[HN Gopher] The war on gifted education
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       The war on gifted education
        
       Author : paulpauper
       Score  : 148 points
       Date   : 2022-03-03 18:09 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | rr808 wrote:
       | My daughter goes to accelerated high school. Its great for her
       | and her friends.
       | 
       | The main problem for society is that 50 years ago you didn't need
       | to have great grades to get into great courses, or colleges. Now
       | you have to be in the top 5-10% whatever. There are lots of
       | people who are in the regular schools that could be
       | doctors/engineers/lawyers but wont get in because its an arms
       | race. If you have to be in the right elementary/middle/high
       | school to be a doctor its too hard for regular people.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | They don't have to go to "great" colleges that highly restrict
         | admissions. You can be a lawyer, engineer, pre-med or nursing
         | at state schools which are much easier to get into. Med school
         | itself has some issues around things like residency programs,
         | which are more a healthcare system and policy issue than a
         | prerequisite education issue.
         | 
         | Edit: why downvote?
        
           | nemothekid wrote:
           | Both Law and Medicine are famously exclusive to "great"
           | colleges. Like you mentioned, it's already tough as it is it
           | to complete residency even if you attended a good school, but
           | Law has revolved around the T14 for a while now.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | It depends on what you want to do with the law degree. If
             | you want to be in some highly coveted position, then you
             | need a big name. Otherwise, there are plenty of state
             | schools.
        
         | zozbot234 wrote:
         | We have too _few_ great colleges around for the potential
         | population. Should really be building more colleges and
         | expanding the existing ones. MOOC 's and open educational
         | content are an inefficient band-aid, in-person instruction
         | should always be preferred.
        
           | Gigachad wrote:
           | Aren't these schools seen as good _because_ they are
           | exclusive?
        
           | recursive wrote:
           | The colleges we have are too expensive. They tend to bundle
           | up sports/research/culture/medicine/whatever/education.
           | Students have to pay tuition to support all that. If you're
           | strapped for cash, there's not really a way to opt out of all
           | the bonus content and just get the education.
        
           | adamsmith143 wrote:
           | Artificial constraint of supply by elite colleges.
           | 
           | With Endowments well into the tens of $Billions there is no
           | reason schools like Harvard, Princeton, Stanford, Yale, Etc.
           | can't have freshman classes of 10,000 instead of 2,000.
        
       | cosmiccatnap wrote:
        
       | UncleOxidant wrote:
       | We moved a lot when I was a kid in the 70s. Most places seemed to
       | have a 3-tiered system then: TAG (talented and gifted), the
       | middle track, and the remedial track. In one state (CA) I'd be in
       | the talented-and-gifted classes for pretty much every subject.
       | Then we moved to TX and I was in the middle track for most
       | subjects and even in a remedial track for some. We moved between
       | the two states a couple of times as my dad would be transferred.
       | I preferred CA because of the prestige, but then get to TX and
       | find myself behind in certain subjects - it was kind of
       | confusing.
        
       | jwkane wrote:
       | Perhaps not a popular opinion, but the overwhelming majority of
       | "gifted" kids seem to be near the middle of the bell curve with
       | parents that are convinced little George is the next Einstein.
       | 
       | It is kind of fascinating since it does seem plausible that
       | treating a child as gifted with high expectations and then
       | providing focused, advanced instruction may be a self-fulfilling
       | sort of situation.
        
         | rr808 wrote:
         | I used to think "gifted" implies there is some natural high
         | intelligence, where in reality its the children of well
         | educated and/or motivated parents. Honestly now I think both
         | benefits from segregated education so I dont really care about
         | the distinction.
        
           | chemeng wrote:
           | I have thought that selection for "giftedness" in young
           | children is multi-factored with a combination of "exposure"
           | and innate aptitude and curiosity of the child at the very
           | least.
           | 
           | If you take "exposure" to mean the child has been introduced
           | to a multitude of concepts and experiences both at their age-
           | appropriate levels and grades above, the conjectured
           | distribution starts to make sense. Wealthy children or those
           | of highly educated parents tend to have incredibly high
           | "exposure" increasing their representation in gifted
           | programs. Those not from such a background will necessarily
           | need to be highly curious and/or have high innate aptitude.
           | 
           | For the lower grades, gifted kids regardless of background
           | will be in the upper decile of scores. As they grow older and
           | "exposure" differences across the entire population minimize,
           | those who were gifted only due to "exposure" will fall to the
           | middle of the curve. Those with high curiosity/aptitude will
           | continue to be in the upper decile, with those who had early
           | and continued high exposure (usually a result of wealth or
           | parent motivation) in the top percentile.
           | 
           | To your point, if you believe the goal should be to meet
           | children where they are and advance them, this model isn't
           | horrible. What it does point out is that there may be a fair
           | amount of top percentile talent that is unrealized due to
           | lack of "exposure" and resources.
        
         | bjornlouser wrote:
         | or put another way, you can't fix the low expectations of
         | families in the bottom half with policy
        
       | Kharvok wrote:
       | Establish cohorts in schools by academic ability. People want to
       | be grouped with peers and they are more successful when doing so.
       | 
       | We shouldn't have children at vastly different ability levels in
       | the same classroom. Struggling kids are made no better, and the
       | exceptional are dragged down.
        
         | tester756 wrote:
         | >Struggling kids are made no better, and the exceptional are
         | dragged down.
         | 
         | I disagree
         | 
         | I've been terrible student (think of passing subjects, but
         | pretty close to the "edge") until last two years of HS
         | 
         | where I actually started putting effort into math/english and
         | then I looked at the best students after working with them for
         | a while and I was like "why can't you do better, just like
         | them? are you worse or something?"
         | 
         | that was huge motivation, just awarness that you could do
         | better itself
         | 
         | it works in other things in life too - internet, programming,
         | hackernews.
         | 
         | If I were in a group with people similar to me, then I don't
         | know how it'd end, honestly and it pretty scares me to think
         | where I'd be now in life
        
           | randomsilence wrote:
           | With IQ tests identifying you as intelligent, you could be in
           | a small class with other terrible students and a teacher who
           | knows how to reach and motivate you. After some weeks you
           | could rejoin the best students and learn at a much higher
           | pace.
           | 
           | Where would you be if you had the best education?
        
             | tester756 wrote:
             | >With IQ tests identifying you as intelligent, you could be
             | in a small class with other terrible students and a teacher
             | who knows how to reach and motivate you.
             | 
             | Actually I've been in such a class in elementary school for
             | students that performed worse. For me, they focused mostly
             | on improving writing and probably something else that I
             | don't remember
             | 
             | I'm unable to say now how much it actually gave me, I still
             | cannot write (handwriting), but that's mostly because I
             | never care about that, I felt like that was useless skill
             | and nowadays I rarely use pen.
             | 
             | >Where would you be if you had the best education?
             | 
             | That's hard to answer, I don't know, especially that "best
             | education" varies by person, but assuming the one that fits
             | my preferences, then probably... I don't know.
             | 
             | The only thing that I still haven't done in my career that
             | I find really interesting is going for a year or two to US
             | and working in CPU Fab or some compilers job, but I'm not
             | sure whether with better edu I'd have it already done,
             | especially that those require a lot of "non-school" effort
        
         | zozbot234 wrote:
         | The reason why this is a really bad idea from an efficiency
         | _and_ an equity POV is that it leads to royally screwed-up
         | incentives for _teachers_. No self-respecting teacher really
         | wants to teach a class of  "struggling, low-achieving"
         | students. So the _lowest_ quality teachers end up teaching
         | those classes, and the struggling students are basically
         | trapped with no prospect for real improvement. It 's awful.
         | 
         | It would be very different if teachers _could_ meaningfully
         | specialize towards providing effective instruction for these
         | lower-achieving students. But we barely manage to do this for
         | actual  "special" ed, and then only at huge cost.
        
           | sacrosancty wrote:
           | What seems to happen from what I've seen is not quite that.
           | Junior teachers work in low-performing schools and classes,
           | while experienced teachers are are the better ones. But, and
           | this is a big bug, unlike many professions, seniority doesn't
           | reliably correspond to performance and may in fact be
           | negatively correlated! Young teachers are often more
           | enthusiastic and capable of engaging easily-distracted kids
           | while experienced teachers have a clearer understanding of
           | the syllabus and content so it actually seems like a good fit
           | for everyone.
        
           | throwaway73838 wrote:
           | An alternative perspective is that the lower performing
           | teachers will relate more to the lower performing students,
           | and the higher performing teachers will relate more to the
           | higher performing students.
           | 
           | And, from a pure efficiency standpoint, we should absolutely
           | seek to give every possible opportunity to those gifted
           | students. For the lower performing kids, focus on teaching
           | values and ethics, along with realistic and practical goals,
           | to make up for any issues in their upbringing. I think
           | attitude is as important as aptitude for the middle and lower
           | end spectrum kids.
        
           | adamsmith143 wrote:
           | > No self-respecting teacher really wants to teach a class of
           | "struggling, low-achieving" students.
           | 
           | That doesn't ring true to me. Why wouldn't a good teacher
           | take pride in taking kids below the curve up to Average? I
           | would wager that this probably has a better net impact than
           | pushing the elite kids that much further.
        
             | zozbot234 wrote:
             | Partly it's because their own educational background
             | doesn't let them develop this kind of pride in their work.
             | Modern education schools' doctrine is that kids don't even
             | need to be taught anything because they can simply "learn
             | everything by themselves" with just a few hints about what
             | sort of 'inquiry' they should undertake. This can seem to
             | "work" well enough for high-achieving students who can
             | always rely on someone (either themselves or family) to
             | pick up the slack; it's invariably a dismal failure for
             | everyone else.
        
           | diordiderot wrote:
           | 8 classes ranked. 4 teachers
           | 
           | A: 1&8
           | 
           | B: 2&7
           | 
           | C: 3&6
           | 
           | D: 4&5
           | 
           | The ole Catan split
        
           | Kharvok wrote:
           | I agree with your concerns but we already do this somewhat
           | informally with public education in much of the country with
           | college prep, advanced, honors, and AP courses.
           | 
           | I'm just advocating we act with more purpose and honest
           | intention about what we're already doing.
        
       | thelettere wrote:
       | "The problem of educating the educators is a problem which the
       | democrat forgets in his enthusiasm for educating the pupils."
       | 
       | When's the last time a single person on hn dared to look at the
       | curriculum of the average degree in education? It consists of
       | courses that any person with the slightest degree of intelligence
       | would run from screaming. I'm interested in education but you
       | couldn't pay me to attend one - it's 99% fluff and nonsense.
       | 
       | Because the bigger problem is not the existence or nonexistence
       | of exclusive institutions but of the kind of people that would
       | render such an education educational. Because neither the gifted
       | nor the wise - particularly if male - go into education today.
       | 
       | Perhaps a reason for the poor track record of modern education in
       | producing any geniuses on par with those of the past and the
       | long-standing dry spell of great works. And the larger trend of
       | exclusive education producing little but "really excellent
       | sheep".
       | 
       | "Our system of elite education manufactures young people who are
       | smart and talented and driven, yes, but also anxious, timid, and
       | lost, with little intellectual curiosity and a stunted sense of
       | purpose: trapped in a bubble of privilege, heading meekly in the
       | same direction, great at what they're doing but with no idea why
       | they're doing it."
       | 
       | In which case perhaps it's best it's done away with. It appears
       | past fixing, the rot infiltrating to the core of the bureaucratic
       | machinery.
       | 
       | Edit: fixed/clarified/extended ending.
        
         | diordiderot wrote:
         | Well the best and brightest going into finance are helping
         | "discover value"
        
       | motohagiography wrote:
       | Even though I am ambivalent about gifted programs, when you
       | consider the difference between an average person and someone who
       | for various reasons is one sigma below average intelligence, and
       | then consider the difference between someone who is two or three
       | sigmas above average and the majority of people near the average,
       | it makes sense to separate them somehow.
       | 
       | As a thought experiment, if your IQ were measured at above two
       | standard deviations from the average (~100), it may be worth
       | asking whether meeting someone with an IQ below 110-115 on Tinder
       | could raise ethical questions because of the relative
       | intelligence differences.
       | 
       | It's provocative, but when groups of outlier intelligence people
       | can now find each other and co-ordinate online, you're into
       | mutant powers risk, where someone could, for example, create a
       | new world currency they alone controlled the value of out from
       | under central banks, build a total surveillance panopticon in
       | their dorm room, forge a conspiracy that infiltrated the cabinets
       | of world governments and subordinate them to a single agenda,
       | encircle the planet with a million cryptographically sovereign
       | network nodes in space, enslave millions using a credit system,
       | etc. We should have gifted programs to integrate these people
       | socially and elevate the people around them, because otherwise
       | you're just going to get super villains.
        
       | bell-cot wrote:
       | A Modest Proposal: Replace some of the "Gifted" schools with
       | "Mature" schools. The former implies higher-than-average per-
       | pupil spending. For the Mature schools, spend substantially
       | _below_ average per pupil. Only admit students who rate well in
       | some combination of maturity, self-motivation, good behavior,
       | etc. _Increase_ the student /teacher ratio, and expect the
       | brighter ones (in a given subject) to spend part of their time
       | tutoring the less-bright. Have student government play a non-
       | token role in running the school.
       | 
       | In other words, set up a new sort of school - which tags its
       | graduates as mature, responsible adults. Not top-percentile test-
       | takers, nor elite pampered princelings. Then see which type of
       | graduate is preferred by colleges and employers.
        
         | diebeforei485 wrote:
         | > For the Mature schools, spend substantially below average per
         | pupil
         | 
         | This is already the case for gifted schools, though the critics
         | may not say it out loud. Stuyvesant High School has a lower
         | budget per student than the average NYC high school, and Lowell
         | High School has a lower budget per student than the average San
         | Francisco high school.
        
         | aidenn0 wrote:
         | At the age where my, and my friends' kids are in schools, I've
         | discovered that a big advantage that private schools have is
         | that they educate the kids "at will."
         | 
         | Many private schools make it very clear to the parents, as well
         | as the kids, that there are plenty of other students that want
         | the slot the child has, which gives them leverage to educate
         | how they want.
         | 
         | Public schools, at least in California, are beholden to the
         | loudest, worst-behaved parents. There was a serious
         | disciplinary issue recently at a local school that resulted in
         | a multi-day suspension, which pretty much everybody involved
         | agreed probably wasn't going to change the behavior. After
         | digging a bit and having some frank conversations, the
         | administration wouldn't pursue any other form of consequence
         | because of fear of being sued by the parents. If expulsion were
         | a legitimate option it would have given the administration
         | bargaining power, but for anything which defending an expulsion
         | is not a slam-dunk win in court, the only 3 "safe" options for
         | teachers and administrators are:
         | 
         | 1. Loss of playtime during recess/lunch
         | 
         | 2. Detention
         | 
         | 3. Suspension
         | 
         | I don't know how big of an actual problem torts are, but I see
         | a lot of bad policies (in education and elsewhere) enacted due
         | to fear of torts.
        
           | brimble wrote:
           | Public schools are also bound to serve special needs kids,
           | which is _incredibly_ expensive. Private schools don 't have
           | the same responsibility (even if they're under any similar
           | legal obligation, they can and surely do try to minimize that
           | through various means)
           | 
           | That's part (part!) of why per-pupil spending in public
           | schools seems so high for the outcomes they produce, and part
           | of why private schools have an advantage.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | Even when they separate the special education vs regular
             | spending it's still expensive in my opinion.
             | 
             | At least in my area there seems to be a huge preference for
             | new or fancy infrastructure. Many of the buildings are only
             | built to last 20 years or so. The new middle school around
             | here has a 2 story by 100 foot glass front to it. The glass
             | panes are massive. Who thought that was a good idea
             | (hearing/cooling, cost, possibly safety)?
             | 
             | I went to school in buildings that were 50+ years old and
             | made out of cinder block. No artificial turf fields or
             | fancy stuff.
             | 
             | Edit: why downvote?
        
             | aidenn0 wrote:
             | Right. Public schools are chartered to provide "Universal
             | compulsory education" private schools only have to worry
             | about the last word in that phrase. There's a patchwork of
             | laws that try to ensure private schools provide some sort
             | of equal-opportunity, but the success of that is very hit-
             | or-miss.
        
           | mrguyorama wrote:
           | If you think private schools actually punish the kids whose
           | parents directly pay them, I have a bridge to sell you.
        
             | MaulingMonkey wrote:
             | Sufficiently misbehaving kids, not being properly handled,
             | will drive away paying customers when their peers want to
             | transfer out - or if they stop short of transfering out,
             | merely shit talk the institution and it's failures, driving
             | down it's reputation and turning away future business.
             | 
             | If you think private schools won't act on those pressures -
             | either by getting the kids the help they need, or by
             | kicking them out - I have a tunnel to sell you.
        
             | brimble wrote:
             | There's paying, and then there's "paying... and a donor".
             | They absolutely kick out the former if they feel like it,
             | or, in lesser cases, simply fail to invite them back. The
             | latter, I dunno, maybe not.
        
               | aidenn0 wrote:
               | This is quite true; I was also speaking to selective
               | private schools. Around here the admissions ratio for
               | many private schools is crazy low, indicating that they
               | are turning away plenty of qualified students and that
               | they can recoup the lost tuition by admitting another
               | pupil at will.
               | 
               | In that situation it starts to approach "is there
               | something on campus with your last name on it" levels of
               | donations if you want to avoid getting kicked out...
        
               | msds wrote:
               | Can confirm, went to a school like that but without a
               | namesake building. They can either always admit someone
               | else, or more often, just not bother because educating
               | kids is an expensive loss leader for the endowment even
               | with full tuition. It definitely seemed like there needed
               | to have already been a family building or two before you
               | got to campus if you expected much immunity because of
               | that...
        
               | brimble wrote:
               | Yeah, the ones around here have wait lists, and they're
               | not impressed by daddy and mommy Mr. and Mrs. VP and MD,
               | paying list tuition price. There are a dozen more where
               | they came from. If they think a kid might make a few
               | other families think twice about enrolling next year, and
               | some reasonable attempt to make things work out falls
               | through, that kid's _gone_. Maybe not immediately
               | (though, sometimes), but they won 't be back next Fall.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | It depends. They have more discretion in most cases. The
             | public schools are stuck with more stringent adherence to
             | procedures, specifically about getting police involved.
        
               | aidenn0 wrote:
               | Exactly. I've seen chronically tardy students be "not
               | invited back" at the end of the school year at private
               | schools, which is a de-facto expulsion.
        
             | Gigachad wrote:
             | From my experience, they would still punish sufficiently
             | disruptive misbehavior. But they would let minor things
             | slide like ignoring uniform policy or poor grades if you
             | were a high donator. One incident I remember was someone
             | bringing a camera in to the change rooms which resulted in
             | the student being immediately expelled. That kind of stuff
             | they still punish because its harmful enough to outweigh
             | the benefits of the donations.
        
         | Kharvok wrote:
         | What would this select for? All you would be doing is
         | establishing a poor proxy for general intelligence though you
         | would likely select for general intelligence on the whole by
         | grading "maturity".
        
           | Kalium wrote:
           | Also "good behavior" is a proxy for a healthy home life,
           | which is to a great extent a measure of social and economic
           | class.
        
             | Kharvok wrote:
             | and household economic prosperity is generally corollary to
             | what?
        
               | amanaplanacanal wrote:
               | Inherited wealth?
        
             | bell-cot wrote:
             | Yes - but how many high-class (social or economic) parents
             | would fight hard to get their kids into schools with
             | bottom-percentile per-pupil funding?
        
         | x3n0ph3n3 wrote:
         | Did you mean this as an absurdist satire? If not, calling it a
         | "Modest Proposal" is a misstep.
        
         | sacrosancty wrote:
         | Are you really going to get maturity or just superficial signs
         | of maturity from immature kids? I think kids that more boldly
         | explore social interactions (ie. naughty) at a young age may
         | end up more mature as adults. Someone who's polite and well-
         | behaved may doing that because they're too emotionally immature
         | to know how to do anything more risky and are just performing
         | "professional behavior" which is a kind of lowest-common-
         | denominator for getting along with others.
        
         | Kalium wrote:
         | I'm legitimately uncertain if this is a bad idea presented as
         | satire or a sincere idea.
        
           | no-s wrote:
           | heheh..."A Modest Proposal". Kids, stay away from the free
           | lunch, it's made of people...
           | 
           | I think it might be in the genre of HaHaOnlySerious.
        
           | trackstar wrote:
           | Why would you feel it's a bad idea and or satire?
        
             | Kalium wrote:
             | "A Modest Proposal" is the name of famous satirical essay:
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Modest_Proposal It involved
             | selling children for cannibalism.
             | 
             | As Wikipedia notes:
             | 
             | > In English writing, the phrase "a modest proposal" is now
             | conventionally an allusion to this style of straight-faced
             | satire.
             | 
             | Opening with that title, complete with correct
             | capitalization, reads like an allusion. It's enough to make
             | me think exceptionally skeptically about a proposal to turn
             | gifted students into what is sometimes euphemistically
             | termed peer educators.
        
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         | trackstar wrote:
         | We used to have such a concept in my school system, it was
         | called "tracking." Sadly, they did away with it midway through
         | my sentence. We had AP / IB track courses, but also so many
         | students that we had a second, more mature level in terms of
         | both behavior and intellectual pursuit (at least for AP, I only
         | took one IB course).
         | 
         | This track was cancelled (10+ years ago) in the modern
         | progressive fashion, being derided as some blend of
         | discrimination. The end-result was students who were into
         | school being put into the same pot of students in the rest of
         | the courses (non-AP, AP - your choice). Unfortunately for the
         | tracked students, we were hit with a one-two punch of the end
         | of tracking and the administration's pursuit of glory and State
         | recognition. Our guidance counselors aggressively recommended
         | or, in some cases, forcibly placed students in AP courses for
         | which they had neither the interest nor the proclivity.
         | 
         | Personally, I was forced into a high-tier Spanish course my
         | third (and final) year of high-school, despite having no
         | aptitude and lower-end grades (80-85%) for the language despite
         | three years of study. Resulted in my skipping all courses and
         | writing my "Kiss My Ass" in another foreign language I pursued
         | during my free time. I rode into the sunset with a grade of 30%
         | or so, a job waiting for me in the city as an apprentice
         | software engineer and a full-ride to university.
         | 
         | Frankly, schools in the US just don't seem to exist to put out
         | good, well educated thinkers but like many government
         | institutions (and I say this as a former government worker) -
         | to continue their own existence, find glory for those at the
         | top, and if good things happen for the citizens this is a nice
         | side-effect and typically at the expense of the soldiers in the
         | trench rather than good, altruistic stewardship.
        
       | VictorPath wrote:
       | > meritocracy...children compete to get into the best nursery
       | school
       | 
       | If the round hole is the mythical meritocracy, the comical square
       | peg is wealthy parents having their kids "compete" to get into a
       | nursery school and declare the entrants got in by "merit". What a
       | farce.
        
       | aidenn0 wrote:
       | I see a lot of comments on the outcomes of gifted kids and others
       | in their cohorts depending on whether or not the gifted kids are
       | separated out. I'd like to add a dose of Realpolitik:
       | 
       | Already a disproportionate number of gifted kids are from wealthy
       | families, and if gifted education goes away, those kids aren't
       | going to be in the "regular" public classes, they are going to
       | private school. The clear losers in that situation seems to be
       | the remaining gifted kids from less wealthy backgrounds.
        
         | rahimnathwani wrote:
         | 'those kids aren't going to be in the "regular" public classes,
         | they are going to private school'
         | 
         | Most private schools aren't set up to cater to gifted kids. If
         | you don't believe me, ask the folks running a private school
         | how they deal with kids who are 2-3 grade levels ahead in math.
         | 
         | Then ask them for concrete examplea of what they actually mean.
         | And concrete examples of the outcomes this differentiated
         | instruction has achieved for those kids.
         | 
         | Private schools often have smaller class sizes, nicer physical
         | environment, better equipment and higher expectations. But the
         | curriculum is still aimed at the average kid in that school,
         | with little consideration for the outliers.
         | 
         | EDIT: I should have mentioned, that I interpret 'gifted' to
         | mean something like top 3% by ability (corresponding to an IQ
         | of about 130). Back when SFUSD used to identify kids at gifted
         | and talented, they were talking about the top ~30%, which is
         | totally different.
        
           | aidenn0 wrote:
           | > Private schools often have smaller class sizes, nicer
           | physical environment, better equipment and higher
           | expectations
           | 
           | Which covers about 75% of what parents expect out of a gifted
           | program.
        
           | hibikir wrote:
           | Nobody claims that most private schools are set up to cater
           | to gifted kids: What you get is a whole lot of different
           | schools, catering to different backgrounds and socioeconomic
           | statuses, some of which will cater mostly to gifted kids.
           | 
           | This is easy to see in metro areas with a balkanized public
           | education system, like Saint Louis. Your typical child has
           | access to one public school, which could be quite good, or
           | horrible, depending on where it is: The better the school,
           | the more expensive it is to get a house that can sends kids
           | to it. If you don't want to move for your favorite school,
           | you go into one of hundreds of private schools. The
           | differences amongst them are so wide, locals ask others where
           | they went to high school as a shortcut to get a lot of
           | information about them. On the gifted end, you will find
           | private schools where less than 15% of the class is stuck
           | "only" at grade level in math, and that's probably because
           | they are way ahead somewhere else. Those schools tend to be
           | so interested in high performers that there's a great chance
           | there's quite a bit of financial aid for those with blue
           | collar parents.
           | 
           | So yes, most private schools are definitely not better: Hell,
           | I'd argue that in a city like this, most private schools are
           | worse academically. But when there are enough private
           | schools, self-assortment surrounds kids with others that are
           | more like them, whether it's athletic focus, qualifying as
           | gifted, following Christian Science, or making sure most
           | girls are rich enough to own horses. Whether this is good or
           | bad for the city is a different story, but I suspect the
           | gifted kids come out ahead.
           | 
           | And yes, all of this will only happen in large enough metros
           | with enough children. A gifted child in a small town is
           | probably served more or less equally badly by public and
           | private schools.
        
             | rahimnathwani wrote:
             | "And yes, all of this will only happen in large enough
             | metros with enough children."
             | 
             | Yes. I should explain my perspective. I live in San
             | Francisco, which has ~900k people, and maybe 80k school-age
             | children.
             | 
             | So perhaps 180 (80000/13*0.03) kids per grade are gifted.
             | Enough to fill 7 to 10 classrooms.
             | 
             | Even so, as far as I'm aware, San Francisco has _no_
             | elementary schools focused on gifted kids. The nearest
             | gifted-only elementary school is private, pricey, a 30+ min
             | drive away, and has way more qualified applicants than
             | places.
        
           | MattGaiser wrote:
           | One thing to consider is that the average at academic private
           | schools is probably better to begin with. So all the kids
           | might be 1-2 years ahead of the average student overall.
        
         | mistrial9 wrote:
         | this is exactly the theory that landed people like me in
         | measurably the worst and most dangerous urban public schools in
         | the USA
        
           | aidenn0 wrote:
           | Can you clarify what you mean?
        
       | euroderf wrote:
       | I skipped second grade and was still bored out of my skull, and
       | became the class clown. Teachers got fed up and in sixth they put
       | me in with the Sweathogs. The bullying went to 11 and it broke
       | me. So yeah, I'd say it's OK for a kid to skip grades in
       | particular subjects, but to skip a whole grade in toto puts a
       | target on a kid. My 0,02EUR, YMMV.
        
       | pacbard wrote:
       | My impression of what makes the debate about gifted education and
       | (to an extent) the new California math standards is the issue of
       | the negative externalities in the decision to segregate high
       | achieving students from the general population of students.
       | 
       | The linked articles cites some evidence that moving high
       | achieving/gifted students have a positive effect on their math
       | and ELA achievement. I don't believe that anyone is contesting
       | that having a classroom for gifted students has a positive effect
       | on their learning.
       | 
       | On the other hand, there is a growing concern of the negative
       | externality of this decision on the other students in the larger
       | school community. In other words, we know that having high
       | performing peers have a positive effect on students learning
       | (this is a positive externality of having a desk mate that is
       | gifted). The theory goes that removing these gifted students from
       | regular classrooms has a negative effect on everyone else that
       | remains. Again, this is a process that makes intuitive sense.
       | 
       | The tough sell in this argument is that, at the end of the day,
       | this remains an externality for gifted students. Helping your
       | desk mate does not directly impact you and, in all honesty, might
       | even hurt your chances for a perfect SAT score or of admission at
       | a top university because you took a lower division courses than
       | your peers that were scooped away to a gifted classroom.
       | Parents/families need to make the decision to give up on the
       | positive returns of gifted education in favor of potential
       | learning outcomes for other students or even more remote, long
       | term outcomes of (maybe) less crime or increased tax base 20
       | years after graduation. I am not sure if this is a viable demand
       | to place on parents/families given how competitive society at
       | large is.
        
         | vorpalhex wrote:
         | > Parents/families need to make the decision to give up on the
         | positive returns of gifted education in favor of potential
         | learning outcomes for other students
         | 
         | You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
         | 
         | We know a big part of education success is home environment.
         | You can surround a kid with Einstein schoolmates but if he's
         | getting beat daily and not getting fed, it doesn't matter. Add
         | in unsafe living conditions and no access to books and you have
         | a disaster nobody but the kids parents can solve.
         | 
         | Why then should we harm the gifted? Why should we allow them
         | worse outcomes because someone's parents are garbage? You
         | aren't going to make a shitty parent into a capable one when
         | they fundamentally don't care to begin with, no matter how many
         | high performing students you drag down in the process.
         | 
         | On an individual basis my duty is to do the best I can do for
         | my kids, and that is all I can do.
        
         | chasd00 wrote:
         | >Parents/families need to make the decision to give up on the
         | positive returns of gifted education in favor of potential
         | learning outcomes for other students or even more remote, long
         | term outcomes of (maybe) less crime or increased tax base 20
         | years after graduation. I am not sure if this is a viable
         | demand to place on parents/families given how competitive
         | society at large is.
         | 
         | It's a hard, if not impossible, sell to ask any parent to
         | sacrifice their child on that altar no matter how competitive
         | they are.
        
       | brummm wrote:
       | In Germany they have a three track school system which is great:
       | 
       | - The first track is the high school degree that includes 13
       | years of school and afterwards allows people to attend
       | university. Generally the students with the best grades attend
       | this track. Everybody learns English as a first foreign language
       | starting grade 3 nowadays in all tracks, but starting grade 7
       | students in this track have to pick either French or Latin as
       | their second (and then in 9th grade have the choice to pick the
       | other one as a third language). Further, math and science
       | education are much faster and better compared to the other
       | tracks. - The middle track starts learning French as a second
       | foreign language in grade 9 and the whole track only includes 10
       | years. It is geared towards people that will do an apprenticeship
       | afterwards, for example in business or some other non-university
       | subjects. - The third track is the lowest track for the worst
       | performing students and does not include any second foreign
       | languages. It's only 9 years of school and these are the people
       | that often go into trades jobs like car mechanics, contractors,
       | etc.
       | 
       | Personally I think this is a great systems. Students that can
       | learn more and faster get to learn with students similar to them
       | and are not slowed down by students that can't keep up. Students
       | in the other tracks afterwards can continue on to eventually get
       | the higher degrees through various different ways if they want
       | and are able to.
        
       | jmclnx wrote:
       | Smart kids mean smart adults, thus a threat to people in power.
       | That is why education in the US is failing people. I think this
       | has been going of for over 40 years with public school funding
       | being cut over and over. Now people with some means are getting
       | to see what inner city schools have been like for well over 40
       | years.
       | 
       | This only helps people who can afford sending their kids to
       | exclusive private schools. Thus in a way, increasing racism
       | because most of the rich are in a specific race.
        
         | zaroth wrote:
         | You're only half right. Public school funding has not been cut
         | over and over. We spend more and more to achieve less and less,
         | while the curriculum is destroyed, and teaching methods
         | degrade.
         | 
         | The goal has shifted to equality of outcomes, not equality in
         | inputs / resources. The least capable are lavished with the
         | greatest resources while the most capable are ignored and held
         | back.
         | 
         | I think this is based on the fundamentally flawed assumption
         | that every human is equally capable given the same
         | opportunities and resources, and somehow the school district is
         | the place to compensate for perceived "equity" gaps.
         | 
         | I'd expect the macro level effect is a dumbing down of society
         | to the least common denominator. Or to put it another way, the
         | bottom half of IQ adolescents may do marginally better in the
         | next 30 years in terms of quantifiable contributions to society
         | such as lifetime earnings or degrees obtained or patents filed,
         | etc., whereas the top half of IQ adolescents will do
         | dramatically worse.
        
         | qwerpy wrote:
         | I'll confirm part of this. I have some means, and am seeing
         | signs of my school district reducing investment in
         | accelerated/gifted programs in favor of more "inclusion". When
         | it comes time to choose a school for my kids, I may opt to send
         | them to private schools. Not everyone has this option. I'd much
         | rather public schools provide this for everyone, but if they
         | choose not to I will simply pay to get it just for my kids.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | oh_sigh wrote:
         | You're arguing that 60 year old politicians are intentionally
         | keeping 10 year olds dumb so they don't replace them in the
         | power structure 20+ years later?
        
           | jwiz wrote:
           | I don't think OP means "politicians" when they said "people
           | in power".
           | 
           | I think they meant people with (lots of) money.
        
             | commandlinefan wrote:
             | I still don't buy it. I've interacted with people with
             | (lots of) money. Their viewpoint on education is that they
             | want highly-educated people who know how to do math and
             | program computers and design rockets to mars that they can
             | pay to work in their factories. They're not "afraid" of an
             | educated populace, but they don't want to pay for one
             | either.
        
       | e-dt wrote:
       | I went to the best high school in Australia, James Ruse. At that
       | level gifted education is not really a question of 'gift' anymore
       | but a question of outside tutoring. I was pretty much the only
       | person in my grade that did not do tutoring. Some of my friends
       | essentially had a second school that they would attend for the
       | same length of time as actual school. This is also the reason
       | that Ruse is 99% Asian and selective schools more generally
       | overrepresent Asians; it seems like it's much more likely,
       | culturally, for Asians to send their kids to tutoring than other
       | groups. That's why can't I take seriously any of the hysteria
       | about China taking over because of their 'superior work ethic'
       | that you sometimes see; I've seen these kids, and a) they all did
       | their assignments at the last minute and b) it wouldn't be that
       | bad if they did take over because they are all perfectly normal
       | people, not robots. Their parents just pay a man to lock them in
       | a dungeon until they're able to integrate by parts at age 13.
        
       | gkop wrote:
       | Polemics gonna polemic. Yes, we should invest in gifted students.
       | But, ignoring the larger context of how public education is
       | funded in the United States and the consequential giant gaps
       | between school districts, where many poor ones don't even
       | competently provide fundamental baseline services to their
       | students, is not going to elevate the discourse.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | In most places, the majority of the funding is at the state and
         | federal level. And that generally uses policies that give a
         | larger share of funds to underserved schools.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | mistrial9 wrote:
         | the ultra-ghetto urban public schools here have money upon
         | money, and yet the teachers do not get funds directly. I have
         | seen piles of new computers in a locked room with my own eyes,
         | assisting a well-meaning engineer who placed the equipment.
         | Meanwhile, I heard two middle-aged men talking on the bus alone
         | at night, one was the driver. They both gave up as public
         | school teachers due to lack of effort and interest by the
         | students, year after year. The level of complacent sloth within
         | administration is not to be underestimated, and outright graft
         | does occur from time to time.
        
           | Kharvok wrote:
           | It's because there is almost nothing that can be done. IQ is
           | largely genetic, with a few social levers that can be pulled.
           | We shouldn't expect from people what they are not capable of
           | doing.
           | 
           | This applies to everyone.
        
             | SpaceManNabs wrote:
             | The rationalist gwern-types once again overestimating the
             | predictive power of IQ. Also coming in with assumptions
             | that people in poorer districts cannot have members of
             | "remarkable enough" IQ that warrant distinction and
             | treatment.
             | 
             | Disappointing thread all around. Enough HN for today.
        
               | Kharvok wrote:
               | You aren't trying. We know IQ is predictive of success.
               | No one is saying an individual from a poorer community
               | can't be intelligent/academically successful.
               | 
               | What we're saying is that we shouldn't hold someone born
               | without the ability to be academically successful to
               | unreasonable standards.
        
               | SpaceManNabs wrote:
               | > What we're saying is that we shouldn't hold someone
               | born without the ability to be academically successful to
               | unreasonable standards.
               | 
               | How does this relate to improving performance at schools
               | in poor or de-stabilized districts? There are "high IQ"
               | individuals there that merit attention.
               | 
               | Yes we should address the amount of waste that these poor
               | performing districts generate, but there is idea of a
               | zero sum game in this thread between poorer and richer
               | districts that encourages dismissal of solutions.
               | 
               | Nobody has talked about intergenerational poverty yet in
               | this thread. Just wild.
        
               | imbnwa wrote:
               | The usual idea is to suggest that ADOS are stupid by
               | 'heritable IQ' (and how did that IQ get there?), and yet,
               | somehow, the children of people who immigrate to America
               | from the very same places the ancestors of ADOS came from
               | are one of the top performing demographics, hmmmmm....
        
             | slothtrop wrote:
             | The success of given schools has nothing to do with IQ.
        
             | veganhouseDJ wrote:
             | This is basically an argument against education in general.
             | 
             | No one learns anything useful. "Education" is just a set of
             | credentials that prove your IQ test wasn't a fluke.
             | 
             | To me, that is just an absurd view of reality.
        
               | Kharvok wrote:
               | I don't think people are advocating that education itself
               | is just a signaling of inherent ability. This would be
               | like saying it's pointless for an athlete to train
               | because their maximum athletic ability is pretty much
               | determined.
        
           | gkop wrote:
           | You know what else ain't gonna elevate the discourse? Use of
           | phrases like "ultra-ghetto".
        
             | dmpk2k wrote:
             | And yet replacing it with something that sounds harmless
             | will not change the underlying reality.
        
               | SpaceManNabs wrote:
               | Coming with the right attitude and perspective definitely
               | helps in coming with solutions and not complaints.
        
               | ldiracdelta wrote:
               | 1788 - Retarded
               | 
               | 1846 - Simpleton
               | 
               | ~1876 - Feeble-minded
               | 
               | 1910 - Moron
               | 
               | 1900s Special Ed
               | 
               | 1900s Intellectually Disabled
               | 
               | The label is useful. The condition is lamentable.
               | Changing the label every few years doesn't make children
               | not use the new one as an insult.
               | 
               | Using a new or old label doesn't positively imply that
               | you hate the group or person you're applying the label
               | to.
        
               | SpaceManNabs wrote:
               | The context of this discussion was kids in "ultra ghetto
               | urban districts"
               | 
               | Not sure why we are talking about intellectually disabled
               | kids. Someone else did this juxtaposition, and it is
               | quite concerning that people tie poverty with lack of
               | ability in this thread.
               | 
               | > The label is useful.
               | 
               | The labels have changed for a reason.
        
             | mistrial9 wrote:
             | after you have a gun pointed at you, or a crowd of young
             | men chasing you alone, you can correct my grammer
        
           | thelock85 wrote:
           | > the ultra-ghetto urban public schools here have money upon
           | money, and yet the teachers do not get funds directly
           | 
           | Any statistics or citations to back this up? In my
           | experience, one cannot characterize thousands of schools this
           | way because they have different governance and spending
           | formulas across states, county lines, city limits, and even
           | multiple districts within cities (which is especially true in
           | urban cities).
        
             | mistrial9 wrote:
             | yes, plenty of statistics.. the school administration is
             | required to collect statistics.
        
               | Lascaille wrote:
               | >plenty of statistics
               | 
               | I think you know very well that you're being asked to
               | cite them, not merely say they exist.
        
           | SpaceManNabs wrote:
           | > ultra-ghetto urban public schools
           | 
           | It is always disappointing, to come from one of these
           | districts and then having obtained social mobility through
           | talent and luck, to see what my new peers (since I assume
           | most of us here have gone to a top tier school and work
           | somewhere in tech/finance) think of my neighborhood. No care
           | for how these situations happened.
        
             | mistrial9 wrote:
             | my advanced placement programs were evaporated and replaced
             | with "no child left behind".. there were more than forty
             | languages spoken at home in this school district. You can
             | read for yourself the other parents' comments about the
             | results. Good on you for getting the benefits of this
             | society and escaping the slums and their ways.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | I can see that. The language choice is certainly
             | distracting and inappropriate.
             | 
             | I would hope that people discussing the issues in education
             | would be some evidence that they do care. Maybe misguided
             | in some instances, but at least trying to identify root
             | causes and solutions. If we don't talk about the problems,
             | then they won't get fixed.
        
               | mistrial9 wrote:
               | my language choice is specific and well-earned; the city
               | I am describing is consistently top ten in murder rates
               | in the general population, and has some of the lowest
               | graduation rates in the USA.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | Ghetto is generally derogatory. You could easily use
               | other words to describe it.
        
           | brimble wrote:
           | The very worst schools in my city pay significantly better
           | than the ones out in the "good" districts. They can do that
           | because they get a ton of extra funding from the state and (I
           | think) feds. I think the only schools that pay better than
           | them are a _small minority_ of the private schools.
           | 
           | It doesn't help much, because working conditions are so bad
           | that anyone with options still doesn't want to work there.
           | More funerals for kids. More 2nd-graders threatening
           | teachers. More lockdowns over gun threats and such. More drug
           | problems. More chronically-absent kids. More turnover among
           | students. More horror-stories about home life. Most teachers
           | who can afford to turn it down decide that their sanity &
           | safety is worth more than an extra $8-12k/yr. Idealists who
           | go in hoping to make a difference get their attitude adjusted
           | _fast_. It 's brutal, and money--at least, money spent on
           | education _per se_ --does not seem to be the solution.
           | 
           | > The level of complacent sloth within administration is not
           | to be underestimated, and outright graft does occur from time
           | to time.
           | 
           | Heh, yeah, and that's in _most_ districts, not just the poor
           | ones :-(
        
             | Gigachad wrote:
             | For the absolute worst of schools, perhaps extending online
             | learning might be best. That way disruptive students can
             | just be muted. And then provide some physical location
             | where students can do online classes when they don't have a
             | suitable home environment.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | "Idealists who go in hoping to make a difference get their
             | attitude adjusted fast."
             | 
             | I have a friend who completed his teaching degree. He said
             | the policies at the school where he student-taught were so
             | bad that he decided not to apply to teaching jobs. Stuff
             | like you weren't allowed to give less than a 50% as long as
             | they put their name on the paper, and ineffective
             | discipline options. Basically, the school was just passing
             | kids through the grades without the kids really learning
             | and some kids wouldn't even try. I guess if you just
             | graduate them, they're no longer the school's problem...
        
               | brimble wrote:
               | Yeah, kids don't fail grades anymore but are just passed
               | ever upward, and many schools have incompetent admin (of
               | all the things I was wrong about as a kid, turns out
               | school administrators are, on average, _even dumber_ than
               | I thought they were back then--it 's shocking, really)
               | who insist on completely worthless discipline schemes,
               | among other bad ideas. Can confirm all that's true.
               | 
               | So then you're a teacher with a bunch of 6th graders,
               | say, 2/3 of whom are one or more grade levels behind on
               | at least one subject, but that material's not what will
               | be on the test that'll be used to evaluate your
               | performance. The right thing to do is to go back and fill
               | in the gaps for those kids, but you don't have the time,
               | and showing them enough of this year's material that they
               | might at least get a few answers on the standardized test
               | correct is safer for your career anyway.
               | 
               | It sucks.
        
         | TrispusAttucks wrote:
         | Regressing the mean and shrinking the margins between high
         | performers and low performers doesn't elevate the performance
         | of the bottom. It just lowers the performance of the entire
         | system. You could even argue it disenfranchises the lower but
         | forcing more top tier talent into their employment tiers.
        
           | zaroth wrote:
           | I think you said it better than me.
           | 
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=30546204
        
           | gkop wrote:
           | Yes! 100%. The argument in the article isn't wrong, but the
           | way it's made is highly unlikely to win people over to the
           | cause (and could actually deepen the disagreement).
        
       | 6gvONxR4sf7o wrote:
       | I was a kid who coasted through school and got by on smarts
       | alone. I don't care how we push kids, we just need to not let
       | them coast too long. If that means enrichment or acceleration or
       | whatever else the comments are debating, it's pretty much all
       | better than the status quo.
        
         | chasd00 wrote:
         | i went to a small HS out in the backwoods of North Texas (
         | graduating class had 20 people in it). I was told how smart i
         | was over and over and started to believe it. Then went to
         | college and found out exactly how much BS was fed to me the
         | previous 4 years. I really suffered for it taking a long time
         | to graduate and almost getting kicked out a couple times.
         | 
         | Now I have two kids and prioritize learning how to learn with
         | them. If you can develop the skills in a child required to work
         | hard, find the answers, find the understanding, and teach
         | themself then you've put them in a good spot to have at least a
         | fighting chance when faced with the unknown.
        
         | convolvatron wrote:
         | I was too. all the AP classes. a grade ahead. and then I got to
         | college and I had no idea how to actually study and learn real
         | things
        
         | tastyfreeze wrote:
         | Public school was the same for me. It wasn't until doing poorly
         | in college that I realized that I actually needed to study to
         | do well. Unfortunately, I had never developed study habits as I
         | hardly had to crack a book to do well before. It was quite a
         | struggle for me to teach myself how to learn when I couldn't
         | just pick up the material from class.
         | 
         | To me that illustrates the general failure of public school is
         | not teaching children how to learn.
        
       | zzzeek wrote:
       | I read this extraordinary quote:
       | 
       | > When California's Instructional Quality Commission adopted a
       | new mathematics framework in 2021 that urged schools to do away
       | with accelerated math in grades one through 10, it explained the
       | move this way: "We reject ideas of natural gifts and talents."
       | 
       | I clicked the link and could find no such language or even any
       | suggestion that high achieving students don't exist, and it had a
       | lot of verbiage discussing the need for "high achieving" students
       | to be challenged more than others. How a student became "high
       | achieving", like if they were somehow born that way or otherwise
       | gained such skills in early development, was not discussed, nor
       | does it make much difference.
       | 
       | therefore I dont understand the point of this article if it's
       | going to start out with claims that dont seem to be true.
        
         | FanaHOVA wrote:
         | It's right in the introduction [0]: "All students deserve
         | powerful mathematics; we reject ideas of natural gifts and
         | talents (Cimpian et al, 2015; Boaler, 2019) and the "cult of
         | the genius" (Ellenberg, 2015)."
         | 
         | [0]
         | https://www.cde.ca.gov/ci/ma/cf/documents/mathfwchapter1.doc...
        
       | rizkeyz wrote:
       | I switched from a normal school to a gifted school at age 12. The
       | biggest plus was that when all your peers have measured iq 130 or
       | more, you do not have to feel ashamed to be "just curious" -
       | which I believe most kids there were, albeit on very different
       | levels.
       | 
       | People there really hacked themselves into all kinds of things,
       | be it making your own PCB, learning six different languages,
       | caring for paedomorphic salamanders, writing lyric, or building
       | your "own" copies of popular software products. None of that
       | seemed particularly strange to us young teenagers.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | antiterra wrote:
       | As someone who was put in a reading class five grades above my
       | actual grade, I disagree with the idea that acceleration should
       | be the primary benefit of gifted education.
       | 
       | What I needed was not just higher level reading, but content
       | catered to someone 5 years younger than the usual age group for
       | that reading. I needed help writing fast enough to keep up.
       | 
       | Because grade school curriculum came easily and I could 'figure
       | out' everything, I hit a wall when stuff got genuinely difficult
       | or required significant work. What I needed was to learn how to
       | put forth effort to do things that were hard or required work for
       | desired output. I needed help socializing because I didn't relate
       | to people my age and was too inexperienced to engage people who
       | were on my intellectual level as peers.
       | 
       | I needed help creating because the standards for myself were so
       | high. Not exceeding those standards always felt like failure
        
         | citilife wrote:
         | I'd argue this is why many kids are successful when home
         | schooled.
         | 
         | The idea that you should interact so much with your peers is
         | kind of strange to be honest. Is it really healthy for kids to
         | interact regularly with their peers? I'd argue it's much better
         | for children to interact with adults. Historically, kids would
         | learn to work on the farm, attend church, etc and they'd see
         | other children, but most of the time they'd be learning from
         | adults how to act and strive for.
        
           | stjohnswarts wrote:
           | Can't agree. Unless parents make a specific effort to get
           | them out with other similar aged group of kids (maybe other
           | home schoolers) then the kid is going to most likely have
           | stunted social and emotional intelligence even if their
           | academic intelligence is off the chart. Even as a kid who
           | spent most breaks reading something several grade levels
           | higher than my current one, I still liked to wander off and
           | hang with the other kids in public school. I still enjoyed
           | comic books, flag football at recess, and cartoons.
        
             | djrogers wrote:
             | > the kid is going to most likely have stunted social and
             | emotional intelligence
             | 
             | You're either ignoring history, or assume that people who
             | lived >150 years ago were all emotionally damaged in some
             | way... Sure kids can learn from each other, and in a
             | healthy way, but the structures that we have in place to
             | foster that (universal public school) are fairly new in the
             | grand scheme of things...
        
               | Hermitian909 wrote:
               | For context, I'm a former educator with a lot of
               | experience with homeschooled kids. I've also read a lot
               | of literature on early childhood development and
               | socialization.
               | 
               | I think the phrase "[the kid has] stunted social and
               | emotional intelligence" hides a lot of nuance. The more
               | useful rephrasing might be: "this person's ability to
               | relate to people and navigate complex social
               | interactions, particularly in the culture in which they
               | were raised, is below average".
               | 
               | The important takeaway is what matters most is your
               | ability to handle social interactions with peers.
               | 
               | > people who lived >150 years ago were all emotionally
               | damaged in some way
               | 
               | "Emotionally damaged" is a very culturally relative term.
               | If you transported people from 150 years ago to the
               | present day many would be considered "emotionally
               | damaged" by modern standards even though they were
               | functional people in their own time. This is because
               | social intelligence is measured against a person's lived
               | context.
               | 
               | Coming back to homeschool - many home schooled kids have
               | not had the same level of socialization as their peers in
               | schools. That lack of socialization causes a negative
               | feedback loop where more socialized kids don't want to
               | interact with the homeschooled kids leading to the
               | homeschooled kid being even more under socialized. The
               | window of opportunity to effectively intervene when this
               | process starts is short and when parents fail to act I
               | have seen it cause decades of suffering for their kids.
        
               | ericd wrote:
               | What age range would you say makes up that window?
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | slothtrop wrote:
           | Historically, kids played with other kids and families didn't
           | generally live far from others. On farms, families are larger
           | so it's a moot point.
           | 
           | Infrequent contact with other kids can open the door to
           | social anxiety and awkwardness as they grow. Not to mention,
           | it's cruel. Kids are social beings too and they don't get
           | their rocks off listening to adults talk down to them.
        
           | qiskit wrote:
           | Ideally, the basics ( reading, writing, arithmetic, etc )
           | should all be done at home with their stay at home moms ( or
           | dads ). Once they reach a certain level, then schooling
           | should start ( maybe 7th grade or high school even ). Not
           | only would that be better for the kids, it would be better
           | for family bonding and community building.
           | 
           | But the modern education system was created for the exact
           | opposite. To limit family bonding in favor of allegiance to
           | the state and teach them enough to be drones for the
           | factory/work force/military. Children are resources to be
           | processed by the state via their factory-like schools into
           | products to be consumed by corporations, government, etc.
        
             | adamsmith143 wrote:
             | >But the modern education system was created for the exact
             | opposite. To limit family bonding in favor of allegiance to
             | the state and teach them enough to be drones for the
             | factory/work force/military. Children are resources to be
             | processed by the state via their factory-like schools into
             | products to be consumed by corporations, government, etc.
             | 
             | I always see takes like this but it just strikes me as a
             | Conspiracy theory. We can easily get to the modern US
             | education system via poorly thought out incentives and
             | incompetence. You don't need malicious actors to get there.
             | I would be curious if you had evidence to support a claim
             | like this?
             | 
             | To the downvoters: Do you honestly believe there is a Cabal
             | in the US Government who sit in a room and say "Yes we must
             | crush gifted students and make sure our education system is
             | terrible so we have more drones for the factory/work
             | force/military??
        
             | bendbro wrote:
             | Based and tedpilled
        
             | milkytron wrote:
             | > Children are resources to be processed by the state via
             | their factory-like schools into products to be consumed by
             | corporations, government, etc.
             | 
             | When the word "resource" gets thrown around at companies
             | and they obviously mean a human being, it peeves me. I will
             | never use that word when referring to a person. When I'm
             | involved in a conversation where someone uses it, I always
             | ask for clarity that they mean a person, employee,
             | contractor, candidate, etc.
             | 
             | I know it's just a word, but calling people resources makes
             | it seem like they are nothing more than something to be
             | expended and used. And maybe that is the case, but I don't
             | think it should be encouraged and perpetuated.
        
               | pjbeam wrote:
               | I agree with you but in this case I think the word choice
               | fir the tenor of that parent's comment well--whether you
               | agree or not is a different story but children as
               | "resource" makes sense in the factory metaphor.
        
               | lostcolony wrote:
               | I'm not a fan of the more people-centric ones either,
               | since they still are super abstract. Like "headcount".
               | 
               | It's Bob. You mean Bob. You want to change the project
               | Bob is on. Have we talked to Bob about it?
        
             | wilkommen wrote:
             | I was homeschooled until 7th grade. If your parents aren't
             | monsters maybe it can be good. But many if not most parents
             | who choose to homeschool their kids are zealots of some
             | kind or another, or have serious control/paranoia/narcissim
             | issues. Exposure to people outside the home, who aren't
             | hand-picked by the child's parents can go a long way
             | towards teaching the child that there are people in the
             | world who are different from their parents. I think that
             | would have helped me a lot.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | Afaik, home school kids are not massively more succesfull.
           | Some are, but others have troubles.
           | 
           | And historically, kids were cared for in quite large variety
           | of setting. And quite a lot of those were not romantic at
           | all.
        
           | quartesixte wrote:
           | > Historically, kids would learn to work on the farm, attend
           | church, etc and they'd see other children, but most of the
           | time they'd be learning from adults how to act and strive
           | for.
           | 
           | They'd also have a fair amount of siblings and cousins, the
           | children of hired help, and entire village's worth of other
           | children to interact with. And depending on the era, a fair
           | amount of absenteeism when it comes to actual parenting. So
           | having peers of your age was both common, historically
           | encouraged (stories of childhood friends abound), and
           | important in establishing your place inside your community.
           | 
           | That being said, they were exposed to more adults on a daily
           | basis, and integrated more into the life of adults.
           | Particularly, they were exposed to the daily lives of adults
           | _at work_. Which I think is a large part of helping to
           | influence a child's growth.
           | 
           | Childhood as we know it now is also a modern concept -- the
           | switch from childhood to adult was more child > young adult
           | who doesn't really know what they're doing, rather than our
           | modern child > adolescent > young adult path. (Edit because I
           | hit submit too early). Childhood as also being an experience
           | of being sequestered from the outside world is also modern.
        
             | rr808 wrote:
             | 10 brothers & sisters was pretty normal, not just your
             | house but the neighbors all around you too. Children
             | everywhere.
        
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             | WalterBright wrote:
             | When I was a kid, one's first job was as a teenager. Today,
             | one's first job is as a college graduate. I sometimes read
             | accounts of what a shock it is to make that transition.
        
           | celim307 wrote:
           | As someone who interacted mainly with adults growing up, I'd
           | disagree. Being an adult isn't a great filter of good
           | character. As a kid I was exposed to some backwords
           | ideologies and toxic attitudes from adults, exasterbated by
           | the fact that since they were adults they came with a
           | position of authority. This also made it difficult to make
           | friends and socialize with peers when I got into my teens, I
           | felt like I missed out on a lot by not smoothly integrating
           | into teen culture.
           | 
           | Having a handful of solid adult role models is key, but a lot
           | of social skills are learned by trial and error, and it's way
           | more helpful when you're learning those alongside others who
           | are also figuring it out, that's also how new ideas and new
           | cultural zeitgeists are created, by challenging old concepts
           | and not having the baggage of the old way of doing things.
           | 
           | Obviously there's pitfalls with taking all your social cues
           | from hormone riddled peers, but it's a trial I think everyone
           | needs to go through to prepare them on how to socialize with
           | the world at large.
        
           | IggleSniggle wrote:
           | I've known a bunch of homeschooled folks, and I know this is
           | definitely coming from a place of confirmation bias,
           | but...all of them were especially bad at code-switching. I
           | think there's plenty of ways one _could_ have wider
           | socialization as a kid among adults, but it 's much easier to
           | imagine it coming to fruition in _play_ with peers. I don 't
           | think exact age-matching is really necessary, but being
           | around people that are at a similar life-stage certainly
           | can't hurt in establishing "peering" where it matters.
        
             | imbnwa wrote:
             | What does code-switching mean in this context?
        
               | delecti wrote:
               | Code-switching is the way people act differently in
               | different contexts. So you're more likely to be formal
               | and polite with your boss or grandparents and around your
               | friend group you'll be more casual, maybe swear more.
        
               | xxr wrote:
               | Code switching originally was a term in linguistics to
               | refer to the same speakers using multiple languages (or
               | multiple registers of the same language, etc.) in a
               | single conversation, which is probably why imbnwa is
               | confused about the application here. In the last few
               | years it's been picked up by the broader social science
               | world to describe people using different modes of speech
               | in _different_ situations, which is how you 're using the
               | term--e.g., using a "white" voice, using a "straight"
               | voice, etc.
        
             | MattGaiser wrote:
             | Was homeschooled, can confirm that I am terrible at code
             | switching.
             | 
             | Although it seems to have stopped mattering once I got to
             | the "adult" world, where whether one is 30 or 80, there is
             | a fairly standard template for treating and dealing with
             | people.
             | 
             | It was a relief to stop being in a stratified age driven
             | hierarchy.
        
               | drBonkers wrote:
               | what is code switching?
        
               | Baeocystin wrote:
               | Changing how you present yourself to match the social
               | environment you're in. Formal vs informal speech,
               | mannerisms, what is appropriate behavior in context, all
               | of that sort of thing.
        
               | MattGaiser wrote:
               | The rules of interaction depending on context and
               | demographics, to put it roughly.
               | 
               | Youth examples:
               | 
               | - You may swear in conversations with peers, but you
               | should not in conversations with people higher in the
               | hierarchy.
               | 
               | - When people ask "how are you?", they are not genuinely
               | asking in most cases. It is just a greeting. But there
               | are exceptions like your grandmother and a teacher you
               | have not seen in years, but are close to.
               | 
               | Adult examples:
               | 
               | - You can tell a rich person about your great vacation,
               | but not a poor person. If you have a high paying job, you
               | are expected to be happy when talking to a person who
               | earns less than you do.
               | 
               | - Random men (I am also a man) will find it completely
               | appropriate to start a conversation with you discussing
               | the body parts of a nearby woman. It has happened enough
               | times that otherwise successful people view it as an
               | appropriate way to start a conversation on a train.
               | Pretty sure they do not do that with non-peers/women as
               | it is pretty creepy.
               | 
               | - For a more comic take:
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tms0yk9kqVM. Basically
               | the war should not be mentioned by a Brit to a German,
               | but you can mention the war to another Brit.
        
               | lostcolony wrote:
               | I was public schooled k-9th grade, homeschooled 10-12th
               | (though doing college courses, some in person at
               | colleges).
               | 
               | I am also terrible at code switching (I fit in better in
               | the college classes while homeschooled than I ever did in
               | public school, for whatever that is worth). And always
               | have been. And I don't see it as a problem, since the
               | implication that it's beneficial in a given context
               | implies that context isn't diverse or inclusive, and thus
               | I want out of it, not to conform to it.
        
           | MisterBastahrd wrote:
           | In what way? Most homeschooled kids that I've met have been
           | painfully unaware of how the world actually works. They're
           | slightly better at trivia because their parents try to
           | surround them with "fun" things that they also like, but
           | they're way worse at understanding advanced concepts. They
           | also tend to be poor at behavioral adaptation.
        
           | gowld wrote:
           | Schools traditionally were mixed age, because there weren't
           | enough people in the same area for single-age classrooms.
           | 
           | This is hugely missing nowadays.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | Well, those farm kids were 1 of 8 or so. So they socialized
           | with each other.
        
             | irrational wrote:
             | This is a good point. Children from large families have the
             | opposite problem of being lonely or needing socialization.
             | They struggle to find time to themselves. And then all the
             | siblings often have friends, so your actual socialization
             | group ends up quite huge.
        
           | alfalfasprout wrote:
           | If you want them to socialize, then yeah they should be with
           | their peers.
        
             | lief79 wrote:
             | Sure, but also note that those peers may be a few years
             | above or below their biological age.
        
         | WalterBright wrote:
         | > I hit a wall when stuff got genuinely difficult or required
         | significant work.
         | 
         | I hit that wall my freshman year at Caltech. What a disaster.
         | All my strategies of effortless A's blew up in my face. I'd get
         | comments like "I really should fail you, but I'm going to give
         | you a break." At the end of first semester of sophomore year, I
         | had to come to grips with solving this or leaving.
         | 
         | After that, each semester came easier and easier, as I learned
         | how to learn.
         | 
         | I'm so glad freshman year was pass/fail, as my execrable
         | performance that year did not affect my final GPA. I also am
         | indebted to several people who freely gave the gift of their
         | time to help me out.
         | 
         | (I never would have succeeded with remote learning.)
        
           | pdonis wrote:
           | _> I 'm so glad freshman year was pass/fail_
           | 
           | MIT had the same policy when I was there, and I felt the same
           | way about it: I needed that year to at least get started
           | developing the study habits I didn't have to develop in high
           | school.
        
         | zozbot234 wrote:
         | > I hit a wall when stuff got genuinely difficult or required
         | significant work.
         | 
         | The thing is that _everyone_ hits that wall at some point. Some
         | just hit it later than others. But I agree that acceleration
         | should only ever occur in a context of learning for mastery -
         | if complete mastery is not attained in the  "easy" subjects,
         | pushing through the 'wall' of the actually challenging ones is
         | way too difficult.
        
         | jacinda wrote:
         | > I hit a wall when stuff got genuinely difficult or required
         | significant work.
         | 
         | This was, to me, the greatest benefit of being put in a gifted
         | program in 3rd grade. I was so used to everything being easy
         | that I cried at home that I had homework taking longer than 10
         | minutes that I actually had to concentrate on. I asked my dad
         | to go back to the regular program, and he said I should stick
         | it out for at least another month. I did, and learned how to
         | work through things that seemed challenging at first.
         | 
         | The experience of having to put forth effort early(ish) in my
         | life set me up far better for dealing with life later, because
         | I learned how to push past things that were uncomfortable
         | instead of giving up (i.e. "grit" became a part of my psyche
         | when it was still pretty flexible).
         | 
         | I probably could have learned this lesson in other ways, but
         | the fact that it's one of my clearest childhood memories
         | certainly speaks to the impact it had on my life. And I know
         | plenty of friends whose first experience needing to put effort
         | happened in college, and things seemed a lot harder for them
         | emotionally.
        
         | sheepybloke wrote:
         | Personally, that's why I liked AP courses in high school. After
         | my AP Chem class, most of my college courses were straight
         | forward, because my AP Chem class established and pushed good
         | study and work habits because you needed those to do well and
         | my teacher designed our course to help build them. Maybe in
         | this case acceleration should mean challenging and building up
         | students without overwhelming them?
        
         | hellisothers wrote:
         | This is where my 8yo is at now and it's infuriating. He is in
         | class all day at 2nd grade level and is given homework at 4th+
         | grade level but that means we our effectively his actual
         | teachers. This also results in, as you say, everything is
         | trivially easy or all of a sudden hard which has in general
         | given him a complex around mildly difficult things and practice
         | in general.
        
           | brimble wrote:
           | For kids who are behind, they solve this by throwing _a lot_
           | more personnel at the problem, to the point that some kids
           | have one-on-one assistants /tutors follow them around all
           | day. Good luck getting budgets increased enough to do the
           | same for gifted kids, though.
        
           | bcrosby95 wrote:
           | I guess it depends upon exactly what you mean. But based upon
           | my 2nd grader, and from what I've heard from other 2nd grade
           | parents, this is pretty normal for a 2nd grader, regardless
           | of how gifted they are or aren't.
           | 
           | My 2nd grader can burn through material from the first half
           | of the year. But current material... good luck getting her to
           | do it. Difficult work makes people uncomfortable, and most
           | young kids don't like being uncomfortable.
        
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           | brightball wrote:
           | My 7th grader is in 9th grade math and I feel this. The
           | homework load is the killer and I end up being the teacher. I
           | like it.
        
       | dam_broke_it wrote:
       | First and foremost problem is selecting teacher(s) that are
       | easily 30-60 IQ lower than the gifted kids....
        
       | plandis wrote:
       | Honestly I just wish I had classes which only allowed students
       | who wanted to be there.
       | 
       | So much of my public school education was wasted on teachers
       | having to deal with some subset of students who wanted to do
       | nothing but disrupt everyone else.
       | 
       | It got better when I could choose AP classes since generally by
       | that point everyone wanted to be in those classes.
        
       | westcort wrote:
       | This: acceleration, not enrichment, is the most promising way to
       | serve gifted students
        
         | thethirdone wrote:
         | Excessive acceleration can be an issue for students. Being in a
         | class with only people much older than you can be very
         | challenging. Accelerating 1 or 2 years ahead (over the entirety
         | of schooling) of the rest of the students is probably better
         | than what enrichment can do. However, accelerating 5 years is
         | probably worse than accelerating 2 years and doing a lot of
         | enrichment.
         | 
         | Additionally, I think that jumping past a grade and succeeding
         | in the higher one is rather difficult unless you are very
         | gifted. Enrichment can make the eventual acceleration easier.
         | 
         | Disclaimer: I am not an education professional though; just
         | someone who once was a gifted student.
        
       | stjohnswarts wrote:
       | I think kids need to be kids but there should be accelerated
       | classes at least a portion of the day to satisfy them
       | intellectually (math, science, literature). They are (most
       | likely) still mentally the same age and enjoy most of the same
       | playtime activities as other kids. It's not likely that an 8year
       | old is gonna have a good time hanging with a clique of 12 year
       | olds and vice versa.
        
       | geebee wrote:
       | My big problem with GATE programs, as they were implemented at
       | SFUSD, is the question of what happens to the kid at the 89%ile.
       | 
       | I am not at all against elite education, nor do I believe
       | everyone should proceed roughly at the same pace. But I am very
       | wary of an approach that imposes a bimodal solution onto what is
       | almost certainly a more normally distributed population.
       | 
       | There are various ways this was implemented over the last 50
       | years. When I was in the SFUSD gifted program in the late 1970s,
       | I believe it was done by some kind of IQ assessment. When my own
       | kids were in SFUSD in the late 2000s, they took the top 10% of
       | each class, as defined by test scores on the STAR test, which is
       | an academic test. There were a few ways to test in (both verbal
       | and reading in the top 10%, or one or the other in the top 10%
       | two years in a row, or nominated by a teacher - there may have
       | been a few others).
       | 
       | Ok, but then what happens to the kid who scored 89%ile
       | consistently? Are we getting behind a solution that takes the top
       | 10% off into a class which is taught at the 95%ile, and then
       | leaves the 89%ile student to now be taught at the 45%ile?
       | 
       | Even people who support more advanced learning for more advanced
       | students must see a problem here. Seems like we need a better
       | solution. The top 10% isn't the only group that may benefit from
       | a specifically tailored curriculum.
        
       | DelaneyM wrote:
       | Speaking as a former "gifted" kid, acceleration is a horrible
       | idea.
       | 
       | I skipped a bunch of grades, got into MIT but went to a local
       | college at 13 (who lets their 13-year-old live in a college
       | dorm?), ended up working for a bit then going back to school with
       | my peers.
       | 
       | If I could do it again I'd have taken _breadth_ instead of depth.
       | Finished high school math? Good for me, now grab a third
       | language. Bored in school? Off to a foreign country to learn by
       | immersion. No courses left undone? Take six months and see if I
       | can realize my dream of making the national team in my sport,
       | etc.
       | 
       | Going deep is very risky. Eventually you end up at the end of the
       | easy path of coursework and classes and are in the same place as
       | everyone else (just a year or two earlier). Unless you're
       | absolutely, positively sure that that specific area is where you
       | want to spend the rest of your life, that head start wins nothing
       | enduring.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | "went to a local college at 13 (who lets their 13-year-old live
         | in a college dorm?),"
         | 
         | Sounds like the premise for an American Pie movie.
        
           | brimble wrote:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Real_Genius
           | 
           | Though it looks like he's 15, not 13.
        
           | MereInterest wrote:
           | You might enjoy the movie "Real Genius", where one of the
           | main characters is a early high school graduate, accepted
           | into "Pacific Tech", and struggling to adapt to the different
           | social expectations. Amid the standard shenanigans, there are
           | several conversations on how being smart isn't everything,
           | and how there is a social responsibility to use your
           | intelligence responsibly.
        
         | emacsen wrote:
         | Just out of curiosity, did you live in the Philadelphia area?
         | 
         | I knew a 13 year old going to a local college in Bryn
         | Mawr/Haverford, but I don't think he was attending either of
         | those prestigious colleges.
         | 
         | I don't recall his name (this was nearly 30 years ago) and I
         | wondered what happened to him.
         | 
         | Reading these comments it sounds like a lot of people feel like
         | you do about acceleration being an issue.
         | 
         | For me, I was both Gifted and Learning Disabled, and both
         | programs were unprepared for the issues of someone who was both
         | very smart but also had significant learning issues.
         | 
         | It was very difficult. :(
        
           | IggleSniggle wrote:
           | I was also both Gifted and Learning Disabled (although I
           | prefer to list them in the opposite order). I think it's
           | likely that there's a lot more neurodiversity than
           | acknowledged generally, but we're just sort of stuck with the
           | very human condition of balancing the needs of the group with
           | the needs of the individual.
           | 
           | Honestly I don't think any "program" is truly prepared to
           | meet the needs of anybody at all. It was difficult for me,
           | too, but I think striving, suffering, etc are all human
           | conditions that we all experience regardless of how we get
           | there. "Gifted" and "Learning Disabled" programs exist for
           | the benefit of normalizing behavior and capabilities that are
           | farther outside the curve. That they existed when we were
           | young is merely a testament to a collective desire for
           | general cohesiveness.
        
         | veganhouseDJ wrote:
         | It is really strange to me that we can't figure this out.
         | 
         | I almost think it is because our entire view of education is
         | conflated with a type of sporting event. You were one of the
         | grand champions of this sporting event even though obviously it
         | would have just made sense to learn more. Instead it is this
         | weird sporting event race and the concept of learning more just
         | isn't part of objective of the game.
        
           | IggleSniggle wrote:
           | Leaning on the sporting event analogy, the goal is
           | cohesiveness. You value your star players, but you also need
           | to be a part of the team. We're not sure what the game is,
           | but we're a social species.
        
         | ripper1138 wrote:
         | There's also a lot more to life than studying. But the argument
         | is that you and other kids on that path will maybe someday be
         | exceptionally productive to society in some field.
         | 
         | I only skipped one grade and still felt isolated from other
         | kids sometimes. I can't imagine how you'd feel! As a parent I'd
         | personally rather let my kid have a somewhat normal childhood
         | than maximize their intellectual potential if that meant
         | sending a 13yr old to college.
        
         | jessriedel wrote:
         | You've given an argument for more gifted education, not less.
         | 
         | The fundamental issue is that some kids learn faster than
         | others, so that if you want gifted kids to be around other kids
         | their own age while still being challenged, you need to draw
         | from a large region and cluster them together in one place. The
         | most gifted children will have to be the most clustered. If you
         | needed to go to MIT to be challenged, that is because of a lack
         | of gifted education.
         | 
         | Separately, I think we should be very skeptical of the idea
         | that a good default path for kids is to spend most days
         | surrounded by kids within 12 months of their age. This sort of
         | schooling has only been widespread for roughly a century; for
         | the vast majority of history kids grew up with a much broader
         | range of ages around them. I agree that getting thrown into a
         | college dorm at 13 might be very bad, but I find spending all
         | day with other 13 year olds to also be very bad.
        
       | heurist wrote:
       | If I hadn't been able to attend a "gifted" program, which has
       | since been shut down, I would have been stuck in a rural D-class
       | system that would not have served me at all. Instead I was able
       | to be around peers with my interests and comparable learning
       | abilities. It was a big early and positive influence on my life.
        
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