[HN Gopher] I quit caffeine
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       I quit caffeine
        
       Author : ezekg
       Score  : 194 points
       Date   : 2022-01-10 18:19 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | ai_ia wrote:
       | I used to take a large number of black coffee throughout the day.
       | Otherwise just feel tired even though I am fully rested.
       | 
       | Recently started experimenting with nootropics as a replacement
       | for coffee. Started L-theanine + caffeine capsules. Surprisingly,
       | feel attentive throughout the day and better sleep at night too.
       | Workout is better as well. Don't know how long these effects will
       | last. But for now, I have quit coffee for good.
        
       | srrge wrote:
       | I tried many time to stop coffee and tea and for one year now I
       | am sober. I am very happy with my decision. I feel much better
       | and much less anxiety
        
       | brightball wrote:
       | I quit successfully several different times. The key to avoiding
       | all the withdrawal symptoms is drinking a lot of water IMO.
       | 
       | I've just reduced intake at this point though.
        
         | marcosdumay wrote:
         | > I quit successfully several different times.
         | 
         | This phrase... I'm struggling to interpret it in a way that
         | doesn't mean exactly the opposite of what you were trying to
         | say.
         | 
         | It's a good one to use in a joke.
        
           | brightball wrote:
           | Kinda the point. :)
           | 
           | I quit for a period of several months many times though. Got
           | past the withdrawal and was generally fine without it. It's
           | easy to let it creep back in and hard to avoid it all the
           | time.
           | 
           | Now I just drink half-caffeine coffee in the morning and cut
           | out soft drinks.
        
       | wayoutthere wrote:
       | Same experience. I didn't quit completely, but I do limit myself
       | to one cup of coffee in the morning. The rest of my fluid intake
       | is water. I don't have trouble sleeping anymore.
        
         | FilMo wrote:
        
       | loufe wrote:
       | I quit coffee and tea 7 years ago. I loved the taste of black
       | coffee but I had trouble sleeping and didn't love the idea of
       | being addicted to anything. Weeks of headaches but I came out
       | just fine. Sometimes I wonder if being addicted all my teenage
       | years made my brain somewhat dependent on it, and if that has led
       | to an off-caffeine lower IQ or something, that's a fun rabbit
       | hole to go down.
       | 
       | 7 years on it still tempts me, but not like seeing somebody enjoy
       | a cigarette does. I work rotations and have 15 hour days
       | frequently, I don't go for a coffee when tired and just deal with
       | it. Stressful and engaging work is enough to keep me perky.
       | 
       | Good luck to anyone who tries quitting. Try timing it at a time
       | when you can afford to be less productive/sharp if you can. If
       | not, just deal with it.
        
       | Simplicitas wrote:
       | Everyone has their own love/hate relationship with caffeine. To
       | each their own.
        
       | alexose wrote:
       | I've definitely noticed a change in how my body handles caffeine
       | now that I'm in my mid 30s. Less euphoria, more heart-pounding-
       | through-my-chest. I still love the taste, though, and the routine
       | of making pourovers/aeropresses/etc.
       | 
       | One thing that's really helped me is to always have decaf as
       | easily accessible as regular. It helps me separate the caffeine
       | dosage from all of the other things I love about coffee.
        
         | mirekrusin wrote:
         | You can get bean-to-cup machine and mix 50/50 or even 70/30
         | decaf and normal beans - it works very well (look at quality of
         | decaf, make sure it's water or co2-decafinated not chemically-
         | decafinated). Also as I said above L-Theanin works very, very
         | well with coffee to relieve unwanted symptoms.
        
       | carlgreene wrote:
       | I quit caffeine about 8 weeks ago for mental health reasons. It
       | has been TREMENDOUS so far. I'm still hesitant on writing about
       | it because it's such a new experiment.
       | 
       | When I was on caffeine I was on a lot of it. Probably around
       | 400-600mg a day combining my pre workout with my daily coffees.
       | It is one of my favorite drugs and I loved taking it. This was
       | the last 15 years of my life.
       | 
       | I became quite irritable over the past couple years with the
       | inability for my mind to sit still which spiraled me into manic
       | depression. I slowly weened myself off for a few months and
       | finally quit altogether 8 weeks ago.
       | 
       | I've noticed I am much calmer, my mind is quieter, and my bipolar
       | 2 is no where to be seen. Life definitely seems "duller" which
       | sucks. But the lack of excitement everywhere feels much
       | healthier.
       | 
       | Working out is definitely harder, as is being productive at work,
       | but I'm slowly figuring out ways to combat that. If you haven't
       | taken a break I highly recommend it. Even to just reduce you
       | tolerance so you can feel just how powerful a drug this stuff is.
        
         | qwertox wrote:
         | I've quit drinking coffee and any caffeine-containing product
         | for a couple of months, but I ultimately ended up with drinking
         | one cup in the morning, a single teaspoon of instant coffee. I
         | can sip from it for an hour, it's ok if it has become cold.
         | 
         | Before quitting I was drinking around 5 or 6 cups of coffee a
         | day with around 2 teaspoons each. Any decrease in caffeine
         | intake would give me a migraine, which lowered my desire to
         | drink coffee, leading to migraines of 3 days in duration. A
         | detox. And I was always on the edge, felt super restless
         | without actually being able to eliminate this feeling.
         | 
         | Removing refined sugar from my diet is now priority #1,
         | including chocolate and whatever contains it to enhance taste.
         | Afterwards I may try fully quitting drinking coffee again,
         | which shouldn't be that hard. It's just that it's a nice thing
         | to be doing, like playing with a cigarette between the fingers
         | and smoking it. You loose something if you remove this from the
         | life, and what you gain isn't always that obvious. Well, the
         | benefits of quitting smoking are easy to recognize, but it's
         | harder with coffee.
        
           | specto wrote:
           | Exactly. Coffee is fine in moderation, 1 maybe 2 cups a day.
           | Most people who talk about quitting are drinking 3-6 cups.
        
         | spacemadness wrote:
         | Everything being duller is what I recall the last time I tried
         | quitting. My theory is that it takes quite a while until you
         | achieve a new baseline. I was much calmer which is a good
         | tradeoff I think. I cut my caffeine down to one cup of coffee
         | in the morning and think I get the best of both worlds but
         | maybe I should try quitting again and see if that holds.
        
         | kzrdude wrote:
         | Do you sleep better now, is that the explanation? I quit coffee
         | for a few years, to fix my sleep, and it really did (now I'm
         | back on caffeine and managing ok-ish).
         | 
         | I would suggest to anyone curious to try. And if you quit
         | coffee make it two weeks or so to really see the difference.
        
           | carlgreene wrote:
           | I dream more, but I didn't ever really have a problem
           | sleeping.
        
         | derbOac wrote:
         | When I've read about people quitting caffeine, it seems like
         | half of people see no difference and half of them feel like
         | their lives have improved.
         | 
         | I'm kind of thinking of stopping, only because it bothers me if
         | I go on a trip or something and have to get caffeine to avoid
         | headaches. Also, part of me wonders how caffeine is influencing
         | me overall, if it's doing things I'm not aware of.
         | 
         | To be honest, the reason why I'm reluctant to try it is because
         | I tea and coffee occupy this place that I can't quite find a
         | replacement for, which is something interesting, low-calorie,
         | and not a depressant. By "interesting" I might mean "artisanal"
         | or "varietal", but I'm not even sure I mean anything that
         | specific: I just mean, there's interesting variety, differences
         | in products to try. Coffee and/or tea also are pretty low
         | calorie if taken black (like I do), and unlike things like wine
         | or beer, which are also artisanal in nature, don't act as
         | depressants per se.
         | 
         | If there was something like coffee or tea, with lots of variety
         | and skill involved, that kept me from consuming calories from
         | other sources, and didn't have any kind of
         | psychopharmacological effects, I could go to that. But I am not
         | aware of anything like that.
         | 
         | Maybe I just need to rethink my perspective on it and what I
         | could do to address those issues in other ways, but there are a
         | lot of benefits to caffeinated beverages aside from the
         | caffeine.
        
           | morsch wrote:
           | Herbal teas? I'm sure there's a subculture of artisinal
           | herbal teas. You can even grow your own.
        
             | barbazoo wrote:
             | Even black teas have far less caffeine than coffee and
             | quite a bit of variety. If I were to quit coffee I'd start
             | there.
        
           | meristohm wrote:
           | Since the water's hot for my partner's coffee, when I'm
           | practicing going without caffeine I add a little lemon juice
           | and ascorbic acid (vitamin C) powder to a cup of hot water,
           | per Gandhi advice from a book he wrote in his 20s (?). It's
           | too hot and acidic to quaff, and while I still miss coffee
           | with whole milk, this is a workable substitute that allows me
           | to have wonderfully engaging dreams as part of a full-night's
           | sleep.
        
         | rhino369 wrote:
         | I quit and I just felt worse. I'm not a morning person and only
         | caffeine lets me function.
         | 
         | My trade off was no caffeine on the weekends. It lowered my
         | tolerance a lot since I had over 48 hours off it.
         | 
         | I don't have any mental health issues, so I can't speak to that
         | trade off. But in the past, when I've had some anxiety,
         | caffeine makes it worse.
        
         | lmarcos wrote:
         | After reading you, I wish I drink coffee so I can quit and
         | experience the same feeling you experienced.
        
       | berryg wrote:
       | I stopped drinking coffee 20 years ago. Mainly because I suffered
       | a lot from IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome). After I stopped
       | drinking coffee that quickly improved. And an added benefit was
       | that I finally understood what sleeping and waking up properly
       | really meant. What a difference! Later I worked hard to learn how
       | to deal with stress. That further improved my IBS. My health has
       | improved enormously. And still, after all these years, small
       | amounts of caffeine, think chocolate, black of non-herbal tea,
       | cola, etc., have an immediate effect.
        
       | higgins wrote:
       | Congratulations, @ezekg and keep it going! I recently went 1 year
       | without it (though technically I did have chocolate a few times:
       | https://encapsulate.me/writing/2021.html) and will continue off
       | it.
       | 
       | A few things I found helpful in my transition off it: - Panax
       | Ginseng tea - Macca root - Regular weight lifting exercises -
       | Regular good night of sleep
       | 
       | Thanks for sharing!
        
       | smcl wrote:
       | One 2-cup moka (not huge) mid-morning and another after lunch is
       | already a little too much for me sometimes. I cannot fathom
       | taking in this amount of coffee, I would be an utter wreck.
        
       | fredfoobar wrote:
       | I just have one large cup of coffee in the morning for the taste
       | and that's about it. I feel bad for this person.
        
       | kseistrup wrote:
       | I am currently trying to limit my caffeine intake by mixing
       | increasing amounts of decaf beans into my regular coffee beans,
       | as I do not wish to go through seeveral weeks with low mood,
       | headaches and feeling tired. So far it's going beyond my
       | expectations: I have tried to go decaf so many times in my life
       | and has always relapsed because of the withdrawal symptoms.
       | Slowly and gradually decreasing the daily caffeine intake seems
       | to do the trick.
       | 
       | I would love to try the Rasa coffee alternative that the author
       | is talking about, but I can't seem to find a reseller within the
       | EU.
        
       | saganus wrote:
       | I never realized how strong caffeine actually is, until I cut
       | down my 5-6 cups a day intake to just 1 in the morning.
       | 
       | Now very occasionally (perhaps once every couple of months) I
       | drink another cup after lunch (but never after 4PM, or I won't be
       | able to sleep properly that night).
       | 
       | The problem is that I _really_ like the flavor. I've tried decaf
       | as well and while it's not bad, I do prefer grinding my beans
       | just before brewing my cup.
       | 
       | I also hate that whenever I have quit cold-turkey I've gotten
       | those nasty migraines. It's impressive how can a drink that we
       | don't really think about much (Starbucks everywhere) can cause
       | such strong effect on people.
        
         | hlbjhblbljib wrote:
         | You can get decaf beans, they are out there.
        
           | saganus wrote:
           | I think I've seen them before, but very rarely.
           | 
           | I guess I'll need to look harder. Thanks for the suggestion
        
       | northernexposur wrote:
       | This is word-for-word, event-for-event what I just went through.
       | I also have the same decaf intolerance, now, as well as
       | sensitivity to any caffeine. This after years without issues.
       | 
       | Uncanny. I still miss coffee, and the 'life feeling duller' thing
       | is real. On the other hand, quieter mind, better sleep.
        
       | rzimmerman wrote:
       | Quitting caffeine cold-turkey is very unpleasant. It can take a
       | full two weeks of withdrawal (bad headaches, general tiredness).
       | I've had more success reducing the amount (3/4 caf -> 1/2 caf)
       | over time.
       | 
       | Anything more that 4 cups a day is probably unhealthy. Remember
       | that 1 "cup" of coffee is actually 6 oz, so a normal coffee mug
       | or latte is twice that. One coffee (2 "cups" or a latte) in the
       | morning and one around 2pm works fine for me, but everyone's body
       | is different.
        
         | manmal wrote:
         | There are also slow and fast caffeine metabolizers, so there's
         | not one single safe amount.
        
         | inglor_cz wrote:
         | Quantity of coffee is probably better determined by the weight
         | of dry coffee that went into the beverage than by the volume of
         | the resulting drink. Someone adds more water, someone prefers
         | less, but they both may be on the same amount of coffee.
         | 
         | Everyone's body is indeed different. I switched to
         | decaffeinated tea and coffee exactly a week ago. There wasn't
         | any noticeable difference, maybe my sleep feels a bit
         | different, but that is about it.
         | 
         | I already suspected that I am more attracted to the flavor of
         | tea and coffee than to their actual caffeine content, because I
         | could drink six cups of coffee one day, zero the next day, and
         | feel no withdrawal.
        
         | fristechill wrote:
         | I've 'quit' tea and coffee for long periods. It only takes a
         | small daily quantity of caffeine to eliminate the withdrawal
         | headaches. One 'Pro Plus' pill per day is probably sufficient
         | (50mg anhydrous caffeine), reduced to half a pill per day after
         | a week, then nothing after two weeks. Pills don't trigger the
         | addictive yearning as much as the full coffee experience does.
         | There's still sleepiness to contend with, however.
        
           | JJMcJ wrote:
           | Coffee has effects beyond just the caffeine, in a way that
           | caffeine pills or even tea do not.
        
       | lkxijlewlf wrote:
       | Happens to me as well. Stress and caffeine = heart on a roller
       | coaster. At that point I'll usually back down to 1 cup in the
       | morning. But, alas, I eventually work my way back up to, ahem,
       | never mind how many cups and start the cycle over.
        
       | ceesharp wrote:
       | I just buy caffeine pills. Easier! :)
        
       | twox2 wrote:
       | I used to have panic attacks a few times a week. Ever since I
       | quit coffee, it's maybe few times per year. I wasn't a heavy
       | coffee drinker either, just 1 per day on most days, sometimes 2.
        
       | fareesh wrote:
       | When I moved to University in Canada I was introduced to "Wake
       | Ups" caffeine pills.
       | 
       | I am not a coffee drinker, but I liked to stay up late, and I had
       | to go to class, so I decided to try these out, since at that age
       | you feel like you are invulnerable.
       | 
       | These symptoms seem pretty consistent with some that I felt in
       | extreme cases. I stopped taking them after a few attempts.
       | 
       | The positives of Caffeine were great though. I felt "on" like
       | never before. Sharp, quick-witted, alert. I appreciate why some
       | find it difficult to quit. Is there anything else that has a
       | similar effect minus the downsides?
        
         | imilk wrote:
         | Any stimulant that brings you up is also going to make you
         | crash down. And with repeated use, the highs get lower and the
         | crashes come when you don't take it. There are ways to manage
         | the comedown (such as tapering), but no ways to avoid it.
        
       | greyman wrote:
       | So what exactly is the benefit of not drinking coffee? I usually
       | drink 1-2 cups daily (espresso), and don't see it as a big deal.
       | Sometimes I skip it for a day, and I don't feel much differently.
        
         | bagacrap wrote:
         | congrats, you're doing it right. For some people it becomes a
         | necessity, and for others it disrupts sleep (even if they won't
         | admit it to themselves or others).
        
       | chmod600 wrote:
       | I was never really into coffee, but I think it's probably good if
       | you keep it around a cup per day. A small enough amount that you
       | can skip a day without a problem, or have an extra cup when you
       | need it and it will be effective without jittering.
       | 
       | If you are able to sleep well consistently (less than 10% bad
       | sleeps) then zero coffee is fine. You just don't need it. But not
       | everyone is so fortunate.
        
       | winrid wrote:
       | Recently I got the stomach flu. It was a great opportunity to
       | quit coffee since I pretty much just slept around all day anyway.
       | 
       | Now I just drink a cup of black tea a day. I feel a lot "nicer",
       | but definitely less productive, as expected.
       | 
       | I'm trying to just keep my coffee drinking to Sundays when I work
       | on my projects, and am less likely to get irritated with someone
       | because they don't talk super fast :P
        
       | m3kw9 wrote:
       | It seem that people that quit caffeine and having good effects
       | are the ones drinking 6 cups a day. I've quit drinking coffee
       | before but I'm drinking 1-2 cups, and all I got was a 2 day
       | headache maybe less urge to drink it. But the difference have not
       | been very profound
        
       | bluetomcat wrote:
       | For me, giving up the second cup in the afternoon makes all the
       | difference. With just one cup in the morning, I enjoy quality
       | sleep, reduced jittery and no ache in the blood vessels. A second
       | cup literally destroys my next day, and I would wake up tired,
       | wanting even more coffee.
        
       | llimllib wrote:
       | I didn't quit caffeine, but I cut down massively by keeping it in
       | a Zojirushi mug that keeps it hot all morning instead of drinking
       | from a regular mug. Because it stays hot, I just sip it, and that
       | way I only drink one mug in the morning and occasionally one in
       | the afternoon, instead of the 3 or 4 mugs I would drink
       | previously.
        
         | patwolf wrote:
         | +1 for Zojirushi. I do wish they made something shaped more
         | like a traditional mug than a travel mug. I've tried various
         | brands of insulated mugs, and at most they let me stretch out
         | my cup of coffee to 45 minutes. With a Zojirushi I can make a
         | cup last hours.
        
           | stbtrax wrote:
           | Zojirushi keeps the drink too scalding unless you pour it out
           | into a different vessel. Try an Ember mug. A little annoying
           | to keep it on the charging coaster but keeps it at a
           | drinkable temp indefinitely.
        
           | techwizrd wrote:
           | I used to think the concept of a mug warmer or a heated mug
           | was quite silly. My wife and I received Ember mugs a few
           | months ago, and they're a lot less silly than I thought--they
           | just keep your cup warm to exactly the temperature you
           | prefer. If anyone is still on the fence, I highly recommend
           | some kind of mug warmer or heated mug. There is something
           | quite freeing about not worrying if you're drinking your
           | coffee/tea/etc fast enough to avoid it getting cold.
        
             | cactus2093 wrote:
             | Have to say I disagree about the Ember mug. It's a little
             | bit like the warmer setting on a diner coffee pot, the
             | coffee will stay warm a long time but won't necessarily
             | stay fresh. And if you drink your coffee with milk the
             | Ember mug starts to develop a film along the sides of the
             | cup after about 30 minutes which is kind of unappetizing.
             | You also have to keep it charged on the stand in between
             | uses so you can't put the mug away in the cupboard (unless
             | you have an outlet in your cupboard).
             | 
             | I stopped using it and now just use a Yeti tumbler. It
             | keeps my coffee hot for at least 2-3 hours which is long
             | enough for me, without any of the downsides of the heated
             | cup.
        
           | decafninja wrote:
           | I know the Zojirushi is recommended a lot, but I'm not a fan.
           | It certainly does a great job keeping stuff hot, but the
           | silicon(?) parts pretty quickly takes on a strong smell of
           | stale coffee that ruins it for me, at least when trying to
           | drink from it directly. Pouring it out into a mug helps, but
           | kind of defeats the purpose of it.
           | 
           | I've tried everything to get rid of the smell but have not
           | been successful.
        
         | gnicholas wrote:
         | This is an interesting technique. When I first started working
         | in a place that had lots of free/good food, I was worried I'd
         | gorge. Instead what I found was that knowing I'd always have
         | access to good/free food meant I didn't feel the need to
         | overeat ever.
        
         | hammock wrote:
         | Similarly, I use a really skinny mug that keeps coffee hot
         | longer than usual, and I make sure it stays hot by going back
         | to the microwave and reheating it as needed. The heat keeps me
         | from chugging it.
         | 
         | I also brew half-caf and mix it with half water before heating
         | it. I know I sound like a crazy person.
        
           | dr_orpheus wrote:
           | Wait, why would a really skinny mug keep coffee hot longer
           | than usual? Wouldn't that mean more surface area to cool a
           | given volume. Ideally, you want a spherical coffee cup
           | (impracticalities of that aside)
           | 
           | Edit: Nevermind, its the cooling surface of the top of the
           | coffee directly exposed to air. I'm just over here thinking
           | about spherical chickens in a vacuum...
        
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       | rejectfinite wrote:
       | You are doing this wrong. Caffeine pill 100mg (one cup of coffee)
       | Then take L-Theamine and Magnesium.
       | 
       | L-Theamine is the calming agent in tea. Helps with anxiety and
       | jitters. Magnesium help with that too.
       | 
       | Would not take straight caffeine again.
        
       | mellosouls wrote:
       | _I throw a towel over it. Over the years, I learned that a towel
       | keeps the coffee hot for longer._
       | 
       | Aka "Tea Cosy".
        
       | lee wrote:
       | I never understood why people go cold-turkey to get off of the
       | coffee addiction. Simply drink less coffee and gradually lower
       | your intake. You can avoid the absolute misery of the withdrawal
       | symptoms this way.
       | 
       | Drink half your intake for a few days. Then halve that amount
       | again. Soon enough you'll have weaned yourself off caffeine
       | without the disruption.
        
       | wbobeirne wrote:
       | I catch a lot of flak for all the money I waste by buying coffees
       | at coffeeshops, but it's my way of rate limiting. If I want a cup
       | of coffee, I first have to make myself presentable, go for a
       | walk, and pay a cost. I also feel a bit weird about going back to
       | the same place twice in one day, so that usually dissuades a
       | follow-up trip, or at least makes me go on an even longer walk.
       | 
       | Caffeine plays with everyone differently, but it's a technique
       | that's worked for me. I'll probably never get a full setup at
       | home as long as I live in a city.
        
         | nikanj wrote:
         | Wait you have to presentable to get coffee from a coffee shop?
         | I've made a terrible mistake
        
           | onemoresoop wrote:
           | It is solely up to you. At least you want to jump into some
           | clothes and not go there in your PJs but that depends on you
           | as well.
        
         | AnotherGoodName wrote:
         | Any excuse you can to go outside, walk around and interact
         | during the work from home environment is a good idea.
         | 
         | Posting this while waiting for my coffee :)
        
         | dr_orpheus wrote:
         | I like to rate limit with my own coffee snobbery. Free pots of
         | coffee at work? No thank you, I don't want any of that swill.
         | I'm going to use my mini hand-pumped espresso maker for a
         | single shot of espresso.
         | 
         | I did used to drink the coffee at work and ended up drinking a
         | lot of it. Crappy coffee, better drink it fast cause I just
         | need the caffeine. Or my cup is not warm anymore so better chug
         | the rest of it, or add more hot coffee to the mug. Rinse and
         | repeat.
        
           | globular-toast wrote:
           | I'm similar, except I'm not even that much of a snob any
           | more. The only thing I really insist on is I grind the beans
           | myself and make it in a cafetiere.
           | 
           | When I was a student I drank coffee fairly randomly. Any time
           | of day really, whenever I felt like it, but it was never too
           | much. Then I started at a workplace that had a bean-to-cup
           | espresso machine. It got a bit out of control. Coffee was not
           | only nice but also an excuse to spark up a conversation. I
           | was drinking something like 6-8 cups a day.
           | 
           | Interestingly, I don't recall having any kind of withdrawal
           | on the weekends when I would drink much less.
           | 
           | At some point several years ago I decided 6-8 cups is too
           | much, and I also read about the bad effects caffeine has on
           | sleep. So I decided to have two cups per day: one in the
           | morning and one at lunch time. It has become so normal now
           | that the thought of drinking coffee at any other time seems
           | absurd.
        
           | TAKEMYMONEY wrote:
           | Except a real snob would have a better espresso machine at
           | home. My handpresso is ok for travel but even compared to
           | pleb machines like my Pasquini Livia 90 the quality is bad.
           | (Yes I'm using freshly ground beans that were picked and
           | processed by virgins under moonlight, etc)
        
         | niklearnstodev wrote:
         | I have a similar habit getting similar flak, but with another
         | added reason. As a remote worker, going to a place every day
         | (often leading to small interactions with others) helps replace
         | replace some elements of working from an office (commute, small
         | chats with other frequenters, the getting presentable ritual
         | you mentioned, etc). I'll append a gripe to this and say that
         | employers should allow "work-from-home budgets" to be put
         | towards credit at local coffee shops.
        
           | Guest42 wrote:
           | Pre-COVID this was my exact approach. I felt like there was a
           | certain sense of randomness and adventure that was inspiring
           | towards whatever I was working on.
        
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         | oneplane wrote:
         | I used to drink a lot of the crappy stuff as well but as soon
         | as you know the taste of real coffee (be it an excellent
         | 3-minute 1:15 V60 single origin or a double shot espresso fresh
         | from the machine from a local specialty roasting place) it just
         | doesn't go down anymore.
         | 
         | While it wasn't really much of a caffeine thing for me, I did
         | simply like the taste and the fact that it's warm, but once you
         | see it for the watery slurry from a marginal blend of "we found
         | some beans on a boat" factory that it is, your taste in coffee
         | gets upgraded and as a result you end up drinking less because
         | the good stuff is not always within reach.
         | 
         | Most people I meet at high quality espresso places have had a
         | similar journey, generally from the crappy supermarket pre-
         | ground stuff, to paper coffee pads to metal coffee pods to
         | actual coffee at which point even the memory of an amazing
         | Costa Rica natural at 93degC from a week ago is better than
         | whatever an automatic machine can give you.
         | 
         | For me, the caffeine doesn't do the whole 'boost' thing,
         | doesn't impede sleep either. Coffee does make me dry out faster
         | and that's something other people tend to forget, mistaking a
         | headache for coffee-related instead of dehydration. But I can
         | often taste the difference in decaf processed coffee and I
         | general it does a disservice to the bean.
         | 
         | On top of everything else, you don't really _need_ a lot of
         | coffee, and if large volumes of warm liquid is a joy in itself,
         | we have things like infusions (ginger, mint, fruits, but also
         | Rooibos) that doesn 't really "do" anything but definitely make
         | for a tasty hydrating drink.
         | 
         | Right now I just manually grind my coffee at home (weighing it
         | of course and making sure the grind size is correct - coffee
         | snobbery makes it more work to get a cup you like), and pour a
         | V60 or make an aeropress.
         | 
         | Whenever I do want an espresso I'll go outside and visit my
         | favourite espresso bar that can pull shots I'll never be able
         | to make myself (unless I become a full-time barista I suppose).
        
           | credit_guy wrote:
           | > as soon as you know the taste of real coffee
           | 
           | De gustibus non disputandum est. I am one of those who tasted
           | "real coffee". I read books about "real coffee", I bought
           | equipment, I tried this and that, I went to coffee shops with
           | stellar reviews (I live in NYC). I just apparently don't like
           | what aficionados rave about. Instead, I used to love the
           | ordinary Peet's coffee that I could buy in my office
           | building. They don't sell it anymore, and I switched jobs
           | anyway. Now I'm fine with Starbucks. I simply drink the
           | coffee for the caffeine and not the taste. I guess 90% of the
           | people do the same.
        
           | xcambar wrote:
           | Coffee snobs are leagues ahead in terms of snobbery of any
           | other snobbery I know. And I am from a wine heavy culture, so
           | born and raised in snobbery.
           | 
           | And your comment highlights everything that can be irritating
           | about coffee enthusiasts. Every paragraph is quote-worthy.
           | Almost climactic.
           | 
           | I don't know what has triggered such an elite-like culture in
           | coffee but it never ceases to amaze/amuse.
        
             | fleddr wrote:
             | It's pure boredom.
             | 
             | Compare it to BBQ culture. In simpler times, one would have
             | a cheap metal grill and throw some raw meat on it. By the
             | time it almost turns black, you'd eat it.
             | 
             | Now people have a design baking skirt, a machine that can
             | grill 50 things at once, temperature management, a slow
             | cook schedule lasting days, hipster recipes for the sauce,
             | and this doesn't even begin to describe what is now a
             | "science".
             | 
             | Back to coffee, the standard stuff is fine. Most machines
             | at work now grind beans at the spot and mixes it under high
             | pressure. It's much better compared to the work coffee from
             | decades ago where you could see the bottom of the cup.
             | 
             | The only meaningful difference with high-end coffee is that
             | those have a softer, smoother taste. Less bitter. That's
             | it. Yet you'd only notice if you pay attention, drink your
             | coffee strong, with no milk, and very little or no sugar.
             | 
             | To mess with me, my g/f regularly switches beans in our
             | machine at home, and won't tell me that she did.
             | Unknowingly, I was exposed to many types of beans. I did
             | not notice any change whatsoever.
             | 
             | Why not? Because I don't pay attention to coffee when I
             | drink it. I don't analyze it, I just drink it.
             | 
             | One time she did directly ask: how's the coffee? I asked
             | why...did you change it? Yes. As I had already drank it and
             | didn't notice a difference, I made up a reply: does seem to
             | taste a little bit better.
             | 
             | "Well, they're the cheap ones".
             | 
             | Ok then. Feeling like an idiot, I then started to pay
             | attention and actually analyze the taste, which is
             | something a normal person doesn't do. I can now tell the
             | beans apart consistently, without prior knowledge. But only
             | by actively focusing on it.
             | 
             | The only detectable change is softness. The problem is, now
             | you're aware of it, and internally associate it as
             | superior. And this is how new coffee snobs are born.
        
               | serf wrote:
               | >The only meaningful difference with high-end coffee is
               | that those have a softer, smoother taste. Less bitter.
               | That's it.
               | 
               | respectfully disagree, and i'm not even a coffee snob --
               | just a life long addict who doesn't analyze, just drinks.
               | 
               | Wine tastes like shit to me, but i'd never be so sure
               | that my interpretation of it was correct that i'd try to
               | explain why wine snobs exist. I understand there all
               | wines have nuances that I may miss as someone who is
               | inexperienced with wine and without a preference towards
               | it.
               | 
               | Coffee , more so than most other plant products, has a
               | wide variety of tastes. How could it not? It's a plant
               | grown in varied areas with varied problems, varied soils,
               | and then roasted or treated in varied manners.
               | 
               | We disagree, I understand I won't convince here, but I
               | can confess my own experience : coffee is a spectrum of
               | flavors , and not everyone has the tongue (or time) to
               | notice -- but to dismiss it as 'pure boredom' is
               | something I absolutely disagree with.
               | 
               | You don't need a 12kUSD espresso rig to notice that there
               | are more than two taste profiles in the world of coffee.
        
         | agumonkey wrote:
         | real life and society as rate limiting balancing mechanism :)
        
         | vmception wrote:
         | I do something similar only because I'm a social caffeine
         | drinker. I only go to cafes when on a walk or date, in prior
         | times it would be during a break at the office with coworkers
         | walking around the neighborhood. Nowadays that would be like 1
         | cafe latte every other week.
         | 
         | But the only reason I have any setup at home at all is because
         | I occasionally wake up next to people that believe they need
         | coffee in the morning. I dont really know how to operate the
         | machine.
         | 
         | Adaptations.
        
         | hffftz wrote:
         | > but it's my way of rate limiting
         | 
         | caffeine aint that bad... why do you kneed to do that?
        
           | wbobeirne wrote:
           | Everyone's got their own personal tolerances and limits. Did
           | you read the blog post? Sounds like OP was having a pretty
           | bad time.
        
       | wila wrote:
       | Good.. congrats!
       | 
       | Now fix Janurari into Januari (Sorry my OCD kicked in, cannot
       | unsee)
        
       | outworlder wrote:
       | > When I stand up, my heart skips another beat. Weird. This is
       | getting annoying, I think to myself.
       | 
       | Wow, I can relate. Had some tests done because I was having so
       | many palpitations I couldn't sleep. Multiple per hour. They
       | became far worse whenever I shifted positions (standing -> laying
       | down, vice versa). I've always had some infrequent palpitations,
       | but those scared me. Tests, as usual, didn't catch anything. Only
       | reason my doctor even saw something is that I managed to capture
       | some with the Apple watch.
       | 
       | This was even during a break so it wasn't even work-related
       | stress.
       | 
       | I was drinking a whole lot of caffeine (couple of big mugs) plus
       | maybe 1L of Earl Gray tea.
       | 
       | I cut caffeine - palpitations got _worse_ (initially). Then they
       | subsided. It's been one year. I even went back to some coffee
       | again. There seems to be a threshold.
        
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         | Unklejoe wrote:
         | Same. I was having PVCs, which felt like skipped beats, but
         | it's actually a premature contraction (that you sometimes can't
         | feel) that occurs between beats, so there's a compensatory
         | pause, so it feels like there was a skipped beat.
         | 
         | I was having 20,000 a day. I was consuming a shit ton of
         | caffeine (like 600 mg a day), and I quit cold turkey once I
         | noticed the insane PVCs. The PVCs did reduce in the following
         | months, but I still ended up having an ablation to get rid of
         | them.
         | 
         | Maybe if I would have waited longer they would have gone away
         | completely, I don't know.
        
       | alexambarch wrote:
       | Stories like this make me reconsider making that second cup later
       | on in the day. It's just that it's so hard to let yourself be
       | tired when the solution is so easily accessible.
       | 
       | I find that making a french press or V60 encourages me to make a
       | lot more coffee just because I can, so I've since switched to the
       | aeropress. People often state they wish it made more coffee, but
       | it's been a nice way for me to limit caffeine consumption without
       | feeling like I'm really restricting myself.
        
       | wanderr wrote:
       | I have quit caffeine several times. I love the taste of coffee
       | and tea, but I become dependent on caffeine very quickly, and
       | have to keep upping the dose just to feel normal. Eventually I
       | don't feel human until half way through the day and there is no
       | amount of caffeine that will give me energy. The withdrawal
       | headaches are too excruciating for me to bear so I found a way to
       | effectively wean myself off of caffeine using caffeine pills.
       | Once you figure out how much caffeine you need to feel ok, you
       | know your actual dose and can simply take a little less each day.
       | For me that means a week or two of feeling a little groggy, but
       | avoiding the headaches. I'm not a morning person, so I'll never
       | feel perky in the morning but I at least feel human.
        
       | comboy wrote:
       | Have been drinking it for 25 years. Had a few months without here
       | and there. It's not much different unless your usage has been
       | excessive, which clearly was the case here.
       | 
       | Different people have different metabolism of caffeine and
       | different reactions. It's very well documented. I'm one of those
       | who have it easier to nap after strong coffee than before it. But
       | I do love my espresso.
       | 
       | If you are looking for a reason to start a new better life with
       | some different drug read about caffeine influence on adenosine.
       | For some people coffee can influence their sleep pretty bad and
       | that's no good.
       | 
       | Moderate amounts of coffee correlate positively with better
       | health.
       | 
       | Also watch for slight dehydration and if you like it white - the
       | fact that many people have at least a tiny lactose intolerance.
       | In Italy almost nobody drinks coffee with milk after noon.
       | 
       | And really, statistically, it's one of the easiest popular drugs
       | to quit. Maybe a few headaches here and there and you're done.
       | It's mostly about the ritual and lifestyle.
        
         | Bellamy wrote:
         | I agree with you in almost everything. Even with the 25 years
         | drinking period. :)
         | 
         | What I don't agree is the easy to quit part. I get headaches
         | and don't stay awake. Even worse is the depression that
         | follows. I know I feel better without (quit two times) but
         | quitting is really tough.
        
           | stjohnswarts wrote:
           | Quitting cold turkey is bad. The only way I successfully did
           | it was become very aware, used the same cup for getting it
           | and cut down 1 cup a day every week until there were no more
           | cups. I didn't get any headaches. When I quit cold turkey
           | massive headaches for hours that required aspirin to function
           | as a coder.
        
       | mirekrusin wrote:
       | Just get L-Theanin and pair it with coffee - palpitations and
       | panic like feeling will go away.
        
       | stjohnswarts wrote:
       | The only thing I've noticed is caffeine helps my alertness. I'm
       | fine as long as I don't have any after 6pm. I'd say my quality of
       | life is fine, and I have 3 or 4 cups of chai/coffee a day.
        
       | ovnz wrote:
       | A question to the guys who had severe withdrawal symptoms: did
       | you drink it with or without sugar?
       | 
       | I personally don't put sugar into coffee or tea and have quit
       | cold-turkey a few times without any issues, so I wonder if the
       | headache and stuff might be somewhat related to sugar withdrawal,
       | not just caffeine. Ideas?
        
         | Antshockey wrote:
         | I get withrawal headaches when I cold-turkey quit tea and I
         | drink that with no sugar
        
       | p45please wrote:
       | I quit cold-turkey around 3 years ago. Caffeine started to affect
       | me differently the older I got, and it wasn't until I was almost
       | hospitalized from dehydration during a house move that I realized
       | I was perhaps a little too dependent on it.
       | 
       | The following couple of weeks after quitting was hell. Migraines,
       | shakes, generally feeling awful. I doubted my decision, but
       | powered through, and am thankful I did.
       | 
       | Waking up is easier, going to sleep is easier, and personally I
       | wasn't a fan of the adrenaline rush feeling I would get after
       | drinking coffee. Your mileage may vary, but if you're getting
       | older and feeling jittery then definitely give it a try.
        
       | taylorius wrote:
       | I use coffee (just Nescafe Azera) to kickstart me in the
       | mornings, but I stop consuming at lunchtime. This limited window
       | acts to keep some sort of lid on the quantities I consume, as
       | well as hopefully leaving me un-caffeinated by bedtime.
        
       | dlbucci wrote:
       | Switching to decaf coffee was one of the best health choices I've
       | ever made. I used to regularly have a mild headache on Sunday
       | every week, but I haven't had that once since quitting. It's also
       | super nice to be able to skip coffee in the morning (for whatever
       | reason) and just get on with my day.
       | 
       | I did have a mild headache for about 2 weeks when I did quit, but
       | honestly, the fact that that happened was just more evidence I
       | was doing the right thing. Still, I have yet to convince another
       | human being to give it a try. I guess most people are just too
       | addicted.
        
         | onemoresoop wrote:
         | I drink my first cup as regular and when I get into the office
         | I get another one, this one decaf. Though it is not functional,
         | I enjoy sipping from throughout the day.
        
       | honksillet wrote:
       | The most interesting part for me was "fresh roasted shipped to my
       | door". Anyone recommend any services?
        
         | ezekg wrote:
         | Author here. I used https://www.drinktrade.com. Lots of
         | variety.
        
       | CapitalistCartr wrote:
       | Four years ago I decided for New Years to get myself addicted to
       | caffeine and alcohol. I couldn't get the alcohol to work, but the
       | caffeine has been _wonderful_. I am quite happy with the effects;
       | it 's great stuff. No more afternoon drowsiness, easier to get up
       | in the early AM, etc. For me, it's sweet tea, rather than coffee,
       | though.
        
       | hunterb123 wrote:
       | Caffeine is the hardest drug to quit.
       | 
       | Takes two weeks of miserable migraines.
       | 
       | You can lapse at any time later just indulging in one craving.
       | 
       | It just takes one bad morning to break it.
        
         | spacemadness wrote:
         | I know you were just exaggerating for effect, but obviously a
         | lot of illicit drugs (and not so illicit depending on the
         | person: alcohol) are a lot harder to quit for various reasons.
        
           | hunterb123 wrote:
           | Not really, I've done a lot of hard drugs, except
           | heroin/opioids/benzos, and I'd say caffeine is the hardest to
           | quit. Literally been on a 3 day binger awake and couldn't
           | figure out why my head hurt, thought it was food, water, oh
           | no whoops it was a caffeine withdrawal.
           | 
           | Everything else I can do on and off, some things it's been
           | years, caffeine I've only quit once. Lapsed and haven't been
           | able to again.
        
             | spacemadness wrote:
             | I was specifically thinking of heroin and friends which can
             | have massive withdrawal symptoms and need plenty of
             | external support to overcome. "all illicit" is too big an
             | umbrella I agree. Change that to "some" instead "a lot".
        
               | hunterb123 wrote:
               | Certainly, benzos and opioids are very addictive and the
               | feedback cycle isn't your friend so you don't fuck with
               | em.
               | 
               | That's not saying much about caffeine though, being
               | slightly less addictive than heroin is not a high bar.
               | 
               | Compared to any other stimulants though, caffeine is the
               | most addictive, with the worst withdraw, in my
               | experience.
        
               | bagacrap wrote:
               | going cold turkey off benzos can literally kill you
        
         | Ergo19 wrote:
         | When I quit, I tapered down at the rate of 5oz a week and never
         | experienced headaches.
        
         | shmel wrote:
         | I successfully reduced caffeine to zero a few times before
         | (usually after reading posts like this). I didn't quit cold
         | turkey though, I gradually tapered it off over couple of weeks.
         | No withdrawal effects at all.
         | 
         | If you consider caffeine very addictive, use techniques
         | developed for fight addiction to addictive drugs like benzos.
        
         | xboxnolifes wrote:
         | That seems pretty excessive. Whenever I've gone off caffeine,
         | it's only taken 2 days of light headaches. Am I an outlier
         | here?
        
           | throw1234651234 wrote:
           | Two days for me, for energy drinks, which are worse than
           | coffee. I think they just overclock your CNS, so you are
           | wasted the next day, and maybe the day after. Then I am fine
           | if I sleep enough.
        
         | comboy wrote:
         | > Caffeine is the hardest drug to quit.
         | 
         | I kept giggling for a few minutes so much that I got back here
         | to thank you for that.
        
         | dwaite wrote:
         | A small amount of caffeine has been enough to keep the
         | withdrawal headaches from occurring for me.
         | 
         | When I've stopped in the past, I usually take one diet soda I
         | don't especially enjoy (like a Diet Pepsi) and drink a quarter
         | of a can a day in the morning.
         | 
         | As you might surprise I've never attempted to quit caffeine
         | permanently, just to reduce my consumption or to stop for a few
         | months. It is indeed an easy habit to start back on.
        
           | Jtsummers wrote:
           | I do the same, but wait until the headache starts, rather
           | than anticipating it, to drink something caffeinated. I've
           | found this helps me quit faster, and a 10-minute headache
           | isn't insufferable (a single caffeinated beverage usually
           | ends the headache quickly for me). I've never needed more
           | than 2-3 days to get passed that part.
           | 
           | But, like you, I've never tried to totally quit. I "test"
           | myself by usually abstaining from caffeine on the weekends.
           | If I get even a slight headache, then it's time to cut back.
        
         | livinglist wrote:
         | I agree
        
           | livinglist wrote:
           | but you can alllways find replacement like tea
        
             | syntaxstic wrote:
             | That's what I did. One cup of green tea a day.
        
         | ezekg wrote:
         | > You can lapse at any time later just indulging in one
         | craving.
         | 
         | This rings very true. I tried coffee one time after quitting
         | and the withdrawal migraines came back the next day like I was
         | back in the thick of it.
         | 
         | I haven't had caffeine since then.
        
           | Ancalagon wrote:
           | Does tea or soda give you the migraines as well? Or just
           | coffee?
        
       | WheelsAtLarge wrote:
       | I switched to decaf and found out it helps me by not having to
       | stop my daily routine. But my days start later and I go to bed
       | earlier. It's true the world runs on caffeine.
       | 
       | The world's GDP would collapse if caffeine went away.
        
       | loves_mangoes wrote:
       | Congrats on beating your drug addiction!
       | 
       | Even if it's "just" caffeine, it's never easy. Methylxantines are
       | a tool, and like every other chemical it's best enjoyed in
       | moderation.
        
       | daxfohl wrote:
       | I'll be the contrarian. I was a pot per day drinker and quit for
       | three months and felt no different, just missed the coffee. I
       | quit the quit and I'm back to a pot per day, feeling much better.
        
         | savanaly wrote:
         | Same for me but with sugar. Quit for a week, felt no different,
         | went back to my usual (not particularly high) consumption. It's
         | a bummer too because I had read so much strong criticism of
         | sugar on HN and about how much it affects us without us
         | realizing it, I thought maybe I'll actually feel something
         | better which would be exciting! Nope, just bored because I had
         | to cut out most of the interesting (to me) food in my life.
        
         | molloy wrote:
         | > felt no different
         | 
         | > feeling much better
         | 
         | Does not compute :P
        
           | smcl wrote:
           | I interpreted this as
           | 
           | > felt no different
           | 
           | Felt no physical difference, just missed the coffee
           | 
           | > feeling much better
           | 
           | I'm happier now that I'm back on coffee
        
           | daxfohl wrote:
           | "no different", meaning no particular reason to stay off it.
           | Just a bit groggier in the mornings.
        
         | chomp wrote:
         | It depends on the person, I can go on and off caffeine with no
         | repercussions, but my wife goes through grueling withdrawals
         | when she does it.
         | 
         | A pot per day can be a lot, or a little depending on the bean
         | and the roast, so I can't comment on that.
        
           | shmel wrote:
           | Caffeine metabolization speed varies wildly across the
           | population due to genetic reasons. When you compound it with
           | multiple cups per day, you will get a quite different
           | experience.
        
           | toper-centage wrote:
           | I never have withdrawal symptoms just cravings, usually after
           | lunch. But I strictly drink maximum 1 cup per day, 2 if I
           | didn't sleep so well, and when I feel my tolerance going up,
           | I take a week or two of caffeine break to reset the
           | tolerance. Cafeeine is a tool to me.
        
         | graeme wrote:
         | Did you quit caffeine too? Tea, chocolate, soda etc
         | 
         | If so, awesome! If not, I tried a similar thing but only
         | _really_ noticed the difference once I quit all types.
        
           | daxfohl wrote:
           | Yeah, I don't really drink soda or tea, and I didn't
           | specifically avoid chocolate but I don't eat much of it to
           | begin with.
           | 
           | I only had minor withdrawal headaches for a day or so and
           | after that it was fine.
        
       | makach wrote:
       | I haven't quite quit caffeine, but I have quit drinking hot
       | coffee. It was necessary. In the end I was bringing two cups of
       | coffee into meeting rooms for meetings lasting 30 minutes. It was
       | bad.
       | 
       | Instead I binge on sugar free caffeinated fizzy drinks. I consume
       | a lot less caffeine. I tried many times to quit but I just can't.
       | Writing this I admit that I do have a problem, that I shamefully
       | should do something about - but I am weak, and powerless - might
       | be linked to my slight depression because of my current job
       | situation. But then again, there is always an excuse.
        
       | bagacrap wrote:
       | I quit my 3+ cups/day habit and my health (in particular my
       | sleep) improved dramatically. I drank close to zero caffeine for
       | a couple years before reintroducing one cup of joe in the early
       | mornings. I definitely experienced drawbacks to overdoing it, but
       | a single cup of coffee doesn't seem to cause problems, and helps
       | me get going faster in the morning, especially during the dark
       | winter months.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | djrogers wrote:
       | > But even having more than one cup of decaf brings on the shakes
       | and skipped beats. The caffeine microdosing adds up, I guess.
       | 
       | You may have a problem other than a caffeine addiction. Cutting
       | out caffeine may be the easiest/cheapest way to address it, but
       | it is _not_ normal or healthy for a few mg of caffeine to give
       | you jitters or affect your heartbeat.
       | 
       | I'd talk to a cardiologist to make sure you're not just hiding
       | the symptoms of a life-threatening problem.
        
       | SunlightEdge wrote:
       | I love the taste of coffee. Unfortunately I can't drink it as I
       | get a near euphoric high followed by unpleasant hyperactivity and
       | weird anxiety. Seriously. It's so unpleasantly strong for me. Tea
       | I can drink but I don't touch it during work hours.my problem is
       | having too much energy so I drink a lot of red bush tea during
       | work hours. It's very calming.
        
         | Engineering-MD wrote:
         | Not even decaf? Yes, the flavour isn't the same and it still
         | has some caffeine, but I still enjoy the flavour.
        
       | BossingAround wrote:
       | I realized caffeine was making my migraines worse. I always
       | thought it was helping my headaches and migraines better, and it
       | was, for around 1 to 1,5h. Then, it made me miserable, and I
       | never realised, until I took long-enough PTO, and decided to try
       | and cold-turkey quit.
       | 
       | I love coffee and I'd love to go back to drinking it, but I don't
       | think I can. If you get frequent headaches/migraines, try cutting
       | back on caffeine. You might be surprised.
        
       | shinycode wrote:
       | I don't know why but I never ever miss caffeine and I can drink
       | coffee any time, even before bed, without any kind of effect. I
       | hate the taste of most coffee, but great coffee, which is well
       | and lightly roasted and grinded the right way with a good machine
       | gives an amazing taste. Of that coffee, expresso, I can drink any
       | kind of amount, any time of the day without any kind of
       | repercussion or addiction. Sometimes I stop drinking coffee for
       | months and I can go back to coffee for the taste only. When I
       | stop I just drink water instead.
       | 
       | So what kind of coffee are we talking about here ? Because I
       | never ever felt any kind of addiction and I'm genuinely wondering
       | how that is possible to be addicted
        
       | linsomniac wrote:
       | I quit about the same time the author did, I stopped back in July
       | or Aug. I never really had jitters. I'd drink 1-2 10 cup carafes
       | in a day along with my wife, I'd drink the bulk of it.
       | 
       | I decided to stop for two reasons: I sleep pretty crappy, and I
       | was doing a bunch of other diet changes so I figured why not one
       | more...
       | 
       | Everyone is different, but in my case switching to decaf was
       | pretty easy. I had headaches a couple days, otherwise I honestly
       | couldn't tell the difference. I didn't find mornings more of a
       | struggle. But I also didn't find I slept better (confirmed by the
       | fitbit sleep stats).
       | 
       | I read a few days ago that decaf coffee still has theobromine,
       | which can also help focus.
       | 
       | Unlike the author, I like my coffee with cream most times, and
       | the decaf I've switched to tastes just fine. I even found some
       | instant decaf which I took on a camping trip shortly after
       | stopping caffeine, which tastes pretty good. Mount Hagen, for
       | reference.
        
       | micimize wrote:
       | I precisely constrained my usual intake to a known gram amount.
       | Currently I have a clever made with 25g coffee beans. Overdoing
       | it never helps my focus, so I rarely do, exception being if I get
       | a large while traveling, but having a precise does at home really
       | helps keep things from getting out of hand.
        
       | kraftman wrote:
       | I'd be less worried about the damage that the coffee is doing and
       | more worried about the damage waking up at 6am every day is
       | doing. (assuming that if you arent stopping for the day until 9pm
       | you aren't going to sleep at 10pm)
        
       | frankus wrote:
       | I've heard (but not verified) that ibuprofen is a vasoconstrictor
       | like caffeine, and can be more helpful in easing withdrawal
       | symptoms than other OTC pain meds.
       | 
       | That said, it's likely also tolerance-inducing
       | (https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/stopping-the-vicious-
       | cyc...), so don't overdo it.
        
         | shmel wrote:
         | Actually ibuprofen is a vasodilator unlike caffeine.
        
           | hunterb123 wrote:
           | They're a very common combo used for pain and migraines
           | though.
           | 
           | Cannabis can be used for instant relief, but it opens your
           | veins, causing headaches or worsening your migraine.
           | 
           | Caffeine for extended headache relief. Sometimes you need an
           | Advil and/or Aspirin depending on the pain. IANAD.
           | 
           | Aspirin Acetaminophen and Caffeine or AAC is very effective.
        
             | shmel wrote:
             | I can totally see ibuprofen helping against headaches as it
             | is a very common painkiller. I just pointed out that it
             | works differently than caffeine.
        
           | ruined wrote:
           | caffeine is both a vasoconstrictor and a vasodilator, over
           | the course of a dose. dilation is the second and longer-
           | acting effect, and acclimation to that is what causes the
           | withdrawal headaches. other vasodilators should help if the
           | mechanism is different, to prevent continuing dependency.
        
       | spansoa wrote:
       | Well there is L-theanine[0] which I always found was the opposite
       | of caffeine, and when you combine it with caffeine (500mg
       | theanine & 200mg caffeine), you get a sort of flow state without
       | the jitters of caffeine.
       | 
       | L-theanine takes the edge off caffeine. You could also just try
       | L-theanine on its own.
       | 
       | This person needs to experiment with other nootropics besides
       | caffeine. I've tried various stacks over the years like Alpha
       | Brain, Mindlab Pro and a few others. They've been instrumental in
       | getting shit done on a tight schedule, and I don't get that
       | jittery 'wired' feeling you get taking plain caffeine supps on
       | their own, just a mild flowy state (thanks to the L-theanine).
       | 
       | [0] https://draxe.com/nutrition/l-theanine/
        
         | hunterb123 wrote:
         | Green tea will give you L-theanine and caffeine in a natural
         | way.
        
           | csdvrx wrote:
           | But at an unknown dose that varies depending on where you buy
           | the tea from, the batch they currently use, etc.
        
       | Barrin92 wrote:
       | _" My heart skips a beat. It's been happening more frequently, so
       | I look it up and they're apparently called "palpitations." I
       | ignore it. It's 9am. I'm anxious. Nothing out of the norm,
       | though.[...] But even having more than one cup of decaf brings on
       | the shakes and skipped beats. The caffeine microdosing adds up, I
       | guess._"
       | 
       | If you feel permanently anxious in the morning to the point that
       | it's perceived as normal it might not be the caffeine that's the
       | issue, and a few cups of decaf have so little caffeine it should
       | not give you any physical symptoms. (a few cups of decaf contain
       | about as much caffeine as a few pieces of chocolate). Might be
       | worth checking out if there's some other reason for it.
        
         | ericbarrett wrote:
         | This stood out to me, too. There are other things that can
         | cause similar heart palpitations, like stress, cannabis (in
         | some), and actual cardiovascular problems.
        
       | zoneone wrote:
       | I like that he kept a ritual going with the press: using non-
       | caffeinated herbals. I'm thinking about quitting caffeine too.
       | Caffeine plus neuropathy makes very shaky hands, and I don't need
       | ANY extra free-floating anxiety.
        
       | jasonpeacock wrote:
       | For me, I didn't like being physically addicted to something.
       | 
       | I've switched to decaf coffee, because I still like coffee and
       | the morning ritual. But I limit myself to 2 cups, and I have
       | herbal tea later in the day if I still want something to sip on.
       | 
       | The same goes for (added) sugar - it's amazing how you feel when
       | you stop eating candy/ice cream/sweetened drinks/etc. And it's
       | surprising how bad you feel when do you have sugar after you've
       | been off a while - same as the author's experience with caffeine.
        
         | kshacker wrote:
         | Oh man, sugar :( I stopped taking sugar for 2 years after I had
         | a heart issue. Then somehow it came back in life, and it has
         | been 4 years, and maybe 99 attempts (because the 100th will
         | succeed:)) and it is just so hard to give up sugar.
         | 
         | But when I had stopped, I remember the taste had changed - just
         | simply sauteed vegetables tasted much better, and in those days
         | sugar tasted ugly. The good old days. And after hating
         | chocolates all my life, I think it was our EPM who got addicted
         | me to chocolates by always keeping a supply at her desk, right
         | next to my desk. Now on my 99th attempt to give up sugar for
         | the past 5 days, and this time determined to go much much
         | longer.
        
         | potatochup wrote:
         | Have you found good decaf anywhere? I drink only espresso and
         | haven't found any decaf that isn't miserably bland.
        
           | osener wrote:
           | If anything, I am drinking the best coffee of my life after
           | switching to decaf, after saying no to bad supermarket and
           | office coffee. In many big cities it is possible to find very
           | high quality specialty decaf coffee in local roasters.
           | 
           | My favourite is Colombian beans decaffeinated with the "Sugar
           | Cane Process". In my opinion this method produces the best
           | tasting coffee that preserves the qualities of the origin
           | beans and it might be more environmentally friendly compared
           | to methods that require double shipping the beans to a 3rd
           | country for decaffeination.
        
           | c0nsumer wrote:
           | I've been buying decaf from Happy Mug. Price is reasonable,
           | comes as beans or ground, is fresh, and I think it tastes
           | good: https://happymugcoffee.com/
        
           | marklar423 wrote:
           | The Starbucks decaf espresso is pretty strong. It can be hard
           | to find though.
        
           | 1121redblackgo wrote:
           | I like Dunkin Decaf
        
       | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
       | > I need a quick fix. I make a Nespresso. It's good enough. I'll
       | make a french press after this cup wakes me up.
       | 
       | Sounds like you approach caffeine like an addict. Coffee is
       | actually good for you though:
       | 
       | https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/hsph-in-the-news/coffee-be...
        
         | lambdaba wrote:
         | Coffee the plant may be good, caffeine the molecule is not.
         | There are other things in coffee that may be helpful, but
         | caffeine is a poison and only that, I think there is no
         | debating that (but I'm interested if anybody has hints to the
         | contrary).
        
           | meepmorp wrote:
           | Dose makes the poison.
        
           | outworlder wrote:
           | > but caffeine is a poison and only that, I think there is no
           | debating that
           | 
           | There's so much data to dispute that that it isn't even
           | funny. Countless articles have been written.
           | 
           | What's usually under debate is to what extent consumption can
           | be beneficial or detrimental.
           | 
           | Caffeine is only very obviously a poison when it comes to
           | arachnids.
        
             | lambdaba wrote:
             | Isn't that about coffee not caffeine? I don't see how what
             | caffeine alone does could be in any way helpful, outside of
             | as a pure performance enhancer for very specific
             | situations.
        
         | maze-le wrote:
         | Like with every substance, the dosage and regularity of intake
         | are the key factors that determine what it does to you. Coffee
         | can be good for your health, but it also can be detrimental...
         | Every habit can become an addiction, even coffee -- with less
         | severe withdrawal symptoms than other stimulants, but still...
        
       | rcarmo wrote:
       | I'm one of those people who stopped taking 5-6 Espressos a day
       | (an average amount for a Portuguese person, given that we
       | imported Cimbalino machines from Italy a few decades ago and just
       | couldn't kick the habit nationally).
       | 
       | I did that for around 20 years (with occasional breaks), then
       | progressively petered out to 2-3 cups a day and, last year, I
       | finally removed the last Espresso (the breakfast one) from my
       | diet.
       | 
       | I switched to one cup of black tea in the morning (I'm partial to
       | Earl Grey) and one or two mugs of barley 'coffee' a day (in
       | Winter time, typically zero in Summer) and lots of water. I will
       | occasionally have non-black tea during the Winter time as well -
       | mostly mint and ginger.
       | 
       | Now drinking a can of diet Coke (which I typically do in two
       | doses, whenever I feel like I'm struggling through the day) gives
       | me a good enough buzz, and I _know_ coffee will work if I need to
       | stay up late (which I usually don't anymore).
       | 
       | But, in general, ditching coffee improved my well-being a _lot_.
       | I sleep better, I don't have (the same kind of) headaches, and I
       | don't push myself beyond what my body can take and spend 2-3 days
       | recovering from a particularly intense day.
       | 
       | I do miss the flavor and enjoy a hot beverage (hence the barley),
       | but I don't miss the stress it induced, or the crutch it was.
        
         | kkjjkgjjgg wrote:
         | I would think diet Coke to be much worse than coffee, am I
         | wrong?
        
       | throwaway1777 wrote:
       | I quit caffeine for a few years, but I went back to it during the
       | pandemic. It was kind of a substitute for commuting as a trigger
       | that it's time for work.
        
       | LAC-Tech wrote:
       | I haven't quit, but I have cut down by about half - replaced my
       | regular strong instant coffee with 'mild', which was a very
       | noticeable drop off.
       | 
       | After getting over the hump, I noticed I would fall asleep much,
       | much more easily. It was great. However recently I've started
       | doing 18:6 intermittent fasting, from 9:30-14:30. I've noticed it
       | keeps me up a lot longer. Weird side effect I did not envision.
       | 
       | Anyway, would be keen to replace my mild with decaf at some
       | point. I'm not a big fan of tea. Or starting the day with a
       | water.
        
       | mdip wrote:
       | I did something similar years ago but for different reasons: I
       | suffered from Migraine headaches since age 17, am intolerant to
       | the most effective medications for alleviating the pain and found
       | that caffeine was one of the few things that could reduce the
       | pain I experienced.
       | 
       | At age 17, I had a trip to the ER thinking I was dying -- worst
       | headache of my life up to that point. It subsided during my stay
       | and several tests later, any major problems were ruled out. I was
       | not a regular caffeine drinker at that time, and caffeine has
       | never caused Migraine headaches[0] for me. Over a few years of
       | early mornings/jobs, I started drinking coffee regularly to be
       | sharp/awake and experienced many of the same problems as the
       | author. The biggest problem, though, was that I had become
       | tolerant to the most effective medication (for me) to eliminate
       | my headaches.
       | 
       | I would not advise quitting cold turkey. It sucks. The headaches
       | are _intense_ , but not Migraine[0]. After doing that for a few
       | days, I took a different approach -- to replace my coffee
       | consumption with decaffeinated coffee. At the time (I'm not sure
       | if this is still true), decaffeinated did not mean caffeine free.
       | It had just enough to ween me off of caffeine, while keeping my
       | routine the same for a month. The dull headaches were manageable
       | with a single Ibuprofen when they were the worst, but often
       | required nothing at all. At the end of a month, the beans sat
       | unused.
       | 
       | I treated caffeine as a medication from that point forward. I
       | kept a container of beans in the freezer and would brew up a cup
       | of coffee any time Migraine reared its ugly head. It took about a
       | cup and my symptoms would be reduced -- sometimes remaining there
       | until the headache passed. I've since found a prescription which
       | prevents Migraine entirely, for me and have resumed coffee
       | drinking, but limit it to a single cup a day and _not_ daily --
       | just when I 'm feeling "dull", mentally. But I have to be careful
       | -- the jitters are very strong after the second cup and end up
       | turning that sharpness into anxiety at times.
       | 
       | [0] I think people misstate a "bad headache" as a Migraine
       | headache. I get different kinds of headaches, Migraine is _very_
       | distinct to me, including auras and other symptoms that otherwise
       | awful headaches do not. They also barely respond to common OTC
       | medications, so I don 't bother with them when I know it's a
       | migraine.
        
       | andreyk wrote:
       | My own approach is to try to drink 2-3 cups per day at most, but
       | also drink decaf later in the day. I just enjoy the taste of
       | coffee while working.
        
       | sleepysysadmin wrote:
       | Caffeine is in so many things. Even more interesting is that it's
       | a stimulant that is unique. Every other stimulant is controlled
       | if not illegal. Amphetamines or cocaine for example. The problem
       | is that it has a long history and government would not be
       | successful in controlling it. Even though they clearly would if
       | they could.
       | 
       | How many corporations literally provide coffee to their workers.
       | Even to the point of paying you to drink it on a break? This drug
       | is clearly beneficial to these corps. The increase in focus and
       | productivity is obvious. This boost to cognitive function is what
       | created the age of enlightenment.
        
       | anonymousiam wrote:
       | I gave up all forms of caffeine about 35 years ago. My
       | experiences were similar to the author, but worse. I had been
       | drinking coffee from about age 12. The first time I quit (at age
       | 24) I had bad headaches. I "fell off the wagon" after a week or
       | so. A month later I quit again and then felt so bad that I missed
       | two days of work. I lapsed again after about a month. The third
       | and final time I quit (maybe a month later), the withdrawal
       | symptoms were so bad that it made me never want to go through it
       | again. I am talking about cold sweats, shakes, and vomiting.
       | 
       | It's easy to get caffeine, and somewhat difficult to avoid it.
       | Caffeine is so common that it's easy to justify using it.
       | ("Everyone else does, so it can't be that bad. Right?")
       | 
       | My wife is still a user, and I often make coffee for her in the
       | morning. It still smells delicious to me, but I haven't (and
       | wont) go back to it. She is like a zombie before she has her
       | morning coffee, and she often has trouble getting to sleep at
       | night. I am awake and alert in the morning, and sleep soundly.
        
         | throw1234651234 wrote:
         | Sugar is in the same boat of "well, everyone does it, not that
         | bad."
        
           | manmal wrote:
           | The metabolic and cardiovascular effects of coffee are vastly
           | preferable over sugar's (or, to be more precise, fructose). I
           | personally also don't react well to caffeine (one weak cup
           | can totally mess up sleep), but at least it's easy to find
           | out when it's doing more harm than good.
        
         | shmel wrote:
         | It is well-known that people metabolize caffeine with different
         | speed due to genetic reasons. Therefore people can experience
         | wildly different peak blood concentration after drinking many
         | cups per day. I suppose it influences how strong withdrawals
         | are.
         | 
         | I personally used to drink a lot of coffee and rarely
         | experienced any withdrawal effects. I also know (from comparing
         | myself with other people) that I am a very fast caffeine
         | metabolizer.
        
       | sdze wrote:
       | I think I can only quit coffee with suicide. It is impossible.
       | During my days as a student I managed to be 9 days coffee free.
       | But I relapsed.
       | 
       | I get all kinds of symptoms.
       | 
       | Coffee is the hardest drug to get clean from.
        
         | lambdaba wrote:
         | Get on a lot of magnesium + thiamine (this is important, they
         | go together). Whether you quit coffee or not, but these two
         | will help you with the withdrawal symptoms (and they are BOTH
         | depleted by regular caffeine intake).
        
           | sdze wrote:
           | magnesium oxide ok? (cheapest one)
        
             | lambdaba wrote:
             | Magnesium Chloride is the cheapest, magnesium oxide has the
             | strongest laxative effect. Take between 5-10 grams per day
             | spread out throughout the day. That will yield around
             | 625-1250 mg elemental magnesium, 1.5 to 3x the RDA, but you
             | likely need to it up from a deficiency. There is no way to
             | overdose (gut rejects it automatically).
        
               | sdze wrote:
               | Thank you for your insights. I will try that next
               | vacation.
        
               | munch117 wrote:
               | I suggest you talk it over with your doctor first.
        
             | goddamnyouryan wrote:
             | I have been told that oxide is not very bioavailable at
             | all, Magnesium Citrate or Glycinate are better.
        
       | TheSocialAndrew wrote:
       | Caffeine is delivered quite differently based on the brewing
       | method. I find that 4 or more shots of espresso a day will lead
       | to an eye twitch, while one or two cups of Philz deliver the
       | caffeine far more smoothly.
       | 
       | French press seems to be somewhere in between, the extraction is
       | different than pour over. Philz's extraction time is even shorter
       | than a regular pour over. They use a lot more beans than Blue
       | Bottle but the water flows through the grounds much quicker.
       | 
       | If you can't go cold turkey, try avoiding espresso and French
       | press and the jittery feeling might subside.
        
       | 0xcoffee wrote:
       | I also quit, for me what helped was simply drinking plain hot
       | water instead.
        
         | fallat wrote:
         | +1 for hot water. Massively underrated. Like so much so I
         | wonder why no one talks about it.
        
           | wnolens wrote:
           | Because it sounds terrible. Plain hot water? Hmm
        
             | tinyhouse wrote:
             | Just squeeze in a bit of lemon or put a few leave from the
             | garden inside. It's called tea :)
        
             | fallat wrote:
             | Yes, plain hot water. I challenge you to try it for a week
             | seriously. You will be surprised, I was.
        
       | GnarfGnarf wrote:
       | I used to be a purist and disdained decaffeinated.
       | 
       | The I was forced to switch. I can honestly say I do not notice
       | the difference. Decaf tastes just as good.
        
       | amelius wrote:
       | I asked it before, but can anyone explain why a single cup of
       | (normal strength, not starbucks) coffee easily gives me the
       | jitters, while drinking a 2L bottle of cola does nothing?
        
       | btgeekboy wrote:
       | I've tried quitting caffeine in the past, but the problem I run
       | into is that I'm actually not a coffee drinker, but a Diet Coke
       | drinker. I don't enjoy the taste of plain water. So at a
       | restaurant/drive thru/etc, my options are diet soda (with 0
       | calories) or something caffeine-free with hundreds of calories.
       | When you're trying to budget calories, that hurts a lot.
       | 
       | At least I've been able to reduce my overall consumption of
       | caffeine a bit, but I haven't been able to cut it out completely.
        
         | mkaic wrote:
         | Zero-sugar, zero-caffeine sodas seem to be slowly rising in
         | popularity recently. I'm hopeful that we'll start to see them
         | more often as options in restaurants, because like you said,
         | it's frustrating when I go to a restaurant and must choose
         | between drinking massive amounts of sugar, or drinking
         | caffeine. Usually, even though I'd _like_ to order soda, I end
         | up ordering water because I struggle to justify either
         | stimulant to myself internally.
        
           | btgeekboy wrote:
           | I would love for more places to serve things like Bubly/La
           | Croix/etc or Fresca, both of which I enjoy at home but rarely
           | out and about.
        
       | kazinator wrote:
       | I've quit caffeine more than once.
       | 
       | Probably the worst time went like this: in addition to the
       | headaches, my entire body was overcome by a muscular weakness,
       | and this lasted almost two weeks.
       | 
       | About three days into it, I went for a simple little four mile
       | run. I was in good running shape at the time. Because of how I
       | was starting to feel, I took it easy. Yet, the next day, every
       | muscle hurt in my body. Arms, legs, abdominals, back. It was as
       | if a completely unfit, untrained, unaccustomed body had been made
       | to race the distance.
       | 
       | The soreness took days to dissipate.
        
       | klyrs wrote:
       | I had similar experience around the author's age, but I love my
       | coffee too much. I decreased slowly over the years. First, not
       | having coffee past 9, then 5, then 3, then noon. Now, I have two
       | small cups in the morning, it does jolt me awake, and outside of
       | the rare exception, that's all I get. Sometimes I forget my
       | second cup. It's a missed opportunity on flavor, but I don't have
       | withdrawal headaches.
        
         | livinglist wrote:
         | same with me
        
       | einpoklum wrote:
       | I was never encouraged into drinking coffee in the first place.
       | Could never figure out why people liked the taste of it. I mean,
       | Caffeine - yes, I drank a lot of Cola when I was young, but
       | coffee is definitely an acquired taste.
       | 
       | Anyway, when I was about... 20 years old, I think, I decided to
       | quite Caffeine. I went "cold-turkey", and it was actually really
       | hard not buying my fix of Cola at the supermarket! I stuck with
       | it though, and switched to (somewhat watered-down) cherry juice.
       | The taste was strong enough to distract me from thinking about
       | Cola :-)
        
       | mkaic wrote:
       | I grew up in a house where coffee wasn't allowed, so I've
       | actually never had it before. I have avoided nearly all caffeine
       | my whole life out of habit (one of those cases where a rule you
       | grow up with sticks with you even if the original justification
       | for it didn't).
       | 
       | Drinking a Coke is enough to make me bounce off the walls. I've
       | often wondered what would happen to me if I tried coffee or an
       | energy drink, but based on how strong the effects of sugar and
       | small caffeine doses are on me, I'm far too scared to experiment.
       | I do think coffee smells amazing, though--walking into a
       | Starbucks is always delightful, even if I only ever buy hot
       | chocolate there.
        
         | can16358p wrote:
         | That bouncing off effect might be related to sugar too. If you
         | really want to see caffeine's effects you might "microdose" a
         | quarter of a cup of filtered coffee or a half shot of espresso,
         | without mixing it with anything but water.
        
         | mandelbrotwurst wrote:
         | Will a Diet Coke give you the same effect as a Coke? I'm
         | curious how much of your bouncing is due to the caffeine versus
         | the sugar and/or some synergism.
        
           | koof wrote:
           | It's worth noting that Diet Coke has about 50% more caffeine
           | than regular.
        
             | ashtonbaker wrote:
             | I never knew this! Thanks for that.
        
           | mkaic wrote:
           | I think so? I've had the same question and have been meaning
           | to do a actual controlled experiment, but haven't ever gotten
           | around to it. I know I react badly to sugar, and I'm _fairly
           | certain_ I also react badly to caffeine separately, but don
           | 't have enough data points to draw a solid conclusion yet.
        
         | coldpie wrote:
         | I think you should give it a shot. Unless you have some pre-
         | existing condition (severe anxiety or something), there's
         | basically no risk. Head to a coffee shop some morning and spend
         | a few bucks for a small coffee. Maybe you'll find a new small
         | joy in life. I have one cup, each morning when I get up, it's a
         | tasty little ritual. Or maybe you won't like it after all, and
         | then you'll know.
        
           | cortexio wrote:
        
           | kkjjkgjjgg wrote:
           | Don't forget the risk of getting addicted. Are there even any
           | actual upsides apart from the (acquired) good taste?
        
       | renewiltord wrote:
       | Amphetamine is so much better. And I know that people claim it's
       | addictive but I haven't used it in a month and don't really feel
       | an urge. I usually just use it when I want immense task focus but
       | I get pretty good focus manually myself now that I remember the
       | amphetamined feeling.
       | 
       | I got into caffeine about six months ago and after the first week
       | I got a headache when I woke up so I quit it because that's not
       | okay.
       | 
       | I recently restarted with a drink of coffee about thrice a week
       | (irregularly) and have found that I get no withdrawal when I stop
       | on this cycle.
        
       | thenerdhead wrote:
       | I had this exact same problem just back in November.
       | 
       | Regular coffee drinker (1-2 cups), having pre-workout before the
       | gym.
       | 
       | Starting having an absurd amount of anxiety and what I can best
       | describe as a panic attack or flu-like symptom making my heart
       | race & feelings of palpitations.
       | 
       | Go to the ER, they find nothing wrong. Doctors say "cut your
       | stimulates and lower your stresses".
       | 
       | Seemed to be a combination of work stress & the stimulates. Ever
       | since going cold turkey, I've been better than ever. I continue
       | to get headaches but they are manageable with plenty of water.
        
         | onemoresoop wrote:
         | I had this problem a long time ago but I was drinking way too
         | much coffee, I think 5 cups a day. Down to 2, one of them is
         | decaf so basically down to one.
        
         | kkjjkgjjgg wrote:
         | Did you get vaccinated? I had these symptoms after the
         | vaccination, but I am not 100% if other things changed at the
         | same time, like increased coffee consumption or unrelated
         | external worries.
        
         | xupybd wrote:
         | What pre workout were you taking? Some have over 10 cups of
         | coffee worth of caffeine.
        
         | toper-centage wrote:
         | Doesn't pre-workout contain a fair amount of caffeine as well?
        
           | thenerdhead wrote:
           | It does. About 1.5-2x the amount of a cup of coffee.
        
         | garren wrote:
         | I experienced something similar (minus the hospital visit.) I'd
         | regularly gone with 4-6 cups a day for years, with no
         | noticeable problems. I ran into a particularly stressful month,
         | then experienced a 2-month bout with insomnia and anxiety.
         | 
         | Insomnia is brutal, and I did everything I could to get over it
         | including eliminating caffeine/coffee completely for around 6-7
         | months.
         | 
         | I didn't experience any issues stopping. After the sleeping and
         | anxiety were under control I figured I'd stick with it - I'd
         | heard others say they experienced a few positive benefits by
         | cutting caffeine completely. I didn't notice anything.
         | 
         | When I decided to grab a cup again the productivity boost was
         | pretty amazing. I settled on 1/2 caff up to 11am, then decaf
         | only. I drink a lot less coffee now, and if there's even a hint
         | of an issue sleeping I'll skip it for a day or two.
        
           | thenerdhead wrote:
           | That's awesome that you were able to find a moderation
           | change. I just went cold turkey because of experience itself.
        
       | fallat wrote:
       | Another anecdote here. Going on decaf was one of the best choices
       | I could do. I've gotten back on caffeine and the palpitations are
       | back for me also.
       | 
       | It makes me wonder: do people in the older generations have the
       | same symptoms but just don't say anything?... Kind of concerning.
       | 
       | Edit: This thread inspired me to get on hot water asap again.
       | Thanks everyone :) Just poured myself some.
        
       | throw1234651234 wrote:
       | Personal anecdote. I work, study, and lift heavy (for me). I
       | sleep 7-8. This is not enough. I started drinking Monsters
       | (energy drinks).
       | 
       | Was twitchy, sweated a lot, got sick easier, slept worse, and got
       | worse results at the gym. It works great for a day, and then you
       | crash hard, it's also addictive. Spikes blood pressure. Another
       | poster reminded me about the headaches, which I normally NEVER
       | have. I am under the impression that its worse than drugs (dont
       | do drugs, so can't tell). Affects are very, very strong.
       | 
       | Solution is to lift lighter and sleep MORE than 8 hours. I still
       | don't believe all the successful people (eg Schwarzenegger) who
       | claim to sleep less than 8, especially athletes. I still drink a
       | bunch of caffeinated black tea, but it's not even close to
       | coffee/energy drinks.
       | 
       | No point to this other than "Don't drink energy drinks, they are
       | probably worse than coke".
       | 
       | Last note - the military studied caffeine pills since they
       | control ideally for dose. Maybe something to consider not to
       | stain teeth and standardize if you HAVE to have your coffee.
        
       | paulcarroty wrote:
       | I quit caffeine when meet an addicted man and watched how the
       | addiction looks like: he consumed 12-15 cups daily.
       | 
       | Have never looked back and recommend you to do the same.
        
       | desman wrote:
       | Almost exactly the same story here. 6-8+ cups a day, cold turkey
       | with no replacements. Two weeks of misery and headaches and a
       | beautiful new beginning. I drink one decaf or mate a day from
       | time to time now. And I drool like a bloody St. Bernard when I
       | pass by a coffee stand where they serve the real stuff. So I am
       | still a coffee junkie, my body is no longer addicted but my mind
       | is. But it was definitely worth it to quit.
        
       | temptemptemp111 wrote:
        
       | zeta0134 wrote:
       | I do one reasonably weak cup with lots of creamer first thing in
       | the morning with breakfast. Then, on a normal day, I have mostly
       | water. This solves two problems for me: (1) by the end of my
       | typical day, enough caffeine has flushed back out of my system
       | that I have no issues falling asleep, but also (b) I'm
       | maintaining a tolerance, so if I'm out with friends I can have a
       | glass of whatever and not totally wreck my system doing so.
       | 
       | I've considered ditching the coffee entirely; it's mostly the
       | _routine_ I enjoy, and I could probably replace it with an herbal
       | tea. My system on an actual energy drink is just as jittery and
       | anxious as the author describes. But for now, keeping my intake
       | low seems okay.
       | 
       | The biggest surprise for me was really switching to plain water
       | as my beverage of choice. Growing up on sugary beverages I craved
       | them something fierce; now I actually crave water, and enjoy the
       | taste. The only downside is that at restaurants, the servers will
       | swing by and refill an ordered soda (or tea) endlessly, and they
       | get this funny look if I try to explain that "no really, just one
       | is enough."
        
       | oneplane wrote:
       | I'm curious if there are a lot of people like this that really
       | feel some extreme effect from caffeine like this.
       | 
       | I've read articles about people drinking too much, too little,
       | being addicted, or having withdrawal symptoms, but I never really
       | experienced any of that during my coffee-life so far. I also
       | don't often meet people that do, but sometimes when I do meet
       | someone that has a really intense relationship with caffeine it
       | does tell me that there must be something to it.
       | 
       | You'd think that if this is such a potent 'drug', it would affect
       | everyone at last at some base level, and others even more. But in
       | my variations of 1 to 8 cups each day, sometimes none for days,
       | sometimes only espresso, sometimes only filter coffee it's never
       | really done anything 'different'. Granted, the larger quantities
       | of coffee were the crappy kind which probably never really got a
       | good extraction anyway, but even 2 or 3 proper cups of filter
       | coffee would have a caffeine content that should create the same
       | symptoms or dependency I would think. But it doesn't (for me).
       | I'm not really more less sleepy depending on the coffee quantity.
       | I can sleep minutes after drinking coffee (if tired), yet not
       | drinking coffee doesn't make it 'hard' to stay awake.
        
         | abletonlive wrote:
         | Actually we already know that people metabolize caffeine
         | differently.
         | https://pharmrev.aspetjournals.org/content/70/2/384 - but
         | caffeine is also very transparent drug. You can use it for
         | years without realizing the negative/positive impact it has on
         | you. How long have you even quit caffeine for? Withdrawal
         | effects tend to show up in 2 weeks or so for me. The anxiety
         | that it causes for me isn't very acute either. It's more like
         | just background anxiety.
         | 
         | I used and abused coffee for most of my twenties without ever
         | realizing it had such an impact. Nowadays I just drink small
         | cups of tea.
         | 
         | Also would like to point out:
         | https://www.audible.com/pd/Caffeine-Audiobook/B083MVZ91Y is a
         | pretty fun read. Not super scientific but interesting
         | nonetheless.
        
           | oneplane wrote:
           | I've had pauses of a few months when there wasn't any good
           | coffee around; sometimes there wasn't even any decent tea
           | (green/black). There was mediocre chocolate (supermarket
           | stuff) but I don't think I ate a whole lot of that either (as
           | a caffeinated-coffee replacement). Mostly happened when I was
           | doing a weird combination of travel for work and not knowing
           | where the good coffee spots were, coming back home after
           | being away for two weeks to then move to a house I bought
           | that was finally ready to move in to so another few weeks of
           | having too much stuff packed away to make any coffee (and too
           | busy to do it anyway). And then when the move was over, on
           | vacation for a few weeks, again with no clue where to get
           | coffee and all there is, is Starbucks, gas stops, and
           | restaurant coffee (which more often than not is terrible
           | anyway).
           | 
           | Maybe it does have an effect but being too busy to notice
           | masked it?
           | 
           | I've had shorter pauses as well, broke a few bones in a
           | sporting accident and didn't really feel like getting or
           | making coffee, was very into ginger infusions, sometimes
           | tamed with a bit of honey or lemon.
           | 
           | On one hand this makes me very curious to just not drink
           | coffee for a few weeks and see if it does anything, on the
           | other hand I pretty much stopped drinking sugary drinks years
           | ago so that just leaves water and tea for me, and tea would
           | have to be paused as well because I have a variety of teas
           | where some have caffeine as well. Maybe if there was a good
           | decaf around I'd just drink that as an experiment, but I
           | haven't found one that doesn't taste weird yet.
           | 
           | That said, I'm not drinking all that much coffee (1 or 2
           | filters or 2 espressos or maybe one of each is about
           | average), and sometimes I just forget to make some if I'm
           | busy doing stuff.
        
         | clktmr wrote:
         | This comment could be written by me a year ago. Only when I
         | drove my caffeine consumption to zero for a whole week (no
         | coffee, no tea, no coke..) I had this massive headache. I am
         | now back to one or two cups of coffee per day, which I enjoy
         | much more.
        
         | dfinninger wrote:
         | You and me both. Also my father and grandfather. However, my
         | wife has terrible headaches around 3pm if no caffeine has been
         | ingested. So I suspect something different in our genetic
         | makeup.
         | 
         | I do find that later in the evening if I'm started to feel
         | tired coffee makes it a little easier to shrug off the
         | sensation. Otherwise it doesn't have a grand effect. I tend to
         | drink it because I like the ritual (and I'm already brewing for
         | my wife).
        
       | cycomanic wrote:
       | One of the best investments I've ever made was a good espresso
       | machine and grinder (Rancilio Silvia and Rocky for those who know
       | something). Espresso coffee tastes so much better than drip (I
       | really hate French press so that's not even a comparison).
       | 
       | I find espresso also much more agreeable. While I feel jittery
       | after several cups of drip I find I would need to drink a lot
       | more (unrealistic amounts) espresso coffee for the same effect.
       | It also helps that its not a type of coffee where one has a big
       | pot of it sitting around and one can get constant refills.
       | 
       | Interestingly I don't get withdrawal symptoms (I often don't
       | drink coffee when travelling as I rather not drink coffee than
       | drink bad coffee). So I might not be too strongly affected by
       | caffeine.
        
         | can16358p wrote:
         | About the withdrawal symptoms: anything that you substitute in
         | place when you don't drink coffee? When I don't drink at
         | morning I always have headache after a few hours, and I'd like
         | to see any non-caffeinated (natural) substitutions that'd keep
         | the headache away.
        
           | 123pie123 wrote:
           | >When I don't drink at morning I always have headache after a
           | few hours
           | 
           | for me in the past that would be a warning sign to cut back
           | on the number of cups a day. I've settled on two espresso's a
           | day
           | 
           | I have a bean to cup machine and to cut back I would miss one
           | cup or make it weaker
        
       | code51 wrote:
       | I think that there can be a significant difference between every
       | batch of coffee. Both the origin and conditions of the specific
       | land where coffee grows matters in my opinion. People often
       | imagine this as a factor that only changes flavor. I suspect the
       | soil and the ecosystem (e.g. nearby plants, rivers) can trigger
       | such negative effects even for an individual who's not sensitive
       | to caffeine and consuming in moderation.
        
       | gjulianm wrote:
       | I noticed how much caffeine was affecting me when I started
       | getting way too sleepy at a certain new job after lunch. It was
       | weird, because before I didn't really feel tired after eating
       | unless I stuffed myself, but now I was really tired and sleepy
       | and could barely function.
       | 
       | Turns out that this new job offered free coffee, so I was
       | drinking one cup of coffee before commuting, another one when I
       | arrived, and maybe one or two more later, but before lunch. The
       | only reason I was sleepy was coffee: I was making my body
       | dependent on caffeine to function normally in the morning, and I
       | wasn't giving it coffee in the evening.
       | 
       | Luckily I caught it early and could quit without problems, but it
       | was interesting to see how quickly your body builds a tolerance
       | and makes you dependent on a drug. I back up the advice of the OP
       | and I'd suggest to everyone who drinks coffee regularly to check
       | themselves, because they might be addicted even without having
       | those noticeable symptoms the OP talked about.
        
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