[HN Gopher] 'Disabled' is not a bad word. Stop telling people wi...
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       'Disabled' is not a bad word. Stop telling people with disabilities
       it is
        
       Author : Anthony-G
       Score  : 46 points
       Date   : 2022-04-26 18:51 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | MarkusWandel wrote:
       | At the risk of getting downvoted for sarcasm...
       | 
       | "Stop"? That's harsh "Tellling?" That excludes people who are
       | unable to talk "People?" Whoa, aren't we constantly going on
       | about animals and even plants being sentient creatues?
       | 
       | So "differently continue communicating to sentient creatures"...
       | Oh wait, creationism? ...
        
       | Freak_NL wrote:
       | Did someone ever work out the relevant academic theory that
       | describes this linguistic process?
       | 
       | A word starts out as neutral, but gradually transitions to
       | becoming a slur (a process that seemingly takes decades), and is
       | replaced by a new politically correct word which is seen as too
       | avant-garde at first, but gets established in part due to a lack
       | of push-back (because any criticism will make the person
       | levelling it seem a bigot/racist/ass), and eventually that
       | becomes the default word, until it starts sliding into slur
       | territory and the cycle starts anew.
       | 
       | I'm not sure if this process can actually be prevented.
        
         | jeherr wrote:
         | I definitely recognize this process (and have heard the term
         | euphemism treadmill from McWhorter the other commenter pointed
         | out) but since when has "disabled" been used as a slur? I'm
         | sure it's happened, but I'm not sure I've ever heard of someone
         | using disabled in a derogatory manner like you would hear
         | "retarded" commonly used now.
        
           | chillacy wrote:
           | I get the sense that "disabled" is still in its avant-garde
           | phase. "retarded" passed that in my circles maybe a few years
           | ago, but also there was a time where it was much like
           | "disabled" is today.
           | 
           | Aside, somehow "retarded" got replaced by "special needs" or
           | "short bus" in some circles which also sounds insulting to
           | me, so maybe we'll continue this treadmill for awhile longer.
        
             | jfengel wrote:
             | "Short bus" was always a slur.
        
             | paxprose wrote:
             | this button is disabled this button is retarded this button
             | is special needs
             | 
             | I could go with the first two in a code review.
        
               | krnlpnc wrote:
               | And then you could go explain that second one to HR.
        
               | adamomada wrote:
               | It's the French translation
        
           | tempnow987 wrote:
           | Where I am disabled is not in common use.
           | 
           | Differently abled is OK. Learning differences or special
           | needs also works. Disabilities I think is still OK.
           | 
           | I'm kind of on board with getting away from retarded and
           | disabled.
        
         | bananarchist wrote:
         | John McWhorter refers to it as the Euphemism Treadmill but I
         | can't say if it's a widely accepted term in the field
        
           | Someone wrote:
           | I think the treadmill aspect also happens for words used by
           | teenagers. They use, for example, "hip". Once their children
           | are teenagers, they don't want to be like their parents, so
           | they use "hot". Their children, in turn, pick yet another
           | word, making "cool" the new "hot" (chances are I'm not
           | mentioning these in the historically correct order)
           | 
           | The same process seems to apply to social networks ("Facebook
           | is for parents")
           | 
           | In all these cases, there's a mechanism that makes a word or
           | product tabu within certain social circles, forcing them to
           | come up with a new term.
           | 
           | The process that leads to things becoming tabu stays,
           | however, so the cycle repeats itself.
           | 
           | I wouldn't know what it would be, but it wouldn't surprise me
           | if there were a more generic term that applies to all of
           | these.
        
         | mensetmanusman wrote:
         | It's kind of like unending administrative bloat.
         | 
         | Realize that there are people making a living off of trying to
         | find new things to be offended by.
         | 
         | Once you realize that, the world starts to make a lot of sense
         | :)
        
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       | KSPAtlas wrote:
       | Meanwhile, in Polish, the official word for a black person
       | (Murzyn) sounds like a slur
        
       | RichardHeart wrote:
       | Agree completely, and there's all kind of other adjectives
       | getting the same treatment!
        
       | david-gpu wrote:
       | "Differently abled" makes me think _" yeah, the difference is I'm
       | unable to do certain things"_ every time.
       | 
       | The universe is not balanced and fair. It didn't give me
       | something in exchange for what it took from me, and that is okay.
        
         | wcarron wrote:
         | Indeed, I've sometimes had the possibly insensitive but joking
         | thought, "Differently abled? What abilities are they hiding? If
         | timmy gets his legs crushed by a bus, can he fly?! Can he now
         | shoot lasers from his nipples? As far as I'm concerned sick
         | triceps from wheeling along don't count as an ability."
        
           | threads2 wrote:
           | Jokes like this are differently abled
        
             | wahern wrote:
             | It would work better as stand-up comedy, when expectations
             | are differently calibrated.
        
         | giraffe_lady wrote:
         | It also fits better into the social model of disability, which
         | I find very valuable, and assigns agency to the disabling where
         | it belongs.
         | 
         | Ex: I don't experience my poor vision as a disability right
         | now, because I'm easily able to access an aid that allows me to
         | do everything I want to with no major downsides, in the form of
         | glasses.
         | 
         | But if I were to become direly impoverished and lose access to
         | them (again lol), I would be _disabled_ by that circumstance.
         | My physical state has stayed the same. The disability is in
         | what I can 't access and why, not the impairment itself, which
         | can be addressed.
        
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