that I've found) to turn off
           | notifications if you have an Apple Card. It automatically
           | sends you a notification the next day telling you how much
           | you 'saved' via their cash back feature. This actually
           | discourages me from using their card because I hate getting
           | the notifications.
        
             | mikestew wrote:
             | You can turn off those notifications, just probably not in
             | the manner you would expect:
             | 
             | https://www.imore.com/how-to-enable-or-disable-apple-card-
             | no...
             | 
             | Which reminds me, I need to get with Apple Card support to
             | find a workaround for the bug where I get notifications for
             | my spouse's purchases (and vice versa) despite having
             | toggled the switch enough times to have worn a dull spot on
             | the screen. Thankfully we are a couple who don't really
             | care about the purchases, per se, it is just fucking
             | annoying.
        
               | gnicholas wrote:
               | Ah very cool, thanks! But it looks like this turns off
               | notifications for 'Transactions'. Does that disable the
               | next-day notification to tell you that you saved 57C/
               | yesterday?
        
           | deergomoo wrote:
           | Apple's big push into services has been slowly but surely
           | chipping away at the generally pleasant experience of using
           | their platforms. The price of entry was always high, but once
           | you were through the door you were never really upsold.
           | 
           | Not so anymore. Numerous nags in settings to buy AppleCare or
           | start a trial of some service or other. The App Store is
           | particularly egregious: as well as search ads there are now
           | occasional modal prompts to enable marketing notifications
           | with my most hated dark pattern of all--only offering "yes"
           | or "not now" as options.
        
             | gopher_space wrote:
             | The entire point of Apple, in my mind, has been their focus
             | on user experience. It's weird seeing them lose their way
             | every now and then. I wonder what's going on internally
             | because no sane designer would sign off on some of these
             | ideas.
             | 
             | The App Store on my iphone is only useful for installing
             | apps I've searched for externally. Browsing categories is
             | buried as a search suggestion?
        
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         | saghm wrote:
         | This started happening enough on the Twitter app for me that I
         | just ended up uninstalling the app. My account still exists,
         | and maybe there are some real notifications there, but it's
         | probably been close to a year since I actually checked.
        
         | kayxspre wrote:
         | It's actually possible to fine-tune it by category of
         | notification (Settings > Notifications, either in app or on the
         | web). I turned off Reminder, Friend Updates, and People You May
         | Know, leaving only the notification on things I interact with
         | or things friends brought to my attention.
        
           | lostdog wrote:
           | Lots of companies dump all notifications into the same
           | bucket, either out of laziness, or purposefully to make it
           | less likely you turn off their spam notifications (looking at
           | you Oculus).
        
             | kayxspre wrote:
             | Facebook only appeared to divide notification into
             | categories when its data misuse unfolds. Several years ago
             | (if I recall correctly), turning off one broad category
             | will indeed nuke the "nagging" notification, but also turn
             | off legitimate ones as well.
        
           | stormbrew wrote:
           | It doesn't matter what you set any of these things to, if you
           | leave your account idle for a while you'll start getting made
           | up notifications again to try to draw you back in. Both
           | Facebook and Twitter do this, though ime Facebook's tend to
           | work better just because I have marginally more reason to
           | care about any given person on my FB feed than the much more
           | eclectic set of people my Twitter is connected to.
        
         | fmajid wrote:
         | That's because the social networks employ armies of industrial
         | psychologists with PhDs who figured out that notifications
         | generate a little squirt of dopamine, and are thus addictive,
         | as opioids are just an approximation thereof. That's why they
         | won't give you an option to turn off notifications, just as
         | they won't let you take control of the ordering of your feed,
         | or offer RSS feeds for it.
         | 
         | There is literally _nothing_ on social networks worth
         | notification. Disable them already.
        
           | kshacker wrote:
           | Funny I mentally read "psychopaths" when you said
           | "psychologists" ... my mind was already set while reading the
           | other comments, and something made me go back and re-read
           | your comment to realize the difference :)
        
             | fmajid wrote:
             | Both apply to those who use their knowledge for
             | manipulation and exploitation purposes.
        
           | dredmorbius wrote:
           | I'll hack site CSS to disable any nags.
           | 
           | uBlock Origin's element remover is excellent for this, though
           | I often go directly into CSS using Stylus, a CSS management
           | extension for Firefox and other browsers.
           | 
           | I also don't use any mainstream social media apps.
           | 
           | Mastodon and Diaspora* limit notifications to other users'
           | actions only.
        
             | fmajid wrote:
             | Well, I have my browser (Vivaldi) set to automatically
             | block desktop notification requests without even asking
             | (the default is to ask) but as you point out many sites
             | will also show an obnoxious banner and yes, uBlock is a
             | good solution to that.
             | 
             | I'm surprised EasyList lets so many of these through, so I
             | built my own (very few rules for now):
             | 
             | https://majid.info/adblock.txt
        
         | MandieD wrote:
         | Since I couldn't turn off "in case you missed this Tweet,"
         | without turning off everything including reply and DM
         | notifications, I no longer get any.
         | 
         | And use it a lot less now, so good job, Twitter!
        
       | lysium wrote:
       | I wish there was a fine grain control for _Teams_ notifications.
       | 
       | The amount of messages I get that do not need my immediate
       | attention and/or could have been an email is astounding.
       | 
       | I turned off notifications for Teams as a result and hope that
       | people will call me if it is really urgent.
        
       | sumthinprofound wrote:
       | Grubhub does this as well, so all of their notifications are
       | disabled by me.
        
       | teh64 wrote:
       | While it is a quite a bit more work to get working correctly, I
       | imagine you could cobble something together with iOs' focus modes
       | [0] and shortcuts [1] automation (where shortcuts can change the
       | focus mode). Just put everything you want all the time in allowed
       | apps, and then disable the focus mode when the required
       | notifications are needed.
       | 
       | You can also automate "when app X is opened, select focus mode"
       | [2], so maybe the workflow would be:
       | 
       | When app with annoying notifications is opened (i.e. is needed),
       | disable focus mode. Then reenable focus mode 1 hour later through
       | automation.
       | 
       | Still more annoying than having some kind of built in thing, but
       | shortcuts does really enable fixing a lot of annoying things
       | (especially in iOS[3]).
       | 
       | [0] https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT212608
       | 
       | [1] https://support.apple.com/en-nz/guide/shortcuts/welcome/ios
       | 
       | [2] https://www.howtogeek.com/676204/how-to-automatically-
       | launch...
       | 
       | [3] why doesn't the quick action for bluetooth turn off
       | bluetooth? so annoying. So I wrote an shortcuts button, that I
       | click instead.
        
       | pronik wrote:
       | I have a somewhat similar gripe about apps, which has some recent
       | implications: there seems to be some school of thought for
       | engagement, which suggests that something that's not used at
       | least weekly is useless. For this reason Google started
       | automatically removing permissions from apps I didn't use for
       | some time and it's also suggested I could delete them "to save
       | space" which is frankly quite stupid -- I have quite a lot of
       | apps which I only intend to use when needed, but I need them
       | installed and ready. A perfect example are emergency apps -- I do
       | not intend for my car to break down every couple of weeks, but
       | when it does, I need the emergency services app. I don't want to
       | open the desaster warning app consciously, but I want it to warn
       | me when something happens, be it today or in three years. Don't
       | judge the app by its daily usage time please.
        
         | hiq wrote:
         | I think that's indeed the default behavior, but when I go to a
         | certain app permissions, I have an option "remove permissions
         | and free up space", if I untick this I expect the permissions
         | to stay in place, is that not the case?
        
         | twic wrote:
         | Sadly, features aren't added to Android because they're good
         | for users, they're added because they'll look good in someone's
         | promotion packet.
        
       | mortenjorck wrote:
       | While Apple should be able to enforce this at an App Store level,
       | it seems to me there's a pretty simple heuristic that could be
       | applied as a per-app notification setting:
       | 
       |  _"Mute notifications if I haven't used this app in more than 24
       | hours"_
       | 
       | That ought to catch the majority of notification abuse, and to
       | tighten it even further, the inactivity periods could be
       | configurable (24, 8, 2 hours, etc).
        
       | makecheck wrote:
       | The only way to really deter this stuff is to make it cost the
       | sender something _per spam_. Bonus points if the user can feed
       | back into the system to discourage truly unpopular notifications.
        
       | emsy wrote:
       | Isn't the justification of Apple that they have a monopoly on the
       | App Store so they can protect users from notification abuse? In
       | reality this is not enforced at all and even Apple themselves
       | will send you ads.
        
         | tsuujin wrote:
         | No? The walled garden is a safeguard against malicious apps,
         | not against marketing shenanigans.
        
           | emsy wrote:
           | They explicitly state in their developer agreement not to use
           | notifications for ads.
        
             | tsuujin wrote:
             | This changed a couple of years ago, apps can send you ads
             | so long as you opt in, but what qualifies as opting in can
             | be as simple as a bit of language during signup; it's
             | pretty easy to bypass this.
             | 
             | > 4.5.4 Push Notifications must not be required for the app
             | to function, and should not be used to send sensitive
             | personal or confidential information. Push Notifications
             | should not be used for promotions or direct marketing
             | purposes unless customers have explicitly opted in to
             | receive them via consent language displayed in your app's
             | UI, and you provide a method in your app for a user to opt
             | out from receiving such messages. Abuse of these services
             | may result in revocation of your privileges.
             | 
             | From: https://www.imore.com/apples-updated-developer-
             | guidelines-no...
        
               | emsy wrote:
               | I stand somewhat corrected, but you have to admit that
               | rule has never really been enforced.
        
               | tsuujin wrote:
               | I think we'll need actual regulation before we see any
               | enforcement, unfortunately. Because Apple takes a cut of
               | app profits, they're incentivized to allow for scummy
               | engagement practices.
               | 
               | We need something like the CAN-SPAM (which as for emails)
               | to classify transactional vs marketing/engagement
               | notifications and a way to levy fines on violations.
        
             | Nextgrid wrote:
             | That rule (and plenty of other rules such as the privacy
             | disclosures being incorrect) isn't enforced and I'm not
             | even sure where to report such violations.
             | 
             | App Store rules are only enforced when it's convenient for
             | Apple or their partners.
        
         | Juicyy wrote:
         | Better yet, Apple sends me news notifications for apple news
         | that you have to pay for.... Who the fuck thinks its a good
         | idea to send you notifications blocked behind a paywall... cant
         | even comprehend the logic in the microtransaction, pay to win,
         | notifications, paywall bullshit we see in mobile, tech, gaming,
         | etc. I have had enough. Literally just deleted all that stuff.
         | All i need is VScode and youtube.
        
       | gpfunke wrote:
       | I think a couple others have said this already, but I know when I
       | was sending out push notifications at my previous job, you would
       | add a "channel" for the notification for this exact reason. Then
       | users could block that specific channel without blocking the
       | really useful ones (at least on Android)
        
       | Havoc wrote:
       | Yes. LinkedIn and Facebook being the worst. Even if there is
       | nothing relevant they'll just make something BS up just to remind
       | you that they still exist.
       | 
       | Yes LinkedIn I know I've got 11 notifications waiting but I also
       | know they'll all be more noise...and I know this without needing
       | to check
        
       | xnx wrote:
       | Are there any Android utility apps that will route all
       | notifications through a single proxy where I can apply my own
       | app/category/keyword filters, and [ideally] inbox/archive of
       | notifications?
       | 
       | People criticize email, but I still find it the most user-
       | friendly notification/messaging system. I wish for the type of
       | control that I have in email over any other
       | messaging/notification system (app alerts, Instagram messages,
       | Slack notifications, etc.)
        
         | chirag64 wrote:
         | Yep, there is an app called AutoNotification that can help
         | filter notifications similar to how one would in a Gmail
         | filter.
        
       | rutierut wrote:
       | As someone who travels a bit I've got quite some food delivery
       | and ride share apps on my phone. The marketing notifications are
       | driving me crazy, I regularly miss relevant notifications because
       | Grab, Uber, Uber Eats, Glovo, Bolt, and Cabify are all sending me
       | almost daily notifications with some sort of cringe content
       | trying to nudge me to take a cab/order food. Especially Uber Eats
       | and Glovo are bad.
        
         | clumpthump wrote:
         | It's definitely annoying that users can't opt-in only to the
         | types of notifications they want on installation, but Uber and
         | Uber Eats are not guilty of what Starbucks is doing in the
         | article (at least on Android); you can disable all
         | notifications besides "Taking a Ride" and "Your Order"
         | notifications.
        
       | theamk wrote:
       | I have a pretty good idea on how to fix this (and many similar)
       | problems: "hibernate app" option. Its a new app state where app
       | icon icon has some mark (like being semi-grayed out) and all the
       | background app services are disabled (tracking, promotional
       | popups, periodic wakeups, etc...). The app is only un-hibernated
       | if user explicitly clicks on it, it cannot do it by itself. The
       | app can be hibernated by long-press menu on app icon or
       | notification.
       | 
       | So the first time you get an ad notify, you click "hibernate" and
       | you are good. And if it is time to make another order, app is
       | woken up, so you cannot miss notifications by accident.
       | 
       | Sure, it is not as good as having separate "show ads" toggle, but
       | it requires no cooperation from app whatsoever,
        
         | zamadatix wrote:
         | For Android I think the only thing needed for this is for
         | disabled apps to show as grayed out in the launcher instead of
         | hidden. I wonder if that's information available to launchers
         | or only available in the system app menu.
        
           | Rebelgecko wrote:
           | On Android, paused apps turn gray on the home screen and in
           | the app drawer. However there's sometimes a delay of ~10
           | seconds before it happens
        
         | hairofadog wrote:
         | This is a great idea.
        
         | caleb-troyer wrote:
         | On Android, Shelter (available on F-Droid [0]) is a close
         | implementation of this. Apps installed in the "shelter" (read:
         | Android work profile) can be automatically frozen when not in
         | use, and launcher shortcuts can be created to temporarily
         | unfreeze and use the app. This doesn't require root, and frozen
         | apps cannot run services, send notifications, or anything
         | really. As a bonus, for the most part they don't even show up
         | as installed when frozen and are completely isolated from main
         | profile apps. The filesystem is separate however, but you can
         | use an app that allows file sending via share contexts such as
         | Phone Saver [1] to send files between your main profile and
         | your shelter profile.
         | 
         | [0]: https://f-droid.org/en/packages/net.typeblog.shelter/
         | 
         | [1]:
         | https://f-droid.org/en/packages/link.standen.michael.phonesa...
        
         | ajolly wrote:
         | Lots of ways to do this on Android. Ice Box is an example of an
         | app that all help do it for you.
        
           | aftbit wrote:
           | Ice Box seems to require root fwiw.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | tshaddox wrote:
         | I have never looked into Shortcuts on iOS, but I wonder if
         | something similar could be implemented there.
        
       | cheriot wrote:
       | This is doubly bad when the notification is on my watch. Looking
       | at you, Uber.
       | 
       | There's a fair number of apps I'd happily enable useful
       | notifications on, but don't because they send marketing crap.
        
       | Sausagemancer wrote:
       | My Bluetooth Blood-pressure cuff does this. Useful notification:
       | Reminding me to measure my blood pressure twice per day, giving
       | me a notification that I can tap to begin a measurement.
       | 
       | Not useful notifications: Telling me that I have a "new insight
       | available", which when tapped takes me to a prompt to "upgrade to
       | a new premium feature.
       | 
       | I guess if you need to upsell me on a service after I've spent
       | >$200 for your device I can use a different reminders app and be
       | slightly inconvenienced twice a day.
        
       | punnerud wrote:
       | Any way to subscribe to the notifications into Python or similar?
       | So I can run my own custom filters before I decide what and when
       | the notification should be delivered. Could also use the
       | notifications to trigger automations.
        
         | astockwell wrote:
         | This is an outstanding suggestion. Rife for abuse, but no more
         | abuse than anything else.
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | I don't think there's any way to access iOS notifications
         | outside the device. If the notifications you care about are
         | also available via email you can disable the official app's
         | notifications and use email rules to redirect _specific_ email
         | notifications to something like Pushover, essentially rolling
         | your own push notifications where you can use rules to control
         | what gets through.
        
       | prymitive wrote:
       | I made the mistake of buying Eufy camera and the app is basically
       | an sales channel spamming you with ads on every occasion. If you
       | contact support and complain about it they will disable popus for
       | you but the app is still full of spam and animated icons inviting
       | you to buy something. They clearly have zero respect for
       | customers.
        
       | superb-owl wrote:
       | It seems like every new communication channel follows the same
       | basic pattern (phone, email, SMS, push notifications, ...). It
       | starts with friend-to-friend communication, but quickly
       | commercial entities realize there's an opportunity to connect
       | with customers. They usually start with something small and
       | helpful, but before long you're overrun with spam.
       | 
       | I'm counting the days until my flashlight app tells me I've won a
       | free cruise.
        
       | znpy wrote:
       | that's one of the reason i got rid of my samsung phone: it used
       | to send random nonsense notifications, MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY.
       | 
       | it would keep asking me to let samsung use my phone's cpu for
       | whatever stuff they're doing, send multiple weather notification
       | during the day (i didn't ever ask for them and now it's my job to
       | go hunt for the appropriate setting to change to disable them? go
       | f@@k yourself, you just lost a customer) and many more that i'm
       | now thankfully forgetting.
        
       | TedShiller wrote:
       | Lyft does the same thing. I need the normal notifications ("Your
       | driver will arrive in 2 minutes") but every few weeks they send
       | me a promotional notification ("Rides are 20% off on Labor Day!")
       | randomly.
        
         | pfranz wrote:
         | Which means I leave the app Offloaded when I'm not using it and
         | may not go through the friction to reinstall when I need a
         | ride.
         | 
         | Another comment here pointed out you can change it under the
         | obvious /s location: Settings > Privacy > Notification
         | Preferences > Discounts and News.
        
       | difosfor wrote:
       | One of the downsides of living in a world where we don't pay for
       | services but are instead ourselves the payment.
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | The problem is that this also happens to _paid_ products. You
         | 'd think that if you already pay money they should leave you
         | alone, and yet there's a product manager, marketing or "growth"
         | specialist that needs to justify their salary so even paid
         | products aren't immune to that.
        
       | cproctor wrote:
       | This is when you email the company's head of marketing and/or
       | security expressing naive concern about hacking/phishing. "I
       | received an email that looked like it's from your company, but I
       | know it's not real because I didn't sign up for any of your
       | lists."
        
         | Nextgrid wrote:
         | When I receive unsolicited marketing email I will often
         | intentionally not unsubscribe and instead set up a rule (now
         | that I know the sender address or some way to reliably identify
         | their spam) to redirect any future messages to someone high up
         | at their company or their GDPR data protection officer.
        
       | hericium wrote:
       | I wish iOS had some "allow notifications from this app for x
       | minutes" option similar to "share location once".
       | 
       | Uber is a good example of an app I would like to see
       | notifications from, when using their service, but disabled them
       | completely.
       | 
       | Uber abuses this feature to show ad banners for scooters or food
       | when I am not using their app and it's not even open (as in not
       | present on the open applications list).
        
         | gnicholas wrote:
         | Uber is one of the worst. You can turn off all notifications
         | unrelated to your existing rides. They hide this in the app
         | under: Settings, Privacy, Notifications. Lyft has the same
         | hidden structure.
        
           | hericium wrote:
           | Thanks! Will try it out.
        
             | hackernewds wrote:
             | Android let's you disable notifications by category. Since
             | users disable notifications completely, Uber is pretty good
             | at categorizing notifications so you can turn them off.
             | 
             | I still do like promotional offers so I have those
             | redirected to email :)
        
         | el-salvador wrote:
         | I've used Uber in several cities, so I get repetitive
         | notifications targeting their different markets. Like
         | irrelevant lunch discounts in other cities.
         | 
         | They also have been sending me notifications for an Argentinan
         | soccer-themed anti harassment campaign every couple of days.
         | 
         | I went through their videos completely and the notification
         | keeps showing. Its done in such a vertical video letterboxed in
         | a horizontal video format that's hard to watch.
        
       | frederikvs wrote:
       | If an app gives me spammy promotional notifications, it either A)
       | gets uninstalled (if I don't particularly care about the app), B)
       | gets a 1-star review with a clear comment about the
       | notifications, or C) all of the above.
       | 
       | The app I use to pay for parking spots suddenly gave me a
       | notification once, apparently to try and get me to park my car
       | more often or something. I gave it a one-star review, never saw
       | one of those notifications again :-) (Which reminds me, I should
       | revise that review.)
        
         | alkonaut wrote:
         | The problem is with businesses that are in some other business
         | than the app business. For example the coffee business. It
         | doesn't matter how good/bad the app is, usually the app wasn't
         | why you chose their business, it was location, quality of a
         | product etc. And it's their app or no app.
        
       | adrianmonk wrote:
       | On Android, they _tried_ to improve this by adding notification
       | channels[1] (aka categories). Channels are mandatory, and users
       | can turn each channel on /off in system settings.
       | 
       | The problem is few apps assign meaningful or useful channels.
       | Instead:
       | 
       | (1) Some apps use the dark UI pattern of putting important
       | notifications and junk/spam notifications together in one
       | channel. They use the ones you do want as leverage to make you
       | see the ones you don't want.
       | 
       | (2) With some apps, they just don't make an effort. For example,
       | the JustWatch app has two channels: "Default" and
       | "Miscellaneous". The KAYAK app has two channels; one is called
       | "Offers & promotions", and the other is also called "Offers &
       | promotions".
       | 
       | (3) Defining useful, meaningful channels is actually a bit of a
       | UI challenge. Some apps try but don't divide things up in a
       | useful way. The Meetup app has a ton of channels, including 12 at
       | the top level and 3 for each Meetup group that you're a member
       | of. They made an effort, and it helps some, but it's a bit
       | overwhelming.
       | 
       | ---
       | 
       | [1] https://developer.android.com/training/notify-user/channels
        
       | civilized wrote:
       | I ban an app from ever sending me any notification the moment it
       | sends me an unwelcome one. But it sounds like this is not an
       | option for some apps other people use.
        
       | clumpthump wrote:
       | I suspect some apps go too far in the other direction on purpose,
       | having a large list of promotional notification types amidst
       | useful ones so that people miss opting out of some or are too
       | overwhelmed by the list that they decide not to bother, and
       | whenever they add a "new" type of promotional notification, it's
       | on by default until the user goes and disables it too.
        
       | amenghra wrote:
       | iOS feature request: only allow notifications for apps I used in
       | the last 24h.
        
       | Helmut10001 wrote:
       | I have turned off all notifications, no sound on my phone either.
       | If I happen to look at the phone while someone is calling, good -
       | otherwise I'll call them back or write them.
        
         | TedShiller wrote:
         | That's a really interesting strategy. Thanks for the tip. What
         | about emergency calls? But then I just realized, those are
         | extremely uncommon.
        
           | lozenge wrote:
           | https://support.google.com/android/answer/9069335?hl=en-
           | GB#z...
           | 
           | > Under 'What can interrupt Do Not Disturb', tap People:
           | Calls: Repeat callers. To let a call through if the same
           | person calls twice in 15 minutes, turn on Allow repeat
           | callers.
        
             | TedShiller wrote:
             | Hah, spammers take note: always call twice in 15 minutes!
             | Easy for them to automate.
        
             | Helmut10001 wrote:
             | Nice, thanks! Maybe that could be a good addition, to catch
             | the one exception in 10 years that really must get through.
        
       | tintor wrote:
       | It is time for email spam filters to be applied to notifications.
        
       | navjack27 wrote:
       | It's cool cuz on my Pixel 5 most of my notifications that I want
       | I don't get in a timely fashion and the ones I don't want are
       | just disabled anyway. I just want notifications to work at all.
        
       | forgotmypw17 wrote:
       | I faced this issue while writing my application for online
       | spaces...
       | 
       | I noticed that I had written a feature called server
       | notification, and was about to start using it to notify users of
       | things which the server wanted them to know, but which they had
       | not asked for.
       | 
       | I decided to rename the feature internally to "server response
       | notification", which implies that all of the notifications are in
       | response to a user query. This helped me focus on what the
       | feature should be used for.
        
       | celeritascelery wrote:
       | This is out of reach for most people, but what I would love is to
       | be able to define a regex per app that will let me filter
       | notifications. Give control back to the users.
        
       | sourabhv wrote:
       | These companies boast so much about their prowess in AI, but
       | can't differentiate between a transactional and promotional
       | message?
        
       | dguo wrote:
       | My rule is: if I get a single notification that I find useless,
       | I'll immediately disable that notification channel (I'm on
       | Android; I'm not sure if iOS has a concept of channel-specific
       | settings) for that app. Even if the channel can include useful
       | notifications, as the article discusses.
       | 
       | If the app doesn't bother to categorize its notifications into
       | channels at all, I turn off its notifications entirely, and I
       | won't turn it back on.
       | 
       | If something is important enough, I can always manually check on
       | it. My attention is too valuable to me to waste it on useless
       | notifications.
       | 
       | I do want more control over my notifications in general. I use
       | Google Apps Script to automatically process/triage my email, and
       | I want to do something similar with notifications. I can probably
       | do so using Tasker, but I haven't gotten around to it.
        
         | furyofantares wrote:
         | I used to do it roughly like this, then I noticed how much more
         | pleasant my wife's experience is. She just has them all turned
         | off.
        
           | mrweasel wrote:
           | By default I never allow notification. If I start to notice
           | that it would have been helpful to get a notification from an
           | app, I will see if that's something that can be enabled.
        
         | gnicholas wrote:
         | I have a similar rule, but sometimes it's really hard to figure
         | out (1) whether the app distinguishes between different types
         | of notifications, and (2) where the setting is to turn off the
         | new nuisance notification type.
         | 
         | IME, Lyft and Uber are the worst. For Lyft, their notification
         | preferences are buried under "Privacy: Choose what data you
         | share with us". Not the first place anyone would look!
        
           | cuu508 wrote:
           | On Android, long-press a notification, then tap on a gear
           | icon. You will see a list of notification categories for that
           | app.
        
             | scarface74 wrote:
             | You're assuming that the developer makes such a distinction
             | when they send you a notification
        
               | cuu508 wrote:
               | From grandparent comment:
               | 
               | > If the app doesn't bother to categorize its
               | notifications into channels at all, I turn off its
               | notifications entirely, and I won't turn it back on.
        
           | lrem wrote:
           | That's why Android has the system-wide pane for those. No
           | space for (most of) dark patterns. And if someone goes out of
           | their way to "accidentally" mess with that system (oops, this
           | promotion went into the navigation category, silly me), they
           | deserve to go all out silenced.
        
             | mynameisvlad wrote:
             | That's entirely developer decided. Most are starting to
             | recombine channels to get around the feature.
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | The parent clearly knows that, hence their second point:
               | "And if someone goes out of their way to "accidentally"
               | mess with that system (oops, this promotion went into the
               | navigation category, silly me), they deserve to go all
               | out silenced."
        
               | mynameisvlad wrote:
               | Accidentally or intentionally misclassifying
               | notifications is not the same thing as getting rid of the
               | categories entirely.
        
           | stjohnswarts wrote:
           | Lots of apps make you opt out, but it really isn't that hard
           | to find. Most apps on my phone don't even get the right to
           | notify me. I prefer pull rather than push as far as notices
           | go, unless they're critical like from my bank/CC/gf :)
        
         | mattlondon wrote:
         | I do this too.
         | 
         | If it is a commercial company (e.g. Starbucks from the article)
         | then I sometimes make a point to act innocent and contact their
         | support people to ask why I am not getting order update
         | notifications after "turning off the ads" or whatever.
         | Hopefully the message will get through.
        
         | natly wrote:
         | My rule is: Disable notifications immediately regardless, if I
         | find myself wishing I had gotten a ping instead of opening the
         | app to check, I turn it on (which never happens, it's off for
         | everything).
        
         | xahrepap wrote:
         | I follow the same rule. But I will also then go one star review
         | it.
         | 
         | I will also one-star review any app that prompts me to review
         | it by first asking me if I like it (sneaky sneaky!)
        
           | Kiro wrote:
           | That sounds harsh. I kindly ask if they want to leave a
           | review to support me in my app. What's wrong with that?
           | Haven't received any complaints and I got a lot of nice
           | reviews I presume I wouldn't have gotten otherwise.
        
           | karmakaze wrote:
           | I'll go one step farther and uninstall it if I haven't used
           | it recently or often.
        
             | weego wrote:
             | I'll go that one step further and cast my phone into a
             | shallow grave, having salted the earth it's buried in so
             | that nothing may grow there again.
        
               | bryanrasmussen wrote:
               | I'll go that one step further and build a time machine
               | and go back in time and kill myself before I have a
               | chance to even install the app.
        
               | earleybird wrote:
               | "luxury" - sorry, wrong skit
        
               | dredmorbius wrote:
               | I blew up a planet once.
        
               | [deleted]
        
             | hdjjhhvvhga wrote:
             | I'll go one step further and try to bash it whenever I have
             | a chance [0].
             | 
             | [0] Yes Free Now I'm talking about you.
        
           | Phlogistique wrote:
           | For some reason I had never thought of doing that.
           | 
           | Thanks, I will do so from now on!
        
           | stjohnswarts wrote:
           | Oh yeah I definitely do that with the "rate our app" if I've
           | not so much as done more than open it up lol
        
           | faeriechangling wrote:
           | Lol I do this too. If I see an "are you enjoying our app"
           | banner I will immediately click yes, follow the link to the
           | store, and then immediately 1 star. Even if I enjoy the app
           | and use it daily.
           | 
           | Companies that attempt to filter out negative feedback can
           | pound sand.
        
         | nomilk wrote:
         | Useless notifications is a super dangerous game to play, since
         | one lame "McDonalds has 25% off" *cough: Uber Eats* results in
         | notifications being turned off and poorer outcomes for all
         | parties from that moment on.
        
           | resters wrote:
           | Yes. Especially since the most useless ones seem to come when
           | I'm driving.
        
           | lozenge wrote:
           | They are relying on 90% of people not knowing how to get to
           | the notification settings. It's not dangerous, it's A/B
           | tested...
        
             | abacadaba wrote:
             | guess im in the 10% of customers they lost. i know how to
             | change settings but still easier to uninstall.
        
         | Larrikin wrote:
         | I've found that apps that properly set up channels on Android
         | where your can easily block promotional notifications, don't
         | abuse their notifications, and ones that don't put all their
         | notifications through a couple different channels making it
         | impossible to turn off only the ones you don't want. Amazon and
         | Uber are examples of apps that abuse this.
        
           | hdjjhhvvhga wrote:
           | I just turned them off altogether. It turned out I can do
           | well without them. If Uber is telling me the driver will be
           | there in 4 minutes, I check my phone in ca. 4 minutes, it's
           | not a big deal. On the other hand, getting a notification I
           | haven't asked for is unacceptable as it steals my time. App
           | creators think it is innocuous, but I have dozens of apps on
           | my phone, and won't tolerate any user-hostile choices.
        
           | robocat wrote:
           | I install Uber when I need to use it, then deinstall it after
           | pickup. If I forget to deinstall it, Uber kindly send me a
           | notification reminder (random text with with a percent symbol
           | within it), to remind me to deinstall it.
        
             | wardedVibe wrote:
             | Definitely stealing this idea, thanks
        
             | abruzzi wrote:
             | this is exactly what I do for most apps-install to use,
             | remove after use. For Uber its easy since I only use Uber
             | when I'm traveling in a country where I don't speak the
             | language (Uber makes hailing rides in a foriegn country
             | easy, though we used Yandex in Russia since Uber wasn't as
             | common.) In some cases, I keep the app, but completely
             | silence it.
        
             | efreak wrote:
             | at least on Android there's no need to completely uninstall
             | it. you can disable the app with force stop; this should
             | allow it to get updates, but shouldn't allow it to run
             | again until you open it manually
        
         | zbrozek wrote:
         | I disable all notifications from an app at first strike.
        
         | stormbrew wrote:
         | > I'm on Android; I'm not sure if iOS has a concept of channel-
         | specific settings
         | 
         | Sadly iOS doesn't really have this in the same way :(
        
           | stjohnswarts wrote:
           | Some apps like uber/lyft have a setting for app critical
           | notices vs what amounts to ads tho
        
         | izacus wrote:
         | > My rule is: if I get a single notification that I find
         | useless, I'll immediately disable that notification channel
         | (I'm on Android; I'm not sure if iOS has a concept of channel-
         | specific settings) for that app. Even if the channel can
         | include useful notifications, as the article discusses.
         | 
         | Well, the developers have started fighting against that by not
         | splitting notifications into channels anymore. Now you just get
         | "General" channel were basic functionality and spam can't be
         | separated.
         | 
         | The modern world of user abuse is great.
        
           | throw1230 wrote:
           | One strike and you're out rule works perfectly fine for me.
           | 
           | If they think they can abuse my attention with stuff like
           | this, I immediately uninstall and go on with my life.
        
             | gpt5 wrote:
             | I've been struggling with the Uber app and Uber Eats who
             | has been sending me ads which I found no way to disable.
             | 
             | My problem is that I do want notifications for when my
             | driver has arrived.
        
               | tbihl wrote:
               | Unblock notifications only when you need them
        
               | innocenat wrote:
               | Uber Eat does different channel for notification though.
               | Mine is set exactly as you described.
        
               | gruez wrote:
               | It's an option on android but not ios.
        
               | novok wrote:
               | Go to account -> settings -> privacy -> notifications and
               | you can turn off all the marketing notifications on iOS
               | too for Uber / Uber Eats.
        
               | gruez wrote:
               | That turns it off for the whole app, not only marketing
               | stuff.
        
               | bonniemuffin wrote:
               | I deleted the Uber app and stopped using their service
               | specifically because there was no way to turn off only
               | their spammy marketing push notifications, and I didn't
               | want to turn off all push and miss a ride, so there was
               | no way for me to meaningfully use their service. It's ok,
               | I have other options to get a ride.
        
               | reflexco wrote:
               | That's exactly why I stopped using Uber. It was annoying
               | to not get notification when drivers arrive, but there's
               | no way I'm giving them free access to make my pocket
               | vibrate all day long.
        
               | abacadaba wrote:
               | same rule, and also why uber eats got uninstalled
        
               | benmanns wrote:
               | If you turn off notifications they will use text messages
               | to contact you. I've never gotten a spam text message
               | from them, which makes some sense as they're more
               | regulated than push notifications.
        
               | NaturalPhallacy wrote:
               | That's like the whole point of this article....
        
               | gpvos wrote:
               | You could stop using Uber and Uber Eats.
        
               | LadyCailin wrote:
               | You could also be a hermit and live in the woods. Thats
               | not really the point though. For paid services, I think
               | it's entirely reasonable to say that you don't want to
               | see ads.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | It is reasonable to say you don't want ads. Unfortunately
               | Uber has decided to say "too bad, what are you going to
               | do about it?"
        
               | lmm wrote:
               | As my friend says about salary, it's only a negotiation
               | if you're prepared to walk away.
        
               | jazzyjackson wrote:
               | I mean I went with "own a car and pick up food myself"
               | instead of the whole hermitage thing, but to each their
               | own
        
               | criddell wrote:
               | I wonder if you could write a Shortcut that, after an
               | Uber ride is booked, notifications are enabled and once
               | the ride ends, they are disabled again?
        
               | dvtrn wrote:
               | I just tried, unless I'm missing an update, Uber Eats
               | doesn't even show up under the Apps that I can select
               | from to build a shortcut for.
        
               | Angostura wrote:
               | > I do want notifications for when my driver has arrived.
               | 
               | They can ring my doorbell or phone me.
        
               | wardedVibe wrote:
               | Try switching to lyft maybe?
        
               | ericmay wrote:
               | If Lyft doesn't do the same thing they eventually will.
        
               | fragmede wrote:
               | Hopefully by then more advanced notification controls
               | will exist.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | Maybe being less annoying can be part of their value
               | proposition.
        
           | distances wrote:
           | I usually simply uninstall the app on the first clearly
           | spammy notification. Why wouldn't I? It immediately sours the
           | app image.
           | 
           | If it's borderline I will first try silencing the channel
           | like the parent commenter.
        
             | izacus wrote:
             | Those rules only work until you're required to have such
             | app installed to do, for example, credit card payments.
        
               | fxtentacle wrote:
               | Where i live, GDPR and related laws make it illegal to
               | mix advertising permissions with functional permissions.
               | So that's never going to happen.
        
               | izacus wrote:
               | I've spent plenty of time working on GDPR compliance in
               | EU and I can directly tell you there's nothing in GDPR
               | that would say anything like that.
               | 
               | GDPR talks about data collection and says nothing about
               | having your own business spam you with advertisement (as
               | long as they don't collect data outside their GDPR
               | restrictions).
        
               | anticristi wrote:
               | > Consent is presumed not to be freely given if it does
               | not allow separate consent to be given to different
               | personal data processing operations despite it being
               | appropriate in the individual case [...]
               | 
               | https://gdpr-info.eu/recitals/no-43/
        
               | scarface74 wrote:
               | That has absolutely nothing to do with notifications and
               | pop ups.
        
               | dmkii wrote:
               | You're right, but only if the company wouldn't track
               | whether you've seen or even received that message. So
               | yes, general or even contextual messages would be
               | allowed, but "You haven't seen X in 9 days" would imply
               | processing personal data for marketing purposes.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | l33t2328 wrote:
               | I don't see what this says about notifications
        
               | tgsovlerkhgsel wrote:
               | Which can be solved by finding a competitor with less
               | abusive practices.
        
               | teddyh wrote:
               | Not in a monopoly or oligopoly, which is the common case
               | in markets with high barriers to entry.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | If this a hypothetical? I can't think of any monopolies
               | that I need to do business with that only do business
               | through an app.
        
               | JonChesterfield wrote:
               | My bank's android app has more control over my account
               | than any other way of interacting with them, including
               | going into branches and posting forms. That's not
               | strictly a monopoly but I'm on my fifth bank and they've
               | all been similarly rubbish.
        
         | why-el wrote:
         | This is what my strategy is more or less, but for emails. If a
         | startup sends me a "Welcome to X", I treat it as "Don't forget
         | to unsubscribe from X".
        
           | version_five wrote:
           | This is a good idea. I almost always get caught by this. Last
           | week I had to make Notion account for something, immediately
           | started getting daily spam from them. It's the same
           | everywhere, they think signing up is somehow a license to
           | spam. It has the opposite effect, it destroys any good will
           | towards the company.
           | 
           | Slack is another big offender. Every time you sign up to a
           | new channel you're back on a spam list for some reason. I
           | don't know who is coaching these people, but like
           | notifications, it's a big reason why I often just don't
           | bother signing up for stuff
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | Same, I don't have time to dork with notifications I don't
         | need.
         | 
         | Once I get a bad notification I have no faith in an apps
         | willingness to do what I want.
        
         | ComputerGuru wrote:
         | This is also my policy - except:
         | 
         | Uber just sent me a notification to celebrate pride month with
         | Uber (by booking a car??). I don't see how to turn off these
         | promotional notifications but I need my Uber notifications so
         | I'm aware when my driver is outside. I'm still not sure if I
         | should block all Uber notifications.
        
           | aendruk wrote:
           | Gig Car Share used to do this. I patiently responded to each
           | incident with a support request politely asking them to stop
           | the abuse. After a few months of 1:1 mapping from spam
           | incident to customer support issue it eventually stopped.
        
             | eastbound wrote:
             | I do the same on the Nespresso site with the "Hey, I'm
             | clippy, do you need help with your order?" covering the
             | "Order" button. I systematically click on it and ask them
             | to order by order. Then they explain how to close the chat,
             | and I click on the next page, the chat opens, I ask them
             | again to go away because I can't focus while the icon is
             | bouncing in my page.
             | 
             | They don't answer me anymore.
             | 
             | As in: A corporate employee leaves a chat aside because
             | it's too annoying.
        
           | Ar-Curunir wrote:
           | It's under the "privacy" in account settings. I just disabled
           | marketing notifications
        
           | zwegner wrote:
           | You can choose to get text messages instead for ride
           | notifications. I do that and don't get any spam from them.
           | 
           | Still get the stupid "try 1 month free trial" popups whenever
           | I book a ride though, can't see how to turn those off.
        
           | justsomehnguy wrote:
           | > by booking a car??
           | 
           | by hooking a car, of course
           | 
           | *agressive eyebrow movements*
        
           | SnowHill9902 wrote:
           | Wow that's cool, did you celebrate? (Block unless you are
           | actively waiting for a car.)
        
           | davidjfelix wrote:
           | Spoiler - they probably know and don't want to destroy their
           | reliable spam channel. I turn them off and either keep the
           | app open when I've ordered a car, or temporarily turn them
           | back on while ubering and turn them back off when I get a
           | trash notification. This definitely strikes me as one of
           | those comments you see on HN that is wildly impractical at
           | scale, but it's what I do.
        
             | shostack wrote:
             | Which is why strict app store policy enforcement is the
             | only way to really end this.
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | That's my rule as well. I disable all notifications that are
         | not an actual human that is trying to get in touch with me.
        
           | stjohnswarts wrote:
           | Even from your bank and credit cards?
        
             | _moof wrote:
             | If my bank or credit card really needs to get in touch with
             | me at this very moment, they will call me.
        
         | sonicggg wrote:
         | I use a similar system for Slack notifications. Got an unwanted
         | @here call? Mute channel entirely.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | SpacePortKnight wrote:
         | Lately I've been disabling notifications for almost all apps
         | including Uber and food delivery apps. I can always open up the
         | app to check the status when I want to. The only spam I've left
         | on my phone is now the needless SMS.
        
       | falcolas wrote:
       | Something that amazes me is that United's app - freaking United
       | FFS - is better behaved about this than most other apps.
        
       | nraynaud wrote:
       | Amazon notified me that they thought I might like to buy a new
       | stove.
        
       | wdr1 wrote:
       | Do apps report back how often notifications are turned off?
       | 
       | I'm wondering if the people who are spamming notification have
       | any insight into the damage they're causing -- and if they did,
       | if that would incentive better behavior.
        
       | hackernewds wrote:
       | One solution here is using an app like Daywise, that batches and
       | delivers your notifications. Some are useful but doesn't need in
       | the moment attention. Has massively reduced my screen time.
        
       | hellisothers wrote:
       | Technically Apple says if you want to send promotional
       | notifications you have to ask for that permission explicitly and
       | offer the user a way to turn just those notification types
       | on/off. Maybe complain FWIW
       | https://developer.apple.com/design/human-interface-guideline...
        
         | meatmanek wrote:
         | I'm a little surprised iOS doesn't have a way to report a
         | notification as spam.
        
       | ajkjk wrote:
       | I always relish in uninstalling apps when this happens but I hope
       | they have stats somewhere that show: "oh, we sent this annoying
       | marketing notification and an uninstall happens", and I hope some
       | analyst is finding that pattern in their data and telling people
       | about it. But I have to assume the answer is, 'probably not',
       | given that nothing seems to change.
        
         | fmajid wrote:
         | Apple's push notification API would actually return a status
         | code to the app if the app was uninstalled (that required opt-
         | in from the user, though). They no longer do it, I believe.
        
         | pndy wrote:
         | Well, you can always leave a review of an app if it does pukes
         | such marketing notification, after you uninstall
         | 
         | I tend to sort apps reviews by _worst_ and look what people don
         | 't like about - that gives more information than mindless
         | praising and chaffy purchased reviews.
        
         | b3morales wrote:
         | There's no uninstall event on iOS, and I believe the same is
         | true of Android, so they won't see it directly. Disabling
         | notifications is more likely to be noticed.
        
         | aendruk wrote:
         | When this happens I also make a point of leaving an appropriate
         | review, not only as a more reliable method of closing the
         | feedback loop but to provide a warning to other potential
         | victims.
        
         | yjftsjthsd-h wrote:
         | You could always leave a nice honest review on the app store;
         | that lets you be explicit and provides a clear signal.
        
       | brk wrote:
       | My general mindset is that I survived just fine before apps and
       | notifications were a thing. If they provide truly useful
       | information, I'll use them. If they become spammy or start trying
       | to prod me to drive more engagement I'll disable, or delete,
       | whatever is enabling that. If that means I delete the app, and
       | possibly stop using the service altogether, so be it, I'm doing
       | just fine.
        
         | karamanolev wrote:
         | Many people here express that kind of sentiment and I find it
         | either irrationally rebellious or just false. We all survived
         | just fine before smartphones, internet, electricity and so on.
         | Does it mean we can just delete and cancel big stuff over small
         | annoyances? We'll end up deleting most of our lives. I don't
         | find marketing notifications somehow more egregious than the
         | million other anti-consumer behaviors companies show. It's a
         | much better approach to fight those in a more targeted fashion,
         | while still using the services and products we like or need.
         | 
         | Please keep in mind that need is almost never "I will not
         | survive (I will die) without it", but rather "My life is so
         | much better with it, that a substantial investment in
         | time/money/energy/suffering of annoyances is worth it".
        
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