[HN Gopher] Ask HN: How to find a job in 2021 if I dislike remote?
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       Ask HN: How to find a job in 2021 if I dislike remote?
        
       I am pretty extroverted and derive a lot of meaning and enjoyment
       from working with people IRL, not just across a Slack connection.
       My previous job went from tolerable to intolerable as a result of
       the pandemic caused 100% WFH. These days it's hard to find an in
       office job, and even when you do, it feels like that would be s red
       flag anyway, since WFH is seen as a perk by most, or realistically
       I worry I'm going to go in to the office and be the only one there.
       I just like being able to grab lunch with coworkers and shoot the
       shit. I find i care more about my work when I feel more connected
       to the other people who are affected by it.  (BTW I don't mind
       partial WFH, thats just obviously beneficial for everyone.)  Are
       those days just over? Am I doing / thinking about this wrong in
       some way? Is it not as bad as I think? Are there places out there
       for weirdos like me?
        
       Author : throwawayfrmt
       Score  : 251 points
       Date   : 2021-12-28 08:20 UTC (14 hours ago)
        
       | kjgkjhfkjf wrote:
       | Apply to work at Google. They have never embraced WFH and
       | probably never will.
        
         | cmrdporcupine wrote:
         | At our site (Google Waterloo) we're nowhere close to a return
         | to office. In fact with numbers skyrocketing here we just
         | rolled back a bunch. Most people are still fully remote. I was
         | working hybrid coming in 2-3 days a week but nobody was ever
         | there to collaborate with. People on the whole seem to want to
         | return to office but not with the way things are. Many people
         | seem fine with remote.
         | 
         | I'm not. My motivation suffered. I need contact and engagement.
         | And driving in 45 minutes to sit at a desk with nobody around
         | didn't help. So I put in my notice and after 10 years at Google
         | this week is my last and I'll be looking for a job where I can
         | be more engaged again, which unfortunately also probably means
         | compensation cut.
         | 
         | Even the BigCorps are stuck in a remote morass. But even worse
         | because they're not fully committed to it.
        
           | ultrasounder wrote:
           | If he'll bent on getting back to work checkout Excelitas I'm
           | your neck of the woods. I am in conference call with them
           | every week and they are in the office and so am I. Or why not
           | come work for our company. Molecular diagnostics is hard, not
           | adtech and we need all the xooglers that we can take. A guy
           | just relocated from st.Louis.
        
             | cmrdporcupine wrote:
             | Thanks. I'm not in a rush, have some savings. Might start
             | my own thing, but even if I don't, I likely won't do
             | anything until after ski season. Relocation is off the
             | table.
        
         | KaiserPro wrote:
         | yeah but then you have to work for google.
         | 
         | big companies have a _lot_ of baggage.
        
           | alecbz wrote:
           | Not denying this but 0.02: after working for Google and
           | another "big" company (>5k employees) and two small (<50)
           | companies, I was much happier at the big companies.
        
             | KaiserPro wrote:
             | sorry I should have specified how big is big. I'm talking
             | >35k.
             | 
             | even a 5k company, its perfectly possible to change the
             | company in one specific way. (Even I managed it, by
             | accident)
             | 
             | at a 25k company, that's hard. 50k+ almost impossible,
             | unless you have a posse of cheerleaders.
        
               | alecbz wrote:
               | I think at a certain size though a large enough company
               | starts to approximate a conglomerate of smaller
               | companies. Sure, maybe you can't change the entire
               | company, but you could change your smaller org.
        
         | aix1 wrote:
         | I am not sure that's true anymore. Every single application to
         | work remotely that I know of (including mine[*]) has been
         | approved.
         | 
         | That said, most people are choosing to continue being based at
         | whatever office they were based pre-COVID and will return to
         | office once the public health situation permits (some already
         | have been choosing to come to the office, though the situation
         | is obviously highly location-dependent and fluid).
         | 
         | [*] In my case to relocate to an office of my choosing, though
         | the outcome would have been the same had I applied to
         | permanently WFH.
        
       | janosett wrote:
       | I hope we'll eventually be able to find a hybrid approach, where
       | some teams at a company can be fully remote and others can
       | require presence in the office. As long as this is all
       | communicated up front, I think it would cater to folks with
       | different preferences.
        
       | ricc wrote:
       | You can't...because it's almost 2022 already. :-D
        
       | LightG wrote:
       | I'd imagine that's an easy "swapsie" with someone equally skilled
       | considering the demand for remote jobs.
       | 
       | I think you'd be overwelmed by offers.
        
       | KerrAvon wrote:
       | Tim Cook, is that you?
       | 
       | Seriously, as an extrovert, have you actually talked to any of
       | your fellow extroverts? All of them want to be in the office at
       | least part time. You're in good company.
       | 
       | However, many people want full remote. And we all want more
       | flexibility than FAANG is currently willing to provide.
        
       | jl2718 wrote:
       | Even in-person jobs now have all the terrible aspects of remote
       | work.
       | 
       | You go to an office full of strangers that you don't work with,
       | just to fight over a few private phone booths to take meetings at
       | with your distributed team. There's still a JIRA sprint board
       | where you have to write bloviated stories for everything that you
       | do. And then weekly, monthly and quarterly status updates. You
       | still get hundreds of emails a day from automated management
       | tools. You still have to live on Slack or Teams or whatever. Your
       | day is still consumed by pointless 100-person meetings.
       | 
       | But now you're stuck in an office. Woohoo.
       | 
       | There is no in-person work anymore for white-collar
       | professionals. The good news is that blue-collar work now pays
       | more, you get lots of people to talk to, as long as it's about
       | athletes or exes or politicians, and you don't have to worry
       | about getting fired for anything you do say.
       | 
       | I've considered the possibility of a strict office-only policy.
       | As in, common hours, in-person only, no laptops, no phones, no
       | remote meetings, no chat rooms, no management tools other than
       | maybe GitHub, no social media, no non-work at work. I realize
       | that you'd probably have to do on-site daycare, and today that
       | implies liability.
        
       | Dumblydorr wrote:
       | You're conflating remote work with WFH. You could remotely work
       | in a shared office space that isn't your company's. You would
       | gain some of the benefits you seek from that. Meanwhile, WFH is
       | defined as working at your actual domicile and that's definitely
       | not a socially engaging time.
       | 
       | Maybe you need more extroversion sources outside of 9-5. Places
       | like gyms, classes, sports clubs, cycling clubs, hiking groups,
       | hunting and fishing with others, I'm just spitballing some COVID-
       | friendly solutions. It doesn't matter if you're bad or noob, just
       | getting some shared time with others having fun, that's the rub.
       | 
       | I'm no extrovert but I love leaving my home every day after work,
       | either to buy groceries, play music with friends at a folk jam,
       | go for a hike, see family, see friends, anything to get out of
       | the house, really.
       | 
       | Last point, ask your HR or managers to set up in person events.
       | We meet IRL about once a month and it's just right for my job.
        
       | JamesAdir wrote:
       | It's really depend on where you live and want to work. I suppose
       | that even in the US you'll find a vast difference between
       | companies in different regions. There are many companies that are
       | going hybrid and allow to workers to choose how much time to
       | spend in the office. I'm sure it will be very useful to you.
        
       | alecbz wrote:
       | > Are there places out there for weirdos like me?
       | 
       | I think the discourse is _heavily_ biased towards pro-remote. We
       | 've been working from offices for years, so the pro-remote crowd
       | has been vocal for a while, whereas most pro-office people are
       | only just beginning to realize that they even prefer an office,
       | let alone how much.
       | 
       | But so basically I think it's a completely false notion that
       | preferring remote work is the norm. That sense comes purely from
       | noticing percent of talking.
       | 
       | FWIW I'd generally described myself as pretty introverted, in the
       | sense of finding that social interaction is draining, but I'm
       | considering moving across the country to be closer to my
       | teammates.
        
         | caffeine wrote:
         | It's fun to sit in the same room/office and brainstorm and
         | actually build something together.
         | 
         | Gives that sense of camaraderie, we're-in-this-together
         | feeling, if it's with the right people.
         | 
         | I also think it's about 20x more productive if in a high-
         | stakes, high-uncertainty regime.
         | 
         | But the median remote work is probably better than the median
         | in person work, even if the very best work is in person.
         | 
         | Try to imagine starting SpaceX or Apple as a remote company...
         | I think that kind of magic just wouldn't happen.
        
           | alecbz wrote:
           | > the median remote work is probably better than the median
           | in person work
           | 
           | What makes you say that?
        
       | amrox wrote:
       | Find a company whose product is primarily physical. I work at a
       | robotics company and much of our staff never went remote.
       | 
       | My team is primarily remote but I'm actually hiring an on-site
       | person for IT.
        
         | benrogers wrote:
         | Agreed. I am also at a robotics company (see profile) and most
         | of our staff only had a brief time at home and have been
         | working onsite for almost all of 2021. I joined half way
         | through the pandemic and was surprised to find that I was very
         | happy to return to the office.
         | 
         | Our challenge, as I'm sure you've guessed, is finding smart,
         | motivated people like yourself who would prefer to be in the
         | office. We are finding that many people, even those local to
         | our market, would prefer to WFH.
        
         | rossdavidh wrote:
         | This is the best answer. In the U.S., something over 2/3 of the
         | populations works non-remote, and always has. The "everything
         | is remote now" perspective is a very professional-class one.
         | So, if you work for a place where most of the jobs by their
         | nature cannot be remote, it will not be weird to want to be at
         | work, it will be standard.
         | 
         | One bonus is that a lot of these places need IT help, and you
         | may be appreciated more. Plus, a greater diversity of
         | backgrounds among the people you work with.
        
       | pysxul wrote:
       | Come to France, companies hate remote work. You have to negotiate
       | pretty hard to work remotely 2/5 days a week
        
         | alecbz wrote:
         | Naively, this actually really surprises me. My sense of French
         | working culture is that it's very much "live to work", very
         | strong WLB. What's driving France to be more pro-office than
         | more "work-focused" countries like the US?
        
           | alecbz wrote:
           | edit: Sorry, meant "work to live".
        
       | vbo wrote:
       | I too prefer the office. I also interview people and and tend to
       | look for people willing to come to the office at least once or
       | twice a week. It makes a world of difference when you can ask
       | someone a question across the desk as opposed to scheduling a
       | call (or two, or three) and forcing everyone on the call to drop
       | what they're doing. I get why people want to WFH, but I feel a
       | couple of days in the office works wonders for efficiency; maybe
       | one week wfh/one week at the office or any other combo would
       | work, but it depends on the stage of the project. The more
       | technical/business unknowns, the more it makes sense to work in
       | the same space, imho.
        
       | whateveracct wrote:
       | I've been fully remote for 5 years. For me, life feels more like
       | retirement now than it ever did in the office. Despite having
       | full income.
       | 
       | I do various hobbies, take better care of my home, spend time
       | with family and pets. Before the pandemic, I would go to events,
       | happy hours, brunch, parks, etc all the time. Not to mention the
       | extra time for side projects.
       | 
       | I'm loving the cushy life remote work has afforded me - things
       | really change when you spend < 3 workdays a week intensely
       | working. Your week becomes majority yours again.
       | 
       | So I guess my question is, why do you want your job to be such a
       | big deal in your life?
        
       | ianai wrote:
       | Per Scott Galloway's latest slide deck (it's on YouTube), he's
       | convinced me the WFH push is an opportunity for those willing to
       | work from work to lap the WFH crowd. Companies actually do still
       | need people to work from the office/place of business. A worker
       | willing to work at the office/business is thus at a competitive
       | advantage to the much larger population of WFH-ers.
       | 
       | (However...I really would prefer a hybrid mode. But after having
       | the economy jettison me in 2008/2009 it's definitely past time to
       | exploit any competitive advantages for me...)
        
         | twobitshifter wrote:
         | I don't know who Scott Galloway is but I can see that being
         | true where the executives are being dragged into wfh against
         | their will. If you have a remote first command and strong
         | support from the top I think that wfh employees can still
         | succeed.
        
       | exdsq wrote:
       | I suggest looking at more traditional work environments that hire
       | tech roles such as banking, they're conservative and more likely
       | to be pro-office. I have a friend who works on the C# UI of a
       | coffee machine for Costa Coffee in the UK and that's an in-person
       | role because they need to interface with hardware.
        
       | acwan93 wrote:
       | I'll give you an anecdote for my company (we're a software firm
       | with developers, support staff, and sales reps):
       | 
       | We offered hybrid and remote options to all of our employees once
       | lockdowns ended. All of them (except for one) wanted to come back
       | full-time, with some notable exceptions for hybrid. Some
       | employees have kids so they went hybrid, but once schools
       | reopened they all went back full-time in the office. The lone
       | person was extremely freaked out about COVID and still wants to
       | do full-remote, and he's now working hybrid where when he's in
       | the office he's in an isolated room away from us.
       | 
       | All of them disliked the lack of communication while remote. We
       | implemented Teams, had our daily/weekly standups over video chat,
       | and talked a lot using remote tools. But that significantly
       | slowed things down and it was hard to figure out what people were
       | doing.
       | 
       | Remote does have a place, but I think hybrid is the way to go.
        
         | null_object wrote:
         | > All of them (except for one) wanted to come back full-time,
         | with some notable exceptions for hybrid. Some employees have
         | kids so they went hybrid, but once schools reopened they all
         | went back full-time in the office.
         | 
         | We had the same opportunity to choose at my workplace (130+
         | employees) and ALL BUT ONE of the tech-team chose _hybrid_.
         | Most of us are effectively working full-time remotely still,
         | but have the option to meet at the office when we want (this is
         | currently discouraged until we see how omicron pans out).
         | 
         | The sales and management teams were more in favor of working at
         | the office, but even there many chose hybrid. Amazing that two
         | companies can have such a totally different outcome - although
         | I must say the company I work for is an exemplary example of a
         | diverse workplace, with a great mixture of young and old,
         | parents, and singles of all genders and from a variety of
         | cultures and backgrounds.
        
         | midjji wrote:
         | Is it the lack of communication or the lack of spontaneous
         | socializing with coworkers? Dont get me wrong, I think the
         | latter is probably underrated, but I dont know if thats what
         | you are missing?
        
           | rsynnott wrote:
           | I think there's also another aspect that gets missed; the
           | lack of being around other humans, which is subtly different
           | to socialising.
           | 
           | Pre-covid, most people were around multiple other people for
           | most of their waking life. I don't think it's at all
           | surprising that a mode of working where you spend every
           | working day without seeing another human is causing some
           | people difficulty.
        
       | rfurmani wrote:
       | You're definitely not the only one! We [1] have been in-person in
       | San Francisco predominantly, at first due to visa sponsorship
       | rules, but also due to the energy you get at a fast moving early
       | stage startup, allowing us to scale super fast. We've had to
       | constantly evaluate whether we are making the right decision,
       | especially as we say no to really talented people who are remote,
       | but some of our early engineers put their foot down and let us
       | know that they chose us /because/ we were in person. And time and
       | again we've seen that there's plenty of people like you who want
       | to be around people and feel connected to everything happening,
       | especially those who are looking at series A/B startups. Frankly,
       | it also just seems that you need to be a lot more rigid, focusing
       | on specs, structure, documentation, when remote-first and that is
       | not as fun when hacking. We of course are flexible about work
       | from home, or traveling to see family or be in other places, but
       | last time I was with family I definitely noticed that working
       | over zoom and slack was way more exhausting.
       | 
       | [1] https://parafin.com/
       | https://www.linkedin.com/company/buildparafin
        
       | nathias wrote:
       | Don't worry, most of the adds that say 100% remote aren't remote
       | at all.
        
       | gwbas1c wrote:
       | I suspect it depends on where you live. I live in Massachusetts,
       | but because I live too far away from Boston, I need to primarily
       | work remote. (And, oh, I'd much rather be in the office 80-90% of
       | the time.)
       | 
       | Believe me, it's easier to get an in-person job than a remote
       | job! Most positions that I see still want staff primarily in-
       | house.
       | 
       | Do you live in the Bay Area, or in a generally high cost of
       | living area? I suspect the push towards remote in those locations
       | is actually cost-saving, and not a "perk." When I lived in the
       | Bay Area, _every_ job I worked involved working with a lot of
       | remote people who lived in cheaper areas.
       | 
       | If you're willing to move, there's a LOT of on-site work in
       | Massachusetts in and near Boston!
        
         | pc86 wrote:
         | I've seen this for Boston specifically, and a bit for New York,
         | but I don't think it generalizes. I live in a MCOL area and
         | 90%+ of the jobs I see are remote. Controlling for the ones
         | outright lying and the ones that think remote means coming into
         | a main office every MWF, let's call it 75% are actually remote.
         | However, most of the jobs I've seen posted from Boston
         | companies seem to require in-person for some reason. And a
         | large number (30-40% or more) of NYC ones I've seen have this
         | weird "remote until COVID is over" nonsense.
         | 
         | Maybe it's a northeastern thing? I saw it a bit in Philadelphia
         | too but much smaller sample size there.
        
           | gwbas1c wrote:
           | Many Boston companies work with physical items and high-cost
           | assets and thus have a real reason for in-person work. Also,
           | even though the cost of living is high, it's well-balanced
           | with wages, so someone doesn't have to telecommute just to
           | afford a decent home. (Unlike the Bay Area where your huge
           | paycheck hardly covers a reasonable apartment.)
           | 
           | But... There's also a weird "prep school" attitude where
           | someone's thinks they're "the boss" instead of a manager.
           | (These are usually people who micromanage and have bad
           | leadership skills.) These are the managers who insist on no
           | remote work, or put weird rules on it, because they just
           | can't trust their team or won't hire people they can trust.
           | 
           | Fortunately, the shift to remote work has made these kinds of
           | bosses easier to weed out.
        
       | severino wrote:
       | Problem with this is that you don't want to just work in an
       | office, but also have other people from the company work with you
       | at the office. It's different from people who prefer WFH because
       | they don't care if the other guys also work remote or not.
       | 
       | Anyway, at this point of the pandemic, I'd still not feel
       | comfortable having lunch with coworkers in a closed space. I just
       | prefer to have lunch myself alone, or at home, than risking
       | getting infected.
        
         | tablespoonsruby wrote:
         | > It's different from people who prefer WFH because they don't
         | care if the other guys also work remote or not.
         | 
         | But lots of remote-evangelists will say things like "If anybody
         | is joining a meeting remotely, everybody needs to call in from
         | their own separate computers". I might able to come in to the
         | office but it still affects my experience.
        
           | geekbird wrote:
           | People can join a meeting from their own computer in the
           | office. They can still get your social time around the water
           | cooler/break room/foosball table. But I see no reason that
           | _I_ should have to be miserable and come in to the office
           | just because they want to see my face in person and yak at me
           | when I 'm trying to work.
           | 
           | I see no reason why I'm required to be miserable to enhance
           | their "experience".
        
           | R0b0t1 wrote:
           | I worked at a "campus" where we all called in anyway. It
           | wasn't that bad. Arguably better because if the meeting
           | starts to suck you can read HN or play solitaire.
        
       | MattGaiser wrote:
       | Aren't there numerous companies trying to force a return to the
       | office? Filtering by "Remote" on LinkedIn wipes out a lot of
       | positions.
        
         | KerrAvon wrote:
         | Yes. OP has clearly not talked to any FAANG recruiters, for
         | example. The default assumption is still that you're moving to
         | the Bay Area for in-office work, like it or not.
        
         | paulcole wrote:
         | This isn't as effective as you'd think. There are a ton of
         | positions listed as a physical location, like "Portland, OR."
         | But then the job title has "(remote)" added to it and there's
         | no mention of any on-site work.
         | 
         | I think companies are doing this to just show up in more
         | searches.
        
       | pcthrowaway wrote:
       | For those saying there are many people working in office now
       | (I've been remote for the last 2 years without an office to go
       | into), are your offices requiring employees to wear masks in
       | office? Are coworkers having lunch together?
       | 
       | There are definitely some things I miss about having the option
       | to go into an office, but I think any enjoyment I may have
       | derived from that in the past would be negated if myself and
       | coworkers were masked at all times, and ate lunch separately.
       | 
       | I do think that's the responsible thing to do though. Unless
       | working with a very small group of people, I imagine that would
       | be the expectation for in-office workers now (especially with the
       | Omicron variant spreading). Which makes me dislike the idea of
       | working in-office even more.
        
         | jdavis703 wrote:
         | Yes we're required to wear masks, be fully vaccinated and we
         | still have lunch together. This varies by company though.
        
         | twobitshifter wrote:
         | Required to wear masks outside of your personal space or
         | office. If anyone comes to your space you need to put a mask
         | on. We had some company lunches where we all took masks off but
         | then go back to wearing them back in the office. It's a bit of
         | a show. I know some offices require a daily Covid test and
         | temperature reading. We had been doing temperature readings but
         | those stopped at some point. The bizarre thing about it is that
         | for productivity and expressiveness, zoom/teams conversations
         | are actually preferable to masked conversations, especially if
         | you're trying to show someone something on your screen. Masked
         | conversations in groups are still more free flowing than a
         | video chat though.
        
         | alecbz wrote:
         | In NYC: until recently we didn't need masks in my office and
         | you were allowed to eat lunch together normally (you were
         | required to be vaccinated, though enforcement was just an
         | attestation). With omicron my company (not the city) has
         | decided to add back masking for now.
         | 
         | At HQ in the Bay masking indoors was still required by the
         | county, I believe. Though people are still able to eat lunch
         | together.
        
       | jstx1 wrote:
       | Do you live in/near a big city? If you do, there should be enough
       | in-office jobs there.
       | 
       | I feel similarly about remote but with a couple of differences:
       | 
       | - I'm not extroverted all, I still vastly prefer office over
       | remote.
       | 
       | - It's not about socialising, I find the work itself much better
       | when I can meet my coworkers in person.
        
         | alecbz wrote:
         | > I find the work itself much better when I can meet my
         | coworkers in person
         | 
         | Yeah I think this is an important point. I would still kinda
         | call this "socializing" I think, but there's a huge difference
         | between "just having people to talk about random stuff with"
         | socializing and "interacting with the people I'm spending most
         | of my time working with, talking about the things we're working
         | on" socializing.
        
         | outericky wrote:
         | I am the same. Introvert, but prefer to work around people.
         | When we started SimpleLegal, for 2 years we were just working
         | from home. I ended up getting a desk at a coworking space just
         | to be around other people. If for no other reason than to
         | commiserate with others.
        
           | throwaway2037 wrote:
           | You wrote: <<If for no other reason than to commiserate with
           | others.>> I do not see this expressed enough, and thank you
           | for your comment. Yes, I agree. Even when I am pissed off by
           | the "sea of mediocrity" a couple of levels back, it really
           | helps to halve(!) my blood pressure by agreeing with co-
           | workers about the terribleness of X, Y, or Z!
        
       | spookthesunset wrote:
       | For what it's worth, you aren't alone. Not every role in software
       | is amenable to WFH. In fact most roles aren't. Developers have it
       | easy. They can do remote all day long... or at least they think
       | they can but they still have to have high bandwidth interfaces
       | with the rest of their team.
       | 
       | It's very very hard to replace sitting with all your teammates
       | and rapidly working through a problem. When everybody is remote
       | everything has to be scheduled and calendared.
       | 
       | I dunno where I'm going with this ramble but I strongly suspect
       | two years from now will look a lot like it did back in 2019.
       | People will still WFH some days like they did in 2019 but all
       | these companies trying to go hybrid or whatever will discover
       | that it just doesn't work.
        
       | satisfice wrote:
       | Become a medical worker.
        
       | abinaya_rl wrote:
       | There are still jobs that require physical presence. Find an
       | IoT/Electronics company or any hardware company which provides
       | that.
       | 
       | Also, try to join the local library and start working from there.
       | You will meet a lot of people and you will not feel alone or
       | anything like that.
        
       | donretag wrote:
       | LinkedIn has made the process of finding an on-site position more
       | difficult.
       | 
       | They will list a position as being local to your search, but when
       | you view the listing, it will actually be for a remote job. There
       | is no way to really search for on-site jobs in LinkedIn.
        
         | claudiulodro wrote:
         | This is definitely a recent change they did, because I had a
         | job alert that went from getting a new truly local listing
         | every few weeks to 50+ listings a day with all of them being
         | remote.
         | 
         | In the "All Filters" section, there's a new On-Site/Remote
         | section where you can exclude remote listings now in the job
         | search tool.
        
           | donretag wrote:
           | Thanks, that appears to work. Although, LinkedIn will reset
           | the filter if I change another part of the search in attempt
           | to increase results.
           | 
           | Offices are still closed, so many companies still do not know
           | how they will truly operate once they will re-open.
        
       | k__ wrote:
       | There are plenty of jobs in the service industry that don't make
       | sense to do remote.
       | 
       | Might make sense to look there, because you can't be forced to
       | work remote ever.
        
         | chitowneats wrote:
         | Quite hard to take this comment seriously given that this forum
         | is dedicated to the software industry. Not to mention the
         | significant pay cut.
        
           | k__ wrote:
           | Sorry, but for me it's the other way around.
           | 
           | I always get an astro-turfing vibe when reading such posts.
        
             | chitowneats wrote:
             | Such as mine you mean? I'm actually not sure how to
             | interpret your comment.
             | 
             | Service work in my country is a 0.25x or 0.1x reduction in
             | income compared to software. Americans are much better off
             | working in tech from a financial perspective.
        
               | alecbz wrote:
               | I think the parent means that they work in the service
               | industry?
        
       | telesilla wrote:
       | Could you find a large, fun coworking environment? The right
       | place could quickly give you the same benefits.
        
       | rsynnott wrote:
       | > These days it's hard to find an in office job
       | 
       | I'm not sure that's true; most companies do plan to re-open their
       | offices if they're not already open.
       | 
       | It probably is harder to find an in office job that is in-office
       | today. Virtually impossible in some places, depending on
       | government guidelines. But generally the intent is to go back.
       | 
       | I'm in the same boat; can't stand working from home, and wouldn't
       | take a remote job. I had eight days back in the office this year,
       | after which the government advised offices to close again...
       | (Ireland has been particularly aggressive about this). During the
       | brief window we were allowed (though not required) to go in, lots
       | of people do.
       | 
       | I do hope and expect to be back in the office properly in 2022,
       | though.
       | 
       | My impression is that the average person would prefer part in
       | office, part WFH. I'm an outlier, strongly preferring all in
       | office. I think full WFH may also be outliers; most polls seem to
       | have flexible as the preferred option.
        
         | dehrmann wrote:
         | > ...if they're not already open
         | 
         | It's not the same when the office is "open," but only 5% of
         | people are coming in.
        
           | rsynnott wrote:
           | I mean, I can only speak from personal experience, but when
           | my office reopened (very briefly due to bad timing wrt
           | government advise) it was about 25% full (the maximum then
           | allowed in this country by government guidelines). I don't
           | think, had the capacity limit not existed, that everyone
           | would have come in, but I also think your 5% estimate is very
           | much on the low side.
        
       | dmitrygr wrote:
       | Join any of the companies attempting to force a return to office.
       | When all of us who refuse this nonsense quit, the companies will
       | be hungry to hire anyone.
        
         | Simon_O_Rourke wrote:
         | That's the truth. Any recruiters offering a half hearted
         | "hybrid for now" approach will get quite a shock in the next
         | six months.
        
       | throwaway59553 wrote:
        
       | computerfriend wrote:
       | Are you willing to relocate?
        
         | alecbz wrote:
         | Is there a particular place you recommend moving to for being
         | in-office? Or you just mean your options open up a lot in
         | general when you're willing to move?
        
       | fer wrote:
       | Strangely enough, I can't find a remote job (EU). Since the
       | pandemic started I had about 10 solid offers BUT they did bait-
       | and-switch to 1-2 days a week on-site, and I just find a PITA to
       | move my family to get crumbs of remoteness. The ones I'm sure are
       | fully remote tend to only like candidates who are 100% match, as
       | the pool for remote is much bigger.
        
         | Simon_O_Rourke wrote:
         | Similar happened to me with Stripe, an out of left field "by
         | the way we need you in the office for 3/4 days per week when we
         | return". Goodbye and good luck.
        
           | throwaway2037 wrote:
           | To throw shade (probably will get some down votes here!), I
           | would have nodded my head in agreement... but keep your
           | samurai sword close at hand. When they start to push you to
           | return to office can use all sorts of stalling tactics. At
           | worst, make up some crazy situation where you "need" to WFH
           | due to elder-care/illness-care/single-parent-child-care. As
           | long as you are highly productive, it will be hard for them
           | to fire you. If they are especially horrible and pressure-
           | cooker-like, start looking for your next role. Plus, you'll
           | have Stripe on your CV!
        
             | iso1631 wrote:
             | Or just get a better job, it's a workers market at the
             | moment
        
         | PragmaticPulp wrote:
         | > Strangely enough, I can't find a remote job (EU).
         | 
         | If it's any consolation, that's not strange at all. Full remote
         | jobs are actually very rare still, despite all of the headlines
         | and comments suggesting that office work has been ended by
         | COVID.
         | 
         | In-office or partial in-office is still the norm for the vast
         | majority of jobs.
        
         | sokoloff wrote:
         | The latter point makes some sense and is a benefit often
         | pitched to employers considering going remote.
         | 
         | On the general search, "EU" might not be specific enough, as
         | different countries in EU still have wildly differing
         | employment policies, some of which are uncompetitive when an
         | employer can easily choose to avoid them. The Netherlands and
         | France are both "EU" but worlds apart in terms of employment
         | policies.
        
       | burlesona wrote:
       | You're not alone. My startup is specifically going against the
       | trend and trying to hire in just two locations (Austin and SF),
       | because our founding group feels the same as you. So far when
       | we've been recruiting people we lead with "we have two offices
       | and strongly prefer candidates work in one of them." It either
       | ends the conversation or is our #1 selling point.
       | 
       | I think over time the market will discover what percentage of
       | people want remote and which percent want in-person, and then
       | whatever that percentage is, the distribution of companies going
       | remote or not will match.
        
         | curious_cat_163 wrote:
         | Indeed. You are not alone @OP.
         | 
         | BTW, pretty neat trick to help with culture fit for a start-up.
        
       | zavulon wrote:
       | (shameless plug) I work at Yieldstreet. Our company is filled
       | with people just like yourself. Our policy is 3 days a week from
       | the office and 2 days remote, so obviously we tend to attract
       | people who like working in an office - in person collaboration,
       | grabbing lunch, etc.
       | 
       | We have engineering offices in NYC, Miami, Boston, Malta, and
       | Brazil (Porto Alegre and Florianopolis). Many open engineering
       | roles (recently raised a $150 million Series C)
       | https://www.yieldstreet.com/careers/
        
         | tinyhouse wrote:
         | Thanks for sharing. I really like this new wave of private
         | investment startups. 13% annual return sounds really good. Is
         | that guaranteed? How do you guys make money?
        
         | throwaway2037 wrote:
         | Absolutely not a "shameless plug"! Thank you to share.
        
       | ultrasounder wrote:
       | Yes there are jobs that require you to be onsite but you might
       | have to consider switching and I am hiring though for a
       | relatively junior role. I work in the molecular diagnostic
       | industry( COVID test) and you absolutely have to be at work if
       | you want to interact with hardware. There are plenty of other
       | companies out there in the medical/ biomedical/ space(astranis)/
       | auto( Tesla/Ford) that require you to be present at least 50% of
       | your time( hybrid). I can help you guide you in that regards if
       | you would like. This is assuming your are a software engineer
       | employed here in the us. All other cross functions(Marcom,
       | accounting) is still remote. Also if you are in the Silicon
       | Valley checkout Apple. Seems like they are hell bent on getting
       | everyone back in to the office, though you won't be shooting the
       | Breeze at work, won't have time to even breath.
        
       | artificialLimbs wrote:
       | The last two satisfying jobs I got were acquired by going to see
       | the CIO/head of department with no prior engagement.
        
       | keraf wrote:
       | I'm in the same boat. I found that becoming a regular in a coffee
       | shop and working from there kinda works for me. I take my breaks
       | with the baristas, have chats with other regulars, and I have
       | access to good coffee. Sure, it's not the same as having
       | colleagues but there's still human contact and you meet
       | interesting people from different industries. Alternatively, I
       | was thinking of joining a co-working space but for now the coffee
       | shop works well.
        
         | jdavis703 wrote:
         | How do you take meetings? I'd love to work from a cafe. But I
         | just have too many calls or people asking for help on a 1:1 to
         | be comfortable being "that obnoxious guy" on the phone all the
         | time.
        
           | cosmodisk wrote:
           | I've been working remotely for nearly two years now. Working
           | form a caffe is the equivalent of passively reading emails
           | whilst drinking coffee, anything beyond that requires proper
           | work environment whether it's a room at home or the office.
        
           | keraf wrote:
           | That's one of the downsides of coffee shops. Luckily I only
           | have a daily standup that lasts 5 minutes. For the rare
           | longer meetings where I need to talk a lot, I tend to arrange
           | them so I can take them from home. If they are mid-day, I
           | take them outside if it's warm enough.
        
         | drakonka wrote:
         | I'm curious: how much do you end up spending on coffee while at
         | the coffee shop, and in how many hours? I find sitting in a
         | coffee shop with a laptop comes with the expectation that
         | you'll keep buying coffee, food, _something_ at regular
         | intervals (which of course makes sense). The accepted intervals
         | tend to vary between coffee shops. I was also thinking of
         | working from coffee shops more at some point, but then I wonder
         | how much I'll end up paying for the privilege..
        
           | keraf wrote:
           | I would say I usually spend around 7EUR for an entire day.
           | But there's a mix of common sense and also agreement with the
           | barista. I will generally consume more or leave if the coffee
           | shop gets really busy, or change my seat to the least used
           | one (next to the noisy coffee machine). The baristas also
           | think I'm good company, so that also plays in favour of me
           | staying longer without consuming excessively. And from time
           | to time I help them out if there's something they can't do
           | alone.
           | 
           | I also found other coffee shop that are more work focused.
           | They are usually more spacious and with big shared tables.
           | They mind less if you don't consume regularly. Of course,
           | that's always as long as they don't get overly busy. In
           | general you will notice if your presence is a "problem", you
           | will be asked if you want to consume more.
           | 
           | Edit: I'm located in Prague, CZ.
        
             | emteycz wrote:
             | Also in Prague, which cafes do you like?
        
               | keraf wrote:
               | My regular one is Republica Coffee, but I also go a lot
               | to the cafe in Kasarna Karlin (my favourite spot but a
               | bit further from home). Occasionally, I also like to work
               | from Mama Coffee, Miners and Super Tramp (in summer, the
               | outside area is cool).
        
           | tinyhouse wrote:
           | That's why Starbucks is so popular for work and some
           | locations redesigned their sitting area to fit remote workers
           | better. At Starbucks no one cares how much money you spend vs
           | how long you're sitting there. I like working from coffee
           | shops but it's more for a change of scenery for a few hours
           | when I don't have meetings. Besides the meeting issue, it's
           | not the most comfortable setup.
        
           | antoinealb wrote:
           | When I visited Paris a few months ago, I found a coffee shop
           | that was specifically targeting people who wanted a place to
           | work, and turned the business model upside down: instead of
           | selling you drinks, and you getting the place for free, they
           | would bill you by the hour, and the drinks were free (and
           | good!). Of course, that means you get to stay as long as you
           | want, no questions asked. The prices were 5EUR/h or
           | 24EUR/day, which was totally OK for me as I just needed to
           | work for one day.
        
             | rzzzt wrote:
             | With an average price of 2.5EUR/coffee (just DDG-d it)... I
             | couldn't drink that much coffee over the course of a day.
        
             | j4hdufd8 wrote:
             | What's the name of the coffee shop? :)
        
               | ever1 wrote:
               | I think I know the place he is talking about: HUBSY cafe
               | & coworking | Saint-Lazare. Been there several times, you
               | pay by the hour with unlimited drinks and some snacks.
               | It's a small place but it is nice and was life-saving for
               | me.
        
               | y7 wrote:
               | There's also l'Anticafe.
        
             | Raed667 wrote:
             | There is a similar space in Nice: https://www.canafe.fr
             | 
             | But it could be kind of expensive if you're an entry level
             | developer at Paris or Nice salaries.
        
             | peignoir wrote:
             | Yep these are anti cafe models (HUBSY is one) you can find
             | them on google maps. On my side I find paris too expensive
             | I moved to Estonia where any normal cafe is cool to hang
             | out at or co working are at a descent price too (aorund
             | 250$ a month) including free coffee (Palo Alto labs is one)
        
       | itsthejb wrote:
       | It doesn't really suit me either, but the long term massive
       | benefits of earning a big city salary, without having to live in
       | a big city, seem to be the solution to the urbanisation that's
       | been forced upon us in recent decades
        
       | bfung wrote:
       | > Are those days just over?
       | 
       | Depending on your job function and industry. For tech, yes, those
       | days are over for at least for another 5 to 10 years, is my
       | guess. COVID has generally proven to both employers and employees
       | that productivity doesn't drop that much. It will also weed out
       | bad people managers who need to "see" people physically who need
       | to "get a feel" as a management metric.
       | 
       | The only major factor that would swing the pendulum back into
       | offices, is when future diseases get under control much more
       | quickly - whether that's corona virus or the next version of it,
       | H1N1, avian flu, MERS, covid-19, etc. When the population is
       | smart enough to win those battles quickly, and that there's a
       | company where in-person teams outperform remote teams by a large
       | margin, that's when in-person will be back and the pendulum swing
       | again.
        
         | PragmaticPulp wrote:
         | > COVID has generally proven to both employers and employees
         | that productivity doesn't drop that much.
         | 
         | I know this is the popular sentiment pushed by remote work
         | fans, but in offline contexts I hear the polar opposite:
         | Productivity struggles are ubiquitous during COVID WFH.
         | 
         | Even the most pro-remote people are quick to admit that COVID
         | WFH is not like normal WFH. Some places even had school
         | closures which meant parents were juggling kids schooling and
         | their jobs. Maybe you worked in a company that didn't have a
         | lot of employees with these problems, but it has been a
         | significant challenge for many people and companies in the past
         | year and a half.
         | 
         | I managed remote teams long before COVID and even I wouldn't
         | ever suggest that remote has no effect on productivity. Remote
         | is hard and I'd even say that most people aren't cut out for
         | it, at least not without significant mentoring and additional
         | management attention.
        
           | bencollier49 wrote:
           | I completely agree with this.
           | 
           | Certain phases of work and types of teams do alright remotely
           | - typically a team with a lot of senior engineers in mid-
           | project flow with few external dependencies. But a team with
           | a significant number of juniors, faced with multiple blockers
           | or external dependencies will underperform badly compared to
           | in-person working.
           | 
           | Whole days will go missing because of a lack of effective
           | communication - the simple ability to lean over and check or
           | ask how someone is doing. Not to mention the inability of
           | learners to just pick up information through incidental
           | conversation and overhearing other people talking.
        
             | chrsig wrote:
             | This doesn't seem like it's a matter of being WFH as much
             | as not using chat tools effectively.
             | 
             | It's very possible to just shoot the juniors a DM asking
             | how they're doing. or having an active team channel where
             | people can ask for help or offer direction.
        
               | bencollier49 wrote:
               | Isn't the same as being sat next to them and being able
               | to lean over or just ask though is it? You can keep your
               | code on your own screen and just nod in.
               | 
               | The screen context switching is a killer.
        
               | chrsig wrote:
               | leaning over is just as much a context switch. "just
               | being asked" something is often a rude interruption of
               | concentration.
               | 
               | over chat i have the opportunity to take a minute to wrap
               | up what i'm doing. I also walk away with a written
               | record, so if ive asked for help, i have reference to go
               | back to. which can then serve as a starting point for
               | documentation. or others in the chat can read and
               | passively absorb information. or contribute to the
               | conversation.
        
               | spookthesunset wrote:
               | Not everybody's brain is wired to monitor chat tools,
               | streams of jira tickets, and piles of email. Many are
               | much more effective when they can just roll their chair
               | over to their colleagues desk and work something out.
        
             | datavirtue wrote:
             | "But a team with a significant number of juniors, faced
             | with multiple blockers or external dependencies will
             | underperform badly compared to in-person working."
             | 
             | So, like every corporation.
        
               | bfung wrote:
               | That really falls on management and having the right docs
               | and communications written ready before the juniors need
               | it.
        
               | datavirtue wrote:
               | All the good docs I have seen were written by an engineer
               | who captured their own knowledge for themselves or
               | others. I have been at several corporations where I was
               | able to onboard myself or resolve specific issues by
               | searching confluence or whatever wiki was available.
               | Totally different teams/divisions/departments.
               | 
               | Juniors need seniors more than they need docs.
        
             | PragmaticPulp wrote:
             | > Whole days will go missing because of a lack of effective
             | communication
             | 
             | A friend in the construction industry has been dealing with
             | this since COVID WFH started. He works with a lot of
             | different architects, designers, suppliers, and so on that
             | have to coordinate work. He also has to track the costs of
             | mistakes and extra time lost due to drawing issues, errors,
             | missed change orders and so on.
             | 
             | As soon as COVID WFH started, the rate of errors spiked
             | upward. It didn't decline until companies brought their
             | employees back into the office. He now goes out of his way
             | to work with companies that have gone back to in-office
             | work because it's the simplest and most predictable way to
             | reduce the amount of money he loses to simple errors.
        
               | bfung wrote:
               | Sounds ripe for disruption for a coordination app of some
               | sort to track different progress of things...
        
               | spookthesunset wrote:
               | Not all problems can be solved by technology. Not all
               | "problems" are actually problems either.
        
         | huntertwo wrote:
         | > When the population is smart enough to win those battles
         | quickly
         | 
         | Don't hold your breath.
        
         | rsynnott wrote:
         | > For tech, yes, those days are over for at least for another 5
         | to 10 years, is my guess.
         | 
         | I'm kind of wondering are half of these comments from an
         | alternate universe. Most tech companies either are planning to
         | reopen their offices or have already reopened their offices.
         | There are a few companies going remote-only, which I suppose is
         | nice if you like that sort of thing (I would quit immediately)
         | but most companies do plan to go back to the office, albeit
         | likely with more flexibility and some permanent-remote
         | employees.
        
         | jspash wrote:
         | "COVID has generally proven to both employers and employees
         | that productivity doesn't drop that much"
         | 
         | Is that a personal observation of yours, or has this now become
         | "fact"? The reason I ask is that I would like to find studies -
         | not just surveys or anecdotal evidence - that attempt to
         | quantify the quality and productivity of WFH since the recently
         | pandemic changes.
         | 
         | At work, we've had countless discussions about this and the
         | jury is still out. The introverts claim to be no less than
         | twice as productive, the extroverts claim they are lying and
         | they really miss leaving work early on Fridays to go to the pub
         | - somehow that makes them better employees. Management hate not
         | being able to peer over your shoulder (although they have
         | recently installed "security" software on everyone's laptops
         | for "security purposes"). But I have nothing to point to other
         | than my own experience managing a remote team of devs.
         | 
         | I've yet to come to a solid conclusion as to how it works for
         | others. I only know that my productivity and depth of work has
         | never been greater. So if there are any resources you could
         | point me to I'd be grateful.
        
           | bfung wrote:
           | Anecdotally - again, at least for tech and not the whole
           | market.
           | 
           | It does really boil down to if your company has a culture of
           | documentation, reading and writing, before needing to
           | interface with someone in real-time.
           | 
           | Anyone who's contributed to open source software understands
           | this style of "remote" working, as that's the default.
        
           | midjji wrote:
           | I too am curious, but its going to be very difficult to
           | measure, and as you say, it it absolutely not a fact.
           | 
           | Lockdown has certainly damaged some industries, but it has
           | also taught a generation of people tech things they probably
           | would have retired without learning, and the value of that
           | may exceed everything else long term. It is very difficult to
           | isolate things like this, and we wont get another sample,
           | even if we get another pandemic later. I totally get its been
           | good for some, but it was bad time for me, though people are
           | terrible at self evaluating stuff like this.
           | 
           | I know that students at my university did worse the past two
           | years than they did the year before. And by worse I mean
           | substantially beyond the typical variance. This is in terms
           | of student results like course completion and grades. As well
           | as mental health metrics such as surveys on stress etc, and
           | in terms of the number who seek aid through uni services. But
           | there are confounders everywhere. The way they did worse
           | differs in character more than magnituide as well. It looks
           | like the majority did just about normal, with what looks like
           | a small minority doing very badly. However, this is just one
           | uni and it will be another few years before it gets collated,
           | anonymized further, and published. It also may not apply to
           | real work.
           | 
           | Leadership overall seem to be somewhere between cautiously
           | neutral and rather pessimistic in the organisations where I
           | have insight which is a bad sign, as except for the ones who
           | personally wanted to work from home, no one seems to be happy
           | with it, including showing up in management stress level
           | surveys. The snooping management meme does not apply. Most of
           | us researchers had permission to work from home before we
           | started too.
        
             | bfung wrote:
             | Schools and learning social interactions for young people
             | def. is taking a significant hit.
        
           | FpUser wrote:
           | >"really miss leaving work early on Fridays to go to the pub"
           | 
           | I used to have this when I was employed (about 20 years ago).
           | Somehow my personal take was that it gets tiring pretty fast.
           | I've had enough friends outside of employment and wit the
           | very rare exception would very much prefer to socialize with
           | them rather than coworkers.
           | 
           | I then went on my own and have never looked back. The fact
           | that I am doing quite ok means that I am productive. I design
           | and implement new software products for my own company or for
           | clients.
        
             | lexapro wrote:
             | A lot of people don't have enough friends outside of
             | employment.
        
               | dev_tty01 wrote:
               | True enough. But is this a problem with WFH vs in-office?
               | Or this just an issue of people not prioritizing having a
               | life outside of work? For most of us, it won't happen
               | unless we actively commit energy to the process.
               | 
               | (I am commenting outside of the constraints of the
               | pandemic. Covid obviously makes it much harder.)
        
               | WJW wrote:
               | Surely OP, who is "very extraverted" in their own words,
               | would not lack friends outside of employment. Even if
               | they did, they could always go out and make new ones.
        
               | jdavis703 wrote:
               | People have become much more insular since the pandemic.
               | I live in the night life district. Nearly two years in,
               | the neighborhood is still clearly far less lively than in
               | 2019, despite the fact that at least the businesses that
               | didn't go bankrupt have all reopened at 100% capacity,
               | and our neighborhood has a 95%+ vaccination rate (meaning
               | vax mandates aren't keeping people in, and vaxxed folks
               | should feel safe going out).
        
               | sokoloff wrote:
               | > vaxxed folks should feel safe going out
               | 
               | This might be over-estimating the numeracy and relative
               | risk-judgment of people.
        
               | cybertronic wrote:
               | Even "extroverts"?
        
           | lumost wrote:
           | Anecdotally, this has been coming in waves.
           | 
           | Early in the pandemic ( Mar 2020 ) -> no one knows how to WFH
           | as a team. There is insanity in the world and work takes a
           | backburner for most people.
           | 
           | Mid-Pandemic (Fall 2020) -> Companies push workers to get
           | back to productivity and deliver. Workers are used to the
           | remote world and productivity returns to normal.
           | 
           | Current ( Fall 2021) -> Workers just seem _tired_. Retention
           | is through the floor, leadership is skiddish of pushing new
           | projects in case people leave.
           | 
           | I'm not sure where we'll be in Summer 2022, but my suspicion
           | is that workers aren't getting something they used to have in
           | the office. Personally, I'm probably signing up for a co-
           | working space in the new year to have something vibrant to
           | look forward too and hopefully some other engineers to chat
           | tech with on occasion.
           | 
           | I do miss the whiteboard and "bouncing idea" conversations.
        
           | hindsightbias wrote:
           | It's close to two years. If WFH increased productivity, the
           | entire front page of HN should be blitzed with studies and
           | metrics proving that. But all we have anecdata from a
           | population highly biased to lean introvert.
        
             | alecbz wrote:
             | Tangent: I guess this is maybe just the term "introvert"
             | being overloaded, but I don't see the introversion => likes
             | being alone connection. I'm absolutely an introvert in the
             | sense of finding that social interaction requires energy,
             | but the past two years have proved beyond a doubt that I'm
             | absolutely miserable being alone for long periods of time.
        
               | hindsightbias wrote:
               | As someone once said, I hate people, but I don't mind
               | working with other people who hate people.
        
               | alecbz wrote:
               | I mean I also wouldn't say I hate people though. Just
               | because something requires energy from me doesn't mean I
               | hate it.
        
         | FpUser wrote:
         | >"Depending on your job function and industry. For tech, yes,
         | those days are over for at least for another 5 to 10 years"
         | 
         | I think for a good percentage the option might be forever
         | except some once in a while gathering in some local bar / event
         | place / rent a temp workspace / whatever else can substitute
        
         | vladvasiliu wrote:
         | I'd say it also depends a lot on location and its prevalent
         | culture.
         | 
         | Over here in France, most French companies (as opposed to US
         | companies operating here) have to be dragged kicking and
         | screaming into WfH arrangements.
         | 
         | Ever since the pandemic started picking back up steam this
         | autumn, the government was "encouraging" companies to allow
         | people to work from home, but there were no firm directives.
         | 
         | Most companies figured having their employees pile up in the
         | metro (yay covid!) and congest the highways (yay pollution!)
         | wasn't that big of an issue.
         | 
         | They also asked companies to try to stagger arrival / departure
         | times to reduce the number of people in the metro. Didn't work
         | any better.
         | 
         | In my opinion, if OP is living in France (or willing to
         | relocate here), it should be extremely easy to find in-office
         | jobs.
        
           | Jiejeing wrote:
           | I can confirm this testimony. Managers and directors are
           | doing everything they can to keep people in the building,
           | despite more than 10% of employees testing positive for covid
           | last week.
        
           | _Wintermute wrote:
           | I was working in France at the start of the pandemic, only
           | managers had access to the corporate VPN. When we were forced
           | to WFH in the first lockdown we had to email our manager (who
           | had VPN access) each time we wanted to access or save a file
           | and send it as an attachment. This worked about as well you
           | as would expect, and they were in the process of trying to
           | drag everyone back into the office as an essential worker
           | when I left.
        
             | ever1 wrote:
             | Looks like a company with poor tech culture, I am not sure
             | it is specific to France and could be seen in any other
             | places.
        
               | _Wintermute wrote:
               | True, but in my experience many French companies were
               | perhaps old-fashioned and extremely hierarchical, which
               | doesn't really mix well with WFH.
        
           | xwolfi wrote:
           | Yeah but then you have to work with French people, which is a
           | tradeoff I wouldnt do anymore, as a French myself :p
        
             | cosmodisk wrote:
             | I was finding it quite ok to work with French,some were
             | even fanatic about their work. What I liked most about them
             | was that none of them drank cool-aid and could easily spot
             | corporate BS.
        
               | vladvasiliu wrote:
               | > What I liked most about them was that none of them
               | drank cool-aid and could easily spot corporate BS.
               | 
               | This may be true, but the issue I usually have is that
               | they seem to not do anything about it. Not "rocking the
               | boat" and "yessir" are quite common approaches here, to
               | the point that a lot of people are under very high
               | amounts of stress.
               | 
               | Disclaimer: I've never worked outside of France, so I
               | don't know how people here actually compare to other
               | places.
        
             | ever1 wrote:
             | Why is that ?
        
       | smugglerFlynn wrote:
       | I don't see any solution, just want to mention you are not a
       | "weirdo", and it is _not_ weird to feel that way.
        
       | Raed667 wrote:
       | I have accepted a (slightly) lower pay for a job where I can walk
       | to the office (5-10 minutes) instead of being full remote and
       | monthly fly-ins, or +1 hour of commute each way.
       | 
       | I have to say, this setup has set the bar pretty high. I manage
       | to go the gym before work, have lunch outside with coworkers or
       | have a beer after without being too tired from the commute or too
       | isolated in my own apartment.
       | 
       | It helps a lot when you're living in the center of a city.
        
       | crisdux wrote:
       | I feel the exact same way as you. This wfh life is not for me. I
       | think it's cruel to force it on young and single employees.
       | 
       | I'm having trouble finding a new job that has employees on site.
       | I appreciate you posting this.
        
       | s0rce wrote:
       | Are you a software developer? I'm in an engineering role that
       | requires lab work and work mostly onsite from the
       | office/lab/factory.
        
       | hacful-tonteg wrote:
       | Anything requiring a security clearance
        
       | runako wrote:
       | In 3 days, the monthly HN "Who's Hiring" thread will have job
       | postings where the vast majority will be for predominately in-
       | person jobs.
       | 
       | If you have trouble beyond that, look at any big company not in
       | tech, where they returned to the office in 2020.
        
       | sokoloff wrote:
       | I think there will be plenty of traditional "come to the office
       | 200+ days a year" tech jobs once COVID is endemic. I wouldn't be
       | at all surprised if over half of tech jobs offer an in-office
       | experience for employees who want it. For those companies that
       | do, I'd expect over half of employees will choose 100+ days a
       | year in office.
       | 
       | If you want a 5 days/week mandated in-office in Jan 2022, you're
       | going to have slim pickings. If you want that in Jan 2023, I sure
       | hope that's fairly common again (just for the implications on C19
       | endemic status, not because I want to go to an office).
        
         | DylanBohlender wrote:
         | This depends on broader society accepting that COVID is endemic
         | though, and the cessation of all sorts of regulations. I don't
         | doubt it will happen eventually, but I'm not sure if another
         | year is enough time. There has to be some sort of common
         | knowledge catalyst that changes the general approach; as long
         | as events are still being cancelled due to COVID cases, we're
         | not out of the woods and "living with the disease" quite yet.
         | 
         | Additionally, I think "undoing" the remote workforce transition
         | is going to be nigh impossible for many companies. How do you
         | get your employees back to the office? You probably tell them
         | their employment is contingent on being in the office; that's
         | the only leverage you really have as an employer. Many people
         | have moved since the onset of the pandemic, and with the labor
         | market as tight as it is, few companies are going to be able to
         | stomach laying off employees who moved away and don't want to
         | move somewhere near a physical office location.
         | 
         | So companies have a Hobson's choice: declare an "on-site"
         | culture and axe all the people who no longer wish to be on-site
         | (with no guarantee that you'll be able to hire replacements in
         | a timely manner), or declare a "hybrid" culture and allow
         | people to opt into coming into the office instead of having it
         | mandated (with no guarantee that people will actually show up
         | to the office and make your real estate expenses worthwhile).
         | 
         | I think a lot of companies are going to choose option #2 now,
         | and a lot of those who choose #2 are going to reevaluate that
         | gargantuan office lease expense in a few years' time when
         | comparing the cost with the actual utilization of the space. I
         | think a not-insignificant portion of the option #2 companies
         | will end up being "full remote" companies as a result, it'll
         | just take them a few years to get there. I think the option #1
         | companies will probably be fine if they're in cities where
         | there's enough talent, but their long-term success is kind of a
         | toss-up in my opinion. It truly depends on whether the social
         | benefits of in-person interaction gives them a competitive
         | advantage versus world-spanning remote companies who can be
         | more selective with their talent.
        
           | tehjoker wrote:
           | All you guys living with the virus are going to enjoy the
           | decreased life bars of everyone in the office thanks to long
           | COVID. Enjoy having 20% of your friends disabled and early
           | onset dementia with sporadic large outbreaks of system
           | overwhelming disease.
        
             | spookthesunset wrote:
             | What the heck are you even talking about? Dude. Covid is
             | here forever. You are vaccinated and possibly boosted. You
             | are as safe as it is ever gonna get. Move on!
        
               | tehjoker wrote:
               | Omicron has already demonstrated that vaccine evasion is
               | inevitable, we are vaccinating against the extinct Wuhan
               | virus. Global human elimination of SARS2 is necessary or
               | you will see in both your personal life and in the
               | broader economy continued disability, death, and drags on
               | productivity.
               | 
               | There is some speculation that the "worker shortage" is
               | due in part to workers with long COVID who want to return
               | to work but can't. I do not know how large of an effect
               | it is, but I can promise you it is real.
               | 
               | My perspective is we are living in a time of crisis and
               | we must muster the reserves to forcefully challenge the
               | problems of our time. Furthermore, COVID-19, a mass
               | disabling event, may take years to resolve. If it takes 5
               | years to avoid catching it, I will have decades of
               | healthy life remaining.
        
               | KptMarchewa wrote:
               | >Global human elimination of SARS2
               | 
               | Yawn. This will never happen, and no one even cares. Long
               | covid is just 1% of 1% cases that are psychosomatic and
               | way overblown.
        
               | tehjoker wrote:
               | In unvaccinated cases, persistent symptoms appear in ~20%
               | of mild cases, 50% for hospitalized [0]. Vaccines prevent
               | contracting the virus, but afaik similar rates for those
               | that contract it.
               | 
               | Long COVID symptoms range across many body systems
               | including pain, fatigue, brain fog, inability to stand,
               | heart damage, tinnitus (one CEO to the point they
               | committed suicide [1]), kidney, and pancreatic damage.
               | More results are being found routinely.
               | 
               | Your attitude is quite callous. I hope that if you were
               | on the receiving end of the stick, other people will not
               | dismiss you the same way you've dismissed them.
               | 
               | [0] https://s3.amazonaws.com/media2.fairhealth.org/whitep
               | aper/as...
               | 
               | [1] https://www.forbes.com/sites/ninashapiro/2021/03/21/t
               | exas-ro...
        
           | robbintt wrote:
           | Endemic is not a social condition that people "accept".
           | 
           | It means the virus is found at a baseline level without
           | external inputs (wikipedia).
        
       | dj_mc_merlin wrote:
       | As someone who _loves_ remote working, the fact that this
       | question exists makes me incredibly happy. Also as someone who
       | enjoys not starving while all in-person locations close.
        
       | niemenmaa wrote:
       | Before pandemic I started working remotely and soon noticed that,
       | like OP, working alone doesn't suit me.
       | 
       | I solved this by joining a co-working hub that offers offices to
       | remote workers / entrepreneurs. My employer pays for the hub
       | membership.
       | 
       | I drive to our offices around once a month, but rest of the time
       | I sit in a room with an accountant and gym owner. They are fun to
       | chat and go to lunch with but they don't interrupt me with work
       | related things.
       | 
       | As a bonus I get to meet and hang with professionals in many
       | different areas and I find that really satisfying.
       | 
       | If I change company I work for, I just get the new employer to
       | pay for the office. If I need to move, I prefer cities that have
       | this kind of co-working place.
       | 
       | This is quite doable, here in Finland at least and while it has
       | some downsides, it has worked for me!
        
         | cmrdporcupine wrote:
         | I am glad to hear I'm not the only person with this idea. I
         | just walked away from 10 years at Google in part because the
         | last almost-2 years of remote just killed my productivity and
         | motivation completely and I need to reset and find something
         | smaller with a higher velocity and creativity and without the
         | 45 minute (one way) commute I had to Google. I didn't like
         | remote, but commuting in also sucked. And even when I went into
         | the office for hybrid, 90% of my coworkers were never there to
         | collaborate with anyways.
         | 
         | So my thought is that in my job hunt even if I find something
         | that's remote (likely given where I live) that I will rent
         | myself an office space nearby where there's other humans,
         | better Internet, and no distractions from wife, kids, dog,
         | garden, skis, bed, living room, TV, etc.
        
         | Arubis wrote:
         | +10000%. Coworking is, for me, remote working done right: you
         | get to separate your "work family" from your
         | employer/clientele, which means you can change one without
         | changing the other at your discretion.
        
         | cprayingmantis wrote:
         | If you or anyone else has the time I'd love to talk about what
         | in your opinion makes a great co-working space. Looking into
         | setting up one in the rural region I'm in.
        
           | niemenmaa wrote:
           | IMHO greatness comes from the community.
           | 
           | A mental checklist when looking for one (not necessarily in
           | this order)                 Need:       - good internet
           | - own desk       - place to securely store laptop after hours
           | - fridge       -  phone booth / meeting room            Plus:
           | - coffee, tee etc.       - tableware, washing machine,
           | someone to operate it       - 24/7 access       - printing
        
         | Demcox wrote:
         | What a great solution - will keep this in mind!
        
         | pawelwentpawel wrote:
         | This is an excellent example of the difference between "working
         | from home" and "working remotely". Those two terms
         | unfortunately are used interchangeably as synonyms.
        
           | terminalcommand wrote:
           | Yeah this is true. When I say people I'm working from home,
           | they look with pitty. When I say, I'm working remotely,
           | people's impression change.
           | 
           | I don't know why this is like this, but it is true for me.
        
             | jader201 wrote:
             | > When I say people I'm working from home, they look with
             | pitty.
             | 
             | That sounds odd. Pity is usually expressed when you're in
             | an unfortunate position you had/have no control over. Most
             | people (should) understand that most people work from home
             | not out of force, but out of choice.
        
               | Izkata wrote:
               | When work and home become one, it gives the impression
               | you're always on call / aren't able to separate the two.
               | Could be an issue the other people have, so they imagine
               | you being the same.
               | 
               | I do remember when enforced work-from-home started almost
               | two years ago, a lot of people didn't have a ready-made
               | space like a home office and complained about exactly
               | that problem.
        
             | xwolfi wrote:
             | But then what s the point ? We re forced to work from home
             | to avoid contaminating our colleagues but it s fine to
             | crowd a coworking space ?
             | 
             | Sounds very inefficient to me but I guess people like us
             | are a minority.
             | 
             | Gladly in my country we have 0 case (Hong Kong) so we work
             | at the office now, thank God.
        
               | OJFord wrote:
               | I assume the suggestion is that the co-working space will
               | be used when the rules/conditions allow; which is no
               | different to the prospective employer's own office OP
               | presumes to look for anyway.
        
               | iso1631 wrote:
               | Good luck with that approach, I hope you enjoy your
               | office.
               | 
               | Yet the [zero covid] approach has largely cut off Hong
               | Kong from both China and the world - a severe blow for a
               | place that built its success on global connections. Even
               | more than recent political changes, the authorities'
               | refusal to adapt to living with the virus is eroding Hong
               | Kong's viability as an international city, according to
               | almost two dozen diplomats, chambers of commerce,
               | recruiters, pilots and other expatriates. ....
               | 
               | In a survey released this month, the British Chamber of
               | Commerce found that 70 percent of respondents hoping to
               | add staff in Hong Kong had encountered difficulties, with
               | many citing quarantine restrictions. ....
               | 
               | Jan Willem Moller, chairman of the Dutch Chamber of
               | Commerce, said that about a quarter of Dutch
               | businesspeople have left this year, and that the
               | departures would "increase significantly" if the
               | quarantine rules stay in place ....
               | 
               | At least 240 Cathay pilots have quit since May, according
               | to employees who reviewed internal numbers. The carrier
               | is reeling, with staff morale at "rock bottom" after
               | hefty pay cuts last year and more departures imminent,
               | several pilots said ....
               | 
               | Resentment spilled over last month when more than 120
               | students were ordered to a government quarantine camp
               | known as Penny's Bay after they were deemed to be
               | contacts of a pilot who was among three who tested
               | positive on return from Germany
               | 
               | https://www.yahoo.com/news/hong-kong-clinging-zero-
               | covid-132...
        
               | cma wrote:
               | > Yet the [zero covid] approach has largely cut off Hong
               | Kong from both China and the world
               | 
               | Through most of things China itself had a zero covid
               | approach too.
        
               | techcode wrote:
               | The point of co-working space combo with "WFH/Remote" is
               | that you potentially get benefits of both WFH/Remote and
               | Office.
               | 
               | Being in co-working space/office gives you some social
               | interaction, less chance teenage neighbor is blasting
               | latest trance tunes on really loud speakers on one side
               | and another neighbor is tearing down/renovating his
               | apartment with loads of jack-hammer action, perhaps you
               | just don't have enough desk space at home, maybe it's
               | easier to switch between work and personal life by having
               | some (short) commute ...etc. Some of those might be all
               | the time - and some might be every now and then.
               | 
               | Meanwhile not being in same "central" office with
               | colleagues give you more independence/autonomy. Beyond
               | having less interruptions (e.g: it's easier to
               | avoid/ignore a chat/email than a physical shoulder poke),
               | some people prefer (or actually perform better) when
               | interactions are less "real time" and more async, or
               | perhaps they just concentrate better at 4am or 10pm
               | ...etc.
               | 
               | And in general idea is that co-working offices don't need
               | to be as big/crowded nor as far as big company offices.
               | 
               | Though I'm not sure how much last part applies to places
               | like Hong Kong (many people, relatively short distances)
        
           | agumonkey wrote:
           | Maybe 'working anywhere' would be simpler than 'remote' to
           | the average person.
        
           | PragmaticPulp wrote:
           | It's because 99% or more of remote workers are working from
           | home.
           | 
           | Coworkers spaces are basically micro remote offices for 1.
           | Much of the remote discourse has been about avoiding offices
           | and commutes altogether, not replacing it with a different
           | micro office that you commute to alone.
           | 
           | It's reasonable to assume that remote and work from home are
           | the same thing unless someone explicitly says they're working
           | in a satellite coworking soave.
        
             | pawelwentpawel wrote:
             | Touching on your points:
             | 
             | 1. "99% of remote workers are working from home" - we're in
             | the middle of a massive pandemic so it's hard not to.
             | 
             | 2. "(...) avoiding offices and commutes altogether, not
             | replacing it with a different micro office (...)" - if you
             | happen to cowork, there is a massive difference between
             | being able to choose the location of your office (or
             | whatever we'd like to call the place where the work
             | happens) vs being dictated one by your employer. You're in
             | charge of your physical location and you have the freedom
             | to optimise your commute and context that works best for
             | you. Cutting your commute by 1 hour a day and assuming that
             | you do 260, 8 hour working days a year yields over a month
             | of work freed up (~32 full-time working days).
             | 
             | 3. "It's reasonable to assume that remote and work from
             | home are the same thing" - I think that this way of
             | thinking is not only grossly inaccurate but will also hurt
             | remote work trends in the future. WFH and remote work are
             | two sets that sometimes intersect but are not equal.
             | They're not the same thing. To clarify that, a couple
             | examples:
             | 
             | - Most of my family are artists (painters) working from
             | home. They're not working remotely because there is no
             | remote entity that they are answering to. They have their
             | art studios where they live. It's WFH, not remote.
             | 
             | - Let's say I have a client, employer or any entity that I
             | answer to that's in a different location. I have a
             | contractual agreement which states I don't need to appear
             | in their place of work and everything happens over the
             | internet. I choose to work from an office that I have
             | rented. I am working remotely but not working from where I
             | sleep. It's remote without the WFH.
             | 
             | - I got stuck at home working remotely for my employer
             | because we're in a nasty lockdown or I simply chose to do
             | so. In this case, those sets intersect. It's WFH and
             | Remote.
        
         | alecbz wrote:
         | Not knocking what works for anyone else, but for me this really
         | doesn't at all address the "working remotely" issue.
         | 
         | Working around a bunch of strangers is better than being alone
         | in my apartment all day, a bit better still if we're in similar
         | industries, but the real thing I want is being physically
         | present with the actual people on my team that I'm working
         | with.
         | 
         | Right now I'm working from my company's local office, but my
         | team is located elsewhere/working remote. It's definitely
         | better than a coworking space IMO, but after one week of flying
         | out to HQ and working with my actual team in person, even just
         | 1-2 of them for most of the week, I realized working from my
         | local office doesn't even come _close_ to how much I enjoy
         | actually being physically present with the people I work with.
        
           | niemenmaa wrote:
           | This is definitely one of the bigger downsides of remote
           | work, so I fully agree.
        
         | F30 wrote:
         | How many (online) meetings do you (and the others) typically
         | have? How do you manage the resulting conflicts around
         | quietness, background noise, or even confidentiality of meeting
         | contents?
         | 
         | While I like the idea of shared co-working, the reality is that
         | my current job works best in a room on my own. And it doesn't
         | even involve more than 10 % meetings plus some ad-hoc calls
         | with coworkers.
        
           | niemenmaa wrote:
           | My work consists of ~30% of meetings and ~5% of phone calls.
           | We have a rule with my "roommates" that short calls (< 30
           | min) can be made without leaving the room. Luckily for me
           | these are mostly internal (and non-confidential) ones.
           | 
           | If it is a customer meeting, then I go to a phone booth that
           | has a standing desk, and for longer ones I book a meeting
           | room where the setup is little bit better.
           | 
           | In previous co-working space was this big hall and distance
           | between tables was something like 5 to 10 meters (15-30 ft.)
           | and almost everyone made their calls on their desks, even
           | though phone booths and meeting rooms were available.
           | 
           | One's mileage may of course greatly vary :)
        
           | fy20 wrote:
           | I'm also in a co-working space. Mine has two main rooms, one
           | is a free for all and the other is a silent area. I'm in the
           | silent area, and if I need to take make a call I take my
           | laptop to the other side so as not to disturb anyone. I get
           | very irritated by office noises, and this works pretty well
           | for me.
        
       | 65 wrote:
       | Just want to say you are not alone. I too want to have a place to
       | go. Whether it's a co-working space or an office for the company
       | I work for, waking up and working in the same place every day is
       | slowly driving me crazy.
       | 
       | The WFH people are probably the most vocal online (especially on
       | Reddit as subreddits tend to create echo-chambers), so it feels
       | as though _everyone_ wants to work from home, but ultimately I
       | think/hope most people understand the social benefits of working
       | in an office.
        
         | abyssin wrote:
         | I've decided to switch career because WFH has made me
         | depressed. I simply can't stand looking at a computer anymore.
         | Working for a company was bearable when I used to be able to
         | get human connections in exchange. I haven't tried joining a
         | coworking place because I didn't really have the opportunity,
         | but I think I wouldn't get the same connection with people who
         | don't work for the same company as I do.
        
           | alecbz wrote:
           | > I think I wouldn't get the same connection with people who
           | don't work for the same company as I do.
           | 
           | Mentioned this in another comment, but I'm working from my
           | company's local office while my team is mostly
           | elsewhere/remote. We had an in-person onsite at HQ recently
           | though, and I realized even working with other people at my
           | company is _peanuts_ compared to working physically with the
           | actual people on my team I work with day-to-day. (Obviously
           | this distinction is only meaningful at larger companies).
        
         | g051051 wrote:
         | > ultimately I think/hope most people understand the social
         | benefits of working in an office.
         | 
         | As far as I'm concerned, there aren't any.
         | 
         | But you know what? At the end of the day I don't care where
         | someone works, as long as they extend me the same courtesy. The
         | last place I worked at (before the lockdowns) gradually
         | eliminated WFH, converted to an open plan office, and generally
         | made life miserable for software devs who prefer peace and
         | quiet over socializing at work. I'm much happier working from
         | home, although I have some uncommon advantages there: no kids
         | and amazing internet.
        
           | geekbird wrote:
           | This. I hate open plan offices, I hate commuting, I don't
           | feel the need to socialize in my job.
           | 
           | If an extrovert gets energized and inspired by working in an
           | office, great. But don't expect me to do it just because they
           | want company to talk at. There are plenty of extroverts that
           | can share the office with you.
           | 
           | IMO, all the extroverts can drive over an hour a day to yak
           | at each other in open plan petri dishes, but count me out.
        
           | KaiserPro wrote:
           | > But you know what? At the end of the day I don't care where
           | someone works
           | 
           | I think this is the most pragmatic way forward.
           | 
           | Given my own company, I suspect that there are about 10-25%
           | of tech that want to work fully remote. That is, never work
           | in the office again, save for specific times (internal
           | conferences, and the like) equally there are 10-25% who hate
           | working remotely and want to be in the work office.
           | 
           | The rest are either ambivalent or want something truely (ie
           | 1-3 days a week, but with the autonomy to choose)
           | 
           | However for that to work, there needs to be a revolution in
           | how we share knowledge, spread ideas, and plan. At the moment
           | none of the tools we use appear to be particularly efficient.
           | VC is largely half duplex, slow and draining. 1:1 video calls
           | feel invasive, so you don't want to start them unless you
           | really have to. Where I work we have "workplace" but the
           | signal to noise ratio is really quite terrible. I suspect
           | that half of that is down to culture of present $company.
           | 
           | Slack is a much better at instant chat, but workplace has
           | better layout for semi ephemeral messaging. None of them are
           | good for longterm documentation.
        
           | fouc wrote:
           | To me, "social benefit" implies being able to make friends,
           | real friends not token friends. In which case, then it would
           | be worth going to the office. Granted, not all companies are
           | good for that unfortunately.
        
           | dbbk wrote:
           | Presumably you're an introvert then? As OP said, they're
           | extrovert, and hate being on their own.
        
             | g051051 wrote:
             | And as I said, if OP wants to hang out and work with other
             | people, I'm fine with it. Medical reasons aside, I wouldn't
             | force someone to WFH any more than I'd want someone to
             | force me into an office. However, work culture (until
             | recently) has catered exclusively to "extroverts".
        
       | RandomWorker wrote:
       | Go into nursing
        
       | mrkentutbabi wrote:
       | That's strange, because what I've seen all the time is companies
       | don't prefer remote. Both big ones and startups. I thought I am
       | the minority to want forever remote.
        
       | pbmango wrote:
       | We pulled together several lists of recently posted roles at mid
       | size tech cos. While many of these (most?) include remote option
       | - my guess is reaching out to the team to see if folks have an in
       | person option could be a good signal on being serious about to
       | role etc. For companies that are building their culture around
       | remote they may be turned off by such a questions but you aren't
       | looking for those anyway.
       | 
       | https://www.kiter.app/lists
        
       | PragmaticPulp wrote:
       | > These days it's hard to find an in office job, and even when
       | you do, it feels like that would be s red flag anyway, since WFH
       | is seen as a perk by most, or realistically I worry I'm going to
       | go in to the office and be the only one there.
       | 
       | > Is it not as bad as I think? Are there places out there for
       | weirdos like me?
       | 
       | Preferring in-office work is actually very common.
       | 
       | Take the news headlines and internet comments with a grain of
       | salt. Even many of the big companies that have temporary WFH are
       | still moving back toward in-office work.
       | 
       | The internet comments and anecdote-filled news articles would
       | have you believe that office work is dead and everybody loves
       | WFH, but my actual experience with companies suggests that a lot
       | of people are realizing they aren't cut out for WFH or they
       | prefer being in the office. It's just unpopular to say as much
       | online these days because the people who _do_ prefer WFH are
       | sensitive about any suggestions that it isn't universally
       | superior.
       | 
       | Frankly, looking at job listings lately I still see far more
       | office jobs than full remote jobs. If you're looking for a normal
       | office job it shouldn't be hard to find. However, if you've been
       | convinced that non-remote jobs are "red flags" by some of the
       | recent internet hyperbole, this could be clouding your search.
        
         | severino wrote:
         | > It's just unpopular to say as much online these days because
         | the people who do prefer WFH are sensitive about any
         | suggestions that it isn't universally superior.
         | 
         | Maybe it's because people WFH don't care at all if you want to
         | spend 2 hours commuting, or that you don't mind getting covid
         | by staying 8h a day in a closed office with tons of people. But
         | people who doesn't want WFH, not only want to be in a office,
         | they also want the other people in the company at the office
         | too, because otherwise "I worry I'm going to go in to the
         | office and be the only one there".
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | chrsig wrote:
           | This is the real crux. It's not that people who hate wfh want
           | to be in the office, it's that people that hate wfh want _me_
           | to be in the office.
           | 
           | It's not that one's superior to the other, it's that one
           | wants to force itself on the other.
        
             | geekbird wrote:
             | That's what I've found: People who like being in the office
             | and socializing want to force me to commute for several
             | hours a day just so they can yak at me, disrupt my
             | concentration, and "see" me work. No thank you.
             | 
             | If the in-office people would just go into the office
             | together and then deal with the remote people as we are,
             | things would be fine. But no, the in-office extroverts want
             | to force us all into their mold.
        
             | titanomachy wrote:
             | I don't want to force anyone to do anything. I want to
             | _find_ a team that has the same primary work mode that I
             | do: in-person collaboration. My current team has a loose
             | agreement that this is how we'll work after covid, but I
             | just joined in the last year so we'll see. If there are
             | also teams (or whole companies) of people who work best
             | over Zoom, then that's great.
             | 
             | Of course I can be flexible about things like covid variant
             | surges or natural disasters.
        
               | tablespoonsruby wrote:
               | > I don't want to force anyone to do anything. I want to
               | find a team that has the same primary work mode that I
               | do: in-person collaboration.
               | 
               | I think of this the way I think of full-time pair
               | programming: nobody should be forced to do it, but it's
               | perfectly fine to form a team where it's a key part of
               | the culture, as long as it's made abundantly clear to new
               | hires before they join that it will be expected of them.
        
             | scaryclam wrote:
             | To be fair, both want to force themselves on the other.
             | Compromise is really important when considering how people
             | work. The all-or-nothing attitude is unproductive and
             | doesn't help either acheive their goals.
        
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           | rsynnott wrote:
           | I'm not sure that's true; some people do get weirdly
           | evangelical about WFH.
           | 
           | Personally, I'm glad that people who like WFH have increased
           | opportunities to do it now, so long as I never have to do it
           | again myself. Worst two years of my life.
        
             | thowaway202107 wrote:
             | > I'm not sure that's true; some people do get weirdly
             | evangelical about WFH.
             | 
             | I don't think its evangelical as much as protective.
             | 
             | I for one have had to endure grueling years of working in
             | open office environments. I've got pretty severe adhd and
             | anxiety, that's not a good place for me.
             | 
             | With covid, the world shifted to working how I prefer. I'm
             | terrified it'll go back to how it was.
             | 
             | So I'm sorry it's been a rough couple years for you, but
             | please understand that it's been a rough lifetime for
             | people like me.
             | 
             | Because office work is still the default mentality for most
             | people, this new world that's aligned to my needs is in
             | constant jeopardy.
        
               | geekbird wrote:
               | Amen.
               | 
               | If people like being in the office, fine. I don't
               | understand it, but that's okay. I have ADHD and have a
               | large startle reflex - I hate open plan offices, I
               | dislike commuting, and I get more done from home.
               | 
               | If the office people stop trying to force me into the
               | office with them, we can get along. Otherwise, no. For
               | once in my life I can work in an environment that works
               | for me. I'm not going to let some extrovert ruin it if I
               | can avoid it.
        
           | bryguy32403 wrote:
           | > the people who do prefer WFH are sensitive about any
           | suggestions that it isn't universally superior.
        
             | severino wrote:
             | But I don't prefer WFH.
        
       | caffeine wrote:
       | HFT and finance are still mostly in-office. If you join as a
       | front-office dev on a trading team, chances are you will not be
       | remote much and people will be in the office trading.
        
         | conformist wrote:
         | Generally true, but working from home is also becoming
         | increasingly common even for front office roles (at least in
         | the UK, not sure how that generalises).
        
           | aix1 wrote:
           | And also front-office dev isn't everybody's cup of tea
           | (though I am sure this can be said of any type of role).
           | 
           | (Source: worked in finance/trading for 10+ years before
           | jumping ship.)
        
         | alecbz wrote:
         | I've never been too interested in working for HFT/traditional
         | finance, but depending on how office trends continue I might
         | change my mind (especially living in NYC, though I'm also
         | considering moving).
        
           | caffeine wrote:
           | Chicago, London and Singapore are also good places, although
           | nowadays there are funds everywhere (Boston, SF, Miami).
           | 
           | This is a wild overgeneralisation but in descending order of
           | fun levels/friendliness of HFT teams it goes Chicago, London,
           | Singapore, NYC.
           | 
           | Seems to hold across most HFTs I have met/worked at. Not sure
           | about hedge funds or other finance roles.
           | 
           | Edit: Crypto HFT firms also abound but they are generally
           | more remote-friendly than TradFi (the latter have regulators
           | that need you to have an office and stuff).
        
       | 29athrowaway wrote:
       | Some people have to spend 1 hour in a vehicle to get to work,
       | plus extra time to get ready for work. You can rather spend that
       | same time with your family, or exercise, or learn something new,
       | or sleep, or whatever.
       | 
       | Going to work every day is such an spectacularly awful way of
       | spending resources just so that you can be in an office sitting
       | in a workstation that is inferior to what you have at home.
        
       | someelephant wrote:
       | So funny to read this. I'm thrilled that I have more free time
       | and have been able to meet so many more people outside of work.
       | The last thing I want is to feel more tied to my employer.
        
       | nomadiccoder wrote:
       | If you are in the US and willing to relocate, the national labs
       | are not remote. Other government jobs too.
        
         | the_real_sparky wrote:
         | Electric utilities are fairly old-school as well and will lean
         | towards in-person and hybrid work. They will have a few dev /
         | architect / web jobs on the IT side, but definitely not top-
         | tier pay (although an actual 40 hours a week would be typical
         | in the industry).
        
       | arjie wrote:
       | Join a company that is intentionally in-office. I work at
       | Dexterity Capital. We have an intentionally in-office culture
       | with our offices in Seattle and San Francisco.
       | 
       | If you're in San Francisco, we work down by the Salesforce tower.
       | If you'd like to grab a coffee or say hi, e-mail me (address in
       | profile).
        
       | sesuximo wrote:
       | Many banking jobs have been vocal about trying to keep offices
       | open despite Covid. I'd expect adjacent industries to be similar
        
       | sdevonoes wrote:
       | Don't get it. Even if remote is becoming more common, the vast
       | majority of tech jobs out there are not 100% remote.
       | 
       | Note: a lot of companies are advertising themselves as "100%
       | remote while corona lasts" though.
        
         | chrsig wrote:
         | > Note: a lot of companies are advertising themselves as "100%
         | remote while corona lasts" though.
         | 
         | This is the thing that gets me...Haven't people in tech figured
         | out how exponential growth works? Covid isn't going away, ever.
        
           | spookthesunset wrote:
           | > Haven't people in tech figured out how exponential growth
           | works?
           | 
           | What are you even taking about? We have marvelous vaccines
           | that knock Covid to the level of a cold or mild flu for most
           | people in the "office worker" demographic.
           | 
           | Did you worry about "exponential growth" of the 2019 flu
           | season?
           | 
           | Because part of saying "Covid isn't going away ever" means
           | "get on with your damn life". If Covid is here forever it
           | becomes just another minor risk in your life like driving,
           | swimming, or catching the cold.
        
             | chrsig wrote:
             | Do you understand the difference between a novel virus and
             | the flu?
             | 
             | > We have marvelous vaccines that knock Covid to the level
             | of a cold or mild flu for most people in the "office
             | worker" demographic.
             | 
             | And now we have omicron, which is still quite infectious in
             | spite of the vaccines. Thankfully it seems less dangerous
             | than delta. Who knows what the next variant will bring.
             | 
             | > Because part of saying "Covid isn't going away ever"
             | means "get on with your damn life".
             | 
             | Part of "getting on with your damn life" includes accepting
             | that there's a new endemic virus that the population has no
             | natural immunity to, and changing behavior appropriately.
             | 
             | Sorry, but time marches forward -- 2019 is a thing of the
             | past.
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > Haven't people in tech figured out how exponential growth
           | works?
           | 
           | Mostly, it doesn't. Pretty much all initially-apparent
           | exponential growth in things that aren't human-created
           | abstractions is, at best, logistic if conditions are
           | constant, and usually is just the net of a large number of
           | Ransome events that averages to that growth curve, but
           | features gambler's ruin and collapse to zero eventually, or
           | collapse to zero due to changing external conditions before
           | it hits gambler's ruin.
        
           | rsynnott wrote:
           | I think you're taking that a bit too literally. "While COVID
           | is a massive office-closing problem" might be closer to the
           | mark. Before Omicron showed up, a lot of places were moving
           | to re-open everything mode. Omicron will slow that, but
           | probably not by much.
        
             | chrsig wrote:
             | Conversely, I think others are taking it too loosely.
             | 
             | There's going to be a continual stream of new variants, and
             | vaccines will always lag behind them. Reopening everything
             | will always accelerate this.
             | 
             | Gathering is always going to be a mortal risk for the rest
             | of our lives. I just wish the world would accept that and
             | adapt rather than resign to it and downplay it.
        
               | spookthesunset wrote:
               | I dunno how to put this but consider seeking therapy. 2
               | years of constant fear being cranked out by public health
               | "experts" and the media have done a number on people.
               | Fretting over Covid forever and trying to usher in some
               | "new normal" is not rational thinking at all. I know
               | plenty of smart people whose brains have been seriously
               | messed up by all this Covid crap.
               | 
               | Learning to live with Covid doesn't mean accepting some
               | crazy dystopian "new normal". It means accepting the
               | small risk of Covid and going back to 2019 living. The
               | one where you didn't spend all your brainpower on
               | "slowing the spread" of other viral diseases like the flu
               | or the common cold.
               | 
               | We have vaccines for Covid now. It's time to move on.
        
               | chrsig wrote:
               | > I dunno how to put this but consider seeking therapy. 2
               | years of constant fear being cranked out by public health
               | "experts" and the media have done a number on people
               | 
               | No, two years of half the population refusing to wear a
               | fucking mask did a number on people. "Some crazy
               | dystopian new normal" would actually be an improvement.
        
               | rsynnott wrote:
               | ... Eh? No, that seems highly unlikely. Decent
               | therapeutic drugs will be available from next year (in
               | quantity; homeopathic quantities are already available
               | but not to the point where they're particularly useful).
               | Increasingly few people are totally naive to the virus.
               | Over the next period of time there'll be precautions to
               | keep the hospitals operating and the death rate down, but
               | that will tend to get easier and easier.
               | 
               | If you look at hospitalisation and death figures from
               | heavily vaccinated countries, each wave has generally
               | been less severe even as variants get nastier and
               | restrictions are eased (you're not seeing March 2020
               | restrictions pretty much anywhere today). It remains
               | early for omicron, but initial signs show the same
               | pattern.
               | 
               | I do think that places with this kind of politico-
               | cultural objection to vaccines (parts of the US and
               | Eastern Europe, for instance) may struggle.
        
         | tablespoonsruby wrote:
         | I prefer office-based work but it's not the top thing on my
         | list of priorities. I've found that a really high number of
         | companies that otherwise have what I'm looking for are remote,
         | so I've had to compromise.
        
         | PragmaticPulp wrote:
         | Agreed. I think the OP might be reading too much into HN
         | comments and headlines. Remote work is nowhere near as
         | ubiquitous as HN likes to suggest.
        
       | Thristle wrote:
       | It really depends on the country, trend of number of corona cases
       | and progress of vaccinations
       | 
       | if you are in the US, we already start to see some of the big
       | corps (not only FAANG) start to talk about return to office and
       | sanctions vs non vaccinated workers (probably "prep work" for
       | return to office)
       | 
       | optimistic POV - more and more companies will open their offices
       | on non-mandatory basis in H1. Every new variant and every new
       | case in some office will delays/pause this but it will happen
        
         | lmeyerov wrote:
         | Conversely, I was just visiting one of the biggest fintechs (so
         | not California culture), and after Omicron hit, they nixed
         | their return to work plans. We were almost the only people on
         | the entire floor.
        
       | pydry wrote:
       | I feel somewhat similar. Ironically before COVID I really wanted
       | to go remote but was reluctant because it seemed few of the
       | "good" jobs in my time zone were remote. They were lower
       | pay/lower impact.
       | 
       | Now the job market appears to be reversed and the in person jobs
       | are not the best. And, after a year and a half it seems evident
       | that I don't really like remote work as much as I thought I
       | would.
        
       | hda111 wrote:
       | Try at companies developing military devices. You can't do this
       | from home (I hope).
        
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