[HN Gopher] 37% of jobs in the United States can be performed en...
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       37% of jobs in the United States can be performed entirely at home
        
       Author : rustoo
       Score  : 335 points
       Date   : 2022-03-25 13:50 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | lvl102 wrote:
       | Wait till they find out 80% of office jobs are redundant.
        
         | johnisgood wrote:
         | I know right... If I could go through with (got health issues
         | at the time) implementing automation of some stuff, then
         | because of me hundreds of people would be out of their jobs...
         | or at least that job. It would have saved the company a lot of
         | money, too.
        
       | didip wrote:
       | The society has a once-a-lifetime opportunity to refactor how it
       | can work, but it squandered it.
       | 
       | Imagine if office buildings are no longer necessary. A lot more
       | hi-rise apartments can be built, cities can be a lot more dense,
       | and light rails can be attractive again.
        
         | chasd00 wrote:
         | high rise apartments are really just office buildings. Just
         | live at the office, it's pretty much equivalent.
        
       | DoneWithAllThat wrote:
       | Once again, I am begging HN: this is a misleading title format
       | for links to single papers or studies. What is being phrased as
       | factual in the headline is merely an assertion in a paper, and
       | should be reflected as such. "New paper claims (x)" is
       | reasonable. "Study suggests (x)" is also reasonable. "(x)"
       | borders on straight up falsehood when it portrays an assertion as
       | a new finding about our world.
        
         | lukas099 wrote:
         | I think the assumption on HN should be that the title is merely
         | what the article author is claiming. So from my perspective
         | reading a title like "37% of jobs in the United States can be
         | performed entirely at home" is automatically converted to
         | "AuthorClaimsThat(37% of jobs in the United States can be
         | performed entirely at home)".
        
       | latenightcoding wrote:
       | Doesn't that mean a good chunk of those jobs can also be
       | outsourced?
        
       | zw123456 wrote:
       | For the other 63%, I think an interesting possibility is to use a
       | robot Turk machine type of arrangement. Take for example, the
       | "flag person" at a road construction site, it is an outdoor job
       | and hence would be categorized as not possible to do from home,
       | but, one could easily design a very simple machine with a camera
       | and the stop/slow sign that could be operated remotely. That
       | could actually be safer and lower cost. There are lots of other
       | possible examples, window washer, etc.
       | 
       | There is probably some companies working on it already, if not,
       | it might be an interesting idea I think.
        
       | monkeybutton wrote:
       | Imagine the environmental impact of cutting out emissions from
       | 37% of commuters for "free". We could do it today. Its been
       | proven to work the last 2 years. It's such low hanging fruit it's
       | mind boggling!
        
         | bobbean wrote:
         | Oh my god, imagine the improvement in traffic for those who do
         | have to leave their house for work.
        
           | monkeybutton wrote:
           | The effect is compounding too because those people will spend
           | less time driving and idling their engines!
        
       | flowersjeff wrote:
       | This surprises...nobody? Except maybe bean counters/management
       | types that need to show off perhaps.
       | 
       | With that said, I do have concerns. These issues center around a
       | shift in benefits offered as a result of this new paradigm ( hate
       | using that word but ) around the nature of work. I.e. the gig
       | everything economy coming to your job...soon
       | 
       | Many folks in the US work a 9to5 not just for the pay, rather for
       | healthcare and stability. However, it's only a matter of time
       | that employees will become even more API'ified / made into
       | independent contracts / etc. I know that many will welcome the
       | flexibility - some though will not understand what this means.
       | 
       | I do wonder how the US will be able to handle this continued move
       | away from 'trad' employment, given our rather odd situation of
       | one's medical being tied at the hip to one's employer? Those that
       | work in other jurisdictions need not fear the loss of a job as
       | much as a US citizen. Literally, you could die ( just look at how
       | many of those that were made unemployed during the pandemic lost
       | access to medical. )
       | 
       | Just my musings...
        
         | mumblemumble wrote:
         | I would guess that the gig economy simply can't come for any
         | jobs that require significant domain expertise or more than a
         | few hour's worth of attention to any single project.
         | 
         | Comparable to how you don't see day laborers doing pipefitting.
        
         | dudul wrote:
         | 2 thoughts.
         | 
         | First, "gig workers" can't work across the board. Companies
         | working on products often _need_ people to have deep
         | understanding of the product. We all know how costly it can be
         | to lose say a software engineer who has a few years tenure.
         | 
         | Second, if the gig-economy were to become very widespread, it
         | may finally be a push to have a true, sensible market for
         | health insurance in the US. If employers no longer pay
         | insurance carriers/brokers to cover their employees, these
         | carriers will need to come up with products people can afford.
        
         | hooande wrote:
         | If there is a large shift toward gig economy work, then the
         | healthcare industry will shift as well. There's nothing
         | preventing them from offering affordable healthcare to gig
         | employees other than the status quo and their current profit
         | models.
         | 
         | Something the size of the insurance industry is going to shift
         | about 5-10 years after the general market. So if you're worried
         | about short term gigification of your job, you might want to
         | look into private insurance/benefit options now. Over the long
         | term I think it will take care of itself.
        
           | coding123 wrote:
           | I think it's dangerous when we look at gigification as a "who
           | cares it will work out somehow".
           | 
           | Imagine how up-in-arms if they gigified programming. It has
           | already happened in places, but what if they wholesale a
           | price per line of code?
           | 
           | This will get a lot of replies but honestly, a codebase that
           | is spaghetti from gigification may be cheaper than non-
           | spaghetti codebase at 100k - 200k/year * number of developers
           | and work just as well for the domain it is in.
           | 
           | If you can put the "it won't work" aside - imagine they
           | figure out that it does. That rage right now - how is that
           | not applicable to the people getting gigified right now?
        
             | tick_tock_tick wrote:
             | People complain about "gigifiation" because of things that
             | has been traditionally tied to employment (health
             | insurance, 401k, etc) not the gig part of it. If someone
             | figured out how to do it I'd assume most programmers would
             | be all over it.
        
             | Jensson wrote:
             | > Imagine how up-in-arms if they gigified programming
             | 
             | Programmers would be up in arms in love with gig work and
             | demand it everywhere if it turned out to actually work. The
             | main problem with WFH is that you still have to work a set
             | hours per week, gig work is the ideal. If you want to work
             | 80 hours one week and 0 hours the next week you can do so.
             | Gig work also means no deadlines, no manager, no long term
             | worries, just write code and get instant money and
             | feedback. The only reason you don't see developers
             | clamoring for gig work right now is that they don't think
             | gig work is possible for development.
        
       | TheGigaChad wrote:
        
       | akagusu wrote:
       | But execs want you to commute because their mindset is to make
       | worker's life miserable, and working from home is seem like a
       | privilege.
        
         | nikanj wrote:
         | Executives work towards a large number of stupid performance
         | goals, but worker misery isn't one of them.
        
           | hn_version_0023 wrote:
           | Citation needed. I could gesture wildly at everything these
           | days. It sure seems like _someone_ is working towards worker
           | misery.
        
           | grimjack00 wrote:
           | It only seems like they do.
        
         | warning26 wrote:
         | Not everyone loves WFH, you know.
        
           | hn_version_0023 wrote:
           | I don't mind coming into the office, as needed. What I do
           | mind is being _required_ to be someplace daily to assuage the
           | ego of of some C-suite stuffed suit.
        
           | agumonkey wrote:
           | After covid we have some vague stats and yeah not everybody
           | enjoy full remote. But 1) there's a large pool of people that
           | do, 2) you can have hybrid 3) unless no other colleague goes
           | to the workplace you may enjoy some workplace social context
           | 4) we need to reduce energy expenditure and not commuting
           | seems like a massive gain.
        
             | oceanplexian wrote:
             | Right now I do hybrid work and it's great, it's easy to get
             | away from the house and work from a nearby city. There's
             | little-to-no traffic where I live, so the commute is short
             | and enjoyable. If I want after work I can jump in the car
             | and drive to the mountains or go pick something up at the
             | store, or go see a friend. The car operates on my schedule.
             | 
             | Moving away from this seems like stepping back into the
             | 19th century. Usually when I hear people complain about
             | cars they live somewhere that's over-crowded with poor road
             | infrastructure, traffic, and inflated taxes and energy
             | costs. Sure if you live in that scenario maybe commuting
             | sucks, but most of the USA isn't like that.
        
             | jdavis703 wrote:
             | Unfortunately, the best remote setups are in low-density
             | places with large homes.
             | 
             | People moving from NYC and SF to Wyoming and Austin are
             | going to be living in sprawl.
             | 
             | There vehicle miles traveled (VMT) are going to increase:
             | after all it's not going to be a lockdown where white
             | collar workers stay inside 24/7.
        
               | agumonkey wrote:
               | So (honest question), you think people doing remote-
               | friendly jobs are in dense urban areas and don't
               | contribute to car emission much ? so when these guys
               | relocate far away, they're going to switch from public
               | transportation to car ?
        
               | jdavis703 wrote:
               | I don't think this, I know this. Today the Census dropped
               | data showing there was a net population loss in SF and
               | NYC. If you look at a map of energy use by county (e.g.
               | Google image search for "energy by county") it shows
               | folks leaving places like NYC and SF are going to
               | increase their energy use.
        
               | kube-system wrote:
               | This is what is happening. Over the past 2 years, people
               | have left cities with solid public transit (SF, Chicago,
               | NYC) and have been moving towards car centric areas in
               | places like Arizona, Florida, Texas.
        
               | spookthesunset wrote:
               | Yup. We are reversing a lot of efforts society put into
               | reducing sprawl. More and more cookie cutter houses built
               | on what was once a forest... taking with it tons of
               | wildlife.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | This was already happening prior to WFH spurred by
               | pandemic. Housing prices were sharply increasing in many
               | major cities, causing people to relocate elsewhere due to
               | lack of affordable supply.
        
             | busterarm wrote:
             | I expect that over time our use of space will adapt to this
             | new reality but it will probably take a decade.
             | 
             | I definitely see older or taller office buildings
             | renovating and rezoning to become mixed co-working and/or
             | living spaces suited to remote work.
             | 
             | Not just that but also I could see commercial space be
             | divided up into premium one-person office spaces wired with
             | fast internet and set up for video conferencing.
        
               | eropple wrote:
               | I hope this is the direction we see, but going from
               | offices/commercial to residential is a much heavier lift
               | than just zoning. Like, just consider the plumbing
               | situation in a reasonably large office building. People
               | living there will require more significant renovations
               | than just putting up new walls. It is fixable, but it
               | isn't cheap, and because it isn't cheap, "will it happen"
               | gets some question marks.
        
               | busterarm wrote:
               | I'm not discounting any of that. Definitely won't be easy
               | and that's why I say about a decade before we really see
               | a shift.
        
           | onion2k wrote:
           | In my experience, whether or not someone enjoys something is
           | largely irrelevant when it comes to work.
        
           | SuoDuanDao wrote:
           | And those people can deal. I dealt with their preferred work
           | environment although I didn't love it.
        
         | mostly_harmless wrote:
         | and a commercial real estate crash would be bad for the
         | company's bottom line
        
           | MSM wrote:
           | I see this everywhere but I can't see how it's true.
           | 
           | I'm guessing that a company's largest expenses are (probably
           | in order, too): People, Technology, Office space.
           | 
           | Most companies, especially smaller companies, do not actually
           | own the office space they are in, they lease it. Commercial
           | real estate crashing would greatly reduce one of their top 3
           | expenses... how is that bad for the bottom line?
        
             | crent wrote:
             | Yeah exactly. If they signed a multi-year lease, they are
             | still on the hook for the same amount of money but the
             | space won't be used. It might feel bad but it was already
             | budgeted for.
        
               | beiller wrote:
               | They are paying for space (sometimes beyond 100,000 per
               | month) that the competition is not paying. Office space
               | is the highest expense.
        
               | Leherenn wrote:
               | That sounds weird to me. Our current office can sit 5,
               | with conference room, kitchen, ... It costs about 20% of
               | an engineer's salary. And we're in one of the most
               | expensive place in the world for rent.
        
               | Cd00d wrote:
               | Is office space really that cheap?
               | 
               | That actually sounds like a LOT of space compared to a
               | 2-bedroom apartment in Brooklyn that would cost quite a
               | bit more....
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | If everything you do goes in and out over a wire, some day your
       | job will be either automated or offshored.
        
         | deafcalculus wrote:
         | That's what a lot of people thought in the 2000s, but going by
         | SV salaries the automate or offshore story hasn't really played
         | out! Then again, horses seem to have lost their job in the
         | early 20th century after cars came along, and their population
         | just declined thereafter.
        
           | Workaccount2 wrote:
           | You ever wonder why people in old rust belt areas complain
           | about "the globalists" all the time?
        
       | jmyeet wrote:
       | The lesson here is you can never really predict what will happen.
       | This is important to remember when people make any predictions,
       | particularly for doom and gloom scenarios.
       | 
       | Take the Black Plague, which killed an estimted 25-50% of the
       | population of Europe. For those lucky enough to survive this was
       | a huge boon for workers rights and wages [1].
       | 
       | There have no real increase in worker wages in _40 years_ [2].
       | The pendulum swings back and forth on any issue and we 've swung
       | too far towards unbridled capitalistic exploitation (IMHO). Labor
       | organization (ie unions) led to things like a limited work week,
       | safety in the workplace and so on. The flipside of that was
       | corruption, resistance to change and so on. But ever since the
       | farce of the Reagan trickle-down economics era, worker conditions
       | have gotten increasingly worse (relatively) while the
       | accumulation of wealth at the top is absolutely unprecedented.
       | 
       | So Covid has killed millions and this is of course tragic. But
       | who knew that this would be the catalyst for the first real
       | increase in wages in decades and the ability to redefine the
       | outdated in-person work that wastes so much time on money on
       | pointless commutes?
       | 
       | I'm glad that something good is coming out of this.
       | 
       | [1]:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consequences_of_the_Black_Deat....
       | 
       | [2]: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/08/07/for-most-
       | us...
        
       | Overtonwindow wrote:
       | Working from home is great and all, but do we really want work to
       | be within our home? I've been working from home the entire
       | pandemic, and I still find it hard to stop working and "be home."
        
         | chasd00 wrote:
         | that definitely has to be managed well. I wfh in a room where i
         | also do my hobbies and stuff (like a tiny workshop more or
         | less). What i do is when i'm done with work i put my company
         | issued laptop in a dedicated drawer and close it. When the
         | drawer closes my mind flips to "i'm at home" mode. The next
         | morning, when i open teh drawer, my mind flips to "i'm at work"
         | mode. It works for me but may not work for everyone.
        
         | peter303 wrote:
         | Coworking spaces were supposed be a compromise. Individuals and
         | small teams could work in an office-like space without home
         | distractions for a few hundred a month. In the early days
         | coworking provided quality bandwith and printing for less you'd
         | pay at home. But that advantage has faded.
         | 
         | I have lost track of how coworking has fared during covid. For
         | a while, pre-covid, they seemed to outnumber coffee houses in
         | my metro area.
        
       | black_13 wrote:
        
       | kkfx wrote:
       | The fallacy reside in: "can be performed", witch do not state
       | _how they can_ , because so far most push "smart working" in the
       | form of "get this laptop, this smartphone with a 4/5G plan and
       | you are ready to work". That's obviously tend to fail and works
       | just for people who have corrected the aim perhaps with a docking
       | station, external monitor and external keyboard, having a spare
       | room silent enough etc at _personal level_ at company level it 's
       | even worse: most have no idea about remote work. The modern
       | classic solution is having a big enough hw resources to keep a
       | VDI infra asking workers to be on remote desktop all time, and
       | again that's not a good idea even if seems to be the easiest.
       | 
       | Seriously facing such aspects and finally admit that "real" WFH
       | means set up a home office, with relevant furniture, equipment,
       | connections etc and organize the work to be done from remote
       | pushing people on some proprietary platform in the hope to get a
       | quick&done third party solution will not really push up WFH to
       | something structural and good for all parties involved.
        
       | TimPC wrote:
       | The coding used by this survey is a joke. If 40% of an occupation
       | says they work outdoors that's below 50% so it's bucketed into
       | the work from home category on that criterion. I think if even
       | 20% of a job is saying they work outdoors that's pretty strong
       | evidence you're missing some information about what the other 80%
       | are doing in their job that prevents it from being a work from
       | home job. The net result of their setup is obviously a vast
       | overestimate so take the 37% number with a grain of salt.
        
         | stevenhubertron wrote:
         | Couldn't the job still be performed at home with the occasional
         | on site? I'm thinking of a construction PM. The job could
         | mainly be done at home other then when needed to meet GC on
         | site. Seems like there is still WFH no?
        
           | spookthesunset wrote:
           | > I'm thinking of a construction PM. The job could mainly be
           | done at home other then when needed to meet GC on site.
           | 
           | I'm sure all the blue collar construction workers would
           | totally respect the PM even more than they do now if they
           | didn't show up on site...
           | 
           | There is an awful lot of privilege going on behind the scenes
           | in these WFH debates.
        
             | hn_version_0023 wrote:
             | Seriously. If the PM isn't on site doing some basic QC ..
             | then are they really managing a project?
        
           | isoos wrote:
           | > I'm thinking of a construction PM.
           | 
           | The construction we've seen recently had a PM, and they were
           | on the site about 20-25% of the time. Parts of their job can
           | be and should be done in an office (or from home), but I
           | can't imagine that they wouldn't visit the site regularly
           | while keeping the quality and the schedule goals...
        
           | htk wrote:
           | That's why the "entirely at home" from the study's highlights
           | is an egregious conclusion from its methods.
        
           | TimPC wrote:
           | Depends what you're using the WFH number for. If you want to
           | extend it to an argument about being able to live
           | substantially further from a job then needing to meet a GC on
           | site some of the time is a dealbreaker. I think it's fair to
           | say to call the job as a whole a WFH job it needs to be 100%
           | remote. That's not to say non-WFH jobs can't have some remote
           | time.
        
             | kube-system wrote:
             | My office has people who live across the country and work
             | 95% remote, and hop on a few flights per year when they're
             | needed. Is that not WFH?
        
       | nickysielicki wrote:
       | My workplace is trying to get people to come back in the next
       | week or two and people are suspiciously taking a lot of vacation.
       | ~30% of engineering is out today. Methinks they're in for a very
       | big surprise in 2 weeks, and I don't think they'll have the money
       | to counter the offers that people will naturally field in this
       | market.
       | 
       | It's an unforced error.
        
       | jleyank wrote:
       | This seems low as only jobs that require(!) F2F interaction with
       | customers or coworkers can't be done remotely. This might come
       | down to "mucking about with the hardware" being the dividing line
       | - if you need the car, it's in the shop, otherwise you can do in
       | on the road, via the Web, ...
       | 
       | Psychologically, companies and (older? extroverted?) workers
       | won't agree with this, but it's not up to them to change. Change
       | happens at its own pace and you can either yell at the tide or
       | move with it.
        
         | etskinner wrote:
         | You're right about the dividing line being mucking with
         | hardware (I'd also add 'requires access to large or expensive
         | equipment'). But there are plenty of jobs that don't require
         | face-to-face interaction but do require on-site work for one
         | reason or another. Air traffic control, janitors, machinists,
         | garbage collectors, geologists, bakers, etc.
        
           | jleyank wrote:
           | Good point, feel free to expound on my definition of
           | hardware. "Ya gotta touch it?" as I might have been to locked
           | into my own vocabulary.
        
       | api wrote:
       | Now think about the economic savings in the areas of energy and
       | capital depreciation on cars. The overall economic efficiency
       | boost from this could be unbelievably huge, not to mention the
       | environmental benefits of less routine commuting.
       | 
       | I wouldn't be surprised if this approves economic efficiency by
       | trillions of dollars.
        
         | ppsreejith wrote:
         | Also, the effect this would have on reducing rent and cost of
         | living.
        
         | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
         | Yeah. Personally, I don't mind working in the office really,
         | what I really want from WFH is the elimination of my commute.
        
         | warning26 wrote:
         | If only there were some way to transport people that wasn't
         | cars!
        
           | tonyedgecombe wrote:
           | If only there was some way to live near work.
        
             | dudul wrote:
             | And that's the irony. People living in the city wants
             | people back in office, which will force all of us who were
             | able to move to the country to find a place in the city. It
             | will put even more pressure on the housing market of big
             | city. And then, they'll complain that they can't buy
             | anything and are forced to rent for life.
        
             | Apocryphon wrote:
             | Yea, if only housing prices were reasonable in any major
             | U.S. metropolitan area right now where tech companies are
             | located.
        
           | chasd00 wrote:
           | no matter the transportation mechanism it still takes time.
           | Unless someone can invent a star trek'esque transporter the
           | commute will always suck.
        
           | alar44 wrote:
           | Do you live in a major metro area? If you do, you should know
           | that the rest of the country was designed for cars. Mass
           | transit in your average US isn't feasible as everything is so
           | spread out. There is no city center. There's no downtown.
        
           | kube-system wrote:
           | Telecommuting is a solution for many situations where a
           | public transport is simply impractical. At my last in-office
           | job we had many people who chose to live in unincorporated
           | areas across state lines and commute 100+km via car to the
           | office. I currently live 400km+ from my job here in the US...
           | 4 hours by car or 14 hours by ground-based public transport.
        
           | onemoresoop wrote:
           | That's the thing, remote working decreases the reliance on
           | cars to some extent and not for everybody. Yes, cars are
           | still used for transportation. In some urban settings public
           | transportation is an option. I live in NYC and never owned a
           | car not only because I rely on public transportation but it's
           | a complete pain in the neck with parking, unwanted tickets
           | and high cost for insurance.
        
             | UnpossibleJim wrote:
             | For every one of you, how many people are priced out of
             | living in the city and have to drive to a parking lot to
             | take the train in, or want their kids to have some
             | semblance of a yard so they live in New Jersey and do the
             | same?
        
               | onemoresoop wrote:
               | It's true and it's their choice of course. If I lived in
               | NJ I'd surely own a car too. Sometimes I wish I had a
               | car, especially on weekends so I and my family can do
               | some outings but it's so expensive and cumbersome in NYC.
        
               | UnpossibleJim wrote:
               | Oh, it's impractical to own a car if you live in NYC.
               | There's really no point, unless you make stupid money or
               | have a car fetish, or have some specific reason.
        
         | dv_dt wrote:
         | It will take some time work through, but there will also be
         | cost savings on office spaces for companies.
        
       | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
       | I'm pretty skeptical of this methodology. They don't seem to be
       | making any attempt to measure whether a job can be done
       | _effectively_ from home, only whether it 's prohibited by some
       | physical necessity. "Managers, educators, and those working in
       | computers, finance, and law are largely able to work from home",
       | but is having your teacher or lawyer on a little iPad really a
       | complete substitute for having them right in front of you?
       | 
       | I guess I'm not sure how I would do it better, but that doesn't
       | make it super meaningful.
        
         | panzagl wrote:
         | Educators? Really? That alone makes me doubt the article.
        
       | paulcole wrote:
       | 100% of the jobs I want to do can be performed entirely at home,
       | but I prefer to do 100% of them in an office.
        
         | sharemywin wrote:
         | Not trying to be sarcastic. I genuinely asking. Why?
         | 
         | I'm not a fan of the office because:
         | 
         | 1. I don't like the commute 2. I have an office in my house,
         | but at the "office"; I would be sharing some kind of space. 3.
         | now that covid is less of an issue I plan on going to lunch
         | more with freinds.
        
           | zeroonetwothree wrote:
           | 1. Commute is a nice way to get some alone time and unwind
           | after work (admittedly, I wouldn't mind a shorter one though,
           | say 15 min)
           | 
           | 2. At home there are many more distractions (kids)
           | 
           | 3. At work there are nice people to talk to/interact with
           | 
           | 4. Getting lunch with coworkers is a nice way to bond and
           | discuss ideas
           | 
           | 5. All my friends moved away during the pandemic, and an
           | office is a good way to make new friends
           | 
           | 6. IME, meeting in person leads to friendlier interactions,
           | whereas virtual interactions tend to be more hostile
           | 
           | 7. The separation of home/office life makes it easier to
           | focus
        
             | manuelabeledo wrote:
             | Most of these points are unrelated to work itself, and may
             | be easily rebuked.
             | 
             | Commuting is not a way to "unwind". If you have 15 minutes
             | in the car, why couldn't you meditate for 15 minutes at
             | home?
             | 
             | Interaction is not taken away if you WFH. But even if it
             | was, if there are "nice" people at work, then there's the
             | assumption that there are "not nice" people as well. Do you
             | want to spend your days surrounded by "not nice" people as
             | well?
             | 
             | If attending to the office is seen as a way to expand your
             | friendship circle, then there is the assumption that any
             | other in person activity should help to this end as well.
             | Wouldn't it be worth trying to go to meet-ups, gym, etc.,
             | instead of relying on a workplace hostage situation?
             | 
             | Not trying to be too harsh here. But I have found that most
             | people who want to go back to the office, _expect_ others
             | to go back as well. I don 't oppose people going back, of
             | course, but I do oppose being an accessory to their way of
             | life.
        
           | paulcole wrote:
           | 1. I bike/run commute and have planned my life to let me live
           | with 15 minutes of where I work.
           | 
           | 2. I purposefully choose to live in a small apartment with no
           | dedicated "work" space.
           | 
           | 3. Yeah, me too.
        
           | cwmoreiras wrote:
           | 1. I like my commute. If my commute changed I would feel
           | differently. Regardless, I feel employees should get paid for
           | their commutes.
           | 
           | 2. I don't have an office in my house. Even if I had the
           | space I don't think I would want to use it for work. However,
           | since coronavirus happened I have had way more space in my
           | office than I did before, and I refuse to be sandwiched
           | between two other engineers in an open office floor plan. So
           | if my company tries to do that they will have a problem, at
           | least from me.
           | 
           | 3. I pack my lunch as often as possible and don't really know
           | anyone who works near me.
           | 
           | I do think there are many developers for whom it makes sense
           | to work from home. Especially if they are seniors, and their
           | company workflow is well organized for it. Also, I do think
           | that there are people who are very efficient working from
           | home, but if they are WFH it will still be harder for junior
           | engineers to collaborate with them or learn from them.
           | 
           | I've seen it suggested that in the future, companies who want
           | people to come back to the office will lose all their best
           | employees and will only be able to retain the people who
           | can't get a WFH job. I think a lot of what makes someone a
           | good engineer comes down to experience, so if that were to
           | come true it would ultimately mean that senior engineers
           | (best employees) will work remotely and junior engineers
           | (can't get a WFH job) will be working on site. That kind of
           | leaves junior engineers in the dust as far as mentorship is
           | concerned so I would not consider that a good thing, even
           | though it seems to be fine with certain people who think that
           | they are "good engineers", when in reality they are probably
           | just seniors.
        
             | lukas099 wrote:
             | > I feel employees should get paid for their commutes. This
             | would lead to more pollution, sprawl, and deaths by
             | automobile as people would be incentivized to live further
             | from work.
        
               | cwmoreiras wrote:
               | People are already incentivized to live far from their
               | jobs because of HCOL near their workplaces. Also, it
               | would be nice if people's choices were as binary as this
               | line of thinking seems to suggest. It seems to me that
               | many people would rather have a shorter commute either
               | way.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | > Regardless, I feel employees should get paid for their
             | commutes.
             | 
             | Why? How would it even be practical? What if there is
             | congestion? What if someone moved after starting a job, or
             | their commute time changes drastically? Does the employer
             | pay for tolls?
        
               | cwmoreiras wrote:
               | That sounds like a problem for the company to figure out,
               | not the commuter.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | That sounds like it would result in the company
               | allocating more of the budget towards people who commute
               | more than to people who commute less.
               | 
               | As someone that commutes less, it means I get less pay,
               | for no benefit to me.
        
               | cwmoreiras wrote:
               | The benefit to you is that you don't have to commute as
               | far!
        
             | shagie wrote:
             | > Regardless, I feel employees should get paid for their
             | commutes.
             | 
             | This opens up way too many cans of worms - some of which (I
             | feel) are very unfair.
             | 
             | (Morning shift)
             | 
             | I worked at SGI doing tech support on the "East" team. The
             | teams were split up by timezone (we were all in Mountain
             | View - where the Google campus is now). My shift started at
             | 5am (no traffic at all) and I lived about 10 minutes away
             | at that time of day.
             | 
             | One of my coworkers lived in Gilroy, and was on the west
             | team (a 9-5 working hours) and would sometimes have a
             | commute of an hour and a half _each way_ if traffic was
             | bad.
             | 
             | So, the guy in Gilroy should be getting paid an extra $100
             | to $150/day for living further away from me and not working
             | the morning shift?
             | 
             | Or how about the sf2g types ( https://sf2g.com )?
             | 
             | ---
             | 
             | I can find other examples of this through my professional
             | career. I had a co-worker who lived in Minneapolis driving
             | to Eau Claire, WI each day. One bad snow storm, it took him
             | 3 hours to get in that morning.
             | 
             | I currently have a coworker who lives in northern Wisconsin
             | and the office is in southern Wisconsin. He's been very
             | happy with WFH. But he had quite a commute (he likes
             | driving).
             | 
             | This furthermore complicates the question of overtime. If
             | you've got a 90m commute each way, does that mean you
             | should only be working for 5h/day to avoid overtime? If I
             | take the scenic route, do I get paid more?
             | 
             | The "ok, here's the consequences of paying for the commute"
             | that I would see is that for companies that need people in
             | the office (e.g. nurses), they would then have the
             | constraint "you must live within 15 minutes from the office
             | and public transportation is not acceptable as that may
             | cause additional delays."
             | 
             | While I recognize the "this is time lost", the "lets
             | compensate for this time spent" is a mess and would cause
             | more problems and discontent than the lost time discontent
             | currently has.
        
               | cwmoreiras wrote:
               | So do you think it's fine that people spend hours each
               | day in service of their company and not getting paid for
               | it?
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | This gets to the question "what is the employer paying
               | for?"
               | 
               | Let me flip your question around - do you think that it
               | is fine that one person is paid extra to live 2h away or
               | that they should be paid twice what I get paid for
               | effectively the same time spent in service of the company
               | because I only have a 10 minute commute?
               | 
               | Alternatively, consider the person who commutes into the
               | office 1h each way while I'm WFH and have effectively 0
               | commute. Let's say the wages are $50/h. Should they get
               | paid an extra $100 a day because they are commuting
               | rather than taking advantage of the WFH option?
               | 
               | On Wednesday nights I'd head to dinner with my family
               | from the office. This involved going about 20-30 minutes
               | out of my way from my normal commute. Should I get paid
               | for that adjustment to my commute?
               | 
               | Alternatively, instead of taking route 1 home, I took
               | route 2 home and did some shopping on the way (the route
               | is actually faster sometimes, but less enjoyable and a
               | harder drive), how does that factor into what I should
               | get paid for my commute?
               | 
               | If I took a 15 minute deviation from my normal commute to
               | drive through McD's for breakfast, should I get paid for
               | 15 more minutes?
               | 
               | I'm older now than I was, and so prefer taking city
               | surface streets that are properly illuminated and plowed
               | in the winter rather than country roads. This was a
               | change that I made to my commute back in '18. Should I
               | get paid more because I changed my commute to surface
               | streets? It's a 30 minute drive... I could switch to
               | taking a bus, but that's 80-100 minutes each way (yea,
               | the particular route options are awkward - two transfers
               | for the fastest route).
               | 
               | When I was in Northern Wisconsin, there was a Hmong
               | community that lived 45 minutes away from the office.
               | Would it be fair for the employer to say "you must live
               | within 30 minutes of the office because we're not going
               | to be paying more than 1h/day for a commute"?
               | 
               | The "not paying for commute at all" is the simplest and
               | (I believe) most fair way to approach the commute and
               | issues of non-productive time, personal choices for
               | transportation, personal choices for "where you want to
               | live", and significant complications for overtime and
               | verification of overtime. It avoids issues of outright
               | discrimination of people who take public transportation
               | or live certain distances from the office.
        
               | cwmoreiras wrote:
               | Your examples have a level of granularity that borders on
               | absurdity. We all know that what it comes down to is
               | this: Company makes an offer, i.e. "One of the perks of
               | this job is you receive a 2 hour daily commute stipend".
               | Employee accepts or rejects that offer.
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | Why not raise everyone's salary by $100/day ($2,500/y)
               | and call it even?
               | 
               | Less accounting to be done when someone's commute changes
               | based on inclement weather, no needing to punch time
               | clock when you leave and get home (or record milage on
               | your vehicle), no difficulty with alternate commute
               | choices (if I bike to work and it takes 1h rather than 30
               | min driving)...
               | 
               | What benefit to the employer is there to pay someone more
               | if they live further away? What problem would there be if
               | every employee was given the same pay increase regardless
               | of where they lived?
               | 
               | It means that payroll has a lot less work to do too
               | (rather than trying to keep track of everyone's commute).
               | 
               | If Meta HQ did this, would they be giving less to someone
               | who lives in East Palo Alto rather than Gilroy (because
               | of the "difference in commute")?
        
           | coldpie wrote:
           | Man, I love my commute. Losing that was one of the hardest
           | parts of the year I spent WFH. I take the bus to work, it's
           | about 40 minutes each way. I get time outside, I get to watch
           | the sun rise, I spend that time reading library books and
           | magazines, sometimes I talk with strangers for a few minutes,
           | I stop off on my way home to get new library books or at a
           | shop for whatever, or sometimes hit a bar on the way home. My
           | commute rules, don't take it away from me.
        
           | apocalyptic0n3 wrote:
           | Not the OP but for me:
           | 
           | 1. I get very little face-to-face social interaction if I'm
           | working from home. I need the interaction at the office or I
           | fear I'll lose the already terrible social skills I have
           | 
           | 2. Some conversations are just easier to have in-person,
           | especially from a management standpoint. I don't micromanage
           | and I am pretty hands-off but when a team leader is having
           | issues with their team, it's generally easier for them to
           | pull me into a conference room and chat face-to-face with me
           | and we can figure out a resolution together. This _can_
           | happen over video, but I find it 's better if it's not.
           | 
           | 3. I find you get exposure to new techniques and technologies
           | and different perspectives on how to approach solving
           | technical issues when you're in an office and can see a team
           | huddling trying to figure something out.
           | 
           | That said, I know it's not everyone's preference and I'm in
           | favor of a hybrid model personally. Office is available if
           | you want to use it. If you're living in the area of the
           | office, come in once or twice a month and have a face-to-face
           | meeting with your project teammates and/or manager.
           | Otherwise, you're free to be at home if you want.
        
           | Swizec wrote:
           | I love working from home and remote suits me. But the past
           | few months I've noticed more and more coworkers asking for
           | zoom pairing sessions, increasing numbers of mob programming
           | sessions, and a general craving for face time.
           | 
           | Personally I dislike those because they're the worst of both
           | worlds. Not quite remote, not quite in person. I get more
           | done on my own.
           | 
           | In my observation many people are just very done with remote.
           | Especially the younger folk whose lives aren't as full of
           | adult crap yet.
        
           | dockd wrote:
           | I can't speak for the OP and everyone has their own reasons
           | but - Do you have a roommate? Children? Now your
           | house/apartment is looking like a mini-office with shared
           | space. - Your house has one office. Where will your
           | spouse/partner work? Most houses don't have two offices. -
           | Maybe living in a small apartment is OK for people because
           | they can get out to larger spaces. Want to live in a studio
           | apartment and work there too? - Offices can have cafeterias
           | and tend to have restaurants nearby. - habit
        
           | eminence32 wrote:
           | In addition to all of the social reasons others have listed,
           | I'll list 2 technical reasons why an office is a more
           | comfortable place for me to work:
           | 
           | I have 2 large monitors at my office desk (so when you
           | include my laptop's screen, I have a total of 3 monitors;
           | lots of screen space). Compared to no external monitors at
           | home.
           | 
           | At the office, I have a gigabit connection to the LAN and
           | file servers. At home, I have a VPN that is, while pretty
           | good, not able to compete with 1GBe.
        
             | Bluecobra wrote:
             | These seem like easily solvable problems though. I have
             | three monitors at home and 1Gb AT&T Fiber Internet.
        
               | paulcole wrote:
               | Some people _don't want_ to solve this problem. My
               | apartment is small and I have 0 interest in 3 ugly work
               | monitors visible where I can see them all the time.
        
               | eminence32 wrote:
               | Hmm. Yes, they are solvable. But are they "easily
               | solvable"?
               | 
               | I could buy extra monitors for my work laptop, but then
               | I'd also have to buy or build an entirely new desk for
               | them, and find a place in my home for this desk to live.
               | 
               | My ISP also offers 1GB I think, but even if I upgrade,
               | that doesn't mean that my work VPN can keep up. It also
               | doesn't help improve latency
        
           | turtlebits wrote:
           | Not everyone has a bad commute.
           | 
           | Distinct place where I don't have the distractions of home.
           | (ie feel the need to clean, fix, things)
           | 
           | Much nicer environment - way more open space / natural light,
           | great air quality, views, amenities.
        
           | sporedro wrote:
           | Not the person you asked, but for me it's the social aspect.
           | 
           | I can't stand being on a camera, voice and text chat don't
           | really replace the in-person conversations for me.
           | 
           | Everything else is either the same or much worse working in
           | person.
        
           | deltree7 wrote:
           | This could have never happened if Jeff and Sanjay were
           | 'working from home'
           | 
           | https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2018/12/10/the-
           | friendship...
           | 
           | Who knows Google would have been an also-ran Search Engine
           | company if it weren't for those two solving the right scale
           | problems at the right time.
           | 
           | And no amount of 'Productivity Metrics' can capture these
           | leaps in value creation because it truly is of the 'Unknown-
           | Unknown' category.
        
             | Apocryphon wrote:
             | Most people are not going to be in the position, either in
             | their role or the stage of they organization, to enact
             | anything even remotely resembling that sort of innovation.
             | Even when scaled down to their role and organization.
        
         | tapland wrote:
         | I miss the casual chatting about all kinds of things and the
         | ritualistic coffee breaks (Sweden) a lot.
         | 
         | A lot a lot.
         | 
         | I can't afford an apartment with another room for a proper
         | separate office, and wouldn't want to waste that space on a
         | room to separate work and home even if I did.
        
           | dudul wrote:
           | And you can't afford this apartment because up until 2 years
           | ago everybody was forced to get a place next to the office.
           | You should support remote/distributed work, since it will
           | make it possible to move to the country/small towns and
           | relieve the pressure on difficult housing markets.
        
             | TheGigaChad wrote:
        
         | willcipriano wrote:
         | Id be open to going into a office, but when I compare wages
         | between jobs done from home and jobs that demand in office I'm
         | not seeing a significant delta. Even if the drive was 15
         | minutes I'd want something to cover my costs and time.
         | 
         | I was interviewing a month ago and I got a in office offer that
         | was a little lower than the remote offer I had. I brought up
         | that I'd be willing to come in for more money or some sort of
         | flex time around that hour commute and that was met with a
         | audible gasp from the HR person. They acted as if the request
         | was rude and that the occasional free lunch made up for the 10
         | hours a week time loss. That made the choice for me.
         | 
         | If I am truly more valuable to the business in a office I see
         | no reason why I can't share in those rewards.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | "That made the choice for me."
           | 
           | Often the way they react is more important than the actual
           | content. Seems like if they don't understand your concerns on
           | this topic, they likely won't be amenable to your future
           | concerns on other topics.
        
           | paulcole wrote:
           | I'm actually the opposite. I'd take a 10-20% pay cut today to
           | get an in-person job vs. my current remote job. I just
           | haven't been motivated to job hunt lately.
        
         | foxyv wrote:
         | If I lived in some parts of Europe, then yes, I would totally
         | love to go back to the office. But in the United States? I
         | can't afford to live close enough to the office for a short
         | commute (4-5x as expensive) and transportation is garbage.
         | 
         | Worst of all, there is nobody else there. Our teams are spread
         | across 8 different countries in so many different time zones. I
         | would have maybe 1-2 office mates from my department. That show
         | up irregularly.
         | 
         | I remember the happy times I had in the office and I really
         | wish I could recapture that spirit. But the wheel of time has
         | kind of turned.
        
           | paulcole wrote:
           | I'm in the US, choose to live in the least expensive and
           | smallest apartment near a large-ish city so that I can have a
           | short and manageable commute to both work and the things I
           | enjoy doing.
           | 
           | My transportation costs are essentially 0 -- bicycle
           | maintenance I can mostly do myself. My electric bill is
           | $20-$50 a month. Sometimes $3 for a bus ticket. Plus no
           | homeowner's insurance, property taxes, maintenance,
           | water/garbage bills (all included in rent).
           | 
           | My costs would be 4x-5x higher if I _didn't_ make the choices
           | I do, simply because the style of living I prefer isn't
           | available outside of cities.
        
             | foxyv wrote:
             | I used to do that as well. But then my rent tripled in 5
             | years pricing me out of the area. I still miss my tiny
             | apartment, but working from home is pretty nice too.
        
         | warning26 wrote:
         | Exactly -- yet so many people can't accept that ANYONE might
         | want to work from an office.
         | 
         | My assumption is that people who love WFH are generally
         | suburbanites who can't fathom getting to work involves anything
         | other than sitting in traffic for two hours.
        
           | iso1631 wrote:
           | When getting to work involves a short walk to the office,
           | getting a coffee on the way, of course that's the best
           | commute by a country mile. When the weather's nice like this
           | morning I'll take a longer walk, but I don't _have_ to do
           | that commute.
        
           | sharemywin wrote:
           | I hate cube and half cubes or like at my current job before
           | covid I had an office that I shared with 2 other people.
        
             | peterb wrote:
             | This. A big problem with office work is office cube design.
             | I'm old enough to have had a closed door office in the 90s
             | and it was the best. I also worked in large cubes which had
             | moveable partitions as walls where you couldn't see your
             | neighbours. They were also good, not great, but better than
             | today's cubes. They even had large book shelves where you
             | could keep your reference books!
             | 
             | At home, I can close my door and it is much superior for my
             | personal productivity than an open office cube plan.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | At least you get a cube or half cube. My office is
             | basically a really long desk with 4 people on one side and
             | 4 people on the other (directly across from each other),
             | with _maybe_ 5 feet between you and the next person.
        
           | Tade0 wrote:
           | Urbanite here. I hated having to travel daily, even when my
           | commute was around 35 minutes.
           | 
           | Currently working remotely and living in a city, because
           | that's where all the services are.
        
           | dudul wrote:
           | Who are these people who can't accept that anyone wants to
           | work from an office? If there are so many of them, can we see
           | some examples?
           | 
           | Office work is not just about the commute, it is also about
           | terrible work conditions where you may be seated in an open
           | space shared by support, engineers, sales, etc.
           | 
           | "So many people can't accept that ANYONE is more productive
           | in a remote setting".
           | 
           | This "us vs them" discourse is so childish. Just find the
           | company that works the way you want, either all in office, or
           | hybrid, or all distributed and move on.
        
             | zeroonetwothree wrote:
             | Just look at the comments in this thread. Plenty of people
             | seem to assume that no one actually wants to go to the
             | office.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | At least at my office, the majority wants to stay remote.
               | Only about a third want to come back in the office. It's
               | not everyone, but it can be a very large segment.
               | 
               | That said, it seems remote would be the planet friendly
               | option. No commute, reduce the need for additional
               | building by retrofitting offices as residences (yeah,
               | zoning), etc.
        
               | dudul wrote:
               | I see some comments where people mention that _they_
               | prefer to work remote /FH, not that everyone who wants to
               | work in an office is an idiot.
        
           | alar44 wrote:
           | The vast vast majority of people don't have 2 hour commutes.
           | This is pretty much an LA or NYC thing. There are other
           | cities in the US and none of them require insane commutes
           | like this.
           | 
           | My drive to work is 7 minutes, I live in a suburban
           | neighborhood. I don't work in the office because there's no
           | need for it.
        
           | Taylor_OD wrote:
           | People are not great at empathy.
           | 
           | If you have small kids working from an office gives you a
           | good place to work with, hopefully, less distractions.
           | 
           | Some people like commuting because its their me time. Some
           | people like the socialization being in an office gives them.
           | Some careers/roles are easier when you can walk over to
           | someones desk and talk to them.
           | 
           | There are plenty of reasons why working in an office might be
           | interesting to someone. Just like there are plenty of reasons
           | why working fully remotely is interesting to someone.
        
           | nappy-doo wrote:
           | You're asking someone to respect your choice to work from an
           | office, while it feels like you're disparaging their choice
           | to live where they want to (or possibly can afford as, for
           | example, most of the suburbs have become cheaper than cities
           | for much of America.)
           | 
           | Can we all just agree that people want different things?
        
           | nonameiguess wrote:
           | I live in the dead center of a major city, but it happens to
           | be a city that isn't much of a tech hub. Thanks to widespread
           | work from home, I can now consider job offers from anywhere
           | and work for a hot startup that just IPO'd and get the same
           | benefits of a bull market for engineering labor as someone
           | younger and/or unattached who can easily move halfway across
           | the country for a better job.
        
       | chasd00 wrote:
       | heh it must hurt to have paid for all that commercial real estate
       | that's now sitting empty. I bet a decent portion of the motive to
       | get employees back in the office is to just validate the rent
       | bill.
        
       | gwbas1c wrote:
       | I've been remote by necessity for 8 years, since 2014.
       | 
       | I'd prefer to be in the office most days; but the realities of
       | life would make it difficult for my wife and I to both have
       | careers and be parents. If either of us had a rigid "be in the
       | office Monday - Friday" job, the other would need to cut back to
       | part time just to care for our young children.
       | 
       | What I've observed: In software, a company that wants you to be
       | on-site Monday - Friday has control issues. Limiting your
       | workforce to people who live within a reasonable commute who are
       | single / single career couples / childless couples just makes it
       | hard to hire.
        
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       | aaccount wrote:
       | Most jobs done need to exist to begin with.
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kehnIQ41y2o
        
         | holyyikes wrote:
         | Ironically one of the biggest bullshit jobs is writing tons of
         | books stating the obvious.
        
       | wing-_-nuts wrote:
       | I know some companies are trying to get their employees to go
       | back to a hybrid schedule, but for me, I think the bell can't be
       | unrung. My company is a f500 company that I would not have
       | thought would remain remote, but we have, and it really helps us
       | hire and retain talent. It honestly helps us recruit people that
       | would otherwise have sought out trendier employers.
        
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       | trentnix wrote:
       | Can Be != Should Be
        
         | kreeben wrote:
         | Why not?
        
           | WillPostForFood wrote:
           | "Can" doesn't tell you if the job is done better or worse,
           | happier or unhappier.
        
             | trentnix wrote:
             | Exactly. I work remote. I am fully planning to work remote
             | for the rest of my career. But I can imagine a number of
             | scenarios where camaraderie, productivity, confidentiality,
             | and quality of work are improved by having people in close
             | proximity.
             | 
             | So I understand why some companies and teams bias toward
             | everyone working in an office. And my choice to work at
             | home will prevent me from being hired at those places. I'm
             | blessed there's plenty of work available for everyone,
             | remote or not.
        
           | biermic wrote:
           | Social interactions.
        
           | lbriner wrote:
           | We are going to have a massive problem with taking on
           | juniors, particularly younger people. Without many people
           | visiting the office, there is a lack of banter,
           | encouragement, confidence building. Imagine you were 16 and
           | your introduction to the world of work was sitting in your
           | own bedroom!
           | 
           | Honestly, I don't know how we deal with it unless we create a
           | schedule where there has to be certain people in the office
           | on certain days so that a junior can get the interaction and
           | support which is as much of job training as anything they can
           | do online.
           | 
           | So that's one example of when can do != should do
        
             | chasd00 wrote:
             | young people are very well acclimated to social isolation
             | and only "connecting" using online means. The younger
             | generations are more mentally equipped (or handicapped) to
             | wfh than any other.
        
             | willcipriano wrote:
             | Firms stopped investing in talent decades ago. Go ask new
             | grads if anyone wants to train you anymore. All the job ads
             | I see are a laundry list of skills and they expect you to
             | hit the ground running on day one.
             | 
             | Once it became necessary to look for a new job every 1 - 2
             | years to stay current with the market, firms stopped with
             | the training, "they will just leave in two years" they
             | cried. In this world your arugment no longer holds water.
        
             | kreeben wrote:
             | "What about the juniors" is not a super convincing argument
             | to me since I've been on-boarding them throughout the
             | pandemic but also prior to that, quite successfully,
             | through the use of basic video linking and sharing of
             | screens. Out team is scattered around the world and that
             | has always been the case. What are some other examples of
             | when WFH doesn't work?
        
               | colinmhayes wrote:
               | As a junior who started in late 2019 I completely
               | disagree. My contact with coworkers greatly decreased
               | when we went remote. Partially that's my fault, partially
               | it's the companies, but the reality is that this is
               | really a hard problem to solve.
        
               | tick_tock_tick wrote:
               | They are pointing out "can" vs "should" sure you can
               | onboard them remotely and try to build team cohesion
               | remotely but it's just worse then in person.
        
             | goodpoint wrote:
             | This is the weirdest take on "think of the children!" that
             | I've heard in a while.
        
             | holyyikes wrote:
             | Sink or swim. I think it's actually a really good way to
             | weed out do nothings.
        
             | coldpie wrote:
             | Yeah. I think it's good that we are exploring what WFH
             | options look like and where they can work, but I think a
             | part of that needs to be recognizing where they _don 't_
             | work, too.
        
         | NationalPark wrote:
         | By what normative standards? It's a labor market. If employers
         | want employees to come in and get middle managed by chair
         | watchers, I'm sure there's a number high enough to convince
         | almost any remote-preferring worker.
        
       | hsnewman wrote:
       | I would change the title to "Approximately 37% of jobs in the
       | United States can be performed entirely at home"
        
         | neogodless wrote:
         | "37%" isn't a number with high precision to be begin with, so
         | the "approximately" is implied.
        
           | hsnewman wrote:
           | I would say that it is quite specific.
        
       | dxbydt wrote:
       | Dr. Dingel writes - "Our code makes it easy for users to explore
       | alternative assumptions about whether any given occupation can be
       | done from home."
       | 
       | His repo - https://github.com/jdingel/DingelNeiman-workathome
       | 
       | Would be a worthwhile student project to replicate this in
       | R/pandas (They used Stata on a Mac, if you know what I mean) &
       | have an interactive online plot so one can change the survey
       | assumptions & see what results. Just collating all this data in
       | one place is a monumental effort.
       | 
       | I remember this paper was a "huge fucking deal" when it came out
       | in Sep 2020. Has like ~1500 cites. Was used by Biden
       | administration to set policy. Co-author Dr. Neiman was personally
       | nominated by Biden for treasury. Authors are Booth school
       | stalwarts. Pls do read the paper, very insightful even if you
       | don't agree with its methodology/conclusions.
        
       | stevenhubertron wrote:
       | I don't hate working in an office. I hate working in an "open
       | plan" office where someone is always interrupting my work.
        
         | zamalek wrote:
         | If you were to prefer working in an office, you can find a
         | local office space that meets your tastes.
         | 
         | Or if you like open office, you could go that direction too.
        
         | silisili wrote:
         | Same. Seems not too long before people started really hating
         | offices, offices started being designed to make you hate them.
         | Open offices, no walls, 'island concept' which sounds all fun
         | and tropical until you learn it just means you no longer even
         | have your own desk.
         | 
         | If companies want people back in offices, make them enticing.
         | Have perks! Imagine everyone getting their own room, with a
         | nice desk and maybe small couch and mini fridge. Having a
         | shared personal assistant to take care of some things, work
         | related or not. Heck, even something as small as a free daycare
         | would be a huge motivator.
         | 
         | If you want people back, start treating them like people and
         | not cattle.
        
           | jjav wrote:
           | > offices started being designed to make you hate them
           | 
           | Indeed. I didn't mind at all going to the office the first
           | many years of my career, where I always had a private office
           | with a closing door.
           | 
           | But with open offices, I'll do everything I can to never be
           | there.
        
           | hn_version_0023 wrote:
           | My wishlist is:
           | 
           | 1. Kill the panopticon (open offices) 2. Employers should
           | bear the cost of ALL commuting
           | 
           | The panopticon is truly dystopian, and whenever I'm in one,
           | the hair on the back of my neck never lays flat. I feel
           | watched (because I am) and it isn't pleasant.
           | 
           | Forcing employers to bear the costs of commuting would really
           | up-end things. We'd all be working from home _really damned
           | quickly_ , and I suspect there'd be massive gains for the
           | environment, climate change, etc.
        
             | 29083011397778 wrote:
             | You think removing a massive cost of ownership will reduce
             | America's useage of large SUVs and pickups?
        
               | hn_version_0023 wrote:
               | It'll definitely reduce usage _in people's commutes_ ,
               | which is all I'm really claiming.
               | 
               | But no, that guy with the raised truck, rolling coal?
               | Hell no, he's gonna die before you take his toy away.
               | 
               | Edit: tbh, I think if corps are footing the bill for
               | commuting, it'll be mass transit for 95% of us. Your
               | employer won't buy you a Ford F350 superduty to get to
               | work. _Maybe_ you're gonna get a Honda Fit. _Maybe_. More
               | likely a bus pass.
        
           | pc86 wrote:
           | I agree with everything you said but how is "free daycare"
           | something small? Daycare costs thousands of dollars and the
           | regulations and licensure are (rightfully) a very high bar. I
           | would see free daycare as a huge perk and I don't even have
           | kids.
        
             | silisili wrote:
             | You're right, its impact is not small at all. My wife
             | pretty much stayed out of the labor market because day care
             | costs so much.
             | 
             | I guess I was thinking the work involved seemed relatively
             | small compared to redesigning whole offices- just carve out
             | a couple areas and hire some caretakers. But I'm pretty
             | ignorant of the laws, regulations, and needs as you pointed
             | out, so that's probably not small at all either.
        
             | Clubber wrote:
             | You get economies of scale with larger companies. The
             | regulations are usually 1 worker per x kids, if I recall
             | and not much more than that. It's not that strict at all.
             | Of course if you had daycare at your company you could have
             | a large room or a wing with a playroom and all that. It's
             | pennies on the dollar to retain good talent, if you
             | actually want to force people back in the office.
        
         | Apocryphon wrote:
         | If companies want to lure employees back into the office, they
         | should give them offices of their own.
        
         | samstave wrote:
         | its funny, when working at Intel, one of the things people
         | bitched about was the cubicles. (1998)
         | 
         | I hate open offices, but having worked in all formats, open
         | offices are bad for mental health.
         | 
         | When working on MPK West for FB, they built an open office to
         | house 3,000 employees with only 5 offices (with escape hatches)
         | for the c-suite.
        
           | cableshaft wrote:
           | Cubicles suck compared to private offices, but they're miles
           | better than open offices.
        
             | samstave wrote:
             | I used to share an office with another engineer, and one
             | thing that we both preferred was t keep the lights off in
             | our office (we had a window office and the ambient light
             | was beneficial.
             | 
             | Lighting is SUPER important, and when youre in an pen
             | office layout you have no control over your lighting.
             | 
             | For this reason alone, one should hate open office layouts.
        
       | smm11 wrote:
       | The world did not exist until Git.
        
       | mwattsun wrote:
       | 5 of us wrote Microsoft Works for the Macintosh while working at
       | home from 1984 to 1992. Without the internet, we got together as
       | needed to merge code, usually once a month, but sometimes once a
       | week. We talked on the phone. We went to Microsoft once in
       | awhile. It was ideal and worked very well.
       | 
       | Maybe it was just our personalities that made it work, but I am
       | astonished that any programmer would rather go into the office.
       | With high speed internet and video conferencing, I assume that
       | some people are just very lonely and need face to face. I see
       | nothing wrong with that. I understand it, but after 1992 I took a
       | job that forced me into an office and I hated it.
       | 
       | I can safely say I never wrote any good code while working in an
       | office. There are too many distractions.
        
         | xhrpost wrote:
         | > some people are just very lonely and need face to face
         | 
         | Sure but some of us are just more extroverted and have better
         | energy in the office. Also having a clean separation of work vs
         | home context can be helpful, training the brain "this is work
         | time"[1]
         | 
         | I think it's totally fair to point out if people are opting for
         | the office just due to a lack of need fulfillment elsewhere in
         | life, but don't think its wise to assume it's only that by a
         | wide margin.
         | 
         | 1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Doorway_Effect
        
         | spaniard89277 wrote:
         | I won't accept any non-remote job where I need long commutes
         | and I have to sit my ass there for the whole week.
         | 
         | Just yesterday we had a summer day, so just after lunch I went
         | to a remote beach, used my phone as AP and worked for about 5
         | hours until nightfall.
         | 
         | No interruptions, no annoying noises, not battling with AC.
         | 
         | I mean, having tasted this, Im pretty sure what would I do if
         | my company asks me to go back to office. I still have a low
         | paying job, but my life has improved dramatically.
         | 
         | And my office is literally 5m walk from my home, so Im already
         | ahead of many people in that, but it's a noisy bunker with no
         | window, lots of people and all kinds of other BS.
         | 
         | People is definitely lonely. I can understand that, but I won't
         | pay for other peoples loneliness.
         | 
         | If you want friends, ask me for a beer, or come to my house, I
         | like to cook for people.
         | 
         | But Id bet that this is more of a managers thing.
        
           | thfuran wrote:
           | You have lunch a few hours before dawn?
        
             | spaniard89277 wrote:
             | Oops! I meant to "anochecer", which is nightfall in english
             | according to google.
        
         | cecilpl2 wrote:
         | This is fascinating to me! How did you manage to merge code in
         | the 80s? What tools were available? Did you have three-way
         | merge tools or did you do it more manually?
         | 
         | Or rather did you talk frequently and ensure that you weren't
         | stepping in each other's files? How did you make changes to
         | shared APIs?
        
           | Clubber wrote:
           | There were always tools to diff two codebases and make a
           | intermediate file that had all the changes. We did it back in
           | the BBS days. You could always take the diff file and type
           | the changes in manually. That's how "mods" worked. It would
           | be something like this                 SomeFile.pas       14:
           | - If Variable = 1       14: + If Variable = 2
        
           | eminence32 wrote:
           | Some "old-timers" at my software company occasionally tell
           | stories about how "checking the source code" meant physically
           | grabbing a the one binder filled with pages of fortran and
           | inserting your changes. Physically holding the binder gave
           | you exclusive checkin access :)
        
           | zozbot234 wrote:
           | > What tools were available?
           | 
           | "My Briefcase", in Windows. It was like cloud shared storage,
           | but using removable media.
        
           | tfigment wrote:
           | I would assume RCS and floppies. CVS later. That is what my
           | company apparently used in that era.
        
           | mwattsun wrote:
           | Macintosh Programmers Workshop had some tools but we mostly
           | did it by hand so we tended to work on different parts of the
           | program. If that was a problem our manager who owned the
           | company would do a road trip to collect the new code that
           | another person needed (we all lived in the Bay Area.) He had
           | a big financial incentive to do so. Or we would get together,
           | but that was not optimal.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Macintosh_Programmer%27s_Works.
           | ..
        
         | headmelted wrote:
         | If you don't mind my asking, have you spent much of your time
         | since then working from home or in an office?
         | 
         | I likewise very much prefer working from home and find I get
         | more done, but wanting to get an idea of what it's like from
         | someone who's seen and done both over the long term.
        
           | mwattsun wrote:
           | Works was my first job out of the Navy in 84, so I had no
           | prior office experience. I spent 94' to 2000 working in 4
           | separate offices for 3 different companies. I remember my
           | first office experience I brought in a cot. People looked at
           | me like I was insane. Well, I guess power naps are out of the
           | question. Then I was exposed to office politics for the first
           | time. Some people walk around hating each other all day. What
           | a downer that was. Some women (and some men) would interrupt
           | me to flirt with me. I didn't mind that so much. Then I would
           | be in deep focus fixing some problem and they'd flash the
           | lights because it was someone's birthday and we all had to go
           | to the conference room because it was someone's birthday and
           | there was cake and ice cream. Again, I didn't mind that so
           | much. I felt for all these reasons and many more I was less
           | productive in an office than I was at home. The office to me
           | is a place a lot of people like because they can f around
           | with their office friends.
           | 
           | Edit: I never worked in an office again after I resumed
           | programming after the dotcom bubble burst. Another anecdote:
           | I got called into HR because someone complained I was yawning
           | too loudly.
        
         | Bluecobra wrote:
         | Didn't Microsoft give everyone their own dedicated office in
         | those days? I thought I read/heard somewhere that is what
         | spawned development of Outlook/Exchange.
         | 
         | I agree about the distractions, it's extremely bad with the
         | open office model and hard to get anything done for me. I would
         | much prefer cubicles or dedicated offices.
        
           | RandallBrown wrote:
           | I had my own office at Microsoft as late as 2013.
           | 
           | It was by _far_ the least favorite work environment I 've
           | ever had. It was lonely and unproductive for me, with a 15
           | minute - 2 hour commute depending on traffic. I came home
           | from work angry every day. I have no idea how I lasted almost
           | two years in that environment.
           | 
           | I really enjoy open offices. My next job was all pair
           | programming all the time. No assigned desks. You just showed
           | up and sat down with a different person every day. For me
           | that's the most productive way to get work done.
           | 
           | For the last 3 years I've been working from home and don't
           | see myself going back to an office ever again. I enjoy my
           | time at home too much.
           | 
           | Everyone is different and not every company has to work the
           | same way.
        
             | Apocryphon wrote:
             | That's amazing to find someone who's actually in favor of
             | open offices, but you are probably in the extreme minority,
             | at least as these HN discussions go.
             | 
             | Couldn't you still pair program in personal offices? Not to
             | mention it would allow for more discussion without
             | background noise. Or what about offices for teams, if
             | individual offices are too isolating?
        
           | Clubber wrote:
           | I remember hearing that too. Having an office with a door or
           | at least a shared office would make it tolerable, but still
           | the commute always put me in a sour mood to start and end the
           | day. Now a days, the fad is open office, which is a dumpster
           | fire for development. I can't believe Apple fell for that
           | with their new mothership.
        
           | mwattsun wrote:
           | This was true in the late 80's early 90's when we used to go
           | up to Redmond from California to pow wow, but I heard that's
           | not true anymore. Also, if any Microsofties are reading this,
           | how would I got about getting the source code of Works for
           | the Mac? It was about 200,000 lines of 68000 asm code that
           | I'm thinking of trying to get to run in the browser. I may
           | make a formal request to Microsoft if I get more motivated
           | about it. I lost my copy along the way.
        
         | Cederfjard wrote:
         | Some people also don't have living conditions at home that are
         | conducive to being productive. Not everyone can afford the
         | space to have a proper home office, for example.
        
           | Someone1234 wrote:
           | > Not everyone can afford the space to have a proper home
           | office, for example.
           | 
           | Because they have to live in expensive urban areas near their
           | workplace. Their money would stretch much further if they
           | could remote-work from rural areas.
        
             | bradlys wrote:
             | Until rural areas cost of living goes up because 37% of
             | people decided to move out to unsustainable rural areas.
             | 
             | Overall - moving to somewhere more rural is a fix for an
             | individual looking to solve their financial problem but it
             | is not a society wide solution. Rural homes are a net drain
             | on society and are subsidized by city workers.
        
               | tayo42 wrote:
               | You also have to live in that rural area too. I think
               | there's more to living then having a giant home with
               | nothing to do. Likely won't be able to relate to the
               | people around you at all.
        
               | marcosdumay wrote:
               | I bet there are plenty of medium-sized cities, with good
               | universities and small tech poles (because let's just say
               | it, you want to be around educated people, and yes, it's
               | nice) with much lower costs of living than where most
               | techies end-up living.
        
             | darkwater wrote:
             | If we are taking into account more than 1/3 of jobs could
             | be remote, that starts to include many white-collar jobs
             | that are not paid _that_ well. And if we extrapolate this
             | from the USA to other places (like Europe) you can live in
             | a small town and still earn just enough to live in a 2 or 3
             | dormitories flat, with no dedicated space for WFH for one,
             | let alone for a couple (it 's 1/3 of the jobs, so chances
             | that both can do WFH are not that low).
        
               | marcosdumay wrote:
               | > it's 1/3 of the jobs, so chances that both can do WFH
               | are not that low
               | 
               | It helps that those are not multiplicative probabilities.
               | They apply to each job, so each partner will have access
               | to ~1/3 of the jobs, totaling an access to ~1/3 of the
               | total jobs.
        
           | pc86 wrote:
           | Absolutely correct. Any everyone's situation is different,
           | but let's be real - the vast majority of software engineers
           | can afford a great home office space.
        
             | spookthesunset wrote:
             | > the vast majority of software engineers can afford a
             | great home office space
             | 
             | Maybe, maybe not. In high cost of living areas even high
             | salary employees with single incomes have to compete with
             | couples pulling in the big bucks.
        
               | marcosdumay wrote:
               | The thing is, if you WFH, you don't have any need to live
               | in a high cost of living area.
        
           | vonseel wrote:
           | I think if a company is going to be fully remote, they should
           | provide an office budget to every employee, so you can either
           | rent an extra bedroom / buy a bigger house / or rent space in
           | a co-working facility.
           | 
           | Working from your bedroom with a desk crammed in the corner
           | is a serious downgrade IMO from having an office with good
           | vibes.
        
         | markus_zhang wrote:
         | With a kid at home I'm very inclined to work in office whenever
         | it allows. I'm also much more productive in office when
         | everything from coffee to food are taken care of.
         | 
         | Nowadays I believe WFH is kinda the norm in IT as long as
         | company policy allows. I love the hybrid mode: two days in
         | office to relax, three days at home to help wifie with kid.
        
           | iso1631 wrote:
           | > two days in office to relax, three days at home to help
           | wifie with kid.
           | 
           | This is not working from home, or working anywhere
           | 
           | If you think working from home means you have time to "help
           | with the kid", you're wrong.
        
             | markus_zhang wrote:
             | I don't know what you mean TBH.
        
               | iso1631 wrote:
               | If you are working from home, you are working. If you are
               | helping out with the kid, you are not working.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | markus_zhang wrote:
               | I'm working when I'm working. Still don't get where you
               | are going with this.
        
         | eminence32 wrote:
         | Nothing anyone says in these comments should invalidate your
         | own personal experiences and successes with your working
         | arrangements.
         | 
         | But I have to admit I'm surprised to hear you say that you are
         | "astonished" that any programmer would prefer to work
         | differently.
         | 
         | 2 things that I've learned from reading NH over the years:
         | tech/programmer people are often very opinionated, and also
         | have widely different opinions on just about everything :)
        
           | mwattsun wrote:
           | Admittedly what you say is true. People tend to believe other
           | people think like them. I go on my own lived experience.
           | Never once in 8 years did any of my coworkers suggest we get
           | an office. We felt lucky to be able to work at home for all
           | the reasons that people give.
           | 
           | I had a couple of other reasons for hating the office that I
           | don't often see mentioned. I'm sensitive to 60 Hz fluorescent
           | lights and also to bad air. Most offices are flooded with
           | this kind of light and don't recirculate the plastic and
           | office supply fumes often enough.
        
           | balaji1 wrote:
           | In this case, tech/programmer people have differing opinions
           | about returning to the office. But the managers or at least
           | the management have only have a single blanket policy for
           | all. A compromise like 2-3 days in the office is one such
           | policy.
        
         | foobiekr wrote:
         | Most software is no longer this self contained. It doesn't need
         | to be that way but often is.
         | 
         | Around 9/11, I was responsible for a major system component
         | that turned out (shocker) to be a lot more work than anyone had
         | estimated, so I spent the week before and the month after 9/11
         | working fully remote so that I could dedicate every waking hour
         | to the component. Putting aside the lack of balance, it was the
         | most productive I have been in my life despite the high
         | distraction of the news in the outside world.
         | 
         | But the last two years have been nothing like that. Some of
         | that is my current role, and some of that is that building
         | complex systems requires more coordination, but it also seems
         | to me that there is some issue both around engineer depth on
         | average (previous example, everyone was fluent in reading code
         | and it spoke for itself) and that software these days in large
         | companies has just so much internet-group overhead.
         | 
         | And video conferencing is a punishment in most large companies,
         | worse than a phone call because it seems, to me, to result in
         | people paying less attention. I may be alone in that though.
        
         | Adraghast wrote:
         | > I assume that some people are just very lonely and need face
         | to face
         | 
         | Anecdata from Hacker News suggests this is true. A lot of
         | lonely young men here freely admit their coworkers are the only
         | people they regularly interact with in-person, and remote work
         | takes that away from them.
        
           | WYepQ4dNnG wrote:
           | That's true, but also very sad. I am lucky enough to have a
           | lovely wife, kids and just enough good friends. And that's
           | all I care about.
           | 
           | I don't really miss at all the office, let alone my co-
           | workers. Working remote is just what I need, and I am way
           | more productive.
        
             | unidosnuestros wrote:
        
             | dimitrios1 wrote:
             | I have all those too. But even when you are fully remote,
             | and have a healthy outside social support system away from
             | work, you cannot ignore the reality that is you spend the
             | majority of your waking hours working alongside these
             | people, often for the same goals and deadlines. It's a
             | basic desire to connect with others we share our time with.
             | 
             | Unless you are one of the rare people where you truly are a
             | solo shop (even then you have people requesting the work
             | from you), I want to meet, converse, and get to know the
             | people that I spend a bulk of my waking hours with, and
             | depend on together to do a good job because I feel like
             | that's showing those other people basic dignity.
        
               | pessimizer wrote:
               | > It's a basic desire to connect with others we share our
               | time with.
               | 
               | I think you're creating a universal here where there is
               | none. I have secure boundaries, and I can enjoy a
               | coworker's company and work without having to be friends
               | with them. And there's also an ugly side to this, where
               | people don't want to have coworkers that they wouldn't
               | want to be friends with. That's not some natural urge,
               | that's something that people impose on a situation that
               | is alienating to people who don't share your politics, or
               | your tastes, or even like the way you treat people (I'm
               | referring to the hypothetical "you" here.)
               | 
               | I have really enjoyed working with people who I'd never
               | want to know outside of work, and have a huge amount of
               | respect for those people whose work ethic and
               | trustworthiness showed a real thoughtfulness and concern
               | about what they were doing and for their coworkers' time
               | and development. That's good enough for me, we don't have
               | to share musical tastes or hobbies. On the other side,
               | I've certainly made friends with people at work, but some
               | of the people I made friends with I hated working with.
               | The two things are barely connected.
        
               | dimitrios1 wrote:
               | Apologies if I wasn't clear, I didn't say or mean be
               | friends with them. But being coworkers with someone is
               | indeed a type of relationship. I wasn't meaning to
               | conflate those two, but acknowledge the commonality
               | between the two.
        
               | burrows wrote:
               | How are you able to appreciate people in a specific
               | capacity without feeling like you need to become buds
               | with them?
               | 
               | How do you avoid forming many negative opinions about a
               | person just because you don't see them as socially
               | interesting?
        
             | 30367286 wrote:
             | >Working remote is just what I need, and I am way more
             | productive.
             | 
             | I acknowledge that you and many others derive personal
             | satisfaction from productivity. I do too. However, I
             | strongly believe we should move away from productivity as
             | the measure of whether we should work from home. Primarily
             | because it individualizes productivity and turns any
             | deficits into a moral failing. It is incumbent on our
             | employers to create the conditions which align productivity
             | with our well-being as people, and balance those. Else, we
             | are being exploited.
             | 
             | Put another way, and framing it opposite from what you
             | said:
             | 
             | "Working remote is not what I need because I am less
             | productive" should _not_ be an argument against working
             | from home. You may not need working remotely for other
             | reasons -- social being one of them -- but it 's important
             | not to prioritize productivity to the occlusion of all
             | other factors.
        
             | commandlinefan wrote:
             | > lucky enough to have a lovely wife
             | 
             | Me too, but I met my wife through work (we didn't work
             | together, but I met her through a lady I did work with). I
             | think a _lot_ of young people - not just men - are hoping
             | to interact with potential romantic partners through work.
        
               | unidosnuestros wrote:
               | That's the best part about work!
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | bboylen wrote:
               | This is true historically but the culture does seem to be
               | moving away from the idea of it being OK to date
               | coworkers. I know a lot of younger people (like me) would
               | be quite nervous about the prospect of coming onto
               | someone in the workplace. Even with good intentions there
               | is potential for miscommunication or making someone
               | uncomfortable.
        
           | nluken wrote:
           | > their coworkers are the only people they regularly interact
           | with in-person
           | 
           | This sort of self-alienation seems to be a pretty widespread
           | problem larger than the in-person/remote debate. That said,
           | it's probably better for those experiencing it to have some
           | in-person socialization in the office than none.
        
             | unidosnuestros wrote:
             | How do you know they aren't travelling the world while
             | "working from home"? Sure, they aren't keeping up with a
             | set group of friends, but they are making new friends every
             | day. The world is bigger than just your tiny little
             | apartment. You can go to Latin America, where they share
             | largely the same timezone as us, but you can play with
             | turtles! Or rescue dogs! Or clean up after penguins (south
             | of argentina). It's really up to you if you think humans
             | are the only way to not be lonely, then yeah, hit up a bar
             | and cry yourself to sleep. But there are other ways. There
             | is so much other there if you just work from home,and stop
             | going into the shitty office, with terrible people. Have
             | you ever noticed the office makes people less original?
             | They all end up looking and acting the same as each other,
             | and I'm the only who who's just come home from petting a
             | penguin and they're like "we just came home from the
             | bar.... again.... for the third time this week...." The
             | office is dead, long live working form home.
        
               | nluken wrote:
               | Sure you _could_ use remote work to do things, but in
               | practice most people don 't. Forcing everyone back into
               | the office without a good reason isn't a good solution,
               | but I think that the option to work in person is an ideal
               | situation to those who like to socialize with others.
               | Personally, I have that flexibility and have started to
               | take advantage of it by working while traveling. But I've
               | observed of my WFH coworkers don't seem to, which goes
               | back to the original point- the alienation is not a
               | function of not going into the office. It's a separate
               | issue that giving that option to people can mitigate.
        
           | throwaway4aday wrote:
           | WFHomers need a modern equivalent of the Knitting Bee.
           | Distinct from a co-working space since it is organized by its
           | members who make an effort to get to know each other and it
           | shouldn't be dependent on membership with some organization,
           | just a grassroots locally organized thing.
        
             | iso1631 wrote:
             | Why?
        
           | achenet wrote:
           | join a sports activity. Free socializing, plus health
           | benefits. :)
        
             | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
             | _> Free socializing, plus health benefits. :)_
             | 
             | Not my experience. At sports activities where I live,
             | people come to do sports, not really to socialize. Once the
             | sport activity is over, most go home to their
             | kids/wives/girlfriends/etc. At least in Germany where the
             | focus is always on the activity at hand, and socializing
             | with strangers is a distraction from the activity you came
             | for.
             | 
             | I practice 3 different sports right now (bouldering,
             | CrossFit and dancing), hoping to maybe make some friends or
             | find a partner out of it in this WFH world and it's all the
             | same, once the activity is over, people want to go home,
             | not stay and have a beer or chat. :(
             | 
             | Maybe I was lucky in the past but the best friends I've
             | ever made and sometimes partners were found on the same
             | workplace or campus, but I sure as hell feel very unlucky
             | and miserable now, however, I really don't wish for people
             | who don't like being in the office to be forced to come to
             | work, that's really stupid, but this hybrid model is the
             | norm where I live and is the worst of both worlds. Some
             | offices are really nightmare material.
        
               | achenet wrote:
               | my condolences. :(
               | 
               | I guess it may depend on the sport group. I've had good
               | luck with the local Basic Fit (globo-gym type outfit, but
               | the nearby branch has some nice people), and my
               | weighlifting club, so perhaps you may find better luck in
               | another sports group?
               | 
               | Back when I lived in Marseille, I actually made a few
               | really nice friendships from hanging out at the Prado
               | street workout park. It was on the beach too, which was
               | really nice.
               | 
               | Climbing is also quite popular, and my local climbing
               | gyms seem rather conductive to random social interactions
               | that could lead to deeper friendships, although honestly
               | I don't go very ofter (less than once per month), so
               | perhaps that's just my perception.
               | 
               | That said, if you're more comfortable meeting people at
               | work, perhaps you would be happier with an office job?
        
               | ChuckNorris89 wrote:
               | How do you make friends at gyms? Here everyone has noise
               | cancelling headphones on, focusing on their sets, and
               | only staring at their equipment or their phone. There's
               | no socializing with strangers going on on unless you
               | brought your own friends, as everyone is busy to do their
               | sets and go home.
               | 
               | And what's the difference between a gym and a
               | weightlifting club? Here we have gyms, where there's free
               | weights, machines and cardio equipment where you can do
               | everything including weightlifting. Never heard of a
               | weightlifting club. What do you do there besides lift
               | weight like in any other gym? Is it done in a group or
               | something?
        
               | achenet wrote:
               | well, I can only answer for my specific case, but the way
               | I made friends at the gym was basically people noticing
               | that I was doing the Olympic lifts and commenting on
               | that, plus occasionally giving random
               | compliments/technique tips to people.
               | 
               | By weightlifting club I mean an association centered
               | around competitive Olympic lifting. So you train
               | individually, but can sign up for competitions, and are
               | generally always around competitive lifters.
               | 
               | I've also heard CrossFit has a good community, not sure
               | how accurate this is, however.
        
               | odshoifsdhfs wrote:
               | Maybe try a more 'team' oriented sport? I have found
               | padel tennis to be probably one of the most 'socializing'
               | sports I have played (too much even for my tastes). The
               | fact you have to play in pairs forces you to interact
               | with someone, and is rare the game where a beer after to
               | talk about it doesn't happen. (unless it is a weird
               | hours).
               | 
               | I made also good social circles playing tennis and doing
               | bjj, even though those are more 'individual' things, they
               | seem to include a part of a social element to it as well.
               | 
               | Never tried dancing, but the times I did bouldering and
               | crossfit, unless you were going in a group with already a
               | beer planned after, they tend to be more start-end kind
               | of things.
        
           | closeparen wrote:
           | I meet people outside of work "regularly" - more weekends
           | than not - but a coffee or a hike or a live performance here
           | and there is very different from casually sharing a building
           | on a random Tuesday.
           | 
           | The comparison isn't a social life, it's a family or
           | roommates.
        
           | renewiltord wrote:
           | The interesting thing is that folks on HN who want to work
           | from the office just say "I can see why you're remote. Just
           | not for me. I prefer to work in a team that's all in-office"
           | but folks on HN who want to work remote always go "It's
           | because you're lonely that you can't work remote. I have a
           | loving wife and children. You are miserable and using
           | coworkers as a substitute for social company."
           | 
           | Like, dude, we get it. This is important to you. So go work
           | where you find that. A bit tiresome to constantly come into
           | these threads and listen to this endless repetitious
           | nonsense.
           | 
           | Christ on a stick. Do you never tire of it?
        
           | stjohnswarts wrote:
           | It isn't my responsibility to help "lonely young men" meet
           | people. Just go to a bar/meetup/church and start talking.
           | That's an individual's responsibility to socialize.
        
           | mumblemumble wrote:
           | It's more than that. I'm mid-life, with kids, meaning that my
           | best opportunity for getting out of the house on a regular
           | basis is while they're at school. Without that, days can go
           | by without a significant change of scenery, especially in
           | winter when spending evenings at the park isn't a great
           | option.
           | 
           | I'm not lonely, _per se_ , but, all the same, the pandemic
           | has been very, very difficult for me. I went from being a
           | longtime remote worker who went to a coworking space most
           | days, to what has sometimes felt like two years of house
           | arrest.
           | 
           | I agree that going in to an office - especially an open plan
           | one where they pack desks end-to-end in giant noisy rooms -
           | is a less-than-stellar option, too. But I also suspect that
           | many people's newfound love of WFH is fueled in part by the
           | novelty of the experience, and that the shine will wear off
           | after a couple more years.
        
           | JohnHaugeland wrote:
           | > A lot of lonely young men here freely admit their coworkers
           | are the only people they regularly interact with in-person
           | 
           | Well, with the 8 hours they're getting back from not
           | commuting, they'll have more time to go out and socialize in
           | non-work settings
        
           | thinkharderdev wrote:
           | I think a lot of it is the exact circumstances of you office
           | as well. All else equal I think I would actually prefer
           | working in an office assuming that:
           | 
           | 1. It felt like a "real" space (i.e. not a beige cubical
           | farm)
           | 
           | 2. Was not excessively loud
           | 
           | 3. I had a comfortable chair/workspace
           | 
           | 4. I could walk there from my house in under 20 minutes
           | 
           | 5. There was no dress code
           | 
           | 6. There was nobody there who I found deeply annoying and
           | also insisted on interacting with me regularly
           | 
           | And I think a lot of people (especially young people who live
           | in cities close to where they work) actually do have
           | something approximating that situation.
        
             | ecshafer wrote:
             | Being able to walk there from my house in under 20 minutes
             | is a big thing for me. If I am a 1-3 miles walk/bike ride,
             | I would go to the office all of the time. Assuming its a
             | safe comfortable commute. I hate driving in rush hour
             | personally, any amount of distance.
             | 
             | Also feeling like a real place is nice. I actually don't
             | mind a cubical, though an office would be nicer. I really
             | hate open office though, and open office makes me never
             | want to go in. If it felt like a cozy coffee shop, or a
             | college campus that would be ideal.
        
               | thinkharderdev wrote:
               | Yeah, I don't mind a cubicle per se (especially compared
               | to the typical open office) but I found the traditional
               | cubicle farm offices, where everything is this bland,
               | monochromatic beige color and lit with neon lights, very
               | depressing.
        
           | long_time_gone wrote:
           | Interesting how you automatically assigned a gender. My wife
           | has worked from home for 4 years and can't wait to get back
           | into an office. I like to think that some people just have
           | different preferences.
        
           | weatherlite wrote:
           | We are social creatures, there is something quite unnatural
           | only interacting with your wife/kid or worse - with no one
           | else at all, for weeks and months. If not the office, workers
           | are better off using some social working space, but
           | unfortunately WFH is so tempting and easy most will resort to
           | that. Psychologically it's not ideal. Yes the office can be a
           | pain, commute and what not, but loneliness could be worse.
        
             | onion2k wrote:
             | _We are social creatures, there is something quite
             | unnatural only interacting with your wife /kid or worse -
             | with no one else at all, for weeks and months._
             | 
             | Offices are significantly less 'natural' than spending time
             | with a small group of people. If you go back a thousand
             | years or so _many_ people lived their entire life within a
             | mile or two of where they were born - they grew up, worked,
             | got married, lived and died in a single village. In lots of
             | more isolated cases people would have only met a couple of
             | hundred people _in their entire lifetime._
             | 
             | It's definitely unusual to lead such a limited life today,
             | but psychologically it's not that bad. People survived
             | pretty well, and they continue to now.
        
               | deadbeeves wrote:
               | That "small" group would consist of something like 100
               | people, not 5. If you want to appeal to nature, it's
               | _less_ natural for your family to be your entire social
               | circle, than for it to include casual workplace
               | acquaintances.
        
               | weatherlite wrote:
               | Not sure why you're being downvoted, this is the truth.
               | We are much closer to a pack of chimps than anything
               | else, definitely not 2-3 family members (and even 2-3
               | members is optimistic considering divorce rate and
               | plummeting child bearing) . We lived in groups of a few
               | dozens of members for hundreds of thousands of years.
        
               | closeparen wrote:
               | There was much more of a community life outside the home,
               | with your fellow villagers.
        
               | biomcgary wrote:
               | In this case, the community is defined by the proximity
               | to your home. Working at an office with a typical US
               | commute is not remotely the same.
        
               | deadbeeves wrote:
               | Working remotely from home is also a very different
               | lifestyle, so I'm not sure what the argument is. Living
               | as if it's the 1000 BC is not in the cards.
        
               | Kye wrote:
               | Perhaps there's a connection between the loss of
               | community and the rise of long commutes to drab office
               | parks.
        
             | civilized wrote:
             | > If not the office, workers are better off using some
             | social working space, but unfortunately WFH is so tempting
             | and easy most will resort to that. Psychologically it's not
             | ideal.
             | 
             | I would caution against the presumption that people will do
             | things that are "bad" for them because they're convenient
             | and you have to force them to do things that are "good" for
             | them instead.
             | 
             | In these comments you can see examples of people who are
             | going to co-working spaces. Obviously they feel they need
             | it and I support them. Personally I have no interest in
             | going to a co-working space. I love my WFH solitude and
             | autonomy, and 2021 was the most productive year of my life
             | work-wise.
             | 
             | Is this psychologically bad for me, regardless of my own
             | perceptions and experience? I suppose it's possible, but I
             | don't think some random boss with the power to fire me
             | unless I come into the office is a better judge of that
             | than I am.
             | 
             | Random boss is not enlightened by virtue of being a boss.
             | Surely anyone who has nodded their head to a Dilbert comic
             | knows that by now. Random boss will do what's good for
             | himself, not what's good for me.
             | 
             | Paternalistic, collectivist authoritarianism has dominated
             | human thought for most of our history. It's only recently
             | that individual autonomy and freedom have become more
             | influential. I think that's a very good thing and I'm not
             | going back.
        
               | weatherlite wrote:
               | I never said you have to force them, that's a
               | philosophical question with no clear answer, I'm just
               | stating a problem - which is called loneliness and
               | solitude and which affects most people. Its very possible
               | in your individual case 100% remote work is what's good
               | for you, but it's not likely that its good for most
               | people most of the time because it goes against
               | everything we know about our nature and genes. Now if a
               | person is 100% remote worker but he invests heavily in
               | socializing then there shouldn't be a problem. The
               | trouble is I don't think most people will do this, at
               | least not enough. Many people lack discipline and have
               | very weak will power; so many of us find it extremely
               | hard to do the things which we know are good for mental
               | well being - such as exercising, eating right and
               | socializing with friends and family. We find it extremely
               | easy and even addictive to do things which aren't great
               | (or even bad) for mental well being such as Netflix
               | binging, reading Twitter and eating junk food and not
               | leaving the house for lengthy periods. The easy thing to
               | do is just WFH and not bother with seeing anyone, because
               | calling up friends is hard work. Sure, people will still
               | see friends but not more than they did before they went
               | WFH. It's mostly just gonna be people working from home,
               | alone, or with a spouse if you're lucky. This is why I'm
               | not incredibly optimistic.
        
           | hooande wrote:
           | This doesn't make sense. There are countless opportunities
           | for social interaction. Join a church, a club, a sports
           | league, a gaming discord. I get that there's a lot of
           | friction involved in joining anything, and many 'lonely young
           | men' don't want to put forth that effort. But it's definitely
           | less total effort than forcing people to come to an office
           | for the purpose of social stimulation. Just measured in terms
           | of time and fuel spent commuting by each person, it isn't
           | even close.
           | 
           | I think there are a lot of reasons that people prefer
           | offices. Most of it is probably tradition and "that's the way
           | we've always done things". If the reason is truly lonely
           | people needing social interaction, then there are a lot of
           | way better solutions.
        
             | infamouscow wrote:
             | One thing to consider is the tech industry is over
             | represented by neurodivergent people that struggle with
             | social interaction. What you're suggesting is not feasible
             | for everyone.
        
             | mhh__ wrote:
             | Churches and most clubs don't have extremely intelligent
             | people with similar interests i.e. your tribe. When I talk
             | to my friends I am usually at maybe 20% brain "power", when
             | I'm at work I can mention basically anything and someone
             | will have heard of it.
             | 
             | YMMV.
        
             | holyyikes wrote:
        
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               | infamouscow wrote:
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           | ethbr0 wrote:
           | I'd spin this around and cast it as a challenge -- regular,
           | forced interactions with coworkers is minimally sufficient
           | and retards some people from pursuing social activities
           | outside the home.
           | 
           | There are already a number of options in even the smallest
           | town. I expect that will increase as more people move to WFH
           | and seek social outlets.
           | 
           | And at the end of the day "interacting with coworkers in the
           | break room" is a pretty low quality bar for an alternative to
           | surmount. Maybe your work conversations are more fascinating
           | than mine, but I get more value elsewhere.
        
             | Riverheart wrote:
             | There are reasons people don't pursue activities outside of
             | work because they only require a minimal amount of
             | interaction with people or they don't have time for
             | socialization outside of work. Conversations with
             | clubmembers won't be appreciably more meaningful than
             | conversations with coworkers.
             | 
             | A benefit is that your social circle exists independent of
             | your job status but you've got to do it on your own time.
        
             | closeparen wrote:
             | I don't particularly enjoy the forced, stilted chatter but
             | I do get a lot of value from:
             | 
             | a) Being obliged to put on clothes and leave the house.
             | 
             | b) Spending a large part of the day at a change of scenery.
             | 
             | c) Having other people there, around, ambiently.
             | 
             | Spending 23 hours a day alone in your room + 1 hour for
             | outdoor exercise, with occasional weekend visitation, is
             | among the worst punishments the state has at its disposal.
             | It boggles the mind that people do this voluntarily.
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | WFH don't require working at home, you can work wherever
               | you want.
               | 
               | Laptop + 5G means you can work outside for much of the
               | year at a local park etc. You can do all that coworker
               | social stuff with your friends rather than people you
               | happen to work with.
               | 
               | Even if you do stay home skipping your commute and eating
               | at home saves significant time and money every week you
               | can use to again socialize with people you want to
               | actually be around.
        
               | rebeccaskinner wrote:
               | You are viewing remote work through the particular
               | circumstance of the pandemic. Remote work before covid
               | was very different, and I expect in time we'll get back
               | to a lot of that.
               | 
               | I worked remotely before the pandemic, and most days I
               | still have ample opportunities to meet and talk to
               | people. Most weeks I'd attend a meetup (I'm in a small
               | city in the midwest and we still had plenty of events to
               | cater to most any niche technical interest you'd care to
               | name). A couple of times a month I'd meet up with other
               | remote workers for lunch at a restaurant somewhere
               | convenient to all of us. I regularly hosted, or attended,
               | game nights with friends I met- mostly through the
               | meetups.
               | 
               | I was never one for coworking spaces, and I don't even
               | have a lot of non-development hobbies that had me meeting
               | other people, and I still managed to have a pretty rich
               | social life and meet people, make friends, and even got
               | some of the sorts of creative boosts people claim only
               | come from in-office working (because you talk to people
               | about what problems they work on, or their interests, and
               | it sparks ideas for how to apply those to your own work).
               | 
               | Things right now are still bleak because of the pandemic.
               | It sucks, and it sucks worse knowing that this could have
               | been over by now if the response hadn't been so
               | universally mishandled, but a lot of what sucks about the
               | pandemic will continue to suck- or suck differently but
               | the same amount, if you go back to an office. Remote work
               | isn't for everyone, and you really might still find that
               | all things being equal the office just works best for
               | you, and that's fine, but don't confuse "the pandemic
               | sucks" for "remote work sucks".
        
               | vkou wrote:
               | > You are viewing remote work through the particular
               | circumstance of the pandemic.
               | 
               | Those particular circumstances of the pandemic haven't
               | been with us for almost a year, now, ever since mass
               | vaccination started. I hated WFH in 2020, and I hated WFH
               | in 2021, and I still hate WFH today. Despite having no
               | pandemic restrictions on what I can do today.
               | 
               | And even prior to vaccination, if you wanted to go out
               | and do stuff, most establishments/businesses/travel
               | options/etc were open since late 2020.
        
               | rebeccaskinner wrote:
               | As much as people want to pretend the pandemic is over,
               | it isn't. The legal restrictions might have lifted in
               | most places, but there's a big gap between that and
               | things being back to how they were before- or how they'll
               | be once we've actually hit the endemic part of covid and
               | have a better understanding of what that looks like.
               | 
               | You can still go to a restaurant today, or travel, and
               | co-working spaces might be open, but enough people are
               | still reluctant to attend events that a lot of things
               | aren't sustainable right now. I certainly wouldn't go
               | meet someone at a restaurant for lunch right now, even
               | though I can. Most of my friends feel the same way.
               | Conferences are still happening, but a lot of conferences
               | remain virtual, and a lot of people who might otherwise
               | attend conferences aren't. Either because they are still
               | concerned about covid today, or because they don't want
               | to risk buying tickets, booking travel, and taking time
               | off for a conference that might be canceled or
               | rescheduled due to yet another surge. Tech meetups have
               | almost entirely stopped. Nearly all meetups were hosted
               | by companies, and while those companies might be talking
               | about RTO for their employees, few of them are interested
               | in hosting large groups of strangers after-hours right
               | now. Even if you could find a venue- attendance would be
               | quite low these days.
        
               | vkou wrote:
               | > As much as people want to pretend the pandemic is over,
               | it isn't.
               | 
               | No, it's not over, in fact we're at our worst rate of
               | world-wide daily cases since November 2021. Believe me,
               | I'm both a pessimist, and one of the more COVID-cautious
               | people here.
               | 
               | But in _my_ region /anywhere I'd like to go, I can, and
               | currently feel comfortable doing just about anything I
               | want[1] - and have been for most of the past year (Sans
               | Omicron surge).
               | 
               | > You can still go to a restaurant today, or travel, and
               | co-working spaces might be open, but enough people are
               | still reluctant to attend events that a lot of things
               | aren't sustainable right now. I certainly wouldn't go
               | meet someone at a restaurant for lunch right now, even
               | though I can.
               | 
               | Sure, you may feel that way - but I haven't felt that
               | way. So, for _me_ , there are no practical restrictions
               | on what I, or my friends can do. Nothing that I liked
               | doing three years ago is unavailable today.
               | 
               | ... And yet, I vastly prefer going into work over WFH.
               | 
               | [1] I don't feel comfortable licking doorknobs or getting
               | into a moshpit, but I didn't feel comfortable doing that
               | pre-COVID, either.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | > ... And yet, I vastly prefer going into work over WFH.
               | 
               | Could be just an imbalance between the pre-pandemic world
               | and then two years of the pandemic world. It's quite
               | possible if you had entered WFH when society was normal,
               | there wouldn't be this sharp jolt.
        
               | vkou wrote:
               | That's certainly a hypothesis, but I can't exactly climb
               | into a time machine and turn back the clock.
               | 
               | I also don't envision how I would have done WFH any
               | differently in a non-pandemic world, from how I do it
               | today.
        
               | vgel wrote:
               | Thanks for these comments -- this one and your reply to
               | vkou. I started working out of college during the
               | pandemic, and my current gig is remote-native, so I've
               | been kind of dooming about remote work. This is some
               | great advice for how to get past that + a good reminder
               | that COVID is still affecting things -- I've been going
               | with my partner to a board game group and swing classes,
               | but the activation energy is definitely higher than
               | before.
               | 
               | Curious -- have you found anything that (partially?)
               | replaces those opportunities, either online or in-person?
               | I joined a Discord server and gave a talk about JPEG at
               | one of their events, which was fun, but not frequent for
               | me to feel that it's a replacement for having in-person
               | coworkers.
        
               | rebeccaskinner wrote:
               | I'll admit it's pretty hard to replace the in-person
               | events. I am in some slack and discord communities, and
               | I've done a couple of online conferences. I really used
               | to enjoy presenting at meetups and was very upset to have
               | had to turn down an invitation to an in-person conference
               | this fall because of covid. Virtual talks and meetups
               | aren't really the same, but they are what I've made do
               | with in the short term.
               | 
               | I'm not much for traditional online games, but I know
               | some friends who have used that as a more natural way to
               | do online socializing. I've done some online D&D and have
               | found that is better than other kinds of online meetups
               | for socializing, because it gives you enough space to
               | have conversations and chat, but still gives you enough
               | of a focus and it just feels less exhausting than other
               | kinds of online meetups- the tools are really good these
               | days too.
        
               | ethbr0 wrote:
               | > _started working out of college during the pandemic_
               | 
               | * Caveat: remote-only, during the pandemic, right out of
               | college would probably be the worst of all possible
               | worlds
               | 
               | Most of the things that people like about WFH are
               | contingent on being in a later stage of your career
               | (college + 5 years?). Having a place with multiple rooms.
               | Having something of a physical social network. Having
               | self-confidence in your abilities, based on prior
               | performance. Knowing how to navigate office politics.
               | 
               | Plus, most of the things you _would_ be doing at that
               | stage were interrupted: bars, clubs, etc.
               | 
               | Which is to say, you're absolutely right, and I agree
               | with your perspective. But it does get better. But I'm
               | sure that's cold comfort.
               | 
               | A more articulate, and less rageful version of my
               | original post would probably have been "I believe we
               | Americans are (and were!) doing badly at creating
               | opportunities for adult friendships and socialization,
               | and I would rather we aspire to improve things vs going
               | back to the way they were."
        
               | bcrosby95 wrote:
               | I assume you don't have any friends or family outside of
               | work that live close to you?
               | 
               | My group of friends gets lunch together 3-4 days out of
               | the workweek. We even sometimes do dinner with eachother
               | during the week. Sometimes we do this with family instead
               | - my wife's sister and parents live within 15 minutes of
               | us.
               | 
               | And we have kids that we lug with us.
        
               | closeparen wrote:
               | I meet my friends for specific events (cycling, running,
               | lunch, coffee, concert, theater, etc) lasting a few hours
               | each on the weekends.
               | 
               | I don't know anyone who wants to do those kinds of things
               | on workdays, or to be "around" without a specific
               | activity planned.
               | 
               | It's something but it's still very little compared to
               | working together.
        
               | mantas wrote:
               | In my whereabouts weekday evenings is where the fun
               | social stuff goes (well, used to before pandemics). Group
               | rides, group runs, orienteering events, bar trivia
               | nights... You get most attendants on weekdays since on
               | weekends many people are out of town (family,
               | summerhouses, etc) and/or go to full-day events.
               | 
               | Theater performances or concerts are not uncommon on
               | weekdays either. Touring artists just have to play on
               | whatever day it turns out to be.
               | 
               | Also, once remote working with lax schedules become the
               | norm, more opportunities will come up. E.g. I fondly
               | remember times when my friends' and mine schedules would
               | click and we could do quick morning rides.
        
               | closeparen wrote:
               | I think the problem is, since working fully remote means
               | spending about twice as much time in formally scheduled
               | meetings, and those meetings are significantly more
               | draining on Zoom than in person, both I and the people I
               | might socialize with feel a lot more drained at the end
               | of the work day and less interested in doing anything
               | non-vegetative. Previously we would go for dinner or
               | drinks after work pretty often.
        
               | katbyte wrote:
               | Work is only 8 hours of the day, 8 to sleep, 2 for chores
               | meals etc leaves 6 for whatever you want socializing with
               | whoever you want?
               | 
               | Being obligated to go to the same place with the same
               | people 5 days a week following the same routine seems
               | dreadful to me.
        
               | tharkun__ wrote:
               | Don't mix up pandemic restrictions with 100% remote work
               | from home.
               | 
               | I put on clothes every day. I only wear a nice t-shirt
               | though and otherwise wear my 'at home pants' that I would
               | also put on as soon as I'd come home from the office. My
               | nice pants last much longer now.
               | 
               | I really don't like the office scenery very much. I also
               | do not like the scenery in between, i.e. a huge city that
               | has no greenery, the commute is equally dull, boring and
               | unappealing. Vs. my home where in summer I can actually
               | sit outside on the deck all day and enjoy the scenery.
               | It's lush and green and warm vs. the cold, dry AC air
               | blowing in my face and forcing me to wear a jacket inside
               | the office.
               | 
               | Depending on whether you have family and/or family that
               | also works from home, people are even around 'ambiently'
               | but at least they're only around ambiently without
               | constantly distracting you. They're in a different room
               | doing their own work most of the time.
               | 
               | After 8 hours of work I am free to do what I want. Go
               | outside, take a walk, meet friends etc.
        
               | marcosdumay wrote:
               | I do like my path to work. In fact, I go there once in a
               | while, and come back just to get a long walk.
               | 
               | I do like my previous office. It happens that I had to
               | improve my home when I got here, but after spending
               | around 1/5 of my monthly salary, my home is now even a it
               | more comfortable and I use it when not working too. If
               | you have a minimum of space, that's quite doable, and if
               | you don't, why don't you want to move into a cheaper
               | place?
               | 
               | Even those reasons don't add up to much.
        
             | 30367286 wrote:
             | >I'd spin this around and cast it as a challenge --
             | regular, forced interactions with coworkers is minimally
             | sufficient and retards some people from pursuing social
             | activities outside the home.
             | 
             | Absolutely. Additionally, even getting to that set of
             | regular, forced interactions necessarily consumes the
             | limited time those people would have to pursue those social
             | activities outside the home. That is, it's hard to have a
             | strong social life when you commute, at best, 5 hours a
             | week. And that's if you're _lucky_.
             | 
             | All of this benefits corporations. Especially, insidiously,
             | the notion that your job can and should double as your
             | social life.
             | 
             | What concerns me, today, is that that we're in this middle
             | stage where things could tip either way. For this reason, I
             | think it's important for us to bang the drum loudly that we
             | won't spend 40-50 hours in the office. Hybrid is a
             | sufficient compromise.
        
               | saltharp wrote:
               | > That is, it's hard to have a strong social life when
               | you commute, at best, 5 hours a week. And that's if
               | you're lucky.
               | 
               | "At best"? The average commute in the US is 27.6 minutes,
               | according to the Census Bureau. My commute is a 10 minute
               | bike ride. Luck had nothing to do with it, just a
               | different set of priorities in life.
               | 
               | https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2021/one-
               | way-...
        
               | Terretta wrote:
               | > _27.6 minutes_
               | 
               | Something's wrong with this stat. Almost nobody can get
               | from chair at home to chair at work in that time.
               | 
               | My present office is 1.6 miles of which ~1 mile is
               | Interstate, yet it's at best 22 minutes house door to
               | office door (not chair to chair) if I hit traffic lights,
               | as low as 14 minutes if all greens. Google Maps and Apple
               | Maps say it's 6 - 8 minutes in off hours. Once car is on
               | street, only greens, and before turning into parking,
               | _maybe_ that's right.
               | 
               | This suggests two things: (a) maybe they mean time in
               | vehicle in motion not chair-to-chair, (b) maybe they are
               | computing address to address absent traffic.
               | 
               | I'm also suspicious of the word "average". For instance,
               | I can picture bi-modal commute times: a set that are 0
               | minutes (like Amazon support answering calls from
               | 'virtual call center' at home), and a set that are long
               | tail, as alluded to in this quote:
               | 
               | > _The average American is traveling 26 minutes to their
               | jobs -- the longest commute time since the Census started
               | tracking it in 1980, up 20 percent. Commutes longer than
               | 45 minutes are up 12 percent in that time span, and
               | 90-minute one-way commutes are 64 percent more common
               | than in 1990._
               | 
               | With 90 minute one way commutes going on, maybe the
               | average data is asking people who are in denial.
               | 
               | But the simplest explanation is also in that quote:
               | _travel_ time. It's certainly not start stopwatch, get
               | ready to commute, get to your transit, wait for your
               | transit (e.g. warm up car or wait for bus), get in
               | motion, travel, stop, dispense with transit (park car,
               | lock bike), get from your transit to workplace, get
               | situated, stop stopwatch.
               | 
               | // I've prioritized "least traffic lights" and ideally
               | "walkability" since university. From 2017 to 2021 I paid
               | a massive premium to be able to get chair-to-chair
               | (including both elevator waits) in ~8 minutes on foot w/
               | no transit in midtown Manhattan. Commute times matter to
               | me, I use tools to heatmap them when choosing work and
               | residences, so just not buying average possibility of 26
               | mins.                   ------ BEGIN_EDIT ------
               | 
               | Yes, it was just travel time.
               | 
               | I found the US Census source, it's a question Census said
               | was asking people for 'travel time' and respondents
               | probably in optimistic denial:
               | 
               |  _Question on Travel Time to Work from the American
               | Community Survey 2019_
               | 
               |  _Q.35: How many minutes did it usually take this person
               | to get from home to work LAST WEEK?_
               | 
               | The Census writeup includes distributions:
               | 
               | https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publica
               | tio...
               | 
               | Yes, it's a touch bi-modal, with a valley in the 5 minute
               | period that's also the "average". No, bicycle isn't
               | helping much, only shaves 6 mins on 'average'. Ten
               | percent are in the car over an hour.
               | 
               | Insofar as their data is travel time not total time
               | chair-to-chair (time between being able to be doing
               | something else at each end), and it's self surveyed not
               | measured, I buy it.                   ------  END_EDIT
               | ------
        
               | humanwhosits wrote:
               | Hybrid has all the downsides of office work, it's just
               | less hours of it
        
               | beamatronic wrote:
               | My objection to office work these days has more to do
               | with thousands of unmasked people all together, spreading
               | viruses.
        
               | vladvasiliu wrote:
               | Not strictly all. You still have more time on the days
               | you work from home, which you could use to be social.
               | 
               | But yeah, if everyone is "hybrid", then the pressure on
               | the housing market is unlikely to go down enough, which
               | means that many people may find themselves in living
               | conditions poor for remote work, which means they're more
               | likely to go more often to the office, which means
               | they're back to where they started...
        
               | 30367286 wrote:
               | Alas, this is the nature of compromise. Your downside is
               | your employer's upside.
        
               | eikenberry wrote:
               | It just means "the employer" has to keep the office space
               | for a lot of people who will only use it occasionally and
               | all the costs associated with that. I doubt most
               | employers would consider that an upside.
        
               | lamontcg wrote:
               | > Hybrid is a sufficient compromise.
               | 
               | No it isn't.
        
               | iso1631 wrote:
               | I'm happy to meet up every few months, assuming my time
               | and travel is paid for and it's arranged well in advance
        
               | 30367286 wrote:
               | This is really how it ought to go. Once a quarter, we all
               | descend on one city for one week. We make big plans, we
               | revel in each other's company, and we see a new part of
               | the world or see a familiar part of the world in a new
               | way with colleagues. Then we go back.
        
               | 30367286 wrote:
               | What is a sufficient compromise, in your view, that
               | satisfies the need of some workers to have regular face
               | to face interactions with coworkers and prevents
               | corporations unprepared to manage a remote team from
               | whipping back to full in-office?
               | 
               | I do not want to put words in your mouth, but since you
               | offered so few of them, I am tempted to believe you are
               | one of the few lucky workers who has sufficient leverage
               | to wholesale refuse to work in an office. If that is you,
               | or if you the reader are such a person: consider the path
               | we must take to bring flexible work to more people.
               | 
               | With that goal and those prerequisites in mind, what is a
               | sufficient compromise?
        
               | tharkun__ wrote:
               | A sufficient compromise would be to _allow_ the people
               | that want regular face to face interactions with
               | coworkers to go to the office and do just that. Not sure
               | what the culture is in your place but at my place
               | everyone has their video on in calls, so there 's always
               | face-to-face communication (exceptions can apply of
               | course in some circumstances but that is the general
               | rule) that way. People that want that do go to the office
               | from time to time and do just that. But they do it with
               | like minded people.
               | 
               | What is not a sufficient compromise is to _force_ people
               | that don 't need face-to-face in person interaction into
               | the office again when we have found out that remote works
               | perfectly well.
        
               | 30367286 wrote:
               | > But they do it with like minded people
               | 
               | This is the main problem I see with your compromise. The
               | self-sorting will create or enforce existing silos. The
               | compromise is not only between you and your employer, but
               | also between you and your coworkers. You might derive no
               | value from face to face interaction, but your coworkers
               | certainly do -- and that includes you.
               | 
               | I suspect that this self-sorting will result in a very
               | loud cohort of in-office workers demanding everyone come
               | back, which spoils the whole deal.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | But if I'm forced to come in for two days I'm going to go
               | in, keep my head down, and get out, which is what I did 5
               | days a week before. The loud people have always and will
               | always dominate those conversations.
        
               | tharkun__ wrote:
               | Definite +1 to my sibling about coming in and keeping the
               | head down.
               | 
               | Not sure which kinds of silos you are talking about. If
               | it's silos as in social circles, that exists with 100%
               | in-office as well. You know, the people that always sit
               | together at lunch, always go out together for lunch or
               | coffee, that meet after work at the pub and the people
               | that eat lunch at their desk or off to the side, drink
               | office-coffee only and don't go to the pub but go home to
               | their family instead.
               | 
               | If you're talking about departmental or team silos those
               | existed with 100% in-office as well. Marketing not
               | talking to Product or Dev? Nothing really changed here I
               | would argue. If anything it might have gotten better
               | because everyone thought it would get worse and very
               | actively tried to do something about it.
               | 
               | Face to face communication works very well over video and
               | I derive enormous value from it. Only using written
               | communication or audio only would suck big time.
               | Especially when first getting to know someone that you've
               | never met in person. But I don't have to sit in the same
               | room with them or be 12 floors away from them for most of
               | the day except for the meeting at three, when we both
               | take the elevator, them 3 floors down, me 9 floors up to
               | talk about something.
               | 
               | I agree that there will probably be a loud cohort of in-
               | office workers that demand others to come back and if
               | they succeed it will spoil the whole deal. But that
               | doesn't get better with a 2-day in-office hybrid
               | compromise either. If anything they would have much more
               | pull already when they demand we go back to 5 days a week
               | "because obviously 3 days of remote work are bad, we only
               | get anything done ever in the 2 forced in-office days".
        
               | marcosdumay wrote:
               | Oh, on my experience person to person interaction got
               | much easier more common, because you don't have to get up
               | and go to a different floor, or to the other end of your
               | floor, or to another city.
               | 
               | We have some processes with high interaction on our
               | development, and when people were considering going back
               | to the office (in the end, we didn't) we met and decided
               | how we would do then now. The remote option worked so
               | much better than in person that there wasn't any
               | discussion.
        
               | grardb wrote:
               | Assuming the word "hybrid" is being used to mean that an
               | individual employee has to go into the office for at
               | least some amount of time per week/month/whatever:
               | 
               | Here's the issue I have with the main argument I see
               | against remote work, or rather the main argument I see in
               | favor of forcing people to commute to an office
               | ("satisfies the need of some workers to have regular face
               | to face interactions with coworkers"):
               | 
               | I want to be at home, and I am fine being at home. Why
               | should _I_ need to go to an office because of _a coworker
               | 's_ need for social interaction? I don't need that social
               | interaction. To me, the argument always seems very self-
               | centered from the point of view of pro-office people. Let
               | the people who need that social interaction go to the
               | office, and let everyone else stay home if they want.
               | There's no reason that someone should be forced to go to
               | an office because of the needs of other people,
               | especially when those needs have nothing to do with work.
               | 
               | This is like arguing that I should be wearing a certain
               | color of clothing because some people like to (or need
               | to?) see that color. That's not my problem to solve for
               | them.
               | 
               | I get plenty of social interaction outside of work hours.
               | There should be zero expectation for me to spend more
               | time, energy, and/or money (getting ready, preparing or
               | buying lunch, commuting both ways, etc.) so that people
               | who aren't my friends get to look at/talk to me in 3D.
        
               | closeparen wrote:
               | I would be happy to _socialize_ only with people who opt
               | in. That's how it is already, no one forced you to go to
               | the lunch table or tag along for drinks.
               | 
               | To the extent that we collaborate on work, though, having
               | to Zoom with you instead of having a normal free-flowing
               | conversation forms an imposition on me. It becomes an
               | _extreme_ imposition when I am also prohibited from
               | having normal free flowing conversations with other
               | people in the office, out of a sense of "inclusivity" or
               | "leveling the playing field" for you.
        
               | ev1 wrote:
               | I am curious how this does not present an opposite
               | extreme: forcing me to stop my work to have an
               | unnecessary conversation instead of discussing in
               | asynchronous issue tracker makes me have to remember what
               | happened, have to write down whatever I remember, deal
               | with not being able to get my stories done while this is
               | happening, instead of being able to look it up and have
               | it in writing along with other people not available at
               | the time to discuss or leave notes and changes on.
        
               | closeparen wrote:
               | I agree, it is very bad to do things synchronously and in
               | formal meetings that could have been async and offline.
               | That's another reason to resent remote work. Number of
               | meetings, duration of meetings, size of attendee lists,
               | and % of calendar covered in meetings are all _way_ up
               | since the transition to remote. There 's a meme on HN
               | that remote means written async communication, but the
               | objective measured reality at my company is the opposite.
        
               | ornornor wrote:
               | Exactly, why should we allow someone else to make their
               | problem our problem?
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | > What is a sufficient compromise, in your view, that
               | satisfies the need of some workers to have regular face
               | to face interactions with coworkers
               | 
               | Let them get their interactions from people who want to
               | have them.
               | 
               | What's a sufficient compromise between the need of some
               | men to have sex with women and the desire of some women
               | not to have sex with those men?
        
             | dtx1 wrote:
             | > I'd spin this around and cast it as a challenge --
             | regular, forced interactions with coworkers is minimally
             | sufficient and retards some people from pursuing social
             | activities outside the home.
             | 
             | Or,it allows people with social anxiety or depression a
             | room for social interactions with very well defined rules
             | and in an environment where people generally interact
             | positively with you. I like the convenience of WFH too but
             | I do miss cooking with my colleagues and their families on
             | Wednesdays.
             | 
             | This might sound weird to you but living alone and having
             | had parents that made every meal either a screaming match
             | or a barrage of passive aggressive comments I enjoyed those
             | lunches with my much more reasonable colleagues a lot.
             | 
             | Being essentially alone most days certainly didn't help
             | with my depression and that makes other social interactions
             | harder.
             | 
             | I still won't go back though, wearing trouser being
             | optional at work is a worthwhile tradeoff
        
               | marcosdumay wrote:
               | > I like the convenience of WFH too but I do miss cooking
               | with my colleagues and their families on Wednesdays.
               | 
               | Well, to fix that you can go cook with your colleagues
               | and their families on Wednesdays.
        
               | dtx1 wrote:
               | not as long as corona is still raging here in germany, no
               | families (or colleagues) at the office
        
             | DiggyJohnson wrote:
             | Eh, I'm kinda implicated here but I see office interactions
             | as some bare minimum of socialization that, yes, can lead
             | to complacency but does not subtract from the ideal of
             | finding meaningful relationship outside of work. If
             | anything, face to face work helps energize me to be social,
             | and not just with my coworkers. More like a daily practice
             | against Cabin Fever. For some reason, for me, Cabin Fever
             | self-perpetuates.
             | 
             | I still prefer WFH, but I go to a coffee shop most days of
             | the week to work on a personal project. After a year+ my
             | relationship with the other regulates and staff is like the
             | best possible relationship you'd expect to have among
             | coworkers - I've even grabbed a beer with the manager when
             | then closed early one day - without the stresses of working
             | for a common employer.
        
               | ethbr0 wrote:
               | I'm approaching this from my own perspective of a fairly
               | serious introvert, and I feel like the biggest skill I've
               | picked up in life is pushing past the introvert wall.
               | 
               | Which is that thing that whispers "Going out will be a
               | hassle. Why not just not?"
               | 
               | Work was one way of forcing past that, but I feel that's
               | analogous to saying "Prison is one way of curing
               | wanderlust." It feels more reasonable to treat the
               | underlying issue than take a bargain that comes with
               | serious negative consequences.
        
         | Mountain_Skies wrote:
         | High speed internet and video conferencing might bring many of
         | those distractions into your home office in a way that you
         | didn't have to deal with during the old days.
        
         | AniseAbyss wrote:
         | Some people live in tiny apartments without even a balcony.
        
         | vonseel wrote:
         | Some people prefer working in an office because it helps them
         | stay disciplined and keep a better work/life balance. Perhaps
         | I'm just speaking for myself here, but I tend to get lazy and
         | feel like my life has much less structure as a fully-remote
         | worker.
        
         | FpUser wrote:
         | >"I assume that some people are just very lonely and need face
         | to face"
         | 
         | This. We have managed to completely fuck up life style of the
         | segment of the population to the point that they have no life
         | outside of the office. This is sick.
        
           | mwattsun wrote:
           | A good book about this is Bowling Alone. As much as I liked
           | programming, I would also take the day off to go surfing if
           | the waves were good. Another WFH benefit.
           | 
           | http://bowlingalone.com/
        
           | jdminhbg wrote:
           | That said, it made a huge difference that forced WFH
           | coincided with closing all possible social outlets at the
           | same time. If you discovered that you wanted to expand your
           | social circle to diversify away from workmates, you were out
           | of luck.
        
         | bsder wrote:
         | > I can safely say I never wrote any good code while working in
         | an office. There are too many distractions.
         | 
         | 1) Not every office is Silicon Valley Open Office Garbage
         | 
         | I personally think this is the biggest issue.
         | 
         | We never threw in with the "open office" bullshit. Offices have
         | doors. We don't have that many cubicles, and they're generally
         | for contractors/consultants/etc. Every time we started having
         | cubicles, it was time to move to a bigger office.
         | 
         | People hate commute traffic--that's sadly unavoidable in the
         | US. But they didn't seem to hate our _office_ (I could, of
         | course, simply be blind like so many stupid managers).
         | 
         | 2) Not every job is solely writing code.
         | 
         | I need a lab. My juniors need a lab. They don't need to be
         | there every day, but they do need it regularly. Expecting them
         | to set this up in their apartment is unreasonable.
         | 
         | 3) Junior engineers need mentoring
         | 
         | Maybe the fact that _software_ does this quite so terribly is
         | hiding this need.
         | 
         | There is a lot of friction between simply mentioning something
         | to a staff engineer after lunch and setting up a specific zoom
         | call. There is also something about the staff engineer
         | overhearing something "minor" that junior engineers are
         | struggling with, correlating that multiple of them are having
         | similar issues and setting up something to fix a process or
         | educate people.
         | 
         | 4) Lack of face to face time increases conflicts
         | 
         | This is anecdata. However, people who don't actually meet face
         | to face regularly don't cut each other the same slack that
         | those who meet regularly do. I don't know why. Although, we
         | could probably paper over this by having regular lunches.
         | 
         | I like working from home. But I also liked working at the
         | office. They are two different modes that serve two different
         | purposes.
         | 
         | I will, however, agree that 9 to 5, 5 days a week in the office
         | is dumb. At the very least, significantly condensing the number
         | of "common hours" and letting people commute on off times needs
         | to increase. This was happening, but very slowly. Covid
         | accelerated this.
        
         | UncleOxidant wrote:
         | > 5 of us wrote Microsoft Works for the Macintosh while working
         | at home from 1984 to 1992. Without the internet
         | 
         | It's hard to imagine now how this could be done without the
         | internet and a distributed vcs like git.
        
         | odonnellryan wrote:
         | It took me 1-2 years before WFH didn't make me depressed. I
         | enjoy it now but I understand.
        
         | heassler wrote:
         | Going to the office means getting to know the people you work
         | with to a meaningful level (there are other opportunities to do
         | that besides meetings, such as having lunch together or going
         | out for a coffee/walk) in a way that is simply not possible
         | when chatting via google meets.
         | 
         | But there's also the increased exposure to serendipity.
         | Unexpected things occur in the office. Maybe you overhear a
         | conversation that makes you think about your career, or during
         | drinks after work you end up discussing a new cool startup idea
         | with colleagues. None of this really happens when you stay at
         | home.
         | 
         | Sure, there are pros to staying at home. You will have more
         | free time and fewer distractions, among other things. But there
         | are also massive perks to putting a bit of effort and going to
         | the office sometimes. Those perks, admittedly, may be hard to
         | understand for the average introverted, socially anxious
         | software dev.
        
           | chapium wrote:
           | I disagree on one point. I've spent much of my career working
           | with remote offices over the phone and with desktop sharing.
           | I have to say, group video conferences really don't cut it.
           | However, one on one calls and video calls work really well
           | and you can get to know your coworkers. Its so much better to
           | have one on ones with others and not have each other worry
           | about posturing in front of their peers. Group video calls
           | are at least just as useless as group meetings.
        
           | nanochad wrote:
        
           | humanwhosits wrote:
           | > Unexpected things occur in the office. Maybe you overhear a
           | conversation
           | 
           | The office rumor-mill produced a lot of bad politics in my
           | experience
        
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           | scruple wrote:
           | > Going to the office means getting to know the people you
           | work with to a meaningful level
           | 
           | In 15 years in this industry, I have only developed a handful
           | of deep relationships with former and current colleagues. The
           | vast majority of my own work relationships have been
           | superficial. I'm a card carrying member of the over sharer's
           | club, and yet so many of my colleagues throughout the years
           | don't know that I'm originally from Ohio by way of
           | Pennsylvania... That I'm a military veteran... That I'm a
           | strength and endurance athlete, etc. Maybe that says
           | something about me, but I don't think I'm an outlier.
           | 
           | Some of the people I've worked with were utterly contemptible
           | and, while I maintained a professional relationship with them
           | at work, myself and many others were inwardly happy to see
           | them go when the time came. I think we all know plenty of
           | cantankerous assholes who we've had to call team mate,
           | colleague, or worse, manager / boss.
           | 
           | We work here together for a (usually brief, in the grand
           | scheme of things) period of time and that's often the only
           | glue that holds the majority of us together.
           | 
           | One of the deepest and most impactful relationships I have
           | forged through a shared working environment is a person who
           | lives in Argentina and who I have never met in person. No
           | office required, just the Internet.
        
           | jghn wrote:
           | > Maybe you overhear a conversation
           | 
           | This is the one thing I've never found a suitable replacement
           | for in the remote world. Chance encounters are difficult to
           | replicate. Maybe I'm discussing an issue with a colleague,
           | and someone in earshot happens to know the answer. I've seen
           | groups try to have policies like no DMs and only using public
           | channels, but that sucks.
           | 
           | I much prefer remote life, but it's true that there are some
           | aspects of in person work that are better.
        
           | mike10921 wrote:
           | Agree with all of that. For me, the issue with working at
           | home is that home is my relaxing and family place office is
           | my work place. My mind focuses at work much better when i am
           | in my work environment.
           | 
           | Creating real connections with co workers from my experience
           | is not possible via zoom / google meets. There is nothing
           | that can replace real human interaction as far as creating
           | relationships.
        
           | Cd00d wrote:
           | The serendipity point is interesting.
           | 
           | A few years ago I had my team's desks moved to be next to our
           | sales team. I wanted to overhear their conversations and
           | phone calls to get a deeper understanding of client feedback
           | and how clients used our product. It worked out well, and we
           | got into a much better place in terms of feedback and
           | requests.
           | 
           | During covid I've also had a very strong indicator of how
           | clients view our product - the entire sales team quit over
           | time.
        
           | memonkey wrote:
           | My own anecdotal and I'm sure many others have experienced
           | this before, but getting the culture right for remote work
           | has been a great experience. I get to know people at a
           | meaningful level. I remember being younger in high school and
           | making meaningful relationships on the internet through chat
           | rooms and video games that last to today.
        
         | wdurden wrote:
         | ClarisWorks was created like this too.
         | 
         | https://groups.csail.mit.edu/mac/users/bob/clarisworks.php
        
         | unemphysbro wrote:
         | what was the merge code process like?
        
           | glouwbug wrote:
           | git merge --strategy ours
        
       | beauzero wrote:
       | This would save a lot of oil.
        
       | cosmiccatnap wrote:
        
       | foolfoolz wrote:
       | i know it seems unlikely now but i think we will return to the
       | office. not 100% of the time. not everyone was doing 100% before
       | either.
       | 
       | but a lot of people have switched jobs in the remote only era. we
       | have experienced / are experiencing how little we know these new
       | people. how little we feel connected to them. how strange it is
       | to not make new friends at a new job that go beyond the work-
       | friend level. i think most people will pay the cost of going in
       | (again, not every day) for the gain of seeing people. this will
       | be gradual but i think it is a common sentiment that we want to
       | work with people we can see in person
        
         | waterboigh wrote:
         | > this will be gradual but i think it is a common sentiment
         | that we want to work with people we can see in person
         | 
         | That's been my biggest issue, is I miss the people. I miss the
         | coffee runs, the random lunch outings...
         | 
         | However, if I lived my ideal schedule I would work from 0600 to
         | 1100 ITO, break for a 'siesta', then finish my work later in
         | the afternoon evening as my schedule allows. And so my co-
         | workers have also had their own ideals which overlap little to
         | any such that we quickly reach a point of "no point in having
         | in office, we overlap two hours at best."
         | 
         | Perhaps the best model to satiate flexibility but indulge the
         | human side of the equation, is remote-first regional-companies.
         | One can still plan to meet with some regularity without absurd
         | amounts of travel. At my first startup, we would meet on a
         | roughly weekly basis for a company lunch to have those
         | conversations easiest done face-to-face, or just hang out for
         | an afternoon enjoying the local natural beauty (#SaltLife) -
         | anytime the Engineering VP and I needed to meetup, we'd just
         | figure out what day we could meet up at a colo office or coffee
         | spot.
         | 
         | Otherwise, remote from wherever made sense. Some days for me it
         | was pool side, some days down by the creek, most days just in
         | my home office. The only real down-side is that lack of a
         | national or global talent pool, but we weren't even all that
         | niche so it wasn't a factor for us and, I suspect, most
         | companies which just do the same old languages on the same old
         | platforms.
        
           | Taylor_OD wrote:
           | I'd happily do quarterly week long company regional on sites.
           | It's expensive for companies to do, if they do it right and
           | cover all costs and travel for sig others/family, but its
           | still cheaper than rent on a big office building.
        
             | Cd00d wrote:
             | That's actually a lot to ask of people with children or
             | other dependents in their care.
             | 
             | A quarterly 2-day off-site is far more digestible. Which I
             | agree is still a great compromise in expense and f2f to an
             | office.
        
         | throwxxxaway wrote:
         | I feel so much better working remotely so that I don't have to
         | talk to my colleagues in person. We are completely different
         | people, like from different worlds. RTO is mandatory at our
         | place.
         | 
         | This made me happy every time I saw a rise in infections or new
         | variant, for which I feel bad about myself.
        
         | eropple wrote:
         | I started a new job during COVID. I've met my coworkers twice
         | (two of them three times). There are a solid four people out of
         | an org of ~40 who I unhesitatingly consider non-work friends
         | now.
         | 
         | "You can't make friends over the Internet" hasn't been true for
         | decades.
        
           | hn_version_0023 wrote:
           | Indeed. How many of us have friends made through gaming over
           | the 'net? I'd wager 50%+
        
         | Taylor_OD wrote:
         | Eh. I've had close work friends and even with my best efforts
         | those still felt like work friends, basically not as close as
         | my non work friendships, and the relationship suffered greatly
         | once one of us left that job.
         | 
         | I don't try to cultivate work friendships now. It's a great way
         | to build up a friendship that wont exists, or will only exist
         | to a lesser extent, in 12-24 months.
         | 
         | I'll be nice and friendly, as always. But I'm not staying late
         | to get beers with work folks because they are my friends. I'm
         | going home to see my family or hangout with my actual friends.
         | 
         | It just doesnt feel healthy to tie work and my friendships
         | together.
        
         | somehnacct3757 wrote:
         | Whether workers want it or not isn't going to be the deciding
         | factor. Nor will it be a mental health issue. Just look at
         | their years of ignoring studies about how open offices are bad
         | for knowledge workers. Rather, it will be purely a financial
         | decision.
         | 
         | It comes down to whether employers are going to sign many-year
         | leases for a social hangout spot for their employees. As well
         | as accept liability during future COVID outbreaks.
         | 
         | Right now there is artificial demand from employers in favor of
         | returning, but only the ones who already signed many-year
         | leases. For everycorp else, an office is an unnecessary
         | expense. They will take the money they save on rent and
         | insurance and spend some of it on wellness perks and
         | subsidizing home offices, and come out ahead financially.
         | 
         | I also think the employee demand to return to the office is
         | misplaced. We're all tired of being cooped up at home with
         | nothing to do, but that has more to do with lockdowns than WFH.
         | Without the lockdowns, those 2 hours you spent commuting are
         | now time in your day to join a social club near your home,
         | start an outdoor hobby, etc. Will WFH workers still want to
         | return to an office once they find a new mental health balance
         | that doesn't rely on their employer? I think no.
        
           | spookthesunset wrote:
           | > As well as accept liability during future COVID outbreaks.
           | 
           | Yet somehow grocery store workers managed to work in their
           | "office" and survive the last two years. Why do all these
           | software developer people think they are so special?
           | 
           | It bothers me how many people use COVID as a means to push
           | their personal agendas.
        
           | tick_tock_tick wrote:
           | > Rather, it will be purely a financial decision.
           | 
           | I agree and think this will be the key. Most will return to
           | the office and the companies that don't will be out-competed
           | forcing them to close or return. Of course this will take
           | years to fully shake out.
        
       | tharne wrote:
       | I really hope American businesses don't bring this headline to
       | its logical conclusion...
       | 
       | "37% of jobs in the United States can be performed entirely at
       | home...by people in India or Eastern Europe for much less money"
        
         | achenet wrote:
         | not if those jobs entail good written or even oral
         | communication skills. Native English speakers have a _huge_ leg
         | up on Indians and Eastern Europeans in this regard.
         | 
         | For example, I imagine Coca-Cola is willing to pay more to have
         | the person writing their ad copy be someone who has been
         | immersed in American culture from birth.
        
           | samarthr1 wrote:
           | A good portion of Indian engineers speak good English.
           | Anecdotal evidence only though.
        
             | mprovost wrote:
             | Ironically, if you google "is speak good english
             | grammatically correct" there are a lot of articles debating
             | whether it's ok, or if "speak English well" is better. This
             | is the kind of subtlety that's hard to understand for non-
             | native speakers.
        
               | glandium wrote:
               | I don't think there's anything grammatically wrong with
               | "speak good English". The difference to me is language
               | register.
        
             | globular-toast wrote:
             | But a good portion don't, which makes hiring take a lot
             | longer.
        
         | weatherlite wrote:
         | If it becomes really bad there's a good chance governments will
         | step in and heavily tax offshoring or provide tax benefits for
         | reshoring.
        
           | Workaccount2 wrote:
           | Just like they did with all the cheap offshore manufactured
           | goods...
           | 
           | Don't hold your breath.
        
         | manuelabeledo wrote:
         | Companies have been doing this for decades already.
         | 
         | The current situation is not going to shift even more jobs to
         | India. Reasons being, good engineers from India are already
         | moving to the US in sheer numbers, and good talent is unlikely
         | to remain at Indian IT consultancy companies.
         | 
         | Anecdotally, I have worked along with very clever engineers who
         | happened to be Indian nationals living in the US, but I have
         | yet to find an above average engineer working at an Indian IT
         | shop and based in India.
        
         | weatherlite wrote:
         | It's already been happening and will increase for sure, but so
         | far hasn't really affected salaries as far as I can see, U.S
         | devs haven't felt a thing yet. If anything, salaries in East
         | Europe went way up.
         | 
         | What I do fear is interest rate starting to rise and the
         | implications of that on our industry but that's another thread.
        
       | Tenoke wrote:
       | Has the title editorializing rule been dropped? I see even more
       | posts with changed titles when the original isn't particularly
       | misleading.
        
         | caymanjim wrote:
         | I've been more aware of title changes lately, but I don't know
         | if the frequency has increased. Some of them have been
         | egregious. I'm a fan of changes like this one, though. I can't
         | stand clickbait titles like this article has.
        
         | htk wrote:
         | The title is a verbatim copy of one of the highlights in the
         | study.
        
         | Karawebnetwork wrote:
         | Since this is the most descriptive line out of the highlights
         | section, I personally enjoy that this is the content chosen
         | instead of the "clickbaity" page title which would be "How many
         | jobs can be done at home?".
        
       | stefan_ wrote:
       | But then the jig is up, no? I thought that was an amazing moment
       | when recently the NYC mayor asked CEOs to "help get workers back
       | to the office".
       | 
       | It's not about the work, it's not about the city, it's about
       | making sure real estate doesn't crash and those campaign
       | contributions can keep coming.
        
         | PaulDavisThe1st wrote:
         | In most surveys of this, there are substantial numbers of
         | people who _want_ to get back to the office. That doesn 't mean
         | we should ignore the people who don't want to, but the opposite
         | is also true.
         | 
         | It's also about the other businesses that are enabled by having
         | significant number of non-at-home workers in the neighborhood.
         | I'm not saying that this should outweigh or override anything
         | else, but I am saying you don't have to be this cynical.
        
         | lbriner wrote:
         | Maybe the mayor also cares about local businesses that get
         | their income from city workers as well as the transport
         | networks which need all the money they can get. Maybe they care
         | about the tourist buzz from a busy city or the saftey in
         | numbers.
         | 
         | You don't always have to assume the worst of someone just
         | because they are powerful.
        
           | dml2135 wrote:
           | These things are not mutually exclusive.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | spookthesunset wrote:
           | Don't forget the suburban sprawl this sort of stuff will
           | cause. Eating further and further into our natural habitats
           | building giant houses for wealthy, privileged tech workers.
        
             | Apocryphon wrote:
             | The solution to that is improved urban planning, not to
             | reduce the demand for housing.
        
             | kwhitefoot wrote:
             | Work from home could plausibly have the opposite effect by
             | liberating a lot of buildings from office use and
             | repurposing them as homes. I know a lot of people who would
             | prefer to live in a city rather than the suburbs,
             | especially young people.
        
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