[HN Gopher] I hope distributed is not the new default
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       I hope distributed is not the new default
        
       Author : pcr910303
       Score  : 136 points
       Date   : 2022-04-15 08:19 UTC (14 hours ago)
        
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       | BiteCode_dev wrote:
       | Maybe there is a balance?
       | 
       | We don't have to be 100% either.
       | 
       | We do need to build human trust and relationships, and you can't
       | do that with remote easily. Also, communications are slower and
       | full of paper cuts that will make any task requiring to gather a
       | lot from different people harder with remote.
       | 
       | Those 2 things make onboarding much harder.
       | 
       | Young people are also the one that are paying the most cost from
       | remote:
       | 
       | - they are the ones with the less autonomy, which makes remote
       | either very unproductive or make the task super hard.
       | 
       | - they don't learn anything about politics, which remote hides
       | from view, and maybe reduces a little, but doesn't remove.
       | 
       | - they are already deep in the culture distractions, which is
       | incredibly tempting in remote.
       | 
       | How course, remote work has so many benefits it may very well
       | offset all that. Time will tell I guess.
        
       | ekianjo wrote:
       | > While working from home certainly increases the amount of
       | control that people have over their day, it does so at the cost
       | of essentially all of these chance encounters.
       | 
       | How much value do you actually get from those chance encounters?
       | My experience, after years in everyday in the office, is very,
       | very little. It's like playing lottery everyday, there's not much
       | you earn under all probabilities.
        
         | agumonkey wrote:
         | And it's not like it's a potential Oasis while talking a long
         | cool hike. Office can be a minefield.. maybe you get lucky, but
         | the life distortion effect of a bad building are too strong to
         | ignore.
        
       | jdauriemma wrote:
       | RE: traveling to socialize with distributed coworkers:
       | 
       | As a person with three children and a working spouse who's busier
       | than I am, and as a person managing a distributed team, the
       | notion of convening my colleagues in one area for a team-building
       | event is stressful. I recently have been given budget to do so
       | and have been volun-told to organize such an event. Many of my
       | direct reports are eager to meet up in-person. I value their
       | happiness so I will to oblige them. And I'm not going to lie, it
       | sounds like fun - I really do like the people I work with.
       | However, being away from my family for days is a hardship for my
       | children and my spouse, who already has enough stress and is
       | unaccustomed to being the day-to-day caregiver. Since those are
       | the people I value most highly, it's hard for me to justify the
       | time, expense, and effort involved with traveling for the sole
       | purpose of socializing with my coworkers.
        
         | thex10 wrote:
         | I can relate to this. Honestly it's just one of many ways our
         | society is not structured to adequately support caregivers.
         | 
         | Disclosure: I am a working remote parent who misses meeting
         | with her team greatly.
        
       | imglorp wrote:
       | There's another aspect to meatspace, which is asymmetric loyalty.
       | 
       | Most corporations are single-minded AI's with strictly zero
       | loyalty to any worker without title =~ /^C..$/. The instant some
       | spreadsheet cell turns yellow upstairs, you're out.
       | 
       | Due to the human firmware drive of expected reciprocity, people
       | often forget this and make enormous sacrifices for $work,
       | uprooting their families, working long hours, missing family
       | events, etc. When making this sacrifice of loyalty, they expect
       | the AI to reciprocate in kind with loyalty but THE AI DOES NOT
       | HAVE THAT FEELING.
       | 
       | I recently joined a hot fintech only to have several offices
       | closed and people sacked 5 months later, in order to keep an IPO
       | route looking shiny (it wasn't).
       | 
       | My advice to juniors is do not sacrifice for that machine.
        
         | mjburgess wrote:
         | Incidentally, this is also Hobbes' view of the state, namely
         | that it's an automaton.
        
       | russellendicott wrote:
       | For me, I agree that remote work doesn't work as well as
       | collocation. Remote work is great for workers but terrible for
       | managers and company efficiency.
       | 
       | The type of work I do doesn't translate well to JIRA tickets. It
       | takes 3 whiteboard sessions, 5 meetings, and a water cooler
       | conversation to come up with something resembling a work item
       | that isn't a complete waste of someone's time.
       | 
       | Remote work is great for workers who can pull work from a queue.
       | It's terrible for the people trying to fill the queue with
       | quality work items.
       | 
       | So I guess it all depends on what you want to do with your
       | career.
        
       | marmada wrote:
       | How do remote startups function? Back in my startup days, my
       | cofounder & I lived in the same house when we were founding. We
       | slept in the same room in order to synchronize sleep schedules as
       | well. Bandwith was (as expected) super high. Immediate
       | communication over issues while still allowing for uninterrupted
       | work time. Being able to point at your screen and say "take a
       | look" is super powerful.
       | 
       | It reminds me of ML where the bottleneck is often the bandwith
       | between the GPUs.
       | 
       | And as expected working side by side / living in the same house
       | dramatically increased productivity. I couldn't imagine a remote
       | employee being as motivated.
       | 
       | TL;DR -- startups need a certain workaholic mentality /
       | intensity. In-person work can provide this.
       | 
       | In defense of remote: We didn't have a commute, which saved us at
       | least 1.5 hours a day.
        
         | lelanthran wrote:
         | > How do remote startups function? Back in my startup days, my
         | cofounder & I lived in the same house when we were founding. We
         | slept in the same room in order to synchronize sleep schedules
         | as well. Bandwith was (as expected) super high. Immediate
         | communication over issues while still allowing for
         | uninterrupted work time. Being able to point at your screen and
         | say "take a look" is super powerful.
         | 
         | I'm starting a startup now. There is no way that I am ever
         | going to be pointing at a screen and telling my cofounder "take
         | a look". My cofounder will not be a tech guy, he'll be a sales,
         | marketing and customer-contact guy.
         | 
         | A business is "product + distribution".
         | 
         | There is very little point in having two cofounders who are
         | both focusing only one of the above two variables. I think it
         | is a recipe for failure, and so I will not be doing that.
        
         | k__ wrote:
         | I'd rephrase it to:
         | 
         |  _" Certain types of companies need a certain workaholic
         | mentality"_
         | 
         | The way you describe led to monoculture and I hope this isn't
         | the only way to do things.
         | 
         | Wasn't there a saying that your software will resemble your
         | company structure? I don't know if a software resembling two
         | people sleeping in an office is a good structure to base your
         | software on.
        
         | gedy wrote:
         | Hate to sound dismissive but I've worked with people who can't
         | communicate very well unless it's in person. Writing/reading
         | causes a lot of misunderstandings for them due to comprehension
         | or patience, and video calls don't seem to work very well for
         | them as they are typical scheduled and have less body language.
         | 
         | This is fine, but I do disagree with those people saying
         | "remote doesn't work" for startups, etc. It's just them.
        
         | golergka wrote:
         | I work at such a startup. We all live in different countries
         | and different timezones. Everybody has a high level of autonomy
         | and decision-making working on his own stuff. Most of product
         | communication happens in comments on Jira and technical -- in
         | PR comments on Github, both of which are completely async.
         | There's also Slack for some realtime interaction, but it's okay
         | not to be online. At average, I'd say that I have one or two
         | video calls a week, and I don't feel that I need more.
         | 
         | It's one of the most productive environments I had in my entire
         | 15 year career.
        
         | presentation wrote:
         | I run a globally distributed startup - we still have very
         | responsive communication but a) it's not everyone on the team
         | that's a workaholic since not everyone prefers to be always
         | "on" like that, and so that's fine, they contribute in other
         | ways; b) we have to be a bit more strategic about timing since
         | you can't powwow with someone unless that person's awake, and
         | c) we spend more effort explicitly aligning since misalignment
         | can waste a ton of time, so in a way it's upgraded the quality
         | of our communication. I personally think it's been fine, and as
         | a result we have a much bigger hiring pool and are getting as
         | much done as any startup in SV I've worked at.
        
       | throwaway787544 wrote:
       | Don't worry. Managers will never let distributed or remote be the
       | default. People would eventually realize that we don't really
       | need managers except a couple times a year. They need to be in-
       | person so they can be seen around the office, so people will
       | assume they're necessary.
        
         | mathgladiator wrote:
         | This is only true for bad managers. I'm very used to having
         | managers as friends and weekly 1x1s talking strategy.
         | 
         | Well, I was used to it until I retired. An important aspect of
         | retiring was understanding management's role and be allied in
         | the company's direction.
        
       | simoneau wrote:
       | It makes me sad if future generations of programmers never have
       | the experience of working with a team in-person. I know it
       | doesn't suit everyone's work style or life style. I'm not even
       | arguing it's more productive. But it can be a lot more fun!
        
       | ekianjo wrote:
       | > Getting out of the house and into a setting with other human
       | beings builds a heck of a lot more socialization into your day
       | than sitting at home in your office. While it's certainly
       | possible that some people working from home will choose to
       | socialize more, I predict that the majority of people will
       | socialize less as they have fewer opportunities to meet and talk
       | with people built into their days.
       | 
       | When you are in control, you are in control of everything. Means
       | that if you need to get exercise everyday, you need to make it a
       | habit to go and walk outside during your remote working day.
       | 
       | As for socializing, I find that very reductive to think that "the
       | people you work with in an office are great for socialization".
       | Nope, I don't choose those people, so I'd rather invest my time
       | socializing with people I choose, which will probably not be the
       | people I am forced to work with.
        
         | teh_klev wrote:
         | > As for socializing, I find that very reductive to think that
         | "the people you work with in an office are great for
         | socialization". Nope, I don't choose those people, so I'd
         | rather invest my time socializing with people I choose, which
         | will probably not be the people I am forced to work with.
         | 
         | I agree. I'm happy to "socialise" to the extent that it
         | facilitates getting work done. But I'm not looking for new
         | pals, I'm just here to do the work and get paid, I have a
         | separate life outside of the workplace. Maybe it's just an age
         | thing but I don't want to do company pizza night, or company
         | skiing or company drinks, for me work is a means to an end.
         | 
         | Don't get me wrong, I really like the company I presently work
         | for, get on well with my colleagues, even push the boat out and
         | do a few extra hours to get a project over the line or to help
         | others, but it is just work and that's it.
        
           | mrtranscendence wrote:
           | I suppose it's a different mindset. I'm not friends with
           | anyone at work in the sense that we hang out after hours, or
           | that I'd call them if I needed help with a personal problem.
           | But it's still hard for me to think of it as "just work and
           | that's it". I'm glad to be "work pals" with these people and
           | want the best for them personally as well as professionally.
           | 
           | I agree that _work_ is a means to an end, but the people I
           | work with aren 't similarly means.
        
       | meghaditya wrote:
       | Distributed was always an alternative. The pandemic just made it
       | popular among people who never tried it before. These kinds of
       | arguments in favor of office culture seem like a reflex action
       | resisting any change.
        
         | tazjin wrote:
         | Some people also just like interacting with other people, no
         | "reflex action" about it.
        
           | mvanbaak wrote:
           | things like starbucks or wework or whatever shared office
           | space rentable by the hour are a better solution for this
           | then big office spaces that stay empty most of the time.
        
       | taeric wrote:
       | I expected this to be about system design, not team design.
       | 
       | I question really only the last claim. Integrated doesn't beat
       | distributed every time. Rather, spending money/effort beats
       | hoping for the best. Every time.
       | 
       | To that end, if we will see this work, we will see ways of
       | increasing effort in the area. My gut is that this will be by
       | getting more ways of encouraging inefficient encounters. Think of
       | it in terms of hits. You can try and ensure your one effort is a
       | hit. Or you can do what you can to maximize the effectiveness of
       | an effort, while also increasing the number of efforts you make.
        
       | dannyw wrote:
       | I like remote work, I like meeting my colleagues in the meatspace
       | (irregularly).
       | 
       | Don't force me into the office for a majority of the time, and
       | give everyone a travel budget to meet once a quarter.
       | 
       | IMHO this is a great balance, moreso that the "hybrid" of 3 days
       | a week.
        
       | angarg12 wrote:
       | Everyone's different and unless you account for that we will keep
       | talking past each other.
       | 
       | Yesterday I went to the office for the first time in a month. I
       | hated it.
       | 
       | First I spent over 1 hour commuting each way, which felt like a
       | massive waste of time. We moved to a town out of the city because
       | here we could afford a better living space for us without having
       | to spend half of our income in rent.
       | 
       | Since I left in a hurry I forgot to take my lunch with me (that I
       | cook at home daily), so instead I had to go to a takeaway around
       | the corner and spend 25$ for a dubious sandwich and a snack.
       | Coffee from the big tub in the lobby is so bad that makes me
       | wonder how someone can botch coffee so badly. After lunch I got
       | sleepy as sometimes happens, but instead of a powernap like I
       | have at home, I had to bumble through my code until I sobered up.
       | I ended up getting back home late and exhausted.
       | 
       | Some of the arguments from OP are quite curious, such as the
       | number of steps. In my case, rather than spending 2 hours sitting
       | in busses, I could spend 1 hour in the gym and 1 hour walking my
       | dog, and come up ahead.
       | 
       | By the way, why is bonding with colleagues such a big deal? I had
       | to leave my family and lifelong friends behind due to moving to
       | another city. What if WFH had been the norm when I started my
       | career? Doesn't hanging out with your family and friends count
       | for anything?
       | 
       | Again I recognise each person's circumstances are different, but
       | after having a taste of remote work (after 12 years of in-the-
       | office career) I don't think I'll ever be able to go back.
        
         | bee_rider wrote:
         | > By the way, why is bonding with colleagues such a big deal? I
         | had to leave my family and lifelong friends behind due to
         | moving to another city. What if WFH had been the norm when I
         | started my career? Doesn't hanging out with your family and
         | friends count for anything?
         | 
         | I think this is for the company? If you have a good rapport
         | with your co-workers, I suspect it will be easier to work
         | together on problems.
         | 
         | It is of course also possible to do things more formally.
         | 
         | I dunno. I like to keep coworkers at an arms length and not get
         | too buddy-buddy, and I prefer to socialize with my non-work
         | friends. So I'm not suggesting that people should replace their
         | social friends with work friends or something ridiculous like
         | that. But the there's plenty of room between best buds and
         | total icy formality that for coworkers to exist in, which might
         | make it easier to bounce ideas back and forth.
        
         | porcoda wrote:
         | > By the way, why is bonding with colleagues such a big deal?
         | 
         | One of the most consistent themes in the "please go back to
         | offices" articles is that there is a cohort of people who
         | appear to have designed their lives around their job. Their
         | social life solely revolves around work. They don't appear to
         | actually have social lives that don't involve coworkers. They
         | also appear to believe all that matters is optimizing work
         | performance.
         | 
         | Not exactly what I'd think would lead to a generally good level
         | of well being, but I guess it works for some people.
        
       | gedy wrote:
       | > Furthermore, the spontaneous and critically important break-
       | outs (small conversations) that happen at team off-sites or
       | conferences
       | 
       | I guess I've missed out, but in 20 years in the industry I've
       | literally never had any critically important break-outs from
       | office or off-sites or hallway conversations.
       | 
       | Important work is intentional, and rarely accidental.
        
       | cvhashim wrote:
       | I'd be in the office and would be more willing to accept a hybrid
       | model if I worked at Google and got free perks like team
       | vacations.
        
       | TxProgrammer wrote:
       | COVID caused a revolution guys -lets not lose sight of that just
       | because we miss the ritual of the office.
       | 
       | in his post, looks like OP wants the team to have occasional
       | meetings and more in-person meetups.. sure I'm fine with that,
       | covid permitting. BUT
       | 
       | if a Remote lifestyle allows me to check in code, manage teams
       | and be productive while at the same time caring for my family,
       | extended family, save commute time, or if I have the means, to
       | sit on a beach or in a forest and do my work, why shouldn't we
       | prefer that flexible way of working, at the expense of some added
       | communication overhead ... why do we need to enforce the ritual
       | of the office at all -ie, lets DOWNSIZE the office. make it less
       | relevant, sure we cant give it up completely for many
       | organizations or projects..
       | 
       | And especially for those of us who work in shitty companies (and
       | there are many of us) we know that some workplaces can be like
       | this: https://youtu.be/jg047oJf1B4?t=58 -anything that lets
       | people work remotely or gets away from the hell of being a wage
       | slave should be an option..
        
       | jdrc wrote:
       | instead of obsessing over what will be the "new default", it's
       | sometimes better to sit back, relax and watch the pieces fall
       | where they may , as some of the forces here are irreversible.
       | There is always a capacity and will for people to produce work,
       | and it will find its way to productive use regardless of whether
       | they job is distributed or not. we are still at the beginning of
       | this
       | 
       | Incidentally , academics have been used to this distributed mode
       | for decades, with conferences purposely organized to provide
       | opportunities for meshing mixing and friction.
        
       | bee_rider wrote:
       | Personally I was mostly just happy to be getting back into the
       | office occasionally because I'm tired of working 3 feet away from
       | my bed. I can see work-from-home working really well if you are
       | lucky enough to have a big place with an extra office, but for me
       | it totally and completely sucked.
        
         | jackson1442 wrote:
         | I think this is where most of the divide is coming from. Single
         | engineers with studio apartments have no interest in working
         | from home (at least I don't) because I'm just working alone
         | from my box all day, save for the time when I go to the coffee
         | shop every day.
         | 
         | My most productive hours are away from home, at the coffee
         | shop, even without my relatively nice wfh setup.
         | 
         | Some claim that people who don't like wfh wrap too much of
         | their social life around work, but I'd just like to be around
         | people while I work rather than sitting in my bedroom alone for
         | 8 hours a day. This might change when I find a partner etc but
         | I'd really prefer a hybrid environment for now.
        
           | bee_rider wrote:
           | I love my partner dearly but
           | 
           | * They get up earlier than me and, by default, would end up
           | taking the living room when also working from home. I'm sure
           | they would have been receptive to trading off who used which
           | room, but trading workspaces is kind of a hassle.
           | 
           | * I don't need to spend every single minute with them.
        
       | paxys wrote:
       | Always comes down to the same argument - I need social
       | interaction therefore everyone must come to work.
        
       | dudul wrote:
       | Always the same "arguments".
       | 
       | Spend time with your real friends instead of your coworkers, get
       | out of the house on your own, nobody is forcing you to stay
       | inside just because you don't have to go to an office. Work from
       | a coworking space, distributed/remote doesn't mean everybody at
       | home.
       | 
       | It's crazy to see how unhealthy people's life can be when work is
       | the only thing they have.
        
       | yu-carm-kror wrote:
       | The points are essentially:
       | 
       | * ski trips and the like build good rapport
       | 
       | * chance encounters with colleagues are valuable
       | 
       | * steps make you healthier
       | 
       | The world is realizing that these are so much easier to solve for
       | in remote-first work than it is to solve the problems associated
       | to office-first.
        
         | noduerme wrote:
         | I will say this about the world, though. (As someone who hasn't
         | gone to an office job in 20 years).
         | 
         | * No one builds rapport through zoom meetings.
         | 
         | * People have forgotten how to handle chance encounters, and
         | display a lot of signs of social discomfort now when they do
         | have them.
         | 
         | * People also stopped taking care of themselves during the
         | pandemic, at the same time everyone started working from home.
         | 
         | The world is realizing what offroad warrior freelancers like me
         | realized a long time ago, but it takes time to realize it: It's
         | actually hard to organize your time and take care of yourself
         | in the absence of formal structure. I think it will take 20
         | years or so before a majority of people in white collar
         | positions really adjust to creating their own work/life balance
         | now that it's open to them to choose how to manage their
         | geographic place and time. It's actually a lot of
         | responsibility, and something a lot of people never asked for.
        
           | _proofs wrote:
           | no one builds rapport in zoom meetings?
           | 
           | no one builds rapport in zoom meetings where the company
           | strangles the meeting space with an expectation of conduct
           | and subject matter*
           | 
           | whole internet communities born around games which rely on
           | communication are quite literally filled with (positive)
           | remote rapport.
           | 
           | quite a few demographics have had long time remote-friends (i
           | personally have had a few, one i practically grew up with
           | from ages 9 to 23, and have stayed in contact with) -- never
           | met them irl bc logistics are hard.
           | 
           | i just do not understand this notion of not being able to
           | build relationships remotely -- it is a fiction.
        
           | gnome_chomsky wrote:
           | > * People also stopped taking care of themselves during the
           | pandemic, at the same time everyone started working from
           | home.
           | 
           | I'm healthier than ever. I bought an exercise bike, have a
           | home weight setup and my diet is cleaner. I have several
           | coworkers who have done similarly.
        
           | silvestrov wrote:
           | _No one builds rapport through zoom meetings_
           | 
           | I disagree. I think rapport is created when you create
           | things/solutions that makes sense for the business. You don't
           | create rapport by being in same room when things don't make
           | sense.
           | 
           | In high school I made rapport with teachers that were good. I
           | did not make rapport with bad teachers who pretended to be
           | good at their job.
           | 
           | Same as developer: rapport is made with other people who
           | strives for clarity in design and communication. No rapport
           | is made with people who play people games. Office time versus
           | zoom time does not make any difference.
        
             | civilized wrote:
             | Yes! I've been remote for many years, more than anyone else
             | I know. I learned how to work long before videoconference
             | was even an option, and I never turn my camera on. Some
             | people have never seen my face live. But they know who I
             | am. Because when I come in the room, good questions start
             | getting asked, brains turn on, decisions are made, roles
             | and accountability are set up.
             | 
             | If you're there to do the work, the other people who are
             | there to do the work appreciate the hell out of you. (And
             | most of them don't turn their camera on either.)
        
           | isoprophlex wrote:
           | I flat out disagree with every single point you make. Not to
           | dismiss your own experience, disregard what you are saying,
           | or be snide or whatever, but:
           | 
           | 1. I met my new manager (switched jobs) for the first time
           | over MS Teams in a personally challenging time; I needed to
           | take care of my family the second week after starting a new
           | job. I worried a lot over this, which was met with incredible
           | kindness and empathy.
           | 
           | 2. I've started several serendipitous, fruitful
           | collaborations by expansion of offhanded questions or remarks
           | in remote meetings.
           | 
           | 3. My mental and physical health is better than pre pandemic
           | because of less commute, more leniency to take a walk or bike
           | a bit, lower stress around picking up kids, being able to
           | cook my own food instead of relying on (potentially
           | unhealthy) cafeteria
        
             | teh_klev wrote:
             | > more leniency to take a walk or bike a bit
             | 
             | The company I work for will happily let you do this even
             | after already having had your lunch break. As far as
             | they're concerned as long as the work gets done they don't
             | care that much as to how it gets done.
        
               | nowherebeen wrote:
               | People don't realize that walking is a way to think and
               | thinking is work as well. Many successful people,
               | including Steve Jobs, took long walks during the day. It
               | helps the mind focus and untangle all your ideas in your
               | head.
        
           | chronofar wrote:
           | > It's actually hard to organize your time and take care of
           | yourself in the absence of formal structure.
           | 
           | It's not hard, it just takes deliberate action. Learning to
           | take said matters into your own hands rather than conforming
           | them to what you "have to do" (aka formal structure) is
           | something most people would benefit from as early as possible
           | in life.
        
           | koide wrote:
           | In my experience you can build rapport through video calls.
           | For certain not in meetings with groups, but on 1:1s it's
           | doable. You have to be conscious about it and put more
           | effort. But it's not impossible. In fact, for me it's easier
           | because it's not by chance, I can put myself in the right
           | mindset to have meaningful conversations rather than bumping
           | into random people when solving a problem in my mind.
           | 
           | I do agree it's a lot of responsibility, but life changes
           | that way. Horse breeders didn't ask for the Model T and so
           | on...
        
             | BlueTemplar wrote:
             | Funny that you would take this example since personal cars
             | (as we know them since the Model T) are likely to become
             | restricted to rich people in a few decades...
             | 
             | (Though I doubt horses would come back to replace a
             | significant fraction of them.)
        
           | chaostheory wrote:
           | > It's actually hard to organize your time and take care of
           | yourself in the absence of formal structure.
           | 
           | I have strong doubts that you've been remote for "20 years".
           | This is much easier to accomplish working remotely. Outside
           | of tech and Silicon Valley, there are still managers who are
           | keen to see their their employees warming their seats despite
           | the proven effectiveness of the independence of remote work
        
           | teh_klev wrote:
           | I'd disagree with all of your points.
           | 
           | > No one builds rapport through zoom meetings.
           | 
           | I joined my present company in 2020 and had no problems
           | building a rapport with my fellow workers via Teams.
           | 
           | > People have forgotten how to handle chance encounters, and
           | display a lot of signs of social discomfort now when they do
           | have them.
           | 
           | I don't see any evidence of this. I have plenty of chance
           | encounters and don't feel any less comfortable about them
           | compared to pre-lockdown, and neither it seems do the folks
           | that are on the other end of those chance encounters.
           | 
           | > People also stopped taking care of themselves during the
           | pandemic, at the same time everyone started working from
           | home.
           | 
           | People also stopped sitting in cars and trains for hours on
           | end commuting to the office and used that time to get some
           | exercise. Sure it's anecdotal, but you couldn't buy a bicycle
           | around here because demand went through the roof.
           | 
           | > It's actually hard to organize your time and take care of
           | yourself in the absence of formal structure.
           | 
           | I've worked remotely almost continuously since 2003 and have
           | managed to maintain enough self-discipline to stay organised
           | and look after myself (certainly at least as well as if I'd
           | had to go to an office for "formal structure").
           | 
           | > something a lot of people never asked for.
           | 
           | I disagree, they were told they couldn't because employers
           | have a natural distrust of their staff and "this is the way
           | its always been". Working from home is weirdly seen as some
           | kind of perk, it's not, it's still work.
           | 
           | Now don't get me wrong, there'll be a bunch of folks who
           | either can't work from home and being in the office is their
           | thing (or an escape :) ), but there are also plenty of folks
           | who can function perfectly well working from home so why not
           | facilitate that?
        
       | manuelabeledo wrote:
       | I may be a bit of a cynic here, but it surely sounds like this
       | guy doesn't have any sort of life outside work. "It gets you out
       | of the house", "it helps you socialise"?
       | 
       | And all that _after_ having worked in the Chrome codebase, whose
       | devs are from all over the world.
        
         | waynesonfire wrote:
         | it gets _YOU_ out of the house, it helps _YOU_ socialize..
         | don't worry him. In all honesty it sounds like he'd benefit if
         | _YOU_ returned back to the office.
        
       | betwixthewires wrote:
       | The premise of this article, and in some way a major point to all
       | "return to the office" arguments, is nothing more than an
       | artifact of the system devised around the inability to work
       | remotely. It is a secondary effect. It's not a deliberate benefit
       | to working on location, it is just how things are when you have
       | to spend all day in a room or building with other people who also
       | have to do so. And there are also many non-beneficial secondary
       | effects to having to commute to a location.
       | 
       | A technological revolution that changes how we need to do things
       | is going to take away some of these secondary effects. But it
       | will have it's own. Some of them will be positive and some will
       | be negative. But overall we don't do things how we do them
       | because we get to lay in beanbag chairs (at the office) or on the
       | couch (at home) while working, we do them how we do them because
       | they're the most efficient and reasonable way to do them.
       | Commuting was once _the most_ efficient way to do information
       | work. With worldwide high bandwidth networking this is no longer
       | the case, therefore we will stop commuting. Inertia slows this
       | but it doesn 't stop it.
        
       | whommmsup wrote:
       | _hm?_ Reading  'distributed' as 'decentral' ...thinking about:
       | Once there was a time when 'some' try to track 'how informations
       | spread' by using protocols... _hu_ sounds off-topic... (-;
        
       | Comevius wrote:
       | I hope remote with asynchronous interactions is the future,
       | because big cities are increasingly unlivable, and corporate
       | culture is often a culture of distraction. Remote is hard to do
       | right, but it's worth striving for.
       | 
       | Remote also greatly enhances the talent pool available for
       | employers. It reduces cost too. It helps the environment. It's
       | the antidote to urbanization. It potentially brings money to
       | underdeveloped areas, which helps democracy.
        
         | wrycoder wrote:
         | > _big cities are increasingly unlivable_
         | 
         | There's no inherent reason why this should be so. Big cities
         | can and do provide a marvelous life experience.
         | 
         | But almost all big cities in the US suffer from total
         | mismanagement. IMHO, the greatest immediate goal for the US
         | should be to work out how to correct that.
        
           | BlargMcLarg wrote:
           | This is the case outside the US as well. Short term, greed-
           | focused strategies cause this mismanagement somewhere down
           | the line. Over the top prices, noise pollution, etc. None of
           | these need to exist at the rates they do today. Similar
           | issues form outside cities when mismanagement occurs, it's
           | just harder to notice with fewer people involved.
        
         | kredd wrote:
         | > big cities are increasingly unlivable
         | 
         | Almost everyone in my circles are loving big city life while
         | working remotely. It depends on your life circumstances, and
         | what you enjoy, but let's not generalize that urban lifestyle
         | is bad. Meeting new people, enjoying indoor activities, walking
         | around and etc. are not dying anytime soon, and rent prices
         | show how people are still willing to join in.
        
           | teh_klev wrote:
           | I think it kinda depends on your age. When I was in my
           | twenties and thirties, and despite being a country lad,
           | living in cities was highly desirable and I had a lot of good
           | times and made some great long lasting friendships during
           | that period.
           | 
           | In my forties I became less enamoured by city life and in my
           | fifties, now living in a rural location and working remotely,
           | if I never see the inside of a city again then that's fine by
           | me.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | It's interesting that in general everyone on HN loves big
             | city living, but then you have a post about city noise and
             | it's a thousand posts complaining about urban noise and how
             | you can't get away from it.
             | 
             | Of course, the key is that you can have both with the right
             | transportation options.
        
               | belligeront wrote:
               | Cities aren't loud, cars are. Unfortunately, if you live
               | in the states, we've let cars overtake 99.9% of our
               | cities. It's not this way everywhere.
               | 
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTV-wwszGw8
        
               | goostavos wrote:
               | While I enjoy Not Just Bikes as a channel, it goes a
               | little deep into the "cars are literally the root of
               | every problem there has ever been even accounting for the
               | period before cars existed."
               | 
               | I live in the city. It's loud af, but general traffic is
               | only a small part of it. Essential services like police,
               | ambulance, and fire sirens, and trash collection are
               | massively loud. Then you've got bars blasting music on
               | Fridays. People shouting, laughing, and, in general,
               | existing (often till the wee hours of the morning). They
               | there's the meth-fueled tweakers shouting obscenities.
               | Construction noises. Road work. etc..
               | 
               | Density in general is loud.
        
               | ceras wrote:
               | I think you're making a mistaken observation there. It's
               | a skewed data set: of course people who like living in
               | cities will talk about policies they'd like to see to
               | make their cities better, and not complain about ways
               | that a suburb or rural community could be better.
               | 
               | I don't live in a suburb so it would be very odd for me
               | to complain about a hypothetical suburb I don't live in,
               | even though I'd have more complaints if I did live in a
               | suburb. Just how HN as a whole talks about making tech
               | jobs better (e.g. this remote work thread, which isn't
               | relevant to most jobs) far more than it does about other
               | jobs: it's just more relevant to the people here, and
               | even if they overall like their tech job, they want it to
               | be better.
        
               | teh_klev wrote:
               | > Of course, the key is that you can have both with the
               | right transportation options.
               | 
               | I agree, but even then I'm pretty much done with cities
               | and that benefit would be wasted on me :)
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | Agreed, it would be nice for a map search that shows the
               | furthest you can get and still be UPS deliverable AND
               | have fast internet ...
        
             | kredd wrote:
             | Not just age. Depends on the city where you live, how you
             | grew up and your priorities. I would say it's harder for
             | people that grew up in suburban communities to live their
             | 40s/50s in a city. Meanwhile, I know people in their mid-
             | life (40-60) that actually moved back from suburban
             | lifestyle to NYC downtown life. From my personal
             | perspective, even being retired in a city would be better
             | than living in a small community where everything you do on
             | a daily basis is exactly the same. But again, I understand
             | others' perspectives and everyone has different things they
             | enjoy in life.
        
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         | chaostheory wrote:
         | You forgot to mention the huge environmental impact that remote
         | first has. Even EVs still pollute the air from tires along with
         | micro plastic fragments.
         | 
         | Nothing shows that corporate support for the environment is
         | mostly lip service when it comes to lack of support for remote
         | work despite the major environmental benefits that it brings.
        
         | dangus wrote:
         | I greatly disagree with the idea that big cities are becoming
         | "increasingly unlivable."
         | 
         | American cities, especially downtowns, are in the middle of
         | doing the exact _opposite_ of becoming unlivable. I 'm not
         | talking opinions here, I'm talking about factual changes in the
         | context of American history.
         | 
         | American city downtowns started as, essentially, the entire
         | city, with a diverse mix of residents, commerce, and industry.
         | As the industrialization progressed, those downtowns morphed
         | into commercial-only zones as most other uses migrated outward.
         | [1]
         | 
         | Residential living was very rare in city centers in America,
         | with only slum living left. Since then, however, American
         | cities are re-introducing residential life to city centers and
         | redesigning them around mixed use and essentially revitalizing
         | them. [1]
         | 
         | So this idea that big cities are "increasingly unlivable" is
         | more of a cynical opinion rather than a matter of historical
         | fact.
         | 
         | Also, in terms of sustainability, cities still win out.
         | Suburban and rural development fragments animal habitats and
         | uses more land per person. More time and miles are needed in
         | your car burning oil to get around. City dwellers who walk and
         | take transit are more carbon efficient than suburban and rural
         | drivers.
         | 
         | Counter-intuitively, water quality is better in cities where
         | more people are connected to a treated municipal water source.
         | Sewage is also better managed in cities. [2]
         | 
         | Now, on to what's my actual opinion...regarding asynchronous
         | work: it's awesome if you're already at a senior level of
         | skill, but to me it seems absolutely horrendous for new
         | graduates and junior level employees. It's difficult to do
         | "apprenticeship" asynchronously. The idea of a future of
         | asynchronous work is also incredibly software-biased. For
         | example, when Apple wants their employees back in the office
         | there's good reason: they design hardware.
         | 
         | [1] https://placesjournal.org/article/downtown-a-short-
         | history-o...
         | 
         | [2] https://www.treehugger.com/environmentally-responsible-
         | urban...
        
         | presentation wrote:
         | Idk I live in a city that honestly is great to live in (Tokyo),
         | run a distributed team comprised of others who all live in big
         | cities around the world, and nobody has expressed that they
         | feel like cities suck to live in. Different strokes I guess. Or
         | maybe it's not that cities suck, but that the cities you've
         | been to (cough USA cough) suck.
        
           | mping wrote:
           | If you have the budget it's great to live in a nice big city,
           | you don't even need a car. Just Uber everywhere, get some
           | groceries delivered, put your kids in fancy but expensive
           | kindergarten, and buy a nice large house right near that park
           | the kids love. Bonus points if the city is walkable or has
           | decent public transportation.
           | 
           | If you are starting as an average,non FAANG engineer in an
           | expensive city it probably sucks a bit more.
        
             | actionablefiber wrote:
             | > If you have the budget it's great to live in a nice big
             | city, you don't even need a car. Just Uber everywhere, get
             | some groceries delivered, put your kids in fancy but
             | expensive kindergarten, and buy a nice large house right
             | near that park the kids love. Bonus points if the city is
             | walkable or has decent public transportation.
             | 
             | It's kind of distressing to hear someone express "Just Uber
             | everywhere" as the ideal template for a car-free lifestyle,
             | with walkability and public transportation relegated to
             | "bonus points." I live car-free in the metro area outside
             | of D.C. and primarily get around by bus and bicycle. I
             | suspect that it requires a much lower budget than Ubering
             | everywhere and you can live a lot more healthily by doing
             | so too.
             | 
             | edit: I'd also like to point out that when you impose such
             | a high price tag on all of your spatial displacements, you
             | discourage yourself from doing it more. With walking,
             | cycling and public transit, you open yourself up to a lot
             | more serendipitous and impulsive trips. Today I cycled a
             | few minutes to the park and did some work on a picnic table
             | because I just felt like I wanted a change of scenery. Then
             | I came back an hour later. Doing that with Uber would have
             | felt absurd.
        
             | jjav wrote:
             | > you don't even need a car. Just Uber everywhere,
             | 
             | So you need a car, just paying for one as a service instead
             | of direct ownership.
        
             | Larrikin wrote:
             | I'd argue that it's not really a big city if there's a
             | constant need to Lyft to your destinations.
             | 
             | Extensive subway system has always been one of the main
             | differences of how enjoyable city life actually is in the
             | various cities I've lived in. Thinking about a car as just
             | a time saving activity versus a necessity (even if it's a
             | ride share) is extremely freeing.
        
               | filoleg wrote:
               | > I'd argue that it's not really a big city if there's a
               | constant need to Lyft to your destinations.
               | 
               | If that is your metric, then there isn't a single big
               | city in the US aside from NYC (and, maaaaybe, Chicago).
               | 
               | With all other big cities in the US, you can technically
               | get away by using public transport exclusively, but with
               | a really giant caveat - your place of living, your place
               | of work, and all the other places you would want to visit
               | are all, by sheer luck, located near public transport
               | routes. There is a non-zero number of people in this
               | situation, but it requires a great deal of luck and
               | specific choices to be made for that to happen.
               | 
               | To be more specific, I will use Seattle as an example. We
               | have a solid lightrail and bus system, and the expansion
               | of lightrail has been going great. Public transport
               | covers a lot of places and areas one might need or want
               | to go to. But it doesn't cover an even larger amount of
               | places/areas. I personally know plenty of people here who
               | live without cars, and even the most pro-public-transport
               | of them resort to Uber/Lyft fairly often. Not as a time-
               | saving activity, but out of necessity.
        
             | pards wrote:
             | > you don't even need a car. Just Uber everywhere, get some
             | groceries delivered
             | 
             | Umm ... Those all require a car, it just might not be
             | _your_ car. It doesn't help make cities accessible and
             | walkable.
        
             | esrauch wrote:
             | I think your costs baseline is underestimating: even
             | starting as a FAANG engineer in NYC or SF or you already
             | can't buy a "large house next to the park"
        
               | wrycoder wrote:
               | Nor should you be able to do that.
        
         | Crabber wrote:
         | >Remote also greatly enhances the talent pool available for
         | employers. It reduces cost too.
         | 
         | Neither of these things are good for an employee.
         | 
         | A world where none of your coworkers have any shared background
         | with you or where you can lose an interview at a local company
         | to someone 700 miles away sounds like hell.
        
           | mping wrote:
           | My company has employees all around Europe, and in north
           | America too. Funny enough, even without the shared
           | background, we kinda draw from the same principles and have a
           | common understanding on how to behave an operate.
           | 
           | A world where I have to work with what the local market
           | offers sounds like russian roulette. I don't want to be
           | constrained by where my parents decided to live.
        
           | Brian_K_White wrote:
           | It's double edges all the way around. "shared background" has
           | certainly been the cause of a lot of harm. It's one of those
           | things that people want, but which is bad, like "Everything
           | be more efficient if everyone would stop wasting time on
           | their own different ideas and just did what I want.". There
           | are no single simple correct answers.
        
             | Crabber wrote:
             | >"shared background" has certainly been the cause of a lot
             | of harm
             | 
             | Do you have an example?
        
               | Brian_K_White wrote:
               | Shared background can be a good thing and can apply to
               | good things, but it is also the basis of all
               | discrimination, tribalism, prejudice, or even at it's
               | most benign, inconsideration or ignorance.
               | 
               | The examples are the rule and it's instead hard to think
               | of any exceptions.
        
           | imiric wrote:
           | > A world where none of your coworkers have any shared
           | background with you
           | 
           | So you're _against_ diversity? Differing backgrounds and
           | points of view can only be a good thing. For coworkers, for
           | the product, for the company. I know it 's en vogue now, but
           | it really is important.
           | 
           | > where you can lose an interview at a local company to
           | someone 700 miles away
           | 
           | Hiring is not zero-sum. With the current and likely future
           | dev market, there's enough jobs for everyone. Companies
           | should consider applicants regardless of location of
           | residence, and offer the same compensation as well.
        
             | Crabber wrote:
             | I think diversity has been pushed on the workplace because
             | it massively opens up the labor supply and allows companies
             | to plummet wages. As a native worker of a country it is
             | completely against your self-interest to advocate for such
             | changes.
             | 
             | All of the pro-diversity platitudes like "diversity is a
             | strength" are never justified with data, they're just said
             | as truisms you're supposed to blindly believe and repeat.
             | 
             | Why does nobody ever talk about how homogeneity is a
             | strength? The comradery you used to have in mining villages
             | where all workers had a tightly shared heritage and all
             | grew up together was probably the strongest workforce you
             | could hope for. But workers with those kinds of strong
             | bonds do scary things like forming unions and going on
             | strike, we don't want any of that! And that's why Amazon
             | tracks lack of workplace diversity as a metric for risk of
             | union formation :)
        
               | notreallyserio wrote:
               | > The comradery you used to have in mining villages where
               | all workers had a tightly shared heritage and all grew up
               | together was probably the strongest workforce you could
               | hope for.
               | 
               | It was certainly good for the owners of the mines and
               | other extractive businesses to have their workers feel
               | some sense of loyalty to each other based on where they
               | were born. Not so much for the workers themselves that
               | had fewer opportunities for growth, nor their families as
               | the mines closed and the towns died.
               | 
               | > But workers with those kinds of strong bonds do scary
               | things like forming unions and going on strike, we don't
               | want any of that!
               | 
               | There are plenty of unions made up of people from all
               | sorts of backgrounds. Some of them span states (or are at
               | least affiliated with organizations that span states). I
               | don't know where you got this idea that there's a
               | connection between birthplace and unionization.
        
               | ceras wrote:
               | Diversity initiatives in tech have a strong bottoms-up
               | component from a subset of employees. "Self interest"
               | isn't really the point.
               | 
               | One motivator is societal good and fairness to ensure
               | that great opportunities are as equally available as
               | possible, and that nobody avoids or leaves the industry
               | due to their race or gender.
               | 
               | The other is making sure you have more demographic
               | variation that can make a better product for more people.
               | A classic example is avoiding gaffs in ML models based on
               | skin color. All else equal, the more representative your
               | employees are of your target user base, the more likely
               | someone is to raise the right questions early. This is
               | especially true for consumer tech where engineers are
               | part of the process of deciding what gets built, but also
               | true in cases like thinking about ML fairness.
        
               | imiric wrote:
               | > Why does nobody ever talk about how homogeneity is a
               | strength? The comradery you used to have in mining
               | villages
               | 
               | As I'm sure you're aware, software development is very
               | different from physical labor. For one, it's a creative
               | endeavor, where different points of view stemming from
               | different backgrounds can only have a positive effect on
               | the end product.
               | 
               | Think of it in terms of code reviews. Does the product
               | benefit more from being reviewed by teammates from the
               | same schools and employment backgrounds, or by ones with
               | different life and professional experiences? I can't
               | point to any studies to prove this, but from personal
               | experience I'd argue it's the latter.
               | 
               | Besides, getting to know people from different
               | backgrounds and cultures can only expand your own view
               | points and make you a better developer and person.
               | 
               | Your point about companies pushing diversity to prevent
               | unions sounds conspiratorial at best. Strong bonds can
               | and do form regardless of culture.
        
               | Crabber wrote:
               | >For one, it's a creative endeavor, where different
               | points of view stemming from different backgrounds can
               | only have a positive effect on the end product.
               | 
               | I'd say it's far more engineering than creative. You're
               | writing code to meet the specifications of a client. I
               | don't think the race of the person writing that code
               | makes a difference.
               | 
               | >Does the product benefit more from being reviewed by
               | teammates from the same schools and employment
               | backgrounds, or by ones with different life and
               | professional experiences
               | 
               | It benefits from being reviewed by people who have lots
               | of experience writing different types of software. Which
               | has nothing to do with ethnic diversity.
               | 
               | >Besides, getting to know people from different
               | backgrounds and cultures can only expand your own view
               | points and make you a better developer
               | 
               | Meaningless platitude, unless you can back this up with
               | data
               | 
               | >Your point about companies pushing diversity to prevent
               | unions sounds conspiratorial at best.
               | 
               | https://www.informationliberation.com/?id=61403
        
               | imiric wrote:
               | > https://www.informationliberation.com/?id=61403
               | 
               | I stand corrected. Corporations gonna corporate /shrug
               | 
               | However I disagree with the conclusion:
               | 
               | > It appears it's nothing more than a union busting
               | tactic to divide and conquer their own workforce so
               | they'll be easier to control and accept lower wages.
               | 
               | Quite the sensationalist take. Again, I don't have data
               | to back this up, but IME a diverse team produces better
               | results and I'd rather work in one than not.
        
               | jimbokun wrote:
               | > Does the product benefit more from being reviewed by
               | teammates from the same schools and employment
               | backgrounds, or by ones with different life and
               | professional experiences?
               | 
               | In practice "diversity" is more often people from the
               | same schools and employment backgrounds, with just a bit
               | more variation in sex or race or ethnicity.
        
             | omginternets wrote:
             | >So you're against diversity?
             | 
             | This really isn't the same "diversity" as "integrating
             | marginalized communities", though.
             | 
             | So yes, I am against the particular kind of diversity that
             | prefers hiring a wealthy brahman living in India over the
             | inner-city kid who needs a leg up.
             | 
             | I'm also opposed to the kind of "diversity" that puts a
             | substantial portion of our domestic workforce out of a job.
             | 
             | Neither of these is what "diversity" used to mean; the term
             | is being coopted by those who would benefit from lowering
             | working wages.
        
             | BlargMcLarg wrote:
             | >Differing backgrounds and points of view can only be a
             | good thing.
             | 
             | I assure you, diversity that would actually impact
             | production in some big way is not the diversity being hired
             | for. Just look at how many psychological tests emphasize a
             | variety of personalities, meanwhile hiring tries to find
             | the same car with a different paint job.
        
           | eddieroger wrote:
           | > lose an interview at a local company to someone 700 miles
           | away sounds like hell
           | 
           | I'd feel pretty terrible about my ability if one of the best
           | things about me was proximity to a building. I live in the
           | midwest and I like it in the midwest, and I'm quite happy
           | with a ~future~ present where I'm competing with people
           | around the world for a job I want and not stuck to the one of
           | the 10 or so places I could do my kind of work here.
        
             | Crabber wrote:
             | What a toxic mindset.
             | 
             |  _You_ might be in the top 1%, but 99% of people aren 't.
             | Not everyone is able to compete globally against 3 billion
             | other people. Most people are unexceptional and average.
             | And that's okay. Those are the workers keep the world
             | moving forward.
             | 
             | It is perfectly okay to just be the best person at
             | something in your town or local area. Telling people "you
             | should feel pretty terrible about your ability if you
             | aren't one of the best people in the world" is telling
             | 99.99% of the population they should feel forever
             | worthless.
        
               | practice9 wrote:
               | Celebrating mediocrity while being privileged enough to
               | make lots of $$$ is the definition of toxic mindset.
               | 
               | IMO, if a person somewhere in the world is better
               | qualified for the job than me - it's ok. They worked hard
               | to get where they are and their work should be
               | compensated fairly.
        
               | _proofs wrote:
               | > Telling people "you should feel pretty terrible about
               | your ability if you aren't one of the best people in the
               | world" is telling 99.99% of the population they should
               | feel forever worthless.
               | 
               | but he did not say this at all. not even literally.
               | 
               | you merely think he implied it, which is still a leap,
               | since all this person described to you was how they
               | personally internalize their work.
               | 
               | your disdain for competition makes it harder to read.
        
               | mrtranscendence wrote:
               | You're not competing against the best of the best for
               | every single job. Only 1% of people are in the 1%, and
               | they'll largely be employed in high-wage, high-visibility
               | positions at high-budget employers. In an idealized
               | global market you'd be competing against other people for
               | jobs with desirability commensurate with your own
               | ability.
               | 
               | It's true that if in an absolute sense you're in the
               | bottom rung of the labor pool then a global market will
               | be more likely to sort you into a job with low
               | desirability. I sympathize; I'm from Cincinnati, and if
               | my employer were in the Bay Area (and paying Bay Area
               | wages) it would have been harder for me to get a job
               | there. But I'm not _that_ sympathetic, because a global
               | market means someone with a better fit but no local
               | options _can_ find a job. It means that if the market for
               | data scientists in Cincinnati dries up I still have a
               | chance.
        
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         | civilized wrote:
         | > corporate culture is often a culture of distraction
         | 
         | My job is to somehow be productive despite the best efforts of
         | management to interfere. Being remote has greatly helped that.
        
         | swiftcoder wrote:
         | > It's the antidote to urbanization
         | 
         | Unclear that's a particularly worthy goal. I enjoy the rural
         | life as much as anyone, but it's hard to argue that a "liveable
         | city" (dense, planned, walkable/bikeable, work near to where
         | you live, etc) isn't a more efficient use of society's
         | resources than the automobile-centric suburban sprawl that much
         | of the US is subjected to.
        
           | cudgy wrote:
           | But remote work cuts down the amount of driving especially
           | during the same times of the day when everyone is rushing to
           | their 9 to 5 offices.
        
           | tharkun__ wrote:
           | As a sibling already mentioned, one does not preclude the
           | other. I don't know why the US does it the way it does it and
           | other countries seem to strive for it too nowadays, even the
           | ones that have done it properly so far.
           | 
           | Especially in the US I don't see an issue with both building
           | out and being walkable or livable without cars. One just has
           | to plan it properly. There are tons of medium sized cities
           | around the world that get some of it right already, possibly
           | by accident. I don't think we need to go Tokyo style or New
           | York style density with millions upon millions of people
           | being crammed into skypscrapers and every inch of soil
           | covered in asphalt or concrete. Sure there's Central Park but
           | not much more and it's so full of people it's unbelievable.
           | So many people all crammed into one space generates so many
           | issues that otherwise don't exist.
           | 
           | I think lots of medium sized cities, say 150-500k, can easily
           | provide enough public transport to make it liveable, provide
           | enough green space to make it liveable and provide city
           | centers with lots of concrete and asphalt for those that want
           | that to make it completely walkable. Before you say that its
           | impossible, I have lived in such cities and they work just
           | fine. In my younger years I lived in such a downtown and
           | everything was within walking distance. Work, groceries, pubs
           | even stores. And it was absolutely safe to walk all over
           | downtown, half drunk in the middle of the night to get from
           | one pub to the next or home. Sure, to go to IKEA I had to
           | take a car and drive to the outskirts of the next city of
           | similar size. But how often do I go to IKEA? Once, when I
           | moved in. The a bit older me had to then make a choice of
           | moving to a particular side of town to be close enough to the
           | office and such. With remote work it wouldn't matter. I
           | could've stayed where I was. Get to the city center? 15
           | minute train ride after walking 5 minutes to the train.
        
           | Comevius wrote:
           | The middle and lower class is quickly outpriced of that
           | liveable city or state experience. It would be better to
           | spread our resources to more areas, instead of concentrating
           | it to a few. We already know what wealth concentration,
           | inequality looks like.
           | 
           | When you give all opportunities to a few, they don't tend to
           | use it to everyone's benefit. People who are robbed of the
           | consequences of their actions tend to lose sight of reality.
        
             | actionablefiber wrote:
             | > The middle and lower class is quickly outpriced of that
             | liveable city or state experience. It would be better to
             | spread our resources to more areas, instead of
             | concentrating it to a few. We already know what wealth
             | concentration, inequality looks like.
             | 
             | That's not because livable places with amenities located
             | within walking distance are expensive to build or maintain.
             | It's because _there aren 't enough of them_, primarily
             | because in very large tracts of every metropolitan area
             | they are illegal to build under current zoning ordinances.
             | That's how you get cute prewar streetcar suburbs that are
             | ludicrously unaffordable - the neighborhoods were cheap to
             | build at the time and could be cheap to build today, the
             | prices are all because people love living there and we made
             | it illegal to build more.
             | 
             | Postwar suburban sprawl is monstrously expensive to build
             | and maintain. You need to build and maintain an incredible
             | amount more infrastructure per person, and because the
             | properties themselves are less livable and car-dependent,
             | fewer people want to and can afford to live there, which
             | makes them "cheaper."
             | 
             | The answer is not to force people to live in car dependent
             | sprawl. It's to build more walkable places so that the cost
             | comes down.
        
           | paulryanrogers wrote:
           | Less dense towns can still be walkable and have culture and
           | amenities. It does require a different kind of planning.
        
             | jimbokun wrote:
             | I grew up in one. Very sad they have largely disappeared.
        
       | chaostheory wrote:
       | _"While it's certainly possible to boot up Among Us during work
       | or schedule Zoom lunches between random teammates, the set of
       | remote bonding activities is significantly more limited than the
       | set of in-person bonding activities."_
       | 
       | I'd like to see this revisited once VR / AR is more mature.
       | Apple's and Meta's new headsets are just around the corner.
        
       | jlbbellefeuille wrote:
       | There is a disinformation campaign against remote work. The
       | likely culprit behind it are commercial real estate interests and
       | good old fashioned corporate leaders with their head buried in
       | the sand.
       | 
       | Ed Zitron's Substack has been following and reporting on the
       | remote work propaganda machine for over a year.
       | 
       | https://ez.substack.com/archive?sort=top
        
       | michaelsalim wrote:
        
       | agentultra wrote:
       | I'm happy as a bug with being fully remote. I'm glad there are
       | more companies considering fully distributed teams and I hope the
       | trend continues.
       | 
       | If there's some future where we can mix things up and work in
       | person some times that would be fine. I used to have an office in
       | a co-working space I used just to get out of the house. It was
       | nice seeing the regular, every-day familiar strangers along the
       | way, get a coffee from the usual place, etc.
       | 
       | ... but my team was still located all around the world and the
       | office was within walking distance of my house.
       | 
       | I don't particularly enjoy commuting, the dour glow of
       | fluorescent lights, the desks lined up in rows, or working in a
       | concrete coffin.
       | 
       | I like being able to go for a walk in my neighbourhood in the
       | afternoon or spend a bit of time in my garden. I enjoy being
       | surrounded by my books. I like it when my cat snuggles in my lap.
       | I like having no commute.
       | 
       | Some people like after-work happy hours and "team building." Not
       | me. I like to get my job done and go home to my family, friends,
       | and neighbours.
       | 
       | I also think productivity-wise it brings a lot of benefits. The
       | best collaboration happens with people write things down and
       | share them widely. That is often hindered in an office setting
       | where hallway chats and random encounters ensure that the people
       | engaged in those activities control what gets shared and with
       | whom; great for politics but useless for work.
       | 
       | I get the creativity side of it: ideas aren't born in a vacuum.
       | For media work like music it's way harder to work remotely. But I
       | don't think ideas are born solely in offices either. Great ideas
       | come from people collaborating and sharing. This happens _more_
       | in a distributed team because fewer people are left out of the
       | process. It 's way easier in a software engineering team. There's
       | literally no evidence that offices contribute to anything other
       | than needless CO2 emissions and traffic.
        
         | pixl97 wrote:
         | Add to your list
         | 
         | "I don't enjoy the guy in the cube next to me that must be hard
         | of hearing and yells into his headset at 85 decibels"
         | 
         | What's worse is sometimes I'm that guy.
        
           | sodapopcan wrote:
           | Haha, yep. I don't want to hear other people and don't want
           | them to have to hear me.
        
           | agentultra wrote:
           | I do prefer the hum of case fans and the sound of my Model M.
           | 
           | Having a choice over ones environment is a huge win for
           | someone like me though that has sensory sensitivities most
           | folks don't seem to have problems with.
        
       | pyjarrett wrote:
       | I'm a super introvert who works remote. I don't want the company
       | to spend a bunch of money on a ski trip for the company, I want
       | to see my portion of that money in my pocket so I can do what I
       | enjoy.
       | 
       | Working from home means my employer gets more productivity, since
       | I can handle "life" things easier without having to run home.
       | They save money on office space, in-office meals, chairs, desks,
       | and such, and I get more autonomy on my personal setup and how I
       | want to work. It also means that people can move due to life
       | reasons such as to be closer to an elderly family member, and
       | still stay working for the same employer.
       | 
       | I could get steps from walking around town, or, I can walk my dog
       | while I'm waiting on a build or at lunchtime. My kid is home a
       | couple days this week because of break for the upcoming holiday,
       | so she gets to go with me and the dog on our morning walk, and I
       | don't need to worry about child care.
       | 
       | I like the people I work with, and have built rapport with them
       | over years of working together on difficult problems. We connect
       | based on our professional mutual work, but we each have our own
       | interests and families.
       | 
       | Remote work emphasizes this professional connection and broadens
       | your ability to work with more varying people due to the limited
       | and directed nature of the communications and interactions. You
       | don't need to worry about the person in the next cubicle loudly
       | talking on the phone or eating potato chips or burning popcorn in
       | the microwave. It makes it easier to focus on positive
       | interactions and tune out the bad ones. If I don't want to hear
       | all the sports talk, I'm not in the #sports slack channel.
       | 
       | Yes, I could operate in an office environment, a lot will
       | probably return to it. However, I've been fully remote for years,
       | and it'd be a hard sell for me to go back.
        
         | cma wrote:
         | > I don't want the company to spend a bunch of money on a ski
         | trip for the company, I want to see my portion of that money in
         | my pocket so I can do what I enjoy.
         | 
         | Your portion would be taxed, they can offer this avoiding 40%
         | taxes on it or whatever it would work out to at your marginal
         | rate. You may still not want it, but the alternative isn't
         | getting the same money.
        
           | sdoering wrote:
           | I'd rather have this as taxed bonus income than as a ski
           | trip. Bei g crowded in with all my coworkers (whom I actually
           | like by the way) still doesn't sound like a perk to me. And I
           | like skiing. Or at least snowboarding.
           | 
           | I still wouldn't see it as a perk to spend a few days
           | together with the people with whom I work. I like working
           | with them. I really do. But I also really like to do what I
           | want when I am not on the clock.
           | 
           | And that would be so worth the tax cut. At least in my
           | personal opinion.
        
             | glacials wrote:
             | The point here is that the ski trip is not a perk, but an
             | investment in company productivity via social lubrication.
             | The company believes it is getting more for its money by
             | sending the team on a ski trip, than it would depositing
             | those same dollars into people's bank accounts (even
             | ignoring taxes).
             | 
             | I have been remote for six years and I love it, but still
             | some of the biggest leaps forward in trust and
             | communication I get with people happen when I spend time
             | with them in person; and some of the most fruitful products
             | and tech I've been involved in conceiving weren't in a
             | meeting set up to conceive them, but accidentally, while
             | having a drink and being in the same room as someone I
             | didn't plan to be with.
             | 
             | Everyone is different and I'm not saying you should be
             | forced to do any of this. I recognize that often these
             | situations are just painful, depending on who you are and
             | who your team is. Just saying the dollars have a specific
             | purpose when being spent in this way.
        
         | zeptonaut22 wrote:
         | I'm the author of the post and just want to say: I think it's
         | awesome that you work at a remote company and am glad that you
         | found a role that fits your personality. It sounds like you're
         | happier there and I'm glad that the option exists.
         | 
         | I think that the fact that there's more variety now in whether
         | you can work remotely or in an office is awesome, and I hope
         | that's not going away. (And don't think it will.) And no job
         | should ever give you hell for staying home one or two days per
         | week if your job is totally doable at home.
         | 
         | With that being said, there are a lot of people in the world
         | that genuinely enjoy having in-person interactions with their
         | colleagues every day and I'm one of them. I've been lucky
         | enough to work in jobs with awesome colleagues and I don't
         | _want_ to be put up digital barriers between me and them. I
         | also like the fact that I have some forcing function for
         | getting more than 2,000 steps a day.
         | 
         | The main thing that I'm worried about is that companies are
         | going to see dollar signs in remote work because they can cut
         | office space expenses, only for employees to not be able to
         | backtrack.
        
           | ACow_Adonis wrote:
           | I enjoy the in-person interactions in the office, and I'll
           | even argue that there's benefits and desirability to it, and
           | office work and centralisation.
           | 
           | But my wife has worked at a company that did offsite kinda
           | vacation/camp things, and gotta say, it ranks up pretty high
           | there on the corporate dystopia cringe scale for us.
           | 
           | I work at a semi distributed organisation atm (several
           | offices in different cities) and we generally used to have
           | once a year offsite. while it was nice to see some faces in
           | person, the experience of leaving my family to do so, and to
           | have to go to locations and accommodation chosen by work, was
           | again just a downer. I know other people looked forward to
           | it, so horses for courses, but I also know there were people
           | working long hours and liking the travel because they had
           | nothing else going on in their lives.
           | 
           | I think the strengths of centralisation stand independent a
           | lot of these practices, that make a lot of us shudder on some
           | level.
        
       | laerus wrote:
       | Well i hope it is. I can't stand commuting or the noisy and
       | distracting office environment. Being close to my family is way
       | more important than being close to coworkers. I'm also way more
       | productive at home, I can wear what i want, I can speak out loud
       | to myself, listen to metal, take a walk, use my clean bathroom
       | and the list goes on. Overall it's healthier and more ecologic.
       | It's just doesn't compare and any argument I've heard/read
       | against 100% remote work just doesn't matter to me. I also don't
       | care about small talk with coworkers or any kind of non-
       | professional bonding, I have friends for that.
        
         | strikelaserclaw wrote:
         | You can have the best of both worlds where you WFH and also
         | your company pays for you to come out once every 3 months for a
         | week or so.
        
           | notreallyserio wrote:
           | I haven't gone to an offsite meeting with my coworkers yet
           | (we're 100% remote) so I don't really know what to expect of
           | them. I do know that when I worked in offices there was a lot
           | of bullshit going on every day that only happened because the
           | barrier to interruption was lower. What goes on at these
           | offsite meetings that makes them worthwhile?
        
             | strikelaserclaw wrote:
             | I usually just expect to drink booze and shoot the shit
             | with my team. There are usually team building activities
             | arranged by HR, that is another way get to know your
             | teammates. In my opinion, getting a little inebriated is
             | the fastest way to bond with your team.
        
           | nonameiguess wrote:
           | This is exactly what I do right now and it's pretty nice. We
           | have quarterly planning weeks and everyone goes on-site for
           | that, but otherwise, we're split around the country and there
           | is only one office in downtown San Antonio. 70% of the people
           | working on this program don't live in San Antonio, so there
           | is no practical way to undo being a distributed workforce.
           | But it's a military program and the military is pretty used
           | to working in a distributed manner. They need to be able to
           | work in theaters of combat where you're not only spread out
           | and constantly on the move, but any node in your worker
           | network can go offline at any time, possibly permanently.
        
         | mrtranscendence wrote:
         | Other than listening to metal (I'm more into a mix of punk and
         | classical), I could've written this comment. When I commuted
         | into work it took maybe 40 minutes from front door to desk in
         | the morning; the reverse trip often took an hour and a half. It
         | was absolutely killer. I'd rather be getting painful dental
         | work done than sit in traffic for an hour with nothing but a
         | podcast to distract me.
         | 
         | Now that my company has returned to work with a "hybrid" plan
         | (2 days in the office, 3 days out), I'm glad that they've been
         | flexible in allowing me to be fully remote despite being local.
         | My dogs would be the saddest pups stuck in crates without me.
        
         | UglyToad wrote:
         | Agree with you. I'm highly skeptical of an argument from a
         | (X?)googler about why remote is bad.
         | 
         | Like sure it might be nice to go to Google's office instead of
         | work from the kitchen table but that's not what's on the table
         | for 99.999% of developers. It's some open-plan dead air noisy
         | hell.
        
           | galoisscobi wrote:
           | Having worked at Google previously, I completely agree with
           | this assessment.
           | 
           | I love remote work, mostly because actual work environment
           | feels hostile towards ICs but if I had a Google like
           | environment again, I'd have no problems going back to office.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | From what I've heard Google campus is very like a college
           | campus - and if they provided dorms many of the younger
           | employees would love it. And it would have been amazing in my
           | college years.
           | 
           | Not so much these days
        
       | golergka wrote:
       | This still limits your hiring pool to one particular city and one
       | particular country.
        
         | richardwhiuk wrote:
         | I don't really understand why (relatively) over paid US
         | Software Engineers are so keen on remote work. The inevitable
         | conclusion is the rapid decrease in salary paid.
        
           | golergka wrote:
           | I don't live in US and never have, but I now work there
           | remotely.
        
           | xboxnolifes wrote:
           | Its pretty nice not having to move every time you switch
           | jobs, nor be forced to only look at companies within a small
           | region around you.
           | 
           | If remote work leads to more efficient job markets, I'm not
           | going to complain just because the efficiency doesn't benefit
           | me.
        
       | KronisLV wrote:
       | I actually wrote about the remote vs in-office culture a while
       | ago, in my blog article "Remote working and the elephant in the
       | room": https://blog.kronis.dev/articles/remote-working-and-the-
       | elep...
       | 
       | In short, i do not believe that having an office-centric culture
       | is a bad thing, nor that a remote culture is a bad thing either.
       | It's just that there are people who will always lean towards one
       | or the other and that's where the incompatibilities begin.
       | 
       | Personally, i'd want a 100% remote position and doubt that i'll
       | be going back to spending my time commuting just to sit in an
       | office. For others, the opposite applies - they might not be able
       | to wait for being able to properly return to offices soon enough.
       | Each of us might have our own valid (at least subjectively)
       | arguments for pursuing these approaches. Hell, with slightly
       | different life circumstances i might change my opinions (e.g.
       | having kids around the house) or vice versa (wanting to travel
       | more or move and not be bogged down).
       | 
       | It is when the guilt tripping and peer pressuring as well as
       | brainwashing starts, with every team/company/culture advocating
       | for their own "normal" as the only proper way to work that the
       | problems start appearing. Everything from virtuous articles in
       | favor of a particular approach or against another, to trying to
       | gaslight or convince those easily swayed to conform to whatever
       | they want.
       | 
       | That, in my eyes, is disingenuous and there will definitely be a
       | lot of people looking for different jobs in the coming years, the
       | so called "Great Resignation" (albeit there are also other
       | factors to this, especially in other industries), after it became
       | apparent that people can switch jobs without always relocating,
       | something that's taken advantage of by many.
       | 
       | But what's the end result of this? Plenty of people quitting and
       | taking the domain knowledge with themselves, which will make
       | things worse for others in the short term and long term - but
       | that's usually just a case of documentation/knowledge
       | transfer/bus factor being bad. I do hope that the current
       | circumstances allow more people to find jobs that are suitable
       | for them, whatever those jobs may be.
        
       | kkfx wrote:
       | It's a bit more complex: being a team means being a community and
       | since we are not (sigh [1]) Borg but still being social animals
       | we need a certain physical interaction BUT we do need that for
       | certain aspects, while we can avoid that for certain others. For
       | instance a remote university is horrific, students and teachers
       | need to be physically together at least for the majority of the
       | time, a research team need to be together equally BUT a company
       | that do not do much research once formed a team with a bit of
       | punctual and casual physical interaction like few events per year
       | do not need much the social part, individuals do have their local
       | sociability separated from the work and while it's a change of
       | culture and model can work well if well done and tested a bit.
       | 
       | Actual issues came mostly IMO because of:
       | 
       | - lack of real distributed org and practice
       | 
       | - bad policies and tools
       | 
       | - the sense of being in a short transitory phase so no one really
       | need to invest in such work form
       | 
       | In the end transports are and was for the entire human history
       | the most expensive thing we need, if we can have many advantages
       | of being together without the transport and physical presence
       | need that's so good we need to work around issues as much as
       | possible.
       | 
       | [1] before the horrendous idea of a Borg's queen of course,
       | because the Borg represent a PERFECT society despite the light
       | S.T. draw on them, a fully integrated and egalitarian society
       | where individual are really peers, all decisions are made in a
       | pure Democracy and they can even makes memories of any individual
       | survive in the community
        
       | ekanes wrote:
       | It seems healthiest for companies and people to choose: have all-
       | remote or all-in-person. It's the muddled hybrid model that's the
       | worst of all worlds.
        
         | eddieroger wrote:
         | You were right with the first part alone - let the teams
         | choose. Hybrid worked for me and my team pre-pandemic, where we
         | had no emphasis on location at all, so some people worked
         | remotely full time, and the rest were free to come in to the
         | office at their discretion. We would get together periodically
         | (and deliberately), but outside of a few times a year, there
         | was no emphasis on location at all. Most days, you wouldn't
         | know who was in the office or not until the cams came on during
         | standup.
        
         | boise wrote:
         | Amen!
        
         | heurisko wrote:
         | I worked hybrid before the pandemic.
         | 
         | It was the best of both worlds. 3/5 days at the office was
         | great.
         | 
         | It gave the benefit of socialising and collaboration, with the
         | flexibility of being at home for visiting home contractors,
         | bulk deliveries, or somewhere where you could take a deep dive
         | into something with no interruptions.
        
           | tonfa wrote:
           | I guess parent meant hybrid where part of the team is full
           | remote and part of the team is in office.
        
             | ekanes wrote:
             | Yes. I should have been clearer.
        
       | nowherebeen wrote:
       | > I found that having experiences with coworkers from outside of
       | a work settings would significantly strengthen the relationship
       | with those coworkers.
       | 
       | Why can't work just be work? Do you really want to spent time
       | with your coworkers outside of work? Some of us have families to
       | care for. And some of us have actual friends that we like to
       | hangout with. Coworkers aren't my buddies or family. We are a
       | team to get things done for a price.
        
         | shrimp_emoji wrote:
         | >Some of us have families to care for. And some of us have
         | actual friends that we like to hangout with.
         | 
         | ???
        
         | imiric wrote:
         | I agree. For me it's not required to know someone personally to
         | be professional, establish trust, and have a great working
         | relationship. If a friendship arises naturally, then great, but
         | I also dislike the forced team building events (or after hour
         | hangouts) companies think are essential for a team to work well
         | together.
         | 
         | And yet I've learned that not everyone is like this, especially
         | nowadays with remote work growing in popularity. Some people do
         | feel that a personal connection helps in a professional
         | setting. So I tend to begrudgingly accept this and make an
         | effort to do this for the team.
        
         | ryathal wrote:
         | you spend about 50% of waking hours with co-workers, it doesn't
         | make sense to me that you would want to ignore them. The
         | majority of my friends are former/current co-workers.
        
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           | nowherebeen wrote:
           | If I am spending 50% of my waking hours with them, how
           | exactly am I ignoring them? You can still make friends at
           | work without having to hang out after work. I shouldn't be
           | obliged to spent 75% of my waking hours with them.
           | 
           | And how do you know they don't want the same thing? I know
           | tons of people that would rather spent time with their loved
           | ones than their coworkers. You might want to rethink your
           | definition of ignore, because it sounds very much like
           | unhealthy peer pressure.
        
         | rockbruno wrote:
         | I'm happy this is the case for you, but this is not everyone's
         | reality. If you have no friends and family post-college,
         | socializing during work is the only thing preventing you from
         | going into deep depression.
         | 
         | Very common example of how this can happen: Moving to another
         | country for work.
        
           | lupire wrote:
           | And those souls absolutely should congregate at work while
           | they try to plant roots. But don't force the whole company to
           | do it.
        
             | rockbruno wrote:
             | I agree with you. I was just adding that people who are
             | strongly against non-remote work should at least be aware
             | that this can literally kill people, meaning that companies
             | should not yolo the decision of how it should operate in
             | this regard.
        
               | nowherebeen wrote:
               | I am not strongly against non-remote work. I am strongly
               | against having to hang out with your coworkers after
               | work. I think those two are different things.
               | 
               | We already spent enough time at work, I should be allowed
               | my own free time to relax without feeling the peer
               | pressure to be part of the team outside work hours.
        
         | iamstupidsimple wrote:
         | I think it's a generational thing.
         | 
         | As a young person, work is basically the default way to meet
         | people after moving to a large city. I have real friends
         | outside work now but they all started as colleagues or friends
         | of colleagues. I'd also prefer to work with people I can trust
         | over anonymous colleagues any day.
         | 
         | I'm not saying it's the only way (it's probably not _good_ or
         | healthy) but this sentiment is super common among my peers.
         | When we 're older I suspect that will change.
        
       | wodenokoto wrote:
       | > However, even the fiercest distributed team advocates agree
       | that an office provides some benefits that are difficult to
       | replicate on a distributed team. I want to dig into some of those
       | benefits.
       | 
       | Or, how to say you don't read hacker news without saying you
       | don't read hacker news.
       | 
       | I don't disagree that offices have their benefit, but I do know
       | where to find internet pundits who do!
        
       | higeorge13 wrote:
       | I hope distributed is the new norm in order to get similar
       | salaries despite the fact we were born or chose to live in
       | different continents.
        
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       | gregdoesit wrote:
       | I know two startups started both in 2020. They started out with
       | roughly on the same idea, having raised similar funding.
       | 
       | Startup #1 decided to do full-remote from day one. After a year,
       | the founder of the full-remote startup had little progress: they
       | ended up figuring out how to work, had to fire people "not cut
       | out" for remote work, and then realized they really make
       | meaningful progress after week-long retreats as a team which they
       | now do on an adhoc basis.
       | 
       | Startup #2 stayed in-office even during the pandemic in the same
       | location - following local guidelines on COVID rules as with all
       | businesses. They did this because this was the way the founders
       | knew how to work, and they knew that full-remote would be a steep
       | learning curve and slow down their iteration speed as they are
       | rushing to find product-market-fit. They only hired for onsite
       | 2-3 days a week, and paid very well in return.
       | 
       | Startup #2 found PMF in year 1, and now are at ~30 people, ~100
       | paying businesses, growing strong, ready for their Series A. They
       | have engineering, product, sales and customer support in the same
       | office. As this startup grows, they are putting remote-friendly
       | policies in place as they realize they'll have a hard time hiring
       | and retaining without. But their core culture is collaborating
       | frequently as in-person.
       | 
       | Startup #1 is looking for PMF and are still learning how to work
       | efficiently as a full-remote team. In this sense, they are well
       | ahead of Startup #2. In product progress, they are behind. For
       | runway, they are about the same, as Startup #1 runs with a
       | smaller team than #2.
       | 
       | In my social media feed, almost everyone advocates for full-
       | remote work, as from a personal point of view this is the
       | preference of most people. No commute, more flexible work hours
       | and choosing where to live and where to work from are all
       | undoubtedly huge benefits for any individual.
       | 
       | Still, my observation is that working full-remote or full-
       | distributed has a learning path that takes time and effort. There
       | are people, managers and teams are not there just yet. And we
       | might learn that certain team phases, team dynamics and business
       | environments are better fitted for full-remote or fully
       | distributed versus one that has more "in-office" contact.
        
         | quickthrower2 wrote:
         | My takeaway from that is very early startups should be in
         | person, but beyond that very early stage remote will make sense
         | especially as devs can be picky and want to work remote.
        
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           | strikelaserclaw wrote:
           | Yes, In Person is always better where there is more "chaos",
           | but for established companies where most people have "tasks"
           | to do, remote works just fine.
        
           | koide wrote:
           | And mine is that you can't tell much from that anecdote. The
           | failing startup might be failing for any number of reasons.
           | There are counterpoints of fully remote startups that have
           | worked out well. So basically, it's just noise. There isn't
           | even an attempt made at explaining why is working remotely
           | the problem, they might not be suited to it, or that they
           | tried before being ready for it as OP stated.
        
         | lowbloodsugar wrote:
         | If we've learned anything from reading HN, a sample of two
         | isn't statistically significant, especially when talking about
         | startups. I've known people in several startups and very few
         | cashed out - and they were all in office.
         | 
         | It's interesting that you state that Startup #2 paid very well
         | _in return_ for coming into the office. I get paid very well
         | for _doing my job_ , regardless of whether it is remote or in
         | office. If Startup #1 has decided that remote means they don't
         | need to pay very well, then that is probably your root cause.
        
         | lozenge wrote:
         | How many COVID infections were caused by startup 2 breaking the
         | law?
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | barry-cotter wrote:
           | > Startup #2 stayed in-office even during the pandemic in the
           | same location - following local guidelines on COVID rules as
           | with all businesses.
        
           | xtracto wrote:
           | Ha! This happened in the startup where I worked in 2020: CEO
           | was stubborn to work in the office so he implemented "all
           | official guidelines " to keep some people in the office.
           | There were 2 COVID outbreaks in the 10 months I worked there
           | during the pandemic (I refused to go to the office). I later
           | found a better paying fully remote job with sensible
           | leadership .
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | thinkharderdev wrote:
       | > At Google Chicago, we had a yearly two day team ski trip
       | 
       | So get the remote team together for a two day team ski trip. With
       | all the money you save on office rent, get the while team
       | together for a whole week of skiing.
       | 
       | > Furthermore, the spontaneous and critically important break-
       | outs (small conversations) that happen at team off-sites or
       | conferences are near impossible to replicate over any remote tool
       | I've used
       | 
       | True, but again, remote teams can also go to conferences and have
       | off sites.
       | 
       | > Even if they do, once budgets get stressed, it seems likely
       | this will be the first "perk" to go: its benefits are hard to
       | quantify and it certainly seems frivolous to the short-sighted
       | 
       | Maybe so, but team ski trips, conferences and offsite will also
       | be on the chopping block. And the budget is much more likely to
       | get stressed when you have the huge fixed cost of downtown office
       | space in it.
       | 
       | This seems not so much as an argument for office vs remote work
       | but an argument that pandemics are bad. I think a lot of people
       | who didn't work remote before the pandemic have the wrong
       | impression about what working remotely is actually like.
        
         | lumost wrote:
         | Anecdotally it seems much more difficult to get an offsite
         | together in the modern remote office than it was in the old
         | offices. With the new remote world, senior leadership struggles
         | to stay in touch with the general feeling of workers. While
         | this surely results in fewer time wasting pep talks, it also
         | means that the worthwhile activities are also getting side
         | lined.
        
           | bfung wrote:
           | > With the new remote world, senior leadership struggles to
           | stay in touch with the general feeling of workers.
           | 
           | I'd say that is more of a sign of poor management chain
           | management, communication, and people management. Senior mgmt
           | can stay in touch by, surprise, staying in touch. Remote
           | makes it harder for those poor at written skills and tech
           | skills, but a good manager should've been writing things down
           | to begin with.
           | 
           | Opinions from someone doing mgmt for quite some time now.
        
             | noasaservice wrote:
             | And that's a MAJOR contingent of people against remotework.
             | 
             | Most middle and upper management can't do it. They fail.
             | They're impediments. They're also the ones who want glass
             | "fishbowls" to show off their employees' toil, AND to
             | "supervise" professionals for the lack of appearance of
             | work.
             | 
             | In reality, companies would do themselves a LOT of cost-
             | cutting to getting rid of ineffectual managers who get in
             | the way of process and progress. But then again, its that
             | class of workers is why we're dealing with anti-remotework
             | all the time.
        
               | bfung wrote:
               | > Most middle and upper management can't do it. They
               | fail.
               | 
               | Yep, your post is 100% correct :) That's the reality we
               | live in.
        
               | hn_version_0023 wrote:
               | You can't get rid of the C-suites' safety layer. Middle
               | management exists to take the fall when the C-suite makes
               | major mistakes. The sociopaths at the top won't even
               | consider it.
        
               | noasaservice wrote:
               | Only a few need to consider and do this. And once they
               | do, the others will be forced to do similar to compete.
        
           | pc86 wrote:
           | What about it is more difficult? The (admittedly few) off-
           | sites I've been to have been scheduled 6+ months in advance
           | and the general expectation is that everyone is going unless
           | there's a wedding or a kid is sick or something, in the sense
           | that it's not really culturally acceptable to take PTO during
           | that time unless it's for something very important. When the
           | VP or CTO comes around in February and says "we're going to
           | $CITY for a week, all expenses paid, in September" it's
           | pretty easy for all the teams to get around that.
        
         | bitL wrote:
         | The last thing I want is to spend extra time with my coworkers.
         | Intense work interaction is enough, I strongly prefer to meet
         | "outsiders" in my spare time to actually be able to relax
         | efficiently. Thanks but no thanks.
        
           | charles_f wrote:
           | Yep, I'm _ok_ with the occasional  "event", restaurant and
           | such ; but I don't want work to socially pressure me into a
           | small holiday with my colleagues. My time off I want to spend
           | with friends and family, not drinking corporate coolade.
        
           | goostavos wrote:
           | >The last thing I want is to spend extra time with my
           | coworkers.
           | 
           | That seem to be a common point that divides the WFH vs office
           | people. For some, it's really wild how much they rely on the
           | office, and the people that are only there because they're
           | getting paid to be, to act as a stand in for friends, family,
           | or fulfillment of general social need (plus, in OP's case,
           | the office lets him get his steps in each day(!) which is a
           | topic he surely strikes up a long, tedious conversation about
           | with his coworkers as they're held captive at their desk).
           | 
           | Most coworkers are merely tolerated socially. Even if I think
           | they're wonderful to _work_ with, and cherish and rely on
           | their contributions, I 've got zero desire to spend any time
           | with 99% of them outside of situations where I'm paid to be
           | there.
           | 
           | The people who make blanket statements about how integrated,
           | in-office teams are better than remote teams ("every time")
           | fill me with contempt. Mostly because I know over the long
           | haul their arguments will win and we'll all be back in the
           | office because that's what managers who need to be seen want,
           | and coworkers who need a family want, and CEOs who need an
           | empire want.
           | 
           | Don't trust you're lying eyes! Distributed doesn't work! The
           | last two years were a failure. Open source doesn't exist. Now
           | drive into the office so we can have a meeting where everyone
           | sits in a room and midlessly browses Reddit while someone
           | drones on about something that could have been an email.
        
           | tootie wrote:
           | I did one of these kind team junkets in like 2001 when I was
           | just out of college and realized immediately I never wanted
           | to do it ever again. They've been offered a handful of times
           | at other places I've worked and it's a hard pass.
        
         | ilammy wrote:
         | > _fixed cost of downtown office space_
         | 
         | There you said it. With the office being a fixed expense,
         | budget is formed _around_ it, since you "just need it". While
         | the trips and conferences are always discretionary expenses,
         | and as such will not be made if they could be not made.
        
           | kortilla wrote:
           | It's not fixed. I've been through several office moves to
           | save costs on leases even at successful companies.
        
             | Brian_K_White wrote:
             | The fixed budget item is "office", not any particular
             | office.
        
               | thinkharderdev wrote:
               | I meant "fixed" just in the sense that there is a set
               | amount you are contractually obligated to pay regularly,
               | as opposed to discretionary costs of something like team
               | offsite. If everyone is on vacation for the month of July
               | then you can't just decide to not pay office rent for the
               | month, whereas you could decide not to have your July
               | team offsite.
               | 
               | But calling it "fixed" in the sense that you just have to
               | pay it is begging the question. The whole point is that
               | you don't need an office in all situations. Or at least
               | you don't need a dedicated desk for every employee. So
               | you shouldn't look at office rent as a cost of doing
               | business thing. You have to really look at whether the
               | ROI is there. Maybe it is, maybe it's not based on your
               | particular circumstances but it IS a choice.
        
           | thinkharderdev wrote:
           | But I think the whole point is that we don't just need it.
           | The trend towards remote (or at least remote-friendly) work
           | which was dramatically accelerated by the pandemic means that
           | office space should be viewed as a discretionary expense. If
           | you already are locked into a long-term lease and that money
           | is already a sunk cost, then that's one thing. But if you are
           | starting a new company or at a point where you need to renew
           | an office lease, you have to ask yourself whether there
           | really is an ROI on office rent. It's a lot of money after
           | all and you can still get a lot of the benefits of in person
           | team bonding at a fraction of the cost through regular
           | offsites and team building events.
           | 
           | I'll just throw in that "fully remote but with regular
           | company off sites" is actually a really attractive
           | proposition to an employee. Instead of commuting every day to
           | some dreary office I get to work from my very comfortable
           | home and still meet my coworkers at some nice destination a
           | few times a year. I actually feel like I have a better bond
           | with remote coworkers in that situation because when we meet
           | in person it is in a "vacation" atmosphere and being time
           | limited means we really focus on hanging out together and
           | doing group activities.
        
         | moron4hire wrote:
         | > This seems not so much as an argument for office vs remote
         | work but an argument that pandemics are bad. I think a lot of
         | people who didn't work remote before the pandemic have the
         | wrong impression about what working remotely is actually like.
         | 
         | That's exactly what some of us said would happen at the
         | beginning of the pandemic. There were a large minority of
         | people complaining about remote work and questioning how anyone
         | could do it. But the pandemic was not a typical remote
         | work/work from home situation. People were _forced_ into it.
         | You couldn 't bug out to the library to get a change of view.
         | You couldn't meet up for drinks or coffee to get even a bare
         | minimum of face to face. Some of us who had been remote working
         | for a long time predicted this anti-remote work backlash
         | specifically because of this.
        
           | ehnto wrote:
           | It's prescient, I think many people were feeling like their
           | house was being invaded and molded by work requirements, and
           | it wasn't a choice they were making. I think when someone
           | chooses remote, it's their responsibility to offer a suitable
           | working environment and that's clear.
           | 
           | For many working remotely is about the freedom of choice in
           | the act of working, choose the time, choose the place, choose
           | the equipment. Whereas the pandemic was a situation where
           | that freedom didn't exist, so even previously remote workers
           | were not as happy with remote work.
           | 
           | It was often trying to make an office environment out of a
           | smattering of digital communication tools, and I think that's
           | the wrong approach for remote work. Previously I had all the
           | above flexibility, in the "everyone's remote" model, I was
           | clocking on at 9am, sitting in 10x the bullshit meetings I
           | used to be in as they tried to simulate ad-hoc communication,
           | and all from my bedroom, not a co-working space or cafe or
           | outdoors etc.
        
         | richardfey wrote:
         | You could probably afford a _month_ of shared holidays with the
         | savings from a physical office
        
           | rzzzt wrote:
           | So why aren't companies constantly on ski trips?
        
             | jhurliman wrote:
             | My company is remote only and the money saved on office
             | space has been reallocated to additional team outings and a
             | longer runway. Constant outings sounds a bit overwhelming,
             | personally.
        
             | ilikehurdles wrote:
             | My last remote company had quarterly offsites, and
             | sponsored at least a conference of your choice per year if
             | you wanted to go to it. My current remote company hasn't
             | had many offsites (covid + clients in healthcare) but hires
             | aggressively and pays significantly above market. Also
             | spares almost no expense on employees. It's hard to compare
             | like for like though. How much of any company's actions can
             | be attributed to budget savings from cutting physical
             | offices, as opposed to any number of other variables:
             | decisions from leadership, market strategy, or quality of
             | last funding round? It's hard to isolate just the one
             | cause, but it might be worth gathering that aggregate data
             | to see if patterns exist.
        
             | thinkharderdev wrote:
             | Because employees have families and lives outside of work
             | so can't just drop everything to go a team ski trip. Once
             | or twice a year, sure, but more than that it's a chore more
             | than a perk :)
        
             | tapland wrote:
             | Because that money is also just profit if it's not spent.
        
             | cudgy wrote:
             | Because they have offices?
        
       | noduerme wrote:
       | >> it gets you out of the house
       | 
       | Well, it does. Just not for the right reasons.
        
         | richardfey wrote:
         | This. I am always in a hurry and anxious, even if I leave the
         | house with large advance, just because I am on the "mission" to
         | get to work and have to counteract public transport that can be
         | delayed etc. Instead when I am out in a park I do truly enjoy
         | my green surroundings and relax.
        
       | apple4ever wrote:
       | I do like having an in office job, but with the flexibility of
       | working from home as needed.
       | 
       | I don't even mind the commute as much. What I absolutely hate is
       | open offices. I want my own office where I can have some privacy
       | to think and have space.
        
       | newshorts wrote:
       | My biggest gripe with returning to the office is the inability to
       | determine and enforce priority.
       | 
       | At home, if you slack me and you're not my top priority right
       | now, I can ignore you or politely reply that I'll be with you
       | shortly.
       | 
       | In the office folks can simply walk over and tap me on the
       | shoulder. Due to social norms, I cannot simply ignore you and
       | most like will need to devote my full attention to your
       | questions.
       | 
       | Essentially, my actions throughout the day make a subtle shift
       | from proactive activities to reactive.
       | 
       | If I'm not the only person to experience this, I wonder what the
       | macro effect is on an organization?
        
       | cudgy wrote:
       | "Zapier, a great distributed company, famously has quarterly
       | offsites for its teams where everyone meets in person to
       | replicate this effect. However, I highly suspect that most big
       | companies won't make any such effort to do this. Even if they do,
       | once budgets get stressed, it seems likely this will be the first
       | "perk" to go: its benefits are hard to quantify and it certainly
       | seems frivolous to the short-sighted."
       | 
       | This seems to contradict the argument for offices. Companies save
       | money by having fewer offices, so their budgets should be
       | improved. Also, if companies do not see the value of employees
       | periodically meeting each other then why do management largely
       | prefer face time in offices?
       | 
       | "Getting out of the house and into a setting with other human
       | beings builds a heck of a lot more socialization"
       | 
       | Much of this article focuses on the workplace fulfilling out of
       | work needs or out of work meetings fulfilling at work
       | relationships. Why do people want and expect so much from their
       | jobs? Why is that the place to fulfill ones social needs? Pursue
       | hobbies and interests outside of work and meet people not
       | tethered to your employer. These relationships are stronger and
       | transcend work ties. Avoiding terrible commutes provides some of
       | the time to pursue such ventures too.
        
         | cabraca wrote:
         | I think its the google centric view of the article. All the
         | perks google offer in their offices are tools to keep you in
         | the office longer. Stay for the Gym, stay for Dinner or come in
         | early for lunch. Considering that its naturally that they
         | expect your social circle to be mostly other google employees.
        
       | jeffwask wrote:
       | There are a lot of alternative methods for bonding in an online
       | space. I've been a gamer and run guilds where we never saw each
       | other yet people built such strong connections they traveled
       | cross country to meet up by choice not force years after. (and
       | multiple people got married)
       | 
       | The idea that this is only possible in meat space is such an
       | antiquated mindset.
       | 
       | Think outside the box. There are a number of companies offering
       | tools, one we use is Donut. https://www.donut.com/blog/ Once a
       | week, I am randomly peered with someone for a half hour coffee.
       | It's been great and I meet people not just in engineering.
        
       | benreesman wrote:
       | The company I work for is still tiny, so we don't know how it's
       | going to scale, but we've been spending the money we would spend
       | on an office just traveling to work together either collectively
       | or in small groups on an as-needed, voluntary basis. Some have
       | more flexibility around travel, some less, but we all like and
       | care about each other so someone is always willing to go the
       | extra mile when someone else can't travel.
       | 
       | This only works because the enterprise is a COVID baby, and so
       | the "base load" workflow is totally remote, we've never known
       | anything different. This makes being in person pleasant and
       | useful but almost never strictly necessary.
       | 
       | I hope it scales because I love it.
        
       | lupire wrote:
       | Is this post a year old, or does OP not use calendar correctly?
        
       | sfg wrote:
       | "working from home certainly increases the amount of control that
       | people have over their day"
       | 
       | Yep. This outweighs all the benefits of being in the office that
       | are mentioned in the article.
        
       | lkrubner wrote:
       | This is an important issue. My own experience is limited to New
       | York City, so I can only comment intelligently on what I've seen
       | here. Over the last 18 months I spoke to 30 entrepreneurs about
       | this issue, and I've tried to synthesize what I have learned.
       | I've posted some of this information previously in various
       | comments, in particular, that many entrepreneurs seem to put a
       | value on vague and intangible (but apparently important) aspects
       | of in-person work. Like I said in an earlier comment, I've had
       | clients who offered mid level software engineers an extra $30k a
       | year to come into the office. I've also summarized all of this in
       | a blog post. For anyone interested, see "What work can be done
       | from home? What work needs to be done at an office?"
       | 
       | http://www.smashcompany.com/business/what-work-can-be-done-f...
        
         | koide wrote:
         | That's a good argument, but I didn't see the "we want the best
         | people we can get with what we want to pay regardless of where
         | they are." Which is what some companies do, they hire from all
         | over the world and pay them in the same range.
         | 
         | Why should companies hire only from the US if there are as good
         | or better people elsewhere?
         | 
         | You're looking at it from the cost reduction perspective, but
         | work shouldn't be something you save money on, but invest it
         | the best you can to get the best product.
         | 
         | In summary, looks like the CEO and CTO of your sample companies
         | don't know how to collaborate remotely. Which is natural
         | because it's not intuitive. And if you don't know and don't
         | want to learn, or happen to be at a niche not amenable to
         | remote collaboration, sure, stay at an office.
        
         | barry-cotter wrote:
         | Dude, post this as its own submission.
        
           | Thrymr wrote:
           | He did: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=30914179
        
       | mdoms wrote:
       | I agree completely with this article. And I understand fully if
       | you don't. But for me, nothing I have done in remote work
       | compares to my in-person work at really well-functioning
       | companies.
       | 
       | I struggle to recall a single memory of my remote working career
       | older than 4 months old. But my head is full of memories of my
       | in-person work because, while sometimes grueling, was often full
       | of fun, surprises, bonding experiences, challenging
       | conversations, war rooms etc.
       | 
       | Most of all I worry that our younger employees don't know what
       | they've missed out on. I hope they can find a way to develop
       | great memories of their own in this brave new world.
        
       | mr90210 wrote:
       | I think the author doesn't take in account that some companies
       | are being forced to hire remotely due to the shortage of
       | professionals in the Software industry.
        
         | strikelaserclaw wrote:
         | I think the biggest problem is that these companies all seem to
         | establish themselves in the most expensive metro areas. Even
         | with the good salaries of being a software engineer, a lot of
         | people would hate to feel like most of their money is going
         | towards taxes, rent, etc... and forget about being able to buy
         | a decent house in the bay area, the housing prices seem to
         | continually increase upward while the majority of the
         | population is left renting. Most of my well paid coworkers in
         | the bay area hate commuting to work because they live like an
         | hour away.
        
       | asciimov wrote:
       | Dude, your privileged is showing...
       | 
       | I have yet to work for a company that buys me lunch, much less
       | annual ski trips. Hell, coffee hasn't been provided at any of my
       | jobs, I've always had to pitch into a coffee pool just to have
       | it. That's not to even mention getting to go to conferences. If I
       | wanted to attend a conference, it would be coming out of my
       | wallet and vacation time.
       | 
       | If you want me to collaborate, put it in on my schedule and pay
       | me to do it. I'd say that most of these "spontaneous collision of
       | people and ideas" happen during lunch. Guess what, that lunch
       | which I am already paying for, is also unpaid time. Ever since
       | I've been working from home, my lunch hour is mine. I get to
       | unwind, read or watch tv, all while eating a healthy meal.
       | 
       | Finally let's talk about things that would get me back in the
       | office. Shorter days, I have to commute a total of 2 hours a day,
       | so I want my day to be 2-3 hours shorter. An actual office, with
       | a window, door, temperature control, and some kind of noise
       | isolation. I don't like working in those open office bullpens
       | where I get to listen to salesmen screaming on the phone or
       | secretaries sharing the latest gossip. Start screening people for
       | personal hygiene. I get so tired of having to work with a heavy
       | smoker or someone who can't be bothered to shower before showing
       | up to work.
        
         | Melatonic wrote:
         | I agree on the open office plans (excuse to cram more people in
         | a space) but a decent cube setup isnt all that bad (assuming
         | decently high walls).
         | 
         | Not sure how a company buying you lunch makes you privileged -
         | mine does not but many bigger companies provide that as a perk
         | and it is not super uncommon or something.
        
         | noasaservice wrote:
         | Indeed. "My gold-coated bon-bons are empty, the bottle of 20y
         | scotch is half-full, and Im ONLY in a 5 star ski resort with my
         | colleagues."
         | 
         | Whereas I'm making 150k/yr in the midwest as 100% remote
         | engineer, and livin every day to its fullest. I'm certainly
         | getting no ski trips or otherwise. Most companies don't do
         | that.
         | 
         | I also don't look forward to working at a FAANG either. Way too
         | much churn. And I frankly value stability as well. And the
         | FAANGs aren't that at all.
         | 
         | As much as the admins here want us to think in the most
         | gracious way, I really think these are commissioned hit pieces
         | against remote-work. Ive been tracking them, and its long-form
         | articles like this that advocate in-person work where it
         | doesn't need it.
        
           | olliej wrote:
           | What? FAANGs are among the most stable in tech, Apple
           | especially is notorious for lifers.
        
             | philwelch wrote:
             | Amazon is probably an exception, and based on Netflix's
             | stated attitude towards "adequate performance" I wouldn't
             | necessarily expect stability there.
        
             | filoleg wrote:
             | Yep, Microsoft is in a similar boat. There is a reason for
             | why Red West part of the main campus is often referred to
             | as Red Vest.
             | 
             | Even outside of that, about half of the people I used to
             | work with at MSFT were lifers (7+ years easily, a good
             | number of 10+, a few 15+). Not judgement whatsoever, it
             | sounded like a win-win situation for all sides involved
             | (them and the company). Most of them had kids, families,
             | and the primary reason for staying was great life-work
             | balance and stability. They weren't "delusional" or
             | anything, they knew all the tradeoffs of being a lifer, and
             | they've made an extremely reasonable decision to stay.
             | 
             | Note: what I said doesn't seem to apply to most Azure
             | teams, as I've heard some wild stories from people who
             | switched either to or from Azure (i.e., they experienced
             | how it is to work at both Azure and the rest of MSFT).
             | Azure is intense.
        
         | ravenstine wrote:
         | > An actual office, with a window, door, temperature control,
         | and some kind of noise isolation.
         | 
         | Yeah, it would be nice to not feel like being back in
         | kindergarten for a change.
         | 
         | Do people even get their own cubes these days?
        
         | danielmarkbruce wrote:
         | Hacker news was built by silicon valley tech people, has a lot
         | of silicon valley tech people posting. The author doesn't need
         | to write for every single possible constituency. Also, many
         | other industries provide lunch etc - historically many mining
         | and oil and gas companies provided food, housing, everything.
         | Some still do. The author wrote in good faith.
         | 
         | There are a lot of people at google who don't come from
         | privileged backgrounds. They might have won an iq lottery or
         | something, but someone working hard to get a job at a good
         | company doesn't make them privileged. What's next? Elon is
         | "privileged"?
        
           | uncomputation wrote:
           | I generally avoid even talking about him due to his rapid
           | followers but uh... yes, Elon Musk's father is "so rich we
           | couldn't close our safe" and it's hilarious you chose him -
           | of all people - to argue against privilege instead of Bill
           | Gates, Warren Buffet, Jeff Bezos, literally anyone of more
           | modest upbringing but you chose the actual one with family
           | money.
           | 
           | Regardless, I don't think OP was referring to privileged
           | upbringing/background but privileged currently e.g.
           | privileged for working at a place which provides many
           | amenities and trips. I agree with your first paragraph, i.e.
           | everyone can only write from their own perspectives, but just
           | clarifying the difference.
        
           | beauzero wrote:
           | Mines I have worked at in the US only provided meals when you
           | were travelling. Although unlimited double brew and a plugin
           | for every truck/car in the parking lot was provided. Can't
           | speak for oil and gas.
        
             | danielmarkbruce wrote:
             | It could be geography dependent - some mines are in the
             | middle of nowhere in places like Australia and Canada.
        
               | ACow_Adonis wrote:
               | on that, I've only ever worked at one company that
               | provided free coffee (a large bank). And quite frankly,
               | it being in Melbourne, Australia, only the absolutely
               | desperate would touch it and not just go outside to cafes
               | for meetings and buy their own at their own cost.
               | 
               | I also did some work experience at tidbinbilla tracking
               | station when I was younger, as well as the radio
               | telescope array out near Narrabri. the NASA aligned
               | tidbinbilla one had a company cafeteria, which at the
               | time I put down to some American cultural import thing,
               | because it seemed weird as hell to me. the Narrabri
               | facility isn't exactly in the middle of the city either,
               | and is the only place I've worked with a bus that came
               | round to pick you up from the town each morning (I've
               | heard some tech companies do this in Silicon Valley?) and
               | even they expected you to make your own lunch (there
               | wasn't really an option to go get food from a shop). on
               | the upside, they did have a volleyball court, so swings
               | and roundabouts...
        
         | mcguire wrote:
         | According to his Linkedin link, Charlie graduated in 2012 and
         | went straight to work for Google, where he worked for 7 years.
         | My hypothesis is that essentially everyone he knows after
         | graduating, he met at Google.
         | 
         | Me, I've got friends and relatives. I've got stuff to do. For
         | me, going to work does not equal hanging out with my buddies.
         | 
         | Oh, here's another one: the last time I worked in the office,
         | my cubicle was directly across the hall from apparently the
         | only large, not-completely-booked-up meeting room at MSFC. At
         | least once a week I was up closing the goddamn meeting room
         | door.
        
         | waynesonfire wrote:
         | -nuff said. you nailed it.
        
         | zeptonaut22 wrote:
         | FWIW, I definitely don't deny that my privilege is showing.
         | 
         | I no longer work at Google, but whether I want to go into the
         | office is probably heavily influenced by the fact that I have a
         | ~15 minute door to door bike commute through a nice town (Ann
         | Arbor) to my nice coworking space.
         | 
         | I think that the scary part to me about the idea of all jobs
         | going remote is that "going remote" seems an antidote to:
         | 
         | - Bad office designs (no privacy, poor light, etc.) - Bad urban
         | planning (long commutes, poor transportation options) - Bad
         | coworkers
         | 
         | Of those three, only the "bad coworkers" one seems inevitable
         | that some people will have to deal with. (After all, those
         | people need to work somewhere.)
         | 
         | If I had to commute two hours a day to work in an office with
         | no privacy, my opinion on this would surely be different. One
         | of the people on my team at Google lived in Oakland and
         | commuted to Mountain View every day: that sounded awful. But we
         | also don't have to design offices to offer no privacy and we
         | know how to design better cities that don't offer horrific
         | commutes.
        
           | joshmanders wrote:
           | You're thinking purely in the context of everyone living
           | where these jobs physically exist.
           | 
           | Tell me what part of remote working is an antidote to me
           | living in Dubuque, Iowa where relocation is not a
           | possibility... Do I just not work in tech?
        
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         | donatj wrote:
         | Do you work in software? I have never heard of a software
         | company not providing free coffee. The increased productivity
         | completely outweigh the couple dollars for the hot bean water.
        
           | ultra_nick wrote:
           | Dell doesn't
        
             | weej wrote:
             | My time at Dell immediately brought this to mind. No coffee
             | offered other than overpriced you had to purchase from the
             | cafeteria. I brought in my own espresso and coffee maker,
             | and got chastised by facilities as a fire hazard. We
             | weren't even allowed to put in the tiny kitchenette, which
             | was a sink with plastic utensils in a couple of drawers.
             | Ridiculous.
        
           | mdoms wrote:
           | Interestingly, Atlassian (somewhat) famously didn't have
           | coffee. They offered free breakfast and lunch, unlimited ice
           | cream, more booze than you'd ever want, etc. But their
           | philosophy with coffee was that they wanted you to form
           | groups and leave the office for a few minutes a couple of
           | times a day. It was supposedly a method of bonding and
           | spontaneous collaboration. In my opinion it worked well.
        
           | asciimov wrote:
           | > Do I work in software?
           | 
           | I sure do. Companies big and small. Some of them at one time
           | offered free coffee but the bean counters took away that perk
           | as a cost cutting measure.
        
             | a_t48 wrote:
             | Literal bean counting, eh?
        
           | joshmanders wrote:
           | Then you're not looking very far outside your own bubble,
           | because as someone like OP who doesn't have the pleasure of
           | working in top tech companies in silicon valley, I never had
           | free coffee at any place I had to show up at.
           | 
           | Heck, even being paid decently at those places was far fetch
           | let alone all those perks.
        
             | cvhashim wrote:
             | You're deep in the trenches if you've only worked in places
             | that don't even provide free coffee and teas.
        
               | joshmanders wrote:
               | No, I live in a place where the claim to technology fame
               | is "We have an IBM support office here, we're a tech
               | hub!"
               | 
               | Heck the biggest thing tech wise to come out of my city
               | is founder and former CEO of GitHub Tom Preston-Werner
               | being from here.
        
               | joshmanders wrote:
               | To elaborate the biggest "tech" company I worked at where
               | I had to show up was John Deere. They had coffee, but it
               | was just a Starbucks directly in JDIS (the "department"
               | that handled software dev) and you had to pay to get a
               | cup.
        
           | taeric wrote:
           | I've worked at a few places where the provided "free" coffee
           | was just what one of us decided to bring in and share in the
           | kitchen.
           | 
           | I have also yet to work anywhere where the added "agitation"
           | of getting folks talking in the kitchen wasn't the largest
           | benefit of having said kitchen. (That is, productivity was
           | probably lower, but it increased the odds of a productive
           | conversation happening. Nothing guaranteed, of course.)
        
           | Supermancho wrote:
           | > I have never heard of a software company not providing free
           | coffee.
           | 
           | Countless software development companies exist in offices
           | without so much as a break room (much less a kitchen). SMH
        
             | chaostheory wrote:
             | This is unheard of inside the Silicon Valley bubble. In our
             | defense, it also doesn't make sense that an employer
             | doesn't provide it for free. Coffee is cheap. It also adds
             | productivity.
        
               | namelessoracle wrote:
               | One reason some companies dont is because they have
               | significant NON tech work force also in the same
               | building, and they dont want to provide perks for X that
               | they dont for Y in the same building.
               | 
               | If the first 3 stories of your building are call center
               | level employees who make barely better than minimum wages
               | and the top floor is your well paid software engineers,
               | then facilities just says "no free coffee" to everyone.
               | 
               | Though even in places that you would think would be
               | stingy give out free coffee and snacks more and more.
               | Most of the purse string people like having nice snacks
               | too. Even small business owners will cater meals and buy
               | nice coffee because they get to have a nice meal that
               | counts as a business expense and their premium coffee
               | blend they get on order and have every day gets to count
               | as one too at that point.
        
               | chaostheory wrote:
               | The cost to benefit ratio of coffee is so high that it
               | makes sense to provide it to the whole office regardless
               | of whether or not they're IT
        
               | rs999gti wrote:
               | > non-tech
               | 
               | A Stinging reminder that if your company is not primarily
               | a tech company, IT is a cost center; the perks there are
               | for normie employees and not to retain tech talent
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | The main thing I've seen is if the local executive uses
               | the coffee. If he does, it's free for everyone.
               | 
               | If the executive break room is hidden and secret, then
               | there may be a lack of free coffee.
        
             | olliej wrote:
             | I have never encountered such a company in software or
             | hardware engineering across multiple countries.
             | 
             | I didn't like the skiing or whatever bit in the article,
             | but coffee machines, etc are pretty universal
        
               | brimble wrote:
               | Closest I've come to no office coffee at a tech company
               | is one that just had a Keurig machine and the very
               | cheapest K-cups they could find. The only ones that even
               | _had_ a flavor were the ones labeled  "dark roast", and
               | that flavor was very bad. I'm pretty sure an electric
               | kettle and a jar of instant coffee would have given
               | better results. That place had 500 people and was growing
               | fast. Nowhere near SV, though.
        
         | david38 wrote:
         | It never happened for lunch for me. It happened while
         | overhearing a discussion a few desks down during working hours.
         | 
         | And please, lunch is hardly a privilege. You can make lunch for
         | $3. It's a benefit for the company masquerading as a benefit to
         | you. Coffee is so cheap it's almost free. I buy it at Costco
         | for around $20. I don't know exactly how many cups I get, but
         | it's so cheap it's not even worth calculating.
        
           | BlargMcLarg wrote:
           | You're not making the office sound any better with these
           | "just do it yourself bro" arguments. They can do that at
           | home. If they're not even trying to make the office a place
           | people want to be at, then just stop.
           | 
           | "Why do people want to stay WFH when we don't provide
           | incentives for them to come to the office?" "Gee Bob I don't
           | know."
        
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