[HN Gopher] Lessons from Owning a Bookstore
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       Lessons from Owning a Bookstore
        
       Author : jseliger
       Score  : 102 points
       Date   : 2022-03-30 16:37 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | fumeux_fume wrote:
       | I came for some stories about starting a bookstore and all I got
       | was a bunch of platitudes about adveristy.
        
         | runevault wrote:
         | Adversity and Stoicism is sort of his shtick. If you aren't
         | aware of who he is its understandable how you'd be like "well
         | this isn't what I wanted," and part of where HN/Reddit links
         | can get weird for me. People who frequent a particular site
         | know what they are in for from the title because they have the
         | context of the person. Link sites are just places with a lot of
         | information with some flavor but not to the same degree.
        
           | TameAntelope wrote:
           | For people who need to hear these kinds of words, these
           | messages, I'm sure this content is valuable, but for folks
           | who _don 't_ need to hear, "Confidence is earned" it tends to
           | come across as trite and uninspiring.
           | 
           | I have no idea where HN lands on that spectrum, but for me it
           | evokes substantial eye rolling. "Yes, yes -- take risks,
           | start small, do experiments, be the eternal student. Got it."
           | 
           | Not that I'm acing any of those tests, but I'm probably at a
           | point where hearing it a thousandth time isn't realistically
           | likely to change my perspective on those topics. Not everyone
           | is where I'm at! But if you are, I don't imagine these kinds
           | of words/messages are going to excite you.
        
             | runevault wrote:
             | Yup you aren't wrong. But there is a HUGE cottage industry
             | around this sort of thing, be it self help books or other
             | forms. I don't have exact figures but I'm under the
             | impression Ryan has made a LOT of money off using the angle
             | of stoicism/The Obstacle is the Way (he even has a book
             | titled this) to offer the idea of inspiration for those who
             | want it but can't seem to find it.
             | 
             | Does it actually work for people? Hell if I know, and the
             | industry that has any hope of gathering that data doesn't
             | want to know because if the answer is no and it gets out
             | their entire money engine dies.
        
         | oh_sigh wrote:
         | Reading his about page should give you a clear indication why.
         | Almost the first sentence is "I dropped out of college to
         | apprentice under Robert Greene, author of The 48 Laws of
         | Power." I've always been extremely wary of people who pursue
         | power for its own sake, before they're even fully formed
         | humans. A common technique they choose to acquire power is
         | hucking drivel to other people who view the world the same way
         | - commonly writing in those platitudes about overcoming
         | adversity. I've literally never heard of this guy, but just
         | from reading this hn post, I can almost guarantee you he has
         | published a book that can be summed up in about 2 sentences but
         | is inexplicably 125 pages.
        
           | browningstreet wrote:
           | You're completely wrong about who Ryan Holiday is.
           | 
           | You can start by searching for his name on his own bookshop
           | website: https://www.thepaintedporch.com/search?type=product&
           | q=ryan+h...*
        
             | oh_sigh wrote:
             | Seeing titles like "Courage is Calling", "Stillness is the
             | Key", and "Trust Me, I'm Lying" only make me more confident
             | in my point, not less. But, I'm not going to buy these
             | books just to see if my hunch developed over 15 seconds is
             | correct.
        
               | Kaibeezy wrote:
               | I found "The Obstacle Is The Way" useful and accessible,
               | and I went on to read Marcus, Seneca and others. I
               | appreciate the introduction Holiday provided.
               | 
               | Any combination of factors that allows the opening of
               | something like an independent bookshop is A-OK by me.
               | Maybe Tim Ferriss will open a wood-fired pizzeria.
        
               | ankeshk wrote:
               | Thanks for being confidently incorrect.
        
               | tetsusaiga wrote:
               | Often wrong, never in doubt
        
               | oh_sigh wrote:
               | I said I gained "more confidence", not that I am
               | confident. After all, like I said, I put about 15 seconds
               | of thought into it, which was how long I knew that Ryan
               | Holiday as a person even existed.
               | 
               | But I think I get it. I'll make another assumption, still
               | in about 15 seconds, this time about you: You like Ryan
               | Holiday. You subscribe to his mailing lists, have read
               | his writings, and may have a couple of his books on your
               | shelf. Your views on the world are aligned with his. So
               | you're offended that I made a negative assumption about
               | him because he's "your guy".
        
               | human_person wrote:
               | I find Ryan Holiday to be pretty annoying as a marketer,
               | I used to be on his email list for book recs but I got
               | frustrated when the vast majority of his recs were books
               | written by white men (I dont have an issue with books
               | written by white men, but I do see it as a red flag when
               | someone only really consumes content from one
               | perspective).
               | 
               | But I did find "Trust Me, I'm Lying" to be a fascinating
               | look into how to fake a grass roots campaign and create
               | the illusion of virality (basically a step by step guide
               | to fake it till you make it).
               | 
               | I also found his book on Peter Thiel/the Hulk Hogan case
               | (Conspiracy) to be a really interesting look into a
               | lawsuit with pretty major implications for the future of
               | journalism. Although his musings on Thiel's
               | motives/morality/approach seemed to overlook the idea
               | that maybe there just shouldnt be billionaires.
               | 
               | Overall I would say he has interesting insights on
               | specific situations but in general his thinking is fairly
               | unimaginative/limited to manipulating the current system
               | without actually questioning underlying assumptions.
        
               | samatman wrote:
        
               | msla wrote:
               | I find people's opinions on Thiel to be an interesting
               | litmus test: Seeing him as morally bad is one thing, and
               | thinking there shouldn't be billionaires is a reasonable
               | view, but if someone absolutely cannot or will not see
               | that _he_ was the wronged party when Gawker outed him
               | without his consent while he was in a country hostile to
               | LGBTQ+ people, they 're morally blinkered at the very
               | least.
               | 
               | People who judge the morality of an action based on
               | characteristics of the people involved have replaced
               | their moral sense with tribal affiliation. That, or
               | they're immature black-and-white thinkers who cannot
               | understand that even someone who is generally bad can be
               | on the right side of a specific issue.
        
               | human_person wrote:
               | I agree, what Gawker did was wrong. But being wronged
               | once doesnt excuse Thiel's actions. And (more importantly
               | imo) the larger issue is are you comfortable with a
               | random person having enough money/power to threaten free
               | speech.
               | 
               | Also Thiel is far from the only person to be outed, the
               | only difference is his reaction/how much money he has. Do
               | you think its equally wrong that Wired outed Naomi Wu
               | while she lives in a country hostile to LGBTQ+ people?
        
               | phnofive wrote:
               | > Courage is Calling: Fortune Favors the Brave
               | 
               | I think I will judge that book by the words on its cover.
        
       | krelian wrote:
       | It's a dream of mine to own a Bookstore. Something similar to
       | what's described in the article. Not a ton of books only books I
       | know are good and interesting. Have the a store with a personal
       | touch.
       | 
       | I just can't see how it's going to work financially. I don't plan
       | to get rich from it but I sure would like it to sustain itself
       | and be able to provide for my family. I guess if you already have
       | a business that's bringing in the cash and you open the store as
       | a hobby that makes things easier, this seems to be the case for
       | the writer of that article.
        
         | browningstreet wrote:
         | But there _are_ bookstores that have launched recently and have
         | grown. The one in Truckee, CA is an obvious example. It 's
         | definitely not a hobby operation.
         | 
         | https://www.yelp.com/biz/word-after-word-books-truckee
        
           | ddoran wrote:
           | Rough Draft in Kingston, NY is another one. It's definitely
           | my favorite bookshop right now. It helps to have a great
           | coffee bar and booze bar and a cool historical building, but
           | most of all it helps to be in a city to which hipsters have
           | been migrating in droves in recent years. To be fair Rough
           | Draft are as much a driver of that recent migration (along
           | with other new similar businesses) as it is a beneficiary.
           | They do a great job in curating their book selection,
           | unfortunately the crowds and morning coffee queues keep me
           | away more than I would like.
           | 
           | https://www.roughdraftny.com
        
         | jaimebuelta wrote:
         | Carrying only a pre selection of books can be extremely tricky,
         | unless you find a particular niche that's in demand. That could
         | be easier to do in big cities, but the problem there is that
         | the costs are higher, which pressures the amount of monthly
         | sales to pay rent, etc.
         | 
         | For experience running a comic book shop, I was selling a lot
         | of stuff that I wasn't particularly interested, but my
         | customers liked. Now, it's true that I had to close it after
         | two years, but the interesting part is that it was really
         | difficult to foresee what would be the best selling articles
         | beforehand...
         | 
         | Of course, alongside, I was selling a lot of stuff that quite
         | interested me. But I had to work on with the business hat on,
         | more than with the fan hat on, if that makes sense
        
       | jaimebuelta wrote:
       | It's incredibly obvious that the bookstore is not a real
       | business, more like a hobby where he can do what he likes,
       | without pressure... this obviously gives a different
       | perspective...
       | 
       | Disclaimer: I actually run a comic book shop, that's very similar
       | to a bookshop and have quite different experience and took
       | different lessons from it.
       | 
       | (Unfortunately, I had to close it after two years. I talked about
       | it in a blog post, in case someone finds it interesting
       | https://wrongsideofmemphis.com/2013/04/01/i-was-once-a-non-t... )
        
       | ggm wrote:
       | Partner ran a second hand book store. Some customers are lovely
       | but I stress some.
       | 
       | Old books are dirty. There are insects, mould, dust, fingernails,
       | yes, the first five odd bookmarks are funny but after a while,
       | dead peoples bus tickets aren't amusing.
       | 
       | It's hard work. Margins are thin. Paper weighs a tonne and people
       | overpack boxes.
        
       | kevinwang wrote:
       | I'd be interested in quantifying "doing great" -- does this
       | person have revenue numbers or anything like that elsewhere?
        
         | cfeduke wrote:
         | Google Ryan Holiday net worth, estimates are between 6.5 and 8
         | million. Of that, the book store likely [just a guess] accounts
         | for... likely next to none of that. :) But it may employ people
         | and serve as an office and sometimes distribution point for
         | Holiday's own books. And that could be "doing great."
         | 
         | My wife and I owned a brick and mortar hobby store for a decade
         | that was "doing great." It never made any money, but it
         | employed a dozen people and fostered a wargaming community
         | which is still vibrant to this day even after the store sold
         | its assets to another hobby retailer.
        
       | tonguez wrote:
       | "As Zeno said, books are a way to have conversations with the
       | dead. You can learn from people who came before you. They can
       | also inspire and reassure you."
       | 
       | wtf am i reading?
        
       | teddyh wrote:
       | Not much there actually relevant to books. Here's something for
       | those who wanted that:
       | 
       | http://www.threepanelsoul.com/comic/dealers-dilemma
        
         | Nzen wrote:
         | You could also try playing the community translation of Ben Wu
         | Wu Yu  [0], a bookstore simulation game. I wasn't able to,
         | given the hex edit hacking used to insert the translated text
         | without recompiling, but maybe your copy of windows will match
         | that of the repository owner.
         | 
         | [0] discussed here
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27323748
         | 
         | [1] https://github.com/xraymemory/bookstory-en/issues/8
        
       | EarthLaunch wrote:
       | I was turned away from this bookstore yesterday for not masking!
       | What a coincidence to see this here.
       | 
       | I always stop for a bookstore. When I step through the door, I
       | pause to take in the atmosphere and decide where to start
       | browsing.
       | 
       | Here, the person politely requested I don a mask. There were free
       | masks available. Everyone browsing turned to look at me. I said,
       | "oh...that's okay, thank you" and politely went back outside.
       | 
       | I would mask to browse books or when someone asked me to. But I
       | wasn't prepared to be put on the spot like that. It's not what I
       | go to bookstores for. :(
        
         | jamesmishra wrote:
         | You didn't "want to be put on the spot"? What does that mean?
         | 
         | You entered somebody else's building. They asked that you wear
         | a mask and offered a free mask for you.
         | 
         | At what moment were you "on the spot"?
        
         | InCityDreams wrote:
         | Were there signs up regarding obligatory masking? "Everyone
         | browsing turned to look at me." In every bookstore I've been in
         | people have rarely looked up as someone enters
        
         | wollsmoth wrote:
         | You say that you'll put on a mask to browse books. But you
         | walked into a bookstore without one.
         | 
         | You say you'll put on a mask if asked. But they did ask.
         | Politely, as you noted.
         | 
         | How would you have preferred that they handled that situation?
        
           | misiti3780 wrote:
           | Given that anyone who wants to be is vaccinated + boosted,
           | and also considering how many people have had Omicron and
           | have natural immunity - why even require a mask?
        
             | Kaibeezy wrote:
             | Vaccinated people are getting Omicron infections. Many are
             | asymptomatic, but can still spread it. People carry other
             | infections too.
             | 
             | Masking reduces dispersion of virus-carrying aerosols.
             | https://physics.aps.org/articles/v14/s155
             | 
             | That would be why.
             | 
             | It's trivial to pop on a mask. I will continue to do so
             | when around other people in less-well-ventilated spaces.
        
               | throwawayboise wrote:
               | Two years on, are we still having this tedious argument?
        
               | Kaibeezy wrote:
               | The study I referenced sought to "quantify how masks
               | mitigate the direct transport of drops, which was
               | previously unquantified." It was published in November.
        
         | misiti3780 wrote:
         | I like Ryan's book recs and he is clearly a very smart, well
         | read person, but he read one book about the 1918 flu and acts
         | like he is a virologist.
         | 
         | Some people are never going to let covid go, based on the
         | content in his newsletter, he is one of them.
        
           | ghostbrainalpha wrote:
           | It feels like some people will NEVER let it go, but if you
           | look at with a 3,000 foot perspective it was really only 3
           | months ago that we had a real relevant wave.
           | 
           | Maybe some of the people who got hit harder, or have higher
           | anxiety will be worried for longer than we think they should,
           | but I doubt that worry will extend a year or two past the
           | rest of us.
        
       | robotsteve2 wrote:
       | > I'm happy enough to be putting books out in the world, making
       | this community better, having a physical space, challenging
       | myself, etc...as long as I don't lose lots of money, that's a
       | win.
       | 
       | The author defines book store success as "not losing lots of
       | money." I think readers should be cautious to interpret this as a
       | traditional business success story, since the author clearly
       | views the book store as a hobby project more than a business.
        
       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | It helps when you're a famous author/influencer and owner of said
       | bookstore and have famous author/influencer friends who help
       | promote your bookstore. This sadly isn't the case for the many
       | gems/rare book stores in the various cities around the US. My
       | favorite bookstores that have been opened for 30+ years are
       | recently going out of business.
       | 
       | Not to discredit his success, but if anyone else followed these
       | tips and did not have such a large following online, they would
       | probably go under too.
       | 
       | The one thing I think his bookstore does better than others? A
       | personal curated collection. Also, Holiday is just simply a
       | better marketer than your average bookstore owner.
       | 
       | So just remember:
       | 
       | - Start small.
       | 
       | ...
       | 
       | - Be famous.
        
         | gcheong wrote:
         | A friend of mine was working as a db developer for a local
         | hospital in a small port town when the local bookstore
         | announced it was closing shop. He decided to buy it and now he
         | runs it full-time. It's been several years and as far as I know
         | the business is doing well but perhaps that was because the
         | bookstore was already established.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | A lot of those bookstores that are closing are because the
         | owner is retiring and it's not financially capable of standing
         | on its own. The owner often owns the building which lets them
         | run at very low levels of income, which a replacement wouldn't
         | be able to.
         | 
         | If a community wants a bookstore to remain they'll probably
         | need to set it up as a non-profit of some sort.
        
           | anamax wrote:
           | > If a community wants a bookstore to remain they'll probably
           | need to set it up as a non-profit of some sort.
           | 
           | That doesn't solve the problem.
           | 
           | Space costs. So does someone working in the store. The latter
           | is true for both owners and employees.
        
             | meristohm wrote:
             | If we increase the value of public wellness, as part of
             | GDP, say, then keeping small bookstores around becomes
             | valuable. That's my feeling, anyway, as someone with a deep
             | appreciation of small bookstores and public libraries from
             | childhood onward.
        
               | gibolt wrote:
               | Isn't that the role a library already fills? The only
               | difference is maybe their love of the craft and more
               | random options.
        
           | jll29 wrote:
           | The old owner somehow needs to be convinced to bequeathe the
           | building to their community for us as a community bookshop
           | exclusively.
        
             | tharne wrote:
             | Unfortunately, the sale of the building and property is
             | often the owner's retirement plan. You'd have to find a way
             | to purchase at or near market value.
        
               | musicale wrote:
               | Purchasing it at market value sounds fairly convincing.
        
         | jkaptur wrote:
         | He notes that, though it is a little buried:
         | 
         | > Permission assets are everything. All my success as a writer,
         | right down to this bookstore, has been rooted in the email
         | lists and social media accounts I have built.
        
         | mcguire wrote:
         | " _...a better marketer..._ "
         | 
         | Oh, my lord, everything about this article screams shallow
         | internet marketing.
         | 
         | " _...a small town book store in rural Texas..._ " Bastrop is a
         | (rather distant) suburb of Austin. "Rural Texas" is Roby (https
         | ://www.google.com/maps/place/Roby,+TX+79543/@32.7721923...).
         | 
         | " _...the first 12 months of owning The Painted Porch. ... I
         | love how The Painted Porch is now, but it took weeks and months
         | to get it to where it is. It's been a continual process of
         | improvement and growth and making changes._ " A _whole_ year?!
         | 
         | " _I think one of the best decisions we made was making our
         | book tower. It's 20 feet tall and made of some 2000 books, 4000
         | nails, and 40 gallons of glue. It was not cheap to do. It was
         | not easy to do. It took forever. We had to solve all sorts of
         | logistical problems to make it work. But it's also probably one
         | of the single best marketing and business decisions we made in
         | the whole store. Because it's the number one thing that people
         | come into the store to take pictures of._ "
         | 
         | This:
         | https://preview.redd.it/2ajncim1mdk71.png?width=1200&format=...
         | Really? Really.
        
           | thenerdhead wrote:
           | The best part about old book stores was shelves filled to the
           | brim with books and the various displays of how books are
           | formed. The Last Bookstore in LA for example has those fun
           | arches and makes you feel lost.
        
           | WaitWaitWha wrote:
           | That 20 feet tall tower of books freaks me out. 40 gallons of
           | glue, and 2000 paper books, with a _fireplace_ in the middle
           | of it! Glue. Paper. Fire.
        
             | mauvehaus wrote:
             | Presumably a non-operable fireplace. I don't have to look
             | up the code to know that doesn't meet it. It's something
             | like no flammable within 6" of the firebox and nothing
             | within a certain plane within 12".
        
             | Johnny555 wrote:
             | Then you'd really be disturbed by almost every home
             | fireplace that's framed in with flammable wooden studs. Not
             | to mention kitchen stoves that are surrounded by wooden
             | cabinets.
             | 
             | Build a good firebox and it doesn't matter what surrounds
             | the fireplace.
        
           | wincy wrote:
           | What strikes me is the surrounding picture I'm struck
           | thinking "where are the books? Where are the bookshelves?
           | There's like 6 books sparsely populating a shelf. When I
           | think of a used book store like the one I frequented when I
           | was a teenager, I expect it to be absolutely lousy with books
           | in every nook and cranny, filled to the brim with interesting
           | finds.
        
             | maicro wrote:
             | I mean, obviously they had to get the books for the tower
             | from _somewhere_...
        
             | elliekelly wrote:
             | This is everything I love about the Book Barn[1] it's
             | bursting at the seams with used books. Even though the
             | traffic between Boston & NYC is awful I prefer to drive
             | just so I can stop by and explore. I've never encountered a
             | _bad_ used bookstore but the Book Barn is hands down the
             | best I 've ever come across.
             | 
             | [1]https://www.bookbarnniantic.com/explore-the-store
        
               | Aromasin wrote:
               | One of my favourite book shops is in Brixton, London. It
               | piled floor to ceiling in a place opposite the markets,
               | and there's a book in the back with comfy sofas, a store
               | cat, and a very hippy dippy owner who loves a natter
               | about what he read this week. He curated the whackiest
               | collection of literature, from high school text books, to
               | ones on shamanistic practices in pre-colonial Uganda.
               | It's utterly bizarre, and the complete antithesis of the
               | author of OPs article.
               | 
               | I try to avoid being critical of people's work,
               | especially businesses because good on them for at least
               | trying, but in this case I think the shop from the
               | article is truly lacking any soul that a traditional
               | bookshop can and should have. Empty shelves look sad, not
               | trendy.
        
           | tharne wrote:
           | > Oh, my lord, everything about this article screams shallow
           | internet marketing.
           | 
           | Shallow internet marketing is kind of Ryan Holiday's jam.
           | He's to books what Cheetos is to food.
        
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       | petercooper wrote:
       | I've noticed a few people here saying they wanted to read about
       | the experience of owning a book store. I can strongly recommend
       | _" The Diary of a Bookseller"_ by Shaun Bythell after ending up
       | at his very eclectic book shop in the middle of nowhere in
       | Scotland and discovering he's actually a fantastic diarist too. A
       | bit more background:
       | https://www.theguardian.com/books/2017/oct/22/diary-of-books...
        
         | robocat wrote:
         | George Orwell wrote an essay on his experience working in a
         | book shop: https://www.orwellfoundation.com/the-orwell-
         | foundation/orwel... He worked there 1934+ and wrote the essay
         | in 1936[1].
         | 
         | The main character of his novel Keep The Aspidistra Flying
         | worked in a book store - with some scathing character vignettes
         | of the customers! Despressing book and Eric Blair himself
         | disliked it "Orwell refused to allow either Keep the Aspidistra
         | Flying or his first novel, the considerably weaker A
         | Clergyman's Daughter, to be reprinted in his lifetime."[2]
         | 
         | [1]
         | https://www.letterpressproject.co.uk/media/file/BMLetterpres...
         | 
         | [2]
         | https://www.theguardian.com/books/2003/jul/06/georgeorwell.c...
        
       | smm11 wrote:
       | A parent started a used bookstore when I was kid in the 70s. I
       | have no idea where the initial bunch of books came from, but we'd
       | buy books and magazines, too.
       | 
       | I spent the summer with a ton of MAD, Cracked, Cartoons, and when
       | nobody was looking Playboy magazines, a lot from the 50s and 60s.
       | A lot of WWII stuff was around as well, Sad Sack stuff.
        
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