[HN Gopher] I used Apple AirTags, Tiles and a GPS tracker to wat...
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       I used Apple AirTags, Tiles and a GPS tracker to watch my husband's
       every move
        
       Author : danso
       Score  : 141 points
       Date   : 2022-02-11 13:35 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | Osiris wrote:
       | My wife and I have Google maps location sharing turned on all the
       | time. It's not stepping because we agreed to it. Last night I got
       | home from a motorcycle ride and the garage door opened as I
       | pulled up because my wife knew I was coming home from a movie and
       | saw I was almost home.
        
         | ei8htyfi5e wrote:
         | We do the same.
         | 
         | We realized we were calling each other too often asking where
         | the other is and just decided to let tech solve the problem.
         | Now I can push a button and see how far away from home she is.
         | 
         | If I decide to do something sketchy, I can turn off location
         | temporarily and just lie to her about what I was doing if she
         | checks while I was crime-ing. Same as the pretech way. :-P
        
         | password4321 wrote:
         | Can anyone share how they do this self-hosted? I'd guess a
         | custom protocol would be worse battery-wise, but I would be
         | able to plug in while in the car.
        
           | calculatte wrote:
           | I use NextTracks/OwnTracks and a self-hosted MQTT server.
           | It's great!
        
         | SkyPuncher wrote:
         | My wife and I do the same. She often has to drive long
         | distances, at night, in the winter. It's a nice way for me to
         | both see her progress and make sure she isn't stuck somewhere.
         | 
         | I also struggle to send a "hey, I'm on my way message". My wife
         | really appreciates being able to check on the map quickly.
        
           | Osiris wrote:
           | As a motorcycle rider I don't have access to my phone while
           | riding so I actually prefer that she can just check on me. It
           | also makes her feel better when she sees me moving and not
           | stopped.
        
         | kelnos wrote:
         | I have friends who do this too, but it always just feels icky
         | to me. Yes, I know that my mobile carrier knows more or less
         | where I am at all times, and Google knows with even greater
         | precision. But I don't want people I know, even my partner, to
         | have that kind of access (and I don't want to be able to track
         | my partner, either).
         | 
         | Another poster mentioned their wife went to a doctor's
         | appointment, but it was in the same building as a divorce
         | lawyer. Having forgotten about the appointment, they panicked.
         | That sort of thing tells me that this sort of thing isn't
         | harmless, even if there's nothing nefarious going on. There are
         | enough reasons in life for miscommunications and
         | misunderstandings to pop up; adding extra ways for that to
         | happen by accident is not something I'm interested in.
         | 
         | I think targeted, time-limited, explicit sharing can be useful.
         | I used to use Glympse sometimes, when I was on my way
         | somewhere, to make it easy for other people I'd be meeting to
         | know where I was and how long they'd expect to be waiting for
         | me. That let me share with specific people, on demand, and only
         | for a certain amount of time that I specify up-front. But
         | blanket, always-on sharing? No thanks.
        
           | Osiris wrote:
           | > Another poster mentioned their wife went to a doctor's
           | appointment, but it was in the same building as a divorce
           | lawyer.
           | 
           | This exact thing happened to me. However if your first
           | thought is they are at the lawyer at not the hospital... You
           | probably have some things to work out in your relationship
           | anyway.
        
         | operator-name wrote:
         | I'm also quite liberal with sharing my location (via Google
         | maps) when traveling to meet up with friends, but it's always
         | been a huge battery drain. I can't imagine what it's like being
         | on all the time!
        
           | derimagia wrote:
           | It's not a huge battery drain when I use it at all. Google
           | already has a history of where you go so I don't even know
           | why they would need more battery for it.
        
       | nickthegreek wrote:
       | When it comes to AirTags, what I care about is my use cases and
       | if this tech is serving me well. I have one in my motorcycle,
       | vespa and backpack. I've previously had a bike stolen and never
       | recovered. My mom looses her keys so what often, so I got her one
       | as well. These AirTags provide me with an affordable peace of
       | mind that works better than my Tile ever did.
        
         | mettamage wrote:
         | Same, I was once drunk and I thought my backpack was stolen (it
         | wasn't), because I didn't see it in the bar. It turned out it
         | was in the car that was parked quite far away (15 min.). That
         | saved a whooooollllleeeee load of anxiety.
         | 
         | Recently I had to go at a moment's notice and needed my wallet.
         | I couldn't find it, but I airtagged it, so I could. That saved
         | an awful ton of stress, which helped me in keeping my head
         | cool. The moment's notice was really stressful, searching my
         | wallet for 5 to 10 minutes in a time-pressure sensitive task
         | with stakes that are too high for my taste would only have
         | compounded my stress.
         | 
         | So in that sense, Apple is helping me preserve my sanity at
         | moments where I could otherwise lose it. There only have been
         | these two situations for it, but IMO that's worth it. I have
         | one on my keys, my wallet and my backpack.
         | 
         | And of course, I've used it dozens of times because I'm too
         | lazy to go search them. That's just a convenience feature. The
         | real reason I have them is to reduce stress.
        
         | Unbeliever69 wrote:
         | Not much to add to the conversation here except that I love my
         | Airtag in my wallet. So many times I've lost it for days and
         | sometimes weeks on end only to find it in the crack of my
         | couch, behind the seat in the car, under a pile of paper etc.
         | Not anymore! Works like a charm within seconds.
        
       | coding123 wrote:
       | So they can more than double detection if Apple opens a web
       | service that lets you find out if you're recent coordinates were
       | also tracked by giving such a service to Google. So instead of
       | having your phone ping Apple, Google could do it for you and find
       | out if you're being tracked.
        
       | tinalumfoil wrote:
       | I hate this AirTag because besides being pointless (nothing you
       | couldn't do before), it fosters a fear of your neighbor while
       | placing tech companies as your trusted friends. There's no
       | evidence these, "people have freaked out after finding AirTags
       | hidden in their bags and on their cars" are anything other than
       | just stray airtags their owners would very much like back. Just
       | because police (or journalists for that matter) are helping to
       | foster this environment doesn't matter because most police are
       | technologically illiterate and under-trained, and frankly don't
       | know what they're doing.
       | 
       | Google using hidden terms to track your every location is your
       | enemy. Your wife leaving an AirTag in the car is not the enemy.
       | You live in a tech dystopia, not a Liam Neeson film. Nobody is
       | following is following you to QuickCheck to kidnap you.
       | 
       | Also, AirTags suck. If you drop one in your friends car and drive
       | around trying to find it you're now (1) effectively a stalker (2)
       | won't find your AirTag if they have Android which kind of defeats
       | the purpose, since these things are supposed to want to be found,
       | and (3) correct me if I'm wrong, but even if someone finds your
       | lost item and doesn't immediately send the police on you -- they
       | have no way to contact you to setup a return of your lost item?
       | You have to go through the police? Why would anyone want that?
       | 
       | EDIT: Appearantly Apple says you can give it a message if lost of
       | how to contact you, but no way to message without giving
       | additional contact info, and only if you mark it as lost.
        
         | spywaregorilla wrote:
         | I disagree. I mean yeah, obviously mistakes are mistakes, but I
         | doubt many people are seriously suspecting anything else than
         | that.
         | 
         | However, it seems unusual for people to be carrying around air
         | tags in such a way that they are casually lost. I would guess
         | mistakes aren't THAT common. I would guess domestic abuse is
         | not an uncommon use case of these things. I would also guess
         | that thieves do have an eye for it. You don't need to be Liam
         | Neeson for someone to want to steal your shit. The alert that
         | an air tag is following you mostly negates this.
         | 
         | I do agree they don't seem to have much utility on their own
        
         | dschep wrote:
         | > won't find your AirTag if they have Android which kind of
         | defeats the purpose
         | 
         | While they're alone in a car, sure. But as soon as they're
         | around folks with iPhones, they're tracked just fine and will
         | never get the notifications the husband in the article got.
        
       | etskinner wrote:
       | https://archive.is/VGDKw
        
       | McHankHenry wrote:
       | Apple have reluctantly been in the surveilance industry for
       | years, due the governments far-reaching and uncontestable court
       | orders. Now it seems they've willingly jumped in with both feet.
        
         | pbhjpbhj wrote:
         | I often wonder with USA whether TLA's have a bounty on certain
         | tech, like implement a tracker we can piggyback on and we'll
         | provide a $X00M bonus, implement an email parsing service,
         | implement a street-facing webcam system, implement a household
         | based microphone array with remote access, etc..
         | 
         | They'd be state level equivalents to a parent slipping a
         | tracker in a kids bag, or reading their messages, or whatever.
        
       | arthurofbabylon wrote:
       | This may sound nuts - but I don't want certain kinds of security.
       | 
       | For example, I don't want my home in specific to be safe - I want
       | my society to be safe. So I'm less interested in cameras/locks
       | and more interested in social programs, education, and access to
       | resources.
       | 
       | As another example familiar to those who travel in wild places,
       | there's not much value in trying to avoid getting robbed.
       | Mitigate the losses with pragmatic decisions but by all means
       | enjoy a great adventure. (Preventing violence is a different
       | equation.) Being robbed might be scary - but there are much more
       | important things worthy of attention in some of these places.
       | 
       | Last example, closer to privacy -> One of the healthiest
       | opportunities for humans is to get early morning light (it
       | establishes endocrine function, literally curing depression) -
       | for most people sacrificing this is not worth increased privacy
       | in the form of closed blinds.
       | 
       | Calculations of privacy and security are rarely intuitive. They
       | inherently touch numerous webs of interconnection. And folks who
       | use AirTags will find the same challenges and realize similar
       | lessons.
        
         | maccard wrote:
         | > for most people sacrificing this is not worth increased
         | privacy in the form of closed blinds.
         | 
         | There is an assumption here that people wake after sunrise and
         | that people go to bed after sunset. I live in Scotland where
         | during winter it's dark at 4:30 pm and bright at 9am, and
         | during summer it's mostly dark by midnight (we've technically
         | had sundown but it doesn't dark dark) and bright at 4am.
         | 
         | I sure as hell am not going to be a healthier person for being
         | awake at 4am after having gone to bed at midnight
        
       | pyman wrote:
       | Paywall!!
        
       | johnwalkr wrote:
       | I understand the negative points about airtags, and one negative
       | point I thought of but never see mentioned is the fact that all
       | iphones are opted in by default to use battery life and data
       | (however little) to operate the findmy network. In fact not many
       | non-tech people realize that a) airtags work globally, not just
       | near your iphone and b) relay data through any nearby iphone and
       | not somehow directly to apple. People are usually blown away when
       | I show them my map with a bunch things
       | 
       | But as a forgetful person, I got a pack of four on the day they
       | were released. I used one when shipping an important, time
       | sensitive and expensive item to a client. It was a huge value
       | compared to the usual tracking of packages. I could see exactly
       | when it moved from customs to an airplane, and surprisingly the
       | location even updated in flight! I used and am still using this
       | data, many times to confirm when the item was actually on the way
       | or not, and if related travel and work can be done or not. It's
       | saved thousands of dollars.
       | 
       | Another time, I was just about to board a train from Paris to
       | Luxembourg when my iphone notified me that I left my bag behind
       | (at a cafe in the station). I bought 8 more after that and put
       | them in anything of value I have the experience to leave behind
       | somewhere. Bags, ski boots, glasses case, inside the ear cup of
       | my good headphones. Come to think of it, I should put one in my
       | work notebook. Early in my career I had a work trip to sketch all
       | of the dimensions of some heavy machinery so I could automate it
       | (replace actuators and control them with an added PLC). I lost
       | the notebook and had to go back, which was probably a $20k
       | mistake in travel costs + not working on other projects.
        
         | kemayo wrote:
         | It's difficult, because the very thing that make AirTags
         | specifically so useful for legitimate purposes -- the vast
         | network they participate in, and the ease of use -- is also
         | what makes them particularly usable for shady things.
         | 
         | I mostly accept it because I'm aware of how trivial it is to
         | get a cheap GPS+SIM tracker that's even better for nefarious
         | purposes, so worrying about AirTags seems a bit overblown.
        
           | privacyking wrote:
           | G
        
           | privacyking wrote:
           | G
        
         | somethoughts wrote:
         | Yes it seems like Apple should be able to limit the Airtags to
         | just the bluetooth of the owner and then mark the GPS location
         | of the last known connection.
         | 
         | If more people knew about the piggybacking feature of Airtags,
         | I think few would opt in.
        
         | r00fus wrote:
         | > I used one when shipping an important, time sensitive and
         | expensive item to a client. It was a huge value compared to the
         | usual tracking of packages.
         | 
         | Imagine this included as part of shipping. Vendor puts an
         | airtag (or equivalent commercial item) and once you receive,
         | you "turn off" this tracking device (with a code or NFC)
         | confirming receipt of the package, either disabling the device
         | or enabling it for another (return?) shipping request.
         | 
         | Ideally, eventually legislation will exist to constrain the
         | capabilities of such trackers. With the current state of
         | Congress I'm not sure this will happen at a federal level in
         | the US.
        
       | shmatt wrote:
       | I have to guess some of these "bugs" have to do with the writer
       | and her husband sharing an Apple family. When AirTag just
       | started, my S.O would get alerts when we walked together, that my
       | AirPods are following them. Well yeah, we were doing errands
       | together and the AirPods were in my pocket.
       | 
       | These days it doesn't happen, I have to assume having a AirTag
       | from your own defined family "track" you is not considered alert
       | worthy anymore, at least not for the first few hours. Or somehow
       | this bug still randomly pops up, but not right away
        
       | danso wrote:
       | Non-paywall:
       | https://www.nytimes.com/2022/02/11/technology/airtags-gps-su...
        
         | ameminator wrote:
         | Btw, thanks for posting these types of links - it's
         | appreciated.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | dangoor wrote:
       | Regarding her husband not being able to find the Airtag, Apple's
       | announcement this week of planned improvements[1] also include
       | the ability for recent-model iPhones to be able to do precision
       | tracking of unknown Airtags, just as they can when looking for
       | known Airtags.
       | 
       | I've personally come around to the idea that Airtags are a
       | product that shouldn't exist, but at least Apple is making an
       | effort to make these less attractive to stalkers.
       | 
       | [1]: https://www.macrumors.com/2022/02/10/airtag-updates-
       | unwanted...
        
       | caffeine wrote:
       | The only clear conclusion to be drawn from this is - never marry
       | the author of this piece!
        
         | bhelkey wrote:
         | This is extremely uncharitable. It was buried, but the husband
         | consented to this.
         | 
         | > "You can do it," [The author's husband] said. "But it'll be
         | boring. We're in a pandemic. I never go anywhere."
        
         | rjsw wrote:
         | Next week, an article written by the husband on how to get a
         | patio really flat in your garden.
        
       | rustybolt wrote:
       | > All these people received warnings on their iPhones, a feature
       | Apple had built into the AirTag system to help prevent unwanted
       | tracking.
       | 
       | So if you don't have an iPhone, enjoy being stalked!
        
         | boopmaster wrote:
         | I stalk iPhone users with Tiles
        
           | lostlogin wrote:
           | No you don't. Their CEO is here saying that doesn't happen.
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=30305461
        
         | jeromegv wrote:
         | What are your plans regarding Tile and GPS trackers that
         | provide no warnings? What was your opinion on it before the
         | current hysteria, did that bother you?
        
           | rustybolt wrote:
           | I don't know, I never thought about them before the AirTags
           | were widely used, so I never really formed an opinion on
           | them.
           | 
           | It just seems strangle that a safety measures is only made
           | available for iPhone users.
        
       | alistairSH wrote:
       | And, if I'm reading the documentation correctly, for the only use
       | case I personally care about (theft recovery for expensive
       | bicycles), it's useless because the thief can utilize the anti-
       | stalk features to locate/disable the tag?
        
         | Zigurd wrote:
         | It would make a good decoy: "Ah! I found the airtag under the
         | saddle!"
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | bigyellow wrote:
        
       | bla3 wrote:
       | One way to look at this is that Apple is democratizing
       | surveillance capitalism. Is that good? Bad?
       | 
       | Seems a bit at odds with their pro-privacy marketing though,
       | which might be why they get so much flak for something presumably
       | fairly minor.
        
       | crhulls wrote:
       | Hi All, I'm the cofounder and CEO of Life360, which is the
       | relatively new owner of Tile. Stalking hasn't been much of an
       | issue for us, but we are in the process expanding the finding
       | network via our 35 million+ active user base (will require opt-in
       | consent) and we also do offer a location device for kids and pets
       | (Jiobit) that has its own cell connection which is actually meant
       | for finding people in real-time.
       | 
       | We have a number of initiatives in the works to help allay
       | concerns. I would be curious if the community here has any
       | suggestions. I know our very existence is controversial - so
       | please be kind - I'm here to listen.
        
         | rootusrootus wrote:
         | I am a mostly happy user of Life360, not currently paying (but
         | I have in the past). I would be more likely to pay real money
         | for the service if it came with a contractual guarantee that by
         | paying for it, my data would _never_ get sold. Not even in
         | aggregate,  'anonymized'. I like the service, I'm willing to be
         | a customer, but I hate the privacy leak.
        
           | crhulls wrote:
           | We are now on record that data from Tile and Jiobit will
           | NEVER be sold. Period. Some of the other stuff on our data
           | practices were highly sensationalized, and we have a privacy
           | center that allows any user - free or paid - to opt in/out of
           | any portion of our platform they don't like, even ads within
           | the system. So this is something you absolutely don't need to
           | worry about.
        
           | nostromo wrote:
           | Consider just using AirTags then if you can. It's built such
           | that Apple can't even read the location data, and it's a
           | onetime cost. The value prop is much nicer for someone that
           | cares about privacy.
        
             | crhulls wrote:
             | It is a much longer topic but there is some irony that
             | privacy allows Apple and other giant platforms full use of
             | 1st party data however they want. If we are worried about
             | the hive mind (I am personally not) the attention needs to
             | be on the big news and social media networks.
        
         | Klonoar wrote:
         | I have a slightly unrelated question about Life360.
         | 
         | When Life360 sold Couple in 2016, did it sell all the data that
         | users had stored up to that point as well? As best I can tell
         | it was announced via tweet and sold to what looked like a
         | 1-person dev shop.
         | 
         | Myself and a number of others who used to use the app have
         | often wondered this[1]. If I'm incorrect on anything in this
         | article I would be happy to edit it, but I'd really like to
         | know.
         | 
         | https://rymc.io/blog/2019/decoupling/
        
           | xeromal wrote:
           | Another couple user in the wild. My girl and I used that for
           | SO long! It's sad to see it gone. I stole the cute little dog
           | and beaver emojis before it went offline and incorporated
           | them into whatsapp.
        
           | crhulls wrote:
           | We sold the app in its entirety, which did include data, to a
           | startup run by a former employee. It didn't really get going
           | and the servers are all wound down, so I assume the data is
           | gone into the ether for good (I am 90% confident on this last
           | point - I will confirm).
        
             | Klonoar wrote:
             | The confirmation would be greatly appreciated. :)
             | 
             | Would you also be comfortable with me linking to this
             | discussion/comment on that post as a 2022 edit? I still get
             | people emailing me asking if anything was ever determined
             | on it.
        
               | crhulls wrote:
               | sure - do you want to send me an email at chris at
               | life360 .com and I'll follow up with you there?
        
         | dstaley wrote:
         | Hello, Tile owner here! I have a Tile on my house keys and my
         | wallet, which are the two devices I misplace the most often.
         | They've saved me countless times, primarily helping me find
         | them when I leave them in my car, or put them someone in my
         | house that they aren't supposed to be.
         | 
         | I'm most excited for the upcoming UWB tracker, and especially
         | for the work that Google and Tile are apparently doing to
         | ensure devices with UWB support are all compatible. I was
         | wondering if you could give a quick update on the status of UWB
         | tracking on Android? As far as I know, there's only two devices
         | that support it (Samsung's S21 Ultra and S22 Ultra), but it
         | hasn't been confirmed whether Tile's UWB tracker is compatible.
         | As mentioned in the article, BLE tracking isn't as accurate as
         | UWB, so I assume that UWB support would be necessary for most
         | of these tracking concerns to materialize with Tile's trackers.
        
           | crhulls wrote:
           | Glad we have you as a customer. UWB is coming - I imagine
           | there will be compatibility and chipset issues in the short
           | run, in particular on Android, but over the long run it will
           | be a game changer. I'm a couple degrees removed from this
           | part of the business so sorry about the vague answer.
           | 
           | One thing to note - UWB is very short range now. Even now
           | AirTags and Tile are primarily BLE. Upcoming chips and
           | standards updates will be dramatically increasing range. I
           | think that is when the magic happens.
        
         | CharlesW wrote:
         | It's interesting that you decided to appear here in an effort
         | to position Life360 as a more-private alternative to Apple
         | solutions.
         | 
         |  _" We see data as an important part of our business model that
         | allows us to keep the core Life360 services free for the
         | majority of our users, including features that have improved
         | driver safety and saved numerous lives."_ -- You
         | 
         |  _" In 2020, the company made $16 million--nearly 20 percent of
         | its revenue that year--from selling location data, plus an
         | additional $6 million from its partnership with Arity."_ -- The
         | Markup
         | 
         | https://themarkup.org/privacy/2021/12/06/the-popular-family-...
         | 
         | This is the part where you respond how you're sharing
         | surveillance data to the CDC for people's own good, and that
         | you've stopped selling "precise location data".
        
           | crhulls wrote:
           | I was a bit worried about posting here because I had a
           | suspicion I would get comments like this which assume I'm
           | here on a PR pitch and clearly come at me with assumptions of
           | negative intent.
           | 
           | I'll make a few points:
           | 
           | 1) Stalking is completely different than a data platform used
           | for targeted advertising and research.
           | 
           | 2) Good minds can disagree on how user data should be used.
           | We decided to shut down our data business because it wasn't
           | worth the distraction - we have over $200m of revenue and it
           | is not core to our business so we decided to move on. It
           | should be noted we have always been extremely transparent
           | with our customer and allowed anyone, whether a free or
           | paying user, to have fine grain control over how we use data.
           | 
           | 3) I am not positioning us as a more-private alternative to
           | Apple. If this is a real problem that is emerging, I'd like
           | to understand how we can address it. There are a lot of smart
           | minds here.
           | 
           | 4) Our user base is largely middle American moms - this is
           | not the place we go to do PR!
        
         | latchkey wrote:
         | > _Stalking hasn 't been much of an issue for us_
         | 
         | How would you know?
        
           | crhulls wrote:
           | We get I think something on the order of 10,000 customer
           | service tickets a week, and we regularly get subpoenas. We've
           | heard almost every story you can think of. Although we are
           | getting inquiries with this recent press, in terms of actual
           | reports of stalking via our devices it is essentially zero.
           | 
           | AirTags has a much broader network than us as of now. Part of
           | why we bought Tile is because we can expand their network. We
           | aren't as big as Apple but we have about 10% of devices so it
           | will get us way up the S curve.
           | 
           | So I could see it becoming more of an issue, which is why I'm
           | looking for ideas. One thought would be to rate limit updates
           | - at some frequency you get 90% of the benefit for lost items
           | (since they don't move unless it was lost on say a train) but
           | it dramatically hampers more nefarious use cases. That is
           | just one thought. Or perhaps requiring ID verification and
           | registering each device to a real human.
        
             | hedgehog wrote:
             | I think your best bet is to fund a study group to do an
             | independent public report on the risks around these
             | products and recommendations for mitigating them. Put
             | domestic abuse survivors, parents, infosec people, lawyers,
             | etc on there. Stakeholders and people good at reasoning
             | about risk. You might not like all of the conclusions but
             | to the extent you adopt them it will give you the most
             | credit for having done the right things.
        
             | chaircher wrote:
             | What do you mean by "actual stalking report"?
             | 
             | ID verification is the way to go IMO. So much stalking
             | isn't like in movies, it's just seemingly normal people
             | seeing how far they can push things and get away with it.
             | And potentially some way to get people to register what
             | it's being used for, as well as a way to register it
             | missing. That would be very useful in a stalking case to
             | cross-reference with how a the alledged stalker claims the
             | tracker ended up in someone's bag/car/etc and could
             | potentially be the break through that gets the conviction
        
               | crhulls wrote:
               | I mean that we do know what it is like when users are
               | stalked with our product - we've heard all sorts of crazy
               | stories over the years about our app being used for
               | stalking - it sucks when we hear it and we help with law
               | enforcement. This just hasn't been a thing for Tile (yet
               | anyway - probably due to the much less dense network).
               | 
               | I think we will end up with ID verification - I bet Apple
               | could do that too. Then you'd be risking a felony if you
               | use the product illegally.
        
               | latchkey wrote:
               | > in terms of actual reports of stalking via our devices
               | it is essentially zero
               | 
               | I'm confused, now you're admitting that stalking is an
               | active part of the product and this has gone on for
               | years.
        
               | crhulls wrote:
               | We learned early on that people would very very
               | occasionally use our APP for stalking .000001% of the
               | time. That was easy to fix - we send regular push
               | notifications, we let you know when someone is added to
               | your group, we participate in subpoena's from law
               | enforcement etc. We have had over 100 million downloads
               | so we have heard it all, it is just the law of large
               | numbers.
               | 
               | I'm talking about Tile devices - that is where we've yet
               | to see anything concrete, and as mentioned we don't yet
               | have a network that rivals AirTags. But we want to get
               | ahead of it.
        
             | latchkey wrote:
             | Thanks for the response. Thinking this through a bit more
             | from a use case perspective:
             | 
             | 1. If I was stalked by someone using your product, would I
             | contact your customer support?
             | 
             | 2. If I was doing the stalking, would I contact your
             | customer support?
             | 
             | Pretty sure the answer would be no in both cases. In 1), I
             | wouldn't necessarily even know it is your product. In 2),
             | what am I going to say to customer support? "I'm trying to
             | stalk my husband and your product isn't working well."?
             | 
             | Subpoenas _might_ reveal a percentage of stalking
             | activities, but if the OPs post is true, then I don 't even
             | think police would be involved here.
        
         | vineyardmike wrote:
         | Someone else in another thread has a really good idea: tell
         | people how often someone checks in on them (for location
         | sharing info).
         | 
         | > I don't claim that there are simple solutions here, but a
         | starting point would be tech companies making it easier to see
         | an audit of how this "innocent" tracking tech is being used on
         | the trackee. For example, I bet my grandpa would think twice
         | about checking in on my cousins location as often as he
         | probably does if he knew that my cousin got a notification
         | every time he checked in.
         | 
         | Doesn't solve the Tile problem, of course. A solution there
         | might be counter-intuitive: make the battery worse. Its a lot
         | harder to stalk someone if you need to re-seed a device every
         | few days. Of course, i can barely remember to charge my phone,
         | nevermind keys, so that might kill tile's utility all together.
         | 
         | Or, maybe you could have some sort of "did someone else's tile
         | follow me home" sort of feature. You set your home location,
         | and if any tile that isn't yours is at home, you get notified.
         | (unless the owner is with it, or you white-list one for eg.
         | partner's, children, etc). This tells you if someone planted
         | you with it to stalk (you'd have to have tile app even if you
         | don't have one i guess). Don't tiles support findmy? That means
         | that any apple device will already warn people, so you just
         | need to cover android users. Maybe the alexa/sidewalk
         | partnership can impl similar features for when you come home?
         | Maybe partner with google for built-in tracking warning
         | standards? If they're open to it.
         | 
         | I think > half the use of tile is "ring my X at home" where x
         | is probably mostly keys, or "did i leave X at Y place". Based
         | on this, you might be able to not track tiles everywhere, but
         | just at pre-set locations. Only if you set it to a "lost mode"
         | can you track it everywhere outside of certain pre-set
         | locations, but then it'll beep and have annoying antistalking
         | features like airtags - where you notify people nearby. Maybe
         | orphaned tiles could try to collect to random bluetooth devices
         | after a period of time to make their presence known? It would
         | help people who didnt set up an app to listen ahead of time.
         | That could be annoying though if the balance isn't right. Can
         | probs still be abused, but should make it a complex task, and
         | you can never stop everyone anyways.
         | 
         | ----
         | 
         | aside, I'm surprised tile never tried to build any static infra
         | in major urban areas to supplement their phone-based network
         | (which seemed lacking when i used it compared to airtags). Do
         | you see the use of Alexa/Sidewalk as a significant boost or
         | advantage? Have you considered things like LoRaWAN based
         | networks (thing network etc) as a supplement? A lot of that is
         | built in major areas, and would just need a mapping step which
         | may be able to be collected by existing users phones+tags in
         | day to day use.
         | 
         | --
         | 
         | Aside again: this seems like a fun problem to work on, are you
         | hiring?
        
       | andrewstuart wrote:
       | Whenever I open the front door my cat tries to zip out and run
       | away.
       | 
       | He doesn't go far, and generally stops running from me after a
       | few meters and gives up. But I am concerned what might happen if
       | he's away a few hours before I discover.
       | 
       | So I put an airtag on his collar. It's already paid off once when
       | I found the front door open I just looked up where he was and
       | went and got him.
        
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       | kelnos wrote:
       | > _I opened an app linked to the most precise tracker in my
       | arsenal, the $30 LandAirSea device. To activate it costs extra,
       | because it needs a cellular plan to ping global positioning
       | satellites._
       | 
       | I feel like someone who writes about privacy and surveillance
       | should at least know how GPS works... nothing "pings" a GPS
       | satellite here. GPS signals are constantly being broadcast to the
       | ground for anyone to receive. The cellular plan is so the device
       | can phone home to tell an online service what the device's
       | position is, after determining it from the (free to use, open
       | air) GPS broadcasts.
        
         | ezfe wrote:
         | does this distinction matter _at all, in any way_ to the point
         | they were trying to get across?
        
           | kelnos wrote:
           | If someone is going to write an article about tracking and
           | surveillance, to me it reduces their credibility if they
           | don't understand something very basic about how GPS works. It
           | makes me wonder what else they got wrong in the article, and
           | whether or not I should trust their overall conclusions.
           | 
           | This might not matter to you, and that's fine; it does matter
           | to me.
        
             | xeromal wrote:
             | But she's not giving a technical analysis of GPS. She's a
             | wife tracking her husband. For that scenario, her
             | understanding is good enough.
        
       | greatjack613 wrote:
       | https://webreader.app/?url=https://www.nytimes.com/2022/02/1...
        
       | parasense wrote:
       | I cannot see the content, paywall. Not even with incognito mode.
       | 
       | What is the gist of the article?
        
         | AdrianB1 wrote:
         | Quote: "I realize I sound like the worst wife ever, so let me
         | explain. It was for journalism.".
        
       | bitminers wrote:
       | I didn't find any analysis here of what these companies are doing
       | with all this location data they are collecting. The consumer
       | gets some detail of single devices which they can see on a
       | screen, but the mother ship is collecting a ton of detailed
       | location data from every device that they can run through their
       | advanced computing to refine into predictive products or
       | advertising. This is the bigger story to me.
        
       | gwbas1c wrote:
       | I often peek at my wife when she's coming home from work via our
       | car's app. She knows I do this. (When my kids are with me they
       | love watching the car move on the map. I hope she peeks at me
       | when she's with the kids and I have the car.)
       | 
       | What made it funny one time was when I was between jobs, and she
       | went to her gynecologist after work. Even though she told me, I
       | forgot, and the map only showed that there was a divorce lawyer's
       | office in the parking lot. I really needed a hug when she walked
       | in the door.
        
         | supergeek wrote:
         | Yeah, it's been very surprising as a Tesla owner to learn that
         | there's no way to opt-out of this tracking in the car. Your
         | location is always relayed to the app, and your only option is
         | to log out of your account in the car, which still relays the
         | data to Tesla for the super paranoid.
        
           | KyleJune wrote:
           | Only people with access to your Tesla account can access
           | location information. The information is limited, you just
           | see where the vehicle is at live, not a history of where it
           | has been. You can opt out of people being able to check your
           | location via the app. You can just go to the Safety &
           | Security settings on the display in your car and turn off
           | Mobile Access.
        
         | kelnos wrote:
         | > _Even though she told me, I forgot, and the map only showed
         | that there was a divorce lawyer 's office in the parking lot. I
         | really needed a hug when she walked in the door._
         | 
         | A fine example of why pervasive tracking is terrible for
         | relationships. I'm assuming based on your tone that you were
         | calm and collected and didn't fly off the handle with
         | accusations when she got home. But I think there are many
         | people who would give into their insecurities (we all have
         | them) and create a big mess with this sort of knowledge. The
         | "accidental" nature of it just makes it worse.
         | 
         | I'm getting a new car soon, and I'm weighing losing the utility
         | of the things in the app vs. my desire not to be tracked. It's
         | really annoying that I have to make that trade off.
        
           | xtracto wrote:
           | Stanley Kubrick put it very well in Eyes Wide Shut. A person
           | can let his imagination fly so wildly when he is fixated in
           | one issue.
        
           | nomel wrote:
           | > A fine example of why pervasive tracking is terrible for
           | relationships.
           | 
           | Seems like an example of a relationship that's lacking a good
           | connection and understanding, if someone thinks the other is
           | going to swing by to get a divorce. Tracking didn't cause
           | that, and lack of tracking wouldn't fix it.
        
       | maeln wrote:
       | I think it is important to mention that clever people already
       | managed to reverse engineer the Apple "Find My" network/protocol
       | to "make tour own airtag" : https://github.com/seemoo-
       | lab/openhaystack
       | 
       | This notably allow one to easily create a tracker that is silent
       | and potentially smaller than an AirTag. Also easier to hid in a
       | daily object since all you need is basically a nRF51822 and a
       | battery.
       | 
       | People who don't own an iPhone, or in general a _recent_ iPhone
       | might be tracked without their knowledge (and, obviously, their
       | consent).
       | 
       | The potential of misuse of this kind of tool is so great, we
       | should really regulate against those.
        
         | operator-name wrote:
         | Wow, this is wonderful and scary at the same time. We as a
         | society really are pushing the boundaries of privacy.
        
       | ubermonkey wrote:
       | OH, I remember this person's story about setting up way-too-much
       | smart tech in their house. Her whole shtick is this kind of IT
       | HAPPENED TO ME weird quasi-alarmist immersive reporting, and I
       | imagine it's incredibly tedious in real life. It definitely is on
       | the page.
       | 
       | I closed the tab once I realized it was the same person.
        
       | ameminator wrote:
       | Look, I usually try to be charitable. However, this article
       | offered no new insight on Apple Airtags. If you don't want to
       | waste your time, allow me to summarize:
       | 
       | Woman puts Airtags in a car. Her husband isn't able to find them,
       | even using Apple's "anti-stalk" features. Ergo, Apple needs to do
       | more.
       | 
       | I ask - what new insight did this article offer on Airtags? I
       | don't think anyone can conclude either way on the effectiveness
       | of Apple's "safety measures" when it comes to Airtags, from this
       | small anecdote.
       | 
       | In my mind, the article buries the Lede on the _real_ discussion
       | - should Apple be doing these measures at all? I find _that_
       | issue far from settled when this article takes it for granted
       | that not only should Apple take these safety measures, they
       | should do more!
       | 
       | The author also seems to be somewhat deceptive - "I sound like a
       | terrible wife, but it's for journalism!" No, it seems like the
       | author played a prank on her husband a while back and used that
       | to neuroticaly follow him, then tried to excuse that behavior by
       | writing this fluff piece.
       | 
       | Anyways, I do think there is interesting discussion to be had
       | about Airtags and if/what Apple should be doing to prevent
       | unwanted tracking. However, this article didn't have that
       | discussion or contribute to it in a meaningful way.
        
         | BeefWellington wrote:
         | > I ask - what new insight did this article offer on Airtags? I
         | don't think anyone can conclude either way on the effectiveness
         | of Apple's "safety measures" when it comes to Airtags, from
         | this small anecdote.
         | 
         | While I understand where you're coming from, I think there's
         | value in adding to the chorus when it comes to putting pressure
         | on a company to rethink a strategy.
         | 
         | Certainly, while articles such as this may not be news to you
         | or I, they are likely to be news to a number of people on HN,
         | their friends & family, etc.
         | 
         | > The author also seems to be somewhat deceptive - "I sound
         | like a terrible wife, but it's for journalism!" No, it seems
         | like the author played a prank on her husband a while back and
         | used that to neuroticaly follow him, then tried to excuse that
         | behavior by writing this fluff piece.
         | 
         | This point misses the mark IMO. The issue with AirTags at their
         | core is that they permit people who are deceptive and shady to
         | do bad things much easier than they could before.
         | 
         | I think the cat's out of the bag now on this type of tech
         | though. Tile's been around for a while, AirTags are now
         | everywhere, the goal now should be developing detection systems
         | (which shouldn't be too hard).
        
           | xoa wrote:
           | > _The issue with AirTags at their core is that they permit
           | people who are deceptive and shady to do bad things much
           | easier than they could before._
           | 
           | But that's just not true. Seriously, right now, go to Amazon
           | and type in "GPS Tracker" and look at the results:
           | 
           | https://www.amazon.com/s?k=gps+tracker
           | 
           | Literally $30 gets you a 1oz cellular magnetized tracker you
           | put a SIM into for real time tracking anywhere with cell
           | coverage _with_ voice monitoring included! Literally for
           | tracking and they proudly advertise it. No warnings or nags
           | about  "a device is following you", no noises. Comes with
           | Prime shipping, get it as soon as Sunday February 13!
           | 
           | Apple being Apple may well have brought more publicity to the
           | issue but no, AirTags do not do what you say they do. If
           | anything there are reasonable arguments that Apple has been
           | _too_ careful to the extent of making them pretty irritating
           | in family /friends usage where everyone gets nagged for
           | normal shared item activity and cannot use them in a shared
           | way (despite being able to do so for devices!).
        
             | BeefWellington wrote:
             | > Apple being Apple may well have brought more publicity to
             | the issue but no, AirTags do not do what you say they do.
             | If anything there are reasonable arguments that Apple has
             | been too careful to the extent of making them pretty
             | irritating in family/friends usage where everyone gets
             | nagged for normal shared item activity and cannot use them
             | in a shared way (despite being able to do so for devices!).
             | 
             | Bringing more attention and publicity to it, and claiming
             | to have actually solved the privacy problems when in fact
             | they haven't has actually made it easier for stalkers. The
             | proof is in the pudding: Similarly google search guides on
             | disabling the speaker on AirTags, you'll find hundreds just
             | for the one product. Likewise, compare sales of AirTags to
             | the GPS Trackers on Amazon.
             | 
             | Whenever a big trusted company makes a product more
             | accessible to the average person, they're making it easier
             | as a whole.
             | 
             | Even in a strict technical sense, having it visible in the
             | Find My App that people already are familiar with and use
             | to locate their airpods, apple watches, etc., that alone
             | gives the infrastructure benefit to make it simpler.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | > Likewise, compare sales of AirTags to the GPS Trackers
               | on Amazon.
               | 
               | You know one has a convenience factor to it, right? And
               | it's a known brand and has an ecosystem built up around
               | it... These misc trackers on Amazon don't have that...
               | why would you ever consider comparing the sales as an
               | argument?
        
               | BeefWellington wrote:
               | This is _exactly the point I am making_ -- Apple has made
               | it _EASIER_ -- which xoa was arguing against.
        
               | oneplane wrote:
               | It always was this easy. Apple has't made it easier
               | because it has built-in anti-stalking which you cannot
               | disable. You can tamper with the speaker, but not with
               | the BTLE or UWB radios (well, you technically can but at
               | that point you can't use them to track anything either).
               | 
               | The only thing you could theoretically attribute to Apple
               | is that it is now much more known that this can happen.
               | That is both good (you can now look for it) and bad (dumb
               | people will try to use this to stalk/steal, not realising
               | that they are tied to their AppleID, and thus to their
               | SIM, IMEI, MAC, and device serial number and thus to
               | them).
        
             | tut-urut-utut wrote:
             | I am with you on this, there were and are a lot of tracking
             | alternatives. The issue is more that now, since Apple
             | released AirTags, everyone just got aware of it. While
             | previously one had to search for a solution how to track
             | someone, now we have streamlined mainstream product with
             | great usability for the purpose. Which is still a net
             | negative for a society, and it's Apple's fault for
             | popularizing such behaviour.
        
             | jtbayly wrote:
             | I actually agree with you, but Tile is a better example, I
             | think.
             | 
             | Because needing to also get a working SIM card is a pretty
             | substantial "oh, you'll also need..."
        
               | tokamak-teapot wrote:
               | Is it hard to buy a SIM card in much of the world? I can
               | walk into one or about ten shops within 5km of here and
               | buy one instantly. I think the price is 'free' but you
               | pay something like EUR 10 to have credit on it. If you
               | want to be anonymous, you can wear a hood and a mask and
               | pay with cash.
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | In the US, it's very unusual to buy a SIM card outside of
               | purchasing a phone and phone plan. And while we do have
               | prepaid options, they're much less commonly used than in
               | other countries.
               | 
               | At a quick glance, the cheapest T-Mobile plan is $60/mo,
               | or $45/mo if you're adding a second line to an existing
               | plan.
               | 
               | You can also get a SIM card intended for IoT usage, but
               | this is probably not something your average non-technical
               | person would know how to do. I also expect that most
               | Americans are unfamiliar with buying a SIM card in a way
               | that is not direct from a mobile carrier.
        
               | samatman wrote:
               | > _In the US, it 's very unusual to buy a SIM card
               | outside of_
               | 
               | In your circles.
               | 
               | There are entire industries which rely on 'burners',
               | wisely or not, for various logistics tasks involved in
               | deriving tax free income from controlled substances.
               | 
               | Buying a SIM card with cash is as easy as wanting to and
               | doing some searching, or just driving around and looking
               | for dollar stores: the phone provider you want is in the
               | same parking lot.
        
               | selectodude wrote:
               | T-Mobile will give you unlimited talk and text + 2.5GB of
               | data for $15/mo.
               | 
               | https://prepaid.t-mobile.com/plan-detail/t-mobile-connect
        
               | jackson1442 wrote:
               | I could drive to walmart (most large stores, really) and
               | buy 20 sims from various prepaid providers. Most people
               | may not do this, but it is certainly a viable option for
               | such a device.
        
               | adolph wrote:
               | > get a working SIM card is a pretty substantial
               | Best Seller in Cell Phone SIM Cards       SpeedTalk
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               | jtbayly wrote:
               | I would have thought I had to go to a phone store. Thx.
               | Interesting.
        
               | adolph wrote:
               | A totally anonymous phone card would be a bit tougher. My
               | guess is that the proliferation of iot devices like CPAPs
               | using mobile data plan means that one could be stolen or
               | dumpster-found without someone knowing the chip needs to
               | be deactivated.
        
               | oneplane wrote:
               | > A totally anonymous phone card would be a bit tougher
               | Depends on where you buy them. The internet is big and
               | you can have stuff delivered anywhere, including
               | somewhere that doesn't have your name or address.
        
               | jtbayly wrote:
               | But hard to pay without your name, right?
        
           | eddieroger wrote:
           | >> The author also seems to be somewhat deceptive - "I sound
           | like a terrible wife, but it's for journalism!" No, it seems
           | like the author played a prank on her husband a while back
           | and used that to neuroticaly follow him, then tried to excuse
           | that behavior by writing this fluff piece.
           | 
           | You need to read more of the article.
           | 
           | > Some states, including New York, where we live, have laws
           | criminalizing this sort of thing. Not wanting to break the
           | law, or my husband's trust, I had asked him for permission.
           | 
           | It may be fluff, but it wasn't deceptive.
        
             | BeefWellington wrote:
             | I think you replied a level too low.
        
               | eddieroger wrote:
               | Whoops. So it goes.
        
             | iszomer wrote:
             | If I had a pessimistic-comedic attitude towards titles of
             | articles, it would read like this: "So you like putting a
             | leash on your husband? Kinky."
        
         | kelnos wrote:
         | > _No, it seems like the author played a prank on her husband a
         | while back and used that to neuroticaly follow him, then tried
         | to excuse that behavior by writing this fluff piece._
         | 
         | She planted the tracking devices on him with his permission,
         | after discussing with him that she wanted to write a piece on
         | the experience. This information is right in the article.
        
         | bberenberg wrote:
         | I found the key quote to be
         | 
         | "My husband, of course, had agreed to this in principle, but
         | didn't realize just how many devices I had planted on him. Of
         | the seven trackers, he found only two: a Tile he felt in the
         | breast pocket of his coat and an AirTag in his backpack when he
         | was looking for something else. "It is impossible to find a
         | device that makes no noise and gives no warning," he said, when
         | I showed him the ones he missed."
         | 
         | which I read as "Apple needs to improve, but still drastically
         | better than everything else out there"
         | 
         | I am not in the market for AirTags, but if you are completely
         | scatterbrained and this provides you a helpful way to manage
         | your stuff, AirTags seem to be least bad way of doing this.
        
           | ameminator wrote:
           | I actually tend to agree somewhat with your arguments.
           | However, from the article, I don't think you can reach those
           | conclusions like:
           | 
           | "Apple needs to improve, but still drastically better than
           | everything else out there"
           | 
           | Where does the article talk about this _class_ of device?
           | Nowhere is a competing product mentioned or compared against.
           | Even a Bluetooth keyfob, used to track keys by emitting a
           | sound (and widely available) could have been used there.
           | 
           | I _like_ and agree with what you said, I just don 't think
           | the article makes those points, to its detriment.
        
             | micromacrofoot wrote:
             | Yeah Tile even has the same network tracking effects that
             | extend widely beyond bluetooth range. They've done this for
             | a decade at this point, IIRC.
        
               | smilespray wrote:
               | Too bad Tile's network tracking is useless in most areas
               | since an app install is required to be part of the
               | network.
        
               | micromacrofoot wrote:
               | If you live in a moderately sized city it's good enough
               | to track someone to their house. I did it with a backpack
               | thief 5 years ago.
        
           | Cthulhu_ wrote:
           | I mean for personal use, airtags seem all right. But it's the
           | ones that don't come with a warning that they're around that
           | worry me.
           | 
           | I mean if you're paranoid, I'm sure there's detectors that
           | can find bluetooth signals and whichever other technologies
           | they use (I'm fairly sure GPS is passive, that is, they only
           | need to receive satellite signals, not send anything).
        
             | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
             | Download the nRFConnect app and you'll probably be amazed
             | at the number of BLE devices that are around you all the
             | time.
             | 
             | Anecdote: I used to work for a company that did a lot of
             | wireless wearable stuff and early on in COVID lockdown I
             | had a Linux tool: bluetoothctl, running while I was testing
             | some code down in the basement of my house. The first
             | indication I had that my wife was home was the appearance
             | of a Fitbit device in the scan, followed by a couple of
             | unknown phones as she and a friend walked up to the house.
             | 
             | Not unexpected, but it was that sudden appearance of
             | devices (I live far outside the city) that really drove
             | home how much data we're throwing off all the time without
             | thinking about it.
        
               | shantara wrote:
               | Wow, I was indeed amazed. I live in an apartment
               | building, and I could immediately see more than a hundred
               | devices! The list has everything: from headphones and
               | smart watches to light bulbs and TVs.
        
               | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
               | Now don't be tempted to send random data to those light
               | bulbs :-)
        
         | nostromo wrote:
         | Yes, this isn't good journalism.
         | 
         | "I drove over my husband with an F150 for journalism. Ford
         | clearly needs to do more."
        
           | lemmsjid wrote:
           | The average NYT Reader knows what an F150 would do if driven
           | over a husband. Presumably, the average NYT Reader does not
           | know about the capabilities of tracking devices or the
           | ramifications of stashing them on a husband's person. I
           | personally kind of knew about Airtags and knew nothing about
           | Tiles until a fairly recent Hacker News post, and it was news
           | to me how Airtags used surrounding devices for locational
           | info.
           | 
           | Furthermore, there's a place for journalism that grounds a
           | hypothetical experience in descriptive prose / photography in
           | order to transform abstract facts to something closer to
           | lived experience. In that aforementioned HN post I learned
           | about using those devices for stalking as a hypothetical, but
           | this article's actual photographs did make me uncomfortable
           | and drove home the ramifications.
        
         | major505 wrote:
         | The fact that she was to tired to take a baby to the hospital,
         | but not to follow husband every step is what concerns me.
        
           | ppseafield wrote:
           | My impression was that she was both a) already up with the
           | baby all night, and b) was too tired to drive 30 minutes to
           | the nearest hospital with their baby. The article didn't say
           | if the husband was also up with the baby all night. While
           | tired I'd be wary of drifting off while driving with my
           | newborn in the car.
        
           | dekhn wrote:
           | baby-hospital visits are brutal. It's about 8 hours of
           | waiting (usually in the middle of the night) with a screaming
           | child while staff ignores you and then finally says there
           | isn't a problem.
           | 
           | Recently during a bout of covid my son's tongue was blue and
           | he couldn't figure out what was up. My wife wanted to the go
           | to ER, the doctor said to go to the ER. I said, "no, there's
           | another explanation for this and nobody is losing a night of
           | sleep over this". The next day we noticed the blue tongue
           | happened after taking some blue-colored vitamin gummies.
        
             | secabeen wrote:
             | > baby-hospital visits are brutal. It's about 8 hours of
             | waiting (usually in the middle of the night) with a
             | screaming child while staff ignores you and then finally
             | says there isn't a problem.
             | 
             | Add to that that depending on your health-care plan, it
             | could cost you thousands of dollars!
        
               | dekhn wrote:
               | Personally, I could care less about the cost (but it does
               | bother me). IO should have mentioned above that in nearly
               | all cases, urgent care is more appropriate (my provider
               | has one open during daytime hours).
        
               | ajford wrote:
               | Also depends on your insurance provider (at least in the
               | US). Previous insurance I had wouldn't cover urgent care
               | clinics, but would cover ERs. Stupid beyond belief, but
               | it was a small company so I guess there were compromises
               | on the plan. Luckily I no longer have that plan and have
               | a much more sensible and comprehensive plan.
        
           | ajford wrote:
           | Taking a child to the hospital, in particular a
           | toddler/infant, is extremely stressful. If one is already
           | tired from caring for that child all night, I'd completely
           | understand asking the other parent to take the child. In
           | fact, I have done so personally, though having two children
           | meant it also made more sense for one of us to stay home with
           | the other child instead of towing a second (healthy) child
           | through the hospital as well.
           | 
           | Also, this is an opinion/editorial piece, so whether the
           | author watched their spouse the entire time or if the author
           | pieced the evening together after the fact while writing this
           | article is up for speculation.
        
           | ameminator wrote:
           | I do try to be charitable, but it almost seemed like a sick
           | game to me.
           | 
           | "Here, let me convince my husband that he needs to go take
           | the baby to the hospital. Now, let's stalk him to see if he
           | actually did it!"
           | 
           | Anyways, this turned me off. It could have been "forgiven"
           | (if this word even applies) had it contributed something
           | meaningful. Sadly, it didn't, so it just comes off as
           | neurotic stalking.
        
             | bentcorner wrote:
             | I don't have that take at all. The husband knew he was
             | being tracked, she got permission from him prior to putting
             | any tracking devices on him.
             | 
             | > _It could have been "forgiven" (if this word even
             | applies) had it contributed something meaningful_
             | 
             | Just because you are aware of the dangers of tracking and
             | how these devices work it doesn't mean others are equally
             | aware.
        
               | ameminator wrote:
               | This is actually one of the side issues I had with the
               | piece. The way it's written, you would think that she
               | asked explicit permission to track him to the hospital.
               | 
               | However, what seems to have happened in reality, is that
               | they had previously played a harmless game of "find the
               | Airtags". Then, some time later, possibly a large period,
               | she uses those Airtags to track the husband. It's hard to
               | say in either direction if the husband knew and expected
               | to be tracked to the hospital. I think that was a
               | deliberate choice - but it still comes off deceptive, if
               | this is just happenstance.
               | 
               | If any of this had contributed meaningfully to the main
               | points, I would tolerate it a lot more - that's my
               | biggest contention. The fact that the author isnt a
               | perfect person is just a side gripe that I have with
               | plenty other articles.
        
               | outworlder wrote:
               | The way I understood that was - she was going to write a
               | piece about this subject. Asked for permission. What's
               | implicit is that this experiment would have to last until
               | she was done writing the piece.
               | 
               | Not just "let's find airtags today" and then "boohoo I've
               | been tracking you without permission". Wouldn't make
               | sense. He was not surprised when his phone notified him
               | that a tag was tracking him after a day in Manhattan.
        
               | wizzwizz4 wrote:
               | I doubt very much that a journalist would publish
               | something about stalking their _also works in journalism_
               | spouse without everyone involved being on board with what
               | went on. I think it 's _written_ to highlight how creepy
               | it is, with the occasional "I got my spouse 's consent
               | for all this" interludes to make a point that it's often
               | used for non-consensual spying.
               | 
               | Articles don't normally highlight the virtues of the
               | journalist where that's not relevant to the subject of
               | the article.
        
           | danso wrote:
           | I'm sorry, but what? The ostensible benefits of AirTags is
           | that they're extremely easy to use and track with an iPhone.
           | Why is it concerning that the author feels too tired to go to
           | the hospital (during covid-heightened restrictions), but not
           | too tired to use her iphone? Is going to the hospital for
           | pediatric care generally easy? Is actively calling her
           | husband easier than passive notification via the Find My app?
           | 
           | > _"I'm worried," I told my husband. "I want you to take her
           | to the hospital."_
           | 
           | > _"Doctors always tell us to take the baby to the E.R.
           | whenever we call about anything," he replied, exasperated.
           | (This was true.) "She is fine. She is eating and playing and
           | happy. This is not an emergency."_
           | 
           | > _He eventually caved and set out for the hospital a half-
           | hour away. Knowing he was already annoyed by me, I did not
           | want to pepper him with questions about how it was going._
           | 
           | > _Instead, I turned to the location-monitoring devices that
           | I had secretly stashed in our car a week earlier._
        
             | adolph wrote:
             | > "I'm worried," I told my husband. "I want you to take her
             | to the hospital."
             | 
             | > "Doctors always tell us to take the baby to the E.R.
             | whenever we call about anything," he replied, exasperated.
             | (This was true.) "She is fine. She is eating and playing
             | and happy. This is not an emergency."
             | 
             | > He eventually caved and set out for the hospital a half-
             | hour away.
             | 
             | The next article writes itself doesn't it?
             | 
             |  _In 2018, the United States spent about $3.6 trillion on
             | healthcare, which averages to about $11,000 per person.
             | Relative to the size of the economy, healthcare costs have
             | increased over the past few decades, from 5 percent of
             | gross domestic product (GDP) in 1960 to 18 percent in 2018.
             | The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS)
             | project that by 2028, such costs will climb to $6.2
             | trillion, or about $18,000 per person, and will represent
             | about 20 percent of GDP._
             | 
             | https://www.pgpf.org/blog/2020/04/why-are-americans-
             | paying-m...
        
         | reaperducer wrote:
         | _I ask - what new insight did this article offer on Airtags?_
         | 
         | Ask the author: https://mobile.twitter.com/kashhill
         | 
         | Let us know what she says.
         | 
         |  _The author also seems to be somewhat deceptive_
         | 
         | Let us know what she has to say about that, too.
        
           | ameminator wrote:
           | I don't have twitter and I don't think twitter is a good
           | platform for discussion.
        
             | reaperducer wrote:
             | No problem! There's a link on her NY Times biography page
             | so you can e-mail her: https://www.nytimes.com/by/kashmir-
             | hill
             | 
             | Or are you going to make up another excuse to hide behind
             | the anonymity of HN so you can throw around a bunch of
             | insulting questions in public without bothering to speak
             | directly to the person you're criticizing?
        
         | nooyurrsdey wrote:
         | Not everything has to offer new info. Sometimes things bear
         | repeating, it's how we add emphasis and continue the
         | conversation.
         | 
         | Coming out with "Apple is doing a poor job" just once isn't
         | going to move the needle. People have to hear it over and over
         | in a relatable way.
        
           | ameminator wrote:
           | Fair point - but in that case, I found the author's account
           | unrelatable, so much as to approach uncredible.
           | 
           | Maybe it hits different for other people, but I don't
           | appreciate being given a conclusion without any good
           | discussion
        
             | fleetwoodsnack wrote:
             | Your critique is bit shallow. That the article does not
             | present any new information to any one reader (you)
             | specifically, or that any one reader (you) cannot relate
             | personally is to be expected and not remarkable given the
             | size of this publication's audience and the novelty of the
             | phenomenon the article discusses.
             | 
             | I imagine, however, that there are readers for whom this
             | information is novel, and for whom the first-person
             | journalistic style is insightful. In this case, the value
             | here is obvious.
        
               | ameminator wrote:
               | Yes, I will present my viewpoint. I didn't find this
               | article relatable. I didn't find new information from
               | this article. I think this article objectively is hard to
               | relate to and has little new information.I will share my
               | viewpoint in a comments section - feel free to disagree.
               | If you think it's shallow, it's probably because the
               | original piece didn't have much meat to begin with.
        
               | fleetwoodsnack wrote:
               | >Yes, I will present my viewpoint
               | 
               | You can, or, alternatively, you can simply acknowledge
               | you're not the intended audience for the article, and
               | that you may have over-stepped rhetorically in declaring
               | a complete absence of value with respect to insight or
               | novelty in the article; which is there, and obviously so.
        
               | ameminator wrote:
               | I didn't find any value, and I look forward to someone
               | presenting some value other than "I don't like your
               | critique".
               | 
               | For example, I found this comment section much more
               | enlightening than the article, because commenters here
               | made better discussion than I found in the article.
        
               | outworlder wrote:
               | This comment section would not exist without the article.
        
               | fleetwoodsnack wrote:
               | > I didn't find any value
               | 
               | Not to be crude, but that seems like a personal
               | deficiency, not a demerit of the article. The "commenters
               | here" who "made better discussion than I found in the
               | article," are discussing the implications of the
               | article's information and presenting interesting
               | perspectives. If you didn't find anything of value,
               | perhaps you could try thinking a bit harder or for a bit
               | longer. Others have done so successfully.
        
             | parasense wrote:
             | It's resembling an attack of the author, instead of the
             | authors ideas, aka a form of ad hominem. So it's kinda
             | ironic to say the author adds nothing while simultaneously
             | adding nothing with a non sequitur.
        
               | ameminator wrote:
               | I know nothing about the author outside of this article
               | and I can't remember ever reading anything else she
               | wrote. The author may be a perfectly virtuous person -
               | but knowing that may actually bias my review/critique.
               | 
               | For example, this is actually a story about a mother
               | worried about her child. I really appreciate that! What I
               | don't appreciate is someone using that to present
               | unsupported positions.
               | 
               | I _am_ attacking the piece that she wrote and it 's
               | because I don't think it was a good piece.
        
         | dylan604 wrote:
         | >what new insight did this article
         | 
         | author found a trending topic, and is making the mostest
        
         | bhelkey wrote:
         | I found these three portions intersting:
         | 
         | >[LandAirSea] which sells about 15,000 devices per month...
         | tells these callers they should go to the police, because they
         | will need a subpoena to determine who owns the device they
         | discovered.
         | 
         | >My husband, of course, had agreed to this in principle, but
         | didn't realize just how many devices I had planted on him. Of
         | the seven trackers, he found only two..It is impossible to find
         | a device that makes no noise and gives no warning
         | 
         | >For all the bad press the AirTags have gotten...at least I was
         | consistently getting notifications they were following me...The
         | privacy dangers of the other trackers were way worse
        
         | BiteCode_dev wrote:
         | > should Apple be doing these measures at all?
         | 
         | Apple no, but law makers should require a licence to use those.
         | This is not a tech that anybody should be able to use on a
         | whim. Too much potential for abuses.
         | 
         | Not to mention the more there are, the bigger the cake for a
         | nation that want to get control of the biggest offline spying
         | network of all time. Somebody is going to crack that thing
         | sooner or later. There will be an NSO for airtags.
        
           | nomel wrote:
           | What until you hear about the tracking device that everyone
           | has in their pockets, used by cellular companies, ad
           | companies, and the government!
        
             | BiteCode_dev wrote:
             | Yes, they are a problem too.
             | 
             | But, you know they are here.
             | 
             | They can be turned off.
             | 
             | They require an internet connection.
             | 
             | They are not meant for tracking, and intent is important.
             | 
             | They provide other features than tracking.
             | 
             | They are expensive, and battery don't last. People won't
             | use them to track their ex wife for months.
             | 
             | It's like comparing a gun and a knife. Sure, you can kill
             | with a knife, but it's harder, and initially the knife is
             | made for cutting carrots.
        
       | kbos87 wrote:
       | My comment isn't specific to AirTags, but there's a much larger
       | conversation that needs to be had about this gray area of
       | stalking capabilities that are now built into many mainstream
       | products.
       | 
       | Here's a pattern I've seen play out more than once among friends
       | and family - they share their location willingly and for
       | seemingly benign reasons. It's helpful to know when you'll be
       | getting home so I can start dinner! Just in case something
       | happens to you! This is the innocent end of the spectrum; subtle
       | or outright coercion in a controlling relationship is the darker
       | end of the spectrum.
       | 
       | How it starts really doesn't matter, because the truth is that
       | even among otherwise well meaning and well intentioned people,
       | tracking tech can turn them obsessive. Checking in constantly.
       | Wondering and/or quizzing their child, partner or friend about
       | what they were doing at location X.
       | 
       | The truth is that most people aren't immune to being on either
       | end of a situation like this, and the negative outcomes can range
       | from feeling like your everyday movements are under a microscope,
       | to outright abusive behavior more easily taken to the extreme.
       | 
       | I don't claim that there are simple solutions here, but a
       | starting point would be tech companies making it easier to see an
       | audit of how this "innocent" tracking tech is being used on the
       | trackee. For example, I bet my grandpa would think twice about
       | checking in on my cousins location as often as he probably does
       | if he knew that my cousin got a notification every time he
       | checked in.
        
         | acomjean wrote:
         | Yeah. I took my partners dog for the afternoon. It has an
         | airtag (not an official supported use). I knew the dog had it
         | but there was some comment made about our walk. Monitoring by
         | proxy.
         | 
         | When I worked at a power monitoring startup (we monitored home
         | power use, by individual circuit) this passive monitoring came
         | up. And our CEO mentioned to his wife that she was home early..
         | "how did you know?" He saw the garage door circuit draw
         | power... He was told he could keep his toys, but not to talk
         | about them.
         | 
         | Our sales guy had a potential partners remote door installed.
         | He noted one time the dog walker did a pretty short walk (the
         | door opens where x minutes apart), and was wondering if he
         | could mention it..
         | 
         | Passive monitoring is everywhere. Not just cell phones.
        
           | 6510 wrote:
           | Someone told me that by examining smart meter data by amount,
           | time and duration different appliances could be identified.
           | He was rather surprised himself by the level of detail.
        
             | Knufferlbert wrote:
             | You may be shocked how much more you can get, I heard of
             | being able to identify the movie/tv show you are watching
             | based on power consumption of the TV based on brightness.
             | 
             | Obviously depends on how granular the smart metering is,
             | but it sent chills down my spine.
             | 
             | https://nakedsecurity.sophos.com/2012/01/08/28c3-smart-
             | meter...
        
           | joshspankit wrote:
           | Even back 20 years ago I was monitored by my ex-spouse by
           | them simply watching the bank card transactions then
           | calculating travel time. It was (or evolved in to) a full-
           | blown anxiety disorder.
           | 
           | It's easy to imagine that this higher level of easy
           | surveillance is going to efficiently send others down the
           | same path.
        
           | 908B64B197 wrote:
           | One great use case of passive monitoring is detecting water
           | leaks, especially for vacation homes.
           | 
           | > It has an airtag (not an official supported use)
           | 
           | I'm surprised. That sounds like a great use for it,
           | especially for a larger breed that runs fast.
        
             | acomjean wrote:
             | > especially for a larger breed that runs fast.
             | 
             | Young Husky. Medium breed that can run far and sometimes
             | doesn't listen (like a cat... but bigger)
             | 
             | They have pet trackers.. But I'm not sure if its because
             | its transmitting a lot and its close to them on their
             | collar.. In this case in on her going outside harness..
        
             | protomyth wrote:
             | That is one use for monitoring, with the related use of
             | doing so to your own home, that I think is really worth
             | doing. Especially, if you live in the northland where
             | freezing is a problem.
             | 
             | I often wonder about these services and if we can wrap them
             | in enough privacy to make them feel safe to advanced users?
        
               | causi wrote:
               | The only way I see this ending is splitting airtags into
               | two populations: remote-tracking enabled and remote-
               | tracking disabled where they act like a regular bluetooth
               | tag. Enabling the remote-tracking feature will probably
               | require you to register with Apple with photo ID and have
               | your identity visible to anyone within range of the
               | airtag.
               | 
               | Which is fine by me. I'm just excited to have a way to
               | get my cat back if she ever escapes outside.
        
           | hnrodey wrote:
           | Care to share the competitors in the power monitoring space?
           | I could really use a solution to this because my home
           | electric bill is crazy high. We moved in to a new house about
           | eight months ago and this electric bill is like 30% higher
           | than my previous home. Not just the raw total of the bill -
           | my consumption is higher in this house.
           | 
           | I know of sense.com but perhaps there are others?
        
             | acomjean wrote:
             | Our product was "site sage". Its subscription based and you
             | have to install a current transformer around each circuit
             | coming out of you electric box (you'd install in the
             | circuit breaker box). But you did get circuit by circuit
             | listings. Its also subscription based. The company has
             | moved on to monitoring kitchen equipment, though they still
             | sell them.
             | 
             | I've been out of the space for a while, but the "sense"
             | power monitor was new when I left. It claims to use AI so
             | you can just monitor the mains and it will suss out what is
             | using power.
             | 
             | There were a lot of our home customers who were very
             | obsessed with power use (trying to get to net 0 with
             | solar). There have to be forums for this...
             | 
             | If you are looking for the manual way. getting a kill-o-
             | watt and attaching it to your outlet is one way to see one
             | of the things that takes a lot of power. I have the
             | "Belkin" version which I like because the display isn't
             | near the outlet. I'd suggest fridge... In my case my fridge
             | was a large % of my power bill. Any electric heat.
             | 
             | https://www.belkin.com/au/support-article?articleNum=5381
        
             | secabeen wrote:
             | I've used The Energy Detective for a long time, but it is
             | challenging to install the hardware in your breaker box.
             | 
             | For an easier approach, there are a bunch of wifi plugs
             | that can report energy usage:
             | https://www.androidcentral.com/which-smart-plugs-are-best-
             | mo...
        
             | joshspankit wrote:
             | I use Sonoff S31 smart plugs, flashed with Tasmota and
             | connected to Home Assistant. It allows fine-grain
             | monitoring of anything that plugs in to the wall, even if
             | you disable the remote on/on switch (like for the
             | fridge/deep freeze). LED bulbs use basically nothing and so
             | can be removed from the equation, then all that's left is
             | built-in temp/humidity/air units and car chargers (though
             | most of those have great metrics built in)
        
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         | technothrasher wrote:
         | > Checking in constantly. Wondering and/or quizzing their child
         | 
         | This behavior is rampant in my peer group. Most of my
         | friends/neighbors are constantly monitoring their teen age
         | children's location, reading their recent calls, texts, and
         | emails, looking at internet usage logs, etc. One of my
         | neighbors even calls her daughter every time she sees she's
         | driving over the speed limit and yells at her. It all seems so
         | creepy to me, and I give my kid way more privacy than that, but
         | it looks like I'm in the minority of parents.
        
           | toxik wrote:
           | How do they see their texts calls emails etc? Surely that's
           | illegal.
        
             | gnicholas wrote:
             | Parents can monitor their children's email. Phone call
             | records are in your monthly billing statement. As long as
             | you're up front with your child about the level of
             | monitoring, I don't think this is unethical, let alone
             | illegal.
        
               | technothrasher wrote:
               | Yeah, none of the surveillance I'm talking about with the
               | other parents I know is secretive. The kids seem to have
               | been groomed to accept it from very young ages, so they
               | all know it is happening.
        
             | astura wrote:
             | Children do not have any legal right to privacy. Especially
             | not when the parents are paying for the cell phone and
             | service.
        
           | seanmcdirmid wrote:
           | I want to let me kid (now 5) be more independent. These days,
           | at least in the USA, kids aren't allowed out until they are
           | 10 or even older, and even then they often don't get to take
           | the bus alone (I started doing that when I was in 2nd grade,
           | in the 80s when crime was much worse than it is today, I was
           | biking on my own outside when I was in Kindergarten). But I
           | thought...something like an air tag, cellphone, and maybe a
           | bodycam, might be a great way to balance a need to let the
           | kid explore some things independently and keep safe at the
           | same time. I don't know, I'm still in the planning stage on
           | this.
        
           | cmckn wrote:
           | I definitely did things as a teenager that were dangerous,
           | unnecessary, detrimental to my physical or mental health,
           | etc. etc. I don't have kids, but I would probably make some
           | effort to dissuade my kids from doing the same things I did.
           | How do you approach that, without heavy surveillance? Did you
           | just get lucky with good kids? Is having conversations about
           | it enough?
        
             | ethbr0 wrote:
             | I look at it the other way around: I did things as a kid
             | and teenager that were dangerous, unnecessary, detrimental
             | to my physical or mental health... _and those things made
             | me... me._
             | 
             | So why should I, or do I have a right to, keep my kids from
             | doing the same?
             | 
             | We aren't only the product of our positive lessons. A lot
             | of life is learned through burning yourself on the hot
             | stove. And by and large, it usually doesn't kill you.
             | 
             | IMHO, no humans are self-actualized enough to possess
             | omniscience and act ethically. We have too many neuroses.
             | 
             | And, at the more obvious end of the spectrum, all of the
             | suburban crowd complaining about how their children fail to
             | launch, lack initiative in life, and aren't independent.
             | 
             | After their entire childhood was spent being monitored and
             | constantly corrected by the parent.
             | 
             | The mind boggles.
        
             | mlac wrote:
             | Before my daughter starts driving, I'm going to take her
             | around where I grew up and show her the places where people
             | I knew died in car accidents / other issues, and explain
             | why they died:
             | 
             | - These two girls were speeding to make it home by curfew,
             | ran off the road, and died in a car fire over the side of
             | this hill - don't speed if you're running late. Let me
             | know, and get home safely.
             | 
             | - This is where a guy was on drugs and ran into a telephone
             | pole. - don't do drugs. If you do drink and no longer feel
             | comfortable in the situation, call me and I will pick you
             | up to get you home. Don't try to drive.
             | 
             | - Here's the parking lot where my friend OD'd on Heroin.
             | Don't try it. Not even once. There is a huge difference
             | between weed and harder drugs, even though weed and harder
             | drugs are sold by the same people. Stay clear of all of
             | them if you can.
             | 
             | - Here's the cliff where my friend fell 60 feet and died
             | trying to showboat his climbing skills. So many things
             | today have been made extremely safe (car driving
             | assistance, etc.) - you need to know which activities have
             | real consequences and treat them accordingly.
             | 
             | - Here's the parking lot where my friend and I almost
             | flipped his truck trying to do slides on snow at 60 mph.
             | Don't do that.
             | 
             | It will be a rough day, but driving is a serious
             | responsibility and learning from others' mistakes is better
             | than making your own.
        
             | dbt00 wrote:
             | In my case by talking to my teens about choices,
             | consequences, and how to plan for good outcomes. It helped
             | to start having that conversation long before they were
             | teens.
             | 
             | We had an ios family group set up with location sharing
             | enabled, which was great when they were 12 and losing
             | things all the time (using a phone as backpack lojack isn't
             | necessarily cost efficient, but it was a nice accidental
             | outcome). When they got a little older, they figured out
             | how not to share with us. I was peeved, but proud. Privacy
             | respected.
        
             | technothrasher wrote:
             | I definitely also did things as a teenager that were
             | dangerous, unnecessary, etc. And my parents were good
             | parents, were involved in my life, had open communication
             | with me, and tried hard to teach me the right things. But I
             | was a teenager; I did it anyway. And I suspect that if I
             | were being monitored like the kids today seem to be, I
             | would just learn how to hide my activities more.
             | 
             | > How do you approach that, without heavy surveillance? Did
             | you just get lucky with good kids?
             | 
             | I think partly I got lucky that my son is somewhat risk
             | averse, which rules out a lot of bad stuff he could do. But
             | I also am not fooling myself into thinking he isn't doing
             | dumb things and not telling me about it. I certainly
             | understand the desire to heavily surveil your kids to
             | protect them, but it just doesn't sit right with me. I
             | think it sends the wrong message that he doesn't have to
             | take responsibility and can always just rely on me to bail
             | him out. So I'm willing to take the risk in order to give
             | him a sense of personal responsibility. I don't know that
             | I'm making the right choice, parenting seems to be mostly
             | doing the best you can and having your kids usually turn
             | out ok in spite of you.
        
         | BrandoElFollito wrote:
         | There is also the special case of my wife who has my position
         | on Google maps, and an automation where she gets it when
         | sending me a special SMS.
         | 
         | Yet she always calls to ask where I am (in your first scenario:
         | because dinner or that she will kill the children if I am not
         | back quickly).
        
         | micromacrofoot wrote:
         | > For example, I bet my grandpa would think twice about
         | checking in on my cousins location as often as he probably does
         | if he knew that my cousin got a notification every time he
         | checked in.
         | 
         | I think this is a partial solution to keep honest people
         | honest. Like door locks. They keep the temptation at bay for
         | the average person.
         | 
         | In abusive relationships it likely wouldn't accomplish much,
         | but notifying might at least create known windows of "escape"
         | when the tracking isn't being actively monitored. Maybe it
         | could even draw someone's attention to abusive situations... if
         | you're out with a friend and her phone "pings" that someone is
         | tracking her 10 times over an hour maybe that's enough for
         | someone to ask "hey is everything ok?"
        
           | kbos87 wrote:
           | Exactly. Being held accountable, and knowing you are being
           | held accountable, could likely stem some amount of bad
           | behavior from the start, and at the very least it makes bad
           | behavior harder to conceal.
        
         | pluc wrote:
         | The road to authoritarian technology is paved with convenience
        
           | andrewia wrote:
           | Most technology is a double-edged sword. Front-facing cameras
           | on phone are immensely useful for video calls and impromptu
           | portraits, but in event of software compromise, can disclose
           | a lot of info. Cell networks revolutionized communication and
           | network availability, but make all other tech omnipresent and
           | allow rough tracking of users by signal strength.
           | 
           | The existence of technologies are fine, but we need to set
           | strong social norms, laws (and resilient enforcing
           | institutions), and smart design limitations to protect
           | against abuse.
        
           | heinternets wrote:
           | I always knew pizza delivery would end up in total loss of
           | freedoms
        
             | inopinatus wrote:
             | Hiro Protagonist wants to subscribe to your newsletter.
        
             | schwap wrote:
             | Skynet was really just the Domino's pizza tracker all
             | along.
        
         | everforward wrote:
         | I think there needs to be a delineation between anti-theft
         | devices and anti-loss devices.
         | 
         | The sticking point now is that you want to let innocent people
         | know if they're being tracked, but you don't want to let
         | thieves know that they're being tracked. It seems an
         | intractable problem, because there's no way that I can think of
         | for a device to tell the difference between the two.
         | 
         | Anti-loss devices should be portable and detachable, but
         | required to be able to be easily found via some kind of
         | standard tooling. Maybe like the Bluetooth equivalent of
         | pinging the broadcast IP. They should also make an audible
         | noise when the owner tracks them.
         | 
         | Anti-theft devices should be silent, but required to be semi-
         | permanently installed into the device to be tracked. Something
         | annoying to remove, but not impossible. The ownership of the
         | tracker should also be required to be registered with someone;
         | logically the police, since that's who you would call anyways
         | if your stuff was stolen. Anyone who finds an anti-theft device
         | on their person or property that they didn't place there should
         | automatically qualify for a restraining order against the
         | device's owner (that they could opt not to pursue if they
         | wanted). The restraining order should also prevent the device's
         | owner from owning or registering any other anti-theft devices
         | for the duration of the restraining order.
         | 
         | There would also need to be some kind of penalties for
         | unregistered anti-theft devices, and for anti-loss devices that
         | have been tampered with to not make noise or respond to the
         | standard signal.
         | 
         | Also likely some kind of contract two people can enter into
         | that says "I acknowledge that person X has tracker Y in thing
         | Z, and I absolve my right to pursue a restraining order for it"
         | for people who share a car or bike or whatever.
         | 
         | I haven't fully fleshed out the ideas, but I think something
         | like the above reinforces that it's okay to track your own
         | stuff but that's it not OK to track other people.
        
         | sleepybrett wrote:
         | yeah, concerning the feature in the apple ecosystem to share
         | your location with someone else is great, i just wish it had a
         | feature that alerted the you whenever someone used it to locate
         | one of your devices. That way if say i went to the big state
         | fair with my friend and we shared our locations with each other
         | in case we got separated but then forgot to shut it off. If a
         | few days later i got notified that my friend had just located
         | me i could shut it off and/or have a conversation with them
         | about boundries.
         | 
         | The airtag/tile makes this much harder, perhaps the airtag
         | should loudly beep or notify nearby devices whenever it's being
         | actively located.
        
           | eigen wrote:
           | > That way if say i went to the big state fair with my friend
           | and we shared our locations with each other in case we got
           | separated but then forgot to shut it off.
           | 
           | you can share location for 1 hour or until end of day rather
           | than Indefinitely.
           | 
           | https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT210514
        
           | verve_rat wrote:
           | >The airtag/tile makes this much harder, perhaps the airtag
           | should loudly beep or notify nearby devices whenever it's
           | being actively located.
           | 
           | They absolutely should. It boggles my mind a bit that they
           | don't do this. It would even help you find them. Is there any
           | downside to making noise?
        
         | dylan604 wrote:
         | Essentially, this is why we can't have nice things. Human
         | nature will always have someone take something to the dark
         | places. Does that mean the rest of us can't use the things in
         | non-creepy ways just because some will? After all, if you don't
         | build it, someone else will, so why not you? These are all
         | valid questions. Some people choose to do violence with
         | weapons, so nobody should have weapons? These questions are
         | always polarizing.
        
           | adambyrtek wrote:
           | I'm not sure this is a good metaphor since weapons are
           | designed for violence, regardless of whether that violence is
           | legally justified or not. Just to be clear, I'm not trying to
           | make a political stand, this is simply the dictionary
           | definition: "weapon /'wep(@)n/ a thing designed or used for
           | inflicting bodily harm or physical damage".
        
             | dylan604 wrote:
             | I'm not trying to do politics either, so I don't know how
             | to respond without straying too far off topic. I will cede
             | that I probably could have picked a less polarizing
             | example. Just first to come to mind.
             | 
             | The example was meant to highlight that not everyone uses a
             | product/device the same way as others. If one's use of an
             | item does not bring harm, infringe upon, etc of anyone
             | else, then why should they not be allowed to use it?
             | Obviously, once you use an item to infringe upon, bring
             | harm, etc, you should be the one punished NOT the others by
             | trying to banish the item.
        
         | underwater wrote:
         | Facebook Messenger implements this as "send location" which
         | lets the other party track you for the next hour. I've found
         | this useful without being creepy. I can share my location
         | contextually, like if I'm picking someone up or meeting them
         | somewhere.
        
           | stronglikedan wrote:
           | Google maps too. I've used it with friends on camping trips.
        
         | rootusrootus wrote:
         | I would think that the problem isn't just auditing, it is
         | control. Reasonable people using the technology for good do not
         | want to be bombarded with notifications. Better that we focus
         | on control, making it more difficult to coerce someone into
         | accepting tracking against their will, and making it easy to
         | disable.
        
         | trinovantes wrote:
         | Only a matter of time before we start seeing news of couples
         | fixing their marriage by sharing AirTags with each other. I say
         | this with sarcasm but recent years have made me wonder what is
         | reality anymore.
        
           | not2b wrote:
           | A marriage that can only be "fixed" if each member is
           | continuously surveilling the other is not "fixed".
        
           | outworlder wrote:
           | We should get them ankle bracelets while we are at it.
        
             | akomtu wrote:
             | We already have rings. Just embed a tracking chip there,
             | add a monthly subscription service "loyal partner 365" and
             | change laws to allow subpoena your partner if she/he
             | "accidentally" forgets to wear the ring.
        
         | toomuchtodo wrote:
         | You can't fix a lack of emotional fortitude and insecurities
         | with technology. These are mental health challenges exacerbated
         | by the tools available.
        
           | advisedwang wrote:
           | How do you fix a "lack of emotional fortitude"? Can everyone
           | succeed at that? How long does it take to fix?
           | 
           | The reality is that some people are emotionally vulnerable
           | and our we should keep that in mind as we develop products.
           | Most new products (and indeed all changes in society) have
           | some kind of negative impact to someone, and we can't get
           | that to zero, but we should strive to minimize the harm we
           | do.
        
           | oarsinsync wrote:
           | > You can't fix a lack of emotional fortitude and
           | insecurities with technology. These are mental health
           | challenges exacerbated by the tools available.
           | 
           | I dont think the GP is suggesting that there's no
           | technological changes required, just lamenting the root cause
           | of the problem.
           | 
           | Similarly, technology can exacerbate gambling addictions, and
           | we have measures we've put in place there.
           | 
           | It'll probably take some time to work that out though.
        
           | draw_down wrote:
        
           | AtlasBarfed wrote:
           | We live in a society with total propaganda immersion designed
           | to keep you insecure so you consume consume consume.
           | 
           | So basically everyone is like this in some way, or will be.
        
           | kbos87 wrote:
           | I don't disagree with you. I would say that these are mental
           | health challenges that can not only be exacerbated, but
           | caused in the first place in some cases by having this
           | technology so readily available. The other commenters' point
           | about gambling tech is a good one.
        
         | djrogers wrote:
         | > The truth is that most people aren't immune to being on
         | either end of a situation like this
         | 
         | Hard disagree here - most people are _not_ going to go all
         | obsessive on their spouses, kids, etc.
        
       | fullstackchris wrote:
       | Ah, yet another chilling reminder why Black Mirror doesn't have
       | to make any new episodes.
        
       | hnlmorg wrote:
       | Can someone explain to me (because I cannot work it myself) why
       | everyone is suddenly worried about AirTags yet these kinds of
       | devices have been around for a while (eg the Samsung Galaxy
       | SmartTag was released last year and little was talked about it).
       | And GPS tracking isn't even a new thing either.
       | 
       | So why is it most conversations focus on the AirTag? What is it
       | that the AirTag does better/worse/differently to the other
       | options out there?
        
         | darkwizard42 wrote:
         | - Massively improved battery life vs. price
         | 
         | - No network connectivity required, simply being near an iPhone
         | creates location accuracy (so instantly a bigger network than
         | any competitor)
         | 
         | Probably the two biggest things right there.
        
         | xondono wrote:
         | Because there is vibrant a market for content hating on Apple,
         | from forums, to magazines, podcasts,...
        
         | orev wrote:
         | AirTags do sort of change the tracking game. GPS trackers need
         | a relatively large power supply and some kind of data
         | connection. Tile devices are not ubiquitous, and their tracking
         | network is limited to other Tile users.
         | 
         | AirTags have a huge advantage in that they use ALL iPhones as
         | part of the tracking network, regardless of whether the iPhone
         | owner has an AirTag themself. This allows them to work over
         | short ranges with a tiny battery as they only need to be close
         | enough to any iPhone for them to be trackable.
        
         | andrewaylett wrote:
         | Apple may not have invented the technology, but they've
         | definitely popularised it. Sounds familiar :P.
         | 
         | AirTags are (at least as far as I can tell) maybe a bit easier
         | to use for this purpose than other tech, but that's not _quite_
         | the point: we didn 't have these discussions earlier because
         | people didn't realise they were discussions we needed to have.
         | 
         | As another data point, I've met several people who put AirTags
         | on their dogs, and have been disappointed by how poorly they've
         | worked: if the dog runs off and there's no-one with an iPhone
         | around, the AirTag is no help. I have a battery-powered GPS and
         | GPRS tracker on my dog, which works just about anywhere. The
         | AirTag-using dog owners just don't know these things exist.
        
         | babypuncher wrote:
         | Any time an iPhone, iPad, or newer MacBook sees an AirTag, its
         | location is reported back to the owner. Apple devices are so
         | ubiquitous that you can effectively get real time tracking
         | anywhere in the developed world where there are people.
         | 
         | Similar products like Tile have existed for years, but their
         | real-time tracking abilities are poor because they rely on a
         | network of devices that have their app installed and running in
         | the background.
        
         | xeromal wrote:
         | Because Samsung or Tile is a subset of a subset compared to
         | Apple. When apple does something, hundreds of millions of
         | people are instantly involved. The scale is what matters.
        
       | throw7 wrote:
       | tl;dr the baby was fine.
        
       | gnicholas wrote:
       | > _... but I think I'll leave the AirTag in it. It will make it
       | easier to find the car in a vast parking lot._
       | 
       | It sounds like the author has an iPhone, and it has a feature
       | that will show you where you parked your car if you connect it to
       | your car via BT. It basically takes note of the location where
       | you disconnected from the car and stores it in Maps as Parked
       | Car.
       | 
       | Leaving a tracker in your car is not a bad idea if you're worried
       | about theft, though.
        
       | joe5150 wrote:
       | "Albert Fox Cahn, the executive director of the Surveillance
       | Technology Oversight Project, thinks the devices are 'too ripe
       | for abuse' to exist."
       | 
       | besides the fact that these devices cover a wide spectrum of
       | abuse potential, in what way is this even a tenable position to
       | take? it would be hard enough to get them banned, but if we're
       | talking about actually making them not "exist" anymore, we're
       | talking about confiscating millions and millions of devices.
       | 
       | other comments have noted that devices that are much more
       | effective for actual tracking/stalking purposes are cheap and
       | readily available, so I don't understand why AirTags have become
       | the center of this conversation.
        
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