[HN Gopher] Internet spring cleaning: How to delete Instagram, F...
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       Internet spring cleaning: How to delete Instagram, Facebook and
       other accounts
        
       Author : Ashoka_rkt
       Score  : 496 points
       Date   : 2022-04-24 11:08 UTC (11 hours ago)
        
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       | agilob wrote:
       | Edit, Link should be https://justdeleteme.xyz/
        
         | bennyp101 wrote:
         | I quickly checked a few of those that say "impossible" and they
         | clearly are possible - kinda makes me think I'd be better off
         | searching for "[service] delete account" and just doing that.
         | 
         | (I did notice some said "subject to applicable law" - so I
         | guess Europe!)
        
         | hoppyhoppy2 wrote:
         | I'm not sure why one would use this "backgroundchecks"
         | redirection link, which just appears to add ads to the top of
         | the page. The actual site is https://justdeleteme.xyz/
        
           | agilob wrote:
           | oh sorry, I posted it from mobile, didnt even notice it's
           | wrong domain!
        
       | tbrockman wrote:
       | It's pretty interesting to see so many people here suggesting
       | that there's no value to deleting your account.
       | 
       | Like the added friction of creating a new account doesn't make it
       | less likely for you to relapse, or increase the time it takes for
       | it to happen.
       | 
       | Like social media applications won't send you notifications
       | however they can to keep you engaged.
       | 
       | Like it doesn't affect the companies perceived value to lose real
       | users.
       | 
       | Like it doesn't diminish network effects to see fewer of the
       | people you like on the platform.
       | 
       | Like retaining the data you've contributed doesn't increase the
       | performance of their machine learning models, broaden their
       | understanding of consumers, or directly provide content for
       | consumption. (okay this point is a bit shaky because it depends
       | on their data deletion policy, or if you can take advantage of
       | CCPA/GDPR, but you get the idea)
       | 
       | I agree that leaving or maintaining healthy use of these
       | platforms ultimately requires developing some amount of self-
       | control, but saying that there's no value to deleting an account
       | doesn't seem grounded in truth.
       | 
       | I found it way easier to just delete the majority of my social
       | media accounts than try to curate or moderate their use. Most
       | social media platforms aren't built with your best interests at
       | heart, why risk it for some momentarily satisfying
       | content/interactions that you could probably find elsewhere?
        
       | aendruk wrote:
       | The missing follow-up is how to stay in the loop with your
       | friends and family who continue to use these services.
       | 
       | Many used to be actively helpful by serving web feeds of public
       | content. Now, not only have they removed the feeds, but they
       | actively sabotage their public website to pressure you back into
       | their control.
        
       | 97s wrote:
       | Deleted all of these years ago besides Google for email. Never
       | looked back, one of the best decisions I have ever made.
        
       | russellbeattie wrote:
       | Don't delete the accounts, delete the data in the accounts. That
       | way you can keep your usernames and logins for various services.
       | 
       | In 2016 I deleted all the tweets I had made over the previous 9
       | years, and soon after I backed up then cleaned out my FB profile
       | and unfollowed all my contacts. There was a lot of manual labor
       | involved in this because I had auto imported a bunch of stuff
       | early in FBs life, and it was all sort of stuck in there. FBs
       | crappy API and barely functioning admin UI made it slow going,
       | but it was worth it.
       | 
       | As soon as Instagram shows any sign of its popularity waning with
       | my contacts, I'll be deleting all the pics there as well.
        
       | amin wrote:
       | I have friends and family, and groups in which I discuss highly
       | specific topics. I don't think there's a better tool than
       | Facebook that allows me to stay up to date on things that are
       | important to me. The equivalent subreddits are of much worse
       | quality. I know this will get downvotes, but this is my opinion.
        
         | kibwen wrote:
         | Discord has taken over this role for me and all my social
         | groups. And unlike Facebook there's no ads, no viral bullshit,
         | no astroturfers, no personal information, and you can keep your
         | identities separate across multiple social circles (all of
         | which are private and invite-only by default).
        
           | ekianjo wrote:
           | > And unlike Facebook there's no ads, no viral bullshit, no
           | astroturfers, no personal information
           | 
           | The counter to all of this is "for now..." - there's no
           | network that gets massive without falling prey to numerous
           | kinds of incentives.
        
             | kibwen wrote:
             | Sure, but then we'll migrate somewhere else. "They'll be
             | bad eventually" is by no means an argument in favor of
             | instead using a service that is worse _now_.
        
           | mccorrinall wrote:
           | Facebook at least doesn't force me to subscribe to a 5$
           | service in order to upload images from my phone. It's so
           | annoying that they can't just compress images and videos on
           | the client. Right now I'm always sharing videos and photos to
           | telegram first, since their client actually compresses most
           | of the files below 8MB and then continue sharing it to
           | discord once again.
           | 
           | The UX as a free discord user is horrible.
        
             | Pigalowda wrote:
             | Facebook gets its pound of flesh from you in other ways.
        
           | dzink wrote:
           | Some groups are really dependent on evidence the person is
           | who they say they were - especially parent groups /Mom
           | groups, health groups, where you're looking for advice or
           | legitimate local socialization / resource information.
        
             | kibwen wrote:
             | Facebook has no way of actually verifying that you are a
             | parent, so I hope nobody is relying on that to provide any
             | sense of security. And my experience with Google+ is that a
             | real-name policy is a woefully naive way of trying to
             | filter out the maniacs; plenty of deranged people have no
             | qualms about having their actions associated with their
             | legal identities.
        
           | AdvancedCarrot wrote:
           | Thing is I'm not convinced that discord is really any better
           | from a privacy perspective.
           | 
           | They still retain all of your messages (including DMs)
           | unencrypted indefinitely with no easy way to remove them.
           | Deleting your account doesn't remove messages either.
        
             | dicknuckle wrote:
             | I'm not really worried about Discord keeping all my
             | messages about a Robot Lawnmower or a couple pieces of
             | software / games I discuss on there.
        
               | p1peridine wrote:
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nothing_to_hide_argument
               | 
               | > The nothing to hide argument states that individuals
               | have no reason to fear or oppose surveillance programs,
               | unless they are afraid it will uncover their own illicit
               | activities. An individual using this argument may claim
               | that an average person should not worry about government
               | surveillance, as they would have "nothing to hide".
               | 
               | > Edward Snowden remarked "Arguing that you don't care
               | about the right to privacy because you have nothing to
               | hide is no different than saying you don't care about
               | free speech because you have nothing to say." He
               | considered claiming nothing to hide as giving up the
               | right of privacy which the government has to protect.
        
             | kibwen wrote:
             | I didn't say anything about message privacy, but it's still
             | strictly better than Facebook because Discord "profiles"
             | feature nothing except a username (which, unlike Facebook,
             | is not required to be your legal name), an avatar, a
             | profile banner, and 190 characters worth of freeform
             | markdown. And unlike Facebook, it doesn't pester you to
             | ever add personal information. A company can't store
             | private information that it never has to begin with. By all
             | means, if you want message privacy, use a service that
             | offers end-to-end encryption, which isn't Discord. (But
             | keep in mind that end-to-end encrypted _group chat_ (as in,
             | not strictly one-to-one) is an impossible and unsalvageable
             | UX boondoggle.)
        
             | p1peridine wrote:
             | Yes and to be able to use discord with a VPN or Tor it
             | requires a phone number. Unacceptable. Privacy disaster.
             | 
             | https://spyware.neocities.org/articles/discord.html
             | 
             | https://stallman.org/discord.html
        
         | leros wrote:
         | I've been without Facebook for a decade now. Given what I know,
         | it sounds like I'm missing out on some good stuff going on in
         | Facebook Groups. I also hear Facebook Marketplace is the new
         | Craigslist but Craigslist has been good enough for me still.
        
           | FYYFFF wrote:
           | Marketplace is a mess. Absolutely unusable. The sheer volume
           | of paid ads mixed with volumes of scams and really, really
           | obnoxious creative (think borderline porn)makes it impossible
           | to use with any clarity. Or even to use to find something
           | specific.
           | 
           | It shows how awful FB is at design and UX. They really are
           | the Fisher Price of the web. Its seems as if they build for
           | stupid people who have no tech skills... In other words: the
           | majority of people...
        
           | dicknuckle wrote:
           | marketplace has almost completely replaced craigslist in my
           | area. i do occasionally find some good deals on Craigslist
           | but by far I have a better chance of finding something
           | specific on Fb.
        
       | ge96 wrote:
       | I was in high school when FB came out, and man I got sucked into
       | it, posting cringe things everyday. I was lucky I caught myself
       | later on/stopped. Also means I didn't get sucked into TikTok
       | (never used it).
       | 
       | I still partake in social media though just accounts not tied to
       | my name.
       | 
       | I want to delete my FB account but it has all of my old
       | pictures/videos from childhood. I closed it for now, made another
       | one just for family.
       | 
       | The main reason I abandoned my main FB account is too many people
       | that were asking me for money found me and I stupidly accepted
       | their friend requests.
       | 
       | I spend most of my time alone though so social media still has a
       | place for me.
        
       | davidkuennen wrote:
       | Instead of deleting, I usually simply deactivate all
       | notifications by default.
       | 
       | I think only 1 or 2 apps are allowed so send notifications and
       | one of them is my own.
        
       | a_imho wrote:
       | I'm not even convinced deleting (and especially deactivating)
       | your account does anything besides handing over control to
       | Facebook and others. Perhaps it is better to obfuscate the data
       | in your account and just not log in, even if emotionally less
       | appealing than deleting.
        
         | dazc wrote:
         | No photo, some random DOB, location and obscure employement
         | history for me.
         | 
         | I used to advertise on FB so had to maintain an account purely
         | for this purpose but noticed a few times that 'people you may
         | know' were usually a result of random encounters looking me up.
         | Maybe because only facebook can verify you're not a creep or
         | something?
         | 
         | One time I asked soemone out on a date and she seemed keen
         | until the next day she had changed her mind. Probably pure
         | coincidence that this person I didn't know until 2 days before
         | was suddenly one of my 'people you may know' list.
         | 
         | Sure enough my blank FB profile was the giveaway that I am
         | actually a serial killer. Now I'd rather these people just go
         | down a rabbit hole of looking through 1000 possible matches and
         | finding nothing instead.
        
       | VLM wrote:
       | Most people don't need to delete their accounts.
       | 
       | I have a tasty bottle of rather expensive whiskey on the bar in
       | my basement right now. Luxury consumables are a good gift, I
       | guess.
       | 
       | I don't want to drink it right now because I have things to do
       | requiring sobriety, its a bit early in the day for that sort of
       | thing, etc. I got my reasons, none of them terribly interesting.
       | 
       | If I don't want to drink it for various reasons, I merely need to
       | not drink it; for me this is very easy to do, not having an
       | addiction.
       | 
       | An alcoholic whom does not want to drink it, would absolutely
       | need to perform the ritual of dumping it down the drain.
       | 
       | Note that the ritualistic act of pouring alcohol down the drain
       | does not cure alcoholism, it just wastes time and money. And it
       | is just so with social media addicts periodically deleting their
       | accounts. Usually comes alongside a long rationalization and
       | projection about privacy and paranoia about sharing information.
        
         | gompertz wrote:
         | Unsure how this is so upvoted... It pretty much goes against
         | anything evangelized in Deep Work or Atomic Habits - must reads
         | promoted by most on HN. Y'all need to revisit those books I
         | think ;)
        
         | mattgreenrocks wrote:
         | No, most people should delete their accounts and go cold
         | turkey. In time, they will begin to see that they never needed
         | it, that human relationships necessarily require reaching out
         | (aka work), and that social media was merely empty calories all
         | along.
        
         | entropie wrote:
         | > An alcoholic whom does not want to drink it, would absolutely
         | need to perform the ritual of dumping it down the drain.
         | 
         | Nope. Iam an sober alcoholic and don't have any issues with
         | alcohol in my flat around me. In fact there is a bottle of
         | expensive wine standing on the table next to the front door for
         | a few weeks now (kind of a tip for a favor I did) I just dont
         | care. Ill hand it to my mom when I see her next.
         | 
         | I guess its a bit pedantic to point this out. I felt the need
         | to do it.
        
         | agency wrote:
         | What a bizarre take. You should continue to volunteer your
         | personal information to an ad-tech behemoth... in order to
         | prove you're not an addict?
        
           | jamal-kumar wrote:
           | Yeah I'm pretty sure that the whiskey in the basement isn't
           | spying on you
           | 
           | It would be a truly messed up world if that was the case
        
             | VLM wrote:
             | > whiskey in the basement isn't spying on you
             | 
             | Everyone important in the world already knows my SiL bought
             | it for me, tracked at the point of sale using a loyalty
             | card, tracked via her credit card, her highway pass shows
             | she visited to deliver it to me on my birthday, it probably
             | has a RFID chip somewhere either for theft protection or
             | inventory tracking (maybe in the presentation box not the
             | bottle itself "obviously"?). The bank has a record of what
             | she bought which is probably legally or illegally shared
             | with the health insurance company and/or medical care. Her
             | fitbit tracked her walking thru the store.
             | 
             | But, yeah, the "real" threat to my privacy is people on HN
             | now know I have an expensive bottle of whiskey, LOL. Or my
             | cat-meme sharing account on FB, if I used FB, would know
             | that I have a nice bottle. Because that distractor is the
             | "real threat" not everyone in the paragraph above whom I
             | have zero control over.
             | 
             | If an organization or whatever knows they're going to piss
             | people off, give them a false sense of control. Maybe give
             | them fake elections where both candidates are insiders.
             | Maybe provide corporate oversight by a revolving door
             | between the regulators and the regulated. Its all pretty
             | standard propaganda stuff.
        
               | imwillofficial wrote:
               | What a weird comment flow to read. Your defensiveness off
               | putting.
        
               | jamal-kumar wrote:
               | Truly, dude just went OFF. Morning basement whiskey
               | vibes.
               | 
               | Honestly funnier than my little joke
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | VLM wrote:
           | Binary thinking. You can ONLY actively consume or actively
           | delete, unthinkable that you can passively not use it.
           | 
           | Its like claiming its impossible for that bottle of whiskey
           | to sit, undrinking, on my basement bar top, whiskey can only
           | either be chugged immediately or angrily poured down the
           | drain. Its impossible that bottle is sitting there without my
           | drinking it.
           | 
           | I assure you, despite your claim that its impossible, I have
           | a mostly full bottle of whiskey on my bar and an unused
           | Facebook account. Why do you believe I'm lying? It seems
           | realistic, reasonable, and a wise course of action.
           | 
           | The other reason deletion is pushed is to provide the
           | illusion of privacy. You have no privacy anymore. Everyone
           | important or actionable has total access to your entire
           | digital life and always has and always will; the government,
           | the banks, the big corporations. Its a false illusion that
           | deleting your cat-meme-sharing account somehow protects you
           | from the credit reporting agencies or the NSA. Its important
           | to provide that false illusion of choice so that people are
           | distracted from the actions of the credit reporting agencies
           | and the NSA and the IRS and the banks and ...
        
             | imwillofficial wrote:
             | This isn't binary thinking. It's clear you don't understand
             | people who need these extra steps, and thank god for that.
             | This is a problem I wouldn't wish on anyone.
             | 
             | However, your lack of understanding does not make it any
             | less relevant or useful.
        
             | syshum wrote:
             | Ironic that you talk about binary thinking then proceed to
             | think of Privacy only in the binary of having it from
             | government or not.
             | 
             | Aside from you being factually wrong on your take (you have
             | massively over stated the competency of government and big
             | finance, their data is more wrong than it is correct)
             | 
             | That however is not the only, and in many cases not even
             | the most important, realm for which one may want to protect
             | their privacy
             | 
             | At this point I am not sure what is more ignorant, your
             | thoughts on addiction or your thoughts on privacy... it is
             | a pretty close race
        
           | ipaddr wrote:
           | Volunteer random information or targeted information for who
           | you want your character to be. Never volunteer personal
           | information unless you want your character connected to your
           | person.
        
           | hunter2_ wrote:
           | The one little nugget I'm gleaning is that for people who are
           | able, not even volunteering that you're incapable of simply
           | ignoring the account is also worth considering. Like setting
           | up an email filter instead of clicking unsubscribe on a
           | mailing list, since doing so is yet another piece of
           | information.
        
         | phphphphp wrote:
         | People are different. I, personally, find ownership of digital
         | and physical things to "weigh" on me and so deleting something
         | digital or giving something away physical is meaningful to me
         | -- it keeps my life simple in this moment, whether I acquire
         | the thing again in future is not relevant. Not everybody is the
         | same :)
        
           | mattgreenrocks wrote:
           | Ditto. Delete if only to feel a smidgen more agency in your
           | life. Completely worth it.
        
         | necessary wrote:
         | I think pouring the alcohol down the drain does more than just
         | waste time and money: it increases the cost of pouring another
         | drink and creates an opportunity for self-reflection for the
         | addict when popping open another bottle. This can make the
         | difference between pouring one more drink and abstaining for
         | another day.
         | 
         | For the only moderately addicted social media user, the cost of
         | recreating your accounts might actually be greater than
         | abstaining.
         | 
         | And all it would take is a small burst of motivation caused by
         | finding a website that 1. causes self-reflection towards one's
         | use of social media and 2. reduces the cost of deleting your
         | accounts.
         | 
         | Point being, pouring the alcohol down the drain increases the
         | cost of further addiction and increases the likelihood of
         | prolonged abstinence.
        
           | ipaddr wrote:
           | Or throws you in a new endless cycle of deleting and
           | recreating accounts with each new account representing a new
           | leaf / new you. I've seen people in this birth/death cycle.
        
       | politician wrote:
       | Venmo seems out of place. What about PayPal? Cash App?
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | Does Venmo have a social aspect that the others lack?
        
           | politician wrote:
           | I don't think so. It's just a way to pay people with the ACH
           | process handled in the background.
        
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       | baby wrote:
       | Please don't do this. It's really sad every time I want to reach
       | out to an old friend and I can't because they deleted their fb :(
       | 
       | I mean, if you don't have such connections then who cares, but if
       | you do think about that
        
         | jll29 wrote:
         | Please use email instead, which is a standardized open protocol
         | that does give people some choices.
         | 
         | You can always exchange email addresses before closing down
         | accounts to stay in touch.
        
           | baby wrote:
           | My generation doesn't use emails basically. I changed emails
           | quite a lot through my younger years as did my friends so it
           | wouldn't have been useful. We used to ask for people's
           | facebook shortly after meeting them. It's the best tool to
           | create and maintain your social graph. I understand that not
           | everybody use it this way, and that's fine, but if you do
           | please think about that. It's really heart breaking how I
           | lost contact with old friends due to this
        
             | 3np wrote:
             | Now is the time to do something about that then.
             | 
             | Perhaps hand out an e-mail address and/or something else
             | that does not require people to agree to some corporate
             | ToS/privacy policy where people can reach you to the ones
             | you do care about staying in touch with, preemptively for
             | when they or you stops using Facebook, be it by choice or
             | force.
             | 
             | It is not acceptable that a single or a handful of corps
             | should own the digital social room. If you rely only on
             | them, then it is you who close people out, not the ones who
             | choose to leave or get kicked out.
             | 
             | I get that it's a sad situation but you can not put the
             | blame on the ones who left. Learn from that and you won't
             | have to experience it again.
             | 
             | I guess I am part of your generation as well because I
             | recognize your description.
        
             | yummypaint wrote:
             | Locating and contacting old friends is entirely within your
             | means in 2022. What is most striking to me as someone in my
             | early thirties is how much learned helplessness is
             | associated with these communication technologies that
             | supposedly enhance our capabilities.
             | 
             | Facebook makes it easy to curate the appearance of
             | friendship, but meaningful relationships take time and
             | effort in the real world to maintain. People have traded
             | quantity for quality, and the true impetus for this
             | transformation is that social graphs with more nodes are
             | easier for facebook to make money from.
        
               | Adraghast wrote:
               | I want to reconnect to someone I went to high school
               | with. What steps would you suggest I follow to do so?
        
               | justapassenger wrote:
               | This enabled me reach out to an "apparent" friend
               | (someone I had very casual relationship with and didn't
               | talk to for 10 years) in 30 second. And that person
               | helped my "true" friends evacuate from Ukraine and avoid
               | being killed.
               | 
               | Extended social networks are integral part of humanity
               | and communities. Being isolated and interacting only with
               | handful of true friends is more modern invention.
        
         | 8b16380d wrote:
         | You weren't actually friends if all you had was a Facebook
         | connection.
        
         | yummypaint wrote:
         | Calls, letters, and in-person visits are still a thing, and
         | they are all vastly superior to facebook. Besides, the
         | alternative to deletion is a bunch of zombie accounts that
         | appear to be real people but will never respond to messages.
         | Best to make it obvious and not leave an account around to
         | cause confusion.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | robonerd wrote:
         | As if sending messages to an abandoned account they'll never
         | check is any better? If they close their account instead of
         | abandoning it, you won't waste your time waiting for a response
         | to a message they'll never see. Instead you can ask mutual
         | friends and acquaintances to help you establish contact. This
         | almost always works and only requires a little effort.
         | 
         | Zuck needs you more than you need Zuck.
        
       | BrianOnHN wrote:
       | I've been looking for a similar solution for deleting Facebook,
       | though one with a checklist of "don't forget these things you
       | want to keep."
       | 
       | Edit: I'd even pay >$100 just for a ZIP of "everything you might
       | regret deleting." The connections are valueless at this point,
       | but the pictures and my mom's priceless comments on them not so
       | much.
        
         | wonderbore wrote:
         | That's literally the export feature that Facebook had for a
         | decade, for free. I use it regularly because I heard that
         | sometimes it "forgets" older messages though.
        
       | notjustanymike wrote:
       | Delete. Delete delete delete.
       | 
       | Did it a few years back, trust me you won't miss out on anything
       | important. In fact, the opposite: important things will find a
       | way to you regardless. It's the unimportant things that will
       | filter out.
        
       | bennyp101 wrote:
       | I'd much rather they figured out how to fix their sync service -
       | or at least let me actually delete everything on it and start
       | again! I still get temporary containers coming back months after
       | I have deleted them!
        
         | replygirl wrote:
         | sir, i dont think their content editor can do anything about
         | that.
        
         | boondaburrah wrote:
         | firefox containers is both the killer feature of firefox for me
         | (I can't leave it) and also the jankyest. I don't think mozilla
         | knows they have gold on their hands (but do they ever know?).
         | 
         | I lived through the firefox extension debacle in 2019 or so
         | when FF accidentally let a cert expire and it helpfully
         | uninstalled all my "unverified" extensions, of which container
         | tabs was one. When everything was fixed, my settings were
         | erased.
         | 
         | Except they weren't. To this day, I still get random ghost-like
         | behaviour from my old container tabs settings. Google-contained
         | apps will try to open in my banking container, as I gradually
         | realise all of my containers were deleted but the URL-to-
         | container mapping wasn't, and it was by ID not name, and the
         | IDs have been reused.
         | 
         | Containers should be a core feature because they are /the/
         | feature ff has over the chrome army right now. I know they were
         | (are?) trying to prove that core features aren't necessary
         | because you can write anything in a web extension (IIRC that's
         | how they justified getting rid of RSS), but it just hasn't been
         | so in my experience.
        
           | javajosh wrote:
           | I suspect that Mozilla looks at the telemetry and very few
           | people use containers. I'd guess because users don't
           | understand what they're good for. Perhaps you, an
           | enthusiastic user, could do a little writeup somewhere
           | (here?) on why they are the cat's meow.
        
             | wintermutestwin wrote:
             | Containers are simple to use and incredibly useful.
             | 
             | Temporary account containers: automatically makes a new tab
             | isolated from the others. This reduces the data thieves
             | tracking and it allows you to ignore sites that have a
             | limit on the number of articles you read before putting up
             | the paywall. For some sites, there is advantage in using
             | the same container so I use Multi-Account containers.
             | 
             | Multi-Account containers: I have multiple webmail accounts
             | and have a container for each one pinned in my main browser
             | window. For me, these containers are aligned with different
             | businesses that I run and personal stuff. Using them is so
             | easy - right click on a tab and reopen in X container.
             | 
             | Containers (and uBlock and side tabs) should be baked into
             | the browser.
        
             | adhesive_wombat wrote:
             | > very few people use containers
             | 
             | Not many people use _any_ extensions[1], which is why it
             | should not be an extension, even if it is actually an
             | extension in terms of implementation. Certainly I wouldn 't
             | expect my parents to discover and install the extension,
             | but I might expect them to be able to be taught to use a
             | first-class feature.
             | 
             | [1]: As the Firefox base dwindles further to only a hard
             | core of techies, this might not be true, but it's probably
             | true of Chrome: only 13 extensions have over 10 million
             | installs and Chrome is used by over 2 billion people.
        
               | wintermutestwin wrote:
               | That's because Chrome extensions suck. Specifically none
               | come close to replicating the functionality of:
               | 
               | Multi-Account Containers
               | 
               | Temporary Containers
               | 
               | Sidebery
        
             | tg180 wrote:
             | I agree, very few people are able to properly understand
             | and manage containers.
             | 
             | For mosts it should be easier and more intuitive to use
             | Firefox with First Party Isolation enabled.
             | 
             | The mental gymnastics of container management becomes
             | superfluous, and there is minimal risk of leaking data by
             | mistake.
        
             | robonerd wrote:
             | > _I suspect that Mozilla looks at the telemetry and very
             | few people use containers_
             | 
             | The UX for using containers is abysmal, so no fucking
             | wonder. This is the problem with "data-driven" design, it
             | falls for the McNamara Fallacy. It's an over-reliance on
             | 'scientific and objective' quantitative metrics while
             | aggressively ignoring qualitative considerations and
             | analysis. You'll never achieve excellence like this.
        
       | politelemon wrote:
       | The 'How to delete Google' section seems out of place and
       | somewhat forced. The reasoning behind suggesting
       | cleaning/deleting becomes weaker or absent further down the page.
       | I think the page could have done with a bit more focus, just
       | highlight the important ones rather than looking for filler
       | material?
        
         | ape4 wrote:
         | As a half way measure, you can ask it not to remember your
         | history
        
       | trevorboaconstr wrote:
       | One day I asked myself, after I use
       | Facebook/Instagram/Twitter/other social media, how do I feel? The
       | immediate answer was "not good." Immediately deleted. This was 5
       | years ago. Not one day have I missed them.
       | 
       | Have a LinkedIn in for professional connections. Anyone that I
       | see/communicate with regularly I just text.
        
       | yololol wrote:
       | It really gets me that Mozilla has adopted this political /
       | activist marketing style. It feels so fake.
        
         | Barrin92 wrote:
         | Mozilla, as in the foundation, is broader than the browser and
         | that blog has been running since 2007 with plenty of privacy
         | focused content on it. The point of Mozilla has always been to
         | advocate for an open internet rather than a corporate one, so I
         | don't see the change in objective here. Firefox is one means to
         | that end. Not sure why "marketing", "political" or "activist"
         | are supposed to be negatives.
        
           | pelasaco wrote:
           | the part "Whether you want to follow in Neil Young's
           | footsteps or are already streaming music and podcasts through
           | another service, deleting your stagnant Spotify account is a
           | good idea." has nothing to do with privacy, but with an
           | specific agenda.
        
             | Barrin92 wrote:
             | of course they have a specific agenda, it's on their
             | website (https://www.mozilla.org/en-US/about/manifesto/)
             | 
             | I'm slightly out of the loop on the Neil Young stuff but I
             | assume this is about Rogan spreading antivax content or
             | something, which I don't think is very compatible with
             | Mozilla pushing for an internet that is civil, free of
             | misinformation and factual, so it seems to me they're
             | sticking to their principles, which I think are very
             | reasonable.
        
               | pelasaco wrote:
               | interesting that I see they actually going against their
               | own manifesto, specially the points:
               | 
               | - "We are committed to an internet that promotes civil
               | discourse, human dignity, and individual expression."
               | 
               | - "We are committed to an internet that elevates critical
               | thinking, reasoned argument, shared knowledge, and
               | verifiable facts."
               | 
               | For sure one can paint what Rogan does as "spreading
               | antivax content or something" but that is not what he
               | does.
        
         | pelasaco wrote:
         | Exactly, I was surprised and had to check twice that i was
         | actually on mozilla.org, after I saw the unpretentious attack
         | to Joe Rogan
        
       | jll29 wrote:
       | Here's a sample letter for European citizens that would like to
       | make a legally-binding data subject deletion request:
       | 
       | https://www.datarequests.org/blog/sample-letter-gdpr-erasure...
       | 
       | Send this letter by email and my registered snail mail letter to
       | the Data Protection Officer of the company (e.g. Facebook's
       | Dublin Office).
       | 
       | Violating such a request can lead to fines of 4% of annual
       | revenue of any offending company.
        
         | 3np wrote:
         | Nit: EU residents, not EU citizens.
         | 
         | The reach of the law is concerned with where you are, not what
         | your citizenship is.
        
         | xigoi wrote:
         | If a company violates 25 requests, does it lose all revenue?
        
       | hnhg wrote:
       | Worth mentioning redact.dev here too for deleting posts and
       | behavioural content on various platforms.
        
         | reustle wrote:
         | Clickable link: https://redact.dev
        
       | dijit wrote:
       | There was a really good service like 10 years ago that auto
       | deleted Facebook/Instagram and so on. Sadly (and obviously)
       | Facebook and co were extremely unhappy with such a service
       | existing and took devastating steps to kill it.
       | 
       | That said, it would be great to have some kind of service like
       | that again. It shouldn't be hard to erase a digital identity,
       | that's what GDPR stipulates anyway.
       | 
       | More info on the service I'm referring to:
       | https://latimesblogs.latimes.com/technology/2009/12/facebook...
        
       | enahs-sf wrote:
       | Startup idea: wipe yourself from the internet completely as a
       | service.
        
       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | I've found myself between deleting, deactivating, and moderating
       | my use of these apps for many years of my life.
       | 
       | I never found deleting or deactivating to be very helpful. At
       | some time or another you're going to need said account for
       | something.
       | 
       | While deleting is a bit extreme, some of these services will
       | respect the actual deletion and others will not. I suppose the
       | question at the end of the day is...why bother?
       | 
       | I've found it much more easy to "declutter" by following digital
       | minimalism practices of getting rid of apps, only using browsers,
       | practicing mindfulness of said platforms, and only using said
       | platforms with a specific intention.
       | 
       | There's a laundry list of tips you could use to make social media
       | harder to use or even more bearable, but the most effective
       | approach I've used is simple moderation and mindfulness.
       | 
       | Also why is Mozilla writing articles about this? I get the
       | privacy angle, but aren't they also willing to put ads in front
       | of people and other partnerships sacrificing that privacy for
       | users? Like how does Mozilla make money outside of Google search
       | engine being the default? I do know they lay off many of my
       | friends who work on dev tools or even mobile apps there(i.e.
       | browsers).
        
         | keb_ wrote:
         | > At some time or another you're going to need said account for
         | something.
         | 
         | Nope for almost all of these. Different strokes different
         | folks.
         | 
         | > Facebook Nope. Haven't had one for more than 10 years now. So
         | easy to live life without a FB account. I stay in touch with
         | family and friends by phonecalls and Mumble.
         | 
         | > Instagram Used it for maybe 10 minutes in 2013, haven't
         | touched since.
         | 
         | > Snapchat Same as Instagram, but in 2016.
         | 
         | > Tiktok Same as above.
         | 
         | > Spotify I listen to music on my harddrive.
         | 
         | > Venmo Still using Paypal since 2012.
         | 
         | > Twitter Nope, in fact my life has been significantly improved
         | since I've not had an account. I use Nitter when I want to read
         | a Twitter thread.
         | 
         | Amazon and Google are the only ones that I find very hard to
         | avoid, but Google has gotten increasingly easy to avoid as
         | alternative services are popping up.
        
           | belval wrote:
           | > I stay in touch with family and friends by phonecalls and
           | Mumble.
           | 
           | You are a counter-example for sure, but this means that you
           | don't have a group chat platform to plan coordinated events
           | with your friends? Maybe it's an age thing, but getting my
           | friends in a call at a given time to organise a social event
           | is probably as hard as organising the event itself. Compare
           | with Facebook/Messenger/Whatsapp where everyone is in a group
           | chat I can just write "Anyone wants to have dinner at my
           | place this Friday?".
        
             | tomtheelder wrote:
             | I just use text message group chats, and so do most people
             | I know.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Telegram or slack or discord or even iMessage or SMS can
             | provide group chat.
             | 
             | It can make it even easier, especially if you have various
             | groups you interact with on different platforms.
        
             | scruple wrote:
             | Friends? What friends?
             | 
             | More seriously... My wife has friends that she sees pretty
             | regularly, because we still live in her home state near
             | where she grew up, but I really don't. I'm not sure what
             | they use to organize but I do know that it isn't Facebook
             | or WhatsApp.
             | 
             | I have a couple of friends that I keep in touch with over
             | text but we aren't a group of friends. One of my friends
             | does have a large friend group and I happen to be in a
             | group MMS because of him. But it's not a place where events
             | are organized because his friends are also scattered all
             | over the country.
             | 
             | I use Discord for the group that I play DnD and video games
             | with but, again, we're scattered all over the country. Only
             | one of them is nearby.
        
             | throwawayboise wrote:
             | How this used to work: You _invite_ your friends to dinner,
             | with enough lead time that they can avoid making other
             | plans. They accept, or decline.
        
             | keb_ wrote:
             | > You are a counter-example for sure, but this means that
             | you don't have a group chat platform to plan coordinated
             | events with your friends?
             | 
             | Signal, Text Message, and most importantly and most
             | universal, E-mail. I've coordinated Secret Santa events
             | purely by email for the past 5 years.
        
           | klabb3 wrote:
           | > Venmo
           | 
           | The fact that venmo is on this list is hilarious, but yes it
           | is deserved. It's genuinely exciting to see where the limit
           | of shameless growth hacking is, if there is any. Will there
           | ever be a dialysis machine that invites all your friends?
        
           | DangitBobby wrote:
           | Some events or even companies don't have a website, they just
           | have a Facebook page that you have to be logged in to visit.
           | Also, if your family uses Facebook, they will interact with
           | each other on it whether you are there or not.
        
             | keb_ wrote:
             | > Some events or even companies don't have a website, they
             | just have a Facebook page that you have to be logged in to
             | visit.
             | 
             | I really have not experienced this, but the several times
             | I've had to interact with a company without a website,
             | phone works wonders and is often quicker.
             | 
             | > Also, if your family uses Facebook, they will interact
             | with each other on it whether you are there or not.
             | 
             | I really don't see the issue here unless you have a
             | terribly unhealthy sense of FOMO.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | People have a really weird definition of "need". Nobody
               | needs Facebook. A handful of things might be moderately
               | more difficult without Facebook, but not impossible. I
               | bet if Facebook started charging $1000/hour to use,
               | people would suddenly find it is in fact not really a
               | necessity of life and would somehow find an alternate way
               | to contact their families.
        
               | warner25 wrote:
               | If Facebook started charging $1,000/hour to use, all
               | these entities (including government offices... for me,
               | it's not about my family at all) that have de facto
               | chosen to conduct all their public-facing business on
               | Facebook over the past few years would reverse course,
               | and then we really could ditch our accounts with no
               | problem. Let's hope.
        
               | DangitBobby wrote:
               | Really it's difficult to say you "need" much more than a
               | cardboard box and a supply of food and water.
        
               | DangitBobby wrote:
               | Why are you calling them, texting them, visiting them, or
               | keeping in touch at all? Must be an unhealthy sense of
               | FOMO!
        
               | warner25 wrote:
               | I see it mostly with very small businesses and government
               | offices, especially in small towns or rural areas. Years
               | ago, they might have employed someone part-time to
               | maintain their domain name, server or hosting service,
               | website, etc. Then it became free and much easier to just
               | create a Facebook page, and any layperson in the office
               | can manage it as the social media coordinator. Sometimes
               | they still have a real website, but it hasn't been
               | updated in years. All the recent and relevant information
               | is on their Facebook page.
               | 
               | There was an item on Hacker News a few months ago about
               | the crisis of water contamination at Pearl Harbor in
               | Hawaii. As commented on that item, I was there. For a
               | while, a couple Facebook pages were the only sources of
               | timely information for affected residents. All the town
               | hall events, in which US Navy and Army officials answered
               | questions, were streamed live on Facebook, and being
               | logged into a Facebook account was the only way to ask a
               | question if you couldn't attend the town halls in-person
               | (which had limited seating due to COVID). It was probably
               | two weeks before they started putting all the information
               | onto an official non-Facebook web page after people
               | complained about this (during the Facebook town hall
               | events, on behalf of friends and neighbors without
               | Facebook accounts).
        
         | micromacrofoot wrote:
         | they're all legally obligated to actually delete your data,
         | feel free to cite the ccpa or gdpr, they'd rather delete the
         | data than contest your residency
         | 
         | you don't actually need the accounts for anything, I deleted
         | all of mine and felt the same way at first... but 3 years in
         | and I have zero doubts that i'm better off without them, should
         | have done it sooner
        
         | johannes1234321 wrote:
         | What really helped me was getting rid of the app and
         | distracting my muscle memory. It was weird to realize how often
         | I was looking at the screen in search for the icon when I was
         | otherwise idle. Once the habit to fill empty time with those
         | was broken life was better. (less "stupid" posts on my mind,
         | more enjoying the outside by looking up instead of the screen
         | etc.)
         | 
         | And once in a while I unfortunately "need" Facebook:
         | Restaurants having current info only there etc. and each time
         | I'm happy not to waste time there anymore
        
           | incongruity wrote:
           | > What really helped me was getting rid of the app and
           | distracting my muscle memory. It was weird to realize how
           | often I was looking at the screen in search for the icon when
           | I was otherwise idle.
           | 
           | This, 100%. I went dry for January and included social media
           | in that. Deleted apps on 1/1 and still find myself
           | occasionally instinctively going to where they were - much
           | less often now, but it was startling at first.
        
         | mtzaldo wrote:
         | In Android you can now pause apps, which helps to reduce the
         | social media consumption.
        
       | Chernobog wrote:
       | I communicate with a lot of people on Facebook, but I hated that
       | I ended up scrolling my feed. So I unfollowed everything and now
       | I have an empty feed and nothing to scroll.
       | 
       | I realize many have reasons to get rid of Facebook entirely, but
       | for me this was a reasonable compromise.
        
         | crawsome wrote:
        
         | scottdupoy wrote:
         | I did exactly the same thing a few years ago - now it feels
         | like a pull service that I'm in control of, instead of a push
         | service with an algorithm controlling the content I view.
        
         | philjohn wrote:
         | Same - and this is really the crux of the matter. You are in
         | control of how toxic your social media experience is. Find that
         | a group or particular person is making your world a worse
         | place? Unfollow/Unfriend.
         | 
         | People bemoan the Facebook of old where it was updates from
         | friends old and new, and family - but that's still the core of
         | the product, groups are optional.
        
           | elliene wrote:
           | These companies hire psychologists in droves to make their
           | products more addictive. There are certainly ways to combat
           | their manipulation techniques, but let's not pretend this is
           | some neutral product and try to pin the blame on the users.
           | Cigarette companies used the same tactic and it hasn't gotten
           | any less repellant.
        
         | derwiki wrote:
         | I've been using Beeper to use Facebook messages without using
         | Facebook directly.
        
           | dicknuckle wrote:
           | I've been using Disa.im but every few years FB breaks the API
           | it uses for a few days or weeks at a time.
        
           | deergomoo wrote:
           | It's also worth noting that you can continue to use Messenger
           | with a de-activated Facebook profile.
        
           | astura wrote:
           | Messenger is a different app, you can install it without
           | having the Facebook app installed.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | I've done this for Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn. It's really
         | effective.
        
       | blackearl wrote:
       | How do you delete facebook if you're at the stage where they've
       | requested you upload a photo ID, passport, SSN, lock of hair, and
       | stool sample just to sign in?
        
       | Ashoka_rkt wrote:
       | Though I haven't deleted my social media accounts, I don't use
       | them at all even on an occasional basis. I have them for reaching
       | out to my acquaintances/old friends, access content behind
       | login(when I've been shared with their links), etc. After
       | watching The Social Dilemma(1), I've grown even more averse
       | towards social media.
       | 
       | Many regular social media consumers feel that they get useful
       | info out of it along with their entertainment content. Consider
       | this, there are specific sources to get entertainment-
       | netflix,local newspaper website's movie/gossip section,etc. And
       | if one is looking for useful info, the chance of finding the info
       | that is really useful/timely in the specific moment of their life
       | is more via a web search than their infinite feed in their
       | Facebook/twitter/instagram. If you really need an info then you
       | wouldn't rely on random chance/luck that's needed in finding that
       | in your feed.
       | 
       | Here in India, WhatsApp is ubiquitous, it is kind of used as a
       | work chat as well when people are logged out of work
       | MSTeams/Skype. So I have WhatsApp installed but I don't go to it
       | to browse the status messages/pics people post, no matter how
       | tempting it is :). I use other more privacy friendly apps for
       | messaging with family and friends.
       | 
       | It is hard to tell people to stop using social media, sometimes
       | people find it offending/intrusive. But the perspective of life
       | changes if you don't use social media. You seem to have time for
       | more things in life.
       | 
       | We also have to admit that many don't have the
       | luxury(work/professional reasons) to avoid social media
       | altogether.
       | 
       | 1- http://thesocialdilemma.com
        
       | romanovcode wrote:
       | "Close" is not "Delete". Would be nice to have actual guides on
       | deleting your data, for example for Spotify.
        
         | btdmaster wrote:
         | https://justdeleteme.xyz: "Public playlists will be anonymised,
         | delete any playlists you want."
        
       | cube00 wrote:
       | _> While the tech giant will likely continue to loom large over
       | our lives, from search to email to our calendars, we can delete
       | inactive or unnecessary Google accounts._
       | 
       | This is a missed opportunity to recommend good alternatives,
       | especially for email and getting people onto their own domains.
        
       | endisneigh wrote:
       | Personally I think it's a bad idea to delete any of your
       | accounts. It becomes a huge hassle to claim anything if there's a
       | situation in which you need an account that can show that you
       | have ownership.
       | 
       | In particular if you see a photo of you or yours somewhere and
       | want it modified or removed.
       | 
       | Not to mention there's really no value in deletion. Log out, stop
       | using all of the clients. The end.
        
         | mrtesthah wrote:
         | Isn't this the use case for Keybase?
        
         | kibwen wrote:
         | Whether or not you have an account with a service should not
         | matter here. If your country doesn't grant you the legal right
         | to get a photo taken down, then a service won't take it down
         | even if you have an account. And if you do have the legal right
         | do have a photo taken down, then the service will take it down
         | even if you don't have an account, lest they become victim to a
         | lawsuit that they will easily lose.
        
         | sdevonoes wrote:
         | > Not to mention there's really no value in deletion. Log out,
         | stop using all of the clients. The end.
         | 
         | I see value in deleting information about me on the Internet.
         | Not to hide it from companies like Facebook (because they
         | probably hold you data even if you delete them), but from other
         | people. You never know who can use your pictures/profile for.
         | Obviously, the first step would be to not publish sensitive
         | information about yourself, but if that ship has already
         | sailed, well, the least you can do is to remove it before you
         | "log out and stop using all the clients".
        
           | endisneigh wrote:
           | You don't need to delete your account to hide it. Deleting
           | your account simply just stops your ability to prove who you
           | are if you later find your stuff archived or mirrored
           | somewhere.
           | 
           | I don't really see what you gain by deletion. Better off
           | running one of many scripts to delete all your data and
           | retain the account
        
       | pipeline_peak wrote:
       | Mozilla is sounding less like a browser developer and more like
       | Richard Stallman.
        
         | mikojan wrote:
         | Good.
        
       | trapatsas wrote:
       | The article could just simple give some instructions on how to
       | stop your data and internet subscriptions, which is pretty much
       | equivalent.
        
       | ahmedfromtunis wrote:
       | To protect my mental wellbeing, I find that carefully selecting
       | who to follow on some of these services improves considerably my
       | experience.
       | 
       | For Instagram and Twitter, my rule of thumb is to prefer topical
       | accounts to entity ones. That is, accounts that are dedicated to
       | a single topic, no matter how narrow or large the scope, over
       | those of people and/or companies.
       | 
       | Personal and business accounts, no matter how focused they are,
       | tend to go off topic very often, and there's nothing to do about
       | it. A designer or an art studio can still post about politics,
       | religion, or whatever the controversy du jour is about. An
       | account about logo design or some python framework, not so much
       | if ever.
       | 
       | This allows me to have a feed whose content I sort of control.
       | With Twitter, it gets even better with lists, so I have ones
       | about dev stuff, others about business topics, etc. and the
       | content there is almost on topic most of the time.
       | 
       | Since I started doing this, the impact of social media on my mood
       | almost vanished, yet I'm still able to closely follow what's
       | happening on topics I really care about.
       | 
       | When I want to see what's happening on the real world, I check my
       | Facebook.
       | 
       | I'm sure aware of how bad these companies are with personal data.
       | So it you think it'd be better to delete your account, then, yes,
       | do it.
        
         | nathias wrote:
         | Yea, I have followed a lot of philosophy professors and when
         | COVID started the accounts started to behave like a botnet
         | really aggressively retweeting anti-trump and covid mainstream
         | media. I really don't know if that was actually a set of hacked
         | accounts or if people really started to behave like locust. But
         | just unfollowing people that just have opinions about 'current
         | thing' will do a lot for the quality of your timeline.
        
         | Mikeb85 wrote:
         | > To protect my mental wellbeing, I find that carefully
         | selecting who to follow on some of these services improves
         | considerably my experience. For Instagram and Twitter, my rule
         | of thumb
         | 
         | This. These services aren't toxic if you don't follow toxic
         | accounts.
         | 
         | Also, I didn't think much about it in the past but now that I
         | split my time between 3 countries and 2 continents, having FB
         | (messenger) is the best way to keep in touch with people
         | without bugging them with my several phone numbers (and charges
         | that may occur, thanks Canadian telecoms).
        
           | 31098347 wrote:
           | >This. These services aren't toxic if you don't follow toxic
           | accounts.
           | 
           | Your ability to moderate your usage of these services doesn't
           | make them not toxic. Your statement is victim blaming.
           | 
           | These services are still major proprietors of surveillance
           | capitalism. They sell your future behavior to the highest
           | bidder. This is toxic in itself.
           | 
           | Beyond which, your participation in these services is a
           | signal to those who trust you that these services are safe
           | for them to use. They are not, because they are not safe for
           | anyone to use. That you have mitigated the harm through
           | devoting even more of your attention to them doesn't change
           | that.
        
             | Mikeb85 wrote:
             | > Your statement is victim blaming.
             | 
             | Really? You're going to equate this to crimes someone
             | perpetuates against another?
             | 
             | For weeks I've seen posts blaming Ukraine for being invaded
             | and having genocide committed against them. That's victim
             | blaming.
             | 
             | Social media users aren't victims of anything except their
             | own inability to limit and moderate usage. Back in the day
             | people would sit in front of the TV, now it's just a
             | different screen. That's on them. Many people also use
             | social media constructively; to do things like run their
             | business, keep in touch with friends and family, etc...
        
               | 31098347 wrote:
               | The naivete of this take is astounding for someone who
               | frequents a technology message board. You're just going
               | to ignore the part where these services employ A/B tests
               | to make their services more addictive? You're going to
               | ignore the countless stories about how Facebook knew that
               | the content they boost is bad for mental health and is
               | addictive but they did it anyway? You're going to ignore
               | .. the entire surveillance capitalism aspect where an
               | entire industry is predicated upon keeping people
               | engaged?
               | 
               | Have a feeling you'd get a long with the Sackler family
               | famously. Christ.
        
               | Mikeb85 wrote:
               | And commercial food producers make their products more
               | addictive too... How about the tobacco industry? How
               | about illicit drugs? Porn?
               | 
               | At some point you need to talk about personal
               | responsibility...
        
               | harrylove wrote:
               | You can be an impartial observer of predator/prey
               | behavior without considering yourself part of either
               | group. But it doesn't change the fact that there is a
               | predator/prey relationship. In the case of social media,
               | just like many addictions, there are too many variables
               | at play to propose a simple solution like "just stop
               | doing it." So when you say people (who are indeed
               | targeted) should "just" do the simple solution or else
               | suffer the consequences, that is victim blaming.
        
               | 31098347 wrote:
               | > And commercial food producers make their products more
               | addictive too... How about the tobacco industry? How
               | about illicit drugs? Porn?
               | 
               | How about them? They also designed their products to be
               | addictive.
               | 
               | "Personal Responsibility" is just the shield that
               | powerful companies use to avoid being regulated.
               | 
               | Shift the blame to the exploited and make it clear that
               | their problems stem from their moral deficiency. Pretty
               | convenient all told --- the personal responsibility of
               | the architects of these systems and products somehow
               | evaporates.
               | 
               | Personal responsibility cannot overcome AI designed to
               | addict you. These services are not your friends. You are
               | not the customer or the product. Your future behavior is
               | the product. The only way to win is not to play.
        
               | robonerd wrote:
               | > _Personal responsibility cannot overcome AI designed to
               | addict you._
               | 
               | I agree with your general arguments but you're going too
               | far here. Individuals _can_ overcome addiction. That
               | doesn 't change the big picture of how additive
               | substances and services effect society as a whole, and I
               | agree corporations use personal responsibility rhetoric
               | to stave off government regulation. But you're going too
               | far by suggesting that individual addicts have no chance
               | of quitting. Many people _have_ quit, proving that it 's
               | not impossible. It's good to see the whole forest, but
               | don't forget the trees.
        
               | BolexNOLA wrote:
               | I largely agree with the thrust of your argument, but you
               | need to ease off the throttle a bit man.
        
           | nicce wrote:
           | > This. These services aren't toxic if you don't follow toxic
           | accounts
           | 
           | Well. They do their best with recommendations and popular
           | posts which try to lurk into your feed anyway. The whole
           | TikTok is kinda based in that idea.
        
             | yywwbbn wrote:
             | I just reported every post FB recommend to me (not from
             | someone I'm following) as spam and blocked the user. Over
             | time it stopped showing crap to me (at least it seems
             | so..).
        
               | ahmedfromtunis wrote:
               | I wish my experience was similar. About a month ago,
               | Facebook started showing really low quality, and even
               | spammy, content as "Recommended for you".
               | 
               | I spent a day or two reporting every recommended post
               | that I didn't like hoping to tell the algorithm to leave
               | me alone. To no avail.
               | 
               | I still see these posts on my feed whenever I check it.
               | And it's very bad.
        
           | micronova wrote:
           | > This. These services aren't toxic if you don't follow toxic
           | accounts.
           | 
           | This is so wrong, on so many levels. They will capture your
           | clicks, your usage patterns, your interests, and the internet
           | will present to you in a non-neutral way, in a way which will
           | not be in your interest, but in the interest of whoever is
           | paying for the results of your data analysis. A way which
           | will influence your perception of reality in microscopic and
           | permanent ways, because they will know you more intimately
           | than you know yourself.
           | 
           | Do not interact with surveillance capitalists. You will lose.
           | 
           | One should instead protect its behavioural breadcrumbs and
           | try to use non surveillance ways of communication.
        
             | andrewzah wrote:
             | No. The parent comment's viewpoint is fine, whereas your
             | absolutist viewpoint is not helpful.
             | 
             | Facebook, Instagram, Twitter are what you make of them.
             | There's nothing to "present" if you don't mindlessly scroll
             | but use them the way they were originally intended: to keep
             | in touch with contacts. For some people it's just easiest
             | to keep in touch with them on Facebook, etc.
             | 
             | There also a lot of good Facebook groups, and marketplace
             | is very useful.
             | 
             | Being able to stay in contact with people is _extremely_
             | useful. Cutting that out entirely out of spite doesn't do
             | any good.
        
               | BolexNOLA wrote:
               | I don't know about you, but when I cut out the toxic
               | folks I actually discovered I wasn't using Facebook for
               | keeping up with folks _at all_. That was a side-benefit
               | of the arguing I was doing with folks I hadn't seen in
               | years. I didn't realize how insane that was of me, just
               | giving all of these people my emotional and mental
               | energy, until I stopped. And yeah, you can point to me
               | and say, "see? Just stop! It works!" but it took MANY
               | years for me to realize what was happening.
        
         | BolexNOLA wrote:
         | Can't endorse this approach enough. I blocked/unfriended about
         | 15-20 people on Facebook and it got exponentially more
         | pleasant. What's more, I barely use it now because as it turned
         | out...I was mostly using Facebook to have political arguments
         | and I had no idea. I just _thought_ I needed it to keep up with
         | folks.
         | 
         | Frankly, it's shocking how much mental energy some random dude
         | you met once 8 years ago can occupy if you let him on your
         | feed. We choose to not remove them due to some vague fear of
         | "the social media bubble" as if we don't filter out people and
         | organizations we don't like all the time with or without it.
        
       | ggga wrote:
       | Gghjj
        
       | yamrzou wrote:
       | I'm not sure deleting an Instagram account completely removes it
       | from Facebook's servers. I recently deleted an old account, and
       | after it was completely removed, I wanted to create a new one
       | with the same username, but it complained that the username could
       | not be used because it still "exists".
        
       | the__alchemist wrote:
       | Thx; deleted Spotify. Ended up needing a conversation with their
       | chat bot and email confirmation, but was over in 5 minutes.
        
       | jorvi wrote:
       | I have an Instagram account that I no longer own the e-mail or
       | recovery phone number for. I have the password for it but every
       | time I try to log in I get a 'suspicious login' warning and have
       | to verify with said phone number. I want it gone but I cannot
       | delete it. Loathe as I am I would even be willing to provide
       | government ID.
       | 
       | Instagram literally has no contactable support if you aren't a
       | massive account (200k+ followers or whatever). I feel this should
       | be highly illegal.
       | 
       | I have thought about retaining a lawyer and see if I can twist
       | their arm legally (via GDPR), but I don't want a simple account
       | deletion to run in the tens of thousands of euros.
       | 
       | Yes I am intensely frustrated.
        
         | Jhsto wrote:
         | I once got my old username released through their generic
         | support ticket system. I never received a reply, but instead
         | found one day that they had processed my request.
        
         | adambyrtek wrote:
         | You don't need a lawyer to send a standard "right to erasure"
         | GDPR request and they are required to respond within 30 days:
         | https://gdpr.eu/right-to-erasure-request-form/
        
           | jorvi wrote:
           | Yes, but here comes the problem: where would I send this
           | request? Instagram notes no public facing physical address
           | for my country and their support e-mail just sends back
           | automated replies.
        
             | adambyrtek wrote:
             | https://help.instagram.com/519522125107875/
             | 
             | "The data controller responsible for your information is
             | Meta Platforms Ireland Limited, which you can contact
             | online or by writing to:
             | 
             | Meta Platforms Ireland Ltd.
             | 
             | 4 Grand Canal Square
             | 
             | Grand Canal Harbour
             | 
             | Dublin 2 Ireland"
             | 
             | The "contact online" link leads to the following form:
             | https://help.instagram.com/contact/186020218683230
             | 
             | I would send the request both online and by tracked post
             | with a proof of delivery. In the end your lawyer would do
             | the same thing and charge for this at an hourly rate.
        
             | dflock wrote:
             | Their support email processing system may have a different
             | code path for emails that contain "gdpr right to erasure"
             | in the subject line?
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | This should work.
           | 
           | The automated ID verification might fail for a variety of
           | reasons (frankly if they don't originally have a copy I'm not
           | sure what they'd be comparing it to) but the GDPR process
           | should work if you fight long enough. You might need to prove
           | that you owned the email or number though - email might be
           | tricky but number is easier as you can submit a bill or do
           | another subject access request to your provider which should
           | still have records about it.
           | 
           | Good luck!
        
         | prox wrote:
         | I feel the same way with the contact ability. Companies should
         | have a human contact opportunity by law.
        
           | micromacrofoot wrote:
           | they'll just make you wait an hour and hang up on you like my
           | health insurance company does, unfortunately you can't
           | mandate good service
        
             | prox wrote:
             | Still I will take it above no possibility at all.
        
       | sunjester wrote:
       | Anyone who reads the Mozilla Blog probably doesn't need this
       | guide, so for whom is this article targeting?
        
         | ouid wrote:
         | The hackernews comments section, populated by people who are
         | looking to talk about their latest argument against social
         | media (guilty), but who typically need to find an appropriate
         | article for that rant to be on topic.
        
         | tqi wrote:
        
       | searchableguy wrote:
       | If you want to clean history regularly instead of deleting the
       | account, you can use https://redact.dev.
       | 
       | I use it to clean twitter on regular interval.
       | 
       | It works with every service except Google and Apple related ones
       | (They can't add support for those without getting kicked off the
       | app stores)
        
         | philjohn wrote:
         | How do they get around only being able to get at your last 3000
         | tweets?
        
           | hallway_monitor wrote:
           | It seems like if you are tweeting that much you might not be
           | someone who needs this service.
        
           | rovr138 wrote:
           | If I have 6000, and it deletes 3000. Does it show the next
           | 3000?
           | 
           | No idea, just wondering if it's just batches of 3000 would
           | solve that.
        
       | wheelerof4te wrote:
       | People will always find ways to waste their time.
       | 
       | The least you can do is to do it of your own will instead of
       | being pushed into it by conditioning from various social
       | networks.
        
       | throwawayhnacct wrote:
       | How to I delete my HN account?? (not this throwaway account, but
       | my real one)
        
         | zgk7iqea wrote:
         | https://jacquesmattheij.com/the-unofficial-hn-faq/#deleteacc...
         | 
         | You can't.
        
       | hexo wrote:
       | How to delete unwanted features from Firefox and bring back
       | wanted ones would come handy as well.
        
       | csnti wrote:
       | The only reason why I haven't deleted FB is because of the
       | memories shared on there. I haven't posted on my timeline in
       | years. A long time ago, I got spooked when I saw ads that tracked
       | my Google search activity, that's what drove me away from social
       | media in general; an utter lack of respect for the privacy of
       | users. And then I got obsessed with finding out ways to avoid
       | fingerprinting (it's nearly impossible). On the odd occasion I
       | might log-in to see what people are up to, but for the most part
       | I keep in touch with friends and family through text and
       | sometimes Discord.
       | 
       | I deleted my linkedin because I kept getting nothing but spam
       | emails, with no actual prospects of a job. Tbh I think that
       | entire platform is a cesspool.
        
         | jancsika wrote:
         | > And then I got obsessed with finding out ways to avoid
         | fingerprinting (it's nearly impossible).
         | 
         | At that point it's worth considering heading to a university
         | library and reading the periodicals and books that are housed
         | there.
         | 
         | Obsession = 3+ hours a day attempting to defeat tracking in a
         | category of software designed to track you.
         | 
         | I live about _40_ minutes away from a decent university
         | library.
         | 
         | In your first six days of failing to avoid fingerprinting, I
         | would have gotten nine hours of private, uninterrupted reading
         | time.
         | 
         | Even better-- if I chose to read a newspaper in the library, I
         | wouldn't be distracted by a cheapo "companion scroll" taped to
         | the bottom by Silicon Valley types so their underlings can
         | paste "Gellman-Amnesia effect ftw" during breaks in some
         | desperate attempt to misdirect the angst that must come from
         | polishing someone else's ad tech for a living.
        
       | shashashasha___ wrote:
       | missing how to delete your Mozilla account?
        
       | Simon_O_Rourke wrote:
       | I deleted my Facebook account around 2017, then went back under a
       | pseudonym (telling all my friends of this account of course), and
       | then just recreating my old account again. Skip forward five
       | years, I barely login to Facebook at all, even just to check up
       | on friends.
        
       | qiskit wrote:
       | Firefox's market share is what? 3%? Shouldn't mozilla be focusing
       | more on that than this nonsense? So much unnecessary waste of
       | capital in tech.
        
       | webchat wrote:
        
       | jiffygist wrote:
       | I have an old facebook account registered using the email address
       | that no longer exists so it is impossible for me to log into it.
       | Yet it still exists and appears in google search results.
       | 
       | I would've written to the support, but I can't find any way to
       | contact facebook. Any suggestions?
        
       | orsenthil wrote:
       | Why is Mozilla publishing this?
        
         | rvnx wrote:
         | Content-marketing / keyword stuffing, so when you search for
         | "How to delete Instagram", you get on Mozilla website and get
         | to learn about it and eventually decide to download Firefox,
         | which will make money out of ads from Google Searches and other
         | partnerships.
        
         | pridkett wrote:
         | Mozilla is very active on privacy advocacy and highlights
         | Firefox's privacy as a feature[0]. This makes some sense
         | because the features of Firefox (cookie blocking, containers,
         | first class ad blocking) all help preserve your privacy better
         | than Chrome or Edge. As part of this advocacy space they've
         | also done things like " _privacy not included"[1] (the asterisk
         | and lowercase are intentional, similar to the 1987 movie "_
         | batteries not included").
         | 
         | [0]: https://www.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/privacy/
         | 
         | [1]:
         | https://foundation.mozilla.org/en/privacynotincluded/about/
        
           | philjohn wrote:
           | Yes and no. Some of it seems genuine, but then you had the
           | pocket debacle, as well as offering Google as the default
           | search engine.
           | 
           | They're all for privacy (which is a selling point) until
           | there's money on the line.
           | 
           | Much like Apple.
        
       | crossroadsguy wrote:
       | I deleted my Facebook account. Good decision. The username - my
       | first name (very common in my country) - was then used by a guy
       | who regularly posts sexist, religious hatred, general ultra right
       | wing posts - he's kinda high up in a state committee of the
       | ruling party. I kinda feel bad about that. (Same guy got my
       | Instagram handle as well - I think he was waiting for it)
       | 
       | Then I had to open a Facebook account anyway, because house
       | hunting here became next to impossible without it. So that's
       | there.
        
       | LB232323 wrote:
       | People are realizing that social media is draining, predatory,
       | and entirely superfluous.
       | 
       | Of course there are employees here of social media corporations
       | who would want to stem the tide of this mass exodus, but it's
       | useless. Social media corporations have overstepped their
       | boundaries and become a net negative on human society.
       | 
       | Deleting your social media accounts results in an immediate
       | improvement of quality of life and mental wellbeing. These sites
       | are intentionally designed with predatory psychological
       | mechanisms, they are designed by hackers like ourselves, but the
       | hackers who see "social engineering" as a perfectly ethical
       | practice and not simply psychological manipulation.
       | 
       | These services are designed to be addictive, full stop. Addiction
       | is not healthy, and neither is social media. Maybe this will
       | bring SV back to its roots, real technological progress for the
       | nation and not desperate bids for data mining based on cheap
       | psychological tricks.
       | 
       | People are growing sickened of the endless scrolls of
       | psychological disturbing viral content combined with the false
       | positivity of human interest stories. It is deepening social
       | divisions, racial conflicts, political partisanship, and general
       | misery. We don't need social media, what we need is real social
       | connections in an increasingly isolated society, and social media
       | stands in the way of this.
        
         | elvis10ten wrote:
         | I think social media is just serving people what they want. We
         | can argue if this is a good thing or not.
         | 
         | > Addiction is not healthy, and neither is social media.
         | 
         | Maybe I'm an old head, but maybe we need more self discipline
         | in the world? I know this is not pragmatic but I feel there are
         | lots of things that are addictive (even things that were not
         | designed to be).
         | 
         | > We don't need social media, what we need is real social
         | connections Maybe I'm using social media differently, but what
         | is in today's social media that makes it mutually exclusive to
         | real social connections?
        
           | patrick451 wrote:
           | Meth labs are also giving people what they.
           | 
           | Even if your take the full libertarian stance that all drugs
           | should be legal, the parent comment did not seem to be
           | advocating for outlawing social media. It was positing that
           | people have realized that social media is an addictive toxin
           | and are deciding, on their own, to bail out. If something is
           | truly addictive, suggesting people develop some self
           | discipline and partake just little seems misguided at best.
           | It's way easier to just abstain completely. Nobody wants to
           | end up like Doug Stamper dispensing three drops of whiskey
           | from syringe onto their tongue.
        
       | jamal-kumar wrote:
       | I left my home country and when I did this people thought I died
       | or something hahaha.
       | 
       | I got forwarded screenshots from all these worried people
       | wondering where the fuck I went. Some of them thought I blocked
       | them or something
       | 
       | Like no, I just got incredibly sick of being exposed to that
       | level of banality
        
       | OtomotO wrote:
       | I don't have accounts on any of these platforms.
       | 
       | But when I follow people (where possible, e.g. twitter) I only
       | follow people that are interesting or have a completely different
       | worldview than me.
       | 
       | I don't want to live in a bubble and I don't need to hear my own
       | opinion, I know it anyway.
        
       | butz wrote:
       | One thing to watch out for, is that on some platforms (those that
       | are not doing correct email account ownership verification)
       | account might get recreated either by accident or not, by a
       | person using your email address. I think it is better just to
       | remove as much personal data as possible, cleanup account and
       | leave it with updated, more secure password.
        
         | ddalex wrote:
         | If somebody creates an FB account with my email address, I will
         | took it over immediately and remove it.
        
         | 3np wrote:
         | Alternatively: Let them, even click the confirm link for them;
         | increase the noise-to-signal ratio for their tracking,
         | targeting, and profiling.
        
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