[HN Gopher] Taking Flight Without a Smart Phone
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       Taking Flight Without a Smart Phone
        
       Author : devtailz
       Score  : 22 points
       Date   : 2022-04-10 18:18 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | Wowfunhappy wrote:
       | A half-measure I've considered is dropping my iPhone in favor of
       | (only) a cellular Apple Watch. This would allow me to call Uber,
       | check my email, and do most of the other things expected by
       | modern society, but harder to loose hours to the device.
        
         | causality0 wrote:
         | _it 's hard to imagine such as small screen consuming more than
         | a few minutes of my life at most._
         | 
         | As someone who's spent twenty hours over the last two weeks
         | playing a Funkey S, I wouldn't bet on that.
        
           | Wowfunhappy wrote:
           | Okay, well, sure, I suppose humanity can find a way to be
           | distracted by anything. But I think it would be a lot easier
           | to ignore. Even the Nokia in the article is capable of
           | playing Snake.
        
         | midasuni wrote:
         | Tamagotchi called and laughs
        
       | nonrandomstring wrote:
       | A very honest account by Adam that captures the anxiety of
       | addiction, especially those moments of panic that cause us to
       | fall back into smartphone dependency or use "just this last one
       | time".
       | 
       | This article will resonate with everyone working to take back
       | tech in their lives, but succumbing to the (false but emotionally
       | very real) sense of isolation and disconnection from the so-
       | called "expectations of society".
       | 
       | In Digital Vegan [1] I tried to re-word and make more accessible
       | ideas from a book that I found life changing. It is called
       | "Missing Out" by Adam Phillips [2]. It is written in quite dense,
       | psychotherapeutic language that gives me pause to recommend it.
       | 
       | If there's just one idea I'd love to get across it is within the
       | subtitle "In Praise of the Unlived Life", which is not about
       | Stoicism, abstinence as a virtue or any shallow "self-help"
       | themes. It's deeper and darker, and about dealing with the loss
       | that comes with being a real (true to yourself) person.
       | 
       | People talk about FOMO, a "fear of missing out". And of a fear of
       | being "left behind". But if the person next to you has their head
       | blown off by a bullet, or everyone else is swept away by a
       | tsunami wave, being the one who "missed out" or was "left behind"
       | feels like survivor guilt. It means dealing with a kind of grief
       | about the life you so nearly had, or chose to walk away from. The
       | fact that you got the better deal, even though you know that to
       | be profoundly true, sometimes still doesn't feel like enough.
       | Cult escapees feel this too.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13369538-missing-out
       | 
       | [2] https://digitalvegan.net
        
       | system2 wrote:
       | It is not the smartphones. It is the user.
       | 
       | I am using my phone to control my entire house: Cameras, door
       | alarms, motion detectors, laundry machines, dishwasher, smart
       | door bell, sprinkler system, smart lights, thermostat, smart
       | plugs for fans and other utilities, garage door, solar panel,
       | backyard garden controllers as well as their logging system.
       | 
       | This is only for the house, I also check my finances (banking,
       | stocks, credit), all client communications (slack, skype,
       | whatsapp, ringcentral, keepass). My health applications for smart
       | stuff like garmin watch and garmin heart rate, bicycle sensors,
       | weight scale, for work: office apps including microsoft and
       | google. My dog greatly benefits from the apps I use including
       | ordering his food with two taps, his schedules for vet visits
       | with direct vet contact thru the app, training schedules, etc. I
       | can listen to music in my car the way I want thanks to Spotify,
       | or listen to great podcast like this american life directly thru
       | their app. I can identify songs with shazam. The list can go
       | forever.
       | 
       | Just no social. I tried not using it for a day after these random
       | people posts; it just made things inconvenient and I missed my
       | schedules. I feel like I am maximizing my tool.
       | 
       | Users who are "scrolling" all day can also abuse drugs, alcohol,
       | coffee, or other things. It is the character. Don't blame the
       | tool.
        
         | nukemaster wrote:
         | Smartphone OSes are clearly designed for abuse though.
         | 
         | The whole UI is practically built around full screen modal apps
         | where the user scrolls through content. Installing community
         | made software and maintaining things yourself is artificially
         | made extremely difficult.
         | 
         | I could go on, but there is a legitimate problem with mobile
         | OSes that previous PDA OSes didn't have.
        
         | rtb wrote:
         | What a horrible comment; totally without compassion or empathy;
         | totally self-congratulating.
         | 
         | What do you propose people who find themselves unhappily
         | addicted to smartphones do? Just feel bad about their lack of
         | "character" and wish they were you?
        
       | throwaway892238 wrote:
       | Peak HN: "I use my phone too much" -> "Life is inconvenient
       | without my phone" -> "I must design my own phone from scratch"
        
       | jen729w wrote:
       | I empathise. You can get a quick win just by using a Focus mode.
       | Just make sure that it hides notifications on the home screen,
       | and I've set it to dim the home screen so that it's visually
       | different.
       | 
       | The habit of walking past your phone - which, needless to say
       | should not just be in your pocket all day - and hitting the
       | screen to see what's come in is neatly broken. Because now you
       | can't see what's come in, you have to stop, bend over, unlock it.
       | Now that's an actual _thing_ that you have to do.
       | 
       | That's enough to cause my brain to say, no, you don't need to do
       | that. And I've found the needless-check-of-notifications cycle
       | breaks itself quite naturally.
       | 
       | This assumes you can just leave your phone somewhere. I'm working
       | from home so it can just sit in a corner of the office. Bonus
       | points if you hide it in a drawer.
       | 
       | Edit: also, this lets anyone messaging you know that you're in a
       | DND-like mode. When I see this, I think, okay cool, don't expect
       | an immediate response. All good.
        
       | rsync wrote:
       | It's frustrating how very, very large dumbphones are.
       | 
       | Dimensions on this device are 131mm x 53mm @ 13.7mm thick ... and
       | that 13.7mm thick is almost comically thick. This is for a device
       | that does a very small subset of what a smartphone does _and_
       | does not benefit from screen real estate.
       | 
       | The tradeoff we _should_ be making is smarts vs. size ... but in
       | this case, you get the lack of a smartphone but also weirdly
       | large and ... comically large in one dimension.
       | 
       | If you're wondering what should be possible in this product
       | space, look at the MOTO F3 (FONE)[1] which is 16 years old and
       | had dimensions of 114mm / 47mm / 9mm.
       | 
       | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motorola_Fone
        
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