[HN Gopher] Sleep quality and consistency associated with better...
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       Sleep quality and consistency associated with better academic
       performance (2019)
        
       Author : wallopingfuture
       Score  : 161 points
       Date   : 2022-01-26 10:54 UTC (12 hours ago)
        
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       | Maxburn wrote:
       | In the middle of my life I am grateful that I've finally worked
       | out a decent sleep system. It took a lot more than people realize
       | but diet, exercise, regular schedule, stress management, and
       | bedroom environment all played sometimes surprisingly important
       | factors. Worst part is it's going to be different for everyone,
       | but IMO totally worth the potential years to figure it out. Only
       | advice I can offer is to use the scientific method, keep
       | everything as static as possible and change one thing at a time
       | but to get a real impression of that one thing changing it might
       | take a couple weeks.
        
         | bradlys wrote:
         | When you get down to that many details - it's no longer sleep
         | management but life management. You've had to completely rework
         | your entire life in order to somehow get this one aspect of
         | your life to be better.
         | 
         | Which is good for you but doesn't seem completely reasonable
         | for everyone.
         | 
         | I wish people realized that level of change is just beyond
         | reasonable for most folks out there. There are too many things
         | that are outside of control for folks. A lot of them due to
         | financial troubles and there's nothing they can realistically
         | do in the next few years about it. Maybe they get themselves a
         | better paying job and so forth but that might take a decade
         | until it's sufficient. Even then - they suffer more for the
         | whole decade of their life.
        
           | Maxburn wrote:
           | Edit; maybe a quick hack would be Steve Gibson's "healthy
           | seep formula". I use it sometimes during the week when I know
           | stress is a factor and I have trouble shutting down.
           | https://www.grc.com/health/sleep/healthy_sleep_formula.htm
        
           | Maxburn wrote:
           | If you are only looking for a quick fix to sleep you are
           | correct. I would argue that decent sleep was almost
           | incidental to all the other positive changes taking care of
           | yourself will make in a persons life. It's a holistic
           | everything is connected philosophy.
        
         | caskstrength wrote:
         | Can you give more details? In such discussions there are always
         | a lot of people who struggle with this but very few who
         | actually succeeded in fixing their sleep.
        
           | Maxburn wrote:
           | I think personally diet and exercise made the biggest impact.
           | A diet that works for your body not your ideology, lots of
           | real experimentation needed here and stop ignoring how you
           | feel. For me getting off of carbs and doing light keto seems
           | to be what my body wants.
           | 
           | Mix in some light exercise. Nothing crazy here, with all the
           | health tracking available these days just aim for the
           | minimums shown there. Doesn't have to be every day, just
           | shoot for the majority of the week.
           | 
           | You might be shocked at how improving these two makes a
           | difference. Do not take these to extremes, just aim for a
           | better baseline than what you are doing now.
           | 
           | Also I'm speaking as an american here, and I was especially
           | bad in these two areas. YMMV.
        
             | caskstrength wrote:
             | Thanks for sharing. Never thought that carbs could
             | significantly impact sleep quality.
        
               | clydethefrog wrote:
               | For me it mostly helps avoiding any food, and
               | specifically carbs, a few hours before going to sleep. I
               | guess otherwise the body wants to stay more awake to
               | digest the food.
        
               | Maxburn wrote:
               | Very true, once I got adapted to carb free I generally
               | don't eat dinner now. A small snack if I want but nothing
               | heavy really helps sleep quite a bit.
        
           | manmal wrote:
           | For me, Melatonin (just 300mcg, a very small dose) and
           | cutting out caffeine and chocolate are sometimes required.
           | 
           | Two less obvious things that work for me:
           | 
           | - Massage the back of my neck rigorously before sleep.
           | Probably this improves blood flow to the brain.
           | 
           | - Unlock the window handle slightly, to get a constant flow
           | of air towards the head. Probably I need more oxygen (or
           | lower CO2) than usual because this doesn't work for my wife.
        
             | Maxburn wrote:
             | Good call on the chocolate, caffeine is pretty obvious but
             | a lot would take forever to figure out chocolate.
             | 
             | I have tinnitus so a fan is an absolute must for background
             | noise but I also find the air movement pleasant.
        
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           | scruple wrote:
           | I'm one such person. I've had multiple sleep studies
           | performed over my adult life and none of them found anything
           | substantial / actionable, yet I would wake every morning
           | feeling like I hadn't slept at all, like I hadn't recovered.
           | 
           | Blackout curtains _and_ a comfortable sleep mask.
           | 
           | A comfortable pillow.
           | 
           | Cleaning up my diet.
           | 
           | My phone goes on "wellbeing mode" at 9pm every night.
           | 
           | I get into bed consistently between 9 and 10pm and I read for
           | 60-90 minutes every night before falling asleep.
           | 
           | I follow a consistent, no excuses, strength and conditioning
           | training program.
           | 
           | Happy to expand on any of this.
           | 
           | I would add that I am in my early 40s and that we have 3
           | children in the house that are under 3 years old. There are
           | complications here, but, despite that, all of the above
           | remains in place, and I actually feel rested today and like I
           | am recovering when I sleep.
        
             | bradhoffman wrote:
             | What was your experimentation process like? I am in bed for
             | 9-10 hours a night but only 3-5% of my sleep is deep. It's
             | awfully frustrating because of mood swings and inability to
             | focus. I've been trying for a couple years now, but can't
             | nail anything down.
        
               | scruple wrote:
               | It was a slow, frustrating process. I'd reckon that, for
               | me, 80% of it is nutrition and exercise and the other 20%
               | is sleep hygiene (and I would include some specific
               | supplementation in the hygiene category). I believe that
               | consistency with the major contributing factors is where
               | I found long-term success. The minor factors are there to
               | aid the major ones.
               | 
               | I used to wear sleep trackers to bed and I also had
               | (have?) very poor deep sleep. I've left the sleep
               | trackers out of the equation for a couple of years now,
               | so I can't really comment on where I am today, other than
               | to say that I wake up feeling refreshed. A little groggy,
               | for sure, but I don't feel extreme fatigue like I used
               | to.
               | 
               | I don't like making drive-by, blanket recommendations
               | about this stuff when it starts to wade into medical
               | advice / specific nutrition or supplementation, but... My
               | last sleep study (way back in early 2016) pointed me in
               | the direction of blood work. There was a thought that I
               | may have thyroid dysfunction (I don't, or at least I
               | didn't). I understand that it's fairly common and is a
               | source for sleep troubles for many.
               | 
               | I'd also encourage you to look into ZMA or zinc
               | supplementation if you're an active person. I don't have
               | any specific sources that I can point you to,
               | unfortunately. There's a little controversy here, too, to
               | be aware of, because there is a lot of marketing hype
               | around ZMA, about it being a "testosterone booster" (a
               | zinc deficiency will lower your testosterone, hence
               | supplementing it "boosts" your testosterone) and also in
               | terms of the recommended dosages (zinc has an
               | antagonistic relationship with copper, iron, and
               | magnesium -- you can easily overdo it and create other
               | mineral deficiencies). Having said that, and again just
               | speaking for myself, I think that ZMA or zinc alone,
               | _after everything else was in place_ , is _the thing_
               | that pushed my sleep quality over the edge from  "meets
               | goals" to "exceeds expectations".
               | 
               | I really, really want to make it abundantly clear that I
               | don't think taking ZMA or zinc before bedtime will work
               | for people that don't have these other major factors in
               | place and/or don't have a (training-induced) deficiency
               | to begin with.
               | 
               | In terms of my experimentation process... I didn't keep a
               | notebook but I can sort of walk you down the path that I
               | took.
               | 
               | I started with exercise but for years I was only doing
               | cardio. I was a competitive distance runner from 12 to 18
               | and then maintained the habit until I was 25. Then I
               | abruptly stopped running. I picked it back up at 32.
               | Distance running specifically because I really knew
               | nothing else. In my late 30s, I picked up strength
               | training. Today, I maintain a clear balance between
               | strength and conditioning. Endurance work is only used to
               | develop or maintain specific physiological adaptations.
               | 
               | Also around that 32 mark, I realized that frequent
               | alcohol consumption wasn't doing me any favors. Of course
               | I already knew this but I wasn't serious about it before
               | this point. Today, I try to strictly limit alcohol intake
               | to Friday / Saturday evenings with limits of no more than
               | 3 drinks per night and no alcohol after ~8:30-9pm. I'd
               | wager that I average 2-4 drinks per week today and I find
               | that this doesn't appreciably impact my sleep.
               | 
               | I also noticed a big difference when I started to tap the
               | brakes on my caffeine intake. Dr. Walker's book on sleep,
               | which also comes with it's own controversy, highlighted
               | something very important to me: The quarter-life on
               | caffeine is ~12 hours. That realization was enough to get
               | me to take rate limiting caffeine seriously.
               | 
               | By the time we had our twins, I was 38. I had dialed in
               | my nutrition and exercise to a healthy place at this
               | point. But my sleep quality was still lacking. I knew
               | that I needed to really focus on it if I was going to
               | survive the first few years of multiple young children.
               | That's when I started to look into hygiene factors.
               | 
               | I run hot. Higher body temperatures can disrupt sleep. I
               | stopped eating after 8pm. We bought "cooling" sheets. I
               | started to sleep with a lightweight comforter. I started
               | wearing cotton boxers and socks to bed. We invested in a
               | fairly expensive mattress. I started to actually feel
               | _comfortable_ in our bed. I also invested in a pillow
               | that didn 't leave me waking up with a tight, sore neck.
               | The sheets, comforter, and pillow went through a trial
               | and error process.
               | 
               | One of our twins is highly susceptible to sleep
               | disruptions from light. Once we figured that out, we
               | outfitted our bedroom (they were still sleeping in their
               | cribs in our room at that time) with blackout curtains.
               | That made an immediately noticeable difference. Waking up
               | that following morning, my wife and I both looked at each
               | other and wondered why we'd waited so long. Now every
               | bedroom in our home has blackout shades or curtains.
               | 
               | It's an agonizingly slow process. And I think it's also
               | very subjective, especially the nutrition and exercise
               | pieces. I'm not sure if you're familiar with Dr. Andrew
               | Huberman but he has his own podcast, as well as multiple
               | podcast appearances, where he gets into improving sleep /
               | sleep quality. I'd recommend checking those out. Should
               | be easy enough to find on YouTube.
        
           | nerdponx wrote:
           | In my case, I needed to eliminate a medical problem first. My
           | sleep problems resolved when I was diagnosed with celiac
           | disease and I stopped eating gluten.
           | 
           | Now any sleep problems I have are entirely because I stay up
           | too damn late sometimes. That's effectively an "emotion
           | management" problem, which for me is alleviated by getting
           | regular exercise, eating well, meditation, etc.
        
       | diatone wrote:
       | The results are interesting. It seems like there is a lot of
       | clustering going on in the regression data. It could be worth
       | investigating if instead of a _linear_ relationship between sleep
       | quality and consistency with academic performance, there is a
       | _logarithmic_ (or some other superlinear) relationship instead.
       | This would help confirm the intuitive notion that there are
       | diminishing returns to optimising one 's sleep.
        
         | contravariant wrote:
         | You'll want to have a stronger link before you can worry about
         | what kind of relation it is exactly. And if you ignore the
         | people with scores <60% you lose most of the correlation
         | entirely, which to me suggest there's something causing both
         | bad sleep and bad academic performance rather than there being
         | some continuous relation. In fact the distribution looks
         | bimodal which suggests there's something splitting the
         | population in 2.
        
           | alisonkisk wrote:
           | Binodality appears in feedback loops: bad sleep makes good
           | sleep harder to get.
        
       | troydavis wrote:
       | The URL should be changed to the actual post:
       | https://www.nature.com/articles/s41539-019-0055-z
        
       | bserge wrote:
        
       | someelephant wrote:
       | lower anxiety => higher sleep quality => higher academic
       | performance
       | 
       | poverty => higher anxiety => lower life performance
       | 
       | higher instagram use => lower baseline dopamine => higher anxiety
       | => lower life performance
        
         | tinyhouse wrote:
         | I agree. Anxiety has a huge impact on sleep. A lot of sleep
         | experts focus on sleep hygiene which is important but not very
         | helpful when anxiety is the main cause for the sleep problems.
         | Sometimes people are not even aware of the problem cause
         | anxiety can trickle in very subtly.
        
       | janandonly wrote:
       | No shit, Sherlock.
       | 
       | But seriously, as a society as a whole, we undervalue sleep. By
       | using an app [1] I've noticed that i sleep less than i thought i
       | did. The thing is, i might be in bed 8,5 hours, but i only fall
       | asleep after an hour or so, and also, i seem to wake up during
       | the night.
       | 
       | No wonder my academic performance is lacking...
       | 
       | [1] https://apps.apple.com/nl/app/sleep-cycle-sleep-
       | tracker/id32...
        
         | Tenoke wrote:
         | There's no reason to think that 7-730 hours is so little for
         | you that it's hurting your performance if it's just based on
         | those measures. Don't give yourself sleep anxiety over
         | pointless chasing of 9 hours sleep.
        
       | topkai22 wrote:
       | A) This is probably casual, because sleep is good B) The most
       | interesting part is that sleep the night before exams wasn't
       | associated with any change to grades. This actually suggests to
       | me that sleep in and of itself is less casual and more correlated
       | to general lifestyle choices. I recall my college freshman year
       | in particular to be full of temptations and distractions.
        
         | jvanderbot wrote:
         | My take is that sleep the night before doesn't help you a whole
         | bunch, or not nearly as much as sleep while you are learning
         | the material. (i.e., consistent, quality sleep leading up to
         | exams).
        
         | LeifCarrotson wrote:
         | It could still be correlative; 'lifestyle choices' are
         | basically the definition of correlation not causation. Or were
         | you being sarcastic?
         | 
         | For another (probably unhelpful) anecdote, got great grades in
         | my senior year of college when I had a scholarship. One
         | semester in my junior year I took 18 credits and also worked 32
         | hours a week through a 45-minute-one-way commute...I got very
         | little sleep and my grades suffered for it. The primary things
         | I learned that year were (1) don't over-commit yourself, (2)
         | make a schedule and stick to it if you need to get the bare
         | minimum done and don't have time to do everything, (3) you
         | don't actually have to attend every lecture or turn in/complete
         | every assignment to pass a class, (4) long commutes suck, and
         | (5) a little bit of VHDL syntax stuck around was about the only
         | thing I learned in those classes. My bad grades were not caused
         | by poor sleep, poor sleep was a side effect of a larger issue
         | (namely, the perpetual problem of money).
        
       | tpoacher wrote:
       | Bad sleep quality associated with an increased risk of starting
       | to drink coffee! Rejections at bars associated with an increased
       | risk of ugliness! Overloaded servers associated with HN article
       | voting! Wrinkles associated with an increased risk of ageing!
       | Tendency to reject loaded titles implying causality is associated
       | with an increased risk of studying statistics! Facial bruises
       | associated with an increased risk of punches!
        
       | ryannevius wrote:
       | Something that has been revolutionary for me has been to set a
       | _bed time_ alarm, instead of (or in addition to) a morning alarm.
        
         | maccard wrote:
         | It's not bed time for me, it's wind down time. I can reliably
         | get into bed for 11:30 every night, but how quickly I fall
         | asleep depends on what I was doing at 10:30
        
       | Sahilchopramd wrote:
       | This article stimulated an interesting discussion. Sleep problems
       | are very fixable/treatable. Improving sleep starts with objective
       | good quality sleep data- a sleep test. FDA grade multi night
       | sleep test give us great insight into sleep to rule out sleep
       | disorders (over 80% of people are usually not aware). Using data
       | from a sleep test allows clinicians to guide us on what would be
       | the most effective intervention to improve sleep. I work at
       | empowersleep.com; it's a digital sleep health platform. Not
       | selling here but, I see so many people suffering I felt obligated
       | to share there are solutions and guidance to better sleep. Just
       | for context, I'm a board certified Harvard trained sleep doctor.
       | We've helped thousands of people improve their sleep.
        
       | sovietmudkipz wrote:
       | I want a better sleep schedule but not bad enough to put it into
       | practice. My day is full of stuff, and when my wife goes to sleep
       | is when I feel like it's finally quiet enough to get some
       | programming done. Or do whatever I want.
       | 
       | My sleep cycle is that I go 4 days until I have to take a longer
       | sleep (10 hours) and the rest of the time I operate on 6-7 hours
       | of sleep. I usually wake up at 7-7:30 and I usually go to bed at
       | 12-1 or 9-10 on my long sleep days. It's inconsistent and I worry
       | about that fact.
       | 
       | The biggest blocker for me is my time alone and distraction free.
       | I like and want distractions to be gone when I work on personal
       | projects. Early morning doesn't get me that as my wife wakes up
       | at 5:15 (maybe if I woke up at 4?). If she's up and I'm up there
       | are interactions which is great. And then there's text messages
       | from friends and family and work chat all day. I can mute both
       | and do but it's there, beckoning me for my attention. To take my
       | focus...
       | 
       | Look I know what the answer is for me. I need to replace work
       | time with project time. My life would be in more balance if I had
       | my 9-5 chunk of time where I do what I like doing (vs work stuff)
       | so I don't feel like I'm living 3 lives in a single day.
       | 
       | That implies my personal projects make enough money to have a
       | family on. Not true now so the grind continues.
        
         | Little_Fish wrote:
         | I know what you mean - never enough time in the day. I'm also
         | based in Spain and they are all night owls, which doesn't
         | help...
        
         | adflux wrote:
         | Maybe consider working 32hours and project on friday?
        
         | PragmaticPulp wrote:
         | > I want a better sleep schedule but not bad enough to put it
         | into practice
         | 
         | This sums up the issue. Most people could get decent sleep if
         | they wanted to or even made a basic effort, but their current
         | poor-sleep compromise isn't bad enough to make them want to
         | give anything up. Or they don't understand what they're losing
         | because it has been so long since they tried a reasonable sleep
         | schedule.
         | 
         | > That implies my personal projects make enough money to have a
         | family on. Not true now so the grind continues.
         | 
         | Consider giving up the side projects for a month or two. Side
         | projects are one of the topics where people think they're going
         | to miss it more than they actually do. A month or two of total
         | disconnectedness won't sink your side projects, but it's long
         | enough to test the waters of a healthier sleep schedule.
         | 
         | You may find that after getting your sleep under control, your
         | daily efficiency and energy levels improve such that you're
         | getting your work done faster, spending more quality time with
         | your spouse, and ultimately freeing up a nice slot of usable
         | free time in the day that could spend on side projects without
         | wrecking your sleep schedule.
        
           | rkk3 wrote:
           | >> I want a better sleep schedule but not bad enough to put
           | it into practice
           | 
           | > This sums up the issue. Most people could get decent sleep
           | if they wanted to or even made a basic effort
           | 
           | Agreed.
           | 
           | > but their current poor-sleep compromise isn't bad enough to
           | make them want to give anything up. Or they don't understand
           | what they're losing because it has been so long since they
           | tried a reasonable sleep schedule.
           | 
           | I think that just like with Diet or Exercise with sleep the
           | feedback loops are longer/delayed and that stops people from
           | engaging in overwhelmingly healthy behavior - because the
           | habit is harder to form.
        
           | ouid wrote:
           | I think that there's a reasonable definition of "healthy
           | sleep schedule" in "any sleep schedule you can maintain
           | without an alarm clock (and also maybe stimulants).
        
             | DerArzt wrote:
             | If we go by that metric, then the entire modern world has
             | been built such that nobody will have a "healthy sleep
             | schedule". I have to start work when I start work
             | regardless of when I would be best suited to rising without
             | my morning alarm.
        
           | echelon wrote:
           | I have never been efficient enough with more sleep. The hours
           | simply disappear into the ether.
           | 
           | Running on 4-7 hours of sleep (with intermittent 10 hour
           | catch up days) has let me build and launch a lot of stuff.
           | 
           | - https://fakeyou.com
           | 
           | - A vtubing engine for virtual production (film, improv,
           | streaming)
           | 
           | - https://storyteller.io , tools for streamers (in-stream
           | TTS, deepfaked gifs, a voxel camera), which should be done
           | this weekend
           | 
           | I don't think I could prepare for YC or any other sort of
           | funding any other way, short of quitting my other
           | responsibilities. There's not enough time in the day, so you
           | have to give up something.
           | 
           | I'll sleep more when I'm funded or when I'm dead, basically.
        
           | sandworm101 wrote:
           | >> if they wanted to or even made a basic effort
           | 
           | For a great many people their sleep schedule is not something
           | they control. You have to work when your boss needs you to
           | work. The specific hours you sleep on a given day will change
           | randomly (ie I had to be in at 0500 rather than my normal
           | 0630 today).
           | 
           | >> such that you're getting your work done faster
           | 
           | So? Lots of people (most people?) work in jobs where speed is
           | largely irrelevant. Working faster just means doing or being
           | assigned more work, not going home sooner or getting any more
           | free time for sleep.
        
         | YuukiRey wrote:
         | This perfectly describes my situation as well. I've been
         | pondering this subject for some time now but I don't see a way
         | out. In my case I could get that focus time if I simply got rid
         | of almost all of my hobbies and interests. That way it would be
         | feasible to dedicate 1 or 2 hours per day to the disciplined
         | pursuit of just a single activity. But that's about it.
         | 
         | The other day I had what I consider an extremely disciplined
         | day. I woke up at 7am, was at the bouldering gym at 8am, went
         | straight to work from that at 10:00am and worked until maybe
         | 6:00pm. Then I went home, immediately started to make food and
         | took care of some tax stuff, planning for upcoming vacations,
         | and so on.
         | 
         | At the end this leaves me with more or less no time for
         | anything on that day. So essentially bouldering in the morning
         | was my theme on that day and that's it. But of course I don't
         | want to accept this and then I'm disappointed that I didn't
         | dedicate any time to my 5 other hobbies.
        
           | the_af wrote:
           | > _In my case I could get that focus time if I simply got rid
           | of almost all of my hobbies and interests._
           | 
           | The problem is that the human mind doesn't work like this.
           | You're interested in the stuff you're interested in, and your
           | brain is probably wired to find interesting things.
           | 
           | If you simply say "I'll work during business hours, then
           | spend time with my family, then sleep" you're probably going
           | to be healthy... and disappointed. You cannot switch off your
           | brain, some friend or acquaintance will show you something
           | they did and suddenly it's on again -- you have a new hobby!
           | 
           | Note I don't give side-projects in the sense of "I could make
           | a living out of this" a real consideration. That's what my
           | regular work hours are for. I want to spend the rest of my
           | time doing things I enjoy, not simply look for an angle to
           | make more money.
        
         | the_af wrote:
         | > _when my wife goes to sleep is when I feel like it 's finally
         | quiet enough to get some programming done_
         | 
         | I tend to do this when I want to work on my hobbies, but then
         | the relationship with my wife suffers. We enjoy going to bed
         | together, it's part of the ritual of being a couple. I tried
         | going to bed, then after she falls asleep getting up, but by
         | then I'm too sleepy myself.
        
           | sovietmudkipz wrote:
           | That's also a dimension. I feel bad that she goes to bed
           | alone when I stay up. We say good night and it's nice but
           | then I leave to stay up. It feels off balance from my
           | perspective, although she is used to it and has adapted.
        
             | piker wrote:
             | I have a similar schedule, but go to bed slightly earlier.
             | I sit next to my wife in bed and code on my laptop for 2
             | hours before sleep. It's kind of the best of both worlds,
             | but ergonomically imperfect. I'm definitely more productive
             | at my desk, but have the same issues as you describe.
        
               | orev wrote:
               | That seems like a really bad idea. You're setting
               | yourself up for sleep problems by associating your bed
               | with work, and programming in particular is not a great
               | thing to be doing just before bed, as it gets your brain
               | really worked up.
               | 
               | If your wife is sleeping that whole time, what are you
               | really gaining? The laptop screen light is probably
               | affecting her sleep, and you're possibly creating issues
               | for yourself. It sounds like multitasking where you end
               | up with two things in a mediocre state instead of giving
               | full focus to each.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | Agreed, plus the screen glow is bad for your sleep cycle
               | and eyes as well.
               | 
               | I don't think there's an easy solution. Either your side
               | projects suffer, or your relationship. I choose to keep
               | my relationship healthy, but at some point, if you keep
               | postponing every project and hobby, frustration starts to
               | mount and that's not good for relationships either.
        
         | AuryGlenz wrote:
         | I also really appreciate my time alone after my wife goes to
         | bed, but we have a 3 month old baby now and I'm assuming once
         | she's a couple years older that'll no longer be an option. I
         | also have a hard time deciding between doing something fun for
         | myself (like playing a video game) guilt-free or getting work
         | done during that time.
         | 
         | As an aside, I'd think our sex life would be better if we went
         | to bed together. As it stands right now it's something we need
         | to specifically decide to do, and I'm guessing with couples
         | that go to bed together there's more of an assumption there.
        
           | sovietmudkipz wrote:
           | We're about to enter into the phase of our lives where we
           | want children. This year will be the year we start, erm,
           | trying.
           | 
           | I know I need to get balance into my life because a child
           | will be very destabilizing to my current lifestyle. * sigh *
           | It feels like I don't have enough time to buy my own freedom.
        
           | the_af wrote:
           | > _we have a 3 month old baby now and I'm assuming once she's
           | a couple years older that'll no longer be an option_
           | 
           | Starting from right now, it's no longer an option for you, if
           | your share of parenting responsibilities is a fair one and
           | you don't just dump the caregiving of the baby unto your
           | wife.
           | 
           | So kiss your spare time goodbye starting from right now.
           | Until your daughter is old enough that she can play on her
           | own for extended periods of time without constantly needing
           | attention, and that's a long road ahead in the future.
           | 
           | Whenever this reality gets me down, a smile from my daughter
           | and some playtime with her is enough to bring joy to my life.
           | I love her. But my hobbies suffer and this frustrates me.
        
             | AuryGlenz wrote:
             | Actually it's worked out really well so far - my wife would
             | go to bed around 9 and I'd stay up until after midnight so
             | I could handle her and do the first feeding of the night.
             | 
             | The past few weeks she's largely been sleeping through the
             | night though, so that system is no longer needed. I'm a
             | photographer and this is my off season so I've been
             | watching the baby during the day until her daycare starts
             | in a few weeks. It's on the way to my wife's work so in the
             | short term I don't think our schedules need to change quite
             | yet.
        
       | woliveirajr wrote:
       | I couldn't find where they relate at what time those exams /
       | grades were given.
       | 
       | Sleep early -> wake up early -> have higher grades when exams are
       | done in the morming? If you're a night owl, probably you'd grade
       | better at night...
        
       | tombert wrote:
       | I think I have anecdotal evidence of the corollary on this: poor
       | sleep quality leads to not-good academic performance.
       | 
       | When I was 20, I had an almost Fight-Club level of insomnia,
       | where I would go multiple days at a time without sleeping, not
       | for lack of trying. I would quit caffeine, bike multiple miles a
       | day, try eating healthy, eventually getting a prescription for
       | ambien which had so-so results but for a period of about 4-5
       | months I got the worst sleep of my life. My already-mediocre
       | college performance took a steep nosedive, leading me to
       | eventually drop out. It was hard for me to justify to myself
       | going to class when I was, at some level, in physical pain.
       | 
       | Fortunately, I haven't had anywhere near that level of insomnia
       | in 11 years, so the only thing I can think of was that it was the
       | final throws of puberty.
        
       | o10449366 wrote:
       | Speaking as someone who is actually diagnosed with chronic
       | insomnia and delayed sleep phase disorder, college sucked because
       | my lack of sleep would affect my focus and concentration and that
       | would kill me on exams where a sloppy mistake (circling the wrong
       | answer) or running out of town would drop my grade significantly
       | even if I fully understood the material.
       | 
       | I performed much better on homework assignments where there was
       | less time pressure because I could work on them around my
       | irregular sleep schedule. I'm grateful now for working as a
       | programmer because it affords me the same luxury - with my
       | condition I simply can't exist in a 9-5 society.
       | 
       | (Before people comment, yes I have tried melatonin and no,
       | recreational drugs don't help me sleep either)
        
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         | pure_simplicity wrote:
         | Have you considered some form of light therapy ? (Very bright
         | lights in the morning, no artificial light in the evening)
         | 
         | I hope there's something out there to help you. Not for the
         | sake of conformity to society, but just for the benefits of
         | high quality sleep.
        
       | djohnston wrote:
       | I would give a lot for a drug or machine that could improve my
       | sleep quality. A lot.
        
         | pedalpete wrote:
         | We're working on it. https://soundmind.co :)
        
       | Cenk wrote:
       | Link to paper: https://oa.mg/paper?doi=10.1038/s41539-019-0055-z
        
       | bloqs wrote:
       | Waking up at exactly the same time every day, so zero sleeping in
       | on holidays
       | 
       | And
       | 
       | Eating a large protein/fat based breakfast with as few carbs as
       | possible as soon as you get up regardless of being a "breakfast
       | person" or not
       | 
       | Have, together, completely transformed my capabilities as a human
       | being.
        
         | mypastself wrote:
         | I've been doing the former for over a decade, and something
         | similar to the latter for half that time.
         | 
         | Despite that, any time I turn the alarm clock off on holidays,
         | my sleep cycle tends to shift a few hours forward. My energy
         | levels seem to correlate with the hours _when_ I sleep as much
         | as they do with their number.
         | 
         | I've concluded that I'm (a bit of) a night owl living in an
         | early bird world. I'm fine with it, because a couple of hours
         | is not an enormous difference, but it means I'm rarely at my
         | fullest focus or energy levels, especially early in the day.
         | 
         | And the experience has convinced me (n=1) that the early
         | bird/night owl dychotomy is primarily biological.
        
           | maccard wrote:
           | i agree - i do the same (although i do take 30 minutes extra
           | on the weekends if im being honest).
           | 
           | > but it means I'm rarely at my fullest focus or energy
           | levels, especially early in the day.
           | 
           | At the moment I'm trying to lean into this. I have the brain
           | power and focus to work late at night, so I use that to do
           | the mental work of planning/organising the evening before
           | (clothes laid out for the mornings task, breakfast/lunch made
           | in advance, gym bag packed, etc etc) and decide what I'm
           | doing the following morning. I've found that it's the perfect
           | time to go to the gym, do the "long" dog walk, scrub the
           | bathroom tiles with a toothbrush etc; anything that can be
           | somewhat autopiloted but requires physical effort.
           | 
           | I've been doing it for about 6 months now to great effect (so
           | far)
        
             | mypastself wrote:
             | That's eerily similar to what I've been doing for years
             | now.
             | 
             | After the first year of very difficult morning workouts, I
             | moved gym time to after work, and it became significantly
             | easier.
             | 
             | I do as much preparation as possible the evening before.
             | After a while, all those minor things became deeply
             | embedded into my routine. As long as you keep it up at the
             | start (and other responsibilities don't intrude), it gets
             | easier and easier.
             | 
             | One of the good things about growing older is knowing
             | yourself better, and learning how to use that knowledge to
             | your advantage.
        
         | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
         | For me it's just the scheduled wake-up. Having pets has helped
         | me, they let me know it's 5 am regardless of the day of the
         | week.
         | 
         | I don't eat breakfast but I do have a coffee and that'll tide
         | me over until I have a piece of fruit at 9 or 10 then an early-
         | ish lunch at 11:30.
        
         | bennysomething wrote:
         | Not eating breakfast all, I've found this really helps me be
         | alert. If I avoid lunch too I'm also less tired
        
         | Broken_Hippo wrote:
         | "Eating a large protein/fat based breakfast with as few carbs
         | as possible as soon as you get up regardless of being a
         | "breakfast person" or not"
         | 
         | As much as this might have helped you, this advice isn't going
         | to work for everyone. Breakfast being the most important meal
         | of the day was an advertising slogan, after all, and it isn't
         | like dieticians are going to try to convince someone to eat
         | breakfast if they are generally healthy.
         | 
         | For me, your advice means that I eat more during the day. I'm
         | most hungry in the evening, so that's when I eat more.
        
           | pydry wrote:
           | I dont think nutrition-wise breakfast really makes any
           | difference and I'm likewise extra triple skeptical of
           | corporate "advice" but it has helped greatly to modulate my
           | sleeping patterns.
           | 
           | It helps my body get attuned to falling asleep and waking up
           | when I schedule it.
           | 
           | First few times it feels horrible but it's worth fighting
           | through that knot in my stomach.
        
           | Flankk wrote:
           | I have the exact same experience with a rigid sleep schedule
           | and large breakfast. It's a big deal. I don't even need
           | coffee anymore.
        
           | globular-toast wrote:
           | There might have been some truth to the importance of
           | breakfast, but it's completely outdated advice for most
           | people. People are sitting down for 90% of their lives, with
           | the occasional slow walk to the coffee machine or car, but
           | eating like they're working in the fields for 10 hours every
           | day.
        
           | alisonkisk wrote:
        
         | zeta0134 wrote:
         | For whatever reason I _cannot do this._ Every time I think I
         | have my sleep schedule stabilized, and I 'm falling asleep at
         | night and waking up 7.5 hours later with perfect mental
         | clarity, inevitably I can only hold onto it for a few days in a
         | row. Then it slips; the bedtime drowsiness arrives later, and
         | later, and later in the evening. Eventually I end up shorting
         | my big sleep at night to make it to work on time, and shortly
         | after that I crash, the schedule goes to hell for a few days
         | during which I am biphasic or worse, and then it stabilizes at
         | a new earlier time again. Lather rinse repeat for my entire
         | adult life.
         | 
         | So far I haven't found a magic solution to this. Monitoring my
         | diet certainly _helps,_ and so does regular exercise, and so
         | did greatly restricting my caffeine intake, but nothing seems
         | to stop the slow, steady drift of the sleep clock into the
         | future. It 's like my body just ignores the daylight cycle and
         | does whatever it wants.
         | 
         | What I did instead was talk to my manager, explain the
         | situation, and gain an OK to essentially work for one big block
         | of time in a day _wherever it falls._ That didn 't solve the
         | sleep drift, but it _did_ relieve most of the associated social
         | pressure and stigma. But I 'd like to solve this properly,
         | since it's a massive pain even when mitigated in this way, and
         | I might not be so lucky to have a support network at my
         | workplace in the future.
        
           | puzzlingcaptcha wrote:
           | > It's like my body just ignores the daylight cycle and does
           | whatever it wants.
           | 
           | How about artificial light cycle? I found that cutting light
           | to just a yellow reading lamp after 9 p.m has really helped
           | me sleep regularly.
        
           | maximus-decimus wrote:
           | I'm reading Why We Sleep and it sounds like your circadian
           | cycle isn't syncing.
           | 
           | Basically our internal clocks are not exactly 24 hours (can
           | differ by even a few hours) so your body relies on some
           | signals like sunlight and a meal in the morning to resync.
        
           | pydry wrote:
           | I had this problem too. For me it was solved by dimming
           | lights and screens right down about 4 hours before I went to
           | sleep and routinely eating as soon as I got up (especially
           | when my stomach felt knotted).
           | 
           | I used to think my body had a 25 hour schedule lol.
        
             | jgwil2 wrote:
             | Interestingly, I recall reading that when they've
             | experimented with having people live in caves, absent of
             | sunlight, for extended periods, they did tend to shift
             | their "day" length to 25 hours.
        
           | globular-toast wrote:
           | > but nothing seems to stop the slow, steady drift of the
           | sleep clock into the future.
           | 
           | I've always struggled with this. When I was still in school
           | (pre-university) was the most extreme. I would stay up late
           | on Friday nights (01:00-02:00) then sleep until at least
           | midday on Saturday. By Sunday night I couldn't sleep until
           | 03:00-04:00 so got a very short sleep before Monday.
           | 
           | There was a reason for it back then: night time was when I
           | could use the internet. Because there was no pressure to get
           | up early the next day, I would spend as long as I could
           | online. I wonder if this caused my later problems or if they
           | were innate.
           | 
           | Later in uni it was normal for me to be completely nocturnal.
           | I overslept my alarm every single morning, which just became
           | more and more of a joke as it would go off a mere hour or two
           | into my "night". I remember well the first time I "lost" a
           | day. Woke up and made a cup of tea and it was already dark. I
           | hated it. I hated that other people had actually done stuff
           | that day and all I'd done was slept.
           | 
           | Now I'm older I find it much easier to stay on top of. At
           | some point something in me switched and now I can't stand it
           | if I'm not ready to do something by 09:00. I remember my
           | brother expressing a similar sentiment when he was 12 (me
           | being 15 and in the aforementioned weekend routine). I wonder
           | why it took me until my late 20s to feel the same way.
        
       | wallopingfuture wrote:
       | Sleep quality, duration, and consistency are associated with
       | better academic performance in college students
        
       | qwerty456127 wrote:
       | The more sleep-deprived I am - the worse my working memory feels
       | to work, nevertheless the more productive I am. A sleepless night
       | gives highly elevated productivity during the next day. I feel
       | boost of attention capacity, inspiration and creativity. It even
       | gets easier to do mental math.
       | 
       | Obviously a sleepless night also causes some physical discomfort
       | but 500 mg of L-tyrosine cures it (and itself also gives some
       | extra boost).
       | 
       | I also used to practice taking a nap every time I come home from
       | the office but such an evening nap always (since my early
       | childhood) makes my mood horrible (grouchy, unenthusiastic and
       | asexual) for hours to come.
        
         | d3ad1ysp0rk wrote:
         | I don't have any research to back this up, but it's possible
         | that framing it as being more focused on less interesting work
         | rather than "productive" helps clarify what might cause it.
         | When we are well rested, our brains are functioning at a higher
         | level, which includes spending energy making micro decisions
         | about how important things are, what the priority is, what work
         | is related to what you are currently looking at, and so on.
         | When over tired, our bodies exert less energy on non critical
         | processes, which might mean not overanalyzing or being
         | distracted away from a task you'd rather not have to do.
         | 
         | So getting certain work done is easier when tired, but
         | productivity would arguably include doing the "right" thing,
         | mapping the right information together, and so on, which you'd
         | want to be better rested for.
         | 
         | Curious to hear if you agree on the productivity vs focus
         | clarification, or if you feel like you're truly more productive
         | in the sense that you do some of your best work (greatest
         | ideas, executed efficiently, with minimal errors) when tired?
        
         | Jensson wrote:
         | You probably aren't more productive, you just feel more
         | productive in that you can sit and grind for a long time. I did
         | a lot of practice programming where I measured myself, some
         | things that would take hours when I was tired but I felt I was
         | doing a lot of things took like half an hour when I was rested.
         | However when I was rested I didn't feel that I accomplished
         | much, it was just an easy task and then I moved on, while when
         | I was tired I was feeling like I was moving mountains. Also
         | code quality issues and bugs were much more common when I was
         | tired.
        
           | noiwillnot wrote:
           | Sleep deprivation migth help to focus and do those tasks at
           | all instead of procrastinating. That's my experience at least
           | dealing with boring and unpleasant tasks.
        
           | qwerty456127 wrote:
           | > You probably aren't more productive, you just feel more
           | productive in that you can sit and grind for a long time.
           | 
           | And when I am well-slept I can't sit and grind for a minute,
           | I'm 95% anxiety and procrastination then. Even reading an
           | article which doesn't fit in a single screen feels almost
           | unbearable. But when I'm severely underslept it feels easy
           | and joy to read anything almost no matter how long.
           | 
           | I would rather sleep 2 hours a night every night, be happy
           | and productive (but astonishingly dumb when talking to others
           | in real time though) if I didn't believe this probably is
           | harmful for overall health in the long run.
           | 
           | Nevertheless it always is hard to get up and it requires a
           | lot of sleep to feel good physically so I always sleep ~13
           | hours/night on weekends&vacations.
        
             | Jensson wrote:
             | Have you tried adhd meds? Probably a healthier solution
             | than trying to constantly sleep deprive yourself, and most
             | likely more effective as well as you then no longer
             | handicap your mental abilities.
        
         | wallopingfuture wrote:
         | Funny you mention L-tyrosine, it "Tyrosine promotes cognitive
         | flexibility" - Source:
         | https://www.grelin.net/post/ztwmC7c43thoriuAFVaC
        
         | aaaaaaaaaaab wrote:
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wake_therapy
        
         | pure_simplicity wrote:
         | I have experienced that too and I wonder why that is...
        
           | qwerty456127 wrote:
           | So do I - that's why I share. Perhaps somebody may have an
           | idea.
        
       | radu_floricica wrote:
       | Sleep is important, but this article is kinda useless in itself.
       | First, yes, sure, of course sleep matters.
       | 
       | But also it's measuring association, not causation. It's easy to
       | think of reasons it works in reverse: of course people with good
       | grades sleep better, they don't worry about having poor grades.
       | 
       | And it's even saying that " Sleep measures accounted for nearly
       | 25% of the variance in academic performance". That's causation
       | language, and I don't think they determined that.
        
       | VoodooJuJu wrote:
       | I've felt this. For me, the most important factor for good sleep
       | is going to bed and waking the same time every day. If I have one
       | late night that causes me to sleep in the next day, it'll take up
       | to a week for me to recover my normal routine.
        
       | musicale wrote:
       | In other news, water is still wet.
       | 
       | I recall a talk describing a study to evaluate how the sleep-
       | deprived lifestyle of college students was affecting their
       | grades. Unfortunately the researchers had trouble finding a non-
       | sleep-deprived control group at the school. They ended up paying
       | students to (try to) sleep 8 hours a night (self-reported, though
       | presumably somewhat accurately.) Unsurprisingly the less sleep-
       | deprived group had better outcomes.
       | 
       | Another study observed high school students found that in any
       | class at any given time around 1/3 of them appeared to be asleep
       | (not merely "not paying attention" but actually unconscious.) The
       | effect did not appear to depend on the teacher or course
       | material.
        
       | r2_pilot wrote:
       | For all the discussion on the forums here, I control-f 'ed and
       | didn't see a single mention of sleep apnea. It's very common in
       | men, even more so as time goes on. If you have a family history
       | of it or snore loudly, it may be worth seeing a sleep specialist.
        
         | kovek wrote:
         | I like to mention Mouth Taping since so few people know about
         | it. Keeping the mouth closed at night helps with a few issues.
         | This idea is unpolular (unlike CPAP, for example), but it can
         | help, do check it out
        
       | chromanoid wrote:
       | Creative insomnia is probably not an anti-thesis to the research,
       | but I wonder how this relates to each other.
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_and_creativity#Creative_...
        
       | inglor_cz wrote:
       | I recently dropped caffeine. For about 3 weeks, I have been
       | drinking decaffeinated tea and coffee only. Fortunately I wasn't
       | dependent on caffeine. I like the taste of those two beverages,
       | but my body does not crave caffeine.
       | 
       | The effect on sleep is very notable. I wake up spontaneously
       | between 6 and 7 am, even though it is dark in January in CZ and
       | we have massive exterior blinds in our bedroom which make it
       | completely dark. And I feel very fine and productive throughout
       | the day.
       | 
       | I tried melatonin before, it sort-of works, but the effect of
       | dropping caffeine seems to be much stronger.
        
       | Little_Fish wrote:
       | Very interesting. I believe there is also the concept of sleep
       | hygiene (nope - not a shower!) which involves creating a bedroom
       | environment and routine to ensure consistent, uninterrupted
       | sleep. A good night's sleep isn't just good for your mental
       | health and productivity, it's also a good healer for your body.
        
       | tennis_sort wrote:
       | I stayed briefly in a real dive in NY one time while I was
       | studying there. The room was used to dry clothes or something.
       | 
       | I literally couldn't focus on anything in College. It was like I
       | was perpetually hungover everyday.
       | 
       | Also I wasn't great at self care when I was younger, first thing
       | I'm going to teach my kids.
        
       | blueyes wrote:
       | I highly recommend Andrew Huberman's podcast and especially its
       | sleep episodes for anyone interested in understanding sleep and
       | turning the knobs to improve it:
       | 
       | https://www.google.com/search?q=andrew+huberman+sleep+podcas...
        
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