[HN Gopher] The Four Desires Driving All Human Behavior
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       The Four Desires Driving All Human Behavior
        
       Author : mizzao
       Score  : 196 points
       Date   : 2021-12-25 01:58 UTC (21 hours ago)
        
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       | whalesalad wrote:
       | I've never really been able to accept Bertrand Russell. A lot of
       | people evangelize his teachings but they feel so rudimentary and
       | superficial.
       | 
       | I relate much more to the teachings of Abraham Maslow, concepts
       | around self-realization and self-actualization.
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraham_Maslow
        
       | wintermutestwin wrote:
       | IMO, Russell's idea here is reductionist and lacking a thorough
       | examination of causality:
       | 
       | >a motive which, I suppose, has its origin in a combination of
       | fear with the desire for necessaries
       | 
       | This quote barely and only begrudgingly touches on causality and
       | only skirts with the idea that these "desires" are merely born
       | out of dysfunction.
       | 
       | I think that human behavior is much better explained by the NVC
       | model of a complex matrix of human needs e.g.
       | https://www.cnvc.org/training/resource/needs-inventory and that
       | all dysfunctional behavior stems from poor strategies for meeting
       | those needs.
        
       | js8 wrote:
       | The four "desires" driving all human behavior are: noradrenaline,
       | acetylcholine, serotonin and dopamine.
        
         | petra wrote:
         | Also oxytocin.
         | 
         | How are those mapped to behaviours/desires?
        
           | personalityson wrote:
           | To love and to hate, two perfectly human desires
           | https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2011/jan/30/bright-
           | id... https://time.com/49399/oxytocin-racism-study/
        
         | everybodyknows wrote:
         | I have a notion estrogen and testosterone deserve considering
         | as well.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | gumby wrote:
         | And free Wi-Fi.
        
         | catlikesshrimp wrote:
         | Those you mention are biological bits in bio logic gates.
         | 
         | The desires FTA are more abstract
        
           | netizen-936824 wrote:
           | Bits is a rather poot analogy. Response to a transmitter is
           | not a 1:1 relationship of input:output. In reality, the
           | relationship is one on a sliding scale depending on protein
           | expression and post translational modifications
        
       | throwaway984393 wrote:
       | _" All human activity is prompted by desire."_
       | 
       | This seems like a pretty inaccurate statement. He's explicitly
       | saying that moral actions are also desire-driven, because if we
       | didn't desire to do the thing, we wouldn't do it. But we know we
       | don't wish to do the things we sometimes do, because we have
       | internal conflict over it; if we wished to do it, it wouldn't be
       | hard to make ourselves do it. Clearly we know the things we
       | "wish" to do, because we do them quickly and freely without
       | internal pain. Other things we "don't wish" to do, we do have
       | internal pain over and do take more effort to make ourselves do.
       | So Bertrand's word "desire" is really just a synonym for
       | "motivation".
       | 
       | If you said "All human activity is prompted by motivation," then
       | that wouldn't work for human activity prompted by, say,
       | heuristics. We now know that much of human beings' immediate
       | actions are actually just an automatic response to pattern-
       | matching algorithms in the brain. Those actions can't be driven
       | by desire, because they're almost subconscious; it's not what we
       | "wish for", it's what the body immediately responds to in order
       | to keep itself alive in a dynamic and dangerous environment.
       | 
       | Therefore, all human activity is _not_ prompted by desire, but by
       | whatever kooky biological processes make up our brains and
       | control our actions, voluntary or involuntary. But that 's not a
       | very sexy quip for a talk :-)
        
       | pnut wrote:
       | Seems like he was stumbling towards the Four Noble Truths of
       | Buddhism.
        
         | sabellito wrote:
         | Why did you choose this particular verb, "to stumble"? Came
         | across as awfully arrogant, which doesn't match my basic
         | understanding of Buddhism.
        
           | ganzuul wrote:
           | Can't speak for GP but stumbling through life and
           | occasionally finding bits of wisdom seems to be the basic
           | mode for all of us. That Russell would be different would
           | imply he got perfect knowledge from somewhere.
        
             | sabellito wrote:
             | Ah perhaps my reading was unnecessarily negative.
        
       | skinney6 wrote:
       | It's funny we want others to tell us who we are rather then just
       | examining our own selves. Try it. Diligently and thoroughly
       | examine yourself as if you were a third person. Every thought,
       | feeling and impulse. All of it. No need for shame, censorship or
       | judgement. This is a private space. If a thought brings up and
       | uncomfortable feeling or emotion. Don't turn away, examine that
       | feeling. What makes it uncomfortable? Why don't I like this
       | feeling? This has completely changed me. It has freed me from the
       | tyrannical rule of uncomfortable feelings. I highly recommend it.
       | 
       | Full disclosure, I'm all into self-realization now and the non-
       | dual philosophy.
        
         | tcgv wrote:
         | As of recently I started examining myself as well, but only
         | ocasionally. I will try to perform it in more depth, Thanks!
         | 
         | To give my two cents, for a more effective experience I
         | recommend getting to know the most common cognitive biases and
         | trying to spot all of which we are subject to.
         | 
         | It's indeed a mind opening experience :)
        
           | number6 wrote:
           | How do you do it?
        
       | gumby wrote:
       | ISTR Russell wrote of "four desires" (i.e. four of many) not "
       | _the_ four desires" as the article asserts.
       | 
       | In particular his life doesn't appear to have been focused on
       | those four, though of course nobody is immune to them.
        
       | empressplay wrote:
       | Shallow and forgets compassion
        
       | Supermancho wrote:
       | From the article:
       | 
       | Russell points to four such infinite desires -- acquisitiveness,
       | rivalry, vanity, and love of power
        
         | bryanrasmussen wrote:
         | Love of power seems like a form of acquisitiveness to me.
        
           | qnsi wrote:
           | aren't all four just desire for status?
        
           | scollet wrote:
           | These are non-exclusive sets imo. I'm curious what you think
           | about it and why you might form one on the other.
        
             | bryanrasmussen wrote:
             | I would put the acquisitiveness thing as a form of any
             | obsession - acquisition of money, books, lovers, things
             | with the color red, to more abstract things - renown in the
             | community, power... as with many things in human existence
             | on a behavioral spectrum, some of these forms of
             | acquisition would appear neurotic from the outsid ne
             | (acquiring things with the color red for example) and some
             | would easily meld into each other - money and power for
             | example.
             | 
             | The acquisition of possessions is probably one of the more
             | commonly observed patterns of the behavior, probably
             | because a socially accepted and even applauded behavior.
             | 
             | Acquiring lots of lovers is for example somewhat frowned
             | upon, so if you can move your love of acquisition from sex
             | to money that's moving from being despised by the community
             | to being respected.
        
               | ludston wrote:
               | 'Acquisitiveness' must be clearly defined as a category,
               | given the colloquial definition of it being the "desire
               | to get things" seems tautological. Otherwise Russel is
               | failing to say anything more than, "humans are driven by
               | four desires, one of which is the desire to have things".
               | 
               | Although, I think it's somewhat absurd to have power and
               | things as separate categories given that 'ownership' is a
               | social construct where we agree that certain people get
               | to have power over certain objects, and can thus exert
               | power over anyone else that wishes to use them.
        
           | hinkley wrote:
           | And often vanity.
        
       | irrational wrote:
       | I've heard these referred to as the four Ps.
       | 
       | Property - Acquisitiveness
       | 
       | Pride - Rivalry
       | 
       | Prominence - Vanity
       | 
       | Power - Power
       | 
       | I've also seen a list where these where exemplified by certain
       | American cities.
       | 
       | Property - NYC (financial district)
       | 
       | Pride - this one was missing from the list I saw. Perhaps Chicago
       | during the heyday of mafia/political corruption/competition?
       | 
       | Prominence - Hollywood
       | 
       | Power - Washington D.C.
        
       | Paddywack wrote:
       | I once heard a quote by Anthony Robbins that there are 6 human
       | needs that drive all behaviours: 1) certainty, 2) variety, 3)
       | significance, 4) love and connection, 5) growth and 6)
       | contribution Interesting to match to the 4 desires...
        
         | hulitu wrote:
         | Growth is very important. There is also 7) greed.
        
       | rixed wrote:
       | I count myself as one of the many Russel fans, but I have to
       | admit that if this article were my first encounter with his
       | thoughts then my opinion on him would probably be very different.
       | 
       | In this speech Russel loosely identifies 3 competing views
       | regarding what constitutes the central motives behind human
       | actions:
       | 
       | - His own view, that he states upfront: All human activity is
       | prompted by desire and men differ from each others and from
       | animals mainly because they desire different things.
       | 
       | - All human activity is governed by a sense of virtues (Russel
       | focus on "sense of duty" but I think it's fairer to enlarge this
       | class of arguments a bit). This is a major leitmotiv in
       | conservative worldviews although Russel does not name it as such.
       | 
       | - All human activity is governed by the material circumstances in
       | which they live, mentioned rather "en passant", and the landmark
       | of the other end of the spectrum as far as worldview is
       | concerned, the one that cannot be named.
       | 
       | Russel goes on by enumerating (some of?) those desires/motives:
       | acquisitiveness, rivalry, vanity and love of power.
       | 
       | He gives some illustrations, many of which are funny but none
       | convincing.
       | 
       | His posits that the most important determinant of human behavior
       | is how much one is sensible to each of those desires, yet he has
       | to concede that human desires do not merely differs in intensity
       | but also in quality, noting that, for instance, acquisitiveness
       | can come in various shapes: accumulation of money for some, of
       | potatoes for others. But then, one might ask, what causes some to
       | seek gold rather than potatoes ? Russel's answer: it depends on
       | the material circumstances that one was subjected to in
       | childhood. Oh, but wait...
       | 
       | All in all, I find this speech not only unconvincing but actually
       | reactionary in the sense that it seems to ignore what we actually
       | know about behaviors, desires and feelings (especially today, but
       | maybe even in 1950). And we know actually a thing or two about
       | behaviors of social apes, but that's not usually written in
       | sociology books nor in psychology books nor in history books. One
       | have to resort to evolutionary sciences or even better:
       | primatology.
       | 
       | Russel mentions observing apes in the zoo and recognizes that
       | they can exhibit curiosity ("escape from boredom"). Youtube
       | addicts might remember that viral video of a chimp entertaining
       | himself by teasing a tiger. But that goes well beyond that:
       | primatologists have indeed observed a range of motives in chimps
       | that are familiar to us humans. But when its about chimps we
       | don't tell ourselves stories about idealized motives: at the end
       | of the day, it's all about mating partners, although the chimps
       | themselves may believe in more sophisticated explanation.
       | 
       | Desires and feelings, it turns out, might not be that unique. It
       | is no longer believed that they originates from the human-only
       | evolved cortex, but more likely from the brain stem, of ancient
       | descent and thus commonplace in the animal kingdom. We don't know
       | what it feels like to be a bat, except that in some way we do
       | know: the bat experiences fear, hunger, sexual attraction, social
       | competition, tiredness, curiosity... We have no idea what the
       | world "feels like" for a bat, having different senses and
       | different brainpower, but the desires and emotions we can
       | recognize easily, because we share many of them.
       | 
       | So if one is after what makes human actions distinct, one should
       | probably look at something else than desires.
        
         | rixed wrote:
         | Also, the nail on the coffin for my unquestioning admiration
         | for Russel could be the passage were he suggests that the human
         | race survival might not be desirable. Was it just intended as a
         | joke? Or was he in such a bad mood around that period?
         | Misanthropy is so the opposite of Russel that I had to read the
         | passage several times over.
        
       | gverrilla wrote:
       | "Philosophy"
        
       | neatze wrote:
       | This and similar categorizations, seems like they say virtually
       | nothing, personally, I have different personality based on
       | environmental context (warzone country passing checkpoint versus
       | family dinner), fairly sure I am not the only one, furthermore
       | environments context activates different set of "personalities"
       | in each individual human, I don't think there can be derived
       | useful average of sort, because humans adapt behaviors to
       | environmental contexts to some degree, in addition to changing
       | perception of context.
        
       | sAbakumoff wrote:
       | a human being is a bio robot that is driven by a very complicated
       | neural network that has the only 2 goals: 1) to survive 2) to
       | reproduce itself.
        
       | cupcake-unicorn wrote:
       | Russell was an interesting character and I hadn't heard of this
       | particular work by him.
       | 
       | It's important to understand that Russell was also limited by his
       | own particular personality and world view. He was a good example
       | of an ENTP or "debater" personality type as was Feynman. So in
       | writing that he was very much bound by those limitations of his
       | own world view and I'm sure he found a lot of the behavior of his
       | (most likely autistic colleage) confusing and most likely it
       | didn't adhere to these "universal desires".
       | 
       | This isn't totally related but I love this essay by Zapfe and I
       | think that these 4 coping mechanisms he mentions in the article
       | are a lot more "universal" (isolation, anchoring, distracting,
       | and sublimation):
       | https://philosophynow.org/issues/45/The_Last_Messiah
       | 
       | We're all bound by our own world view of things and certainly
       | Russell was as well. It might have been self selecting that the
       | type of people he spent time with in that era were also very
       | concerned with those things but I'd be really curious if he ever
       | had this conversation about these "universals" with Wittgenstein
       | because I feel like Wittgenstein would really disagree, and
       | Russell would just keep trying to label autistic traits as forms
       | of these when that's not a good characterization at all.
        
         | sabellito wrote:
         | Given the long list of well-knwown scientific criticism towards
         | MBTI, how can you categorically say things like: "He was a good
         | example of an ENTP or 'debater'", and then derive such decisive
         | conclusions from it: "he was very much bound by those
         | limitations"?
        
           | pookeh wrote:
           | You posed your question assuming he agrees with "scientific
           | criticism towards MBTI".
        
             | cupcake-unicorn wrote:
             | I do agree with the scientific criticism towards MBTI. But
             | I never claimed to be using it that way. It's possible to
             | find value for yourself or use in things personally that
             | aren't rooted in scientific trials or rigor and it's
             | possible for one to engage with these things and be well
             | aware of that fact. It's black and white thinking to assume
             | that "X is into MBTI/tarot/etc, therefore they are not a
             | scientifically minded individual". We can apply dialectical
             | thinking to this, and challenge yourself and wonder if
             | there can exist someone who is using these non science
             | based things while at the same time is fully aware of the
             | fact that they're not science based. Maybe it's more rare
             | because many people try to prop themselves up and defend
             | whatever they're interested in due to ego issues but that's
             | not the case here. Do I personally see value in religion,
             | and is religion science based? No on both of these counts.
             | But there are people who derive personal value from their
             | faith and that's not something I can argue with. Now when
             | people double down and try to claim that X is real and
             | actually happened and this and that, that's a problem, but
             | there do exist religious people just like me who are able
             | to be in both worlds. See my other comment.
        
           | the-dude wrote:
           | AFAIK the criticism comes down to the notion the 4 traits
           | need to be viewed on a scale, not as a binary.
           | 
           | I am under the impression the 4 traits do map fairly well to
           | the 'big 5' [0] and there is little debate about that
           | foundation.
           | 
           | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits
        
             | sabellito wrote:
             | While it's true that the theory talks about a spectrum,
             | would you agree that's not how people (like the original
             | comment) use it, given that everything is reduced to 4
             | letters, with no nuance?
             | 
             | Whatever 4 letter combination becomes a "class", like
             | "debater", and somehow it becomes appropriate to draw
             | conclusions about a person based on that.
             | 
             | The big 5 has also been criticized quite a bit. The
             | wikipedia article has a good section on that.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits#C
             | r...
        
             | rpastuszak wrote:
             | The big 5 is often considered simplistic, given the complex
             | nature of human personality. It was called the "psychology
             | of the stranger".
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > I am under the impression the 4 traits do map fairly well
             | to the 'big 5'
             | 
             | Of the four axes of types on MBTI, and ignoring weak
             | correlations, two each have a strong correlation to a Big-5
             | axis, one has a moderate correlation to an Big-5 axes, and
             | the other has moderate correlations (one somewhat stronger)
             | to two Big-5 axes (the weaker of which is one of the ones
             | another MBTI axes has a strong correlation with.)
        
           | cupcake-unicorn wrote:
           | Something doesn't have to have scientific validity to be
           | helpful. I don't agree with MBTI trying to make claims in the
           | way that Big 5 does because it's rooted in more rigorous
           | research. But it's also wrong to throw out models for this
           | reason.
           | 
           | Is there scientific criticism towards things like tarot,
           | astrology, crystals, and so on? Sure. But does that make it
           | invalid if it's a personal framework that helps you? You can
           | be interested in something and get something out of an area
           | of interest without believing in it. For example if I do a
           | tarot reading you may start to judge that activity and say,
           | "This isn't real, this isn't science based, this isn't
           | telling the future, you're wasting your time." But I'm not
           | you and you're making assumptions about the reason I'd be
           | doing it. I don't have to believe in any kind of inherent
           | "mystical" properties of tarot in order to use it as a form
           | of introspection to help my creative process. And that's
           | something that's personal and of value to me.
           | 
           | I have trouble with social stuff because I'm autistic. MBTI
           | gives me a framework to generalize interactions between
           | people and a way for me to predict human behavior in a way
           | that works for me. Is it perfect? No. I'm not claiming that.
           | But there are patterns, and there are stereotypes, and by
           | using it I've been able to predict social interactions and
           | people's intentions/goals slightly better and it gives me
           | comfort to use it.
           | 
           | This is a good example of a video that matches my views on
           | the topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ea8SainI2o The
           | person who has this channel understands the limitations of
           | MBTI and has expanded the framework further to work on its
           | weaknesses.
        
       | revscat wrote:
       | I read Russell, and sometime afterwards read [1] Becker, whose
       | primary thesis is that all human behavior is driven by a denial
       | of death, specifically the death of our own egos, so carefully
       | crafted and shaped over a lifetime. I found this to be much more
       | of an approachable philosophy, tied more closely to Darwinism
       | than Russell ever was.
       | 
       | Recommended.
       | 
       | [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Denial_of_Death
        
       | Zababa wrote:
       | > Man differs from other animals in one very important respect,
       | and that is that he has some desires which are, so to speak,
       | infinite, which can never be fully gratified, and which would
       | keep him restless even in Paradise. The boa constrictor, when he
       | has had an adequate meal, goes to sleep, and does not wake until
       | he needs another meal. Human beings, for the most part, are not
       | like this.
       | 
       | I've been thinking about this a lot recently. There are some days
       | where I just don't feel like getting out of bed, and spend half a
       | day to the full day in my bed. I don't even feel bad or
       | depressed, at least I don't feel a direct negative feeling, I
       | just don't want to do anything else. This reminded me of my cats,
       | which spend most of the day sleeping/resting, sometimes go eat a
       | bit, sometimes go play a bit. I don't know what to think about
       | it. Is this peace? For some reason, it doesn't feel like it.
        
         | Renaud wrote:
         | Ataraxia, plenitude, serenity, all these are variations on the
         | theme of attaining 'peace'. Whether it's religion (ie Buddhism)
         | or philosophy (ie stoicism), there is this notion that the
         | ultimate goal is to reach this state of contentment: not
         | desiring more, not being driven by overwhelming emotions, just
         | satisfied with what you have, regardless of what you think you
         | can achieve, or what expectations others have of what you could
         | achieve.
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | ricardobayes wrote:
       | I find this article really interesting, but really difficult to
       | read. Uses stuffy language to the point of showing off.
        
       | fapjacks wrote:
       | It's interesting to note that stoicism -- in my experience
       | perhaps the most difficult thing I've ever done and still fight
       | hard every day to follow -- could be said at its core to work
       | against these baser motivations.
        
         | ganzuul wrote:
         | Considering this, one must ask deeper questions about one's
         | view on life. Are these base motivations part of something
         | bigger than one may one day assimilate rather than succumb to
         | or separate from? What in our lives makes expression of base
         | desire so detrimental to expression of other desires?
        
       | cheschire wrote:
       | This could be a nice way to further dig into the two human modes
       | of desire and fear talked about in the Matrix Resurrections. I
       | used to think pride and fear were the two modes, but I think
       | "desire" is a nicer superset term.
        
       | wombatmobile wrote:
       | In energetic terms, localisable and quantifiable by biochemists,
       | what is "desire"?
       | 
       | How might we measure it?
        
         | superkuh wrote:
         | The closest jargon would be incentive salience in which
         | activation of dopaminergic neurons in the ventral tegmental
         | area which is necessary but probably not sufficient. If you're
         | interested in the neurological substrates of wanting (desire)
         | and liking (pleasure) than check out the review papers over at
         | Berridge Lab,
         | https://lsa.umich.edu/psych/research&labs/berridge/research/...
         | 
         | In mice they have a stain for the expression of a particular
         | type of "early" expression gene which coincides (most of the
         | time) with neural activity. But this kind of staining is only
         | useful for animal models you can sacrifice. I suppose if you
         | wanted to explore this in humans you'd have to use PET with
         | some neuronal population specific ligand or some fMRI
         | modality(s).
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motivational_salience - this
         | wikipedia article is helpful, but they mistakenly (as was
         | tradition) cite the neurological substrates of liking (the
         | shell of the nucleus accumbens) as the source. And that isn't
         | correct even if the ventral tegmental area (wanting) projects
         | heavily to it.
        
         | visarga wrote:
         | Reinforcement Learning describes a mechanism based on goals:
         | evaluate each situation you're in, select the best action,
         | observe effect, learn the reward signal. We're born with a few
         | instinctive desires which act as a base operating system for
         | the brain.
        
         | ganzuul wrote:
         | Maybe cortisol levels.
         | 
         | We usually appreciate 'desire' as desire for something positive
         | but perhaps a better approximation would be separation from a
         | state of peace.
        
         | amatic wrote:
         | >How might we measure it?
         | 
         | That is a good question. A desire is a term of the mind, and it
         | is not easily connected to the brain and physiology. The only
         | one I can think of is the conscious desire to breathe - iirc,
         | it is directly correlated to the amount of CO2 in the blood
         | (not O2, the first suspect). We don't yet have strong
         | correlates to hunger, for example, so it might take a while for
         | other desires, but I would bet there would be some correlates.
         | On the other hand, behavior can reveal a lot. Some economists
         | would say we can find the strength of one desire by comparing
         | it to another. How much of A are we willing to give in order to
         | get some exact amount of B? It is not exactly measurement of
         | desire, but we can end up with a list of priorities.
        
       | amriksohata wrote:
       | All these can be summed into greed, pride, jealousy etc.
       | 
       | The biggest delusion for the human is to think I am the body. To
       | know the human will die but behave like it will live forever due
       | to being driven by the senses chasing sense objects
        
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