[HN Gopher] Why do I feel like you need to be a sociopath to suc...
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       Why do I feel like you need to be a sociopath to succeed?
        
       I haven't been able to get this idea out of my mind that to be a
       successful CEO, you need to be a sociopath. Somehow it feels like
       decent people with decent products just don't make it.
        
       Author : roznoshchik
       Score  : 12 points
       Date   : 2022-02-15 22:32 UTC (28 minutes ago)
        
       | throwaway889900 wrote:
       | It's time for me to tell you to read the Gervais Principle!
        
       | gunfighthacksaw wrote:
       | How do you cultivate sociopathy?
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       | I took a personality disorder quiz and scored high on everything
       | except the dark triad.
       | 
       | Because of that quiz score, I'm worried that my earning potential
       | is not as high as it could be if I was otherwise a high
       | functioning psychopath.
       | 
       | I'm totally serious btw, any tips are appreciated.
        
         | WalterGR wrote:
         | I feel like I've seen a book called The 48 Laws of Power
         | recommended frequently for that.
        
         | cybarDOTlive wrote:
         | Get out of your comfort zone. Seek out awkwardness, and
         | anxiety, and revel in the uncomfortable. That's how you learn
         | to not give a fuck. Do things that would bring you shame, grin
         | and bare it. After awhile none of it applies anymore.
        
       | cybarDOTlive wrote:
       | You're probably right. "Decent, normal people", have had that
       | competitiveness bred out of them. They are sheep, they follow the
       | rules and watch the TV advertising. They get injected when
       | authority figure in white dress tells them to get injected. Not
       | exactly ripe for innovation, is it?
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       | The thing I can't get out of my head is, why are we keeping all
       | these people around? They are so slow. Get out of my way already.
        
         | fartboi wrote:
         | I am le epic sociopath
        
       | sbinthree wrote:
       | Hot take but sociopathy is technically the compulsively violent
       | one. People think it's "social psychopath" but sociopath implies
       | physical violence. Psychopaths are what you're thinking of. Not
       | always violent, but always charming.
        
       | Graffur wrote:
       | I am literally writing a pitch deck right now (just for fun). My
       | solution statement includes stuff like "respecting the user - no
       | tracking, no selling data, no dark patterns"... deep down I doubt
       | any investor would even look at this and would laugh at the
       | naivety.
       | 
       | They would look at FB, Reddit and others and, naturally, want a
       | piece of that pie.
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       | Unfortunately, I think the better way to get funding would be to
       | say:
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       | * this is how we can capture as much data from the user as
       | possible while convincing the user it is good for them
       | 
       | * this is how we can sell it to the highest bidder
       | 
       | * this is how we can make the user an addict
        
       | cosheaf wrote:
       | Because that's the correct intuition. The contemporary world is
       | not designed for sane people. All the systems around us are
       | designed to alienate people from each other with artificial
       | intermediators like money, status, fame, and just generally
       | useless toys and gadgets. To succeed in such a world you have to
       | have sociopathic tendencies. You have to value material goods and
       | possessions over people which is kinda insane when you really
       | think about it.
       | 
       | There is an interesting interview with Brit Marling addressing
       | some of these points about her time working at a bank (Goldman
       | Sachs):
       | https://duckduckgo.com/?q=brit+marling+goldman+sachs&t=ffab&....
        
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