[HN Gopher] Feynman on group decision-making at Los Alamos (1985)
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       Feynman on group decision-making at Los Alamos (1985)
        
       Author : areoform
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       Date   : 2022-02-11 08:32 UTC (14 hours ago)
        
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       | sgt101 wrote:
       | Just because you are best at arguing doesn't mean you are
       | right...
        
         | rawoke083600 wrote:
         | My ex-gf will disagree ! :P
        
       | paulio wrote:
       | I just sat through 3 hours of meetings. I wish this had been read
       | before we started.
        
       | Datenstrom wrote:
       | Commented on another post before reading in classic HN fashion,
       | but the environment of the committee described sounds very much
       | like the Braintrust Pixar leadership uses to create their
       | stories. Any leaders looking to cultivate an environment that
       | supports that kind of productive decision making can likely find
       | some great tactics in the book "Creativity, Inc."
        
       | smitty1e wrote:
       | My takeaway from the anecdote is that greatness != omniscience.
       | These smart fellows brought experience and biases to difficult
       | questions and had to have enough trust and confidence in the
       | group to let the group function as a seminar.
       | 
       | The best teachers never really quit being students.
        
         | Synaesthesia wrote:
         | The more you learn the more ignorant you feel. It was
         | refreshing to hear that even eg Noam Chomsky feels this way.
        
       | suction wrote:
       | This also describes companies during the "we're creating a great
       | product / service" phase, when meetings aren't "won" by those who
       | can sell themselves or their ideas best. Companies on the decline
       | will always have very charismatic / well-spoken / authoritarian
       | characters at the top who'll put their own ego before sustainable
       | success. Think Ballmer at Microsoft.
        
         | tonyedgecombe wrote:
         | >Companies on the decline will always have very charismatic /
         | well-spoken / authoritarian characters at the top who'll put
         | their own ego before sustainable success.
         | 
         | And countries.
        
       | Max_Ehrlich wrote:
       | I recommend everyone read "Surely You're Joking Mr Feynman."
       | 
       | The parts on Brazil were particularly interesting.
        
       | dav_Oz wrote:
       | It's a great angle on the communication side of science.
       | 
       | I think the notion of "great man" like the genius of "Einstein"
       | or "Newton" is seriously skewed. If you take a closer look at
       | their correspondence and upbringing, they both were very well
       | "connected" in their own ways beforehand.
       | 
       | This picture of a loner sitting bored at a Patent Office and all
       | by himself coming up with 4 groundbreaking papers (photoelectric
       | effect, brownian motion, special relativity) in 1905 - [or
       | Newtons "annus mirabilis" after fleeing Cambridge University
       | because of the plague in 1665 and "quarantining" himself for 2
       | years in his native village (by his own account (!) there he
       | singlehandendly developed integral calculus, dicovered the
       | composite nature of light and finally refined his gravitational
       | theory)] - readily highlights the individual instances of
       | "genius" which I do not want to dismiss here - but entirely
       | blanks out how those free floating ideas were able to circulate
       | and bounce off each other giving rise to those great insights in
       | the "quiet" moments of those "geniuses".
       | 
       | Only after their recognition of "genius" they seemed to develop
       | some really unhealthy stubbornness.
       | 
       | Newton - beginning in 1686 with his publication of the Principia
       | - "disputing" any influence Hooke might have had and at his
       | height of power letting his "Royal Society" create a comittee to
       | decide against Leibniz "priority" regarding "calculus" in 1712).
       | 
       | Einstein beginning with the Bohr debate (1927 onwards) and
       | productively contributing to the EPR paradox in 1934 (further
       | developed by Bell to the infamous "Bell's theorem") felt more and
       | more "misunderstood" and isolated himself to work on his own
       | "unified field theory" and from then on did not participate in
       | any of the "quantum mechanics" of his time.
        
       | chandmk wrote:
       | I am wondering what would have happened if the committee chooses
       | another idea instead of Compton's. Would Compton leave the
       | committee? Would Feynman resent the decision? Or they wouldn't do
       | that that is why they are called "great men"?
        
         | civilized wrote:
         | Feynman is impressed because the committee remembered the best
         | argument and got to the right decision without Compton having
         | to insist on himself. Compton made the best argument, once, and
         | won.
         | 
         | If the committee didn't choose Compton's idea, it would just be
         | an average lame committee where quality of thought isn't a
         | priority.
         | 
         | There's a reason "design by committee" is an epithet. People
         | thinking in groups normally suck at it.
        
       | morelandjs wrote:
       | This was the value I saw in my PhD. It has opened doors to jobs
       | where the people I work with are brilliant and generally
       | objective in their evaluation of competing ideas. It is an
       | absolute treat to work in an environment like that. On many
       | occasions, I worked with people who just _knew more_ than me on a
       | certain topic, and I was enthusiastic to take a back seat and
       | learn from them.
        
         | HWR_14 wrote:
         | I'm curious, does one really need a PhD outside academia? Does
         | sufficient experience make up for it?
        
           | morelandjs wrote:
           | Definitely don't need it, but it does introduce you to cool
           | people.
        
       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | There is something magical when everyone leaves their ego at the
       | door and is willing to build upon each other's ideas like improv.
       | 
       | In the end, you're left committing to only one idea and everyone
       | is supporting it because that's the only way it's going to be
       | successful. This is known intrinsically by everyone
       | participating.
       | 
       | What this quote is missing is all the context. They were fighting
       | for time and had to make a decision to get started on
       | experiments. Many of these contributors were doing experimental
       | work and Feynman was doing theoretical work.
       | 
       | Also he was 24 years old at the time.
        
       | spaetzleesser wrote:
       | This made me almost cry. In most companies the person who is the
       | loudest or most persistent wins. The merit of an idea is almost
       | irrelevant.
        
         | erwincoumans wrote:
         | It is a great pleasure to be among people who respect each
         | other, listen, focus on the topics instead of on ego/politics.
         | 
         | Sad if most companies are not like that, I must have been lucky
         | to be in the right teams then.
        
       | samim wrote:
        
         | jart wrote:
         | How many people didn't die due to Pax Americana?
        
         | thombat wrote:
         | A more nuanced description: the men who directly instigated the
         | US atomic bomb effort were refugees from Nazi-dominated Europe
         | with knowledge of the discovery of the fission and potential
         | chain reaction of uranium in Germany in 1939, which meant that
         | an atomic bomb was quite likely to be possible.
         | 
         | Once Germany had been defeated and the largely-ruined Japan
         | plainly had no realistic pathway to developing such a weapon
         | mmany of these same men argued for the bomb not to be used [1]
         | but as the British found with their strategic bombing of
         | Germany, a weapon propounded as a saviour and developed at
         | staggering expense is difficult to lay aside, even if both its
         | utility and morality are questioned.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.atomicheritage.org/history/leo-szilards-fight-
         | st...
        
         | CamperBob2 wrote:
         | Bomb somebody else's harbor next time, kthxbye.
        
         | Synaesthesia wrote:
         | I don't think many of the scientists would have agreed to
         | surprise attack Japan on population centres. It was a decision
         | taken by the senior military, and came as a shock to most.
        
         | jack_riminton wrote:
         | You're confusing greatness with your approximation of goodness
        
       | dkarl wrote:
       | What strikes me is not a bunch of people keeping their ego in
       | check -- that helps because it ensures that all points will be
       | heard, but it doesn't ensure coherent decision-making. What
       | strikes me is that everybody was able to keep track of what were
       | the major points and minor points, so they could talk through the
       | whole range of possible objections and decide that they were all
       | less valid or less important than the points in favor. This is
       | how engineers talk, searching for flaws and weighing the ones
       | they find.
       | 
       | I think it's important for engineering decision-makers to be
       | comfortable with this culture. It's disheartening when you have a
       | great conversation like the one Feynman describes, the engineers
       | are in agreement, and then the person in charge stands up and
       | says, "Look, if everybody hates this idea, we can't be lazy and
       | go forward with it just because we don't have a better one," or,
       | "I guess we can't make a decision on this, because there's too
       | much negativity and people are just going to nit-pick every idea
       | to death!" No, no, talking through every possible objection to an
       | idea is how you can tell that people are starting to zero in on
       | it as the most likely best solution. The closer an idea gets to
       | acceptance, the more thoroughly you vet it. The more it becomes
       | clear that an idea is the best way forward, the more you start to
       | prepare for dealing with the reality of it.
       | 
       | This makes practical sense, but not political sense, so it seems
       | weird and unnatural to a lot of outside observers, who expect
       | respect to be communicated by agreement, and emerging consensus
       | around an idea to be expressed by a shared avoidance of
       | mentioning the downsides.
        
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         | pjungwir wrote:
         | Even in literary criticism, this balance and _specificity_ is
         | such a pleasure. It 's one of the things I love about Samuel
         | Johnson's essays. (Contrast with what people are saying in the
         | article about failing literary magazines.)
         | 
         | I just started reading Boswell's biography, and the
         | introduction to the Everyman's Library edition makes the same
         | point:
         | 
         | > Part of this comes from a literal-mindedness that won't
         | mistake one fault for another or all others. This worked even
         | when his dominant feeling was not of fondness (as for Smart)
         | but of dislike (as for Sterne). Boswell reports Goldsmith
         | toadying up to Johnson, in a conversation on Sterne, by saying
         | 'And a very dull fellow': Johnson replied 'Why, no, sir.' Fact.
        
         | N1H1L wrote:
         | Tangential to this is I have observed one thing. I work in
         | science, and a lot of our hires are fresh PhDs/postdocs. The
         | best question to ask is the limitations of their approach. The
         | more thoroughly they have worked on it, the better they know
         | the limitations.
         | 
         | On the other hand, people who are super confident and wave away
         | any limitations of their approach have invariably been
         | problematic hires.
         | 
         | There is a cultural aspect to this too, because America for
         | some reasons worships confidence and hates ambiguity.
        
         | jerf wrote:
         | I think one of the most important life hacks of all is to
         | search out the reasons why you are wrong, not the reasons why
         | you are right. Your brain is primed to tell you why you are
         | right already. It takes active cognitive effort to find the
         | reasons why you are wrong.
         | 
         | I've characterized this before as the single most important
         | aspect of science [1]. It is obviously very important in
         | engineering. It's important in navigating the noise of
         | propaganda and lies out there in the world. It's important in
         | day to day life, e.g., it's hard to scam someone who is
         | actively trying to figure out why your scam offer is not going
         | to work rather than helpfully talking themselves into going
         | along with it.
         | 
         | I suppose there is an excessive negativity trap. In the end you
         | must decide something. But for many people that would still be
         | an upgrade, vs. letting their natural inclination to self-
         | justify every decision with the full power of the human brain
         | run rampant.
         | 
         | [1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5680397
        
           | rileyphone wrote:
           | For a book around this, I would recommend Scout Mindset by
           | Julia Galef, which close to a self-help-type book but still
           | highly informative while still being digestible. From the ACX
           | review [1]:
           | 
           | > Of the fifty-odd biases discovered by Kahneman, Tversky,
           | and their successors, forty-nine are cute quirks, and one is
           | destroying civilization. This last one is confirmation bias -
           | our tendency to interpret evidence as confirming our pre-
           | existing beliefs instead of changing our minds.
           | 
           | I certainly agree with the premise that there is a deep
           | epistemic flaw in the nature of our reasoning that we can
           | counteract with conscious intervention, such as your
           | suggestion.
           | 
           | [1] https://astralcodexten.substack.com/p/book-review-the-
           | scout-...
        
           | kqr wrote:
           | Absolutely. This is a distinguishing mark of experts in any
           | field: they are quick to construct situations that disprove
           | their mental models.
           | 
           | So instead of looking for corroboration, they actively set up
           | a situation which they think could disprove their hypothesis.
           | This is a very economical way to zero in on truth.
           | 
           | It's also why I ask seemingly stupid questions when someone
           | teaches me something. It's not that I don't think I know the
           | answer -- it's precisely because I think the answer is
           | obvious. One out of fifty times the answer is different, and
           | that tells me my mental model is seriously flawed and I
           | should question everything else I thought I just learned.
        
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         | Datenstrom wrote:
         | > talking through every possible objection to an idea is how
         | you can tell that people are starting to zero in on it as the
         | most likely best solution. The closer an idea gets to
         | acceptance, the more thoroughly you vet it. The more it becomes
         | clear that an idea is the best way forward, the more you start
         | to prepare for dealing with the reality of it.
         | 
         | Sounds a lot like the Braintrust described in the book
         | "Creativity, Inc." which was accredited with a large portion of
         | the credit for Pixar's success.
         | 
         | > This makes practical sense, but not political sense
         | 
         | The book says that to create the kind of environment that a
         | Braintrust can function in takes a deal of care and one thing
         | was all politics needed to be removed. Great book though highly
         | recommend it.
        
           | jjoonathan wrote:
           | Not just politics, everyone has to be actively engaged with
           | the process because it runs contrary to instincts.
           | 
           | One time I saw a room full of zoned out world-class
           | scientists do this exact thing: reject the heavily vetted
           | good option and accept the bad alternative because in the
           | back of their heads they were just counting up positive
           | attention and negative attention. The leader of the group
           | realized what was going on, swung the conversation around
           | again, re-framed things on more even footing, and people came
           | to their senses.
           | 
           | Still, it was a pretty stark reminder that we're all human
           | and prone to misusing the "attention survey" shortcut if the
           | group is even slightly disengaged.
        
             | texuf wrote:
             | Put a lawyer in the mix and everyone loses their minds. No
             | offense to lawyers, they're just doing their job, but I've
             | seen the group pick the absolute worst option over and over
             | because a lawyer mentioned maybe something might be
             | possibly questionable. When debriefed after shipping the
             | lawyer couldn't understand why no one pushed back.
        
         | hammock wrote:
         | There are at two paths when you vet an idea to death (life?)
         | like that. One is that you come to the optimal solution.
         | Another is that enough people get exhausted defending their
         | objections and eventually give in to what is a suboptimal
         | solution.
         | 
         | So there is something still missing from the recipe for
         | coherent decision-making. It's the reason Feynman says these
         | are "great men" - it's NOT the process which makes it work, but
         | rather a quality inherent in the character of these men.
         | 
         | I don't have an answer for what that may have been, but in the
         | spirit of your second paragraph I just wanted to bring up this
         | thought.
        
       | huhtenberg wrote:
       | It's always a great pleasure to work with people that aren't only
       | at the same level, but also recognize and use that to not dwell
       | on things that are obvious to everyone in the group.
        
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       | neuro_image2 wrote:
       | I wish there was anything close to this in healthcare.
       | 
       | Most medical group meetings are:
       | 
       | a)A small number of people that understand the issue (generally
       | specialists) being drowned out by:
       | 
       | b)A large number of people with a vague understanding of the
       | issue (related specialists and generalists)
       | 
       | c)A number of people with no understanding of the issue with the
       | most political clout (administrators)
       | 
       | And then a final decision made by the least knowledgeable, most
       | political administrator with the most vested interests.
        
       | PicassoCTs wrote:
       | One can not overstate how important it also is, that the public
       | is suspended for this type of meetings.
       | 
       | Meaning no gathering of material for self-aggrandizing or as
       | ammunition for department warfare.
       | 
       | No PR-stunts and no humiliation for gaps in knowledge. The person
       | and ego has to be suspended for a moment and the "competition" of
       | man go take a hike, replaced by a competition of ideas.
       | 
       | Fairness has to be upheld, as in everyone in the round has to be
       | a good sport and accept his/her idea to be less likely. Todays
       | self-obsessed culture makes such a round nearly impossible,
       | except - ironically for near anonymous internet forums.
        
       | spiderfarmer wrote:
       | I was at a conference in Amsterdam once with a lot of talks from
       | CEO's of fast growing companies. The day was very inspirational.
       | The speakers were obviously very competent and the questions from
       | the CEO's in the audience were interesting and they all received
       | great answers.
       | 
       | To top it off the chairman of the day summarised the whole event
       | in a speech that I still remember to this day. It was so
       | charming, intelligent and erudite. I was floored.
        
         | testmasterflex wrote:
         | Name of the conference? :)
        
       | dijit wrote:
       | I have been in such environments and I while I hadn't considered
       | that the _reason_ they worked so well was that they were great
       | people: they were, in fact, great people.
       | 
       | An interesting thing happens when there's a high level of
       | respect.
       | 
       | People stop being so anxious about not "winning", or "being
       | heard", people just remove themselves from their ideas and feel
       | comfortable and confident.
       | 
       | I left that company because the company around that team was a
       | bit shit, but I wish I could foster an environment of high trust
       | and mutual respect like that again.
        
         | jart wrote:
         | Well I imagine when you're an Arthur Compton or a Richard
         | Feynman or an Oppenheimer, you don't have a whole lot to prove.
        
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           | tigerlily wrote:
           | I like how you included all the Oppenheimers :)
        
             | smilespray wrote:
             | ...and all the Arthur Comptons and Richard Feynmans!
        
         | watwut wrote:
         | I dont think it is just the question of quality of individual.
         | It is result of the way leadership shapes the place, what it
         | rewards or not. People react greatly to the environment they
         | are in.
         | 
         | Whether people worry about being heard, whether being winning
         | is important or not influences a lot how they will discuss.
         | Whether you can afford to remove yourself from the idea is
         | artefact of the environment too.
        
           | pnt12 wrote:
           | I agree with the thought about leadership. Peer to peer
           | discussions can be exhausting, where a consensus is hard to
           | achieve and a majority vote is often unsatisfying. A good
           | leader can listen to every idea, make a decision and steer
           | everyone in that direction.
        
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       | tomohawk wrote:
       | We have a better way of doing things now-a-days.
       | 
       | Whatever politico has enough sway with the social media companies
       | makes it known what the proper narrative is, and then any other
       | point of view is simply labelled as misinformation.
       | 
       | That way we don't have to put up with the misinformed views of
       | great men.
        
       | tmule wrote:
       | It's unclear what is being praised- is it the high working memory
       | (and reasoning power) of those great men or the ability to have
       | an open discussion about the merits of a case?
        
         | _delibash_ wrote:
         | It looks like it's both. But either way, it's not that
         | extraordinary.
        
           | quickthrower2 wrote:
           | The memory one could be, depending on how much detail and new
           | ground is covered. Imagine your first day as a developer and
           | you hear their architecture for the first time, and you
           | recall all the points if a discussion between 5 expert people
           | there. You remember the words and build the mental model
           | simultaneously. It would be impressive, unless your full time
           | job is consulting in such meetings.
        
             | tmule wrote:
             | " It would be impressive, unless your full time job is
             | consulting in such meetings."
             | 
             | There's self section of individuals with high working
             | memory into such roles. There are many managers who attend
             | meetings all day and can't synthesize what's being
             | discussed in real time, indicating that this isn't about
             | practice.
        
           | coldtea wrote:
           | What's not extraordinary? "the ability to have an open
           | discussion about the merits of a case"? You'd be surprised...
        
         | 30minAdayHN wrote:
         | i think he was praising their ability to not bring in their
         | egos to the discussion while trusting that best idea will win.
         | best idea won without lot of inefficiency of repetition which
         | often happens.
        
       | janandonly wrote:
       | I recently read "Surely you're joking, Mr. Feynman!" and it's a
       | good little book filled with stories like these.
        
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       | lordnacho wrote:
       | I get the feeling this anecdote leaves out some important
       | information. Perhaps whether people were giving hints about how
       | confident they were on their contribution, or whether there was
       | an aha-reaction to something insightful that was said.
       | 
       | But also it's important to separate oneself from ideas that
       | appear in one's head and not be too closely invested in them.
        
       | jokoon wrote:
       | "Some people are better than others. Some are great, some are
       | losers".
       | 
       | I really dislike the wording of that title.
        
         | slingnow wrote:
         | Good to know. Thank you.
        
       | lbriner wrote:
       | I'm unsure of what is surprising to Feynman. Is he saying that he
       | assumed clever men would be obnoxious and self-righteous when
       | they weren't?
       | 
       | Although an anecdote, I would imagine there are plenty of
       | examples where the opposite would happen to people who could
       | still fairly be called great men/people.
       | 
       | In fact, some times, great people are necessarily obnoxious - or
       | at least cold. I can't imagine that kind/warm people could have
       | got Tesla or Apple to where they are, it takes a certain hard
       | nose to make hard choices in business.
        
         | rawoke083600 wrote:
         | I guess there really are a spectrum of the graph if you plot:
         | intelligence-VS-nice-guy-rating.
         | 
         | I was lucky enough to work with some 'really really clever
         | people (math+physics+cs)' in my career. Bar one or two
         | generally the nicer they were the higher their intelligence
         | seems to be at least from my point of view.
         | 
         | The reverse were also true. I've also had the misfortune to
         | work with some really 'difficult individuals' and you can spot
         | their lack of basic knowledge + intelligence from a mile away.
         | 
         | Maybe it's an evolution thing ? The "dumber" you are... the
         | more you need to be aggressive (I.e Caveman: No charm, but I
         | got a club to seduce females + competitors) to have your genes
         | continue.
         | 
         | Versus if you clever, you don't need all that aggression, you
         | can finder clever ways to "woo" the women to carry on your
         | genes :) ?
        
         | vasco wrote:
         | I interpreted it as it merely being a side point, this aspect
         | of obnoxiousness. What Feynman was impressed it was the fact
         | that they didn't need to repeat the ideas more than once. I
         | think you're trying to see a deeper argument when this is the
         | argument itself. Even in groups of smart people I've found that
         | the group needs to write ideas down as it discusses them and
         | repeat some of them to clarify to one person in the group that
         | didn't get it the first time. If you don't do the writing down
         | / repeating most people will lose track of most ideas, the same
         | way most people can't play blind chess and remember all the
         | pieces on the board. It's a comment on mental capacity moreso
         | than manners.
        
           | WastingMyTime89 wrote:
           | As an aside, while I don't do Feynman point regarding some of
           | the exceptional meetings he has been to, as a chairperson my
           | experience is you can significantly improve the meeting by
           | systematically restating arguments, asking for clarification
           | when a participant doesn't agree with your restatement and
           | providing a brief summary of propositions before a decision
           | is made.
        
           | jodrellblank wrote:
           | I don't know anything about uranium separation, but is it
           | possible the situation was not "Arthur Compton has the best
           | idea, nobody needed to repeat it because they all remembered
           | it on one hearing" and was more like "Arthur Compton started
           | the meeting by setting out the main Uranium separation plan
           | we all know well and have been leaning towards for weeks, and
           | everyone lay out their previously hotly argued views and no
           | dealbreakers with better alternatives arose so the committee
           | agreed on the way". Or perhaps that nobody had any stake in
           | doing Uranium separation one way over another way for
           | personal identity reasons?
           | 
           | Perhaps the surprising bit was that they could all agree on
           | the not-ideal method because they needed to move on and the
           | meeting was a formality of agreement and alignment, not a
           | brainstorming fight for your own idea session?
           | 
           | We have another anecdote of Feynman being shown blueprints of
           | a nuclear power plant and he doesn't understand and
           | eventually asks a stupid question about a part, "expecting"
           | to be laughed at and told it's a door, but it turns out to be
           | a valve which could cause a problem if it fails. Nobody else
           | had noticed, implying they were pretending their
           | understanding, and they left thinking he was a great
           | insightful man which he's saying he isn't (but is likely
           | downplaying for comedy as well as humbleness)
        
         | nefitty wrote:
         | It's interesting to me that when I imagine the trope of an
         | idealized executive, I imagine a cold, stonefaced person.
         | 
         | When I imagine a manager, my imagined ideal is a warm and
         | conscientious person.
         | 
         | For individual contributors, I imagine lukewarm and single-
         | minded. For team members, warm and cooperative.
         | 
         | So if most of humanity values warmth, how did executive types
         | end up at the top of the pile? I thought that I would
         | eventually move into executive levels when I was focused on a
         | management career, but the managers I admired who could move
         | their people always seemed distinct from the hardasses who
         | could move mountains. I'm just now realizing this.
         | 
         | Anyways, your comment piqued my interest because of the big
         | impact the mental model of "warm/cold" has had on my social
         | life. I'm more compassionate of cold people because I assume
         | that they just haven't learned that mental model. I also
         | literally sometimes imagine myself as cozy warm to help me open
         | up and welcome in.
        
         | dguest wrote:
         | There are plenty of kind / warn / "great" people who got Tesla
         | and Apple to where they are. They aren't all figureheads, but
         | they are there.
        
         | ricardo81 wrote:
         | For me, it was the 'correctness being unsaid', he was thinking
         | to himself the ideas being shared were running away from what
         | seemed right.
         | 
         | Another interpretation might be that he considers this a rare
         | trait in people.
        
       | PoignardAzur wrote:
       | An idea I'm coming around to is that the "great men" dynamic
       | Feynman is talking about isn't actually a property of individual
       | people, it's situational.
       | 
       | Like, being humble, competent in your field, mature enough to
       | actively listen to other people, etc, all help. But there are
       | also more subtle factors like compatibility, company culture,
       | project parameters, etc, that are also necessary to have that
       | dynamic where everybody cooperates in discussions.
       | 
       | Getting those subtle factors to align is hard, sometimes it's
       | down to conditions you can't control, and it's definitely not as
       | simple as "just" getting great people in a room.
        
         | teddyh wrote:
         | In the words of Richard Hamming:
         | 
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3msMuwqp-o&list=PLctkxgWNSR...
        
           | xiphmont wrote:
           | This is a great recommendation (thanks!) and worth watching.
        
       | csours wrote:
       | Several comments here about what is the missing X factor - why
       | did these guys get along. The quoted story takes place during
       | World War II, and they were developing nuclear technology,
       | specifically The Bomb. It's very easy to look back and criticize
       | the outcome, but AT THE TIME, these people thought that they had
       | to do this to preserve their way of life and defeat evil.
       | 
       | I think this is a critical component of any moonshot - you have
       | to have competition or some motivation that feels like an
       | external compulsion.
        
         | avazhi wrote:
         | Not sure who, besides the Japanese at the time, have really
         | criticised the outcome. Even now the Japanese seem to at least
         | understand why it had to happen. It was the difference between
         | Nazi fascism winning global hegemony or not. I don't think
         | there's a serious argument that it shouldn't have happened.
        
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           | lr1970 wrote:
           | > It was the difference between Nazi fascism winning global
           | hegemony or not. I don't think there's a serious argument
           | that it shouldn't have happened.
           | 
           | By the time nukes were dropped on Japan [0] in August 1945
           | nazi Germany was defeated, the war in Europe ended, Soviets
           | attacked Japanese army in Manchuria [1] on August 9-th -- the
           | day of Nagasaki bombing.
           | 
           | Dropping bombs on Japan had one main purpose - to show the
           | Soviets who is the boss and prevent them from invading and
           | occupying Japan before the USA can do it.
           | 
           | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Atomic_bombings_of_Hiroshim
           | a_a...
           | 
           | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soviet-Japanese_War
        
             | stdbrouw wrote:
             | That's a pretty bizarre reading of history. The Soviet
             | Union declared war on Japan because Stalin had promised
             | Roosevelt and Churchill at the 1943 Tehran conference, so
             | this was not some sort of surprising or unwelcome
             | development.
        
               | lr1970 wrote:
               | It was not surprising for sure, but Truman who succeeded
               | Roosevelt was not keen seeing Russians meddling in Japan
               | when it was already on a brink of defeat and surrender.
               | Nukes can cool off Stalin's appetite quite effectively.
        
               | vkou wrote:
               | The surprising development was just how quickly the
               | Manchurian front collapsed against the Soviet Union. The
               | Kwantung Army, and Japan's ability to continue the war,
               | even in a defensive capability completely fell apart in 7
               | days. Japan was utterly reliant on supplies and raw
               | materials from its Chinese and Korean puppet states.
               | 
               | Between that, and the amphibious attacks against Korea,
               | the Kurils, and Sakhalin, the US was on a pretty short
               | clock to end the war before communism had a chance to
               | move in, and settle down.
               | 
               | Stalin respected the pre-agreed partition of Europe, but
               | neither Postdam, nor Tehran said very much about who
               | would be in control of what part of the Japanese empire
               | after the war... And in practice, this meant that when
               | the war ended, possession, in the form of 'whose army is
               | parked where' was nine tenths of the law.
               | 
               | The United States was not at all interested in seeing an
               | East/West Japan partition. North/South Korea was bad
               | enough.
        
             | andrepd wrote:
             | The atom bomb project was initiated out of a fear that
             | Germany would get it first.
        
               | user-the-name wrote:
               | Which has nothing to do with the question of why the
               | bombs where dropped years later.
        
           | psd1 wrote:
           | I'm not well read on the topic, and I do tend to agree with
           | you, but I can imagine an argument like:
           | 
           | - nuclear threat is a serious cost to productivity and well-
           | being - the bomb merely brought forward a conclusion that was
           | already looking inevitable
           | 
           | There's an obvious counter that some nation likely would have
           | developed nuclear weapons independently - America was merely
           | the first.
           | 
           | Nonetheless, I think it's not a given that the bomb was a
           | positive.
        
           | pegasus wrote:
           | There are very convincing historical arguments on why the
           | bomb was both unnecessary and also why it didn't in fact play
           | any role in Japan's surrender (it sound unlikely, but
           | conventional bombing raids were annihilating Japanese cities
           | at such a clip that Hiroshima and Nagasaki didn't even
           | register as anything different with the decision-making
           | group; they decided to capitulate when the Soviet Union
           | declared war on Japan and all hopes of avoiding unconditional
           | surrender were dashed). Google brings up plenty of reading
           | material.
        
             | pegasus wrote:
             | Adding this link: https://www.latimes.com/opinion/story/202
             | 0-08-05/hiroshima-a...
        
             | kwertyoowiyop wrote:
             | Listen to at least the end of the "Supernova in the East"
             | episodes of Hardcore History.
        
             | PaulHoule wrote:
             | Those arguments decontextualize the war and are self-
             | defeating in that the Allies were willing to give Dresden
             | and other cities a treatment not much different from
             | Hiroshima in the end. At the scale of 2 bombs, the a-bomb
             | was wasn't a revolution in war, that wasn't going to happen
             | until solidly in the mid 1950s where there was a large
             | supply of devices that were practical use.
             | 
             | Another factor was that the U.S. thought it was very
             | possible we'd be going to war with Russia and was slow to
             | demobilize so there was definitely the intent to intimidate
             | the Soviet Union even that early.
        
           | robbomacrae wrote:
           | Plenty do criticize the outcome and with reasonable
           | justification. Your reasoning doesn't take into account that
           | when the nukes were dropped Nazi Germany had already
           | unconditionally surrendered. Sure, it was too costly to
           | invade Japan.. but in retrospect, blockading and sanctioning
           | might have achieved the same goals without indiscriminately
           | obliterating 200,000 innocents.
        
             | Alenycus wrote:
             | A blockade and air raids also causes deaths. The literal
             | name for the blockading operations with mines around Japan
             | was Operation Starvation.
             | 
             | Sometimes there are only bad options available. The bomb
             | was the best choice
        
               | robbomacrae wrote:
               | Thanks for the interesting reading! I took a dive and it
               | turns out Operation Starvation was remarkably effective
               | and arguably should have been used earlier [0]. Also it
               | didn't actually lead to any deaths from starvation [1].
               | Here are some excerpts.
               | 
               | "After the war, the commander of Japan's minesweeping
               | operations noted that he thought this mining campaign
               | could have directly led to the defeat of Japan on its own
               | had it begun earlier. Similar conclusions were reached by
               | American analysts who reported in July 1946 in the United
               | States Strategic Bombing Survey that it would have been
               | more efficient to combine the United States' effective
               | anti-shipping submarine effort with land- and carrier-
               | based air power to strike harder against merchant
               | shipping and begin a more extensive aerial mining
               | campaign earlier in the war. This would have starved
               | Japan, forcing an earlier end to the war." [0]&[2]
               | 
               | "While some of the main actors (the UK, the US, Germany,
               | and Japan) escaped famine..." [1]
               | 
               | "In Britain, Germany, and Japan, rationing was effective;
               | even though food availability was sharply reduced almost
               | everywhere, few literally died of hunger. Britain and
               | Germany managed to maintain food consumption per capita
               | at about 3,000 calories throughout the war. In Japan
               | consumption fell from a norm of 2,000 calories per capita
               | before Pearl Harbor to 1,900 calories in 1944, plummeting
               | to 1,680 calories by the war's end." [1]
               | 
               | 0: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Starvation
               | 
               | 1: https://voxeu.org/article/famines-wwii
               | 
               | 2: https://www.anesi.com/ussbs01.htm
        
             | flerchin wrote:
             | Germany did not unconditionally surrender until Hitler was
             | dead and Berlin was overrun. Japan would have done the
             | same. More than 200k innocents would have died.
        
               | robbomacrae wrote:
               | Hence blockade and sanction. No need to invade.
        
               | dralley wrote:
               | I fail to see how that would have led to a more humane
               | outcome for the civilian population. The military
               | controlled the government, they get first dibs on
               | resources, not the civilian population.
        
               | flerchin wrote:
               | More than 200k still would have died under that scheme as
               | well.
        
               | user-the-name wrote:
               | Would they?
        
               | flerchin wrote:
               | Yes
        
               | user-the-name wrote:
               | And how do you know that?
        
               | flerchin wrote:
               | You're welcome to find the original sources. There are
               | several excellent books on the topic. I suggest using
               | Google to find one that piques your interest. You
               | definitely seem like the type to "do your own research"
               | Mr Just-Asking-Questions guy.
        
               | user-the-name wrote:
               | Why did they need to unconditionally surrender?
        
               | flerchin wrote:
               | Mostly to free Korea, Burma, and China.
        
               | user-the-name wrote:
               | Why would that be needed for that? "Conditional
               | surrender" doesn't mean there are no conditions the other
               | way.
        
               | flerchin wrote:
               | Japan rejected losing the occupied territories.
        
               | user-the-name wrote:
               | And nothing other than murdering thousands of civilians
               | with an atomic bomb could change that?
        
           | pokepim wrote:
        
           | GlennS wrote:
           | Depends what you mean by "the outcome" here.
           | 
           | If you mean developing the bomb, then fine.
           | 
           | If you mean dropping the bomb, then that seems pretty
           | controversial.
           | 
           | I thought it was pretty well established that the USA knew
           | Japan was willing to surrender, but dropped the bomb anyway?
        
             | Banana699 wrote:
             | >If you mean dropping the bomb, then that seems pretty
             | controversial
             | 
             | I honestly see this as a purely gut-level reaction to the
             | astonishing power of the nuclear bomb more than anything
             | about the victims. The casualties of Hiroshima and Nagasaki
             | are but a rounding error next to all those who died by fire
             | bombing, carpet bombing, siege and starvations, and all the
             | other infernos of WW2.
             | 
             | It's not that this makes it okay, it just makes it strange
             | that the bombings get all this attention in popular culture
             | over other much more horrific atrocities and massacres.
             | This was probably an effect of the 1960s/1970s/1980s terror
             | of nuclear projected back on the events of 1945.
        
               | 7952 wrote:
               | Pure gut level reactions do make a difference though. The
               | exact mechanism of threat can make a substantive
               | difference to fear and how an enemy react. The brutal
               | nature of nuclear weapons could be a feature.
        
             | germinalphrase wrote:
             | The speculation I've read is that dropping the bomb was as
             | much about deterring the Russians than preventing a ground
             | invasion of Japan.
        
             | ensignavenger wrote:
             | I have studied this and as yet I am unable to find any
             | evidence that Truman thought Japans surrender was imminent.
             | All evidence I have found seems to point to Truman actually
             | believing that dropping the bomb would save lives- both
             | American and Japanese.
             | 
             | If you have any evidence otherwise, I would be interested
             | in reviewing it.
        
             | alecbz wrote:
             | > the USA knew Japan was willing to surrender, but dropped
             | the bomb anyway?
             | 
             | This is the opposite of what I usually hear? I've heard
             | things about how Japan was getting ready to fight to the
             | last man, starting to arm civilians.
             | 
             | I have heard that the _emperor_ was maybe willing to
             | surrender, but that the country was essentially being run
             | by the military leadership, who would ~never see surrender
             | as an option.
        
               | GlennS wrote:
               | Well, that's what Truman said.
        
             | HWR_14 wrote:
             | I'm pretty sure the US thought that every man between 16
             | and 65 was going to be given a weapon and fight for every
             | inch of Japanese soil. That at the time it was considered
             | likely that we would have to fight a long war of attrition
             | across the island losing hundreds of thousands of Americans
             | and being forced to kill uncountable Japanese conscripts.
        
               | SamReidHughes wrote:
               | We never had to do that. We could have simply not invaded
               | the main islands. Furthermore, we could have offered a
               | peace agreement that ends the war without occupation of
               | Japan.
        
             | me_me_me wrote:
             | If you want to have a comprehensive view of what happened
             | and why things happened, I cannot recommend Dan Carlin's
             | Hardcore History series enough on this topic [0].
             | 
             | The A bomb is extensively discussed late in the series,
             | with shift in the strategy from strategic bombing to mass
             | firebombing as US were preparing the invasion of mainland
             | japan.
             | 
             | TL;DR: > I thought it was pretty well established that the
             | USA knew Japan was willing to surrender, but dropped the
             | bomb anyway?
             | 
             | Simply not true, however answering if Abomb was good move
             | or not, is such a complex and nuanced question you cannot
             | just have a simple statement for or against.
             | 
             | The USA feared the invasion of mainland japan because of
             | the unimaginable looses they would incur. Japan's
             | population was prepared to fight USA with sharpened bamboo
             | stick, and I mean population as in civilians, as in EVERY
             | single person is possibly out to get you. Just imagine what
             | kind of mental damage you would put of your soldiers to
             | have to mow down scores of suicidal civilians. Note that
             | this behaviour was already showing up as US were nearing
             | closer to actual japan.
             | 
             | Also you had USSR freed from fighting nazis having a
             | massive score to settle with japan. Do you want uncle
             | stalin also be involved? (given what happened to west/east
             | germany was it better japan avoided est/west japan split?)
             | 
             | Have a listen to [1] on the accounts of firebombing of
             | Tokyo. It horrendous fate in comparison to A-bomb. On top
             | the horror of slowly burning alive trapped in fire cage
             | there were far more death from firebombings/carpetbombings
             | than Abombs.
             | 
             | [0]https://www.dancarlin.com/product/hardcore-
             | history-62-supern...
             | 
             | [1]https://www.dancarlin.com/product/hardcore-
             | history-67-supern...
        
             | mindcrime wrote:
             | _I thought it was pretty well established that the USA knew
             | Japan was willing to surrender, but dropped the bomb
             | anyway?_
             | 
             | There are a few different theories about this, and still
             | some controversy about it all to this very day as I
             | understand it.
             | 
             | One idea holds that Japan would have surrendered earlier
             | had the Allies not insisted on the abolition of the role of
             | the Emperor (who as I understand it, is something akin to
             | God in Japanese culture). This was apparently a step too
             | far for the Japanese at the time.
             | 
             | Another idea holds that even if the Allies _had_ invaded,
             | the Japanese would have quickly capitulated IF the Russians
             | were part of the invasion. Supposedly Japan was uniquely
             | afraid of Russia at that moment in history, for some
             | reason. I don 't recall now the details behind this
             | suggestion.
             | 
             | I can't say much about the veracity of either position, but
             | those are two themes I've heard repeatedly about the
             | situation.
        
           | IgorPartola wrote:
           | That is wrong. The difference was how quickly Japan would
           | lose the war after Germany was already a non-factor. The cost
           | was how bloody the defeat would be and the calculation was
           | that the bombs would result in fewer lives lost overall.
           | Japan wasn't going to win one way or the other.
        
         | PaulHoule wrote:
         | What I hear is that these people are really listening and
         | paying attention.
         | 
         | In so many normal conversations people are repeating over and
         | over again because they assume it goes in one ear and out the
         | other and they are right.
        
           | gumby wrote:
           | I think most conversations are each person waiting for the
           | other person's mouth to stop moving so they can make their
           | own point. I.e. no listening, just talking. Worse in larger
           | groups.
        
             | ehnto wrote:
             | I find part of the issue is how fleeting opportunities for
             | intimate conversation are. It's been a long time since I've
             | sat down with a drink, a friend and a few hours to kill. I
             | have friends and do a lot of things, but they're all
             | activity based. I do love that, but it can make
             | conversation pretty shallow.
             | 
             | Another part of the issue is the internet, for many
             | reasons, but specifically related to this is that it's
             | killed people's curiosity and their ability to discuss a
             | topic for fun. The internet gives people their opinions,
             | and answers any ambiguity in an instant. Want to know what
             | the best tire for your bike is? No need to discuss it, the
             | internet told them what's correct, case closed.
        
               | helloworld11 wrote:
               | "I find part of the issue is how fleeting opportunities
               | for intimate conversation are. It's been a long time
               | since I've sat down with a drink, a friend and a few
               | hours to kill. I have friends and do a lot of things, but
               | they're all activity based. I do love that, but it can
               | make conversation pretty shallow."
               | 
               | It's rather curious to me to see how others live their
               | lives in ways that they're limited on details that I take
               | for granted as normal and regular. I see many people here
               | describing activities that I haven't done in years or
               | ever too, and then run into something like your comment
               | above, where sitting down with a friend for a drink and a
               | few hours of conversation is a rare thing, though in my
               | case I usually find the time to do it at least once a
               | week to refresh and relax, and have done it without
               | interruptions for years now. Just an observation on these
               | differences between lives in general.
        
               | gumby wrote:
               | Covid has had an effect. I like to do things like ski,
               | backpack and such with my friends. We'd usually drive up
               | together in a car, or couple of cars, which gave time for
               | all sorts of yakking. With Covid you're supposed to take
               | individual cars.
        
           | ineedasername wrote:
           | If the context wasn't WWII then the meeting might have gone
           | very differently. A high level of crisis can tend to focus
           | things a bit. It will, by necessity, bias things towards
           | action when some action is definitively required. At that
           | point the hope is that you stumble upon a moderately
           | effective (or better) course of action and not just one that
           | says, "we have to do something. $X is something, therefore we
           | have to do $X"
           | 
           | In my workplace during the pandemic I have seen this bias
           | towards action play out. New (barely MVP) systems and
           | integrations build in a week that would have been a year to
           | get to the same point normally. A yes, there were a few
           | nonsense "$action must be done" as well, but we managed the
           | crisis too.
        
             | HWR_14 wrote:
             | You're missing the point of the story. It wasn't "bias
             | toward action". It was "the point was made once sat the
             | beginning of a long meeting, never brought up again, and
             | ended up being considered the right outcome at the end."
             | That is, what made the meeting exciting was that everyone
             | presented an opinion, did it one time, and retained what
             | everyone else said.
        
               | ineedasername wrote:
               | Yes, and I'm saying that if it weren't a war crisis that
               | meeting may have played out very differently. And I'm
               | saying that meetings today, now & throughout the COVID
               | crisis, have played out very differently than before,
               | resembling that of the linked article more closely.
               | 
               | There has certainly been more discussion & review of
               | options than in the linked article, more debating of
               | relative merits. But, then again, the circumstances I've
               | been working through in my organization are not as clear
               | cut as the optimal method of extracting a substance where
               | there are discrete known facts. And the people involved
               | have been experts in varying domains, not all physicists
               | or related backgrounds where the merits of an opinion can
               | be understood by the others without more discussion. Also
               | this was one meeting: I doubt that every meeting among
               | the people in the article all went so smoothly, with
               | never debate or need for someone to rearticulate or
               | expand their explanation of a point of view.
               | 
               | Please note that I am not saying these men weren't great,
               | and that the group dynamic Feynman describes isn't at
               | least partly indicative of their level of intelligence.
               | What I am saying is that the group dynamic described is
               | not unique to people of towering genius. Having weathered
               | many crisis (to be sure none on the scale of WW II) my
               | observation is that this group dynamic cannot be
               | disentangled from the crisis context and _only_ --
               | somewhat simplistically-- attributed to "these were great
               | men". Greatness of mind is not a universal panacea for
               | indecision and uncertainly. Crisis on the other hand
               | forces people to push through those things.
        
           | Cthulhu_ wrote:
           | There was a really good TED talk at some point about
           | effective communication - and probably books as well - where
           | points in your comment and other sibling ones were addressed;
           | repeating oneself was one of them, it assumes the other party
           | wasn't listening. Not listening was another one, either
           | through distraction or because of waiting for their turn to
           | speak.
           | 
           | I've seen it a lot in meetings, part of it is excitement,
           | people really eager to bring their Knowledge to the table, or
           | that they need to get things out of their system before the
           | conversation goes somewhere else.
           | 
           | I think there should be a lot more formalized meetings, in
           | the sense that people are coached to finish one sentence /
           | idea before moving on to the next, to ensure that all voices
           | are heard, etc.
        
             | PaulHoule wrote:
             | I think about how to get better at it a lot.
             | 
             | I worked at a mediation center with a woman (a founder) who
             | could listen to two people talk about a dispute for 90
             | minutes, not take any notes, listen carefully and make a
             | detailed verbal summary of what the people said. It amazed
             | me.
             | 
             | I was in a call just now where there was a knock-down drag-
             | out discussion going on that we've had before. It was
             | tempting to disengage, daydream. I was waiting to write
             | this comment the whole time but was able to stop it because
             | it was worth listening to the group which is the only way
             | out of the impasse. I find myself asking, "What is it going
             | take for this person to feel heard?" (I wish I could just
             | ask them that!)
             | 
             | David Snyder is a hypnotist who makes videos on Youtube and
             | he says that if you want people to feel mirrored it's
             | powerful to remember and be able to repeat what the person
             | said using the same words in the same order. Even if there
             | is a place for paraphrasing, the more exact you can be the
             | more certain you can be heard.
             | 
             | We were having a stoned discussion at my house and my son
             | was feeling that people were talking over him so I cleared
             | off the whiteboard and summarized what he said. I was not
             | going to "lose" and let him walk away saying that I hadn't
             | listened to him. Sometimes he got really upset when I made
             | him pause so I could take a picture of the board and clear
             | it but I didn't stop until he didn't have anything more to
             | say and he acknowledged that he'd been heard.
             | 
             | I have an ideal of working towards of being able to offer
             | people an unreasonable level of mirroring because of the
             | power it has for drawing people in. I know I can't be
             | perfect at it and can't expect perfect mirroring for others
             | but I try to imagine there's no limit to how good I can do
             | it.
             | 
             | I was at a party the other day and a woman tried to flatter
             | me based on a superficial thing about my intelligence and
             | my first reaction was "Yuck! I've always felt my
             | intelligence was something that separated me from other
             | people. I'd appreciate it if somebody said I was funny or
             | brave and probably not be able to think straight if
             | somebody said I was handsome, but..." I had to step back
             | and try to appreciate the sentiment but I thought about it
             | and thought some more and decided I'd rather not make that
             | mistake when I'm trying to seduce someone.
             | 
             | I see a lot of people at the gym who have their bodies on
             | display but are really defended and I don't feel I could
             | talk to anybody about their superficial characteristics. I
             | am only going to talk to somebody if I can show I really
             | saw something about them that was personal, unique and
             | touches me.
             | 
             | There's one lady who really whoops it up when the Baltimore
             | Ravens are playing on Sunday and that's one of the very few
             | people I can talk to because boy I know she is crazy about
             | football!
        
         | jdrc wrote:
         | Also, these were _the only_ guys who were trying seriously,
         | they were on a mission,and in a military environment
        
         | searealist wrote:
         | An alternative theory is that they all got along because they
         | were mostly Ashkenazi Jews from central Europe, especially
         | Hungary.
        
       | narrator wrote:
       | If I want to make a serious effort to know the truth of a
       | controversial matter, I make it a point to argue without using
       | fallacies or relying on cognitive biases. This kind of arguing
       | tends to work better in traditional forums instead of newsy
       | forums like HN and Reddit. One can spend a long time researching
       | one's argument and come back several days later with a well
       | researched and formed argument and bump the thread back to the
       | top. In HN and Reddit, by the time one has done this research,
       | everyone has moved on.
        
       | max_ wrote:
       | >It was such a shock to me to see that a committee of men could
       | present a whole lot of ideas, each one thinking of a new facet,
       | while remembering what the other fella said, so that, at the end,
       | the decision is made as to which idea was the best---summing it
       | all up---without having to say it three times.
       | 
       | Can we attribute this to the fact that in physics, everything can
       | be validated mathematically? Hence less room for debate.
        
         | zb wrote:
         | No, because he's clearly describing an engineering problem, not
         | a physics problem.
        
           | hallway_monitor wrote:
           | Right, so it can be validated experimentally, but this team
           | had a real goal and a real deadline. To succeed they needed
           | to get things as right as possible as quickly as possible.
           | They needed to be efficient.
        
       | somishere wrote:
       | Honestly, my reading of this wasn't as clear cut as most of the
       | other comments here. That said, I'm a devotee of the likes of
       | Evelyn Waugh and Joseph Heller .. satirists both
        
       | W0lf wrote:
       | In my experience (and coming just out of a meeting alike) these
       | types of respectful and forward-moving meetings are typically in
       | a case where each attendant has roughly the same level expertise
       | in a given domain and knows the basics of scientific principles.
       | Hence, everybody in the meeting brings in his or her unique view
       | of the topic at hand and knows intrinsically when it makes sense
       | to contribute something to the discussion. Usually things get out
       | of hands, if somebody is talking just for the noise or, and this
       | is worse, a clearly bad idea wins the discussion because politics
       | or the messenger has shouted the loudest.
        
         | cousin_it wrote:
         | Maybe it's not necessary for everyone to be at the same level,
         | you just need to have everyone knowing everyone else's level
         | and be humble about it. "Bob says the tractor can't pull this
         | load, and he knows more about tractors than I do."
        
         | systemvoltage wrote:
         | Even if participants have same level of domain understanding,
         | it takes more to be willing to work towards a solution _without
         | their egos, their achievements, their alpha-ness_ getting in
         | the way. I've seen the opposite more often than not. Where I do
         | see this level of camaraderie is amongst close friends who know
         | better about each other.
        
           | darkerside wrote:
           | Two keys here I think. One is the way the team was built. The
           | people selected had truly remarkable skills in their own
           | domains such that everyone already had the respect of others.
           | There was nothing to prove in part because the team fit
           | together so well. Big credit should go to the person or
           | people who selected the team.
           | 
           | Second is the chairman facilitating who didn't controlled the
           | conversation, didn't leave time for bullshit, and probably
           | had a very tight agenda.
        
           | sockpuppet69 wrote:
        
           | GuB-42 wrote:
           | I think experts naturally tend to befriend each other, for
           | the simple reason that they are the only one who can
           | understand each other. And that even when there is rivalry in
           | the ideas.
           | 
           | Maybe being alone at the top is good for the ego, and some
           | people like that, but it is also boring. If you are at the
           | top in some field, is is probably your passion, something you
           | want to talk about all day, but no one understands you, you
           | feel like you are talking to babies, repeating "obvious"
           | things over and over. On the opposite, you can't find anyone
           | to teach anything new to you, being a pioneer is nice, but if
           | you get stuck, you can't count on anyone but yourself, and it
           | can become tedious.
           | 
           | So, when you finally meet someone on your level, it is
           | someone you want to keep. At last, you can talk with someone
           | who understand you, who can provide a meaningful input, and
           | even teach you a thing or two. And even if there is some
           | rivalry, you have a worthy opponent, not an annoyance.
        
           | Cthulhu_ wrote:
           | It's also important for each participant to not be afraid to
           | not be heard. I feel like that's a big issue in a lot of
           | meetings, especially between developers, where it often feels
           | like people are interrupting each other and talking over each
           | other, where the strongest opinion wins, instead of letting
           | each other finish and waiting your turn to speak. It
           | reinforces people's tendency to talk over each other - "if I
           | don't jump in now, the conversation will have moved on" -
           | while at the same time reinforces less verbal / confident
           | people to just keep their opinion to themselves while others
           | talk over each other.
           | 
           | Don't hesitate to call others out for their behaviour, as it
           | occurs. And involve those who seem to be withdrawn or quiet,
           | ask them about their opinion and input. It takes concerted
           | efforts, if not coaching and training, to get out of that
           | habit.
        
             | foobarian wrote:
             | There used to be meetings where I wished we could have
             | installed those campaign debate buttons that buzz when
             | someone's time is up. It could be infuriating. I have high
             | hopes that remote meeting software will grow features like
             | this eventually.
        
           | 317070 wrote:
           | Overheard on such a meeting yesterday: "Well, an alternative
           | would be to use the coordinate system named after me."
           | 
           | I feel these meetings work best when there is no career
           | pressure, but when people have aligned goals and just want to
           | make progress. It's easier to leave good points unsaid if
           | everyone prefers having any conclusion to having no
           | conclusion.
        
             | avazhi wrote:
             | Can you get Descartes' autograph for me? Thx
        
               | 317070 wrote:
               | I don't want to dox the professor that uttered the quote,
               | but he was talking about these coordinates ;-)
               | http://fusionwiki.ciemat.es/wiki/Boozer_coordinates
        
               | psd1 wrote:
               | It could also have been Dr Polar
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | I suspect the men in the feynman meeting had been rigorously or
         | even ruthlessly chosen to form an effective group (for such an
         | important mission)
        
         | foobarian wrote:
         | I suspect it may partly also be cultural for that segment of
         | people. Repeating yourself at seminars or other academic
         | meetings was highly frowned upon in several instances I've
         | seen, it was not just greatness/respect/intrinsic etc.
         | 
         | Perhaps sufficient greatness of attention span is a
         | prerequisite to remember what everyone has said since the start
         | of the meeting :-)
        
       | mseepgood wrote:
        
         | juanci_to wrote:
         | Maybe I don't know the necessary context, what is the point you
         | are trying to make with this statement?
        
       | KKKKkkkk1 wrote:
       | Narrator: What these guys didn't know is that Compton talked it
       | over with the chair before the meeting.
       | 
       | If you've worked in a bureaucracy, you'll know that the important
       | decisions are not made in meetings.
        
       | elb2020 wrote:
       | Judging from his book, Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman, he was
       | not a very modest person himself, with regard to his own
       | accomplishments and ideas, maybe that's why he was shocked by the
       | modesty and restraint of other men with (presumably) similarly
       | great talents.
        
         | mrjangles wrote:
         | for some reason, a great many people on the internet don't seem
         | to understand that it is not "his book". It was written after
         | his death by his friend.
        
           | pacman128 wrote:
           | It was published 3 years before his death. https://en.wikiped
           | ia.org/wiki/Surely_You%27re_Joking,_Mr._Fe...!
        
             | mrjangles wrote:
             | Oh wow my mistake. Yes it is actually the sequel "what do
             | you care what other people think" that was written after
             | his death.
             | 
             | Yeah knowing he wrote it, I guess it does come off a little
             | more egotistical than I at first assumed. Still a good book
             | though.
        
         | dhbradshaw wrote:
         | I think you have to distinguish between being socially humble
         | and being humble about truth.
         | 
         | Feynman was humble in that he tried to learn what was true
         | instead of assuming that he already knew. He was always looking
         | to improve his understanding.
         | 
         | Being humble in the search for truth can sometimes even seem
         | arrogant socially. It means that you'll regularly question not
         | only your own beliefs but those of other people as well.
        
           | dralley wrote:
           | >Being humble in the search for truth can sometimes even seem
           | arrogant socially. It means that you'll regularly question
           | not only your own beliefs but those of other people as well.
           | 
           | Although according to Murray Gell-Mann, Feynman might have
           | gone a bit too far in that regard
           | 
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rnMsgxIIQEE
        
         | vixen99 wrote:
         | Doesn't it depend on whether you feel he had a substantially
         | realistic view as to his talents or not? Few would disagree
         | that he was correct on that score. Moreover Feynman told a
         | number of stories against himself - of how he turned out to be
         | quite wrong about something. We may agree that false modesty is
         | not much better than hyping one's non-existent qualities.
        
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