[HN Gopher] My Path to Financial Independence as a Software Engi...
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       My Path to Financial Independence as a Software Engineer
        
       Author : ingve
       Score  : 314 points
       Date   : 2021-12-26 09:55 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
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       | anm89 wrote:
       | 625k a year. On my budget i could save a million in about 2.5
       | years on that income. Pretty mind blowing.
       | 
       | Good for him. He got a good hand but he also clearly played it
       | very well.
       | 
       | Adults whining that other adults make amounts of money that they
       | dont like is cringe worthy
        
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       | bmitc wrote:
       | The article doesn't really elaborate that well on the inflection
       | point, that is where the author nearly doubled an already six
       | figure salary while also making a career change.
        
       | CloudRecondite wrote:
       | Congrats to OP! Most of this resonated with me and is good
       | advice. Perhaps some things like getting a Masters degree did not
       | (I'm American with only an undergrad CS degree). Huge props for
       | maintaining the same lifestyle and goals as earnings increased. I
       | wish that was my case lol! Most people's life circumstances will
       | never allow this level of success. On the other hand I also see
       | many years of hard work and dedication that many commenting about
       | luck could follow but choose not to or don't realize is available
       | to them. So for anyone discounting this as luck I challenge you
       | to reconsider.
        
       | kubb wrote:
       | Good for you :) Last couple of jobs had particularly good salary.
       | You also made the right investments.
       | 
       | I'm living without a car in a shitty apartment, no family, I even
       | rarely vacation, but I didn't save half as much as you did.
        
       | mwattsun wrote:
       | Let me add
       | 
       | 1) get a prenup before marriage because there's a 50/50 chance
       | you'll lose half in divorce (at least in California.) This is not
       | very romantic so it's not something I ever considered, but it's
       | recommended to wealthy persons by lawyers.
       | 
       | 2) don't become an alcoholic or drug addict. If you think you
       | might be developing a problem, own up to it, seek help and go to
       | rehab if necessary. This includes gambling addictions. A cocaine
       | and gambling habit is probably the quickest way to become broke
       | again.
        
         | odiroot wrote:
         | > get a prenup before marriage because there's a 50/50 chance
         | you'll lose half in divorce (at least in California.)
         | 
         | Some countries outright ignore them anyway -- last I've heard
         | England and Wales (Scotland still holding them valid).
        
         | incognition wrote:
         | Real tip is don't have kids. Corollary to your number 1
        
           | VWWHFSfQ wrote:
           | I think it basically just boils down to live for yourself,
           | and don't share anything with anyone.
        
           | mwattsun wrote:
           | I don't agree with this because you want to have kids if you
           | are to have any chance of anyone caring about you when you
           | are old. I guess some might be satisfied with people caring
           | about the money you have when your old, potentially leaving
           | some of it to them, but that's not my cup of tea.
        
             | stocknoob wrote:
             | It's nice to bring someone into existence so they can serve
             | you. And if your kid is disabled?
             | 
             | Your retirement plan should work regardless of requiring
             | you breed live-in caretakers.
        
               | detaro wrote:
               | "caring about" != "caretakers"
        
               | mwattsun wrote:
               | Right, I didn't say caretakers. You can hire those to
               | come in daily. Another nice option money buys is a great
               | luxury senior living home. A good one starts at $3500 a
               | month but typically costs more (while the average cost
               | for a senior living community in Santa Cruz, CA is
               | $5,595)
               | 
               | https://www.merrillgardens.com/senior-living/ca/santa-
               | cruz/s...
               | 
               | https://www.dominicanoaks.com/
        
         | bradlys wrote:
         | Better: Just don't get legally married and don't live in a
         | common law state. Prenups aren't enforceable. Judges can throw
         | them out and ignore them whenever they feel. I don't plan to
         | ever get married due to these factors.
         | 
         | Another option for the drugs thing is to never do drugs or
         | drink alcohol. I haven't ever done any and I've managed to
         | avoid addiction my entire life. I still have fun - I am
         | actually considered the fun and lively person of many friend
         | groups.
        
           | vecinu wrote:
           | I don't disagree with you because I've gone through a divorce
           | that halved my net worth but I don't think "don't live in a
           | common law state" is decent advice.
           | 
           | If you ignore all of California, you miss out on higher
           | compensation and interesting work opportunities. Should you
           | live your life such that you limit your opportunities? I
           | don't think so.
           | 
           | I don't think ignoring serious relationships altogether or
           | avoiding children because of the potential financial headache
           | they could cause is a healthy way of thinking about your
           | future, purpose and what you want, just my 2 cents.
        
             | bradlys wrote:
             | California is not a common law state.
             | 
             | I am not purposing avoiding serious relationships either.
             | I'm proposing avoiding the legal contracts that will not do
             | you any good.
        
               | novok wrote:
               | Also to add, when your income starts getting into tech
               | amounts, it's actually MORE tax efficient to not be
               | married than to be married unless your spouse does not
               | work. Also there is nothing preventing you getting rings,
               | having a wedding and having a marriage relationship.
        
       | bachmeier wrote:
       | _Sees initial salary in 2009 (peak recession) was $100,000_
       | 
       |  _Sees last salary was $625,000_
       | 
       |  _Chuckles and closes the article about achieving financial
       | independence_
        
         | ix101 wrote:
         | The article gives some general advice on how to manage your
         | personal wealth. Probably the exact figures could have been
         | expressed as percentage increases to give the article more
         | appeal. However, for budding engineers in the early stage of
         | their career it gives some idea of what is potentially
         | achievable (in US).
        
           | KptMarchewa wrote:
           | Like what? That you can save ton when you earn 500-600k to
           | have few millions in your net worth? Okay, but where is
           | anything new in the article.
           | 
           | If anything, some of the advice doesn't make any sense. Like,
           | saving extremely on the low income. Whatever he has saved in
           | the first six years of his career would be offset by just
           | working one year more.
        
       | comprev wrote:
       | The fresh graduate salary for 100k is higher than the majority of
       | US workers will peak during their entire career of 50 years
       | (adjusted for inflation).
       | 
       | Think about that for a second.
        
         | luxurytent wrote:
         | Yes. My friend and I are both self taught engineers (as are
         | several others in our social circle -- all coming from similar
         | roots and places)
         | 
         | We are continuously flabbergasted how much we are paid, and
         | it's not even FAANG levels; still, it's more than many other
         | skilled and important roles in the workforce.
         | 
         | Part of me understands that there's still a lot of money to be
         | made and thus, salaries should continue to be high but other
         | parts of me wonder (especially with increased ability to work
         | anywhere) when/if we'll see salaries normalize.
        
           | uejfiweun wrote:
           | Salaries won't decrease until the demand of people to work in
           | tech eclipses the demand of society for new tech. This works
           | both ways. If a ton of people suddenly become interested in
           | coding, this could pop the bubble. And if society suddenly
           | stops demanding new technology (perhaps due to some
           | catastrophic hack), then the bubble pops as well. The scary
           | thing is that the latter is probably more likely to happen
           | than the former.
        
             | comprev wrote:
             | The high demand is for experienced developers and not
             | juniors. In recent years there has been an uptick in coding
             | interest and the pool of newcomers is bigger than ever
             | before. However, the _quality_ of this torrent of new
             | developers is seen to be lower than previous years.
        
         | whimsicalism wrote:
         | Yes, the majority of American (and global) workers will not be
         | able to retire in their 30s.
        
       | soufron wrote:
       | Mouahahahahahaahah.
       | 
       | So the "path" to financial independance mainly involves getting a
       | 100k/year from day one.
       | 
       | I hope it will inspire and convince all these people who earn
       | below the US median salary range of 47k/year. (and they range in
       | all age categories, not 20 years old engineers).
       | 
       | That guy is seriously delusional.
        
         | soufron wrote:
         | It would have been more interesting that he writes on how it
         | was complicated for him to reach financial independence even
         | when he earned 100k/year from day one and more than 600k/year
         | 12 years later.
         | 
         | Just imagine how it's impossible for someone with 47k/year!
         | 
         | And that's the MEDIAN salary range in the US!
         | 
         | But apparently that thought escaped him, whatever.
        
         | rad_gruchalski wrote:
         | Is he? In 2016 a US company from Atlanta I was doing work for
         | was budgeting $95k+ for graduates with zero experience for
         | junior positions in sdev.
        
           | ZephyrBlu wrote:
           | The point is that it's not much of a path when you _start_ at
           | $100k. If you 're earning $100k with zero experience, your
           | salary cap is likely to be pretty high.
           | 
           | With a starting salary that high I think you're very likely
           | to easily achieve financial independence, barring a
           | catastrophic fuck up.
        
         | garmaine wrote:
         | "How I bought a house: first I cut out my $5 Starbucks habit.
         | That gave me the money, and more importantly the courage I
         | needed to ask my parents to pay for my house. Which they did.
         | Never underestimate what you can achieve!"
        
       | phendrenad2 wrote:
       | This is good info. Bookmarking it in case I ever make those pay
       | grades (unlikely). Also if the current bubble pops during my
       | lifetime, that'll really reduce my ability to save...
        
         | grenoire wrote:
         | Yeah, as a youngling in Europe I feel like I'm about to get the
         | shitty end of the stick by the time I hit my 30s. 600k/year
         | (inflation-adjusted) seems like a pipe dream...
        
           | astura wrote:
           | I'm a software developer in the US and this is all a pipe
           | dream to me too - I started in the (software) workforce a few
           | years before this person but at close to half the salary.
           | After my first year of employment my net worth was nowhere
           | near positive, especially not five figures positive - I had a
           | student loan burden that was more than my yearly salary. I
           | didn't get into the positive net worth territory until around
           | year ~5 in the workforce.
           | 
           | 2009 was also a recession year where it was difficult to find
           | an entry level job at all, at any salary. I went without
           | (software) work for half a year when I was laid off at the
           | end of 2008 and ended up having to relocate for employment.
           | 
           | I'm in my late 30s now and I'm well off by almost every
           | measure (I max out all retirement accounts, I have a six
           | figure brokerage account) - but I'm nowhere near a
           | millionaire or financially independent. I'll need to work
           | another decade best case scenario.
           | 
           | The biggest boost to my savings rate/financial position came
           | from getting married and sharing income/bills with my
           | husband.
           | 
           | If I did it over again I'd pay off my loans slower and put
           | more in my retirement accounts earlier.
        
           | WastingMyTime89 wrote:
           | It's a pipe dream. 100kEUR a year is exceptional for an
           | engineer in Europe. Outside of finance and some American
           | company, it is an exceptional salary period, very rare for
           | someone under 30. I know senior managers in some consulting
           | company who don't gain that in my country.
        
             | sakex wrote:
             | Not exceptional in Switzerland, Norway and UK
        
               | keewee7 wrote:
               | The UK has low software developer salaries. Especially
               | when you take into consideration that it is a highly
               | developed English-speaking country.
        
               | mgaunard wrote:
               | 100k USD is 75k GBP.
               | 
               | Many junior developer roles in London will pay 50k. Some
               | finance ones will pay 75k or more.
               | 
               | 600k USD / 450k GBP is also definitely reachable for a
               | senior developer at team leader level or comparable.
        
               | Xenoamorphous wrote:
               | 450k as a team lead? I've never heard of that. In
               | itjobswatch.co.uk highest median salary for London is
               | around 200k.
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | Median is not the same as reachable.
        
               | mgaunard wrote:
               | The good jobs aren't going to be advertised on whatever
               | website this is, they use headhunters.
               | 
               | Also at this level you enter into a negotiation with the
               | business stakeholders, compensation package is tailored
               | to each profile and opportunity.
        
               | WastingMyTime89 wrote:
               | I like how people always feel the need to shift a
               | discussion on actual salary that normal people experience
               | to a few job mostly in finance negotiated directly with
               | key stack holders to pretend things are comparable.
               | 
               | Let's forget that salaries in Europe are ridiculously low
               | to focus on the handful of people who might get an
               | extraordinary position - still paid less than an
               | equivalent one in North America nevertheless - and
               | pretends its doable and everything is fine.
        
               | mgaunard wrote:
               | While London is a finance hot spot, jobs from Google,
               | Facebook or similarly competing company will also be in
               | that range.
               | 
               | And that's not even the top salaries, there are also jobs
               | that pay in millions.
               | 
               | You'll also find similar salaries in Amsterdam, Paris,
               | Zurich...
               | 
               | I'm just stating that jobs that pay the same as in the
               | article do exist in Europe, and I don't believe they're
               | as exceptional as you suggest.
               | 
               | There just is a large spectrum of salaries for software
               | engineering, and as we all know, 90% of everything is
               | crud, so of course the median will be much lower.
        
               | oblio wrote:
               | And this applies to 0.0001% of people, at best, so in
               | practice it's not actually attainable.
        
           | dlisboa wrote:
           | Engineering salaries in the US are so high I think these
           | "retire by 35" posts should be put into perspective. Saving
           | 250k USD in a lifetime would set me up for life where I'm
           | from. Never mind over 500k in a single year.
        
           | slyall wrote:
           | Where I live (New Zealand) $US 100k/year is a top salary.
        
           | mabub24 wrote:
           | Tbh it's a pipe dream for essentially everyone else as well,
           | even 95-99% of Americans. For instance the American President
           | makes 400k/year. That's a wild annual salary and only
           | possible for an exceedingly small smidge of the population.
           | And this guy is earning more.
        
       | zomglings wrote:
       | > Ultimately for me, that's what financial independence is all
       | about, and why it is all worth it. It's not about sitting on a
       | beach and drinking your life away. It's about having the freedom
       | to pursue your life purpose, whatever it may be, and however
       | impractical it may be.
       | 
       | This is just my personal opinion, but this is an ass backwards
       | way of doing things and it gets me frothing at the mouth.
       | 
       | If it's your life purpose, DO it already. Live lean if you have
       | to, become a cockroach if you must, but let that purpose ROAR out
       | of you. Don't sit around accruing meaningless tokens, becoming an
       | old fuck with all of the juice of life wrung out of you like some
       | decrepit mop.
       | 
       | Sincerely, a decrepit mop.
        
         | andreilys wrote:
         | The beauty of high tech is that you can achieve financially
         | independent within your mid-to-late 30s depending on how well
         | you do.
         | 
         | Conversely, I've seen those that "pursue their passion" end up
         | being bitter and cynical when they don't make it. They end up
         | working one dead-end job after another, hoping to one day
         | become a famous writer/actor/singer/etc.
         | 
         | Eventually they realize they don't have what it takes and are
         | now stuck working into their 50s/60s.
         | 
         | Sure some small pct end up being successful but the majority
         | end up being in the same corporate trap that they originally
         | eschewed, albeit with more debt and a more precarious financial
         | situation.
        
         | ahelwer wrote:
         | I think it's difficult to discover your "life purpose" while
         | still working full time. Unless you're anomalously lucky to be
         | exposed to various subfields at your job, it requires a fair
         | amount of leisure and self-directed tinkering (months to
         | years). Quitting your job and living like a cockroach to find
         | yourself or whatever is a pretty big sell. I also suspect this
         | process requires a baseline level of comfort and freedom from
         | stress but can't say authoritatively.
        
       | malka wrote:
       | My path to financial independent: be lucky.
        
       | jb3689 wrote:
       | > If you're still a student or open to attending grad school, do
       | everything you can to gain admission into a top-5 Master's
       | program
       | 
       | I think you are over-estimating the impact of a "top 5" master's
       | program vs an average master's program. I had a very similar
       | trajectory to you and went to an average master's program.
       | 
       | The major difference between you and me is that I never wanted to
       | work for a Google, Amazon, or Hedge Fund and wanted to work at
       | smaller companies. Salary suffered because of my reluctance to
       | even compete for those jobs.
       | 
       | > The biggest boost in my career earnings came when I
       | transitioned from a Computer Hardware engineer to a Software
       | Engineer
       | 
       | I also disagree with this. The biggest boost in your career
       | earnings came from working at (1) financial companies and (2)
       | working at FAANG. I don't think you have enough data to say that
       | your area of focus is what to lead to this, and I personally
       | think it is wrong. Maybe it opened doors for you however
        
         | uyt wrote:
         | Beware that many masters programs from top schools are degree
         | mills and the undergrads who went there know this and actively
         | loathe them (based on their experience sharing classes with
         | them). At least for my particular school. I remember helping
         | out with resume screening at a job fair and we would sort
         | everyone who went to _that_ masters program to the bottom of
         | the pile. A handful of them turned out to be good candidates on
         | second pass, but it sucks that they probably would 've had a
         | better chance just leaving off their masters.
        
           | csa wrote:
           | > Beware that many masters programs from top schools are
           | degree mills and the undergrads who went there know this and
           | actively loathe them (based on their experience sharing
           | classes with them).
           | 
           | Thank you for mentioning this. So many people don't realize
           | that masters programs can be fairly worthless even from elite
           | schools.
        
         | thegypsyking wrote:
         | The masters ranking does matter if you're international
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | How so?
        
             | bdcravens wrote:
             | For multiple reasons (scarce supply and large demand of
             | visas, unfair stereotypes, etc) international hires need
             | more objective criteria to stand out, even if it's just
             | window dressing
        
         | andreilys wrote:
         | _Salary suffered because of my reluctance to even compete for
         | those jobs._
         | 
         | The article talks about how to gain Financial Independence as a
         | software engineer. Choosing to not work at FANG or unicorn
         | co's, will severely limit your ability to achieve FI. Whether
         | you like it or not, people do make judgements off of where you
         | went to school.
         | 
         | I've had several managers at FANG talk about how they have a
         | bias towards top 10 schools, one even admitted that the
         | candidates don't seem that different but he still has this
         | bias.
         | 
         |  _The biggest boost in your career earnings came from working
         | at (1) financial companies and (2) working at FAANG. I don 't
         | think you have enough data to say that your area of focus is
         | what to lead to this, and I personally think it is wrong._
         | 
         | You're welcome to look at the data on levels.fyi
         | 
         | It's pretty clear that at this point SWE's on average far-out
         | earn HWE's. Not to mention the fact that there are a lot more
         | open headcount for SWE's than for HWE's at the top-paying
         | companies.
        
           | spacemadness wrote:
           | This is what I found frustrating about embedded and computer
           | architecture jobs. Your knowledge base is difficult to attain
           | and many jobs require you to disrupt your life by jumping on
           | a plane and fly to $country_of_manufacture to diagnose issues
           | while fighting jet lag. For that you're rewarded less pay
           | than your software engineering peers. It's not worth it
           | unless you greatly prefer to work closer to the metal.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | My masters did nothing for me. I still make under $100k. What a
         | waste of time.
        
       | deepnotderp wrote:
       | Compound interest wasn't the key here. The key was salary
       | increasing rapidly and the 600K+ salary at the end. He could've
       | not invested at all and still gotten there.
        
         | angeland89 wrote:
        
         | cardosof wrote:
         | This. Compound interest is the key when the household income
         | remains stable for decades. With monthly investments and
         | dividends reinvesting a medium class family can achieve
         | something... 20 years from now.
         | 
         | Not saying the author doesn't have merit, of course he has
         | plenty. It's just a different kind.
        
       | mgaunard wrote:
       | I don't understand how he's spending so little.
       | 
       | I spend 40k per year on housing alone, and my apartment isn't
       | particularly luxurious.
        
         | IkmoIkmo wrote:
         | roommates
        
       | mathverse wrote:
       | This makes my blood boil as a European.Our lives are basically
       | capped at lower middle class for FTE positions.
        
         | Invictus0 wrote:
         | Just move to the US
        
           | DogLover_ wrote:
           | How?
        
       | vegetablepotpie wrote:
       | Everything he says is right and I agree that when done correctly
       | can lead to financial independence in ~10 years, but his models
       | are very linear and this should be accounted for.
       | 
       | For example, finding roommates is a good way to save money, but
       | you have to be careful about who you room with. Roommates can
       | both increase social opportunities for a busy software developer,
       | but can also damage career opportunities. I had a roommate that
       | got a homeless boyfriend. I was apprehensive about it but
       | supportive at first. My employment depends on me having minimal
       | interactions with police and when I found out he was bringing
       | drugs into the apartment, I had to end the lease and got my own
       | living space. I now live alone and I lost a friend. This is more
       | expensive but less risky. It will slow my financial independence,
       | but less so than job loss.
       | 
       | Renting a cheap apartment sounds good on face value, but the
       | problem with it is that the quality of people you're around is
       | lower. When you get dragged down, you enter a world where there
       | is no respect or affirmation for your time or goals, everything
       | is an emergency demanding your immediate and full attention, this
       | is cancer for your attention. If you want to develop your skills
       | as an engineer or learn a new technology on your own time, guess
       | what you're not going to do in that situation? One example, when
       | my car was broken into at my cheap apartment, police assume that
       | since you're a victim of crime, you've got nothing better to do
       | and you have plenty of time. Guess what I didn't do that day? I
       | didn't go to work. I would say living in a more expensive area
       | ultimately saves you time and lets you grow because it takes away
       | a lot of the barriers living around poverty introduces.
        
       | seaman1921 wrote:
       | TLDR; Get a job in faang and keep interviewing and you will be
       | financially independent.
       | 
       | I don't like this article at all, since it does not talk about
       | the average software engineer. The author's current salary is
       | 625k USD which would already make one financially independent
       | regardless of any of the other decisions that they took in their
       | life (eg. living with roommates to be frugal like they suggest)
        
       | d_burfoot wrote:
       | I see a lot of people complaining that the author of this article
       | is unrealistic or delusional. I disagree. I think he recognizes
       | that the advice does not apply to everyone.
       | 
       | But it does apply to many people reading HN, and it's important -
       | especially for young people - to realize that this kind of life
       | path is possible. I expect and hope that in the future, a lot of
       | cultural and intellectual progress will be made by people who
       | spent a few years in FAANG and then retired with a comfortable
       | nest egg, to pursue less-well-compensated goals.
        
       | mathgladiator wrote:
       | As a fellow FIRE person, my key response is ATTA-boy. Huzzah!
       | Congratulations!
       | 
       | What many critics will not fully get is how hard it is to not
       | spend the wealth. I know too many people making mid six figures
       | and they spend everything. The paradox is that this adds enough
       | stress to their lives that they can't focus on the next level of
       | income.
       | 
       | Find the gratitude for the opportunity, but please take pride in
       | the discipline of keeping it.
        
       | htormey wrote:
       | This is very similar to my story. I moved to America from Ireland
       | in 2007 after graduating with a degree in cs. I did a year in
       | grad school before working in tech in the Bay Area for more than
       | a decade, including at two companies from FAANG. I also ran a
       | consulting business and for the last 3 years worked at Coinbase.
       | 
       | I don't consider myself in anyway special. I know many people
       | from Europe who went down this path.
       | 
       | The sad reality is that in Europe software engineers don't get
       | paid very well relative to the value they create. It's a lot
       | better today in my home country Ireland than it was a decade or
       | so ago but salaries and opportunities are still nowhere near as
       | good as in the USA.
       | 
       | Unless you are very lucky, if you want to make a lot of money and
       | work with the top people in your profession, you will have to
       | move. This will likely involve risk and personal sacrifice. If I
       | was to distill this guys journey into a high level formula it
       | would be as follows:
       | 
       | 1) Pick a fast growing industry you are interested in. 2) Move to
       | the area which pays you the most and where the most opportunities
       | are. 3) work with top people and adapt your career based on what
       | you see them do. 4) live reasonably, save and invest.
       | 
       | I see a lot of people from Europe in the comments saying this is
       | unrealistic or that it would be hard to replicate this success
       | doing the same thing today. I disagree.
       | 
       | While the specifics of the plan might be different for todays 20
       | year olds. I.e specialize in cryptocurrency or machine learning
       | or fintech. The overall approach is still valid, it just involves
       | a lot of sacrifices and risks you may not be willing to take.
        
         | georgeburdell wrote:
         | >I don't consider myself in anyway special
         | 
         | As someone who has within the last few months failed three
         | FAANG on-sites and a Coinbase phone screen, I'd say you're
         | special.
        
           | TideAd wrote:
           | FAANG interviews are best approached as iterative steps. That
           | is: expect that you'll fail the majority of them (this is
           | true for most capable people) and keep doing them as
           | regularly as you can until you get an offer.
           | 
           | I bet most engineers at these companies did not get an offer
           | on their first 3 tries. This is not a big deal at all because
           | they'll let you interview over and over after cool-off
           | periods.
        
           | htormey wrote:
           | I hate tech interviews. If it's any consolation, I remember
           | when I interviewed at Apple, I failed 10 interviews for
           | multiple teams over 2 years before I got my first job.
        
         | thesimon wrote:
         | >I did a year in grad school before working in tech in the Bay
         | Area for more than a decade, including at two companies from
         | FAANG.
         | 
         | I guess moved there with a F-1 visa, then F1 OPT and then H1-B?
         | 
         | The "best" flow at the moment from what I have seen seems to be
         | working for FAANG in Europe and then moving with a L1 visa,
         | though that depends of course on the company.
        
           | htormey wrote:
           | Yep. That was my plan, do the cheapest best course that would
           | get me an F1 (student visa) then do an internship with OPT
           | and switch to full time.
           | 
           | Agreed, re FAANG or other companies that have a USA presence.
        
       | ericmcer wrote:
       | The main takeaway from this is that you want to work FAANG lol.
       | He was on track to hit 2m in 20-25 years until he shifted to
       | Google/Amazon. A vast part of his compensation was probably in
       | stock and those stocks are way up, so he hit his savings goal
       | within a few years. He would have spent 15 years at Intel/Sun to
       | hit the same #s
        
       | dogma1138 wrote:
       | So rough calculation here..
       | 
       | $100K first job which is around PS74K in the UK... you aren't
       | likely to get anywhere near that as a grad masters or not here
       | but after taxes and student loan payments (which are deducted
       | from your income in the UK) and all other deductions you'll end
       | up with PS42,908.26 per year, that's $56K.
       | 
       | And this is where this breaks down for people in tech outside of
       | the US at least.
       | 
       | In the UK the path was at least until IR35 kicked in was to slave
       | for about 10 years and become a contractor at which point you'll
       | charge per day nearly as much as you used to get per week if not
       | per month...
        
         | PUSH_AX wrote:
         | IR35 hasn't really affected that path, you can find contracts
         | that are outside of the legislation and as long as your working
         | practices are also outside you're fine, there are also
         | insurances now for these things.
        
           | dogma1138 wrote:
           | A lot of companies don't hire contractors under their own LTD
           | anymore they only take those that come through an umbrella
           | company that pays them under PAYE.
        
             | PUSH_AX wrote:
             | The people taking these roles arguably aren't contractors
             | anyway. The market in the uk for contracts outside the
             | legislation is healthy.
        
           | gnfargbl wrote:
           | There is also nothing -- literally, nothing -- to prevent you
           | from finding a remote work contract with a US company, and
           | billing them at a rate appropriate for the US market. From
           | your point of view, there is no VAT chargeable on B2B
           | services supplied to a customer located outside the EU, and
           | you can get paid easily using a Wise account. From the
           | client's point of view, give them a W2-BEN-E and they can
           | effectively consider you as 1066 status.
        
         | nickkell wrote:
         | I started out at PS21k and in 10 years haven't reached the
         | author's starting salary! The real advice should be for
         | everyone to relocate to the US
        
           | tluyben2 wrote:
           | You can do a lot of it without moving to the US or working as
           | a small but niche consultancy outfit (I get 200+ euro/hour
           | from and in the eu); wfh for a US company, as a company in a
           | cheap EU country that has favorable tax for companies. Then
           | optimize. For instance, a UK company can deduct a lot of
           | things especially work from home, you just need to optimize
           | for them. Works fine for programmers at least. I do not think
           | people who 'work jobs' know how much they can optimize their
           | position; which is comparable to the US in rights really in
           | many EU countries.
        
           | Sholmesy wrote:
           | You should reconsider your worth and attempt to re-negotiate
           | pay.
           | 
           | I started out 6-7 years ago at PS30k and am now at PS100k +
           | options (worthless). Have only ever worked at startups. You
           | can 1.5x that easily at a big tech (some FAANG jobs exist in
           | London).
        
             | dogma1138 wrote:
             | You then end up paying London rent... You won't be able to
             | afford to rent a luxury London flat on 100K or even 150K
             | but a 2 bed in any decent area is PS2-2.5K council tax and
             | utilities would be another PS200 p/m easily.
             | 
             | You are probably better off making PS80K in Manchester as a
             | senior dev than PS100-110K in London. Newcastle has also a
             | decent tech ecosystem tho it is very much focused around
             | Sage.
        
               | switch007 wrote:
               | What companies pay PS80k in Manc?
               | 
               | (Not denying it, genuinely curious which sector/companies
               | etc)
        
               | Sholmesy wrote:
               | Maybe. We own our flat in Zone 1 (Soho, 48k down payment,
               | 12k closing costs) after 5 years saving, mortgage is
               | 2.29% ~ 1900 a month. Save about 2500 a month. The one
               | thing I will say is that the "single tax" certainly
               | exists in London, and I find my situation affordable
               | because I have no kids, and my partner brings in an other
               | PS35k or so. If we wanted a 3 bedroom or something,
               | forget about it. That's when it becomes absurd to live in
               | central and totally prohibitive.
               | 
               | Also, my experience with London companies + recruiters in
               | the last 3 months has been that permanant remote roles
               | have been cropping up. I would say its about 50/50 of
               | whether a job requires _any_ on prem time, and about 90
               | /10 that the job requires 1-2 days a week on prem.
        
               | dogma1138 wrote:
               | What flat did you buy in Soho for 480K assuming that it
               | was a 10% deposit, or a better question would be when...
        
               | Sholmesy wrote:
               | I've said way too much PII already, but it's on HMRC/Land
               | Registry if you want to look it up. Bought in 2019. Non-
               | council.
        
               | dogma1138 wrote:
               | For a 2019 purchase there is no way that's more than a
               | studio maybe maybe a tiny 1 bed, if I want to buy where I
               | rent now (W2) I'm looking at 1M+ for any two bed that
               | isn't a 50sq/m lower ground closet, the non council is a
               | given I don't think there are any council properties in
               | Soho...
               | 
               | The 2 bed flat I'm renting got recently evaluated at 1.7M
               | it's very nice and very large (for London)but the lease
               | remaining on it is 68 years and the Victorian building it
               | sits in would need a lot of work very very soon so the
               | buyers are looking at 350-400K bill within a few years of
               | buying the flat (leasehold renewal and building repairs)
               | on top of that which also is why the current landlord is
               | looking to sell.
               | 
               | As it stands now if you want to buy a property for PS600K
               | you are looking at PS60K deposit, PS20K stamp duty and
               | probably another PS20K for misc costs.
               | 
               | PS600K is a below what an average new build in a Zone 3
               | would cost you these days outside of the few units they
               | reserve for HTB. If you can save PS3K a month you're
               | looking at 3 years of saving. Since most people / couples
               | would struggle to save even PS1K a month especially in
               | their early careers they are probably looking at a decade
               | of saving for a property or even more if the house prices
               | keep on rising as fast as they are now.
        
               | vr46 wrote:
               | I stayed at my ex's flat in W2 around twenty years ago,
               | the estate was selling 2-beds for 240K then - are you
               | suggesting those flats are over PS1M?? I dare not look at
               | prices.
               | 
               | Edit: Reader, he looked at the prices
               | 
               | Found almost identical flat at 499,999K, so coming in at
               | less than Millbank flats were going for in 2016. Those
               | flats are only PS25K more now. This seems perfectly
               | doable for software engineers who have a good permanent
               | job or are contracting.
        
               | vr46 wrote:
               | We lived in NW1, W1H and SW1 for fifteen years and it was
               | totally doable with two earners even starting on a perm
               | salary of 35K, and as the income increased we stayed, but
               | within three years of kids arriving, it was clear that we
               | needed to make a choice. Stay with a two-bedroom in Zone
               | 1 - and pollution etc - or jet to Zone 4 and triple our
               | space.
               | 
               | Five years later I think it's _more_ feasible to stay in
               | Zone 1 or 2 with kids as the air becomes cleaner and you
               | should have saved up enough to find a bigger place. A
               | friend travels from Zone 1 to 4 every on the train for
               | the school run, so it 's perfectly doable given flexible
               | working.
        
               | Sholmesy wrote:
               | Totally agree re; kids and air pollution etc, it's
               | getting better every year.
               | 
               | The $$$ is the problem. 3 bedroom in Zone 1 is 1.5-2m
        
               | cutler wrote:
               | It's the other way round. The London wage differential is
               | much higher than the rent differential outside London.
        
               | dogma1138 wrote:
               | Not any more I'm on PS150K base and total cash comp of
               | around PS200K with bonus, car allowance and some other
               | perks.
               | 
               | Whilst it's true that I probably won't find a pay like
               | this outside of London it's also quite hard to get it
               | within London if I lose my job it's more likely that I'll
               | have to take a pay cut than not.
               | 
               | In fact once you get to 6 figures in the UK outside of
               | contracting it's not uncommon to essentially bounce up
               | and down by as much as 30% between jobs.
               | 
               | Looking at the more median salaries especially post COVID
               | the pay gap has shrunk considerably.
               | 
               | Finance/Fintech is still very much London centric and
               | those places pay the most in uk tech outside some senior
               | FAANG roles but not everyone is lucky enough to land
               | those.
               | 
               | It's even not about being good or asking for more it's
               | really about just landing a job with an employer that is
               | able and willing to pay that much and being able to
               | justify that to them and it's not as easy as it seems to
               | be in SV.
               | 
               | In fact just before the pandemic I was looking to make a
               | move and I went to a few recruiters and their honest
               | advice was pretty much stay where I was (less than what I
               | get now but 20% (5/15 split) pension and very very good
               | benefits).
               | 
               | I did managed to move in early 2020 to my current role
               | but that was through my network.
               | 
               | Overall considering it the loss of pension I probably
               | came out even it was more of wanting to do something new
               | in a different setting than the pay.
        
               | Sholmesy wrote:
               | That's really good comp for the UK. Well done!
               | 
               | Do you mind me asking what industry you're in?
        
               | dogma1138 wrote:
               | Data science, before that was finance.
        
           | CodeGlitch wrote:
           | Came here to say exactly the same thing (although it was more
           | like PS19k as it was the games industry).
        
           | 300bps wrote:
           | At my last company we hired new computer science graduates at
           | more than $100k per year.
           | 
           | A friend of mine has a son that just got a job offer right
           | out of a medium tier computer science school with total
           | compensations more than $200k per year.
        
           | unbanned wrote:
           | But think about it. The fact you don't live in America can
           | not have a price placed on it.
        
             | CodeGlitch wrote:
             | There are some really nice places in the states - although
             | SF or NY are not one of them...
             | 
             | Saying that, I'd rather live in NY than London.
        
               | asdadsdad wrote:
               | I'd take London anytime over NYC
        
         | merrvk wrote:
         | Tax in the UK is absurd (for what most actually get out of it)
        
           | mmarq wrote:
           | In the UK, the stronger drag on wealth accumulation for the
           | poor is the absurd taxation on the middle incomes (50K+),
           | especially given the very low level of service of public
           | schools, healthcare system, childcare, etc...
        
             | refurb wrote:
             | Not making a judgement call on which is better (its all
             | trade offs), but this is what Americans don't get - all
             | those social benefits have a cost and a good portion falls
             | on the middle to upper middle class.
             | 
             | I think a lot of Americans envision finding a European
             | style social safety net by only taxing billionaires.
        
               | dogma1138 wrote:
               | I don't think the UK has a European style safety net,
               | they don't tax enough people for that the first PS12.5K
               | of your income (below PS100K) are income tax exempt the
               | UK has the narrowest tax base in Europe.
        
               | mmarq wrote:
               | I think the UK managed to strike the worst possible
               | compromise between the Europeans and the Americans. The
               | NHS provides some basic service, but if you want a French
               | or Italian style healthcare, you'll end up spending
               | thousands of pounds per year, assuming you are relatively
               | healthy. Childcare is nonexistent, nurseries cost in the
               | order of 1500PS per month per child. State schools are so
               | bad that it's normal to send your child to a private
               | school. Unemployment benefits are offensive.
               | 
               | All this while everybody with a professional job faces a
               | 40% marginal tax rate (plus NI).
        
             | berdario wrote:
             | Agree that the stronger drag is the cost of childcare, but
             | the poor don't earn 50k+
             | 
             | In fact, if you earn 50k as a single without dependants (or
             | if you are a couple with 2x50k income) you're definitely
             | richer than the majority of folks.
             | 
             | Also, the UK tax system is incredibly generous to high
             | income folks: 40k+ tax exempt pension contributions, 20k
             | ISA allowance, 12k cgt allowance. It means that you can
             | accumulate a good chunk of capital before you'll even have
             | to start paying taxes
        
               | dogma1138 wrote:
               | You start to lose your income tax allowance at PS100K
               | that more than offsets the CGT tax allowance and puts you
               | in a hidden 60% tax rate.
               | 
               | Childcare is expensive as fuck and you lose your
               | childcare allowance at PS50K in fact if you share a
               | household with anyone who claims it and you earn more
               | than PS50K they'll deduct that from you...
               | 
               | Living on wealth in the UK is as easy as in the US I
               | would agree to that perhaps even easier since there are
               | no property taxes and probably even more tax schemes to
               | leverage than in the US but getting to that point under
               | PAYE even whilst earning well above the median wage isn't
               | easy especially if you want to have children and have to
               | live in London for that pay.
               | 
               | The main issue is just how depressed many of the wages in
               | the UK are and thus just how narrow the tax base is.
        
               | mmarq wrote:
               | My point is that if you start your career owning nothing
               | and work hard, you pay an insane amount of tax on it.
               | Even if you make 100000PS per annum, it will take 20
               | years to accumulate as much wealth as a guy who inherited
               | a 60 square meter flat. In the meanwhile this other guy
               | hasn't paid a pound of tax and is maybe receiving some
               | benefit.
               | 
               | I should have specified that the problem is the taxation
               | of work-related income (the main source of income of the
               | poor) compared to the taxation of wealth. On this respect
               | I find particularly egregious the NI hike (an increase of
               | the income tax or the introduction of a property tax
               | would have been more appropriate).
        
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         | dkdbejwi383 wrote:
         | USA salaries are really unbelievable. That PS74,000 which seems
         | to be a poor salary in the USA judging the the OP would be a
         | really very good salary in the UK
        
           | nitrogen wrote:
           | Are UK salaries quoted post-tax? USA salaries and wages are
           | usually quoted pre-tax. Obviously not a 5-10x difference, but
           | that still makes comparison more difficult with regions that
           | usually discuss post-tax earnings.
        
             | JonChesterfield wrote:
             | Quoted before income tax and employee national insurance
             | (50%ish) and after employer national insurance (13%). Most
             | people seem to forget about that extra 13 since it
             | disappears before the 'gross' number on the payslip.
        
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       | joebiden2024 wrote:
       | I'm in a similar but worse boat - my net worth is only now
       | reaching $375k after 3 years in the market. Most of my friends
       | and coworkers are pushing 750k to 5-7 million.
       | 
       | The biggest takeaway is, of course, in-flow over spending.
        
         | dang wrote:
         | Can you please not use a trollish username? We ban such
         | accounts because it has the effect of subtly trolling every
         | thread the account posts to. Maybe you didn't intend it that
         | way, but these effects end up happening regardless of intent,
         | and we've learned it's better to deal with this early than to
         | let the problem compound over time.
         | 
         | If you'd like to pick a different username we'll be happy to
         | rename it for you.
         | 
         | https://hn.algolia.com/?sort=byDate&dateRange=all&type=comme...
        
       | gmanis wrote:
       | Very well done. The best part is that a modest 4% return on net
       | worth/investments will yield about 100k a year which is a very
       | good amount for most people.
        
         | Retric wrote:
         | Living off 4% works in retirement because you can in part live
         | off principle. In early retirement it's not going to work out
         | nearly as well because you get the reverse of dollar cost
         | averaging, removing money in down markets is more expensive
         | than in good ones. You need either dramatically reduce spending
         | when your portfolio is down or to live well below the expected
         | returns.
        
           | gmanis wrote:
           | Agreed completely. I meant in the sense of having this 100k
           | once you retire and to continue to work on this high paying
           | job for a few more years assuming you do a proper asset
           | allocation.
        
           | smileysteve wrote:
           | But in the Us, you are currently free of 7.5% payroll tax and
           | your income tax caps to 15%. Plus, you no longer need to save
           | 15% of your income for retirement.
           | 
           | The most expensive early retirement tax in the us is health
           | insurance.
        
           | ahelwer wrote:
           | The straightforward 4% analysis is a simplification. It's
           | pretty easy (and pleasant, even) to do independent
           | contracting for a couple months of the year and cover almost
           | all your living expenses - so no or very little withdrawal.
           | Since you have lots of leisure time to explore your
           | interests, you can also get lucrative niche-of-niche
           | contracts in your specialty.
        
             | Retric wrote:
             | You can also live comfortably in most of the US on 30k per
             | year assuming you have no dependents or disabilities. It's
             | simply a comment about spending not the ability to retire.
        
           | sillysaurusx wrote:
           | I'm not sure I understand. Is it really true that you can't
           | extract 4% cash money per year off of a million dollars, even
           | in a down market, without shrinking the principal?
           | 
           | $100k should be enough to live comfortably off of in the
           | Midwest.
        
             | ZephyrBlu wrote:
             | I'm confused by your question. If you take 4% of the
             | principal and the market does not return at least 4%, your
             | principle has shrunk. This does not account for inflation
             | either.
             | 
             | The Trinity study that the 4% rule comes from is based on
             | having _some_ assets left after 30 years, not the original
             | principle being intact.
             | 
             | Trinity study: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trinity_study
        
       | hiq wrote:
       | If the author lurks around: the investment part would be more
       | convincing if you added the gains you got from it to the table,
       | at least between the first and last year.
        
       | stakkur wrote:
       | One common thread these kinds of stories seem to always share: a
       | single, childless person earned an extremely high (and rare)
       | level of income, hoarded it for several years, then 'retired'.
       | 
       | The author earned the majority of their net worth in only a few
       | years (five or six) via a high salary and stock options. There's
       | nothing wrong with that, but for most anyone--American or not--
       | it's an unrealistic, semi-mythical story that says more about a
       | lopsided economic system than life.
       | 
       | And so, the main lesson of such stories (for me) is always
       | "extraordinarily high incomes without significant life
       | encumbrances make it easy to quickly hoard money and compound
       | it".
        
       | xupybd wrote:
       | Well done. That's a huge income and good on you for holding onto
       | it.
       | 
       | I'm attempting a much slower version of this. But hope to retire
       | well off by following the Dave Ramsey method.
        
       | abagheri43 wrote:
        
       | binkHN wrote:
       | TL;DR: Get a high paying job, live frugally, invest everything
       | else and don't have children.
        
       | tdrdt wrote:
       | The author was lucky to earn a huge amount of money.
       | 
       | 99% of the people can't do anything with this advice because they
       | don't have any savings to begin with.
       | 
       | I wonder if the author even understands how lucky he is.
        
         | lordnacho wrote:
         | I think the real luck is getting on the ladder in the first
         | place, where you have a prestigious job that is a natural step
         | to even more prestigious jobs, ie you are always a likely
         | candidate for the job above. Most hedge funds and FAANG
         | employers get a lot of resumes that will never even be read.
         | 
         | Also you really don't know what you're actually applying for
         | when you're a graduate. You think you know but only those who
         | are fortunate are able to get it right. Plenty of people get a
         | job thinking it leads somewhere. For instance, I've interviewed
         | a lot of financial ops people who think they're on the ladder
         | to becoming a trader. It does happen, but not that often.
         | 
         | But good on him, it still takes work and dedication to do
         | something like this.
        
           | whimsicalism wrote:
           | > For instance, I've interviewed a lot of financial ops
           | people who think they're on the ladder to becoming a trader
           | 
           | I think it is definitely possible to know. My college friends
           | with parents in tech certainly knew.
           | 
           | When I was in college, I looked over H1B data to get a sense
           | of what was really going on. The conclusion: finance,
           | consulting, law, all vastly overrated in compensation unless
           | you are doing quantitative finance or have a very rare job.
           | 
           | Medicine and tech, appropriately rated for comp.
        
           | georgeburdell wrote:
           | True in my experience. The path is set long before you think
           | it is. Yes, you can jump on the prestige track later on (in
           | my field, this means joining Apple after 5-10 years of
           | working), but a Stanford grad naturally walks into these
           | jobs. My spouse and I have the same degree and background,
           | aside from alma mater, but they joined a FAANG, in a design
           | role, out of school because that's where everyone in their
           | Stanford circle was going. I joined a tier 2 company in QA
           | because that's where my school was feeding people. 6 years
           | later, my spouse is a multi-millionare* and I'm around 1 with
           | 4 more years of experience.
           | 
           | I've been trying for years to jump to a FAANG and correct my
           | initial career mistake, but it's extremely difficult and I've
           | only seen the top 10% of my company, in the right positions
           | (not QA), do it. I need to do two jumps: QA to design, then
           | tier 2 to tier 1. As a result, I've actually decided to throw
           | in the towel and "reroll" as a software dev.
           | 
           | * For the purposes of retirement we track our net worths
           | separately
           | 
           | [Edit] I also would like to mention that the article says as
           | much
        
             | PascLeRasc wrote:
             | Changing career tracks like that is so hard. You almost
             | need to hide your experience in interviews. I've had so
             | many interviews get derailed because the interviewer finds
             | out that I'm looking to switch away from a field I don't
             | enjoy and realizes that they have another opening there
             | they'd rather fill.
        
             | throwaway6734 wrote:
             | Absolutely. What's incredibly frustrating is that as I've
             | moved up the employer prestige ladder, the level of talent
             | definitely goes up, but so much of it is just a rise in
             | credentials (e.g., better schools, better past jobs).
             | Levels of motivation/effort don't seem too different: there
             | are still the same groups of lazy people that put in the
             | bare minimum and others that do a great job.
             | 
             | Each hop up takes a good mix of hard work and luck but it
             | always results in a massive jump in pay
        
         | j3th9n wrote:
         | People can still follow some of his advice, maybe end up with
         | less money, but there's still some good advice.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | > _The author was lucky to earn a huge amount of money._
         | 
         | He's not earning "huge" amounts of money for jobs in that
         | field. (Additionally, it's a field that most intelligent people
         | can enter with 1-3 years of study.)
         | 
         | https://twitter.com/danluu/status/1447997574556880902
        
           | ZephyrBlu wrote:
           | What proportion of SWEs make the kind of money that Dan Luu
           | and the author are talking about?
        
           | ac29 wrote:
           | The author is solidly in the top 1% of income for the US. The
           | implication that 99% of working Americans are stupid or lazy
           | is frankly insulting.
        
         | avindroth wrote:
         | This is why people don't want to talk about money
        
           | ZephyrBlu wrote:
           | There is little point in discussing money and using yourself
           | as an example when you are extremely well off.
           | 
           | Congrats to OP for having a lot of money in the bank, but
           | there is nothing special or unique about their advice. It's
           | the usual invest your money, don't spend too much, try to get
           | into a top company, etc.
           | 
           | Even for someone in a similar situation, there is very little
           | here that I haven't seen repeated elsewhere countless times.
        
             | avindroth wrote:
             | I highly doubt this is _just_ about quality of his advice.
             | Look at all these comments, and the salt.
             | 
             | Remove a zero from his salaries, and the response would
             | have been very different.
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | The comments on this post in general, I completely agree.
               | The top level comment in this thread doesn't seem salty
               | though.
        
               | calvano915 wrote:
               | Remove a zero and the story becomes fiction. That's the
               | point of pointing out the luck and privilege of their
               | position.
        
       | thiht wrote:
       | > even an average engineer with a five-figure salary can become a
       | millionaire by her late 30s
       | 
       | With my five figure salary in France the max I can invest is
       | 1k/month, so with a 10% RoI I can expect around 200k by the time
       | I'm 30. That's nowhere near a million and doesn't take the flat
       | tax in consideration. Maybe 10% is considered low or not risky
       | enough?
       | 
       | > first salary in the low six-figure
       | 
       | Yeah, that's not gonna happen in Europe.
        
         | thegypsyking wrote:
         | Exactly why I left Europe to work in the US, best decision ever
        
         | VWWHFSfQ wrote:
         | I think the main take-away is that financial independence like
         | this is possible in USA. Not so much in Europe or pretty much
         | anywhere else.
        
       | 2-718-281-828 wrote:
       | this is cringeworthy humble bragging ...
        
       | keewee7 wrote:
       | What can we European devs do to boost tech salaries in Europe?
       | 
       | I love my five weeks of paid holiday, 14 weeks of paid paternity
       | leave, and free healthcare. but I would still prefer early
       | retirement instead of working till 65.
        
         | ulucs wrote:
         | Remember that you don't really need to save money for late-life
         | healthcare and your childrens' education, and just get out when
         | you have saved enough
        
         | pyrale wrote:
         | > What can we European devs do to boost tech salaries in
         | Europe?
         | 
         | Basically, build a network of tech monopolies which engage in
         | unethical, if not criminal practices, then build a VC ecosystem
         | that is ready to spend king's ransoms to get startups to join
         | that club. Wait as these companies compete to buy your soul.
        
         | KptMarchewa wrote:
         | Non-serious answer:
         | 
         | Kill particular countries languages, cultures and laws to
         | create real single market. At least US Congress has sole
         | authority to regulate interstate commerce, compared to EU.
        
         | uuu23ioj23iJI2i wrote:
        
         | dagurp wrote:
         | Create more European tech companies
        
         | distances wrote:
         | Independent contractor or entering management. Employment
         | salaries go high currently only in Switzerland, though they
         | have definitely been rising in recent years also in Central
         | Europe.
        
         | cpursley wrote:
         | What's stopping you from working for an American company now?
         | I've meet many Europeans doing so and making multiple of the
         | local salaries.
        
       | spoonjim wrote:
       | The path to financial independence was getting to a $625k salary,
       | nothing about saving.
        
         | allenu wrote:
         | Not only that, but riding the appreciation of AMZN and GOOG
         | stock (or just tech in general) in the last couple of years. It
         | appears from the graph that this person had a lot of
         | investments in tech and that the recent bull run helped them
         | tremendously. As someone, who has similar investments, I've
         | seen it firsthand, but I don't think it's a trend that will
         | last forever.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | cerved wrote:
       | _Cries in European_
        
       | scandox wrote:
       | What's the term for these articles?
       | 
       | FIREPorn?
       | 
       | SecurityPorn?
       | 
       | All these dreams of safety make me feel sorry for people. To need
       | so much money just not to be afraid.
        
       | yulaow wrote:
       | The author of this blog post should change it adding "... in
       | silicon valley and in a booming stock market"
       | 
       | Most of what he said doesn't apply outside of that specific
       | bubble
        
         | jpatters wrote:
         | And with no kids.
        
           | cheonic8492 wrote:
           | > And with no kids.
           | 
           | Solution: don't have kids.
           | 
           | The financial, emotional, and time costs of kids are well-
           | known beforehand.
        
           | xwdv wrote:
           | How much should one expect kids to cost? Is an extra $1k in
           | expenses a reasonable estimate?
        
             | vjeux wrote:
             | Child care in the bay area is $2-3k / month per child. Plus
             | you need a bigger home with one more bedroom so an
             | additional $1-2k/month. Then a bigger car. This is without
             | all the expenses related to having a child such as
             | healthcare, food, activities...
             | 
             | It goes up quickly!
        
               | xwdv wrote:
               | So it sounds like $8k per month for a child is pretty
               | reasonable, but then you hit economies of scale so the
               | next kid will be a bit cheaper than the first to have.
        
             | nickflood wrote:
             | If you have kids and live in Europe already with a spouse
             | who also has their hopes and dreams and works in a
             | different field, kids cost you 500k out of the total 600k
             | compensation because you can't (really - don't want to)
             | move to bay area :)
        
             | yobert wrote:
             | It's not that kids cost a lot (though they might). I think
             | it's because kids take a lot of time and energy.
        
       | jacknews wrote:
       | How to be a millionaire:
       | 
       | Earn over $1/2 million a year.
       | 
       | Work for 2+ years.
       | 
       | The only lesson seems to be don't spend your money.
        
         | inglor_cz wrote:
         | It is probably easier to be a millionaire if you do not feel
         | the need to socialize with other millionaires, live where they
         | live, do what they do, send your kids to the same exclusive
         | schools etc.
         | 
         | Of course, without networking with other millionaires, becoming
         | a millionaire is a bit harder...
         | 
         | On yet another hand, a millionaire living in the well-to-do
         | coastal communities of California might actually still be
         | financially insecure, while a not-yet-quite millionaire living
         | in rural Montana may be secure for life.
         | 
         | I am instinctively drawn towards the rural Montana thing, but
         | mainly because I am introverted anyway.
        
         | xwdv wrote:
         | It's more like 3 or 4 years due to taxes, even if you don't
         | spend your money. Feels like government is hellbent on making
         | sure you don't become a millionaire.
        
       | albertopv wrote:
       | Italian, mainly java dev with 10 years of experience, I earn
       | slightly 40k EUR year. 100k is very high in Italy.
        
         | awelxtr wrote:
         | Spanish here, same picture :/
        
       | Zababa wrote:
       | In France making 100k a year (pre taxes) put you in the top 3% of
       | income. In the US it's around 10%. It's a smaller gap than I
       | expected, but on the other hand I don't know anyone that makes
       | 100k after college. It seems like the answer for people not in
       | the US is to go to the US, work 10 years and then come back in
       | your country of origin.
       | 
       | Thanks for making this article and sharing all of that, it's
       | precious information.
        
       | bjornsing wrote:
       | > Disclaimer: I acknowledge that I've been very privileged,
       | especially in the educational opportunities I've had.
       | 
       | This might sound reasonable from a US-centric perspective, but to
       | me it reads like utter nonsense. The main privilege here is
       | access to the US labor market and tax policy. There are no
       | stories like this one where I live (in Sweden). Absolutely none.
        
         | Aeolun wrote:
         | People from Sweden should have a fairly easy time emigrating to
         | the US right?
        
           | bjornsing wrote:
           | I don't think so. The easiest/surest path I know of is a H1B
           | work visa.
        
           | foldr wrote:
           | It's a bit of a myth that it's easy for people from European
           | countries to emigrate to the US. Generally speaking there are
           | no special visas available. You would either have to look
           | into getting an H1B or one of the O1 visas. The O1 route is
           | difficult, and the H1B route, while attainable, is a big
           | PITA, and leaves you in a rather insecure position
           | (especially if you have a spouse).
        
             | fundad wrote:
             | I think it's a reference to US leaders with European
             | heritage use Swedish immigrants as exemplary prospects
             | versus people from non-white nations.
        
               | foldr wrote:
               | The US doesn't have explicitly racist immigration laws.
               | Being white might give you some kind of an advantage
               | (even though it obviously shouldn't), but you'll still
               | have to go through the same process as anyone else.
        
               | anxrn wrote:
               | Not directly racist, but there's a _huge_ difference in
               | effective waiting times for employment based green cards
               | by country, mainly due to the per-country cap.
               | 
               | Roughly speaking, for similarly qualified folks applying
               | in the EB2 category in 2021, Indian immigrants (worst
               | case), approval can take 15+ years, while immigrants from
               | Sweden will take 2-3 years at most (was less than a year
               | pre-COVID).
        
               | foldr wrote:
               | That's true. However, even getting to the point where you
               | can apply for a green card is not a straightforward
               | process. And if you are on an H1B it is still the case
               | that your spouse cannot work in the US until you are (at
               | least) in the process of getting your green card. So I
               | would say that few people in Sweden would have a "fairly
               | easy" time of immigrating to the US (though it is
               | certainly possible).
        
               | fundad wrote:
               | Not explicitly; I agree. I meant that while it is a myth,
               | it is a myth perpetuated by elected officials in the US
               | and what they say when they hold power and especially the
               | campaign promises they make to win power.
        
             | anxrn wrote:
             | While I completely agree the H1B is a PITA, it has been and
             | continues to be the primary vehicle for the huge % of tech-
             | employed immigrants to attain the sort of independence
             | referred to in the OP.
        
         | ur-whale wrote:
         | > There are no stories like this one where I live (in Sweden)
         | 
         | Not moving to where the opportunities are is entirely your
         | choice.
         | 
         | No privilege involved.
        
           | mattst88 wrote:
           | I think you should consider this view in the context of
           | various country's immigration policies. Privilege definitely
           | comes into play.
        
         | miskid wrote:
         | The opportunity described is only common in a handful of
         | companies in handful of cities. Outside of this it is going to
         | be rare even in the US. Since Sweden doesn't have a large
         | presence of these companies you are going to have to move to
         | for example Zurich or London for it to be common. It isn't a
         | Sweden versus US thing, it's a "achieving a high level in a
         | major company that gives you stock" versus not. The opportunity
         | still exists in Stockholm but requires more achievement, effort
         | and luck because it is less common in absolute terms.
         | 
         | That said it sucks to work in Sweden because it's all about
         | making money through inheritance, housing, stocks or contacts.
         | But I guess that is how it is in many places these days.
        
           | fragmede wrote:
           | GP poster is also incorrect. Prior to his passing, famous DJ
           | Avicii is estimated to have an estate of 50 million USD;
           | well-off enough to never work again if he didn't want to.
           | There's also, y'know, the Royal Family. GPs post would lead
           | you to believe that Swedish society is flat, but there are
           | absolutely bank managers (or something, I never got a chance
           | to ask) running around driving Porsches while the rich plebs
           | own thirty year-old cars, or don't own cars and take public
           | transit. There are people who can skip the line to getting
           | housing in Stockholm by buying a flat instead of waiting in
           | line for years for a rental property. 20-year olds in the
           | technology field are still much better off, economically,
           | than someone who's chosen to be circus performer or artist.
           | 
           | However, a world-class DJ and the fact that some people are
           | richer than others doesn't _really_ contradict the claim that
           | Sweden is much more egalitarian, and my previous points need
           | to be examined within the broader culture of Sweden and
           | Scandinavia in general. (Many Swedes commute daily into
           | Denmark.) Having a car is convenient, but thanks to a world-
           | class public transportation network in Stockholm, rather
           | unnecessary. Car ownership is thus less of a deal compared to
           | much of the US. While the privileged in Silicon Valley are
           | trying to get  "fuck you" money (more eloquently expressed as
           | Financial Indpendence / Retiring Early - FIRE), the older
           | Swedes I met still work, and are most proud of the days or
           | week off their job affords and middle-class people are able
           | to travel more than I see Americans (though a lot of that is
           | cultural, but time off work and plane tickets+hotel is
           | expensive).
        
         | Gwypaas wrote:
         | With the effective marginal tax rate at 67% for regular income
         | in Sweden, excluding VAT and other point taxes, the only real
         | possible method is to start a company.
        
           | wk_end wrote:
           | So just doing some cursory research - and I admit, I'm not
           | Swedish - 67% seems to be on the high side as far as EMTR
           | estimates go. So I think you'd need to make a pretty hefty
           | amount of money in Sweden to pay that much. Wikipedia, for
           | instance, claims that the EMTR for an income of over 675 000
           | SEK is only 60%; Glassdoor tells me the average software
           | engineer in Stockholm makes ~500 000 SEK (though Glassdoor
           | estimates can be questionable).
           | 
           | I bring this up because I don't think taxation has much to do
           | with this. In NYC I was paying around 50% of my income
           | towards taxes (federal, state, and local); when you factor in
           | what I was paying towards things that the Swedish social
           | system provides, I'm sure it amounted to very close to 60%
           | (maybe even more!). But NYC is full of plenty of engineers or
           | similarly well-paid professionals who've achieved financial
           | independence. And, well, at least per Glassdoor (caveat
           | emptor), the average software engineer gets paid literally
           | twice as much in NYC than in Stockholm. IMO that probably has
           | more to do with it.
        
             | Gwypaas wrote:
             | Starting at 540 000 SEK it jumps 20% to 64% in total. Then
             | at 645 000 SEK the last percents.
             | 
             | What is important to the remember which most Swedes tend to
             | forget is the payroll tax at 31.42% on the employer side.
             | 
             | To see how it evolves across incomes see this page (in
             | Swedish)
             | 
             | https://www.ekonomifakta.se/fakta/skatter/skatt-pa-
             | arbete/ma...
        
           | mlcrypto wrote:
        
         | throwaway6734 wrote:
         | They somewhat address this:
         | 
         | >In a similar vein as above, I hear that it is almost
         | impossible for talented software developers to earn similar
         | amounts in any country besides USA. If early financial
         | independence is a priority for you, strongly consider moving
         | here. The easiest way to do this is probably to take a 1-year
         | hiatus from work, and enroll in a Master's degree in USA.
         | Though I have also met others who moved here on a work-visa
        
         | charlesdm wrote:
         | Most self employed in Europe have access to similar tax
         | policies. You could think about and approach things differently
         | to attain a similar result.
         | 
         | I live in Belgium with similar high income tax rates to Sweden,
         | but I know quite a few people that I grew up with who have done
         | very well. Better than his story. All mid 30s and all came from
         | nothing. Even as an employee. No excuses, man.
         | 
         | These stories might not be listed in the newspapers, but that
         | does not mean there are none.
        
           | bjornsing wrote:
           | You know people in Belgium who make $600k a year as employed
           | software engineers? Yea, sure...
           | 
           | In Sweden you can incorporate and work as a consultant. That
           | lets you accumulate capital on the corporate side of the tax
           | barrier so to speak. But the tax authorities can show up at
           | any time, claim that your one man company is
           | "overcapitalized" and force you to pay income taxes on your
           | earnings.
        
             | charlesdm wrote:
             | You can't just work your way to wealth. You need to
             | reinvest what you make into other assets and let them
             | compound...
             | 
             | That said, I know self employed developers making 150-200k
             | (EUR) gross per year as contractors. But I also know
             | employees that get allocated a few 100k/year in stock
             | options as part of their compensation.
             | 
             | Yes, you do need to be exceptional. And you need to be
             | smart in the choices you make. I thought that was a given,
             | since millions of dollars don't just come falling from the
             | sky.
        
               | bjornsing wrote:
               | > That said, I know self employed developers making
               | 150-200k (EUR) gross per year as contractors.
               | 
               | There's nothing unusual about that. I was making that
               | kind of money 15 years ago.
               | 
               | But one problem is, that's about what I can make today as
               | well. There is no upward mobility in pay. And it has
               | nothing to do with ability. It's a cultural thing.
               | 
               | (Also, the deal is typically that you sell your social
               | career progression. So you'll be doing the same kind of
               | job endlessly.)
               | 
               | > You can't just work your way to wealth. You need to
               | reinvest what you make into other assets and let them
               | compound...
               | 
               | This however is where the real problem starts: there is
               | no way to accumulate and reinvest capital (legally),
               | without paying massive (70-80%) taxes.
        
               | xvilka wrote:
               | Move to Russia with its low tax of 13% (could go as low
               | as 7.5% if you establish a company and enjoy some
               | additional benefits) and work remotely. Or any other
               | country with low taxes and low cost of living.
        
               | cpursley wrote:
               | It can actually go lower then that if you set yourself up
               | as a contractor. And outside of Moscow basic apartments
               | can be rented for $250 a month.
        
               | charlesdm wrote:
               | Consumption yes. But how do you get to 70-80% for
               | reinvesting? Corporate taxes are 20%, dividend taxes 30%
               | on remaining 80? That gets you to 44% net tax. From gross
               | to net. Income taxes are higher but still not 70-80%?
               | 
               | I agree income taxes are high throughout most of Western
               | Europe, but the way to grow wealth is by acquiring assets
               | that can grow without having to sell them and pay taxes.
               | 
               | An investment fund (or a property) can often grow for a
               | long time and throw off cashflows that are taxed more
               | efficiently. So can a business where you build up value
               | in the equity. Cashflow keeps the lights on, but equity
               | (even in a small business) builds wealth.
        
               | bjornsing wrote:
               | > Corporate taxes are 20%, dividend taxes 30% on
               | remaining 80? That gets you to 44% net tax. From gross to
               | net.
               | 
               | No, there are special tax rules for small companies (the
               | so-called 3:12 rules). You can pay yourself a small
               | dividend ($15k or so), but above that you're taxed as if
               | it was regular income.
               | 
               | > Income taxes are higher but still not 70-80%?
               | 
               | Payroll tax is 31% and then you pay around 55% marginal
               | tax on what's left.
               | 
               | It's debatable how you should count VAT in this context.
               | Your consultant invoices will have 25% VAT on them that
               | you have to pay the government. Your customers can get
               | that back from the government, but will have to pay VAT
               | on any value your services create. Since the name of the
               | tax is value added tax I think it's fair to say you are
               | adding the value with your labor and are in fact the one
               | paying the tax, but others may disagree.
        
         | MichaelRazum wrote:
         | Oh boy that is true. Honestly, everyone who is born in the US
         | is kind of privileged compared to 99% of the world. Especially
         | if you are willing to work hard.
        
           | ant6n wrote:
           | The US is 4% of the world.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | One of the biggest tragedies, in my view, is what a lovely
         | place Europe is to live, and what utter lack (seemingly for no
         | great underlying reason) of class mobility exists there.
        
           | dsomers wrote:
           | What an absolute joke. The United States has terrible class
           | mobility compared to the Netherlands or Germany for example.
           | You don't have anything to support what you said other than a
           | skewed perspective created by American centric media.
           | 
           | Edit: I guess the down voters here hate facts. The US scores
           | lower on social mobility than the majority of European
           | countries
           | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_Social_Mobility_Index
        
             | yunohn wrote:
             | Given my experience in NL, I would disagree. I see a very
             | clear class divide here, which is just mostly ignored by
             | the middle/upper classes and government.
             | 
             | Most of the population spend the majority of their income
             | on rent, commuting, and essentials. Students also have lots
             | of debt over the past decade (15k on average). Owning a car
             | is expensive, but so is public transport (esp. for a
             | family). Renting is expensive, but so is buying a house.
             | 
             | Income tax brackets range from ~40-50%, while corporate and
             | dividend taxes are minimal - 15-20%. VAT is regressive and
             | applies on almost all goods incl. groceries, ranging from
             | 5-21%. There is no capital gains taxes, so this obviously
             | benefits the economically active upper/elite classes who
             | have assets/savings to invest - while middle class families
             | do not own much at all.
             | 
             | Since the Mobility Index rankings focus on lower -> middle
             | class mobility, it shows the Netherlands in a positive
             | light. However, the income divide between the two classes
             | is actually not as pronounced as the USA, while the gap
             | between middle to upper is incredibly massive (like most of
             | the world).
             | 
             | I guess what I'm trying to say is that despite the expected
             | policy differences and rankings, NL is quite strongly
             | divided economically. In my experience, the average Dutch
             | don't mix with the poor, nor show off their riches, nor
             | think too deeply about the elite classes. This mindset is
             | essentially ignorance - neglecting poorness, brushing off
             | government corruption, and assisting the funneling of taxes
             | & wealth.
        
               | garmaine wrote:
               | > Students also have lots of debt over the past decade
               | (15k on average)
               | 
               | Those are amateur numbers. -USA
        
               | yunohn wrote:
               | I know loads of students with more debt, but indeed, it's
               | less than the USA. Not an acceptable amount regardless.
        
               | charlesdm wrote:
               | You forgot to mention you do have a wealth tax. For
               | wealthy people, those tend to be one of the "worst"
               | taxes, because it is payable regardless of whether your
               | investments do well or bad.
        
               | yunohn wrote:
               | You're right, I missed commenting on the Wealth tax.
               | 
               | However, it's equally ineffective - there are multitudes
               | of ways to avoid paying it, as the wealthy here
               | continuously do. Further, the percentage itself is quite
               | small:
               | 
               | - 0.58% for 30k-100k
               | 
               | - 1.34% till ~1MM
               | 
               | - 1.68% afterwards.
               | 
               | It is hilarious to me, that 30k is considered "wealth".
               | This means saving for your children's studying expenses
               | (rent, food, etc), would require exceeding 30k and paying
               | taxes.
               | 
               | The wealthy are wealthy. It doesn't seem to affect them
               | at all. Instead, people like you and I have to think
               | about the arbitrary amount of money the gov wants to
               | extricate from our small savings.
        
               | actually_a_dog wrote:
               | > Most of the population spend the majority of their
               | income on rent, commuting, and essentials. Students also
               | have lots of debt over the past decade (15k on average).
               | Owning a car is expensive, but so is public transport
               | (esp. for a family). Renting is expensive, but so is
               | buying a house.
               | 
               | > Income tax brackets range from ~40-50%, while corporate
               | and dividend taxes are minimal - 15-20%. VAT is
               | regressive and applies on almost all goods incl.
               | groceries, ranging from 5-21%. There is no capital gains
               | taxes, so this obviously benefits the economically active
               | upper/elite classes who have assets/savings to invest -
               | while middle class families do not own much at all.
               | 
               | I hate to tell you, but the US practically invented all
               | those issues. Average Americans pay a far larger
               | percentage of their income in taxes than the wealthiest
               | Americans or corporations do. You say VAT, we say "sales
               | tax," and, yes, it's still just as regressive. Rent,
               | student loans, _etc._... yeah, that 's all bad here, too.
               | 
               | https://smartasset.com/data-studies/income-needed-to-pay-
               | ren...
               | 
               | https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/dec/09/us-
               | student-l...
               | 
               | https://www.cnbc.com/2021/09/23/americas-
               | richest-400-familie...
        
               | yunohn wrote:
               | > the US practically invented all these issues
               | 
               | I don't believe that the Netherlands has inherited these
               | ideas from the USA. In fact, NL invented capitalism and
               | stock markets.
               | 
               | Every Dutchie I speak to about the inequality here, loves
               | comparing themselves to the USA memes. It's that
               | whataboutism and the ignorance that bothers me.
        
               | actually_a_dog wrote:
               | > I don't believe that the Netherlands has inherited
               | these ideas from the USA. In fact, NL invented capitalism
               | and stock markets.
               | 
               | Of course, I'm aware that NL invented stock markets and
               | pioneered a lot of ideas behind modern capitalism. That
               | wasn't where I was going with it.
               | 
               | Not to turn this into some weird anti-pissing contest of
               | "my country is worse than yours," but, if you look at the
               | numbers, the US fares worse than NL on:
               | 
               | Gini coefficient [0]: US 41.4 vs NL 28.1
               | 
               | Global social mobility index [1]: US 70.4 vs NL 82.4
               | 
               | Human development index [2]: US 0.92 vs NL 0.944
               | 
               | Now, I don't think capitalism is the best system for
               | maximizing any of the above, but, if you look at the
               | tables, it's pretty clear that the Nordic model of
               | capitalism is basically as good as capitalism gets. When
               | you look at some of the things that go into these
               | indices, other than stuff like "GDP per capita," it's
               | pretty clear why: having a strong safety net and other
               | social programs for workers makes people better off.
               | 
               | If nothing else, reducing the consequences of failure
               | from "total personal and financial ruin" to something
               | more manageable is more likely to encourage people to
               | take chances that may or may not pay off. _That 's_ what
               | economic freedom _really_ is. That 's also the part of
               | capitalism the US didn't pick up, so, that's what I was
               | getting at when I was saying that the US invented those
               | issues. Again, not to get into an anti-pissing contest,
               | but, that's why the US recently got compared to Jurassic
               | Park [3] on here. I don't see anybody comparing NL to a
               | land where dinosaurs will eat you if you're not always
               | vigilant.
               | 
               | > Every Dutchie I speak to about the inequality here,
               | loves comparing themselves to the USA memes. It's that
               | whataboutism and the ignorance that bothers me.
               | 
               | I'm not sure what you mean here, but I'd like to know.
               | Are you just saying that people you talk to are saying
               | what I said, but without the facts and figures?
               | 
               | ---
               | 
               | [0]: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-
               | rankings/gini-coef...
               | 
               | [1]: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-
               | rankings/social-mo...
               | 
               | [2]: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-
               | rankings/hdi-by-co...
               | 
               | [3]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29656668
        
               | yunohn wrote:
               | > Not to turn this into some weird anti-pissing contest
               | of "my country is worse than yours,"
               | 
               | Fair enough, though I wasn't trying to imply that either.
               | 
               | > it's pretty clear that the Nordic model of capitalism
               | is basically as good as capitalism gets
               | 
               | I can agree from the data and personal experience, that
               | the QoL for the lower/middle classes in the EU is better
               | than most of the world.
               | 
               | However, I don't think that it's as pronounced as the
               | local EU politicians would have you believe, when they
               | advocate for higher taxes every year.
               | 
               | That's essentially the divide I'm talking about in my
               | comments - the broken capitalist dystopia of it all. They
               | set the benchmark somewhere in between the USA and the
               | post-colonial world, and act like they've solved
               | everything.
               | 
               | > reducing the consequences of failure from "total
               | personal and financial ruin" to something more manageable
               | is more likely to encourage people to take chances that
               | may or may not pay off. That's what economic freedom
               | really is.
               | 
               | Yes, I agree that this sounds intuitive. Unfortunately,
               | the EU has one of the least risk-taking people I've ever
               | seen. People don't startup nor attempt businesses.
               | 
               | > Are you just saying that people you talk to are saying
               | what I said, but without the facts and figures?
               | 
               | Not exactly, but rather, they are unaware of the
               | situation outside their social bubble in NL. And see
               | memes about the USA and think they're doing great.
        
               | Aeolun wrote:
               | I loved living in NL (am Dutch), and would love to move
               | back there, but financially it just doesn't make sense.
               | 
               | Found it really hard to explain to my wife that:
               | 
               | Salary will decrease, cost of living will go up, income
               | taxes will go up, VAT will also go up, QOL will stay
               | roughly the same.
               | 
               | The only thing that I think is significantly better (and
               | cheaper!) is the education.
               | 
               | Edit: And the beer.
        
               | fundad wrote:
               | QOL staying the same is quite attractive.
               | 
               | Out of curiosity, how many millions of dollars-equivalent
               | does it cost to buy heath insurance in retirement?
               | 
               | Isn't that more attractive than what you need in the
               | states?
        
               | yunohn wrote:
               | > QOL staying the same is quite attractive.
               | 
               | I can't speak for the OP, but usually QoL refers to
               | essential things like housing, food, education, etc.
               | Outside of that, the average Dutchie has very little
               | disposable income.
               | 
               | This means that the extra money they make in the USA, is
               | still quite useful since you can spend it on all the
               | other stuff that gives you joy in life.
        
               | Aeolun wrote:
               | I live in Japan, health insurance is quite good ;)
        
               | Rebelgecko wrote:
               | What do Medicare supplements cost, like $100-$500/month?
               | If health insurance is your primary reason to leave the
               | US, it might make sense to spend years working in a job
               | that offers health insurance after you retire, or moving
               | to a lower COL area within the US (medical costs in rural
               | Texas are drastically cheaper than San Francisco, for
               | example)
        
             | RickJWagner wrote:
             | My own experiences disagree.
             | 
             | I have friends who started out in middle-class families and
             | sunk lower. I also have friends who started out middle-
             | class and rose.
             | 
             | IMHO, the biggest factors seem to be raw intellingence,
             | willingness to move & chase money, and some 'luck' factors.
             | But I can't imagine a world where nobody could change
             | fortunes given reasonably common circumstances.
        
             | thesimon wrote:
             | Using a different metric the Netherlands are slightly
             | better than the US, but Germany is slightly worse.
             | 
             | https://www.oecd.org/els/soc/1-5%20generations.png
        
               | lpv wrote:
               | That graph, and "social mobility" analysis in general,
               | shows the movement from low income to average. This is
               | good for a country overall, but it's irrelevant to the
               | discussion that people are having in this thread. Most
               | people here are more interested in the median to rich
               | movement. Unfortunately this movement is practically
               | impossible in countries like Sweden and NL (for an
               | employee).
               | 
               | Let's take a typical profile that HN users would be
               | interested in, a top10% engineer working for a big
               | company. This person would never become rich in NL, but
               | almost always become rich in the US.
        
               | thesimon wrote:
               | >Most people here are more interested in the median to
               | rich movement. Unfortunately this movement is practically
               | impossible in countries like Sweden and NL (for an
               | employee).
               | 
               | Same in Germany why I assumed the diagram would be
               | appropriate. But you are 100% correct and I agree with
               | 
               | > This person would never become rich in NL, but almost
               | always become rich in the US.
        
               | dan-robertson wrote:
               | I'm kinda surprised by these numbers. My impression of
               | the us is that many immigrants will be unskilled and have
               | low incomes, but that their children will be much better
               | off in comparison. So a few reasons these numbers could
               | be this way:
               | 
               | 1. My intuition is wrong
               | 
               | 2. There are lots of people in low income groups where
               | there is little i regeneration along mobility for
               | structural reasons, or maybe immigrants children who
               | often see the biggest improvements are excluded for some
               | reason.
               | 
               | 3. The chart talks about reaching mean income.
               | Particularly in the US, mean income is higher than median
               | income so even if achieving the latter is easier,
               | achieving the former could be harder. To some extent the
               | metric may disadvantage countries where the highest-
               | earning few percent of the population earn a lot more
               | than the median person.
        
               | dsomers wrote:
               | And the majority of Europe is still ahead of the US, so
               | what's your point?
        
               | thegypsyking wrote:
               | I moved from Europe to the US, and so have a lot of other
               | people who aim to become rich. In europe most rich people
               | inherit everything, mobility to upper class is basically
               | non existent. Here it's Very much possible
        
             | bjornsing wrote:
             | I don't think that measurement of social mobility makes
             | much sense in this context.
             | 
             | Sure, moving from lower working class to upper middle class
             | is probably easier in Sweden than in many other countries.
             | But the thing is: it doesn't make much of a difference.
             | 
             | I have a sneaking suspicion that the Nordic welfare state
             | kind of games the social mobility score in this way, by
             | having such a compressed income distribution. If you go
             | from $20k after taxes to $35k after taxes you've moved
             | through more or less the whole income distribution, but
             | your life is pretty much the same.
        
               | yunohn wrote:
               | > If you go from $20k after taxes to $35k after taxes
               | you've moved through more or less the whole income
               | distribution, but your life is pretty much the same.
               | 
               | 100% agreed - my sibling comment about NL also implies
               | the same.
        
               | oblio wrote:
               | The thing is, there's only 1 situation where being a part
               | of a certain socioeconomic group sucks. Being poor.
               | 
               | So any country that optimizes for improving that, kind of
               | by definition, improves the average happiness of its
               | citizens.
        
               | ethbr0 wrote:
               | The report itself [0] notes many of the contradictions in
               | the US:
               | 
               | > "Despite scoring high on the Work Opportunities (83.0)
               | pillar--because of its low unemployment rate--as well as
               | on the Technology Access pillar (90.2), it has the lowest
               | score in the region on the Fair Wages pillar (43.8
               | against an average of 64.6 for the region). With an
               | incidence of low pay (less than two-thirds of median
               | wages) at 24.9, it has one of the shares of low-paid
               | workers among OECD countries. The lack of effective
               | social protection in the United States also translates
               | into a low score on the Social Protection pillar (61.7).
               | The minimum guaranteed income benefits for a family with
               | two children (where one partner is out of work) is only
               | 20% of median income. The United States could also
               | improve on the Health pillar, where it performs quite
               | poorly compared to peers in its region (75.8) due to a
               | low healthy life expectancy at birth (66.6 years)."
               | 
               | When you average things down to a single number, you lose
               | a lot of nuance.
               | 
               | For the US, the data the report collected generally
               | supports something like 'You have the opportunity to
               | succeed greatly, and be rewarded extremely well, but this
               | requires financial resources at birth.' While also being
               | true that 'If you are less successful, there are few and
               | poor support nets for you, and serious pitfalls to avoid
               | (f.ex. health care costs).'
               | 
               | [0] https://www3.weforum.org/docs/Global_Social_Mobility_
               | Report....
        
               | joshuamorton wrote:
               | > 'You have the opportunity to succeed greatly, and be
               | rewarded extremely well, but this requires financial
               | resources at birth
               | 
               | This is the opposite of financial mobility.
        
           | odiroot wrote:
           | Seemingly it's easy to reach the middle class, or even
           | upgrade into upper middle class (assuming you started with
           | middle class parents). But then there's this big gap.
           | 
           | And people in the middle are squeezed from the both sides.
        
           | 1ris wrote:
           | Like everything, it's very different across Europe. Best
           | case, social mobility is pretty good. Worst case it's a
           | little worse than the US.
           | 
           | https://www.dw.com/en/germanys-social-mobility-among-
           | poorest...
           | 
           | >In Germany, it would take a child whose parents' earnings
           | are in the bottom 10 percent of the population six
           | generations or 180 years to reach the average national
           | income.
           | 
           | >The average across the entire OECD, a group of 37
           | industrialized countries, is five generations. Children in
           | low-income families in Denmark would need two generations,
           | while children in the United States would need five
           | generations.
        
         | secondo wrote:
         | > There are no stories like this one where I live (in Sweden).
         | Absolutely none.
         | 
         | Swedish tax rates on income makes this two to three times as
         | difficult (approaches 60% plus 30% social paid by the employer
         | this includes RSUs as well, plus 25% VAT) but it's nonsense to
         | claim this doesn't happen. I am Swedish and have made
         | significantly more in tech than the author. So has many of my
         | friends.
         | 
         | With that said, the only reason I'm still in Sweden is family.
         | The public sentiment about the future is uncomfortably racist
         | and increasingly hostile about fortune making. If you have the
         | mobility my advice is to move. Good luck.
        
           | bjornsing wrote:
           | > I am Swedish and have made significantly more in tech than
           | the author. So has many of my friends.
           | 
           | I'm not saying there is no path to financial independence in
           | Sweden, I'm just saying that the path the author has taken /
           | is advocating is not one.
           | 
           | I too know people who've made significantly more than the
           | author. I've come close myself. But that generally involves
           | starting a company and having other people work for you.
        
           | ryan93 wrote:
           | Whats racist about voters choosing the level of immigration
           | they want?
        
           | yunohn wrote:
           | > it's nonsense to claim this doesn't happen. I am Swedish
           | and have made significantly more in tech than the author. So
           | has many of my friends
           | 
           | You state further down that you made this money from RSUs.
           | 
           | I'm not sure which bubble you/friends live in, but the
           | absolute majority of tech workers do NOT get RSUs, even less
           | often in the EU.
        
           | thegypsyking wrote:
           | How did you make mor? i worked in Sweden and my compensation
           | was 4x less than it is in America. Unless you got extremely
           | lucky or were much more senior it's impossible, case in which
           | you would have made far far more in the us anyhow
        
           | Winterflow3r wrote:
           | > I am Swedish and have made significantly more in tech than
           | the author. So has many of my friends.
           | 
           | If you're comfortable with sharing, was it through a company
           | exit or IPO?
        
             | secondo wrote:
             | Absolute majority through RSUs, which is why I'm objecting
             | the GP's claims. The vested stock I've reinvested through
             | an ISK in a somewhat broader portfolio over time.
        
               | bjornsing wrote:
               | If you've made over a million dollars in RSUs after taxes
               | then I must admit... I've never heard of anything like
               | that. Are you sure you're not talking about stock options
               | in a quickly growing company/ startup?
        
               | secondo wrote:
               | No, I've had stock options too but they've turned out
               | worthless.
               | 
               | I don't know what your seniority is and what you've seen
               | but I can assure you it exists, and it's not unique
               | exceptions. Maybe a good opportunity to interview if
               | you're feels it's unattainable where you are now. Plenty
               | of US companies hiring remotely too...
        
               | jakewins wrote:
               | I just moved back to Sweden from the US, and at least for
               | my part of industry there seems to have been a notable
               | shift (covid?), where roles/salaries that previously
               | required moving to SF are available remote in CET hours.
               | 
               | You pay hella more tax on them though, but I mean the
               | reason I left the US was also like.. related to all this.
               | I want the things those taxes pay for, it feels
               | incredible to be back somewhere with functioning
               | healthcare, functioning child care systems.
        
         | xwolfi wrote:
         | Yeah I d say he s been dealt very bad cards, had no problem
         | being independent growing up in Normandy, France. I think we're
         | priviledged by not being in the US and that guy is at the top
         | of a turd pile...
        
           | djohnston wrote:
           | You read that info and figure he's the unlucky one?
        
         | CodeGlitch wrote:
         | The modern "progressive" thought-process is to feel guilty
         | about having a good education. I went to private school in the
         | UK and the only thing I feel is infinite gratitude to my
         | parents for forking-out the money to send me there (they were
         | not rich, they were both teachers).
        
           | joebiden2024 wrote:
           | You can get a good education at public institutions lol. I've
           | only gone to public schools.
        
           | yobbo wrote:
           | > good education
           | 
           | "Good" education alone is not a meaningful predictor of
           | anything, in Europe at least.
           | 
           | So the guilt is about receiving the correct credentials to be
           | granted further access to jobs and opportunities. It seems in
           | UK/USA, "good education" is used as a euphemism for "received
           | privilege".
        
             | Aeolun wrote:
             | Because everyone (or at least, like 40%) in Europe has what
             | I consider to be a great education.
        
               | DarylZero wrote:
               | That's not even the same thing. "Education" is a code-
               | word for credentials. Education is "good" insofar as the
               | credentials are exclusive.
               | 
               | It's the pretense of the credentialing organizations to
               | have a monopoly on education.
        
           | malnourish wrote:
           | Where are people asked to feel guilty specifically about the
           | fact they received a good education?
        
             | cpursley wrote:
             | For similar reasons they're supposed to feel guilty for
             | being born into a particular race.
        
               | borski wrote:
               | You are equating guilt with acknowledging privilege, and
               | those aren't the same. I feel privileged for having gone
               | to MIT, and acknowledge that privilege. I feel privileged
               | for having grown up Jewish and white-appearing, and
               | acknowledge that.
               | 
               | I feel guilty for neither, and acknowledging that
               | particular privilege takes nothing away from how hard I
               | worked anyway. The son of two very poor Russian Jewish
               | immigrants, I worked extremely hard to get to where I am.
               | I also feel privileged for growing up in a loving and
               | non-abusive family.
               | 
               | Lots of people don't have those things, and I'm thankful
               | I did. That's not guilt.
        
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               | notreallyserio wrote:
               | > You are equating guilt with acknowledging privilege,
               | and those aren't the same.
               | 
               | This is one of those fundamental misunderstandings I see
               | when discussing things with folks of a particular
               | political persuasion. It's the same folks that belueve we
               | shouldn't consider outcomes when evaluating processes.
               | There's just something different about the way they
               | think, I guess.
        
               | anamax wrote:
               | > You are equating guilt with acknowledging privilege,
               | and those aren't the same.
               | 
               | When someone says "check your privilege", they're saying
               | that you've done something wrong and should feel guilty.
        
               | borski wrote:
               | No, they aren't. They are saying you should consider if
               | and how your privilege helped you out, because sometimes
               | that isn't transferable to other people; someone black in
               | a job interview may not have the same experience someone
               | white does, and that's okay, but it's important to
               | recognize if and how being white helped so that someone
               | who isn't white can account for that and adjust.
               | 
               | It has nothing at all to do with guilt.
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | _It has nothing at all to do with guilt._
               | 
               | Guilt is too strong of term. But it is very much used as
               | a kind of penalty box, or way of distancing the receiver
               | from the speaker. And as far as enlightening those who
               | supposedly need uplifting to the higher, more evolved
               | plane that the speaker inhabits -- it just doesn't do
               | much.
        
               | DangitBobby wrote:
               | It does have _something_ to do with guilt, because the
               | ultimate concession of acknowledging privilege is that
               | you didn 't truly earn your advantages, which is a root
               | cause of perpetuated injustice. That's where the guilt
               | lives: being the beneficiary of systematic injustice.
               | This doesn't make you a bad person, of course; pretty
               | much anyone in a position of privilege will capatalize on
               | it, as that is human nature.
        
               | anamax wrote:
               | > They are saying you should consider if and how your
               | privilege helped you out
               | 
               | Yes, they are. "Check your privilege" is often used to
               | say "you didn't do that."
               | 
               | Even if you assume that "privilege" is a big reason why
               | you had an opportunity, there are almost always many
               | people with the same "privilege" who didn't do said
               | thing.
               | 
               | Moreover, it's almost always some skin color argument.
               | There are many "don't look white" people who had
               | privileges that I didn't have but I'm supposed to "check
               | my privilege."
        
               | vanusa wrote:
               | _When someone says "check your privilege", they're saying
               | that you've done something wrong and should feel guilty._
               | 
               | This shouldn't be downvoted. It's become a socially
               | acceptable insult, in some circles (which basically means
               | the receiver is less empathic / socially aware than thou)
               | -- or at the very least, a thought-terminating cliche.
               | 
               | I know there's a bunch of nice and wholesome stuff it's
               | _supposed to_ mean (like the sibling commenter points
               | out); but the way it 's typically bandied about in modern
               | discourse (as an STFU signal, more or less) -- it isn't
               | what it really means.
               | 
               | See also:
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thought-terminating_cliche
        
           | onos wrote:
           | There is a lot of encouragement of guilt in the USA today. In
           | general, shouldn't we embrace a value system that encourages
           | good behavior? Eg honor those who do relatively well in life,
           | given the circumstances they are born into?
           | 
           | The immediate leap to discredit the success of others through
           | assertion of privilege seems like it would discourage doing
           | well.
           | 
           | A better solution imho would be to celebrate success but to
           | also encourage the successful to share their insights with
           | others so as to spread the fortune - much as the author of
           | this post has done.
        
             | DarylZero wrote:
             | "Doing well" isn't "good behavior" because it's mostly
             | winning zero-sum games.
             | 
             | Also LOL @ "insights"
        
             | deagle50 wrote:
             | Completely agree. This guilt culture is little more than an
             | attempt to retain the benefits of the "privilege" vs
             | sharing the spoils with the less fortunate.
        
             | throw_nbvc1234 wrote:
             | I agree with you in general but a useful question to ask
             | is: How easy is this to do outside of tech (and other
             | competitive industries like finance)? Competitive
             | industries have high upside but inherently have limited
             | opportunities at the top.
             | 
             | You even see in this thread how people within tech but
             | unable to pull FAANG salaries see this story as impossible.
             | It's one viewpoint to think that it's possible for everyone
             | to become skilled enough to work at a FAANG-like job
             | (including passing the interview); probably correct so some
             | degree. It's another (less rational) to think that every
             | software engineer can work at FAANG-like jobs
             | simultaneously; there just aren't enough positions.
             | 
             | This gets even more dire outside of tech. What job are you
             | going to switch to every 3 years that nets you a 30% salary
             | increase? If that kind of opportunity was wide-spread,
             | there would be a lot less income inequality (or at least
             | more social mobility).
        
             | 2-718-281-828 wrote:
             | > but to also encourage the successful to share their
             | insights with others
             | 
             | laughing my ass off ... I expect the successful first and
             | formost to share their success through actually paying
             | taxes - then we can talk about their advice which won't be
             | useful for the majority anyway b/c success in monetary
             | terms is always defined by being focused on a minority.
        
               | VirusNewbie wrote:
               | I'm not sure where you live, but in the US, the
               | government has done a terrible job with capital
               | allocation and for every dollar given to the government
               | in taxes what % do you think goes to helping those in
               | need who deserve the help?
        
             | paulryanrogers wrote:
             | > A better solution imho would be to celebrate success but
             | to also encourage the successful to share their insights
             | with others so as to spread the fortune
             | 
             | Ideally yes. Though IME often the advice isn't applicable,
             | so beyond a few fundamentals they break down. For example I
             | cannot un-have kids, and getting a master's or doing a
             | startup on the side would basically require neglecting them
             | for too long. (Or quiting my day job and burning through
             | our savings.) Lifestyle advice like modest living or moving
             | far away also requires buy in from an SO or a painful break
             | up/divorce. It's also a risk since they may change their
             | mind early in the plan. Or they may decide the outcome
             | wasn't worth the sacrifice and want to (or you to) return
             | to the grind.
        
           | darkwater wrote:
           | They were not poor either. So, you were still born in a
           | better place than the vast majority of humans. And that's not
           | your merit at all.
        
             | marcellus23 wrote:
             | It's also not his fault at all.
        
               | whimsicalism wrote:
               | Nobody said it was "his fault" and that is obviously not
               | the point of the acknowledgement starting the post.
        
               | refurb wrote:
               | So you agree he shouldn't feel guilty.
        
               | whimsicalism wrote:
               | Guilty? No. Lucky? Yes.
               | 
               | I think the point of privilege discourse is to undermine
               | the notion of moral "desert," not to encourage guilt over
               | something beyond your control.
        
               | hhmc wrote:
               | Sure, but thinking privilege is equatable to guilt is
               | missing the point.
        
               | marcellus23 wrote:
               | I don't think anyone said that. Lots of people _do_ think
               | you should feel guilt for privilege. Pretending those
               | people don't exist isn't helping the progressive
               | movement. It's important for progressives to acknowledge
               | and counter the people who wave the progressive flag but
               | espouse the opposite of progressive ideals.
        
               | joshuamorton wrote:
               | That's literally what the first two comments on this
               | thread say.
        
               | whimsicalism wrote:
               | I disagree. I see vastly more people claiming that
               | privilege acknowledgement is tied in with guilt who
               | oppose the notion of "privilege" than I see "lots of
               | people" espousing the notion of privilege guilt who
               | actually think we should talk about privilege.
               | 
               | I don't personally believe in reparations as commonly
               | framed, but saying that reparations ought to be paid is
               | also not the same thing as saying people should feel
               | _guilty_ for actions they didn 't take.
               | 
               | > It's important for progressives to acknowledge and
               | counter the people who wave the progressive flag but
               | espouse the opposite of progressive ideals.
               | 
               | I think this can be taken too far. Disavowal can be
               | important at times, but I find there is often a trend
               | among the Right to highlight random views held by an
               | extremely small minority of people (ie. a single tweeting
               | American among 315 million Americans) and demand a
               | disavowal of that rhetoric. I think this is in bad faith.
               | 
               | This comment thread, in my view, is emblematic of this in
               | that simply by using the word "privilege" we are now
               | being asked to disavow something that some nebulous "lots
               | of people" attach to that word, even though the word was
               | clearly not being used in that context here.
        
               | marcellus23 wrote:
               | Frankly, it's not a strawman. Look on twitter and you'll
               | find plenty of evidence of that kind of thinking.
               | 
               | > but I find there is often a trend among the Right to
               | highlight random views held by an extremely small
               | minority of people (ie. a single tweeting American among
               | 315 million Americans) and demand a disavowal of that
               | rhetoric. I think this is in bad faith.
               | 
               | Agreed. Where I disagree is that the left doesn't do this
               | exact same thing, or that these views are held by "a
               | single tweet" and not, say, entire online communities.
               | 
               | For the record, I generally agree with you, but to the
               | same extent that avowal can go too far, it is very easy
               | to go too far in assuming all ridiculous positions on our
               | side are strawmen. A lot of people do think that way.
               | Nothing wrong with acknowledging privilege -- but you
               | don't need to feel personally guilty over things out of
               | your control like your inherited wealth or your skin
               | color. I think we can all agree on that.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | hhmc wrote:
               | > Lots of people _do_ think you should feel guilt for
               | privilege.
               | 
               | Except I don't see anyone in this comment thread actully
               | expousing that belief. I _do_ however see a lot of people
               | strawmanning it.
        
               | marcellus23 wrote:
               | This thread does not contain the entirety of discourse
               | about privilege.
        
               | hhmc wrote:
               | Sure, but that's a thought-terminating argument.
        
             | solveit wrote:
             | Yes yes, in the end everyone's success can be distilled
             | down to luck or environment (which we were born into so
             | also luck) or inborn qualities (which are also luck). Merit
             | does not exist and everything is luck.
             | 
             | Or we could notice that merit is still a useful concept,
             | that good decisionmaking is a skill regardless of whether
             | everyone is in a position to use it, and that the previous
             | poster's parents made decisions that were highly beneficial
             | to their child, above and beyond what other parents in
             | comparable situations might have, and that the poster is
             | _quite right_ to be thankful for that. Which funnily enough
             | is the only opinion they voiced, so it 's rather a mystery
             | what your needlessly nasty comment is replying to.
        
             | wiseowise wrote:
             | Who cares? You can only be proud of your achievements if
             | you were born the bottom of the bottoms?
        
           | simpleguitar wrote:
           | I disagree with everything you've said.
           | 
           | The only difference between myself and my other friends (who
           | also have advanced degrees from top universities in the bay
           | area) is that I abandoned my field of study and jumped into
           | tech.
           | 
           | After 10 years, we have vastly different financial outcomes
           | now.
           | 
           | A lot of hard working, well educated, dedicated people
           | struggle financially around here, because they happened to
           | not choose tech.
           | 
           | Add in the teachers and other under-appreciated careers, I do
           | feel guilty that I should have so much, and they so little.
        
             | jackcosgrove wrote:
             | Part of working smart rather than working hard is seeing
             | the salary signals the market is sending and responding to
             | them strategically. This is worth more than mastering a
             | skill that is saturated with competition relative to
             | demand.
             | 
             | It took me a long time to accept this as I was wedded to
             | the idea that hard work and skill alone should be well
             | compensated. But that hard work and skill needs to be
             | pointed in a good direction in the first place.
        
               | WastingMyTime89 wrote:
               | > This is worth more than mastering a skill that is
               | saturated with competition relative to demand.
               | 
               | The job market is not an efficient market. It doesn't
               | respond to offer and demand signals.
               | 
               | Nurses have been in short supply in most of the developed
               | world for the past three decades yet are still paid
               | peanuts. It's all about your proximity to the handling of
               | money and historical trend. That's why even people doing
               | menial jobs in banking are well compensated while people
               | working in heavy industries are paid relatively little
               | compared to the complexity of their jobs.
        
               | simpleguitar wrote:
               | My grief (and grieving) is not with this.
               | 
               | If you had an advanced degree in math or physics, hedge
               | funds in NYC was always an option to maximize your talent
               | in exchange for money. But one also had an option to
               | choose something different and still make an upper middle
               | class living.
               | 
               | It seems these days, only the finance/tech offer such
               | living. NOT choosing tech is choosing barely middle class
               | living, and everyone else is delegated to hand-to-mouth
               | living.
        
               | deagle50 wrote:
               | Where I live (DC) most people are not in tech and they
               | still have an upper middle class lifestyle working for
               | the Federal government or a contractor (in a non-tech
               | role). Nationally, purchasing power has been declining
               | for many years.
               | 
               | Besides Fed Gov, Tech/finance are the probably the only
               | sectors left with large work forces, great margins, a
               | culture of rewarding talent (vs health care for example),
               | AND rooted in the USA (vs manufacturing and heavy
               | industry). These factors combine to create a super class
               | of tech/finance labor.
        
           | ak217 wrote:
           | There is a difference between acknowledging privilege and
           | feeling guilty.
           | 
           | I got a fantastic education at two of the best public
           | universities in the US, mostly funded by public money. Do I
           | feel guilty about it? No. But I acknowledge that it was only
           | possible because of policy choices made by Americans who came
           | before me.
        
         | Invictus0 wrote:
         | Just move then, your feet aren't bolted to the ground.
        
           | DogLover_ wrote:
           | You can't "just move". It is quite difficult to get into the
           | US
        
             | stackbutterflow wrote:
             | Is it harder to get into the US or the EU?
        
               | DogLover_ wrote:
               | I am not the right person to ask. I assume it is easier
               | getting into EU but I can't say for sure
        
               | VWWHFSfQ wrote:
               | Just some anecdotal experience from talking to several
               | French people that worked at the USA company I was at on
               | visas, USA is pretty much the hardest (of the desirable
               | places) in the world to emigrate to.
               | 
               | Several of them ended up going to Canada because it was
               | significantly easier and had a reasonable tech scene in
               | the Toronto area
        
               | odiroot wrote:
               | I have no experience with trying to get into US but I
               | know the situation of my friends who came to EU.
               | Generally you can forget about it without a good degree
               | (e.g. Eng, Msc or MD).
               | 
               | Of course you could also come as a student and finish
               | your education within EU. In some countries you can even
               | do it for free.
        
           | amelius wrote:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ergo_decedo
        
           | bjornsing wrote:
           | If I could give my younger self some advice it would probably
           | be: slack off, or leave.
           | 
           | If you are talented and enjoy slacking off then you can have
           | a pretty nice lifestyle in Sweden. Most of the exceptionally
           | talented engineers I know work part time as consultants.
        
         | garmaine wrote:
         | Markus Persson?
        
           | Shaanie wrote:
           | Of course you can always start up a successful company, but
           | that's not really relevant in this thread.
        
       | senko wrote:
       | For anyone interested in this or being skeptical it's achievable
       | on a non-US-FAANG salary, check out: Common Sense Investing
       | (https://m.youtube.com/c/BenFelixCSI) and The Plain Bagel
       | (https://m.youtube.com/c/ThePlainBagel).
       | 
       | Both channels are by Canadians so have a world focus (not just
       | US), and talk about financial literacy in general.
        
       | tiagobraw wrote:
       | > but as someone without children
       | 
       | this is a huge factor that influences almost every other decision
       | he listed there: - living with roommates or renting a cheap
       | apartment - not wanting to buy an apartment - having the time to
       | do side hustles - even changing career paths is challenging when
       | you have a family to take care of - saving the majority of his
       | annual compensation
       | 
       | I don't want to say his advices are bad, just keep in mind that
       | it's not applicable to everyone
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | Also, advice depends on the generation the author is part of.
         | Millennials have more difficulty getting to financial
         | independence than, say, baby boomers or Gen-Xers had.
        
         | jl6 wrote:
         | Whenever anyone offers any advice on any subject at all, I find
         | it essential to determine whether they have kids or not,
         | because the with-kids solution set seems to be entirely
         | different to the without-kids solution set.
        
         | JCM9 wrote:
         | This is the fallacy with this approach IMHO. Yes you can save a
         | ton my living on minimal spend with no kids. That's also not a
         | life many/most people desire to live.
         | 
         | I'll all for saving and do broadly follow a similar approach.
         | With kids I won't be retiring in my 30s or 40s but I'm
         | investing in life now so that when I do retire it's a much more
         | well rounded and wholesome experience.
         | 
         | To each their own, but most of the "I'm not gonna have kids and
         | just save all my money" types I know say later they made a poor
         | life choice that's hard to fix once that realization is made.
         | 
         | The main advice I do agree with is just because you start
         | earning more doesn't mean you should start spending more.
         | Living comfortably below one's means is a good way to build
         | wealth over time. I just don't recommend the "extreme" version
         | of this.
        
           | skybrian wrote:
           | I think you are right except for calling it a fallacy. It's a
           | choice that most people don't take.
        
           | andreilys wrote:
           | _To each their own, but most of the "I'm not gonna have kids
           | and just save all my money" types I know say later they made
           | a poor life choice that's hard to fix once that realization
           | is made._
           | 
           | You can make the same sweeping generalization with parents
           | who raise kids that are ungrateful and/or complete
           | disappointments.
           | 
           | I know plenty of parents that feel abandoned by their
           | children, who only get a courtesy call once or twice a year.
           | Or worst, children who are continuing to be a financial
           | burden in their 20s/30s/etc.
           | 
           | Very few parents will admit to the fact they regret having
           | children. But the regret is there.
        
         | refurb wrote:
         | With that income? Sure, if kids came into the picture during
         | the last day 3-4 years it would increase his expenses, but he'd
         | presumably also have another income, at least for a few years?
         | 
         | I don't disagree that for middle income earners kids are a huge
         | expense, but when you're making $350,000+ each year, $30,000
         | for childcare isn't a dramatic expense. Same with all the
         | incidentals.
        
           | martincmartin wrote:
           | The biggest expense is college, at least in the U.S. If you
           | retire before they apply, you may want to be conservative and
           | set aside the cost of the most expensive college. MIT is
           | $77k/year [1]. For two kids, that's $616k. And it increases
           | faster than inflation, estimate 6%/yr. If you have enough
           | money in the bank that you're financially independent, they
           | won't qualify for need based aid, you'll have to pay the
           | sticker price.
           | 
           | Columbia is more expensive.
           | 
           | And if one of them wants to become a doctor or lawyer, now
           | you need to pay for grad school too.
           | 
           | [1] https://sfs.mit.edu/billing-repayment/undergraduate-
           | tuition-...
        
             | stagger87 wrote:
             | Using numbers from only top private schools makes your
             | point fall a bit flat.
        
               | ac29 wrote:
               | Seriously. I went to public school, and the 2022
               | estimated cost of attendance, including tuition, room,
               | food, books, transportation and personal expenses is
               | around $30k/year. Certainly not cheap, but over $20k of
               | that is just the living expenses. Tuition is relatively
               | affordable.
        
             | kfajdsl wrote:
             | Every time I see things like this it makes me so grateful
             | that we have a state scholarship (HOPE). I pay like $200 a
             | semester on tuition, then around $1000 on other school
             | fees.
             | 
             | If I don't have to relocate for job opportunities
             | (currently in Atlanta), I plan to stay here and encourage
             | any future children to stay in-state. That's of course
             | assuming that the state doesn't kill off HOPE by then.
        
             | refurb wrote:
             | Not going to lie, but Americans paying 100% of their kids
             | college is kinda weird as an immigrant.
             | 
             | My kid can take out loans and sure I'll help, but hell no
             | I'm not bank rolling multiple kids at full private school
             | tuition.
             | 
             | At least where I grew up a solid public school college was
             | not an impediment to a good career.
             | 
             | I've notice Americans tend to hyper-optimize - I love it
             | when parents tell me they bought in Palo Alto because the
             | public school was rated a 9.3/10 versus San Mateo at
             | 9.1/10.
        
               | rubidium wrote:
               | " Americans paying 100% of their kids college is kinda".
               | As a non immigrant it's weird to me too.
               | 
               | There are a class of parents who obsess about "the best".
               | Best schools, best tutors, best nutrition, best
               | 'experiences', best neighborhood. It's a hedonistic
               | treadmill in the making.
        
               | refurb wrote:
               | Exactly. Saving $200k per kid for private college is not
               | a "need" its a luxury. But a lot of upper class Americans
               | see it as the "baseline".
        
         | dan-robertson wrote:
         | It's also worth noting that the OP did most of these things at
         | a young age, when most people don't have kids anyway. Though
         | they may find that that $2.4m won't generate sufficient income
         | if they do have kids, but then I think they could probably just
         | go back to work if necessary.
        
         | dnate wrote:
         | I'm living with my son and girlfriend with a roommate. It's
         | doable if you are open minded, know open minded people and
         | don't care too much what society thinks a family should look
         | like. An honestly, it's great to have a buddy right at home in
         | these social isolation times.
        
       | MichaelRazum wrote:
       | Just curious. How does live develop in such case? I mean working
       | at a FAANG isn't that bad at all, even if you don't have to work
       | any more. Love the idea of "doing" startup's, but guess even with
       | 1-2m$ you have only few shots.
        
       | sillycube wrote:
        
       | kosmotaur wrote:
       | 625k a year? Doing what exactly? Good for you, but I have never
       | seen a spec with even a third of that salary. Or is it that it's
       | only FAANG who's paying that big?
        
         | daniel-thompson wrote:
         | https://www.levels.fyi is a good resource for learning about
         | this.
        
         | kolinko wrote:
         | Stock options - it's mentioned in the article.
        
           | kosmotaur wrote:
           | What proportion that must have been compared to the base!
           | Even if it was 60% the base is still mind blowing.
        
             | uyt wrote:
             | https://www.levels.fyi/company/Amazon/salaries/Software-
             | Engi...
        
             | paganel wrote:
             | Never set foot in SV nor in the States, but from half a
             | world away it does seem that that figure (i.e. ~600k) for
             | total yearly comp at a FAANG company, given OP's
             | experience, is in the general ballpark, so to speak.
        
             | ZephyrBlu wrote:
             | Closer to ~30% base. The big money comes from stock comp,
             | not salary.
        
             | joshuamorton wrote:
             | He's at Amazon, so the base salary doesn't exceed 185k (and
             | probably 160k).
        
       | DrAwdeOccarim wrote:
       | Just to add an additional avenue for any people earlier in their
       | career, starting salaries for research associates (bench-based
       | wet lab work) in the Boston area right now, fresh out of
       | undergrad with a 4-year degree, is $100k.
        
         | Thristle wrote:
         | My SO just started a PHD in chem eng, before she decided we
         | looked for some open positions and found nothing/low paying
         | (40-50K a year) jobs for _grads_.
         | 
         | I guess everything IS bigger in the USA
        
         | astura wrote:
         | If we are comparing this to the article you'd need a starting
         | salary of ~$128,000 in 2021 dollars to have a comparable salary
         | of $100,000 in 2009 dollars, fwiw.
        
           | DrAwdeOccarim wrote:
           | Totally. With a masters, starting salary is $120k, so much
           | more in line with OP. Also, OP is total comp, which a BS hits
           | with equity and bonus targets.
        
       | uuu23ioj23iJI2i wrote:
        
       | thisistheend123 wrote:
       | I have a noob question:
       | 
       | If everyone thought and lived like this. Save everything, don't
       | spend too much, don't have kids etc. Would it not lead us into a
       | world where there is not enough economic activity and growth.
       | 
       | And the money that you do have in that case would not be worth
       | much anyway..
        
         | hackflip wrote:
         | Yes. But not everyone thinks like this.
        
         | _dark_matter_ wrote:
         | It's hard to say exactly what would happen. Generally it's hard
         | in the short term, as businesses deal with decreased demand.
         | Long term, it means the population is less susceptible to
         | global downturns, and can more easily ride out personal income
         | loss.
        
       | giantg2 wrote:
       | "I learnt that even an average engineer with a five-figure salary
       | can become a millionaire by her late 30s, through financial
       | discipline and investment planning."
       | 
       | Yet this is not what the article is about! $300k+ is not
       | something an average engineer makes. No shit you can become a
       | multimillionaire if you're pulling in half a million every year.
        
       | deanmoriarty wrote:
       | I do not understand why articles like these consistently score
       | poorly on HN? Of course it's all based on luck, but that doesn't
       | make it an uninteresting read. I admire the diligence of the
       | author, and how well they played the lucky cards they were given.
       | 
       | I am frequently in awe when reading technical articles on HN,
       | with people advancing the state of the art in some technology.
       | Those people also are incredibly lucky, because they were born
       | with massive talents that, through sacrifices and education, they
       | transformed into life achievements.
       | 
       | As an average software engineer I was not lucky enough to be born
       | with cognitive skills that will ever allow me to reach those
       | technical highs, but that is not a reason to crap on it saying
       | "Just luck! Just genetic/environmental luck!".
       | 
       | Similarly, I don't typically read from others: "It's easy for you
       | to rewrite the Linux kernel in JavaScript over a weekend, your
       | work is just luck because you were born a genius in a developed
       | country so all your achievements need to be discounted and you
       | have no merits!".
       | 
       | I suspect when it comes to compensation talk people tend on
       | average to get more bitter than they should otherwise be.
       | 
       | Maybe I take this to heart because I made significant sacrifices
       | to immigrate to the US and, while I was immensely lucky to
       | succeed in the endeavor, most people I know would have never
       | taken those uncomfortable steps (leaving family behind in a
       | different country, sacrifice personal space by frugal living in a
       | HCOL area as opposed to a LCOL area with a house and backyard for
       | the kids, ...), yet they will happily "complain" that my
       | compensation is much higher than theirs, and that there is no
       | merit to it, rather than simply admitting that they willingly
       | chose a different path in life, but they could have chased my
       | same opportunities with largely the same financial outcome.
       | 
       | If I was reading this article and I was not a tech worker in the
       | US but interested in getting those compensations, my first
       | reaction would be "damn, let me research what are the options for
       | legal immigration to the US and let me start down a path that has
       | good odds of me landing a tech job over there within 5-10 years".
       | It would not be "let me complain on HN how the country I am a
       | forever-prisoner in has a 90% effective tax rate so that I feel
       | good about my situation".
        
         | endisneigh wrote:
         | > rather than simply admitting that they willingly chose a
         | different path in life, but they could have chased my same
         | opportunities with largely the same financial outcome.
         | 
         | Let's suppose everyone did this, how do you see it turning out?
         | 
         | Who will do all of the other things?
        
           | deanmoriarty wrote:
           | I don't want to dismiss your question, but to be honest I
           | don't know how to answer it. Maybe if everyone did it new
           | arbitrage opportunities would arise so that it would become
           | more lucrative to move somewhere else where there is a demand
           | for services that nobody is doing anymore? But I am not an
           | economist so I am not interested in reading 50 pedantic
           | comments about how my previous sentence is inaccurate.
           | 
           | I do not concern myself with non-practical (in my opinion)
           | matters because I know that the vast majority of people will
           | not take that path, so it's likely not an issue.
        
             | evv555 wrote:
             | >I do not concern myself with non-practical (in my opinion)
             | matters because I know that the vast majority of people
             | will not take that path, so it's likely not an issue.
             | 
             | Vanguard index funds are basically meme stock status in
             | large part because of articles like this. So arguably it's
             | already happening and distorting prices.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | It already is. Along with the companies. The top tier
               | paying companies are flooded with candidates and
               | difficult to get into because of articles like this.
               | 
               | People are already doing all this. Probably about as many
               | that ever could. It's why the interview process is so
               | ridiculous and keeps getting more difficult.
        
             | endisneigh wrote:
             | What...?
             | 
             | You said:
             | 
             | > rather than simply admitting that they willingly chose a
             | different path in life, but they could have chased my same
             | opportunities with largely the same financial outcome.
             | 
             | But then you also say
             | 
             | > I do not concern myself with non-practical (in my
             | opinion) matters
             | 
             | The "concern" is your own advice.
        
               | deanmoriarty wrote:
               | I find your comment incredibly pedantic (just my opinion,
               | no offense).
               | 
               | In my opinion, a practical matter is a single person
               | (specifically, one of my peers in my home country
               | complaining about my compensation without taking any
               | action) deciding to make sacrifices to immigrate to the
               | US.
               | 
               | A non-practical matter is worrying about everyone in my
               | home country deciding to do the same.
        
               | endisneigh wrote:
               | I don't see what's pedantic about it.
               | 
               | Do you believe someone who were to try to take the same
               | path as you could have the same financial outcome today?
               | 
               | How would it change if they couldn't get to the USA?
        
               | deanmoriarty wrote:
               | > Do you believe someone who were to try to take the same
               | path as you could have the same financial outcome today?
               | 
               | Yes, I do believe that, the odds of legally entering the
               | US with a CS degree are still largely the same of when I
               | entered a few years ago and are reasonably attainable
               | with enough perseverance over a few years, there are
               | different academic and worker visas that can all be used
               | to get a foot in the door. Also, the job demand is
               | significantly higher today than it used to be a few years
               | ago. New grads can make $200k+ compensation, my comp as a
               | new grad was like $35k and I still did fine.
               | 
               | Naturally going down this path will require significant
               | sacrifices, as per my original comment. You need to be
               | willing to be very frugal and likely move away from
               | parents, friends and family, and not knowing for many
               | years what your final immigration status will be (as you
               | move from temporary visas to permanent visas to green
               | card etc.). In my case, it also means no kids, no car,
               | etc. (similar life as the author, I assume).
               | 
               | My whole point, let's please not forget, is that on
               | average people are not willing to make the above
               | sacrifices but they still like to loudly complain when
               | folks share articles like this one.
               | 
               | > How would it change if they couldn't get to the USA?
               | 
               | The odds are good they will, in my opinion. If they
               | won't, there are other options. Sampling my friends:
               | 
               | - if you are slightly more entrepreneurial, move to
               | another tax-favorable country like Malta (similar tax
               | rates as US) and contract with American companies, with
               | financial outcomes largely similar to mine.
               | 
               | - if you just want a typical employee experience, Canada
               | is also a really good option that many of my European
               | friends who didn't want to go through the US immigration
               | gauntlet chose, and they are doing very well.
               | 
               | Once again, all these decisions take sacrifices but they
               | are relatively attainable.
        
         | blastonico wrote:
         | +1
         | 
         | I'm a typical average joe, but I love reading these because I'm
         | learning from them what to do when I have such resource.
         | 
         | Yeah, there're people luckier than me, but I'm increasing my
         | odds in a variety of endeavors and improving my skills. I'm far
         | from my goal yet, but results are very encouraging so far.
        
           | barbazoo wrote:
           | Learning what though? Rake in half a million in salary a
           | year, save most of it? No shit, I had no idea.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | "I do not understand why articles like these consistently score
         | poorly on HN?"
         | 
         | Because the article pisses me off. This is not something
         | helpful to us average peasants. No shit you can become a
         | multimillionaire if you're pulling in over half a million per
         | year. Maybe some of the advice I'd good, but it would be worth
         | more coming from someone who actually is average so we can see
         | it as evidence. Otherwise it's some rich person telling us what
         | works based on their theory and an experience that's nothing
         | like our's.
        
           | dan-robertson wrote:
           | The implication of the article, that such compensation is
           | reasonably possible to a moderately competent software
           | developer working for big companies in the United States,
           | seems pretty reasonable to me. Another thing one could note
           | is the bump in compensation in recent years, which could be a
           | combination of stock going up, more experience making the
           | author a more valuable employee, or market rates for software
           | engineers at large software companies have gone up.
           | 
           | None of the numbers strike me as particularly unusual for the
           | author's circumstances, so if they strike you as unusual (and
           | you are able to work in the US), then it might be worth
           | considering trying to get yourself into similar employment,
           | if that's what you'd want. If you can't work in the US,
           | things are different and potentially a lot worse, but the
           | other thing the OP states is that a professional on a more
           | modest income ought to be able to do well making sensible
           | investments[1] and cutting costs. I think that's true in
           | basically any developed country.
           | 
           | You claim that the author's route was not average, but I
           | think it probably was reasonably average for a software
           | engineer working at large US tech companies in NYC/SF/Silicon
           | Valley. The less average thing is perhaps saving lots of
           | money, making reasonable investments, and not having a load
           | of expensive kids.
           | 
           | [1] e.g. 60% of the increase in net worth between 2020 and
           | 2021 comes from investments rather than the 'earning half a
           | million dollars a year' and those investments came from
           | earning less than that (obviously such incomes still
           | generally aren't available to people who aren't software
           | engineers at big US tech companies, and it may be reasonable
           | to complain that a path that >100k people follow is
           | unreasonable but within this path I think it's pretty
           | reasonable).
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | "I learnt that even an average engineer with a five-figure
             | salary can become a millionaire by her late 30s, through
             | financial discipline and investment planning."
             | 
             | Then why doe the article mention average as part of the
             | target audience?
             | 
             | "The implication of the article, that such compensation is
             | reasonably possible to a moderately competent software
             | developer working for big companies in the United States,
             | seems pretty reasonable to me."
             | 
             | I'm moderately compentent and work for a large company. Why
             | do I make under $100k? It seems your perspective might be
             | skewed as it is not common, as evidenced by the median dev
             | salary of about $105k.
             | 
             | "None of the numbers strike me as particularly unusual for
             | the author's circumstances, so if they strike you as
             | unusual (and you are able to work in the US), then it might
             | be worth considering trying to get yourself into similar
             | employment, if that's what you'd want."
             | 
             | Again, I think there's a drastic perception issue here.
             | These number are by definition unusual or rare given the
             | median. It's simply not possible for an average person like
             | me to make that kind of money.
             | 
             | "60% of the increase in net worth between 2020 and 2021
             | comes from investments rather than the 'earning half a
             | million dollars a year' and those investments came from
             | earning less than that (obviously such incomes still
             | generally aren't available to people who aren't software
             | engineers at big US tech companies, and it may be
             | reasonable to complain that a path that >100k people follow
             | is unreasonable but within this path I think it's pretty
             | reasonable)."
             | 
             | And again, the majority of the US devs fall at or below the
             | median, putting them right around or under that $100k
             | number.
             | 
             | So yeah, use "normal" people get a little pissed off with
             | people telling us that it's not unusual to be making
             | multiple times our salaries and we could easily achieve
             | this too if only we were "moderately competent".
        
               | gxespino wrote:
               | "It's simply not possible for an average person like me
               | to make that kind of money."
               | 
               | Putting these sort of limitations on yourself, from my
               | experience, will dampen the effort that you put in to
               | achieve new levels, if you even try at all. That reduced
               | effort will result in exactly what you predicted for
               | yourself.
               | 
               | So, begs the question, what sort of effort have you put
               | in to increase your pay past the median dev salary.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | Masters, extra hours, working above my level, taking on
               | extra responsibility, volunteering for initiatives at
               | work, working on personal projects in my own time,
               | multiple certs, business acumen certs, etc.
               | 
               | The number of opportunities to make significantly more
               | money are exceedingly rare. Especially with family
               | constraints like not being allowed to move or no longer
               | able to work extensive unplanned extra hours due to
               | childcare responsibilities.
        
               | gxespino wrote:
               | You have the resume for sure.
               | 
               | Have you worked on your social/emotional
               | intelligence/interviewing skills?
        
             | ac29 wrote:
             | > such compensation is reasonably possible to a moderately
             | competent software developer working for big companies in
             | the United States
             | 
             | The author made $625k in compensation this year. Even for
             | large US tech companies, that's far above the "moderately
             | competent" level. According to levels.fyi, this is
             | approximately what a Principal SWE makes at Amazon, the
             | third highest compensation level listed.
        
               | crakhamster01 wrote:
               | My guess would be a higher end SDE3/L6 - I believe Amazon
               | backloads their vesting schedule so the jump seems
               | reasonable?
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | Rational, maybe. Reasonable, not from my perspective.
        
               | joshuamorton wrote:
               | You're looking at take-home, while levels.fyi shows
               | granted amounts. AMZN and GOOG have both ~tripled since
               | early 2018, so if you joined with a large stock grant
               | (and as the other user mentioned, amazon's are
               | backloaded), you'd be getting 3x the modelled amount. So
               | someone who joined with a 160K salary and 400K stock
               | grant at Amazon, which is modelled compensation of just a
               | bit over 250K would take home 160K + .4 * 400K * 3 = 640K
               | this year. That translates to the high side of L5 or low
               | side of L6 at amazon, which is to say well within the
               | "Senior" band.
        
           | AYBABTME wrote:
           | The average joe who'd write this blogpost wouldn't be an
           | average joe anymore. The reality is that most of us in tech
           | can aspire to the author's outcome, with high probability of
           | success. The odds are stacked in our favor. If we're willing
           | to do the moves and do the "sacrifices", most of us can pull
           | it off. But in the end you need the right attitude, and some
           | advice about good strategies, like the author is giving out.
           | 
           | I think the cynical perspective is entirely exaggerated in
           | the software industry. It's also an awful way to look at
           | things, almost guaranteeing a self-fulfilling prophecy.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | "The reality is that most of us in tech can aspire to the
             | author's outcome, with high probability of success."
             | 
             | This simply isn't true. Most people cannot retire after 12
             | years of working, even in tech. The median software dev
             | salary in the US is about $105k. You cannot reasonably earn
             | $2.4M when you make about half of that during those 12
             | years.
        
               | AYBABTME wrote:
               | It's not hard to move up the quantiles if you put the
               | effort. It doesn't require ivy league education, a rich
               | family, or a particularly genius mind. The mean salary is
               | useless in quantifying wether you, as an individual, have
               | any agency in influencing your outcome. Your attitude
               | toward it, however, has a lot to do with it. And surely
               | starting with the assumption that it's impossible doesn't
               | put the odds in your favor.
               | 
               | In any case, 105k median income just goes to tell how big
               | the opportunity is.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | "It's not hard to move up the quantiles if you put the
               | effort."
               | 
               | The statistics paint a different picture - there are only
               | so many jobs above the median.
               | 
               | "In any case, 105k median income just goes to tell how
               | big the opportunity is."
               | 
               | You mean limited? Clearly this is multiples lower than
               | the author.
               | 
               | "The mean salary is useless in quantifying wether you, as
               | an individual, have any agency in influencing your
               | outcome."
               | 
               | No, not really. It allows you to set realistic
               | expectations and understand the job market.
        
               | AYBABTME wrote:
               | I'm not going to change your mood but I hope someone else
               | reading this interaction early in their career will come
               | out of it with an optimistic mindset instead of a cynical
               | one. It pays off better.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | I hope they are realistic. I was optimistic but was
               | repeated crushed. It would be better they prepare for the
               | disappointment and negative outcomes, because life is an
               | endless parade of them.
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | I'm early in my career and I'm bullish on myself, but I
               | would never go around preaching that there's a "high
               | probability of success" of a SWE making >$500k because
               | clearly there is not.
               | 
               | I'm bullish because I have evidence to support that
               | possibility. Most people have zero evidence that they
               | would ever make >$500k, let alone having a "high
               | probability of success".
        
               | AYBABTME wrote:
               | But you don't need to pull 500k/y to end up with >1M$
               | after 12y. Just compound interest will get you there
               | rather quickly if you save half of your 105k median dev
               | salary. Of course doing so isn't comfortable, but I'm
               | sure you can agree it's doable.
               | 
               | Also while 500k/y is a stretch and usually occurs due to
               | stock appreciation (not salary), you can reasonably
               | assume that landing a job at big tech will lead you to a
               | 300k total comp within 12y. If you care enough to play
               | the career game.
        
               | lordnacho wrote:
               | Keep in mind you can be disappointed in more than one
               | way. Either you tried the impossible with an optimistic
               | mindset and failed anyway, or you failed at something
               | doable because you took pessimistic choices.
               | 
               | It's not actually obvious which category this is in.
        
               | gxespino wrote:
               | Yes, but the optimistic mindset would probably have a
               | better outcome than the latter regardless if they failed
               | to meet their original expectations or not.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | That's what an optimistic person would say. A pessimistic
               | person might believe they have a better outcome because
               | of hedging against the pessimistic possibilities.
               | 
               | It seems we should need objective data to filter through
               | the bias.
        
               | AYBABTME wrote:
               | There's research supporting the optimist strategy but
               | I'll be lame in that I can't link you to it without
               | searching for it longer than I can dedicate time for. I
               | think Codex Alpha talked about it fwiw. Personally, I'm
               | in the "shoot for the stars, hope for the moon" camp.
               | Pragmatic optimism or realistic optimism? Some such.
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | If you have an optimistic mindset and poor abilities, how
               | does that translate to a better outcome than a
               | pessimistic mindset?
        
               | gxespino wrote:
               | You worked on improving your poor abilities rather than
               | accepting it as just.
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | You can work on your abilities and be pessimistic though.
               | They aren't mutually exclusive.
        
               | AYBABTME wrote:
               | Yes but it's harder, so your expected outcome is lower.
        
               | gxespino wrote:
               | I understand where you're getting at.
               | 
               | I think many pessimistic people don't start or give up
               | earlier and this leads to the self fulfilling prophecy.
               | 
               | Could be wrong, objective data would be needed for sure.
        
         | sakopov wrote:
         | Well, ultimately it's about the advice here. If someone asks
         | you how to achieve financial independence and you tell them to
         | just make half a mil working at FAANG, your advice is going to
         | get filed under the "no shit" folder. I also don't quite follow
         | how the author claims to have achieved financial independence
         | while relying on a $600K/yr salary from Amazon. This isn't the
         | type of content folks usually expect. I think for most people
         | it'll be about using their salaries to their potential via
         | smart investing and compounding, while focusing their free time
         | on generating alternative streams of income which will
         | supplement their existing salary. I think this is the
         | foundation of most "financial independence" stories. With that
         | said, I do think that the article is very inspirational to most
         | engineers on here. I'm a fellow immigrant who has achieved a
         | bit in my life in the US, but not nearly as much in terms of
         | salary. I'm still grateful and very content knowing that the
         | ceiling is as high as I pretty much want it to be.
        
         | refurb wrote:
         | As a fellow immigrant who never hit these kinds of incomes I
         | agree. It's an interesting read, the author is humble enough to
         | realize his result involved a good portion of luck.
         | 
         | I judge my own progress by where I was 10 years ago, not where
         | some random internet author is today.
        
         | rexreed wrote:
         | The reason why I think these articles score poorly is because I
         | think my reaction is like most reactions (not all, but most). I
         | read the article, saw the salary table, did an eyeroll, and
         | then skimmed the rest. The article can be summed up as "get a
         | high paying job in a career that requires technical skills,
         | save more than you spend, and invest what you save". Did I miss
         | anything in that summarization?
        
           | mirker wrote:
           | The part where their salary wasn't very good in the salary
           | table; you have to play the market, which is currently
           | favorable toward software engineering.
           | 
           | I'm not sure what people are expecting. Eating rice and beans
           | on $100k is still less than $100k savings.
        
           | leetcrew wrote:
           | I mean yeah, step one is almost always "make more money than
           | most people on earth", which is obviously not an attainable
           | goal for most people. if you're already on the right track,
           | it's not terribly interesting to read. but being a
           | disciplined saver and making reasonable investment choices is
           | surprisingly uncommon even among people who do actually have
           | the prerequisite income.
           | 
           | something about it just doesn't click in the minds of some
           | people. I have a buddy that's been poor (like, rice and beans
           | and still missing rent) his whole life. yet somehow whenever
           | he receives some sort of windfall, he spends thousands of
           | dollars faster than I do on a >$150k salary. he finally got a
           | good job making ~$80k and his first thought was "I'm gonna
           | get a nice 3BR apartment". he lives by himself with no
           | children or pets! maybe if enough articles like this popped
           | up in his feed, he would understand the issue with his
           | approach.
        
           | andreilys wrote:
           | There's some other tactical advice which is self-evident if
           | you spend any time working in tech but for outsiders it might
           | not be clear.
           | 
           | For example he talks about interviewing every 3 years, and
           | keeping your interview skills sharp. Specifically he says
           | _Practicing your interview skills is the best financial
           | investment you can make_
           | 
           | This IMO is the best way to grow your compensation, the way
           | companies structure their compensation is often at odds with
           | inflation and market conditions. If you're not regularly
           | checking your market value via interviews, you will become
           | underpaid.
           | 
           | Again I didn't learn anything I didn't know already, but I
           | think this does a good job of giving tactical advice to
           | someone unfamiliar with the concept of a achieving financial
           | independence via high tech.
        
           | Aeolun wrote:
           | > Did I miss anything in that summarization?
           | 
           | Have no children?
           | 
           | Not only because they eat money, but your priorities will do
           | a complete 180.
        
             | astura wrote:
             | They also advocate living with roommates. It's usually not
             | feasible (or desirable) to live with roommates if you have
             | children.
        
             | rexreed wrote:
             | And also, the article says "don't buy a house". I put both
             | of these into the principle of save more than you spend.
             | Some of us consider those necessities in life, however, and
             | we're willing to make the necessary tradeoffs.
        
               | ac29 wrote:
               | The article doesn't say "don't buy a house", it says
               | there are pros and cons to home ownership, which is true.
               | 
               | Buying and selling homes is extremely expensive - it
               | doesnt make sense for someone who wants to have the
               | ability to move with little friction. Its also putting a
               | lot of one's financial resources into a single asset. A
               | housing market downturn could be financially ruinous, a
               | series of expensive repairs could easily cost far more
               | than an entire year's of rent. Property tax, maintenance,
               | and potential HOA fees mean that even after paying off
               | your mortgage, you're never actually free of ongoing
               | housing expenses.
               | 
               | However, if you have kids or other ties to an area,
               | owning housing can help make your expenses both lower and
               | more predictable than renting. Over long enough periods
               | of time, the housing market also tends to go up, which
               | means it can be a good investment.
        
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             | fundad wrote:
             | Eat money and poop work
        
               | bobwaycott wrote:
               | Thanks for the laugh.
               | 
               | Thanks for the second laugh when I thought, "What a fun
               | dad joke" and saw your username. :)
        
         | paulryanrogers wrote:
         | My guess is some of the push back is because these kinds of
         | articles seem tantalizingly prescriptive yet often bake in
         | assumptions or choices that are unattainable for most.
         | 
         | Things like be born smart enough to land 6 figure job (or high
         | 5 figures 20yo), be born into the middle/upper class, don't
         | have extended family dependencies, don't have kids, don't have
         | an SO or find one willing accept all the constraints, accept
         | living in modest accomodations for the duration, or that now is
         | roughly the same as when they started.
        
       | gadrev wrote:
       | This is on the disclaimer and several other comments already, but
       | I can't help commenting.
       | 
       | Unavoidably: US based, 6 figures right from the start. You're
       | pretty much half way there already.
       | 
       | Just happen to live in the US, work and don't be stupid
       | financially. I guess it also helps not having a big "student
       | debt" (that's also not US exclusive but US typical, since in many
       | other countries education is cheaper - subsidized and you don't
       | gradutate with a debt. ATL not a personal debt). But since
       | there's so much tech demand in the US irrespective of education,
       | you can often skip college and follow a different path. But not
       | if you have to immigrate with a student visa to go the H1B way,
       | haha!
       | 
       | The casualness with which you can earn those amounts of money and
       | then lecture (not this particular post, more like the trend) on
       | "retire at 40" or "financial independence in 10 yrs" is a bit
       | tiring (from an outside perspective, and in a harmless-envious
       | way) but all the best to those that are in a position to make it.
       | Yes, casualness in a relative sense, not implying you don't have
       | to work or anything like that.
       | 
       | Congrats to OP.
        
         | vr46 wrote:
         | I was expecting financial advice in the post but there wasn't
         | any. There wasn't much of any substance either, but it sounds
         | like the OP is still young and has some interesting plans to
         | follow-through with.
        
       | pyrale wrote:
       | Turns out, earning half a million dollars every year makes it
       | easy to be a millionaire after a few years.
        
         | soufron wrote:
         | Best comment! Nailed it down! :D
        
         | sergiotapia wrote:
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | Your flip comment seems to belie the fact that he's only earned
         | at least a half a million dollars for _one_ year. Most of his
         | years he earned substantially less than that.
         | 
         | The majority of his NW comes from investment and savings, not
         | income.
         | 
         | The point of the article is that cutting expenses, saving,
         | investing wisely, and aggressively pursuing pay raises can
         | yield a few million well before retirement age.
         | 
         | These sort of casual dismissals negate the educational value of
         | the post.
        
           | darkwater wrote:
           | So you have to not enjoy the best years of your life and
           | spend time and energy keeping track of investments to... get
           | bored as hell later because your brain is so used to just
           | work and save and nlt enjoying life that you will feel guilty
           | spending that money? I want to retire at 55 but I'm really
           | skeptical about the FIRE community, especially by the ones in
           | their 20's
        
             | cutler wrote:
             | Yeah, can't imagine this guy's conversation on a date. Oh,
             | wait - having a partner is an additional expense so out of
             | the question.
        
               | oblio wrote:
               | Having a partner doesn't have to be an expense.
               | 
               | Living expenses tend to grow slower than incomes, as
               | incomes go up.
               | 
               | You don't pay 200% rent for 2 people, but for sure you
               | can earn 200% with 2 people.
        
               | refurb wrote:
               | Huh? My partner was not an expense at all.
        
           | pyrale wrote:
           | > Your flip comment seems to belie the fact that he's only
           | earned at least a half a million dollars for one year.
           | 
           | I would say $475k is close enough, in all honesty.
           | 
           | > The majority of his NW comes from investment and savings,
           | not income.
           | 
           | Sum of (earnings - spent) over the career is $2,611,000. Net
           | worth by the end is $2,400,000. In order for investment
           | returns to be above savings on income, taxes would have to be
           | 42.3% of lifetime earnings, which would be a bit surprising.
        
             | refurb wrote:
             | Income tax in CA at that level is 33% per year
             | approximately. Even at $150k. So knock 1/3 off earnings and
             | subtract expenses, what do you get?
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | pyrale wrote:
               | With these numbers, most of the savings come from
               | earnings, not investments.
        
             | vjeux wrote:
             | Tech stock is taxed at around 50% when you get it and then
             | 20% of the upswing. So $475k total comp is more like $250k
             | in your bank account in practice.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | If you are going to include the tax rate on the capital
               | gains, then you should include the capital gains in the
               | amount in your bank account.
               | 
               | You should also hire a CPA or at least spend some time
               | reading about strategies to minimize taxes if you are
               | paying close to an effective 50% income tax on $500k of
               | income.
        
               | vjeux wrote:
               | You are right, I should be more precise.
               | 
               | If you earn more than $523,600 and are single, then your
               | tax rate is not 50% but 37%, which is still meaningful
               | amount that is often not considered when looking at those
               | big numbers. https://www.manafld.com/blog/2021/2/26/rsus-
               | no-sell-tax
               | 
               | If you are in California, then your employer will not
               | give you all your RSU but sell 40% and give you 60%. So
               | you don't have a big scary surprise when it's tax season.
               | https://blog.myrawealth.com/insights/rsu-tax-rate
        
               | Rebelgecko wrote:
               | This doesn't line up with my experience. I have the
               | option of having anywhere from 22-37% of my RSUs withheld
               | to pay taxes. The IRS only forces you into the 37%
               | supplemental withholding rate if you make more than
               | $1,000,000/year which alas is a problem I've never had.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | > If you earn more than $523,600 and are single, then
               | your tax rate is not 50% but 37%
               | 
               | The federal income tax rate only for income above $523k
               | is 37%. Only for income above $523k.
               | 
               | > If you are in California, then your employer will not
               | give you all your RSU but sell 40% and give you 60%. So
               | you don't have a big scary surprise when it's tax season.
               | 
               | Withholding amounts seem irrelevant when discussing
               | effective tax rates.
        
               | erwincoumans wrote:
               | federal + income tax + social taxes will be closer to 45%
               | in California, at that income level (approx. 30% federal
               | tax, 10% state tax, 4% FICA)
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | I am getting 42% according to this website:
               | 
               | https://smartasset.com/taxes/income-taxes#gJwOxy2ei7
               | 
               | But that is without 401k/HSA/etc.
        
               | pyrale wrote:
               | Is it 37% marginal tax rate or 37% effective?
               | 
               | I calculated 42% effective on lifetime income, and I
               | suppose the writer was not taxed at 42% on their 100k
               | income from the first years, so the tax rate for later
               | years must have been higher.
        
               | BeetleB wrote:
               | > If you are in California, then your employer will not
               | give you all your RSU but sell 40% and give you 60%.
               | 
               | That is entirely irrelevant. You will get taxed the same
               | no matter what they sell and give you. If your tax rate
               | should be less than 40% (true for me, and probably most
               | people here), you'll get the money back as a refund.
               | 
               | You do miss out on any appreciation, but if you _know_
               | your marginal tax rate is  < 40% (just look at your
               | previous tax returns to figure it out), you can simply
               | spend the delta to buy the stocks you should have gotten
               | and you'll still get the appreciation (and the cash in
               | the tax refund to compensate you for doing this).
        
               | d23 wrote:
               | Do you have any resources you can share? My understanding
               | is it's pretty difficult to lower your taxes meaningfully
               | if all of it comes from wages.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Bogleheads forums or whitecoatinvestor. Even just 401k,
               | HSA, 529, and megabackdoor roth should help bring down
               | effective tax rate (for the $500k income being
               | discussed).
               | 
               | You will not get as low as someone with their own
               | business or S corp, but the tax advantaged savings
               | account should help.
        
               | mupuff1234 wrote:
               | 529 and megabackdoor are post tax so they won't affect
               | the tax on the 500k (but are nonetheless useful tax
               | planning tools)
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | True, I guess my mental model is to amortizing the total
               | taxes over the total income/investment period.
        
           | lbacaj wrote:
           | Not to mention, he was also living in expensive areas. It's
           | amazing he saved and invested that much.
        
           | ZephyrBlu wrote:
           | > _The point of the article is that cutting expenses, saving,
           | investing wisely, and aggressively pursuing pay raises can
           | yield a few million well before retirement age_
           | 
           | Most people will have nowhere near the same results as the
           | author by implementing these things.
           | 
           | The biggest factors here are:
           | 
           | 1) Earn a lot of money
           | 
           | 2) Don't spend it all
           | 
           | I don't think this post has much educational value at all
           | because I think most people already understand those points,
           | they just can't execute on them in a meaningful way.
        
             | whimsicalism wrote:
             | I would never make assumptions banking on "most people
             | understanding" anything.
        
               | Aeolun wrote:
               | Most people _in a position to make 500k per year in their
               | thirties_ already understand these things.
        
       | uyt wrote:
       | I think people who are graduating now will have a hard time
       | replicating this. My cohort (now in our early 30s, cs majors from
       | a top school) were incredibly lucky because we were in a
       | permanent bull run so as long as we were invested in almost any
       | tech stock, we did well. Almost all of us hit one million mark
       | before early 2020 and that became 2 million at the end of 2021.
       | 
       | I would love for this to continue forever but can it really? For
       | example the author (and my friends) are in similar situation
       | where their compensation are now in the ~500k range but that
       | number is based on the stock value at the time of offer. It is
       | now essentially double that. So we're in a situation where your
       | everyday senior FAANG engineers are locked in a golden handcuff
       | unless they are offered million dollar packages to jump ship.
       | 
       | We're in weird times.
        
         | uejfiweun wrote:
         | There's no question that equity valuations are due for a
         | massive collapse, the federal reserve has even admitted this.
         | But there are a few things that make me thing that software
         | engineer compensation has nowhere to go but up:
         | 
         | - The world is becoming increasingly computerized. The demand
         | for software is skyrocketing.
         | 
         | - Software engineering is extremely economically efficient. You
         | can produce infinite quantities of a piece of software with no
         | marginal cost.
         | 
         | - Outside of the HN / CS bubble, most regular people still
         | think coding is either boring, stupid, or too hard.
         | 
         | I really think it would be tough to do this job without some
         | major interest in computers that most people simply don't have.
         | And you can't really fake this. This puts a cap on the supply
         | of engineers.
        
         | yellowfish22 wrote:
         | > I would love for this to continue forever but can it really?
         | 
         | well, we've pretty much got the world chained down it's
         | essentially unlimited money for us forever
         | 
         | if things go downhill we will still be on top anyway so who
         | cares
        
         | xvector wrote:
         | Golden handcuffs are a good thing. It's such a first world
         | problem to complain about golden handcuffs. "Oh no, I'm making
         | $300k/yr over my nominal market value!"
        
           | bradlys wrote:
           | The golden handcuffs are only handcuffs if you're in a
           | terrible environment. I've walked away from a 7-figure TC.
           | Handcuffs be damned. I wasn't going to take the abuse
           | anymore.
           | 
           | Some people don't have the strength to walk away and instead
           | will obsess over money for anything. It's funny how I'm sure
           | people would require much bigger numbers if they were given
           | an offering where they'd have to go to a terrible prison for
           | 2-3 years in their prime years.
        
       | yholio wrote:
       | TLDR he rode the tech bubble, lived frugally and poured his
       | savings into what happened to be a very favorable stock decade,
       | which together with his tech stock options from employers made
       | him a multimillionaire.
       | 
       | Not to disrespect the effort that went into this, but let's make
       | this very clear: this type of trajectory is only possible for a
       | very limited few, in a particular moment in history.
       | 
       | Everything seems to indicate that, save for a few samurai, the
       | tech overlords are a powerful force driving inequality today.
        
         | apples_oranges wrote:
         | Tech is not a bubble, software is transforming everything
         | (/eating the world).
        
           | astura wrote:
           | Software companies can both transform the world and
           | simultaneously be an equity bubble.
        
             | seaman1921 wrote:
             | PE 28 does not seem like an equity bubble.
        
           | yholio wrote:
           | The eating part might be more literal than most expect.
           | 
           | For example, it's hard to argue that software made journalism
           | better. Sure, there is some efficiency in using a phone to
           | record interviews and sending the results of your work on
           | seconds on the other side of the world - as opposed to things
           | like notepads and telexes.
           | 
           | On the other hand, Google and Facebook almost completely
           | eviscerated the revenue streams that fed traditional
           | journalists, without putting anything in it's place.
           | 
           | Instead of a large number of local papers and ad agencies
           | earning local revenue and funding journalists, you have a
           | massive revenue stream going into Google's offshore tax
           | shells, of which a part is used to fund their software
           | mercenary army, and the bulk is reimvested into further tech
           | monopolies.
           | 
           | The corrupt and the despots surely welcome the tech
           | overlords.
        
             | oblio wrote:
             | Worse than that, they're taking away money from local
             | businesses. Local markets, local stores, local shops, local
             | newspapers, local magazines, small businesses, etc.
             | 
             | They're vampires centralizing local revenues worldwide and
             | for what?!? That money gets reinvested or offshored so that
             | about 100 billionaires live like kings with about 2 million
             | millionaire flunkies working for them.
        
         | goodpoint wrote:
         | Also you need to be extremely lucky to be born in the right
         | country and the right area, have a healthy childhood and access
         | to learning, have no physical or psychological illness, have no
         | moral qualms with working for those companies, and the list
         | goes on.
         | 
         | > this type of trajectory is only possible for a very limited
         | few
         | 
         | We are talking 0.1% of human population if not less.
        
         | yunohn wrote:
         | > the tech overlords are a powerful force driving inequality
         | today.
         | 
         | I would truly disagree; tech is transforming lives across the
         | class spectrum, globally.
         | 
         | In fact, what you should be concerned about is how other
         | industries think it's acceptable to significantly underpay
         | their average employee. And the ironic part is that tech
         | companies still pay managers and executives way more than the
         | average SWE - at FAANG, often directors make more than their
         | entire reporting chain.
        
       | itsthejb wrote:
       | I know I shouldn't, but reading about people who successfully
       | surfed the tech bubble makes me groan. Because, even though I've
       | also done well in Europe, I almost moved to the U.S. twice
       | (couldn't get offers), and passed up interviewing at Shopify
       | before they exploded
       | 
       | So it's painful thinking that you were very much in the right
       | place at the right time, but were just a step or two away from
       | the stratosphere... however, it's all relative I guess, those
       | with 2 mil envy those with 5 mil
        
       | ThePhysicist wrote:
       | To have 1 MM USD/EUR at the end of your thirties given an average
       | 4 % yearly return on investment, you need to save around 4.000
       | USD/EUR per month starting at age 25. In Europe, if you earn
       | around 100k EUR per year your free income will be around
       | 5.000-6.000 EUR per month. Saving 4.000 EUR / month is doable
       | with that but you'll have to live very frugally, not traveling
       | much and you better not start a family unless you have a partner
       | who will supplement your income.
       | 
       | And regarding the authors' experience: Yeah, if you happen to be
       | employed in the area that ranks in the top 0.05 % quantile for
       | engineering salaries worldwide you will easily become wealthy,
       | especially if you're lucky enough to be paid in company stock
       | during a stock market bubble.
        
         | apples_oranges wrote:
         | That's a big if, at least in Germany the pay seems to be capped
         | below 100k for software engineers at least.
        
           | dogma1138 wrote:
           | And you'll still lose nearly half your income to taxes and
           | other deductions.
           | 
           | Basically road to financial independence seems to be get paid
           | half a million a year and live in a country with relatively
           | low tax rate...
        
             | pftburger wrote:
             | Seconded. Earning 600k a year should automatically
             | disqualify you from talking about living frugally.
        
               | dogma1138 wrote:
               | Yeah I don't get how their outgoings are so low given
               | where they must live... rent or buy it simply doesn't fit
               | even if they are renting a room and living of cup noodles
               | based on rent in the Bay Area some of their outgoings are
               | suspiciously low.
               | 
               | So I think getting a house gifted by your parents is also
               | a requirement for their path.
        
               | Zababa wrote:
               | Not really. An appartment alone is $2000 a month
               | according to the post. That's 24% of your income at
               | $100k, and not even 4% at $620k. I don't know how much
               | people in the US usually spend on rent/housing, but
               | anything under 30% of your income seems low to me.
        
               | joshuamorton wrote:
               | Their outgoings aren't particularly low. I guess early on
               | they were, but that's "living with roommates". Their
               | current col is very much in the "rents a two bedroom
               | apartment and spends whatever they want on food"
               | category, but they probably don't own a car.
               | 
               | My personal expenses are a tad lower than theirs, and I
               | rent an apartment in San Francisco that I live in alone.
        
         | CalRobert wrote:
         | Not to mention some places (Ireland) kneecap your gains by
         | taxing even unrealized gains via a rule called deemed disposal.
         | Nevermind 52% income tax that kicks in extremely low.
        
         | mustyoshi wrote:
         | Even before the covid bubble the expected return was more like
         | 8-10% per year. 22 years of 1500 a month at 8% is over 1M
        
         | xvector wrote:
         | I'd say the HN crowd is more likely to be in that top quintile
         | than not
        
           | DoreenMichele wrote:
           | I'm not sure how true that is.
           | 
           | Poor people tend to hide or downplay their poverty online in
           | an environment like this one.
        
             | Kye wrote:
             | I remember when I didn't even have $5/day to spend on
             | coffee to skip for even one subscription pitched that way.
        
           | jstx1 wrote:
           | (this is kind of pedantic)
           | 
           | Maybe HN is more likely to be in that quantile than the
           | general population of developers; "more likely than not"
           | implies that most people on HN are in that quantile which I
           | kind of doubt but I don't have data to support either way.
        
           | k8sToGo wrote:
           | Some maybe but definitely not the majority
        
           | mistercow wrote:
           | More likely than the general population, sure, but I'm not
           | sure about "more likely than not".
        
         | andi999 wrote:
         | European countries usually don't pay 100k for 15 year olds,
         | also after tax it is (well depending on country) 4.5k in
         | Germany. If you live frugally you can save 3k.
        
           | whimsicalism wrote:
           | Assuming you meant 25 rather than 15
        
           | andi999 wrote:
           | 25 year old, I meant.
        
       | mpfundstein wrote:
       | do i read correctly that she earns 600k a year as a software
       | developer at Amazon? wtf is she working on?????
        
       | supernova87a wrote:
       | Here's 2 questions for the "FIRE" crowd.
       | 
       | 1) To stop working when you hit a certain number seems to me to
       | be falling into the faulty logic illustrated in Freakonomics --
       | when a taxi driver works every day towards a certain $ figure, he
       | suffers on crappy days (keeps on driving to little benefit) when
       | fares are just not coming, and cuts off his earnings on great
       | days where business is pouring in like crazy. Instead, you should
       | call it day early when the business sucks, and ride it when times
       | are good.
       | 
       | If you're good at what you do, aren't physically being exhausted
       | by your work, and pulling in good money, why wouldn't you keep on
       | working and make the most of your time + skills? Did you go
       | through all your education and training just to hit a certain
       | number and call it quits?
       | 
       | 2) In some ways I don't get the "financially independent" life.
       | Sure, you're no longer absolutely needing to have a job. But what
       | do you do with the rest of your life? You're just retired at 50?
       | With what to challenge / strive for?
       | 
       | Maybe I'm just fortunate in that I don't mind working / find some
       | fulfillment from it, and don't have a burning desire to sit
       | around with no activities for 5 days a week. Maybe if I were
       | smarter about it, I could be some kind of board member or
       | something? Is that what people do? What takes the place of work?
        
         | mistercow wrote:
         | > But what do you do with the rest of your life?
         | 
         | I spend virtually all of my free time and energy on side
         | projects, and my list of side projects grows faster than I can
         | take them on. When I retire, I'll have no shortage of things to
         | spend my time on.
        
         | kozd wrote:
         | 1) If that money isn't going to be needed, why continue to
         | accumulate it?
         | 
         | 2) Why would a job be necessary to have something to
         | challenge/strive for?
        
         | anm89 wrote:
         | It only makes sense if youve got something else you want to do.
         | Id venture almost none of the FIRE crowd end up sitting in
         | front of a tv eating microwave dinners for 60 years because
         | they retired. I mean maybe thats what some people want and more
         | power to them but thats not what FIRE is about
        
           | smileysteve wrote:
           | > end up sitting in front of a tv eating microwave dinners
           | for 60 years because they retired.
           | 
           | For a 21st century kick, we have superfood protein smoothies
           | now. They're better for you, have less taste, can be consumed
           | on the go, and are better for the environment.
        
           | stocknoob wrote:
           | Also, the type of person diligent enough to save a large
           | fraction of their income for decade(s) isn't likely to just
           | sit around doing nothing. They'll just do what they want.
        
           | alexk307 wrote:
           | Still sounds better than sitting in front of an IDE for 60
           | years working for someone else's bottom line.
        
         | d_burfoot wrote:
         | As someone who is considering the FIRE path, I appreciated your
         | point about the taxi driver. I have a list of big projects I
         | want to pursue after getting out of the corporate world, but I
         | wouldn't recommend FIRE to someone who just wants to be lazy: I
         | don't think laziness is good for mental health.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | mathgladiator wrote:
         | So, I'll speak as a recently retired principal engineer from
         | big tech.
         | 
         | (1) The number to reach is an inflection point where you can
         | pivot and focus on things you don't like about work. For
         | example, as much as I like architecting systems, I definitely
         | don't like architecting through people which is what the job
         | demands. A good question then is why do the climb at all, and
         | there is a bit of disease of more in our culture.
         | 
         | (2) Whatever you want! One of the reasons I retired was so that
         | I could better balance time with my wife and work on my open
         | source project: http://www.adama-lang.org/blog/retirement-
         | going-all-in
        
         | vkhn wrote:
         | On thought #2, I'm with you. While I'm planning to retire early
         | (thanks to software, I will have the money, and not much brain
         | power left), I have yet to figure out what the heck I want to
         | do, and I won't retire until I figure that out.
         | 
         | I also think the "financially independent" life has a pretty
         | wide definition. I don't _need_ a job for an alarmingly long
         | time, but couldn 't retire on what I have. It still gives me
         | enough freedom to work where I want, when I want - which is
         | what proponents of this life talk about.
        
         | zimzam wrote:
         | > don't have a burning desire to sit around with no activities
         | for 5 days a week.
         | 
         | Who said anything about "no activities"? They said they wanted
         | to retire not go to prison.
        
         | stocknoob wrote:
         | You're floating on a boat in the ocean. Do you want to be in a
         | boat that is sinking, and requires you to bail water every day,
         | or one that is naturally buoyant?
         | 
         | "Oh, if you don't have to bail water to keep from drowning
         | you'll just sit there in the ocean not doing anything."
         | 
         | No. You can go where you want, without worry.
         | 
         | "But I like bailing water, it gives me purpose, I want to do
         | this forever!"
         | 
         | That's nice, I like fixing leaks, just in case.
        
           | supernova87a wrote:
           | Interesting, but that's a particular interpretation of work,
           | isn't it? That's it's toiling at bailing out a sinking ship?
           | 
           | What if work is like growing a garden and the more you do the
           | more you get?
        
         | yulaow wrote:
         | I have so many hobbies I could occupy (happily) maybe 10
         | lifetimes before getting remotely bored. Why spend the only one
         | I have "working" for others?
        
           | _dark_matter_ wrote:
           | As a software engineer with two kids and a wife with a more
           | stressful job than mine, I have no hobbies anymore. I don't
           | even work crazy hours.
        
             | alexk307 wrote:
             | Your kids are your hobbies. Don't you want to spend more
             | time on them?
        
               | boopboopbadoop wrote:
               | No, they're not a hobby. People need happiness both in
               | and outside of their family.
        
         | andreilys wrote:
         | _2) In some ways I don 't get the "financially independent"
         | life. Sure, you're no longer absolutely needing to have a job.
         | But what do you do with the rest of your life? You're just
         | retired at 50? With what to challenge / strive for?_
         | 
         | FI has never meant "go live on the beach and sip beer", I mean
         | it can for some but the majority of folks I talk to have
         | interests or career aspirations that are not economically
         | viable.
         | 
         | For example, volunteering full time at a non-profit, writing a
         | book, community organizing, etc. all this takes time and can be
         | difficult to do when you have a full-time FANG job.
        
         | Zababa wrote:
         | > Did you go through all your education and training just to
         | hit a certain number and call it quits?
         | 
         | Yes, I don't see what's so surprising about that. Most people
         | do the same but instead of being an amount of money, it's an
         | amount of years, or an amount of money that you will get more
         | slowly.
         | 
         | > In some ways I don't get the "financially independent" life.
         | Sure, you're no longer absolutely needing to have a job. But
         | what do you do with the rest of your life? You're just retired
         | at 50? With what to challenge / strive for?
         | 
         | Whatever you want, that's the point. If you want to spend all
         | day in your bed, you can. If you want to go very deeply on one
         | topic, you can. If you want to surf HN all day you can. If you
         | want to give time to charities you can. You can even go back to
         | work if you want to!
         | 
         | > Maybe I'm just fortunate in that I don't mind working / find
         | some fulfillment from it, and don't have a burning desire to
         | sit around with no activities for 5 days a week.
         | 
         | > What takes the place of work?
         | 
         | Your comment seems to asume that working is a natural state and
         | that you need an opposite "burning desire" to not want to work.
         | I personally don't get much fulfillment from work. It's nice
         | and all but I'd rather not do it. In a way it's like washing
         | the dishes: sometimes it feels a bit good to do it, and most
         | people need to do it, but if I can get a dishwasher, I'd rather
         | get one and use one.
        
         | driverdan wrote:
         | Those questions reflect your life more than OP's. Is your life
         | so meaningless and boring outside work that you'd have nothing
         | to do when you retire? If the answer is yes you should
         | seriously re-evaluate your approach to life. At least get some
         | hobbies!
        
           | KptMarchewa wrote:
           | At least those hobbies that I would like seriously do - like
           | D&D, in contrast to playing video games - generally require
           | other people. I'm not the type of person that gets any
           | satisfaction from alone tinkering with shit in the garage as
           | that seems to be the hobby of most people talking about
           | hating work.
           | 
           | So, what do I gain when I stop working? My friends still will
           | work, and I'm just going to have 8 hours in a day when
           | there's no one to do fun stuff.
        
             | andreilys wrote:
             | Find friends that are also financially independent.
        
               | KptMarchewa wrote:
               | And are into D&D? I'm going to have better luck finding
               | that half a million job.
        
         | mupuff1234 wrote:
         | "financially independent" doesn't necessarily mean you stop
         | working, it's just that you have the flexibility to chose what
         | to work on and who to work for.
        
           | jcun4128 wrote:
           | Yeah for me it's just peace of mind not worrying if I don't
           | have a job or how long it takes me to get another one. I too
           | strive for the idea of investing a lot/getting percentage
           | back. I will always tinker on something.
           | 
           | Also I want to sleep/wake whenever.
           | 
           | Also variations can take lean/fat fire.
        
       | unbanned wrote:
       | So... luck then.
        
       | asdadsdad wrote:
       | This is very interesting, but should be taken with a grain of
       | salt even inside the US. This is likely not to be very
       | sustainable for much longer, and it significantly skews the
       | perspective of making your "own money" long term. The OP took
       | advantage of a couple of cities in a country where tech is hyper-
       | valuated at the moment. The solution is not to "move to the US",
       | and change your lifestyle chasing abnormal salaries. The US has
       | its own problems, and prices are very inflated here in general.
       | Salaries are already catching up in the UK, and the tendency is
       | that this becomes more common outside the US. Earning 100k pounds
       | in the UK is not the same as earning 100k USD.
        
       | debbiedowner wrote:
       | When I look at his constantly increasing income I just think I
       | would rather spend the money on a super good easy life and other
       | people knowing there'll always be more.
       | 
       | I feel like living within your means makes sense both ways. Don't
       | obsess materially and go into debt. But also don't obsess about
       | the future enough to sacrifice the best possible present for
       | yourself.
        
       | syngrog66 wrote:
       | step 1. start with a high income with tons of disposable cash
       | 
       | its a variant on the general rule that the best way to become
       | rich is to start with rich parents
        
       | asdfasdf34523 wrote:
       | How does amazon pay 6 lakhs per annum. Thats way too low.
        
       | cryptica wrote:
       | Reserve banks printed trillions of dollars over the past decade;
       | this propped up high-exposure corporate stocks including Google
       | and Amazon.
       | 
       | At the same time, regular people have had their salaries
       | continuously diluted and are now losing jobs by the millions. I
       | think it's not good to brag about ones' income when it is based
       | on the theft of others'.
        
       | yob28 wrote:
        
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