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       Author : RickJWagner
       Score  : 300 points
       Date   : 2022-03-29 11:54 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | rspeele wrote:
       | I actually kind of like when I go into the office and nobody is
       | there. It's the least distracting possible work environment.
        
         | hdjjhhvvhga wrote:
         | I like that, too. The problem is, those who are left enjoy
         | catching up. That is fine in general but I noticed I'm much
         | less productive in the office than at home because I need to
         | listen to small talk whenever I go to the kitchen or just pass
         | my coworkers. I'm not an introvert and I enjoy talking to
         | people in general, but when I'm at work, I have a certain
         | amount of things to do and I really want to complete them all.
         | When I'm WFH, nobody is calling me on Zoom saying, "Hi, what's
         | up, have you seen the last Batman"? That is perfectly fine by a
         | friend after work, but during work hours I prefer to be focused
         | on my work and decide when to take a break when I need to, not
         | when someone comes to my desk (sometimes with trifle issues
         | that could be solved more easily by async communication).
        
           | coding_unit_1 wrote:
           | People see this as a waste, but that is how team
           | relationships are formed. Jeff from accounts may be eating up
           | time today talking about Batman, but 3 months down the line
           | you'll be ringing him up saying "hey buddy, I need a favour
           | on those TPS reports" and he'll oblige because you've formed
           | a bond. It's human nature.
           | 
           | I found WFH was great when we all left the office en masse
           | and had already got a close-knit team. Changing jobs during
           | the pandemic and trying to build new relationships remotely
           | was really, really hard because that human-level interaction
           | wasn't there.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | We solved it by every now and then burning a friday and
             | having potlucks at the beach or some park. Not mandatory
             | but if its convenient people show up, and people actually
             | do make the trek from far off sometimes just to have a
             | cookout and a little fun. Its all social too, work isn't
             | mentioned at all in conversations.
        
             | hdjjhhvvhga wrote:
             | Yes, I agree with you and I didn't see it as a problem when
             | we had just one day in the office - I just took into
             | account I'll do 1/4 less than usual - but now that we have
             | 3 days in the office, it becomes visible. It's not a huge
             | problem, just one of these little hings that make me think
             | about finally switching my job to one of these companies
             | offering giving you a choice between hybrid and fully
             | remote, meaning you can come to the office when you
             | want/need rather than when your boss thinks you should.
        
       | 0xbadcafebee wrote:
       | The crazy thing is the pandemic still wasn't long enough to teach
       | companies how to work remote or hybrid. I literally forwarded a
       | list of 10 best-reviewed books, articles, etc about remote
       | working to my org's leadership, and I don't think they read any
       | of them. They certainly never changed the way they work. We still
       | spend upwards of 25% of our time in meetings with no agenda to
       | talk about coming up with a plan to start working. We still don't
       | document needed information, we just bug people on Slack for the
       | same information over and over. In-person people are still
       | "huddling" around a laptop that nobody on remote can hear.
       | 
       | I'm not aware of any empirical evidence that working in person is
       | better for productivity. But what it _does_ do is make 50% of the
       | people feel happier - the people who want to escape their home-
       | family to be with their work-family. In this sense I totally
       | understand why management is forcing people to come into the
       | office: it 's because management just _likes in-person_ , and
       | they don't want to learn how to work hybrid or remote-first if
       | they keep the office.
       | 
       | I think there continues to be a competitive advantage for remote-
       | first companies. They can be more productive, have a global pool
       | of talent to choose from, and potentially lower overhead. I think
       | we're going to see incumbents remain in-person while disruptive
       | companies will be increasingly remote-first.
        
         | toshaga wrote:
         | Would you care to share the list of resources you sent to your
         | leadership?
        
         | Dave3of5 wrote:
         | The head of HR at my last job actually took a paid course (I
         | think it's free now) by gitlab based upon a convo I had with
         | her.
         | 
         | The company ignored it all and said "back in the office".
         | 
         | I suspect that it was because of the CEO who was saying
         | throughout the pandemic that he wasn't a fan of remote work.
         | That's how the decision was made, based on one old guys
         | feelings.
         | 
         | They don't care about you as an employee, remember that.
        
           | motoboi wrote:
           | > That's how the decision was made, based on one old guys
           | feelings.
           | 
           | Isn't this how all decisions get made on a company?
        
             | elldoubleyew wrote:
             | Its not just any "old guy".
             | 
             | Its an "old guy" thats either appointed by stakeholders or
             | personally heavily invested in the success of the company.
             | 
             | Like it or not his "feelings" are formed from decades of
             | experience in making a business profitable.
             | 
             | I understand its not every case but lets not be overly-
             | dismissive of his opinions, especially on HN where we are
             | so concerned with ageism.
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | I'm an old guy, and I have to disregard 99% of what our
               | C-level officers say about technology. Most of what they
               | understand is out of date with technology from the early
               | Oughts, much less the 2020's. They make purchasing
               | decisions based on what they read in airline flight
               | magazines, or what their vendor buddies recommend while
               | they're golfing.
               | 
               | Their feelings are formed by cronyism, nepotism and
               | ignorance. When it comes to embracing change, they're
               | fine when it something motivated by these three factors,
               | but when it means a perceived loss of control, or a loss
               | of prestige, then they resist.
        
         | granshaw wrote:
         | "It Is Difficult to Get a Man to Understand Something When His
         | Salary Depends Upon His Not Understanding It"
        
           | threads2 wrote:
           | you don't need to capitalize words in a quote
        
       | GrqP wrote:
       | For knowledge workers, on-site today seems a lot like off-site of
       | yesteryear. This time it's an unscheduled, unscripted team-
       | building exercise, where you pay to attend and a fraction show
       | up.
       | 
       | Lots to figure out. Exciting times for HR and recruiters.
        
       | dade_ wrote:
       | The return to office has generally been an awful failure.
       | Business owners and management have broadly failed onto address
       | employee experience, and generally have done nothing to support
       | hybrid working. For example, there are simple tools and practices
       | that help teams coordinate their schedules to be in the office at
       | the same time, while not overbooking space (which has often been
       | reduced). Bad management is basically being exposed as inept with
       | high turnover. They can get away with it for a while as a good
       | portion of the cost isn't directly reflected by a line item in
       | the balances sheet, but either their days are numbered or the
       | days of the company will be.
        
       | theknocker wrote:
        
       | pmlnr wrote:
       | :Sarcastically Surprised Kirk meme:
        
       | BallinBige wrote:
       | I absolutely agree with everything that it's written in the
       | article. It makes no sense to re-open offices.
        
       | VBprogrammer wrote:
       | As of yet we've only been into the office a couple of times and
       | mostly as an excuse for a social event. I didn't actually mind
       | the time we spent working in the office, as we deliberately all
       | came in as a team. I did however have to bring some headphones
       | and plug in to get any work done, same as the old days.
       | 
       | I don't mind the chance of scenery and would be happy to do it
       | once in a while. I just hope the flexibility we have at the
       | moment is retained. Thankfully my current employer has cut office
       | space so much it would be impossible for us all to turn up if we
       | wanted to.
        
       | oars wrote:
       | Very well thought out and written perspectives here.
        
       | marcus_holmes wrote:
       | I think the long-term consequences of the shift to remote and WFH
       | are going to be fascinating.
       | 
       | - we need to redesign our homes, because every working adult
       | needs a study/workspace that is quiet (and preferably not their
       | bedroom)
       | 
       | - we need less office space, and probably don't need an office at
       | all. Commercial real estate is going to hurt
       | 
       | - we need less transport infrastructure. If the Rush Hour stops
       | being a thing, that has huge implications for transport planning
       | (and business models)
       | 
       | - we can hire from different regions/countries/cultures. This has
       | been happening over the last 20 years or so, but it steps up a
       | notch with remote teams.
       | 
       | - we don't need to live near a city any more. Rural villages with
       | decent wifi are viable again.
       | 
       | - "management by walking around" stops working. We actually have
       | to measure employee output, rather than how long they moisten the
       | chair for.
       | 
       | Any more?
        
       | more_corn wrote:
       | Somebody save me a click, I'm not wading through that.
        
         | bearbearbear wrote:
         | > a lot of people who have returned to their offices for some
         | or all of the week have found that they're the only ones there,
         | or others are staying isolated in their offices, and all
         | communication still happens over email, Slack, or Zoom. As a
         | result, they're spending time commuting to and from the office
         | and dealing with all the hassles of in-person work but without
         | any of the promised payoff.
        
           | herodoturtle wrote:
           | This was the best possible excerpt you could have chosen.
           | 
           | Thank you.
        
         | sgt101 wrote:
         | "Some people complain about alot, no one is happy all the time,
         | life isn't what we hoped it would be, my boss is mean
         | sometimes."
        
       | null_object wrote:
       | I don't understand the headline. What's the 'worst part of
       | working from home' in this context?
       | 
       | In my case, my employer isn't forcing anyone to come back to the
       | office, but there's definitely an unspoken understanding that
       | 'collaboration' and 'team feeling' will improve if we're at the
       | office more often.
       | 
       | But when I go to the office it perfectly reflects the experiences
       | described in the article: I'm almost always the only person from
       | my team in the office at the time, or otherwise the only other
       | team-member has their work to do, and I have mine, so we sit next
       | to each other on the considerably less comfortable office chairs
       | than I have at home, and work 'side-by-side' with our headphones
       | on, and pretty much don't speak to each other any more than we
       | usually do in Meet or on Slack.
       | 
       | I tend to use the days for wondering around and chatting randomly
       | with other people at the office: hang with the Sales people,
       | mosey past the Support team, spend half an hour in the office
       | kitchen.
       | 
       | I guess this is ok if the idea is to be a more socially cohesive
       | group, but it's disastrous for my productivity, and I always have
       | to work twice as hard for the following days at home - even
       | though it takes a while to regain my focus afterwards, so the
       | rest of the week is often a little bit disrupted by the wasted
       | day at the office.
       | 
       | I don't want to only work at home for the rest of my life though
       | - but it feels like we haven't worked-out what the new situation
       | should be just yet. And in the meantime, managers are just
       | thinking in outdated terms of getting everything back to
       | 'normal'.
        
         | Freak_NL wrote:
         | > [...] and I always have to work twice as hard for the
         | following days at home [...]
         | 
         | Why? If socializing in the office is part of your job now
         | (explicitly or implicitly), you're working your hours either
         | way. If that leaves you with too little time to get things
         | done, address it with your manager.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | > If that leaves you with too little time to get things done,
           | address it with your manager.
           | 
           | While there definitely are exceptions, addressing something
           | like this with an average manager is useless to contra-
           | productive.
        
         | chaircher wrote:
         | This is really interesting - I wonder how much the set-up of
         | someone's compensation package correlates with how much someone
         | is willing to go back to the office. Mine's almost exclusively
         | performance based and so I tend to want to work from home. The
         | people going into work getting antsy about other people not
         | being there are people who treat work more like a hobby or have
         | a more basic pay structure. I actually prefer being in the
         | office but we're in a sort of death spiral of the place having
         | turned into a social hub and me feeling like I'm being left to
         | babysit people at my own expense.
        
       | bob2222 wrote:
       | This exactly the mindset at Barclays in the UK except we are a
       | globally distributed across 5 offices. When they started their
       | back to office nonsense they caused an exodus on our team in
       | Glasgow and now we are all working fully remote for for 50% more
       | money
        
         | riknox wrote:
         | Got to justify the absolutely massive campus they've built by
         | the Clyde somehow. In my experience, there's been quite the PR
         | push recently on how amazing this new campus is (I'm not a
         | Barclays employee).
        
       | htrp wrote:
       | My personal theory is that hybrid work is deliberately made to be
       | chaotic and disastrous, so that when management wants people back
       | 5 days a week; there will be much less grumbling.
        
         | fellowniusmonk wrote:
         | If that is the case for a given business than it would only
         | make sense for everyone to microwave sardines for lunch (near
         | managements offices until wfh is reinstated.)
         | 
         | Joking of course.
        
       | 1over137 wrote:
       | 2 hour commute! Is that typical in the USA? Is it necessary?
       | Preferable?
       | 
       | My bike ride to my office is 10 minutes. I _miss_ my commute.
        
         | ulzeraj wrote:
         | Talk about privilege here. Just this week I've receive an
         | e-mail from my employer stating that due to the influx of
         | Ukrainian immigrants most of the main cities are full and
         | people are encouraged to look for accommodation in nearby
         | satellite cities. I'm used to 2 hours commute stripping away 4
         | hours of my free time. Not US. Good luck finding accommodation
         | near business centers.
        
         | ChrisLTD wrote:
         | It is not typical. The average commute is closer to half an
         | hour.
        
         | idontwantthis wrote:
         | What if you go for a bike ride in the morning instead?
        
           | andrewingram wrote:
           | Some people (such as myself) rely on the somewhat enforced
           | structure of going into the office to "attach" other life
           | things onto, like exercise and going out. Without that
           | structure, i'm miserable.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | Seems like a larger personal issue with discipline that you
             | could work out on your own vs enforcing this on your
             | coworkers for your own convenience
        
           | aloisdg wrote:
           | Same logic as you. I missed my walk between work and home.
           | Now I walk 20 minutes after the end my shift in remote before
           | coming back home.
        
       | codingdave wrote:
       | > others are staying isolated in their offices, and all
       | communication still happens over email, Slack, or Zoom.
       | 
       | I saw this even before the pandemic. Open office situations are
       | noisy and distracting, everyone set up their desks so they would
       | stare at walls, put on headphones, and used Slack to talk to
       | people right next to them. One CEO even doubled down on it,
       | giving attaboys to the people who sent the most Slack messages.
       | 
       | I don't have a problem with Slack. I like it, and feel it helps
       | remote work. I just feel that this article is 100% correct that
       | if everyone in the same room/office is using slack to talk to
       | each other, something is broken with communication within that
       | organization.
        
       | Timpy wrote:
       | Before the pandemic I was working in an office with a 45 min / 1
       | hour commute one way with lots of traffic. My tiny little office
       | shared a wall with my senior dev, I literally couldn't be closer
       | to him, and we still only communicated over Teams. If it weren't
       | for passing people on the way to get coffee I could go an entire
       | day without speaking to anyone except via Teams. The owner loved
       | the office but he showed up around 10am-ish or whenever he felt
       | like it, and he could afford a place nearby. No wonder there's a
       | dramatic disconnect between his experience and mine. Every day
       | that I wasn't needed for some in person meeting (most days) I had
       | an extremely bitter, traffic-filled drive home.
        
       | dougmwne wrote:
       | My story goes back 7 years. I had a life reevaluation and my
       | family decided to prioritize location independence. Pre-pandemic
       | my partner and I had been working remotely for years.
       | 
       | I never hated being on-site, I never had a monster commute.
       | Actually one of my commutes was a fabulous bike tour of the major
       | monuments of the national mall. I had a beer keg and a dog to
       | warm my feet when I got to the office.
       | 
       | But once I got out of the office environment for a little while
       | it was like being "red pilled". I could no longer ignore the
       | absolutely silly justification for bringing everyone into the
       | same place, I saw it only as a productivity destroyer for myself
       | and others, I saw the relationships for what they were, shallow
       | and transactional. My first and only stint back on-site it felt
       | like coming back to high school after years and being amazed and
       | all the silly things that loomed so large in your former life.
       | 
       | I'm not a hermit or an introvert. The office is still dead as a
       | doornail for me.
        
       | DrBazza wrote:
       | This is the same as my office in London. There's little point
       | going in, and when I have done, my experience is the same as this
       | article - waste 90mins in each direction getting in, to sit on my
       | own, and reply via email + Teams.
       | 
       | But, well, "collaboration".
       | 
       | I'm sure it's time and cost effective for senior management that
       | are paid $$$$ and only have a really short commute from the
       | office. But not for the other 99% of the workforce.
        
       | vmception wrote:
       | Are there any companies doing it right?
       | 
       | I see all the articles about people quitting, and all the
       | articles like this one about ridiculous patches to work life that
       | aren't working, and I have to wonder, is there someone doing it
       | right that is also paying well?
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | github?
        
           | vmception wrote:
           | what are they doing?
        
       | e-clinton wrote:
       | Is there something about introvert vs extrovert? My wife, an
       | extrovert, loves commuting and meeting people in person. I,
       | however, could careless as I commute to an office just so I can
       | take Zoom calls from there.
        
       | slategruen wrote:
       | A lot of the sentiments seem to resent commuting a lot? Perhaps
       | most of them works in the US and primarily use cars as a mode of
       | transportation?
        
         | BlargMcLarg wrote:
         | Train and bus rides come with their own set of problems,
         | whereas any other form of transportation is generally much
         | slower, pushing people to relocate closer to the office in an
         | often expensive and very population dense area. The premise
         | remains the same: time spent commuting is often time better
         | spent differently.
        
         | Macha wrote:
         | Ehh, 40 minutes on a crowded tram isn't much better. A 1.5 hour
         | walk is better in the actual experience, but that extra 50
         | minutes comes out of my sleep.
        
         | NoboruWataya wrote:
         | I live in London and commute via public transport, it still
         | sucks.
        
         | morsch wrote:
         | I commute five minutes by foot. I'd still rather work from
         | home. And I'm gonna, one way or another.
        
         | phlalexsh wrote:
         | I live in Philadelphia, commute was still 45min-1hr. Would
         | either have to walk 15 min to the El, stay on its for about
         | 25-30min, then walk another 15ish min to my office. Or take a
         | trolley to 30th street then transfer to the El then walk.
         | 
         | When I moved to a different neighborhood, I'd take Regional
         | Rail, which was about 40 mins door to door. Only advantage is
         | there aren't people shooting up or getting raped on RR.
         | 
         | Driving actually would only take ~15min door to door if I left
         | after rush hour. But then parking was very variable. It could
         | be instant (finding spot right when I get there) or I'd have to
         | drive around for 10 minutes.
         | 
         | Honestly, I liked commuting either of those ways (outside of
         | finding needles on the El) since I'd just listen to music or a
         | podcast.
         | 
         | However, I much prefer working from home.
        
         | oneeyedpigeon wrote:
         | I think you have a point -- a typical US commute is probably
         | worse than, for example, a typical UK commute. But that's not
         | to say UK commutes are acceptable -- my 2 hour each way commute
         | was expensive as well as horribly uncomfortable, and that was
         | on pretty much one of the best rail lines I've used for
         | commuting! Unless we solve the "it's too expensive to live near
         | where you work" problem, I think the trend _has_ to be more
         | towards WFH.
        
         | Jiejeing wrote:
         | Not necessarily. In Paris I had a 45 minutes subway commute, or
         | a 35 minutes -somewhat dangerous- bike commute (time for a one-
         | way trip), and while sometimes I could appreciate either the
         | disconnection the subway provided me or the physical effort
         | need for the bike ride, it was mostly a hassle and lost time I
         | am not compensated for.
         | 
         | Living close to where you work is pretty expensive, especially
         | when the CEO likes the prestige associated with the building or
         | area (and lives nearby, of course, but he gets 10 times my
         | salary).
        
       | hikerrrr wrote:
       | Not opposed to the office myself, "new" offices are nowhere what
       | the glory of the old office days. One hybrid day in the office
       | meant none of the familiar faces also shared the same areas.
       | 
       | Instead I saw one maybe two familiar faces and the rest of the
       | empty office was a doldrum of emptiness.. The undependable nature
       | of the new "who's on first" office musical chairs is gaudy. It's
       | a mishap waiting to happen, and there are no world expert
       | managers who also have experience re-engaging a whole new social
       | scene in a post apocalyptic world of the empty office space.
       | Drudgery is the new office scene... Blehhh
        
       | jdrc wrote:
       | Told you. Remote work is a trap you can't escape from so learn to
       | live with it
        
       | Hardik_Shah wrote:
       | According to consistent research, remote workers work more hours
       | than their office-bound counterparts. Working at home is clearly
       | more productive than working in an office, according to studies.
        
       | lukaslalinsky wrote:
       | Many years ago, I tried working at a bigger company. I made a
       | mistake and accepted a job in a satellite office. I did not
       | realize it would cause exactly this. I was supposed to be in
       | office every day, but most of the relevant people were in the HQ,
       | so all discussions were done online. It felt so pointless and
       | even lonely to spend the time in the office. I tried doing that
       | for a few months and eventually left. I really wonder what will
       | happen now that people experience this on a larger scale.
        
       | thyagjs wrote:
       | Same situation with me. I go to office 3 days but most of the
       | time the meetings are taken from the desk, on zoom. This is
       | because most tech employees have bigger monitors which is
       | convenient compared to tiny laptop screens. IMO remote is
       | extremely popular among employees and many will jump ship if
       | given remote option. Any eventual plans for mandatory all 5-day
       | at office will be suicidal for knowledge work companies.
        
         | gifnamething wrote:
         | Of course, the big monitor and quiet room that some of us get
         | to enjoy were paid for by our salaries, net of tax. Yet if we
         | try to convince the employers paying those salaries to give us
         | computing equipment that we like and private offices, it's
         | hopeless.
        
       | osigurdson wrote:
       | I don't think there is anything else more illogical in modern
       | society than waking up in building A, hopping in a car and
       | fighting traffic for an hour to get to building B just to sit in
       | front of a computer for 8 hours (perhaps with a few minimally
       | productive meetings here and there), then commute back to
       | building A 8 hours later.
       | 
       | Building B sits empty for 16 hours a day while Building A sits
       | empty for 10 with both being heated/cooled for 24 hours. The
       | employee wastes 2 of their 16 available waking hours in the non-
       | productive commute while incurring significant financial costs
       | (lease/insurance/fuel/energy) in order to support this patently
       | absurd activity. Similarly the employer wastes time and energy
       | negotiating leases, re-arranging offices, purchasing AV equipment
       | for meeting rooms in building B, etc.,etc., in addition to paying
       | the likely enormously expensive lease itself.
       | 
       | The impacts on the environment, the number of hours of human life
       | wasted in commute, the pointless buildings and associated costs
       | to employers as well as the public infrastructure to support it
       | (roads, trains, busses, etc.) are all incredibly wasteful.
       | Surely, all of this could only be justified if physical presence
       | had a dramatic impact on productivity. Yet, we cannot tell one
       | way or the other if it actually improves outcomes.
       | 
       | Let's face it, it's dumb.
        
         | boh wrote:
         | If the environmental impact is the only relevant factor for
         | human interaction, then yes you're right. However society
         | doesn't abide by isolation.
        
           | Apocryphon wrote:
           | The environmental impact might end up being a crucial factor
           | for continued human existence.
        
         | ipiz0618 wrote:
         | Let's not deal with absolutes here. I enjoy working from home
         | because my setup is comfy and I live mostly alone. But I'm also
         | aware not everyone has the privilege like this. Not even myself
         | last year before I moved out.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | I work from home in a 1br. I prefer my own desk area,
           | especially my own toilet (my word the stalls at work after
           | the first cup of coffee must have hit...), being able to
           | concurrently do a load of laundry while concurrently doing
           | some other work task, working out in meetings, getting random
           | stuff from the grocery store if i need something for lunch or
           | another bag of coffee, and being able to make appointments at
           | government offices during the day when its actually
           | convenient vs the limited hours they are open on saturday
           | when the entire 9-5 contingent of the city floods the dmv.
           | Not to mention my day just expanded by a full two hours
           | because I am no longer burning that on commuting on a bus
           | that bounces too much to even read my phone screen.
           | 
           | At work I have a windowless office and a lopsided desk chair,
           | and people have stolen my food from the fridge.
        
         | bradfa wrote:
         | I work remotely. I rent an office. It's only about 3.5 miles
         | from my house, so my commute via car or bike is rather short. I
         | don't have a space at my house where I can do my job
         | effectively at home. Renovating my house to make such a space
         | would incur costs which would exceed a few years of rent at the
         | office. So from a risk reduction and net-present-value point of
         | view, renting the office is cost effective.
         | 
         | If I end up renting the office for a decade, then it won't end
         | up cost effective. But I've never stayed at any job for that
         | long before so I assume my job situation will change in a few
         | years.
         | 
         | If my job changes such that I am required to report to a
         | physical office which is not the one I currently rent, I can
         | cancel my lease (with 3 months notice). This provides me with
         | good flexibility and minimizes my risk, my upfront costs, and
         | any need to remodel my home.
         | 
         | Having an office where other people are around also gets me to
         | socialize for a small part of the day.
        
         | la64710 wrote:
         | Exactly this is the thought that crossed my mind today.
         | 
         | You do something good for me and I give you $X for that.
         | 
         | Now on top of that for $X I want you to also come to a building
         | I built for you , stay there for 8 hours a day and do the thing
         | I want you to do. All for $X.
         | 
         | However there is Joe who will give you $X for the same job and
         | a little more.But you get to choose where and how you do it.
         | 
         | Which one will you do?
        
         | bgro wrote:
         | when I visited NYC I got the feel for the battle for every
         | square inch of room on every sidewalk, street, and building.
         | Being able to like sit at a table to eat at a small place you
         | picked up your food has got to be a huge cost in space just for
         | that to exist.
         | 
         | Then I started thinking about all the massive skyscrapers that
         | are just offices that people show up to for just 8 hours a day
         | and then reallocate the space crisis to their residence
         | elsewhere. It seems like a comical design choice almost.
        
         | GoodJokes wrote:
        
         | tapoxi wrote:
         | It's not dumb, but it's dumb with what offices have become.
         | Nobody likes the open plan office, but if I had my own office
         | (with a door!!!) then I'd certainly go in every day. Maybe it's
         | time to re-imagine what the office is?
        
         | bearjaws wrote:
         | I was appalled to find our office lease was $20,000 a month. We
         | could hire two FTEs for the price of that office, and we are
         | not even in a premium space.
         | 
         | To your point about efficiency: I don't believe our office
         | produces 2 FTE's worth of additional productivity across the
         | whole org.
         | 
         | Leadership thinks it does, but assuming we acquire decent
         | talent, that would be a net 10% increase in engineering. I
         | don't believe the office could ever achieve a 10% increase in
         | output.
        
           | buzzdenver wrote:
           | You're making the assumption that everybody in the office
           | prefers working from home.
        
             | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
             | They didn't say anything about preference, they merely said
             | output. Does people preferring to work from the office mean
             | they are so much more productive so as to make up that
             | cost? That's the question that we're faced with, and if the
             | last few years are any indication, the answer seems to be
             | "No".
        
               | brandmeyer wrote:
               | This is definitely not universal. Our team switched to a
               | soft hybrid model whereby we almost always work from the
               | office, but use WFH for deliveries, snow days, kid sick
               | days, etc. We did that as soon as the vaccine became
               | widely available and it completely turbocharged our
               | productivity. We delivered more in the first three months
               | after coming back than the preceding year of fully-remote
               | work.
        
               | Salgat wrote:
               | That sounds like a red flag for a poor remote work
               | culture. Our company saw improvements in productivity
               | going full remote.
        
               | taylodl wrote:
               | That's interesting - and quite the opposite of what I've
               | personally experienced and heard. Are you saying then
               | that when the lockdown happened and your team was sent
               | home your productivity tanked? What happened? What wasn't
               | it addressed? What's caused your team's productivity to
               | soar now?
        
               | brandmeyer wrote:
               | We're building a highly specialized product (GNSS
               | Radiooccultation). Its specialized enough that we have to
               | rely on hiring people with generic skills and then
               | developing the specialized skills to work in the domain.
               | In essence, we are relying on internal on-the-job
               | training to build up our team. Remote work failed for us
               | for the same reasons that remote education has been
               | failing everywhere: 1/4 to 1/2 of the job _is_ adult
               | professional education.
        
               | taylodl wrote:
               | Makes sense. Seems like we can generalize this to if
               | you're working in a niche area requiring lots of training
               | to bring new hires up to speed then perhaps WFH isn't the
               | best of environments? Going forward maybe your team needs
               | to think through how to best do your onboarding. Maybe
               | you would need to get together for a couple weeks (or
               | have "high touch" time) and then go back to primarily
               | working from home? It's something to think about.
        
               | jghn wrote:
               | I'm a big fan of hybrid, albeit default remote. But this
               | is one example as to why. For most groups, most of the
               | time remote is fine. There will be circumstances where
               | there's no substitute for in person communication. You
               | cite a great example.
               | 
               | For your situation I would imagine in a hypothetical
               | example where your team composition stays steady for a
               | long period of time you'd find that you required onsite
               | less often. And in that case I'd advocate that defaulting
               | back to remote is a good thing.
        
             | scsilver wrote:
             | Then why can't they share a wework type office nearby their
             | home instead of companies trying to utilize and manage all
             | than space in the center of a city.
        
               | jimkleiber wrote:
               | A challenge with coworking spaces can be that there's
               | much less corporate privacy. Some companies don't care
               | but others do.
        
             | aaomidi wrote:
             | A comped coworking space is cheaper.
        
             | null_object wrote:
             | > You're making the assumption that everybody in the office
             | prefers working from home.
             | 
             | I don't see anything in the OP's comment that referred to
             | any assumptions about peoples' preferences: they were
             | addressing the practical wastefulness and harm to the
             | world's environment from the office-working conventions
             | we've 'conformed to' in the past.
             | 
             | You may prefer to commute to work, and sit in an office
             | instead of somewhere else (doesn't necessarily need to be a
             | home), but that doesn't affect the inherent environmental
             | wastefulness of all this 'busy' activity.
        
             | 1270018080 wrote:
             | He isn't making an assumption that everybody in the office
             | prefers working from home. Where did you read that?
        
             | int0x2e wrote:
             | I don't think the person you're replying to assumed
             | anything about preferences - people can still prefer to
             | work from the office, and still not have working from the
             | office generate >10% boost in productivity... I think many
             | of us see how various managers are pushing people to get
             | back to the office, but I'm not sure the impact is really
             | there. I suspect there are a lot of people who are far more
             | effective at home than in the office, but it's my personal
             | opinion sadly.
        
             | mring33621 wrote:
             | SO people that prefer the office get to ruin it for those
             | that don't?
        
           | tetromino_ wrote:
           | In the end, someone has to pay for office space: either you
           | as the employer, or your employees in the form of higher
           | rent/mortgage for a larger home with dedicated office areas.
           | (And for employees with families based in urban areas, such a
           | larger home may be entirely unaffordable.)
        
             | jjav wrote:
             | > In the end, someone has to pay for office space
             | 
             | True, of course. But geographically distributing the need
             | for space reduces the very concentration of demand in the
             | office park areas.
             | 
             | The larger home (with an office) may be entirely
             | unaffordable in the city center where HQ was, but with
             | remote you can move elsewhere where it can be cheaper than
             | an apartment in that city.
             | 
             | Or you could rent a small office away from the crowds where
             | it's cheaper. This is what I've been doing since pandemic
             | start. Sure, I wish the employers would pay for it but it's
             | still so much better that it's worth it. On fuel alone I
             | save enough every month to pay the rent a couple times
             | over. And my commute is ~5 minutes on a bike instead of
             | 60-90 minutes sitting in traffic.
        
             | bearjaws wrote:
             | That non-affordability is created by the scarcity of
             | housing, because many spaces are entirely dedicates to jobs
             | that (now) don't need them.
             | 
             | Think about a Manhattan with 40% more housing, what would
             | that do to affordability?
        
               | alexanderdmitri wrote:
               | Also the 1.6 million office workers[0] would have one
               | less reason to live in the city in the first place.
               | 
               | [0] https://www.osc.state.ny.us/files/reports/osdc/pdf/re
               | port-11...
        
         | peoplefromibiza wrote:
         | it's also a cultural thing.
         | 
         | US commute is particularly bad, I work from home and been doing
         | it on and off for the past 20 years.
         | 
         | My commute has never been longer than 20 minutes total.
         | 
         | I now live 5 minutes walk away from my office, I'm not going,
         | but if I had to I would walk there and have a very nice
         | breakfast in some bar on the road there.
         | 
         | One thing that's always overlooked is how much WFH is selecting
         | people who already have a tendency to stay home and not
         | socialize much at work.
         | 
         | The majority of people are not like that, most people don't
         | have the means (spare rooms, gear, technical abilities) to do
         | it _and_ are marginalized for not being able to socialize in
         | person, because they tend to lean towards depression by staying
         | home all day.
         | 
         | Also WFH tends to discriminate people doing "less important"
         | jobs, like for example in a couple if one of the two has a
         | highly paid job or a responsibility job, the other one will
         | tend to be the one doing chores (cooking, cleaning, taking care
         | of the kids) while if both go out to work there's less pressure
         | to compensate because both can't physically be home to do what
         | need to be done anyway.
         | 
         | There are studies showing that WFH makes gender inequalities
         | worse.
         | 
         | Basically the point is that many people find meaning and
         | purpose in their jobs, if you remove the "purpose" (getting
         | dressed, going out, meeting other people, sharing work
         | experiences with them) it simply becomes a tedious activity to
         | them that fulfills none of their needs.
        
           | jghn wrote:
           | > Also WFH tends to discriminate people doing "less
           | important" jobs
           | 
           | Anecdata but my partner and I have a huge income disparity.
           | I'd say our responsibilities are pretty even. There are
           | things I tend to do and they tend to do. But in my mind at
           | least it evens out.
        
           | adamsmith143 wrote:
           | >Basically the point is that many people find meaning and
           | purpose in their jobs, if you remove the "purpose" (getting
           | dressed, going out, meeting other people, sharing work
           | experiences with them) it simply becomes a tedious activity
           | to them that fulfills none of their needs.
           | 
           | If the only purpose you have in a job is to put on
           | uncomfortable clothes and socialize I think we can go ahead
           | and eliminate that job.
        
             | peoplefromibiza wrote:
             | > If the only purpose you have in a job is to put on
             | uncomfortable clothes and socialize I think we can go ahead
             | and eliminate that job.
             | 
             | if you remove the human aspect and insist on framing the
             | issue like that, can't we say the same thing for almost any
             | job?
             | 
             | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to boost your
             | ego and brag I think we can go ahead and eliminate that
             | job.
             | 
             | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to chose the
             | colors in an excel spreadsheet cells I think we can go
             | ahead and eliminate that job.
             | 
             | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to do something
             | a machine can do better I think we can go ahead and
             | eliminate that job.
             | 
             | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to farm kind
             | animals to later cruelly kill them I think we can go ahead
             | and eliminate that job.
             | 
             | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to make money
             | for yourself I think we can go ahead and eliminate that
             | job.
             | 
             | ...
             | 
             | not a great analysis if you ask me.
        
               | osigurdson wrote:
               | "- If the only purpose you have in a job is to make money
               | for yourself I think we can go ahead and eliminate that
               | job."
               | 
               | Wait, what? That literally is the purpose of the job for
               | the employee. If you don't agree, try setting total
               | compensation to zero and see who continues to show up.
        
               | adamsmith143 wrote:
               | >if you remove the human aspect and insist on framing the
               | issue like that, can't we say the same thing for almost
               | any job?
               | 
               | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to boost your
               | ego and brag I think we can go ahead and eliminate that
               | job.
               | 
               | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to chose the
               | colors in an excel spreadsheet cells I think we can go
               | ahead and eliminate that job.
               | 
               | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to do
               | something a machine can do better I think we can go ahead
               | and eliminate that job.
               | 
               | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to farm kind
               | animals to later cruelly kill them I think we can go
               | ahead and eliminate that job.
               | 
               | - If the only purpose you have in a job is to make money
               | for yourself I think we can go ahead and eliminate that
               | job.
               | 
               | Well... yes, we should. The last one is obviously
               | unreasonable since we live in a society where money is
               | required to live most lifestyles. I recommend reading
               | Bullshit Jobs by David Graeber:
               | https://www.amazon.com/Bullshit-Jobs-Theory-David-
               | Graeber/dp...
        
           | fartcannon wrote:
           | It'll be nice when the serf mentality of finding meaning in
           | your job is finally gone from the world.
        
             | vr46 wrote:
             | The late Studs Terkel showed us all - 50 years ago - how
             | work was a search for both "daily meaning and daily bread".
             | The speed and efficiency credo of the modern age has
             | restricted independence and creativity almost out of
             | existence for millions - but far from this being a serf
             | mentality - this was foisted upon people by others.
        
               | harlanlewis wrote:
               | I think you're referring to his book Working. Tacking on
               | a recommendation for it both for the subject at hand, as
               | well as it just being an engaging look at daily life in
               | the early 70s (which really feels like a different world
               | in so many ways) told through engaging oral history.
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | > _when the serf mentality of finding meaning in your job
             | is finally gone from the world_
             | 
             | Emperors, scientists and other productive members of the
             | elite have done this since age immemorial. If anything, the
             | average person finding their work meaningful (versus simply
             | toil) is a recent phenomenon.
        
               | jdrc wrote:
               | Those are 0.001% of the population. Most people work
               | because they have to
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _Those are 0.001% of the population. Most people work
               | because they have to_
               | 
               | That's the point. People finding or striving to find
               | meaning in their work are far removed from the "serfs."
        
               | jdrc wrote:
               | ah . well that's also not true, nowadays there is a job
               | market and toil is reserved for the working class /
               | service class perhaps. Most people are middle or above
               | class in modern societies
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | We have a whole class of people who have finally been
               | able to climb up Maslow's hierarchy high enough to now
               | ask those questions.
        
               | aaomidi wrote:
               | Finding meaning in the labor you do is absolutely not
               | connected to scale of said labor.
               | 
               | It is easier finding meaning in your labor if your labor
               | is directly creating or providing a meaningful service to
               | your community.
               | 
               | Do you see how I am not saying job? Because no one wants
               | to do the same thing for 40 hours with surveillance.
               | However finding meaning in labor has been a thing for
               | millenia.
        
             | peoplefromibiza wrote:
             | I think it's backwards: people find meaning in their jobs
             | because it's their only activity (or is largely their main
             | one) .
             | 
             | To let it go for good we'd need people to make themselves
             | entertain in different activities other than working.
             | 
             | But mostly it's because (I think) it's activities they
             | enjoy doing and actually have meaning in the real World,
             | even if on a much smaller scale than the global one.
        
           | JumpCrisscross wrote:
           | > _it 's also a cultural thing_
           | 
           | Good places to see this are New York and New Orleans.
           | 
           | New Orleans' French and Spanish quarters have residences on
           | top of business concerns. We Americans, on the other hand,
           | built separate residential and commercial neighborhoods with
           | a train connecting the two.
           | 
           | Likewise for Manhattan. Dutch-settled areas have homes on top
           | of shops. This pattern continues for a bit under the British,
           | but converts to distinct residential and commercial streets
           | before going whole hog on the pattern with non-commercial
           | neighborhoods.
        
             | packetlost wrote:
             | I'm not sure this is a cultural divide so much as a
             | political city planning one, at least _today_. Mixed-use
             | zoning is a debated topic in my city. That being said, I
             | absolutely despise the separate residential /commercial
             | zoning and how spread out things are here (mostly because
             | of individual car-culture).
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | Honestly the US commute is not even that bad. Avg transit
           | commute in like Paris is 50 mins. Meanwhile even though
           | Americans have to suffer in traffic or whatever (which imo
           | seems better to have your own personal air conditioned bubble
           | full of music than a cramped sweaty bus), avg commutes even
           | in places like Houston that have the worst traffic out of
           | anywhere are hardly over 30 mins.
        
           | sologoub wrote:
           | > Also WFH tends to discriminate people doing "less
           | important" jobs,
           | 
           | You are mixing pandemic with WFH. When you work, you still
           | need childcare and otherwise be working. Doing chores and
           | house work during breaks is a nice "perk" that saves me time,
           | but it must not come at the expense of the work itself, just
           | like it would not with WFO.
           | 
           | If anything, WFH has been more inclusive as many other
           | comments have said, especially of people that don't like
           | direct "confrontation" of large meetings and "loudest first"
           | prioritization. Video conf chat has become a valuable and
           | documentable discussion medium that can include comment not
           | urgent enough to interrupt the speaker in the moment, but
           | still useful to the overall context. I hope some of these
           | inclusive benefits are retained with hybrid or whatever
           | approaches are utilized for work in the future.
           | 
           | Another interesting inclusivity question is the location
           | itself. People tend to congregate by common traits, so
           | locating an office in a given neighborhood or city implicitly
           | discriminates those groups who do not have a large presence
           | nearby. Remote definitely allows (but importantly does not
           | guarantee) a much more diverse employee population and
           | greater fairness in access to these jobs. There are of course
           | counter points with availability of working space and
           | internet connection, so this is a very complex issue.
        
             | peoplefromibiza wrote:
             | > You are mixing pandemic with WFH
             | 
             | No, I am not.
             | 
             | > oing chores and house work during breaks is a nice "perk"
             | that saves me time, but it must not come at the expense of
             | the work itself, just like it would not with WFO
             | 
             | If people are home, they can be pressured to do more,
             | because they literally have more time to do them and are
             | literally physically available for exploitation.
             | 
             | Simple as that.
             | 
             | > If anything, WFH has been more inclusive as many other
             | comments have said
             | 
             | You are mixing self segregation with inclusiveness.
             | 
             | > Video conf chat has become a valuable and documentable
             | discussion medium that can include
             | 
             | Only if you sell video chat software.
             | 
             | Least path of resistance states that video chats pose less
             | barriers, so you're making more of them and they end up
             | lasting longer than before.
             | 
             | It also enables more monitoring from management and the
             | idea that workers are always available. (guess who's not
             | saying no to the boss? the more vulnerable or the less
             | vulnerable?)
             | 
             | Again: it's been observed.
        
               | sologoub wrote:
               | Care to include sources for any of these claims that you
               | say have been observed?
               | 
               | I definitely don't sell software, but I do see it as my
               | responsibility to make sure all of my team members are
               | heard.
               | 
               | On the exploitation, unfortunately domestic abuse is
               | possible regardless of work styles and homes are not
               | always the safe space we expect them to be. That problem
               | exists with or without ability to work remotely. Society
               | and employers should be aware of that and have means of
               | helping those affected. There are many great NGOs and
               | non-profits doing great work in this area and I'd
               | encourage all of us to donate more to such causes and do
               | volunteer work.
               | 
               | EDIT: On self segregation, that may have started that
               | way, but demanding that people leave family ties and
               | their friends to move for job opportunities is not all
               | that positive either. Give people a choice and the
               | ability to, but don't require it. That is much friendlier
               | and fairer.
        
           | 01100011 wrote:
           | > WFH is selecting people who already have a tendency to stay
           | home and not socialize much at work.
           | 
           | Doesn't engineering in general select for these personality
           | traits?
        
             | nobleach wrote:
             | This has been my observation over the last 20 years. I
             | truly enjoy socializing and collaborating in person. I
             | usually worked from home once or twice a week before the
             | pandemic. It was a fantastic convenience as I lived an hour
             | from my office. Once the pandemic hit we were fully remote.
             | At first I thought, "see? we're more productive, this is
             | truly better". As time wore on, I can see why a hybrid
             | approach might be a better solution. I have never seen a
             | more disengaged engineering staff. We gather weekly on Zoom
             | for a general "shoot the breeze talk about tech"
             | conversation and 95% of the cameras are off. Those folks
             | are completely silent. That's their choice of course but it
             | makes the work environment very lonely. I've tried to rile
             | my team up to go into the office once in awhile for
             | whiteboarding sessions/collaboration but they're simply not
             | interested. So, perhaps your assumption is true. Engineers,
             | for the most part, do not want to socialize, they simply
             | want to do their work and get paid. The only problem I have
             | here is, I feel our product suffers due to lack of
             | collaboration.
        
               | adamsmith143 wrote:
               | > I've tried to rile my team up to go into the office
               | once in awhile for whiteboarding sessions/collaboration
               | but they're simply not interested.
               | 
               | If your team is shipping and hitting deadlines then they
               | realize that all this extra socialization stuff is
               | useless cruft and rightly are rejecting it.
        
               | nobleach wrote:
               | If shipping is the only thing that matters, then we're in
               | great shape. If shipping the right things matters, we're
               | probably going to need to collaborate a bit. Over the
               | past year, we could have killed a few features just by
               | pushing back as a group. Instead we've waited until
               | they've lost an A/B test.
               | 
               | But your sentiment is exactly the point I was trying to
               | make. Many (if not most) developers really aren't
               | interested in any social benefit/experience. Your use of
               | the word "rightly" puts you (and forgive me for broadly
               | categorizing, I don't know you at all) in the "I come
               | here to do my work and get the heck out so I can live my
               | real life" group. For others, it's not so binary. It's
               | not Work vs Life. Life bleeds into work, and work bleeds
               | into life (with obvious healthy boundaries). For example,
               | my lunch times with other developers was a high point of
               | my day. I looked forward to talking to those folks. We
               | tried it via Zoom. It was just awkward. My current team
               | seems to fit with your sentiment. I'm the oddball and I'm
               | okay with that.
        
               | otoburb wrote:
               | >> _I feel our product suffers due to lack of
               | collaboration._
               | 
               | Is there a way to measure the loss in productivity or
               | product quality?
               | 
               | >> _I have never seen a more disengaged engineering
               | staff._
               | 
               | How does the perceived lack of engagement by your team
               | members (by choice, for the most part) impact the
               | mystical, (un)measurable "collaboration" factor?
               | 
               | It might help managers and/or senior leadership to better
               | argue points for hybrid in-office arrangements if data
               | points could be brought to bear to counteract the very
               | real benefits (for some) of WFH combined with varying
               | individual social preferences.
               | 
               | The suggestions in the last paragraph of the article are
               | so simple to articulate, yet difficult for (especially
               | lder) managers across most levels to crisply quantify.
        
               | nobleach wrote:
               | This was entirely a commentary on the social aspects of
               | developers. We had an initial surge in productivity and
               | then a lull. Product quality suffered a bit due to
               | mis/non-communication. Not everyone made the transition
               | to WFH in an effective way.
               | 
               | The engagement factor is realized with a very terse
               | "yesterday I worked on recommendations, today I'll do the
               | same". At that point the developer disappears for a few
               | hours, never participates in any chat where less senior
               | developers are asking questions. It's very siloed. The
               | hardest part for leaders is to see how this translates
               | into metrics they can understand. I'm absolutely ecstatic
               | our org has adopted a "forever" WFH policy. I'm just
               | cautious in how it'll all play out.
        
           | int0x2e wrote:
           | WFH is also doing an amazing job to help people who would
           | otherwise be marginalized. In particular, I've seen how
           | remote interviews help people that are wheelchair bound or
           | have subtle issues with their eye-sight (that are only
           | noticeable up close) get through some of the hidden (or even
           | unconscious) biases that still exist in all of us and end up
           | screening-out some otherwise great candidates.
        
             | BoxOfRain wrote:
             | On the subject of disabilities in tech, one of the best
             | things for me about WFH is that I have a disorder which
             | casues (among other things) light sensitivity issues and
             | most offices have _horrible_ lighting for triggering that.
             | Being able to WFH where I have things set up to be
             | comfortable as possible in this respect is an absolute
             | godsend and I honestly wouldn 't go back to the office even
             | on a hybrid basis if my salary was tripled. I quit my last
             | job over a mandatory return to the office, it's an absolute
             | red line for me now when considering a role.
        
         | jjav wrote:
         | Good comment. While it seems obvious, the whole environmental,
         | infrastructure cost and land (mis)use aspects are not in the
         | conversation often enough. Usually it's only work productivity
         | and preferences.
         | 
         | The key observation is really that the societal costs of
         | supporting a commute culture are so enormous that for it to
         | make any sense, the productivity of being in-office would have
         | to be many multiples higher than remote.
         | 
         | We can argue whether remote or office is slightly more
         | productive this way or that way, and there are plenty of
         | studies showing both directions so it's probably a wash,
         | depending on team.
         | 
         | But no study ever suggests that in-office could possibly be so
         | immensely more productive than remote that it could justify the
         | costs to society of doing it.
         | 
         | Of course, it'd be great if there is some research attempting
         | to quantify this more precisely (including road construction &
         | maintenance, inefficient land use, pollution, time lost, health
         | impact from the stress, and on and on). Any links?
        
         | geodel wrote:
         | Good points. If anything, it is underestimating situation for
         | large part of the world. At one point I was spending 5 hours in
         | commute (NOT USA) per day. I moved after few years but I am
         | sure 100s of thousands people are still doing it.
         | 
         | The psychological toll it took on me while travelling through
         | crushingly crowded trains and buses still terrifies me.
         | 
         | If large number of paper/computer workers do not have to
         | commute, space is left for people who have to travel for more
         | serious reasons and have their commute less unpleasant.
        
         | dreen wrote:
         | Please tell me you don't heat/cool your house 24/7. Other than
         | that I can't agree with you more.
        
           | DiggyJohnson wrote:
           | I certainly don't turn the system off when I'm not home, but
           | try to remember to jam it to low heat or high AC if I
           | remember.
           | 
           | Where I live, it's not really good for the home to leave it
           | very long without at least the dehumidifier running.
        
           | dljsjr wrote:
           | Some people don't have a choice, in Florida during the summer
           | time if you aren't running your AC full-time the humidity and
           | heat will ruin your home. It stays in the 80's even overnight
           | (both temp. Fo and Relative Humidity %).
        
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             | fluoridation wrote:
             | Sounds similar to the climate here in Buenos Aires, maybe
             | slightly warmer. To my knowledge people generally don't
             | keep AC's running when they're not around, in the summer.
             | I've never heard of a building being ruined by
             | environmental humidity.
        
               | dljsjr wrote:
               | Black mold is a massive issue in Florida.
        
               | robomartin wrote:
               | Homes in Buenos Aires don't have hollow walls made from
               | wood and flimsy drywall panels. One good plumbing leak
               | can destroy a house in the US.
        
               | fluoridation wrote:
               | Fair enough. I knew homes in the US where typically made
               | of wood, but not that that was also true in Florida. Wood
               | is not a traditional material here because it's obviously
               | going to rot in a humid environment.
        
               | tomatotomato37 wrote:
               | Yeah, only the exterior of Florida homes are concrete
               | because we get seasons of natural disasters that like to
               | throw palm trees everywhere. Interior & roofing is still
               | 2x4 construction
        
               | dljsjr wrote:
               | Yup. Cheap 2x4 framing + drywall. Residential
               | building/construction is more or less the same across the
               | entire US regardless of native climate.
        
           | horsawlarway wrote:
           | Many climates require it.
           | 
           | May through August in Atlanta it doesn't really make sense to
           | turn the AC off while out of the house (down a few degrees,
           | sure - but not off). You're going to either pay for the ac to
           | run normal cycles while you're out, or you're going to pay
           | for the ac to run full blast for an hour at 6pm when you get
           | home to bring the temp from 90+ back down to ~78 (which is
           | still in the peak power rate times for GA power - 2pm to
           | 7pm).
           | 
           | The house heats up more and more until it reaches temp
           | equality with the outside. If reaching equilibrium takes
           | longer than you're out of the house... you save basically
           | nothing by turning the system off. It's going to either pump
           | the heat out slowly over the day, or all at once when you get
           | home, and there just isn't much savings to be had.
           | 
           | That's not even talking about the condensation and
           | expansion/contraction issues that will damage your home.
        
             | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
             | Turning the AC or heating completely off when you're not at
             | home is never recommended. To save power, you just let them
             | run at temperatures a few degrees outside your comfort zone
             | when your away, and it will still have enough thermal
             | inertia to quickly get back to comfort levels when you're
             | back without the risk of condensation/mold.
             | 
             | Where I live, this is even written in my rental agreement,
             | that when I leave home for long winter vacations, I must
             | leave the heating ON.
        
               | asdf333 wrote:
               | this is probably more due to pipes freezing
        
               | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
               | Nope, in EU pipes are very well insulated inside the
               | walls. It's to prevent condensation and mold formation.
        
           | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
           | As a Canadian I don't have a choice for most of the winter.
           | The cold will creep in and start causing problems if I leave
           | it unheated at -20 (C or F, take your pick) for 10 hours. I
           | certainly reduce the heat, but I can't turn it off.
        
           | bluGill wrote:
           | That is a glib response that sounds great, but it is wrong!
           | If you have good insulation it can at best save very little
           | energy. If you have bad insulation it can save a lot, but the
           | solution is fix your insulation not play with the HVAC
           | controls.
        
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           | james-skemp wrote:
           | In addition to what others have said about potential house
           | damage, many people also have pets which need adequate
           | heating/cooling.
        
           | praptak wrote:
           | Where I live if you don't heat your home in the winter it
           | gets mildew. If it goes on for longer then the water pipes
           | will crack because of ice.
           | 
           | Yes, you can go a bit colder if the house is empty.
        
       | wmkn wrote:
       | Looking at the comments and article, I almost feel like a freak
       | for actually not minding going back to the office.
       | 
       | My commute to the office is about a 10 mins walk - maybe that's
       | the difference with many others here. Either way, I like the
       | separation between work and home. I also believe that online
       | meetings and chat are not a great substitute for actually talking
       | to people, especially when you are building something together.
        
         | shp0ngle wrote:
         | I don't mind office when everyone is in. Some things are easier
         | in person.
         | 
         | But this hybrid setup is literally the worst of both worlds.
         | Why come to the office, when nobody is there anyway? There is
         | no upside.
        
         | greedo wrote:
         | The thing about meetings is that it's increasingly rare to have
         | all parties in one physical location. Maybe for very small
         | software shops, but even then, that's going to hurt the
         | business in the long run in terms of recruiting top talent. Any
         | company that expects all of their IT staff to be local is
         | foolish. Even Apple, notorious for not allowing remote work is
         | hedging. It's simply a fact of 21st Century IT employment now.
         | Whether it's WFH or remote offices, you'll have people spread
         | out across different regions, and you'll need to accommodate
         | this in your meetings.
         | 
         | I have a friend who's entire company is remote. Employees in
         | the multiple states, as well as multiple overseas companies.
         | Extremely successful, top tier company in his field. This is
         | the model for most tech companies for the rest of this century.
        
         | sylens wrote:
         | > My commute to the office is about a 10 mins walk - maybe
         | that's the difference with many others here
         | 
         | That is exactly the difference. Every single comment in here
         | from someone who likes or doesn't mind returning to the office
         | mentions that their commute is short and simple (quick
         | walk/bike)
        
       | HstryrsrBttn wrote:
        
       | watwut wrote:
       | I think that people coming in and being alone or not talking
       | whole day are things that will solve themselves over time.
       | People/management will start to coordinate when who comes. People
       | will start to socialize again.
       | 
       | But, omg, I really don't want to go back to office. I like not
       | having to travel there. I like breakfast in peace taking my sweet
       | time for it and lunch at home. I like extra sleep I am getting in
       | the morning. I like extra exercise I am getting. I like being at
       | home when kids come, have quick chat with them before returning
       | to work.
        
         | afr0ck wrote:
         | I think WFH could be a blessing when you have a family. I still
         | like WFH to a certain extent because I get more focused and
         | more productive. But it has one major drawback: for solo
         | people, like me, living alone, far from friends and family,
         | it's very hard to not feel lonely. And to fill the loneliness
         | gap, I tend to work more, casually burning out myself and then
         | ending up depressed and feeling overworked.
         | 
         | I am still trying to build a social network on this new city,
         | but it's a very hard process and a very long one. For now,
         | going to office, makes me feel less lonely and I get some
         | interactions and also do some activities with co-workers.
        
           | giantrobot wrote:
           | > And to fill the loneliness gap, I tend to work more,
           | casually burning out myself and then ending up depressed and
           | feeling overworked.
           | 
           | This happened to me working in an office every day. I moved
           | to a new city for work and lived alone. My friends and family
           | were hundreds of miles away.
           | 
           | Co-workers are _not_ going to solve this problem for you I am
           | sorry to say. They 're a temporary reprieve at best. You're
           | going to need to build some sort of social circle for
           | yourself outside of work.
           | 
           | You really should treat that situation as a major problem
           | that needs to be addressed. You wouldn't drag around a broken
           | leg, don't drag around loneliness and depression. Going into
           | the office can't be your only in person socializing. It's
           | only going to end up feeding into depression. It's not a fun
           | spiral to get on.
        
       | 0xRusty wrote:
       | I love being back. The office is quite empty, but after two years
       | of not being around 500 people every day I think it would be
       | overwhelming to all be back together in one instant. I'm happy to
       | be in that first wave of those returning. It's not just the
       | office, it's the area I work in. I work downtown, I've forgotten
       | how much I missed all of my favorite cafes, coffee shops, casual
       | lunch places. They remember me too, it really made my day when
       | one of my favorite lunch places recognized me and we had a great
       | chat for 10 minutes. I'd forgotten how much of that life is
       | missed. I live alone, I'm a fairly solitary person, I don't get
       | out much. I always said work from home would suit me as long as I
       | still did a few things in the week (go to a bar once a week, have
       | lunch out a couple of times) but I didn't do any of these things,
       | my friends have become hermits and we hardly see each other even
       | at weekends. The last two years have been hell frankly. I've come
       | to realise my work is my social life. Call that if you like but
       | it's the reality and I actually enjoy spending time with people
       | that share interests with me. Since I've been back in the office
       | I've been to a bar and had a nice relaxing conversation over a
       | beer for the first time in 2 years. Not all of us are lucky
       | enough to have that opportunity to have amazing social lives away
       | from work. I wouldn't go back to working from home if you doubled
       | my salary.
        
         | cameron_b wrote:
         | This is the best case. I took a remote job at a new company
         | right after the lockdowns started in my area, and I've loved it
         | but for the same reasons you love your office.
         | 
         | I live in a small town, on the main residential street in the
         | old neighborhood. I have a family ( wife and two kids ) and we
         | love our neighbors.
         | 
         | Before Covid, the commute was awful. The area where the office
         | was located was insular. I watched my security cameras to keep
         | up with my garden and family and feel connected to the world
         | that mattered to me.
         | 
         | Now I'm able to walk in my garden and pull weeds between
         | tickets/meetings instead of taking a lap around an exurban
         | campus. I talk to my neighbors when they are out doing the
         | same, or at the end of our days ( tag-team visiting Taco
         | Tuesday gathering last night after the kids went to bed... )
         | 
         | Everyone is in different seasons, ( heck I might be looking for
         | an office in a few years depending on the kiddos schedules, )
         | but community is the make-or-break factor.
        
       | civilized wrote:
       | It's almost like executives never cared about the vaunted
       | benefits of office work and just wanted to get bodies in the
       | office.
        
       | jacknews wrote:
       | LOL, I'm gonna need to go ahead and come in and sit in the office
       | all day ... that'd be _great_.
       | 
       | It's more difficult for managers to low-level harass or
       | intimidate employees who WFH, and it's auditable if they do.
        
       | randsp wrote:
       | Sadly I dont think there are good short term incentives for most
       | companies to go 100% remote yet. For example, most companies
       | obtain tax benefits from buying office space which incentivates
       | company owners to invest on real estate without spending their
       | own money, then there are mid-managers who keep people
       | accountable only through meetings. And from the political
       | perspective, why would some local politicians be interested on
       | incentaviting remote works? that would hit hard other businesses
       | like restaurants at business areas and that would also decrease
       | housing prices, rental prices and local population because people
       | could decide to move to other more affordable areas.
       | 
       | Covid19 created a real short-term incentive for remote work, that
       | generated some momentum around it, there are some companies which
       | saw the real productive value behind remote work but most others
       | didn't see it and they are taking these mid-road of "hybrid"
       | work.
        
       | kamaal wrote:
       | There is a big reason to Work from office, apart from the merits
       | of the case like close collaboration, productivity et al. Most
       | important of all is being able to see your manager on a day to
       | day basis, a lot of people don't really understand how important
       | seeing your bosses on a day to day basis can be to their careers.
       | 
       | Most people have a problem of neglecting what isn't front of
       | them, it's not malice or anything its just how it is. We
       | ourselves have forgotten people with whom we don't have in person
       | check often. People change with time, and people tend to work
       | more closely, and are more likely to give promotions, rewards or
       | anything for that matter to people with whom they have a daily
       | check-in.
       | 
       | I wouldn't be surprised if in a few years, compensation, benefits
       | and overall career trajectories of people who work with top
       | bosses at office is better than those working from remote.
        
         | mathieuh wrote:
         | Bear in mind that not everyone is particularly career-focused.
         | I'm perfectly happy getting "meets expectations" at annual
         | reviews, and if I'm not happy with the pay rise (as happened to
         | me last week), I'm happy looking for another job to get the
         | bump I want.
         | 
         | People who bother to go on HN probably skew more towards
         | career-focused than not, but plenty of people are very happy
         | doing the work given to them and no more.
        
           | i_love_music wrote:
           | I'm glad I'm not the only one. I love this community but
           | sometimes it bums me out. If work is what truly makes people
           | happen, then awesome, have at it. Personally, I get some but
           | not all of self-fulfillment out of it. I use the paycheck to
           | do the things I actually care about.
        
         | BlargMcLarg wrote:
         | >I wouldn't be surprised if in a few years, compensation,
         | benefits and overall career trajectories of people who work
         | with top bosses at office is better than those working from
         | remote.
         | 
         | The way people find new jobs today is already largely digital.
         | Networking events still exist as a once-every-so-often
         | opportunity. The majority of recruiters and employers are still
         | looking at personal projects, all which are accessible from a
         | distance. Realistically there is very little reason the
         | majority of people are affected by this when it comes to new
         | jobs.
         | 
         | The majority of people don't grow well staying at the same job.
         | This immediately lessens the impact of removing physical
         | connections as a means to get better compensation. We've seen
         | dozens of articles regarding this. As an added benefit, I
         | wouldn't be surprised remote workers would have an easier time
         | job hopping too.
         | 
         | I see many reasons the above would unfold, but even without WFH
         | things have been trending against company loyalty and
         | dedication being a great way to further oneself in most of the
         | west.
        
         | di4na wrote:
         | I mean i already never got a raise or career path and already
         | knew job hopping was the only way up, as it has been for the
         | past decade.
         | 
         | And never got a manager trying to change that. We are in a
         | mercenary industry and the faster we accept that the better for
         | us all.
        
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         | civilized wrote:
         | Not my experience. I find that people who have good ideas and
         | do quality work can be noticed and recognized in a remote
         | environment. It's the mediocre that need face time to move up.
         | 
         | I'm sure my experience is not universal and it varies a lot
         | with team and company.
        
           | greedo wrote:
           | My team prior to COVID could be broken down into four
           | categories: introverts who perform well, introverts who don't
           | perform, extroverts who perform well and extroverts who don't
           | perform well.
           | 
           | When in the office, the un-performing extroverts could
           | schmooze, bullshit, and kiss ass to maintain status. They've
           | lost that now, and it's obvious how they're performing
           | (though measuring performance in IT is very tough).
           | 
           | The extroverts who previously performed well are doing the
           | same, but have learned how to use online tools to maintain
           | their status. Now it's even easier to kiss up privately to
           | your boss or scheme with another manager behind your bosses
           | back.
           | 
           | The introverts are even more interesting. Past
           | underperformers have improved dramatically. Whether it's not
           | having to play the Game that they're unable or uncomfortable,
           | they've all inarguably improved. The introverts who were
           | doing well prior to WFH are also improving, though not at as
           | dramatic a rate.
        
         | ricardobayes wrote:
         | Out of sight, out of mind
        
           | kamaal wrote:
           | So many people don't realise this.
           | 
           | You haven't seen your cousin or a friend for a while? What is
           | your perception of them now? I am sure all that Facebook
           | liking and commenting hasn't given you a clue of what they
           | are now, and more importantly even the perception of them
           | from when you last had a chance to see them often has now
           | been long forgotten/hazy.
           | 
           | The facts here are anybody you don't see often, you don't
           | know them well enough and they don't figure anywhere in your
           | list of top people to give anything.
        
             | giantrobot wrote:
             | > The facts here are anybody you don't see often, you don't
             | know them well enough and they don't figure anywhere in
             | your list of top people to give anything.
             | 
             | Then you leave and find work with someone that doesn't have
             | the attention span of a goldfish. If you're producing work
             | of value you should be compensated. If the company is doing
             | well then all of the employees should be doing well. No one
             | should have to put on a song and dance for their managers
             | to get their work recognized and rewarded.
             | 
             | If your manager can't remember you unless you're in front
             | of them at all times they're not fit for _their_ job.
        
               | kamaal wrote:
               | >>Then you leave and find work with someone that doesn't
               | have the attention span of a goldfish.
               | 
               | Which is basically every where and every one. The bad
               | news is you now start at the bottom of your level at the
               | new company.
               | 
               | >>If you're producing work of value you should be
               | compensated.
               | 
               | How naive are developers really?
               | 
               | >>If the company is doing well then all of the employees
               | should be doing well.
               | 
               | There's a pyramid everywhere, even at F/MAANG's. Some one
               | is always paid more than others, and that some one isn't
               | always making it up on merit.
               | 
               | >>No one should have to put on a song and dance for their
               | managers to get their work recognized and rewarded.
               | 
               | Work isn't an anonymous exam, subjective judgement
               | follows by merely existence of more than one person in a
               | team.
               | 
               | >>If your manager can't remember you unless you're in
               | front of them at all times they're not fit for their job.
               | 
               | Yeah sadly, in a performance review, its us being
               | evaluated not them.
        
             | greedo wrote:
             | Utterly ridiculous. My best friend lives 1600 miles away,
             | and has for 10 years. We chat daily, sharing more details
             | of our lives than I ever thought possible.
             | 
             | My mom lives 2000 miles away, I only get to see her once a
             | year. Yet we talk on the phone, write emails, have
             | FaceTime, and yes, like on FB or Instagram.
             | 
             | A cousin I haven't seen in a long time will take catching
             | up at meals and activities; that's the role of family
             | reunions.
             | 
             | The idea that you need to be physically close to be
             | emotionally close is just silly.
        
             | v-erne wrote:
             | I have heard this argument against WFH many times over.
             | Especially from my relatives that work in bullshit jobs
             | (cough ... investment banking ... cough).
             | 
             | I wonder if people that brings up this understand what they
             | are really saying. Because it's not like WFH reduces the
             | amount of promotion that goes around. Its just have the
             | potential of reallocating it differently. And this means
             | that they are afraid that they will be out competed by
             | others that are willing to be near decision makers to
             | influence (or rather manipulate them).
             | 
             | I would argue that this says more about those people than
             | about WFH.
        
               | ricardobayes wrote:
               | As I work for a company that was founded during the
               | pandemic, it's 100% remote in the truest meaning of the
               | word. I never even considered there might be a different
               | perception for 'WFH' which were in-person jobs that
               | turned remote. I think for those jobs, both camps are
               | right. To say WFH was just a temporary measure is just as
               | valid to say you like working from home so much now you
               | want that.
        
               | v-erne wrote:
               | >> I never even considered there might be a different
               | perception for 'WFH' which were in-person jobs that
               | turned remote.
               | 
               | True, I was not talking about true remote job in truly
               | remote company - if there are no possibility for in
               | personal meeting than the power dynamic changes and the
               | play ground is leveled for all players.
        
               | kamaal wrote:
               | >>I would argue that this says more about those people
               | than about WFH.
               | 
               | Not sure what your argument is, if a person eats lunch
               | with another person on an everyday basis, or may be goes
               | for a tea break walk, they are also likely to talk things
               | about family, games and other such stuff. You really
               | shouldn't be surprised if this sort of a relationship has
               | a stronger bonding and more meaning, and this just can't
               | be developed by some one calling another person for a 2
               | minute call. And by the definition when some opportunity
               | comes up they are more likely to remember them due to
               | both proximity and frequency of interactions.
               | 
               | If you have a friend whom you only occasionally ping on
               | Facebook for a 'Happy Birthday!' message, you shouldn't
               | be surprised if you aren't invited to parties after a
               | while. It doesn't mean 'it says more about them', they
               | are just reciprocating your feeling towards them, you
               | don't want to see them in person, now neither do they.
               | 
               | Maintaining good relationship with bosses is just one of
               | those hygienic things you do at work, like dressing well,
               | or using a mouth freshener or showing up everyday etc
               | etc. If you want any influence at all, there are a few
               | set of things you need to do, there's enough literature
               | written about this. Things like talking well,
               | agreeability, consensus building, clarity, having the
               | other person empty their thoughts etc etc. You just have
               | to do this regardless of whatever profession you are in,
               | because this is how humans work.
        
               | v-erne wrote:
               | I'm not surprised - I really do understand all of this
               | and know how the game works and kinda even know how to
               | play it, just .. I'm really reluctant to do it. If I did
               | it would be a bit like in the famous quote from Groucho
               | Marx : "I Don't Want to Belong to Any Club That Will
               | Accept Me as a Member"
               | 
               | The thing is that I was just really trying only to point
               | out what a shitty system we have all developed together
               | (we as a society) through this kind of tactics. I suspect
               | that You are looking at this only through the point of
               | view of individual that is optimizing their own outcomes
               | (the individual being yourself probably). But I try to
               | look at this from a bit more systemic point of view. And
               | what I see from up there isn't pretty.
               | 
               | Of course for me this isn't only purely theoretical thing
               | - what really buggers me are the logical consequences of
               | this system. For example I really do not want to work for
               | someone that becomes by boss only because he can play
               | social game (and maintain proper relationships with key
               | persons in company). But the thing is, that in this
               | system, almost always this kind of person wins.
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | I maintain a good relationship with my boss by
               | communicating clearly with him. By asking him questions
               | about his expectations, and by providing him with
               | information that he needs to do his job. He trusts me to
               | do these things, despite not knowing much of my personal
               | life, and definitely NOT because either of us "empty
               | their thoughts."
               | 
               | My boss isn't my friend. He's my boss. Clear boundaries
               | are healthy boundaries.
        
         | jcims wrote:
         | There's truth to this but the reality is that even when you're
         | in the office you might not see your boss on a day to day
         | basis. I haven't lived in the same state as my boss for the
         | past seven years. Remote work for me has been a great
         | equalizer.
         | 
         | One advantage of WFH: Zoom has put me in front of more senior
         | leadership on a more frequent basis than I've ever seen while
         | in the office. I've talked to managing directors on a weekly
         | basis, sometimes daily, for the past 18 months or so. Prior to
         | that it was quarterly at best.
        
         | detaro wrote:
         | Not sure how "have a daily check-in" requires being in the
         | office? If anything, more communication happening in open
         | channels vs 1:1 talks means more visibility to higher levels.
        
       | swalsh wrote:
       | I've been working from home for a bit over 5 years now. Before
       | Covid, we used to have quarterly meetings where all of us full
       | time WFH people went into the office for a day of in-person
       | meetings. We'd get A BUNCH of work done, then go back to normal.
       | In person collaboration is better, but you don't need it every
       | day, or even every week. Our team was highly distributed so
       | monthly was not practical. But this was a good system, we haven't
       | done it since Covid, and I think we're worse off for it.
        
       | sylens wrote:
       | The other thing this article does not mention is that with many
       | open office floor plans, the amount of conference rooms was never
       | enough to satisfy meeting demand. So even though I might have
       | coworkers on my team with me in my same location that needed to
       | meet with others in another location, we could never just grab a
       | conference room at the last minute and all sit together there.
       | Instead, we would all have to dial in from our desks (often back-
       | to-back in the open office) and manage mute/unmute there to
       | prevent echo.
       | 
       | I'm glad people are seeing how ridiculous this was.
        
         | mprovost wrote:
         | We noticed a lot of "meeting fatigue" with teams early in the
         | pandemic and after a lot of feedback realised that it was
         | because the limited number of conference rooms was constraining
         | the overall number of meetings. Once that constraint was lifted
         | and everyone could meet online, the number of meetings shot way
         | up. It's come down a bit since then but is probably still much
         | higher than it was when everyone was in the office. It will
         | take some adjusting to go back to that, and honestly I doubt we
         | ever will.
        
       | spaniard89277 wrote:
       | I do the exact same job in my office than with my laptop anywhere
       | else.
       | 
       | Im in my mid 30s, and most of employees are +45 in my job. They
       | really want to come back, and there are already a few in there,
       | but whats the point?
       | 
       | I guess they feel lonely, bosses too, but my life is so much
       | better with WFH.
       | 
       | Now Im just used to go places with my laptop, my phone as
       | hotspot, and do work somewhere nice and quiet.
       | 
       | I can even travel on workdays. This very week Im heading to
       | Madrid to visit a friend. I don't need to take time off as I'll
       | be capable of working there.
       | 
       | It's usually just around my province, but knowing I can do this
       | if I want is very liberating.
       | 
       | Im not a SWE, I'm aiming to be one, as I currently work for an
       | ISP and get low pay. Getting even a junior job in SW will likely
       | give me a jump in income. I wonder if I will be able to continue
       | with this lifestyle, because I'll probably need more
       | concentration, not sure yet.
       | 
       | Of course the fact that I can do this makes my otherwise boring
       | and alienating job, with low pay, much more attractive. I didn't
       | leave because I was afraid when the pandemic, now I just take it
       | easy while I i study to change career.
       | 
       | Of course I have no kids, no wife, no responsibilities. If I
       | don't do this now...
        
         | Mc91 wrote:
         | The same thing for me. I go to another city and pay a visit for
         | a week, but say I need to be available on Teams from 9 to 5 and
         | attend some meetings, and get some work done. Usually it slows
         | me down a little, so I do some extra prep work before the visit
         | and catch up when I return home. It's like a little vacation
         | without taking time off.
        
           | Aicy wrote:
           | What do you do on your city visits? I would like to do that
           | but everything I like to do is only open during the day, and
           | where I live by 5pm when I finish work it's dark and cold
        
             | spaniard89277 wrote:
             | I work until 16 and here in Spain you still have sun and
             | plenty stuff to do. I live in the colder part so I it's
             | pretty confortable.
             | 
             | Un Madrid I guess I'll visit my friend, some museums and
             | stuff and go eat and drink out with people.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | You can change time zones too. I went skiing recently and
             | ran into some people who wfh in the east coast. They were
             | living right in breckenridge for the season, working in the
             | mornings, then by quitting time east coast time hit they
             | still had a few hours every single day to go out and ski in
             | mountain time.
        
             | Mc91 wrote:
             | Usually I go back to my hometown and work during the day,
             | and visit friends at night. I go out during the day on the
             | weekend.
             | 
             | I go out during lunchtime during the week (or message on
             | Teams that I will be out for a little while), but usually
             | that is for appointments or errands - on my last visit to
             | my hometown I visited my accountant to do my taxes.
        
             | wffurr wrote:
             | Travel to a sunnier part of the world.
        
         | ptman wrote:
         | +45 is a temperature, or something else on a scale that goes
         | below zero. >45 can be written as 45+, not +45.
        
           | wussboy wrote:
           | For real?
        
             | yohannparis wrote:
             | Not all comments need to be read as aggressive. This
             | sounded more informative, and personally as an ESL, helps
             | me improve.
        
           | otagekki wrote:
           | GP's Spanish writing habit, without a doubt
        
           | prepend wrote:
           | I understood what they meant.
        
             | layer8 wrote:
             | That's a pretty low standard for written communication
             | though.
        
               | blamestross wrote:
               | 1T5 G00D 3N0UGH.
        
               | prepend wrote:
               | It's good enough to not complain about and spend my time
               | on better things.
        
         | showsover wrote:
         | It might go either way to be honest. I'm currently living and
         | working Spain as a SWE (immigrant) for a US company and the
         | amount of useless meetings there is insane. That makes it quite
         | hard to work on-the-go as half of the day is spent in meetings
         | (most of them with camera turned on).
        
           | spaniard89277 wrote:
           | We rearely do that. We just type the stuff we need in teams
           | and the occasional formative talk once a month or so.
           | 
           | Meetings are about twice a year, and they appear in my teams
           | calendar so I can plan ahead.
           | 
           | When I feel we need a serious discussion I write a long ass
           | text, and people usually follows without needing a call. It's
           | like forums, so that's something I'm used to.
           | 
           | But again, my job is very jump in, jump out. I don't really
           | need too much focus, it's pretty much helpdesk with some
           | admin, so I can get distracted without problem, and I don't
           | really need to keep any code model in my head.
           | 
           | My only worry if I find a job in SW will be that, the need to
           | keep my mind focused, not being able to be pretty much
           | anywhere. I hope the pay offsets this fact.
        
             | showsover wrote:
             | That sounds like a dream to be honest. I wish I could work
             | without having meetings where nobody likes to say anything
             | and it just drags on.
             | 
             | Wrt the SW job, it might be more difficult in the beginning
             | as it takes some focus to understand the system and how
             | your work fits into the bigger whole. After a time it
             | becomes easier to understand and to jump in, jump out.
             | 
             | Of course this completely depends on the company and job
             | type. My job is very non-demanding and I can easily coast
             | by on just 3-4 hours of work a day. Other people are in a
             | different situation.
        
               | spaniard89277 wrote:
               | It's not a dream job because it barely pays above minimum
               | wage. I have a hard time saving. And that's cos I live in
               | a cheapish city.
               | 
               | I hope jumping into software makes this better and can
               | finally be financially confy.
        
           | DoingIsLearning wrote:
           | Can I ask how are you dealing with taxes, working for a US
           | company in Spain? Are you contracting your SWE services and
           | billing them? Or are you an employee of the US company?
        
             | spaniard89277 wrote:
             | Check remote.com or similar solutions. They have a few
             | competitors, but for 200$ you become a full employee in
             | your country of residence.
        
               | higeorge13 wrote:
               | In some countries working as full time employee via
               | remote.com etc. gets you less money than having a company
               | and dealing with the taxes.
        
               | spaniard89277 wrote:
               | Yes, that's common for sure, but you also don't have to
               | deal with the amount of BS that comes with being a
               | contractor in some countries. It's the case of Spain,
               | where the Tax Agency and Social Security are very
               | aggressive and gives lot of headaches depending on what
               | you do.
               | 
               | Some employees even have premiums for putting their hand
               | in your pocket. So yea, it may be more expensive but the
               | peace of mind that gives you for offloading all of that
               | to someone else is priceless.
        
             | showsover wrote:
             | I'm an employee of the Spanish office, but the company
             | itself is a US one.
        
           | aaaaaaaaaaab wrote:
           | >most of them with camera turned on
           | 
           | Just record a loop of yourself and use OBS as a virtual
           | camera.
        
       | ravedave5 wrote:
       | Same experience as me, went in nobody was there. Spent day doing
       | the exact same thing as at home with a different view and extra
       | 50 minutes of driving. Did not go in again.
        
         | musicale wrote:
         | It sounds like the commute is a big part of it.
         | 
         | My perfect commute would probably be a 10 minute bicycle ride,
         | or maybe a short train ride.
        
           | 0xfaded wrote:
           | We had a small office in a smaller town (Odense) in Denmark
           | and reopened ~July 2020. We had no masks within the office by
           | agreement among ourselves, but were very strict in our
           | personal lives. We really enjoyed the interaction during
           | lockdown, and I think that our commutes were all less than 10
           | mins helped.
        
           | aerique wrote:
           | I've got a 35 - 45 minute bicycle ride which makes it a nice
           | workout.
           | 
           | I really felt it when we started working from home during
           | corona and I was sitting on the couch just eating chips and
           | ice cream.
        
             | adwww wrote:
             | This is great, so long as you have the choice to just WFH
             | when you're not feeling it - you have a cold, the weather
             | is shit, the bike needs maintenance etc.
        
             | lanstin wrote:
             | Totally the same for me. I have started going into work one
             | day a week at my own prompting just to get some bike
             | commute in (I just don't like biking in circles unless
             | there's some mileage away from the city). No one else is
             | there but I have seen a few old friends in the tiny
             | remnants of the cafeteria. And I sit all alone up in the
             | top floor where it used to be execs so I have an awesome
             | view of the mountains and so on. And the network bandwidth
             | is much nicer than my wifi.
        
             | hdjjhhvvhga wrote:
             | I was in the same situation. In the end I solved the
             | problem by cycling the same amount of kilometers each
             | morning and evening but in a different direction (and nicer
             | surroundings - without having to go along the street).
        
             | jhoechtl wrote:
             | Totally not the same for me. I anticipated that I will move
             | less when WFH and started eating healthier and less
             | chocolate. I think it has to do with self-discipline.
        
           | byefruit wrote:
           | I do the 10-15 minute cycle and it is excellent. Have been
           | considering throwing in the occasional walking day too.
        
             | niek_pas wrote:
             | That's what I did when I had a 10-minute cycle. A 25-minute
             | minute walk gave me a chance to, depending on the morning,
             | either listen to a podcast or shake off the morning
             | grogginess before heading in to work.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | Thats what I like about wfh. I can simulate a commute in my
           | neighborhood. Do I want to bike to work today? OK, I can
           | decide how far work is, then I come home after that and start
           | working. Do I want a 5 min walk with a mug of coffee? I can
           | do that too. Do I need to work in a walk to the grocery store
           | to get stuff for lunch? Boom, convenient errand and morning
           | commute while working from home.
        
           | redox99 wrote:
           | Something like that is very hard in practice unless you live
           | extremely close, like walking distance.
           | 
           | Even in a densely populated area such as Manhattan, getting
           | from midtown to lower manhattan (which is quite close btw) is
           | 20 minutes either biking or taking the subway.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | This is what I love about working from home. I live
             | somewhere with frankly a decent amount of transit as far as
             | american cities go; I can take a subway or bus lines to
             | work from my place, but it still takes a ton of time (like
             | 45 mins if the stars align with the schedule, over an hour
             | if they don't).
             | 
             | Meanwhile, with working from home, I've been simulating a
             | commute. I walk for 5-30 mins maybe with a mug of coffee,
             | or go biking in the morning, then come back and start
             | working. It helps give some separation between home and
             | work. Then I do the same thing at the end of the day to
             | close it out and help clear the head.
        
       | civilized wrote:
       | > Instead, a lot of people who have returned to their offices for
       | some or all of the week have found that they're the only ones
       | there, or others are staying isolated in their offices, and all
       | communication still happens over email, Slack, or Zoom. As a
       | result, they're spending time commuting to and from the office
       | and dealing with all the hassles of in-person work but without
       | any of the promised payoff.
       | 
       | Hahaha, like this wasn't true before the pandemic.
       | 
       | It sure as hell was for me, anyway.
        
       | scrapheap wrote:
       | My team currently has to all go into the office for one day per
       | week - that day is now referred to as "Low Productivity Day".
        
         | swarnie wrote:
         | We have the same issue and the same term at my company.
         | 
         | For me its now beanie hat, wireless headphones with music, head
         | down and don't bother me please.
         | 
         | Eventually they'll get sick of me and stop asking me to attend
         | i hope.
        
         | greedo wrote:
         | The official name for ours is Collaboration Days. But since
         | every team has a different CD, it's almost impossible to have
         | in-person meetings outside of our team. In within our team, if
         | we have to wait for Collaboration day to make decisions etc,
         | we'd be hopelessly broken and inefficient.
        
       | MattPalmer1086 wrote:
       | So far I've managed to resist coming in to the office for
       | pointless reasons.
       | 
       | Our team was already split between the US and UK, and we tend to
       | work outside of our team across multiple projects with people all
       | over the world. So all meetings were always video calls even pre-
       | pandemic.
       | 
       | Some senior managers want us to be in the office 20% of the time
       | to get that nebulous "collaboration" thing... Which literally
       | never happened in person anyway. On the other hand, my managers
       | have said we shouldn't come in unless there is an actual reason
       | to do so.
       | 
       | Fingers crossed sanity prevails...
        
       | fcatalan wrote:
       | "Emergency" WFH at my workplace have been slashed, everyone back
       | in full since the start of the month. No reason publically given,
       | been privately told "not about people like you, but some others
       | have taken a 2 year vacation so management is fed up". I have
       | emails from the CEO personally thanking me for my commitment in
       | going way over what was expected when basically saving the
       | institution during lockdown, so now I also feel kind of
       | personally insulted and victim of ham-handed collective
       | punishment.
       | 
       | I hate being back: My gear at home is better, I have to work in
       | uncomfortable clothes and at a room temperature that makes me
       | sweat within minutes. I have to work in an N95 mask since we are
       | packed in small 4 person cubicles and COVID numbers are still too
       | high in my area. I'm spending more on gas and wasting time in
       | traffic. I'm eating worse quality food. I keep getting
       | interrupted by exactly those sames guys that took the 2 year
       | vacation. I feel hard to concentrate and I'm angry all the time
       | so my output has suffered.
       | 
       | I keep sending IMs to people I work with, we never need to
       | actually meet.
       | 
       | Now you have to apply for a new more restrictive WFH scheme.
       | Those wanting to sign up to it had a meeting with our direct
       | manager where he tried to discourage us with thinly veiled
       | threats about "special performance measuring procedures" and
       | trite arguments about how it is unfair not being here for the
       | people that want to come.
       | 
       | We applied the same, but now HR is telling us that they can't
       | approve our WFH requests since they can't guarantee that our
       | screen setup at home is safe and we haven't completed a "Data
       | Display Device Setup and Handling" course in the last three
       | years. They don't know when the course will be offered again.
       | I've been programming for more than 35 years now, so again I kind
       | of feel doubly insulted, both by the bare faced obstructionism
       | and ridiculous particular hurdle.
       | 
       | I'd leave, I even feel I'm morally in the wrong for not leaving.
       | But the thing is that the pay is good, that I'm of an age prone
       | to experiencing ageism in the job market, and also this is a
       | place where I have ample slack for tuning my output and inmerse
       | myself in side projects or personal improvement, so their loss...
        
         | rkangel wrote:
         | I love working from home, and I have a very enlightened
         | employer but I do have some sympathy with the companies that
         | have a chunk of employees who just don't work when they're at
         | home.
         | 
         | The situation in my company is simple to manage - we hire good
         | people who are very capable and then trust them to get on and
         | do the job. That works with the sort of people we hire and the
         | sort of work we ask them to do. If they're at home we'll
         | generally work just the same, because we're pretty well
         | motivated.
         | 
         | Not all companies are like that though. My partner worked for a
         | charity where maybe 2/3 of people worked exactly the same
         | during the pandemic, but a good chunk (mostly of the lower
         | level admin staff) didn't. Some of them were very unsubtle -
         | they'd never answer Teams calls, and would return them half an
         | hour later and never produced any output anyway. Some were more
         | subtle like the colleague who'd log into Teams first thing and
         | then go back to the Playstation for a few hours of the morning
         | before actually starting work. Having these people in the
         | office WOULD result in more work being done.
         | 
         | What we need is for these employers to be focusing on output
         | rather than hours in the office. They are stuck in a mindset
         | and approach that _barely_ worked in the past where if you had
         | someone in an office for 8 hours a day you 'd probably get
         | _something_ out of them. If they focused a little more on what
         | they were getting (and I don 't just mean some basic metrics
         | with no human insight) then we wouldn't need bums on seats and
         | the people not doing anything at home would be pretty obvious.
        
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           | fcatalan wrote:
           | It's the same here as in your partner's place. Even the
           | proportions. This is government work: hiring practices are
           | bad by design and "firing practices" unexistant. No one is
           | ever fired. This means that the place is perennially
           | understaffed in practice and depends fully on the goodwill,
           | personal/professional ethics and patience of those that will
           | do the work. But since they can't fire and we all have to
           | live together somehow, management likes to keep the illusion
           | that everyone is the same. So sometimes they will design
           | promotion schemes or bonuses that favor slackers over the
           | guys doing the job, or punish everyone equally for the sins
           | of a few.
           | 
           | It's a pretty kafkian environment, but it's sort of a golden
           | cage too: Pay is good, benefits great, stability rock solid.
           | I'm used to a freedom of agency and independence that I'm
           | afraid would go over badly in a normal place. So I stay.
        
             | rkangel wrote:
             | > I'm used to a freedom of agency and independence that I'm
             | afraid would go over badly in a normal place. So I stay.
             | 
             | I think you're underselling the rest of the world a bit.
             | Many if not most companies aren't great, but there are a
             | good chunk that do empower their employees to do their job
             | properly and that's how you get the most job satisfaction.
             | Of course, this is without knowing your sector and role -
             | it does vary.
             | 
             | You're in a great position that you're in a job you're
             | largely happy with. You should use that as allowing you to
             | carefully choose your next role, rather than as an excuse
             | not to. It's also great in salary negotiations - you can
             | pick a large number because in the worst case you go back
             | to your perfectly reasonable job!
        
             | progmetaldev wrote:
             | I've been at the same company since 2007, and although this
             | isn't government work, it sure works that way. For anyone
             | to be fired, you need solid evidence that the company has
             | lost a good sum of money. That creates an environment where
             | there's little trust among the lower end workers and the
             | higher tier ones. I stay because I make great money for
             | where I'm located, the job is stable, and if I need to just
             | take off for a doctor's appointment, there's no issue as
             | long as I get my work done.
        
           | prepend wrote:
           | > Having these people in the office WOULD result in more work
           | being done.
           | 
           | I disagree as I think those people did no work while in the
           | office and kept doing no work outside the office.
           | 
           | I worked in a building where one person had a personal laptop
           | open, daytrading all day. Instead of working. Of course they
           | should have worked, but they didn't.
           | 
           | People will shirk work in the office and outside.
           | 
           | I think it's silly to assume someone who would log into Teams
           | and then play PlayStation wouldn't just close their office
           | door and play games on their iPad for hours.
        
             | GoodJokes wrote:
        
         | cgio wrote:
         | They could be telling the "not about you" to everyone, though,
         | and that would also act as some kind of free carrot for them,
         | I.e. you feel somehow appreciated in a very abstract way with
         | no cost to the company. I haven't seen any organisation where
         | one person can keep things running, so hard to believe this as
         | an argument. I assume, like most companies outside segments
         | such as hospitality, yours also did well in the last couple
         | years. In that case, the excuse that people were on leave is
         | insulting and should be insulting to you too.
        
         | chris_overseas wrote:
         | > But the thing is that the pay is good, that I'm of an age
         | prone to experiencing ageism in the job market, and also this
         | is a place where I have ample slack for tuning my output and
         | inmerse myself in side projects or personal improvement, so
         | their loss...
         | 
         | None of those points prevent you from looking to see what other
         | jobs are available and applying for any that look interesting.
         | Who knows, you might find something that is better on all
         | counts. Worst case scenario you don't find anything better,
         | which will mean you're no worse off than you are already, you
         | learned a few things in the interview processes, and maybe the
         | knowledge that your current role is better than various
         | alternatives you looked at makes things seem a bit more
         | tolerable where you are now?
        
         | pzs wrote:
         | "I'd leave, I even feel I'm morally in the wrong for not
         | leaving. But the thing is that the pay is good, that I'm of an
         | age prone to experiencing ageism in the job market, and also
         | this is a place where I have ample slack for tuning my output
         | and inmerse myself in side projects or personal improvement, so
         | their loss..." - this tells me that you are a very loyal
         | employee and you also find security more important than other
         | aspects of your career. That is certainly your decision, but I
         | suggest you to keep looking at the balance and consider the
         | compromises you are making because of this. Based on my
         | experience there is considerable talent shortage on the job
         | market, and loyalty is seen as a positive by reasonable hiring
         | managers.
        
         | verve_rat wrote:
         | Sounds like it is time for you to take your two year vacation.
        
         | la64710 wrote:
        
         | efsavage wrote:
         | As someone who has probably experienced it, I wonder if ageism
         | is more or less prevalent in remote jobs. I suspect, with zero
         | evidence, that it might be diminished a bit, and could even be
         | an asset since you've got a proven track record of being
         | disciplined and productive in a remote environment. Perhaps
         | it's worth testing the job market and finding something that is
         | a better fit.
        
         | imchillyb wrote:
         | Today it's a job-seeker's market, and that is likely to
         | continue for some time to come.
         | 
         | If your company won't play ball, it's time to find another
         | field to play in.
        
           | dzhiurgis wrote:
           | If so many people are pissed off at coming back to office
           | wouldn't remote jobs would be super demanded?
           | 
           | I've looked at some recently and tons of jobs require office
           | presence. Finding something outside of US is near impossible.
        
             | cableshaft wrote:
             | They are highly demanded[1], companies are just extremely
             | stubborn and are trying to force employees to accept their
             | terms.
             | 
             | You could see that the past year and a half in restaurants
             | that are willing to close down entirely (often with a sign
             | saying they're short staffed) for days, weeks, or
             | permanently, rather than raise their wages enough to hire
             | and keep the employees they need to function.
             | 
             | [1]: "Newly published research from the Pew Research Center
             | that surveyed roughly 10,000 Americans from Jan. 24 to Jan.
             | 30 found that nearly two years into the COVID-19 pandemic,
             | roughly 6 in 10 U.S. workers who say their jobs can be done
             | from home, at 59 percent, are doing so from home all or
             | most of the time. Now, more workers say they are working
             | from home out of choice than necessity.
             | 
             | Among those who have a workplace outside of their home, 61
             | percent said they are choosing not to go in, while 38
             | percent said they're working from home specifically because
             | their workplace is closed or unavailable to them.
             | 
             | Interestingly, Pew Research noted just the opposite was
             | true earlier in the pandemic, with 64 percent of people
             | indicating they were working from home because their office
             | was closed while 36 percent said they were choosing to work
             | from home."
             | 
             | https://thehill.com/changing-america/resilience/smart-
             | cities...
        
         | matwood wrote:
         | > "not about people like you, but some others have taken a 2
         | year vacation so management is fed up"
         | 
         | Then it's time to let people go. Early on in COVID leeway
         | definitely needed to be given with daycares closed, people
         | transitioning to WFH, etc... But at this point, if someone
         | can't get their work done remotely, then they should find a
         | non-remote job.
         | 
         | We went fully remote prior to the pandemic, and I remember
         | someone in senior management asking me, 'how will we know
         | people are working at home?' My response was 'how do we know
         | they are working in the office?' If people aren't getting any
         | work done it doesn't matter where they are. Management just
         | feels better about seeing them in the office.
        
           | progmetaldev wrote:
           | This was exactly what I told my boss when I said I need to
           | work remotely from now on. You have no idea what I'm doing
           | whether you can see me across the office, or if I'm home. In
           | my defense, I was able to display that working from home for
           | me boosted my productivity. I can also get my son to school
           | without having to deal with bus schedules.
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | Alternatively, if these people have taken a 2 year vacation
           | and the company appears to be operating fine, maybe there's
           | no problem?
           | 
           | I don't understand why this issue is being raised _now_ -
           | surely they already have existing processes in place to deal
           | with people who underperform, in which case those same
           | processes can be applied regardless of WFH status. The fact
           | that they haven 't suggests that in the end work _is_ being
           | done satisfactorily and someone is just jealous or on a power
           | trip.
        
             | syshum wrote:
             | If they can take a 2 year vacation and the company is
             | operating fine then their roles should be eliminated
             | because they do not serve any function to the company
             | 
             | A Company is not a charity, people are not kept on payroll
             | just because
        
             | peoplefromibiza wrote:
             | layoff freeze laws have been a thing in many countries
             | during COVID
             | 
             | basically not only people took a 2 years paid vacation,
             | they also could not be fired which incentivized the more
             | parasitic workers to work even less
             | 
             | I know personally of a mailwoman working in Northern Italy
             | for Italian Postal service (a public service) that went
             | back to her home in Sicily and never showed up at work for
             | 9 months because she could not be laid off.
             | 
             | So my mother in law who's also almost blind didn't get her
             | mail for many weeks.
             | 
             | Nothing we could do about it. There were no consequences
             | whatsoever.
        
             | Spooky23 wrote:
             | Sure, but systems aren't designed for individual
             | termination throughput.
             | 
             | It's easy for people to game the system and turn around and
             | claim that it's a discriminatory practice. It's also easy
             | for management to cut off an employee in bad faith to drum
             | up a case for termination.
             | 
             | The easiest way to weed out the assholes is to change the
             | rules for everyone, and purge those who are insubordinate.
             | You'll lose a few producers, but not as many as HN would
             | leave you to believe.
        
             | IMTDb wrote:
             | Alternatively, the world was in a state were these people
             | really did not need really to be working because economy
             | was so slow, and government grants were paying for those
             | salaries anyway, so people were kept on the payroll.
             | 
             | Now that the economy is "back on track", we need them to be
             | working - like they did before the pandemic, not like they
             | did during the pandemic - so the work organisation gets
             | back to a pre-pandemic state.
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | Bull. My company has posted the highest sales and profits
               | in it's multi-century history during the pandemic years.
               | 
               | This idea that people were slacking off during COVID is a
               | myth.
        
             | greedo wrote:
             | Many companies have difficulty assessing performance, so
             | whenever they get the opportunity to safely fire people who
             | have transgressed in some fashion they do so. My company
             | had famously never performed layoffs. We've been in
             | business since the 19th Century. But eventually all good
             | things must end, and during the 2008 crisis, some newer
             | mgmt found an opportunity to fire people who didn't play
             | their game. We only laid off 30 people, but it was a huge
             | shock to the company culture, and made people re-evaluate
             | what they thought the social contract was about.
        
           | 7952 wrote:
           | In my company managers were just given a free pass on
           | difficulty with WFH managment. It was never treated as a
           | "performance issue" by the corporate system. People are still
           | measured the the world that existed 10 years ago. What is
           | particularly galling is that they are now promoting agile hot
           | desk offices as being exciting and new.
        
         | acdha wrote:
         | > No reason publically given, been privately told "not about
         | people like you, but some others have taken a 2 year vacation
         | so management is fed up".
         | 
         | This is exasperating: it's basically saying managers aren't
         | doing their jobs and you should pay the consequences. If
         | someone really did goof off that much, their supervisor should
         | be looking for a new job too.
         | 
         | What I suspect is that nobody did this and what you're really
         | hearing is that senior management are distrustful and don't
         | believe people are working if they don't see them. Everywhere
         | I've heard that, it's been pure projection.
         | 
         | Either way, I'd reconsider leaving. You have a stable situation
         | so you can look for a place you really like without time
         | pressure but the respect gradient probably won't improve unless
         | you have C-level turnover.
        
         | user_named wrote:
         | When we returned to the office in 2020 after a few months of
         | WFH at a Chinese megacorp, due to the lack of meeting rooms,
         | everyone just did zoom meetings from their desk. Nobody really
         | needed to be in the office; we never met due to the size of the
         | company.
        
         | sodapopcan wrote:
         | I got anxiety reading this. I hope are able to find something
         | else, even if (judging by your last sentence) you don't want
         | to.
        
         | detaro wrote:
         | > _that I 'm of an age prone to experiencing ageism in the job
         | market, and also this is a place where I have ample slack_
         | 
         | so you also have time to go hunt for another job before
         | quitting at least, if that's where you want to go.
        
         | nesky wrote:
         | > "I hate being back: My gear at home is better, I have to work
         | in uncomfortable clothes and at a room temperature that makes
         | me sweat within minutes. I have to work in an N95 mask since we
         | are packed in small 4 person cubicles and COVID numbers are
         | still too high in my area. I'm spending more on gas and wasting
         | time in traffic. I'm eating worse quality food. I keep getting
         | interrupted by exactly those sames guys that took the 2 year
         | vacation. I feel hard to concentrate and I'm angry all the time
         | so my output has suffered."
         | 
         | We start back at the office next week and this sums up exactly
         | why I have no interest in going back full time.
        
         | rkangel wrote:
         | I think it is indefensible to bring people back to work in any
         | workplace where mask wearing is needed at your desk. If you're
         | admitting in that way that there is a risk in being in the
         | office then you shouldn't be requiring them to be there!
        
           | Freak_NL wrote:
           | Wow no indeed. I would be looking for a new job. Masks are a
           | measure for times when no other option is available, not a
           | standard check mark for every employee. From which management
           | level upward do these rules not apply? It probably coincides
           | with having your own private office...
        
             | benhurmarcel wrote:
             | My company has been mandating 3 days/week at the office,
             | with mandatory masks also. You're right, managers above a
             | certain level have their private office and don't need to
             | wear a mask all day.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | 0des wrote:
             | > wow no indeed
             | 
             | Ween yourself off the "yeah, no" pattern.
        
               | Freak_NL wrote:
               | I'm not using that pattern here am I? I don't use it
               | anywhere -- I find it ill-suited for written
               | communication. Those three words serve only to convey my
               | agreement with rkangel and utter surprise at this being
               | mandated for a desk job.
        
             | [deleted]
        
           | cpcallen wrote:
           | With the obvious exception of essential jobs that cannot be
           | done remotely, such as hands-on medical care.
        
           | ryeights wrote:
           | It sounds like GP is wearing a mask voluntarily.
        
         | evancoop wrote:
         | "...not about people like you."
         | 
         | My wife, who spent much of her career in corporate HR, would
         | often note: "People who want to work, will work wherever you
         | put them. People who don't want to work will find a way not to
         | work wherever you put them."
         | 
         | The people who used WFH as a "2 year vacation" are the same
         | people who will wander the office engaging in random
         | conversations and scrolling Facebook the remainder of the day.
         | 
         | I always wondered why we presume traffic and cubicles are a
         | cure for the lack of motivation.
        
           | Spooky23 wrote:
           | It's a level of friction that discourages the worst
           | behaviors.
           | 
           | You probably lock the front door of your house. The reality
           | is, it's not a meaningful thing in most cases, as a
           | moderately in shape middle aged man, I could likely kick or
           | pry it in in seconds.
           | 
           | We do it because it keeps honest people out and increases the
           | friction for the bad guys - kicking the door down in itself
           | becomes a felony. (Burglary)
           | 
           | Likewise, people are on a bell curve of sorts with respect to
           | motivation. The people on the bottom are a waste of oxygen
           | and require explicit directions for every task, and the other
           | extreme are self-motivated and will create novel tasks to
           | complete without any direction.
           | 
           | Some people need the office to function appropriately on that
           | curve. I have one guy on my team who came to work physically
           | every day during the full lockdowns in NYC because for him,
           | the context shift of being in the office was important. He is
           | probably the smartest person I've ever met, but he can't work
           | at home. Another colleague is living on an island somewhere.
           | 
           | The rest of us are in the middle. Combine that with other
           | business requirements, and you have to make a decision that's
           | best for the business.
        
             | progmetaldev wrote:
             | I know there are some employees that have children at home
             | during the day, making it difficult to get any work done.
             | This is especially true in cities where there is often not
             | enough room for a dedicated office. My boss does best in
             | the office, because almost everyone is home, so it is quiet
             | (unlike his home situation).
        
             | afiori wrote:
             | Since the door/lock analogy is widely used I would like to
             | point that they have 2 other major advantages
             | 
             | 1: they have the effect of warning you of unauthorized
             | access: you can maybe break a door/window in a matter of
             | minutes but you wont catch me napping nor you will be able
             | to make it look like nobody broke in.
             | 
             | 2: they keep unmotivated attackers out and can move the
             | attacks off to you and on less protected properties.
        
               | marcosdumay wrote:
               | Do we actually know if it has any effect at all?
               | 
               | Locking your door looks more like an historical artifact
               | from the time the police wasn't ready available for
               | policing the neighborhood of normal people.
        
             | la64710 wrote:
             | Probably you should then have looked at the dog joke on the
             | top. If I DONT want to do stupid work beleive me , I will
             | work very hard to find smart ways to NOT do your stupid
             | work. In other words I will be the absolute lazy programmer
             | whose output is so good that it scares their manager to the
             | point of insecurity. These are the kind of people that
             | wants "their" team back in office. Again something very
             | stupid but it is a viscous circle...
        
           | bluGill wrote:
           | Cubicles, as opposed to an office with a door that closes
           | mean someone is likely to walk by and see what you are
           | wasting time doing. Once in a while everyone has 'compiling'
           | time to waste, but eventually it gets obvious
        
             | greedo wrote:
             | Businesses should be measuring results before process. Not
             | that process is unimportant, but especially with ICs,
             | process can vary dramatically.
        
         | thelittleone wrote:
         | I'm similar age. Twice in the last few years I left great jobs
         | due to somewhat similar reasons of misaligned environment and
         | values. I left without having anything new lined up. I also
         | kinda needed the money. But despite my fears I quit. Within
         | days, on both occasions, I got a new higher paying job that
         | aligned better with my preferences and values. But perhaps most
         | valuable was a sense of satisfaction for having integrity.. the
         | old expression "being able to look in the mirror...".
         | 
         | This approach worked well for me, but maybe I was just lucky.
        
         | ajdegol wrote:
         | This guy goes into a bar in Mexico and there's a dog lying in
         | the corner, every so often the dog whimpers and whines a
         | little. The guy asks the barman "what's up with that dog?" And
         | the barman said "oh, he's probably lying on a nail."
         | 
         | After a few more minutes and another set of whines, the guy
         | asks the barman "so why doesn't he move?" And the barman says
         | "it probably doesn't hurt enough for him to get up."
        
           | maest wrote:
           | Interesting story, but why in Mexico?
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | TuringTest wrote:
             | In countries where it is very hot during the day, there is
             | a cliche that people make the minimum effort necessary or
             | even less.
             | 
             | The cliche _is_ true during the hottest hours, but it fails
             | to admit that it is simply because most activity moves to
             | the twilight hours when the heat subsides.
        
               | toyg wrote:
               | When I was in Cairo for work, the amount of people
               | flowing out of their homes at dusk was unreal. Areas that
               | were literally dead an hour earlier, became bustling with
               | humanity.
               | 
               | When I left, I thought it was so stupid to build these
               | big offices near the desert and to pack them full of
               | people working 9 to 5 with massive amounts of aircon,
               | effectively imposing on them the Northern European way of
               | life - folks have been inhabiting those areas for
               | millennia, they know how to properly deal with the
               | environment they live in, let them work at night instead
               | and save all that energy.
        
             | adingus wrote:
             | Because that's where it happened
        
               | maest wrote:
               | That feels like quite a disingenuous answer.
        
           | seanmcdirmid wrote:
           | Ageism is real. After some point in time, it isn't so easy to
           | hop jobs anymore while your current company still values you
           | (even if they make mistakes). So you don't rock the boat
           | until you don't need to job anymore.
        
           | rockyj wrote:
           | It is not so easy. Changing jobs cannot be always the answer.
           | In Europe there are not many "remote friendly" companies and
           | also it's not that you will get a 20% pay rise every time you
           | switch. On top, it is extremely hard to find software
           | development jobs that pay around or above 100K. Most jobs are
           | around 60-80K.
           | 
           | A job change can also mean - inheriting someone else's
           | problematic code base, new office politics and colleagues who
           | may not get along with you. Hardly 0-5% of pay rise really
           | does not justify all this. All in all, one cannot switch jobs
           | easily when the options and benefits of switching are not so
           | good.
        
             | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
             | _> It is not so easy. Changing jobs cannot be always the
             | answer._
             | 
             | This. Everything you said is true about most of Europe, and
             | even more so outside of major tech hubs.
             | 
             | Companies call the shots and employees have to follow if
             | they want to stay employed, because there are no good
             | alternatives to go to, when all companies just act the same
             | and pay the same. And most companies here don't give a damn
             | about what their employees actually want and presume they
             | can bait you with a +10% salary increase but exact same
             | inflexibility, toxic environment and management practices.
             | Good luck with that.
             | 
             | Plus, interviewing and changing jobs in the tech world is a
             | monumental effort, taking both time and a mental toll after
             | several rounds of interviews with several companies, on top
             | of your regular job, time that could have went into
             | hobbies, dating, socializing, travelling, cooking, etc., so
             | there's a lost opportunities cost associated with the job
             | hunt.
             | 
             | I've been interviewing around for about 4 months so far, to
             | hopefully change to a better , less stressful tech job, and
             | I'm already completely exhausted from all the "complete our
             | 20-questions, 6 page HR online form about yourself, before
             | you can submit your application, because our time is more
             | valuable than yours", "solve this week long take home test,
             | and when you're done, we'll let you know that unfortunately
             | this position has already been filled", "there will be
             | several rounds of interviews after wich we'll just ghost
             | you, because f*ck you", "you didn't sound passionate enough
             | about our company's products in your cover letter", etc.
             | And, apparently there's a labor shortage. Yeah ... right.
             | 
             | God, I'm so exhausted from all this, some days I just can't
             | get out of bed anymore and sit there wishing I get hit by
             | lightning, or die in my sleep and end my misery.
        
               | xtracto wrote:
               | So, going with the Mexican dog analogy: the pain of
               | working from the office is still less than the other
               | scenario.
               | 
               | If I had two offers, and one was 20% less compensation
               | plus WFH and the other +20% but working from office ONCE
               | a day, I'd go for the WFH one.
               | 
               | Of course everybody's factors are different.
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | > Of course everybody's factors are different.
               | 
               | I'm glad you acknowledge it; with rising cost of living,
               | housing prices, and (in my case) medical expenses (the
               | part not covered by insurance, like physical therapy;
               | we're still trying to get a diagnosis so it will be
               | covered), I can't afford a 20% pay cut.
               | 
               | Even pre-pandemic, I rejected an offer from a company
               | literally across the street from where I live, because
               | their offer was >30% lower than what I was earning at the
               | time. I just flat out told them I wouldn't be able to
               | afford to live there - and I live in some of the cheapest
               | houses in this area.
        
             | conjectures wrote:
             | Yeah, there is a 'just change jobs' crowd who pop up in
             | every conversation about working conditions.
             | 
             | There are switching costs which mean the employee often
             | takes a hit on attempting to move. It's like buying a car,
             | car doesn't work as advertised so someone says, "well stop
             | whining and sell it, you're in market." Like yes, but also
             | nope.
        
             | krageon wrote:
             | > In Europe there are not many "remote friendly" companies
             | 
             | This is not true. There are many such opportunities if you
             | ask, especially now.
             | 
             | > it's not that you will get a 20% pay rise every time you
             | switch
             | 
             | If you work in IT (generous, but it _is_ HN...), this
             | should be your experience unless you switch more than once
             | every two years. Then everyone will mistrust you, but you
             | can still do it as a contractor.
             | 
             | > On top, it is extremely hard to find software development
             | jobs that pay around or above 100K. Most jobs are around
             | 60-80K.
             | 
             | Making around or above 100K in the EU is indeed very
             | unusual. Of course, such numbers mostly make sense in the
             | US because it is (socially, in terms of security) a desert
             | hellscape. The lower top salary in the EU comes with the
             | benefit of knowing that if you go blind you won't have to
             | die shitting yourself in some crackhouse.
        
               | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
               | _> This is not true. There are many such opportunities if
               | you ask, especially now._
               | 
               | Your statement definitely does not apply where I
               | currently live (Austria). No tech company I've
               | interviewed here is 100% remote as of now. They always
               | expect more or less around 30-50% in office presence for
               | new hires. They almost always have some staff at near
               | 100% remote but those are usually tenured employees that
               | management does not want to lose, so they get extra
               | privileges as a bonus.
               | 
               |  _> Of course, such numbers mostly make sense in the US
               | because it is (socially, in terms of security) a desert
               | hellscape._
               | 
               | That's also not true. American tech workers don't have
               | higher salaries because they get less social safety, but
               | they have higher salaries because a lot more investment
               | money, by orders of magnitude, gets poured into their
               | tech sector compared to Europe where most goes into real
               | estate instead, while the US also has a smaller supply of
               | devs due to their expensive higher education and tougher
               | immigration laws than Europe, meaning that the high
               | demand of devs in the US can't be met by their low supply
               | of workers, so their salaries naturally rise accordingly.
               | It's that simple, basic supply and demand, nothing to do
               | with the presence or lack of social safety from the
               | government, as US taxes aren't that much lower than in
               | Europe.
        
               | jen20 wrote:
               | > as US taxes aren't that much lower than in Europe.
               | 
               | US taxes being similar to Europe (which in my experience
               | is true) certainly does not equate to an equivalent
               | safety net.
        
               | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
               | It's exactly what I said.
        
               | mech422 wrote:
               | I just interviewed yesterday with an Austrian company
               | from here on HN, that was 100% remote... I guess it
               | depends on your region/vertical ?
        
               | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
               | Would you mind sharing a name please. If privacy is
               | concerned my email is in my profile. Thanks.
        
               | mech422 wrote:
               | Hmm - it was QuestDB, but maybe I didn't see it on HN
               | (can't find it now..) Anyway here is the job link:
               | 
               | https://questdb.io/careers/senior-cloud-engineer/
        
               | mech422 wrote:
               | Hmm - it appears I was mistaken: "regional offices in
               | London, Berlin and San Francisco." But the gentleman that
               | interviewed me was in Austria. They are remote first, and
               | have people all over from our conversation.
        
               | john-radio wrote:
               | > such numbers mostly make sense in the US because it is
               | (socially, in terms of security) a desert hellscape.
               | 
               | Tough but fair.
        
           | InCityDreams wrote:
           | Is this specific to Mexico? And, what breed was the dog?
        
             | panzagl wrote:
             | It was a mutt.
        
           | fcatalan wrote:
           | "Nailed" it. Perfect description of my situation. I wish I
           | weren't like this
        
             | agumonkey wrote:
             | That said the dog has only one nail to deal with. Adult
             | life means balancing rent / stability / safety / job. It's
             | sad that manager never understand what people want to be
             | happy for their company and so easily find ways to make us
             | go into cynical mode (slow down and cope with side
             | project).
        
             | endymi0n wrote:
             | To say it with the words of my first boss that stuck with
             | me:
             | 
             | "Love it, change it or leave it. No amount of complaining
             | will ever do anything else than paint you as a naysayer."
             | 
             | Was a hard pill to swallow, but my own experience proved me
             | again and again he was spot on.
        
               | m_fayer wrote:
               | I'm starting to doubt this advice. I'm a "change it" sort
               | of personality by nature - a reformer. When faced with
               | these 3 options, I've chosen "change it" many times. And
               | more often than not, I've found myself in a political
               | crossfire, with new unwelcome knowledge of the various
               | forces (typically some combination of self interest, ego,
               | and turf-guarding) that are responsible for the thing I'm
               | trying to change.
               | 
               | My current lesson is - most things that look like an easy
               | win would have been claimed a long time ago if not for
               | some unholy hidden mess. If I'm to vote for "change", I
               | should be prepared to deal with the unholy mess. It
               | doesn't matter that I don't see it, it's out there
               | somewhere.
               | 
               | Since I rarely want to take on an unholy mess, and I'm
               | not good at the kind of doublethink that would allow me
               | to love a thing I'm not inclined to love, usually that
               | just leaves one option.
        
               | citizenkeen wrote:
               | I think you're missing the point. If you don't love it,
               | then either change it or leave. It doesn't require
               | doublethink to love something. If you get somewhere, and
               | you don't love it, _then_ you're left with two choices.
               | If you're unwilling/unable to go through a change
               | process, or if you've selected a company that's bad at
               | change, then yes, now you only have one option.
        
               | phaedrus wrote:
               | I agree - from experience - but your assertion the easy
               | wins are deceiving also reminds me of the joke about the
               | economist who won't pick up a ten dollar bill in the
               | street because in an efficient market someone else would
               | have already got it.
        
               | revolvingocelot wrote:
               | Worse yet, IME, being a keen participant in HN's
               | technical side almost precludes one's ability to overcome
               | the _other players_ , those who fight in the name of some
               | combination of self interest, ego, and turf-guarding.
               | 
               | To vanquish these, in the name of The Right Way, one
               | ultimately must engage them in social combat, whether by
               | proxy or directly. And they're better at it than you are.
               | Nerds may be clever, and they may actually be _right_ ,
               | but the other players are usually more convincing. And I
               | don't mean merely argumentatively.
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | Exactly. I was once tasked with replacing a piece of
               | software. Enterprise software is such a mess, but I had 4
               | vendors before the downselect, and one was clearly the
               | optimal choice both for price and performance. Presented
               | it to upper mgmt and was asked to keep researching the
               | options. Did this dog and pony show for another month
               | until one of the sales engineers for the #1 vendor
               | mentioned that my executive had a previous relationship
               | (at another company) with the sales exec. A bad
               | relationship. So my exec was never going to sign off on a
               | sale that would benefit the sales exec, but he didn't
               | want to come out and tell me outright. He simply wanted
               | me to read between the lines and skew the evaluation in
               | favor of the other candidates.
               | 
               | The "Schmoozer" class is full of this type of crap. I'm
               | convinced that outside of a few unicorn companies,
               | meritocracy is an illusion.
        
               | snowwrestler wrote:
               | Creating change isn't easy. But it is an option.
        
               | KineticLensman wrote:
               | > If I'm to vote for "change", I should be prepared to
               | deal with the unholy mess. It doesn't matter that I don't
               | see it, it's out there somewhere.
               | 
               | Yes. This is the old point about the Serenity 'prayer':
               | _grant me the serenity To accept the things I cannot
               | change; Courage to change the things I can; And wisdom to
               | know the difference_. Or, as soldiers say more
               | succinctly,  "Pick your battles".
               | 
               | I've slowly internalised this over the years. It also
               | applies on a micro-level: when reviewing someone else's
               | work, if something that isn't critical actually gets the
               | job done, just go with it, unless there is an actual
               | problem with an obvious solution that you can suggest.
               | Don't complain just because something is done differently
               | to how you would do it.
               | 
               | The point about Unknown Unknowns is also totally
               | relevant. And cans-of-worms. You really must be very
               | confident you are right before opening them.
        
               | sodapopcan wrote:
               | I hear ya--influencing change is indeed exhausting. I
               | think the love and change aren't mutually exclusive,
               | though it depends on we're defining it. For me, if I
               | don't "love" a place, I won't care to change it. If I do
               | love it, I'll put in the work, and I'll be pretty loud
               | about it because if change doesn't happen relatively
               | quickly, then there's no point in my sticking around.
        
               | jerf wrote:
               | "I'm a "change it" sort of personality by nature - a
               | reformer."
               | 
               | One of the things I've learned is that authority is a
               | real thing. If you don't have the authority to change
               | something, don't try. You will fail, and it will do
               | nothing but cost you. I've jousted with this many times,
               | and it was a failure every time. (More technical type
               | stuff, but the same holds for this sort of thing too.)
               | 
               | Authority doesn't _have_ to be given from on high; there
               | is also some distributed authority that arises from the
               | unofficial _de facto_ org chart that every organization
               | has. I 've managed to push some things through with that
               | (and relevant amounts of consensus) when I was more
               | careful to ensure I had the authority.
               | 
               | But if you don't have at least some authority, you will
               | fail.
               | 
               | This comment is _is_ , not _ought_. You are welcome to
               | feel about it however you like. But when it comes time to
               | determine your own actions, you should work in the space
               | of _is_ and not _ought_.
               | 
               | That doesn't mean the only option is to give up. One may
               | attempt to acquire the authority. This can either be by
               | direct appeal, or in some cases, through the long-term
               | acquisition of authority called "respect". One may
               | attempt to convince an existing authority to help with
               | whatever your issue is. Though in this specific case if
               | the problem is specifically fighting existing authority
               | that may not help. There are other options.
               | 
               | But it is a total wishful thinking myth that if you're
               | just smart enough and good enough and just take charge,
               | by golly, you can get anything done! In fact, after a
               | while, when you see someone and on day 3 you see them
               | charging around just trying to _change_ things, you start
               | to see someone who isn 't going to be there long.
               | 
               | (Now, I actually like fresh perspectives on my team and
               | don't squash people if they have new ideas, but at the
               | same time, I ask them to take a couple of weeks and be
               | sure they _fully_ understand the changes they are
               | proposing before we consider their suggestions. The end
               | result is _better suggestions_ , and we have taken many
               | of them. This is why I'm specific about it being "day 3";
               | on day 3, you may know enough to have identified a
               | problem, but you don't know the solution yet.)
               | 
               | But if you can't acquire some authority somehow, your
               | options are reduced to deal with it or leave it. There is
               | no "just bull through and change things anyhow". The
               | entire political structure built into our very genes will
               | not permit it. You're fighting not just your current
               | organization but millions of years of evolution. You will
               | not win.
        
               | m_fayer wrote:
               | I think this is an excellent point. At the start of my
               | career I would blithely assume that my authority was that
               | which was formally given to me, in the official org
               | chart. I'm still learning how to gauge how much real
               | (formal plus unofficial) authority I have at a given
               | moment, what it entitles me to do, and how to build it if
               | I need to.
               | 
               | I guess this is what it looks like when a nerd learns how
               | to do politics.
        
               | mjevans wrote:
               | In this case, would the 'change it' option be to just
               | work from home and see what happens?
        
               | bob2222 wrote:
               | find a fully remote job if you can
        
               | dzhiurgis wrote:
               | Whats the market like right now? I have a feeling
               | extremely tight as everyone wants a remote job now?
        
               | tomrod wrote:
               | Reporting in, both as employer and targeted as employee
               | through recruiting channels. Recruiters are in full swing
               | and it is hard to find people with data/analytics
               | skillsets. Developers seem similar. Knowing coding seems
               | like foot in the door, modern applications have all kinds
               | of disparate dependencies like k8s, docker,
               | virtualization, Kafka, etc.
        
               | pfarrell wrote:
               | At least give it a try. I suspect based on join dates
               | that I'm similar or older than the OP. The more senior
               | you get, the more time it can take on a search, but with
               | remote work, you should definitely be trying.
        
               | mattcwilson wrote:
               | I read "change it" as encompassing any modification to
               | the status quo short of quitting it altogether. So, yes.
               | But so also would be writing a petition to reinstitute
               | work from home as a "performance bonus" and getting it
               | signed by as many other company bright-lights as
               | possible. Lots of options.
        
               | xtiansimon wrote:
               | Exactly, but only if you're ready to get fired.
        
               | orwin wrote:
               | I'm doing this, new company policies are half a week in
               | office. I get there 2 days a month since December (4 days
               | this month but I needed to met coworkers). I do get email
               | from the management occasionally but I either ignore them
               | or use a poor excuse 'i didn't feel well enough to take
               | the train this week '. They know I'm able to find a new
               | job so they don't have any leverage.
        
               | benhurmarcel wrote:
               | You can also just bear it, live with it.
               | 
               | Actually that's often the best choice, you need to pick
               | your battles.
        
           | SilasX wrote:
           | Or, it's that the dog does tell all his doggie friends about
           | his predicament, but any time they're about to give him
           | actionable advice for solving the core problem, he cuts them
           | off, more interested in emotional catharsis.
           | 
           | "It's not about the nail."
           | https://youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
        
         | rosmax_1337 wrote:
         | >I have emails from the CEO personally thanking me for my
         | commitment in going way over what was expected when basically
         | saving the institution during lockdown
         | 
         | It's a business not a skate park, tell your CEO that you
         | appreciate the positive feedback but that if he really means
         | what he is saying: he should put his money where his mouth is
         | and give you a sizable raise or a considerable bonus.
        
           | ciphol wrote:
           | He isn't complaining about lack of money, he's complaining
           | about lack of WFH. He should ask for that.
        
             | ISL wrote:
             | Agreed -- this is the kind of feedback that is actionable
             | and, given OP's description of multiple employees feeling
             | uncomfortable with the new hybrid arrangement, the kind of
             | feedback that could improve the company's future.
        
           | fcatalan wrote:
           | Oh I also have stories about this... maybe for another
           | thread. I should really just leave, but I know I won't
        
             | akavel wrote:
             | You can just start looking at offers and applying to them
             | "purely as a hobby". What do you have to lose? What do you
             | fear could happen if you got a new job? And why do you fear
             | it? (After answering, try repeating the last question a few
             | times to go deeper.) The answer to those questions could
             | help you understand why the current job maybe _is_
             | important to you, or alternatively that your fear is _not_
             | really something you want to be afraid of, and thus can go
             | and start the adventure of applying!
        
           | tonyedgecombe wrote:
           | Money doesn't solve every problem.
        
             | gonzo41 wrote:
             | Yes it mostly always does. To think that it's not is to be
             | in a position where you have to much of it.
        
             | nkrisc wrote:
             | Money will solve the problems at the top of most people's
             | lists. By the time money stops solving problems you're
             | pretty well off.
        
               | afiori wrote:
               | In this context money will not solve hating your job,
               | unless they pay you enough to retire.
        
             | iso1210 wrote:
             | Money makes them think about value. When I took my current
             | job in 2016 I wanted more than they could pay, they wanted
             | me to be based in an office (Oh it would only be officially
             | we dont mind you working from home)
             | 
             | We compromised, my contract says I work from home and they
             | pay me for my time and travel if I go somewhere, and they
             | can afford me.
             | 
             | Can they justify paying you an extra $50k a year (or $10k,
             | or $100k) just to have you in an office?
        
         | xenocratus wrote:
         | > not about people like you, but some others have taken a 2
         | year vacation so management is fed up
         | 
         | How is it not easier to fire those individuals? And not now,
         | when you can just bring them to the office and have them be
         | productive from day one (unlike new hires who would replace
         | them), but one year ago.
        
           | fcatalan wrote:
           | Welcome to government jobs, where it's way easier to squeeze
           | those who do the work than fire those that won't.
        
             | gonzo41 wrote:
             | It's actually pretty easy to fire people in government
             | jobs. The problem is its uncomfortable to have hard
             | conversations. Most government jobs are so far away form
             | service delivery that they are very abstract. This makes
             | the impact of lazy people seem insignificant. However, if
             | you look at government with more of a service delivery
             | focus, think FEMA. You wouldn't see many people who just
             | laze about because the work is right there in front of them
             | and they can link their work with outcomes in the real
             | world. When you write policy or work in some meat grinder
             | paperwork mill or even do just regular ICT sys admins
             | corporate services stuff everything starts to get blurry.
             | 
             | Anyway, the rules and processes exists. Essentially PIP
             | someone, explain and document expectations, and follow up.
             | And you know what, most of the time, people can improve.
        
               | is_true wrote:
               | Not all government are the same. Where I live is almost
               | imposible to get fired from a government job.
        
               | prepend wrote:
               | > It's actually pretty easy to fire people in government
               | jobs
               | 
               | I suppose it depends on the government, but my experience
               | is that it's extremely difficult to fire people. I spoke
               | with HR at a US federal organization that said their
               | termination rate is .1% of employees and half of those
               | are during the 1-year probation period.
               | 
               | That's extremely low and I think an indicator of how hard
               | it is to fire people in government.
               | 
               | I do have people say funny things like "It's easy to fire
               | people, you just fill out this paperwork and spend 20% of
               | your time tracking a performance plan for two years."
               | Even though theyve never successfully fired anyone. While
               | pointing to their group's lack of firing as an example of
               | their great management.
               | 
               | I think this is an example where theoretically it is
               | possible, but practically it is very difficult. As
               | evidenced by very few being fired.
        
               | acdha wrote:
               | What do you think the termination rate should be, and
               | why?
               | 
               | One big confound to remember is that it's generally hard
               | to get US government jobs because a lot of work has been
               | outsourced to contractors, so the federal workforce
               | trends older and more experienced. That pool of people is
               | less likely to be fired for cause in general.
               | 
               | When thinking about why you believe more people should be
               | fired, consider the politics -- both the general
               | managerial class tendency to shift accountability to
               | workers and the specific culture war points favored by
               | people who oppose government regulation - and ask whether
               | what you're basing that on is fully in the worker's
               | responsibility. I've seen plenty of .gov inefficiency but
               | an awful lot of that has been required by policy (not
               | just agency, often by Congress) and underfunding. The
               | latter often isn't just a simple number being too low but
               | also things like having money budgeted to contract out
               | work but not to hire people to adequately supervise them.
               | Very, very few situations have been as simple as "Fred
               | chose not to do his job" without significant other
               | factors contributing to the problem.
               | 
               | I'd also note that while I have seen a couple of cases
               | like that, that's less than I saw in .com or .edu and for
               | exactly the same reason: they were high enough up the org
               | chart and a buddy even higher up sheltered them. HR could
               | have fired them if they weren't being told not to.
        
               | prepend wrote:
               | I don't know what the rate is, but for comparison, a
               | similarly sized organization, but private sector had a 1%
               | firing rate or 10x.
               | 
               | But my point is more about contrasting people who say
               | firing is east without and experience or data to back it
               | up. It's like saying "Batting .500 is easy" when their
               | own at bat it .200 or not even measured.
        
               | acdha wrote:
               | > I don't know what the rate is, but for comparison, a
               | similarly sized organization, but private sector had a 1%
               | firing rate or 10x.
               | 
               | What was the relative breakdown of their workforce by
               | seniority? What did that look like on the .gov side if
               | you include the contractors who've been the majority of
               | the workforce growth since the 90s? I've seen a lot more
               | churn in the latter and suspect that if you combined the
               | two that gap would close considerably.
               | 
               | > But my point is more about contrasting people who say
               | firing is east without and experience or data to back it
               | up.
               | 
               | On the subject of data, you have one anonymous anecdote
               | of unknown size or completeness.
        
               | prepend wrote:
               | I don't have good data, but it's all I have. The .1% is a
               | good measure and it's not an anecdote, but it's only
               | relevant to a single organization and not generalizable
               | to all government organizations.
               | 
               | I wish I had better. But I have tons of anecdotes of
               | people claiming firing is easy without any direct
               | experience or data. So there's that too.
               | 
               | Contractors are completely different as they aren't fired
               | at all and are easy to get rid of, sort of. But comparing
               | contractors and employees in federal government is
               | comparing apples and oranges.
               | 
               | But I stand by that it is very difficult to fire
               | government employees.
        
             | acdha wrote:
             | It's not hard to fire people for non-performance. You have
             | to document it and give them time to improve (or find
             | something clear it - thinking of a guy whose timesheet
             | included leaving early for happy hour, who was out pronto)
             | but it's mostly a question of whether the managers feel
             | like they can back up their claims.
        
         | silicon2401 wrote:
         | > But the thing is that the pay is good, that I'm of an age
         | prone to experiencing ageism in the job market
         | 
         | Your decision to not even try will cost you more jobs than
         | ageism
         | 
         | All your reasons is why I have never had any interest in
         | working in an office, ever. Now that my current company has
         | been remote since the start of the pandemic and I've gotten an
         | exception to be permanently remote, I will never step foot in
         | an office again if there's anything I can do about it. I
         | couldn't care less about supposed career growth impacts, free
         | snacks or food, collaboration, all the other propaganda they
         | put out. You are right to be insulted by not having an option
         | to work remotely and you should just start looking for better
         | jobs
        
         | quotemstr wrote:
         | > I'd leave
         | 
         | I've found that once you start having thoughts like this,
         | you've left already, if only in spirit, and you remain
         | physically only as a form of self-delusion or rationalization
         | of fear. You can find good pay and slack elsewhere. Your
         | current employer sounds like a nightmare.
        
         | minimaul wrote:
         | > I have emails from the CEO personally thanking me for my
         | commitment in going way over what was expected when basically
         | saving the institution during lockdown, so now I also feel kind
         | of personally insulted and victim of ham-handed collective
         | punishment.
         | 
         | Have you used these to go to your CEO directly re your WFH
         | request? It's where I'd start.
        
           | greedo wrote:
           | Depending on how flat your organization is, this would be a
           | job killer in many companies. Your CEO may grant you WFH, but
           | all of the execs you report to will be aware of you going
           | over their heads. Depending on how much political capital you
           | have, this can be very risky.
        
             | aaaaaaaaata wrote:
             | Be a rung in an unfulfilled ladder, that'll be fine?
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | Nope, work with your direct manager and if that's
               | ineffective, change jobs. The amount of times you'd be
               | able to access the CEO for help is extremely low. If
               | you've developed a "Rabbi" at your company, you might be
               | able to circumvent a bad manager eventually, but until
               | you escape his influence and control you'll have to deal
               | with him. Get a new job is usually the best way to deal
               | with poor immediate managers.
        
         | mekal wrote:
         | "they can't guarantee that our screen setup at home is safe and
         | we haven't completed a "Data Display Device Setup and Handling"
         | course" - I work for a small company so pardon my ignorance
         | here but...ergonomically safe?? Please god tell me it's
         | something more than that. Like some sort of security measure.
         | What's so hard about flipping open a laptop and using a VPN?
        
         | g051051 wrote:
         | That was me. I worked in a place for 22 years that completely
         | devalued WFH, and cancelled it entirely (pre-pandemic) with the
         | Big Boss stating "We all know a 15 minute face-to-face
         | conversation is better than a multi-day email chain". Then our
         | organization collapsed under the weight of being "Agile" and
         | laid off the entire group.
         | 
         | I'm glad they did...I got a substantial severance package,
         | "retiree" benefits, and a much better fully remote WFH gig that
         | pays better.
         | 
         | I would have stayed at the first place if it was possible to do
         | so, but I'm much happier since they forced my hand. I'm certain
         | I won't have to go back to an office before I retire.
        
       | dt3ft wrote:
       | My next job will very likely be full remote.
        
       | itqwertz wrote:
       | Never _clap_ going _clap_ back _clap_
        
       | gonzo41 wrote:
       | I go into the office, and everyone just works, no one talks. Even
       | the people that really wanted to be back in the office don't
       | chat. So I spend a day in silence, rather than a day at home
       | taking coffee breaks in the yard with my dog.
       | 
       | I'm going with a 7/3 split, favoring WFH. If it rains that ratio
       | can change.
        
       | throwaway85858 wrote:
       | We do design days in office once a quarter, fits within the
       | project planning takt and feels great to catch up in person
       | outside of the occasional after work drinks, some however do
       | still choose to come in on a regular basis on their own accord.
       | We greatly reduced our office space since the pandemic and i
       | personally can't see us ever going back to the former status-quo.
        
       | incomingpain wrote:
       | A ton of businesses are dealing with a bad hand right now. They
       | know they cant successfully force everyone back to the office. If
       | news goes out about X entity is going back to the office.
       | Recruiters go to linkedin and reach out to all of those people
       | and offer them work from home and a raise.
       | 
       | Flipside, if you dont go back to the office. What are going doing
       | holding so much $ and costs for nothing? Everyone who realizes
       | this also cant rush out to sell. There's already loads of empty
       | buildings and who is buying? Nobody, you'll get wrecked.
       | 
       | Then add on top, even if you decide to force everyone back into
       | the office and accept the losses. How long until climate change
       | or expensive gasoline forces people to just stay home??
        
         | lukebuehler wrote:
         | > How long until climate change or expensive gasoline forces
         | people to just stay home??
         | 
         | Yes, this is just the beginning of the end. I would even say
         | this is the beginning of the end for cities as we know them. I
         | think 80-90% of all white collar jobs will leave cities and
         | suburbia. This will really change the dynamics.
        
           | incomingpain wrote:
           | >Yes, this is just the beginning of the end. I would even say
           | this is the beginning of the end for cities as we know them.
           | I think 80-90% of all white collar jobs will leave cities and
           | suburbia. This will really change the dynamics.
           | 
           | This is actually a super interesting subject I haven't
           | considered. What is the tenability of cities without fossil
           | fuels? I think we do know, it's really the cities that
           | collapse.
           | 
           | Farmers might emit lots of CO2 and carbon taxes directly
           | attack them, but ultimately they cant go anywhere. The cities
           | need to eat. So those carbon taxes don't harm them at all.
           | 
           | How does public transit work? Generally speaking they are all
           | diesel. Do we have a plan to spend a trillion $ converting
           | this all to electric?
           | 
           | What's even the point of giant office buildings anymore?
           | Downtown cores are dying if not dead as it is. When people
           | stay home, the sharwarma spot downtown wont be able to afford
           | to stay.
           | 
           | It's obvious what will eventually happen. These office
           | buildings convert to high density residential. However, what
           | happens after that?
           | 
           | If I am 100% remote, why even be in the expensive high tax
           | city? I could go buy 10 acres and pay $100/year in nonsense
           | taxes. Do my own utilities. never again worry about nuclear
           | war because nobody will be nuking rural areas.
           | 
           | I really dont think we have quite thought out the
           | consequences of our actions.
        
             | smarmgoblin wrote:
             | Unfortunately most missle silos in the US are located in
             | the rural midwest.
        
             | sylens wrote:
             | Cities existed before oil. A city without cars can actually
             | be a massive improvement
        
               | incomingpain wrote:
               | >Cities existed before oil. A city without cars can
               | actually be a massive improvement
               | 
               | True but cities required domestication of the horse.
               | There were literally horse shit all over the roads and
               | the occasional dead horse that was abandoned.
               | 
               | The answer isn't subways or monorails neither.
               | 
               | The answer may be robotaxis. I am very optimistic that
               | this could solve a large degree of the issues.
        
               | afiori wrote:
               | If you were to replace all inbound/outbound subway
               | connection of Manhattan with bridges and car traffic you
               | would need 49 bridges the size of Manhattan bridge as a
               | replacement.
               | 
               | Cars are very useful to go wherever you want, but are
               | literally the worst for volume.
               | 
               | Similarly to how trucks are necessary to move stuff
               | around but they cannot replace train freight/air
               | planes/container ships.
        
               | incomingpain wrote:
               | >If you were to replace all inbound/outbound subway
               | connection of Manhattan with bridges and car traffic you
               | would need 49 bridges the size of Manhattan bridge as a
               | replacement.
               | 
               | dont take me as attacking nyc and/or their subway. I'm
               | certain at some grand time in the future all cities have
               | a subway with rapid transport.
        
               | afiori wrote:
               | I was replying to
               | 
               | > The answer may be robotaxis. I am very optimistic that
               | this could solve a large degree of the issues.
               | 
               | What I was trying to say is that cars (autonomous or not)
               | are to mass transportation what copper wire is to the
               | internet: better to keep the bulk of it out of it.
               | 
               | Also car infrastructure is extremely expensive, both in
               | and of itself and as a collateral, parking lot
               | requirements have a huge maintenance and spatial cost.
        
             | helen___keller wrote:
             | I'm not sure I follow. Americans tend to have high
             | emissions regardless of location. This makes sense if you
             | consider that society almost everywhere except ultra dense
             | cities is built around personal automobiles; and dense
             | cities obviously have lots of other needs for energy as
             | you've noted
             | 
             | I also wouldn't say cities are particularly less capable of
             | electrification than anywhere else. Bus systems can be
             | electric. Subway systems are already electric. There are
             | some diesel train systems that would be expensive to
             | electrify (eg Boston regional commuter rail), but even this
             | isn't impossible (frankly it should have been done years
             | ago, and a study in the 2010s had recommended it because it
             | gives other benefits like improving reliability and
             | reducing maintenance)
             | 
             | As you've noted, there's a big question mark on how cities
             | will adapt central business districts around a non-office
             | world. It's also worth noting cities have handled such a
             | transition before: during the industrial revolution, cities
             | were full of factories, and over time these shuttered and
             | were replaced or turned into housing.
             | 
             | Not everyone wants 10 acres or cares about the threat of
             | nuclear war. Cities will be for those people.
        
             | Ensorceled wrote:
             | > What is the tenability of cities without fossil fuels? I
             | think we do know, it's really the cities that collapse.
             | 
             | I walk everywhere. It's suburbs that collapse without
             | fossil fuels.
             | 
             | > How does public transit work? Generally speaking they are
             | all diesel. Do we have a plan to spend a trillion $
             | converting this all to electric?
             | 
             | Our subways have always been electric. Our street cars are
             | electric, and have been for a century, before that they
             | were horse driven. All new buses are electric.
             | 
             | > What's even the point of giant office buildings anymore?
             | Downtown cores are dying if not dead as it is.
             | 
             | This is probably true.
             | 
             | > I really dont think we have quite thought out the
             | consequences of our actions.
             | 
             | The consequences of NOT following these actions will
             | horrific.
        
               | incomingpain wrote:
               | >I walk everywhere. It's suburbs that collapse without
               | fossil fuels.
               | 
               | I think shooting from the hip the suburbs hurt without
               | fossil fuels for a short time. However, who are the
               | people buying teslas it's rich folks in the suburbs. Who
               | in 10 years will be driving the gasoline toyota econobox.
               | It's the poor in the cities.
               | 
               | >Our subways have always been electric.
               | 
               | That doesnt cover everything. Not all cities have a
               | subway. Not all subways are electric, the danger of
               | frying people made a number of subways diesel. My
               | understanding is that much of NYC subway is still diesel
               | for various reasons.
               | 
               | > Our street cars are electric, and have been for a
               | century, before that they were horse driven. All new
               | buses are electric.
               | 
               | I'm not sure I follow. This is certainly not true in the
               | general sense. Perhaps true where you are? Where are you?
               | 
               | >The consequences of NOT following these actions will
               | horrific.
               | 
               | That's the big debate there. Climate change isn't even
               | important to the discussion.
               | 
               | If we fast forward ~75 years. We know without question
               | that we are going to run out of fossil fuels. If we do
               | nothing to switch now, it's a certain collapse of
               | society.
               | 
               | Clearly we must do something. The sooner we begin, the
               | less painful it is in the long run.
               | 
               | However, we cannot ignore the consequences. We must
               | address these issues.
        
               | Ensorceled wrote:
               | > That doesnt cover everything. Not all cities have a
               | subway. Not all subways are electric, the danger of
               | frying people made a number of subways diesel. My
               | understanding is that much of NYC subway is still diesel
               | for various reasons.
               | 
               | I'm disputing YOUR generalization, that [all] cities are
               | doomed, not creating a new generalization that they are
               | all fine.
        
               | afiori wrote:
               | > much of NYC subway is still diesel for various reasons
               | 
               | NYC subway still uses cloth bathed in oil to insulate
               | some electrical circuits.
        
           | helen___keller wrote:
           | > I would even say this is the beginning of the end for
           | cities as we know them.
           | 
           | Alternate POV: this could _save_ cities as we know them. All
           | top American cities have been struggling for about 20 years
           | now to handle urban growth, as cost of living goes through
           | the roof and small businesses disappear when their renewed
           | lease comes at twice the rent. As always, the survivors are
           | those who can afford the change: homeowners and the wealthy
           | on the residential side (keep in mind cities like Boston are
           | majority renter), and large corporate renters on the business
           | side (think Starbucks instead of Local Coffee Co)
           | 
           | Pre-war growth patterns (ie, densification and transit) have
           | been generally outlawed, and big companies seem to have
           | endless pockets to raise salaries to attract more highly paid
           | workers to compete on rent; so there's been no counterbalance
           | on this trend. Until remote work.
           | 
           | Right now cities are still expensive, but the next few years
           | as we transition out of the pandemic will determine whether
           | remote work is here to stay; if so, you will likely see
           | another suburban migration of 'former reluctant office
           | workers' (we already had one wave at the start of the
           | pandemic), and city real estate might finally cool off for
           | the first time in decades
        
             | afiori wrote:
             | To add a reference:
             | 
             | Suburbia is Subsidized: Here's the Math ->
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Nw6qyyrTeI
             | 
             | Essentially urban sprawl/suburbia/single family homes cost
             | more for the city (road upkeep, water/gas pipes, etc.) than
             | what they contribute in taxes, so many cities are in a
             | positive feedback loop of building more houses to get quick
             | money to do maintenance on the previous rounds of growth.
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | Simple solution, raise taxes.
               | 
               | Same with highway/Interstate maintenance. Raise the
               | Federal gas tax (which hasn't tracked inflation for
               | ages).
        
             | lukebuehler wrote:
             | I should have put more emphasis on "as we know them." I
             | think think cities will exist for sure, and they might be
             | better. So I agree with you there, and I actually hope the
             | same.
             | 
             | But modern cities have had two phases: first industrial
             | growth, and more recently white collar/information worker
             | city cores. Industry will still exist, but has already
             | moved further out from city centers and cores. Currently,
             | the life blood of large cities is closely tied up with the
             | mega corps having their ego towers there and thus
             | attracting innumerable highly paid workers which then spend
             | their money in those city cores. With that going away
             | and/or substantially changing, cities will change
             | drastically too.
        
           | larrymyers wrote:
           | I expect that opposite will happen. Cities that are built for
           | people (and not cars) will thrive. Nobody wants to drive
           | everywhere. Cities that support multi-modal transportation
           | and have mixed residential / commercial centers will thrive.
           | 
           | Chicago does this well. From my front door I have the follow
           | options:                 * The El (train, local stops)
           | * Metra (train, commuter that gets out to the burbs)       *
           | Bus       * Taxi       * Divvy (e-bike rentals)       *
           | Personal bike       * Walking
           | 
           | ... and finally, yes, I can drive. But driving sucks. It's
           | slow, expensive, and you still have to find parking.
        
             | incomingpain wrote:
             | Kind of offtopic, but how about safety consideration?
             | Chicago is represented as quite dangerous in the media.
             | 
             | As a resident, is the danger true?
        
               | granshaw wrote:
               | 4+ year Chicago resident here. Chicago neighborhoods vary
               | night and day to each other. Crime is very well contained
               | to the dangerous ones, and the neighborhoods where are
               | tech worker can afford and would want to stay in are very
               | safe.
        
               | larrymyers wrote:
               | No, Chicago is not dangerous on a per-capita basis. The
               | news is incentivized to get attention, and "OMG you'll
               | get robbed and shot" is a very effective and crude way to
               | get those clicks.
               | 
               | Chicago is no different than any other large city in that
               | being aware of your surroundings and not doing dumb
               | things is expected.
        
               | seanmcdirmid wrote:
               | Chicago is no St. Louis or New Orleans, but 1000 out of
               | 100k is 1%.
               | 
               | One of the reasons I never consider living in the midwest
               | again (Toledo) is because my bike was stolen so many
               | times as a kid. Crime doesn't make for nice living.
        
           | jabroni_salad wrote:
           | >will leave cities
           | 
           | wouldn't that be the opposite? Where I live right now, the
           | nearest grocery store is in the next town over and there is
           | zero public infrastructure to get there. There is no uber or
           | taxi or bus. You just don't live here without a car, period.
        
           | bogle wrote:
           | That's unlikely. For a start, many people like living in the
           | city. It's fun and their friends and family are all there.
           | Then there's everyone with children at school so they're not
           | going to mess with the kids' education and friendship group.
           | Another big problem is rural broadband. I know the
           | countryside is nice, I may well retire there, but it's not
           | where I am now and it's only a very small number of people
           | who like the isolation.
        
             | incomingpain wrote:
             | >That's unlikely. For a start, many people like living in
             | the city. It's fun and their friends and family are all
             | there. Then there's everyone with children at school so
             | they're not going to mess with the kids' education and
             | friendship group
             | 
             | Down on my imaginary future ranch, I have a 10kw solar
             | array charging my cybertruck and it drives me to the
             | concerts, friends/family, and all that for free.
             | 
             | Children playing at the park? Is that even a thing anymore?
             | Xbox/PS# seems to be replacing that entirely. We could
             | discuss if this is a good thing or not but that same
             | cybertruck can self-drive the kids to wherever they are
             | meeting up.
             | 
             | >Another big problem is rural broadband. I know the
             | countryside is nice, I may well retire there, but it's not
             | where I am now and it's only a very small number of people
             | who like the isolation.
             | 
             | That's what just broke. Why suddenly this became a thing.
             | Starlink or 5g with long range 5ghz wireless backhaul.
             | Rural suddenly has good relatively reliable fast internet
             | access.
        
               | lampshades wrote:
               | > Children playing at the park? Is that even a thing
               | anymore?
               | 
               | Have you been to a park in a child-raising area lately?
               | They are absolutely packed all the time with kids. Sure,
               | you don't see them downtown, but you head out to the
               | suburbs and you absolutely do.
        
               | incomingpain wrote:
               | >Have you been to a park in a child-raising area lately?
               | They are absolutely packed all the time with kids. Sure,
               | you don't see them downtown, but you head out to the
               | suburbs and you absolutely do.
               | 
               | Oh for sure. If the kid is not quite old enough for the
               | xbox/ps# age. They are totally out at the park. You never
               | see kids out above whatever that age is.
               | 
               | I did see some older kids out tobaganning this winter.
               | maybe in the age 8 range, which is unusually old compared
               | to the playground soccer field age kids.
               | 
               | My comment stands for sure.
        
         | fluoridation wrote:
         | >How long until climate change or expensive gasoline forces
         | people to just stay home?
         | 
         | You're looking at it wrong. Plenty of jobs simply can't be done
         | remotely. If it gets to the point that people can't afford to
         | move around much, they'll either permanently move closer to
         | their workplace or find a job closer to their home.
         | 
         | Also, arguably the current discussion around WFH to me is
         | evidence that even most office jobs can't be performed remotely
         | (productively). Even if one person can WFH by themselves, they
         | still need to interact with coworkers who may not be able to do
         | it.
        
           | incomingpain wrote:
           | >You're looking at it wrong. Plenty of jobs simply can't be
           | done remotely.
           | 
           | This data is now in. It's roughly 2/3s of jobs cant be done
           | remotely.
           | 
           | > If it gets to the point that people can't afford to move
           | around much, they'll either permanently move closer to their
           | workplace or find a job closer to their home.
           | 
           | That transition happened during the financial crisis in 2009.
           | 
           | >Also, arguably the current discussion around WFH to me is
           | evidence that even most office jobs can't be performed
           | remotely (productively). Even if one person can WFH by
           | themselves, they still need to interact with coworkers who
           | may not be able to do it.
           | 
           | That's a debate I'm sure many management are about to have
           | and flipside going to make lots of recruiters pretty busy.
           | 
           | Frankly for me it's 1 thing that really puts me off going
           | back to the office. When I need to hit the shitter. I walk 2
           | seconds from my office to my toilet. I have nice soft toilet
           | paper.
           | 
           | At work, I have to go through like 2 security zones and then
           | hope that nobody is using the stalls already. If they are,
           | and that's common. I have to walk to the other side of the
           | building and then hope those shitters arent in use.
           | 
           | Then there's a good chance the one that's empty is going to
           | be atrocious. Then I have to wipe with 1 ply sandpaper. It's
           | just better to be at home.
        
             | greedo wrote:
             | OP is talking about office jobs, your 2/3 stat is for all
             | jobs.
             | 
             | I think he's wrong though. Most office jobs should be
             | capable of being remote, unless the mgmt is unwilling to
             | make changes to the modern world.
        
               | fluoridation wrote:
               | Note that what I'm saying is not that most office jobs
               | can't be done remotely _at all_. What I 'm saying is that
               | most can't be done remotely without harming productivity
               | in some way. For example, if someone can do their job
               | entirely by themselves and only needs to periodic check
               | ins to report progress, yes, that person can remotely
               | just fine. If someone works in a closely-knit team where
               | interaction needs to be frequent and someone in that team
               | can't adapt to remote work productivity is going to
               | suffer by having everyone in physically different
               | locations.
               | 
               | I don't think it's as simple as "management doesn't want
               | WFH because of a temper tantrum".
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | I think it's incumbent on those professing a job can't be
               | done remotely to demonstrate it. My mgmt hasn't done it
               | beyond bland platitudes about culture and teamwork,
               | despite record setting sales and profits the last 2
               | years.
               | 
               | It's about control for most mgmt.
        
         | wallacoloo wrote:
         | > What are going doing holding so much $ and costs for nothing?
         | Everyone who realizes this also cant rush out to sell. There's
         | already loads of empty buildings and who is buying? Nobody,
         | you'll get wrecked.
         | 
         | 1) how many companies actually own their buildings? i think
         | generally it's only the already successful companies which own
         | instead of lease -- i.e. the ones who can recover from such a
         | hit.
         | 
         | 2) IF the office had negative utility, then the company is
         | harming themselves by using it. whether they're willing to sell
         | it or not, that fact remains.
        
       | onion2k wrote:
       | _Employees need to be on site, we're told, because collaborating
       | with one another has been harder to do when everyone is working
       | from separate locations._
       | 
       | I think this is true, but only if the main part of your job is
       | collaborating eg _talking to other people to reach a consensus._
       | That is easier face to face. The problem is that only higher up
       | management roles are actually like that. Lower down the tree
       | people are expected to _not_ spend lots of time talking to each
       | other, and instead actually produce things (code, documents,
       | reports, emails, etc).
       | 
       | When higher ups push for a return to offices to make
       | collaborating easier what they actually mean is to make _their
       | jobs_ easier, at the expense of everyone else. When managers say
       | collaboration is better when everyone is in the office, they don
       | 't mean those "water cooler moments" we apparently have. They
       | mean those times they can talk to you as they stand by your desk
       | so you can't ignore them.
        
         | pmlnr wrote:
         | > That is easier face to face
         | 
         | Written down communication makes things impossible to wiggle
         | out of later on, meaning the writing needs to happen anyway,
         | why waste time on the face to face?
        
           | fcatalan wrote:
           | That's another reason for them. Can't make verbal promises to
           | you and then forget about them via email.
        
           | iso1210 wrote:
           | In my experience if you are going into a large (more than say
           | 5 people) meeting to get a consensus for a decision you've
           | made, you start with one-to-one conversations with every
           | meeting participant, get them on side, then the large meeting
           | is just a rubber stamp.
        
           | tablespoon wrote:
           | > Written down communication makes things impossible to
           | wiggle out of later on, meaning the writing needs to happen
           | anyway, why waste time on the face to face?
           | 
           | Written communication often takes orders of magnitude more
           | effort, since it lacks the immediate feedback loop.
        
           | sneak wrote:
           | Most people are slow at typing and don't have great reading
           | comprehension.
           | 
           | This means it is less "work" for them to speak and listen
           | than it is to type and read.
        
             | greedo wrote:
             | And many people lack listening skills and don't retain all
             | the details of a watercolor conversation.
        
           | ubercow13 wrote:
           | In many cases, in my experience, it's because it's way more
           | efficient face to face. You can always follow up with written
           | confirmation.
        
         | Tade0 wrote:
         | > When higher ups push for a return to offices to make
         | collaborating easier what they actually mean is to make their
         | jobs easier, at the expense of everyone else.
         | 
         | The other day my manager said that he misses coming to the
         | office because back then if he wanted something he could just
         | come over and ask.
         | 
         | Meanwhile I've specifically chosen to work remotely so as to
         | not be bothered by anyone when I need to focus.
        
           | subpixel wrote:
           | In my pre-COVID job I had a manager who would come over and
           | tap me on the shoulder, sometimes not to engage me in
           | conversation but just as a sort of primate greeting.
           | 
           | That was about as low on the morale barometer I have ever
           | been, and I hope I never have to anywhere near an environment
           | like that again.
        
         | underdeserver wrote:
         | I strongly disagree. I find that talking to other people is
         | required at every single level.
         | 
         | Junior engineers need mentoring, need to talk to other people
         | to understand what's asked of them.
         | 
         | Mid-level engineers/ICs need to talk to other people to
         | understand the architecture design, collaborate with other mid-
         | level engineers, and push back or report back issues that arise
         | during the work.
         | 
         | Seniors and up need it for design reviews and achieving
         | consensus.
         | 
         | Critically, to advance in your career, you need to start
         | participating in conversations with the next stages. All of
         | this is easier face to face.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | IMO zoom is plenty good for that. What are you missing that
           | you aren't getting from zooming with someone face to face at
           | this point? I just don't get it. It's way easier to just
           | schedule a zoom meeting and fire off an email with a link and
           | share a screen, than it is for me to haul myself all the way
           | to where someone else is sitting and take turns poking
           | fingers at eachothers laptop screens in an awkward huddle,
           | hoping we don't disturb others.
        
           | afiori wrote:
           | if you use something better than Teams then group calls and
           | screen sharing are quite simple and effective.
        
           | adamsmith143 wrote:
           | >All of this is easier face to face.
           | 
           | Yet somehow the world of open source keeps putting out high
           | quality software with teams distributed across the planet in
           | different time zones with different native tongues.
        
           | acoard wrote:
           | I fully agree that conversations are necessary to advancing a
           | career, technical or otherwise. But I believe these technical
           | conversations translate online pretty well, and have pre-
           | pandemic too (eg successful FOSS that's all coordinated
           | remotely, like Linux). That's not the case for the more
           | management-centric decisions. If you're discussing other
           | people (both in an HR sense and in a process design sense)
           | body language and other non-verbal cues are much more
           | important.
           | 
           | I've found these technical discussions, pair-programming,
           | mentoring, architectural consensus building, are all much
           | easier to do "remotely" than typical management-style
           | discussions. Our project's technical team size fits into the
           | "two pizza" rule, although just barely probably, so it's not
           | like we're super tiny.
           | 
           | Pair-programming is great online. Better than in-person in my
           | experience. Simply share your screen, and I can put it up on
           | my second monitor. We've successfully mentored numerous
           | junior-ish devs during COVID, with heavy use of remote pair-
           | programming.
           | 
           | Architecture type discussions main drawback is missing a
           | whiteboard, but there are a plethora of online tools of
           | varying quality. In practice we often use draw.io and show a
           | bit more finished copies than pure whiteboarding, but we've
           | used other more simpler solutions for whiteboarding here too.
           | 
           | Design discussions/architectural consensus take place fine
           | online, we just haven't had any issues. Just like pair-
           | programming or architecture, we might screenshare but mostly
           | we talk. And we find we don't lose anything from this. Sure,
           | you don't get body-language, but that isn't needed for
           | discussing bearer tokens.
           | 
           | In summary, while I agree that technical discussion is
           | necessary at all stages, I believe that technical discussions
           | is far less negatively impacted by remote when compared to
           | non-technical discussions (i.e. managerial).
        
         | cgio wrote:
         | Lower down the tree people want to get promotions and that
         | transition won't happen abruptly but gradually. I agree with
         | the overall sentiment, though. My experience is 80% of time in
         | office on zoom or hybrid zoom/in person meetings, which does
         | make it purely only worth it for the 20% impromptu discussions.
         | The result is even worse exhaustion not only from commute but
         | also from completely drowning the schedule to manage and do
         | both. We need to rethink work and this will take some time. I
         | would love 1 week retreats on an island every qtr for the
         | impromptu collaboration needs and satellite offices in
         | neighbourhoods where people can meet for specific tasks. I
         | think I am not imaginative enough and who knows how things will
         | change as online literate generations take the helm.
        
           | spaniard89277 wrote:
           | Satellite offices seems a good idea, if it's cheaper for the
           | company.
           | 
           | In the case of my job, they could have maybe 20? for the
           | price they're paying now.
           | 
           | But I wouldn't go anyway. Maybe once a month or every six
           | weeks or so. Just because there will be people who prefers an
           | office and to keep up with their faces, but I have no
           | business there.
        
           | Workaccount2 wrote:
           | I would be making 1/4 of my current salary if I didn't work
           | in a place were impromptu discussions could happen.
           | 
           | If my job was WFH (its not and can't be), I would still
           | probably be doing the same stupid entry level shit with
           | mediocre raises. Thanks to impromptu/casual conversation
           | though, I got pulled out from under my manager and moved to a
           | much higher position in another department (this was over a
           | year or so, not just a one off conversation)
           | 
           | I could interact with higherups without being viewed as
           | "going over my bosses head", and to me that's insanely
           | valuable.
        
         | tablespoon wrote:
         | >> Employees need to be on site, we're told, because
         | collaborating with one another has been harder to do when
         | everyone is working from separate locations.
         | 
         | > I think this is true, but only if the main part of your job
         | is collaborating eg talking to other people to reach a
         | consensus. That is easier face to face.
         | 
         | That's also undermined by other decisions, like offshoring and
         | distributed teams.
         | 
         | > The problem is that only higher up management roles are
         | actually like that. Lower down the tree people are expected to
         | not spend lots of time talking to each other, and instead
         | actually produce things (code, documents, reports, emails,
         | etc).
         | 
         | That's not true. Maybe only "higher up management roles" are
         | _exclusively_ like that, but there are plenty of other roles
         | that include a significant amount of that, or a significant
         | amount that occurs at irregular /unplanned intervals.
         | 
         | Also remote work is a _lot_ more socially isolating, and I feel
         | it makes work relationships a lot more one-dimensional an
         | tenuous. That might be fine if you 're a loner, but that's
         | certainly not true of everyone.
        
         | Dave3of5 wrote:
         | What's even weirder is that is the low level employees that are
         | being told to go back. The execs probably never worked fully in
         | office even before the pandemic.
         | 
         | This should tell you exactly why they are asking you back and
         | it's not "collaborating". That's an excuse. It's because they
         | don't trust you and think you're goofing off at home.
        
       | Mikushi wrote:
       | I've been to the office once in the last 3 years, it was for a
       | team lunch.
       | 
       | Rest of the day was just me sitting in a cold space, on an
       | uncomfortable chair, with an inadequate desk setup. I lost 2h30
       | of my day to get there.
       | 
       | Luckily my employer was always remote friendly and it just works
       | so why change.
        
       | rickspencer3 wrote:
       | I have a cynical view about this, but also expect it all to come
       | out in the wash over time.
       | 
       | My cynical view is that some older executives are, indeed, not as
       | effective in remote companies and younger ones, because they have
       | no practice running remote companies and haven't adapted.
       | Additionally, many senior and middle managers never figured out
       | how to assess and reward actual productivity on their teams, so
       | relied on their ability to schmooze to create a veneer of
       | contributing, and schmoozing is easier to do in person. Finally,
       | managing facilities is a big job, especially at bigger companies,
       | and few executives are going to point out that their main job
       | functions are now outdated and the company should de-invest.
       | Imagine being an executive who is overseeing the capital costs of
       | real estate development for a very large tech campus as an
       | extreme example.
       | 
       | However, it is also my view that remote work-forces are
       | inherently more efficient in multiple ways for many industries. I
       | have been working from home and managing remote teams since 2008.
       | Every time I go to an office I am absolutely shocked by how much
       | time is wasted in an office. Time that could be spent exercising,
       | doing laundry, gardening, so many things that are beneficial to
       | someone's health and work productivity. I believe that market
       | forces will solve these problems of ineffective execs and
       | managers. I could imagine some specific companies making a co-
       | located office their competitive advantage by appealing to the
       | minority of knowledge workers who prefer working that way,
       | though.
        
         | bearjaws wrote:
         | > My cynical view is that some older executives are, indeed,
         | not as effective in remote companies and younger ones
         | 
         | At the beginning of the pandemic, all our "boomer" leadership
         | couldn't even properly share their screen on zoom. We then
         | switched to Teams, and they couldn't figure that out either.
         | 
         | I actually in a one on one suggested all of senior leadership
         | should take a class on remote work, and Teams, because 90% of
         | the friction was actually self created.
         | 
         | HR loved the idea, but guess what? They never took it.
         | 
         | Meanwhile, software engineers are expected to learn 5 new
         | things every month. It really has created a riff where pretty
         | much everyone in engineering has no respect for our senior
         | leadership. This further undermines the return to the office
         | because its clear as day: Remote work doesn't work for THEM,
         | but it does for the rest of the organization.
         | 
         | I do agree that this will all die out due to market forces,
         | younger companies are going to force the hands of incumbents
         | and slower moving organizations.
        
           | greedo wrote:
           | Two years into the pandemic, we still have executives who
           | can't be bothered to learn something as simple as how to mute
           | their microphones during a Teams meeting. I think it's a
           | subconscious reaction to the idea of them being muted. In a
           | normal meeting, no one would ever think to mute them since
           | they're so high on the food chain.
        
             | wokwokwok wrote:
             | I think there's a deeper, wider systemic issue here.
             | 
             | People think they'll get better at remote working by a)
             | being bad at it, b) putting no effort into getting better
             | at it and c) doing it a lot.
             | 
             | ...and in some ways it makes sense. Surely, if you do
             | something for long enough, you'll get better at it right?
             | 
             | The reality is, though, I guess, that in most domains, if
             | you don't make an _effort to get better_ , then the ceiling
             | for the skill level you can acquire by just repeating the
             | same mistakes over and over is pretty low.
             | 
             | It's like having a soccer match every day and never putting
             | any practice in between.
             | 
             | You get a lot of experience playing, and you'll get better,
             | a bit, slowly... but at the end of the day, two years later
             | you're still basically rubbish at it and a let down to your
             | team.
             | 
             | That's the problem I see: People not actually believing
             | that they have to put effort in to get better at working
             | remotely...but, I don't think it's fair to say they can't
             | be bothered.
             | 
             | A lot of people are trying really hard to Make Things
             | Work... they're just doing it wrong, because they don't
             | think that they need to actually learn new skills.
             | 
             | That's different to being lazy.
             | 
             | Perhaps its particularly pronounced in people who aren't
             | accustomed to taking feedback; but it happens in all kinds
             | of teams at all kinds of levels.
             | 
             | Work in a hybrid team where you have to meet up physically
             | to do 'difficult' meetings where more than 3 people have to
             | talk? Have a team that doesn't really talk to each other
             | outside of standup? Got an agile coach who can't share
             | their screen? Have big online meetings where no one turns
             | on their cameras and only one or two people actually speak?
             | 
             | Yeah. I mean, I've had all those things on and off in the
             | last two years. It's a bit of a joke really.
             | 
             | It's not just execs who struggle with remote working.
             | They're just easy targets, because they're _especially_ bad
             | at it.
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | At least in my org, our CIO has an admin assistant who
               | handles his videoconferencing. Because he's unwilling to
               | put in a few minutes to learn an essential tool.
               | 
               | I also find it hilarious when fellow IT associates
               | demonstrate the same level of incompetence in
               | Teams/Webex. Leaving mics live, taking their cellphones
               | into the restroom. It really shows how the intelligence
               | of any org is a Bell curve.
        
         | boringg wrote:
         | I would say the benefit of schmoozing (which i dont like) is
         | information sharing about the organization. One thing thats
         | particularly hard in large remote companies if information
         | sharing outside of rigid structure (ie 1 on 1, meetings). Much
         | needed even if some of it isnt great info.
         | 
         | And yeah i would say your take is pretty cynical and pretty
         | ageist -> diminutive to someone for their ability to contribute
         | is reduced greatly by using their age as a proxy.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | I don't think "schmoozing" is necessarily information
           | sharing. It can be, but more often than not it's simply
           | "socializing, but with the goal of career benefit rather than
           | friendship". Hanging out at the water cooler, golfing with
           | other execs, having an extended lunch at the bar, doing "one
           | on ones" where you don't talk that much about work, walking
           | the hallways for the simple purpose of looking busy to
           | everyone else. These are all schmoozing.
           | 
           | Having a hallway conversation with one person where you pass
           | on critical business information isn't really schmoozing, but
           | it is harmful to the overall organization.
        
             | boringg wrote:
             | Completely disagree with you. Sometimes hallway
             | conversations make you realize what other parts of the
             | company is actually doing.
        
         | greedo wrote:
         | Bullseye. The company I work for has a large home office, plus
         | a satellite office tower in the same city. Plus a satellite
         | office in a second city. So even before COVID, we were working
         | with users remotely. We own all three buildings and land, and
         | have always been proud of that for some reason. Very
         | emotionally invested in the Home office.
         | 
         | Obviously COVID changed all that and exposed the opposition to
         | remote work as just obstructionist. Our company was 100% remote
         | for over two years, and both sales and profits have never been
         | higher. Yet some of management really just can't deal with it
         | now. Ironically, the IT mgmt is the one most opposed to remote
         | work and barely signed off on a hybrid model.
         | 
         | I'm in the same age cohort as most of our executives, and
         | though your comment may seem ageist, I think it's spot on.
         | These VPs and managers love to schmooze, have $$ lunches, golf
         | with vendors etc. Their entire work life is designed around
         | schmoozing and building their little networks with vendors so
         | they have a safe landing spot if things go bad in their
         | careers.
         | 
         | You might say this is the same as ICs who build networks, but I
         | don't get paid to network. I don't recommend technologies based
         | on who I golf with.
         | 
         | Mgmt needs to realize they can't unring this bell, and will
         | continue to lose effective performers who (especially in IT)
         | have more options since COVID.
        
           | musingsole wrote:
           | > We own all three buildings and land, and have always been
           | proud of that for some reason
           | 
           | Many businesses -- despite whatever their mission statement
           | may be -- are not-so-thinly veiled real estate vehicles. Even
           | businesses with a healthy income from whatever good or
           | service they provide will often have another 25%+ in income
           | from real estate gains. McDonald's is probably a good example
           | of this.
           | 
           | I learned this pitching a business plan where an executive
           | thought the "occupant mission" was compelling, but that we
           | needed more expertise on the types of properties we could add
           | value to.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | It's hillarious when you get some bullheaded executive who
             | comes into these companies specifically to part out this
             | real estate and raise profits for their tenure before they
             | exit.
             | 
             | For example, a lot of studios in hollywood in recent years
             | have sold their back lots, and are now just leasing them
             | back from some holding company. I'm sure this arrangement
             | made a lot of money for some people, but I imagine in a few
             | decades this will hurt the studios when these land owners
             | start negotiating the next round of leases and realize they
             | have literally all the leverage.
        
         | josephd79 wrote:
         | This
        
         | forinti wrote:
         | I have observed that work is kind of a social event for senior
         | managers. Some don't even plan much, so they like/need to have
         | their teams at arm's length so that they can request a report
         | or dispatch a task as soon as it is required.
        
         | xtracto wrote:
         | In my previous job, my boss (CEO) did not "believe" in remote
         | work. He pushed so hard for everyone to be in the office during
         | 2020 that there were several covid outbreaks in the office.
         | 
         | The punchline is that we had offices both in California and
         | Mexico... and I was specially hired to open and maintain the
         | office in Mexico.
         | 
         | I flew several times a year to Cali (thankful) but I just
         | couldn't make him see that covid or no covid we would have to
         | make remote work , because _I_ was working remotely for him.
         | 
         | I ended up leaving for a 2x salary position and fully remote
         | job.
        
           | soapboxrocket wrote:
           | When COVID broke out I was working with a manufacturing
           | company, helping to fix their PMO. One of the big issues they
           | had was that the only way to get parts through the factory
           | was for the PMs to go down to the shop floor and constantly
           | babysit and move them; the primary directive from management
           | was "the PMs should not be going to the shop floor." Perfect!
           | So COVID hits and I suggest we send the PMs home to work
           | since they are only at their desks working on their computers
           | and talking with customers. Corporate VP: "But if we send
           | them home how will we know if they are working?" Me: "How do
           | you know they are working now?" Of course the most ironic
           | part was that VP was on the phone calling in from home
           | because he lived in a different state that had no business
           | operations in his area. Not surprising to me, that company
           | has since shut down.
        
       | Dave3of5 wrote:
       | During the pandemic (in one of the lower case moments) I went
       | back into the office with my Manager. It was to on-board a summer
       | intern. I realised from that point that I needed a 100% fully
       | remote job.
       | 
       | * The office was mostly empty
       | 
       | * The only communication was between my manager and myself and it
       | was pointless
       | 
       | * There were several people in what appeared to be 8 hour long
       | teams meetings
       | 
       | * None of the people who were pushing to get people back into the
       | office were actually in the office. None of the exec team for
       | example none of the HR or any of the older engineers
       | 
       | * You had bizarre rules with the mask which was you didn't need
       | one when you are sat at the desk but moving about you need one.
       | Not only that most people were ignoring those rules completely
       | 
       | * The office actually felt even more shit than what I imagined it
       | to be
       | 
       | * I still needed to do the daily stand up via teams
       | 
       | * I didn't have a webcam / microphone at the desk so I had to use
       | my own headset and go without the camera
       | 
       | * You couldn't it right next to someone and talk to them about
       | their computer so I had to have a teams call with the intern to
       | get them setup
       | 
       | * The intern forgot everything I told him as he didn't take any
       | notes and asked me the same questions that I had already answered
       | for the next 2 weeks
       | 
       | * The normal cafeteria was shut (looked permanently) so I had to
       | drive to get my lunch
       | 
       | * I had forgotten that my chair was actually broken so moving
       | from my PS300 secret lab chair to a 10 year old farty broken
       | cheap PS25 office chair was a culture shock
       | 
       | * The toilets had every second stall blocked off (pre-pandemic)
       | these were always full and you would often have to wait
       | 
       | * If the toilets had more that X people in them you had to wait
       | in a queue outside
       | 
       | * Only 1 person at a time was allowed into the kitchen not sure
       | how that was supposed to work if the office was full
       | 
       | * I had never noticed this before but the decor in the place was
       | terribad. The carpet was skanky/mostly worn away. Two walls were
       | painted headache inducing red. They had a bunch of shit art on
       | all the walls. The plants were all either fake or dead. There was
       | 0 natural light. The windows didn't open and were facing a 3
       | story brick wall.
       | 
       | * I felt quite breathless when I was there as you couldn't open a
       | window the place was very stuffy and felt like the o2 levels were
       | low
       | 
       | * The AC would make a loud grinding noise every 30 minutes that
       | felt like the building was going to collapse
       | 
       | My overall experience was that I felt degraded like the company
       | had "done a Will Smith" and smacked me in the face in front of
       | everyone. I started looking for a 100% remote job immediately
       | after this.
        
       | rodolphoarruda wrote:
       | I work from home since 2006. I feel that my capacity to maintain
       | or even expand my professional network is very limited. I
       | remember my 13 years of work before 2006 and they were very
       | intensive in terms of social interactions, meaning, happy hours,
       | in-office birthday parties, visits to clients' sharing the same
       | taxi leaving from the office, meetings, both formal and informal
       | ones at the water cooler, or at the printing bay. WFH is nice. I
       | saw my two kids being borne and stayed with them for many years
       | afterwards. It was priceless(tm). But I think my networking and,
       | in some way, my employability were affected.
        
       | DerArzt wrote:
       | Being forced to go back to office was one of the reasons (among
       | many) that I left my last employer. My boss gave me the same
       | spiel about how being together increases collaboration and is
       | good for career advancement, while at the same time half of my
       | department was on the other side of the planet and 5 of the 8
       | developers on my team lived out of state.
       | 
       | On top of all of that, I have invested heavily in my home office
       | on my own dime (they didn't give any stipend even though work
       | from home was pretty much mandated). I found that my writs and
       | fingers were starting to hurt so I invested in a a more ergonmic
       | split keyboard [1] and mouse which I would have to lug into the
       | office with me.
       | 
       | I feel that my new employer, one that's exclusively remote, has a
       | better approach of us doing an "on-site" every quarter or so
       | where everyone from around the country gathers in a city for
       | those higher level meetings and team bonding activities.
       | 
       | [1] ZSA Moonlander https://www.zsa.io/moonlander/
        
       | ajsnigrutin wrote:
       | The only thing I missed when WFH was the lucnhes and in-office
       | jokes and fun. I can still have those, if we're in the office
       | once per week or even less. Everything else is better from home,
       | from not having to wear pants to saving myself an hour a day
       | because my workplace is 5 seconds away from my bed.
        
       | feq543ni0g wrote:
       | My workplace requires me to visit the office once every two
       | weeks. And even then I only go for a friendly one-on-one type of
       | lunch with my boss. Nothing we ever discuss justifies the two
       | hour commute, the same things could be discussed in Zoom. And
       | yet, I am supposed to visit every two weeks.
       | 
       | Now it turned out that during my last visit my boss had already
       | been infected with covid. So not only me, but my wife and my two
       | kids will need to stay home, isolate and take days off to look
       | after the kids. WTF is the point of this? I am losing valuable
       | vacation days, my boss also loses an employee for days (and my
       | wife's boss ditto) and the kids will go bat-shit crazy because
       | they will not be allowed to go outside.
       | 
       | Yay. How much fun the office it is.
       | 
       | And this was just one example of how idiotic and unproductive
       | this whole on-site in-person office work arrangement is.
        
         | burner556 wrote:
         | Use your sick time dude not vacation days
        
           | wu_187 wrote:
           | Almost all jobs have gotten rid of sick days and have you use
           | PTO. The US labor laws suck.
        
           | h0p3 wrote:
           | At some places, you get to choose when to use sick days but
           | not vacation days. All else being equal, in that case, I'd
           | sometimes prefer to burn vacation.
        
             | willcipriano wrote:
             | Every job I've had they are one and the same. You just have
             | PTO.
        
         | slaw wrote:
         | Why you need to stay home and isolate? Is it required in your
         | country?
        
           | mikro2nd wrote:
           | "Required" or not, it's called "being a grown-up".
        
             | slaw wrote:
             | Staying at home without symptoms is called brainwashed.
        
           | Symbiote wrote:
           | Laws are irrelevant. It's the considerate thing to do.
        
             | apurtbapurt wrote:
             | Of course stay away from crowded, public, indoor spaces.
             | 
             | But keeping your kids _indoors_ is not considerate towards
             | anyone. It is simply abusive to your kids.
             | 
             | Let them out in the garden/park/street to play.
        
       | themadturk wrote:
       | Our return to the office has been back and forth for various
       | reasons, but the ultimate goal is that everyone work in the
       | office every day. But in an effort to make commuting easier, we
       | are opening satellite offices in the metropolitan area...which
       | (when all satellites are open) scatters teams between up to four
       | offices. So nearly all of our meetings will be via Zoom, even if
       | team members are "in the office."
       | 
       | I don't want to criticize too much, because I work for an
       | otherwise great employer, but this decision just has me shaking
       | my head.
        
         | nerdponx wrote:
         | In one of my previous jobs, I worked at a company where this
         | was what things were like even before the pandemic. I worked in
         | one office, but members of my team were scattered across two
         | other offices. I had a 90 minute commute only to sit in an
         | office where none of my immediate colleagues worked, and most
         | meetings were done over WebEx. Here and there, people would
         | travel to my office for some big marathon meeting/conference
         | session. And to add insult to injury, if my manager happened to
         | show up at my office that day and I wasn't there, I was given a
         | hard time about my absence.
         | 
         | It was horrible and demoralizing. I got to a point where I
         | basically didn't show up to the office at all except for the
         | occasional scheduled meetings, which were about once a month at
         | most. I got three hours of my time back every day and actually
         | increased my productivity, because I was able to stay home and
         | deal with some health issues that I had at the time.
         | 
         | That said, lots of people at that company sporadically worked
         | from home, and even in the offices with my colleagues, there
         | were days where as much as 1/3 of the team wasn't present.
         | 
         | There seems to be a kind of critical mass number of working in
         | the office: below that amount, and the office starts to feel
         | like a ghost town, and it's benefits shrink past the point of
         | being worth the commute.
         | 
         | So I think companies are wrong to force people to come in every
         | day every week, but it's clear that the benefits of working in
         | an office on the manifest when there are enough people in the
         | office.
        
         | rob74 wrote:
         | The problem with Zoom calls in the office is that you usually
         | do them at your desk rather than in a meeting room, and when
         | you do that, you are totally destroying the productivity of
         | anyone who happens to be in the room with you. Not to mention
         | what happens if several people in the same room have different
         | calls at the same time...
        
           | MivLives wrote:
           | We have "Phone booths" that essentially are sound isolated
           | single person meeting rooms for calls both video and phone.
           | Of course, they are incredibly hard to find empty. From where
           | I'm sitting I can see 3 of them, and this is in an area that
           | has probably 80-100 desks in it. How am I ever supposed to
           | use these?
           | 
           | The one thing I think they did right is keep the surface high
           | enough it's hard to type on. Now people can't camp them all
           | day.
        
           | prmoustache wrote:
           | I now would have to take a plane to go to the office so I am
           | now 100% remote but in my previous company they implemented
           | hybrid for those who wanted and the idea was that the
           | conference rooms were to be used for those being on site and
           | the rest of the team would be remote. All rooms had been
           | equipped with decent audio and camera that made the process
           | seamless. People who wanted to be there 3 days a week or more
           | could have a fixed office and leave belongings, other would
           | have to reserve a shared one and work in a clean desk method.
           | 
           | No company can expect having an hybrid system work without a
           | little bit of investment and some decent guidelines. With so
           | many space gained in the offices there is a lot of space to
           | liberate to build more small conference rooms and some
           | storage area for those who don't have a fixed desk but may
           | wish to keep things on site.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | Its even worse when you have a zoom call with some people in
           | a meeting room on one line, and other people connecting on
           | another line. The people in the meeting room basically have
           | their own discussions since the people on zoom can't get too
           | many words in due to being talked over. Then usually the
           | audio or video is terrible in the meeting room and if you are
           | on the zoom call you can only hear who is standing closest to
           | the AV equipment.
        
           | lbriner wrote:
           | Not just that but if it is a private meeting and you are not
           | on a laptop, then you have a problem unless all parties are
           | in the office. Management meetings where you might be
           | discussing problems in the team need to be made in private.
        
           | zozbot234 wrote:
           | You can use the Zoom chat and just share your screen to use
           | as a whiteboard. No need for audio.
        
             | loup-vaillant wrote:
             | Unless you're steno-typing, good luck matching speech speed
             | with your typing. And I'm not even talking about audio &
             | visual cues.
             | 
             | There's no way typing can replace speech in an actual
             | meeting. It's better reserved to either deliberate
             | asynchronous communication, or very short, often purely
             | factual, conversations.
        
               | sammalloy wrote:
               | > There's no way typing can replace speech in an actual
               | meeting.
               | 
               | I think it can come close, provided everyone involved are
               | experienced, fast typists, but it's definitely a
               | different dynamic if someone is slower. I've had
               | incredibly fast chats in typing that were close to real
               | time, face to face discussions. And when you reach a
               | certain speed, the illusion of actual speech and
               | listening is created, which is a fascinating phenomenon
               | in and of itself. There's a certain level where you reach
               | peak verbal acuity and everything you type transcends the
               | medium itself. At that point, you can seemingly intuit
               | little tics, idiosyncrasies, sarcasm, humor, emotion--
               | almost everything you get in a real time, face to face
               | meeting.
        
           | VBprogrammer wrote:
           | The absolute worst is being in an office with several people
           | who are on the same call as you at their own desks. You can
           | neither listen to the call nor the person near you speaking
           | and you hear everything the say with a 2 second delay.
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | In our office, this created in-group out-group dynamic
             | within the meeting each time. The in-person people were
             | making jokes to each other and commenting stuff while
             | online people had no idea. So, result is that the same
             | meeting have one group coordinating with muted microphones
             | and other oblivious. Perfect.
             | 
             | It did not created some kind of real split (yet), but the
             | potential is super clear and it is pretty much guaranteed
             | to happen.
        
               | VBprogrammer wrote:
               | Ah yes. This is horrible when a big chunk of the meeting
               | are in the same room with several others joining online.
               | 
               | Honestly, given the choice an all face to face meeting is
               | the best. However, with any kind of cross location
               | collaboration this quickly becomes impossible (even
               | before WFH). An all online (ideally in their own
               | workspace) meeting is far better than any other mixed
               | mode alternative.
        
             | Tenoke wrote:
             | I've had that as the standard practice for meetings at a
             | job so we accommodate remote/other employees but the
             | employer had bought us good noise-canceling headsets so
             | there was no issue when a person near to you will be
             | speaking.
        
               | VBprogrammer wrote:
               | So all the people in the office on calls are wearing
               | noise cancelling headphones so they can take part in
               | meetings with people who may be in the same office. Even
               | with good noise cancelling they have to be permanently
               | muted if not talking to avoid bleed though noise from the
               | environment. All of the other people around then are
               | forced to wear noise cancelling headphones to cancel out
               | the noise of all the people around them talking into
               | their noise cancelling headphones.
               | 
               | Remind me again which part of this is better than those
               | people just being at home in their own space?
        
               | Tenoke wrote:
               | This was mostly just for company-wide meetings (standups
               | and the like). For smaller meetings people would move to
               | a conference room.
               | 
               | >Remind me again which part of this is better than those
               | people just being at home in their own space?
               | 
               | I didn't argue against remote, simply that having an
               | online meeting which includes people near you doesn't
               | have to be problematic sound-wise.
        
               | iso1210 wrote:
               | It is a massive problem, especially if people don't mute
               | when not speaking, or if people nearby are speaking at
               | the same time (on a different meeting). Nothing to do
               | with noise cancelling headphones
        
       | t_mann wrote:
       | I'll venture a bet (not sure it's 100% true, but a fun idea to
       | explore): sometime last year there was media hype about FAANG
       | developers quitting their jobs to join crypto/web3 projects.
       | Surely, ballooning crypto valuations played a large role in that,
       | but part of it might have been driven by SV companies moving back
       | to hybrid work schemes, while crypto projects have perfected the
       | 'work-anywhere-you-want, literally' (just let us know which time
       | zone) and 'we'll pay for everyone to get together in an actually
       | cool location from time to time'-schedule.
        
         | davidgerard wrote:
         | I don't recall ever seeing a statistic of any sort attached to
         | this particular claim. I'm sure there are more than zero people
         | who ever did this, but hard numbers, or even soft ones, haven't
         | been put forward.
        
       | whywhywhywhy wrote:
       | I don't get why they are not just talking to each other, is it
       | that hard to say "I'll be in on Wednesday, will you? So we can
       | chat about X" and why are so many people living 2 hours away from
       | where they work then complaining about it. Like you chose to live
       | there and work elsewhere.
        
         | nafizh wrote:
         | >'why are so many people living 2 hours away from where they
         | work then complaining about it. Like you chose to live there
         | and work elsewhere.'
         | 
         | For many people this isn't a choice. Specially, if you have a
         | family.
        
           | whywhywhywhy wrote:
           | Just get a full remote role then
        
         | giantrobot wrote:
         | > Like you chose to live there and work elsewhere.
         | 
         | A business chooses their office location based on business
         | needs. The business isn't worried about the myriad reasons
         | people choose to live in a particular place.
         | 
         | So businesses are rarely right next door to every employee's
         | house. Traffic in cities will easily make a short distance into
         | a long duration commute. Living in more affordable suburbs
         | makes for longer distance commutes.
        
       | thawaya3113 wrote:
       | > all the benefits of working from home (no commute, more focus,
       | hanging out with the dog, whatever it may be)
       | 
       | More focus...hanging out with the dog...
       | 
       | These things literally contradict each other. The fact that
       | someone can type this out and not even realize that just goes to
       | show why everyone is convinced they have become so much more
       | productive WFH, when companies dhar actually track their
       | employees and their productivity have hard data that shows
       | otherwise (Facebook, Google, etc would not be calling people back
       | to the office which only serves to increase their costs, if they
       | didn't have the data to back it up).
        
         | greedo wrote:
         | Found the manager.
         | 
         | I have my cat sitting next to me on a window ledge. Every now
         | and then she makes a noise when she sees a bird. Totally
         | disrupts my day. Can't focus for a good 24 hours. Yes, I'm
         | being sarcastic.
         | 
         | Imagine replacing my cat with my former cubicle mates. One who
         | has ADHD and feels the need to verbally express every thought
         | that comes to mind. And who gets upset when he doesn't get the
         | validation he desires. Now that disrupts my day. Add in 2000
         | other employees in my company, any of which can walk by my desk
         | and ask me about XYZ.
        
         | fbanon wrote:
         | Facebook didn't call people back to the office.
        
         | randac wrote:
         | > Facebook, Google, etc would not be calling people back to the
         | office which only serves to increase their costs, if they
         | didn't have the data to back it up
         | 
         | "They must have the data" is a very popular way to appeal to
         | authority lately.
        
         | alexb_ wrote:
         | You can be more productive while also having more time for
         | things that aren't work. The two are not mutually exclusive.
        
         | giantrobot wrote:
         | > Facebook, Google, etc would not be calling people back to the
         | office which only serves to increase their costs, if they
         | didn't have the data to back it up
         | 
         | Yes they would. Both companies have the same toxic management
         | types that see their direct reports as serfs in their fiefdom.
         | They bitch and moan to upper management to get their serfs back
         | in the fields.
         | 
         | It's not difficult to focus while hanging out with a dog. The
         | sort of attention they want typically isn't the same as a
         | coworker standing over your desk. Petting a dog releases
         | endorphins and oxytocin while dealing with the hovering
         | coworker only generates cortisol.
        
         | Mikushi wrote:
         | I work for a large company and the data doesn't show that, team
         | velocity has been up by 20 to 30% consistently.
        
           | postalrat wrote:
           | Velocity up spinning in circles because communication is down
           | and leadership can't lead.
        
       | stn_za wrote:
       | In my view, the biggest problem with hybrid is:
       | 
       | You are still required to live/reside near the office.
       | 
       | Fully remote allows me to live in a very affordable area while
       | still earning a great salary
        
         | anthropodie wrote:
         | It's crazy that so many people don't realise this.
        
         | zozbot234 wrote:
         | If it's just once a week or less, you can travel. It's quite
         | doable, and you're not constrained by the needs of a daily
         | commute.
        
           | bin_bash wrote:
           | By getting on a plane every week? That would be very
           | expensive and take a ton of time.
        
           | stn_za wrote:
           | I don't want to fly every week.
           | 
           | My company should not call itself remote if they also want to
           | decide where I must live... :)
        
         | turbinerneiter wrote:
         | First the companies offshored the jobs, now the employees
         | offshore themselves.
         | 
         | At some point, somebody will start asking why the Indian
         | working remotely in India is paid less than the
         | American/European expat working remotely from Bali.
        
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           | shp0ngle wrote:
           | (Bali is not in India.)
           | 
           | If you actually tried to hire in the region, you would know.
           | 
           | If you find a really good programmer in the region, his pay
           | will approach European pay, and he will escape to Europe/US
           | as soon as he can.
           | 
           | Also I cannot imagine US expat working in Bali, as the time
           | difference is 12 hours. That's _very_ impractical for any
           | collaborative work.
        
           | codewithcheese wrote:
           | Many companies already do location based salaries for remote
           | workers, meaning you will be paid less if you live in Bali
           | than San Francisco. Essentially, the company is performing
           | location arbitrage rather than the employee.
           | 
           | Next companies create more attractive work places in cheaper
           | areas and lures employees there.
        
             | stn_za wrote:
             | Yeah, if my company did that I would leave. Pay is pay.
        
           | rjtavares wrote:
           | Pretty sure competent people anywhere in the world get the
           | same salary in remote only companies.
           | 
           | That has actually become a trend in Portugal: people are
           | quitting local companies to get US/German/UK salaries working
           | remotely for US/German/UK companies.
        
             | greedo wrote:
             | Nope. I know of several remote only companies that take
             | advantage of local wages. Say someone in Bulgaria can make
             | 30K EUR locally, but a US employee would cost 100K USD. The
             | company will pay the contractor 60K in Euros. Still a huge
             | bump for the Bulgarian, but far less than a US employee,
             | even after you factor in employment taxes.
        
         | Nursie wrote:
         | I now live on a different continent from my workplace. It's
         | great :)
        
           | oneeyedpigeon wrote:
           | Totally -- it's a bit weird getting paid in a non-native
           | currency, though :)
        
       | joaodlf wrote:
       | I love coming in to the office.
       | 
       | Granted, I live a 20 min walk away. The walk in is through a
       | beautiful county park, surrounded by nature.
       | 
       | Most of my colleagues who live further away have stopped coming
       | in. Understandable, I wouldn't want to get in a car to get here,
       | traffic in the UK is horrible.
       | 
       | It's all about personal circumstances, really. Living close to my
       | workplace, having access to a nice office that is (now) mostly
       | quiet, I quiet enjoy the new work culture :).
        
         | Gigachad wrote:
         | The office is not as bad as people make it out to be. Its
         | commuting that really sucks. I used to hate working in the
         | office and then I moved to an apartment next to work and I
         | decided to walk in even while WFH was an option because I did
         | slightly prefer going to the office and being with everyone.
        
           | silicon2401 wrote:
           | > The office is not as bad as people make it out to be
           | 
           | Correction: "[my] office is not as bad [for me] as [other]
           | people make [their offices] out to be [for them]"
           | 
           | Every office I've worked in has been horrible to work in. I
           | hate being around other people, the random distractions of
           | office noises/smells/etc, and I hate not having control over
           | my environment so that I can be comfortable. For people like
           | me who specifically want to not see other humans unless
           | they're family or friends, it really is that bad.
        
             | civilized wrote:
             | > For people like me who specifically want to not see other
             | humans unless they're family or friends, it really is that
             | bad.
             | 
             | Thank you! I'm going to use this.
             | 
             | Other than my family and friends, the humans I regularly
             | deal with are somewhere between terrible and mediocre. If
             | they weren't, they'd be my friends.
        
               | silicon2401 wrote:
               | Glad to get validation/confirmation that there really are
               | multiple of us out there in the world lol. It's
               | discouraging that people are either completely ignorant
               | or are willing to deny that others are different,
               | including in how much interest we have (or don't have) in
               | being around others. I feel the same as you about people
               | and hope we continue to have options expand for
               | controlling who we interact with
        
           | prepend wrote:
           | This is the big thing for me. I have a 40-60 minute commute
           | to drive in. Vs being able to walk downstairs in 30 seconds.
           | 
           | It's also good for family flexibility where I can take 10
           | minutes to drop off a forgotten lunch and that would be a 90
           | minute drive.
        
           | nvarsj wrote:
           | Exactly my feeling. I love working in the office, but I hate
           | any kind of commute. Commuting in London is particularly
           | atrocious, but I guess it could be worse (any US city apart
           | from NYC).
        
           | newsclues wrote:
           | Commuting can suck. I've commuted by car, no fun.
           | 
           | I've commuted by foot through a park, great but when it's
           | -20c not so great.
           | 
           | I've commuted by bike, a 60 km round trip through a big city,
           | and loved it... the exercise, being outside and the time
           | alone to think. 3-4 hours of riding was the best part of the
           | day.
           | 
           | Until winter came and I had to make the trip on a train and I
           | got sick and hated the noise and people.
        
         | stn_za wrote:
         | Imagine being able to take a walk anyway without going to the
         | office?
        
         | smoe wrote:
         | I don't exactly love the office but prefer it. I like to have a
         | strong separation between working and living space/time. I have
         | a room in my apartment that I could use as an office, but I
         | rather use it for hobbies than work. Even when, almost a decade
         | ago, I was freelancing and could work from wherever, I worked
         | from home only an hour or two in the morning before moving
         | somewhere.
         | 
         | That said, me wanting this separation is probably not stronger
         | than a bad commute. It is currently a 15min stroll. Before
         | that, it was an 45min train ride, but in Switzerland where
         | trains are quite comfortable and I could use the time to work,
         | do some admin, listening to podcasts, read a book or chat with
         | friends.
         | 
         | Definitely not in favor to require people back to the office
         | and thus force them living nearby. I like for people to have
         | options.
        
         | iso1210 wrote:
         | My office is between my kitchen and the bathroom so the commute
         | isn't exactly onerous
         | 
         | However when the sun is shining I'll take a 20 minute walk a
         | few times a day through the country, or I'll take an 40 minute
         | long walk to a nice cafe for lunch.
         | 
         | If it's pissing it down then I won't.
         | 
         | Working from home doesn't stop me from choosing to go for a
         | walk, or run, or bike ride, or horse ride, before starting
         | work.
        
           | tokai wrote:
           | Is it not possible for you to go for a walk from the office?
        
             | chrisjc wrote:
             | Probably, but part of the point they're probably making is
             | that they can spend the time normally used for the commute
             | to take the walk.
        
             | greedo wrote:
             | My office is next other office buildings, with a few
             | scraggly trees planted in the parking lot. Not exactly a
             | great area to enjoy nature.
        
             | iso1210 wrote:
             | I don't have an "office", but in my experience, and when I
             | do visit various offices around the world, offices tend to
             | be surrounded by buildings and traffic and shops, and tend
             | not to be surrounded by fields, mountains and lakes
        
         | tapanjk wrote:
         | > Granted, I live a 20 min walk away. The walk in is through a
         | beautiful county park, surrounded by nature.
         | 
         | This is likely the reason you love coming into the office. The
         | fresh air, greenery in the park, and the walk that gets your
         | blood flowing ... emotionally you _should_ be in a better
         | place. Compare this with someone who commutes 30 minutes in
         | traffic, and they will arrive at the office in a worse
         | emotional state.
         | 
         | It took me a long time to realize that in addition to the team
         | culture, my happiness/satisfaction at work depends a lot on my
         | commute and the ambiance at the office (quiet and comfortable
         | is good; noisy and cramped are bad).
        
           | chrisjc wrote:
           | More of a reason for those that used to commute to take some
           | of their reclaimed time to take a stroll/exercise during
           | their normal commute hours... maybe even doing some of the
           | things they would have done in the car or on the train like
           | making calls or listening to podcasts.
           | 
           | Of course I'm a hypocrite for not exactly doing this
           | myself... instead I take a short drive to pick up coffee in
           | the morning. There's no traffic (esp at 5am) and it's quite a
           | beautiful location. It at least helps define somewhat of a
           | boundary between work and home life for me.
        
       | thawaya3113 wrote:
       | In a hierarchy of options, it's unsurprising most companies are
       | settling in the worst of options, much like they did with their
       | poorly designed open office plans.
       | 
       | There's nothing worse than the "flexible" options companies are
       | settling on, where people come 2-3 days a week, have no fixed
       | seating arrangements, and need to get used to a new setup every
       | time.
        
         | ace32229 wrote:
        
       | jdrc wrote:
       | Roman houses had a commercial thing at the front. Cities had
       | lavish public baths, people had banquets, socialized in the
       | market. The Industrial era lasted too long
        
       | Stratoscope wrote:
       | > _a lot of people who have returned to their offices for some or
       | all of the week have found that they're the only ones there, or
       | others are staying isolated in their offices, and all
       | communication still happens over email, Slack, or Zoom. As a
       | result, they're spending time commuting to and from the office
       | and dealing with all the hassles of in-person work but without
       | any of the promised payoff._
       | 
       | This is hardly surprising. At the last few offices I worked in
       | during the Before Times, everyone in the open office crammed a
       | few feet apart was typing away and focused on their monitors,
       | wearing headphones that said "don't interrupt me!" And watching
       | Slack.
        
         | civilized wrote:
         | Yep. And the management of these companies are dabbing their
         | misty eyes as they grieve over all the "impromptu"
         | "serendipitous" "water cooler" innovation sessions that have
         | been lost.
         | 
         | You can just see the visuals in their minds. Stock images of
         | their lowly, loyal drones clad in business casual, smiling,
         | scurrying about with manila folders in hand, shaking hands. Not
         | a single human being that they actually know or have observed
         | in the workplace.
         | 
         | These people wouldn't be caught dead near a humble IC, and yet
         | they have the gall to tell us how best to get our work done.
        
       | greedo wrote:
       | I think many of the problems come down to the different world
       | executives live in. Different people in many ways. Most
       | executives have little experience at the core operations of a
       | business in a technical manner. They tend to climb from Sales and
       | Marketing teams, or Accounting. So they may understand who they
       | sell to, and what the markets/competition are like, but they
       | rarely are good at understanding the fundamentals of managing and
       | motivating people.
       | 
       | And when they hire managers to take care of these details, they
       | hire people they can identify with. People who are like them, but
       | lower in status and experience. Yet people with the same goals
       | towards climbing the corporate ladder. These managers (I lump
       | anyone below C-Level Officer in this group) also lack hands on
       | experience in the current environment, but they know how to play
       | the game. They quickly find out who the decision makers are, what
       | they want, and their vulnerabilities. This allows them to
       | advance.
       | 
       | Then these executives higher and promote people who do have
       | current experience. They expect them to manage the workers/ICs.
       | They base their hiring decisions on the same fallacious ideas
       | that they believe in. And when a manager presents them with
       | differing opinions, that challenge their world view, they both
       | resent and dismiss these opinions. One because they don't
       | understand the technical side of business, and two because they
       | are threatened. So they try to exert control.
       | 
       | For them, it's all about status and schmoozing; cronyism,
       | nepotism, corrupting vendor relations, all cloaked in talk of
       | "culture, collaboration, cooperation." When they reach out to
       | employees with a satisfaction survey, bad results (less than high
       | approval ratings) means that the lower status managers failed to
       | impart the company line effectively. The parallels to the Soviet
       | Union are unmistakable.
       | 
       | When you view it in terms of Managers are from Mars, Workers are
       | from Venus, you'll start to understand how status, power and
       | privilege play a huge role in how workplaces are designed and
       | managed.
        
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