[HN Gopher] Cats learn the names of their friend cats in their d...
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       Cats learn the names of their friend cats in their daily lives
        
       Author : michaelwm
       Score  : 297 points
       Date   : 2022-05-16 12:35 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | aasasd wrote:
       | Okay, but:
       | 
       | > _The other 19 were household cats (mean number living together:
       | 6.37)_
       | 
       | This means the number of cats, right? Since it's contrasted to
       | the cafe cats. So these are basically three families with six or
       | seven cats each. The question being: how was it easier to find
       | three such families than a bunch of families with three cats?
       | What kind of place is that? I mean, sure it's Japan but still.
        
       | nerdjon wrote:
       | I am both surprised and not surprised by this.
       | 
       | It does kinda make sense, I have 2 cats (from the same litter and
       | have been together their entire lives. 14 yo now). They each
       | clearly respond to their name and not their brothers name. Or at
       | least respond differently, but I have noticed they look up
       | sometimes if I call one and not the other (but won't run up to
       | me). I have long though it was them responding to the "pet voice"
       | that we all seem to use. But if this was the case that explains
       | it better.
        
         | phkahler wrote:
         | My can knows the names of all family members and can sometimes
         | respond appropriately to "where's mom, go find mom". This is of
         | course only if she wants something and came to me for it.
        
           | nerdjon wrote:
           | I have definitely noticed that. The cat I had growing up we
           | had a close bond. He stayed with my parents though when I
           | moved out. Any time I was coming to visit my parents would
           | mention my name and he would perk up. I don't think it is
           | tied to anything I gave him because I wasn't really taking
           | care of him, I was rarely the one that fed him. He just slept
           | on my bed and we spent a lot of time together.
           | 
           | So there has to be some understanding there of... something.
           | I am curious what they internalize it as.
           | 
           | On the flip side I have to wonder. I live alone. My cats have
           | very rarely actually heard my name. I would be very surprised
           | if they had any concept of what my name was. But if they
           | don't, do they think something different. It is interesting.
        
             | baersandbowlszs wrote:
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | I wonder if they pick it up by what draws your attention -
             | so they may assume your name is _texting sound_ or _phone
             | ring_ if that 's all they ever see you react directly to.
        
               | nerdjon wrote:
               | huh I didn't think about that. I think we can fairly
               | safely assume that them knowing their name is not an
               | understanding of language and is just a recognition of a
               | sound. At least based on any research that has been able
               | to be done.
               | 
               | So that would make sense in a way. And does lead to
               | some... funny thoughts on what they may think my name is.
        
               | fy20 wrote:
               | Isn't that all names are anyway? Of course some people
               | have names that mean other things, like say River, but
               | you don't need to understand any language to know your
               | name.
        
               | nerdjon wrote:
               | True, I think more. As a human even if I hear a name in
               | another language I still fundamentally understand that it
               | is language.
               | 
               | Where I have to wonder if for a cat, I could train them
               | to have a sound I play on their phone to be their name
               | for all they care (kinda going back to them possibly
               | thinking a ringtone could be my name). It's still just a
               | sound that they are responding to not a word.
               | 
               | Maybe like you said though, the difference doesn't
               | matter. Maybe even as humans while we understand that a
               | name is language it is still something else entirely? I
               | don't know, that is a realm of cognitive study I know
               | nothing about. But it is fascinating.
        
               | Archelaos wrote:
               | > As a human even if I hear a name in another language I
               | still fundamentally understand that it is language.
               | 
               | Reminds me of the classic Hugh Laurie and Stephen Fry
               | sketch "Your name, sir?":
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hNoS2BU6bbQ
        
         | personlurking wrote:
         | The other day on Reddit [1] there was a video of farm animals
         | reacting to their names, but I think it's just responding to
         | the "pet voice", or rather to their food provider vocalizing in
         | their direction.
         | 
         | 1 -
         | https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/uq5yjo/animal...
        
           | kaba0 wrote:
           | I think this is true for some of the pets (e.g. many birds
           | are quite dumb), but pigs are one of the most intelligent
           | mammals, and cows are not dumb either.
        
       | lobocinza wrote:
       | There's a sound to which my two cats always promptly respond, the
       | sound of me putting food on their bowls. And it doesn't matter
       | how far they are, they hear and come in a hurry.
        
       | anotherevan wrote:
       | Small digression, but we recently got a dog. Acclimation with our
       | two cats has been a long process. One cat is fine with him, the
       | other spends most of his time in our daughter's room (which has a
       | child-gate on the door to keep the dog out).
       | 
       | The speed at which the dog figured out the cats names was
       | incredible. You say the friendly cat's name and he would look up
       | with mild interest. When he's fast asleep you could say the shy
       | cat's name and he would bounce up going, "Where? Where? Where?"
        
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       | jonahbenton wrote:
       | Would be interested in studies- in cats and others- that attempt
       | to differentiate the processing that occurs in response to human
       | utterance, as "words" as we understand them are an abstraction
       | that elide many subtle aspects of communication. Pitch, tone,
       | vocalization duration and speed, mouth position, etc. So many
       | signals there, some of which may be relevant for cats, some not.
       | 
       | Am sure cats are able to distinguish bird types by their voices,
       | and other prey as well, to a much more sophisticated degree than
       | we (our ears) can. Calling those vocalizations "words" almost
       | certainly wrong.
        
       | sunjester wrote:
       | Are learning sounds the same as learning specific names?
        
       | cmrdporcupine wrote:
       | Cats have friend cats? I'm surprised. This seems like the
       | exception rather than the rule. Seems to me like most cats prefer
       | a life without other cats around... with human caretakers and all
       | the comforts they provide... kept all to themselves.
       | 
       | In my almost-50 years I think I've only met "cats with cat
       | friends" a handful of times. Even when we had a pair of sibling
       | cats that "liked" each other, when one of them died the other
       | actually seemed "happier" after, which is kind of sad and dark.
        
         | cm2012 wrote:
         | Here's a picture of all our cats snuggling, 6/7 are best buds
         | with one loner. And the longer still follows around the other
         | cats just doesn't do the puppy pile thing.
         | 
         | https://ibb.co/c2TgWSK
         | 
         | https://ibb.co/pfnYjSW
         | 
         | https://ibb.co/9W5jCVh
         | 
         | https://ibb.co/gJbKTkC
        
         | lukas099 wrote:
         | Cats are weird. My mom's cat fights will all the neighbor cats
         | except one, whom she just started hanging out with one day. I
         | suppose it's possible they are long-lost siblings or something.
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | I mean, I'm being downvoted, whatever, but this is what I
           | mean. Their social model is entirely different than ours. Or
           | dogs. There are other cats they learn to tolerate, or even
           | cooperate with. But it's not clear that it's "friendly?"
           | 
           | I know such friend relationships can exist with them, I just
           | rarely have seen it.
        
             | lovehashbrowns wrote:
             | A lot of people get one cat and they get used to being
             | alone. People who get more than one cat generally get them
             | from the same litter.
             | 
             | But cats are social animals and will absolutely bond with
             | each other. Even cats not from the same litter will bond
             | with other cats. Usually it takes a careful and patient
             | introduction, which people don't realize. All they'll do is
             | put the two cats in the same room, observe them fight, and
             | come to the conclusion that their cat just wants to be
             | alone. But that probably isn't the case at all.
        
             | Sharlin wrote:
             | Like many other animal (including human) behaviors, cats
             | bond the easiest when young. Littermates, obviously, but
             | unrelated cats as well. Second easiest is to bond an adult
             | cat with a kitten. Introducing two adult cats to each
             | other? It can take time and skill (doing it gradually is
             | the key!), and depending on their individual personalities,
             | they _may_ become best friends, or only scarcely learn to
             | tolerate each other.
        
         | devmor wrote:
         | In nature, cats form colonies where they take communal care of
         | the young, old and infirm. One of the core behaviors of cats is
         | hunting and providing for colony members who are too weak to do
         | so.
         | 
         | Cats being "solitary" animals is largely a misunderstanding of
         | cat behavior towards humans due to cat affection being
         | expressed differently than dog affection.
        
           | nerdjon wrote:
           | I have had cats nearly my entire life. I love dogs but I am a
           | cat person. All of the cats in my life have been loving
           | social pets.
           | 
           | I hate when the idea that cats can't bond, isn't loving, all
           | of the stereotypes of cats are thrown around. Because they
           | are just wrong.
           | 
           | I do think a fair amount of it is not knowing how to properly
           | socialize a kitten. But even a socialized cat will never be
           | as affectionate as a dog. Or at least not the way a dog shows
           | it.
           | 
           | But I have 2 cats, they will sometimes sleep in different
           | rooms and sometimes cuddle up basically on top of each other.
           | They almost every night will sleep in my bed or at the very
           | least will sleep on the cat tree next to me.
           | 
           | I have noticed that when I have had to take one of my cats
           | for an extended stay at the vet the other is noticeably...
           | different. I don't want to assign an emotion since their
           | emotions are different. But he is not himself. This often
           | starts when I put one cat in a carrier.
           | 
           | They seem to know when I am in a mood and really need that
           | affection.
           | 
           | But I also acknowledge that a cat isn't for everyone. Some
           | people need that constant unquestionable affection that a dog
           | gives you. Cats are more subtle.
        
             | cmrdporcupine wrote:
             | The thing is, I like both dogs and cats and I really like
             | our cat. But I've only ever had failures in situations
             | where I tried to introduce additional cats into a solitary
             | cat situation. Which is sad, because I'd actually kind of
             | like to have a second cat here. The only time we had any
             | luck with two cats was when there were two from the same
             | litter.
             | 
             | I know some people accomplish this, but it honestly seems
             | like the exception rather than the rule.
             | 
             | (EDIT: I should mention that our cat came from a shelter
             | where she lived with a pile of other kittens. But her
             | response to other cats now is... GTFO here)
        
               | X0Refraction wrote:
               | It takes a long time to introduce a new cat, we have 3
               | indoor cats all introduced one at a time. It took around
               | a month for both the second and third cat to be
               | completely accepted.
               | 
               | The approach we took was to keep the new cat in a
               | separate room for the first few days to allow them to
               | begin to get used to the new scent. We would then swap
               | blankets to give them further time to get used to each
               | other's scents. Then we'd open the door and allow them to
               | interact under supervision for short periods and then we
               | gradually increased the time they could interact each
               | day.
               | 
               | I'm not sure this would work if you had outdoor cats. We
               | didn't actually intend to get the third cat, but we ended
               | up taking him in as our friend's original cat refused to
               | acclimate to the point that he was spending all but 20
               | mins a day outside of the house and so they needed a good
               | home for their new cat.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > But I've only ever had failures in situations where I
               | tried to introduce additional cats into a solitary cat
               | situation.
               | 
               | Cat colonies, as I understand, tend to follow the the
               | eighth rule of Fight Club, which can make introductions
               | seem unsuccessful even when they may not be.
        
           | technothrasher wrote:
           | > In nature, cats form colonies where they take communal care
           | of the young, old and infirm.
           | 
           | Yup. I spent several years working with feral cat colonies
           | throughout central Massachusetts in a TNR program, and they
           | are quite similar in their social structure to lions, less
           | like other more solitary cat species. The colonies at their
           | core tend to be groups of related females, with adult males
           | roaming between a few different groups of females. Neutered
           | males tend to act more like females and stay with a
           | particular colony. Given the artificial food supply the
           | "crazy cat ladies" provide, you will see colonies of
           | unrelated individuals, but if there are multiple food sources
           | readily available the colonies will tend to fracture by
           | maternal line.
        
           | goodpoint wrote:
           | Many species are more social and cooperative that people
           | think.
           | 
           | I wonder if seeing nature as more ferocious, competitive and
           | individualistic that it really is comes from psychological
           | projection.
        
             | nonstickcoating wrote:
             | I recommend Kropotkin's book about Mutual Aid regarding
             | this topic. Disregarding his obvious political affiliation
             | he is one of the first critics of the then-emerging social-
             | darwinist readings of animal behaviour with regards to
             | Evolution and therefore deals with this topic quite
             | extensively.
             | 
             | He was a zoologist apart from all the other topics he had
             | time to deal in because of his noble heritage. Here is the
             | wikipedia article [0] since I do not know how HN regards
             | links to e.g. libgen.
             | 
             | [0] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Kropotkin
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | _" hunting and providing for colony members who are too weak
           | to do so."_
           | 
           | Is that why my cat dropped a dead vole on our doorstep last
           | week? Is she sad that we're deprived of such essentials? :-)
        
             | jdougan wrote:
             | "You poor incompetent kitten."
        
           | bmj wrote:
           | It's been interesting to see local shelters realize this, and
           | create colony rooms for cats that have been properly
           | socialized. It keeps the cats out of smaller cages, and
           | likely simplifies the care and feeding of the cats in the
           | colony.
           | 
           | It's also a great way to pick a few cats to bring home. My
           | local shelter will just let you into the room, and you can
           | hang out and decide which ones (and how many) you'll bring
           | home.
        
             | devmor wrote:
             | My local area also has several outdoor colonies that are
             | managed (Neutered, health checkups, etc) because they
             | realized that leaving fixed feral cats in place and taking
             | care of them prevents other feral cats from taking their
             | place and breeding further.
        
             | cmrdporcupine wrote:
             | This is how we "chose" our cat. My wife and daughter sat
             | down in the room of kittens and picked the one that came
             | over and started snuggling and playing. It chose us.
             | 
             | She's such a mellow "no f's given" cat. Lives in a house
             | with two border collies and doesn't take any crap from them
             | and lies around totally chill all day long. I suspect this
             | might be due to her socialization at the animal shelter.
        
           | gquiniou wrote:
           | feral cats tend to form colonies but wild cats are solitary,
           | like the european wildcat:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/European_wildcat
        
             | amyjess wrote:
             | Housecats are descended from the African wildcat, not the
             | European one. The African wildcat forms colonies just like
             | housecats.
             | 
             | Much of the myth that cats are naturally solitary creatures
             | comes from people studying the behaviors of the European
             | wildcat and attributing them to housecats, which is wrong
             | because that's not what housecats are descended from.
        
         | jart wrote:
         | I guess it depends on the cat. Mine is like that. She was a
         | stray. I found her in my backyard one day. I took her in. I
         | groomed her. I enriched her with toys, food, love, and all the
         | luxuries a modern cat could want. So naturally she goes on the
         | prowl each night marking territory making sure none of the
         | other stray cats in the neighborhood get adopted too.
        
       | Melatonic wrote:
       | Unfortunately my cat thinks his name is "Cat" which leads to some
       | obvious confusion :-D
        
       | pmarreck wrote:
       | With cats you have to learn nonverbal communication.
       | 
       | The slow blink while looking into their eyes means "it's cool,
       | we're cool"
       | 
       | I taught our cats to recognize a double-tap on the butt as "get
       | up, I gotta get up"
       | 
       | gotta read their body language... and yeah, sometimes it DOES say
       | "I'm not currently interested, no offense"... but the thing to
       | know is, they also read YOUR body language. They might not
       | understand too many words, but intonation matters, posture
       | matters, movement matters
       | 
       | random cat trivia: They can't taste sweet tastes at all because a
       | crucial gene for it got knocked out by a mutation a long time ago
        
       | 4oo4 wrote:
       | I can definitely attest to this, I have two brother cats, and
       | usually calling one of their names gets the other's attention to,
       | as if to say "oh I see how it is, you invite him and not me".
       | 
       | I'm also really happy this is empirically validated, its's so
       | easy to notice things like this and wonder if you're crazy.
        
       | Flankk wrote:
       | Scent is the primary sensory input of a cat, not sight. They
       | would be sniffing the screen and the experimenter's hands. I
       | think this is the main reason cats fail the mirror test, not due
       | to lack of intelligence. Cats eyes evolved for optimal visibility
       | in the dark. To a cat, a backlit screen probably looks like sun
       | baby.
        
         | News-Dog wrote:
         | _> Scent is the primary sensory input of a cat, not sight._
         | 
         | Cat Senses : https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cat_senses
        
       | zdw wrote:
       | I wonder if this is the first time a cat cafe has meaningfully
       | contributed to scientific discourse.
        
         | CaptArmchair wrote:
         | I'll one up you one. F.D.C Willard was an accomplished
         | published physicist.
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/F._D._C._Willard
        
       | BayAreaEscapee wrote:
       | Apropos Far Side cartoon comparing what cats hear versus what
       | dogs hear.
       | 
       | https://i.pinimg.com/originals/6d/36/fa/6d36fa7cc9d762952a62...
        
       | sparsely wrote:
       | Scanning the paper the effect seems surprisingly weak (and has
       | p=0.045!) and weirdly dependent on family size (it looks as
       | thought he difference only exists in larger families). While the
       | results seem believable I'm not convinced by the results as
       | presented.
        
       | fleddr wrote:
       | Our cat responds to Enya.
       | 
       | When I'm working from my desk at home, she often crash lands in
       | my lap and then rolls over, all four paws fully stretched as the
       | ultimate invitation for a belly rub. This blocks my arms from
       | doing work, but she doesn't care.
       | 
       | Next, I turn on Enya, the exact same playlist every single time.
       | The moment the music starts she starts cycling her front paws
       | with her eyes closed, as if riding an invisible bicycle upside
       | down.
       | 
       | I need to fully enclose her with both arms to not drop her and I
       | love the arrogance in making that my problem, not hers.
       | 
       | I don't know why it's Enya. It could be that it was playing the
       | first time this happened, creating a positive memory association.
       | Or maybe she just likes the sounds. In any case, no paw cycling
       | without Enya. When I pause the song she immediately stops, opens
       | her eyes and stares at me in digust, which is cat for: put it
       | back on, idiot.
        
       | idk1 wrote:
       | I have two cats, one is quite clever and responds to her name,
       | dinner, hop up (for it's ok if you want to sit on my lap) and a
       | few other things. I can ask her to get one of her toys too if she
       | wants the play. She also very rarely meows.
       | 
       | The other cat is not so bright, if you ever say anything to him
       | directly he'll only meow back and come over for a pat, that's it.
       | It's just a back and forth screaming match if you talk to him.
       | The chopsyest cat I've ever met. Just shouts at everyone and
       | everything without purpose.
       | 
       | I think what I'm trying to say is, cats have a range of
       | intelligence and some of them are quite good at learning names.
        
         | zebraflask wrote:
         | Some are smarter than others, but I think, in terms of animal
         | behavior or ecology, cats are basically carnivorous rabbits.
         | 
         | That's not to say anyone who has had a trainable cat doesn't
         | like them - mine have their moments - but I think it's
         | worthwhile to consider that.
        
           | msrenee wrote:
           | In what way do you see a similarity to rabbits? I think of
           | them as being pretty different, with cats being less social
           | and more likely to take risks.
        
           | platz wrote:
           | rabbits are just prey animals and that shows in their
           | behavior and attitude, whereas cats do a lot of predation
           | themselves.
        
             | widforss wrote:
             | Some rabbits (or rather hares) are pretty hardcore.
             | 
             | https://www.reddit.com/r/Backcountry/comments/ul61y6/snow_r
             | a...
        
             | Sharlin wrote:
             | However, cats are far from the top of the food chain
             | themselves, which is reflected in a lot of their behaviors.
        
               | jimmaswell wrote:
               | House cats and big cats don't behave very differently.
               | 
               | https://lithub.com/house-cats-and-wild-cats-arent-
               | actually-t...
        
               | Sharlin wrote:
               | Uh, that article is not about house cats vs big cats. The
               | still-extant ancestral species of the domestic cat, _F.
               | lybica_ , is a small wildcat, as were its ancestors, and
               | as such a predator but not an apex predator. _Big_ cats,
               | which typically _are_ apex predators in their respective
               | ecosystems, are a wholly separate branch of the felid
               | family.
        
         | bawolff wrote:
         | > The other cat is not so bright, if you ever say anything to
         | him directly he'll only meow back and come over for a pat,
         | that's it. It's just a back and forth screaming match if you
         | talk to him.
         | 
         | More pats for less work? Sounds like the smarter one to me.
        
           | hanniabu wrote:
           | Yup, one wants to play and the other wants pets
        
         | cm2012 wrote:
         | I have 7 cats now and have had had 15 cats in my life. My whole
         | extended family has always had lots of cats.
         | 
         | Two things stick out at me:
         | 
         | 1) Cats really do respond to being talked to and interacted
         | with. Cats that are talked to often get more responsive and
         | communicative.
         | 
         | 2) There is huge genetic IQ gaps, lol. Some cats are so smart
         | they blow your mind, others are mouth breathers. The normal
         | distribution is real.
        
           | neuronic wrote:
           | Not just IQ, they have full blown personalities that you
           | could probably write Shakespeare dramas about.
        
             | hunterb123 wrote:
             | I believe those go hand in hand. The smarter the animal
             | usually the more personality they have.
        
             | otikik wrote:
             | Or Brodaway Musicals.
        
           | hunterb123 wrote:
           | This. Not limited to cats either. I've noticed the same in
           | dogs and even some cows.
           | 
           | Same rules apply to humans as well. Interaction early on
           | develops personality and intelligence varies genetically by a
           | wide margin.
        
             | ensan wrote:
             | Intelligence is not well-defined even for humans, and we
             | have little understanding of what goes on in an animal's
             | "mind", yet people like you use terms like IQ for cats like
             | they're established facts. For all we know, it could be
             | that some animals/cats just don't "care" as much about
             | interacting with humans. Just like some humans do.
        
               | hunterb123 wrote:
               | I just meant general intelligence over all varies among
               | animals. I'm not stating facts, I'm stating my
               | observations.
               | 
               | Personally, it's pretty easy over time to tell the
               | difference between apathy and intelligence when you spend
               | a lot of time observing interactions.
               | 
               | "People like you" should check your tone btw.
        
           | ensan wrote:
           | "There is huge genetic IQ gaps, lol. Some cats are so smart
           | they blow your mind, others are mouth breathers. The normal
           | distribution is real."
           | 
           | I'm very curious about how well someone with a "lot of
           | experience in digital advertising" is positioned to define
           | "genetic IQ gaps", "smart", etc. as it applies to cats &
           | others. Perhaps instead of throwing these terms around like
           | they're candy, you should submit your findings to an
           | scientific journal (and get rejected :) ).
        
             | jeremyjh wrote:
             | This might be the worst post I've ever seen on HN.
        
             | hunterb123 wrote:
             | You seem to be really offended by this statement, you even
             | went to his profile to find something to attack him?
             | 
             | GP isn't trying to write a paper, he's stating an
             | observation based on his experience with the animals he's
             | had.
             | 
             | Feel free to dispute the above statements with research or
             | anecdotes, but solely insulting people and getting angry
             | just reflects poorly on you.
             | 
             | I can only assume you are one of those stupid cats seeing
             | how you handled yourself in this thread :)
        
       | rvieira wrote:
       | Totally anecdotal evidence, but I have two cats and I give them
       | "wet" food once a day. If one of them is far from the food bowls
       | I say his name and he immediately comes running. If none is near
       | me, both come running as soon as I call the first name (from
       | different parts of the house). So, non-scientific, but I always
       | assumed they could recognise each other's name.
        
       | canjobear wrote:
       | The effect size is about what I'd expect from an experiment
       | involving cats and attention.
        
       | salgernon wrote:
       | There is a phone app, I think it was called "MeowTalk" that
       | purported to machine learn cats vocalizations.
       | 
       | With two of our younger (4yo sibling tabby) cats it seemed to
       | "translate" their infrequent meows as "I love you" "I want to
       | play", so kind of, yea, probably, not impressive.
       | 
       | But for our third cat, (an elderly female cross somewhere between
       | Maine coon, silver tabby and sofa, a 22 pound ball of complaints)
       | the app suggestions were often along the lines of "I don't feel
       | well", "I'm in pain". She does have arthritis (and is under vet
       | care) so that response from the app was seemingly reasonable.
        
       | herodotus wrote:
       | I have tried to train my two cats with just these words:
       | 
       | 1. "Let's go" - morning meal
       | 
       | 2. "Upstairs" - I am going to bed
       | 
       | 3. "Dinner" (plus clink bowls together) - evening meal
       | 
       | 4. "Lie Down"
       | 
       | and their names.
       | 
       | Emerald, who prefers being upstairs, definitely responds to
       | "Upstairs": she charges upstairs when I say it. Jade remains
       | enigmatic and skeptical: that seems to be her nature. But if she
       | is in the mood for a tummy rub, she will respond to "Lie Down".
       | 
       | For me, the great charm of cats is that it is impossible to tell
       | the difference between "No, I don't understand you." and "I
       | understand you perfectly well, but I plan to ignore you
       | completely until I feel like responding".
        
         | crmd wrote:
         | >the great charm of cats is that it is impossible to tell the
         | difference between "No, I don't understand you." and "I
         | understand you perfectly well, but I plan to ignore you
         | completely until I feel like responding"
         | 
         | It's totally the same thing with retired racer greyhounds.
         | Gentle, stoic, sleep 20 hours a day, and literally zero
         | eagerness to please. They're the most catlike of dog breeds.
        
         | Crosseye_Jack wrote:
         | > Jade remains enigmatic and skeptical: that seems to be her
         | nature.
         | 
         | Its been shown in the past (not got the links to hand, and cba
         | to google right now, but I'm sure they wont be hard to find)
         | that cats know their name, its just often they don't give a
         | shit when you call them. Which pretty much any cat servant will
         | understand. Wouldn't be surprised that also applies to other
         | words/commands.
         | 
         | EDIT: My own cat knows her name, but will ignore me unless she
         | wants attension, sleep or bird watching is far too important to
         | go and see what I want.
         | 
         | EDIT2: Fucking Typos!!!
        
           | godelski wrote:
           | That's weird, my cat will come no matter what name I call her
           | as long as I use the same intonations. I'm not convinced she
           | knows her name but rather that she knows pitches. Similarly
           | my cat won't do tricks without the hand gestures despite me
           | always using the same commands. Maybe my cat is just dumb or
           | stubborn, or both. I have seen her run head first into a wall
           | before.
        
             | dasil003 wrote:
             | The last part reminded me of this:
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0H25ve3qts4
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | I forgot about that video, made me laugh. Thanks. But
               | also, pretty accurate description. Maybe that's why she
               | doesn't play chase as much anymore.
        
             | forgetfulness wrote:
             | My cat ignores made up names every time (barely
             | acknowledging that I'm speaking to him by turning his ear
             | around), and will, probably 2/3s of the time, come when
             | called.
             | 
             | The others he just ignores me.
        
           | sandgiant wrote:
           | Sounds just like my 2yo homo sapiens.
        
           | TheOtherHobbes wrote:
           | Cats destroy the assumption that animals should do what we
           | tell them to, because that's how it works.
           | 
           | Of course they have agency and their own goals. It's
           | fascinating that humans are surprised and sometimes baffled
           | by this.
        
             | manachar wrote:
             | Humans are regularly surprised to discover that the
             | preponderance of evidence strongly suggests the universe
             | was not created exclusively for themselves.
        
               | BitwiseFool wrote:
               | Is solipsism wrong, or is it just me?
        
         | happimess wrote:
         | My cat and I have one firm English phrase: "3...2...1". I say
         | that whenever I want him to make up his mind, and at the end I
         | always close the door, pull the sweater from under him, or
         | whatever. He definitely knows what it means, and knows I mean
         | it.
         | 
         | > between "No, I don't understand you." and "I understand you
         | perfectly well, but [nothing in my nature compels me to care]".
         | 
         | This is where he and I are for lots of other stuff, and I also
         | love him for it.
        
           | thekid314 wrote:
           | That is brilliant
        
         | poisonarena wrote:
         | I feel skeptical, I think cats and also most dog breeds
         | understand only pitches that sound excited, because that means
         | walk or tummy rub or food, but the actual said words could be
         | anything, every time
        
           | colechristensen wrote:
           | Tone is just as much a part of language and there's a good
           | chance when teaching language you ended up teaching the tone
           | pattern better than the phonemes. It'sa much better pattern
           | March until you have a large vocabulary.
        
         | dghughes wrote:
         | Cats are incredibly good at knowing the time if it's the same
         | time they probably already know and are thinking "Whatever food
         | giver make those thumbs dance".
         | 
         | Mine gets treats at 9pm and she knows almost exactly when it's
         | 9pm maybe a 1 minute deviation. This is without an external
         | cues. She sits there waiting for me if I forget.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | toss1 wrote:
         | Long and close observation of cats leads me to the inescapable
         | conclusion that the latter is almost always the case. The
         | number of times they understand some obscure thing _exactly_
         | when I have no expectation that they 'll get it at all, and
         | their ability to selectively ignore the things I know they
         | already understand, plus their ability to ask for complex
         | things (where often I'm the dummy in the conversation) makes it
         | a pretty inescapable conclusion. . .
        
           | nescioquid wrote:
           | > ...their ability to ask for complex things (where often I'm
           | the dummy in the conversation)...
           | 
           | I love the way you put that.
           | 
           | Whenever my office door opens and the cat walks in, she's
           | either there for a visit or to collect me, in which case she
           | waits by the door to lead me to her dish, her toys, or
           | whatever she has in mind. Beyond communicating with humans,
           | cats are pretty good at training them, too.
        
           | vmception wrote:
           | A lot of times they respond or acknowledge as well, just not
           | with their eyes
           | 
           | They wont look at you because its not their primary way of
           | "seeing" or spatializing the world or their etiquette
           | 
           | Their ears might briefly move in your direction, their tail
           | might flick in one of their frustrating ways, they might not
           | move a muscle (which is a conscious response for them as
           | well)
        
             | nisegami wrote:
             | We thought that our cat didn't respond to her name until we
             | noticed she always flicked her tail when we said it. It
             | really blew my mind.
        
               | leeoniya wrote:
               | yep, my previous cat responded with his tail every time.
               | we let him roam outside every day and he would always
               | come home when we whistled or called his name. also
               | walked with us like a dog off a leash.
               | 
               | our current cats are less responsive, maybe cause there's
               | two of them, so they have more cat-like comm.
        
               | lkxijlewlf wrote:
               | The tell tail cat.
        
           | TheBigSalad wrote:
           | tbf I ignore my cats too.
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | > For me, the great charm of cats is that it is impossible to
         | tell the difference between "No, I don't understand you." and
         | "I understand you perfectly well, but I plan to ignore you
         | completely until I feel like responding".
         | 
         | Incidentally, this is why I dislike cats so much and prefer
         | dogs :)
        
           | spicybright wrote:
           | There's a very funny gag in the credits of the movie Inside
           | Out by pixar about cats vs dogs.
           | 
           | https://youtu.be/6DZVnX8bEAs?t=68
           | 
           | (If you've never seen the movie, it's worth a watch!)
        
           | carimura wrote:
           | just don't get a Pyrenees. maybe this whole time he's just
           | been a huge cat.
        
             | gattilorenz wrote:
             | My dachshund is the same. Affectionate as a dog, stubborn
             | as a cat
        
             | zdragnar wrote:
             | I was going to comment that my dog frequently pretends to
             | not understand me, but he's part Pyrenees... I hadn't
             | realized that was a trait of the breed!
        
         | oogetyboogety wrote:
         | Hmm my dog acts like a cat or i suck since i definitely cant
         | tell between "No, I don't understand you." and "I understand
         | you perfectly well, but I plan to ignore you completely until I
         | feel like responding".
        
         | treeman79 wrote:
         | Mine has trained the family that when he is hungry he starts
         | slamming covered doors opening closed repeatedly.
         | 
         | Started off that we kept food in there. So of course he would
         | try and get in. This lead to him being fed when was trying to
         | get in. So now it's a signal.
         | 
         | We have been well trained
        
           | richrichardsson wrote:
           | A bit O/T, but presumably you meant "cupboard" doors. What
           | I'm curious about is was this just a stretch of an
           | autocorrect, or if English is a second language, as I could
           | see that it might be a plausible approximation of cupboard if
           | you'd only ever heard the word. I find this kind of thing
           | fascinating, as when I'm trying to learn another language
           | it's all too easy to hear something and switch it to another
           | word that's close enough phonetically.
        
             | treeman79 wrote:
             | I had a series of strokes. I mix up words a lot since.
             | Cupboard is correct.
        
           | UncleOxidant wrote:
           | One of ours jumps up on top of our printer and reaches up on
           | the wall and starts pawing at a poster when he's hungry.
        
             | ratww wrote:
             | What's on the poster?
        
               | UncleOxidant wrote:
               | A waterfall. I think he's basically just saying "Nice
               | poster you've got there, be a shame if something happened
               | to it"
        
         | daenz wrote:
         | I use "Let's go" for "it's time to leave this room", and the
         | effect is that they flop on the ground, unwilling to move
         | further. If that had been my intent, it would be a decent
         | trick!
        
           | TheOtherHobbes wrote:
           | I believe that's cat for "No."
        
         | cookiengineer wrote:
         | We trained our cat from a very young age, and used it as a
         | routine for getting treats or food.
         | 
         | The cat is able to do the following:
         | 
         | - sit
         | 
         | - spin (rotate in a circle)
         | 
         | - "up up" to stand on their feet, tapping my finger with the
         | paws
         | 
         | - "high five" and "low five"
         | 
         | - "platz" to lay down on all fours
         | 
         | - "come on" to follow around
         | 
         | - "nom nom" to signal whether or not it wants food. You can see
         | the eyes getting big immediately when it's very hungry.
         | 
         | - whistling to come to a specific spot
         | 
         | - double tap on a surface to signal to come to a specific spot
         | 
         | There's a theory that cats that don't scream but make the
         | "urrr"ing sounds don't treat their owners like a kitten but as
         | a mutually respected individual. And most people think that
         | cats try to make the "urrr" sounds to communicate with humans.
         | 
         | These sounds vary in pitch and repetition and length and it's
         | very easy to identify what our cat wants from us:
         | 
         | - when it doesn't like something
         | 
         | - when it wants to play hide and seek
         | 
         | - when it wants to go outside
         | 
         | - when it wants us to help it get to a specific spot (e.g.
         | opening the door or making a fort on the bed so it can hide
         | under the sheets).
         | 
         | - when it wants to cuddle
         | 
         | - when it wants to be hold in the arms so it can see what we're
         | doing (on the kitchen counter, where it isn't allowed to jump
         | on)
         | 
         | - and, of course, when it is hungry, that's the high pitch
         | scream most cats do.
         | 
         | What I also wanted to add is that our cat has different moods
         | of cooperating with the tricks it has to do when getting food.
         | When it's only slightly hungry it tries to get away with
         | cuddling us or "pushing" the head to the hand while
         | purring...whereas when it's really really hungry it immediately
         | does the tricks to get it over with.
         | 
         | I guess that cats are intelligent enough for tricks but they
         | are also easily bored, that's why you have to change tricks to
         | keep their brains busy and healthy.
        
         | clairity wrote:
         | my cat totally knows her name but listens to most all of my
         | vocalizations for anything she may want. she comes or meows if
         | she hears something desireable (which, as she knows, her name
         | is correlated with but not perfectly), and ignores me or leaves
         | if she hears something undesireable (like "bath"). so it's not
         | just a dichotomy between misunderstanding and apathy, but more
         | a case of personal assessment and desire.
        
       | ericlavigne wrote:
       | With some assistance and teaching, cats and dogs are capable of
       | learning to speak in sentences. In 2018, a speech pathologist
       | named Christina Hunger, who used AAC devices to help special
       | needs children learn to talk, tried applying a similar approach
       | to her dog, Stella. It worked surprisingly well. Stella could
       | speak in four-word sentences with a vocabulary of around 15 words
       | by her first birthday, and was up to 49 words by her third
       | birthday. Since then, many other people have followed the same
       | process to teach their pets how to talk.
       | 
       | https://www.hungerforwords.com/
       | 
       | https://fluent.pet/
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8k2upr9vCE
        
       | zabzonk wrote:
       | Cats understand doors (particulary fridge doors (with food
       | inside), or doors where it will be nice and warm) and will often
       | paw them. And will go mental when you come back go mental when
       | you go out for a fish supper (this is in Scotland).
       | 
       | Otherwise, they just look at you as if you have the IQ of a
       | wombat.
        
       | rcarmo wrote:
       | "Analysis:
       | 
       | One cat completed only the first trial before escaping from the
       | room and climbing out of reach."
       | 
       | I quite enjoyed this bit.
        
         | zwieback wrote:
         | That and the fact that the statistics don't seem very crisp
         | says everything you need to know about cats.
         | 
         | Anecdotally I can confirm that my cats know each others names,
         | not sure if they would recognize on a monitor though.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | ogma wrote:
        
       | WalterBright wrote:
       | I found a book entitled "Electronics for Cats" stuffed under The
       | Cat's bed. Should I be concerned?
        
       | dghughes wrote:
       | My cat knows when I am talking "cat talk" to another cat. She
       | lifts her head up as if to let me know she knows what's going on.
       | I feed a wild cat I've called Dorian since he's grey, he's lost
       | an eye so I may rename him Doran. My cat may know the name but
       | she knows the tone of my voice for sure.
        
       | eimrine wrote:
       | What if I never call my cat by name but call it as ksksksksksks?
       | Friend cat ought to understand who is called but seems that is
       | more about my voice then about names.
        
         | purerandomness wrote:
         | "Names" are just our arbitrary label for "a voice, forming a
         | certain sound"
        
       | friendly_chap wrote:
       | My girlfriend and I recently separated. She took one cat, and one
       | stayed with me. During a discussion in her apartment she
       | mentioned the cat that stayed with me by name. Her cat
       | frantically started looking around the apartment to see if his
       | old buddy is there.
       | 
       | Such amazing creatures.
        
       | jjmorrison wrote:
       | I'm convinced my cat fully understands english, but is biding his
       | time to murder me and take over.
        
       | lngnmn2 wrote:
       | No. They just associate repeated sounds, without any semantic
       | whatsoever, just like bird songs.
       | 
       | Cats do not have the brain circuitry for semantic networks (based
       | on a language concepts) evolved yet. So called language areas are
       | required.
       | 
       | How this crap is even got through a peer review? Rithoric
       | question, I know.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | robbedpeter wrote:
         | https://youtu.be/uFhBd5mMkU8
         | 
         | This is one of note thousands of videos of cats and dogs using
         | buttons to talk.
         | 
         | Cats, and all mammals, have a neocortex. Theirs is not as
         | deeply layered or large as humans, but they most definitely
         | have the ability to reason abstractly, are aware of themselves,
         | think emotionally, and engage in complex, time aware planning
         | over long periods.
         | 
         | Your views are wrong. Language areas like Broca's region in the
         | human brain are a consequence of physical distribution relative
         | to the connectome and sensory endpoints. If you were to rewire
         | the millions of connections to the lips, tongue, mouth, ears,
         | and other body parts to be locations on the neocortex, broca's
         | region would be somewhere different. You have about 1 square
         | meter of neocortex responsible for all of your perception and
         | cognition, and almost all of it is uniform. Neurons aren't
         | differentiated by function, and animal experiments show that
         | plasticity allows for arbitrary rewiring.
         | 
         | The literature in the field shows that human cognition is
         | likely superior to other species in the depth of cortical
         | layering and size of the organ. It's likely the only reason
         | elephants and whales or other animals with larger brains can't
         | compete with humans is the mere absence of hands and vocal
         | organs. Our range of colors and audible senses are important
         | but lesser than many animals.
         | 
         | Give an orca hands and human speech and there's nothing we know
         | about neuroscience to imply that the animal wouldn't be smarter
         | and more capable than humans. There's a lot of evidence that
         | the killer whale would be more intelligent than humans in many
         | ways.
         | 
         | The cortical layering and columnar architecture of neuron
         | clusters differs between species, and seems to dictate the
         | cognitive depth of abstract reasoning. There may be different
         | algorithmic constructions in neural connections that favor
         | human level cognition.
         | 
         | In principle, however, human brains aren't terribly different
         | from many other large mammals, and elephants certainly display
         | complex, emotional, symbolic, and abstract reasoning well
         | within a range comparable to human experience.
         | 
         | Your notion of animal cognition is unscientific and biased
         | toward an assumption of human superiority that isn't grounded
         | in fact. Neuroscience is slowly and tirelessly matching toward
         | reverse engineering the brain. The more we learn, the more we
         | find similarity in the basic functions of mammal brains, from
         | mice to humans to blue whales.
        
           | ntoskrnl wrote:
           | I watched the video and I want to believe, but... I don't
           | know. I have cats, I know cats are intelligent, cats can be
           | trained to understand single words, etc. But I'm just not
           | convinced any cat can string together English sentences like
           | this. Also, the concept of time might be a bit abstract for a
           | cat who is always living in the present moment. And then
           | there's the most viewed video on that channel[1] where he
           | presses the "cuddle" button, and then... doesn't cuddle. He
           | seems like he knows pressing a button get a reaction, but he
           | doesn't know which button is which. Good morning human, time
           | to play with the disembodied voice buttons again.
           | 
           | Like I said though, I want to believe. Can you think of any
           | longer videos that might convince a skeptic?
           | 
           | [1]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pvgfI9P377U
        
             | a_shovel wrote:
             | This one [1] isn't very long, but I think it shows that the
             | cat (Billi) does associate the buttons with a meaning.
             | 
             | The owner is playing with Billi with a toy on a string,
             | then drops it on her back. She then quickly (within 10
             | seconds) presses "No", then "Back", to tell her owner to
             | get the toy off of her back. If she was just pressing
             | buttons to get a reaction, this would be no more likely
             | than "Morning" "Love you", or "Want" "Hello", or any other
             | arbitrary pair of buttons.
             | 
             | [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AYPFnDOPTQo
        
               | ntoskrnl wrote:
               | That is more compelling, but I'm still not convinced. Out
               | of all the videos I've watched it's the only one that
               | comes close. Smells like broken clock theory to me.
               | 
               | "No" is another higher-level abstract concept that I
               | wouldn't expect anyone to master before more basic
               | concepts. If the cat could say "ears, no" or "tummy, no"
               | with similar confidence, then I would be convinced it
               | understands combining the concept of "no" with another
               | word. And those seem easy to test too. Cats don't like
               | you messing with those areas.
        
           | goodpoint wrote:
           | Those videos are comically misleading.
           | 
           | The author acts as if cats can understand abstract concepts
           | and combining words into a SVO grammar. And with dozens of
           | words!
           | 
           | "later morning" "later play [with] dad" "love you mommy"
           | 
           | This is simply far outside the cognitive abilities of cats.
           | 
           | Edit: Confirmation bias is so strong that I get downvotes for
           | writing this.
        
             | vorpalhex wrote:
             | You're getting downvoted because you are making a strong
             | contrary claim with no evidence whatsoever. It's the
             | equivalent of two kids going:
             | 
             | "Yes it is!"
             | 
             | "No it's not!"
             | 
             | "Yeahuh it is!"
        
           | ordu wrote:
           | _> Give an orca hands and human speech and there 's nothing
           | we know about neuroscience to imply that the animal wouldn't
           | be smarter and more capable than humans._
           | 
           | Humans have one more difference from others: human cubs are
           | born helpless. They even do not know how to use their eyes.
           | They need to learn everything themselves. All the pre-wired
           | genetic firmware was destroyed by evolution. It is very
           | inconvenient for mothers of course, but on the other hand
           | this shift from hardware to software gives unprecedented
           | abilities to adapt to different environments. And probably it
           | gives a lot of experience of making sense of the mess of
           | input signal that can be useful later. And of course it is a
           | factor of a selection: if you cannot learn how to use your
           | eyes, then you are not Sapience enough to breed.
        
           | otikik wrote:
           | I think that video is terribly cute and the cat is adorable,
           | but I also remain unconvinced that a cat can understand,
           | "morning now, before night". That is too abstract. For
           | context, it took my (then) 4 year old human child many months
           | to understand "before" and "after". He would use them
           | indistinctly to mean "not now".
        
       | News-Dog wrote:
       | A friend of mine tooking in a cat that had been owned by a deaf
       | family.
       | 
       | This cat didn't make any noise (meow) at all, if she wanted to go
       | out, etc.,
       | 
       | she would run between you legs, (yes, totally under-foot!) a
       | major trip hazard.
       | 
       | I taught her how to vocalize very quickly, which she understood
       | we would hear, and would respond too.
        
         | bitwize wrote:
         | Grown cats don't meow to each other. It's a noise they make to
         | get our attention. Each cat must figure out, on their own, that
         | meowing works to get humans' attention.
         | 
         | A cat with deaf human parents would have never learned this, or
         | would have learned that meowing doesn't work and to try
         | something else.
        
           | arethuza wrote:
           | "works to get humans' attention"
           | 
           | Our cat manages to make a noise that sounds like a young
           | child screaming "mum" - it really upsets my wife.
        
           | AlotOfReading wrote:
           | Cats definitely meow to each other. For adults it's typically
           | an aggressive warning, but it happens.
           | 
           | It's also worth noting that kittens and their mothers
           | communicate heavily via meows even when no humans are
           | present. Food-begging is a pretty straightforward association
           | from there.
        
           | vmception wrote:
           | Exactly, cats have an extremely wide range of frequencies
           | they can both create and hear, if they are vocalizing at all
           | 
           | They almost all independently chose to pick the signature one
           | we associate with cats, just for us
        
             | bitwize wrote:
             | It has a lot to do with the fact that a cat's meow hits
             | many of the same frequencies as a crying human child.
        
               | vmception wrote:
               | I've read that before, it engages well but I'm not sure
               | they all know what human babies sound like, it just gets
               | a reliable response and other frequencies are either
               | ignored or don't get then the response they like the most
        
               | bitwize wrote:
               | Yeah, cats don't necessarily know that, they stumble
               | across it by trial and error. _We_ respond to it because
               | we are to some extent hardwired to have our attention
               | grasped by that kind of sound, so we tend to our crying
               | babies.
        
         | at_a_remove wrote:
         | Meowing is definitely a "please parent me" behavior. It took
         | quite some time to domesticate two feral cats that were nearby
         | -- many years. The meowing reflex was not present until much
         | much later. One cat would open her mouth but forget to make the
         | sound, but she eventually caught up to her brother, who would
         | correct her by looking at her and meowing if she forgot.
        
           | t-3 wrote:
           | It's possible she was making high-frequency noise beyond the
           | detection range of the human ear. I've read that cats use
           | these kinds of noises for calling their kittens.
        
       | rossdavidh wrote:
       | So, I totally believe some cats are intelligent enough to
       | understand that a particular human vocalization is usually
       | "aimed" at them. However...looking at the boxplots, the data is
       | underwhelming. There is a huge overlap between the congruent and
       | incongruent response times, even in household cats. If anything,
       | this is evidence that fewer cats than expected notice the
       | incongruence.
       | 
       | The alternative explanation being, of course, that very few cats
       | care. And, really, in these circumstances, why should they? But
       | the boxplots demonstrate that the effect here is marginal.
        
       | t-3 wrote:
       | I have two cats, a young male (perhaps not coincidentally, a
       | colony rescue?) and a very elderly female. When I let them
       | outside, if I call them to come in, the younger will find the
       | older and herd her to the door. He then vigorously resists coming
       | inside himself. He's also very vocal, and his tone of voice will
       | change depending on whether he's happy to see me and wanting pets
       | or if I'm ruining his stalking and spying or he doesn't want to
       | come inside (the other just ignores me and does whatever she
       | wants).
        
         | tarentel wrote:
         | My cat has at least 20 meows. I understand about 5 of them.
         | Some of them are easy, like if she wants food or if she wants
         | me to follow her for whatever reasons. Some of them I have no
         | idea what she's going on about but I can tell it's different
         | then her wanting to play or just wants to be pet.
        
           | hunterb123 wrote:
           | For real. Off the top of my head there's, MeerrrOOOOOwww
           | MerrrOOOOwww, the loudest one, huge inflection in the middle.
           | Generally while strolling through the house, back and forth.
           | I think that's the "I'm bored" one. But he'll also do it if I
           | stay up. If someone is out of bed past curfew he'll do it. I
           | have to close the bedroom door or he'll wake the wife.
           | 
           | If you say summon him he'll probably ignore you but if he's
           | interested he'll whimper errrderrruuderr softly while walking
           | toward you.
           | 
           | Then there's, MOWLLLLL MOWLLLLL, slowly howling, that
           | sometimes means he's sick and gunna throw up. Usually right
           | on both the rug and the carpet.
           | 
           | Then there's, MAHHH MAHHH, just two in quick succession,
           | which literally sounds like mama. That's the I want something
           | one, generally he wants catnip from the outside plant.
           | 
           | Just heard him go MOOOOW MUUUROWLLL MUUUROWLLL howling, but
           | he's just pacing back and forth from the window and now
           | wimpering at me. So I assume he's misses mama (the wife).
           | 
           | The funniest is and most unique is, BRRRRAHDAHDOP, which he
           | yells before tearing full speed through the house or down the
           | hallway for seemingly no reason. I think that's either "Look
           | at me" or he's so excited he can't contain himself and it
           | slips out naturally.
           | 
           | Side note: this was an interesting challenge creating and
           | optimizing these onomatopoeias
        
         | sakopov wrote:
         | > (the other just ignores me and does whatever she wants).
         | 
         | This made me remember a funny meme about dogs and cats.
         | 
         | "A dog is able to learn up to 250 words and tricks and
         | gestures. A dog can count up to 5 and perform simple math.
         | Equivalent human age: 3. A cat doesn't give a fuck and is sick
         | of your shit. Equivalent human age: 42"
        
       | smcl wrote:
       | A weird amount of people I knew growing up named their cats just
       | "cat" or "kitten". Every dog had a name (even in households that
       | had a "cat" cat) but not all cats. I wonder if the cats figure
       | their own names out in these cases :)
        
         | praptak wrote:
         | It's acceptance of the fact that cats don't respond to
         | commands.
        
         | micromacrofoot wrote:
         | That's how I grew up. We always called them "cat" or "kitty"
         | and would get more specific as needed and based on how we felt
         | about them at the moment. Anything from "the cute black one" to
         | "that orange fool."
         | 
         | We were always told that no one really owns a cat, but we
         | should take care of them all because it's good luck.
        
           | TheBigSalad wrote:
           | That's weird. I don't think I could live with an animal and
           | not name it. But then again, I named my Roomba.
        
             | throwanem wrote:
             | My last cat was with me for 20 years and neither of us
             | seemed to feel the need for a name. We both knew who he
             | was, and why bother beyond that? I think the difference is
             | that dogs who live with humans tend to look to us to help
             | them understand who they are, while cats never want telling
             | no matter how close the association.
             | 
             | I didn't use the "pet voice" with him, either. Dogs, sure,
             | but generally when I have something to say to a cat I say
             | it like I would to a human, and that seems to mostly work
             | okay.
             | 
             | That said, I find as with dogs that cats respond more to
             | pitch than to content; I'm not sure their theory of mind
             | for us extends far enough to recognizing that we also have
             | language, but they certainly do learn some of the sounds we
             | make.
             | 
             | When I needed him to come find me, I'd whistle just above
             | the highest pitch I could hear, and he came running because
             | I'd taken care to associate that sound with treats in his
             | kittenhood. As his hearing range contracted in his dotage,
             | I switched to the more usual "pspspsps" sort of sound,
             | which worked about as well.
             | 
             | Granted, I grew up with cats, and my mom was of a mind that
             | the best way for me to learn their style of manners was to
             | let them teach me directly. This worked well enough that
             | it's long since ceased to be a surprise when someone says
             | something like "but our cat doesn't like _anybody!_ " So I
             | don't know how well my experience is likely to generalize.
        
               | smcl wrote:
               | Thanks, reading someone recounting their decades-long
               | friendship with a cat was a nice chaser for the drowning
               | kittens comment :)
        
             | micromacrofoot wrote:
             | My neighbors' father would also think nothing of drowning
             | unwanted kittens among other "old world" type of things
             | that seem ghastly now.
        
               | smcl wrote:
               | Oof yeah that is something I only heard of as an adult -
               | a friend's dad apparently did it a couple of times.
               | Gruesome
        
               | micromacrofoot wrote:
               | Probably says a lot about how much brutality we've
               | engineered out of daily living. I recall having a
               | visceral reaction to hearing about the kittens as a
               | child, and I imagine it's fairly natural to feel that
               | way. I'm glad I lived in a time and place where that kind
               | of desensitization wasn't necessary.
        
               | kaba0 wrote:
               | Unfortunately it is still fairly common in small villages
               | (in Hungary at least - which is quite poor outside of its
               | capital). Spaying is expensive and cats do produce plenty
               | of offsprings, and it is not even like with dogs that you
               | can just keep inside the backyard..
               | 
               | (Though what I heard about is not drowning, but slamming
               | them hard to something :/)
        
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         | LancerSykera wrote:
         | I grew up in a house of at least a dozen cats. All had names.
         | Our very first one, Lightning (who was seemingly very
         | intelligent and lived to his late teens), did not know his name
         | as Lightning. For all he knew, his name was Puss-Puss, because
         | he had been called that a lot when he was younger, and
         | responded extremely well to it throughout his life.
        
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