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       "You Are My Sunshine": How a maudlin song became a children's
       classic (2013)
        
       Author : tintinnabula
       Score  : 12 points
       Date   : 2022-03-01 02:46 UTC (20 hours ago)
        
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       | bavell wrote:
       | I played this song on guitar for my grandfather's funeral :( was
       | one of his favorite songs to play on harmonica.
        
       | ars wrote:
       | I use this song to break "ear worms". Not sure why it works, but
       | it does.
        
         | 0xdeadbeefbabe wrote:
         | Will it even break copa cabana?
        
       | chanandler_bong wrote:
       | There is a small handful of songs that I absolutely cannot listen
       | to, for various reasons.
       | 
       | "You Are My Sunshine" tops the list. It so incredibly sad... even
       | thinking about it to type this comment is really difficult. Like,
       | hide-the-razor-because-the-cutting-will-start-again difficult. I
       | have no idea why.
        
         | commandlinefan wrote:
         | > I have no idea why.
         | 
         | Me, too, but in my case I do know why - when my son was born (2
         | months premature), we had a lot of health scares with him and
         | my wife insisted on singing that song to him over and over
         | again.
        
         | indigochill wrote:
         | I was engaged at one point to a lady who sang that to me more
         | than once and I was seriously freaked out because I was fairly
         | certain she actually meant the lyrics (and looking at the full
         | lyrics now, she didn't even go through all the verses). That
         | and generally stuff in that vein gave me enough pause in
         | planning the wedding that she finally had enough and broke
         | things off, which I was relieved by because in hindsight I knew
         | on some level something was seriously off but didn't have the
         | maturity/confidence to break it off myself.
        
           | aidenn0 wrote:
           | There needs to be a word for when you are forced to quit
           | something that you are too invested/embarrassed/whatever to
           | quit yourself.
           | 
           | e.g. I think pg mentioned being jealous of rtm when he got
           | arrested because rtm had figured a way out of the PhD program
           | without having to quit!
        
         | fknorangesite wrote:
         | I don't know how Canada-specific this is, but we can put 'Love
         | You Forever' by Robert Munsch on this list - also a children's
         | book/song.
         | 
         | It's not even _sad_ , really? But it just hits so hard.
        
         | anonymouse008 wrote:
         | Imagine it being a US State song... Louisiana at that. Tragic
        
         | 1_player wrote:
         | For me it's "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star". I heard it for the
         | first time as a kid while reading a book that was talking about
         | AIDS and the people that died from it, no joke. It's taken me
         | 30 years to forget the association between the two things.
        
       | beaned wrote:
       | Part of me suspects that hearing some sad songs as a child gives
       | you a greater appreciation for life at a young age, and helps you
       | to see the world while taking fewer things for granted. "Please
       | don't take my sunshine away" sort of implies that it can be
       | taken, its presence isn't granted, so be thankful that you have
       | it.
        
       | conception wrote:
       | See Also - Why do draft dodgers use the song Fortunate Son? Why
       | do politicians use Born in the USA for rallies?
       | 
       | People are surprisingly bad at lyrics/knowing what songs are
       | about.
        
         | jMyles wrote:
         | Interesting - why is Fortunate Son a bad choice for the theme
         | of refusing the draft?
         | 
         | It speaks of class stratification, and of rich folk asking poor
         | folk to do their bidding.
        
           | saghm wrote:
           | Yeah, I think Fortunate Sun is pretty explicitly an anti-war
           | protest song. If anything, I think it's weird when it gets
           | used in military montages in movies and TV, although
           | presumably some of them are aware of its meaning and are
           | picking it for ironic effect.
        
           | variaga wrote:
           | _Fortunate Son_ is a perfectly good song to for draft
           | dodgers:                 Yeah, some folks inherit star-
           | spangled eyes       They send you down to war       And when
           | you ask 'em, "How much should we give?"       They only
           | answer, "More, more, more"            It ain't me, it ain't
           | me       I ain't no military son, son       It ain't me, it
           | ain't me       I ain't no fortunate one, one
           | 
           | But don't take my word for it; ask John Fogarty himself:
           | https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/john-
           | fogerty-a...
           | 
           | People interpreting _Fortunate Son_ as a celebration of
           | military service (it seems to me these are mostly the same
           | people who also use _Born in the USA_ as if it were a
           | celebration of the US) are the ones in the wrong here.
        
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